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welcome to the take PhD course if you've

bought this course which you obviously

have congratulations you're going to

change your life for the better I know

exactly what I'm talking about I'm

[ __ ] certified I know I don't look

like a pimp right now I look like a

[ __ ] but I just finished training I

don't owe you [ __ ] when I

suppose so whatever I actually went out

of my way and bought a whiteboard

that's some genuine effort but the only

pen I have is green which is going to be

difficult

for you to see so we're not going to use

the white board we're going to put

Graphics in the video instead which is

more effort

should charge double for this [ __ ]

anyway

so

me I'm going to teach you from the

ground up how to get it done

I was thinking if I was going to do like

modular videos like little modules on

each thing of how to do it or just do

one long video it's actually quite

difficult it's almost like imagine

you're the best baker in the world and

someone comes to you and says

teach me how to bake well the first

thing you're going to do is go okay

we'll bake what bake a cake bake bread

in an oven or on a fire or how long do I

have what are the ingredients like the

first thing the master Baker is going to

do masturbate or Master Baker is going

to ask you loads of questions because

baking is such an all-encompassing art

it's very difficult to just explain

everything and pimping is very much the

same it's very difficult for me to just

explain absolutely everything the whole

360 degrees but I'm gonna try anyway and

for that reason I'm not going to do

modules I'm not going to break it down

to little videos what I'm just going to

do is I'm just going to [ __ ] lay down

some knowledge

for the next long time and your ass

needs to get a pen and a [ __ ] paper

and pay attention if you have to watch

this video over and over and over again

fine if you have to watch this video and

understand that there's certain parts of

it you need to tweak to fit your

particular style fine I'm not saying

that this is going to be absolutely not

really rigid but it is going to be a

fails a fail-proof system that's what

it's absolutely going to be because

there are some rules which are Ironclad

can't be broken and some rules are as

exceptions too so there's gonna be a

whole bunch of talking here so if you

haven't gone pissed go piss get some

[ __ ] popcorn buckle up this is lesson

one in your pimpability degree all right

let's start with the basics

the basics are as follows and like I

said when you're watching this video

there's going to be some rules which are

telling you which are iron clad and

can't be broken and sometimes there's

exceptions to the rules I've read a lot

of a lot of the manic Spirit [ __ ]

and sometimes they say if you [ __ ] her

on the first date she ain't worth [ __ ]

that's not true I've had girls who have

[ __ ] in the first date who weren't

worth [ __ ] and I've had girls who have

[ __ ] in the first date I was with for

two or three years and they were

fiercely loyal to me and they were

fantastic girlfriends so

that is a rule which has exceptions but

there are some rules

with no exceptions like oh my girl has

male friends they're just her friend no

not allowed that is a rule that can

never ever ever that cannot be broken if

you've got your chick on Lock and she's

in love with you she ain't interested in

talking to no other [ __ ] dude about

Game of Thrones or some dumb [ __ ] she's

interested in talking to you and you

only

so like I said I'm gonna do a lot of

talking here and what I want you to do

is pay a lot of attention and especially

pause this video if I'm giving you

examples I'm talking about things try

and apply them to your own life or why

you while you're where you've tried

things in your own life or your own

current situation and see how they fit

I'm very open for questions comments if

you have any particular questions or

comments you want to come at me with

drop me an email there's no problem at

all so we're gonna start at the very

very beginning which is the overview of

the sexual Marketplace that we currently

live in

we currently live in a sexual

Marketplace which is extremely difficult

for men

and it is getting harder and harder it

is knocking easier it's getting harder

and harder because women biologically

are programmed to share an alpha male

now I say this and this is what's

actually interesting to me a lot of the

Manistee of stuff the 21 convention

stuff all this [ __ ] it's talking about

how women are wrong and women need to be

fixed I don't necessarily think that's

the case if you can position yourself in

the correct place

you'll have more than enough women

so by the way the sexual Marketplace

works is if you're in the wrong place

you don't have enough women but if

you're in the right place you have too

many women I have more women than I can

see I by the time I [ __ ] all the girls

I need to [ __ ] to keep my my normal

rotation going I don't have time to go

on a date every night is planned every

night I'm looking at my phone and I've

got four choices and I'm like where am I

going to stay and that's not just

because I've got money because it's been

like this before I had money I've had

money for six seven years it was exactly

the same before I had money I've always

had too many women because I understand

where to position myself so the first

thing I want you guys to do is a lot of

this red pill stuff is anti-women

the way that women are hyper game is and

they don't like the way that it works

and women only want this and it's really

negative you are not going to be

successful with girls if you hate girls

you need to get that [ __ ] out your head

and you've got to change your mindset

where you don't like how women think I

don't like how women think women do this

women do that women think a particular

way and that's fine if you know the

rules to the game if you can bend the

rules or you can put yourself in the

right position so that the rules of the

game favor you then you should be very

happy women think a particular way

so a lot like I said a lot of this red

pill stuff is trying to change the way

women think trying to say that women

think a certain way and this is wrong

and like there's a new convention coming

out 22 convention make women great again

about how to make women great if women

were completely Fair like men and every

woman just got one guy the worst of fun

in being a g where's the fun and having

all these chicks well how come I have so

many I only have so many because a whole

bunch of dudes out there were none

that's the way the world works so I'm

going to teach you to be in my position

so you need to get rid of any hate or

resentment you have towards women get

rid of that [ __ ] out that's the first

thing you all do when you understand

women better you'll understand why they

do what they do and you'll understand

how to position yourself so it suits you

so the sexual Marketplace is very

difficult for men and the reason it's

difficult for men is because men have

one weapon

in the battle for sex and that is

attention

all you can give a female is attention

right

let me take my jacket off quickly

before I take my jack off let me just uh

remind you this watch called slurry

Grand that upsets you get your money up

um

so all you have is your attention so the

basics of the sexual Marketplace are as

follows

you give your attention to a woman to

get sex

and the woman gives you her sex to keep

getting your attention

attention and to sex and sex into

attention that's how it works men give

their attention to get sex women give

sex to get attention that's how it

should work but the reason the sexual

Marketplace is so [ __ ] because there's

too many women out there who get

attention without giving sex so

previously not too long ago men didn't

give a [ __ ] about a girl they weren't

banging they didn't care why would you

care about girl you don't [ __ ] she did

nothing to you you don't see her but now

with Instagram you've got girls with

millions of Faller followers millions of

men are giving her validation millions

of men are liking her comments and

comment and and liking her posts and

commenting on her [ __ ] and telling her

she's beautiful and Fox Zero of them so

that skewed up the whole thing now it's

all [ __ ] because you got chicks

getting unlimited male attention without

having to give their sex out and that's

why the sexual Marketplace is getting

difficult because it's the whole [ __ ]

the whole [ __ ] game the fair equation

has been completely skewed male

attention is suffering from

hyperinflation

whereas male attention isn't worth [ __ ]

anymore 50 60 years ago if you were

talking to a girl or you took her on a

date or you bought her flowers it meant

something buy a [ __ ] flowers now she

doesn't give [ __ ] what the [ __ ] does she

care she gets Unlimited inboxes in her

[ __ ] Instagrams you can get flowers

anytime she wants she doesn't [ __ ]

care none of that means anything

so that's a sexual Marketplace so the

number one game as a man is you need to

attach some value to your attention

your attention has to become more

valuable because you have two choices

I'm assuming you [ __ ] are smart

I don't know all of you who've bought

this I know some of you have bought this

some of you might be dumb

but if something hyperinflates the

choices are as follows imagine a

currency of a currency hyperinflates you

either do something to restore the value

of that currency

or you give a lot more currency to get

what you want so my question to you is

if male attention is in hyperinflation

do you want to give loads loads loads

loads more attention to try and get laid

or do you want to attach a value to your

attention so that you don't have to give

very much at all but you get what you

want the problem with giving loads loads

loads loads more is you might not get

laid and then guess where you end up a

[ __ ] friend zone that's complicated

we're really good friends

[Laughter]

took it to the movies every time she

called me I was there every time she

felt sad I was there and this [ __ ] is

sitting there going well he's there

anytime I want him and I don't have to

[ __ ] him so why would I [ __ ] him and she

has a [ __ ] some guy who doesn't give

a [ __ ] about her and you're sitting

there going why would she [ __ ] the guy

who clearly doesn't like her because the

guy who doesn't like her his attention

has a value because she can't get it

very easily just like her currency the

only attention anything only has a value

through scarcity so when you want to

attach a value to your attention you

have to limit the attention you give a

female

you cannot be running through the Earth

throwing attention everywhere for

[ __ ] free and expect a girl to give a

[ __ ] that she's getting to me if she

knows you give attention to every hoe

that walks she doesn't give a [ __ ] about

your attention

that's the reality this is why girls

like bad boys it's not because bad boys

are [ __ ] well partially it's because

bad boys are [ __ ] but it's not

actually the fact they're [ __ ] it's

the fact that they'll tell the girl to

[ __ ] off or they'll say to a girl I

don't want to talk to you anymore or

they know that getting attention from

this particular man isn't free and easy

this guy will get rid of he's giving me

attention and he told he got rid of that

other girl or he ignores that girl but

he talks to me that is value so the

number one thing you want to do in the

current sexual Marketplace is attach

value to your attention so how do you do

that now

this is we're going to get into internal

factors factors you can do as a person

and external factors there are a lot of

factors you can't control

I don't want to [ __ ]

what's the shitty expression teach

grandmother to suck eggs or some dumb

[ __ ] I don't want to State the obvious

but obviously if you have a profile as a

high value male your attention is

instinctively more valuable so we're

talking about attaching value to your

attention and we're going to do that by

limiting your attention but you can also

attach value to your attention with the

obvious things you already know go to

the gym get in shape dress well have

money all these basic things but I'm not

here to tell you that because that

doesn't help you you've bought this

course on how to get girls I can't sit

here and go get a Lambo because I ain't

a [ __ ] answer that's stupid but I'm

saying if you do those things it will

absolutely help you because it makes you

a higher value person it means and a

girl is more interested in you could say

well a lot of the time it just Sparks

their curiosity my experience with money

is that girls don't care about money but

they care about how you've made it

girls don't care about money but they're

like

where does he get this money from

they're curious about it so it's some

Intrigue there and with entry your

attention once again increases so those

are all the things you already know if

you don't know to go to the gym get some

money that uh well then you're an idiot

you know all those things we're not

going to talk about them we're going to

talk about the things you can do without

increasing your bank balance

so

increasing the value of your attention

so as follows

I don't know your current situation but

I guarantee there's a bunch of girls in

your phone who you're talking to or

attempting to talk to who you've never

[ __ ] and you never stand a chance of

[ __ ]

why are you talking to her

why are you giving your attention away

for free

why are you devaluing yourself

and that's a mistake so for this reason

anytime we're giving our attention to a

woman we need to aim for progression

progression towards the end goal if you

find a woman sexually attractive I know

the [ __ ] modern world tells you

that's a bad thing but it's not a bad

thing there's nothing wrong with finding

a woman attractive and there's nothing

wrong with wanting to sleep with a woman

there's nothing wrong with that that is

your end goal and every move you make

every bit of attention you give has to

be progressing towards that goal you

cannot just flounder in a sea of giving

out your attention you end up in the

[ __ ] friend zone so

like I said just like with the bakery

example there's a million things I need

to teach you guys I can teach you guys

approaching [ __ ] on the street and

teach you guys how to do things in the

club and and teaching these things

without experience is extremely

difficult so to keep this easy what I'm

going to do is I'm going to give you

some iron-clad steps that you can do in

the next two weeks so you can [ __ ] a

[ __ ] brand new girl you never [ __ ] so

you know that I know what I'm talking

about because a lot of this stuff I need

to show you in person there's a lot of

other modules Etc we're going to keep

this very simple we live in the world of

the internet

so

first thing you can do to start getting

laid today is your number one tool to

get laid is Instagram

Instagram is the new dating [ __ ] app

[ __ ] Tinder I mean tinder's okay the

problem with Tinder is if you're gonna

do Tinder or natural swipe or get some

girls but every girl on Tinder is as

[ __ ] someone else a tinder's been around

for four years now they [ __ ] dudes from

Tinder before you know only real Ratchet

[ __ ] are left on there really maybe

if they're newly single or something you

might find something good on Tinder I've

done it I found good girls on Tinder but

in general what you want is Instagram

the reason Instagram's so fantastic is

because women sit on Instagram all

[ __ ] day the only problem with

Instagram is that they get unlimited

inboxes from guys

saying [ __ ] so how do you make your

inbox more appealing than anyone else's

inbox

so I want to talk about some inbox game

that's the thing first thing you need to

do is start your Instagram page you can

see on my Instagram I have my particular

angle and that is money obviously I play

The Fighter thing

and also what I try and do with every

single post is a degree of intrigue

Intrigue is super important in the

sexual Marketplace because intrigue

it attaches a value to your attention

because you instantly become interested

so imagine you work in Starbucks

your job you're a Starbucks

if a girl says what do you do you can

say I work at Starbucks or you can say

uh well I say while I was high level at

Starbucks I was high level management

and now they put me in as a mystery

worker I'm making a [ __ ] I'm off the top

of my [ __ ] head I'm telling you what

I do a lot of works at Starbucks my girl

would be like what do you mean it's like

oh well I was high level management and

then what they do is they send me around

the different Starbucks stores to just

work as a normal person but what I do

support back to the high level

management about how the store is being

run and if the manager is competent and

did it all of a sudden you sound like a

[ __ ] spy you're now James Bond of

Starbucks

you were a barista loser now you're

James Bond

that's how you gotta put a spin on

things really I've never heard of that

so of course if you've heard of it then

it wouldn't work no one knows about it

so I moved from store to store

now all of a sudden you're an

interesting person bam you go up a spin

on things then you're sitting I think

well if I say that maybe she can expect

me to have money no she doesn't

oh so you get paid a lot oh yeah I get

paid good money but you know I'm looking

after my cousin she had a car crash or

my cousin I'm putting my cousin through

college make up some [ __ ] look we

live in a world where you cannot play

fair anymore when you walk down the

streets nowadays and someone wants to

mug you it can't be all right let's have

a fair duel one-on-one if you win

there's no more fair people gonna run it

from behind and stab you you can't play

fair anymore and with violence or in the

sexual Marketplace you can't place there

if you work in Starbucks and you are

broke you now are high level management

on a secret Starbucks mission to find

the worst Starbucks employees as a spy

and the reason you have no money is

because you're putting your sick cousin

through college that is how you have to

play the game all of a sudden you're an

interesting person from a barista to

James Bond the philanthropist that's how

you're going to be doing things whatever

your job is now it may be a little bit

interesting but I guarantee you can put

a spin on it and one of the most

important things you can do is never

give away all the information

because there is nothing as interesting

that you can say as what she can think

of herself

so girls ask me all the time well I do I

do loads of different things I don't

tell them I say oh yeah you know I'm

just working why work are you doing lots

of just making money

that's that's the answer they sit there

and think he's an assassin is he a spy

is he is he this how come he has this

car let them go through all the crazy

ideas in their head because they'll

settle on the one they like the most no

matter what I no matter what I make up

or what lie I tell it's not gonna be as

interesting as what they can imagine it

could be so you need to have some

Intrigue there don't be afraid to put a

spin on your [ __ ] that's the first thing

and your Instagram page needs to reflect

that my Instagram page very clearly

makes me look like Russian mob

millionaire pure gangster

is that true yeah but still it's done in

a very particular way so that when girls

look at my page they go who the [ __ ] is

like where is he getting all these

where's he getting this why is he there

I'm tagging all these weird locations

what's he doing

and also there's a very fine line here

you've got to be careful but I have

girls on my Instagram page because I'm

telling you this

no girl wants to [ __ ] the guy that

doesn't get girls they all want to [ __ ]

the guy that other girls want to [ __ ]

because women are purely [ __ ] evil

when it comes to taking a guy off other

dudes a guy a guy off other chicks they

love that [ __ ] so you don't want to do

too much you don't want to try and be

like a budget Dan Bilzerian but you do

want to make it clear that you roll with

chicks especially hot ones even if she's

your friend or some [ __ ] put a picture

on there ain't gonna hurt you who's she

oh someone I know once again Intrigue

your girlfriend I didn't say she's my

girlfriend it says someone I know

oh okay lay it down let them know like I

said this is a lot of talking so you

have a pen and paper make some [ __ ]

notes find a girl take a picture get

that [ __ ] done your Instagram page has

to be interesting you have maybe half a

second

send an inbox to a girl she's going to

look at your page you have maybe half a

second to impress her

for me it's easy now about cars and [ __ ]

but you know what girls even care about

cars bro girls don't give a [ __ ] they

don't care about Lambos and [ __ ] the

number of times I've had girls go

lambo's uncomfortable come get me into

BMW

they don't care I mean yeah it's good

for an Instagram page but in general

they don't care so you need to put

together an Instagram

which is appealing to females

you're a full-grown [ __ ] man if

you're a full-grown man you don't care

about likes and you don't care about

keeping your Instagram updated so if you

only have your five or six best pictures

and that's all you have there do that

don't keep updating every day with new

pictures of you and your friend drunk

because no one gives a [ __ ] bro no one

cares and it's making you look a dick

and it's damaging your [ __ ] potential

construct an Instagram front page

because I ain't gonna scroll down first

five or six pictures that make a girl be

interested in you one way or another

I don't care if you guys get protection

professional photographer I don't care

if you have to rent a car I don't care

if you have to [ __ ] I don't care what

lie you have to tell I don't give a [ __ ]

you should know look at my Instagram put

something together that is interesting

I've used the money angle if you haven't

got the money angle you know what chicks

love travel do the travel angle [ __ ]

right now book something go on holiday

spend two days taking loads of photos

next to rocks and oceans and [ __ ]

and do the travel angle that's that's

cheap and then Bang You're a traveling

guy or girls like travel it's

interesting to them because they all

want to [ __ ] travel for free because

they're all scared so

put an Instagram page together that's

interesting and don't update it all the

time with shitty photos do not update

your Instagram very often if you haven't

got amazing things to put on there that

is your [ __ ] shop window that's your

portal to the chicks you can inbox a

chick that's the first thing you're

gonna look at that's all you've got do

not give a [ __ ] about keeping people

updated with your life because no one

[ __ ] cares about your [ __ ] life

anyway this is the absolute hard reality

another thing you don't want to do if

you look on my Instagram there's a

picture of me with four guys who love

the jacket before we do some work in

London we're clearly Russian mob so

that's a lot

if you're clearly Mafia or you're

looking like a g you're allowed but in

general groups of pictures of men

are no I'm telling you some solid no-nos

for Instagram

because

living in the animal kingdom is always

little shitty weak animals that are in

huge groups pray like [ __ ] Buffalo

whatever even though they're strong the

prey the things that get hunted are

always in big groups the hunters are

like one or two

Hunters are like lone soldiers you don't

see [ __ ] 20 hungers together if you

think you and all your 20 friends are

cool with your beers 20 guy oh picture

no one gives a [ __ ] and if a girl looks

at she's not gonna know which one is you

and instinctively she's going to think

Baya loser you on your own or you and

someone else two guys three guys Max

bang I'm a G you don't even have [ __ ]

big groups of things next thing do not

put any pictures of you with your mouth

open that soy face [ __ ] is taking over

the world you know when everyone guys

are uncomfortable In Their Skin So they

take a picture and they go like

or some [ __ ] there's that's been

scientifically proven in primates

monkeys they they open their mouth as a

sign of submission primates who draw our

closest cousin when the alpha male

monkey turns up he's got pissed off face

and the other monkeys when they see him

they kind of Go and show their t as

saying like it's a submission thing like

don't hurt me and nowadays if you look

at [ __ ] a Democrat or a liberal or

something doesn't support Trump all of

their pictures they've got their [ __ ]

mouth open the reason they do that is

instinctually it's a submissive sign

please the world don't hurt me and women

detect that [ __ ] and it's not

it's not attractive in any way get rid

of that [ __ ] look about your business

you're a full-grown [ __ ] man you're

gonna look pissed off don't look about

your business look like you know what

you're doing like you know where you're

going like you're doing something

worthwhile nobody is doing anything

worthwhile going like this

it's [ __ ] girls don't want to see

you [ __ ] happy having a great time

laughing you're not five years old

you're a [ __ ] full-grown man looking

for a man's gonna take care of her

looking for a [ __ ] serious G so put

that [ __ ] together build an Instagram

page even if you can only get five good

photos that's enough never update again

because girls don't check when the vote

was posted you think a girl sees a good

picture and goes

oh that was posted six months ago they

don't give a [ __ ] they look on your

[ __ ] page oh okay I'll reply to him

don't get a good couple good pictures

that's that next stage what do you inbox

the woman that makes you different from

everyone else now everyone watching this

I'm sure you've already inboxed loads of

girls on Instagram I don't know what you

particularly said

I'll tell you what I will say and I'll

give you screenshot examples so

a lot of men say hey how are you

hey how are you [ __ ] she doesn't even

know who the [ __ ] you are why would she

give a [ __ ] about telling you how she is

she knows you don't care you don't care

and she gets that 30 times a day so she

doesn't care that's a bad idea

you are beautiful isn't bad but it

leaves you open for loads of [ __ ]

testing leaves you open for I know or

LOL or some kind of sarcastic [ __ ] that

they reply to you that makes you look

like a dick and you gotta instantly

fight to prove your manhood my message

will go you're beautiful and so go I've

had it like before LOL

as in laughing and they're like what's

funny and then they can ignore you then

you look a [ __ ] you're a beautiful

LOL what's up and then you get blanked

you've got to be careful how you set

this [ __ ] up because women are looking

to [ __ ] test you as soon as they can

women are looking to turn on you and

give you some [ __ ] to see how you react

to them straight away so in my

experience what I find

raises intrigue

it inspires them to respond and also

makes it extremely difficult for them to

[ __ ] test me is I ask where they are so

what I do and you're gonna see a

screenshot in a second

I live in Bucharest Romania but it

doesn't matter if I'm in London

Bucharest Moscow anywhere I am I just

say

Bucharest question mark or a Moscow

question mark or London question mark

sometimes because like I said Intrigue

I'll put a completely pointless emoji on

the end

some cherries or an orange or a

strawberry because it doesn't mean

anything

so the girl's sitting there she's

scrolling through how are you you're

sexy how are you you're sexy how are you

sexy Bucharest strawberry [ __ ] yeah I am

in Bucharest then they start to think

why does he want to know where I am like

does he want to [ __ ] me does he has he

seen me does he have something of

interest for me and they usually reply

yeah why or yeah

because they're interested they're like

well what the [ __ ] what does he want to

know for

so that that's how you get the instant

response in my experience I've done a

lot like I said about PhD

bought this course for a [ __ ] reason

I know what to do in my experience it's

the best message to send of course not

every girl's gonna reply but the ones

who do you've already from the first

question raise some kind of intrigue

because they want to know why you want

to talk to them they're a bit like um

that's interesting so we're going to

play through an example here of a girl

I'm going to look at my phone or the

graphics up in the video because we're

[ __ ] professionals me my boy James

James so

here's a very perfect example

chick a nine Paul Bucharest hey yes

my reply why do I never see you where

are you hiding

that's my reply

because once again

it's it's some Intrigue it's an easy

women like easy conversation what women

don't want to do for a guy they don't

know and have never met is think

if a woman has to sit there and go what

do I reply

they ain't going to reply if a woman

looks at her phone and if she hasn't got

something instantly she wants to say she

ain't gonna say anything because she has

so many messages a day as a woman that

if you don't get inspired to instantly

type something back you're not going to

type anything so if you just say

something boring go look at it and leave

you on red you've got to write something

that makes them instantly reply so I

said why do I never see you where are

you hiding

and the reason I say that in a very

particular way is because it's extremely

easy for them 99 of them say I'm not

hiding that's what nearly every one of

them says I'm not hiding all of them

what did this [ __ ] say let me check

I'm not high oh no she actually this

[ __ ] said she was hiding so there we go

I'm hiding in work right now don't have

much free time also note is I put

cherries on there when I said why where

are you hiding why did I put cherries

who the [ __ ] knows your guess is as good

as mine friend it just makes my messages

different because no one gets messages

with cherries

if you [ __ ] start putting

cherries and your messages and I'll come

over and beat the [ __ ] out of you It's

My Thing choose a different fruit

anyway they don't get messages with

cherries so it's like the [ __ ] cherries

when girls say to me why do you put

cherries on the messages I I always say

who doesn't like cherries

and they're like LOL true

so that's how you get out the Cherry

thing so if you choose strawberries and

a [ __ ] gets fresh over the strawberries

you can say well who doesn't like

strawberries [ __ ] with the [ __ ]

strawberries are good calm yourself down

so that's what that is I'm hiding work

right now I don't have much time

I said what work do you do break Hearts

what that's [ __ ] smoothly let's move

that so what I'm doing there is giving

her a compliment so there ain't no ugly

[ __ ] out there who are breaking

hearts only hot girls break Hearts so

what I'm basically saying is your heart

but I'm saying in a Smooth Operator kind

of way because I'm a [ __ ] G

so what do you do for work break Hearts

I say that because it's a compliment she

replies I do that in my free time smiley

face

and I put for fun and then I would say

good thing I'm strong I'm not afraid so

once again I'm establishing some

dominance there I've given her a

compliment but I'm also letting her know

I'm the [ __ ] like I said everyone has

to have their own unique style I'm not

saying to say exactly what I say what

I'm trying to explain to you is why I do

it I put the cherries because it makes

my messages unique I ask where they are

that's the one thing I would recommend

everyone start with if you want to [ __ ]

a girl and you're in [ __ ] Grand

Rapids Michigan go on Instagram type in

Grand Rapids Michigan see some dick Head

Hoes who have tagged themselves and

messaged them and say Grand Rapids

question mark and go why just say oh I

never see you around where you're hiding

it's a good opener that's the opener you

can take but the rest of it has to be

you you can't pretend to be anyone other

than yourself impersonating someone else

is not going to work in the long term

however

you gotta be yourself you gotta be

yourself in the right way you can't just

you've got to put things in the right

angle so I'm explaining why I do what I

do and you need to listen to this

understand why I'm doing what I do and

apply it to your own style don't copy me

word for [ __ ] word

she says a good thing I'm strong I'm not

afraid she goes I'm just kidding I'm not

that bad to break hearts

then what did I say

then then I asked her how old she was

I always ask how old they are

I don't know why it's something they

always seem to reply to

no matter what they say

whether it's 30 or [ __ ] and unless

they're really young if they're above 20

between the age of 20 and 30. if they're

a teenager I usually say oh you're young

I'm an old man but if they're like

whatever her age was

screenshots properly I say that's a good

age you're old enough to have fun yet

young enough to be smart sorry young

enough to have fun but old enough to be

smart I always say that girls like that

line because it makes them sound like

well yeah I'm 23 I'm old enough to be

smart but young enough to have fun you

ain't smart but you know

they like that [ __ ]

and I say I'm a very old man I'm 30.

because yes I would like to stay forever

at this age now remember what I said

earlier about 20 minutes ago in this

video we are always aiming for

progression

this girl is now getting my attention so

far this exchange has happened just

about a minute minute and a half long

because once again with women they get

bored quick if I don't reply to her

quickly if I leave her for a couple

hours then try and message her again

she's gonna oh she's forgot about me she

looked at my Instagram an hour and a

half ago she was a little bit intrigued

now she's had six messages since from

new guys and she's forgotten all about

me

so progression what am I aiming to do

from the what's the Instagram

conversation what's the progression the

progression is because we're always

giving our attention in in in exchange

to progress up the ladder and use my

[ __ ] whiteboard even though I don't

have a green marker you can barely see

I'm going to use it

we're progressing we're starting here

with all the other [ __ ] munchers I don't

know if you can see that here's where we

want to be at the at the top because

with the [ __ ] munchers there's lots of

people at the top with their tees there

should be only one man you so you want

to get higher up as you get higher up

there's less and less [ __ ] munchers

hope that makes sense so on her

Instagram

anyone can message her there's loads and

loads and loads of guys

so what we're aiming to do out of the

Instagram conversation is get her

WhatsApp or get her phone number

now you're thinking what's the

difference between messaging her on

Instagram and messaging on her phone the

big difference is everyone can message

on Instagram whereas only a few people

can message her on her phone because not

everyone has a [ __ ] phone number you

dumb [ __ ] so by getting her phone number

we are progressing up and slowly

limiting it to the number one dude at

the top which is you so when you move

from Instagram to phone number you cut

it down from the entire world being able

to message her down to about 100 people

perhaps that's a big jump that is the

aim of the Instagram conversation

progression from the phone number we go

on to the next stage to the next stage

then eventually you end up with titties

that's how it works so that's what we're

trying to do in this conversation here

is get her phone number

so where were we

that's a good age

old enough uh to be smart and young

enough to have fun

I said I'm a very old man I'm 30.

women like age women like you to be

older than them so do not be afraid to

say your age

uh she goes yes I'd like to stay forever

at this age

time to make a joke because I'm so funny

I said I can make you immortal Jesus Is

My Friend I'll WhatsApp him

she put loads of laughing faces she goes

if he doesn't respond I'll give you his

Instagram because he likes all my posts

and I put I bet he does because you're

beautiful and he's a pervert tunnel face

so that's the second compliment I've

given her so she already thinks I'm

funny she's had a couple compliments

she's scrolled through my Instagram page

by now she's talking to me this is about

two minutes in

two minutes that's all we I spent two

minutes of time on this girl and what do

I do she goes after I said she's

beautiful she goes well thank you next

thing I say WhatsApp question mark

straight to the point hello this is who

I am if you see my Instagram you're

beautiful hahaha I'm funny give me your

number we ain't [ __ ] around we ain't

playing no three days of messaging can I

have your number please like some

[ __ ] [ __ ] two minutes

two minutes of talk you've seen me

you're replying to me you know the Big G

is give me your number if at this point

she goes oh I prefer to talk on

Instagram you know what you do I'll tell

you what you do and you're gonna hear

this a lot this is a very important

pimping term you can write this down on

my board

if I can write this piece of paper so

you understand how important it is we're

going to use this A Lot F

d

B

which means

[ __ ] that [ __ ] FDB and she wants to

give you [ __ ] FDB what you do if she

goes I don't want to talk to you on

WhatsApp I'd rather talk to an Instagram

you don't reply you leave her ass on

scene ignore her FDB I've shown you who

I am I've spoken to you I proved I'm

[ __ ] funny if you're gonna give me

your [ __ ] phone number I'll talk to

someone else FDB

message a different girl because by not

giving you her phone number she's [ __ ]

testing you she's saying yeah I'll talk

to you but you don't deserve my number

and what you're doing by not replying is

saying I'll talk to someone else saying

[ __ ] you you can't say that to her

because if you say it then it shows

you're emotionally upset and if you get

upset and she wins because she's

emotionally affected you men cannot be

emotionally affected men are tired can't

affect us you just don't reply because

you don't care you don't give me your

number okay I don't care

do not reply and about 70 of the time

they'll still message you or say oh so

you don't want to talk to you don't get

my number or some [ __ ] they'll come back

at you and then you can play the game

again just say well anyone can message

you on Instagram I'm special so I want

to WhatsApp to be clear with your

intention

give you the number FDB

because you're doing it remember when

you're talking to girls like this you're

not messaging one girl at a time you can

say Bucharest or Grand Rapids or text

Houston or whatever to 100 girls you can

go on Instagram right now and message

100 girls because you're gonna be doing

loads of conversations at once so you're

only interested in the ones we're gonna

play ball they ain't going to play ball

and give you their number

FDB so in this particular case

we all know what happened

PhD

what's that yep smiley face

what's your number I'll put some

cherries on there because I'm a G bang

block out the phone number so many

[ __ ] will be thinking about my

student my love bang there's the number

progression we've moved from here to

here

this can happen

many many different ways I'll give you

another example it's another screenshot

example because this is what I do listen

I have too many girls but if I want some

chicks I go on Instagram I may because

because I've got quite a few followers

about 30 000. I'll scroll through girls

who've already liked my pictures because

it's easier then because then I know

they definitely won't dig

thing Bucharest question mark I'll I'll

message 10 girls I'll get five whatsapps

I'll [ __ ] two girls that's the average

math

so any Monday morning I can wake up and

go you know what I want two new [ __ ]

this week

Bucharest copy and paste

WhatsApp WhatsApp me Tristan call it

Paul Cicero we call it ciceroing it'd be

interested especially around our

girlfriends around we say I'll go Cicero

we do that because I think it's in good

photos I can't remember what message I

can't remember what movie is one of the

gangster movies there's a guy called

Paul Cicero and he said he doesn't move

very fast because Pauline doesn't have

to move from no one because he used to

sit there and people used to come and

deal with him and then leave so me and

truth and call it call it ciceroing some

interesting though we're going to sister

out today we'll go to a coffee shop at

three o'clock we'll have a date at 3 30

a date at 4 30 a day at 5 30.

we'll bring the girls at 3 30 and then

go oh yeah I'll go now I'm going to go

in a minute I'll just pay the bill okay

nice to see you send her away next next

next I'll do three days in a [ __ ] day

narrow down the one I want and then

that's the one I take to the club at the

weekend Banks gaming so you can get on

that level if you get as professional as

you have a PhD you literally just

10 questions on a Monday Cicero on a

Wednesday [ __ ] my Friday game over

let's just let you know where you're

gonna end up with your study hard enough

so next [ __ ] I'll give you an example

book arrest question mark this girl

tried to play a bit harder with the G

trying to play harder with a [ __ ] I

should walk around I should let these

[ __ ] know I should put on my

Instagram profile PhD so they know not

to get too fresh Bucharest her reply was

a lot less friendly than the last girl

yes

yes like I said she probably read it she

probably has a [ __ ] boyfriend or

she's

even if she hasn't got a boyfriend there

is no female on this planet who's truly

single this is something that's one of

the unbreakable rules put unbreakable

Rule and Flash in red across the top

unbreakable rule there is no hot

attractive woman on the planet who is

completely single they are always at

least talking to someone they're always

at least messaging someone or still kind

of talking to their ex or [ __ ] their

ex there's no single woman so making a

woman like you is not about making them

like you it's about making them like you

more than the other people they're

already talking to keep this in mind so

the reason this girl gave me attitude

and the reason a lot of girls give you

attitude is because they're already

[ __ ] someone else or they're already

talking to someone else so they're

thinking well I already if you're

already full you've been for dinner and

you're full some goes do you want

dessert oh I'm already full so that

dessert has to look good if you don't

want to take a bite from it so you have

to look good for them to be interested

in you because they're already full

they're full already all the women are

walking around with full stomachs you

gotta look [ __ ] amazing doesn't want

to take a bite keep that [ __ ] in mind so

this [ __ ] I found out how late your

date does have a boyfriend [ __ ] her

anyway but this is why she started off

so fresh

Bucharest yes

same thing why do I never see you where

are you hiding that's why I said she

said I don't go out too much I don't

like the men here I was living in other

countries or between travels so no time

or wish to be popular here this is

Romanian

all right okay well I'm gonna give you

another example this [ __ ] knows me she

goes I just followed you because I saw

you were very funny in an interview and

you have some funny things on Insta what

I say about having your page on point so

we've been messaging for 30 seconds and

she's messaged me saying I had some

funny things on install I messaged her

she looked at my Instagram she saw

something that made her laugh or

something that intrigued her that's why

it's important your five or six photos

are interesting because that's your

chance if my photos were [ __ ] I never

would have got that message from her

never would have come it would have been

game over right then and there but she

saw something she liked

so I said where are you living now

because she talked about she's going to

be in Bucharest she goes book rest at

the moment I said good is the best city

I'm here also which is important so we

can meet and take over the world I say

that because women it's authoritarian

it's authoritarian you uh hi yeah you

barely know even mean you were gonna

take over the world they make something

who the [ __ ] this dude he thinks he

can conquer the world who is this guy

wouldn't mean to conquer the robot it's

better for a woman it doesn't matter

what emotion you evoke as long as you

evoke something even if they're a bit

like Curious or a bit like

what angry can work if you don't push it

too far as long as they don't read it

and think it's boring like I said if

they read it and they don't feel

instantly compelled to reply they won't

reply this is your only shot so so when

you say like we're gonna take over the

world they're like they're either gonna

be like what do you mean take over the

world or why take over the world or well

like there's something in they just go

they just want to reply you've got to be

careful with what you say

haha I was thinking you already took

over the world without me there's

something left question mark

and the reason she said that is to my

Instagram page so [ __ ] G and all

these cars and [ __ ] once again Instagram

page

I said there's a tiny tiny bit that I

need you for there's one place I cannot

go

and she said what place and I said the

girls bathrooms

how old are you always ask them how old

they are they like that [ __ ]

childish joke she put with a laughing

face but I didn't like that it pissed me

off a little bit

22 you

22 is probably a little bit too young to

do the old enough to be smart but you

could probably get away with it I just

said I'm an old man 30. now when she

said childish joke with the laughing

face that was the beginning of her

trying to get a little bit fresh and I

could detect it and that's why I didn't

reply with uh old enough to be smart you

know young enough to have fun because I

thought I've been I've been pretty funny

to this girl I made some jokes and I

didn't like it now to you you're sitting

there going well she just said childish

joke what's the problem I have a PhD I

can detect instantly how a woman's

thinking so she looked she thought I was

interesting and the rain reason she's

probably being this way is because she's

insecure she knows I have shitloads of

chicks she's seen my Instagram she knows

who the G is and she's thinking I gotta

give this guy a bit of [ __ ] because he

thinks he can get any girl he wants I

have this problem below so then she

tries to belittle me

still a lot to learn and live for you a

real life for a man starts after 30.

you'll see she's trying to tell me that

I'm young and stupid

I replied

I know this what's that

I am [ __ ] around with you hoe tell me

about man life after 30 or 22 year old

chick what the [ __ ] you know about a

man's life after 30. I know this

WhatsApp because we are trying to

progress I ain't sitting here handing

out attention you've already [ __ ] tested

me to a degree twice your stupid ass

answers telling me that I don't know

anything about the world I'm telling

them my jokes are childish give me your

[ __ ] number or

FDB because I'm perfectly prepared to

never talk to you ever again I don't

know you I don't give a [ __ ] it's a

numbers game

is a lot it's a loss it's a loss so

basis of waste it's a waste of time for

you to talk to me

but then she gave me her number

here's my number text me when you're 35.

so she wanted to give me your number

because she wants me but she's trying to

[ __ ] give me [ __ ] saying that's a

waste of time

I said you think 30 is too young

she goes I think you're into games and I

don't like drama and complicate

complicated

you see

yeah where I detected her [ __ ] way

back at the childish joke and I started

to reply less nicely the reason I did

that because if she gave me a little bit

of [ __ ] and I still replied super nice

old enough to have fun young enough to

be smart all this [ __ ] was some

cherries and was a nice guy all the time

she would have instinctively thought

well I've given him some [ __ ] and he's

still being nice about it he's a [ __ ]

when she gave me a bit of [ __ ] and I cut

my replies down I know this what's that

and start being a bit of a dick head

back then she thought okay I can't push

them too tough because she saw

listen to me carefully watch this part

of the video again this is important

Dynamics she tried to give me a bit of

[ __ ] I limited my attention that's the

weapon we have that's what we do we give

attention to get sex you [ __ ] with us we

take our attention away she got fresh I

limited my attention down I still

replied but I remove the friendliness

straight to the point

teach her lesson not to get too fresh

and then when I said what's your

WhatsApp even though she gave me [ __ ]

she still gave me her number because she

knew if she didn't I would

she knew that would be the end of it but

she still wants me of course she does

who doesn't

so she's like okay well I better give

him my number but I want to give him

some sarcastic [ __ ] at the same time

she goes you lose just a waste time you

talk to me here's my number but text me

when you're 35. so she gave me the

number but she [ __ ] attached a bunch

of [ __ ] to it said you think 30 is too

young should I think they're into games

and only draw my complications

so I said

so you want to judge someone who you've

not even gotten to know

so you want to judge someone who you've

not even gotten to know I can tell we're

only 22.

2 that's why I said so she said I'm

young and stupid but I said oh you're

judging somebody you don't even know I

can tell you're 22. I'm calling her

young and stupid flip all no you think

I'm young and stupid you're the one

making judgments I ain't judging you

[ __ ] I don't know you

she replied I don't judge you

I said well then you don't know if I'm

drama or games be nice I'll WhatsApp you

and she replied okay smiley face

that's the game she tried to get flush

to be two or three times I ended up with

the WhatsApp the [ __ ] has been put in

place she sent me a little smiley face

at the end she now knows that she can't

judge me even though I've got girls all

over my Instagram and I'm clearly a

player she ain't allowed to say it

anymore I put that [ __ ] in her [ __ ]

place because I didn't take her [ __ ]

when she called me childish and I would

have been like yeah I am childish I said

oh well you're so pretty here's the

Heart game would have been over

[ __ ] with me I'll reduce my attention

give me a pen

this is the Tower of Power

attention

this is a girl behaving I know you love

my Graphics there's a girl being a

[ __ ]

dick

this is the attention meter

if they are a [ __ ] you reduce your

attention if they behave well you

increase your attention if they reply

nice things to you you message them lots

of nice things if they reply [ __ ]

[ __ ] stuff to you you cut your

attention right down but remember stay

emotionless never insult a woman never

get angry because if you if you get

angry or you insult them it shows

they've emotionally affected you and

then they win it's just an attention

scale there is no emotion there's no

anger there's no resentment there's

nothing even if a girl says you're

[ __ ] ugly never give my number you're

too ugly you just reduce your attention

simple as that attention scale they

reply like [ __ ] you give them

[ __ ] answers they reply nicely you

give them nice answers

keep the [ __ ] in line to keep the [ __ ]

in check that's how it goes

so I can show you 200 examples of this

in fact I could go on forever because

this is basically all I do but this is

just a couple examples of how you can

write here and now after this PhD course

start talking to the new girls you never

spoke to before

Instagram and start messaging

the city you live in and the girl now if

you've got a level of game like I've got

you can do other cities so if I know I'm

going to be in Kiev next week I'll do

Kiev in advance

I can do that because I'm a [ __ ] G

for you amateurs I recommend just

wherever you are stick in your own City

ask them where they are I'll start with

there on to the next thing after I take

a piss

Right congratulations you've got the

girl's phone number you've progressed

from every ship muncher in the world the

exclusive Club of people who have their

phone number everything we are doing is

for progression you give attention for

progression getting her phone number is

just one step closer you are now aiming

for the next goal which is a date with

the girl you are not getting her phone

number to give the [ __ ] unlimited

attention for no reason you're not

giving her getting her phone number just

to text and text away for [ __ ] weeks

on end and get nowhere you're not doing

that [ __ ] you're aiming to take her on a

date that's next stage on the Tower of

Power date so

texting a chick you have to be yourself

you can't be me there's only one me

there's only one you some

motivationships so you've got to be

yourself but the basic rules still apply

you don't take [ __ ] you're a nice guy

but you're not a [ __ ] pushover little

piece of [ __ ] wimp in general

generalization

in fact it's not generalization it's

absolute truth everybody loves to talk

about themselves everybody loves to talk

about themselves so although you need to

get some Intrigue remember you work for

Starbucks you're a [ __ ] Starbucks spy

who's putting your [ __ ] cousin

through [ __ ] college or some [ __ ]

you need to ask her about herself what

do you do do you work or study oh we did

a so worker studies what I use alone do

you work or study oh I'm studying

economics ah you like money who doesn't

or oh I'm studying law perfect you can

get me out of jail

whatever they say add a little thing on

it oh yeah I couldn't get you out of

jail Shut up

still ask them a lot about themselves

whatever you do every single thing has

to come from a position of dominance so

for example though I'm putting my cousin

through college thing you can't message

your girl go oh well I don't have much

money right now because I'm putting a

girl my cousin through college that's

not dominant that's [ __ ] [ __ ] if

she were to mention something about

money you could say or let's go here say

oh that's too expensive for me I'm

putting my cousin through college wait

for her to mention something first or

say I'd rather put my color I'm putting

my cousin to college it ain't easy but

I'd rather help family than spend money

at the moment

put it from a position of dominance like

yeah own it you're the [ __ ] man

everything you do you're the [ __ ] man

the girl saying to me I seen your

Instagram page you have all these girls

yeah I'm a [ __ ] man yeah I'm the man

doesn't matter what it is I'm the man

would you work at Starbucks yeah I'm

[ __ ] I'm the head of Starbucks spy

operation MI6 and James [ __ ] Bond of

Starbucks

in the best

I'm a [ __ ] I'm like basically an

undercover agent

you're gonna own that [ __ ]

there's a fine line between arrogance

and owning it don't be too arrogant you

gotta own that [ __ ] most people think

girls like arrogance they don't they're

just like men who own their things you

can actually own who you are and be

confident in who you are without being

arrogant that's how you get laid not

being Aaron arrogant pisses him off it's

just being confident with who you are

and what you do without being married so

keep that [ __ ] in mind

you're texting her rules the texting her

do not double text her

if she ignores you want leave it maybe a

day day and a half then try again hey

how you been she ignores you again game

over

forget about it

in fact I want to mention something

quickly we're just going to mention

later I'm going to mention it now the

whole [ __ ] time you're starting with

Instagram texting the whole way through

it's something you have to keep in mind

there's something called external

factors that you cannot control

sometimes

you just can't win I've had girls so

I've I've tried something on and it

completely ignored me and the six months

later I tried the same thing and it

worked flawlessly why is that because

the first time it didn't work is nothing

to do with me and my system it's because

there's external factors you cannot

control every girl you're messaging has

a life if that girl is completely head

over heels in love with someone else

she's not gonna reply to you if her

granddads just died she ain't just in

going on a date with you ever dogs just

died or she just [ __ ] or she's

failing her homework maybe she's

suicidal maybe she's overdrawn who the

[ __ ] knows there's a whole bunch of

external [ __ ] you cannot control so you

have to keep in mind the reason it's a

numbers game is because there's too many

external factors that can influence the

end result thank you

I'm talking about [ __ ] girls

great exactly just

too many external factors you cannot

control that have an influence so when I

say something like don't double text or

text her once

she doesn't reply again don't text her

again if she doesn't reply don't be one

of those guys oh you give me your number

don't get upset don't be a [ __ ] old

[ __ ] don't start messaging her why'd

you give me your number you're not going

to talk don't be a little [ __ ] [ __ ]

don't sit there and be like Oh I'm upset

emotionality is not how men act

you do not care if she replies are gone

do not be a [ __ ] because it could be an

external factor maybe your game is

Flawless and on point maybe her Granddad

just died you don't know and I don't

know nobody knows if you just want to

text you it's fine

start again with someone else do not be

start messing your wife give me your

number if you're not going to reply I'm

being a little [ __ ] loser because

then she definitely ain't gonna [ __ ] you

then she'll reply and call you a

[ __ ] and then the game's over what's

the point in that it'll be a [ __ ]

idiot so don't do that [ __ ] so rules to

texting girls don't double text told you

to double texting rules next only

message women at night do not message

during the day during the day they're

busy

they're working and they're certainly

not thinking about a relationship women

are one-tracked women cannot do women

can multitask no they [ __ ] can't

that's a lie men multitasking so if a

woman's at work or she's busy or she's

gonna she ain't sitting the thing and I

really want a boyfriend she's thinking I

really want a boyfriend at night at home

on the couch in bed unless you through

some other dude but she might be it's

very often that she might be another guy

who all the guarantee right now you're

texting a girl who you really like and

she's still banging someone else it's

normal it's the world we live in now oh

she's texting me back yeah she's

probably [ __ ] some other dude so

that's the world we live in anyway text

girls at night they are more susceptible

to flirtatious Notions at night because

they're [ __ ] sitting around thinking

about our relationship or they're more

at home they're comfy they're watching

[ __ ] on tv they're more susceptible

to the kind of conversation you want to

be having do not message girls during

the day it just doesn't work as well

unless you know the girl really well or

you've already met her before or she's

your girlfriend or some [ __ ] in general

with the new girls you want to message

them at night I know you're thinking

well if I get her number and then I

don't message her all the way till the

night

don't be a little [ __ ] when you first

get her number say hey it's me

cherries strawberry whatever oh hey how

are you so yeah I'm really good I'm just

about to drive I'm gonna message you in

a bit say some laughs man don't explain

yourself don't say oh I'm just about to

do this and this and this is no I'm

about to drive or I got a bit of work to

do or I [ __ ] I'm gonna shoot someone

in the head I'll be right back keep it

vague and just [ __ ] hit her up at

night that's when you text girls

when you're texting the [ __ ] you should

be texting her for maximum two days

before you arrange a date

maximum two days if you're texting a

girl for [ __ ] a week and a half and

she still won't meet you

we do not have time to waste gentlemen

we have phds way out here giving away

our attention for girls who won't even

meet us for a [ __ ] coffee because if

you're texting her for a week and she

won't meet you she's getting attention

and she ain't giving you anything back

she's not allowing you to progress at

the Tower of Power and she's taking all

your attention for no reason which

devalues your attention you're

hyperinflating yourself and the girl is

sitting there thinking well he'll text

me all the time with our [ __ ] medium

or not

my super lovely brother hello

filming

yeah

no idea I'm filming my PhD course right

leave that in there I like it anyway

so you ain't giving your attention for

no reason because here's why if you

think of a [ __ ] amazing mind-boggling

fact to most you [ __ ]

if you call a girl's number

and you play it right even if she ain't

replying sooner or later you might [ __ ]

her anyway

it's like Bill it's like if any of you

ever worked in sales I used to work in

sales you build up leads and people go

nah maybe next year maybe next year and

then eventually you have all these old

leads you've been talking to foreign for

ages and ages you start Just Landing

sales easily girls are the same but that

won't happen if you [ __ ] it up so if

you're giving out all your attention too

easily the girl you're hyper reflecting

your attention and the girl will lose

respect for you and she'll never [ __ ]

you even if she can continue to text you

you think you're getting somewhere

been texting for three weeks and she's

replying to me every time I think we

were texting for three weeks during

those three weeks just [ __ ] someone else

bro she's definitely been on a date with

someone else she hasn't been at home she

ain't that busy oh I'm just busy no

one's that [ __ ] busy don't believe

that [ __ ] for a second she probably met

me sucked them on big balls and replies

to you when I don't text her because

she's upset that's what's happening

don't [ __ ] fall for the tricks she's

losing respect for you what you do is

keep the value on your attention because

even if she if you're texting her she

doesn't want to meet you fine after you

beat you can text her again in a few

months oh hey how you been

oh yeah this is the guy I remember this

guy yeah yeah but he wouldn't he

wouldn't just text me for a whole bunch

of time for no reason he wouldn't just

text me for no reason because I wouldn't

meet him then when you say let's go for

coffee she'll remember the last time I

said no he stopped texting me oh okay

let's get the coffee because she knows

she cannot have your attention for free

keep your attention valuable do not

devalue yourself for any female because

you will definitely not get them you

stand a better chance getting them

keeping your attention valuable and

being patient patience gentlemen is how

you get a lot of these girls and if

you're talking to enough girls you don't

care I'm happy to wait six months to

[ __ ] a girl cause I got something to

[ __ ] today and tomorrow and the day

after and first of my [ __ ] life so I

don't care if I bang you now or in six

months it doesn't matter who cares

patience

so texture at night your aim for the day

one or two days then you say now

you do not ask girls to go on dates

you tell girls to go on dates if you've

ever asked a woman anything you'll know

that they're pretty [ __ ] at deciding

would you like to maybe go have some

time some

I've got a [ __ ] ass are you would you

like to maybe

users listen

who gives a [ __ ] if she wants to or not

and if you say sometime sometime opens

up the [ __ ] window for the friend

zone like you sometime is a [ __ ]

ticket to the friend zone yeah we'll go

out sometime what [ __ ] 2019 2025

sometime sometimes people were all dead

sometimes it'll be the end of the

[ __ ] planet Earth there is no

sometime

you tell it

when so you can either say when are we

having coffee which is a forceful ask or

you can say we're going for coffee soon

that's what I always say

say good night don't over text them

either don't over text them [ __ ] if you

text them a little bit 20 minutes 30

minutes that's enough okay yeah all

right I've got something to do never say

you're going to bed another thing like I

told you with the bakery thing I've got

so much [ __ ] knowledge in my

brilliant brain it's actually difficult

for me to put it linearly so you have to

watch this video over and over again

whatever never say you're going to bed

going to bed is a masculine cowards need

sleep oh I'm texting you you beautiful

girl but I'm tired so I'm tired I'm

gonna go I'm going to bed you know I

like to say at [ __ ] quarter past one

in the morning I'm going to work

work at this time money never sleeps

baby

then I go to bed it's fine but the point

is she's sitting there going to work

what do you do

I'll tell you in person

that's why I say just another little

thing to add towards the day

so don't say you're going to sleep so

never over text a hoe text her for 30

minutes or so and then you've got

something to do I've got to go to work

you work night shift I work 24 25 hours

a day eight days a week [ __ ] I'm

getting paid

so you've got to say things I'm a G

so keep the Intrigue there that's back

to the intrigue

so two nights I've been texting the girl

I'll say we're going for coffee soon

they'll usually reply 99 of the time

yeah sure or yeah we are something good

enough if they reply some dumb [ __ ] like

are we I'm trying to [ __ ] test you

you know what you say because you're a

full-grown man with clear intentions you

say yes we are and she goes what if I

don't want to you know what you replied

to that

nothing

foreign

drops to zero [ __ ] you let her sit there

and look

waiting for that reply

doesn't come most these hot [ __ ]

don't get ignored hot girls do not get

ignored it [ __ ] with their brain no one

ignores hot girls because hot girls are

too so valuable they've never been

ignored let them sit there and go to

sleep and go oh he'll text me tomorrow

next day

[ __ ]

you still ain't texting me then you'll

start to notice they start to like your

Instagram pictures

like your pictures like every picture

why she liking pictures try and get your

attention again because your attention

is now valuable your attention has gone

down to zero it's scarce it's like gold

it's hard to find where's the attention

go start liking your Instagram pictures

then maybe they start if they make that

first move like liking your Instagram

pictures or they ask how you are or

something then you can talk to them

again of course you're like oh hey yeah

sorry been working

or say hey sorry I've been busy I was

out like coffee I like to say that one

because they're like well you invite me

for coffee invite another girl for

coffee then I'll say what with another

girl say of course not dear

sarcastic which means yes but I also

said no so they can't complain about it

careful with your language

so [ __ ] flip on the [ __ ] sorry I was

out on coffee

talk to her again another couple days

invite her she doesn't come the second

time

that's the basic rules of the game

progression you are not texting her to

be your [ __ ] friend or to make sure

her phone [ __ ] works

some dumb [ __ ]

regression day now you're on the dating

stage

dating is hard for me to coach because

really in reality this is something has

to happen in person if any of you guys

out there have any kind of serious

income message me I want to put together

a a three-day thing where I bring you to

me or I come to you probably bring you

to me

we hit the streets we do the Instagram

thing we get some dates we organize

those dates and you can see how I do it

and you can see in real life then you're

gonna learn a Next Level game if you're

interested in that email me but in

General on a date these are all things

you would have heard before

be confident

not overconfident be confident let her

talk about herself pretend to give a

[ __ ]

keep the Intrigue there

don't overstay this is the most

important thing the last thing you can

do to a woman is bored it's better to

cut a date short and her at the most

interesting point

then bore her imagine you have a movie

and the end of the movie [ __ ] or the

movie okay imagine you have a movie it's

an okay movie but it's five hours long

but after an hour and a half it's super

interesting what's gonna happen if you

cut the movie off there the person

really really wants to see the end of

that movie if you let the movie play to

the end okay it was an okay movie but

they know what happens no the first date

should be short and for that reason

that's why I always organize a coffee

day because coffee is short

coffee's 15-20 minutes max all you're

trying to do with the first day is prove

you're a real person you look like your

pictures you're not a [ __ ] psycho

you're not going to stab her and to

break the wall of real person from Guy

online that's the only real gold the

first day you're not trying to bang on

the first day you can bang on the first

date but that's a different kind of date

that's like if I have loads of girls and

I've got to the texting stage I mean

Tristan are going to the club one night

I'll text all of them hey I'm at the

club tonight uh I know he's not mad but

come it's gonna be really fun there's

lots of people here I say there's lots

of people so they don't feel like it's

creepy and we just and then you bring

them to the table getting drunk back you

can bang them first date that way I'm

interested I have a little saying call

the only thing better than double

booking is triple booking the reason we

have that saying is because one time

Tristan texts all those girls and two of

them turned up but we have phds so he

[ __ ] both he [ __ ] won and then a

couple weeks later [ __ ] the other one

anyway so these two girls who can text

and turned up and I text all my girls

and three turned up

and when I was drunk I turned to church

they said the only thing about the

double booking is triple booking and we

both laughed and we both [ __ ] because

we Chase so that's the club game but if

you're just doing a coffee thing you

just want a short date to introduce

yourself short Snappy I'm an interesting

person I'm a real person I'm not a creep

and another thing you need to do is

especially in the modern world is you

need to [ __ ] check for these catfish

bro

there's girls I'm talking to on

Instagram who are tens and I turn up on

their sevens now I know that doesn't

bother you because all you do is [ __ ]

settings I fought 10s so if I'm putting

energy into a 10 and I try to shoot a

[ __ ] seven I get pissed off

you guys are probably [ __ ] happy as

hell in episode I am

so you also gotta check that the girl

the Girls Gotta [ __ ] prove herself

too these girls live in catfish land

sometimes you're sitting there texting

away with your hard dick

thinking she's something special and she

turns up and she's basic anyway most you

guys are getting upset and worried about

basic ass hoes these chicks are basic so

the first date is good because sometimes

they might be below your standard you

might want to get rid of them quickly

I've had dates before where they've

turned up and go I don't want to hang

out

coffee oh yeah coffee oh yeah what do

you do yeah work study okay yeah we'll

see each other again okay bye if you

organize a big thing we'll go for dinner

and coffee and then we'll go for dinner

and movies and all this [ __ ] how do

you get rid of her maybe maybe you want

to get rid of her maybe she's annoying

maybe she's a vegan who knows coffee

it's quick it's to the point you can get

rid of her quick within 15 minutes you

can stay 45 minutes if you want make her

interested in you build her Intrigue

make her want to see you again do not

overplay it do not sit there and talk

for hours about your job and your pets

she doesn't [ __ ] care she only cares

about herself because she's a woman ask

her questions about herself don't give

her any real answers on you keep your

[ __ ] vague but be interesting be a

little bit funny a little bit smart be

confident 45 minutes okay yeah we'll

just meet again soon bang bang bye

that's the goal of the first date

after the first date

then the texting game goes into the next

level now I'm not saying you can message

her I'm gonna [ __ ] you in your ass

obviously you can't do that but at this

point she's met you she knows what you

look like she knows you're a real person

if she's replying to you you can be

quite

a direct I don't want you [ __ ] losers

being creepy don't be creepy but you're

adults there's now no reason for you to

be texting unless you're gonna [ __ ]

why are you texting she knows who you

are she's met you if she's replying to

you she likes you so it has to be going

you're Progressive done the day now

you've got basically now you're

basically talking about adult things

and there's no reason to be texting

otherwise if you if if you text her and

she doesn't want to talk about adult

things then what the [ __ ] are you

talking to her for she's met you she

knows what you look like and she doesn't

want to talk about adult things and she

doesn't want to [ __ ] you so

simple you're at that point now so I'll

say things like after the first date

I'll say things like

hey we got to I'm just in bed yeah uh

yeah I've just finished work did uh some

[ __ ]

um but you have to be careful I'm saying

this because most you [ __ ]

aren't as smooth as me don't don't be

creepy you gotta be to the point with

like why you're texting

you should know where I'm coming from

with that so don't say anything creepy

and weird but just be to the point to

say yeah I'm out working I'm gonna work

all night tonight probably oh you're

gonna work all night yeah I'm not gonna

sleep till you're with me

some [ __ ] like that which is kind of

smooth with it LOL might be a long time

then I'm Superman I don't need sleep I

don't give a [ __ ] I'll wait

that can just be cool with it but just

make it clear

start talking about adult themes if

she's still replying everything's good

from there couple days organize second

date and from there it's game over you

should know what to do from there then

you organize a proper day at night

dinner is a bit formal

movies is always a no because you can't

talk movies are an easy one because you

don't have to talk to the girl but then

also you don't get to really get

anywhere because you don't talk to the

girl so movies are bad dinners I don't

really like dinners I like drinks

and I actually like to keep it super

informal so I'm lucky I have my brother

but

formal situations make things awkward

so if I gotta bring a girl out for

drinks I'll say oh yeah we're getting

some drinks my brother and some people

are there just come along if there's

other people around they feel it's less

like you and me and sitting down and

we're drinking or talking you don't need

that intimate [ __ ] you talk one-on-one

on WhatsApp all the time you can just

bring her into a fun environment now of

all your friends are [ __ ] you can't

do that because your friends need to

know the game as well your friends have

to make sure they never hit on your girl

they never interrupt or try and talk to

your girl when it's your job to be

talking to her your friends need to

participate towards getting you laid if

you have good quality friends it's

easier so I'll give you a very quick

example like me and Tristan are [ __ ]

smooth survive a girl on a bang it's out

of 10. a marriage is 10 bank 10. I said

come for some drinks I say Tristan I

want to close this one tonight all right

cool Tristan will bring one of his girls

so he's already [ __ ] and his girl

knows the game so not only do I have

Kristen as a wingman I'm a female

wingman so like for example we go out

girl turns off that other girl's saying

oh yeah I've done Andrew ages yeah these

brothers are so fun she they took me

here they took me there my girls listen

to this girl going well she gets to [ __ ]

with these guys and she's not there and

her life's great I want to be like I

want these things and then was drinking

drink and drinking and if I say I'll

come back to my place it's creepy if the

girl goes let's go back to your house

your house is fun

then the other girl will be like oh okay

the girls want to go back it's so easy

if you have a [ __ ] chick so this is

what I'm saying if your friends are

[ __ ] it's hard I've got a [ __ ]

support team which are Ironclad I know I

bring Tristan and one of his female

soldiers I do not fail getting back to

the house is going to be guaranteed by

the girl the girl's gonna say I'll break

her life then it's just so [ __ ] I

don't even do anything I don't do I sit

there on Twitter calling you all idiots

I don't do [ __ ] and I still get laid

so if you have a good group of friends

who aren't [ __ ] pricks

and what you have to understand is that

most of you watching this are Pricks

yourselves losers yourselves between

your friends are losers but if you're

going to bring a girl around

you've got to be clear with your friends

they can't be like the BET like banter

for example if my boy were to bring his

friend a girl I would never like chokily

insult him or something oh well he's

[ __ ] he you know like all the dumb

guy [ __ ] you do calling a guy a loser or

calling a guy there so that you can't do

that if a guy's bringing a girl he's

trying to get laid your friends

shouldn't be insulting you even as a

joke your friend shouldn't be trying to

talk to your girl your friends should

just be there to Make Some Noise to

break down the monotony of a formal

situation say hi be polite offer a drink

or whatever and that's it so if your

friends aren't [ __ ] I'd actually

recommend on the last day to make it a

group kind of thing if your friends

aren't [ __ ] if your friends are

[ __ ] they'll be detrimentals if you

have to sit here and look and think do I

have good friends or any events because

if you were to come out with your girl

and me and my girl you'd be getting laid

so if your friends are good do that if

not it's just you and her it's fine but

if you've got friends around make it

informal yeah we'll have some drinks

that'll come out have some drinks have a

laugh never kiss at the end of the day

on the second date don't kiss her at the

end because kids kissing at the end then

you want to [ __ ] her but it's the end of

the day we've just kissed it's a bit

weird kiss her early on don't be a [ __ ]

the date let's say she turns up eight

o'clock for drinks by 8 45 she'll at

least kiss her

that's what I do in terms of a drink gin

and tonic whatever blah talking [ __ ]

Tris is there but talking [ __ ]

everyone's laughing having fun give her

a kiss 8 45 then then she's got her hand

on your leg by [ __ ] 9 30. then by the

time it's [ __ ] 12 30 she wants dick

because she's been comfortable with you

she's kissed you she's hung out with you

a few hours since she's been touching

you a bit now she's comfortable enough

to [ __ ] if you try and kiss her at 12 30

we're about to go home now kids want to

come to my place it's two

romantic model movie P.S I Love You

[ __ ] it ain't real it's too formal

don't do that kiss her in 45 minutes

have a laugh keep drinking have a joke

hold her hand or put her hand on your

leg talk some [ __ ] kiss her again by the

time it's time to go she'll Wanna [ __ ]

and you don't ask her you just take her

taker don't ask her if she wants to come

to yours ask her if she wants to go home

so when the taxi turns up I go we're

going to mine

and unless she goes no I want to go home

and she goes okay you want to go home no

problem cool if you want to go home all

right cool get you a taxi never take her

to the same taxi she doesn't get you

don't ride with me if you're not coming

to my house I ain't getting in my pack

somewhere out of my way to drop you off

today and I said okay cool I'll get you

a car Uber bang yeah kiss all right yeah

see you next time nothing wrong with

that maybe we'll [ __ ] up the day after

some girls are like that it's no problem

if you get my car coming to my house

we're going to mine

oh really yeah we're gonna get in okay

women like to be led they don't like to

be asked if you're asking what she wants

to eat she doesn't know oh no they want

to be told what to do come with me if

she says no that's perfectly fine

remember you're not [ __ ] psycho I

don't want any of you [ __ ]

getting rape charges and the police

finding this video and coming after me

for it because I ain't done nothing

[ __ ] wrong to anybody just saying

you're clear I'm go we're all going to

mine or I'm going to mine to come with

me oh no I really want to go home no

problem you do not ask twice

oh I really think you should come to

mind that's submissive and pathetic no

you're not pathetic you're a [ __ ]

full-grown man I want to go to mine no

problem and in fact a lot of the time

they don't like that because sometimes

women are trying to play hard to get

well maybe I should go home okay you

want to go home no problem we'll get you

a car we'll get you a car we'll get the

taxi

well I was just thinking I need I need

my things then they'll try and back out

of it I was just thinking so all right

well we're going to mine you don't need

your things you want to come okay

Dot

you did you but as soon as they say they

want to go go yeah give them what they

want it's the takeaway Trump said know

when to walk away from the table the art

of the deal walk away from the deal

dealers go to my house oh you want to

play games all right you're not allowed

to come okay we'll take you home we'll

take you home we're gonna go party we'll

take you home

they don't want to miss out oh okay I

was just thinking I don't have a phone

charger I have a phone charger a phone

call Samsung I've got Samsung charger no

you don't no one has a Samsung

yeah I've got one now somewhere come on

back dog

if you know I really go home cool Circle

car bang all right maybe see you again

bang kiss bye do another day maybe it

takes three or four days you

[ __ ] aren't smooth as me by day

two I'm [ __ ] I'm a G you guys aren't

smoothly so you need some more time she

wants to go homes no problem you have my

FDB it's all good see you again keep

texting her keep working it you'll get

there in the end when you're as smooth

as me day two game over I don't have

that same number so I've had girls come

to my house and not [ __ ] that happens

but they always send to the house

so that's the basic progression so I

told you in this video I'm not going to

tell you anything about getting a Lambo

and getting in shape because you know

all that [ __ ] I'm telling you about

things you can do right here right now

to improve your game

so Instagram progress do a graphic

Instagram progress WhatsApp progress

Coffee Day more texting serious day

aiming to close that is the system now

Tower of Power here

king cobra t-shirt [ __ ] it right now

we're going to talk about

next

talk about how you're going to get dates

we'll talk about

cold hard truth

of these females

truth is this

there's no such thing as a perfect woman

if you want a woman who's perfect for

you you must build her to be perfect for

you a woman who is understanding and

kind and who respects you does not exist

unless you force her to be that way and

when I say Force when I mean in a

horrible way I mean in a simple there's

no other option Like Walter always takes

the easiest path through the Rocks the

woman must learn that her man is [ __ ]

an Iron Mountain and the easiest path is

to obey any other kind of resistance

simply doesn't work

that's how you have to be

but some women are more moldable than

others you have I call it blueprints you

have good Blueprints and bad blueprints

so you have I I with my skill level can

make any female do as I say

and I say that with absolute conviction

I've never met a woman who will not do

the basics of what I say bring me coffee

turn up where I tell her to listen to me

not talk to other men basic things

but

some are better blueprints than others

so when you read these books these red

pill books all this [ __ ] talking

about BPD and all that bollocks firstly

let's do a very side subject on BPD like

I said talk about Bakery masterclass my

brain's full of information

BPD

ain't [ __ ] real

and the reason it ain't real is because

all these red pill guys talk about

borderline personality disorder if the

girl doesn't listen to you or the girl

acts this way she's got borderline

personality disorder every single hot

chick in the world has BPD how can you

be 16 years old with a hundred thousand

followers on Instagram and full-grown

men giving you unlimited attention for

no reason all the way up until you're 25

for nearly 10 years men going out of

their way breaking down crying in voice

notes being complete little [ __ ]

doing anything you tell them to do how

can you live that life and not have an

ego or a borderline personality disorder

every single hot chick and trust me I

[ __ ] more than you to a degree has

something [ __ ] up in their head

because the attention they're getting is

off the [ __ ] scale men have made

women have BPD

luckily there's men like me out here who

puts them back in [ __ ] check

so BPD ain't real

let's get that shot your head girl ain't

listening to you it's either because

your game [ __ ] or because of external

factors maybe her Granddad just died she

doesn't listen to you right now doesn't

mean she has BPD get that whole excuse

out your head it ain't a real thing

so

you have good Blueprints and bad

blueprints some women are more

susceptible to being molded some women

have better values than others I do

agree with what the red pill books say

that if a woman's [ __ ] lots of men

she's not as good a mold as a woman

who's [ __ ] less men that's true and

the reason for that is because if a

woman's [ __ ] lots and lots and lots of

guys they don't have a stigma attached

to getting a new dick so when times get

hard or you tell them to do something

they don't want to do they think I'll

just [ __ ] someone else then they're more

they're less loyal they're more likely

to run off and leave if they've slept

with lots of men they've lost some of

the few men if you're the second guy or

first guy ever they don't want to give

up on you that easy so if you say stop

texting this dude they're more likely to

do that and never grow something 20

bucks a lot of Texas dude to find a new

kind of [ __ ]

so that is true so you have good

Blueprints and bad blueprints now I

could tell you just like I did with the

how many men they're cycling I can tell

you 100 different reasons what makes a

good blueprint what makes a bad

blueprint I could waste loads of time or

I could just give you the [ __ ]

instant easy to tell iron breakable test

this test tells you

concrete if a woman's good quality or

bad quality

here's how

test happens after you sleep with her

now if you're sitting here thinking

why do I have to sleep with a woman

first to see if she's good or not

because that's how it really goes

because that's when you really know a

girl until you sleep with a girl it's

all just front the game's it's all just

[ __ ] it's just who they want to be

instead of pretending it's after you

sleep with them you see the real then

so you're gonna have to [ __ ] a whole

bunch of girls to get a good one

if you're let's say it's your job to

find the best apple in the world

and you have three apples and you say

this apple is the best apple in the

world and another guy has a thousand

apples and he says this apple is the

best apple

in the world who knows more about apples

who's more likely to have chosen an

exceptional Apple

the man who has more apples the Thousand

Apple guy knows more about apples than

the free apple pie if you want to

understand women I know what I know

because I [ __ ] so many women I've had

Smart Ones stupid Ones hot Ones hot ones

no uglies you know I've had them all so

I know I know through experience so if

you're sitting there going oh I have to

[ __ ] a whole bunch of girls to find a

good one and you're worried about that

then you're a [ __ ] yeah you're gonna

[ __ ] in the modern world for every five

girls you [ __ ] one will be a good

quality

so what go [ __ ] five girls and get one

what's the problem you're afraid to use

your dick your little [ __ ] get it done

so that's the reality sometimes you get

lucky you can [ __ ] one girl and you can

tell she's a good girl right away it

happens but sometimes I [ __ ] three four

girls in a row and they've all just been

trash hoes

tell ghost it's how it goes sometimes

you [ __ ] three girls in a row and

they're all [ __ ] nice and I know that

from this iron-clad test

this Ironclad test tells me so I'm

telling you you cannot tell I don't care

when you're texting some girl and you're

sitting there with your little [ __ ]

penis twitching like a little [ __ ]

sitting there and late at night WhatsApp

me away oh she's so beautiful you look

at her Instagram you're texting her she

seems so nice and so sweet she ain't

[ __ ] she ain't [ __ ] and you don't know

if she's quality or not until you suffer

so don't get emotionally attached to

some girl you haven't thought because

you don't know anything about her until

you sleep with her and here's how you

tell

after you sleep with a girl

your attention goes to nearly zero

attention goes right down

here's why

we give attention

to get the sex

drawing we've had the sex now

we've had it

we've had what we wanted

so the attention has to drop instantly

to set a standard for the relationship

and the relationship standard is as

follows

you better be nice to me you better [ __ ]

me when I wanted to you better do as

you're told to get my attention

otherwise it's staying down here you

have now won the game until you sleep

with a woman she's in charge she's the

gate she's the lock you're trying to

break once you've slept with her you are

now in charge and what most men do after

they [ __ ] a girl is instantly give away

their position of power you are finally

for the first time since you've messaged

this girl on Instagram

in the position of power you're above

her now because you [ __ ] her and if

you [ __ ] her I never talked to her again

then she's a stupid [ __ ] and she doesn't

want that she wants you to want her so

she wants to keep you for the first up

until now you wanted to [ __ ] her you

wanted to get her this is the first time

she wants to get you and most men [ __ ]

that up straight away by either saying

something oh I really like you all could

I see you again better and just [ __ ]

being submissive to the woman's whims

straight away and giving them attention

you you can't do that you have to drop

your attention down to absolute zero and

here's why

one it sets the standard for the

relationship

I [ __ ] you now I'm in charge oh you want

to see me again do you all right cool

yeah I'm waiting for a new bank card

let's go for coffee but you you know my

my money's low just you have to buy them

I'll pay you back

I ain't buying new coffee

I'll [ __ ] you now I don't care you

don't buy me a coffee and [ __ ] you I'll

buy some other coffee I don't care

all right cool well I'm busy you you

have Banger you on You've Won you ain't

got nothing to worry about who care

that in mind

okay yeah no problem I don't mind paying

this time turn up get yourself some

[ __ ] carrot cake and [ __ ] carrot cake

when I'm [ __ ] I'm a millionaire I

still do this you want them [ __ ]

yogurts from Starbucks with two

cappuccinos and sparkling water make the

[ __ ] spend like [ __ ] 20 [ __ ] Euro

on me

buy it for me set the standard your man

told you to buying a coffee buy me a

[ __ ] coffee

because you [ __ ] the girl fine but if

you want a relationship a happy

relationship you need to be in control

of that relationship if you [ __ ] it up

at the beginning it is extremely

difficult to recover but if you set the

standard right in the beginning

is much easier

so the standard from the second you

[ __ ] now I'm not saying you become

rude I'm not saying you become an

[ __ ] don't do that I'm just saying

your attention drops you're still nice

but your attention isn't there so we're

used to text her every night

you barely text her or you texted one or

two times and then you don't make it

clear she has to clearly see here's the

Fine Line she has to clearly see that

you get your attention's dropped but not

enough for her to call you out on it not

enough where she can go oh you [ __ ] me

you don't talk anymore

she can't say that what do you mean I'm

texting you I'm just I'm just busy

so it's gonna be that fine line where

she feels uncomfortable because she

knows something's up

but she can't say anything about it

that's how you got to do it make her buy

you some [ __ ] coffee you [ __ ] her now

you are in charge

and this is the test

a quality woman after you sleep with her

when your attention drops we'll do

anything it takes

to get your attention back up to retain

you as a man

so you've slept with her you've had sex

with this girl

the next day you barely text her then

you're too busy to meet her then you say

then when you say yeah okay yeah you

have to pay probably my back card

whatever whatever excuse or whatever

a quality woman will go oh okay no

problem no problem because they know

that [ __ ] a guy is a big deal and

they don't want to [ __ ] you for no

reason and they don't want to be a hoe

they don't be a number number another

random number on your [ __ ] book they

want to get a relationship out of it

they want to build it into something so

a quality woman will bend her normal

rules a girl who would perhaps never buy

you coffee is now prepared to do some of

you will bend her normal rules to get

your attention back post sex that's what

a quality woman will do a [ __ ] quality

woman a crack woman when you say these

things will be like oh [ __ ] this guy and

she'll go [ __ ] someone else

a girl who will rather go have a new

dick than buy you a coffee is not the

kind of girl you need a relationship

with guys because that's only going to

end bad sooner or later one way or

another there's gonna be an argument or

something we're gonna ask her to do

something she doesn't want to do and

she's going to end up [ __ ] someone

else

this is the test that Cruz good woman

against Bad Wolf

literally the next day you conduct this

test you drop your attention if they

work hard if they double text you if

they text you first if they ask to see

you all these are positive things hey

maybe we can go out to the that's what

you want to see that's a woman who wants

to work hard to keep her man interested

you're not going to be able to conduct

this test if after you [ __ ] her you're

like

because you're too busy flooding her

with attention so there's no test

involved

if you [ __ ] her and then you drop your

attention and she doesn't really care or

she doesn't really try to see you again

then she's trash do not fall into the

Trap of going okay I'll ask your

attention again and [ __ ] remarks I

want to [ __ ] her that is gonna end bad

don't waste your time tell you man I was

with cab Club Christian [ __ ] McQueen

three months ago

walked in the club

was [ __ ] in the zone walk in the club

two girls at the bar said yeah table

bang or Glock table Christian big bunny

big money Christian stuff came start

paying for the table whatever before I

even sat at the table went up to the bar

with this girl hey you're beautiful

that's why I say in person I do

different persons excuse me and in

person I make them pay attention what

most people do they [ __ ] up in person is

that they talk to girls and they're not

paying attention you go to go hey you're

beautiful they're like what like excuse

me excuse me I'm making yeah I make them

pay attention to what I'm saying I'm a

[ __ ] foreground man talk with you pay

attention

so you're absolutely beautiful you're

staying with me tonight

drink anyway [ __ ] the same night even

Christian who's a genie goes that was

smooth

so bang you're saying nice [ __ ] 10.

10. all you [ __ ] if you [ __ ]

this girl would fall head over heels in

love with her because of how she looks I

[ __ ] her

next day I didn't text her she didn't

text me

next day didn't text her she didn't text

me third day if she likes one of my

Instagram

some basic pathetic attempt and I

thought there you just bang some dudes

you barely know and you knew and you're

not even going to humble yourself to

text me first you think you're so

special you're not going to reduce

yourself to text me first if you're not

going to humble yourself to text me

first after you got [ __ ] in one night

then you're never gonna humble yourself

for me you're always going to have this

ego you're always going to be so I don't

want you I never spoke to that girl

again no that's not true it is because I

saw her three weeks later at different

events she ran up to me oh my god oh how

you been I spoke for a little bit but I

could just see and she she talked to me

a little bit then she walked off and

tried to talk to another guy in front of

me to make me jealous where's the proof

there that's the proof in my lesson

she's a trash hoe what kind of girl does

that he talks to another guy from a guy

trying to make us [ __ ] that's [ __ ]

[ __ ] she was a [ __ ] hoe and I spot it

instantly because she didn't humble

herself when she was supposed to and I'm

glad I didn't waste any more time on her

because she's never going to be doing

like my other girls do living in my

house letting me [ __ ] other women

remaining loyal and [ __ ] bringing me

coffees and doing as I say that's what

you're looking for gentlemen you're not

looking for sex sex is easy you're

looking for a woman who is loyal to you

fiercely you need a woman that you can

sit and say I'm going to jail for two

years in two years and you're not

worried about her cheating while you're

in the cell

now this girl the hoe who ran tried to

make me jealous and who wouldn't text me

could I trust her for two years or could

I trust the girl who next day was like I

don't normally do that I really want to

see you again I hope you're nothing bad

at me please can I see you again that

kind of humbling [ __ ] that's what

you want

that's what you want I hope you

understand the difference between those

two women because there's a huge

difference between those two females I

do not waste my time even with my PhD

trying to convert a hoe into a housewife

there's a reason that old saying exists

don't waste your time with that [ __ ] now

I thought girls on the first night and

the next day they were so desperate for

my attention

that they were quality women it doesn't

matter if you [ __ ] the first day lots

of these red pill books [ __ ] first

day she's trash not true I've had

amazing women who have [ __ ] the first

day amazing

because the next day they passed this

test this test is extremely important

if you this is why you cannot get

feelings for a girl before you [ __ ] her

because you guys are gonna end up liking

a chick and she's gonna fail this test

you're gonna abstain with her anyway

because she's hot and you like her you

end up in a [ __ ] [ __ ]

relationship

reality of the world is this gentleman

you're walking down the street with your

woman a man comes up and decides to rape

her you've punched a guy in the face he

falls over hits his head and dies very

possible

you go to jail for four years you're in

a [ __ ] jail

to protect her

and she's [ __ ] someone else

that's what women will do they'll do

that to you they'll go [ __ ] someone well

I'm lonely I'm lonely I'm in jail yeah

but I'm lonely because they're selfish

[ __ ] so do you want to be walking down

the street with a girl who will do that

to you or do you only want to walk down

the street with a girl who you know will

be crying her [ __ ] eyes out writing

you letters staff today at every single

visitation uninterested in every inbox

she gets on Instagram while you do that

jail time

and the only way you're going to know

that is with this [ __ ] test

do not waste your time with trash hoes

it only ends up in one place

I [ __ ] a whole bunch of women and I

fought some beautiful women but if they

fail this test I will not talk to them

again because I do not have time and

energy to waste on a woman who will not

be loyal to me

that is the most number one most

important thing the most important thing

is this test

people often say to me how tight how

how do you how does your girlfriend let

you [ __ ] other girls she lets me [ __ ]

other girls because she cannot possibly

leave me she leaves me because she loves

me and I love her and she loves me with

all her heart and she cannot imagine her

world without me if I died she would

commit suicide I am her everything it

doesn't matter if I [ __ ] someone else

because I'm her everything she has

nowhere else to go

because this test was implemented and

she passed it and years have passed

where I haven't taken her [ __ ] and I've

kept the position of authority and I've

just become her Idol in life it's like

trying to take God away from a Christian

they're like well if God doesn't exist

have you ever argued a religious person

look and now after you've proven wrong a

bunch of times you go well if God

doesn't exist then what's the point

they'll eventually say what's the point

being alive what's the point in doing

good what's the point doing bad without

God that's how your woman has to think

of you without him

what's the point you do anything

when you get to that point you don't

have the [ __ ] you want

I can [ __ ] who I want cause she's gonna

leave

she ain't gonna leave she doesn't even

cry about it anymore so I know you're

gonna do what you do as long as you

don't love me of course I only love you

they're just stupid hoes okay done it

ain't unachievable gentlemen it's very

achievable if you keep your [ __ ] in

order remember all these lessons about

what we're talking about getting the

girls the attention scale it's the same

when you're in a relationship

if your chick's getting fresh

told you man

this is the mistake the biggest mistake

I ever made in my PhD life is when I was

young and I was grinding I was trying to

make money trying my money I'd get a

girlfriend and I'd text her oh I'm

really busy today love you and then I

wouldn't text her because I was busy

working and then she'd reply to me some

[ __ ] rude [ __ ] and I'd end up text

her all day arguing and I realized she

gets the most attention from me when

she's misbehaving

she gets constant messages when she

misbehaves when she acts good I barely

text her because I'm busy making money

so you're training her because females

want the attention that's what they want

it's all they want you're training her

to misbehave for your attention

reverse it

when your girl's being nice flutter

let's ask a dick cut that [ __ ] off

only way to do it

so it's important that even the lessons

learned about how to get girls it's the

same in a relationship

keep your attention rare even in a

relationship tell you something man I

say this to people who don't believe it

your girl should want sex more than you

give it

I say this all the time I've never ever

ever want sex to my girlfriend I've not

had it in six years ever

she's wanting sex with me and not had it

unlimited times

unlimited times your girl should want

sex more than you give it because you

have to do all the [ __ ] work

and you got a bunch of other side hoes

anyway [ __ ] so often on the side

sometimes you just give me a massage and

tired your girl that is a sign of a

healthy relationship and your girl wants

sex and you don't really want

that's a healthy relationship shouldn't

be the other way around because that's

putting her in a position of power you

cannot let these women ever be in a

position of power because women are not

evolutionarily designed for power and

they don't want Power

they think they want it but when they

get it they just lose respect for you

and then they get harder and harder on

you because they start to secretly

resent that's what happens when a female

has a position of power they start to

resent

you go [ __ ] lay it down and the

biggest weapon you have as a man is

I don't care if you're with a girl for

six months and everything's going well

but she gets too fresh

you gotta just get back on Instagram and

get messaging new ones it's how it's

gonna be

so I have a guy who I coach on girls

he said I've been a girl I've been with

her five months but she has male friends

and she talks to these guys and then I

was like look it's not acceptable he

goes well how do I stop her I said bro

you cannot have your woman talking to

other men those men are trying to [ __ ]

your girl if you had a car doesn't

matter trying to [ __ ] your girl let's

cut the [ __ ] they're friends no

they're not if your girl was fat with no

legs in a wheelchair would they be your

friend would they text her no they

[ __ ] wouldn't so let's cut the

[ __ ] [ __ ] right here right now to

try to [ __ ] your chick if you had a

[ __ ] car would you let car thieves

attempt to break into your car no matter

how good the locks are would you let

them sit there and just try and break in

and just watch them do it or would you

be like get the [ __ ] away from my car

the same as a chick bro you can't be

letting these people attempt because no

matter how good the locks are maybe one

day they'll find a weakness and they'll

get it maybe you're arguing with your

girl you had an argument this guy's been

particularly [ __ ] generous mood he

decides to take her somewhere or some

[ __ ]

problems you don't need it men should

not be texting your woman's phone ever

so he's like well I agree with you how

do I stop it there's only one thing you

can do man tell her to [ __ ] stop

texting them make her choose it's like

oh you have order she chooses them

you have to be prepared to walk away

from a bad relationship and from a bad

chick Trump said it the art of the deal

had to be prepared to walk away from the

table here's some math for you if you

tell the girl to choose between you and

her friends and she chooses her friends

she's gonna [ __ ] one of them eventually

anyway don't you see how eventually

she's going to end up banging one if she

already chooses them above you

so why would you allow that Dynamic to

continue instead of Walking Away With

Honor and reducing your attention to

zero putting a super high value on your

attention and then maybe after a couple

days not hearing from you she might

think okay now your attention's high

your attention is high value she might

reverse her decision go okay I'll stop

you're right I've taken a thought about

it then then you stand a chance

if you allow her to continue and she

says she wants to choose them you go

okay and stay with her anyway it's only

going to end with her [ __ ] one now or

later are you such a bigger [ __ ] it's

like ripping off a Band-Aid rip it off

you're gonna do it slowly she's gonna

[ __ ] one she's gonna do it do you want

to be there those extra few months and

get cheated on or let wait for her to

message you it just isn't working some

[ __ ] because you want to [ __ ]

someone else you know where it's gonna

end so why are you allowing it to happen

instead of walking away at a point where

you can make a difference by attaching

Super Value to your attention and laying

it down like a [ __ ] man

you can't have that [ __ ] as a man we

have one weapon attention reduction an

FDB and you're prepared to do that in a

relationship for important issues almost

think of a girl won't make you a coffee

and you know never talk to her again

that's maybe a bit too much but with

things like talking to other dudes or

things that are red lines you have to be

prepared to walk away if you've been

with a girl for three months

and she won't do as you say FDB

now obviously if you just get with a

girl shaking a girl of all her friends

she's just me use your brain but you've

been with her a while she should [ __ ]

know the score and if she doesn't like

it get back on Instagram start by

sending those messages again it's as

simple as that

I've told you how to get laid

that's what this course was about I said

how to get girls I've told you how to

retain girls the most important thing is

this test

the post-test if they pass the test to

always make sure that your attention is

within the correct parameters her

behavior and your attention have to be

explicitly linked you cannot [ __ ] that

up in any way

you have to make sure there's no other

men or outside influences [ __ ] with

her too much

you don't want other men messing your

girl forget the modern world they're

just friends [ __ ] that is only going

to lead to a bad relationship good

relationships are one man one woman no

sorry

one man ten women that's my relationship

it's not a chick a bunch of dudes

messing her it's not acceptable it's not

acceptable in any way and if she chooses

them over you then find someone else

because it's only going to end one way

or another anyway

I've tried to be all-encompassing I know

I've actually missed a whole bunch of

things because like I said I know so

much [ __ ] there's a whole bunch more I I

need to say so what I'm going to do is

this is the first video I'm going to

release for all you guys who purchased

the video I want you to go out there

start your Instagram messaging start

your whatsapping go on some dates do

what you need to do

in a week from now I am absolutely not

only welcoming all your questions any

questions you have a specific

conversation screenshot or a scenario or

any questions or anything I've missed

email them all to me and I'm gonna do

another video in a week completely free

for you guys answering all your specific

questions another hour and a half of

knowledge and between this video which

is the absolute fundamental Basics how

attention works the easiest way to speak

to girls how to progression Tower of

Power how to always progress progress

progress how to test a girl after you

slept with her and how to retain the

control with your attention post

sleepover with this one video your game

will be 10 times what it was before

plus they're going to send me a whole

bunch of questions I'm gonna do another

video with specifics another hour and a

half and with these two videos plus a

shitload of experience because that's

what life is it doesn't matter how long

you read about learning to play piano

until you get on that piano and start to

play you don't know how to play piano

experience is extremely important with

these three hours of videos plus

experience you should have everything

you need to begin the long journey to

appears

PhD course part two

more knowledge for you [ __ ] I

don't have a whiteboard this time

well I do it's there but I'm not moving

it

so this is as I said the end the first

PhD if you have any questions you want

to ask me if there's any information you

feel like you need that I didn't portray

just drop me some emails I've had some

really interesting emails with some

interesting questions so I'm going to

answer them here

I'm going to keep all the names and

everything Anonymous so no one knows who

asked what and I'm going to obviously

this email's gonna go to everyone who

bought the course

uh the reason I'm not answering

specifically to each person who asked me

the question is because maybe some of

the points I'm going to mention these

questions are valid for people who

didn't particularly ask the question so

I think there's knowledge and hear from

everybody so let's get started

first things first first email I had hi

Andrew amazing course

of course of course anyway I've been

learning a lot from your content of

course the Lord's been questioned that

in mind so one aside from Instagram or

social media what your recommendation

recommended alternatives for getting

girls

social media can be distracting and I've

almost exposed our lifestyle

valid point

if you don't want to use social media

you have a few choices you have in

person which is obviously the old school

way

very doable but I'd say it's a harder

it's much harder for me to teach

difficult for me to teach a course only

a week ago I was in New York with myself

Christian McQueen and Goldman Unleashed

we were all together of its own with one

guy who's trying to learn from us and he

learned from all three of us at once

that lucky [ __ ] but going up the girls

approaching them really and I know

there's gonna sound cliche it's about

confidence it's about not being creepy

it's about a few basic tips and tricks

I'll give you some basic tips and tricks

but it's real it's hard for me to put it

into a course if you really want to know

how to approach girls on the street or

approach girls in a club and have the

best possible chance of them speaking to

you that's fine

email me separately we'll put together

some training look I'm a real person I'm

lost I'm doing the internet if you say

look Tate I really want to learn how to

do this I say okay look get a flight to

Paris or get a flight here get flight

whatever whatever let's meet up and

let's hit the club and I'll show you how

I do it

so tips and tricks for approaching girls

first things first is you have to get

their attention

now I've seen the biggest mistake I've

probably seen guys make is that they

don't get a girl's attention before they

try and talk to her they go up to her

and they say oh excuse me you're real

pretty excuse me my name's Kevin or

whatever

women are women are female females are

female meaning their mindsets females

they're distracted they're thinking

about [ __ ] [ __ ] and Gossip Girls

and Sex in the City and their brains are

a mess they're women or they're thinking

about me because I [ __ ] them two years

ago they can't get over it so you have

to get 100 of their attention you can't

go up to a girl in a bar while she's on

her phone or while she's talking to her

friend and say excuse me my name's Kevin

because you'll be like what

her saying what or I don't understand

you or I can't hear you is a bad first

response to your approach it's just a

negative start what what uh well it's

just a negative so you have to get their

attention and the way I do that is by

being supremely confident with the fact

I want to talk to them so I'll go up to

a girl I'll say excuse me I'll tap her

on the shoulder excuse me she'll stop

she'll look at me and I will literally

delay for a second or two I'll wait for

her to give me her full attention and

fully look at me before I say something

so this is the most important thing I've

seen two people [ __ ] that up you have to

get the girls attention this is in the

club it's one thing on the street or

somewhere else is even more important if

you go to a girl while she's walking oh

beautiful blue she said what the [ __ ]

what it's going to be an annoyance to

her if you say excuse me excuse me you

make her stop and say sorry I didn't

mean I didn't want to stop you but and

then you start to talk when she has when

you have 100 of her attention she's

devoting attention to you to compliment

you're going to give her because that's

what it effectively is has a lot more

weight and a lot more value as opposed

to just throwing it at her while she

walks down the street

first things first is get their

attention make them pay attention to you

personally I'd cut straight to the point

I say to her I say you're absolutely

beautiful I know usually and if you say

that there's very little bad or wrong

they can say I mean if they're a

complete [ __ ] or if they have a

boyfriend they might go okay thanks and

turn around

that's a fine interaction nothing bad's

happened you haven't been insulted you

haven't been shot down really so this

will give you the confidence to approach

any girl you want if you get her

attention tell her she's beautiful even

if she goes oh okay thanks and turns

around then you can just walk off what

bad's happened nothing but if she goes

oh thank you thank you and she continues

to look at you then you know she wants

you to keep talking to her so that's my

opener people have different openers

that's my personality I've seen a lot of

guys who go oh my name's Kevin or

whatever the reason I don't do that is

because I don't think she gives a [ __ ]

what her name is bro she doesn't even

know you

excuse me yeah my name's Andrew

so

who the [ __ ] are you like that that

internally that's what she's thinking

whereas if you see saying my name's

Andrew means all the it's all about me

the attention's on me here's who I am

she doesn't care who you are she doesn't

know me saying you are beautiful means

the attention's all about her and she's

more likely to respond positively to a

compliment which is all about her but an

introduction from some dude who she

doesn't [ __ ] know she doesn't care

about who you are

so I say you're absolutely beautiful to

say thanks to say uh social system I'll

say what's your name and she'll tell me

and now I'll start talking [ __ ] so what

do I say when I start talking [ __ ] I

don't know I'll talk absolute garbage it

depends where I am depends on the

situation but like I said in the first

statement the first uh lesson in the PHD

course we're always aiming for

progression so if if we're in

a bar I'll go up and say excuse me

you're absolutely beautiful I said oh

thanks and I said I've got good news

see I use little things like that I'll

say if I say if if I say I've got good

news blah blah blah blah blah she

doesn't respond as much I'll say I have

good news

is a good news what I'll start getting

her to respond and I'll do that with

little breaks so I have good news today

while I said me and you are drinking and

if she's with other girls they'll say

all of us we're all drinking we're all

drinking vodka and I'll just point down

with a vodka bar and I'll start ordering

[ __ ] with the poker shops well I don't

drink Focus that you do with me

start being assertive drinks tell her

she's beautiful who's this dude whoa

vodka's coming oh vodka okay cheers

everyone cheers bang and your friends

on the simple another little trick I'll

give if you've been talking to a girl

for three or four minutes

before you've introduced yourself

a good trick I'll get is if you ask her

her name and she says it's Katie

whatever

leave it a second and wait to see if she

asks you your name back so let's say

you've been talking to a girl you meet

her in a coffee shop you're talking [ __ ]

oh the line in this coffee Shop's always

so long yeah I know it's too long that a

if I owned a coffee shop I'd make sure

my staff had to run everywhere otherwise

they'd all get fired because I'm the

king well you should open a coffee shop

then I will are you gonna come in yeah

I'll always buy coffee from you typical

[ __ ] conversation I have of those

that I mean in coffee shops oh I don't

know talk to a few minutes I'll say so

what's your name Katie after she tells

me her name I'll pause for a second I

don't introduce myself I pause and I

wait to see if she asks me my name

this is a huge tale and I've heard this

somewhere else before and I can't

remember where but it's something I

observed and something I used before I

heard it somewhere else and it's true

you say what's your name Katie and then

you wait and she goes and you I'll say

oh my name's Andrew then she's

interested in you you say what's your

name she goes Katie

[ __ ] and she doesn't give a [ __ ] who you

are after talking to you for a few

minutes that it's probably not going to

go anywhere it doesn't mean you have to

abandon the whole procedure it just

means be aware that it's probably not

going to go anywhere so that's a few

tricks

tips

[ __ ] out no edits

tips and tricks for picking up girls in

person but a lot of that [ __ ] and that

Charisma and stuff that's just down to

practice

I think I talked about Luke the man in

the first video do I talk about Luke the

man in the first PhD video I can't

remember

I was talking about Luke the man again

so when my brother worked in a coffee

shop there was a a black guy from the

Ivory Coast of public called Luke

and he was broke he worked in the coffee

shop he was African black

ugly skinny no money

and he used to try on every girl who

came in that show if you blame the buy a

coffee he'd just give it a coffee say

hey baby you're so beautiful this is

before that hole this is about this is

interesting working right so Tristan was

about 18 about 10 11 years ago before

this me too it would be fired by now for

[ __ ] sexual misconduct problem

hey you're so beautiful you're so

beautiful you saved every single girl

and he always call them they say what's

your name and go look like James Bond

James James Bond Luke the man she used

to call himself

anyway so he's trying every single girl

and he was so ugly and had no money that

he used to get shot down 99 times out of

100 and my brother being young used to

say to him why do you do that they all

say no to me he goes yes but some say

yes

and one day uh Luke came in with

pictures about a Hungarian girl must

have been like some racist Hungarian

girl whose fathers are strict Christians

she hasn't fantasy about [ __ ] a black

dude or something I don't know but she

was a [ __ ] nine hot and Lucas is ugly

and as poor as you can get he's in a

worse position than any of you and he

[ __ ] this [ __ ] Hungarian supermodel

and he had pictures of her naked my

brother's like how the [ __ ] did you do

that without because I'm Luke the man

loot the man keeps trying

and this is an important lesson

you haven't really gonna have anything

if you're prepared to do the numbers if

you're really that militant about it and

you don't give a [ __ ] about getting shot

down then you're never gonna fail that's

the truth if you're that militant with

your numbers

but if you're like me I'm selective I'm

not one of them dudes who's like Day

game run around the mall all day going

up to every girl I see I'm not like that

that's not me I'm calm cool and

collected I'll approach a [ __ ] once a

week maybe and she's got me hot fine I

ain't going to know Basics sevens and

[ __ ] I have enough girls so if I go to a

girl it's like when I see a 10 then I'll

go approach a girl but in reality I

don't often do it but if I do do it

that's how it's done

another way you can do is Tinder

everyone uses Tinder Tinder is perfectly

doable you can meet good girls on Tinder

there's nothing wrong with Tinder so

tender short answer Tinder but

whether you're on Tinder or in person

progression so if I meet a girl in

person I still get the Instagram and I

get the Instagram within three to four

minutes I still do that or I still get

the WhatsApp exactly the same and if I'm

talking to him on Tinder you want to get

them off Tinder ASAP if I'm talking to a

girl in the club I'll talk to her after

we've had the shots so what's your

Instagram I bet you have loads of men

following you well not that many 25 000

dude

like a follower and stuff I get the

Instagram early on so I have a contact

details to hit her up later so I get

that [ __ ] early same with Tinder if

you're talking to her on Tinder then

she's talking to loads of dudes on

Tinder talk to her a little bit just

like a lesson's in the first page of

your course talk a little bit [ __ ] four

or five minutes bang try and get her

Instagram or Whatsapp get her off Tinder

gear into a pro a platform to reduce the

numbers you're always looking to reduce

the numbers you're talking to her in

real life

everyone can talk to her reduce it to

her Instagram twenty five thousand

reduce that to our WhatsApp couple

hundred produce that today and one guy

always believe to reduce the numbers so

whether it's Tinder or in person

progression you're not looking to just

talk [ __ ] get contact details and

progress

next

big daddy take

you mentioned that your girl cannot have

male friends and she'd be interested in

talking to you and you only

correct

how can this be achieved without

behaving like an insecure beta who is

mate guarding

attractive women often have multiple

guys texting her even when she's not

interested at all what actions would you

take

very good question

and also the person who said this is

perspicacious enough to know that you

don't want to look exactly like you said

an insecure beta mategory

so make guarding is when you're like oh

like just super protective pathetically

protective over your girl that's not on

Alpha quality so how do you approach

this out the stands well it depends if

it's a girl who you're just seeing and

dating

there's not much you can do about it

you don't have the authority yet

if it's a girl you've been with for a

while there's a lot you can do about it

so if I'm if I'm just dating a girl and

I know she's dating dudes or talking to

dudes whatever I do nothing

I don't give a [ __ ] I'll [ __ ] her I'll

progress towards banging her I'll let

her do what she's gonna do

I'll bang her and I'll and I'll do the

test we talked about in the first

episode

the cut attention test bang cut the

attention off

and then we'll see how she reacts from

there if I [ __ ] her and she chases me

badly then I'm gonna know the other dude

she's talking to Shane I interested

because she's chasing me for my

attention after having sex with you if I

have sex with her and I don't hear from

her and she's a bit annoyed about it by

it but she starts chasing her other

dudes and she ain't worth [ __ ] anyway

once again for that test I'm not saying

stop talking to the girl completely I'm

not saying that I'm saying reduce your

attention

reduce your attention it has to be it's

a fine line you have to reduce your

attention enough so that she can feel

something's changed but not too much so

she can call you out on it you've got to

be just at that line you can play

innocent but you can say oh you [ __ ]

you're not talking to me anymore you

don't want to be able to say that you're

going to reduce it enough so she doesn't

feel comfortable

I don't feel comfortable I don't feel

like he likes me that's how it's it's

that fine line I'm gonna say never talk

to her I'm saying reduce the attention

that's what I said

if it's the girl he's been with for a

while

you don't [ __ ] lay it down bro

and what the [ __ ] she doing if she if

you say to her we've been together a few

months now I don't like these dudes

texting you if you had no legs and was

fat and was in a wheelchair they

wouldn't text you they're not texting

you for your personality they're texting

you because you're attractive I don't

feel comfortable with that is she I'm

your man if you want to talk to a man

you can talk to me stop replying to

these guys and if you say that to her

she goes no I really like them they're

my friends if she's going to choose them

over you that she's going to cheat on

you in the end anyway

this is the harsh reality of the game if

you lay it down and say it's me or that

and she chooses that then what's the

possibility of her being loyal to you in

the long term

it's zero it may be a time frame but in

the end it's zero if her texting these

dudes who want to [ __ ] her is more

important than keeping you happy then

eventually she's going to cheat

so the question is this

what do you do well if she chooses them

it's better to end the relationship

there and walk off as a hero and to

upset her and Destroy her heart then to

let it slowly fade away while she slowly

falls in love with some new dude so you

end up catching her cheating on you with

some other guy and then when you're

upset she doesn't give a [ __ ] because

women are ruthless

so we make that clear to you one more

time

you lay it down and you say

I don't like to touch another man I'm

your man you don't talk to other men if

you talk to other men well I'm not going

to be able to take you seriously so this

is not going to be a relationship

she goes oh no well I I want to do that

so yeah all right cool all right I've

just told you I'm not comfortable with

it if you want to keep talking to them

then talk to them

that's all you do and then you reduce

your attention right now

you do sit completely now are you all

I'm assume tonight I'm busy reduce your

engine right now oh fine if you're gonna

be upset if I'm talking to guys fine

[ __ ] you then you never gonna control me

I like to have friends if that's the

kind of person she is she's going to

cheat on you eventually anyway so your

choices are you leave her and she's

upset or she cheats on you and you're

upset which one's better well I'll tell

you the one that's better is up saying

her not just because it avoids you

discomfort but also because if you upset

her you're gonna have an emotional

hangover that allows you to get her back

later I've had this exact scenario girls

exact scenario

I said wife up in this guy odd numbers

in school so I don't care how much you

belong you've done and he still wants to

[ __ ] you so stop talking to it but I've

known him forever we've only been

together a few months tell him you have

a boyfriend and that you know you're

still friends you don't you can't really

meet up with him you've got a boyfriend

and stop [ __ ] texting me simple oh

but you know I just think you're trying

to control me I said all right [ __ ]

forget it do you want well I'm not

taking you seriously you're talking to a

bunch of guys I'm not taking that kind

of girl serious oh yeah well whatever

they're gonna cut my attention right

down she got fresh I dumped her now I'm

telling you something that girl this was

a long time ago that girl once every

four to five months to this day likes a

picture on my Instagram or [ __ ] drops

me some [ __ ] meme in my Facebook

inbox still trying to this days was

years ago but

but a guy who dumped her my attention is

the most valuable remember the lessons

from the first one my attention is the

most valuable because my attention is

hard to get she didn't do what I wanted

she didn't conform to be the way I want

her to be so where's my piece of paper

FDB [ __ ] you bye I found another girl

you're not in the business of turning a

hoe into a housewife if someone's meant

to have a girl's mentality is I need to

talk to lots of men all the time it's

not your job to fix her bro that's not

your job lay it down make it clear and

make her make a choice it's really as

simple as that but you have to be

prepared to walk away if you don't get

what you want like Trump said the art of

the deal and it may be it may upset you

you may be annoyed you may lose a girl

you don't you like you don't really want

it but this is the truth you're looking

for a wife or you're looking for a girl

you can be with forever shave that girl

so

cutting your attention right down and

find something else if she won't comply

that's that's how you handle that

situation

three you've talked about dropping

attention after having sex with a woman

will this increase the girls the risk of

a false rate accusation EG the girl

feeling used or manipulated very valid

question and this is why I said drop the

attention to a very important fine line

level where she can feel that the

attention's dropped but she cannot call

you out on it it's that perfect level of

I don't want to say anything I can't say

he is texting me back

but it's not doesn't feel the same it's

just that perfect level

so that's something you have to do with

experience you have to cut the attention

down but she can't be able to call you

out on this and that handles that that's

a very good question

expanding on the approaching stage this

guy's sorry next question will you be

expanding on the approaching stage

approaching girls I'll give you some

tips in the first question but

it's really something you have to see if

I had to break that down to three things

it would be get their attention first

it's absolutely not gonna be a numbers

game especially when you're approaching

girls you're going up to girls in the

club they might have done drugs they

don't want to pay attention they might

be too drunk they might have their

boyfriend in the club or an ex-boyfriend

the club or it might be a bunch of

people in the club they know and they

don't want to be seen talking to guys

there's so many outside influences when

you're approaching girls that you really

have to be prepared to do a complete

numbers game you have to be prepared to

approach approach approach approach if

you want to pull same night especially

in the modern world so it's a numbers

game absolutely get their attention

first and whatever you say the first

thing you say after you get their

attention should be a compliment that's

advice

right

next question this is a very very long

question

but it's about a guy who does his

approaches

um

at colleges during the week and aims to

take the girls he meets during the week

to bars at the weekend

and close the deal so it's a very

efficient system I agree with that but

his question is very basically is I

can't seem to figure out the cold

approaching during the day because I

feel it's totally different vibe versus

approaching in a club or a bar I get a

few leads during the day but sometimes

there's something I'm missing in my day

game I can't seem to figure out I'm not

hitting the level of leads I should be

getting during the day versus the leads

I get at night

and obviously I don't know the exact

scenario but I'll tell you what those

things are I probably answered a lot of

this question in the previous question

but

the reason it's easier at night is

because one is a more relaxed Vibe two

girls are drinking and they're more

sociable that's the reason it's easier

the music on they're happy they no one

goes out no one really goes out when

they're depressed or busy or stressed

they go out to be happy they're happy

they're drinking they're with their

[ __ ] friends talk about more on [ __ ]

they're receptive so they're more

receptive at night

so why are you doing better at night

than during the day well I do think it's

easier at night you're probably always

going to do a little bit better at night

than you are during the day today

however

you're saying if your day game's

seriously lacking the first thing is

like I said are you getting her

attention before you talk to her

are you doing that properly

second thing are you complimenting her

and third thing is how are you getting

her contact details

I find

this is why I use Instagram so much

Instagram is so useful because even I

find that a girl who doesn't really want

to give you her phone number

will happily give you her Instagram

so because Instagram is public

Instagram's for everyone so if you want

leads during the day instead of trying

to get the phone number which can be a

little bit awkward and especially in the

world we live in now the metoo era all

these girls are sketchy as [ __ ] they're

all living on edge you're all nervous

you talk to a girl for five minutes say

oh what's your phone number it could be

a bit like they don't want to give it

out if we say I'll tell you what it was

really nice talking to you you're

beautiful I want to follow you on

Instagram not give me your Instagram I

want to follow you on Instagram a girl

doesn't say no to that because they let

anyone follow them on Instagram anyone

can follow on Instagram

so I'll do is I'll say always really

nice talking to you yeah you're really

beautiful I'll tell you what I want to

see your face again I'm going to follow

you on Instagram what's your Instagram

and I'll get I'll give them my phone

in fact I try to avoid doing that

because a couple times I've given to my

phone and like a whatsapp's come up love

you baby so

um but I'll say I'll watch your

Instagram then I'll type your Instagram

in but before you walk off they'll just

go okay bye follow them click message

and then what I'll do is in fact let me

see if I caught a [ __ ] right here so

I know you guys know I know live let me

see if I can find one right an example

of what I do

if I did this like two days ago I've got

so many messages in my inbox

I'm not able to find it that was New

York it was after I left from New York

no edits you guys are going to sit there

and wait

[ __ ] those

all right so anyway I got her Instagram

and then I while she was watching me

while she was paying attention I sent

her a message of cherries cherries in my

head choose your own fruit

so I get her Instagram and I clicked

message and I send her something or you

can send her a selfie is another good

idea ask for her Instagram she'll give

it to you click follow and go oh you

probably have loads of guys messaging

you oh no I don't you must do but you've

had loads of guys I don't want you to

forget about me here wait wait go camera

and like get into a selfie a stupid

picture and send it to her message and

she'll laugh up and say now you know who

I am I'm gonna message you later I'll

also say I'm going to message you later

to get some kind of verbal agreement oh

okay and what they'll reply is

instinctively oh okay and then when you

message them they feel more compelled

than to reply well I agreed to message

it

now if she messages you a little bit it

doesn't go anywhere whatever but I'm

just talking about to make it easier to

get the leads so don't ask for numbers

ask for Instagrams message them while

they or do a selfie or send some fruit

or some [ __ ] and say something like

I'm going to message you later I want to

talk to you

I'm super forward with what I do would

say but I'm not over the I'm not creepy

with it I'm just very clear about my

objectives

watch your Instagram you're beautiful

I'm gonna follow you okay I'm gonna

message you later I want to talk to you

I'm going to talk to you later okay okay

I'm very clear about what I want to

happen so that's probably the advice I

give you I'd have to see your approach

to see if there's anything else missing

but trying to ask a phone number after

Instagrams get their attention first and

the first thing you say needs to be a

compliment if you do those three things

you can't really go too wrong especially

if you're confident with what you're

saying and etc etc if you can't really

go too long from there so that's why I

recommend

right last question for today gentlemen

I bet you didn't expect this free PhD

video in your inbox did you

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I'm too damn nice too nice

a good video about how nice I am

right I have a question I thought this

chick on Lock and she's loyal to me

congratulations

what do I say to her if I bang another

chick and the main one finds out how can

I get away with having multiple girls

right sit down with your girl and saying

I want to [ __ ] other girls

ain't really a conversation that's going

to go well it's just an awful

conversation

truth of it is you have to be militant

and I'm smiling because I'm laughing at

how I do it so I've got my chick who's

loyal to me and she loves me

so what do I do I [ __ ] other girls

sooner or later she's going to catch me

and this is your chance so you don't

have the conversation with her women are

not logical enough you can't approach a

woman and say this is what's going to

happen let's do a deal and be logical

and make a deal they don't work that way

you go ahead and was shock and awe of

emotion so you're going to cheat as

normal you'll do your thing you're going

to [ __ ] your hoes and maybe she won't

find out for a year maybe she won't find

out for two years maybe she'll find out

after a week but when she finds out

that's when the Pimpin starts so while I

get caught cheating I don't worry about

it I'm like okay now we get to hammer it

out

so the key things are this I have the

girls loyal to me and I [ __ ] want to

walk

and I do that by I did it as follows I

was with her for about a year and two or

three months before I got called cheat

in fact

[ __ ] I've got some screenshots I need to

find on Facebook from my old phone I got

an old phone working and I had

screenshots of that conversation when

she first caught me cheating I put them

on Facebook because it was so funny I'm

gonna find him and trying to serve them

in this video if they're in this video

in the following seconds I did a good

job and I found it for you

for you so anyway the keys are this you

just caught your team bang rule one is

you never

ever apologize you are not sorry they

take that weakness and they [ __ ]

twist it and they use it against you and

this is not just for cheating this is

relationships in general you are never

sorry because once you admit fault a

woman doesn't sit and go okay he admits

he's wrong or he admits that this is not

the best situation he admits that I'll

be nice to him they think oh he knows

he's wrong let me just [ __ ] as let me

squeeze as much uncomfortable

inconvenience out of this as possible

so don't do that [ __ ] you're not sorry

and another thing you don't do is you

don't lie because lying is cowardice

so when I get caught cheating sit up

when I get caught cheating she'll be

like who the [ __ ] is this that was a

girl I [ __ ]

yeah as a girl I slept with but

obviously you're my girlfriend I love

you I don't care about her

but why I'm a full-grown man it's one of

those things that happens but I don't

care about her so it doesn't matter

I've apologized and I haven't lied now

if she really loves you and she's really

loyal to you she ain't going nowhere

now she's going to leave you for that

for that small thing [ __ ] someone

else then she's not unlocked so you're

telling me your girl's on law if your

girl's on law like my girl is unlocked

and all my girls are on lock then what

I'm saying to you is going to work and

that is yeah I [ __ ] her listen I'm a

full grown man sometimes I see sometimes

I you know I do what I do but I only

love you and one other thing I say is I

say this is Testament to how much I love

you most dudes are out there [ __ ]

other girls falling in love with other

girls I [ __ ] other girls I don't even

care about them only girl I care about

is you I see good girl and I didn't even

cross my mind anymore

so this shows I love you more than

[ __ ] anything most these guys are out

here and if they [ __ ] someone else they

fall in love with someone else you know

me I [ __ ] I [ __ ] 100 girls and I'm still

here with you you're the only girl I

care about

so what are you worried about what's the

problem

and then eventually after this long

conversation because she's gonna cry

she's gonna complain and all this [ __ ]

all you do is not back down

she's going to come at you with things

like oh is it going to happen again so I

don't know probably not I don't maybe

not it really upsets you we can talk

about it but I don't like you trying to

control me it's not what to do like I do

I'm gonna do what I feel like doing I'm

telling you that I'm loyal to you

because I only love you so I'm loyal to

you just the same what you have to do is

you have to shift their perception of

loyalty a female's perception of loyalty

is is he only has sex with me you have

to change that and he only has sex with

me till he only loves me if they

understand that I'm the only one he

loves but he has sex with lots of people

then you can do it so that's the real

aim of the game and you cannot do that

from a position of weakness or apology

that's done from a position of strength

and never backing down

so

the individual conversation you're going

to have is going to be different than

individual conversations I've had but if

you're not apologetic for cheating you

don't lie you should explain look it

just says you have a dildo you have a

vibrator I'm not jealous I don't care do

you love your vibrator no you [ __ ] it

or you use it and then you don't care

anymore that's what I did so that's the

problem well but how do I know you don't

love her and that's what's going to come

in that's what's going to eventually

that's what the conversation is going to

eventually lead

who I know I'm special

It's the final hurdle when you start

hearing things like that you've won

because all you have to do is convince

her she's so special and you do anything

so once you start saying things like how

do I know especially like look I only

love you you know I only love you or I

only live with you or you're the only

girl I've taken on holiday or you're the

only girl who whatever whatever you come

up with you're the only girl I do these

things with yeah I [ __ ] some girl I

was out I [ __ ] some weird hours a lot

of guys I [ __ ] some girl she's tried to

see me since and I didn't want to see

her because I don't care about her or

she tried to see me since I saw her a

few times but she's boring I don't like

any girl but you these girls are boring

all you have to do is convince her she's

still special and that you're still

loyal to her because you love her and

you do what you want

my bro's not allowed to say I cheat she

used to say oh but you're always

cheating oh you're going out and she's

making a joke with it oh you're going

out and I put clothes on she's like oh

you're dressed up you're going cheating

tonight I said don't tell me I cheat I

don't like that line she goes why I said

because I don't cheat because I love you

and I only love you oh [ __ ] something

man it's not cheating because I'm loyal

to you I got to the point now she

doesn't even think I cheat I'm [ __ ]

girl she'll even call it cheating okay

she doesn't call it g because

the camera got me shaking his head

because he knows it's true but

because my loyalty is not defined by who

I have sex with my loyalty is defined by

who I love so by convincing her she's

special and she's the only one I love

that I'm allowed to do I want now if

you're going to try and have multiple

girlfriends then that's gonna be harder

because she's gonna think oh you care

about them and you care about me if

you're going to try and have different

girls with me in the same house in the

same bed like I've done that's going to

be harder that's a new level but the

basic level the base level is you've got

a girl you care about when you [ __ ] who

you want and as long as she's getting

attention she feels like she's special

and she understands that she's she's the

only one you love and that's where

loyalty is loyalty is love is not

through sex

then you're gonna be able to do it again

so that's the main aim of the game I

hope I've answered that question there's

no very specific formula but that's the

basis of it have your girl unlocked do

your thing wait for her to catch you do

not apologize do not back down change

her perception shift her thinking to

understand that love is about loyalty

loyal loyalty is about love loyalty is

not about who you have sex with for the

same reason she'll [ __ ] a toy or

whatever little [ __ ] girl you don't

care about and there's nothing more

natural to get over it uh and and

usually you're gonna have questions like

well people girls are going to laugh at

me say these girls without laughing

these girls are jealous of you this is

the number one question I skate well

girl's gonna laugh

it's another not

a single girl I [ __ ] is desperate to be

in your position every girl I [ __ ] is

desperate to be my girlfriend they're

all super jealous of them they all want

to be you you're the only one I'm going

on holiday with you're the only one I'm

in love with you're the only one I

bought my Instagram page they're all

completely jealous of you and girls like

me girls like girls beat Jessica so they

don't show at the time they think about

it maybe the girls are jealous if you

start shifting it like oh These Girls

Aren't hating on you these girls are

super jealous you're the best you get to

be the [ __ ] Queen why treat nicely I

treat the other girls like hoes and

they're jealous of you you're the only

one I love because I'm loyal to you

they're just stupid you're not stupid

they're stupid shift the thinking and

then you'll get away with it

that's enough for this course I've got

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right PhD course gentlemen

have some questions here

let me go through them

question one

Tate how do you handle how do you how do

you

no edits leave it how do you handle

multiple girlfriends

do you explicitly tell them about others

what's the process them invite

themselves right you can't get a girl

make her love you and then go out for

dinner and sit her there and go by the

way I got loads of girls because it just

makes you look like a dick

so what you do is you do you hide it the

best you can basically you hide it

until she finds out

and then when she finds out you just

super downplay it so actually last night

last night one of my girls Arena found

out found she was dark-haired she found

a blonde hair on my bed she goes who's

been staying in this bed

I said well me she said whose hair is

this I said I don't know I'm always in

the house people sit on beds maybe they

didn't sleep in the bed I don't know I'm

not gonna it's one o'clock in the

morning I'm not sitting here and talking

about hair in a bed well I don't know

you don't have other girls say Don't

just shut up you're being juvenile we're

going to sleep and we went to sleep so

basically the exchange was she knows I

[ __ ] a girl I said it doesn't matter

everything's fine we're going to bed

it's very it's about playing off as

nothing so when she catches you who's

this other girl oh some girl I talked to

well she says you're her boyfriend oh

yeah I [ __ ] her a few times but it's

not a big deal you know I'm with you

well you're cheating on me I'm not

cheating on you because I love you it's

not cheating if I only love you it's

totally cheating if it's emotional it's

not emotional to us just [ __ ] calm

down

if she says she wants to leave and she

tries to leave you FTB because what

happens is when drama kicks off girls

want attention the girls just found out

you're cheating she wants a big episode

she wants you to apologize she wants

sorry she wants all this [ __ ] going on

if you don't give a [ __ ] then she's

gonna be like well you don't even seem

to care it's like well I don't care

because I don't feel bad because it

wasn't a big deal I don't and she'll be

like well why don't you feel bad because

I didn't have any emotion I don't feel

bad because I don't feel like I did

anything wrong because to me it was

nothing it's like you're using a dildo

gives a [ __ ]

just completely trivialize their

emotionality until under juvenile to

give a [ __ ] and eventually

you'll get away with having two now they

might not be happy about it they might

cry about it they might moan about it

they might be like oh you're always with

that [ __ ] but they ain't gonna leave

and that's how you have two girlfriends

that's how you start with it a lot of

it's experience it depends on the actual

girl who you're talking about who the

first girl is or the second girl is like

everything is experiences let me tell

you how to punch someone in the face

it's experience to prevents who they are

how big they are if they move whatever

but that's the basis of it you don't sit

down and just try and explain it with

women

you never just try and do I say a

business deal a business deal you don't

sit down and appeal to their logic if

you appeal to their logic you'll fail if

you sit down and go hi I'm gonna have

other girls here's why here's why it

doesn't bother you it's okay it ain't

gonna work ain't gonna work you cannot

appeal to their common sense you just

have to wait for them to find out and

handle the emotionality correctly limit

your attention in the correct way so

that she understands that if she leaves

you just go back to [ __ ] the other

girl

that's it you just say look I really

like you I wants to be together if you

leave then I'm just gonna you know I'll

be single won't I but it's not a big

deal don't worry about it just don't

piss me off

and just be super just completely

trivialized

her feelings that's what you have to do

that's how you play it like I did last

night oh you found some hair in the bed

it's two o'clock in the [ __ ] morning

we're going to sleep or what oh but you

cheat it's two o'clock I'm going to

sleep it's hair it gives a [ __ ] you have

hair eye of Paris hair

that's in it's not even a thing

today she hasn't even mentioned it

because she knows she [ __ ] she ain't

[ __ ] dumb she seen me with blonde

girls like my Instagram she knows I'm

[ __ ] one of them she ain't that

stupid she just doesn't want to know so

now she's willfully ignorant

is fine by me

how to play it properly when a girl you

like is a virgin well lucky gentlemen

you have to play a lot slower same basic

principles attention blah blah blah blah

play it slower let her get away with

more take your time you can't be

expecting to bang a version on her

second date that's crazy next

can you elaborate more on compliance

after she passed the test

well she passes the test

then you're starting a relationship in a

position of power aren't you you're now

in a position of power you [ __ ] her

she's chased you

which is good she wants your attention

she's actively shown that you're now

starting to give her a little bit of

attention but she [ __ ] up you cut the

attention quick

and she should Cave quickly because she

knows this is not a guy who I can [ __ ]

with because he'll take all his

attention away

so after that it's just a matter of

managing the relationship I mean if

she's completely honest and open I've

had girls after they pass the test

say to me I really love you I'm

completely I know I shouldn't say this

I'm completely in love with you

someone's gonna be that honest and open

you know you don't have to be a [ __ ]

to them you'll be like okay good I love

you you love me everything's fine

obviously you don't take [ __ ] you

haven't got to be a [ __ ] anyway then

you get the girls who still want to play

the games if they still want to play the

games even after they paid the test then

okay cool fdbm it's just a repeating

cycle

it the the PHD system and relationships

it never ends you never get to a point

where it's like okay she's now

programmed as a robot slave I'm done

I've been with my girl six years and

still to this day I use game otherwise

guitar control if I'm too nice to my

girl now after six years she still gets

out of control

so it's a never-ending philosophy

sometimes hoes need to be ignored

no matter how long you've been with them

sometimes you have to FDB them sometimes

you have to show them you don't take

[ __ ] no matter how long you be with them

that is a universal truth

so you start a relationship in a

dominant position

which of course is important

from the position of dominance you

maintain it

very much like a poker game or a chess

game you had the advantage you just play

your advantage it's as simple as that

next question

how do you manage hierarchies let's say

with two girls does the first girl have

seniority over the second girl no

girls won't take that if you have one

girl who's clearly better than the other

one you're gonna struggle massively the

second girl is just not going to stick

around for very long I've had it where

I've had girls who say oh I know you're

with Vivian I know you've been with her

a long time I don't mind I'll stay out

tonight you too stay alone all that [ __ ]

but it never lasts long because the ones

who are really in love with you won't do

that so the only girls who do that

aren't really in love with you you have

to be such an imposing dominating force

that there's no room for hierarchy

underneath you

you have to be like

you want to say imposing the dominating

I'm not talking about being a psycho I

assuming your personality has to be so

large that you're in charge of

everything there is no hierarchy how can

it be a hierarchy

you just have to be like okay I need a

coffee you make me a coffee and you cook

me something if you send one to make the

coffee then there's a hierarchy either

way if you send one to make the coffee

it can either be it can either be seen

as you trust her more and want her more

or she's lower than the other one she's

a slave women will always just make up a

reason so it doesn't matter which one

you choose they'll decide it's negative

so you have to send them both go make me

a coffee who both of you go

you have to be like that you have to be

dominant to a point where there's no

room for hierarchy it's just you and

everyone else

now that's easy for my personality for

other people can be slightly harder but

there's a whole bunch of stupid fiddly

[ __ ] you need to learn to do if you want

to truly have two girls in the long term

you gotta learn to sleep on your back

you can't sleep on your side

if you sleep on your right side

I'm telling you now whichever girl

you're looking at when you're sleeping

the other one's gonna be pissed maybe

not the first night but by Night 10 she

will and you're always facing her and

you're hugging her

this is a little dumb [ __ ] you have to

deal with but basically you have to be

big large enough personality that you

handle it there is no hierarchy you

can't clearly have women below women

they don't like that [ __ ]

what you do when you're in my situation

where you have a girlfriend of six years

and you try and bring a new girl in you

actually have to downplay your

relationship with the girl of six years

which is difficult and not only get away

with that because the girl of six years

plays along so Vivian's gonna be six

years she's completely head over heels

and loving me she wants kids with me

everything everything and we met and we

thought whatever we're in love but when

a new girl comes she'll go oh yeah I

started off working for him and you know

it's just how it worked out she'll super

downplay us so that the new girl feels

like ah well they're just kind of

working sex and now I'm here and he

likes me and and she can believe in her

mind

that she can be equal

if you were on if Vivian was completely

honest well he's been with me six years

and we're gonna be together forever so

you're just a side [ __ ] then it's not

gonna ever work

so it also depends how much control you

have over your bottom [ __ ] because you

have to be able to have her on side

playing the game

that's super important so the key is

it's you and everyone else there is no

hierarchy below you

can you break down your own situation so

I got

two main [ __ ] I'm gonna deal with my

fire gentlemen

I got two main girls

I've got Melissa

and Vivian

now Melissa

and Vivian started off together

after two years of slamming them every

day together tensions were getting a bit

crazy I mean I could have held it

together forever but it was just to a

point where it's just like oh shut up so

everyone made a happy agreement that

they'd be separate I'd still be with

both of them but they don't want to live

together anymore that's fine

when I bring on new girls I usually pair

them with Vivian because Vivian's

younger Melissa's like 28 Vivian's like

21. Vivian's younger she's more fun more

outgoing Melissa's really quite not in a

bad way she's more homey boring sits at

home

so it's if you're gonna pair a girl with

a girl it's much easier if the girl is

fun let's all go to the club let's all

drinks champagne let's all do this let's

go here let's go here that's what it

does so since I've had Vivian I've had

five other girlfriends who I've shared

with Vivian some last a couple weeks

some last a couple months one lasted a

year

so I've had Jenny the dark-haired one

I've had andrada the other one up these

are all on my Instagrams or my Twitter

you would have seen them at some point

I've had loads of hot girls who come in

Vivian's already there they join like I

said Vivian downplays it blah blah blah

blah and first and for different reasons

it breaks up like you've seen some of my

threads about the dark hair girl tried

to give me an ultimate him or Jenny who

went to the festival against the rules

sometimes they rebel I have to FDB him

but that's basically how it works I've

got my main [ __ ] my bottom [ __ ] Vivian

I could do a Melissa too but she's you

know I just do with Vivian for some

reason is how it's worked out my main

[ __ ] Vivian and I bring in new

girlfriends and they're temporary I get

one that sticks forever whatever good I

had one recently that stayed for a very

long time

but um if they leave they leave because

you should find a new one that's my

basic situation I got a girl calling me

right now I'm gonna hang up on her

because I'm filming

right

so a description of your relationship

process with Vivian so yeah that's how

it started I met Vivian

in in Slovakia we had a long-term

relationship thing I was living in

England

it's a really long story I don't want to

tell you the whole story I moved her to

England to be with me to start doing my

webcam company which I started if you

don't have a webcam company you need to

look into it because as soon as you have

a couple girls in love with you it's the

[ __ ] easiest money in the world no I

take that back it's not easy money you

gotta build up but once you get girls

built up then it's free money like every

other business you're gonna build up by

the start I decided I want to start

webcam business Vivian's beautiful I

said look you're stopping a waitress

come here live with me she came

everything was fine for a couple weeks

Melissa obviously lived in England they

didn't know about each other they found

out they tried to have a big argument

with me I did exactly as I said

downplayed it didn't give a [ __ ]

everyone moved in together everyone

started doing webcam I was making loads

of money then we agreed to the split

like we said and that's basically been

it since then new girls have come along

Vivian understands that I'm [ __ ]

These Hoes but I don't care about these

hoes I've seen I've done it

when I do it I prove it to her this is

another important thing guys if you're

gonna say to one girl if you're the only

one I care about and she's going to see

you [ __ ] these other girls when those

other girls eventually leave or you FDB

them you gotta use that

to your advantage

so I'll come home sometimes to Vivian

and say Jenny's gone she'll go what what

do you mean Jenny's gone oh she annoyed

me so I'll get rid of her what do you

mean she annoyed you oh she's just

something small but she annoyed me so

bye and they like that she's like well

you got rid of her over nothing I was oh

yeah she annoyed me FDB

and that makes her feel secure that

these other girls he really doesn't give

a [ __ ] like he'll just get rid of him

for no reason so use that to your

advantage as well and that's the basic

Dynamic of my relationship with Vivian

she now knows what I do last night I

just put in the War Room telegram if

you're not in the war room as well

[ __ ] you've got to get in on

there there's too much [ __ ] happening

you're missing out on I was put in the

War Room telegram my text conversation

with her last night she goes you come at

home I said no she goes what girl are

you staying with Vivian now is just nosy

she isn't jealous she's just nosy she's

curious so I'm staying with Ellen Elena

or Elena or whoever okay all right see

you tomorrow

so it's there's no secrets no hiding she

knows I'm [ __ ] all these girls she

doesn't care

so and if I want to [ __ ] her with a girl

I'll say look we're going out I'll just

introduce booze

so like the first time I threw some a

lot of girls I'll say oh yeah we're

going out some other girls are coming

what girls girls I know

and Viv will turn off and it'll just be

there I'm gonna be drinking I'll just

say I'll just say I have to throw him

and [ __ ] you both no you're not it's not

gonna [ __ ] you both and Vivian will just

like laugh just play off hahaha very

funny all getting the taxi at the end

we're going my house

just [ __ ] just own it oh I don't want

to see both okay bye

see y'all I'll [ __ ] Vivian then what the

who says I thought she just worked for

you who's this girl you're supposed to

be my boyfriend look stop being [ __ ]

boring we're going to my house shut up

let's see you just got your [ __ ] own

it say Come suck dick

all right

I'm not saying to be a rapist I feel

like I always have to [ __ ] clarify

myself because to me it's super obvious

but there's some weirdos out there that

don't [ __ ] thing you cannot force a

girl to do anything you just have to

make it clear of your objective you're a

train a train stays on the track I'm a

train on this track you either get on

the train and go to the destination or

you get off the train and you don't

trains don't go off tracks

it's that simple I'm [ __ ] Vivian

tonight

you're coming with me and you're helping

me [ __ ] Vivian or you're not but this is

where the Train's headed

that's how you have to be don't be a

creepy weirdo please

right one more question I'm gonna do for

this video

I have a lot of questions I need to

handle but

I'm gonna do one more for this

do I believe in negging girls

nagging girls is calling them names or

saying something negative to them that's

some pickup artist [ __ ] that the red

pill guys do no I don't believe in that

I believe you need to tease them have a

joke with them like you know everyone

knows how to tease a girl like she's a

kid sister have a joke but don't be

negative don't be aggressive I've seen

loads of dudes on dates just talking to

a girl like [ __ ] like it's super like

they're the man and it's not cool you

don't look cool you look like a [ __ ] if

you're deaf if you're genuinely an alpha

you don't need to impose your

superiority by insulting her so what

you're trying to do by insulting her is

bring her down a peg well if you're

already above her you don't need to

bring her down

so I don't think it's Alpha to be out

there assaulting girls but obviously you

can tease or make fun of her a little

bit of course

but once again this comes to experience

this is down to experience depends on

the girl you're talking to you have to

gauge the conversation gauge who she is

and play accordingly

so that's it for this episode another

video coming soon

right questions I can't build uh High

Senior PhD course blow you the man blah

blah blah I can't build a very

interesting Instagram

what should I do well you need to build

an interesting one but you don't need to

have that many pictures if you were to

take one day out of your life and get a

good camera and put on some good clothes

and take four or five good pictures

that's enough put them at the top and

even if a girl ever says to you oh you

don't have much on Instagram just say

yeah I don't use social media very much

it's not really my thing

and if she tries to [ __ ] test you she'll

say Well why'd you message me then so I

thought you were beautiful so I thought

I'd message you but it doesn't mean I

have to post on Instagram all the time

just play it off like I'm a cool cat I'm

on Instagram dude you know I'm just Mr

normal dude I'm not a [ __ ] Mr show

off so you haven't gotta do you haven't

gotta have like me pages and pages of

supercars you see that four or five good

pictures if you can't find four or five

good pictures well something wrong with

you ain't that hard I'm sure you've been

on holiday once in your life take some

good pictures on the beach dog

get a picture of you in the gym

get it from far away so you look muscly

or some [ __ ] it ain't that difficult

make it happen I shouldn't have

explained this to you like this is a

common sense stuff don't be stupid five

or six good pictures you can make it

happen

next do you answer texts whenever you

want or do you have rules for when you

respond I answer texts in real time I

don't believe in making girls wait

message me I message back if they start

making you wait well then it's different

then you're gonna have to you know

return the favor or FD beat them or

whatever but if a girl is messaging me

yeah message him the [ __ ] is normal

a lot of these little dominance tricks

that people are taught make or wait and

all this [ __ ] or just trying to

feign dominance if you have genuine

dominance you don't need to do that you

message me I message you everything's

fine yeah let's go for coffee okay yeah

I'll message you later everything's

normal there's no need for any of those

things if I have a girl who ignores me

every time I message her and that

eventually decides to message me well

then yeah I'm going to take my time on

it

if she does message me first I will

reply but I'll probably wait the second

amount of time she made me wait but in

general no

do you have a call to set up dates this

is actually interesting

what I do when I'm texting girls on

WhatsApp is you okay Tower of Power

you're progressing so you met her on the

street or Tinder or Instagram wherever

you got their WhatsApp now you're

whatsapping them after a day or after a

day or even an hour depending how long

you've spoken of what's happening to

them I go on to voice notes

because voice notes are that little bit

more personal because they get to hear

your voice

so I'll move from texting into voice

notes it's that tiny bit upgrade of

personality I don't do phone calls if

you've seen my tape speech videos I

don't like phone calls but I'll move

into voice notes the good thing about

voice notes is well they're not the

answer if you call her she might ignore

the call

I'm busy or whatever I'm driving I

should ignore you if you give her a

voice note she'll listen to it so I

actually do recommend after a little bit

of texting to upgrade to voice notes

there's nothing wrong with at all

smoke a cigar drink a little bit of

whiskey get your voice deep sound like a

g and send her some voice notes because

once again it's a tiny bit more personal

and she might start sending them back to

you she starts sending you voice notes

back 100 she wants to bang hundred

percent

so do I call this updates no I use voice

notes or I don't know I sometimes I

organize a date by text it doesn't

really matter but in general I use voice

notes that's just something that came to

my mind that I haven't mentioned before

you can use voice notes it's really good

um or send pictures

what you do and should be like oh hey

how are you so I'm just saying I'm fine

you I'll take a picture of my coffee

picture dang yeah I'm good thanks how

are you just more here's where I am

here's who I am just to break the ice

that a little bit more to try and get

her to agree to me all about the Tower

of Power remember progression at all

times

don't do it as soon as you get your

number don't get your number be like hey

hey hi how are you to talk to her a

little bit first I'll be a weirdo after

you spoke to her a little bit then you

can hit her with it

next question

tips for trying to close the deal once

you got the girl alone at your place now

this is actually a really interesting

question because if the girls come to

your place alone

he knows what's going down

like

she's not stupid unless she's really

stupid she knows what's going down so

the only reason it's not gonna happen is

if she changes her mind which might

happen she might change her mind she'll

be prepared for that

but if a girl comes to my house

yeah

hello this is why I don't do phone calls

I [ __ ] hate phone calls hello

[ __ ]

I don't do phone calls

anyway

um

if a girl comes to your house she wants

to bang so she might change her mind

so the girl comes to my house my routine

is very simple what I do is I go up to

my cinema you may have a cinema maybe TV

I put on a movie I always put on a

horror movie

don't put on music I've seen a lot of

people go let's put on music if you put

on music and the girl's drinking and

drunk she wants to party she wants to

have fun yay she wants to stay up you

don't want her to stay up you want her

in bed

so after the club if we come home we've

got girls and they come in they go let's

put music on I say no no no no music to

put on a movie because I've noticed

before you start putting music on you

get a bowl of all cow it's another three

hours of partying it's just like please

boring so no music you can't go to

action movies it's the wrong Vibe you

can't put on a rom-com you're not gay so

it's got to be a horror movie horror

movies you're quiet during you sit

you're quiet horrible

so we come in upon a horror movie offer

a drink get some wine whatever whatever

pour a couple glasses of wine usually I

come downstairs to pour it I usually

pour her wine I pour myself water

because I don't like being I don't like

having sex when I'm super drunk if I've

been drinking all night in the club and

then we go back

I don't want to be like getting really

hammered and be sloppy so by that I know

what's going to happen I just start

drinking water give them wine whatever

whatever

sit upstairs I'll watch the movie for

five to six minutes

before I start to kiss her on the couch

that's it because she doesn't give a

[ __ ] she didn't come to my house to

watch no movie

she ain't stupid

five to six minutes we'll start kissing

for a minute or so I'll Stand Up get her

hand and walk towards the bedroom and

she either follows me or she doesn't she

comes with me she wants to bang she goes

oh no I can't I can't I say oh you want

to watch the horror movie oh yeah so

you're not gonna be scared I'll make a

joke out of it I'll play it down we'll

know if you're here I said all right

well

I watch it for a little bit sit down

more wine kiss her again then say look

I'm going to bed you want to go home do

you want to come to bed oh I'm going to

leave okay no problem get taxi bye I'm

playing games the whole the whole

thing's about 20 minutes 30 minutes I'm

very clear with my intention she ain't

stupid she's an adult she came to my

house at four in the morning the [ __ ] we

there to do

play chess even though I'd enjoy that

none of these [ __ ] are good enough so

no

we're not there to play each I swear to

[ __ ]

so that's basically it I mean I don't

think it's difficult to close a deal if

they come to your house saying you

should know what's going down unless

you're in the friend zone if you're in

the friend zone or some [ __ ] then

it's hard let me get some more wood for

my fire but if you're in the friend zone

hold up

if you're in the friend zone

and you can't close the deal and then

you're out then you're asking stupid

questions because you're in the friend

zone you [ __ ] up already you already

haven't been doing the Tower of Power

you already haven't been doing your

progression

and now you're asking me well how are

you gonna [ __ ] your friends well you can

that's why the friend Zone's so toxic

that's why you caught off your attention

if they don't want to bang but if you

meet a girl you get her number you meet

a girl on Instagram you get her WhatsApp

you start whatsapping her then you start

voice noting her you agree to go for

coffee you go for coffee you're greeting

over dinner you go for dinner you say

come over chill out mine she comes over

to chill

she knows what's going down now maybe

she may not want to [ __ ] you the first

night she comes over to chill maybe the

first night she'll want to go home cool

but the second night she will it's not a

big rush it's cooling you haven't you

don't want to come across needy you

don't want to come across desperate so

if a girl ever says to you oh No not

tonight the instant answer is yeah all

right cool you don't try do not be the

guy like oh stay uh it's super

unattractive it's super desperate never

do that if a girl goes to me oh I can't

stay with you tonight cool

and then they get pissed off that you

don't care it's like well it's a subtle

form of FDB

in her head she's thinking I came here

thinking I was going to bang and I

wasn't sure and now I told him I don't

want to bang and he doesn't give a [ __ ]

does he even like me

I'll flip it on him flip on him like I

told you in the first

the first course

we get a taxi come to mind no I'm gonna

go home all right cool I'll get your

taxi instantly bang flip it on him give

him what they want and watch them lose

their minds so you don't try then maybe

the second time you'll [ __ ] her whatever

but just be clear with your intention

and she's coming over for a reason so

that ain't that difficult

there hello my name is Tristan Tate now

you've purchased the Andrew Tate how to

be a g course so I imagine many of you

know who I am

I'm Andrew's younger brother and a very

good friend of Christians

now there are very few things about game

that you could teach a man like

Christian McQueen however when guys like

us get together we talk we exchange tips

and I hit him with the genius way I

organize the contacts in my phone he's

now using the same system and as people

who have bought how to be a g course he

thought I should share it with you

the way I organize my phone

is very complex because I'm a man who

does a lot of different approaches I use

a lot of dating apps I meet a lot of

women

so I need a way of filing them in a way

that I don't lose track

I first developed the system some years

ago

what happened was I had approached a

beautiful girl I got her number and I

was messaging her very hard on WhatsApp

for a day or two

I was then messaging too many other

girls too many other people and I lost

track of her nine days later she hit me

with a message I guess you don't really

want to meet up then

no matter how I try to explain my way

out of it and say baby it's okay let's

still go out she said you've been on

WhatsApp for nine days online every day

and you haven't written me once you're

obviously a player I'm tired of guys

like you and I never met her again

the way I organize my phone is based on

three different elements

one the priority of the girl in question

how important she is to me now this is

either based on looks or her commitment

level to you your main chick and your

girlfriends for example are more

important than the girls you'll call

late night after the club

the second element is the name

now the name isn't just what their name

is

for example here in Romania Andrea is a

very popular name my phone has seven

Andreas in it so you need to way of

knowing which Andrea is which the third

is the location

it's good to know where the girls in

your phone are located for example if

you go to a city once every six months

or once every three months it's good to

know who you have in that city that you

could potentially meet up with

if I were to store a contact in my phone

this is how it's done

first a number between one and three

the number between one and three is the

girl's priority

for example when I wake up every morning

I press one in my phone book and all the

girls that appear with the number one

next to their name are the ones I

message first thing the hey baby I was

had a dream about you last night I hope

to see you real soon now these are your

main chicks your girlfriends the girls

that you really love banging and you see

three or four times a week these are

your ones

your twos are the girls that you care

about but not as much as your number

ones the girls who think you're busier

than you are but you see once every 10

days every two weeks there's something

about her you really appreciate and you

really like but she's never going to be

a main chick when a two sends you a

message you reply to it too immediately

but you don't necessarily have to

message her every morning when you wake

up you have to take care of your tubes

because you don't want to lose them

because they matter to you somewhat but

you don't have to maintain them

constantly like you do with your most

important girls

your threes are the kind of girls that

you call after a night out it's five

o'clock you're in the club you're bored

that's when you message your threes if

they message you at a time like that

reply but a three is not so important

that when she messages you she can

instantly demand your time you manage

your threes on your own terms when you

get bored and you're sitting on your

phone for three hours waiting at the

airport message your ones twos and

threes keep all your girls entertained

keep all of them interested now this

priority system would have stopped me

from making the mistake that I made with

that girl I would have saved her as a

one because she was stunningly hot I was

actively pursuing her and trying to bang

her so for those nine days I ignored her

she would have got a good morning

message every single morning

saving a girl's name is very important

to do correctly

and there are many girls who have the

same name if you do a lot of approaches

and you're trying to meet lots of

different women you're going to

encounter some girls that you don't even

remember meeting especially when you're

out in clubs drunk so when you save

their contact details make it as clear

as you like what I like to do is her

name followed by her Instagram handle so

I can always check how hot she is and

follow up on how good she looks to make

sure that my eyes weren't deceiving me

after 20 bottles of vodka

the girl's name

is Andrea for example her Instagram tag

or Andrea the blonde that I met in this

club

that's the way to save your girls names

that way you can't make a mistake and

you can't do what I've done Christian

has done and and you have done many

times before which is confused a girl

for somebody else you instantly lose

them

the third most important thing to put

when you're saving your contact in your

phone is the city name now this takes a

very long time for it to actually become

useful but as you slowly build up your

contacts list as a man who travels and

does approaches worldwide like me you

slowly accumulate a list of girls in

various cities

so there are cities you visit once every

six months or once every three months me

Marbella for example I can go to

Marbella type Marbella into my phone

book and the six or seven numbers I have

in Marbella will appear you can then hit

that girl with a hey babe just came to

Marbella you're the first person I

thought of she'll reply oh my God I

didn't know you still remembered me

doesn't matter if you remembered her you

know she lives in Marbella because the

contact is saved as Marbella so to recap

every time you save a girl's number in

your phone if I'm in New York City and I

approach a beautiful brunette named

Samantha she's not that good looking but

I definitely want to see her if I'm

there I'd save her as three Samantha her

Instagram handle and New York City

when I'm in New York six months down the

line and I take New York City I could

see Samantha's numbers there if Samantha

was a 10 out of 10 gorgeous girl who

lived here in my city of Bucharest I'd

say her as one Samantha Bucharest

that way every day when I wake up I type

number one in my phone Samantha appears

along with my other priority girls the

girls I have the girls I badly want and

she gets messaged every single day

there's no chance I forget

disclaimer

the one two and three depending on the

operating system of your phone you have

to be careful with my phone the tanino

Lamborghini typing the number one comes

up with my contacts that start with one

I do realize that with some phones if

you press one it will start to dial a

number one or show every number with a

one in it in which case you simply save

it as o n e phonetically spell the

number one two and three but it is the

same system whether you're new to the

game of approaching and dating multiple

women or it's something you already do I

hope you find this system useful

thanks for listening

[Music]

welcome to the six week iron mind

training if you bought this course you

may have seen one of my first videos if

not the link is going to be below here

where I explain the secrets to having an

iron mindset so I'm going to preach the

virtues of an iron mindset I know all of

you bought this because you understand

how important it is to have a mindset of

iron but I'm going to sit here and once

again explain to you how different the

world is when you have a mind which

isn't worked and affected easily by

outside influences you are never going

to become a robot this has nothing to do

with not feeling emotions it's nothing

to do with just becoming an empty

emotionless void of a person that's not

what this is this is about understanding

that you're a human being you're going

to feel emotions this is a beautiful

thing and making sure that you use them

in the correct way

A and B you do not ever let them stop

you doing what you're supposed to do I

say to people often I haven't felt like

going to the gym in two years I'm

wearing my gym clothes right now I just

finished training I haven't felt like

training in two years I after 10 years

of professional fighting after giving my

life to exercise genuinely I have not

woke up and felt like oh I really want

to train I haven't felt that way in a

long time that's why I retired from

fighting but I have still gone and I

have still trained regardless of how I

feel

so this is one of the tenants and

there's going to be a lot of things

you're going to learn of an iron mindset

it's the ability to not let your

feelings affect you and sometimes to do

the complete opposite of how you feel

because you're not going to very often

feel like working hard you're not going

to always feel like doing the right

thing you're not always going to be

motivated the idea that you need to be

constantly motivated shows how weak your

mindset is I don't need motivation to go

to the gym I cannot want to go with

every fiber of my being I will still be

there because I use my cerebral ability

I use my mind and I logically decide

what I'm going to do with my day

regardless of how I feel regardless of

whether I'm motivated or not this course

is going to be six weeks that's going to

teach you how to put together a mindset

that allows you to get things done

because that's all life is and that's

all the world is life is just getting

things done doing the right things doing

the important things making sure they're

done efficiently and thoroughly so you

live the best possible life it's as

simple as that it's not particularly

complicated a lot of the lessons that

you would need to learn I gave out in my

free video so if you've not seen that

video once again the link is below watch

that video for a start because that

teaches you some very very important

things about where your mind should be

to begin and this six-week training is

going to be about exercises you can do

to teach yourself slowly over time to

put together a mindset that prevents you

from failure because if you have a

mindset that doesn't allow you to fail

then you're simply going to win there's

no other option so that's what this is

all about so in the first week we're

going to learn something which is

extremely basic but it's extremely

important I'm not going to be and I

don't want to be one of those guys who's

like

motivation inspirational that I've never

been one of them people I don't believe

in motivation inspiration I don't

believe in that crap I don't believe

that you need motivation to get things

done I'm not going to sit here and just

talk a whole bunch of motivational

things to make you feel good what I'm

going to do is I'm going to tell you the

things I always did that allowed me to

put together the mindset I currently

have so

if you look at any story literally any

story with a hero in it they all have

one thing in common and that thing is

that there's always a villain you cannot

have a hero without a villain it doesn't

matter you can think of any superhero

any comic book any any book you can

think of any movie there's always a good

guy and there's a bad guy so for the

good guy to exist there has to be a bad

guy there's no other way for the duality

of the universe to continue without this

basic tenet so you want to be the good

guy in your story you want and in every

I've said this before actually as a man

life is going to be difficult it's more

difficult than being a woman it's more

difficult than anything else so it's

very easy to see yourself life is

actually easier as a whole if you see

yourself as a hero because in every

single hero story the hero suffers he

has a hard time and if you understand

that you're suffering because you're a

hero then the suffering begins to make

sense

so you can be sitting here right now

going my woman doesn't respect me I have

no money in the bank this is difficult

I'm struggling here I'm struggling there

you can feel sorry for yourself or you

can say yeah my woman doesn't respect me

I'm struggling I can't make money but

you know what that's that's because I'm

a [ __ ] superhero and my life's gonna

be hard because I'm a man and as a hero

it's going to be difficult these are the

tests and the trials and tribulations I

have to go through to become someone

every single male superhero went through

a whole ton of [ __ ] before he became

superhero you've seen the Batman movies

he was his parents died he was he was

locked up in jail all these bad things

happen and then they emerge as a hero

and this is done for a reason because

it's the reality of life especially as a

man so right now you have to understand

that you're the hero in this movie and

if you're struggling you're struggling

for a very important reason and how you

handle these struggles and how you deal

with these struggles are going to decide

the kind of person you're going to be

afterwards you're going to be a

superhero or you're going to succumb to

them you're going to fail so be happy

that you're struggling because that's

important the first thing second thing

is there has to be a villain now most

people think their villain is someone

else

you see this all the time the villain's

the opposite the hero so if you're

sitting at home and you haven't got much

money and you're and you're broke and

you're pissed off and you're depressed

and you look at me and I have four

supercars and all these girls I'm

traveling the world I Go Everywhere I

want you may think I'm your villain

people look at other people and say oh

that guy has this this guy has this and

they become envious they think that's

the villain that's not true that's not

the case because every single person has

different circumstances there are things

you have that I don't have and there's

things I have that you don't have so I

may have had a genetic gift over you for

example because I'm a fantastic

kickboxer but you may have been born

more wealthy than me I was born a very

very poor family so I had advantages and

disadvantages you had advantages and

disadvantages so comparing yourself to

other people is asinine and it's a name

because it's not a level Fair playing

Ground there are some people who are

born to millionaire parents who are

gorgeous model good looking and have six

packs without trying some people are

lucky like that that's just how it is so

comparing yourself to these people is

not going to help you your villain is

nobody else your villain is someone

you're going to create and you'll create

your villain because he's going to

motivate you to be the most powerful

hero you can possibly be so you're going

to create your villain and this is the

task for the first week this is a

six-week training course and over each

week you have a very important task and

the task for this week is to create your

villain to make sure that there was no

disadvantages involved your villain is

going to be a clone of you

but what your villain is going to have

is he's going to have some things you

don't have

and your villain is going to be the

person who basically without requirement

for motivation without requirement

without being no matter how he feels

that day or how stressed he is from work

regardless of what happens to him your

villain is going to be the guy who

always does exactly what he wants to do

so your villain is going to be the guy

who goes to the gym regardless of how he

feels

your villain's going to be the guy who

approaches every beautiful girl he ever

sees and says hey I really think you're

beautiful goes over to him and talks to

them your village is going to be the guy

who asks for a raise at work your

villain's going to be the guy who does

everything he wants regardless of how he

feels regardless if he's not motivated

or not regardless if he's shy to talk

that girl or people are watching or his

ankle hurts he doesn't want to go to the

gym whatever or his boss is he thinks

his boss is going to fire him your

villain is that dude who does anything

he wants to do so for this week you have

to sit and you have to make a list of

all the things you sit there and say if

I did everything I want to do if I were

to be the best version of myself

possible what would I do okay well I go

to the gym every day I get up at 6am and

I go to the gym every day you'll write

that down I'd approach every beautiful

girl I ever see and I'd introduce myself

and try and get their Instagram on their

number you'd write that down for example

I'd start a side business even though I

don't know anything about it I'd learn

how to make websites my villain's the

kind of guy who would sit there and he'd

learn how to do it by himself I need to

start his own online business write that

down my villain's the kind of guy who

reads really important books I'm I say I

don't have time but my enemy this

villain he reads books he finds time he

doesn't watch TV ever he doesn't waste

time ever he doesn't eat junk food he

reads books writes it now I needed to

make a list now this list at first

should be easy for you but then you're

gonna get to about seven or eight things

you're gonna stop no this list needs to

be 25 to 30 points long minimum this guy

you're building your arch nemesis you

have to write down every single quality

about this guy what he does it goes to

the gym every day 6 a.m he doesn't watch

TV he doesn't eat junk food he goes up

to beautiful girls

etc etc etc 25 are 30 points long

because this is going to become your

enemy for the next six weeks of training

you want to become a hero you need

someone to battle against this is who

you're battling against you're battling

against a better version of yourself a

version of yourself that doesn't succumb

to how he feels but does what he's

supposed to do anyway so this is who

your villain's going to be and when

you're writing down this list

all the qualities your villain has

imagine what this person looks like you

have to put genuine effort into this you

have to imagine what he looks like

imagine how he walks imagine how he

talks imagine what people think when

they see him imagine how different you

would be if you had been going to the

gym every single day for an hour and a

half every single day for the last two

three four years imagine it imagine how

differently people would look at you

imagine how differently females would

would treat you if you were a jack like

that guy would be you have to sit and

you have to put down all these qualities

and then once the qualities Are there 25

or 30 minimum then you have to imagine

what kind of person this is you have to

imagine what he looks like what he talks

like what he thinks like imagine how he

views the world because this is who

you're going to be battling against so

you have to put genuine effort into

constructing this person and

understanding this person the reason I'm

saying do this because this is what

motivates me every single day

when I was training for a fight the

reason I'd always go train is because I

knew my enemy was training but when I

stopped fighting professionally I

thought well what enemy do I have and I

realized I had to create my own

so when I don't feel like going to the

gym I imagine I've built my own enemy I

won't even list all the things that my

enemy has he has a whole bunch of [ __ ] I

don't have and he's a it would be an

impossible nearly impossible person to

be

but when I sit and I don't feel like

going to the gym I know my enemy's

training because he trains no matter

what regardless of how he feels

regardless if he's pissed off or if

there's traffic or it's raining or he's

tired my enemy trains when I see a girl

and she's beautiful but all her friends

are there I'm afraid they're gonna laugh

at me my enemy wouldn't give a [ __ ] he'd

go over there anyway that's who he is

he's the man

so when I understood who I was truly

battling against and you have two

choices you either rise up to try and

take him on or you become a little [ __ ]

you have the choice do I want to lose to

this man this man I've created

and I've built do I want to lose to him

or do I want to beat him or compete with

him

and you have to make a choice and you

sit there and go well I know that the

person I created in my mind my arch

nemesis would go over there and he

talked to all the girls and he'd [ __ ]

two of them let alone one

this is an extremely important facet and

for the next six weeks I'm going to be

doing lots of things that are going to

revert back to the enemy that you've

created so you'd have to put genuine

effort into putting together this person

you have to imagine everything about

them from start to finish you have to

imagine standing next to them if you

were standing next to this guy right now

with no shirt on who would girls want to

[ __ ] who would people respect

and the crazy thing about all of this

is that this person is you

this person is you it's just you with a

little bit of a different path or a

different take on life it's you who's

the person who does whatever he's

supposed to do regardless of how he

feels it's you with an iron mind this is

the exact point of it the reason

creating this enemy is so important and

the reason viewing how he's viewing him

and seeing how he sees the world and and

understanding how important and Powerful

this person is is important is because

that person is you that person is you

who does what he's supposed to do

without fail that's all it is

and when you truly truly put this person

together and you truly truly understand

him and you find out what you could be

and you find out what you're battling

against you're going to become far more

difficult to demotivate it's going to be

much harder for someone to say to you

don't go to the gym because you're going

to know well my my enemy this guy give

him a name whatever this dude's going to

the gym

that's why he looks how he looks and

that's who I'm being compared to

so I have to go to the gym oh yeah but

you know I'm tired well you don't go

then my training Partners want to go

fine you don't go I am going

I'm not the guy who's gonna let this man

beat me and you have to start comparing

yourself to this guy in every single

facet I still do it to this day I

compare my bank balance to this guys and

he's killing me I compare my body to

this guys he's killing me I compare so

many things about myself you guys may

look at me and go I'll take millionaire

girls this that that I'm still comparing

myself to this person I've created

and I know that I'm losing

and that's what drives me forward that's

why I don't miss the gym that's how I

find a way to make money that's how I do

whatever it takes to succeed because I

know who I'm battling against most you

guys have no enemy you have no enemy or

you have an enemy which is somebody else

you're looking at Justin Bieber or Drake

or some [ __ ] that that's not going to

motivate you that's pointless it's not

going to help you or you have no enemy

at all you have a support structure

around you and you have people say oh

you're great just the way you are you

know you're beautiful just the way you

are and you're sitting there and living

in your little comfort zone like a

little [ __ ] [ __ ] put this enemy

together from start to finish feel free

to email me the list email me the list

I'll see if there's anything you've

missed out

my email address is at the bottom of the

screen feel free to email me your list

I'll compare it to my list and we'll see

if there's anything you've missed out

but this is gonna be the most important

thing across the next six weeks we're

going to keep referring back to and when

you truly put this list together you

truly create this person and truly

understand that it could be you

it's going to be far more difficult to

stop you doing what you need to do in

the future

so

your enemy is the version of you which

doesn't take [ __ ] your enemy is a

version of you which goes to the gym

every single day and if you've done this

correctly then what you should be doing

by now is thinking of him permanently

every single time you go to the gym and

you haven't done that one extra rep he

did every single time you don't feel

like doing something you have to think

yeah but he would do it if you truly

constructed him the way you should he

should be crossing your mind with every

single thing you do and this is why it's

important to develop an ego this is

lesson two the Iron Mine course is to

develop an ego egos are extremely

important egos have always existed

throughout ancient history Men Kings

went to war and millions of people died

because someone insulted him because of

his ego egos are a natural human thing

and they're extremely important and the

modern world tells men to not have an

ego and they do that because it makes

you weak and easy to control you can

only have an iron mind if you are so

sure of yourself so egotistical that

nobody can break it so an ego is

extremely important now first lesson we

built your enemy and we built this

perfect person you're going to be

battling against and there's a very

specific reason we did it based on a

version of you one because it shows who

you could be but the other reason is

also because if your ego is based around

beating this person you get to go

through life and be a nice guy to

everyone else

people say don't have an ego because if

they think that if you they give you an

ego you have an ego you're gonna be

egotistical

I'm a nice guy

because they're not my enemy I'm not

combating against them I'm a nice guy to

every person I'm a nice guy to every

woman I say please and thank you I'm a

nice person but I do have a massive ego

but my ego comes into play when I'm

fighting against my enemy listen

did you [ __ ] your wife yesterday maybe

you did so imagine this guy [ __ ] your

wife he would have [ __ ] her better

than you did and this should Inspire

your ego the person you're battling

against is beating you

and this person is who you could be

that's what's the most annoying thing

about it this person's outlifting you in

the gym they're making more money

they're [ __ ] their wife better

they've got more girls they're rolling

around a nicer car this could be you but

it's not you

only because you don't have the

motivation to do with this individual

does nothing to do with genetics nothing

to do with luck this person is you and

they're beating you and this should

Inspire your ego most people's egos work

against them and the way it works

against them is they feel entitled they

wake up and they think oh I deserve a

nice car I'm a special person I deserve

a nice car and then when they don't get

a nice car they get disheartened and

annoyed that is not the right way to use

an ego an ego should be used as in I

deserve a nice car so I'm gonna go

[ __ ] get one

that's an ego

so this person who you've built your

enemy he has a nice car because he has

worked harder than you have so he has a

nice car and you don't have one whose

fault is that there should be no reason

no excuse for you to not do everything

that you believe you need to do

the best person you can be if you've

properly created this enemy you've

looked at this list 25 to 30 points long

on everything this guy does and you

should look at that list and think [ __ ]

this is who I'm competing against I need

to start getting my [ __ ] together

and and your ego should stop you from

wanting to lose otherwise day after day

after day you are losing to this

individual this individual is beating

you day after day after day

you can't let that happen your ego is

extremely important and you only have

one person you're competing against and

it's the person who created which is

nothing more than a better version of

yourself

so day by day you're losing this battle

I'm that should make you uncomfortable

you should make you nervous it should

make you anxious

so you start to feel that way because

this is the truth if you've truly

imagined your enemy is and you truly

imagine them being you you should not be

able to relax the fact that you can

still sit and watch TV means you need to

go back to the first video of this

course and start again and do it

properly and do it well enough so that

you can no longer sit still you look at

yourself in the mirror and go okay yeah

I've got some muscle but this guy he's

got real muscle I've got a little bit of

money this guy he hustles non-stop he's

on Twitter non-stop he's starting

businesses he's learned how to make

websites he's trading crypto he's got

all of takes programs he's got this he's

got that you need to get your [ __ ]

together and if you do that properly

you'll start to feel nervous you'll

imagine the version of you that is as

amazing as they could be and you look at

yourself and realize that you're failing

it's the reality sit there and go [ __ ]

now when you feel anxious there's only

one thing you can do you can either sit

there and be anxious of a little girl

don't be worried about it or you can put

some things in action

I was nervous for every single fight and

that's my fault the best because I was

afraid it's afraid of losing and you

need to be afraid of losing day by day

throughout your life you know your

enemies you know what he's doing and

you're losing day by day now if you go

to the gym and you beat your personal

best let's say the most you've ever

benched is 100 kilo you go there you

bench 105 Q the days you beat your

personal best are the days you've beaten

this individual that's the only day

you're allowed to claim a victory if you

beat your personal best you can claim a

victory I went there I did more than

I've ever done I beat this guy but if

you're not beating your personal best he

is beating you and that should inspire

you to try and smash through your own

records day after day after day the most

money you've ever made in a month the

most weight you've ever lifted the most

girls you've ever spoke to it doesn't

matter what goals you set you have to

understand you're going to spend a lot

of time losing and all this time you're

spending losing is going to damage your

ego and that's going to make you anxious

and unhappy and nervous and you're gonna

put all that nervous energy into

smashing your personal records you have

those days of victory

everything compounds what most people

don't understand is they think that life

just changed overnight everything

compounds people say to me I'll tell you

how did you become successful I can't

tell you the one thing that made me

successful I was always driven motivated

I understood how to make good

connections I looked after the people

who looked after me I always knew what

the right thing to do was I didn't drink

for many years of my life I didn't do

this I didn't do that I did do this and

it all comes together to success it's

not about one thing a lot of people go

through life with a very average

attitude to life and they wait for their

one big break yeah maybe you'll get it

but that's not the reality if you're

hoping for a big break you may as well

just keep buying the lottery tickets you

have to build your big break and you're

going to do that with a thousand tiny

victories it's a change of mindset it's

gonna allow you to put together a

thousand tiny victories and the change

in mind says simply understanding that

there is a version of you that exists

somewhere in the Multiverse which is

much better than you are right now

they're the same star the same genetic

composition but they are destroying you

in every measurable metric purely

because they don't get lazy don't get

tired don't watch TV don't waste

they have an iron mind and that person

is going to become you now that is who

you are fighting against

in this lesson of the iron mind course

is going to be a happy lesson all of our

previous lessons were about creating

enemies and understanding that you have

to fight a battle against the enemy you

create and how difficult life can be

and in this lesson we're going to do

something that's a little bit more

positive so you can smile

and what we're going to do is we'll talk

about gratitude

I have learned the hard way that it is

impossible to be grateful for things

that you have in abundance

everybody knows this I'm saying the

obvious here everyone talks about how if

you were born a millionaire kid you

wouldn't appreciate money it's

absolutely the same with absolutely

everything else and no matter how hard

you try no matter how hard you try and

check yourself and appreciate your

current situation

you're never going to appreciate it if

you have an abundance the easiest way to

be grateful for your life and appreciate

things is to self-censor now this takes

self-control but we've already discussed

how your enemy has self-control and how

you're going to compete against him

you're going to need self-control so for

this reason you now have self-control

I'm going to tell you something by

reducing

your time spent or money spent or energy

spent on the things you like not only do

you become a more productive worker and

you get more stuff done but two you

appreciate those things more and you end

up genuinely happier

so I'll give you some examples

it's a sunny day today

on sunny days I like drive my

Lamborghini around and show it off

and sometimes when I really feel like

driving it I don't allow myself I'll

take a bike and I'll go pedal my bike

instead or I'll train extra hours in the

gym or I'll do some work so when I

really want to drive it even though I

have the time to drive it even though I

could drive it I do not drive it and the

reason I do that is I deliberately

prevent myself from doing something I

want so when I get back in that car

the next day or a couple days later I

appreciate it if I drove the car anytime

I wanted to I might still even like it I

might still enjoy it but I will never

appreciate it now when I get in that car

I appreciate my car

and that's because I stopped myself from

using it as often as I want to use it

humans were never built for the

abundance we live in today we live in an

abundance which we were never designed

to have we were designed to barely

barely scrape enough calories from the

surroundings to survive and sit around

in the dirt wishing for more than what

we had we were not designed to be able

to get food anytime we wanted that's why

people are fat to get satisfaction

entertainment anytime we wanted that's

why people can't pay attention anymore

the human mind has not evolved to live

the life we're living so you have two

choices you either cave to that

completely and you give into consumerism

and you end up obese and have attention

deficit disorder because you're too busy

watching YouTube videos to concentrate

anything important or you sense yourself

and you prevent yourself from having as

much as you want and that's how you

build an iron mindset so

let me give you a few examples of things

you can do because now I've known all of

you have Lamborghinis that was a pretty

first world example but I'll give you

some other examples of things that I

have done now I actually developed this

and learned this tactic when I was

fighting because fighting makes you

sense yourself when you're training for

a fight you can't drink alcohol you have

to eat correctly you have to sleep

correctly so when my fight Camp would be

over the idea of staying up late and

having a beer and eating an ice cream

was amazing to most people that's every

[ __ ] day and they don't give a [ __ ]

but to me the idea of just cracking open

a beer and drinking it and not thinking

about it as anything other than oh I

want

when I did that after a fight camp I was

smiling ear to ear genuinely because I

had a touchdown call for eight weeks

so by preventing myself from having

alcohol Not only was I more grateful in

the end like people had beer all the

time it doesn't make them happy this is

something they do not only was I more

grateful in the end Not only was I

happier I was also a better physical

condition I also didn't spend money on

beer

and this is the exact point if you

restrict yourself from the things you

want not only do you enjoy them more in

the end all you end up happier you

usually end up in better physical and

financial shape for it

so there's a whole bunch of stuff you do

right now that you enjoy everyone has

things they enjoy and that's fine you

absolutely should have things you enjoy

you've made your list of of your enemy

obviously he's a machine he's a robot he

doesn't waste much time but we're all

humans you're competing with him but

there's still some things you enjoy

which aren't completely essential you

need to learn to restrict those things

or delay those things so that you

appreciate them more happiness and

gratefulness are basically the same

thing if you're grateful for what you

have you're going to be a pretty happy

person and a happy mind is an iron mind

the idea of being a robot and being I've

got an iron mine nothing affects me

that's not that's not a good life a good

life is a happy person who when the

struggles of Life come they can just

Glide over the bums that's the kind of

person you want to be and you're going

to do that by making yourself more

grateful and you make yourself more

grateful to scarcity so across the next

couple of days here's what I want you to

do

I want you to choose each day if you're

going to allow yourself to eat or to

drink

have to make a choice because these are

things you do every day you eat some

food you drink some water and you don't

care about it and you're not grateful

for either one so each day you're going

to wake up and you're going to decide

I'm either going to drink whatever I

want today coffee water orange juice

smoothie whatever

or I'm gonna eat whatever I want today

and I'm gonna be thirsty at the end of

either one of those days you're going to

be pissed off you made the choice you

made and you would wish you made the

other one and you'd be grateful for all

the times you've had a meal with a nice

cold glass of water with it or all the

time she got a cold glass of water with

a nice meal with it for the next three

or four days you have to make a choice

each morning stick to it don't be a

[ __ ] we've had enough of the other

lessons if you're struggling to stick to

it watch the other videos don't be a

[ __ ] and choose

next three or four days choose food or

War at the end of the four days you can

allow yourself to have both together and

you'll feel a whole new appreciation for

the most basic thing in the world a meal

and a cold glass of water I guarantee

you because for three or four days it

was always a choice you're waking up in

the morning you wake up your mouth's dry

but you're hungry as [ __ ] from yesterday

so which one is it

you have to make the choice so when you

get to a situation where you can have

two things together two very basic

simple things together you're going to

appreciate both of them more so this is

the first exercise you're going to do

across the next three or four years

the idea being is you need to learn how

to remember that feeling

now I know this sounds stupid but

feelings can be remembered if you listen

to a sad song or if you think about a

sad event the feeling comes back you

remember the feeling people very rarely

remember gratefulness they don't

remember feeling content with something

so what you're going to do is you're

going to put yourself in a position of

stress you're going to relieve that

stress you're going to feel content and

then you're going to try and remember

that feeling everything about it

remember how you're sitting remember

where you are remember that feeling and

give yourself a memory that you can

Resort revert back to any time in the

future and you will automatically feel

grateful so I have this from fighting I

can literally right now I can think back

to that time when I just lost 10 kilos

and been in the sauna for two days and

hadn't had a drop of war and lost all

that weight and I had my first glass of

water I can remember that and I'm

smiling already literally genuinely I

can remember how that felt because I've

had these extreme situations super

extreme situations whereas when they

were relieved I remember how thankful I

was

so I have countless memories in my life

that I can revert back to that allow me

to instantly feel grateful for what I

have right now for the most basic things

in the world money is another fantastic

thing to do this right now check your

bank account

hopefully you're broke if you're broke

this will be really easy check your bank

right now you're broke okay good when

you get some money in your bank and you

smile remember that feeling this video

is a short video but this is very very

important you can email me now after

watching this video and tell me what

you're going to do to put yourself in a

position of stress how are you going to

relieve it and then once you've relieved

it once you are sitting there and you're

feeling content and happy you need to

remember that feeling and I want you to

email it to me and describe it to me now

this isn't going to work if you don't

put yourself in a situation of extreme

stress if you're thirsty for 30 minutes

then have a glass of water you're not

going to be happy enough to be able to

hack your brain to truly remember that

feeling you need to suffer gentlemen you

need to be two hours sleep a night for

two days in a row or the no food no war

or back and forth and I don't care if it

takes a week two weeks until you

literally can't handle it anymore and

when you're on absolute Edge that's when

you give in because only then you'll be

able to hack your brain to remember that

memory you need a plethora of memories

in your mind that you can revert to that

will instantly make you happy and

grateful and feel gratitude for what you

have if you have those things that you

can reserve work to anytime you want

it's almost like being a uh

like Popeye you can bust out the spinach

anytime you need it and that's genuinely

the way I live my life if I I'm a happy

person but if I'm ever pissed off or

really really stressed or I'm working

going right and my Lamborghini won't

start and girls one of my girlfriends is

being a dick and the electricity bill

that's six grand and whatever whatever

whatever whatever whatever I can sit

there and go yeah but at least I'm not

broke

it was when I was broke and I could

think about that exact memory or I could

sit and go at least I have War

I can think about that exact memory and

I will smile regardless for Walter I can

be in the most [ __ ] up situation in

the world like I'm a glass of water and

I'll be happy

and that's what we're going to learn to

do so put together your scenarios I've

given you the scenario with sleep that's

an easy one I've given you the one with

food and water that's another easy one

in general this is a good habit to learn

to restrict yourself from doing the

things you really want to do because

you're going to appreciate them more and

you're also going to be financially

importantly healthier so you should also

look at what you're doing with your

spare time in general and reduce it next

time you want to do something next time

you want to watch a YouTube video or you

want to do something stupid go no I'm

not going to do it today I'm going to do

it tomorrow make yourself wait because

you'll appreciate it more when you do it

and I want you to put yourself in a

situation of extreme stress gentlemen it

has to be extreme when you lay in bed

after being that tired for that long and

you feel completely just you don't give

a [ __ ] about anything else you're so

happy to just be in bed remember that

feeling because that's the memory you're

gonna be able to go back to anytime feel

free to email me your ideas feel free to

email me and what I want you to do is

email me how it feels if you email me

how it feels when you finally get that

relief and you finally feel that

gratitude email that to me because if

you write out an email and explain it to

me then you're gonna do far better at

memorizing the memory you can do far

better at hacking your brain and this

can be a far better attempt at having

something to revert to at any time

that'll instantly lighten your mood now

we're going to talk about rewards

because people have this impression that

to have an iron mind you need to be in

constant god mode and that life needs to

be struggled permanently and you need to

be able to deal with that struggle

permanently and it's all just Doom and

Gloom which is not the case at all you

need to have goals you've obviously

you've created your enemy you know who

you're battling against but life should

be a happy experience

so making sure that completing your

goals makes your life better and more

positive makes you feel more happy is

certainly going to encourage you to set

larger goals and to complete them

so what I do when it comes to rewarding

myself because every single one of us

needs to reward ourselves is I very

simply pin My Rewards to an objective so

what people normally do is they go

through life and they go I feel like

having an ice cream and then they buy an

ice cream then they eat the ice cream

the end even on such a small level what

they're saying is I do what I want I do

what I feel like at the time and I don't

feel like I have to earn that tree for

example so even on a very very small

level let's say I'm walking down the

street and I feel like having an ice

cream I will sit and think I really want

ice cream but I'm not going to have one

tomorrow I'm going to do x amount extra

in the gym I'm doing extra 100 burpees

I'm gonna do an extra set of bench press

just one extra and tomorrow afternoon I

have an ice cream

and even something small like that this

is a genuine example you spend the whole

day thinking about ice cream you're

going to be anticipating ice cream

getting excited for ice cream you go to

the gym you do extra you earn the ice

cream and then you know the crazy thing

is the ice cream tastes better after

going through that process than if I

would have just bought it when I kind of

wanted one the first time and it's the

same with absolutely everything if I had

somebody in my bank and I decide to buy

a Lambo

sure be a fun happy day but if I set

myself a series of objectives I have to

complete first not even just to be able

to afford the land though sure you can

say once I make x amount of money I'm

going to treat myself to this that's

fine but you can also pin to a bunch of

other objectives so I had the money for

a Lambo I wouldn't allow myself to buy

one until I completed other things in

the gym for example Jim is the one I use

all the time if I want to do something

which I know is stupid

what makes me happy like booze like eat

some bad food like buy something I

shouldn't buy etc etc I make myself work

for it and I do that to alleviate the

guilt of having it because what's going

to happen is if you've done the first

two parts of this correctly and you

understand the enemy you're combating

you're gonna know that that person

doesn't give in to those kind of

desires doesn't give in to urges if he

wants ice cream he just goes without

well that that's who you're battling

against but it's fine if you have an ice

cream because you're going to work extra

hard so the next thing you need to do is

you put together a list of objectives

you need two lists

you need a list of things you can

already do and afford a list of things

you can't do and afford so

the first listings you can do and afford

you need to sit there and think even

basic [ __ ] junk food I want to have a

cheat day of junk food to allow myself

to have that cheat day I've done food on

the seventh day of the week on the six

days of the week I'm gonna get up at six

o'clock I'm gonna go to the gym on a

train for an hour and a half I'm not

going to leave the gym until 7 30. I'm

going to be there at six o'clock every

day and unless you complete those six

days unless you complete the objectives

you're not going to give in and allow

yourself to seven and I'm telling you

the seventh day if you finally do

complete the objectives and then you're

sitting there eating the junk food it

will be so much better once you've

earned it the greatest thing about this

is it the the reward is actually better

not only do you work harder but the

reward is so much better knowing you

worked for it

so that's one example junk food for

example or let's say you want new shoes

basic [ __ ] all the [ __ ] you're doing

anyway now without thinking you're to a

mall you'll buy yourself something

you'll want it for 10 minutes by the

time you get home and take out the bag

you don't want anymore that's because

you haven't trained yourself to earn it

you're going to be a happier person when

you look at something you want and go

all right I'm gonna come back and get

that in two days and the next two days

I'm gonna do X I'm gonna do that x that

you don't want to do it's going to be

difficult and you're going to achieve it

and then you're going to get what you

want and you're going to be happier that

you got the thing that's the first thing

and second thing is all these small

little objectives these small little

missions you're setting yourself around

a compound especially when it comes to

physical fitness physical fitness is

easy

because you can say I'll do 500

press-ups and then I'll get it

done

so this list of things you could already

easily afford you're going to do you're

going to write it out and you're going

to set an objective for each one so if

right now you're thinking of going

holiday you need to set an objective for

completing the holiday if you want to

have a day of junk food if you want to

buy something cheap etc etc that's the

first list the second list is a list of

things you cannot yet afford or things

you do not yet have and that's very easy

because what you're doing is the the

punishment or the mission you're trying

to complete

is actually necessary it's vital to

having the objective so if you want a

Ferrari you write down Ferrari well then

you have to make the money first don't

you of course if you want to have a

six-pack well then you've got to do the

work a separate list of things with the

objectives yet to be a completed which

you will need to finish before you can

even purchase them so you have two lists

things you can do right now and you're

going to delay gratification on purpose

to check to train your mind to earn

things so you're going to train your

mind to earn things with the first list

and the second list is obviously going

to be all your life goals all the things

you're aiming to get

the first list is actually the most

important the second list is just going

to be a general motivation everyone

wants to have a Ferrari and a mansion of

course it's good to write those things

down you may never even get them it's

the reality of the world you know you

may get halfway there and still be a

very happy contented person so this is a

dream list but that that that's good to

have but the first list is the most

important because you're going to learn

to delay gratification you're going to

learn to train yourself to make yourself

work for the things you want things you

already can do you're going to start

putting an objective you're going to

start putting a goal in the way so

people say to me often how do you find

the motivation to do this it's like well

if I don't do that I won't allow myself

to do it and why how do you find the

motivation to do X if I don't do X I

won't allow myself to do y so for

example I train seven days a week some

days I wake up and I cannot be asked I

ache I'm tired I've got a super busy day

I don't want to go to the gym my phone's

already going off I've got [ __ ] to do

but if I don't go to the gym I will not

allow myself to drive my fast cars which

I enjoy doing

and I've set that in stone if I don't

gym I'm not driving the cars so I'll end

up you know what well [ __ ] it the

lambo's looking nice it's sunny okay I

have to

do it you have to learn to put

objectives in the way of the things you

want and if you're completely objectives

and you can have what you want now the

most important thing about this list is

also you need to write down all the

times you fail so let's say you've

decided that on this on one of these

days I'm using very simple examples you

can think of the examples you do for

yourself you need to go through your

life over the next couple days and

realize how often you actually give in

to your impulses you're driving you see

McDonald's [ __ ] out McDonald's

when you see Jean through [ __ ] you see

some shoes you want [ __ ] it you're

watching TV you want to watch Game of

Thrones [ __ ] it [ __ ] it [ __ ] it you give

in tons more than you realize and if you

actually be conscious about it you'll

realize oh [ __ ] I want to watch the new

series of Game of Thrones that's

effectively wasting my time purely for

entertainment if I'm gonna do that I

have to do XML work first

so you can always find them objective

you always find an objective to put in

before so it should be very easy for you

over the next couple days to look at all

the times you've given to impulses and

do things which your opponent wouldn't

be doing your opponent would not waste

time on Game of Thrones Thrones you

would not sit in a McDonald's

drive-through you would not buy those

shoes just for the sake because you saw

him and he liked them so all the things

your opponent wouldn't do over the next

couple days you can write down you need

to set an objective in front of each one

you also need to realize and need to

keep track of how often you fail the

objective so let's say we chose Game of

Thrones you want to watch Game of

Thrones on Sunday and you've decided

you're going to go to the gym six days

from Monday to Saturday every single day

before you'll allow yourself to watch

Game of Thrones and for some reason on

Thursday you [ __ ] it up and you don't go

you need to write down next to that

objective yeah I [ __ ] up I need to try

the week after if you give in and just

watch Game of Thrones anyway then

everything start out the window but if

you're truly listening to the first two

lessons we've laid out then you should

feel too guilty to watch Game of Thrones

I couldn't sit there knowing I failed

the task and give myself the reward I

wouldn't enjoy the reward I'd feel

genuinely guilty genuinely if I was

supposed to go to the gym and I didn't

go to the gym and I had the ice cream

anyway I wouldn't enjoy the ice cream

because I'd feel guilty

you have to learn to take yourself

accountable make yourself accountable

and if you make this list like I said

over the next couple days keep track of

all the times you give in put an

objective in front of each one and you

shouldn't be able to do you shouldn't be

able to give in and do these things

because you should feel guilty if you're

not completely objective which means the

only way to do it is to complete the

objective and before you know you're

gonna have a shitload more work done

than you could have ever imagined

especially when it comes to physical

fitness is the easiest one what will

happen when you truly implement this

mindset is you'll start this is what

will happen is this what happens to me

you'll start realizing and you'll start

noticing how much other people give in

so I'll be sitting there at dinner and

I'll eat my dinner I'm so the person I'm

with and they'll go oh I want dessert

I'm on a diet ah [ __ ] it yeah [ __ ] it

dessert menu and you'll start realizing

how quickly and how easily other people

give in to impulses they'll be in the

mall or look at something I want it yeah

I'll buy it okay yeah [ __ ] it did it and

you'll also notice how how it doesn't

fulfill them whatsoever the first thing

that happens when you take this step

back and put these objectives in places

one you know is how people give in so

easily until you know this how much it

doesn't actually fulfill them they want

the dessert they eat the dessert are

they happy afterwards are they smiling

are they ecstatic or they feel the same

as you do except they brought a [ __ ]

stomach full of sugar and you don't most

people because they give into their

impulses so easily they're not even

happy with them this is the reality of

the world people buy [ __ ] they don't

want do [ __ ] that they don't even

[ __ ] like doing eat crap because I

really want that and they eat and they

feel like [ __ ] afterwards it's all

asinine it's all a name when you truly

implement this system you're going to

start noticing how easily others give in

and what it's going to start to do is it

should motivate you further when I'm

walking to the mall and someone gives in

does some dumb [ __ ] they shouldn't do it

motivates me to make sure I'm never like

that literally when they buy that

T-shirt and then they go home by the

time they get home they start on the

couch and throw the bag on the couch

throw in the wardrobe it's carry on

playing video games or whatever they're

doing what a waste of money they don't

even [ __ ] up they don't give a [ __ ]

about that t-shirt they made them happy

for maybe six minutes maybe

if if you only got six minutes of

Happiness out of a T-shirt but it

inspired you to go to the gym beforehand

then it's worthwhile then the T-shirt

now has a purpose but just to buy it for

the sake of feeling a little bit happier

for a few minutes to throw in a wardrobe

absolutely not worthwhile so there's a

huge difference between the two

so the second part of this objective

after you've done everything we've

discussed with the two lists and you're

understanding after a couple days of

analyzing all the things your opponent

wouldn't do to realize how often you

give them yourself is to also become

super perspicacious and pay attention to

how often other people give in to their

whims because that should motivate you

more than anything

make your list put all your objectives

down it doesn't matter what your

objectives are objectives can be super

simple and they can be super basic to

start

you know I want to make my first fifty

dollars online I've never made money

online before I want to find a way to

get someone to pay pound me fifty

dollars I make my first fifty dollars

online and after I do that I'm gonna

allow myself to go and blow it or go

blow 200 it doesn't matter it's the

principle that I managed to make money

online and if I do that I'm going to go

and go shopping on Sunday

and then you're sitting there on Twitter

and you're sitting there going how the

[ __ ] can I make some money because I

want to go shopping I want to go

shopping if I don't do this I can't go

shopping and you're gonna see how

quickly this compounds to a complete

change of Lifestyle these are some small

mind hacks this will be a quick video to

do some small mind hacks you can do that

will change your entire perspective near

instantly

and the first one I alluded to a couple

of these on Twitter but this is the

first one the first one is a very very

important one probably the most

important one and it's changing I have

to

the sentence I have to or the saying I

have to into I get to

a lot of people are extremely stressed

about things that they have to do and

because they have to do them or they

understand the importance of doing them

they forget that it's actually a

blessing to do them in the first place

because they're obligated when you're

obligated to do something you forget

that it's actually a good thing if I

like for example going to the gym is

something people can enjoy when I was a

fighter and I had to go to the gym twice

a day every day like anything in life

once you're obligated once you have to a

lot of the fun disappears so I have to

implicates an obligation whereas I get

to implicates a choice so I'll give you

an example if you wake up and you're

really busy you think I have to take the

kids to school I have to go to work I

have to take the car to be repaired

those are three things which are not

necessarily fun to do they're not

necessarily they're everyday activities

the things you could be stressed about

you're low on time you've got to get the

kids ready for school you've got to get

to work and there's a problem with the

car if you change I have to do those

three things and to I get to do those

three things the mentality around the

actions change so I get to take the kids

to school

a lot of people don't have kids a lot of

people want kids and can't get them

there's a lot of kids who can't go to

school you get to take your children to

school which is which is which is the

blessing in itself forget I have to take

the kids to school you get to take them

to school aren't you lucky

I have to go to work well you get to go

to work imagine you didn't have a job

imagine right now you lost your job if

you lost your job right now overnight

and you've got no income your whole life

would be a upside down it'd be a turmoil

and you'd miss your job very much and

you wish you had your job back so you

get to go to work you don't have to go

to work you get to go to work that's

what's a get a good thing even something

as annoying as a car person I'd take the

cartoon mechanics well at least you get

to take the car to the mechanics imagine

you didn't have a car imagine there was

no mechanic so next time you're sitting

there looking at your day or looking at

a list of things or jobs you have to

complete or you're stressed or low on

time and all these things are happening

I have to this I'll get this done I have

to do this I have to do this change the

language I get to do x y z and I

guarantee you'll feel better about the

activities near instantly and this is

something you can do very very quickly

this is the first thing you need to do

and this is the second little mind hack

and this video is short because I want

you to implement these I want you to

take time to genuinely make sure you

implement these two things change I have

to to I get to and the second one is and

then I can so when you have to do

something difficult add uh and then I

can on the end for example with me with

the gym I I'm being honest with you I

don't like the gym anymore I'm doing it

for too long but I understand its

importance and I don't want to miss it

so I think you know what I'm gonna go

train I'm gonna train hard because then

I can relax so adding and then I get to

onto the end of basically anything can

give you a lot of motivation so even the

simple activities we labeled earlier the

I have two things I have to get the kids

ready for school I have to go to work I

have to fix the car if you change it to

I get to take the kids to school I get

to go to work I get to get the car fixed

and then I can relax or and then I'm

going to give myself I'm going to treat

myself and allow myself to have a glass

of wine or some ice cream whatever add

and then on to the end of every single

difficult task and change I have to to I

get to try that for a week and you'll

see exactly how your entire world

changes language body language is how

people communicate without speaking

since the dawn of human time people have

always communicated with our speaking

and a man's role and I'm assuming you're

a man because I doubt a female would

have bought this a man's role is very

very specific in his body language

in this course you're going to see a

video where I kind of do an overview on

body language and I basically say

be combative but I'm gonna I'm gonna go

into that into more detail in this video

the reason I say being combative is

because being combative is the most

important body language which exists

which you can portray to other men and

to women because this is the only body

language which was important for

millennia

for human EX in the human existence the

only important body language was the

body language that you are not an easy

target it attracted women

and it made men respect you

so we're going to talk about the broad

basics of body language and we're going

to do some little tips and tricks

overall so the first thing I want you to

understand is

combative does not mean walking around

swaying shoulders like this combative

means looking alert

I think Jordan Peterson says something

about this but I don't think his body

language is particularly Alpha in fact I

don't think the world has many Alpha

Role Models sure if you name the right

wing Role Models like Milo and Jordan

Peterson and all these people are just

weirdos none of them are particularly

overtly Alpha besides Trump himself but

Trump is a great guy to study body

language wise you want a body language

lesson watch Trump he doesn't play games

anyway

you have to look combative so the look

combative it's basic things it means be

ready for a fight that does not mean

project aggression it means be ready for

a fight so if you were walking down the

road you're walking down the road are

you more ready for a fight with your

hands in your pockets

or your hands outside your pockets

or you're more ready for a fight if

you're staring at your phone with your

head down or with your head up with your

shoulders back with your posture correct

while I teach you in this course is not

just going to be do this do this do this

it's how to think about body language so

that you're over you're overtly aware of

how you're acting you need to be aware

of how you act

so you need to have a correct posture

you need to sit up straight sit properly

you need to have your hands out of your

pockets you need to look where you're

going and not look down not be

distracted not look like a victim

this is extremely important in

projecting to men and it's also

important when protecting to women so

we're going to go in that in detail in

this course so

I know I just mentioned Trump but we

also can't forget about Putin because

Putin's KGB trained he knows exactly how

to act

so when someone's talking to him and

he's wants to make it clear he doesn't

give a [ __ ] what they say

he will for example lean back in his

chair

so Putin will sit there and you'll start

talking to him and he'll sit with this

this is Putin's I don't give a [ __ ] this

is Putin's I'm not listening

many traditional body language courses

will teach you ah if you cross your arms

you're not receptive this is true you

know like this shows you're not open

you're not receptive you're crossing

your arms Etc but as much more subtle

moves like leaning back in your chair

in the back of your chair is a great one

I use it all the time so I'm gonna sit

there and start talking to me if I don't

like what I have to sell lean back

I'll still look at them I was lean back

in my chair I'll look directly at them

and they'll know oh [ __ ]

upset him somehow

so I'll make that clear

so we're gonna go over a few things the

first thing we're talking about is being

trusted and listened to

now if you've bought my other courses

you know that my brain is a mega Hive of

unlimited potential

petrabytes of is petrabyte even a thing

no okay

if you've bought my other courses you'll

know that my brain is unrivaled by

anyone else on this planet terabytes on

Palm terabytes of information from [ __ ]

knows where I'm just a genius so like

all my other videos I'm just going to be

talking bang information should be

coming at you you need to sit there slow

it down watch it over and over again

decipher it and put some things in

action because I guarantee there's a lot

you're doing wrong already

right now

don't move

your posture right now where are your

hands are you sitting up straight do you

even look are you sitting correctly or

are you all like in your chair maybe

you're already making mistakes you don't

know so the first things we'll talk

about is how to be listened to and

trustworthy I have been to court six

times and every time I've walked and

I've never used a lawyer and I've

represented myself and the reason for

that is because I one I speak very

clearly very precisely and I know

exactly how to use the human language

but secondly is my body language so

sometimes in court

you need to look believable you need to

look innocent and to do this you make

yourself appear less aggressive

big men have this problem small men are

very concerned about looking big whereas

a big man in many situations you need to

look less intimidating if my car breaks

down and I want to knock on someone's

door to use the phone I know that's

super old school and I know that's how

people get murdered in every single

movie but it's just an example

but if I knock on the door people don't

answer the door to me

when me and Tristan knock on doors they

look outside and go what the [ __ ] who

the [ __ ] is two six foot five dudes no

no chick is opening that door me and my

brother used to have a job where we used

to do door-to-door sales a long time ago

and we had to quit the job because no

one would answer the door to us but to

find these two massive guys just be like

what the [ __ ] no one answered out the

window well can I sell you nah get the

[ __ ] away from my house

you have to try and change your

Borderlands should appear less

aggressive so we'd actively slunk or

hold a clipboard or something to just

make yourself seem smaller so when I was

in court and they were accusing me of

things I didn't [ __ ] do but even

though I was innocent of course you have

to look and say so you don't look

innocent by looking aggressive you're

looking to sit by looking smaller you

make yourself seem smaller you'd add in

stammering to your language so I I never

say I'm an uh ever I'm like oh yeah well

I don't think it's fair uh uh uh and you

almost in many ways see yourself appear

less intelligent not less intelligent in

a stupid he's dumb he did it way in a

very like I couldn't hurt anyone women

are experts at this women do this the

best watch a female get pulled over by

the police

watch Richard start going oh oh really

oh playing stupid is a great way to play

innocent and it's very very effective

what you'll find in one language

sometimes the biggest result is when you

can juxtapose them against each other so

I was in court they'd ask me questions

I'd be like oh no I don't even really

know how that works to be honest but I

don't

don't really know

but add in these little delays I

deliberately slow my speech down but

then when I had to make a point I'd

completely flip it

and I'd be very adamant and direct with

my words even now and even in all my

pink speech videos you'll notice how I

use my hands if I have a point to make I

use my hands to make the point I direct

the point with my hands you're going to

notice me doing all the time now

something I do on accident

but if I want to make a point I'll say

something like and the reason for this

the reason your mom has a big ass is

because she eats too much

I'll do things like this I'll explain

the reason I'll get your attention on my

hands and then I'll directly give you

the reason and I'll put it into your

brain I'll put it in with my hands this

is something I do completely by natural

I don't have to think about it anymore

but it's something I did learn

and it's amazing with women it's great

with women when you're arguing with them

and they sit there and be like blah blah

blah I didn't [ __ ] [ __ ] her

be quiet

I'm here but the physical action makes

them sit there and go okay just be very

aware very avert with your hands like I

said this course is just going to be

knowledge flying at you so when you talk

where are your hands where are they how

do you use them your hands you should be

extremely expressive with your hands

especially if you're a man when I before

I was a kickboxing or check and I worked

in sales

and I have the best sales record in the

[ __ ] company obviously and a lot of

that was down to body language

sit there in front of somebody I sold TV

advertising I'll sit there and say you

need TV advertising oh we do pretty good

I said yeah you do good now but in the

future you're going to need you're going

to need TV advertising it's the future

of advertising you're going to need it

I'll tell people you ain't got a choice

you better buy it today you need this

if they're okay well let me look at your

current strategy and then maybe I can

improve it no [ __ ] that garbage if

you're a Salesman you're watching this

now you better start telling people they

need it you can't live without this you

need this today

I understand my industry no disrespect

you're a diaper company or you're a

[ __ ] worker company you understand

War you know more about war than me I

understand advertising

see what I've done there you understand

War that's your thing advertising is my

thing you don't tell me about your

advertising strategy because I don't

[ __ ] care advertising is my thing

it's mine I own it and if I say you need

something you better buy it so you

understand war war is your industry

advertising my industry but in this

industry for a long time I'm telling you

with your current strategy you're having

success now but you won't have success

in the future and you're going to need a

different form of advertising that's

exactly how I've been people sitting

there going oh okay sorry should be very

very careful with your hands and how you

use things I am I am very good at that

you me this all these things are learned

you have to adapt your own style but you

need to sit there and think consciously

when you speak what are you doing with

your hands if you're gonna sit there and

talk with your hands in your pockets

you're not gonna be nearly as convincing

if I want to sit there and I want to

come across as there's the old mafia

boss you know you can sit and be like

with your hands in one place

and just use your eyes instead that

works but that's a far more that's the

kind of body language you use when you

don't really want to talk anymore

if I'm about to if I'm about to have

someone shot

and they come in to apologize to me

before I have them shot in the head I

won't be moving my hands I'll be

listening to them like this because I

don't want to listen to them and I don't

want to talk this is I don't really give

a [ __ ] anymore like this saying friends

of course you don't really care

when I met Donald Trump Jr in the Trump

Tower I was super aware of his body

language what Trump did it's something

I've never seen before Trump Jr we sat

down and we started talking he sat like

this

with his hands open on the table

I don't know where he learned that from

I'm sure he was tall we're having a

normal conversation we had coffees we

sitting on the table there's a round

table not like this and he sat down and

he said this

which I thought was quite interesting

I've actually never seen anyone else do

that before so it kind of threw me a bit

and I thought maybe the reason he was

taught that is because it's so unusual

because I read people's body language

and every other position this that you

see now I've never seen this

really ever

so that was interesting

so first thing to do is be very overtly

aware of how you use your hands when you

speak

if you want to direct something if you

want to be believed you want to be

convincing your hands have to be

involved in that process

when I was in my police interviews once

again I would use my hands overtly

and I would sit there and say I actually

said in some of my police tapes and when

I get them back when I'm finally cleared

of all charges he must have been gone

for four years I get the tapes back and

I'm gonna release them on Twitter it's

gonna be the best thing ever because I

made these pieces like [ __ ] fools

but I would say to them

in the tape I would say

very hard I said I said do you have a

camera in here and they'll be like oh

yeah we do I say okay I want this for

the camera I don't want this for the

tape I want this for the camera I am

innocent I am innocent me I've done

nothing wrong I'm saying anything with

your hands up

I'm innocent I'm innocent they're

different things I'm innocent I want

this on camera for the tape reference to

time what time is it

point at someone when you need something

uh

5 15 5 15. look at the day 5 15 24th of

November look I've done nothing wrong I

said that [ __ ] directly to the camera

and reference off the tape

body language makes a huge huge

difference and basically if you want to

be believed or trusted in my experience

which is [ __ ] vast you need to use

your hands effectively I've given you

some tips on how I do it you have to

adapt your own style like everything in

the world if you completely replicate

someone else's style it comes across as

unnatural and it doesn't work you need

your own style you can't be the exactly

the same as me and I can't be exactly

the same as you same as boxing or

fighting I could teach you how to do jab

cross but everyone does it a little bit

different everyone has a slightly

different style

so you have to adapt your own style what

you need to do is be overtly aware

if you're aware of things you'll pick up

on things and you'll change things

so the first thing is you use your hands

more effectively especially to be

trusted and listened to

how to speak convincingly

to speak convincing the laws you

probably already know these things you

have to talk loud you have to talk clear

and this is another thing you need to

learn I'm I'm actually tempted to do a

course specifically on oration but you

need to learn to speak effectively the

way you interact with the world outside

of your little digital keyboard and your

Twitter [ __ ] is with your voice

I know you're paying attention to my

hands now

is with your voice

if your voice is Meek or if your words

aren't clear or if you don't say what

you mean effectively then you're not

going to be taken seriously people take

me seriously because when I speak I

speak with a conviction they sit there

and go this [ __ ] knows

the way he's talking he knows what he's

talking about

and I do

let's sit here and go okay well um

so for um [ __ ] that

um and ah is something that you need to

forget instantly I don't care if you

have to train yourself I don't even have

to look in the mirror get rid of um get

rid of ah get rid of gaps it just

completely destroys your entire image

that [ __ ] needs to go and if something

can be learned and when I sit there and

listen to people oh well yeah uh well

yesterday we went out and then um it's

like what the [ __ ] you mean um I went

out and then um you don't remember what

you did yesterday I'll slow your [ __ ]

brain you look at the [ __ ] 99 people

look like idiots because they don't pay

attention to how they speak

so with our ration is extremely

important you get rid of um odds you're

in this [ __ ] it's one of the first

things you have to do to speak

convincingly second things is with the

hands the body language the third thing

is you have to be if you're standing or

you're sitting regardless you have to

have a presence as a person

nobody believes in nobody

so if you're sitting in a room you need

to be overtly taking up space as a man

especially they call it man sling that's

all the feminists call it he's

mansplaining he's taking up space I'm a

man I'm a [ __ ] man I got space my

space it's mine and I have something to

say in here to listen

you want to be believed It's a

combination of things but a lot of

people just want to sit in a little

chair oh well I was thinking that for

the progress report maybe it's garbage

also there's nothing wrong with talking

too loud outside of shouting [ __ ]

talk loud conquer the room you're gonna

piss some people off but guess you're

gonna piss off you're gonna piss off the

betas you're never gonna piss off the

boss

like I said when I used to have a job

boss loved me

I'd sit in a meeting and just like look

here's how I sell

I was half yelling I don't know about

what the other guys are doing but what I

do is I tell them they better buy it

today

the boss is sitting there and go this

[ __ ] guy

but I had the best sales record if I sat

there and go um well I don't know how

you do it but what what I uh sometimes

do is uh this is [ __ ] [ __ ] scream

at people sit there go no this that

thing Direct

don't be afraid of the attention you're

gonna get if you had Alpha body language

if you have serious body language and

you project you're gonna attract a whole

bunch of attention if you're shy you're

not going to want the attention it's

going to impact your psyche it's going

to impact how you portray yourself

forget the attention don't worry about

it it's coming there's no other way to

project yourself project yourself in a

way where you attract attention be loud

[ __ ] all wrong with it be loud

it's exactly the same with lion

learning how to be convincing and how to

be believable is the same when you lie

now people say when you lie people look

away from the eyes in my experience what

happens when people lie is they actually

know this that everyone's been told they

look away and they look at you more

try to prove they're not lying

the easiest way to lie is to not change

your body language in any way from when

you're telling the truth a polygraph

test the only how does a polygraph test

work you can't just plug yourself in and

say lie or true It Only Knows by

comparing you to a baseline first they

ask you your name they ask you questions

you tell the truth to and then they

compare it when you lie and they see the

difference well body language is no

[ __ ] different if you know you're

gonna have to lie to somebody

you need to sit there before the

conversation even starts and talk about

something which is easy for you to talk

about and be smart enough to be speaking

with one side of your brain and with the

other side of your brain measuring where

are my eyes where are my hands how am I

standing how am I sitting and then when

it starts coming to lie you don't alter

[ __ ] if you're already looking in the

eyes continue to look them in the eyes

if you're not looking at them if your

hands are a certain way keep them there

you only get detected on Lies when you

alter your body language it doesn't

matter what body language you have you

can be like I am now Alpha projecting

trying to make a point Ultra convincing

or you can sit there like a Meek it

doesn't matter if that is the default

and you retain the default when you're

telling the LIE then you have nothing to

lose

so would you tell a lie it's not about

you how do I act when I tell a lie it's

not changing how you acted before

this is the most important thing but

most of you guys are so unaware of your

body language you're so unaware of where

your hands go unaware of where you're

looking think of your last conversation

with someone where were you looking

think about it uh act then I guess I

don't I don't know you're going to like

ignorant you don't [ __ ] know if you

learn your own [ __ ] and you adapt your

own [ __ ] to have a style which is

favorable to you and favorable to your

outcomes that's gonna be very very easy

for you to lie because you can replicate

your own style so that's how you [ __ ]

lie I will pass any lie detector test

there is in fact

writing that down for a tape speech we

get a lie detector company in here I'm

gonna [ __ ] do it I'm gonna pass it

and the reason I'm gonna pass it is

because I don't give a [ __ ]

ask me a question take me the greatest

amount of Life yes true

that's the Baseline questions everyone

knows it's [ __ ] true

hey do you give a [ __ ] about these hoes

no true

they're gonna ask me a lie like tank is

Meghan Markle a good princess I'm gonna

say yes

just obviously a [ __ ] lie it's still

gonna come up as true hope that [ __ ]

doesn't get hold of that piece of paper

and use it as proof daddy tape validated

me [ __ ] hate that hoe when we're

talking about

the correct way to be we're not talking

about things like hands seat positioning

Etc this is universal across Texas the

same way you can make a man like you and

you can sell products in a business

meeting it's the same way you can make a

girl [ __ ] you it's no different

all of it is based around primary

evolutionary human instincts around

confidence confidence trustworthiness

these are things that is a dawn of time

they look at dude and go this is a

competent guy

if a man looks at you and thinks this is

a competent guy they want to be your

friend in a business relationship if

they look at you and think this is a

competent guy they want to give you

money and if a girl looks at you and

thinks this is a competent guy she wants

to suck your dick it's the same there's

no difference in your body language for

a woman or for a man or for business or

something else it's project it's

projecting competence and confidence

and combat ability in all of the

situations

you need to learn to walk into a room

like I am the fattest [ __ ] in

the room

well the best [ __ ] on Earth

you're gonna walk in like that

just walk in like a [ __ ] G

doesn't matter what you're doing don't

worry about the [ __ ] a [ __ ] or [ __ ]

sell sell a [ __ ] window who gives a

[ __ ] you walk in like I'm the [ __ ] yeah

sit down yeah coffee please thanks

[ __ ] man's here but [ __ ] my man's

here you sucking dick well obviously

you're gonna be like that so I know a

lot of you guys are going to come back

to me go okay thanks for the course but

what do I do with this girl you do with

the girl the same [ __ ] you do with the

guys it's the same thing

because it's the same general attributes

which are seen as attractive

keep that in mind how to intimidate well

I don't really like

the idea of intimidating unless I mean

what I say

the easiest way to intimidate someone is

to mean what you say

but just like lying in most of my

personal experiences you intimidate by

changing your body language

humans are amazing at detecting change

if something stays still

it's not nearly as attractive to the

human eye as if something moves

something about your corner derive still

it's fine when it moves

humans detect changes in velocities

changes in speeds so how the human eye

works detecting changes

and it's very similar with body language

so let's say I'm out

and let's say three guys are going to

attack me

and I don't want to fight the guys

because I might lose so I want to

intimidate them

so let's say at first I'm like hey get

the [ __ ] [ __ ] off and then we go outside

and go you don't [ __ ] do it and I go

and I and I've been overtly I've been

aggressive I've been the big man I'm

like look at the [ __ ] away from me and

they come outside they want to fight me

anyway I'll change my body language

completely I'll say

okay

okay we're gonna find out okay

and then they'll be available

we're gonna fight I tried to tell you

not to and you want to fight so I tried

to be reasonable it's done so we're

gonna fight now so let's go and I'll

start walking towards them

and that Sudden Change in body language

is what makes people think what the [ __ ]

you have to change your body language

typically people intimidate by screaming

because they start low and they go high

to intimidate so they'll start like

trying to be sensible and reasonable and

the person doesn't listen and they'll go

you know what [ __ ] did it and they'll

change it but it's not the shouting

which is intimidating it's the change in

body language but everyone's accustomed

to that

I do it the other way around

the other right round for me is far more

effective let's say you're arguing with

your girl you're a stupid [ __ ] oh I'm

tired of your [ __ ] you're always [ __ ]

These Hoes boo I said yeah I [ __ ] hoes

watch shut the [ __ ] up cook follow the

argument argument eventually she won't

shut up you at the point and go you know

what you know what

we've argued enough we've all good

enough

and you get you get your keys she goes

where are you going just go oh no I'm

gonna go out don't worry no I don't want

to argue with you I'm just going to go

out I'm just gonna go out I take the

keys she's gonna be more worried about

you being sensible and calm and nice

that if that if you're shouted anymore

because it's the change in body language

you have to understand more language

isn't about do this to be this way it's

about being able to flip it

and it's having that sudden deceleration

that massive change suddenly is what

makes people think

when I've been attacked before that

story I just told you is a completely

true story this was only one guy

I had a guy who's talking [ __ ] from the

other side of the [ __ ] room so I bro

stay the [ __ ] over there he was talking

[ __ ] you ain't nothing new nothing I

said bro I'm not trying to fight you if

you come around and [ __ ] hurt you

anyway he gets up

because I was walking over I stand up

and say okay we're gonna fight this

let's at least let's at least do outside

he goes yeah we're gonna go outside

walk downstairs like you know what and

[ __ ]

[ __ ] it's how he felt comfortable

because take you know I'm just sick of

your [ __ ] say no it's fine you're sick

we're going outside

I'm done shouting I'm not a girl I don't

Shout

out my thing I don't Shout by females

emails spoke I told you to stay away

from me you didn't want to listen so

let's go

I wasn't being intimidating in any way I

wasn't active intimidating it's the

change in body language you made him

think what the [ __ ] this guy

he didn't want to fight anymore because

I became nicer all of a sudden he's like

this guy's too calm [ __ ] are

shooting me or some [ __ ] oh this guy's

crazy so it's not about being a certain

way it's about being overtly aware of

your body language in a way that allows

you to switch it on people

most of you are so unaware of your own

body language you can't effectively

change it okay you can go from happy to

angry or from normal to shall we those

are basic things a kid can do that but

you can't do it on a very conscious

level with tiny details you can't flip

reverse it and go from Angry to nice you

can't mix it up nobody in this world has

dealt with someone a full-grown man

going from crazy screaming to nice

inside of two seconds

that comes across a psychopath that

scares people when you come across says

you [ __ ] didn't [ __ ] you know what

it's okay it's okay I agree we should we

should hurt each other

that's what makes people think what the

[ __ ] is God's [ __ ] to us

that's how you intimidate someone the

sudden [ __ ] change everyone's dealt

with it from happy to angry or normal to

angry no one's done with the other way

[ __ ] rap I'll reverse on people I

start shouting

you come near my car I [ __ ] start

shouting but then once I know it's

violence time I dropped the whole

shouting act I go straight into the

nicest man in the world I'll smash his

[ __ ] face

so you'd be aware of your body language

and able to change it this is extremely

important a lot of people talk about

mirrored body language I don't like this

[ __ ]

people go oh if you mirror someone's

body language they like you more now

[ __ ] that

it's [ __ ] [ __ ] oh so someone crosses

their arms

as Simon says it's a little [ __ ] punk

I say how I want to say I call him in

the other room I sit like this what I

sit like this if everyone changes the

boy language I don't [ __ ] care this

is how I see it because I'm in charge

Alphas don't change their body language

look at orangutans look at [ __ ] Apes

we've got a closest relative we've got

the alpha doesn't change for [ __ ]

everyone else changes when he's around

so don't believe that mirroring crap

well if you go out with a girl and you

mirror her body language shut the [ __ ]

up man I'm gonna sit there with a girl

she crossed her arms and I cross my arms

and then we should suck my dick never

never

I sat down I was the [ __ ] man so I

should suck this dick I'm the dude

[ __ ] me cross my arms when she did

[ __ ] that [ __ ] it's garbage forget that

mirroring

now we're going to move on

smiley

smiling is effective but it's only

effective if it's used selectively

people tell me take you never smile

that's not true I do smile I smile

selectively my smile has a value

if you guys are watching this I'm

trusting you've seen the PHD course how

do you give your attention a value by

making it rare why is gold valuable

because it's scarce my smile has a value

because I rarely smile if you walk

through life

one you have a [ __ ] [ __ ] won and two

who gives a [ __ ] if you're smiling at

all

if I smile my smile has value has weight

has currency

I've had girl my girl been six years

she'll messaged me I made you smile

today she's happy that she made me smile

because it's hard to do there's

achievement in it oh my God I made him

smile

he woke up and I'd already cooked dinner

and uh he woke up and I'm cooking

breakfast and I had coffee in his

favorite mug and I brought it to him and

I told him I loved him and he smiled a

little bit

she got her reward which is my smile if

she woke up and I was like hey baby hey

hey what if you give a [ __ ] am I smiling

off

I smile what it's deserved and you're a

[ __ ] full-grown man you should be

walking through life smiling

you just smile at people when something

of Merit happens I'm not saying come

across as a miserable [ __ ] I'm not

saying that I'm not saying sitting there

look like you're gonna [ __ ] kill

yourself you're not Eeyore I'm saying

you need to smile selectively once again

you need to adapt your own body language

style you need to decide when you're

going to use your smile when you're not

you don't say trying to hold it in I'm

saying you've probably learned to smile

instinctively you're smiling at things

that don't really make you smile and

you're smiling at things that you don't

find funny to be polite but let me tell

you what smiling is smiling is a sign of

submission

look at Apes on our all our closest

relative

Apes smiled to submit when the alpha

appears the beta males they show their

teeth they go

it's it's like don't hurt me

it's this is what this is not so you can

study this today Google YouTube right

now they show their teeth in a sign of

submission that's what smiling is if

you're going through life every person

you meet you're like hey hey hey hey hey

hey hey hey hey hey hey you're busy

saves your world no one hurt me please

please now I'm a nice guy

how are you fine you yeah good yeah does

Trump smile at every [ __ ] he

sees no it's Trump [ __ ] it yeah yeah all

right okay yeah

yeah [ __ ] there's someone who acts

like a real G turns up someone who's

done a fantastic job that week he'll

give him a little bit of a smile though

smile

why does Trump smile Max he doesn't walk

through life looking like a [ __ ]

happy clown and neither should you your

smile is a selective tool it must be

rare it must be used effectively you

smile at a girl she used to [ __ ]

deserve that [ __ ] you smile at a guy he

needs to deserve that [ __ ] let me walk

through like [ __ ] smiling life's all

about just being as happy as possible

this is the [ __ ] the media is trying

to sell you they're purporting this idea

if you're happy smile be nice to

everyone who's happy all the time smile

all the time nice all the time he's a

[ __ ] loser you know it and I know it

so you don't want to be that guy you're

going to be [ __ ] smiling use your

smile selectively

I use my smile selectively especially in

dates and girls

if I'm sitting there it's a little bit

Frosty whatever whatever I don't allow

awkward science silences because I'm too

efficient for those things I've got a

PhD a pimpanos degree but if uh we're

talking and the Talk's just very general

I'm I'm very neutral I'm like this oh

yeah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

when she starts to flirt with me a

little bit or if she starts to be a

little bit more open or I know for sure

she's going to get dick

then I might smile a little bit i'm like

[ __ ] you crazy I'll smile

she'll say something and I'll smile

before I answer say oh I didn't expect

you to be like this I thought you'd be

more arrogant like why I'll smile but

she says at the beginning I didn't

expect to be more arrogant I'm like why

I'm very different I decide to smile

when she's receptive to me you're

receptive to me and you're gonna [ __ ]

do what I want you can have a smile in

return smile is a weapon like like your

attention is a weapon like everything

you have is a weapon you're a walking

bag of weapons so much you men don't

understand your attention has a value

your smile has value you're you're

replying to somebody all has value and

you guys are just running through life

throwing it away every single chick

giving them attention for no reason even

though they don't suck dick messaging

girls all the time friend zoning

yourself smiling at everyone just

throwing your weapons away

then how the [ __ ] you're gonna do

something exclusive how do you show me

I've made you happy if you're already

smiling every [ __ ] you've ever met

it's stupid

now you don't have to come across as a

horrible person I don't have to I don't

I don't smile often at all but let's say

I'm in the store and I'm buying

something and the guy goes I'll say yeah

this much Holly thank you thanks I'll

not a lot in fact if I'm walking past

the security guard he looks at me I will

smile on mod I know it is a

you and I both know who the men the bad

men in the room are all the big men know

the big men nod all the big men know if

you're not a big man you're watching

this show what's he talking about you're

a big guy right now you know when big

men walk in the club and there's another

big man in the club you instantly human

instinct you catch eyes like okay he's

the only person in this club who can

match me physically if there's gonna be

a fight that's the only guy I have to

worry about and you always link eyes and

you always kind of do this

thing it's like yeah all right cool

we've clocked each other we decided

we're cool is done

big man

it's a thing big men know

but not as far more effective than a

smile you want to be polite notice

somebody

yeah thank you cheers thanks bye

thanks

happy over skills little [ __ ] smile

over skills [ __ ] wrong with you if I

have to tell you to give a firm

handshake

then I don't know what the [ __ ] you're

doing here because you should know that

already if I have to tell you that

fidgeting makes you appear bored you

should know that already if you want to

look bored

this is obvious [ __ ] you know this one

if a girl if you're sitting with a girl

and she crosses her legs she's basically

saying you're going nowhere near my

[ __ ] that's like an anti-rape

[ __ ] instant reaction you know how to

read these things you know these things

because you know how to read them

instinctively if you sit with a girl and

she starts this and she does this you

know you ain't back you know it and I

know it all those pickup artist students

they teach what they call a keynote or

something [ __ ] gay [ __ ] I hate pickup

artists I hate pickup artists because I

know I'm the baddest I'm the best so

annoys me there's all these guys red

pill Mr Lucario Bad Boy The Dating Game

all these all these dudes and every time

I see the girls they're [ __ ] I'm like

what the [ __ ] is this bro these guys are

[ __ ] girls I wouldn't even [ __ ] I

wouldn't even touch their girls and

they're bragging about them like yeah I

went out and I game to this chick she's

the [ __ ] fine your nine is my five

you call her a knife is a [ __ ] five

my girls look like [ __ ] Playboy

bunnies my girl got two million photos

on Insta my girls have billionaire exes

my guess is my girls are actually hot

your girls are basic I hate pickup

artists anyway they're all [ __ ] they're

all [ __ ] idiots all of them none of

them are good for me but they talk about

this keynote thing where you need to do

some touching on the girl and I agree

that that I do that myself that can help

I have two things I do one is when I

first meet uh it depends I don't really

do the hug and kiss kissing when I first

meet girl I don't really do that unless

I know her quite well

but once we're talking [ __ ] one of the

things I get to do is I say I kickboxer

like all your books are I say yeah I'm

going to teach you I'm gonna train you

I'm gonna make you a little ninja

because you're beautiful No One's Gonna

expect you to kill them

and I give that compliment there and I'm

like oh like yeah you're gonna work for

me so really who do I have to kill I say

well are you strong enough and they'll

always go yeah I'll say go let me see

and then they'll tense their [ __ ]

muscles of them

got work to do that's how I first do my

the keynote break the ice touch them

thing I do the feeling their arms thing

but that only works designs huge arms if

I did that and she looked at my skinny

ass arms back and goes well where's your

[ __ ] muscle it doesn't work that

doesn't it so you have to choose your

own style but yeah they're all Crossing

off and they don't want you to touch

them whatever whatever then that's

obviously a bad sign you know these

things already

tell you super fun

if you've watched this at this point you

haven't taken any notes I doubt

definitely told you some [ __ ] you should

[ __ ] you probably don't know yet

especially changing it from from Angry

to calm I know none of you [ __ ] do

that because I've never seen anyone else

pull off from me Eyes eye contact

a lot of you are very unaware where

you're looking especially when you're

talking to somebody I look in people's

eyes I do that very very specifically

not in a creepy way I don't want none of

you [ __ ] to take my videos sometimes

I say things which are so nuanced

and I'm worried that people are gonna be

like okay Tate said this so I have to do

this I'm gonna go and be like hi

you have a [ __ ] psycho like you have

to keep things into perspective but

especially if you want to drive a point

home you look at someone's eyes like I

said before the biggest theme behind

this program which core the ability to

change your language it's the change of

language that people perceive more than

the language itself

so if I'm talking to a girl and I'm like

blah blah blah doesn't matter what I

said let me think of a sense it doesn't

matter what I'm saying but when I want

to drive the point home only then we're

looking to rise

yeah actually I'm really glad I met you

because you are beautiful

I'll say the beautiful part and look in

her eyes before I say that I'm looking

away

and that's what makes it more effective

it's more effective because I've gone

from looking away to looking at her if I

just looked at her and said I'm glad I

met you because I really think you're

beautiful it's not for me it's far more

effective for me to say yeah well I'm

glad I met you because I really think

you're beautiful

I'll look away and I'll look at them

when I say something I mean

and that change in body language is what

they perceive and that makes you far

more convincing

you see where I'm coming from don't tell

a girl she's beautiful we'll make sure

you're not looking at her and look her

in the eyes directly as you say like a

[ __ ] man

eye contact eye contact needs to be used

as punctuation

this is punctuation everything is

punctuation make them understand a point

that's how your eye contact should be

used unless you have to lock eyes every

[ __ ] you meet but needs to be

used as punctuation same with men

blah blah blah blah dude get the [ __ ]

away from me get the [ __ ] away from me

when I look in his eyes it's what I mean

it

when you're saying that you're knocking

his eyes you don't mean it say I live in

his eyes I mean it and if you guys watch

any of my other videos you understand

how important it is to never say

something you don't mean if you've not

watched my

video on tape speech it's completely

free tricks on depression it's about 25

minutes long watch that one and I talk

about how important it is to say what

you mean and mean what you say

don't tell somebody to knock them out

and she's going to do it they'll be one

of those people who walk through the

Earth talking [ __ ]

unless they look bro you don't got my

face to the I'm Gonna Knock You the [ __ ]

out

it's the first time I look in his eyes I

said I'm gonna knock him out you know

it's the first time I've looked at him

he knows I'm gonna mean it that's how

eye contact should be used to use power

poses is a thing

I had a lot of people send me lots of

emails about this course asking me

questions so I got asked about power

poses they say like if you sit there and

you do the Superman pose you're starting

to get more you naturally release more

testosterone you start to feel stronger

I believe that's true I do think that

works right it's definitely a thing you

know that certainly a thing do I walk

through life of the Superman pose no

should you know what the [ __ ]

when you look in the mirror you look in

the mirror like I'm a [ __ ] man

yeah you need to do that of course but

that's more here than a power pose so

I'm only answering this thing now so I

know some of the fucker's gonna come

back but what about my power pose if you

want to walk through life doing this it

makes you feel a little bit stronger go

for it how about you just get strong as

[ __ ] anyway you don't worry about

walking around looking like a [ __ ]

superhero a dork

so that's that [ __ ] I've told you a lot

about

being domineering and conquering however

a lot of you guys will know one of the

48 rules of power is never to outshine

the master so a lot of you may have a

boss and you can't act that way because

it's going to piss your boss off too

much if you're too overpowering I

managed to be overpowering my sales

meetings because I was such a [ __ ]

fantastic salesman the boss wouldn't say

[ __ ] to me because I made him so much

[ __ ] money but if you're middle of

the road or something you can't come

across that way you're going to annoy

people too much if you haven't got the

results to back it up

so one of the key things you can do if

you want to make people like you

two things you want to make you're like

you one's a body language trick one's

not a boy language trip

what is if you want people like you ask

them lots of questions

because everyone loves to talk about

themselves if I have if I'm meeting

someone extremely important which

happens all the [ __ ] time Trump

leaders anyone else I think okay I need

this person to like me I don't sit there

and try and impress me I don't sit there

and go okay agitate some of the chest

guard Master genius IQ 400 people's

world champion I've got lots of girls

lots of [ __ ] and money and a Lambo they

don't care nobody cares I sit and go

yeah okay it's really good to meet you

yeah I've always I've always been

interested in

ask them things because if you ask

people questions then they have to talk

they have to answer them and they have

to answer them by talking about

themselves and everyone loves themselves

so if you sit there with someone and

they only talk about themselves for an

hour they're gonna love the conversation

yeah it was really good to talk to you

because I got to brag for an hour this

is especially effective with women women

love this [ __ ] if you sit there and try

and make a woman impressive

I'm this I'm that boy now sit and go

you're different than I expect so what

do you do I'm here for a hairdresser

don't you get bored of like talking to

people all the time well no actually I

don't mind because something would be

really nice and it's going to be my best

customer to uh oh really okay yeah well

I don't even go to hairdresser as you

can tell because I'm already beautiful

so how long have you been haircut so far

I've been here for this long I went to

college and did it added little bits of

your own dialogue but basically just ask

them questions

I took one guy on uh

pickup coaching I don't normally do this

but I had one guy who paid me money to

go out with him for a weekend and pick

up girls and he said to me I'm really

nervous I'm really nervous like bro

ask them questions

say hello here's how you introduce

yourself here's you say hello ask them

questions and if you do that you're 75

there because they're just gonna talk

about themselves it doesn't matter what

they reply who gives a [ __ ] you're a

hairdresser you're a nurse You're A

Stripper it's all the same [ __ ] who

cares oh really that's interesting same

answer to them all ask them let them

talk [ __ ] about themselves this is super

effective to make people like you super

effective because everyone loves to talk

about themselves so keep that in mind

and then the body language trick is to

really look like you're listening

most people don't look like they're

listening if I want someone to like me I

really look like I'm listening so if I

need a boss to like me or a girl for

like me I'll make sure it's clear I'm

paying attention

so if you've ever been in like a group

of people and there's one girl you want

to [ __ ] and everyone's kind of talking

amongst themselves but when that girl's

talking people are half listening but

when that girl's talking not Nuance

don't look like a [ __ ] creep but make

it clear you're listening if other

people are all talking to you and she

starts talking to you go okay yeah

look at her I'm listening to you

because then oh he thinks I'm important

he thinks what I say matters and the

boss is the same he listens when I talk

to him he thinks I'm important he thinks

why I say matters

in a corporate situation

what I used to do I see this all the

time bosses love this [ __ ] I used to

walk around a little notepad pen

so if I got called into the boss's

office I'd go into the notepad and pen

and sit there and when they were talking

to me I just randomly write things down

and I feel he said why you got that she

said I don't want to miss any key points

but they like that [ __ ] like I'm talking

and he's writing it down to not miss my

key points yeah well Mr Andrew you are

the best salesman you have sold three

times more than everybody else but I'm a

greedy CEO come so I want you to sell

more so I was just wondering if you

could possibly do this or if you tried

doing this because you're my cash cow

and I want to milk you for all your

worth yeah you're right I did try that

actually I did try that but I'm gonna

I'm gonna find the email I'm gonna send

it to you I mean okay yeah

you sit there and you I'm listening to

you sir well you have to say matters I'm

writing it down but they're gonna

[ __ ] love you they're gonna love you

and I'm like who the [ __ ] this guy and

then they call the [ __ ] jackass

salesman and hi where's your sales yeah

I've tried

that's how you be light

making people make it clear you listen

to people most of you don't make it

clear you're listening to someone make

it clear you are listening to them the

notepad and Pen example is fantastic for

the boss they [ __ ] love that [ __ ]

they're missing they go this dude is

[ __ ] miss takes his [ __ ] seriously

because a boss hires you to make them

money they're always going to pay you

less than they make out of you otherwise

they wouldn't have a business

so if you're sitting there taking them

seriously you're taking their money

seriously wouldn't you love it if you

have someone who came into your house

with a pen and paper and goes how can I

make you more money tell me what to do

people that [ __ ] like this guy who

wouldn't

so he doesn't make it clear you're

listening to people and ask lots of

questions all the time

especially once again with the boss they

love to ask questions

so even if I knew the correct answer I'd

ask them a question

so I'd say uh something like you know I

have my pen and my paper I'm sitting

there

I'm always trying to get a job again

because it was so easy you know I never

failed a job interview ever I'd go for

Jaws that were that required a degree I

didn't even have a degree I just walk in

there goes Mr Tate uh your degree I'm

going to agree didn't need one I didn't

need one because I'm the best I'm

prepared to prove I'm the best I'll work

for a week for free and I guarantee

within a six months I'm gonna smash any

sales Target you set me I don't have

time to go to university and sit there

for four years I'm here to get paid I'm

here to get you rich I'm here to make me

Rich I'm the best there's ever been

well he's gonna work for free is at

least try him out

I never failed a job interview ever ever

I got every [ __ ] job

tempted to go back it was so fun but

sick of my pen and paper

and I'd ask him questions knowing the

answers already

I'm like okay sir well I've been trying

two different types of proposal emails

one of them is getting about 20 more

responses than the other so it's the one

I think is the best but I want to send

both to you so if you have time I know

you're busy if you could just read them

and just confirm that's the process I

should be going that's the path I should

be going now that's the process of the

emails I'm going to be sending you'll be

like okay yeah send them across to me as

if he's gonna say no the other one where

it's not as effective of course you're

going to choose the effective one if

he's if he's a clever cat which he

probably is the CEO he's gonna come back

with the odd amendment to try and make

it look like he knows something so come

back and go yeah that's really good

that's good Andrew try and add this and

this and I think you'll be about there

and I'll pretend I didn't think of that

good idea I didn't think that's going to

add it right away we'll update you

shortly I'll pretend I didn't [ __ ]

know and pretend that it's important

even though it doesn't matter he'll

think he tricked me ah Andrew he's a

[ __ ] smart [ __ ] but I'm still the

smartest I'm the boss

bam

that's how they like you then when you

walk in there and go excuse me sir I've

been working really really hard for you

and I do my very very best in this

company's Corporation I respect you

absolutely but I'm unfortunately in a

situation where I need to get paid more

money

who was it gonna be that's what I used

to do I used to smash sales records and

then they were sitting there like this

tank guy's gonna make a company Rich I'd

walk into three months later and say

unfortunately I'm in a situation where I

need more money

not could you please consider not the

the the the no unfortunately

situation where I need more money and

their answer would be okay uh well we

have a courtly review coming up and we

need to make sure your sales stay on

track they try and delay it and say okay

I'll wait for the courtly review no

problem I'm very very excited about

smashing records I'm no longer

interested in sales targets I'm

interested in beating the company's

sales records I know they're already

mine not going to beat them again

I'd say that and the reason I say all

that knowing that the courtly reviews

two three weeks away is because

basically I've said you better give me a

pay rise in that review

or I'm leaving

the CEO is sitting there go [ __ ] this

[ __ ] I can't let him go he's the best

we got

to put his money out and with the court

review come say oh yeah hi Sarah

obviously I've been doing fantastic

sometimes I had a couple of them try it

unfortunately we're not going to

increase your pay at this time I'd say

okay no problem I appreciate that I just

want to make it clear with you I'm going

to do my utmost I'm going to continue

doing my job effectively I believe that

we're going to do something I'm going to

do it properly but I am in a position

where I unfortunately do require more

money so I'm not

term of employment

I'm going to leave that

every time I know within two days

some [ __ ] offer

even if I didn't need the money take the

money the [ __ ] even with only a little

bit money who cares take it thanks

it's a principal thing you're gonna

[ __ ] reward me [ __ ] what

dessert I got a company car that exact

same way

okay and I sat down and I said excuse me

sir I did an unfortunately position

where I can no longer use my own

personal vehicle he said we don't do

company cars but so I understand that

and I know you're paying me 20 cents per

mile but the car I have it's been

damaged on the car also my brother needs

to use the car I am a very good salesman

I can I intend to continue to sell

effectively I guarantee I will continue

to break every single company record but

I can no longer do it in my vehicle I

need to be provided with a vehicle or I

can no longer work for this company

boo give me a car

most you [ __ ] are afraid to say [ __ ]

walk in there give me a car I want a car

literally me and my brother sitting in

our apartment one day he said I need the

car tomorrow I was like I need to go to

a meeting [ __ ] this they give me a

[ __ ] car

next day had a car we don't do company

cars yeah you do renting a [ __ ] car

because your number one salesman makes

you all your money [ __ ] said so I

guarantee you do that don't you went

down to Hertz and picked me up a [ __ ]

nice car of course you did BMW 3 Series

thanks let's go coffee all over the

[ __ ] seats ain't mine I don't give a

[ __ ] so you're gonna be mean your [ __ ]

but with CEOs sometimes you have to

pretend you're listening but pretend

you're listening to people they like

that [ __ ] give you a little Notepad

your [ __ ] together this can also work

with women

sometimes when one of my girlfriends I

say one of because all you Real G's know

how else Realties live

they're like oh I've really gonna call

problem I need your Tylenol they're

complaining man say look listen I'm busy

right now

I'm gonna come around later I'm gonna

throw it out

if I said okay it's almost matter and I

have to listen no no I'm coming I'll

turn up later okay you have all my

attention what's the problem

blah blah blah blah blah okay all right

okay I'm gonna do something about it

yeah but listen I'm a [ __ ]

[ __ ] then you do nothing and then

they forget about it

just giving someone your undivided

attention and a short burst can be

extremely effective extremely effective

leaning forward implies you're paying

attention

keep that in mind as opposed to leaning

back we've already discussed this

already

I've got a long list of questions from

you [ __ ] leaning forward

implies your opinion this one goes how

do I make it clear that I'm paying

attention to them we'll make it clear

you're listening to them we just

discussed all this but also lean forward

and lean forward sometimes yes tell me

it matters so much I don't actually

recommend this for women but it is

something you can do

also we're talking about women there's a

lot of body language with pictures of

women that people talk about like don't

lean in towards the girl

we just talked about leaning in because

leading in shows that you're listening

shows you're attentive

they have every single picture is of you

leaning into your girlfriend then it

shows that basically she's in charge

because you listen to Tara

as opposed to her leaning into you so it

is a sign of submission for the same

reason it's a sign of listening it's a

sign of submission so keep that in mind

if you want a picture of you and your

girl you know I brought an Instagram

whatever whatever

this is a picture of you I'm the man I

am the I am the oak tree

she's hugging the oak tree the oak tree

doesn't bend over to the people who

loves it I'm the [ __ ] G she enters

your world you don't enter hers most you

guys already know this stuff so it's not

that complicated but yeah you know it

hasn't got to be conscious the reason

body language is so effective is because

it's unconscious that's why it's

effective that's what people read it

because it happens by accident

so you have to consciously alter yours

but when you're going through life you

can't be sitting there going how do I do

this how to do that you've got to just

start thinking about it and practice a

little bit and become natural with your

hands etc etc

so body language for women is never

appear submissive women don't want to

[ __ ] a man they don't respect

women don't have to like you to [ __ ] you

they have to respect you

do you know how many times I've

retweeted check my Twitter I've

retweeted a girl saying I can't stand

this Tate speech guy but something about

him I have to follow him or on my

YouTube video I hate you you're such a

dick and I almost want to meet you or I

retweet the girl today I almost want to

slap I kind of want to slap him kind of

want to [ __ ] him and that's because they

don't like me

but they respect me so like this [ __ ]

[ __ ] yeah I guess that's true well

yeah I guess that's they respect me

women don't gotta like you we gotta

respect you so I I [ __ ] loads of girls

who hate me in fact every day some

girl's telling me she hates me every

[ __ ] dad [ __ ] hate you

dick comes along she's happy to take it

so you have to act in a way that's

respected women don't respect men who

are submissive to them women respect men

who are in control

that's what happens women try to take

control because it's natural for them to

attempt it and if you let them succeed

they'll just become worse and worse now

a spiral of just becoming a bigger and

bigger [ __ ] because they're waiting

for you to take control back that's what

happens

so it's the same as your body language

so if you're always leaning in and she's

the boss

she's not going to be happy with those

photos she wants a photo where you look

in control and basically uninterested in

her

if you look at photos I recommend go to

at Cobra tape we'll put a few examples

in this video we'll go to Atco protect

and find pictures of me with girls

there's one of me with a cigar and it's

a girl either side am I staring at the

girls

do I give a [ __ ] they even exist I'm

having a cigar bro I'm busy I'm smoking

these are just some hoes what natural

because I don't care about the girls so

who's in control there me

by not showing them attention the number

of the most important body language for

a picture with a girl is basically to

come across like I don't give a [ __ ]

someone goes you're about to take a

picture with a girl how did you come

across as an alpha you don't give a [ __ ]

about the girl simple you don't care

about the girl that's a close enough

take a picture that you take it she

wasn't even [ __ ] there bang smoking

well there's a hoe there's a hoe there

take life whatever that's one it's

another one of me with sunglasses on

with two blondes on the side and in this

one I'm smiling why am I smiling I'm

smiling because of what I'm looking at

just agreed to get [ __ ] with the other

one two seconds before that so you're

both stand with me tonight oh I don't

know I'm nervous it's like look we're

gonna go drinking she goes oh oh maybe

and I smile it's like all right good

we're gonna go out

I was smiling because she agreed like I

said earlier positive reinforcement I'm

miserable you said what I wanted you to

say now I'll smile if I just smiled her

because I knew she was about to be

licking the other one's [ __ ] in about

four hours time

that's what that one was but in general

I'm sitting there if I wasn't looking at

her and smiling and I was looking

forward I'd go [ __ ] I'm a dude who

doesn't care women are always attracted

to [ __ ] people go why do girls like

[ __ ] they don't like [ __ ] they

like men who overt who display overtly

masculine qualities men who don't

succumb to their wishes men who don't

bend to their will mend her in charge

men who retain control men who can't be

influenced or complain now or nag that

and those kind of men are [ __ ] it's

all about the fact that he's an [ __ ]

it's about the fact that they can't

control him for the fact that they're

trying to take a picture with him he

doesn't give a [ __ ] if she's there or

not and those are overtly masculine

overtly attractive qualities to a woman

even she doesn't understand why but

that's the reality of it so if you're

sitting there going how do I picture

with a girl take a picture with a girl

if she doesn't exist

I'll pop another picture here of me and

my girlfriend in Thailand the last

picture of me taking

there you just seen it

do I look like I give a [ __ ] that she's

there now I am looking at her a lot of

body language every pill guys go don't

even look at the girl don't look at the

girl this bad bloody language

come on you're a human look at things

this is the [ __ ] woman dude look away

all the time an idiot but you can tell

by my body language I don't give a [ __ ]

her hands on my knee she's smiling I'm

not

is so a lot of the red pill stuff is

super specific like I've told you guys

when I'm teaching in the PHD course

there's no such thing as an exact

formula so this thing is an exact

specific thing because understanding

general rules General themes and

implementing them that's why everything

I teach is quite generalized I'm waiting

for you guys to see it ingest it

understand it and implement it in your

own unique style because then it comes

across as it comes across as authentic

if I say do this with your hands exactly

do this you look like a little [ __ ]

robots no I'm telling you to be aware of

certain things like chess you know the

rules and you make your own moves based

on the rules to win you have to develop

your own style but in general the key

for women is to just make it clear you

don't give a [ __ ]

because women like that

and also what's actually super

beneficial is if you genuinely don't

give a [ __ ] then it's super easy

why you have to act like you don't give

a [ __ ] if you actually don't do a [ __ ] I

actually don't care I've been around so

many chicks that picture of me with a

cigar and there's two girls hanging off

me I was when I was smoking a cigar you

can look carefully and you'll see my

eyes my eyes have been done I'm looking

at some guy and the guy's face is

literally

he was literally like his world was

blown because he saw me with two tens

not these other pickup artist versions

of tens

actual tens

Two Smoking Hall big booty big Kitty

Hawk ass young 20 year old chicks and he

was here to say

who the [ __ ] is this guy Mr cigar just

walked up and these chicks are hanging

all over him see a pimp is he famous who

is he

he was just blown away

I didn't give a [ __ ] he gave a [ __ ]

that's the difference don't give a [ __ ]

FDB we talked about smiling a little bit

when we talked about smiling we said how

was the sign of submission also you guys

will know on Twitter soy face

that's a sign of submission as well if

you're not comfortable within your own

skin you see a lot of people they take

pictures and they pull stupid faces

they're gonna like

or

or when they're with someone in the back

all that [ __ ] is submission all that

[ __ ] is evolutionary primate submission

or

he was broadcasting to the world that

you're a [ __ ] loser don't do that you

either smile in a picture because you're

happy

or you just look at the camera

done

you're not a [ __ ] clown and you're

not [ __ ] 15. you're making stupid ass

[ __ ] faces it's dumb don't do that

ever

especially not with a chick sometimes

chicks do that a lot

and you're next door

I guarantee you're not [ __ ] her to do

that

I've had girls do that next to me I'm

just like looking like the [ __ ] they

are because I don't give a [ __ ] [ __ ]

stupid ass faces for [ __ ] off

suck this

so don't do that [ __ ] so you're pulling

weird faces and photographs that's

because you're insecure and you're

trying to broadcast the world that

you're a little liberal coward and

you're hoping that no one destroys you

you're hoping Big Daddy tape doesn't

come along and squash you in the palm of

this awesomely huge hand that'd be like

that [ __ ] I [ __ ] hate that [ __ ] I

don't hang around with people who do

that [ __ ] don't do that

I'll put a picture of my brother now

with his girl

bank and decide

that girl there is called Bianca

dragashonda she has a million followers

Graham look her up you can Google her

she's the most famous girl in Romania

she's like oh [ __ ] her own TV show

legitimately A-list in Romania very rich

as well most men would be intimidated by

a famous woman who's that Hall who's

rich

Tristan went up to her in a [ __ ]

petrol station

went up to her start talking [ __ ]

just the way me and him do it call her

number progression PhD guys Tower of

Power introduced himself blah blah blah

confident bang bang bang you can get

your number you got her Instagram

message her there on the spot so she saw

it even amongst a million messages ended

up getting her number anyway he ends up

[ __ ] this chick she's married

just [ __ ] married

whole thing comes out in the papers me

interested in them to pay the stars and

remain next or the guys who [ __ ]

Bianca I'm the brother but he's the guy

who [ __ ] Bianco and

she's married everything complete crazy

anyway the point of this picture is this

most men when they get a girl like that

they're all over

she's famous she's Rich she's important

she's special

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look at Tristan's body language in that

picture does he looks like he gives one

[ __ ] about that chick

he doesn't give a [ __ ] about that hoe he

doesn't care he doesn't care somehow

how many hoes have I [ __ ] who cares

you dudes are out here caring too damn

much it's garbage like all of my courses

what I'm going to do is I'm going to

update them forever for free so if

you've bought the PHD courses bought the

webcam course you've bought this course

your money has been well spent because

you're making new videos every couple of

weeks for free

forever

so this is the basis of my theory on

body language

if I've missed anything or something you

want me to talk about send me an email

because guess what another video will

come out and I'll answer your questions

specifically

so if you've watched this and you feel

like you have alert anything you're

[ __ ] lying because I guarantee you

don't have everything I've said to you I

guarantee you don't have under control

understood analyzed and implemented you

haven't so [ __ ] go away and do that

[ __ ] get your things together put your

hands in the right [ __ ] place look

like a g get your [ __ ] right

learn how to go from [ __ ] crazy to

calm not from calm to Crazy put your

[ __ ] together if you have any further

questions email them to me because it'll

be another body language video in the

next week or so and I'll answer some

more

right we've been over the mindset the

mindset the four tenets of the mindset

are

believe you can do absolutely anything

to be pissed off you haven't done it yet

three absolutely nobody is coming to

save you and four your word has to be

Iron willed and use that for unlimited

motivation

this is about body language

I like to look at humans from an

evolutionary standpoint I like to look

at us as a species because like I said

I'm an atheist I do not believe that God

put us here we're no special we're not

special we're no different than any

other animal here okay we're more

intelligent but there's always going to

be a smartest you know we're not the

fastest or the strongest or anything

else so

we're an animal species and if you look

at humans uh from that perspective and

you look at men males and I'm assuming

like I said previously most of you are

men males for a very long period of time

had a very physical role our role was

combatants our role was a combative role

our role was to protect or to destroy or

to dominate or to conquer this was a

male's role

so in the modern society where we

pretend physicality isn't important and

we deny physicality and people say it

doesn't matter it absolutely does matter

for cook because since the dawn of human

time my favorite saying everyone mocks

me for us it's a dawn of human time for

95 of our existence a man's roles

primarily a physical role so physicality

is extremely important

and when you're looking at body language

it's quite difficult to have the body

language of an alpha what is an alpha

let me Diverse quickly what is an alpha

if you look in the alliance Pride who's

the alpha the alpha is the biggest

strongest lion

this is the alpha alpha is the badass

so can you mimic the body language of

the biggest longest strongest line yeah

of course but if you're not the biggest

strongest lion

you know it's not as easy to pull off

and someone might call your Bluffs so

this is actually a very easy video body

language is down to your physicality as

a whole the body language of a g is a

combative body language I'm not saying

you walk through life like this like

looking for a fight not at all but you

have to have a presence about you

whereas you're not an easy target

it's quite funny actually because

when you're a fighter you can spall

other Fighters a mile off like and it's

not just big muscly guys like you can

put me in a room with 30 guys who go to

the gym or Fitness Experts can come in

and walk through and if one of them is a

high level combatant if one of them's a

professional fighter like me I can I can

tell by the way he moves

probably the same way a dancer can sense

another dancer I can sense another

fighter and it's something instinctual

or something I can't even tell you how I

do it I can just tell by the way someone

moves if they can fight or if they can't

fight it doesn't matter the best body in

the world it can be ripped but it's the

way they move I know I've seen guys who

don't have a body like that and I can

sense it and I've seen guys who are

built like that and I could just tell it

they would crumble

it really is an amazing thing and I

think this is something that you become

more tuned into more honed on when

you're a fighter yourself but it's

obviously something that humans

naturally possess we naturally possess

the ability to spawn another male and

think that guy's a dangerous guy

so I can tell you tips and tricks in an

attempt to mimic the body language of a

dangerous person or you can become a

dangerous person

this course is not a short cut course

this is not tips and tricks this is not

[ __ ] this is about how to become a g

how to become a genuine

ass a genuine male of substance and to

become a genuine male of substance you

need to know how to fight it's very

difficult to be a g if you're going

through life and you crumble at at

physical confrontation because when you

get to a certain point in your life you

will encounter physical confrontations

if you're going to go and travel the

world and drive fast cars and wear

expensive things and attempt to [ __ ]

beautiful women all over this planet

sooner or later you're going to attract

negative intention from either jealous

man or an ex-boyfriend or a brother or

who a [ __ ] robber who wants your car

who knows are you really a g if you

mimic every single aspect

of a high quality man and then when that

situation happens you you fold no of

course you're not you need to learn how

to fight I don't need to teach you how

to fight I don't need to sit here in

this course to say do this do that that

I don't even teach you any of that

because you can go and it doesn't matter

what city you are on earth there's an

MMA class so there's a boxing class that

will teach you how to fight you need to

dedicate substantial periods and and and

and

portions of your time to learning how to

fight and to get hit you need to have

your ass kicked you'd learn how to kick

someone's ass and this is absolutely

essential to want the mindset and to the

physicality

the first thing mindset wise fighting is

a brilliant thing

because fighting is 100 accountable

even if you play soccer for example even

if your team wins maybe you didn't do

very much or maybe you kicked the ball

and the wind helped you who knows but

fight if you got punched in the face you

didn't move and if you punched him in

the face you threw your hand and

fighting we always say there's no such

thing as a lucky punch and it's true you

know if I dedicate my life to learning

how to punch and then I knock someone

out is it a lucky punch no I knocked him

out as well as I've been training to do

no such thing as a lucky punch so

mindset wise is perfect for your

accountability

secondly it's a huge challenge learning

how to fight is extremely difficult it's

more difficult than learning how to

dance and learn how to do anything else

and the reason for this is because

learning how to fight all humans have an

instinctual way of fighting we don't

have an instinctual way to dance as much

all humans basically are pre-programmed

to fight but the way we're

pre-programmed to fight is completely

wrong we're pre-programmed to lift our

head up so we look big and we can see

and to swing with our hands low for

maximum power and these are completely

wrong in terms of traditional chin down

hands up fighting so

when you're learning to fight your

reprogramming your Basic Instincts and

this is why it's so difficult this is

why it takes more practice than any

other sport I could learn to dance much

easier than a dancer could learn to

fight at high level

um and that's because fighting is

extremely chaotic it's extremely quick

it hurts and on top of that you're

trying to reprogram a Basic Instinct so

it's a very difficult thing to do but if

you want to become a g for real you need

to learn how to fight and once you learn

how to fight your body language when I

say once you learn how to fight learning

how to fight takes years once you start

to begin to learn how to fight it's a

lifestyle choice this is not a I do a

six-week course and I know how to fight

no this is a lifestyle choice where you

start to dedicate a certain period of

your time every single week to being a

combative individual and it's something

that you never really give up on because

you never completely learn how to fight

so it's something you're gonna have to

change your lifestyle and base it around

but when you start to do that your body

language is going to change and once

again just like in the first lesson when

you start to do that the way you

interact and view the world will start

to change the way you view other people

will start to change this is a great

thing about especially when I had

Twitter and the internet

I wasn't I wasn't big on Twitter until

Trump was Trump was elected and that's

when I started to tweet and they

verified me straight away and I got

mixed up and everything went crazy but

um

you realize that 99 of people on there

with their opinions who are being rude

would never speak to you that way in in

real life it never bothered me it didn't

ever upset me but when I was on Twitter

I was I've never been spoken to that way

in real life nobody ever spoke to me

that way no one ever

argued with me that way and I thought

why is that and I thought because I have

a physical presence that even I wasn't

aware of if I sit with someone who hates

Trump in real in the real world the way

they speak to me is completely different

than they do on Twitter because even

subconsciously they're thinking this

guy's a dangerous guy and even even if

they know I'd never attacked them

because I'm not an idiot I'm an animal I

don't have a criminal record I'm not a

thug

but instinctually inside of their mind

from an evolutionary standpoint they're

thinking this is not the kind of guy you

call names it's not the kind of guy you

talk to in that manner

and this is that was a really great

experiment for me to see the way that

people talk to you through a computer

and the way that I've never been

interacting with that weight in real

life and it's like well why is that

because I said to someone else to go oh

people talk to me like that all the time

and say well yeah it's because you're

you and I'm me

so a physical presence is a real thing

and it's a real thing one with other

males is certainly a real thing with

females absolutely a real thing with

females and this is something that

either I can teach you to imitate I can

tell you tips and tricks or you can just

go and [ __ ] do it if you go and do it

for real you don't need tips and tricks

are you going to be world champion no

because I'm in the top not point one

percent of physical athletes but can you

be good sure you can be good and is it

going to damage your life in any way to

dedicate

specific time learning how to fight of

course no you're gonna be invisible

better physical condition better mental

condition you're gonna have a better

body language because a male's body

language is a combative body language

that's what men are meant to do we are

meant to fight We're Meant To Conquer

this is why men have been men since the

dawn of human time this is why the

Romans got some rocks melted the rocks

made swords these [ __ ] they

didn't have Google Maps didn't know

where they were going they said let's

just walk in this direction and then

we're gonna find some people and we're

gonna kill him we're gonna take all our

women and we're going to conquer them

say because we want this is what men

have been built to do since the dawn of

human time men are combative individuals

so to pretend that combat's not real

anymore we live in society and you don't

have to do the all garbage you know and

this is Western Society [ __ ] anyway

if you've been I've been to 71 countries

if you go to the places I've been you'll

realize that physical presence is still

a very real thing absolutely a very real

thing in many parts of this planet still

today

so body language of the G is very very

short simple lesson one go and learn to

fight because

a man's body language needs to be a

combative body language and there's no

point in me teaching you how to imitate

that we can go and learn it for real

that's the first person go and learn how

to fight

and that's it it's really that simple if

you want

a body language which really does

display your values a high value male

then go and become one and learning how

to fight is the easiest way

my name is Tristan Tate congratulations

on buying the body language course my

brother's body language as it's been

commented on by many many people is

always on point but I'm here today to

talk about how you and your best friend

your brother your companion whoever you

like to hang out with how your body

language can complement each other

now the main reason for this isn't to be

combat ready as Andrew touched on in a

previous video but it's more to avoid

confrontation

now me and Andrew are very controversial

characters almost nobody who knows who

we are likes us you are one of the

few people you're one of the elite the

people who actually understand what

we're talking about and like what we

have to say but most people don't

that said we are never started on in the

real world now of course now we're well

renowned uh kickboxing Champions but

we've always had the same principles and

the same body language and the same

mannerisms and we've noticed that people

do not start on us very often

and the best way to avoid conflict and

to avoid combat is to be perceptive

there was a very famous experiment

actually done in India where uh

tiger attacks on Indian miners or

completely going crazy the the numbers

are through the roof and you can look

this up please look it up and the

solution they came to to avoid tigers

attacking the miners with these miners

would take human faced masks and wear

them on the back of their heads

so they'd do their mining go down their

boats drive around in their trucks be

out in the open with this mask on the

back of their head and if you look it up

on Google Images I'm for sure you'll be

able to find exactly what I'm talking

about you'll see that the masks look

stupid it looks ridiculous it was only a

very minor touch

that these guys thought about the

problem and uh actually applied

something

but tiger attacks essentially dropped to

zero now men very much like tigers are

big [ __ ] too I just thought of that I

didn't actually write this

but um what you'll find is

everyone's a coward and no one wants to

fight one-on-one so even if there's only

two of you

your body language how you stand and

where you place yourself

can be a massive deterrent to being

started on or having any kind of

physical confrontation

now in school they teach you uh things

like a strong handshake and I'm sure the

basis of this is in every single course

or guide to body language in the world

but they teach it for the wrong reasons

in school I was taught that a strong

handshake makes the person who I want to

employ me like me more or take me more

seriously

but you could convey many different

expressions and emotions with something

as simple as a handshake if I'm in a

room with a group of people who may or

may not be hostile if I'm in a room with

a group of people who may or may not be

hostile

the standard good handshake they'll

teach you to give with the right

expression on your face can also mean

don't [ __ ] with me it can say I'm

stronger than you it could say I'm not a

push-up

these are things that people don't think

about because it's never taught

everyone's taught how to shake hands to

say please employ me please give me a

job but many other things can be

conveyed with just a handshake

now when me and Andrew are out in public

we're always watching each other's backs

now paranoia isn't cool it isn't sexy uh

and it isn't really Alpha to be paranoid

all the time that somebody's gonna start

on you

um I know people who walk through the

world in this way they're scared of

everything and everybody the the police

the person walking behind them they're

jumpy that's not what I'm talking about

and that is not the way men like me and

Andrew behave

when I talk about watching each other's

backs it's the small things that me and

Andrew do that people who hang around

with us pick up on you guys at home

won't see these things because they're

never recorded and they're never on

camera me and Andrew always sit for

example across the table from one

another

just in case somebody decides to come up

from behind and attack us it's very much

like the tiger analogy wearing the mask

on the back of your head I am in his

other set of eyes if Andrew's on a date

with a beautiful woman and I'm sitting

with my back against the wall and I can

see what's going on behind Andrew

can relax Andrew can have his good time

he cannot worry about looking over his

shoulder because you know me and Andrew

do have a few enemies um everywhere

including the city where we live this

doesn't just apply when you're with

somebody else but it can very much apply

to yourself are you by yourself are you

in Starbucks getting a coffee about to

do some work on your laptop fine be very

careful about where you sit choose

somewhere where your back is against the

wall like right now I'm sitting in a

corner I can see everything that's going

on in the room in front of me this is

the place you want to sit not because

you think somebody's going to come up

and attack you not because you are

scared of uh assailants or muggers or

robbers just being able to see

everything that goes on in the room

gives you the chance to react to

situations I guarantee if you were to

look at some of the violent crazy things

that have happened in Europe from

bombings to terrorist attacks in the

last few years some of the people who

survived survived because of where they

were sitting and it wasn't chance a few

of people I'm sure were self-aware

enough to be perspicacious about their

environment to sit in the corner to

watch what's going on to be able to

react to the environment around them now

when I see people with headphones in

slouched over a table with their coffee

typing away away on their laptop and the

whole room's behind them and they're

facing a wall they look like a Target to

me you don't have to be a tiger to know

that that person is a target if anything

goes down in that coffee shop if

anything goes down in that restaurant

that person is going to be one of the

first to die so watch each other's backs

and sit across the table from one

another always I have had people who

I've invited over to Eastern Europe who

assume that me and Andrew are the kings

of everywhere we go mostly because me

and Andrew are very Adept Fighters and

we can handle ourselves very well

but you need to understand in most

situations from Western Europe to

Eastern Europe when you go to very

expensive exclusive places nightclubs

first class lounges at airports the

people around you are your equals or

your veterans in some respect

financially or or some in one way or

another

now if I'm in a club and I'm sitting in

the VIP section there are six tables

only in an entire club that has maybe 2

000 people in it I know those other

people

are somebody's too

there very rarely will a club just let

some loser and just sit around and drink

their super expensive alcohol and even

then it's a promoter who knows people or

who's friends with the owner or

something like that

now me and Edge were hanging out in

Eastern Europe a lot so watching each

other's backs isn't just actually

viewing your surroundings and knowing

what's going on around you your

self-awareness it's also how you

interact with the people who surround

you

to give you an example if I sit down at

a table

and there are three or four Dudes a

number of dudes who outnumber us to my

right now this has happened plenty of

times where there are six or seven girls

on my table now how you assert yourself

is going to determine whether or not

those guys try to roll up on your women

you're only two guys you're with six

girls they assume that these girls are

friends of my girlfriend that they don't

know I'm [ __ ] three and Andrew's

[ __ ] three so of course it's natural

and normal for other guys to at least

think about talking to the girls who

come with you to the club

that doesn't happen to me in Andrew

because of the way we assert ourselves

what you'll typically find is the most

confident amongst them works as a scout

will say hi we'll say can I borrow a

lighter from one of the girls when that

happens always ask the girl if she's

okay afterwards I do it all the time

girl a guy will be like excuse me do you

have a life to two of my girls I'll say

hey you okay and touch her arm gently so

the guy says oh I was just asking for a

lighter no problem my friend handshake

eye contact you know you have to assert

don't [ __ ] with me with the initial

contact with the guy if I just turn my

back and ignore him after the light has

been borrowed and he gives it back he's

going to say where are you from who are

you what's up you know you have to cut

things off the moment they happen you

have to nip it in the bun

so the way you conduct yourself within

your own group of people will stop

others trying to come over and invade

your space so the key is always to put

yourself in a position of power don't

just sit down and start guzzling away on

drinks I don't typically sit next to

Andrew and talk away and let our girls

mind their own business we're mixed in

with them two or three girls divided by

one of us at any stage around a round

table uh if you know what I mean so

we're always in control of our group in

control of our herd if you like so the

way you position yourself lets others

know not to creep up on you not to try

to talk to your women and especially not

to start some sort of stupid argument

that said in clubs also combat Readiness

I always like to keep at least one of my

hands free if my hand isn't free it's

something that can be used as a weapon

now I've in my life been in maybe two

fights inside of nightclubs none of them

in Eastern Europe it's more of an

England thing and I avoid conflict at

all costs but the way you stand can mean

the difference between getting your ass

kicked and winning a fight

typically even if I'm smoking a cigar

the cigar can be easily dropped I'll

keep it in my left hand my right hand is

the hand that I'm going to strike with

first that's where I'll hold my glass

because a glass can be used as a weapon

just as much as a fist can be used as a

weapon and I always stand left foot in

front of right foot ever so slightly

just so I can't be caught off guard just

so that I'm not off balance just so that

at any one time with my glass my cigar

in one hand if someone approaches really

quickly which is how these things always

start you're always good to throw a

strike throw the glass or throw a punch

before people even come over and try to

talk to girls you're with or try to

start a fight with you people will

always Scout you out they'll always

stare at you for a little period of time

they'll ask their friends what do you

think these two are doing with all those

girls where do you think these guys are

from so when you catch them looking at

you don't stare them out don't put an

aggressive look on your face because

that just makes them want to fight you

more especially if you're outnumbered

that's going to encourage a physical

altercation

so you don't sit there looking angry at

them and what you absolutely don't do is

when they catch you looking at them look

away instantly that shows calories what

I do I'm a very confident guy Andrew as

well

keep in mind that when we're in a

high-class establishment the people who

are with us are you know successful guys

rich guys Mafia guys dangerous guys

they're somebody's to be sitting there

so if I'm holding my drink typically if

I catch them looking and I catch eye

contact I was not at home or I'll go

like this I'll raise my glasses slightly

and continue drinking they'll typically

do the same thing back and that eases

all tension nobody after that is going

to come over and start trying to throw

punches to your face

so if you sit confidently and assert

yourself just with your eyes and the

looks that you give the people around

you you can avoid basically all types of

of Confrontation no one's going to come

over and try and talk to your women no

one's going to come over and try to

assault you try to insult you

um you have to set an atmosphere and set

a vibe that you're friendly

but you're not to be [ __ ] with and one

more time that takes me back to the

handshake that's what you need to say

when you introduce yourself to people

especially if they come over to your

table and try to do something you don't

like or talk to your girlfriend

now I know I may look big and scary and

some people watching me think oh well

you know it's all right for you you're

big and mean looking so nobody's gonna

start a fight on you nobody's gonna want

to engage in conflict with you that's

not necessarily true

you can assert yourself with confidence

alone the way you Scout the room

everything I was saying earlier sitting

in the corner watching everybody around

you gives you the chance to see exactly

what's going on

now that reminds me of a clip I saw on

the internet of a man I believe it was

in Australia

where 10 to 15 guys ran into a bar I

think they were trying to attack

somebody or Rob the place I'm not sure

what these assailants were doing this

guy was standing his back was to a

pillar in the middle of the room so no

one could necessarily run it behind him

and he was standing at the bar he wasn't

a very big guy or necessarily scary

looking guy but he stood there with one

of his hands on his glass and the other

hand completely free and as each person

rushed by him and rushed up to him he

glanced at them slightly

now the ccdv footage is a little grainy

I can't see exactly how he looked at

these people but he didn't look down at

the floor he didn't stare at him with

fear and he didn't sit there with an

angry look on his face he must have by

process of elimination 10 10 guys around

by him they all glanced at him and

nobody started on him

he must have conveyed some of the tips

I've been talking to you about in this

video now why does nobody start on this

guy

he doesn't panic he doesn't flee he

doesn't run that portrays somebody who

can handle themselves certainly his

hands are free he's calm he's confident

and he's looking at what's going on

around him the people who rushed into

that bar were 10 to 15 individuals they

were not confident men nobody who wants

to go and rob somebody or attack

somebody has to bring 10 to 15 of their

friends if they're not cowards it's like

splitting up a pack of sheep you know

the Herd on its own can look

intimidating coming towards you when you

get one on their own they're absolutely

terrified and that's exactly how this

guy handled the situation he looked at

each one of them as a one-on-one

situation a one-on-one man-on-man

confrontation and when they got that

look and when the guys made on eye

contact with him or when they brushed

past him none of those people wanted to

fight him and that's the way the real

world is

this takes me back to my original point

what those Indian Miners did by putting

the masks on the back of their head may

seem

so insignificant and so stupid and by

all means please google it they look

ridiculous

but all it takes is the tiniest of

little steps in the tiniest of little

details to deter physical confrontation

and to stay out of conflict the reason

behind this is because most men are

cowards most men don't want to fight you

one-on-one occasionally you'll meet that

guy every once in a while who thinks he

can handle himself has a problem with

you and wants to deal with you and will

actually come forward wanting to fight

you head on but that's not the way the

world is 99.9 of men cannot throw a

punch they can't throw a punch they

can't take a punch and deep down they

know it that's why tiny little details

can completely avoid conflict now in the

last 10 years me and Andrew have had

maybe five or six physical altercations

where hitting someone has become a

necessity and every single time they've

been very easy to deal with but on top

of those there have been at least 200

times where somebody has wanted to hit

me or Andrew or somebody has thought

something negative about me around you

and it could have spiraled into a

physical altercation had I been in the

wrong company or had I displayed the

wrong body language that's a massive

part of conflict avoidance

Network Brilliance every time I start

one of these courses I feel like I need

to do some kind of intro and not just

jump straight into it but I don't know

what the [ __ ] you want me to do

or do a dance or some [ __ ] so we're

going to get straight to it I have met

Hollywood actors Idris Elba I've met

Donald Trump Jr

the son of the president

um I've met basically every big person

in politics on the right from Twitter

uh I've met here in Romania absolutely

everybody who's anybody actors singers

etc etc

and I've done this very very

deliberately and it's one of those

things

very similar to let's say girls where

once you get started once you begin the

process it becomes easier once you start

and you start getting a few girls you

end up with lots and lots of girls once

you start meeting important and

influential people you'll meet lots and

lots of important influential people but

there are lots of mistakes that most

people make

when it comes to networking themselves

to the top

and that's what this course is going to

be about it's gonna be a long list of

mistakes not to make and it's also going

to explain the psychology of networking

what most people don't understand is as

follows there's huge psychology involved

in networking and there's three elements

the first element is you don't know who

I know so if you go to meet somebody

let's say you're at an event and you

meet someone and that person happens to

know the president

unless they are obviously overtly in the

white house unless they're overtly a

member of the White House staff or

they're allowed mouth you may have no

idea they know the president if I didn't

advertise to fact just now I'll put the

picture on Instagram nobody would have a

clue that Donald Trump Jr and I speak to

each other no one would have a clue so

firstly a lot of people don't overtly

advertise who they know

secondly most people when they do get a

connection of influence that's important

they don't want to give that away

so most people don't want to give that

away for a variety of reasons one

because they're afraid of getting

sidetracked or cut out and two because

people are Petty and jealous that's how

people are so if I have a very important

connection and I know that introducing

you to that connection is going to

improve your life

what's my motivation to do that why

would I want to do that that's the first

thing

uh and the second thing is if I do do

that and it works out particularly well

on YouTube become best buddies then I've

just been cut out the picture perhaps

and that important person has one more

friend he's doing business with you I'm

not getting anything so what's what's

the advantage to it so you have to

understand that people are very

secretive about who they know and even

if they do tell you who they know

they're very guarding of it and thirdly

and it's the largest reason is it's

impossible to refer someone without also

referring your reputation

so if I were to go to someone who I know

is important and say ah this guy can do

this and I refer you and you [ __ ] up

that impacts me

even if I say oh I don't know the guy

that well but you know I've heard he's

okay even if I try and disassociate

myself if you do a [ __ ] job that impacts

me

so when people are referring you and

you're trying to network what's really

happening is

people are recommending you but they

really recommend they're they're putting

their trust on the line to recommend you

so once again they need a motivator to

do that the whole networking scene is

down to motivators and what most people

make a mistake of doing is they run

around trying to talk to everybody

without motivating anybody ever to refer

them

and that's the biggest mistake so we

have two ways we can look at this

everybody you meet it doesn't matter if

you meet the president or you meet

somebody at the bottom of the chain you

need to do the same things with so if

you're very lucky and you walk into the

room and you see the president there

that's fantastic but most likely you're

going to see somebody far less important

and if you do a very good job you can

Network your way to the top when I met

Idris and I was put on that TV show I

didn't meet him first I knew a lot of

people knew a lot of people and I ended

up there so it's going to be very

unlikely you're going to meet the person

you want to meet straight away by

assuming that's the cases a few very

basic rules and these are super basic

and these are things I shouldn't have to

say introduce yourself be confident body

language is all explained in the body

language course be sure of yourself

don't be arrogant and third and one of

the most important things important

people especially super important people

they're not really that interested in

you you have to understand that it's a

very fine balance people think oh I'm

going to meet this guy I need to prove

to this guy I'm worth something but also

you don't want to sit there and tell the

president about what you do for a job he

doesn't give a [ __ ] he's the president

compared to him you're a nobody so you

have to really understand the balance of

asking them questions while also

validating yourself so instead of saying

if I were to be an important person and

not say that important person was in

banking for example

if I sit there no I'm a millionaire I

did this and he died I made money and he

ain't gonna give a [ __ ] the dude could

be getting a million pound a week

as far as I know so instead I'd say ah

yeah I'm actually looking for a banking

solution when I'm trying to move large

sums of money I'm struggling to get it

done what is the best banking solution

what would you recommend for someone

living in Europe so what I've done there

is validate me as a person I've

explained that I make large sums of

money but I've also stroked his ego by

asking him a question and engaging him

in the conversation that is completely

different from me sitting there and

talking [ __ ] and it's completing from

only asking him questions so you have to

find a way to validate yourself while

also engaging him and asking questions

and stroking his ego important people

are arrogant you're never going to meet

an important person who's not arrogant

all of them are so stroking their ego is

always a good idea not a no not in a

pathetic way because I'm not going to

respect you but just respecting their

position and their intelligence and

their knowledge and asking for some of

it that's it there's a whole bunch of

[ __ ] these people know that you don't

know that's the whole reason you want to

network with them in the first place

so that's an important point next

and this is very key

and this could be a whole section on

itself but we'll start now

networking is expensive

the key to networking is having money

and I say this all the time if you meet

someone who's more important than you

you're paying for everything

it doesn't matter how expensive the

drinks are how expensive the dinner is

you need to pay for it you need to

absolutely insist no please no it was a

pleasure to meet you it's on me it's on

me

they don't give a [ __ ] about money but

it just proves a point it allows you to

have some kind of dominance and hold

your own as a man if you go to dinner

with a really important person

and that person pays for the dinner

do you think that same person is going

to trust you with thousands and

thousands of dollars when you're sitting

there taking a free dinner with a little

dork no so you have to pay for dinner

that's the first thing you gotta look

good when you turn up you gotta turn up

in these very expensive places like

you've been there a thousand times

before you cannot be impressed by

anything you can't be like oh wow this

food's great oh this wine oh yeah this

is a really nice restaurant it's just a

[ __ ] restaurant it doesn't matter if

you end up on a private jet for the

first time in your life you don't say a

word you're completely unimpressed like

you've done it a thousand times these

are the basic things if you're gonna sit

there go wow wow wow then he's going to

show that you're much lower down the

name people at the top they don't really

want to do business or network with

people below them why would they

they want to do business with people on

the same level of them as them or people

maybe slightly below but they have a

good motivator to elevate you as an

individual if you're making it super

clear you've never lived this kind of

Lifestyle then you're going to struggle

so you're not impressed by anything

you're paying for everything when you're

around something more important than you

when Idris and I were in Thailand

training for a spike

every time we go out I pay

I was like I do it even because I

wouldn't even it wouldn't be offering

just to build with comments put the

money down we'd walk off now interests

have more money than me but I just just

whatever just

it's a point of dominance it's a point

of yeah you're the Hollywood actor

you're not the only [ __ ] around

here who has some money

and at the time I didn't even have that

much money but I'm a little [ __ ] I'm

not gonna let him pay for me because

he's the more important one than I am so

that's a very important thing secondly

when it comes to money is super

important because networking is about

chances it is super rare that someone's

going to say to you come here this time

and you're guaranteed to meet X

that's not how networking Works

networking is about taking a chance and

Taking Chances is expensive when I met

Donald Trump Jr he said if you're around

on these dates I might be free for half

an hour

and I was in Romania how many people fly

from Romania to New York three thousand

miles and sit there for a week for a

maybe on 30 minutes most people go ah

I can't do that or they'll say oh uh can

we guarantee what about this and they

pressure the dude and then the dude's

gonna say well I can't guarantee I've

got a very busy schedule how can I

guarantee you anything I'm the son of

the president I've got a super busy

schedule I've never met you I don't know

you meeting you is really not going to

benefit me that much I don't give a [ __ ]

about you I'm not going to guarantee you

a thing if I tried to pressure him and

said okay what about this day this time

this day this time to try and get my

guarantee he would obey it so instead I

said yeah okay I'm around

and I flew there and I spent x amount of

thousands of dollars and it paid off

there's been times I've done similar

things for other important people and it

hasn't paid off but this is the reality

of networking networking is never going

to be guaranteed so because it's not

guaranteed you have to have the ability

to take your chances and that is

expensive I'm not going to sit here and

lie to you and pretend that networking

is cheap it's absolutely not cheap you

have to be prepared to go somewhere at a

win turn up and see if that person has

time and maybe they don't but you have

to be there right place right time and

be in the right place at the right time

is certainly expensive to do so that's

the monetary element

now we're talking about motivations

and like all my courses this is lots of

information just like the PHD course

there's lots of information coming at

you I don't care how many times you have

to watch this and I'm curious to take

notes break it down whatever I don't sit

and do little chapters I speak what

comes from my mind through experience

that's why so [ __ ] golden so you just

have to pay attention

motivators there's only two in fact

three genuine motivators that are going

to allow someone to refer you because

that's all networking is it's referrals

if you meet someone for the first time

who've just explained you have to pay

for it you have to introduce yourself

don't waste the person's time make sure

you stroke their ego with your questions

validate yourself while also allowing

them to validate themselves so they're

happy being the dominant person being Mr

important those are the key things most

networking is Gonna Come From referrals

someone is going to recommend you

so look at me here you know who I am I

have access to the president's son why

do I not recommend you to the

president's son

well the reason for that is one because

I'm putting my reputation on the line

and two the other three motivators have

not been fulfilled so there's three

motivators I'm only going to recommend

you to somebody else the president's son

or anyone for a money

B because I really like you or C because

it raises my status

so these are the only three motivators

that are gonna take someone and make

them put conscious effort into taking

into taking one of their relationships

and sharing it with you so talk about

the first one money

it's very easy to to go through the

world and think oh I've got the people

and I promise and they'll make lots of

money and everyone's gonna network with

me because I've got this great business

it's all [ __ ] because one your great

business is not nearly as great as you

think it is two telling people about

your great business most people don't

give a [ __ ] and most people aren't going

to believe in you I mean the the thing

is about businesses none of them are

really that sexy Starbucks is a coffee

shop if you were to walk around and say

oh I'm gonna start this coffee shop

people like oh whatever now it's a super

is successful it's a successful business

but if you're if before it started if

you're walking around trying to pitch it

to people try to network and we're gonna

have this coffee shop we're gonna sell

carrot cake No One's Gonna Give A [ __ ]

No One's Gonna be interested so business

ideas are really not that sexy you're

talking about even though you think they

are they're not and the ones that are

are usually complicated and different

and you gotta have someone's attention

and they have to trust you and know who

you are as a person to really take you

seriously so money is quite a difficult

one because if you think

who's going to go and email me now and

say Tay I have an idea if you introduced

me to the president and he buys it and

I'll give you 25 percent

I'm not gonna I'm not gonna recommend

you

so money is is actually one of the

things that probably becomes later on

they have people have to trust you first

they have to know you first they have to

like you first and then you can add in a

monetary motivation if I've done

business with you for four or five years

and I know you very well and I know

you're competent I know you don't make

mistakes you don't [ __ ] up I know I can

trust you I know that I recommend you

you're not going to embarrass me and

then you say look do you know any people

who could achieve X Y and Z because that

would allow me to make x amount of money

and you're gonna get a percent of it

then you can motivate me with money so

that's the monetary motivation next is

because I really like you this can

happen you can be liked by important

people and if you're liked by important

people you're gonna be you're gonna be

invited places by important people and

to be introduced

to other important people being liked is

a skill within itself I've just

basically explained to you how to be

liked by important people is as simple

as that you validate yourself while

allowing them to talk about themselves

because important people love themselves

because important people have spent a

lot of time and energy and effort in

building themselves

unless you're born in Portland which a

few are morons in general important

people have put in a lot of work to

becoming themselves and even if they

haven't put in a lot of work they think

they have

look at [ __ ] pitbull the worst singer

in the world

a loser basically but if you were to ask

him how he got there how did you become

a famous recording artist do you think

he'd say luck or would he say I just

really worked at it

people believe they work hard Everyone

likes to believe that their success is

down to work and nothing to do with luck

so everyone who's important believes

they're a hard worker so with this in

mind they are egotistical so you have to

stroke that ego because it's about a

long time building themselves up but you

have to do it in a way that you don't

embarrass yourself this is Nuance I

can't teach you this this is something

that's going to take some skill get the

body language course it's going to help

with it's going to certainly help you

but second is going to take some skill I

gave you one example earlier validate

yourself while also asking them

questions make sure you look like you're

paying attention try and be a little bit

witty a little bit funny

and just validate yourself and use your

own personality I can't give you my

personality when I met important people

the conversations were always

free-flowing they always went well I

always validated myself while allowing

them to talk and allowing them to

basically stroke their own ego because

they love themselves and there's nothing

wrong with them loving themselves

there's nothing wrong with it at all

two examples we use Music example I'm

living that important

anyway

um if you were to email me and say

Tate teach me how to punch

I'll give you and then I'm gonna fight

and I'll give you a percent I'm trying

to motivate me with money it's [ __ ]

if you were to mention me and say hey

I've watched your videos and I genuinely

believe you're the best Striker there's

ever been but then you have to validate

yourself they have to say I've been

training for 10 or 10 10 or 12 years and

I really enjoy it but there's some

things you do that I can't quite do I

was wondering if I could ask you a few

questions

that one validates you two strokes my

ego and you're far more likely to get

reply than if you just emailed me teach

me how to punch or teach me how to punch

for money

because it's making me like you this is

an important thing and thirdly is status

if in certain situations especially if

you're a cool enough dude as I am

people who may have high level

connections will feel more comfortable

or feel like it's going to raise their

status if they introduce you to their

connections and this is going to happen

as you elevate this is not going to

happen at the bottom but as you elevate

this is going to happen so with me for

example now because I'm I've got some

money because I've got some nice cars

because I'm always with hot girls

there's people who think ah this guy's

in town and I'm going to meet him at the

club you know I'm going to bring tape

because if I bring a tape I roll up in a

Lambo and there's gonna be 10 chicks

with us

so he's using me

for it to raise his status and just

going on his own and that's fine because

I'm using him to meet the dude

so if you become start becoming

important yourself you're going to have

people who use you to raise their status

and that happens

so those are the three motivators status

money and because people like you now

you're only going to be able to pull off

any of these three either status people

liking you or even money if you have

genuine relationships with people

the idea of walking through a business

conference

with your business card hi yeah Hi

here's my card I do I do accounting I'm

an accountant I'm the best accountant

I'm really good accountant I guarantee

I'll save you money yeah here's an

account hi I'm a really good account

yeah you might get some it's basically

cold calling you might get some calls

I'm not saying it's a completely

terrible idea it's better than doing

nothing but that's not nearly as

effective as building a genuine

relationship with somebody you already

know this you know that if you were to

go around that conference take a little

bit more time with each individual

person make them like you make them

remember you that's the key to it and

once you have that connection

once you have that connection then you

have to nurture it look at email

marketing email marketing does this

perfectly

you sign up to an email list to try and

sell you something you ignore it another

email to try and sell you something you

ignore it if they keep trying to sell

you things every day you unsubscribe if

they tell you things of value a long

email a story something that made you

laugh something that's funny etc etc

going on and on and then eventually try

and sell you something again you might

buy it that's nurturing a relationship

and it's exactly the same with

networking so if I I have some very

important friends and I'll message them

now and again these are not I say

friends is the wrong word I know some

important people

and I may not speak to them for two or

three months at a time but I will

consciously I have a list of people I

know who are important a list of people

I know who are high value and I'll

consciously contact them with things I

really find irrelevant so let's I'll

give you I'm not gonna

like we said earlier in the course most

people don't give away everyone they

know I've only told you about the people

I have pictures with there's a whole

bunch of other people I know I'm not

going to tell you about but let me give

you an example let's say I know somebody

who's a multi-millionaire in England and

they do business in Europe

so I will literally each month go

through my list of people who I know are

high value and I want to stay in touch

with and I'll see that person and I'll

I'll Google up something about brexit

exports

and I'll email him the link and say Hey

you might find this interesting don't

know this affects you uh I'll be back in

in the country in a few weeks maybe we

should catch up back

so I provided value it's not just me

trying to get something from him not

just hey can we have a coffee I provided

him some value I sent him a link he's

probably already seen the link he

probably doesn't care about the link but

it's the gesture oh something about

breaks out maybe that maybe that does

affect it or even if it doesn't affect

them at all he'll reply ah no we've got

all that handled actually thanks yeah

Andrew be good to see you that's a

perfect example of how I'm adding value

it's not just a matter of hey can I talk

to you hey can I talk to you hey can I

talk to you no one wants that because if

you keep doing that hey can I talk to

you you're not adding any value at any

point you become annoying important

people are busy so you have to add some

value in your correspondence with them

they're they're extremely busy people so

that little that's a little example of

what you'll do so I guarantee you

sitting here right now

if I were to tell you to make a list of

the five richest people you know you

probably know five people who are quite

well off you probably know a few

millionaires

but how often do you interact with them

and when you interact with them do you

provide them any value in your

interactions because if you start to do

that they're going to start to like you

more and they're certainly going to

start to trust you more and it's going

to display competence and let's say

let's take a completely random example

let's say you know a banker who has six

or seven bakery shops and he had he's

making some good money it's a six seven

bakery shops whatever and you send an

article on the the cake that one cake of

the year there's all this shits off the

top of my head say hey man you think you

could hey I just saw this do you think

you could even bake something like this

you should go have one cake of the year

it was really good promotion for that

maybe you should do something like this

and just send it to them straight away

when they reply to you oh yeah and

they're gonna sit there and think oh

this dude's thinking about producing

business for me this the guys thinking

about raising my profile he's asking

questions he's doing things he's giving

me some value he's giving me some ideas

so then let's say that Bakery Company

decides that he wants to up its

marketing

you're gonna cross their mind oh that

dude he emailed me about replicating

cake of the year or trying to enter a

case of the year that guy yeah we want a

marketing strategy and he's been

emailing me on and off every couple of

months not annoying me every couple of

months for like six seven months now he

had a few good ideas let's bring him in

for a meeting bam so you've gone from

knowing a baker to now going and sitting

in a meeting with a baker and that Baker

is looking to make more money and you

can sit there and go I can guarantee you

I'll double your money I guarantee you

I'll double your money as long as I get

x amount of money or I have or I get I

get a company car or I get this percent

whatever whatever I'm guaranteeing you I

will double your money that's how

networking is done it's not about

knowing the baker it's about building a

relationship with that Baker of value so

that they trust you and that they like

you and that you prove yourself

competent this is the same with

everything most people go through life

never proving themselves competent at

anything

and I mean this when I meet people I'm

never late

I'm early of course you have to be early

I make sure I pay like I've said before

I make sure I pay for the bill I make

sure I don't look tired I make sure I

never complain about my problems hey

take how are you yeah I'm really good oh

I'm fine yeah the traffic was a mess

dude doesn't give a [ __ ] God doesn't

care oh I'm tired

I was out last night yeah I'm really

good because people want positivity in

their lives

if you're really good they want to be

really good why are you really good

maybe they want to know more about you

this person is really good well I want

to be really good what the secret what

they're so good for

you have to you have to display

competence and you have to display the

attributes that people want to connect

with and these are always positive

attributes you know what they are not

just about being rich it's about being a

positive person living a happy life

these are things that have to appear

effortless when you go and you sit down

at a table and you're happy and you're

smiling you're positive and you have

this Aura of competence about you you're

gonna have people who want to do

business with you and the baker example

is a perfect example because I guarantee

you all know people right now let's say

you work a normal job

you work a normal job let's say you're a

[ __ ] truck driver

I you know your boss you know the boss

of the trucking company there's nothing

he's he's worth a shitloads of money

what's stopping you googling up a whole

bunch of stuff about Trucking or

Googling up the biggest trucking

companies in the world how they

advertise or Googling what they do and

just emailing them saying hey he was

reading this last night you might find

this interesting and building a closer

relationship with your boss

or the richest person you know nothing's

stopping you dude

you need to build value they need to

believe you're competent I need to learn

to trust you

so action list make a list of the most

important people or most rich people you

know

start finding a way to provide them

value without annoying them get some

money together so that you can be at the

right place at the right time that's the

beginning

next A lot of people are only interested

in networking up

whereas you can do a lot of networking

down there's a whole bunch of people out

there looking for a chance and if you

network that way correctly you can also

do very very well I've said this loads

of times people say to me how do I get

rich and I say find someone who will pay

you ten dollars to do a job

and find someone who do it for nine

dollars

because that way you de-link your time

to your money time is finite you only

have certain amount of hours in the day

money is is infinite effectively so if

you find a way to make money without it

requiring your time then you can scale

it infinitely there's no reason why you

can't scale it infinitely so if you know

a whole bunch of people who are looking

for money or looking for a job or

looking for a break what you have to do

is you have to vet them and make sure

they're competent and that's what I mean

by networking down so everything I've

just told you about networking up you

have to reverse and do it the other way

around

so you may have a younger brother you

may have some kids in college you may

know this guy you may know a dude who

works in [ __ ]

I was about to say Blockbusters

Blockbusters isn't even normal open for

years

Blockbusters he's the only guy storage

Blockbuster standing there on his own

working Blockbusters and he wants a

chance

some member goes to you let's say you're

driving a half nice car or something

they say oh they know you make money

online well how do you make money online

say oh yeah well you know I've got a few

things I've got this business going

maybe we could work together sometime

but and then you have to you have to get

them to validate themselves you'd say

yeah maybe I might work together

sometime have you heard about this have

you heard about this course or you heard

about this kind of marketing or have you

you're looking to drop shipping yeah

send me an email about it and see how

how much they apply themselves and what

you're going to find out is maybe nine

out of ten are time wasters they're

gonna have the one guy who really wants

it and now you have someone who's

prepared to basically work for free in

many cases work for free in many cases

just to have a chance at life and that's

the kind of thing that can be valuable

networking up is fantastic but

networking down is just as good

I had a I knew a guy who said you need

friends in high places and you need

Friends in Low Places and he was

absolutely correct we could go through

in his town we go through any McDonald's

drive-through is free go to any liquor

store the Vodka was free he knew

everyone at the Low Places and he knew

the mayor of the town so having people

in Low Places it's just as important as

high places so you're sitting here

trying to make a list of all the people

you know who are important you now have

an action list you have to provide those

guys value fine but you also have a

whole bunch of people looking for a

chance and if you're a higher value than

them you're the value now you're the

prize you gotta find a way to motivate

them to work for you and this is one of

the biggest keys to networking because

if you do this effectively then you're

going to be more and more you're going

to push yourself higher up the ladder

you can find a whole bunch of college

students let's say you have

I'll give an example you can go on

Fiverr right now

you could you could invent a graphic

design company I own a graphic design

company you can make a website you can

lie on the website and say you turn over

millions of dollars you can go to a

graphic design college or know some kids

to do graphic design you can go to them

and say you're going to give them all

interviews they've designed three logos

you can go on Fiverr and say Your Design

logos for 50 bucks each and when people

pay you 50 bucks you'll get them to do

it for free and you keep the money

that's just a very basic idea but it's a

very basic example of how you can

Network lower by just fainting when I

say failing company this is not even

fainting competence you're competent

enough to make a website you're

competent enough to get the jobs on fire

so by just being competent and and just

coming across as a more higher value

person you can Network down and get

people lower than you to do work for you

and that's another thing that a lot of

people don't do and there's absolutely

nothing wrong with that because if the

people below you prove themselves to be

especially competent and prove

themselves doing a very good job then

you're going to elevate them if you have

one guy who does fantastic logos he does

them in 20 minutes he gets them straight

across you and he's ready to work like a

dog well then you're gonna have a real

company aren't you because you're gonna

hire say okay you're the guy I'm gonna

use you all the time I'm gonna put more

ads on Fiverr and get more jobs you're

going to do them all I'll give you x

amount of money per logo I'll keep the

rest back done so networking down is a

fantastic thing it doesn't make you a

bad person because if you find someone

of competence you're going to elevate

them and that and that elevates you you

now own a graphic design company you've

known [ __ ] no now you're on a graphic

design company now you can be emailing

all the five important people I told you

on your list the five important ones and

you can be saying hey uh just looked at

your logo yeah it's really good but I've

got this graphic design company and I

just had my guys have a look here's a

few proofs I don't know if you'd be

interested something to take to think

about let's catch up soon in the back

set a couple free logos to an important

person let them sit there and go hmm

that's interesting so you've networked

down and now you're providing value to

people hiring you the whole thing about

networking is providing value walking

around in a suit and handing out your

business card and saying your name isn't

providing value to anybody

you need to provide value and if you

can't do that you need to at least

promise to provide value and if you

promise to provide value it has to be a

genuine genuine promise because the

world's full of promises nowadays and

the world's full of lies so if I was an

accountant

and I was doing a networking event

everyone I introduce myself to I would

give them some ridiculous guarantee I'd

say how high yeah I'm I'm the accountant

that that guarantees a lower tax bill

guarantees yeah I guarantee a lower tax

bill if you if there's no I've never had

a single client who didn't lower the

taxes with me ever

and it would be so Brash and sort of the

top of the sit and go really really

doesn't matter what company you're in

doesn't matter who you use doesn't

matter if you use PWC or Deloitte or the

best accounts in the world I guarantee

you with one thousand percent certainty

any of my clients I lower their tax bill

now that person will probably talk to

you because you're giving you you

haven't provided value but you've

assured them you've promised insane

value now you have to predicament now

you have to fulfill it but a verbal

contract isn't a contract if if this

person emails you and goes okay lower my

tax bill and you look through his stuff

and you work out you can you say oh okay

um uh we're really busy at the moment

we'll be back in touch in a couple weeks

I'm sure we can work together and you

just never email them again he'll forget

he ain't gonna go he's gonna go to court

and say I met this guy in a pub this guy

in a bar who promised to lower my tax

bill and he didn't email me back and sue

you he's gonna take what's gonna happen

nothing but at least you had the chance

maybe you can lower his tax bill now

you've got yourself a client

so you need to be providing value but if

you're going to promise value which is

what a lot of people try and do but

people do it like [ __ ] people walk

around oh hi yeah hi I'm an accountant

yeah I'm certified accountant yeah I've

got some big clients and yeah I'm sure

we could take a look there might be

something we can do

what does that mean I've already got an

account you're coming up to me saying

you could take a look there might be

something you could do that sounds like

it's going to take time I have to get

all my records all my files send them

across to you maybe we can do something

I've already got an accountant who I've

been with for five years it does a

perfectly fine job and now you want to

[ __ ] around me I'm not going to bother

if you would have come up to me and said

I guarantee you Andrew you're paying too

much tax you're getting ripped off with

me I guarantee you I'll lower it by

minimum 10 minimum

now I'm going to talk to you

that's how networking started I'm

certainly going to talk to you now if I

send you all my files and you look

through all and you realize that my

accountant is actually fantastic and you

can't lower my tax bill at all then you

just black it off black is an English

word for you Americans black means just

like it's blank it off okay yeah

fantastic having a look here uh I'll be

I'll be back in touch in a few weeks

if and you know what's going to happen

because I'm a busy guy and I've already

got an accountant and I've probably

forgot about it in a few weeks I'm not

even gonna chase you and if I do chase

you hey if there's anything we can do

yeah but we'll have to do it at the

beginning of the next financial Year

I'll be in touch a couple weeks in

advance take care

just just black it off delay it I'll

forget you'll move on no one's going to

court nothing bad happened at least you

had a chance to get my business you had

a chance to look through my accounts if

you would have come up to me and said oh

hi yeah maybe we can do something I'm

gonna I'm an accredited accountant you

wouldn't have even got that far

so you got either provide value or

promise value and this is the mistake

that people make with networking you

have to promise value I said to Idris

with me you'll win

you go so really I said no no with me

you're guaranteed to win so if you get

other people I don't know but with me

you're absolutely guaranteed to win yeah

there's a lot of good Fighters out there

but I know how it was as an amateur I

know the mistakes you'll be making I

know the mistakes he's going to make

with me Idris with me you are guaranteed

to win

and he did win

so I pulled it off but if I didn't say

that I wouldn't have got the chance now

imagine he lost what's he gonna do we're

going to sue me you got knocked out bro

you can't stop me it's not my fault you

should have blocked I told you to block

that punch you didn't listen I gave you

the right instructions you didn't enact

them correctly that's not my fault but I

networked myself to the talk with

guarantees she really need to show value

which is a guarantee because it's

something you've already done or you

need to promise insane value and this is

the mistake people make with networking

when someone comes to me and because I

get this all the time I get emails all

the time from people saying I'm gonna

make you more money I'm gonna do this

you're gonna do that pay me up front I

don't want to hear that [ __ ] I'm gonna

say no okay do it if you come to me and

say tape I'm gonna sell 10 of your

courses

okay I'm gonna sell 10 of your courses

if I sell 10-year courses can we Skype

and talk business yeah all right and

then just say okay every everyone every

one of my courses I sell the reference

is going to be this and I get 10 course

sales and in the Box it says this

person's name then I'm gonna be like

all right let's Skype what the [ __ ] does

this dude know that's providing value if

you're gonna promise me you're gonna

sell shitloads of my courses you better

come at me with some some convincing

[ __ ] come out and you go well maybe we

could try maybe this could have you

thought of

not interested because I've thought of

it all yeah I could try blah blah no you

have to come to me with pow

now I know all you're watching this is

probably going to try that exact thing

that's a bad idea because I'm a hard guy

to sell to it but in to other people

that's what people want especially

important people who are running

businesses and making money you need to

either show them you can make the money

or you need to promise them insanely you

can make the money but here's what's

gonna happen

the smart people

you'll get the audience who will agree

and pay you up front most smart people

will want to see some work first

promise the value and then they'll say

okay now show me the value and then I'll

give you what you want that's what's

going to happen and this is where the

competence comes in but isn't it better

to be talking to Millionaires and then

replying to your emails and and them

going okay we're gonna give you a chance

and then you might be able to pull off a

miracle isn't that better than them

never emailing you at all this is the

key to networking I promise Idris he'd

never lose and he didn't lose it worked

out for me it could have not worked out

for me but isn't it better that I

promised him and took the chance that

never took the chance at all so the

bakery example you want to start

emailing that Baker and saying you could

sell double the cakes I guarantee you I

can sell double your cakes and he'll go

and be smart he'll go okay do it then

and then you're gonna sit there and go

[ __ ] how do I sell double the Kings but

at least you have a chance now you have

a chance imagine you pull off double

cakes for a [ __ ] two days imagine you

get some hot chick to stand outside with

a tray she's your girlfriend so she's

free with a cake and you've given her a

little bit of a script and she convinces

people that these are these cakes are

made with some special flour or some

[ __ ] and doubles to cake sales when

you go back in there now and say okay

that's just the beginning of what I can

do I can triple this I can quadruple

that

I want x amount of money now you're

going to be having serious conversations

and that's what networking is show value

or absolutely promise value stroke

people's Egos and have enough cash to be

in the right place at the right time the

guy who owns that Bakery he might own

bakeries all over the world he might say

okay yeah I'm interested in talking to

you come to our head office in Singapore

now what you're gonna do oh sorry I

can't afford the ticket look a dick if

you're so good at selling things and

doubling people's turnovers you're gonna

be able to afford the ticket you have to

so money is absolutely an element but

the key to networking is you have to

come across a super high value

another great thing about this is this

is also how you get referrals

if you start doing good jobs for people

and you do a good job and you prove

yourself trustworthy or even if you're

at least promising to do a good job and

people see this that they're going to be

the ones who refer you because it raises

their status so I'm the bakery owner I

own the bakery you've come to me and

promised a double my sales you've

managed to pull it off I'm out with my

other friend who owns a [ __ ] car wash

and we're sitting there having beers and

I'm talking about this this person and I

now I get to say you know what I could

double your turn over your car washes

and the guy goes can you he goes yeah I

know a guy and this guy can double your

car wash turn over now I get to look

cool for recommending you so remember I

was talking earlier about motivators now

I am motivated to recommend you because

it raises my status with the car wash

guy even if he's a good friend I won't

ask him for money he's not a good friend

I might say I'll raise it give me this

amount if I'm a particularly Savvy

[ __ ] I'll say I want to double

your car wash turnover you give me 20

I'll send in a guy who works for me

who's really good you could they could

do it for money but in general people

don't even work that way people just

just like to feel important especially

important people the head of the bakery

is going to sit there and sit at the car

wash time you know what you've got some

good car washes you're washing some cars

but you could be making a lot more money

I know a guy who would help you make a

lot more money yeah he works for me I I

found him I trained him he'll talk he'll

lie but he's really good and you know

what I'm thinking maybe you should talk

to him because now the car wash guy

thinks the bakery guy is a hero oh wow

okay so the bakery guy's motivation for

recommending you is raising a status and

this is the most elevator for most

people this is how networking is done

you do a fantastic job for one person

they want to share your business they

want to tell others if someone came

along to me and did a fantastic job I

want to tell other people I do this all

the time the people who wrapped my

Lamborghini for example did a [ __ ]

amazing job cheap quick beautiful

rainbow rap psychedelic looks amazing

I'm happy to tell everyone where'd you

get that done I got done here they're

really good

that's that's human nature so you'd have

to be providing the same value or

promising and same value a lot of the

people you network with

especially at a lower level

they're going to want things from you

and because Mutual relationships we all

understand what Mutual relationships are

and how they work people are going to

want things from you so I know that 99

of the emails I get are people who want

things from me nobody's trying to give

me nothing no one's emailing me and

going hey take one or Ferrari everyone's

like oh hi do you want to invest in they

want my money do you have the time to

help me with they want my acknowledge

expertise or connections they want me to

[ __ ] Network

I've got an email today from some dude

hey uh my my girlfriend is struggling to

get Schengen visa

and I know you can do these kind of

things

okay cool if you would have said hi Tay

good to see you I know you're really

well connected I'm having a very

particular problem and I'm thinking

maybe you can help with it in return I

think maybe we could make some money

together make it at least more

interesting not just hey get my

girlfriend a shame your pizza

even know you

crazy anyway

can I get his girlfriend Schengen visa

yeah but am I motivated to no but 99 of

the time people want things from you and

that's fine so what you have to do is

turn those walks into something Mutual

so if someone comes to you and says hey

uh can I use your email list

I want to promote my product

that'll happen a lot the correct reply

is

my email list you can't use but when you

build your own I'll teach you how to

monetize yours correctly

we'll work together on it

he'll go oh okay thanks he'll be happy

with that reply so what's happened

what's he gained from you nothing what

have you gained from him a percent of

his sales

done he'll come back to you and go okay

I got my email let's say okay here's how

we're gonna do it I'll send emails blah

blah blah x amount percent goes to me

this amount go to you we're gonna sell a

whole bunch of products

simple when people come to you and they

want something from you that's a

fantastic chance to change it round to

put it on its head and allow you to take

something from them there's another key

element from networking and also if

you're particularly Savvy especially

with important people

is this is how smart and important

people think so you can be you can be

aware it's happening

pretend you don't know

so it's like one of the one of the laws

of power for you Laws of Power is never

outshine the master it's true so if you

go meet with a really important person

to go oh you know what I'm going to give

you a chance if you double my sales for

a week I'm going to give you a chance

you'll be like oh yeah okay fantastic

and you can sit there and pretend you

don't realize this dude just about to

make lots of money off you okay great

you don't be too smart you're smarter

than the dude it's going to piss him off

I've had this a few times myself I've

had people come to me and say this and I

say well let's do it this way they go no

this this and this like bro you're the

one approaching me I've got more money

from you you're trying to do business

don't come at me and tell me how things

are

you have to be super careful with that

because people's egos

an ego is more than enough to stop

someone doing business with you they'd

rather lose money than damage your ego

people are in jail over their ego Jail's

full of egos you insult someone they

shoot you in the head that's so

important a man's ego is to it so you

want to come along and start insulting

people and go no this or no you're gonna

be making lots of money off me then what

am I going to get that's not that's not

how you network you've got to play the

fools sometimes yeah great that's a

really good idea I'm happy to do that

for you yeah great

so be careful so very often people who

come to you they want something from you

if they're lower down you have to change

that to your favor

consciously think about how to do that

if they're higher up

they're going to try and get when you're

when you're offering something they're

going to try and exploit you to a degree

and that's fine because you have to

prove competence being exploited to a

comfortable degree to prove confident

confidence and make yourself likable is

once again fine be very aware of that

Dynamic everyone is in everything from

themselves every relationship is for

themselves you're with your girlfriend

for yourself

your love for her is nothing to do with

her it's for yourself it's for your own

sexual needs so you're not listening

you're not lonely it's completely

selfish you're with her for selfish

reasons she's with you for selfish

reasons and together you're both selfish

and you're both mutually benefit

the reason I talk to the bus driver is

because he'll drive me and I give money

to the boss which keeps the company

running That Pays His wages Mutual

benefit that's how interactions work

around the world there's no such thing

as selflessness it doesn't exist you

have to completely understand this and

understand the mutual benefits nobody's

going to do anything with you if there's

not a benefit for them

so at the beginning of someone's really

high value sure let them exploit you to

a degree make sure the benefit is in

their core but once you've proved

competence that can change quickly once

you've proved yourself to be competent

then they're gonna want you then things

change if you're the dude who doubled

sales they're going to want you around

absolutely

I prefer to stay in touch with my

important people via email I don't

really like to use LinkedIn because

LinkedIn is a professional platform and

that means that relationships are

professional that's fine for your

professional relationships but for your

genuine networking referrals it's all

about status and whether they like you

or not the money one money may be

LinkedIn but in general if you only

speak to someone through Linkedin are

they really going to be like this guy's

great they're gonna be like oh there's a

guy on my LinkedIn Maybe

so it's it's very it's very clinical

it's kind of like Tinder you know like

the girl you might want to bang her but

do you like her you know you don't know

her so it's very clinical so I don't

even have a LinkedIn page I don't even

have one I don't really use it for

networking and also if someone's super

important are they really on LinkedIn

like I mean you're going to meet some

mid-level dudes on LinkedIn but if

there's a multi-millionaire who has his

own company he has a coconut business in

Greece and he has all these boats he's

making millions and millions he's

[ __ ] all these models he's private

jets is he really gonna go oh let me

just let me just quickly log into

LinkedIn and oh I got an email from Mr

random yeah hi

gonna I mean that's my experience with

LinkedIn but yeah that's fine

I use email try and get people's email

addresses try and have an interesting

business card like mine don't copy it

and like I said provide value every

couple of months don't flood them don't

annoy them people are busy

next is protecting yourself from

networking so what a lot of you are

going to be thinking after watching this

is well how do I make sure I don't get

exploited how do I know that the baker

is not going to see my ideas I did to

double sales take the ideas and tell me

to [ __ ] off

and that is a genuine very real risk and

to be honest with you that risk is very

hard to negate you negate that primarily

through making the dude like you and

this is my completely honest experience

because I've been screwed this way

exactly the same if I've done work for

someone and it's been work and I've done

a really good job and at the end of it I

said look I want some money XYZ and they

don't particularly like me as a person

they are far more likely to disappear

than if they go you know what this guy's

all right and I know this sounds like

[ __ ] advice but it's the absolute truth

this is why I do business without

contracts because if you need a contract

with someone to try and stop them

screwing you they're going to screw you

if you need a piece of paper and a core

to try and stop someone from screwing

you over they're going to do it

eventually anyway and you're going to

waste a whole bunch of time in court

with lawyers and even if you win the

case they're going to claim bankruptcy

my chest connection claim bankruptcy and

it's all over

the way it works is you have to make

people like you you have friendships

with people and people don't want to

[ __ ] over their friends because everyone

has a conscience there's very few people

out there who are truly sociopathic

enough that they're going to screw over

somebody who they like

for a few few for a few dollars I

wouldn't do that people who I know who

could easily do that would never do that

to me because if you like people but

there's a there's a few people on the

planet you like and there's a whole

bunch of people you don't like so you

don't want to really [ __ ] up those

relationships with the people you do

like for money

especially if you're making good money

it's very rare so let's say the bakery

example if you're gonna do that for five

people one person's gonna screw you over

you just have to eat that loss there's

no other way to do it but the other four

will probably give you some kind of uh

recuperation for your efforts and on top

of that

especially if you have more to show so

the bakery example is perfect because

you can say okay I doubled your cake

sales but I've shown nothing yet I know

X I know this I know that even if you

don't know it

say you've seen a taste of what I can do

well now they definitely want to do

business with you because they've seen

your efforts and validated yourself and

you're saying you know a whole bunch

more but they're going to continue to

work with you so if you're worried about

safeguarding yourself you're worried

about being exploited I wouldn't worry

about that worry about getting the

opportunities

more opportunities you have the better

it may take three or four opportunities

for one to pay off but one it will

eventually pay off it's better to have

tried something and had an opportunity

and [ __ ] it up or try that something had

an opportunity you did a fantastic job

and then that person screw you over then

never had the opportunity at all that's

my genuine view because I've been

screwed over I've been robbed for money

I've been through all that [ __ ] that's

happened to everyone else but I never

deterred me from making relationships

and trying to get to high value places

and do high value work for high ticket

numbers because sometimes they pay off

so you can't be too worried about it and

this is what happens when I was saying

earlier about uh the people who are

arrogant and insults people egos I've

had people email me going tight

your email strategy [ __ ] and they're

right I agree my email strategy probably

is a bit [ __ ]

it's disconjointed you need to do this

this this this and this and this if you

do this you sell this much more

I say okay let's do it ten thousand

dollars a month

I say I'm not gonna pay

attention you haven't even done it yet

yeah but how do I know I'm not going to

implement it and You're Gonna Roll me

but it would have been better for them

to have implemented it

start making me a whole bunch of money

and then there's two things that can

happen I'm either gonna run off with the

ideas and and and skank them and they're

not going to get any money

and then my reputation will be soured

and they're going to go all over Twitter

and all over everywhere and say I'm a

bad person or I'm going to say you know

what I'm making so much money from this

person now and they want this I'm making

20 a month I wasn't making before they

want 10 okay cool

cool there's two choices now if you

obviously you want them to pay most

people are protective of their

reputations most people aren't that

sociopathic and second thirdly if I

actually kind of liked that guy

I wouldn't have done it so let me give

an example

let's say he agreed to do the work first

let's say you start doing the work I

never really heard from him he just did

the work and I sold products and the end

he goes okay where's my money that's

fine if he did the work and he was he

sent me email hey man I'm up really late

but I've got this idea and this idea

also after this one week trial we can do

this and this uh I'm really excited

about our partnership

bang email me that or something else or

something else and something else to

make me make himself more humanized then

when it comes to paying I'm going to be

like okay well he's told me there's more

ideas he was up working really late that

night I'm not gonna [ __ ] this dude

I'm with that guy so that's that's a key

element to it and that's the same with

all networking is being likable

likability

and I can't teach you personalities I

can't teach you how to be likable but

coming across as human and making it

clear how much you work much work you're

doing for someone there's nothing wrong

with that there's absolutely nothing

wrong with that if you're doing a

positive life don't complain they'll be

like oh I have to work so hard uh

because then I'm like well [ __ ] move

down

but if you're doing a very positive

light look I really believe we can do

XYZ we're going to take over the world

blah blah blah you're gonna do fantastic

one of my last time I had a job was

about

seven years ago and after I can tell you

the story I started I went to a meeting

to sell a website our market rate was

1500 pounds for the website I tried to

sell it for three grand

and I did that because I'm a risk taker

and everyone told me all the salesmen in

the company said that's too much he's

not going to buy it and I said well I

believe that we can sell our websites

for more

and they said okay whatever and the guy

bought it within a week I was giving a

presentation to the other salesman

because the [ __ ] managing director

couldn't believe I'd sold this for

double sold for double and after I sold

it I sent an email to managing director

saying hey I know I'm new I know you

don't know me I've just pulled off this

sale for double I want to sell all the

products for double is that okay

was if he's gonna say [ __ ] nut but

just pull off I just pulled off she's

gonna say I was gonna say yeah that's

fine why do you believe that and I'm and

I gave my reasons I said there's only so

many people in the world who want a

website if they don't need a website

they're not going to buy one if they do

need one then they're susceptible we

need to get as much money as possible

from them that's how we're going to

increase the turnover of this business

and I believe that we do a few things to

add some value small things

another meeting halfway through the

website being made a few more updates

fancier PDF updates small things that I

believe we can really increase our value

and that means we really increase our

prices even though we're providing the

same product

and I sent this back and forth to the

managing director one Monday night and

Wednesday I was gonna be a presentation

to all the top all the salesmen had been

there for years and everyone hated me

but I was the G now the best thing about

the story is at the same time I was

working this business I had my own

business selling websites so I'll

stealing missiles stealing customers

from this company and doing it myself

with my friend

but what great was after I did this and

I sold two or three more at Double the

price I had so much leniency in that

business that even when for like one

month or one month and a half at the end

when I sold nothing because I was

planning to leave no one questioned me

because I was the genius I was the guru

pulled it off and I just saw all the

things myself kit on but

that's an example but that's a short

story if you want people to like you no

sorry that's a short story if you want

to make sure you don't get ripped off

make sure people like you trying to get

contracts involved trying to get

legality involved all that [ __ ] is not

the way to go make people like you make

people respect the work you do for them

and be a nice person and no one's really

out to screw you someone might screw you

I'm not saying it's not going to happen

I'm saying it's still better to take

those chances and to not take the

chances at all

now all of you watching this know people

right now who you could contact and make

money with I don't say make money from I

make money with you make them more money

you get a percentage all of you know

people but you're just sitting there

going well how do I do it how do I

approach it because if I email this

person or I said to this person I want

to make more money they might think I'm

an idiot well maybe but what are you

worried about what's the worst it can

say it's no who cares promise them

something insane and then find a way to

deliver

finding a way to deliver is the key I'm

going to finish this first video off

because we've got two more videos coming

for this course

but my business card which I think a lot

of you have seen if not I'll get it here

my business card is a perfect example of

this and people always laugh when they

see my business cards they think it's a

joke but it's zero percent a joke maybe

we should we'll put a picture in what my

card is my card and it says in the back

I specialize in the following Wars Fall

assassinations plot uprisings quelled

whiskey Merchant helicopter hire all

this stuff

I made a laugh and go oh you don't do

those things wrong

I do do those things because I'm a

promiser I will promise you these things

and if I believe that it's worth my

while I will pull off if NASA come to me

and say put a probe on the moon I ain't

gonna [ __ ] clue how to put Probe on

the moon but if I believe if I do that

I'm going to get x amount of dollars 10

billion well if I believe it's worth my

while I believe it's going to save my

life or it's going to give me

superpowers whatever if I'm motivated to

do it I will do it I don't give a [ __ ]

what I have to do I don't care about to

go and learn how to do it myself I don't

care if I have to hire someone else to

do it I don't care if I have to go to

the Chinese and defect and and get them

I don't know what I'll do but I will get

it done and that is the key to

networking in most spheres promising The

Impossible

finding a way to pull off when you have

the opportunity

and doing so in a way that makes you

come across likable come across as

someone people want to work with

building up competence and value and

then that's going to spread and it's

going to spread it quickly

another example I'll tell you the best

example of where this has happened for

me personally is with girls

this has happened for me I can talk

about all the high net all of high value

people but the thing that illustrates my

point the best is with girls

whenever I'm with people

and they see me go up to girl I get a

girl or I turn up with hot girls there's

always hot girls around me people think

I want to bring these people I want to

introduce this person to other people

because he's the guy he's the one who

raises the status he's the guy who can

do this he's the guy and that's

networking all over just purely because

I've displayed competence or I promise

things if people have seen me turn up

with two super hot girls I'm not trying

to get on my own next time I say oh yeah

I could get us unlimited yeah we can go

get chips any club in this town will go

get girls any

they're like wow this guy I've shown

value and I'm promising value if you do

one of those two things they want to

invite you so the next time those two

dudes go out especially if those dudes

are millionaires and they're going to a

club or they're going to Miami or a

different town they're going to start

inviting me I've had that happen I've

had guys with me oh we're going to this

we're going to Miami you want to come

I'm a bit busy oh we'll pay your flight

bro because they're sitting there

thinking this dude gets [ __ ]

I have something they want

I can provide I've shown value and I've

shown competence or I've promised value

your competition before you know you get

invites before you know it you're

networking before you know it people

want to introduce you to other people

that's all networking is whether it's

money whether it's girls whether it's

anything else come across as competent

either get people richer make people

like you or raise their status for them

introducing you

and you're going to find yourself with a

lot of friends very quickly and then you

need to be selective about who's worth

your time and who isn't like I said

there's nothing wrong with networking

down but that person you're networking

down with has been motivated there's a

whole bunch of time wasters especially

people at the Vault people the ball most

of them are there because they're lazy

because people were motivated they

wouldn't be at the ball but there are a

few gems you can find but that's the

those are the basic elements to

networking watch this video over and

over again we've got two more videos

coming feel free to email me with any

questions okay

welcome to God mode

my name is Tristan Tate now if you

bought this course you already know who

I am I assume but who am I to be

teaching anyone how to get and retain

beautiful women well let me tell you

something everybody who has ever met me

who has ever visited me certainly in the

last five or six years has commented on

how many beautiful girls I have so

before we get into the course material

let me tell you my credentials I used to

run one of Europe's largest webcam

Studios I had 75 women employed by me

working to working for me and following

every single order I gave them

but right now I no longer have my webcam

Studio I just have a few models who work

for me but I have a few girlfriends this

is one of them

this is the next

you get the picture number three

all of these women

are loyal to me and exclusive to me

number four

five

I have

six girlfriends six now I'm not talking

about girls I sleep with sometimes I'm

not talking about girls who will come to

see me when I'm drunk or when I'm bored

I'm talking six relationships women who

love me women who want families with me

women who are not going to leave me

women who are loyal to me I'm not even

going to waste your time by naming how

many side chicks I have come and hang

out with me for a week or so I don't

know if you're in the war room or not if

I know you personally or not but if you

hang out with me you will see my life is

crazy

now how do I do it my pretend my

credentials are are Beyond doubt but

there's methodology to my Badness and

that's why you bought this course let me

explain something to you there's no

trick there's no life hack there's no

being in a position where all the women

you meet or come into contact with want

to have sex with you that doesn't exist

for any man on the planet besides Brad

Pitt and a few others if you want to be

an elite level player an elite level

Playboy like me you have to work at it

this is what I explained to everybody

why is Floyd Mayweather the best boxer

in the world why is Roger Federer the

best tennis player in the world because

they train and worked and perfect their

skills and that's why they are the best

in their field I am exactly the same I'm

not some guy who women just all want and

they chase me and message me on

Instagram and want to come over to my

house no I make a conscious effort every

single day I wake up I plan I make my

moves like I'm on a chessboard and I

keep not only my six relationships going

but I have plenty of time to meet new

women

so that brings me into module one in

this course we're going to talk about

meeting women

and dating

now guys what I'm not gonna go into in

this course is how to dress how to

behave generally you know the answer to

the question how to dress I don't know

what's your style are you a rugged guy

with a lumberjack t-shirt and a big

beard good look that way are you a black

guy with dreadlocks good look that way I

can't tell you how to dress how to style

style yourself or how to act and behave

that's all individual to you so you be

yourself and play the game the best way

that you can and you know how to how to

behave don't be a woman hater don't be

sour don't be bitter don't be unpleasant

don't be rude these are very basic

things and I'm not even going to bother

covering these if you can't get a single

girl to talk to you this is probably the

wrong course for you I'm teaching you

how to up your game from a guy with one

or two girlfriends to five or six like

me and a harem of side chicks a question

I'm asked a lot is how do you meet women

so before before we get into the digital

side of things we're going to talk about

how to meet women in the real world now

the best way to meet women in the real

world is not what a lot of people on the

internet will tell you approaches now

the guys who do approaches number their

approaches they Count Their statistics

oh I had sex with 10 of them I did 100

approaches today are you a nerd are you

a geek what kind of person are you where

you have all day to walk around trying

to talk to women on the off chance that

one might have sex with you approaches

my way is completely completely

different you see I don't March around

trying to get women to have sex with me

by talking to them I have built a

lifestyle I have built a life which puts

me in contact with beautiful women I'm

around them I'm in the bit I'm in the

best clubs I'm in the best restaurants

I'm in the best bars I'm in the best

spots in the world I'm flying all over

the place the highest level women in the

world are not in your local mall

gentlemen they're in some are in can or

Monte Carlo and if you're not there

you're not going to get them so the key

to approaches is to keep your number of

approaches very very low aim like a

sniper not a flamethrower if you see a

beautiful girl you're in a high-end spot

you want to add her to your Harem you

want to add her to your collection even

if you're in your local bar she could be

a beautiful barmaid you make your one

approach you try to get her contact

details and you then work on that lead

Mass approaching every woman who you

could talk to is the enemy of an elite

Playboy like myself because you need the

hours of the day you need your hours in

the day to work to do business to do

other things that are important that add

to the lifestyle that attracts beautiful

women you can't afford to waste all your

day walking around walking up to girls

asking for their Facebooks asking for

their Instagrams asking for their

numbers it's pathetic you need to make

your approaches when it's approaching

time you're out with your friends you're

at a nice restaurant you see a group of

girls you're out at a nice bar you see a

girl by the bar she catches your eye

then you go over and you make your

approach I make no more than two or

three approaches a week if that and I'm

a very social guy and I get more women

than all the people you see on the

internet every single one of them so

meeting women in the real world is very

possible and relatively easy be

confident I'm not going to teach you how

to approach women because every guy has

their own methodology I'll usually walk

up and I'll start with a compliment I'll

open with something as cheesy as you're

really pretty or you're beautiful

because if she says oh thank you then

she's interested if she looks at you

funny or says I have a boyfriend or says

anything negative you say okay no

problem I just want to say You're

beautiful have a nice day goodbye and

you leave them whereas any kind of

positive response to the compliment you

have your foot in the door and you can

make your clothes in you can get the

telephone

a WhatsApp number which you then later

work on So speaking of WhatsApp we're

going to go into the online dating game

now let me tell you the world has

changed the world has shifted

from many years ago when all Playboys

made their approaches person to person

there was no other way of doing it the

internet didn't exist Instagram didn't

exist and the best dating app that

exists right now is

Instagram

match.com Tinder this is where the ugly

girls hang out girls who can't get a

boyfriend they might download Tinder a

hot girl might download Tinder and mess

around with it for five minutes but

dating apps are nowhere near as powerful

as Instagram everyone who's anyone every

attractive girl in the world is on

Instagram and every guy who's an elite

level guy every guy with some clout some

presents some money some Talent some

skill something to offer is on Instagram

too Instagram is the most powerful

dating app in the world

now if you've ever had a girlfriend what

you should do next time you do is get

access to her Instagram inbox I have

Instagram inbox

um passwords to all of my girlfriends

all six of them so I could see the

messages they get every single day 20 or

30 people are messaging them hi babe hi

you look good now they don't read the

messages this is the problem and this is

why Instagram is important if you

understand Instagram game and you

understand how it works you could be the

most handsome guy in the world

you could be a Ferrari driver you could

be in super yachts in all your pictures

and private jets if you have a boring

profile picture and 200 people following

you it's not that the girl likes you for

the number of followers it's you are not

going to be seen you're going to send a

message to this beautiful girl she's

going to scroll down her messages oh

who's this this guy has 20 000 followers

let me read this guy's messages she's

going to skip right past you the

importance of building up a nice

Instagram page when it comes to game is

exceptionally important in today's world

right now I'm 40 something thousand

followers I have a verified tick now I'm

uglier I'm sure than lots of guys who

are messaging these models and these

girls who I do meet on Instagram however

when I send a message it could be

something as mundane as hello or a love

heart reaction to one of her stories

she's scrolling down her page guy more

handsome than me guy more handsome than

me billionaire ugly guy and then there's

me there's a little blue tick next to my

name it says I have 40 something

thousand followers oh who's this guy

she'll then click on my page and look at

my page she doesn't look at anyone else

she'll look at my page and think oh this

guy decided to send me a message you

know what I'm gonna message back or I

won't message back but my messages are

getting opened and that is the key to

Instagram game you need to have a

powerful profile you know if you need to

post photos of cars do it you need to

post photos with other girls do whatever

it takes to build up your likes to build

up your online presence because it's

almost as important when meeting women

as your real life presence which we're

going to get into later in this course

so Instagram is the most powerful dating

app in the world

I made uh headlines National headlines

um by stealing one of the most famous

women in my country Romania from her

husband over a million followers

verified on Instagram this girl how did

I meet her I sent her an Instagram

message now she gets thousands of

messages every day but very few from

guys of my caliber very few from guys

with that many followers a blue check

mark she obviously was curious to see

who I am I made a nationwide Scandal by

stealing this woman from her husband so

if Instagram you have to treat it like a

job as I said in the introduction to

this why are why is Floyd Mayweather the

best boxer in the world because he

trains if you want to be one of the best

Playboys in the world and operate on my

level you have to think daily you have

to make a conscious effort to be more

attractive more out there more in the

face of of the women around you so every

day if you see a cool scene you see a

cool restaurant you're in a cool place

get someone to take a picture of you

yeah it's narcissistic I hate pictures

I'm not even photogenic I'm ugly in

pictures but I take these cool pictures

and I put them online because I know

it's money in the bank it's going to

grow with interest and it's going to pay

off in the long run so absolutely you

have to apply yourself to your online

presence and nothing is more important

than Instagram

there is a time and a place for dating

apps dating apps really do work I'm

filming this on April the 11th 2020. in

the middle of a quarantine

which sucks

however one country is not quarantined

Stockholm Sweden the capital of Sweden

was open for business so I decided to

head over to Sweden with my brother and

have a bit of fun play The Playboy game

over in Stockholm see how it goes now if

I had showed up in Stockholm which was a

lot quieter than usual where would I

meet the beautiful girls I wouldn't

really know where to hang out I wouldn't

know where to go or what to do so I set

my Tinder location yeah I pay for Tinder

I pay for the premium Tinder I set my

location to Sweden I don't bother

swiping I pay for those boost things and

I have the Tinder gold to see who swipes

me first I run three or four boosts then

I take my pick again like with Instagram

my Tinder pictures are me next to my

supercars me by the pool me looking good

having trained hard I try to get all the

attention I can from the social media

and my Tinder pictures are my Instagram

pictures

I then look at the best girls that have

swiped me I picked one her name was

Philippa absolutely beautiful girl

absolutely beautiful girl in fact here's

a picture I'm including a picture of

Philippa right now this is her

now Tinder is great for one thing and

one thing only

finding the best places in the city to

go

now years ago if you were a Playboy and

you would land in a new city land in

Singapore it's 1988.

what you do is you get in a taxi and you

tell the taxi driver hey brother you

know where's the coolest spot in town

where's the where's the hot joint

where's the where's the cool restaurants

the cool bars where the pretty girls

hang out and the taxi driver would give

you all the information you needed maybe

a hotel concierge today taxi drivers

don't know [ __ ] they're bitter they're

upset they the world has changed the

rich poor divide is wider than ever taxi

drivers aren't going to the expensive

places but you know who knows the best

places in every city

beautiful girls that's what Tinder is

for if you use Tinder trying to get your

pee pee sucked you're doing it wrong you

need to use Tinder to find the best

places to go matched with a really

beautiful girl and say hey what's the

best place to go in Stockholm on a

Friday night oh what was the name of the

place now can't remember the name but

this girl Philippa replies to me oh it's

here I say okay we're going I'm going to

take you out bring your friends because

I was with my friends I'm gonna take you

out let's have fun now she said yes and

if she had said no who cares I now know

the best place in town I know where

girls like her hang out

so Stockholm are all worked out

exceptionally well I ended up sleeping

with this girl Philippa she's still

messaging me now I've been home for

weeks and weeks that's what Tinder is

good for finding the best places to hang

out in town

and when you get to these places make

sure you check in on Instagram take a

picture tag yourself on Instagram

because if you do that I tag myself at

the Stockholm Grand Hotel the best hotel

in the city that's where I was staying I

had three or four girls message me

simply because I tagged myself at that

hotel girls from Sweden they all are

obsessed with Instagram hot girls are

obsessed with Instagram and how do I

find out that the Stockholm Grand Hotel

was the best place in town to stay from

a chick on Tinder who I never even met

I said oh yeah I'm thinking I don't know

where to stay she goes all the best

hotels the Stockholm Grand Hotel I

Googled it it was boom booked it then at

the end of the night when I was done in

that club or whatever with Philippa oh

where are you staying the Stockholm

Grand Hotel

of course it's the best hotel in the

city like I knew and I didn't oh wow

yeah it is the best hotel in the city

you know I've got a killer mini bar

let's go and have some drinks come on

it's not like I know everything here

closed at three that's weird you know in

my in my country the parking goes until

five true or not I would have used that

line let's go back to the hotel that's

what dating apps are useful for

if you're there trying to get laid

trying to talk trying to make your

girlfriend and stuff forget about it man

forget about it these girls get every

dude they swipe is a match after a day

or two of talking to them you're they're

gonna stop replying regardless of who

you are if you think she's really hot

and you met her on Tinder get her off

Tinder ASAP get her onto Instagram get

her onto WhatsApp because at least if

you get onto Instagram and you send

messages back and forth hey it's me you

are now out of her other inbox and in

her main inbox you're a guy she knows a

guy she swiped in since she's attracted

to and she will always read your

messages that's a good lead

forget about Tinder

terrible that's its only use now

depending on the culture of the country

you're in another way you can meet women

is

by having a group of women with you now

I know this sounds insane guys I know

this sounds crazy but if you know two or

three girls and you're heading over to a

nightclub or a bar and you invite them

with you having a group of women with

you in a town or city where these women

are from it acts like a magnet this is

Elite level stuff that you will not hear

anywhere else if you have three or four

girls from New York with you while you

are in New York and you're taking to the

best clubs and the best bars and the

best spots the girls they know

congregate around you they come to talk

to their friends you can make your brief

introduction hello my name is Tristan oh

really nice to meet you yeah I'm just

out with these girls right now but I'll

tell you what if you've got Instagram

yeah you know you come out with us next

time right you know stay here stay at

our table screw those guys

having girls with you acts like a magnet

now when I was much younger if I went

out trying to look for women it was a

different world but I'd go out by myself

to crappy bars and clubs and try to talk

to girls you know I learned things the

hard way however now I do not go out

with just men I go out with women every

single time I don't care if they're my

friends my girlfriends girls I'm

sleeping with I bring women when I go

out because they're friends their

girlfriends their mates they all want to

come over and talk oh hi oh you're at

Tristan's table or maybe they don't even

know me maybe I can make an introduction

and that is a way that I meet a lot of

women the friends of the women who I

[ __ ] you better believe I've been

through a lot of them especially my side

chicks when it comes to keeping my

girlfriends I don't really [ __ ] their

friends that's a bit of a

a line I tend not to cross because I'm

spoiled for choice but yeah having women

with you

attracts women don't let anyone tell you

that it doesn't because I know better

than anyone else another way to meet

women is reputation

especially in your home City I don't

care you if you live in South Africa or

Johannesburg I don't care if you live in

Mozambique I don't care if you live in

uh Sydney La wherever you're from your

reputation matters especially in the

city you live especially in the city you

live in now this is when being a

gentleman comes in kissing and telling

bragging about girls you fought showing

their nudes to people it's just not cool

now guys who do this when I meet a guy

and he's oh I [ __ ] this car [ __ ] this

girl it's a bunch of naked titty

pictures I'm like okay yeah cool yeah I

do all right myself I don't brag that's

an amateur tactic because what they're

doing is they're ruining their

reputation

now I can meet a girl

and she'll be like yeah you actually met

my friend before and I'll say who's your

friend it's a girl I used to sleep with

for a little while but I was nice I was

polite I was kind I took her to nice

places you know I I bought her some nice

cocktails I was always a good host we

had sex a few times I let her know that

it wasn't anything serious and her

friends want a piece of the action her

friends will hear this

and and actually want to date me or want

the same kind of setup with me than she

had so reputation is another way to meet

women don't let anyone tell you that it

doesn't work as I said these guys on the

internet who pretend to be Playboys they

don't know what they're talking about

they won't believe in a million years

you could meet a woman because you met

their friend yeah that's because they're

butthur they're losers when a girl

breaks up with them they throw insults

at them and cry and scream and threaten

to kill themselves because they're nerds

me when I break up with a woman or she

breaks up with me God forbid especially

side chicks side Chicks leave me because

I find out about my girlfriends they say

you know what well I had a lot of fun

with you you're an awesome girl I wish

you all the best yeah cool that's the

way to do it reputation is another way

of meeting women

and so is

being scouted out being actively

searched out so when I talk about

Instagram game from a man's perspective

actually approaching women and trying to

talk to them I very briefly mentioned

tagging myself at the Grand Hotel in

Stockholm women will seek UL not just in

the real world but in the online World

more so than ever before young women who

have never lived a life without

Instagram or 18 19 20 21 if you take a

very good picture as of this day I

recently uploaded one of me sitting in a

hot tub which is full of money with a

girl in a bikini lighting my cigar while

I'm drinking a glass of whiskey that

picture went viral thousands and

thousands of likes people who didn't

know who I was people who had never

interacted with my profile saw it on

their news feed because I planned out

the good picture and I took it I had

lots of women message me haha I'd never

light your cigar for you but she

messaged me that means she would you

actively get searched out when you're an

elite level guy and this is what I mean

one more time when I say you have to

train and you have to work at being an

elite Playboy that's the key that way

you do get searched out if you're a

normal guy marching around the mall

trying to collect phone numbers no girl

in the universe is ever gonna say to her

friend hey that guy who marches around

the mall asking every girl's number yeah

he's hot do you know his name or no one

is going to message you on Instagram

aren't you that guy who marches around

the mall asking girls for her number wow

you know what why don't you take me on a

date no you get searched out and you get

scouted and hunted when you're a top one

percent man

so if you're not being scoured out if

you're not being hunted if you're not

being searched for what exactly are you

missing guys stand up look down can you

see your dick no then you're too fat

lose some weight women care about looks

too I'm not the best looking guy in the

world sure but I make an effort I try I

work out I get into shape all these

women wouldn't like me as much if I was

20 pounds heavier or 30 pounds heavier

of course they wouldn't

so you do get searched out when you're a

top level guy so absolutely invest your

time in that get a gym membership

obviously make some money drive a nice

car do something productive maybe you

play the guitar very well I don't play

the guitar maybe you're an amazing

Surfer these things get women too I

myself was a kickboxer didn't attract as

many women as many women as you think

but when I was young and I didn't have

any money and I couldn't do fun things

and I couldn't go to nice bars or nice

clubs the fact that I was a kickboxer I

got a lot of attention I could beat

another man up sure I was broke but

girls like that I always had pretty

girlfriends so what are you doing right

now if you're just a normal guy with a

normal job doing nothing you don't

produce any content you're not talented

you can't do gymnastics or play the

guitar do something because every man in

the world has a dick that he wants to

get sucked every dude on Earth and

you're just another one of them unless

you make yourself different in some way

you will never get scouted out but it

certainly is a way to meet women believe

me happens to me all the time that's how

top level guys meet women so essentially

all the same ways most other guys do but

there are little twists and little spins

on everything I'm going to very briefly

cover what not to do obviously I've gone

into Day game don't do that you need

your time you need your time to work out

you need your time to make money you

need your hours of your day you can't go

marching around malls or marching around

Parks trying to go up to every woman who

you speak to do not send pictures of

your dick if you're watching this if

you're watching this and you send

pictures of your dick what are you doing

women don't want to see your dick bro

don't send random [ __ ] dick pictures

to girls that's obviously a [ __ ] red

line that's more women see my dick than

the guys who send their dick to all the

women on the internet and you know why

because women actually want to have sex

with me don't send pictures of your dick

guys that's an obviously uh a big thing

not to do do not spam messages if you

message a girl once and she does not

reply do not send her another message

even if you have her number and your

message her once twice three times no

reply give up quit delete her number

move on to the next Target message

spamming isn't cool

these are the basic things of what not

to do but that is in essence how I meet

my women

now I'm going to go into dating

because dating is the important part

dating is how I add women to my

collection

the most important part of dating when

you are an elite Playboy is something

that you guys probably wouldn't guess if

you've bought this course it is time

management when do you go on dates in

the evening what do you do dinner after

dinner drinks after drinks you try to

have sex with her maybe she goes home

maybe she comes back to your place wrong

wrong you don't do that

how are you going to have six

girlfriends and 10 side chicks if you

commit an entire evening of dinner and

drinks ignoring your other girls on your

phone to try to have sex with a single

girl that is not possible if that is

your method you're gonna have two girls

or three girls on the go maximum that is

it six girlfriends I see them all more

than once a week how does that work out

well it's not magic I can't add hours of

the day and I can't make time but time

management is the key to dating multiple

women to having a harem of women you

have to manage your time

so I'm going to give you an example

you need to turn things that you have to

do anyway in to dates you can't commit a

whole evening to a new girl so I've met

a new girl at a club I have her phone

number all of my girlfriends want to see

me let's say I've picked one of them for

tonight I know which girlfriend is

coming over to my house and which girl

I'm having sex with tonight

I meet my new girl when I do something

mundane that I have to do anyway I'm

running errands in the city I'll say you

know baby I'll tell you what I'll pick

you up we'll go for a little drive we'll

go for a coffee

I'll pick her up at 3 or 4 P.M

I'll do my errands drop the things off

that I have to drop off you know have a

coffee with the girl for 20 minutes make

her laugh make her smile two hours only

then I'll take her home

now

something different has happened to this

girl when she's been with me then she's

been with the typical guy made her laugh

made her smile she had a wonderful time

but there was no drinking there was no

getting her drunk there was no me trying

to have sex with her there was no me

leaning in for a kiss she's back at home

at 5 PM like

oh okay well that was fun and she's

alone in the evening who's she thinking

about me I can then commit my evening to

my girlfriend I can finish my work

around nine o'clock spend a few hours

watching a movie with my girl [ __ ] her I

could text on my phone my girlfriends

don't look at my phone and the girl who

I went on a date with was mine all day

she was mine in the afternoon after I

left her home she was mine in the

evening she was mine at night when I

said good night to her and she went to

sleep thinking about me I didn't try to

[ __ ] her but I spent enough time with

her to implant myself into her mind I

owned her thoughts for 12 hours by

investing a little bit of time in the

afternoon and still had my evening free

to have sex with my girlfriend keep her

happy

that's how you do dates that's how you

time manage

[ __ ] this evening go out for drinks go

out for dinner try and bang them cool

you want to get a girlfriend do that

that's that's all you but if you want to

play the game On My Level you cannot

afford to waste your evenings you have

to manage your time now

this was money well spent I'm going to

let you guys in on the most exclusive

Elite player tactic that exists in the

world I have never seen another man Even

do it I've never heard of another man

doing it I've never heard of another man

attempting it

and that is having two dates or three at

the exact same time in the exact same

place a system my brother and I call

double booking

what is double booking how is this

possible

I'm going to tell you how only the

elitist of the elite can pull this off

but once again I can date three or four

women in a night in the same place have

them all thinking about me go home to

one of my girlfriends and spend the next

two or three days cleaning up the mess

and [ __ ] the girls who I went on a

date with

how does one do this now

I'm going to tell you double booking

does not work in certain settings you

cannot double book at the cinema you

cannot invite three girls to the cinema

all to meet you in the same place and

take them all out for a movie who when

they don't know each other that doesn't

work

double booking works when there's a Vibe

when there's a party atmosphere

and you have to understand that in

parties and clubs and bars women will

put on their makeup put on their dress

do their hair come out and see you they

haven't got any money they're hanging

out on my table your table drinking your

drinks

they're not going to storm off and go

home because there are some other girls

around especially when you're out with a

crew of your friends yeah you know

everyone they're all your friends it

relies on a poker face

these girls do not say to each other oh

hi I came here for a date with Tristan

so when I go to a club on a Friday this

is an example of double booking I'll

bring one of my girlfriends why not

I love my girlfriends they're wonderful

people maybe two but let's let's say one

one of my girlfriends and then I'll take

three of the women I've been texting who

I have yet to meet

I'll know I'll say you know baby I'm

going out to the club tonight I'm

hitting this club you know why don't you

come with me bring your friends yeah

it's a group Vibe I'm out with some

people I know I repeat that times three

three women get done up they shave their

legs they wax their [ __ ] eyebrows

they do their makeup they do their hair

they paint their fingernails they put on

their lipstick they put on their high

heels and they come to the club to meet

me to impress me I give each one of them

maximum 20 minutes of my time oh hey

baby kiss on the cheek kiss on the cheek

I'm really glad you could make it yeah

you know have a drink it's way too loud

for anyone to hear any conversation that

isn't one-on-one you buy champagne you

keep the party going everyone's doing

shots everyone's yelling shouting

celebrating having a good time you're

all in a big group and the part in the

atmosphere drowns out

the room for difficult conversation

these girls then don't say to each other

hi why are you here did you come here to

see which one of the guys Tristan yeah I

came here to see Tristan that doesn't

happen they literally introduced

themselves to each other hi my name's

Andrea oh hi my name's Christine hi they

kiss each other on the cheek hey girls

would you like some champagne I hand

them both a glass and the party

continues

I call it double booking now you'll see

these guys on the internet Playboys

um so-called who have tables full of

girls these girls are either not

interested in them not [ __ ] them or

their escorts prostitutes girls who are

being paid girls who are being hired to

uh hang out that's not how I do it at

all I don't think Elite level Playboys

ever play that game so I have women all

coming for a date with me they've all

bought one or two friends my friends

talk to their friends in a huge mix

group and if I want one at the end of

the night if one's made it clear she

wants to stay with me I can sneak off

with her leave 20 minutes before my

friends my friends will give me covering

fire

if not

then I'll go home with one of my

girlfriends I'll go home to one of my

girlfriends I'll go home to two of my

girlfriends but all of these women as

far as they're concerned I went to the

club and I took them with me they were

my date for that evening the evening

when all the champagne comes over

everyone's looking at the party that's

being had

they were my date

so yeah double booking Elite Playboy

tactic nobody I know does this

only me and my brother and we have a

good saying the only thing better than

double booking

is triple booking which sounds stupid

but now you understand how the tactic

works the more there are the less room

there is for any difficult conversation

to happen or any mistakes to be made you

couldn't pull this off at the cinema you

couldn't pull this off at the restaurant

but next time you're going to a club and

taking a date invite more girls double

book yourself try it out and then

message me on Instagram and tell me

Tristan thank you because it [ __ ]

works

so you know when I go to clubs and when

I go to bars I'm usually double booked

or triple booked my table has lots of

women on it

now I'm going to talk to you about Club

game how I run game inside of the club

now of course I'm spending some money I

have some bottles of vodka some bottles

of champagne depending on what your

budget is as long as you have enough

alcohol to get everyone at the table

drunk and partying that's enough you

don't need to be a millionaire to pull

off these this double booking technique

any club any bar or restaurant that has

a party atmosphere you could do it at

but when I'm there

as I said if you want to be elite you

have to make the effort I can't go out

there with three or four women and a

girlfriend and think you know what wow

this is wonderful I can have any of

these girls I choose this is great

that's enough It's never enough

so when you're in that position the

winning position you're the man in the

club with the women

how do you capitalize on it to meet more

women this is when you do your

approaches gentlemen you're the guy

you're dressed nicely you're looking

your best you're surrounded by women

you're on the table you're drinking your

champagne if you think that other women

in the in the club don't notice this you

are wrong you need to expand your

horizons you don't just look at your

table what you have there look further

look deeper into the crowd look at the

bar

who are the two girls standing on the

bar they're looking at you of course

they are you're the guy with all the

girls in the club now they're looking at

you who in their right mind if they're

with their girlfriends and on dates

would walk over and approach the two

girls at the bar surely nobody

that's why you do it

you walk over to the girls and say hey

girls

hey I saw you look at you look familiar

have I met you before Oh no maybe you

just have one of those faces no I'll

tell you what me and my friends are all

having a drink don't stand over here by

the bar it's letting all these dorks

trying to talk to you come over with me

come have a drink with me uh let's go

maybe it's a yes maybe it's a no but you

have to make your approaches it doesn't

matter what crowd you're in they may say

yes they come over they'll introduce

themselves to the other girls they won't

say oh are you on a date with Tristan

are you not they are blinded by how fun

the party situation is and you've added

two more to your triple booked

girlfriend date situation

that is Club game also as I said if

you're out with women from a certain

city their friends come over when they

come over they're like magnets the more

of them congregate in one area the more

flow in make your approaches then talk

to their friends introduce yourself tell

them your name if nothing else oh hey no

hi my name is Tristan really nice to

meet you would you like a drink cool

have whatever you like bye you'd be

surprised you do that with every single

girl a few times a year you're gonna get

an Instagram follow the very next day oh

hi it's it's Cynthia no hi Tristan yeah

we met in the club it's that simple you

need to run game on top of game

there's no Universe when you try to get

10 women and you get all 10. to get as

many women as me you have to try with

hundreds you have to make yourself

available and out there for hundreds of

women to know and hundreds of women to

see so when you're in the club you can

get into the minds of 50 you can have 15

or 20 women thinking about you and you

can get six or seven of their details on

top of your own situation which you're

already running that is why nerds who do

Day game are never Elite level Playboys

I do not approach women all day long

I've built a beautiful life and put

myself in a wonderful situation where my

situation attracts the women they are

they come to me for me then to attack

I'm a Trapper I'm not a hunter that's

the way to do it and that's why I have

so many women but yeah Club game don't

just look at what's on your table maybe

maybe your girlfriend will break up with

you tomorrow and none of those four

girls will want to [ __ ] maybe they just

wanted to drink some champagne maybe

they don't like it in the maybe they

don't like you they just want to hang

out at the club cool what are you gonna

do then go home and jerk off no

no you're going to talk you're going to

get one of the girls he went and

approached the bar

always over stretch and always be

thinking on how to capitalize your

situation and add more women to the

harim

that's the end of module one how to meet

women if you apply all these things the

way that I've taught you you should meet

women and be ready for the next stage

which is dating module two

nobody covers this topic nobody

but I'm going to talk to you about how

to have sex with virgins

virgins now Elite level Playboys these

dorks who take these pictures with all

these girls they are usually paid

they're models they're actresses they're

they're sent there by their agency

I

do not pay for sex I've never hired a

prostitute in my life and I won't I

don't need to

but when you don't pay for sex there are

advantages to that you get the women no

one else gets any Shake in Dubai can

hire the hottest to buy escort and bang

her I could go to Dubai and bang the

exact same escort why would I want to

that's disgusting however

in my situation you get access to girls

that no one else has access to when you

run game like me and meet the women who

I meet and roll in the circles I meet

you meet beautiful virgins sometimes

me

I'll do two or three virgins a year now

how do you date a virgin when you're a

when you're a ice cold player there is a

tactic which I'm going to share with you

on how to date a virgin and how to take

a girl's virginity

typically the first girl's virginity I

took

I was 16 years old she was a virgin I

was a virgin it was rubbish and what I

did was this I dated her she was my

girlfriend for three months then we had

very boring sex that's how I had sex

with my first virgin Now the recipe

hasn't changed but the tactics and the

implementation has certainly changed be

their boyfriend for three months and be

in a nice relationship with them that is

the recipe I'm sorry guys

you want to run into a virgin and [ __ ]

her the next day don't ask me how I

don't know

I don't think anyone knows I don't even

think it's possible

you have to be their boyfriend for an

extended period of time you then have to

take a virginity on the second month

anniversary or something along those

lines and I'm going to teach you how to

do it

while still being

in a Playboy lifestyle scenario

what you do with your virgin is you turn

everything into a date

I need to go have a business lunch with

my brother or my friends

I make sure she's there I Uber her in I

Uber her out if I have to go for a drive

I make sure she's with me I go and pick

her up do my drive drop her off go back

home if I have to go to a a club she's

part of my double booking scenario she's

always with me at least three or four

times a week irregardless of what I'm

doing I go to a lot of lunches and a lot

of dinners I eat at restaurants a lot I

take her to the restaurant nothing about

my life has changed I'm not going out of

my way I'm not making a specific time

for her I'm not trying my best to take

her on dates and show her a good time

what I'm doing is I'm adding her into my

normal everyday life

now to me I'm [ __ ] my girls I have my

girlfriends my relationships I'm getting

my sex I'm having my drinks hanging out

with my friends nothing has changed in

my life apart from there's some quiet

girl next to me half the time when I'm

out and I would otherwise be alone

but to her in her mindset Tristan is my

boyfriend he took me to lunch today and

he dropped me home he took me to the bar

today he was with his friends and he

took me with him and then he sent me

home Tristan is my boyfriend in her mind

we've been dating and then one day that

day will come when she's ready and

you'll know you'll know because she'll

make it obvious to you no matter what

you do with virgins don't get pushy

don't take them to your bed and try and

sleep with them and get your dick hard

and no matter what do not violate my

Golden Rule with virgins if she won't

[ __ ] you do not let her touch you oh

you're a virgin maybe you can suck my

dick no no no no it's desperate or maybe

you can wank me off it's it smells of

desperation do not do this baby you're

not ready I understand let's go to sleep

go to sleep like a [ __ ] man without a

sex for one day if she stays with you

for [ __ ] sake have some dignity well

some virgin giving you the worst [ __ ]

in the world trying to explain to her

guys grow the [ __ ] up

if you're with a virgin in bed she's not

ready Cool go to sleep

nothing will make her want you more than

this

so I've come

into situations where I've been seeing

these virgins for a month two months

nothing about my life has changed and

then they'll come to me and say oh maybe

we can do something special this weekend

boom I book a hotel we have a few drinks

at the hotel bar take her upstairs

virginity gone as far as she's concerned

I've been her boyfriend for three months

she's in a long-term committed

relationship and all it's taken is me to

order some Ubers when I'm having my free

time with my friends that is how I have

added virgins to my list two of the

girls of my six were virgins when I met

them they're not anymore but now they're

mine

now when it comes to dating

I know what some of you think

women love money no

[ __ ] love money

women love fun and fun costs money if

you're broke you're not going to get as

many women why you don't pay the women I

don't give women money women very rarely

see my money and think oh maybe I can

get some money from him only if they're

real [ __ ] or real [ __ ] or

prostitutes good girls don't care if you

have money they're not going to ask you

for money but if you don't have any

money

all you can do is invite them to your

apartment money is important because

money facilitates fun you could take a

girl out in your nice car that's fun for

her you want to take her out in my house

I have a Jacuzzi that's nice I have a

fully stocked bar in my cigar lounge in

my house they can come here they can

have some drinks money facilitates fun

so when it comes to dating yes you need

money

now there's an old fallacy when they say

oh well you pay for it one way or the

other you're paying for it if you hire a

hooker you're paying for it if you go to

the club no one

go into clubs bars and restaurants is

much more expensive than paying a hooker

one it costs more two it costs more

because it's better

it's better you can't pay for the sex

that I have you can't buy the sex that I

have do not hire escorts and do not hire

prostitutes if a woman

comes to bed with me she has a genuine

desire for me I may have bought

champagne I may have bought dinner I may

have bought movie tickets it doesn't

matter she comes into my bed with me

thinking wow I want this man I'm going

to [ __ ] with this guy I'm going to let

this guy inside of me I'm crazy about

him he seduced me I want to have sex

with him

any situation where you are paying for

sex eliminates that spark and that spark

is what makes male female interaction

beautiful I love having women around me

but I would hate women sitting around me

charging me by the hour looking at their

watches oop that's another 300 that's

another 200 that's another 100 I would

teach them who the [ __ ] do you think you

are sitting around me charging me by the

hour to be in my company no so yes it is

more expensive you do pay one way or the

other if you date them or if you pay

them but paying for them you don't get

them

you're giving her money she thinks ah

okay I better go [ __ ] this loser I

better go [ __ ] this guy because he gave

me some money that's very different to a

woman thinking I want to be in bed with

this man Elite Playboys do not pay for

sex because anybody could teach that

ready I'm gonna give you the Playboy

paid for sex course

make lots of money hire hookers have sex

with them dumb anyone with money can do

that

but as I said with the virgins with the

good girls with the girls looking for

long-term relationships if you're smart

enough and your tactics are solid you

can play the game

and you get access to women that the

guys who pay Simply can never touch

another important aspect of dating your

women is when you have your guy time

when you're an elite level Playboy like

me and you have all the women that I do

you need to maximize your hours in your

day but what you can do is you can't eat

into guide Time by replacing it to date

women your guide time is when you hang

around with your friends maybe you drink

beers I drink whiskey maybe you I don't

know smoke your cigarettes I smoke

cigars regardless of what you do in your

guide time you need it men need to be

around other men you can't just be

around women exclusively so a very good

test to whether women are relationship

quality or friend qualities how are they

around your friends now my women are all

the same all six of my girlfriends are

the ones who passed my test and they get

to be around me when I have my guy time

now when they're around me what do they

do they make sure the ice stays cold

they bring the beers over they make us

coffee they make us tea and they remain

quiet your guide time is important date

time especially when you're hanging

around with virgins or girls who need to

put a lot of hours in with you can

happily invite them around introduce

them to your friends and make sure they

sit there and stay silent do not eat

into your guide time and replace it with

women time but you can absolutely use

that when dating as well basic things

you shouldn't do when dating now we're

wrapping up dating I'm gonna tell you

one not to do I already covered do not

waste evenings do not commit Mass

amounts of time to a single female you

can commit the time by living inside of

her mind I can do a date at one o'clock

a date at three o'clock a date at five

o'clock and then I can [ __ ] my

girlfriend I'm with four women all night

four women all night I have turned 12

hours into 48 somehow

why because all they think about is me

the one on a date today his name was

Tristan he was nice he took me for

coffee he made me laugh he made me smile

I could run the same script on all of

them tell them all the same joke

I'm gonna [ __ ] two or three of them

probably of the girls I dated that's the

way to manage your time do not waste

massive hours dozens of hours with the

same girl that's never going to get you

to the point where I'm at because you

only have 24 hours in a day other things

not to do do not sideline important

business for women

you need your money you need your

vehicle you need your agency you need

your presence as a man

to have your women if you saw start

sidelining important business for [ __ ]

you're going to end up without your

important business which means you end

up without your money which means you

end up without your lifestyle and

without your lifestyle

you're gonna end up without your [ __ ]

too

so never ever sideline important

business for [ __ ] and don't try to [ __ ]

women too fast

guys get their you know the typical

Dating Game of meeting one girl it's all

about when are we finally gonna [ __ ] it

doesn't matter guys

build up your collection of women very

much if you've ever worked a sales job

like you build up your sales leads it's

a bunch of maybes and they all come

crashing in eventually and when they all

come crashing and you won't care that

the new girl you just met isn't [ __ ]

you yet because you're getting your dick

sucked that night irregardless of her

and what she does however you can meet

her show her a good time make her smile

make her laugh have your nice afternoon

go and get your dick sucked anyway

doesn't matter if she wants to [ __ ] yet

but she's gonna lay in bed thinking oh

he didn't even try to [ __ ] me I wonder

if he's into me do not try to [ __ ] too

fast that's a mistake too many guys make

and it's amateur and it's desperate now

I'm going to talk a little bit about

toys and when I mean toys I mean

supercars jacuzzis jet skis I don't know

what you have surfboards I don't know

who you are or what you have but all of

us men have our toys

now trying to impress a woman with a

Supercar doesn't work if you're trying

to impress a 12 year old boy yeah it

might work I'm going to tell you how to

handle

toys so a Ferrari can make an amazing

date but you don't a Jacuzzi can make an

amazing date uh I don't know what else

you have a guitar a surfboard whatever

your talents are they can add to a date

massively if you're talented I don't

have a surfboard or a car or I don't

know what type of girl would like that

kind of stuff quite a few but I mean not

the girls I typically date but

for example

if you have a Lamborghini like I do

you don't say oh you want to go out with

my Lamborghini talking about money is

narcissistic talking about money is not

attractive when it's one-on-one with a

female it's not cool do your boasting on

Instagram do you're boasting on Twitter

tell guys you have money make them feel

bad you know but boasting to women is

stupid it's asinine no woman has a

Lamborghini what are you boasting for

you look like a [ __ ] what you just

say is let's go for a drive

I'll tell you what you know you want to

come over to my place yeah cool come

over make sure you bring a bikini then

you say let's get in the jacuzzi you

take it for a drive then you're in the

Lamborghini all it is is a extra

surprise on top of things never approach

a girl say hi I have a Lamborghini uh

would you like to come for a drive with

me say you know what you're really cool

you know let's go for a drive sometime

never talk about your assets never talk

about your toys never say uh here come

to my house and I'm gonna play the

guitar and sing a song for you that

sounds gay

however if you have your guitar on

display in your room and you take her

back to your house and she sees your

guitar and goes oh play me something

okay you know what cool I'll play you a

little something then bust out the

guitar I can't even play guitar but if

you can that's your game and the guitar

analogy I don't know what else you want

to apply it to but there's something

that you have that they don't something

you have to impress her but never

mention it understate these things

let them they already know who you are

they like you enough to meet you cool

everything else is a bonus on top if

they're meeting you you don't have to

say oh I could play the guitar and I

have a Ferrari and I have a jet ski at

my lake house but if they want to meet

you hang out with them first have coffee

then add these things in they're just

bonuses things that are going to make

her smile things that are going to

excite her and things aren't going to

lock her in to you even further than

she's already invested

vacations

do you take a girl on vacation

why take sand to a beach people always

say vacations can be used but they

should never be used on new women

see in the 1960s the elite Playboys I

don't know I won't say Elite Playboys

actually in the 1960s

the womanizers had their fast cars you

had a Mustang you pick up your girl in

your fast car you drive around she'll

want to suck your dick that doesn't work

today

uh various things about in the 1980s you

take it to the luxury casinos you get

all dressed up in your tuxedo she wear

her nice dress you know take it to the

nice parties drink buyer champagne she'd

want to have sex with you yeah cool

today is change today it's flight

tickets flight tickets and plane tickets

will get you in a girl's pants if you're

a customer if you're a dork if you're a

loser if you're gonna go on vacation and

bring a woman cool take one of your

girlfriends a girl you've been with a

while a girl whose loyalty you've tested

a girl whose loyalty you want to reward

people see me on vacation

and there are some vacation pictures of

me in Dubai and I'm with some beautiful

women

and losers haters will come at me huh

yeah you're taking women on vacation

yeah it's the same as hiring escorts no

no no no the women I take on vacation

have been my girlfriend for years

they've been my girlfriends through me

cheating through catching me doing all

sorts of bad [ __ ] they've been loyal to

me they've been respectful around me and

my friends they've been faithful to me

yeah cool you want to come on vacation

I'm coming I'll go for two weeks I'll

bring them out for four or five days do

not use vacations for dating guys do not

you're gonna attract the wrong type of

woman and you're gonna set a precedent

with these girls who are going to expect

you to take them everywhere

and really they're just they'd [ __ ]

anyone for a plane ticket girls who are

eager to go on vacations with guys

they'd never met you want to stay away

from them so do not use vacations as

dates vacations are not dates do not use

them in your dating game use them as

rewards for a long time long-term

girlfriends obviously when you're on

vacation all the rules to the game the

Tinder uh the Instagram that all applies

by all means meet new women when you're

there leave your girlfriend in your

house in her in your hotel room for the

night go and stay in a different hotel

if you get lucky cool but do not as a

rule

go on vacations as dates golden wall

don't do that

text game

now your text game is very important

because after meeting a woman your text

game is what gets her

to actually being in a relationship with

you or being a girl who shares a bed

with you

text game is intensely important

the one mistake guys make that Elite

level players do not is they text too

much let me explain to you it's a very

simple mathematical problem if I spend

three or four hours a day talking to a

girl on WhatsApp how many girls can I

maintain that level of conversation with

two three I need to be talking to 15

girls at a time I keep a numerical

system if you've got Andrew's PhD course

my numerical system is explained in

there and I have all my girls filed in

my phone I need to talk to all of them

all the time how do I do it

a few messages a day every two hours

I'll open WhatsApp I'll reply to every

single girl another two hours passes

I'll reply to every single girl it's

only a couple minutes every two hours

you don't lock yourself down into huge

conversations

for two reasons

one the conversation should simply be

trying to secure a date

secure a time and a date to go for

coffee and when she's happy you put it

in your calendar and you make sure you

text her a few hours before or a day

before can't wait to see you tomorrow

I'm really looking forward to tomorrow

and you confirm the date before you go

that's all text game is

if you and I know lots of guys do it so

don't feel bad for making this mistake

are talking on text about her interests

What She Likes doing uh why are you

single uh her life story where the any

of this [ __ ] is date material you want

to be sitting at a dinner table or

sitting at a coffee bar having that

conversation she's met you she finds you

moderately attractive at least she gave

you her contact details the whole text

game is aiming at closing a date

hey how are you it's good to see you the

other night

continue with your business a couple

hours past she's replied yeah yeah it

was really good night out you know I'd

like to see you again and get to know

you a bit better you're free tomorrow

let's go for coffee

boom that's it that's all you need if

you set the precedent we are talking for

hours and hours a day on WhatsApp you

probably do it now what you're doing is

when you do become her boyfriend when

you are in a relationship with her and

you start texting her less and less to

message your new girls she's gonna think

you're ignoring her however I'm always

the guy who texts five times a day I'm

always the guy who replies five or six

replies a day over the course of 24

hours and that's it that's always been

me I'm not the guy who has huge long

conversations all day on WhatsApp and I

set that since day one

now since day one that's been the case

course he's not gonna ever expect any

more from me then our interaction could

be the kind of interaction I like do you

get excited talking to girls on WhatsApp

that's gay that's lame as loser [ __ ] the

interaction I want with women I want

them sitting across the table for me

smiling rubbing my shoulders while we

watch a movie eating popcorn together in

bed waking up together that's what I

want I don't want to be talking on

WhatsApp all day so text game keep it

minimal and keep it to the point however

you do it I I don't speak maybe you

don't speak English as your first

language maybe you're doing what

regardless of what your game is and how

well your text game

uh comes together the goal is simple

make sure it's all orientated to getting

her on a date what kind of food you like

perfectly okay question oh I like this I

like that oh you like Japanese but

that's cool I know a really great

Japanese restaurant in town have you

ever been to this yeah it's my favorite

restaurant okay I'll take you there

tomorrow or no I've never been there oh

you gotta try it I'll take you there

tomorrow everything has to be a slow

closing process to getting that date and

if she really won't go on a date with

you because you're not texting enough

[ __ ] her there's plenty of girls who

will

that's text game summed up

and that is the end of module two that

is everything you need to know about

dating to be an elite Playboy but dating

isn't the end goal which is why we have

module three I'm going to talk about

relationships

I've covered meeting women

and I've covered dating women

but that's not all you want

now there are guys

on Twitter there are guys on the

internet who are like yeah women ain't

nothing I just [ __ ] them and leave them

I just hit it and quit it nah you're

missing out on something

they're missing out on the fundamental

enjoyable experience of being with women

women aren't just sex objects yeah

that's coming from me one of the baddest

Playboys in the world women are not just

sex objects

women

have a special type of energy around

them they're fascinating they're

wonderful in their own special way I'll

never trust a woman like I'll Trust a

man if I if I need backup in a situation

or if I have problems I'm never going to

call a woman or call a man like my

brother however women are unique and

they make life beautiful you're taking a

walk on the beach it's better with a

woman you're laying in the park looking

up at the sky it's better with a woman

you're at dinner it's better with a

woman you're at a club with your male

friends you want women around women are

the seasoning to life they make it more

special if you're sick you're in bed

you're not feeling well you want a woman

to look after you don't want a man

bringing your soup and rubbing your back

that's gay I mean maybe you're gay you

wouldn't buy this course if you were but

in which case you would want a man but

women have a special type of energy and

I love women

so these hit it and quit it guys

they don't have serious relationships

like I do I have six serious

relationships why because the love and

the relationship is maybe the most

rewarding part of being an elite Playboy

collecting the relationships not just

the notches on the bedpost but the women

who would cry their eyes out if I

stopped speaking to them that is power

and that is truly having Affinity with

women

so now we're going to go into the

details of how to have relationships

first and foremost in any relationship

you have to establish if she's

relationship material

now there are people who will talk about

how to find the right partner for you

how to navigate the sexual Marketplace I

see them all the time I look at their

videos and I laugh because these guys

have never navigated the sexual

Marketplace

to be a man who knows what a good apple

is and what a bad apple is you have to

try thousands of apples

every day taking bites of new apples

knowing what tastes good knowing what

doesn't this is why I have such

wonderful women in my life because I

have met the Psychopaths and the

terrible women that men warn you about

I've met the women who would divorce

rate me or try to have my baby or upset

my life or try to ruin my business I've

met them I [ __ ] them once I never

talked to him again because I can spot a

good one from a bad one from a mile off

so that is the key to having

relationships you have to differentiate

which girls you [ __ ] from which girls

you want to stay with the best way to do

this is as hard as it is guys we all

think with our dicks sometimes you have

to eliminate Beauty in your mind

the hottest girl in the world can be a

horrible backstabbing money-grabbing

gold digging [ __ ] and most dudes will

stay with her oh but she's so nice what

exactly is nice about her me

when I'm trying to differentiate which

kind of women I want to love and which

women I want to just sleep with I

usually close my eyes and I think about

them as a asexual blackened figurine

I think of what their qualities are

I wake up in the morning she makes me

coffee

my injured shoulder is playing up she

gives me a massage

she leaves her phone around unlocked

doesn't matter it doesn't care if I look

in it

never goes out of the room to make to

take a phone call is respectful to my

friends cleans up my house cooks my

meals

if these things are adding up

then I'll usually uh turn it into

something serious I'll tell her she's

exclusive with me I'll tell her the

truth I'm a busy man I'll see her as

much as I can I'll tell her that I love

her even I'll tell her I have respect

for her I'll tell her I care about her

all of it's true

yeah I have other women and a lot of

them know that

but women would rather share the king

than marry the jester

and when I say about training yourself

to be in that Elite level position

whether it be Fitness income maybe

you're the most handsome dude in the

world one of my friends Alexander Cortez

is the most handsome guy I've ever seen

I'm sure he could have a collection of

women if he chose to if you want to live

this lifestyle based on looks alone I

don't know what your attributes are

but whatever you they are understand

that women would rather share a top one

percent guy than be with some fat dork

who's exclusive to them believe me and

fat dorks come with their own set of

problems anyway now I meet the type of

women all the time who are no good

and I just know that men would fall in

love with them because men are weak and

men are stupid you have to be better

than most men to have a collection like

mine you have to be better than most men

because the good girls are the ones who

are willing to share you this is what

people don't understand and this is what

people don't teach

my wife would never tolerate me talking

to other women yeah great great your

wife's a [ __ ] let me tell you something

I know women who are so invested in my

happiness that they know when they're

not around there may be another woman in

my bed I don't know if they know the

true extent of it but they love me so

much

that they allow me to have other women

when you meet a horrible nasty

vindictive jealous [ __ ] and she's like

oh you better not go out with your

friends you better not oh you think

that's the woman who really loves you

because you wouldn't tolerate you with

another woman no the woman who really

loves you is like look I know you have

another girl tears streaming down her

face but I really love you please don't

leave me just tell me I'm different from

the rest that's the woman who loves you

so you have to differentiate which girls

you [ __ ] and which girls you want to

love simple as that a good way of doing

this is testing their loyalty

now I'm not uh obsessive stalker I'm not

a jealous guy I know my girlfriends

don't cheat on me sure do I sleep with

some side hoes that may have a boyfriend

I may be their side guy do I sleep with

side hoes who may do that every weekend

maybe maybe but my girlfriend certainly

don't cheat on me but you have to test

their loyalty now don't even look

through their phone don't even look

through their phone hey baby give me

your phone unlock it I want to do

something on it unlocks hands it over

don't do [ __ ] take a selfie give it back

to her if she'll hand you her unlocked

phone she ain't cheating because believe

me these girls get hundreds and hundreds

of messages every day on Instagram on

Facebook they're replying in a way that

they know you won't like they will not

unlock their phone so if they won't

unlock your phone and hand it to you

then that is a very good loyalty test

she's probably not girlfriend material

by all means get her to suck your dick

have your fun with her but she's

probably not the girl you want to be

with

and I hear a lot about harim's about how

to have multiple women let me tell you

something I don't enjoy group sex I

don't enjoy threesomes I don't enjoy

foursomes I don't think they're

enjoyable sex is a lot more intimate and

a lot more fun one-on-one you only have

one dick that's it so you can only it's

taking turns one way or the other so I

don't enjoy groups group sex so my harem

game is different

um than a lot of guys now on the

internet there are very few people who

have multiple women uh I know one I'm

not going to name him and shame him in

my course but he's a Muslim guy black

guy American lives in Germany a very

smart guy he legitimately has a harem he

has multiple wives uh respect respect to

him and he's a good friend of mine

almost no one you see talk about having

multiple women has multiple women

besides my brother and myself now

how do I run my harem game it's

different

than most people you see women behave

better and take this from an elite level

guy women behave better when they know

you have other options if you have one

girl one girl only she'll try to stop

you talking to other women stop you

meeting other women and she'll

aggressively try to interject in your

life but when you have other women and

she knows that you have other women

maybe she turns a blind eye maybe she

doesn't want to hear about it but she

knows maybe she's seen you tagged on

your Instagram with them maybe she's

seen them in the background of your

Instagram story when she knows you have

other women women up their game I'm

telling you the truth good women don't

leave they try to make you happier now

when you have a harem all living

together I've lived with two or three

women maximum at any one point

very unpleasant experience because

sleeping Arrangements were always

difficult sex I didn't enjoy that much

because there was always too many girls

however the women behaved very well one

woman didn't want to be the one who

[ __ ] up out of three because she knows

that she's sleeping on the couch and

you're [ __ ] those two that night it

was always a game of one-upmanship the

women try to up their game to out

compete one another now my harem game is

very similar to this however the women

are never in the same place at the same

time they know each other's names they

know who they are they know that these

girls are around me even one of my

girlfriends isn't quite sure if I'm

sleeping with these women but she

heavily suspects that I am and she

checks their stories all the time she

knows they're at my house

and that does not make her flip out and

cause arguments because she knows she'll

get blocked and she knows when she's

blocked I'm going to be around these

other women it makes her up her game so

my women are not in the same place but

they're fully aware of each other's

presence they're fully aware that the

other ones exist and they up their

behavior and they check themselves

so I don't have to check them and end up

with these other women so my harem game

is is what I call distance game they're

far away from each other

but they know each other exists and

that's what makes them behave

I'm going to be honest with you there's

a refreshing moment of honesty

it is hard to have six girlfriends I

have six I didn't know the exact number

I had until I started filming this

course I had to actually count I didn't

know I thought it was five six seven it

could have been one of those numbers

it's difficult because time management

is a problem

luckily for me I live a lifestyle and

you need to set your lifestyle up in the

same way where you are busy

all hours of the day but no hours of the

day I can be busy anytime I like I have

a very busy hectic work schedule which

is usually my excuse but you do have to

see your girlfriends

now I'll take a girlfriend on a date

I'll date a new girl and I'll see a

second girlfriend in the evening I'll

usually wake up with that girlfriend

Uber and a girl for lunch and see

another girlfriend that the second

evening I see my girls about two times a

week maybe three times a week each

but instead of having one relationship

you can have six relationships where the

girl thinks you're a busier man than you

are it is possible but you have to

manage your time very very closely which

makes meeting new girls difficult

now whatever you do when you're in a

relationship never ever concede to

having enough women never think you know

what I've got my three girlfriends

that's wonderful I'm not gonna I'm gonna

delete Tinder I'm gonna stop posting on

Instagram I'm gonna stop going to clubs

I'm gonna stop doing my approaches I've

got three girlfriends they're all

smoking hot

you know why because I've lived it I've

been in that situation and I've been

content

one girl has an argument with another

girl they find out about each other they

both break up with you maybe you only

get one back boom you're down to two

same thing happens again boom you're

down to one [ __ ] suddenly you're the guy

who's happily married you got one China

you're stuck there with one chick now

you've done no legwork you've put in

zero hours in terms of getting new women

so you have to start from scratch build

up your collection again it's months

before you have three again then four

then five and six never ever be content

but in relationships it's very important

to be kind people think players

especially guys who worked in the

industry that I have are horrible people

that I'm rude to women that my house is

a revolving door with women and like

okay that bit is a bit true but you

think they leave unhappy no they do not

be polite buy them flowers sometimes buy

them chocolates you don't have to go out

of your way to make a woman smile I stop

at the gas station all the time look at

my cars every time I stop at the gas

station I'll buy a box of chocolates

it's the thought that will make a

woman's day if you have lunch with a

woman and you've bought her a teddy bear

and a bouquet of flowers girlfriends

only obviously

she'll go home in the evening and she

won't think about what I'm doing who my

dick's in she's like oh Tristan loves me

he bought me flowers and a teddy bear

and she'll be posting photos to her

Instagram of the flower and the teddy

bears I bought her which makes my other

girls see they suspect that I bought

them they upped their game hatred when

am I seeing you it's a beautiful system

but be nice to your girlfriends in your

relationships but being nice also

includes not engaging in [ __ ]

arguments if a girl wants to argue with

you all the time she's not a girl that's

cohesive with the elite player lifestyle

you need to stay away from those women

engaging in needless arguments is a

tactic women use they're smarter than

you think to eat away the hours of your

day and the hours of time you could be

using to pursue other women I recently

had to let a girlfriend of mine go

beautiful I'm not going to show her a

picture here she's long gone

I don't reminisce over old news however

absolutely stunning but every moment I

wasn't with her you're with other girls

blah blah blah starting arguments with

me complaining moaning I was engaging on

WhatsApp for an extra 30 40 minutes a

day that I didn't have

stay away from women who make arguments

so be nice be kind but don't take [ __ ]

if they want to start arguments stop

talking to them if you can't say

something nice don't say anything at all

so they're arguing with you and you have

no nice response to them cut them off do

not invest hours in that [ __ ] in

relationships a good way to keep your

relationship fresh and a good way to

keep your relationship happy is to make

demands of women women love to serve men

they really do if a Woman Cooks you a

meal and it's good she's going to be

happy she can spend an hour in the

kitchen sweating toiling she can burn

her hand if she brings you a plate of

food and you eat it and you're satisfied

she is happy believe me women are

servile good women are servile and a

good way to keep your relationship happy

is to make demands of your women

I have a ritual every morning I drink a

Black Coffee in Bed I never make it

myself whichever girl I wake up next to

goes downstairs makes my coffee she

knows how I like it she brings it

upstairs I sip it now I don't just sip

it I'll add something in

you know

I love when you make me coffee your

coffee is the best because I can tell

it's made with love it's a joke real

laugh it's cheesy it's corny but that

will set the mood for the day that will

set the pace for the day it's a

wonderful thing women are very servile

creatures so do not be afraid to make

demands of them so if you hang around me

or you know people who have hung around

me you'll know how it goes I'm sitting

with the boys I'm drinking some whiskeys

hey baby uh Bobby wants a refill hey

Iggy wants another few ice cubes uh

darling excuse me Jonathan's beer is out

and you're in the house like I mean get

him a lighter as well cigars out come on

they love it they really do if you have

a good woman

so that is certainly an important part

of having a relationship make demands be

the man be assertive be Alpha be

dominant

it helps when you're maintaining

relationships like I am

and your time is limited you have to be

sure not to burn your time I call it

burning time

you're with your girlfriend for three

hours all you have is three hours

Netflix no no [ __ ] Netflix why would

you sit there and burn three hours away

on Netflix you have other girls to see

and other things to do now

admission

I am a guy I [ __ ] every day I do not

masturbate I do not watch porn Elite

level Playboys do not do these things

because you can so I'm gonna have sex

with three different women a day and I

still need to jerk off no I'm fine I

haven't jerked off in a year and a half

yeah I was in India last time because

there were no girls around I remember

the exact [ __ ] date so I'm telling

you porn masturbation throw them out the

window you want to be an elite level

Playboy be a [ __ ] man you don't get

sex for one day cool you'll live do 50

press-ups before you go to sleep go out

the next day hungrier I'm gonna tell you

women need sex just like men do

now it's very easy for me if I wanted to

to not have sex with my women for a week

two weeks for an individual girl because

say I only see her three times in a week

and it's all during the afternoon I've

already had sex that morning I know I

have another girl to see in the evening

it's easy for me to just spend time burn

the hours watching Netflix but she will

not be as happy guys

Tiger Woods isn't the best golf player

in the world because he sits on his

couch watching Netflix Floyd Muhammad

Ali was not the best heavyweight boxer

of all time because he sat on his couch

watching TV you want to be an elite

level Playboy you want to collect these

women then you have to keep them happy

you know what it's the middle of the

afternoon I've already had sex three

hours ago or four hours ago a girl

sucked my dick because I woke up in the

morning ah my girlfriend's over you know

what grab her by the [ __ ] tits till

your dick gets hard and make sure you

[ __ ] her make sure you do there is no

maintaining a relationship without sex

maintaining a healthy relationship and

never having sex with a woman is not

real doesn't matter who she is doesn't

matter how loyal she is if she's really

loyal she'll bring it up to you uh why

aren't we having sex oh you never want

to have sex with me and she'll get mad

if she's disloyal she'll seem fine and

she'll she's [ __ ] someone else

if you're going to collect these women

they're not Cars you can't park them all

in your driveway for months and sit

there triumphantly and say ah look at my

collection of cars aren't they beautiful

you've got to drive them if you don't

drive them they'll disappear someone

else will take them off your driveway

that's the way women are so you

absolutely have to keep your woman happy

man up I'm not going to tell you how to

[ __ ] your girl you know how to [ __ ] your

girl I'm not going to go into sex

tactics that's not what this course is

about but if you have multiple women

make sure you [ __ ] them you got to keep

them happy what women really crave is

attention they love the attention

because they love feeling in demand they

love feeling desired now if you hang out

with a girl three times in a week and

you don't [ __ ] her once now you can brag

to your friends early I was tired I

[ __ ] too many other girls that's cool

but she doesn't feel desired and she's

going to be unfulfilled in your

relationship when your hours are scarce

you have to invest your hours doing

things that make her feel wanted take

some pictures together say you know baby

hair to get in your underwear I'm gonna

take some photos if you take some photos

of her what do you do with them nothing

make her feel special then get your dick

out make sure you [ __ ] it right there's

no excuse

for women leaving you even if you have

six or seven I have more girlfriends and

less time than most guys who get dumped

and I don't get dumped why because even

when I'm not in the mood I man up and I

understand what I have to do to keep my

women happy I'm often not in the mood

often I've been training often I've been

[ __ ] other women but you got to get

it done now I've covered how to maintain

a healthy relationship when you have

multiple girls but I'm going to touch on

what not to do the basics of what not to

do never admit that you're wrong for

doing something that you wanted to do

I'll give you an example another girl

sucks your dick another girl you [ __ ]

her your girlfriend finds out two of

your girlfriend's girlfriends find out

don't even say sorry you you're not

sorry one why are you not sorry because

you want to do it at the time so you're

sorry you got caught you're not really

sorry and she knows it

you know you have to hold the line the

moment you start apologizing you're

making a concession oh I'm sorry

I'm sorry means I shouldn't have done it

it means I won't do it again many things

are implied by your sorry I never engage

in this kind of behavior this girl was

at your house this girl's at your house

hey

the [ __ ] haven't you got a life stay off

of Instagram are you watching this

girl's story for anyway it's really

embarrassing what you're gonna stalk

everyone who comes into my house but

don't look through my phone why are you

looking through my phone now you know

what I was having a really nice day with

you and now we're arguing because you

want to look to my phone this is so

stupid how old are you 16 you're

obsession with with social media quit

[ __ ] looking at Instagram never admit

you're wrong Hold the Line say whatever

it is you can but never concede and

never admit mistakes because they're not

mistakes you are on your way to being an

elite level Playboy I am an elite level

player I don't make mistakes I [ __ ] them

because I want to [ __ ] them it isn't a

mistake no I'm not sorry now this isn't

an act I mean it I don't apologize and I

[ __ ] mean it I'm really not sorry

so Jesus they can't break me down they

can't squeeze an apology out of me

because I really really mean it when I

say that I'm not sorry never concede

in a relationship another thing not to

do I've covered this basically but do

not engage in pointless arguments and do

not engage in pointless conversation

um if you have a relationship if you're

going to get caught cheating don't let

it be with some girl who lives in

California that you're flirting with

online for no reason it makes you look

like a simp makes you look like a fan

makes you look like a customer makes you

look around like a nerd if you're gonna

get caught get caught [ __ ] something

do not burn your hours cheating on your

girlfriend emotionally with girls far

away with girls you haven't got a chance

with with girls with boyfriends who

don't take you seriously don't waste

your time with this stuff man you only

have 24 hours in the day and you need to

see three or four women minimum if you

want to operate on my level

so do not waste your time with girls

that are far away because there's

nothing worse than getting caught and

having your girlfriend all strung up on

some nonsense with some girl Who's

hotter than her but she's in Singapore

anyway what are you doing

so absolutely do not do that one of the

most fundamental mistakes when you get

attention like I do as a man make sure

it's localized make sure you have an

opportunity to [ __ ] her an opportunity

to see her and don't get caught by your

girlfriend doing nonsense [ __ ] don't get

caught watching porn it makes women feel

undesirable cut porn out of your life if

you want to operate on my level do not

get caught masturbating that's super

embarrassing these are very basic things

but I think if you if you are on your

way to being an elite level guy you

should know these things already those

are the don'ts in relationships no Elite

Playboy lives without girlfriends or the

respective women relationships are

essentially important to every single

man it's not enough to just have sex

relationships are intensely important so

use everything I taught you and maintain

your relationships the way that I do it

believe me some of these things may not

seem like they work test them and hit me

back with some feedback because I know

from personal experience they do that's

the end of module three

now

there's a part to this

no one wants to hear everyone

most guys are looking for a quick fix

you're looking for a secret something

I'm going to tell you a magic word a

spell an incantation

that's going to make you be surrounded

with women who want to have sex with you

all the time it doesn't exist

it does not exist it's a recipe

it's a recipe which includes lots of

hard work

and this is B this is this is something

I call being a man in demand or the five

F's I've got five F's they are Fitness

Finance fun free time and [ __ ]

those are the five F's and that is the

recipe of what makes you a man who women

want to [ __ ] if you're not a man who

women want to [ __ ] if you are lazy and

you're broke and your Instagram looks

terrible and you're fat as [ __ ] and you

look like [ __ ] and you're not smart

you're not interesting you're not funny

you're busy all the time how many women

do you think you're gonna get zero it

doesn't matter what you apply of what I

know you have to be a man who has some

level of demand about him

to be an elite level Playboy

so we're going to take these five vets

in a row the first one

Fitness

now I don't mean just physical fitness

but how well do you look women care

about looks they do I'm not the best

looking guy in the world but I try my

hardest right now as we film April the

11th I'm in quarantine my beard isn't

trimmed my hair isn't cut nicely but

most of the time I'm walking around with

a nice trimmed razored beard my haircut

is always on point I've gelled my hair

I've dressed nicely I'm wearing a

designer shirt nice watch nice shoes I'm

presentable to the world I work out I'm

physically fit uh I'm always I'm not

always in the best shape but you know I

do my push-ups every morning I do my

boxing I do my training whatever

training you do you have to do it

Fitness is important how fit do you look

it is basic human evolutionary biology

oh look this big strong handsome guy

he'll give me nice children women may

not think that exactly in their heads

but it's a big part of what makes women

want to have sex with you if you

disregard it if you think oh well I'm

rich

uh it doesn't matter I'm a big fat ugly

[ __ ] I've got loads of money women will

want to [ __ ] me they won't they won't

they may [ __ ] you if you pay them but

that isn't what this is about that's not

being a Playboy that's being a customer

and I'm not teaching you how to be a

customer so yes you do have to be

presentable you have to look your best

train as much as you can

make sure your hair is the way that you

like it I don't know don't get your hair

cut if you have long hair whatever do

whatever makes you look good Fitness is

essential because it's something that

women desire and there are general rules

to women no woman on earth thinks oh I

love big fat ugly guys I mean there are

guys who like fat chicks maybe no woman

on earth wants a big fat ugly dude who

gets out of breath when he walks up the

stairs not a single one so you take that

general rule and you think okay I want

to be as attractive as I can

to as many women as possible

don't be a fat lazy [ __ ] rule number one

if you're a fat lazy [ __ ] get to the gym

you're not going to be able to live like

me until you do

get into reasonable shape at least being

the fat lazy [ __ ] is not attractive to

women

Fitness is essential now with these

general rules

when I say women don't like guys who are

big fat and ugly you could take

everything else I say in the five F's

and apply them exactly the same way I am

not every woman's type a lot of women

look at me and think you know what I

don't like him I don't like the way he

looks don't like the way he's shaped

don't like his height I'm Too Tall maybe

for some women yeah they're short uh I

don't like this I don't like that cool

I'm not every woman's type neither are

you nobody is I know some handsome dudes

they're not every woman's type they

can't be however Being Fit makes it far

more likely that you are going to be the

type of the women you meet so absolutely

this is an essential rule the first of

the five F's being a man in demand is

Fitness look your best train hard women

like to feel safe they like to feel

protected they like when you put your

big arms around them they like if you

can pick them up women love that [ __ ]

get to the gym now some people have

further to go than others yes some

people are genetically blessed if this

is you you may work out once a week and

have an iron six pack I don't have a

six-pack right now that may be you cool

lucky you you may work out five times a

week and still look like [ __ ] then you

simply have to try harder than the other

guys

being a top one percent guy everyone's

born with different attributes you're

born smarter okay it's easier to get

rich you're born with better genetics

okay it's easier to get fit

you're born you're born uh Wittier

you're right you're raised in a better

environment okay it's better to be funny

and and make them laugh everyone has

advantages and disadvantages but you

need to maximize all of these as much as

you can as much as you can regardless of

who you are and some have further to go

than others but if you're not taking

into account your Fitness at all

you're not going to get the girls I get

number two

Finance

Finance is important

Finance gives you the ability to do

things if all of the hottest women were

in a building

and it cost five hundred dollars to go

inside that building to have drinks and

you only had a hundred dollars to your

name you're not gonna meet any beautiful

women

that's the way the world is it sounds

like such a crazy example but the world

works that way all of the most beautiful

women in the world with very few

exceptions are in high-end luxurious

places

they attract women and if you're not

there you're not going to meet them

Finance is very important you do not

give women money ever you do not give

them money for sex you do not give them

money to show off you don't give women

money that's [ __ ] however

your financial situation

creates an aura of fun women love fun I

have a swimming pool in my house women

love that in the summer they're coming

here jumping in the pool taking their

bikinis off now are they thinking ah

this pool 28 000 Euros this cost oh this

pool costs so much money Tristan has

money wonderful no they're thinking wow

swimming pool that's it finance and your

financial situation makes you fun now

this is something else that you are not

going to hear anywhere else but this

course

investing

investing you say investing your money

to get women that doesn't make any sense

you don't understand

you can invest in a city you can invest

in a club in a bar you can invest in

your location that doesn't mean buy

shares I'm talking about wasting your

money I call wasting my money investing

why

I was once asked what the best

investment I ever made was

I looked straight at my cousin I said

you know what

are the best investments I ever made was

blowing hundreds of thousands of dollars

right here in Bucharest champagne shows

for drinks I don't drink getting all the

sparklers come over my name put up on

the wall tipping really heavily in

restaurants ordering Lobster and

champagne when I go out being out in

clubs and bars all the time buying

coffees all the time being cheap isn't

cool now me throwing all this money

around

I am the man that everybody knows when I

go into the club everything is made

possible for me I do no smoking allowed

have you ever seen a picture of me in a

club with that cigar in my mouth I have

special privileges special rights

everyone treats me with respect if I'm

with a girl the security shake my hand

the manager comes over with a free

bottle of champagne every time I go

anywhere because I've invested in

becoming a somebody in this city nobody

will give you this advice the advice you

read on the internet be cheap save three

pounds 15 and don't buy that coffee make

a coffee at home no don't make a coffee

at home go to a cool cafe and drink

their fancy coffees every day tip the

weight or heavily then you're that guy

you go there on a date Tristan how are

you doing sir good to see you again Mr

Tate has someone parked your car for you

nicely investing in your city

is important and it's what most people

would call wasting money

what does wasting money even mean what

is money for you can't hold on to money

you never really even own money even if

you have it in your pocket money is just

to be interchanged with other people you

got it because you sold something they

want you want good service you throw it

to someone else you're just passing it

around don't waste all your money

obviously but you live in Atlanta

Georgia I was in Atlanta and there's a

cigar bar where they would recognize me

right now if I went there same in uh

Hollywood in California there's a cigar

lounge where they'd recognize me right

now because I went there for two weeks I

was there four or five times bought the

most expensive cigars tipped heavily

ordered some nice drinks they know me

today

so there are a few parts in the world uh

Moscow Slovakia some parts in the United

States certainly where I would be no

Stockholm now where I'd be known on a

first name basis if I walked into the

establishment but within my city

yes I am a celebrity I mean I'm in the

newspapers all the time I'm actually a

celebrity here but again that stems from

my initial investment the club owner is

knowing me the barman knowing me

everyone knowing who I was before the

newspaper has got a sniff of who was

this Tristan Tate I'd invested so

Finance is important blow your money in

the city you're in you want to be a

somebody it's not free you make good

money great good for you there are

millionaires on Twitter people who claim

to be millionaires who also talk about

oh save all your money don't spend it

yeah cool that's all right yeah you want

you want you want no one to know who you

are and have a big number in your bank

account yeah that's cool I invest my

money by blowing it in my city it was

the best investment I ever made and one

of the most famous faces in this city I

walk down the street I I get asked for

photos all the time girls know who I am

I get hit up on Instagram by random

females yeah you want to be a playboy

throw some money around Finance is the

second of the five F's exceptionally

important number three

fun

you have to be entertaining

now there are ways

that nerds think you could be

entertaining that don't work having a

Lamborghini for example

having a Lamborghini does not make women

want to have sex with you it makes

little boys want to drive around in your

car women don't give a [ __ ] about

driving around in your Lamborghini that

much unless they like you you have to

make it fun

having a Supercar gets you an opening

conversation you park at the club you

walk inside is that your car

if you reply yeah that's my car uh it

has 600 horsepower and I got the tires

custom from from Germany and and the

body kit is actually from a custom body

shop and Bucharest and I changed the

color and I've got a special steering

wheel the girls come out cool see you

later if you're a boring [ __ ] it doesn't

matter what car you drive

it doesn't matter what car you drive

hi is that your car no it's yours I'm

gonna get drunk tonight you're driving

me home yeah cool obviously you don't

really let her drive your car say

something funny I just came off up

without the top of my head say something

witty say something entertaining being a

millionaire having nice things having

cool things it doesn't get you [ __ ] it

gets you a five second opener and if you

squander that if you waste it it was all

for nothing

you have to be fun women don't care

about money they care about what's

entertaining now when I was broke

I used to have no money

I would be funny I'd take girls on a

date I'd say uh oh you didn't wear high

heels on our date in my Volkswagen Golf

they'd be like ah no we're even going

well you know what you're not wearing

high heels I'm gonna take you I'm gonna

take you to somewhere suitable bro

McDonald's

this was my routine I go to McDonald's I

had a few pounds to my name I rolled on

the window hi I need a ice cream at

flurry yeah bring me an ice cream and

flurry but put extra love in it what

what do you what did you say extra love

extra toppings no no extra love I'm on a

date I need to make her fall in love

with me oh okay the girl's laughing her

ass off she thinks it's hilarious I give

her ice cream oh is it working are you

in love with me yet why'd you take me to

McDonald's well you weren't wearing high

shoes I didn't have any money make them

laugh make them enjoy their time with

you and this is what I said about dating

earlier you have to

implant yourselves in their mind wow I

had a wonderful time that could be on

her mind for two days while you're

[ __ ] your girlfriends and your

[ __ ] other women that can be on her

mind all week while she's working maybe

she's busy and she can't wait to see you

again you have to be fun

fun is important now this is very

subjective

it varies from man to man I don't know

where you are I don't know where you

live I don't know who you are I don't

know what you know I don't know who you

know but you know

kill the mosquito see boom I'm a ninja

but you know how to have fun in your own

City I'm sure or your own town you know

how to show a girl a good time don't be

boring yeah that is essential and if

you're a boring guy work on it if you're

broke work on it if you're unfit work on

it those are the first three of the five

F's

free time

free time is essential

it kind of links to finance because what

money buys you is free time you need to

have free time I was watching a dork who

was a former Goldman Sachs Trader who's

saying yeah well I used to go to bed at

midnight wake up at four in the morning

and I had one girlfriend and one day she

left me she got up in the middle of the

night at four when I woke up and started

screaming at me saying are you kidding

you're never home okay you're a Goldman

Sachs Trader

maybe you're a Goldman Sachs Trader I

don't know what you do but you're

working 70 80 hours a week find a better

way if you really want to be an elite

level Playboy you need to be working 40

hours a week Max 45 at the very very

upper limit you can't do it any other

way all of my women all of my

girlfriends all the sex that I have all

the dates that I go on there's no

70-hour week where I can accommodate

that I'd have to cut my women I'd love

to cut them in half literally so yeah

free time is essential it really is

essential and you need to be flexible

with your time as well the flexibility

of time is just important as your free

time because if a woman says oh well

there's this place I want to go or

there's this lunch event at this

restaurant or I you know I want to go to

a swimming pool or in the middle of the

day when most dudes are out there nine

to five you need to be like yay okay

cool yeah let's go I'm gonna come pick

you up it sets you aside for most men

being available whenever you want the

flexibility is very important as well

most guys work nine to fives

at one o'clock in the afternoon you know

I'm gonna take you out for a spin let's

go for a drive let's go for a coffee

being free at those hours when no one

else is free is important so yeah you

absolutely have to maximize your income

but minimize your hours worked that's

super important if you're working a a

wage job where you're getting paid per

hour no shame in it Brothers I used to

do the same thing

but a way to get women don't start

working more hours no cut your workload

in half do budget dates you'll get more

women than if you up your work hours

trust me free time

immensely important number five

the f word

[ __ ]

you have to [ __ ] your women right

not just for them I've covered about how

it keeps relationships together but [ __ ]

relationships I'm talking about [ __ ]

[ __ ] girls who are at your table one

night stands

put the work in

I'm not going to tell you how to [ __ ]

I'm not going to tell you how to please

a woman if you don't know then you're

never going to be an elite Playboy you

never will be if you can't [ __ ]

but when you do it right it gets you

more women it really does women talk

about this [ __ ] on a scale you have no

idea believe me if you [ __ ] a girl

ignore your girlfriends you don't you

don't want to be messing around with

your girlfriend's friends anyway

but let's say you meet a girl for one

night you don't see her for four weeks

oh her friends now following me on

Instagram why is that because this [ __ ]

has been talking about yeah I met this

guy Tristan yeah he took me for a drink

it's a bit of an [ __ ] oh my God he

[ __ ] me so good yeah he [ __ ] me so

good I can't be mad at him I'd like to

see him again actually but he's not

really texting me boom her friend hears

you her friend's on it

sex is immensely important that is the

most important one of the five F's

because if you have everything else on

point and you [ __ ] your girl and you

only last 30 seconds and then you fall

asleep you're a joke you're never going

to secure her into a relationship you're

never gonna get the love you're never

gonna get the respect and you're never

gonna have the reputation that leads to

residual women coming in those are the

five F's remember Fitness

Finance fun free time [ __ ] you cannot

neglect any one of these if you wish to

be an elite you want to be a guy with

one girlfriend maybe two you want to

have sex once a month maybe twice cool

neglect as many as you like you can't

live like me if you neglect these things

and there we have it short and sweet

module four the five F's immensely

important stuff you have to put the work

in this is the most important part of

the course do not neglect module four do

not neglect the five F's if you do

you're going to be very lonely and

you're never going to pull it off