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♪No, I'm not a typical romance♪

♪I don't like plans♪

♪For one true love♪

♪Love at first sight♪

♪Does that even exist♪

♪How long it’s gonna last♪

♪I always live up to the romance standard♪

♪Hesitate to take the first step♪

♪Always holding back♪

♪Your bold approach startled me♪

♪Heart pounding through my chest♪

♪Become sensitive like you♪

♪You hoo hoo♪

♪You bring out the best in me♪

♪You're a hazard to my house♪

♪But there ain't nobody else like you♪

♪You hoo hoo♪

♪No hazard to my house like you♪

♪You hoo hoo♪

♪No hazard to my house like you♪

♪Don't you want to take me on a date♪

♪Don't be so lame♪

♪When you hold me tight♪

[Sweet And Cold]

[Episode 15]

You need to learn from your Uncle Su.

Their Hengtian Investment

never stops springing up.

Two enterprises under their group

will soon be listed.

That's exaggerated.

It's all luck.

On the contrary, your CL Estate

keeps working steadily

and going ahead surely.

Don't mention it.

I'm terribly defeated now.

The estate market is not doing well.

The stock can't go out.

We also become

a sunset industry.

What a life.

Yeah.

It's hard to do anything right now.

But Brother Leng, you can rest assured.

It's times like this that make it all the more important

for us to pull together.

Yes.

I'm a normal person.

I used to be an investor.

I've had good luck these years.

I took advantage of

the opportunity to

get a small achievement.

You're too modest.

But over the years.

I am deeply aware that

if the business is to be sustainable,

we in the industry need to help each other.

We especially need the help of young people.

Did you hear that?

I'll say it again.

The plan is not negotiable.

It simply won't work.

Give me a new one tomorrow.

That's it.

Bye, brother.

Who is this?

Sorry, Dad.

I'm late.

Hello, Uncle.

Siming.

I'll introduce her to you.

Maggie.

Now she is the executive director of Hengtian Investment.

Hello, I'm Leng Siming.

Hello.

I'm Maggie.

The soup here is good.

Have a taste.

Sister Maggie.

My dad always said.

He wanted me to be a woman

as intelligent and elegant as you.

What are you looking at?

Eat your food. Here's to you.

I'll do it. Suit yourself.

What the hell is a girl drinking?

You wasted six years of good wine.

Here, here's to you.

You don't seem to have an appetite.

I'm just tired.

Siming.

I heard from your father that

you're going to start your own business.

Yes, uncle.

I was in Lingzhi.

I just got out recently.

I am thinking about starting a business.

What business do you plan to enter?

Smart home.

He...

He is restless.

I don't interfere with him.

He can do whatever he likes.

Young people can't grow up

unless they take a few stumbles in society.

Smart home is the trend of the future.

That's the sunshine industry.

Brother Leng.

Siming is not delicate.

He wanted to get back to zero

and go out.

That's a good thing.

You have to back him up.

So is our Maggie.

She was going out on her own anyway.

I can't stop her.

And she did a good job.

I had to pay her back

at a high salary.

Our Siming is still a little green.

No, no.

You can add Maggie's WeChat.

You can ask her for

advice in the future.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Come on.

Come on, Brother Leng.

I've always wanted someone

to help Maggie run the company.

That way I could retire early.

I can live a quiet life.

Dad.

Since you're so concerned about my business...

You know what?

I'll make a statement tonight, too.

He...

I'm fine with him.

All right, all right.

That's good.

I told you you couldn't avoid this feast.

Come on.

Come on, cheers.

Hello, Mrs. Luo.

Hello.

What's up?

This is your water, electricity and gas

bills for three months.

And this year's property fees.

That comes to 21,396 yuan.

How would you like to pay?

It's like this.

Most of my money is in management.

I can't get my money out that fast.

Can you slow down?

Mrs. Luo.

I understand your inconvenience.

Actually, I can help you with the property fee.

Except we don't charge

for the water and electricity.

We're just paying for it.

Just in case the payment is late,

the water and electricity in your house are not convenient.

Do you think there is anyone else in your family

to help

transfer the money or pay for it?

No need. It's...

Is Alipay OK?

Right.

Let's take Alipay.

Ok, you scan this.

Alipay has arrived in the account.

Is that OK?

Ok.

You can check the amount later.

If you have any more questions,

you can contact us at any time.

Okay.

All right, well, you go ahead.

Thank you.

Bye.

[Balance: 2,508.89 yuan]

Tuan.

Tuan.

Tuan.

Tuan.

Hold still, hold still.

What are you doing?

How can you play with electronics by yourself?

It's dangerous, you know that?

I'm sorry, Mom.

I accidentally knocked this over.

Is everything okay?

Are there any injuries?

Go and change your dirty clothes yourself.

Oh, my God.

Haotian.

Come to my house in half an hour.

Or I'm going to fall apart.

Brother Leng.

We have been best friends for many years.

I won't say anything else.

There's only one.

The children are all grown up.

Listen to them on everything.

We can't force it.

You're right.

It's a must.

That's it, then.

Ok.

-I'll take a rain check. - All right.

All right.

Leng Siming.

Let's meet for coffee sometime.

He is free.

He's been so busy lately.

Any time you want.

Right.

You young men can talk as much as you like.

Here comes the elevator.

You see the guests off.

Ok.

All right, that's it.

Ok.

Let's get together again sometime.

Ok, OK.

Listen to me.

Maggie is great.

She is beautiful.

And she has talent.

Is that right?

It's hard to find a girlfriend like that these days.

What are you doing?

She was very generous today, too.

Instead, you...

You were so evasive today.

What are you thinking about?

I won't compromise on this marriage thing.

I will not submit to your arrangement.

Do you know?

Now the company

is in a serious financial crisis.

Our money chain is about to break.

Hengtian Investment is the only one that can save our lives.

Can't we find

a mutually beneficial partnership?

Do you have to delay my happiness?

We're in no position

to make a deal right now.

We're asking for help right now, you know?

Would you rather see the company go down in flames?

I know what you're thinking.

It's just your beliefs and ideals.

But not now.

There's a lot at stake.

This is about saving the company.

If you don't have the ability

to combine resources for profit,

your ideals and beliefs

are nothing more than foolish stubbornness.

I'll tell you.

CL Estate is your business.

You should be responsible for it.

You don't want to impose these things on me.

I have my ideal.

It doesn't have to be you.

You...

The company has fallen into a serious financial crisis.

Hengtian Investment is the only thing

that can save our lives right now.

Maggie.

Executive Director of Hengtian Investment.

Since you're so concerned about my business...

You know what?

I'll make a statement tonight, too.

He…

I'm fine with that.

Come on.

If you don't have the ability

to combine resources for profit,

your ideals and beliefs

are nothing more than foolish stubbornness.

What did Dad say to you?

Don't ask questions you shouldn't.

You can't stop yourself with all that delicious food.

Well, you're right.

I really haven't eaten anything today.

I was worried about you.

There's nothing to worry about.

You...

All these years you and our dad keep fighting.

Dad’s high-pressure way...

It works for the big brother.

This works for me periodically.

But that won't..

Work for you.

You know, our dad really cares about you.

He just doesn't know

how to say it sometimes.

So what are you gonna do?

Leng Siming.

You're not really attracted to Maggie, are you?

No.

I'm telling you, absolutely not.

Don't talk nonsense.

Leng Nuan.

I'm telling you for the record.

I don't have a chance with Maggie.

I never will.

Then I'll go find Sister Tian.

Let's discuss it together.

Well, you're here at last.

Take a look.

- Take a look. - What's going on?

Look.

Is the kitchen still available like this?

Do you need a son?

Just take him with you.

Mom, you don't want me anymore?

I don't want you.

You'll be in trouble all day.

What's the matter?

I just want to...

What do you want to do?

You just want to play.

Can juicer be a toy?

Do you know?

The plugboard will be electrocuted by water.

What am I supposed to do if you get electrocuted?

I didn't play.

I just see you're in a bad mood.

I want to make you a watermelon milkshake.

You'll be happy every time you drink something sweet.

Sister Tian is not at home.

But let me tell you first.

If I had to choose,

I would definitely choose Sister Tian.

Although...

I don't think sister Maggie's a bad looker.

But she was too proud.

I don't like her.

Isn't Sister Tian proud?

That's different.

Although the surface of Sister Tian is very cold,

she's still very hot on the inside.

Especially for you...

I've run into you guys a couple times.

You sound like you know that.

I get it all the time.

But tonight's situation...

I kind of get it.

Maggie's must be

important to our family.

I don't think I've ever seen

our dad look like this.

Though he tried to

look very relaxed tonight.

But I could tell he was nervous.

Actually, I've thought about that.

What does CL Estate

mean to me?

Is it so I can continue to be a

carefree little princess?

I think it's kind of boring anyway.

According to Maslow.

There are five main basic human needs.

They are physiological needs, safety needs,

belonging and love,

respect needs and self-actualization.

I don't want to

spend the rest of my life

stuck on

my third need.

If I can't handle

something like this,

I think you can't handle it any more.

Moreover,

our last name is Leng.

I think we should have the right to

make our own choices.

As a sister,

I hope you don't regret

every choice you make.

Leng Nuan.

I never thought you'd say

something so profound.

Do you think I'm growing up?

Not really.

I don't think you learned for nothing.

Learning is never in vain.

Speaking of school...

How was your study?

Did you make any friends?

So be it.

What about him?

Who?

Good. Keep it up.

No dating in school.

Because boys at your age

are very immature.

Leng Siming.

Have I been on

your side all night?

So should you be on my side, too?

Even though I'm not in a relationship.

Let's say I'm in love.

As a big brother,

shouldn't you be there for me?

I'm on your side.

Of course I support you.

Nice try.

On what grounds?

I'm an adult.

I have the right to love freely.

Don't always treat me like a child.

In my heart,

you've always been a kid.

And you have to tell me when you're dating.

I need to know how their family is.

I need to know what kind of man he is.

Do you hear me?

I say...

You will never speak ill

of our father again.

Because you're just like him.

And I will never worry about

you like

this again.

Tuan has gone to bed.

Can I help you?

No need.

I'm pretty much done packing, too.

Haotian.

Do you think

I can't even be a mother?

What's wrong with you?

Do you know

what the most dangerous industry in the world is?

Stay-at-home mom.

You're a full-time babysitter,

but you don't get paid.

You have no circle of friends.

You don't have a job.

You use all this youth

with men for a human bet.

If you're lucky,

your life goes smoothly.

If you lose the bet...

You'll have

nothing like me.

I'll tell you.

Who said it was better to

marry young

and have children?

Not good at all.

Is it to learn early

on how bad life can be?

Jiang Leilei.

Will you stop acting so pretentious?

Yes.

I was too pretentious.

Excuse me.

You're very busy.

I shouldn't have called you here.

You can go if you need anything.

I'm not seeing you off.

[Yu Yang]

Hello.

I've got everything I need.

I just want you to decide.

Go ahead.

When shall we start work?

I'm still working on some investment plans.

Includes some investment highlights and refinements.

I need some more time.

But don't worry.

I'll let you know as soon as I get something.

Don't you always do what you say you'll do?

That's right.

- I've seen the office. - Where is Yu Yang?

Didn't he come to work today?

You've been away from Lingzhi for so long.

How can you be so inefficient?

I'm the one who's gonna start the company.

Why are you more anxious than I am?

Nonsense.

I'll tell you.

Call me when you cut the ribbon

for the opening of the company.

Oh, I know.

Bye.

You're so thoughtful.

I can't believe you brought a pastry.

How do you know I like this brand?

How did you know I was here?

Didn't you ask Leng Nuan to invite me?

All right.

I assume she didn't want to

go against your father's wishes.

I'm sorry, Maggie.

You can see I'm busy right now.

Sorry.

Sorry, I'm busy, too.

But since I took the time to find you,

shouldn't you and I have a little chat?

Mr. Li...

Please stop.

I've been looking all over for you. Where have you been?

I went to the bathroom.

[Letter of resignation] You really thought about this?

I want to hold off on this.

Don't be so impulsive in the future.

How hard it is for you to get a foothold in a company like this.

Thank you, Mr. Li.

I don't think you need to ostracize me.

If you already know the truth,

then why...

We have the same family environment.

Don't you get it?

Why else would you work

so hard to start a business?

Who are you trying to prove it to?

But luckily

we're both in good environment.

If we're really going to try...

It shouldn't be too hard.

Maggie.

You didn't even think to put up a fight?

The world is not

what you want it to be.

But I have a girlfriend.

And she'll be here soon.

That's better.

I have a boyfriend, too.

I'm gonna go find my boyfriends, too.

I wish the two of us a happy cooperation.

Even if you do invest,

it will be investment by Hengtian

and CL Estate.

This has nothing to do with me.

And I'm not going to work with you.

My hands are sore.

Oh, you are so ungentlemanly.

Don't do that to me

next time we see each other.

Your friend?

There you are.

I've been waiting for you for a long time.

Your girlfriend?

Meng Haotian.

Maggie, executive director of Hengtian Group.

Hengtian Group?

Are you two talking about working together?

You could say yes.

Or not.

My dad's talking to the family about investments.

On condition

that he marries me.

There's no way I'm going to marry you.

I'll leave it to you to discuss.

I have things to do.

Got to go.

See you next time.

What's going on?

She's the daughter of my dad's business partner.

I only found out the other day

when my dad called me

over for dinner.

Our family is about to break the chain of funds.

So he wants to save our company

through a marriage.

I see you've found a solution.

Good thing I didn't go to dinner with you the other day.

Otherwise the joker would be me.

Don't get your head in the clouds.

What the hell was I thinking?

I thought you said that from the very beginning.

You may have a family marriage situation.

I said at the time that I understood.

I still understand.

Well, Mr. Leng, please.

Did you call me here

for a farewell party?

Meng Haotian.

I'll say it again for the record.

I'm not going to marry her.

Please take back what you just said.

Do you promise that this will work?

It works.

Of course.

And if your dad wants you to...

There are no ifs.

I'm me and my dad is my dad.

He doesn't care about me.

Are you sure?

I'm sure.

All right.

And given how determined you are...

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Let's order.

What are you going to have for dinner?

I have no appetite.

I think you owe me a serious apology.

You can say things

like farewell parties.

How am I in the mood to eat?

Don't push your luck.

Waiter.

It's time to order.

Here we go.

The Yuan nanny told you.

There was a reason you miscarried.

A few days before the accident, actually.

I had some mild bleeding.

Although it can also occur

during pregnancy,

I was still worried.

So that day I asked Wenbin to go to the hospital.

Now that you've seen her.

Why don't you stop her?

I tried to stop her, too.

But Miss Meng only said one sentence.

She left soon.

I didn't even get a chance to ask.

Her temper...

But now that I know,

I can't let it go.

Let's go.

Mr. Yuan.

Tea has been made for you.

I don't have time to drink.

I'm not fine.

I got to get out of here.

Right.

When Miss Shen wakes up, tell her

to postpone the birth test.

You go well.

Miss Shen, it's time to eat.

Miss Shen.

What's the matter with you, Miss Shen?

Call an ambulance.

What?

Ambulance.

You wait.

Don't get up. I'll be right back.

You wait.

It was a sudden contingency.

I don't think you should take it too personally.

Because no one has any sense of control

over the unexpected.

Only he didn't leave that day for work.

It was for her.

If he was out for work that day.

I'll take it without the baby.

But just because Meng Haotian...

I felt guilty about the baby.

For Wenbin, too.

That's why

I can live with what

he's done to me for so long.

But now it looks like

he's the one who started it.

And Meng Haotian is my Nemesis.

But if that's the case.

Do you still need to win back Yuan Wenbin?

Even if you wanted to,

you probably wouldn't be able to

in your current state of mind and body.

So, Ji Mo.

You help me.

I'm trying to help you.

I've been trying to help you.

But it's no use trying.

You need to find a way to relax.

If you have an order,

talk to Ye yourself.

Are you still mad at me?

I have problems, too.

I just need more time.

We've known each other for years.

You know my character.

I'm not going to say anything pretentious.

But let me tell you something.

Every man's life is a trifle.

A good life is only in Moments.

How many stay-at-home moms do you know

who have to give up their dreams

and their jobs

because life has forced them?

They had to stay home with their children.

They may not even have

a few hundred yuan in pocket money.

If they want to buy something for their children,

they have to ask their husbands for money.

Can you imagine this kind of life?

But at least they're not like me.

I've been fooled by my husband for years.

At this age,

I have to start over.

But most divorced women

get nothing but pain in the heart

and wrinkles on the face.

And you have a villa

that no ordinary person

could ever earn.

And you have this flower shop.

You're still pretty as a flower.

If that's nothing,

how do you let anyone else live?

I've been living

my worst self for years.

I did well in my studies.

If I had started working as soon as I graduated,

I would have made a difference now.

I have this flower shop,

but I don't really care about it.

I didn't manage my home well either.

Luo accused me of

never thinking about him.

And Tuan.

In his mind,

I'm not supposed to be a good mother.

You've done a great job.

No one has the right to judge you.

Even I can't.

You're not going against me?

You're right.

You've been through a lot of things

that I haven't been through.

I have no right to judge you.

But I can get you through it.

Haotian.

Thanks for bringing me back.

You’re welcome

That's right.

After Luo left,

I was afraid Tuan would be paranoid.

So I sent him to my parents' house.

Look.

In fact, you have considered

every point of every step.

What do I consider?

I don't really have a choice.

You have no idea how lost I am right now.

Who isn't confused?

Do you think I'm not lost?

In fact, as long as we run the flower shop well,

we can make as much money as the people who work in the company.

As long as you don't spend

like you used to.

You live a solid life.

I promise you and Tuan are doing just fine.

Didn't you like your old life?

Throw it away.

Say goodbye to it once and for all.

Live again.

Find out who you really are.

Can I do it?

Of course.

Throw it away.

Throw it away.

Sweet Tiantian.

Do you know why I like you so much?

I have a lot of good qualities.

You're pretty and kind and you can talk.

High IQ.

You're beautiful and cool.

An untangled mindset.

- Yeah, keep complimenting me. - Decisive temperament.

Don't be humble. Keep complimenting me.

Not satisfied with so many compliments?

The most beautiful and coolest Tiantian.

There's something else I need your help with.

You say.

I'm short of money these days.

And I was thinking.

Should I rent out the villa

and move into an apartment?

Maybe I can change the mood.

It's just the villa is so big.

Isn't that easy to rent?

I'll help you with the house.

That's very kind of you.

Sweet Tiantian.

What would I have done

without you?

Then be nice to me.

Don't wait to lose me to regret.

I will.

Give me a kiss.

Where have you been?

You talk to her first.

I'll be a little late.

I told you about this Fang Hui before.

Of course I remember her.

Do you have everything you need on the villa?

I've already told

her all about you.

Take it easy.

Don't worry.

Then I'll talk to her first.

You hurry up.

Bye.

Here.

Hello, this is Fang Hui.

I am Haotian's friend.

I'm Jiang Leilei.

Sit down.

This is the data.

Take a look.

Ok.

Please drink water.

Thank you.

No problem.

I'm not actually renting this villa.

It's a business associate of my husband's.

He wants to rent a quiet place.

You're in the right place.

That would be great.

Let's make an appointment to see the house.

No need.

We're all friends.

You know what?

Annual payment with a three-year lease.

I'll give you a deposit tonight.

You can sign the contract when he comes back.

Is that OK with you?

This is...

You are Meng Haotian's bestie.

I can trust her.

And of course I can trust you.

Thank you very much.

You're welcome.

Actually, Haotian has told me

a little bit about you.

Really?

She was just so worried about me.

It's nothing. It's over.

I know what you're thinking.

There are many women in this world

who have gone through the same thing.

That includes me.

Actually, I kind of envy you.

Envy?

I can't even pay my property fees.

What I had

is now a burden.

I also had to move out of the home

I'd run for so many years.

What is there to envy?

But you have freedom.

And the possibilities of life in the future.

I don't just envy you.

And a little jealous of you.

Because I don't have the courage you do.

Actually, I've been trying to get over it.

You know what I'm most disappointed

about my husband?

It's not the affair itself.

It's essentially that the man

is not equipped to deal with

anything that happens after the affair.

But I think.

He's much better than Luo.

At least he saved your marriage.

At least you and the baby are better off than before.

That's because I took his guilt

into my hands.

So I can profit from it.

But I will tolerate the existence

of another woman endlessly.

All that's left of my marriage is a marriage certificate.

That's the kind of shattered decency

you don't want.

Why do you put up with this?

I'm tired.

The years of being a stay-at-home mom

have worn me out.

You're not like me.

You're still being yourself all these years

you've been living with Luo.

Wife and children

are just an additional identity.

Since I got married, my life

revolves around Xiao Rui and the child.

I'm messing around with the acre I know.

I don't have any energy.

Have some dessert.

All right.

Honey, you just upset me.

What's wrong with me?

You don't even know that.

Because you usually don't care about me.

I didn't.

I was just wondering.

What did I just do to piss you off?

Look at your face right now.

Don't you just don't care?

No apologies to me at all.

I'm sorry.

Why don't you just try not to get mad?

This disabling of the other person's sensory system,

which leads to self-doubt

and guilt,

is one of the most common forms

of what we call seduction.

They brainwash the opposite sex.

They cheat on the opposite sex.

Thus achieving a high degree of mind control

to fulfill their sordid purpose.

And then we move on to phase two.

Suppress and belittle the other side.

It's almost time.

We should get going.

You're just gonna go to a friend's party with me?

What's the matter?

Every time, you just grab something

and throw it on.

I want you to match it a little bit.

Why don't you at least put on some makeup

for a friend's party?

Look at Shuai’s cute girlfriend.

She looks like a porcelain doll every time.

And look at you.

Well, just give me a minute.

I'm going to fix my makeup right now.

That's pathetic.

The girl has fallen completely into her boyfriend's control

without even realizing it.

She is an effeminate pleaser.

She is often the easiest target

for seducing men.

If not stopped in time,

the situation will only get worse.

That's it.

The man had begun to interfere with her social life.

The next step.

He'll cut her off from all contact with the outside world.

Let her have only him in her world.

This is not limited to but included

in the repertoire of seduction.

In fact, in this society.

There are a lot of people who fall for the trap.

Who's this guy on your phone?

This is my college buddy.

Sisters.

If your boyfriend is acting like this,

don't hesitate.

Get out at once.

Don't wait until

you're seriously hurt mentally.

You will not be waiting for him to change and moved.

It can only be this extreme situation.

Sister.

That's pretty much what we're going to cut.

What do you think about the topic and content this time?

Do you want some packaging or something?

I think it's fine.

Try not to

make the packing too fancy.

Sister Tian.

If this episode is well received,

we'd like to do two more episodes

on the topic of PUA.

I think so.

On this topic.

There's just so much I want to say.

This is not enough.

I think so too.

Actually, we're mainly talking

about emotional PUA.

But PUA is everywhere in life.

Such as workplace traps that squeeze employees to infinity.

And all kinds of tricks

to borrow money from friends.

Yes.

It's all good to talk about.

But after we throw out the point.

The point is

to tell you how to spot the PUA,

how to avoid it,

and how to counter it.

♪Convince me♪

♪With another answer♪

♪Coldness is the norm♪

♪In this world♪

♪Flowers are always♪

♪Waiting to die♪

♪So the noblest rose♪

♪Is always covered with thorns♪

♪If you want me♪

♪Don't be my past♪

♪A poor copy♪

♪Show me♪

♪What you've got♪

♪Can you see through♪

♪The ununderstood sweetness♪

♪And whisper of camellia petals♪

♪If you want me♪

♪Don't be my past♪

♪A poor copy♪

♪Show me♪

♪What you've got♪

♪Can you see through♪

♪The ununderstood sweetness♪

♪And whisper of camellia petals♪

♪Camellia whisper♪