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STEPHANIE: For those continuing
with the second part
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of this course next semester,
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we will explore the
development and evolution
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of social customs.
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For example, the first recorded
marriage contract
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can be traced back 4,000 years.
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Those records were found
primarily in Mesopotamia
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and seem to have only existed
as ways of preserving power
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and furthering lineages.
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I’d like to think times
have changed since then.
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It wasn’t until the
Enlightenment that the notion
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of marrying for love
became widely accepted.
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♪♪ [cello]
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All right, who forgot to
turn their cellphone off
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from the last class?
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STUDENT #1: I think
it’s coming from outside.
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STUDENT #2: That’s so weird.
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♪♪ [continues]
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- Is that Professor Larson?
- What?
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I will be right back.
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What is all of this?
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Happy anniversary!
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Hold that thought.
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So six months ago today
was our very first date,
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and ever since the moment
that you bumped into me
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and spilled my coffee
everywhere,
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I knew you were the one.
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And I never understood
the saying,
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"When you know, you know,"
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till I met you.
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So...
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Dr. Stephanie Bishop,
will you marry me?
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- Yes.
- Yes?
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Yes, a million times, yes.
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Whew! Ah, it’s a little loose.
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It doesn’t matter. I love it.
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- And I love you.
- I love you too.
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I love how you basically
highlighted this entire article.
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He makes a lot of good points.
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You know, between his books
and his Ted Talks,
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you’re kind of a fan boy.
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And I am very proud of it.
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Are you almost done?
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We still have to
swing by my apartment.
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Hey, quick question.
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Which color bathing suit conveys
to your family how honored I am
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to spend the summer with them
at their vacation house?
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And also how much I love you,
and I’m excited to marry you?
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I’m not sure you can get all
that from a bathing suit color.
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I think green.
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You know you have nothing
to be nervous about.
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I’m not nervous.
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Okay, I’m a little nervous.
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I met them one time for like
five minutes in passing.
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Now I’m spending a significant
amount of time with them,
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and you are so close.
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I just really want them
to like me.
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They will love you
because I love you.
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Besides, after a few rounds of
golf on the course with my dad,
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you will be best buds.
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I never played golf.
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- Like ever?
- No.
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Don’t worry. You will be fine.
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Okay, maybe I could
take a few lessons.
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We don’t leave for a few hours.
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Ben, how many sweaters
did you pack?
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- I like to layer.
- Yes, but it’s Palm Springs,
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and we’re gonna be in
flip-flops most of the time.
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And I was a Boy Scout.
I go prepared.
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See? Now it actually closes,
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and you have room
for other things like...
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a magazine,
some light reading by the pool.
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You make fun, but James Quincy’s
article on emerging markets
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will make you rethink everything
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you thought you knew
about economics.
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I’m sorry you got passed over
for that job with Quincy.
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I’m not. If I got
the teaching job at Oxford,
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I never would’ve met you.
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Then I guess everything worked
out the way it was supposed to.
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Sure did. Now I’m engaged to
an almost-tenured professor,
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and we’re going to Palm Springs
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to spend time with people
that you love most.
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I love the sound of that.
"Tenured professor."
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You worked really hard.
I’m proud of you.
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Life is good.
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- How’s it fit?
- It fits perfectly.
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I’m sorry it was
a little loose before,
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but I didn’t wanna
ruin the surprise
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by asking you
what size ring you wear.
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- Thought I guessed right.
- You were close.
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I know you get superstitious
about that kind of stuff,
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so please, for me,
do not read into it.
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You mean how like
in 16th century Persia,
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if the ring didn’t fit,
it was seen as a bad omen?
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It might've crossed
my mind for a moment,
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but then I realized
it’s a myth and not at all real.
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Ah, the perks of dating
an anthropology professor.
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Engaged to.
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[ringtone]
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Hi, Dad. Calling for an ETA?
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Yes, yes, your mom wants to know
how much to make for dinner.
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Uh, we’re gonna leave here
in a few hours,
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so we should be on time.
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Are Tracy and Preston there yet?
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Uh, no, their flight was
delayed out of San Francisco.
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Listen, Stephanie, uh...
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Yeah?
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Um, drive safe.
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We will. Love you.
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Love you too.
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Okay.
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- Did you tell her?
- I was about to,
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but it didn’t feel like
the right moment.
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It’s a lot to spring on them,
but the girls will understand.
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I hope so. They love this house
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and all the summers
we’ve spent here.
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It’s hard telling them
we’re selling it.
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I know, but they know
you’re retiring
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and that we’ve always
wanted to travel.
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I know, but it’s big news.
We should tell them in person.
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All right.
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Then somebody better go take the
"For Sale" sign off the lawn.
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Right.
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Good thinking.
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So every summer, Dad would take
a month off from the clinic
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so that we could all be
together at the house
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for some Bishop family
bonding time.
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It’s where I took
my first steps,
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it’s where I learned to swim,
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and the country club hosts
this super fun jamboree
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on the Fourth of July.
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This place sounds like
more than just a house.
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What?
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I have an idea.
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[sighs] Okay.
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What if we get married
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at the vacation house
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on the Fourth of July?
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Fireworks and all.
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Like this Fourth of July,
in four weeks.
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No, of course not
this Fourth of July.
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Next summer.
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We’ve got the time.
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- I love it.
- You do?
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Yeah, if it’s your dream to get
married on the Fourth of July
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at your family vacation house,
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then it’s mine too.
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Wow. This place is amazing.
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- Home away from home.
- I love it.
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Wait till you see the backyard.
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- STEPHANIE: Here we are.
- Oh, there she is!
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Hi, Mom!
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Perfect timing.
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And Ben.
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Ben, we’re so glad you are here.
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Come on, everybody, follow me.
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Are you okay? What’s going on?
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Oh, yeah. Oh, my gosh,
I’m never better.
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I’m so excited, you two.
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- Come on, your Dad's waiting.
- Okay.
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Hey, hey, hey,
did you tell her already?
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No. Maybe one of my students
posted on social media.
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Maybe.
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Honey, sweetheart,
they’re here.
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They just arrived.
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STEPHANIE: Tracy, Preston,
you made it.
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We’re so excited.
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- Here you go.
- Welcome to the desert.
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Stephanie, Ben,
so glad you’re here.
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Big news.
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What’s going on?
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A soon-to-be wedding.
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Wait, who told you
that we’re engaged?
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You’re engaged?
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- Y-You and, uh...
- Ben.
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Ben, right.
How can you be engaged?
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Didn’t you just start dating?
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Is that not what
this champagne is for?
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I’m so confused.
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No! The champagne is because
Preston and I are engaged.
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No! [laughing]
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- Congratulations!
- Congratulations to you!
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Can you believe this?
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No, not a bit.
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Congratulations, Preston.
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Thank you.
Congratulations to you as well.
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Stephanie and Ben are engaged.
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So how long have you two
been dating again?
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Six months,
but we knew right away.
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Six mo... Wow. Fast.
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And when did this happen?
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A couple days ago.
What about you guys?
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Last week.
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Mr. Bishop, thank you for
inviting me into your home.
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Your house is beautiful.
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Technically,
Stephanie invited you.
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I just didn’t say no.
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Um, Steph, let me see your ring.
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[gasps]
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Obviously,
you’re my maid of honor.
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And obviously you’re mine.
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And since it was always
our favorite holiday,
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Preston and I
decided to get married
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right here at the house
on the Fourth of July.
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I was just telling Ben
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that I wanted to get married
on the Fourth of July.
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No way! Did you guys want
this Fourth of July?
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No. Next year.
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Okay, great,
because Preston and I
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wanna get married this summer.
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Honey, that’s only
four weeks away.
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I know it’s fast, but Preston's
grandma’s getting older,
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and he really wants her
to be at the wedding.
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The longer we wait, the harder
it is for her to travel,
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and I know how much
it means for Tracy
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that we get married
right here at the house.
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Well, that works for us.
We can have our turn next year.
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Let’s just see
how everything pans out.
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Tracy and Preston were together
quite a long time
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before even considering
an engagement.
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Dad.
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I just don’t want anyone
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rushing into anything.
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A toast... to us.
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- We’re both engaged!
- Yay!
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Toast!
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All right,
let’s give Ben the tour.
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Ah, yes.
So how was the drive out?
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Enjoy!
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They’ve been together
six months.
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Tracy wants to get married
in four weeks.
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Oh, boy.
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Boy is right.
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So where do you want these?
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You’re two doors down from me,
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and it has an amazing view.
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I don’t think your parents
were very thrilled
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about the engagement.
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They just weren’t expecting it.
They’ll come around.
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Hope so. I know you mentioned
you were engaged before.
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You think that’s why
they’re hesitant?
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No, I don’t think that has
anything to do with it.
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It was a long time ago.
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I think it’s just that
Tracy and Preston
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have been together
for like 10 years
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and not used to a relationship
moving this quickly.
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Okay, well, I won’t worry then.
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Okay, good.
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Morning!
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Hi.
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Morning, morning, welcome.
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Please help yourselves.
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Wow! Waffle and pancakes.
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You don’t see that too often.
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Well, I know it’s silly,
but it’s a tradition.
256
00:12:04,027 --> 00:12:05,812
When the girls were little,
they couldn’t decide
257
00:12:05,855 --> 00:12:07,422
between waffles and pancakes,
258
00:12:07,465 --> 00:12:10,294
so first breakfast
of every summer, we have both.
259
00:12:10,338 --> 00:12:12,732
You’re in full planning mode,
aren’t you?
260
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Just under four weeks
is not a lot of time.
261
00:12:15,560 --> 00:12:17,040
We’ve gotta be smart
and diligent about this.
262
00:12:17,084 --> 00:12:19,347
Divide and conquer.
Lists are key.
263
00:12:19,390 --> 00:12:21,305
Can you tell Tracy’s a lawyer?
264
00:12:21,349 --> 00:12:23,220
Oh, Ben, please help yourself.
265
00:12:23,264 --> 00:12:25,005
Shouldn’t we wait
for Preston and Robert?
266
00:12:25,048 --> 00:12:27,094
Oh, no, I’m sure they grabbed
something at the club.
267
00:12:27,137 --> 00:12:29,009
I told them to wait to see
if you wanted to go,
268
00:12:29,052 --> 00:12:30,619
but they didn’t wanna
lose their tee time.
269
00:12:30,662 --> 00:12:32,099
Trust me, I do not blame them.
270
00:12:32,142 --> 00:12:34,579
I do not know the first thing
about golf.
271
00:12:34,623 --> 00:12:36,973
Now that you and Stephanie are
engaged, you’ll have to learn.
272
00:12:37,017 --> 00:12:40,455
No, he doesn’t have to learn.
It is not mandatory.
273
00:12:40,498 --> 00:12:41,935
So what’s first?
274
00:12:41,978 --> 00:12:44,415
Mom and I are going to
look at dresses today.
275
00:12:44,459 --> 00:12:45,939
I already sent out
the save-the-date email,
276
00:12:45,982 --> 00:12:47,897
but I need you to order
the invitations face-up.
277
00:12:47,941 --> 00:12:49,769
- Oh, and look into the cake.
- Frankie’s?
278
00:12:49,812 --> 00:12:51,814
- Where else?
- What’s Frankie's?
279
00:12:51,858 --> 00:12:54,469
It’s a bakery we used to
go to when we were little.
280
00:12:54,512 --> 00:12:56,340
I was thinking layered.
281
00:12:56,384 --> 00:12:57,864
- Obviously.
- With fresh strawberries.
282
00:12:57,907 --> 00:12:59,866
Oh, and blueberries
and cream-filled,
283
00:12:59,909 --> 00:13:01,084
and then it’s red,
white, and blue.
284
00:13:01,128 --> 00:13:02,782
And if we do that,
we might as well
285
00:13:02,825 --> 00:13:05,001
make the whole wedding
coordinate with those colors.
286
00:13:05,045 --> 00:13:06,220
I mean,
it is the Fourth of July.
287
00:13:06,263 --> 00:13:07,612
And my dress will be white.
288
00:13:07,656 --> 00:13:09,092
And mine will be blue.
289
00:13:09,136 --> 00:13:10,615
And that works on two levels
290
00:13:10,659 --> 00:13:12,095
because it will work
with the wedding colors,
291
00:13:12,139 --> 00:13:14,054
but also you can bring me
something blue.
292
00:13:14,097 --> 00:13:15,620
And we can do
red floral arrangements.
293
00:13:15,664 --> 00:13:17,100
Love it!
294
00:13:17,144 --> 00:13:18,754
Here you go, honey.
You’re gonna need it
295
00:13:18,798 --> 00:13:20,495
to keep up with them.
296
00:13:20,538 --> 00:13:22,758
- Thank you.
- You’re welcome.
297
00:13:22,802 --> 00:13:24,847
STEPHANIE: All right,
so cake and invitations.
298
00:13:24,891 --> 00:13:28,111
That’s not too bad, seeing as
Tracy’s list was very long.
299
00:13:28,155 --> 00:13:29,852
BEN: Easily doable.
300
00:13:29,896 --> 00:13:32,855
The best part is we can use
their list for our wedding.
301
00:13:32,899 --> 00:13:34,901
- Easy breezy.
- Mm-hmm.
302
00:13:36,946 --> 00:13:38,078
Good morning!
303
00:13:38,121 --> 00:13:39,862
Good morning. Can I help you?
304
00:13:39,906 --> 00:13:42,169
I’m guessing you're
one of the Bishop daughters.
305
00:13:42,212 --> 00:13:43,823
Yes. I am Stephanie.
306
00:13:43,866 --> 00:13:47,348
- And this is my fiancé Ben.
- Nice to meet you.
307
00:13:47,391 --> 00:13:49,480
That’s the first time
I introduced you as my fiancé.
308
00:13:49,524 --> 00:13:50,786
- I like it.
- Me too.
309
00:13:50,830 --> 00:13:52,744
Well, congratulations
to you both.
310
00:13:52,788 --> 00:13:54,268
Your parents said
nothing but great things
311
00:13:54,311 --> 00:13:55,312
about you and your sister.
312
00:13:55,356 --> 00:13:56,879
Thank you.
313
00:13:56,923 --> 00:13:58,794
Um, who are you?
314
00:13:58,838 --> 00:14:01,928
Oh, I’m so sorry.
Where are my manners?
315
00:14:01,971 --> 00:14:03,930
I’m Anna Kim, your parents'
real estate broker.
316
00:14:03,973 --> 00:14:04,931
Their what?
317
00:14:04,974 --> 00:14:07,107
Broker for the house.
318
00:14:07,150 --> 00:14:11,024
I couldn’t wait to tell them.
We have our first offer.
319
00:14:11,067 --> 00:14:12,721
My parents are
selling the house?
320
00:14:18,379 --> 00:14:20,207
We wanted to tell you
last night,
321
00:14:20,250 --> 00:14:21,556
but then you both announced
you were engaged,
322
00:14:21,599 --> 00:14:23,732
and it took us by surprise.
323
00:14:23,775 --> 00:14:26,387
I can’t believe that
you’re selling this house.
324
00:14:26,430 --> 00:14:28,302
Honey, it was
a really hard decision,
325
00:14:28,345 --> 00:14:29,956
but with your dad
about to retire,
326
00:14:29,999 --> 00:14:32,828
selling this house means
we could travel the world.
327
00:14:32,872 --> 00:14:34,525
We got married so young,
328
00:14:34,569 --> 00:14:36,223
and then I went straight
to medical school,
329
00:14:36,266 --> 00:14:37,920
and then you guys came along.
330
00:14:37,964 --> 00:14:41,837
I loved every second of it,
but now we have the time.
331
00:14:41,881 --> 00:14:43,752
I want you guys
to have this opportunity.
332
00:14:43,795 --> 00:14:45,449
You deserve it.
333
00:14:45,493 --> 00:14:48,583
It’s just gonna be hard
not to have this place.
334
00:14:48,626 --> 00:14:50,672
How about a compromise?
335
00:14:50,715 --> 00:14:53,240
Your dad and I put off selling
the house for a year or two,
336
00:14:53,283 --> 00:14:55,720
that way you can still get
married here next summer.
337
00:14:55,764 --> 00:14:57,722
The buyer that put in an offer
338
00:14:57,766 --> 00:14:59,681
wants the house
by the end of the summer.
339
00:15:04,381 --> 00:15:06,427
Well, we’ll just have
to decline the offer.
340
00:15:06,470 --> 00:15:08,995
I highly advise against that.
341
00:15:09,038 --> 00:15:11,388
I mean, it’s well over
the asking price,
342
00:15:11,432 --> 00:15:13,086
and you know the saying:
343
00:15:13,129 --> 00:15:15,784
Your first offer’s
always the best offer.
344
00:15:15,827 --> 00:15:18,352
I don’t know if this helps,
but it is a smart time to sell.
345
00:15:18,395 --> 00:15:20,397
I mean, with what you could
save on property taxes alone,
346
00:15:20,441 --> 00:15:22,051
it’d do wonders
for your retirement fund.
347
00:15:22,095 --> 00:15:25,272
Spoken like
a true economics professor.
348
00:15:25,315 --> 00:15:27,274
He’s right.
349
00:15:27,317 --> 00:15:29,711
I don’t want you guys to miss
out on a good deal '’cause of me.
350
00:15:29,754 --> 00:15:32,018
Stephanie, would you
really be okay
351
00:15:32,061 --> 00:15:34,498
not getting married here?
352
00:15:34,542 --> 00:15:36,631
Yeah. Ben and I will
find somewhere else.
353
00:15:36,674 --> 00:15:37,980
Definitely.
354
00:15:38,024 --> 00:15:39,851
Might be a blessing in disguise.
355
00:15:39,895 --> 00:15:41,984
That way you could
take your time
356
00:15:42,028 --> 00:15:43,986
finding the perfect place.
357
00:15:44,030 --> 00:15:47,207
Nothing wrong with
a long engagement.
358
00:15:47,250 --> 00:15:50,906
This just means we’ll have to
make your wedding the best ever
359
00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:53,822
'’cause it'll be
our final Hurrah here.
360
00:16:00,916 --> 00:16:02,526
WOMAN: So these are more
traditional ones.
361
00:16:02,570 --> 00:16:04,398
Clean backgrounds.
362
00:16:04,441 --> 00:16:06,182
I like that one.
363
00:16:06,226 --> 00:16:08,228
Okay.
364
00:16:08,271 --> 00:16:09,533
- Stephanie.
- Huh?
365
00:16:09,577 --> 00:16:10,708
What do you think?
366
00:16:10,752 --> 00:16:12,232
Oh, um, it’s nice.
367
00:16:12,275 --> 00:16:15,278
It’s just a little plain.
368
00:16:15,322 --> 00:16:17,324
You okay?
We should pick one soon.
369
00:16:17,367 --> 00:16:19,630
Tracy told me she has a print
shop on standby for tonight.
370
00:16:19,674 --> 00:16:22,111
Right. I’m just
a little distracted. Sorry.
371
00:16:22,155 --> 00:16:24,461
You know what?
Let me go grab the other binder.
372
00:16:24,505 --> 00:16:26,463
There might be something
more your taste in there.
373
00:16:26,507 --> 00:16:28,248
- One sec.
- Thank you.
374
00:16:29,466 --> 00:16:30,641
Still thinking about the house?
375
00:16:30,685 --> 00:16:34,123
Minor aftershock, I think.
376
00:16:34,167 --> 00:16:36,299
Just wasn’t expecting it.
377
00:16:36,343 --> 00:16:39,085
I completely get
where your dad’s coming from.
378
00:16:39,128 --> 00:16:40,869
Although with that being said,
379
00:16:40,912 --> 00:16:42,218
I didn’t spend
my childhood vacations here.
380
00:16:42,262 --> 00:16:44,046
I mean, I get
why they’re selling it.
381
00:16:44,090 --> 00:16:49,008
I guess I just always envisioned
bringing my own kids here.
382
00:16:49,051 --> 00:16:50,270
Our kids.
383
00:16:53,142 --> 00:16:57,625
What do you think of these?
384
00:16:57,668 --> 00:16:59,018
Ooh, I like this.
385
00:16:59,061 --> 00:17:00,932
I mean, it’s not really
in our theme,
386
00:17:00,976 --> 00:17:04,414
but it is the shade of purple
that is my favorite color.
387
00:17:04,458 --> 00:17:06,199
- Really?
- Oh, totally.
388
00:17:06,242 --> 00:17:08,592
In middle school, I wore the
same purple hoodie every day.
389
00:17:08,636 --> 00:17:10,333
- Drove my mom nuts.
- That’s funny.
390
00:17:10,377 --> 00:17:13,554
Yeah, took my fashion sense
a little bit of time.
391
00:17:13,597 --> 00:17:17,384
No, I mean, it’s funny that I
didn’t know your favorite color.
392
00:17:17,427 --> 00:17:21,649
Well, I guess
it just never came up.
393
00:17:21,692 --> 00:17:23,477
What’s yours?
394
00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:24,478
Orange.
395
00:17:24,521 --> 00:17:27,089
- Orange.
- Yeah.
396
00:17:27,133 --> 00:17:28,873
Yeah, I prefer the burnt tones.
397
00:17:30,397 --> 00:17:32,312
I did not expect that.
398
00:17:34,357 --> 00:17:35,445
- That one.
- This one.
399
00:17:35,489 --> 00:17:37,273
Okay.
400
00:17:37,317 --> 00:17:40,059
You know, you guys make
a very cute couple.
401
00:17:45,020 --> 00:17:46,978
BEN: Where are we off to now?
402
00:17:47,022 --> 00:17:49,503
STEPHANIE: Off to Frankie’s
to get a cake, of course.
403
00:18:00,905 --> 00:18:02,559
- Stephanie!
- Frankie.
404
00:18:02,603 --> 00:18:03,952
It’s been too long.
405
00:18:03,995 --> 00:18:06,041
I know.
Last summer I was in Antigua,
406
00:18:06,085 --> 00:18:08,391
researching the indigenous
people of the Arawak.
407
00:18:08,435 --> 00:18:11,046
As one does.
408
00:18:11,090 --> 00:18:14,180
Hey, I saw that your parents
listed their house.
409
00:18:14,223 --> 00:18:15,964
Yeah, they already
have an offer.
410
00:18:16,007 --> 00:18:18,140
- Wow.
- Mm-hmm.
411
00:18:18,184 --> 00:18:20,099
Oh, this is my fiancé Ben.
412
00:18:20,142 --> 00:18:21,491
Fiancé?
413
00:18:21,535 --> 00:18:23,145
Nice meeting you, Ben.
414
00:18:23,189 --> 00:18:25,713
Nice to meet you too.
It smells amazing in here.
415
00:18:25,756 --> 00:18:27,497
Well, you have to have a sample.
416
00:18:27,541 --> 00:18:30,544
Frankie used to spoil us with
her samples when we were little.
417
00:18:30,587 --> 00:18:32,415
Well, you and your sister
were my favorite customers.
418
00:18:32,459 --> 00:18:35,636
Now, these are
our newest creation.
419
00:18:35,679 --> 00:18:37,116
Okay.
420
00:18:37,159 --> 00:18:38,204
Thanks.
421
00:18:39,988 --> 00:18:40,945
Mmm!
422
00:18:40,989 --> 00:18:42,164
What do you think?
423
00:18:42,208 --> 00:18:44,079
Oh, my gosh, that’s so good.
424
00:18:44,123 --> 00:18:45,602
No wonder we’re getting
the cake from here.
425
00:18:45,646 --> 00:18:47,778
Cake? For your wedding?
426
00:18:47,822 --> 00:18:49,215
No, for Tracy and Preston.
427
00:18:49,258 --> 00:18:50,825
They got engaged
at the same time,
428
00:18:50,868 --> 00:18:53,349
but their wedding is first
on the Fourth of July.
429
00:18:53,393 --> 00:18:56,352
Oh, that’s wonderful!
430
00:18:56,396 --> 00:18:59,094
Wait. Do you mean
this Fourth of July?
431
00:18:59,138 --> 00:19:00,617
Yes.
432
00:19:00,661 --> 00:19:03,185
We’re backed up on orders
for months.
433
00:19:03,229 --> 00:19:06,667
I’m so sorry, but that's
the busiest time of the year.
434
00:19:06,710 --> 00:19:08,408
Oh, no.
435
00:19:08,451 --> 00:19:10,366
Little Frankie
would be so disappointed
436
00:19:10,410 --> 00:19:13,282
if she knew we couldn’t get
the wedding cake here.
437
00:19:13,326 --> 00:19:17,243
Well, I would never
disappoint Little Frankie.
438
00:19:17,286 --> 00:19:19,984
Let me go check the order book.
I’ll see what I can do.
439
00:19:20,028 --> 00:19:23,814
Little Frankie! [laughing]
440
00:19:23,858 --> 00:19:26,121
Um, who’s Little Frankie?
441
00:19:26,165 --> 00:19:29,472
When I was like 10 or so,
I wanted an extra cookie,
442
00:19:29,516 --> 00:19:32,127
so I told her that I would name
one of my kids after her.
443
00:19:32,171 --> 00:19:34,390
- Good to know.
- Yeah, so take note.
444
00:19:34,434 --> 00:19:36,697
Number four or five
has to be named Frankie.
445
00:19:36,740 --> 00:19:38,220
Wait, you want
four or five kids?
446
00:19:38,264 --> 00:19:40,222
Try five or six. You knew that.
447
00:19:40,266 --> 00:19:42,137
I did not know that.
448
00:19:42,181 --> 00:19:43,399
How many do you want?
449
00:19:43,443 --> 00:19:45,140
I don’t know. One, maybe two.
450
00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:47,098
- Really? That’s it?
- Yeah. I was an only child.
451
00:19:47,142 --> 00:19:48,317
I came from a small family.
452
00:19:49,797 --> 00:19:52,365
Okay, I’m not supposed
to do this,
453
00:19:52,408 --> 00:19:54,584
but I’ve moved things around,
454
00:19:54,628 --> 00:19:57,631
and I will personally see
that your cake gets done.
455
00:19:57,674 --> 00:20:02,113
Thank you so much.
Tracy’s gonna be very excited.
456
00:20:06,727 --> 00:20:08,337
Making some progress
on our to-do list.
457
00:20:08,381 --> 00:20:10,121
Yeah.
458
00:20:10,165 --> 00:20:13,473
Have you given any thought
to our plan B for the wedding?
459
00:20:13,516 --> 00:20:15,257
- Not yet. You?
- Nah.
460
00:20:15,301 --> 00:20:17,216
I was so focused
on the proposal,
461
00:20:17,259 --> 00:20:19,653
I hadn’t thought much
about our next steps.
462
00:20:22,786 --> 00:20:24,135
What?
463
00:20:24,179 --> 00:20:27,051
I just got an email
from James Quincy.
464
00:20:27,095 --> 00:20:31,404
Another riveting article
on emerging markets?
465
00:20:31,447 --> 00:20:35,364
The guy they hired for the
Oxford spot just dropped out.
466
00:20:35,408 --> 00:20:38,149
Apparently they’re going over
my application from last year.
467
00:20:38,193 --> 00:20:40,848
- Wait, really?
- This is amazing.
468
00:20:40,891 --> 00:20:42,153
What does this mean?
469
00:20:42,197 --> 00:20:44,373
That I have another shot
at the job.
470
00:20:44,417 --> 00:20:46,114
I could be teaching
and doing research
471
00:20:46,157 --> 00:20:48,247
at the Oxford School
of Economics.
472
00:20:48,290 --> 00:20:50,031
Under your hero.
473
00:20:50,074 --> 00:20:51,989
I can’t even believe
I have this opportunity.
474
00:20:53,295 --> 00:20:55,602
Well, what does this mean
for us?
475
00:20:55,645 --> 00:20:57,299
We move to England.
476
00:20:57,343 --> 00:21:00,346
I can’t move to England.
I’m about to make tenure,
477
00:21:00,389 --> 00:21:02,957
and you know how rare that is
for a professor my age.
478
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,567
I can’t just walk away.
479
00:21:04,611 --> 00:21:06,569
Right, I’m sorry.
480
00:21:06,613 --> 00:21:08,876
I didn’t mean
to jump ahead like that.
481
00:21:08,919 --> 00:21:12,140
You know, when I applied,
I hadn’t met you yet.
482
00:21:12,183 --> 00:21:14,142
I don’t wanna be responsible
483
00:21:14,185 --> 00:21:16,100
for you missing
something like this.
484
00:21:17,841 --> 00:21:19,756
We don’t have to talk
about this right now.
485
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,280
They already passed on me once.
486
00:21:21,323 --> 00:21:22,324
I’m sure there's
hundreds of candidates
487
00:21:22,368 --> 00:21:23,978
more qualified than me,
488
00:21:24,021 --> 00:21:26,154
so I doubt they’d even
offer it to me.
489
00:21:26,197 --> 00:21:28,504
Maybe, but none
more hard-working
490
00:21:28,548 --> 00:21:30,506
or talented than you.
491
00:21:30,550 --> 00:21:32,073
Thank you.
492
00:21:32,116 --> 00:21:35,206
I just wanna be spending
some time with my girl.
493
00:21:35,250 --> 00:21:36,773
- We can do that.
- Yeah.
494
00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:44,172
Ooh! So close. Maybe next time.
495
00:21:44,215 --> 00:21:47,654
I can’t wait for you all
to see my wedding dress.
496
00:21:47,697 --> 00:21:49,351
You know, I really lucked out.
497
00:21:49,395 --> 00:21:51,092
Only a few alterations,
and it will be ready.
498
00:21:51,135 --> 00:21:53,573
We successfully picked out
your cake and invitations,
499
00:21:53,616 --> 00:21:55,575
so creating your dream wedding
in four weeks?
500
00:21:55,618 --> 00:21:57,359
No problem.
501
00:21:57,403 --> 00:21:59,666
Ah-ah-ah.
There’s still a lot to do.
502
00:21:59,709 --> 00:22:01,058
Don’t jinx us.
503
00:22:01,102 --> 00:22:03,800
Mom, don’t worry.
We’ve got this.
504
00:22:08,022 --> 00:22:09,980
Yes!
505
00:22:11,417 --> 00:22:13,332
You guys win again.
506
00:22:13,375 --> 00:22:14,594
Rematch later?
507
00:22:14,637 --> 00:22:15,682
Always.
508
00:22:16,770 --> 00:22:20,382
All right, come and get it!
509
00:22:20,426 --> 00:22:23,777
Here we go. Ribs a la Robert.
510
00:22:23,820 --> 00:22:27,215
Ah, and my famous
corn on the cob.
511
00:22:27,258 --> 00:22:29,173
TRACY: My favorite.
PRESTON: Ooh-whee!
512
00:22:29,217 --> 00:22:30,174
All right.
513
00:22:32,307 --> 00:22:34,004
This smells amazing, Mr. Bishop.
514
00:22:34,048 --> 00:22:36,311
Ah, it’s the slow roast method.
515
00:22:36,355 --> 00:22:38,400
The longer it waits,
the better it is.
516
00:22:38,444 --> 00:22:40,097
Should I be at all concerned
517
00:22:40,141 --> 00:22:43,492
that the fire extinguisher
is so close to the grill?
518
00:22:43,536 --> 00:22:45,755
- Dad?
- It’s always been there.
519
00:22:45,799 --> 00:22:47,714
When the girls were little,
520
00:22:47,757 --> 00:22:49,672
Stephanie would use the grill
to roast her marshmallows.
521
00:22:49,716 --> 00:22:51,282
We never had to use it,
522
00:22:51,326 --> 00:22:54,721
but let’s just say
we had a few close calls.
523
00:22:54,764 --> 00:22:56,766
I didn’t like to wait.
It’s always faster
524
00:22:56,810 --> 00:22:58,551
if you just catch '’em on fire
and blow it out.
525
00:22:58,594 --> 00:22:59,813
I’m with her.
526
00:22:59,856 --> 00:23:01,249
Can you tell me more about
527
00:23:01,292 --> 00:23:03,164
Stephanie as a young kid?
528
00:23:03,207 --> 00:23:05,427
She was a little bit
of a troublemaker.
529
00:23:05,471 --> 00:23:06,689
That is not true.
530
00:23:06,733 --> 00:23:08,822
Yes, it is true.
531
00:23:08,865 --> 00:23:11,607
Don’t you remember the time
you gave all my dolls a haircut?
532
00:23:11,651 --> 00:23:13,696
It was trendy.
533
00:23:13,740 --> 00:23:15,306
Or the time
we had to go to the ER
534
00:23:15,350 --> 00:23:17,221
when you thought it was wise
to jump off the roof
535
00:23:17,265 --> 00:23:22,270
with an umbrella
after seeing Mary Poppins.
536
00:23:22,313 --> 00:23:24,533
Tracy was
our practical daughter.
537
00:23:24,577 --> 00:23:27,362
Stephanie, she always moved
to the beat of her own drum.
538
00:23:27,406 --> 00:23:30,104
AKA Tracy was more responsible.
539
00:23:30,147 --> 00:23:32,106
ELEANORE:
Now, I didn’t say that.
540
00:23:32,149 --> 00:23:33,629
Hey, I’ll take it.
541
00:23:33,673 --> 00:23:36,502
Because I’m so responsible,
I met Preston.
542
00:23:36,545 --> 00:23:38,417
Oh, how'd you guys meet?
543
00:23:38,460 --> 00:23:41,507
It’s my first day of law school,
very first class,
544
00:23:41,550 --> 00:23:44,510
and I read the syllabus
the wrong way
545
00:23:44,553 --> 00:23:46,337
and showed up
with the wrong textbook.
546
00:23:46,381 --> 00:23:49,428
I look over,
and this beautiful girl
547
00:23:49,471 --> 00:23:52,169
is just watching me scramble.
548
00:23:52,213 --> 00:23:55,085
She reaches out,
hands me the correct book,
549
00:23:55,129 --> 00:23:57,261
and that was that.
550
00:23:57,305 --> 00:24:00,047
I cannot believe
you had an extra textbook.
551
00:24:00,090 --> 00:24:01,657
To be fair, I had two textbooks
552
00:24:01,701 --> 00:24:03,529
because there were
two different editions,
553
00:24:03,572 --> 00:24:05,966
and I didn’t know which one
the professor would teach from.
554
00:24:06,009 --> 00:24:07,750
Been together ever since.
555
00:24:07,794 --> 00:24:10,927
So what about you two?
Was it love at first sight?
556
00:24:10,971 --> 00:24:12,842
It was. For me, at least.
557
00:24:12,886 --> 00:24:15,889
I mean, from the moment
she gave me a handful of tissues
558
00:24:15,932 --> 00:24:18,282
to clean the coffee
I just spilled all over myself.
559
00:24:18,326 --> 00:24:21,590
And for me, it was that he
didn’t seem that upset at all.
560
00:24:21,634 --> 00:24:23,200
Well, it was iced coffee.
561
00:24:23,244 --> 00:24:24,680
[chuckles]
562
00:24:24,724 --> 00:24:27,727
I met Eleanore in second grade.
563
00:24:27,770 --> 00:24:29,293
Well, that’s incredible.
564
00:24:29,337 --> 00:24:31,208
Yep. Knew her nine years
565
00:24:31,252 --> 00:24:32,427
before I even asked her out.
566
00:24:32,471 --> 00:24:34,560
Twenty-two
before we were engaged.
567
00:24:34,603 --> 00:24:36,518
That is a long time.
568
00:24:36,562 --> 00:24:39,652
I think we knew each other
better than we knew ourselves.
569
00:24:39,695 --> 00:24:43,351
Built a solid friendship first,
then the romance came.
570
00:24:43,394 --> 00:24:46,397
And we had the same values,
the same vision for the future.
571
00:24:46,441 --> 00:24:48,008
That’s the important thing.
572
00:24:48,051 --> 00:24:50,445
ELEANORE: Yes, hey,
but that was our story.
573
00:24:50,489 --> 00:24:52,795
Everybody’s story is different.
574
00:24:52,839 --> 00:24:56,407
And our Stephanie has always
moved at a faster pace.
575
00:24:56,451 --> 00:24:58,584
And it’s worked out so far.
576
00:25:01,630 --> 00:25:03,153
Pass the salad, please.
577
00:25:03,197 --> 00:25:05,112
Who’s ready for
some of this, huh?
578
00:25:10,247 --> 00:25:11,814
Okay, who’s next?
579
00:25:11,858 --> 00:25:14,904
Well, we gotta find
a great spot for Sam and Gary.
580
00:25:14,948 --> 00:25:17,341
- How about table four?
- Great.
581
00:25:17,385 --> 00:25:18,778
Seating chart?
582
00:25:18,821 --> 00:25:20,562
Yeah, it’s a bit tricky though,
583
00:25:20,606 --> 00:25:22,738
as we’re doing it based on
the save-the-date responses,
584
00:25:22,782 --> 00:25:24,348
but we gotta get a jump on it.
585
00:25:24,392 --> 00:25:26,133
Hey, have you seen Stephanie?
586
00:25:26,176 --> 00:25:30,529
She’s outside marking
where the tables will go.
587
00:25:30,572 --> 00:25:32,835
BEN: Oh, when was that taken?
588
00:25:32,879 --> 00:25:36,839
Let’s see, I was 17,
so Stephanie was 15.
589
00:25:36,883 --> 00:25:38,972
It’s definitely
the awkward years.
590
00:25:39,015 --> 00:25:41,540
Like you had awkward years.
No. The only reason
591
00:25:41,583 --> 00:25:43,367
that we’re not having
a slideshow at the wedding
592
00:25:43,411 --> 00:25:47,284
is because I had braces
and headgear for three years.
593
00:25:47,328 --> 00:25:49,156
She still has
that beautiful smile.
594
00:25:51,724 --> 00:25:54,509
Look, anyway, I will let you
guys get back to the chart.
595
00:25:54,553 --> 00:25:55,771
Good luck with that.
596
00:25:58,034 --> 00:26:00,471
Uh, nope, we gotta have
one less at table five.
597
00:26:00,515 --> 00:26:02,648
I just got an email earlier
from my cousin Timothy
598
00:26:02,691 --> 00:26:04,563
that he already has
Fourth of July plans,
599
00:26:04,606 --> 00:26:06,477
so he won’t be able to make it.
600
00:26:06,521 --> 00:26:11,352
There’s another one of my family
members who’s not able to come.
601
00:26:11,395 --> 00:26:15,182
But the important thing is
that your grandma is coming,
602
00:26:15,225 --> 00:26:18,533
and she’s sitting right here,
front and center.
603
00:26:18,577 --> 00:26:20,187
That’s true.
604
00:26:23,364 --> 00:26:25,845
- Did you just splash me?
- What if I did?
605
00:26:27,063 --> 00:26:29,283
Okay, all right, truce. Truce?
606
00:26:30,501 --> 00:26:31,546
All right.
607
00:26:32,939 --> 00:26:34,418
Can I ask you something?
608
00:26:34,462 --> 00:26:36,638
Anything.
609
00:26:36,682 --> 00:26:39,293
Do you worry that people think
we moved too fast?
610
00:26:39,336 --> 00:26:41,382
By "people," do you mean my dad?
611
00:26:41,425 --> 00:26:42,775
Yeah.
612
00:26:42,818 --> 00:26:46,430
He keeps dropping these
not-so-subtle hints
613
00:26:46,474 --> 00:26:48,781
about us waiting,
taking things slower.
614
00:26:49,869 --> 00:26:51,044
I know.
615
00:26:51,087 --> 00:26:54,003
I’m trying to just let it go.
616
00:26:54,047 --> 00:26:56,527
Just don’t want people thinking
we made a snap decision.
617
00:26:56,571 --> 00:26:58,660
I don’t want you thinking that.
618
00:26:58,704 --> 00:27:00,662
That’s why, uh...
619
00:27:00,706 --> 00:27:02,751
I thought a lot about this.
620
00:27:02,795 --> 00:27:05,319
Of course I don’t.
And I don’t want you to think
621
00:27:05,362 --> 00:27:08,714
that me saying yes was, okay?
622
00:27:08,757 --> 00:27:09,758
Okay.
623
00:27:11,107 --> 00:27:12,195
Don’t you do it.
624
00:27:14,371 --> 00:27:16,025
Pretty sure we called a truce.
625
00:27:16,069 --> 00:27:18,245
We called a truce,
are you kidding me?
626
00:27:23,424 --> 00:27:24,599
Cheers.
627
00:27:27,167 --> 00:27:30,561
I’m so glad that we're finally
all doing a double date.
628
00:27:30,605 --> 00:27:33,173
And we should go to the Fourth
of July Jamboree together too.
629
00:27:33,216 --> 00:27:34,609
Oh, yeah, the jamboree.
630
00:27:34,653 --> 00:27:36,611
Tracy and Stephanie
get pretty into it.
631
00:27:36,655 --> 00:27:37,699
That’s because it's fun.
632
00:27:37,743 --> 00:27:39,919
- This place is so cute.
- Right?
633
00:27:39,962 --> 00:27:41,442
I heard good things
about the band,
634
00:27:41,485 --> 00:27:43,879
and apparently
they play weddings.
635
00:27:43,923 --> 00:27:44,880
PRESTON: Yes!
I’ve been looking forward
636
00:27:44,924 --> 00:27:46,099
to hearing them.
637
00:27:46,142 --> 00:27:48,623
So, Ben,
what’s your go-to music?
638
00:27:48,667 --> 00:27:49,929
- Punk underground.
- Really?
639
00:27:49,972 --> 00:27:51,931
Yeah, I did my undergrad
at Oxford,
640
00:27:51,974 --> 00:27:54,498
and I kinda got wrapped up
in the whole scene.
641
00:27:54,542 --> 00:27:56,326
I didn’t know
you lived in England.
642
00:27:56,370 --> 00:27:58,111
- PRESTON: Did you like it?
- Oh, I loved it, yeah.
643
00:27:58,154 --> 00:28:01,810
Hoping to go back someday,
if the timing were right.
644
00:28:01,854 --> 00:28:04,508
Well, at least your music taste
is better than Stephanie’s here.
645
00:28:04,552 --> 00:28:06,032
She loves techno.
646
00:28:06,075 --> 00:28:07,903
Oh, yeah. I’ve learned
to embrace that one.
647
00:28:07,947 --> 00:28:09,209
It’s fun to dance to.
648
00:28:09,252 --> 00:28:10,514
I don’t know about that.
649
00:28:10,558 --> 00:28:11,777
Pretty good
to work out to though.
650
00:28:11,820 --> 00:28:15,215
Oh, my gosh,
is that Dave Robinson?
651
00:28:15,258 --> 00:28:17,870
- That is Dave Robinson.
- Is this his band?
652
00:28:17,913 --> 00:28:20,002
- Must be.
- Did you guys know?
653
00:28:20,046 --> 00:28:23,005
- No, of course not.
- The Dave you were engaged to?
654
00:28:23,049 --> 00:28:25,442
- That Dave?
- A very long time ago.
655
00:28:25,486 --> 00:28:27,618
I like Dave. Hey, Dave!
656
00:28:27,662 --> 00:28:28,837
Stop!
657
00:28:28,881 --> 00:28:29,838
Preston, no.
658
00:28:29,882 --> 00:28:31,100
PRESTON: Dave.
659
00:28:32,754 --> 00:28:34,669
Stephanie Bishop.
660
00:28:34,713 --> 00:28:35,626
He’s coming.
661
00:28:37,759 --> 00:28:39,892
- No way.
- Hi, Dave.
662
00:28:39,935 --> 00:28:43,112
Hey, long time, no see.
What are you doing here?
663
00:28:43,156 --> 00:28:45,201
My parents have
a vacation house here.
664
00:28:45,245 --> 00:28:47,160
Ah, I remember that, yeah.
665
00:28:47,203 --> 00:28:49,162
Never got the invite.
666
00:28:49,205 --> 00:28:50,337
Is this your band?
667
00:28:50,380 --> 00:28:51,642
Yeah, for now.
668
00:28:51,686 --> 00:28:53,079
Till something better
comes along.
669
00:28:53,122 --> 00:28:55,168
You remember
Tracy and Preston, right?
670
00:28:55,211 --> 00:28:56,256
Yeah, of course.
671
00:28:56,299 --> 00:28:57,823
You guys are still together.
672
00:28:57,866 --> 00:28:59,085
You should be married
with kids by now.
673
00:28:59,128 --> 00:29:00,651
Actually, I just got engaged.
674
00:29:00,695 --> 00:29:01,652
Congrats.
675
00:29:01,696 --> 00:29:04,481
And this is my fiancé Ben.
676
00:29:04,525 --> 00:29:06,614
Fiancé.
677
00:29:06,657 --> 00:29:10,487
Hopefully you guys make it
further than we did, huh?
678
00:29:10,531 --> 00:29:11,793
We will.
679
00:29:11,837 --> 00:29:13,534
So how'd you guys meet?
680
00:29:13,577 --> 00:29:16,189
Los Angeles College,
where we teach.
681
00:29:16,232 --> 00:29:19,975
You became a professor.
Wow, that’s... that's great.
682
00:29:20,019 --> 00:29:21,020
Archeology.
683
00:29:21,063 --> 00:29:22,282
Anthropology.
684
00:29:22,325 --> 00:29:23,674
Ah, close enough, right?
685
00:29:23,718 --> 00:29:25,372
Not really.
686
00:29:25,415 --> 00:29:27,113
Well, I’m gonna finish
setting up,
687
00:29:27,156 --> 00:29:29,593
but, man, it was really good
to see you, Steph.
688
00:29:29,637 --> 00:29:30,943
You too.
689
00:29:30,986 --> 00:29:32,596
Don’t judge me on these guys.
690
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,598
They won’t let me play
my original stuff, so...
691
00:29:34,642 --> 00:29:36,165
PRESTON: See you, Dave.
692
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,301
You okay?
693
00:29:41,344 --> 00:29:42,345
Yeah.
694
00:29:45,740 --> 00:29:48,787
PRESTON: All I’m saying is
I kinda liked the band.
695
00:29:48,830 --> 00:29:50,963
We could at least
see if they’re available.
696
00:29:51,006 --> 00:29:53,574
No, that would be so weird.
697
00:29:53,617 --> 00:29:56,533
I don’t want that guy
at our wedding in any capacity.
698
00:29:56,577 --> 00:29:59,145
I don’t think that you
would’ve gone to grad school
699
00:29:59,188 --> 00:30:01,103
or got your doctorate
if you guys stayed together.
700
00:30:01,147 --> 00:30:02,975
It’s true.
701
00:30:03,018 --> 00:30:06,500
Him leaving you was the best
thing that could've happened.
702
00:30:06,543 --> 00:30:08,981
Wait, he left you?
703
00:30:12,027 --> 00:30:13,550
Could you just give us a minute?
704
00:30:13,594 --> 00:30:14,769
Yeah, we’ll meet you
at the car.
705
00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:15,857
Thanks.
706
00:30:18,555 --> 00:30:20,557
So we dated freshman year,
707
00:30:20,601 --> 00:30:22,690
and the band that
he was with at the time
708
00:30:22,733 --> 00:30:24,997
asked him to go on tour,
709
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,129
so he proposed,
710
00:30:27,173 --> 00:30:29,088
and I thought
it would be so cool
711
00:30:29,131 --> 00:30:31,873
to be engaged to a rock star,
and I said yes.
712
00:30:31,917 --> 00:30:34,571
My mom and dad were not thrilled
when I told them
713
00:30:34,615 --> 00:30:36,835
that I was gonna drop out
of school and follow him,
714
00:30:36,878 --> 00:30:40,055
so they talked me out of it,
thank goodness.
715
00:30:41,491 --> 00:30:43,406
And then he never came back.
716
00:30:45,191 --> 00:30:47,846
But it all worked out
because I was able to figure out
717
00:30:47,889 --> 00:30:50,326
what I wanted
to do with my life.
718
00:30:52,938 --> 00:30:54,461
So we have
your parents to thank.
719
00:30:54,504 --> 00:30:58,117
Yes, my parents were right.
720
00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:59,683
It wasn’t until he was gone
721
00:30:59,727 --> 00:31:02,948
that I realized how much
he was holding me back.
722
00:31:05,124 --> 00:31:07,735
I’d like to think I would've
figured it out at some point.
723
00:31:10,694 --> 00:31:13,349
But I’m glad I went
through all of that
724
00:31:13,393 --> 00:31:17,005
because it led me to you.
725
00:31:46,382 --> 00:31:48,471
Wow.
726
00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:50,821
This a 1955 Thunderbird?
727
00:31:50,865 --> 00:31:52,214
It sure is.
728
00:31:52,258 --> 00:31:53,781
I didn’t know
you had this in here.
729
00:31:53,824 --> 00:31:55,478
This is stunning.
730
00:31:55,522 --> 00:31:57,219
My pride and joy.
731
00:31:57,263 --> 00:32:01,093
I may have to sell it soon
to pay for all these weddings.
732
00:32:01,136 --> 00:32:02,790
Oh, you don’t have to do that.
733
00:32:02,833 --> 00:32:04,966
Stephanie and I said
we’d pay for it ourselves.
734
00:32:05,010 --> 00:32:07,186
You don’t think I can pay
for my daughter’s wedding?
735
00:32:07,229 --> 00:32:09,362
What? No, no, no.
I just mean that,
736
00:32:09,405 --> 00:32:11,407
you know, you don’t have to,
if you don’t want to.
737
00:32:11,451 --> 00:32:13,105
Not a traditional guy, huh?
738
00:32:13,148 --> 00:32:15,803
I am with some things.
739
00:32:15,846 --> 00:32:19,241
Not in paying
for the wedding or, say,
740
00:32:19,285 --> 00:32:21,852
asking my permission
before proposing.
741
00:32:23,985 --> 00:32:26,118
[chuckling]
742
00:32:28,250 --> 00:32:30,209
So Thunderbird, huh?
743
00:32:31,732 --> 00:32:33,255
Where'd you get her?
744
00:32:33,299 --> 00:32:35,605
My dad used to own one.
745
00:32:35,649 --> 00:32:37,520
Few years ago,
I found this one online.
746
00:32:37,564 --> 00:32:39,609
- Been restoring it.
- Does it run?
747
00:32:39,653 --> 00:32:41,742
Almost.
748
00:32:41,785 --> 00:32:43,613
I restored it
with all original parts,
749
00:32:43,657 --> 00:32:45,746
but I still need an idler arm.
750
00:32:45,789 --> 00:32:47,487
Can’t find
an authentic one anywhere,
751
00:32:47,530 --> 00:32:49,097
and I don’t wanna risk
putting something in
752
00:32:49,141 --> 00:32:51,012
that wasn’t made specifically
for this model,
753
00:32:51,056 --> 00:32:53,797
so still on the hunt.
754
00:32:55,103 --> 00:32:56,844
Do you mind if I take a look?
755
00:32:59,064 --> 00:33:00,891
- Yeah, sure.
- Thanks.
756
00:33:03,285 --> 00:33:05,984
You got a 292 cubic inch OHV.
757
00:33:06,027 --> 00:33:09,335
You got a 292 wide block
V8 engine.
758
00:33:09,378 --> 00:33:11,467
This is all first of its kind
stuff, sir.
759
00:33:11,511 --> 00:33:14,079
I didn’t realize
you’re into classic cars.
760
00:33:14,122 --> 00:33:16,124
- My dad was a mechanic.
- Ah.
761
00:33:16,168 --> 00:33:20,302
Some of my best memories are
him picking me up from school,
762
00:33:20,346 --> 00:33:23,088
taking me to the shop,
showing me all the cool cars.
763
00:33:23,131 --> 00:33:24,828
But this?
764
00:33:24,872 --> 00:33:27,744
This was my favorite.
All Thunderbirds.
765
00:33:27,788 --> 00:33:30,747
Is that all
original interior as well?
766
00:33:30,791 --> 00:33:32,184
Oh, yeah, you bet.
767
00:33:33,489 --> 00:33:34,708
Here, come, come.
768
00:33:34,751 --> 00:33:36,536
Come sit.
769
00:33:36,579 --> 00:33:38,277
- Really?
- Yeah.
770
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,930
Check it out.
771
00:33:42,542 --> 00:33:43,760
Ohh!
772
00:33:45,806 --> 00:33:47,199
Ohh!
773
00:33:47,242 --> 00:33:49,636
Now this is how a car’s
supposed to feel.
774
00:33:49,679 --> 00:33:51,638
[chuckles]
775
00:33:51,681 --> 00:33:54,075
Ben, you should hit the green
with Preston and me tomorrow
776
00:33:54,119 --> 00:33:55,642
before the food tasting.
777
00:33:55,685 --> 00:33:57,339
I would love to hit the green
with you guys.
778
00:33:57,383 --> 00:33:59,515
You’re talking
about golf, right?
779
00:33:59,559 --> 00:34:01,169
Yes.
780
00:34:01,213 --> 00:34:03,084
But I have to warn you
I’m not very good,
781
00:34:03,128 --> 00:34:06,522
seeing as I’ve actually
never played before.
782
00:34:06,566 --> 00:34:08,133
That’s all right.
You seem like a sharp guy.
783
00:34:08,176 --> 00:34:10,222
I’m sure you'll pick it up
in no time.
784
00:34:10,265 --> 00:34:11,701
Hope so.
785
00:34:23,278 --> 00:34:25,280
Why are you smiling?
786
00:34:25,324 --> 00:34:27,761
Your dad just asked me
to play golf with him tomorrow.
787
00:34:27,804 --> 00:34:28,936
That’s great.
788
00:34:28,979 --> 00:34:30,894
I’m pretty sure we just bonded.
789
00:34:30,938 --> 00:34:33,462
I knew you would.
790
00:34:33,506 --> 00:34:36,509
He did make a comment about me
not asking his permission
791
00:34:36,552 --> 00:34:38,032
before I proposed.
792
00:34:38,076 --> 00:34:41,688
Hmm. I didn’t even really
consider that.
793
00:34:41,731 --> 00:34:44,125
He’s kind of old school,
but he can be swayed.
794
00:34:44,169 --> 00:34:46,040
When I told him
that I was taking a year off
795
00:34:46,084 --> 00:34:48,042
between high school and college,
I thought he’d freak out,
796
00:34:48,086 --> 00:34:50,653
but after a six-hour
conversation about my future,
797
00:34:50,697 --> 00:34:52,133
he was totally cool.
798
00:34:52,177 --> 00:34:54,179
Don’t worry.
799
00:34:54,222 --> 00:34:57,834
It’s an archaic tradition.
Trust me, I would know.
800
00:34:57,878 --> 00:34:59,314
Who wants some fresh lemonade?
801
00:34:59,358 --> 00:35:01,099
Oh, yes, thank you.
802
00:35:03,449 --> 00:35:05,233
That is amazing.
803
00:35:05,277 --> 00:35:06,887
Isn’t it? It’s the cucumber.
804
00:35:06,930 --> 00:35:09,019
My secret weapon.
805
00:35:09,063 --> 00:35:11,979
Hey, Steph, did you look at the
photographers that I sent you?
806
00:35:12,022 --> 00:35:14,547
Yes, I think we should go
with this one,
807
00:35:14,590 --> 00:35:17,376
since your first choice
is hard to get in touch with.
808
00:35:17,419 --> 00:35:18,942
You know what, I’m gonna
leave this to you guys.
809
00:35:18,986 --> 00:35:20,379
I’m gonna go watch
some YouTube videos
810
00:35:20,422 --> 00:35:22,555
- on how to hit a golf ball.
- Good luck.
811
00:35:28,082 --> 00:35:29,518
I like him.
812
00:35:29,562 --> 00:35:31,216
Me too.
813
00:35:45,143 --> 00:35:46,448
[sighs]
814
00:35:53,151 --> 00:35:54,978
Setting the bar high
like always, sir.
815
00:35:55,022 --> 00:35:56,719
My axis is slightly off.
816
00:35:56,763 --> 00:35:59,592
Couldn’t tell.
Your downswing was perfect.
817
00:35:59,635 --> 00:36:01,159
Yeah, great downswing.
818
00:36:07,339 --> 00:36:09,123
Hey, did you ask
for Robert’s permission
819
00:36:09,167 --> 00:36:10,516
before you proposed to Tracy?
820
00:36:10,559 --> 00:36:11,952
I did.
821
00:36:11,995 --> 00:36:13,432
You didn’t, I presume?
822
00:36:13,475 --> 00:36:14,868
I honestly didn’t even
think about it.
823
00:36:14,911 --> 00:36:16,522
I mean, we’re not that close,
824
00:36:16,565 --> 00:36:19,394
and Stephanie’s more modern
with that kind of stuff.
825
00:36:19,438 --> 00:36:21,396
He didn’t say anything
to you, did he?
826
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,485
- No.
- Okay, good.
827
00:36:23,529 --> 00:36:25,139
I figure that’s why
he’s being so rough on me.
828
00:36:25,183 --> 00:36:27,533
Hey, look,
he was rough on me, too,
829
00:36:27,576 --> 00:36:29,230
when I first started
dating Tracy,
830
00:36:29,274 --> 00:36:30,579
but just give him
a little while.
831
00:36:30,623 --> 00:36:31,624
He’ll warm up.
832
00:36:31,667 --> 00:36:32,973
What’s a little while?
833
00:36:33,016 --> 00:36:34,235
About six years.
834
00:36:36,237 --> 00:36:37,325
Hey, you’re up, Ben!
835
00:36:44,811 --> 00:36:48,206
Oh, hey, I wouldn’t go
with that one.
836
00:36:48,249 --> 00:36:49,424
- No?
- You don’t wanna go
837
00:36:49,468 --> 00:36:50,991
with a high iron
on this first drive.
838
00:36:51,034 --> 00:36:52,819
You want a driver.
839
00:36:52,862 --> 00:36:54,299
Yeah, here you go.
840
00:36:54,342 --> 00:36:55,300
Driver.
841
00:36:55,343 --> 00:36:57,476
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
842
00:36:57,519 --> 00:36:59,129
Here we go.
843
00:37:07,877 --> 00:37:09,227
Easy peasy.
844
00:37:24,677 --> 00:37:26,331
Sorry.
845
00:37:26,374 --> 00:37:27,462
Okay.
846
00:37:35,296 --> 00:37:39,605
Look, golf is a game of time,
patience, and precision.
847
00:37:39,648 --> 00:37:42,129
Try looking at the ball
the entire time.
848
00:37:42,172 --> 00:37:43,391
Okay.
849
00:37:47,352 --> 00:37:49,179
Wha...
850
00:37:51,617 --> 00:37:53,140
I-I’m so sorry.
851
00:37:53,183 --> 00:37:55,360
I have no idea what happened.
852
00:37:55,403 --> 00:37:57,797
That was my dad’s favorite club.
853
00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,407
Are you serious?
854
00:37:59,451 --> 00:38:01,714
Sir, I’ll go get it right now.
I am so sorry.
855
00:38:01,757 --> 00:38:03,977
Careful not to swallow
any of that water.
856
00:38:04,020 --> 00:38:06,022
No clue what’s in it.
857
00:38:08,416 --> 00:38:10,157
Ben, Ben, Ben, Ben.
858
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,551
Stop, stop, I’m kidding.
859
00:38:12,594 --> 00:38:14,596
It’s an old set
from a yard sale.
860
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,598
You don’t have to go in there.
861
00:38:21,429 --> 00:38:23,126
All right.
862
00:38:23,170 --> 00:38:24,867
I’m so sorry.
863
00:38:24,911 --> 00:38:27,130
I didn’t think
you’d really go in.
864
00:38:27,174 --> 00:38:32,135
May not be a great golfer,
but you’ve got, uh, zest.
865
00:38:32,179 --> 00:38:34,877
- Gonna be a long day.
- Mm-hmm.
866
00:38:36,183 --> 00:38:37,358
It’s all right.
867
00:38:40,535 --> 00:38:43,408
And you’re sure that we can't
just have one of everything?
868
00:38:43,451 --> 00:38:45,845
We do have to narrow it down
a little bit.
869
00:38:45,888 --> 00:38:48,151
I wanted you all here
to get your feedback,
870
00:38:48,195 --> 00:38:50,153
so please be honest.
871
00:38:50,197 --> 00:38:51,633
Well, of the salads,
872
00:38:51,677 --> 00:38:53,461
I’m liking
the spinach goat cheese.
873
00:38:53,505 --> 00:38:55,724
- That’s a really good dressing.
- Okay.
874
00:38:55,768 --> 00:38:57,900
Oh, my dear,
I think the mixed spring greens
875
00:38:57,944 --> 00:39:00,773
with the crumbled bleu cheese
is the way to go.
876
00:39:00,816 --> 00:39:03,558
I don’t know. I think that
the simple iceberg with bacon
877
00:39:03,602 --> 00:39:05,255
is always the best choice.
878
00:39:05,299 --> 00:39:07,083
So everyone likes
something different.
879
00:39:07,127 --> 00:39:10,217
Great. That should
make things easier.
880
00:39:10,260 --> 00:39:13,263
Salads are the safe choice
for appetizers,
881
00:39:13,307 --> 00:39:15,570
but if this was my wedding,
I’d do the coconut shrimp.
882
00:39:15,614 --> 00:39:17,485
Yeah, me too.
I mean, it’s really good.
883
00:39:17,529 --> 00:39:20,314
Oh, but, honey, you have
to have a salad at a wedding.
884
00:39:20,358 --> 00:39:21,837
Why? Can’t mix it up?
885
00:39:21,881 --> 00:39:24,187
Because there’s a reason
for traditions,
886
00:39:24,231 --> 00:39:26,233
like having salad before a meal.
887
00:39:26,276 --> 00:39:28,104
Yeah, sure.
888
00:39:28,148 --> 00:39:30,280
I mean, because, you know,
that’s what people expect.
889
00:39:33,501 --> 00:39:34,676
Thoughts on main dishes.
890
00:39:34,720 --> 00:39:36,548
Chicken, hands down.
891
00:39:36,591 --> 00:39:39,159
I say pot roast.
The sauce on top is incredible.
892
00:39:39,202 --> 00:39:42,597
No! I know pot roast. I...
893
00:39:42,641 --> 00:39:44,773
I make an old family recipe
every Christmas.
894
00:39:44,817 --> 00:39:48,255
Girls, you have to admit
mine’s way better.
895
00:39:48,298 --> 00:39:49,517
Oh, yeah, how do you make it?
896
00:39:49,561 --> 00:39:51,301
Sorry, Ben, secret recipe.
897
00:39:51,345 --> 00:39:53,303
Only for family members.
898
00:39:53,347 --> 00:39:56,524
Well, then I guess you’re gonna
have to let me know pretty soon.
899
00:39:56,568 --> 00:39:57,743
We’ll see how it goes.
900
00:39:57,786 --> 00:39:59,440
- Dad!
- Robert!
901
00:39:59,484 --> 00:40:00,789
I’m kidding!
902
00:40:00,833 --> 00:40:02,574
[phone ringing]
903
00:40:02,617 --> 00:40:05,620
Excuse me real quick.
I have to take this.
904
00:40:05,664 --> 00:40:07,709
Well, we should probably
eat the rest of the food.
905
00:40:07,753 --> 00:40:09,450
We don’t want it
to go to waste.
906
00:40:09,494 --> 00:40:11,234
TRACY: You just want
the rest of mine, don’t you?
907
00:40:11,278 --> 00:40:12,584
BEN: Are you serious?
PRESTON: If you don’t want it.
908
00:40:12,627 --> 00:40:15,369
ELEANORE: Okay,
take the rest of this too.
909
00:40:15,413 --> 00:40:17,502
Yeah, yeah.
910
00:40:17,545 --> 00:40:20,766
Yeah, thank you so much. Okay.
911
00:40:20,809 --> 00:40:24,160
Preston will finish all of them.
The shrimp was so good.
912
00:40:24,204 --> 00:40:25,988
Who was it?
913
00:40:26,032 --> 00:40:27,468
That was James Quincy.
914
00:40:27,512 --> 00:40:30,428
He just offered me
the job at Oxford.
915
00:40:32,081 --> 00:40:33,431
That is great.
916
00:40:33,474 --> 00:40:34,910
Wow.
917
00:40:34,954 --> 00:40:36,259
Congratulations.
918
00:40:36,303 --> 00:40:37,217
BEN: Thank you, sir.
919
00:40:44,442 --> 00:40:48,402
Okay, so how many chairs
does that package come with?
920
00:40:48,446 --> 00:40:53,146
So can we do half the amount
for a little less of the cost?
921
00:40:53,189 --> 00:40:54,495
I see.
922
00:40:54,539 --> 00:40:57,542
Okay, thank you.
I’ll let you know.
923
00:40:57,585 --> 00:40:58,804
Everything okay?
924
00:40:58,847 --> 00:41:00,458
I never realized how complicated
925
00:41:00,501 --> 00:41:02,416
chair and table rentals
could be.
926
00:41:02,460 --> 00:41:04,026
Well, you think you’ll have
time for a little break?
927
00:41:04,070 --> 00:41:05,201
I’d love to talk.
928
00:41:05,245 --> 00:41:07,029
I’d love a break.
929
00:41:07,073 --> 00:41:08,553
Good, '’cause I have
the perfect place.
930
00:41:08,596 --> 00:41:09,771
Where?
931
00:41:09,815 --> 00:41:11,120
It’s a surprise.
932
00:41:11,164 --> 00:41:13,035
Hmm. Intriguing.
933
00:41:15,995 --> 00:41:18,432
Ben, you did all this?
934
00:41:18,476 --> 00:41:20,086
I did. Tracy mentioned it,
935
00:41:20,129 --> 00:41:22,480
and I figured
this was the perfect spot.
936
00:41:22,523 --> 00:41:23,698
What’s all this for?
937
00:41:23,742 --> 00:41:25,134
Us.
938
00:41:25,178 --> 00:41:27,136
I figured we could talk
about the job offer
939
00:41:27,180 --> 00:41:30,531
and just get away for a minute.
940
00:41:30,575 --> 00:41:32,054
Have a seat.
941
00:41:32,098 --> 00:41:33,752
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
942
00:41:38,278 --> 00:41:42,587
So did you find out when you
have to give your decision?
943
00:41:42,630 --> 00:41:45,503
I did. Two weeks. July third.
944
00:41:45,546 --> 00:41:47,548
That’s right before
the wedding.
945
00:41:47,592 --> 00:41:51,726
If I did take the job,
would you come with me?
946
00:41:51,770 --> 00:41:54,947
Me moving to England
would be such a fun adventure,
947
00:41:54,990 --> 00:41:59,865
and there’s a part of me that
would say yes in a heartbeat.
948
00:41:59,908 --> 00:42:01,823
But I’m scared.
949
00:42:01,867 --> 00:42:05,044
If I leave my job,
I have to start all over.
950
00:42:05,087 --> 00:42:08,221
I’ve built this great career
at Los Angeles College
951
00:42:08,264 --> 00:42:11,572
that no one really expected.
952
00:42:11,616 --> 00:42:15,445
And I can’t let that go.
I have to see it through.
953
00:42:18,187 --> 00:42:19,928
I won’t take the job.
954
00:42:19,972 --> 00:42:22,496
Then there’s that other side.
I can’t live with myself
955
00:42:22,540 --> 00:42:24,716
if I know you didn’t take it
because of me.
956
00:42:24,759 --> 00:42:27,806
What if we don’t
talk about it right now?
957
00:42:27,849 --> 00:42:29,764
I have two weeks before
I have to give them an answer,
958
00:42:29,808 --> 00:42:32,375
and it is a beautiful day.
959
00:42:32,419 --> 00:42:34,813
It’s a beautiful lake.
960
00:42:34,856 --> 00:42:36,379
A beautiful woman.
961
00:42:38,207 --> 00:42:40,340
This decision
won’t just go away.
962
00:42:40,383 --> 00:42:42,690
I know but maybe we don’t have
to make a decision
963
00:42:42,734 --> 00:42:44,562
right this second.
964
00:42:44,605 --> 00:42:46,346
We can hold off,
965
00:42:46,389 --> 00:42:49,175
and maybe it’ll change
if we don’t harp on it.
966
00:42:49,218 --> 00:42:52,178
I think I can try to do that.
967
00:42:52,221 --> 00:42:53,658
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
968
00:42:53,701 --> 00:42:56,617
Besides, we’ve got some
fun stuff coming up.
969
00:42:56,661 --> 00:42:58,053
Got the jamboree.
970
00:42:58,097 --> 00:43:01,579
Oh, yes, I cannot wait
for this jamboree.
971
00:43:01,622 --> 00:43:06,018
Please tell me there’s
a charcuterie plate in there.
972
00:43:06,061 --> 00:43:07,802
Oh, you mean this?
973
00:43:13,591 --> 00:43:14,853
I love you.
974
00:43:14,896 --> 00:43:16,594
I love you too.
975
00:43:16,637 --> 00:43:19,031
♪♪ [march]
976
00:43:25,298 --> 00:43:28,214
I wish I could tell him to stay,
forget about the job.
977
00:43:28,257 --> 00:43:30,825
- So why don’t you?
- I’m worried he'll listen.
978
00:43:30,869 --> 00:43:32,261
And then later,
when it’s too late,
979
00:43:32,305 --> 00:43:34,655
he’ll realize
what he missed out on.
980
00:43:34,699 --> 00:43:36,701
Should I just go with him?
981
00:43:36,744 --> 00:43:39,225
I don’t think that
there’s an easy answer here.
982
00:43:39,268 --> 00:43:40,835
What are you ladies
talking about?
983
00:43:40,879 --> 00:43:42,054
Nothing.
984
00:43:42,097 --> 00:43:44,143
Today is a fun day. No stress.
985
00:43:44,186 --> 00:43:46,188
No talking about
the wedding or England.
986
00:43:46,232 --> 00:43:47,842
That’s gonna be
a little difficult,
987
00:43:47,886 --> 00:43:50,323
considering this is
an Independence Day celebration,
988
00:43:50,366 --> 00:43:52,499
and England had a little
something to do with that.
989
00:43:52,542 --> 00:43:53,631
You know what I mean.
990
00:43:53,674 --> 00:43:55,197
Look at this.
991
00:43:55,241 --> 00:43:58,853
Guess how many jelly beans
to win a free dinner.
992
00:43:58,897 --> 00:44:01,116
There’s at least 200 in there.
993
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,815
What? No.
There’s over a thousand.
994
00:44:03,858 --> 00:44:05,120
Hey, how many are you putting?
995
00:44:05,164 --> 00:44:06,600
I’m not telling.
996
00:44:08,646 --> 00:44:09,734
Fine.
997
00:44:12,650 --> 00:44:14,347
See, Ben? Isn’t this fun?
998
00:44:14,390 --> 00:44:15,957
- Be honest.
- It is.
999
00:44:16,001 --> 00:44:18,046
It’s my first jamboree.
1000
00:44:18,090 --> 00:44:20,309
This was always Tracy and I’s
favorite part of the summer.
1001
00:44:20,353 --> 00:44:22,050
Especially the balloon pop.
1002
00:44:22,094 --> 00:44:24,313
Yes, the balloon pop.
We have to do that.
1003
00:44:24,357 --> 00:44:26,533
- What is the balloon pop?
- Don’t ask.
1004
00:44:26,576 --> 00:44:28,404
Preston's just bitter
because we always win.
1005
00:44:28,448 --> 00:44:29,797
I always let you win!
1006
00:44:29,841 --> 00:44:31,581
Tracy, that sounds like
a challenge.
1007
00:44:31,625 --> 00:44:33,627
It does sound like a challenge.
1008
00:44:33,671 --> 00:44:35,977
- We accept.
- Good.
1009
00:44:36,021 --> 00:44:37,892
[cheering]
1010
00:44:41,504 --> 00:44:43,637
So the team that pops
the most balloons
1011
00:44:43,681 --> 00:44:45,508
after throwing
all the darts wins.
1012
00:44:45,552 --> 00:44:46,596
Sounds easy enough.
1013
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,685
Not as easy as you think.
1014
00:44:47,728 --> 00:44:49,034
Boys versus girls?
1015
00:44:49,077 --> 00:44:50,731
Oh, it’s on.
1016
00:44:50,775 --> 00:44:54,169
Careful, Ben, the Bishop girls
get very competitive.
1017
00:44:54,213 --> 00:44:55,736
We’ll see.
1018
00:44:55,780 --> 00:44:57,216
Ladies first.
1019
00:44:58,739 --> 00:45:00,698
- Yeah!
- Okay, lucky shot.
1020
00:45:01,786 --> 00:45:03,875
Where is this coming from?
1021
00:45:03,918 --> 00:45:05,572
Played a lot of darts
in college.
1022
00:45:05,615 --> 00:45:07,530
Wait till you see Tracy’s arm
at the dunk tank.
1023
00:45:16,322 --> 00:45:18,106
You guys put up a good fight.
1024
00:45:18,150 --> 00:45:19,586
We didn’t stand a chance,
did we?
1025
00:45:19,629 --> 00:45:21,588
You guys won every game
at the jamboree.
1026
00:45:21,631 --> 00:45:23,416
That’s how we roll.
1027
00:45:23,459 --> 00:45:25,287
Well, at least we didn’t
come out totally empty-handed.
1028
00:45:25,331 --> 00:45:26,332
Ben won.
1029
00:45:26,375 --> 00:45:27,986
In Constitution trivia.
1030
00:45:28,029 --> 00:45:30,510
Yeah, and he got
that super cool flag.
1031
00:45:30,553 --> 00:45:33,469
Which makes no sense at
an Independence Day celebration.
1032
00:45:33,513 --> 00:45:36,255
- Maybe it’s a sign.
- Maybe.
1033
00:45:36,298 --> 00:45:38,170
MAN ON P.A.:
Ladies and gentlemen,
1034
00:45:38,213 --> 00:45:41,042
may I have
your attention, please?
1035
00:45:41,086 --> 00:45:44,698
The winner of the guess the
number of jelly beans contest
1036
00:45:44,742 --> 00:45:49,790
with a guess of 1,776 is...
1037
00:45:49,834 --> 00:45:51,270
Tracy Bishop!
1038
00:45:51,313 --> 00:45:53,925
PRESTON: 1776! Of course!
1039
00:45:57,058 --> 00:45:59,713
- Redheads? No way.
- Yes.
1040
00:45:59,757 --> 00:46:00,888
I’m telling you,
there’s no way.
1041
00:46:00,932 --> 00:46:02,672
Studies have shown
1042
00:46:02,716 --> 00:46:04,979
that a significant amount
of Neanderthals were redheads.
1043
00:46:05,023 --> 00:46:07,590
All right, yeah,
and who’s doing these studies?
1044
00:46:07,634 --> 00:46:08,722
Scientists.
1045
00:46:08,766 --> 00:46:11,420
TRACY: Okay, I got it.
1046
00:46:11,464 --> 00:46:13,161
You okay?
1047
00:46:13,205 --> 00:46:15,076
No. That was our firm
on the phone.
1048
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,730
They’ve been trying
to reach us all day.
1049
00:46:16,774 --> 00:46:18,384
Apparently there was an issue
1050
00:46:18,427 --> 00:46:20,125
with the paperwork
Preston and I submitted
1051
00:46:20,168 --> 00:46:21,909
for the case we were just
working on before we left.
1052
00:46:21,953 --> 00:46:25,347
Now we have to go refile
back in San Francisco ASAP,
1053
00:46:25,391 --> 00:46:26,958
or our client could
go into bankruptcy.
1054
00:46:27,001 --> 00:46:28,481
What? Don’t they know
you’re on vacation,
1055
00:46:28,524 --> 00:46:30,091
or that you’re
planning your wedding?
1056
00:46:30,135 --> 00:46:31,701
It doesn’t matter.
It has to get done.
1057
00:46:31,745 --> 00:46:33,138
So what are you gonna do?
1058
00:46:33,181 --> 00:46:34,879
Preston's looking up
flights right now.
1059
00:46:34,922 --> 00:46:36,968
I’m hoping we can sort it out
in a day or two.
1060
00:46:37,011 --> 00:46:40,058
But that means I need you to
take over all of the planning.
1061
00:46:40,101 --> 00:46:42,234
Of course. Whatever you need.
1062
00:46:42,277 --> 00:46:43,626
Thanks. You’re a lifesaver.
1063
00:46:43,670 --> 00:46:45,890
Mom says she and Dad
will help out too.
1064
00:46:45,933 --> 00:46:47,456
The most important thing
1065
00:46:47,500 --> 00:46:49,241
is that my dress
needs to be picked up tomorrow.
1066
00:46:49,284 --> 00:46:50,546
- Done.
- We also have to figure out
1067
00:46:50,590 --> 00:46:53,114
- something with centerpieces.
- On it.
1068
00:46:53,158 --> 00:46:56,117
And make sure that all of the
rentals are arriving on time.
1069
00:46:57,292 --> 00:46:58,467
No problem.
1070
00:46:59,555 --> 00:47:00,905
Thank you so much.
1071
00:47:00,948 --> 00:47:02,341
Mom said it would be
a lot for you to handle,
1072
00:47:02,384 --> 00:47:04,430
but I told her
that you got this.
1073
00:47:20,098 --> 00:47:22,143
- Hi. Welcome.
- Hi.
1074
00:47:22,187 --> 00:47:24,624
I’m Becky.
Would you like to try that on?
1075
00:47:24,667 --> 00:47:26,234
Oh, no, thank you.
I’m actually here
1076
00:47:26,278 --> 00:47:29,194
picking up for my sister,
Tracy Bishop.
1077
00:47:29,237 --> 00:47:31,196
Yes! It just came in.
1078
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,154
- I’ll go grab it.
- Thanks.
1079
00:47:43,991 --> 00:47:47,603
I’m so glad we were able to get
it sized correctly in time.
1080
00:47:47,647 --> 00:47:50,302
- Wow, it’s stunning.
- It is.
1081
00:47:50,345 --> 00:47:53,348
And so is the one you have
in your hand there.
1082
00:47:53,392 --> 00:47:55,220
Huge misconception
in my line of work
1083
00:47:55,263 --> 00:47:57,526
that only brides-to-be
can try dresses on.
1084
00:47:57,570 --> 00:48:00,529
Well, ironically
I am also a bride-to-be.
1085
00:48:00,573 --> 00:48:03,445
- Even better!
- I shouldn’t.
1086
00:48:03,489 --> 00:48:06,709
Lots to do, and I don’t even
have a date picked out yet.
1087
00:48:06,753 --> 00:48:08,668
No date means no pressure.
1088
00:48:08,711 --> 00:48:11,889
That’s the best way
to try these things on.
1089
00:48:11,932 --> 00:48:13,934
True. And in Roman times,
1090
00:48:13,978 --> 00:48:15,631
the bridesmaids
were actually required
1091
00:48:15,675 --> 00:48:18,939
to wear the same dress
as the bride to pose as decoys
1092
00:48:18,983 --> 00:48:20,810
in case enemy kingdoms
or evil spirits
1093
00:48:20,854 --> 00:48:22,638
tried kidnapping the bride.
1094
00:48:22,682 --> 00:48:24,945
So really it’s tradition.
1095
00:48:24,989 --> 00:48:27,252
Oh, I’m an anthropology
professor.
1096
00:48:27,295 --> 00:48:30,168
Oh, okay. That makes more sense.
1097
00:48:30,211 --> 00:48:31,952
Yes.
1098
00:48:31,996 --> 00:48:34,955
I mean, I guess
I could try one on.
1099
00:48:34,999 --> 00:48:37,131
What’s the harm in that?
1100
00:48:37,175 --> 00:48:40,091
♪♪ [upbeat]
1101
00:49:12,993 --> 00:49:14,734
See, I like this one.
1102
00:49:14,777 --> 00:49:19,260
The neckline and the waist,
it’s exactly what I want.
1103
00:49:19,304 --> 00:49:21,697
You look beautiful.
1104
00:49:21,741 --> 00:49:23,047
Hmm.
1105
00:49:23,090 --> 00:49:25,658
- Trying on dresses already.
- Hi, Mom.
1106
00:49:25,701 --> 00:49:28,704
I was picking up Tracy’s,
and I got a little carried away.
1107
00:49:28,748 --> 00:49:30,097
It fits you perfectly.
1108
00:49:30,141 --> 00:49:31,620
It does, doesn’t it?
1109
00:49:31,664 --> 00:49:33,231
I love it.
1110
00:49:33,274 --> 00:49:34,710
You look beautiful, honey.
1111
00:49:36,103 --> 00:49:37,583
Why don’t we go get
an iced coffee?
1112
00:49:37,626 --> 00:49:38,888
What do you say?
1113
00:49:38,932 --> 00:49:40,629
Sure. I’ll go change.
1114
00:49:48,681 --> 00:49:51,336
Just don’t want you
to rush into this marriage,
1115
00:49:51,379 --> 00:49:52,859
at least until we find out
1116
00:49:52,902 --> 00:49:54,469
where Ben’s job
is gonna take him
1117
00:49:54,513 --> 00:49:56,123
and where that leaves you both.
1118
00:49:56,167 --> 00:49:58,343
Mom, I’m not like everybody else
in this family,
1119
00:49:58,386 --> 00:50:00,084
and I don’t plan things
right away,
1120
00:50:00,127 --> 00:50:02,173
but that doesn’t mean
I don’t know what I want.
1121
00:50:02,216 --> 00:50:05,132
Sweetheart, you’ve only
known Ben for six months.
1122
00:50:05,176 --> 00:50:09,049
Marriage is for life.
It’s okay to take your time.
1123
00:50:09,093 --> 00:50:11,965
Maybe we did jump in
a little quickly,
1124
00:50:12,009 --> 00:50:15,099
and we didn’t think out
every single future decision,
1125
00:50:15,142 --> 00:50:18,319
but I have never been so sure
of anything in my life.
1126
00:50:20,321 --> 00:50:23,020
I just don’t want it
to be like with Dave,
1127
00:50:23,063 --> 00:50:26,110
with you wanting to follow him
without thinking things through.
1128
00:50:26,153 --> 00:50:28,199
I don’t wanna see you get hurt.
1129
00:50:28,242 --> 00:50:31,028
This is a completely
different situation,
1130
00:50:31,071 --> 00:50:33,030
and I’ve grown so much
since then.
1131
00:50:33,073 --> 00:50:34,118
You’re right.
1132
00:50:34,161 --> 00:50:36,120
You have.
1133
00:50:36,163 --> 00:50:39,819
And I am so proud
of the woman you’ve become.
1134
00:50:39,862 --> 00:50:41,995
But you’re still my baby girl,
1135
00:50:42,039 --> 00:50:43,997
and I reserve
the right to worry.
1136
00:50:44,041 --> 00:50:47,131
And you also need to trust
that I can make my own choices,
1137
00:50:47,174 --> 00:50:50,264
like getting engaged,
moving to England.
1138
00:50:50,308 --> 00:50:51,744
Ben is a good guy,
1139
00:50:51,787 --> 00:50:54,094
and I can see how much
you care for each other.
1140
00:50:54,138 --> 00:50:56,575
Just promise me when
you’re making those choices
1141
00:50:56,618 --> 00:50:59,186
that you’ll think about
what’s right for you, too,
1142
00:50:59,230 --> 00:51:02,668
'’cause that's what’s gonna
be best for both of you.
1143
00:51:02,711 --> 00:51:04,844
I promise.
1144
00:51:06,411 --> 00:51:08,108
That dress was gorgeous.
1145
00:51:08,152 --> 00:51:10,154
- Wasn’t it?
- Oh, my God.
1146
00:51:10,197 --> 00:51:11,807
I love it.
1147
00:51:38,530 --> 00:51:40,880
[ringtone]
1148
00:51:44,231 --> 00:51:45,493
Hey, how’s it going?
1149
00:51:45,537 --> 00:51:48,235
TRACY: Not good.
Things are snowballing.
1150
00:51:48,279 --> 00:51:50,716
And Preston just received
some really bad news.
1151
00:51:50,759 --> 00:51:53,414
- Oh, no, what happened?
- His grandmother fell,
1152
00:51:53,458 --> 00:51:54,981
and she’s not gonna be able
to make it to the wedding.
1153
00:51:55,024 --> 00:51:57,288
Oh, my God, that’s horrible.
1154
00:51:57,331 --> 00:52:00,117
I know, and he was so looking
forward to her being there.
1155
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:01,683
When do you guys think
you’ll be here?
1156
00:52:01,727 --> 00:52:03,685
Hopefully soon.
1157
00:52:03,729 --> 00:52:05,600
Look, I know you’re already
doing a million things.
1158
00:52:05,644 --> 00:52:08,168
I haven’t received confirmation
from the florist yet.
1159
00:52:08,212 --> 00:52:09,648
Can you go check on the order?
1160
00:52:09,691 --> 00:52:11,084
Absolutely.
First thing tomorrow.
1161
00:52:11,128 --> 00:52:12,955
Okay, thanks.
You’re a lifesaver.
1162
00:52:12,999 --> 00:52:14,261
Of course. Good luck.
1163
00:52:14,305 --> 00:52:16,176
Thanks. Love you.
1164
00:52:16,220 --> 00:52:18,265
Love you.
Give Preston my love too.
1165
00:52:18,309 --> 00:52:19,353
Bye.
1166
00:52:34,586 --> 00:52:38,111
But my sister placed the order
on the website two weeks ago.
1167
00:52:38,155 --> 00:52:41,201
I am so sorry. I’m not seeing
anything under that name.
1168
00:52:41,245 --> 00:52:42,202
Could it be under Preston?
1169
00:52:42,246 --> 00:52:44,030
We just updated our website.
1170
00:52:44,073 --> 00:52:46,206
It might just be
an unfortunate glitch.
1171
00:52:46,250 --> 00:52:48,643
- What were you looking for?
- We’re doing red rose bouquets.
1172
00:52:48,687 --> 00:52:50,819
Oh, that shouldn’t be a problem.
Let me start a new order.
1173
00:52:53,082 --> 00:52:55,520
Now, when’s the wedding?
1174
00:52:55,563 --> 00:52:56,651
July Fourth.
1175
00:52:56,695 --> 00:52:58,131
This year?
1176
00:52:58,175 --> 00:52:59,437
Yes.
1177
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:00,568
That’s next week.
1178
00:53:00,612 --> 00:53:03,049
Technically, six days.
1179
00:53:03,092 --> 00:53:05,051
I’m not sure we can fill
such a big order
1180
00:53:05,094 --> 00:53:06,574
in such short time.
1181
00:53:06,618 --> 00:53:08,837
That’s why she placed the order
two weeks ago.
1182
00:53:08,881 --> 00:53:11,275
Right. Hmm.
1183
00:53:11,318 --> 00:53:13,625
Let me see what I can do.
1184
00:53:13,668 --> 00:53:14,974
Thank you.
1185
00:53:17,150 --> 00:53:18,369
Of course
Tracy puts me in charge,
1186
00:53:18,412 --> 00:53:20,022
and it’s already falling apart.
1187
00:53:20,066 --> 00:53:22,460
It’s not falling apart.
It’s a minor hiccup.
1188
00:53:22,503 --> 00:53:23,983
I just feel like this wedding
1189
00:53:24,026 --> 00:53:25,202
is getting closer
and closer by the minute.
1190
00:53:25,245 --> 00:53:26,768
I know.
1191
00:53:26,812 --> 00:53:29,728
And so is this decision
you have to make about the job.
1192
00:53:29,771 --> 00:53:31,251
I know.
1193
00:53:31,295 --> 00:53:33,253
- We need to discuss it soon.
- And we will,
1194
00:53:33,297 --> 00:53:35,473
as soon as we finish
all the wedding errands, okay?
1195
00:53:38,084 --> 00:53:40,260
We probably won’t be able
to do all roses.
1196
00:53:40,304 --> 00:53:42,131
Are you okay with other flowers?
1197
00:53:42,175 --> 00:53:44,264
Yeah, we’re going with
red, white, and blue,
1198
00:53:44,308 --> 00:53:45,613
so as long as they’re red.
1199
00:53:45,657 --> 00:53:47,354
We can totally do that.
1200
00:53:47,398 --> 00:53:52,925
Ranunculus, sugarbushes,
dahlias, anthurium, peonies.
1201
00:53:52,968 --> 00:53:54,709
There are so many beautiful
flowers that come in red.
1202
00:53:54,753 --> 00:53:56,276
Great.
1203
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,365
Hey, it may even be better
than plain roses anyway.
1204
00:53:58,409 --> 00:53:59,584
Problem solved.
1205
00:53:59,627 --> 00:54:01,281
One problem solved.
1206
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:16,949
Stephanie, Ben!
1207
00:54:16,992 --> 00:54:18,907
Hi, Frankie!
1208
00:54:18,951 --> 00:54:21,301
Tracy’s cake is looking great.
1209
00:54:21,345 --> 00:54:22,781
Oh, that’s so good to hear.
1210
00:54:22,824 --> 00:54:25,262
Come decorate
some Fourth of July tarts.
1211
00:54:25,305 --> 00:54:27,394
We really shouldn’t.
We still have so much to do.
1212
00:54:27,438 --> 00:54:29,744
I think we can make time.
Plus, they smell amazing.
1213
00:54:31,355 --> 00:54:33,444
Okay, why not?
1214
00:54:37,274 --> 00:54:40,189
Why, uh, why tarts?
1215
00:54:40,233 --> 00:54:43,323
This was the favorite food
of our founding fathers.
1216
00:54:43,367 --> 00:54:45,804
That actually makes sense
because raspberry tarts
1217
00:54:45,847 --> 00:54:48,415
were very popular
in the late 1700s.
1218
00:54:48,459 --> 00:54:50,025
Decorate.
1219
00:54:51,853 --> 00:54:56,336
Oh, you both started
with the same color icing.
1220
00:54:56,380 --> 00:54:58,033
A sign it’s meant to be.
1221
00:55:00,906 --> 00:55:01,994
All right.
1222
00:55:03,212 --> 00:55:05,127
What are you making?
1223
00:55:05,171 --> 00:55:10,742
The original flag with the stars
for the original colonies.
1224
00:55:10,785 --> 00:55:13,310
- I love it.
- What about you?
1225
00:55:13,353 --> 00:55:16,530
Obviously
a very detailed portrait
1226
00:55:16,574 --> 00:55:20,055
of Thomas Jefferson
with spiky hair.
1227
00:55:31,850 --> 00:55:35,375
STEPHANIE: So the chairs
will be in rows over here.
1228
00:55:35,419 --> 00:55:37,159
And where’s the band gonna go?
1229
00:55:37,203 --> 00:55:39,466
Well, there’s no band,
but the DJ will be over here.
1230
00:55:39,510 --> 00:55:41,512
- Ah.
- Oh, hi!
1231
00:55:41,555 --> 00:55:44,602
You guys can put those on the
side of the house for storage.
1232
00:55:44,645 --> 00:55:46,908
Thank you.
1233
00:55:46,952 --> 00:55:49,389
It’s coming along great.
I’m very proud of you.
1234
00:55:49,433 --> 00:55:51,870
For being able to direct
people where to store chairs?
1235
00:55:51,913 --> 00:55:54,568
No, no, because, uh...
1236
00:55:54,612 --> 00:55:56,440
well, for helping your sister
plan this wedding,
1237
00:55:56,483 --> 00:55:57,832
for, uh,
1238
00:55:57,876 --> 00:56:00,879
for being on track for tenure.
1239
00:56:00,922 --> 00:56:03,751
For just being
an amazing daughter.
1240
00:56:03,795 --> 00:56:05,144
Thanks, Dad.
1241
00:56:05,187 --> 00:56:07,146
You deserve the best.
1242
00:56:07,189 --> 00:56:08,321
Always.
1243
00:56:08,365 --> 00:56:10,802
Are you talking about Ben?
1244
00:56:13,544 --> 00:56:14,849
[sighs]
1245
00:56:18,592 --> 00:56:19,854
Look, Stephanie,
1246
00:56:19,898 --> 00:56:21,900
the first date
I ever took your mom on
1247
00:56:21,943 --> 00:56:23,902
was to grab a cheeseburger
at a diner
1248
00:56:23,945 --> 00:56:25,947
when we were just teenagers.
1249
00:56:25,991 --> 00:56:28,297
Oh, I was worried
it wasn’t nice enough,
1250
00:56:28,341 --> 00:56:32,476
not good enough for someone
as special as she was,
1251
00:56:32,519 --> 00:56:35,740
but it was all I could afford.
1252
00:56:35,783 --> 00:56:38,438
Your mom didn’t care at all.
She loved it.
1253
00:56:40,309 --> 00:56:43,356
Anyway, we spent that whole date
1254
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,489
talking plans for our future,
1255
00:56:45,532 --> 00:56:49,318
dreaming about things
we wanted out of life,
1256
00:56:49,362 --> 00:56:50,842
and we quickly discovered
1257
00:56:50,885 --> 00:56:54,149
we pretty much wanted
the same things.
1258
00:56:55,934 --> 00:56:59,154
I left knowing I’d marry her.
1259
00:56:59,198 --> 00:57:04,116
Years later,
after I’d become a doctor,
1260
00:57:04,159 --> 00:57:06,161
I took her to this
very fancy restaurant
1261
00:57:06,205 --> 00:57:08,468
for our 15th anniversary.
1262
00:57:08,512 --> 00:57:10,992
She looked at the menu
and was sad.
1263
00:57:11,036 --> 00:57:13,125
There were
no cheeseburgers on it.
1264
00:57:14,518 --> 00:57:16,128
She asked if we could leave
1265
00:57:16,171 --> 00:57:19,131
and go back to the diner
where we had our first date.
1266
00:57:19,174 --> 00:57:21,133
I asked her why.
1267
00:57:21,176 --> 00:57:23,918
She told me the cheeseburger
reminded her
1268
00:57:23,962 --> 00:57:27,052
that we had, in fact,
made our lives
1269
00:57:27,095 --> 00:57:31,099
what we wanted together.
1270
00:57:32,492 --> 00:57:34,842
I like that.
1271
00:57:34,886 --> 00:57:36,322
If you love someone
1272
00:57:36,365 --> 00:57:37,584
you wanna spend the rest
of your life with,
1273
00:57:37,628 --> 00:57:40,152
the only thing that matters
1274
00:57:40,195 --> 00:57:43,198
is that you have the same
vision for the future.
1275
00:57:43,242 --> 00:57:46,201
Well, why on earth did you
wait so long to marry her
1276
00:57:46,245 --> 00:57:48,247
after that first date?
1277
00:57:48,290 --> 00:57:51,163
Seems like you could've
eloped that night.
1278
00:57:52,556 --> 00:57:54,209
Stephanie...
1279
00:57:54,253 --> 00:57:57,735
that is not at all the point
I was trying to make.
1280
00:57:57,778 --> 00:57:59,737
I know.
1281
00:57:59,780 --> 00:58:02,566
My point is that you knew
1282
00:58:02,609 --> 00:58:06,439
Mom was the woman for you
right away,
1283
00:58:06,483 --> 00:58:10,095
and I know that Ben
is the man for me.
1284
00:58:11,575 --> 00:58:14,578
He’s so kind and thoughtful.
1285
00:58:16,101 --> 00:58:17,842
We laugh every day,
1286
00:58:17,885 --> 00:58:22,107
and he cheers me on
in every part of my life.
1287
00:58:22,150 --> 00:58:24,588
So you may think
that this is fast,
1288
00:58:24,631 --> 00:58:30,115
but in 10 years
or 20 or 30, whatever,
1289
00:58:31,856 --> 00:58:35,250
he’s the one I wanna have
the cheeseburger with.
1290
00:58:38,993 --> 00:58:41,909
Well, everything seems
to be coming in on time,
1291
00:58:41,953 --> 00:58:43,563
which is a good sign.
1292
00:58:43,607 --> 00:58:46,566
Just talked to Tracy,
and they are wrapping things up.
1293
00:58:46,610 --> 00:58:49,656
They’ll be home tomorrow,
so we are on track.
1294
00:58:49,700 --> 00:58:52,050
I know she’s so grateful to you
for taking over.
1295
00:58:52,093 --> 00:58:55,183
Well, I know she’d do the same
if the tables were reversed.
1296
00:58:55,227 --> 00:58:57,534
[ringtone]
1297
00:58:58,622 --> 00:58:59,927
Hello?
1298
00:59:02,495 --> 00:59:03,975
Oh, my gosh.
1299
00:59:04,018 --> 00:59:05,890
Tell her congratulations.
1300
00:59:07,108 --> 00:59:08,675
No, I totally understand.
1301
00:59:08,719 --> 00:59:10,547
Thanks for letting me know.
1302
00:59:12,374 --> 00:59:14,333
The photographer
can’t make it anymore.
1303
00:59:14,376 --> 00:59:15,769
- Oh, no.
- BEN: What happened?
1304
00:59:15,813 --> 00:59:16,901
She had a baby.
1305
00:59:16,944 --> 00:59:18,076
What?
1306
00:59:19,643 --> 00:59:21,035
Okay, um...
1307
00:59:21,079 --> 00:59:23,429
- We’ll find another one.
- Four days out?
1308
00:59:23,472 --> 00:59:25,170
Do you know how hard it was
to book her?
1309
00:59:25,213 --> 00:59:27,215
If anybody can do it, you can.
1310
00:59:27,259 --> 00:59:29,130
I’m sure they're out there.
1311
00:59:29,174 --> 00:59:31,089
Okay, I’ll help you look.
1312
00:59:33,047 --> 00:59:35,659
Yeah, this July Fourth.
1313
00:59:35,702 --> 00:59:38,139
Yes, as in four days from now.
1314
00:59:39,750 --> 00:59:42,056
Hello?
1315
00:59:42,100 --> 00:59:44,972
Yeah, so it’d just be
for the basic package.
1316
00:59:45,016 --> 00:59:48,323
Great. The wedding
is this Tuesday.
1317
00:59:49,977 --> 00:59:51,979
Oh, you’re already booked.
1318
00:59:53,372 --> 00:59:54,939
Okay, thank you.
1319
00:59:58,682 --> 00:59:59,683
Hey, have you tried this guy?
1320
00:59:59,726 --> 01:00:01,598
Renaldo Salks.
1321
01:00:01,641 --> 01:00:03,817
Says he’s the best wedding
photographer in Palm Springs.
1322
01:00:03,861 --> 01:00:05,166
Oh, yeah, I tried him
a couple weeks ago
1323
01:00:05,210 --> 01:00:06,994
before we booked this other one,
1324
01:00:07,038 --> 01:00:09,606
but his messages were full,
and I couldn’t get through.
1325
01:00:09,649 --> 01:00:11,477
Well, his social media says
1326
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,479
he’s working
an engagement party tomorrow
1327
01:00:13,522 --> 01:00:14,959
at the country club.
1328
01:00:15,002 --> 01:00:17,483
It’s too bad
we can’t go ask him.
1329
01:00:17,526 --> 01:00:18,876
Why can’t we?
1330
01:00:18,919 --> 01:00:21,618
Uh, because we’re not invited.
1331
01:00:27,188 --> 01:00:31,715
♪♪
1332
01:00:37,416 --> 01:00:38,852
Just act like
you’ve been invited
1333
01:00:38,896 --> 01:00:40,637
and nobody knows the difference.
1334
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,464
Why do I feel like
you’ve crashed a party before?
1335
01:00:42,508 --> 01:00:43,727
It was a long time ago,
1336
01:00:43,770 --> 01:00:45,293
and I was writing
a dissertation.
1337
01:00:45,337 --> 01:00:47,121
Okay.
1338
01:00:47,165 --> 01:00:48,993
Relax your shoulders a bit.
1339
01:00:49,036 --> 01:00:50,951
Oh, there he is.
1340
01:00:50,995 --> 01:00:52,213
Can I get you to...
Yeah, beautiful.
1341
01:00:52,257 --> 01:00:53,650
Smile a little bit. Yeah!
1342
01:00:53,693 --> 01:00:56,348
Okay, so what’s the plan?
1343
01:00:56,391 --> 01:00:57,828
We’re just gonna wing it.
1344
01:00:57,871 --> 01:00:59,394
He’s gonna work his way
through the guests,
1345
01:00:59,438 --> 01:01:01,092
and then we wait for
our chance to talk to him.
1346
01:01:01,135 --> 01:01:02,963
Okay, and what do we do
till then?
1347
01:01:03,007 --> 01:01:05,444
Enjoy a party
we didn’t have to plan.
1348
01:01:05,487 --> 01:01:06,924
I like that.
1349
01:01:10,754 --> 01:01:12,320
You’re right.
1350
01:01:12,364 --> 01:01:14,496
When you act like you belong,
no one even notices.
1351
01:01:14,540 --> 01:01:16,107
It’s a bizarre human trait.
1352
01:01:17,325 --> 01:01:18,283
Listen, about the job...
1353
01:01:18,326 --> 01:01:20,459
Before you say anything,
1354
01:01:20,502 --> 01:01:22,461
I’ve been thinking about it,
1355
01:01:22,504 --> 01:01:24,332
and I want you to take it.
1356
01:01:24,376 --> 01:01:25,769
What about you?
1357
01:01:25,812 --> 01:01:29,337
Lovely couple.
May I take your picture?
1358
01:01:29,381 --> 01:01:31,035
- You may.
- Yes...
1359
01:01:31,078 --> 01:01:33,080
if we can ask you a question.
1360
01:01:33,124 --> 01:01:34,821
I don’t use filters,
if that’s your question.
1361
01:01:34,865 --> 01:01:36,867
No, that’s not it.
Are you available
1362
01:01:36,910 --> 01:01:41,088
to shoot a wedding
on the Fourth of July?
1363
01:01:41,132 --> 01:01:43,482
This Fourth of July,
as in a few days from now?
1364
01:01:43,525 --> 01:01:47,399
Yes, here in Palm Springs
at our vacation home.
1365
01:01:47,442 --> 01:01:49,749
Are you friends
of John or Ellie?
1366
01:01:49,793 --> 01:01:51,011
Um...
1367
01:01:51,055 --> 01:01:52,230
Neither.
1368
01:01:52,273 --> 01:01:53,884
I don’t understand.
1369
01:01:53,927 --> 01:01:56,364
Well, we weren’t able
to get in touch with you,
1370
01:01:56,408 --> 01:01:58,453
and we knew you’d be here.
1371
01:01:58,497 --> 01:02:00,673
I think this is the first time
1372
01:02:00,717 --> 01:02:02,675
I’ve been stalked
for my services.
1373
01:02:02,719 --> 01:02:04,068
Flattered?
1374
01:02:04,111 --> 01:02:05,678
A little scared.
1375
01:02:05,722 --> 01:02:07,288
It’s for my sister.
1376
01:02:07,332 --> 01:02:08,986
Our photographer had a baby
and can’t make it,
1377
01:02:09,029 --> 01:02:10,509
and we are desperate.
1378
01:02:12,119 --> 01:02:14,382
Normally I’d say no
because this is weird,
1379
01:02:14,426 --> 01:02:15,949
but since you’ve gone
to all this trouble
1380
01:02:15,993 --> 01:02:17,734
of tracking me down,
1381
01:02:17,777 --> 01:02:19,736
and you’ve been at this party
for half an hour
1382
01:02:19,779 --> 01:02:22,173
without being noticed,
1383
01:02:22,216 --> 01:02:23,435
I guess okay.
1384
01:02:23,478 --> 01:02:24,653
- Yes!
- Thank you so much!
1385
01:02:24,697 --> 01:02:25,698
Thank you.
1386
01:02:25,742 --> 01:02:27,178
You’re welcome.
1387
01:02:27,221 --> 01:02:29,484
Better not take any
photos of you at this.
1388
01:02:29,528 --> 01:02:31,269
Yeah, it’s probably best
you don’t.
1389
01:02:31,312 --> 01:02:33,488
People are starting to stare,
so we should probably head out.
1390
01:02:34,925 --> 01:02:36,100
Thank you again.
1391
01:02:36,143 --> 01:02:37,405
You’re welcome.
1392
01:02:37,449 --> 01:02:39,190
Thank you.
1393
01:02:39,233 --> 01:02:40,757
May I take your photo?
1394
01:02:53,291 --> 01:02:54,335
- You’re back!
- Oh, hey.
1395
01:02:54,379 --> 01:02:55,728
Yes, finally.
1396
01:02:55,772 --> 01:02:57,599
Every time we were
close to finishing,
1397
01:02:57,643 --> 01:02:59,079
something else came up.
1398
01:02:59,123 --> 01:03:00,515
TRACY: Where were you guys?
1399
01:03:00,559 --> 01:03:03,170
Oh, you know,
just getting Renaldo Salks
1400
01:03:03,214 --> 01:03:04,606
to photograph your wedding.
1401
01:03:04,650 --> 01:03:06,826
- No way.
- That’s great.
1402
01:03:06,870 --> 01:03:08,741
TRACY: But what about
the other photographer?
1403
01:03:08,785 --> 01:03:10,961
She had a baby,
but the important thing
1404
01:03:11,004 --> 01:03:13,354
is that we are on track with
everything for the wedding.
1405
01:03:13,398 --> 01:03:15,008
I know. It’s so incredible.
1406
01:03:15,052 --> 01:03:16,270
Oh, you’re the best.
1407
01:03:31,155 --> 01:03:34,158
See, now you wanna keep
your shoulders, waist, and knees
1408
01:03:34,201 --> 01:03:35,724
all parallel to the ground
1409
01:03:35,768 --> 01:03:37,117
so that when you swing,
1410
01:03:37,161 --> 01:03:40,207
you get the full momentum
of the twist.
1411
01:03:40,251 --> 01:03:41,730
- Okay.
- Okay?
1412
01:03:41,774 --> 01:03:42,731
Okay.
1413
01:03:53,438 --> 01:03:55,657
Better, nice.
1414
01:03:55,701 --> 01:03:57,007
Now just make sure
1415
01:03:57,050 --> 01:03:58,878
that you curve that club
around your body.
1416
01:03:58,922 --> 01:04:00,401
You don’t hit the club straight
1417
01:04:00,445 --> 01:04:02,012
in order to make the ball
go straight.
1418
01:04:02,055 --> 01:04:04,057
- Okay.
- All right.
1419
01:04:04,101 --> 01:04:05,537
Hey, I appreciate your help.
1420
01:04:05,580 --> 01:04:07,756
If Robert actually ever
invites me back out,
1421
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,323
I wanna show off
my golfing skills
1422
01:04:09,367 --> 01:04:12,196
and not my ability
to chuck a club into the lake.
1423
01:04:12,239 --> 01:04:16,243
Of course. Besides, it helps
keep my mind off things, so...
1424
01:04:16,287 --> 01:04:17,375
The wedding?
1425
01:04:17,418 --> 01:04:19,638
Yeah.
1426
01:04:19,681 --> 01:04:21,031
Is everything okay?
1427
01:04:21,074 --> 01:04:23,337
No, not exactly.
1428
01:04:23,381 --> 01:04:24,904
Cold feet?
1429
01:04:24,948 --> 01:04:26,427
No, no, it’s nothing like that.
1430
01:04:26,471 --> 01:04:28,342
I can’t wait to marry Tracy,
1431
01:04:28,386 --> 01:04:31,084
but once I found out that
my grandma couldn’t make it,
1432
01:04:31,128 --> 01:04:33,086
along with pretty much
half of my family,
1433
01:04:33,130 --> 01:04:36,002
I started to wonder if we should
have the wedding now at all.
1434
01:04:36,046 --> 01:04:39,614
I wanna share the most
important day of my life
1435
01:04:39,658 --> 01:04:41,007
with the ones that I love,
1436
01:04:41,051 --> 01:04:43,880
and I know that
Tracy has her heart set
1437
01:04:43,923 --> 01:04:47,535
on having this wedding here
at the vacation house and...
1438
01:04:49,059 --> 01:04:50,669
I’m sorry.
1439
01:04:50,712 --> 01:04:52,105
I didn’t mean
to dump this all on you.
1440
01:04:52,149 --> 01:04:53,541
I just don’t know what to do.
1441
01:04:53,585 --> 01:04:54,760
Look, it’s fine.
1442
01:04:54,803 --> 01:04:56,501
I get it.
1443
01:04:56,544 --> 01:04:59,591
I’d say your best bet
is just go talk to Tracy.
1444
01:04:59,634 --> 01:05:01,158
Tell her how you’re feeling.
1445
01:05:01,201 --> 01:05:03,377
But she is so excited
about this wedding.
1446
01:05:03,421 --> 01:05:05,292
I can’t ask her not to have it.
1447
01:05:05,336 --> 01:05:07,120
Look, you love
each other, right?
1448
01:05:07,164 --> 01:05:09,688
Then she’ll understand
how important it is.
1449
01:05:13,039 --> 01:05:14,432
What?
1450
01:05:14,475 --> 01:05:16,521
Just realizing I should
be taking my own advice.
1451
01:05:16,564 --> 01:05:18,566
I have to give an answer
on the job tomorrow,
1452
01:05:18,610 --> 01:05:22,962
and Stephanie and I
have a lot to talk about.
1453
01:05:25,356 --> 01:05:28,446
I’m just not sure what jewelry
to wear with the dress.
1454
01:05:28,489 --> 01:05:29,577
You should do an earring.
1455
01:05:29,621 --> 01:05:30,883
[doorbell rings]
1456
01:05:30,927 --> 01:05:32,102
Dad, can you get that?
1457
01:05:32,145 --> 01:05:34,147
You guys expecting
more deliveries?
1458
01:05:34,191 --> 01:05:35,583
Not until tomorrow.
1459
01:05:37,411 --> 01:05:38,456
Hi.
1460
01:05:38,499 --> 01:05:40,545
Oh, thank you, thank you.
1461
01:05:42,460 --> 01:05:43,722
Has my name on it.
1462
01:05:43,765 --> 01:05:45,767
Did you order something?
1463
01:05:45,811 --> 01:05:46,812
Nope.
1464
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:56,039
- Can’t be.
- What is it?
1465
01:05:57,779 --> 01:06:00,391
It’s the idler arm I need
for my Thunderbird.
1466
01:06:00,434 --> 01:06:02,175
Who sent it to you?
1467
01:06:04,177 --> 01:06:05,396
There’s a note.
1468
01:06:08,094 --> 01:06:10,357
"Robert, Ben told me
you could use one of these.
1469
01:06:10,401 --> 01:06:11,619
Enjoy.
1470
01:06:11,663 --> 01:06:13,273
Thomas Larson."
1471
01:06:13,317 --> 01:06:15,101
That’s Ben's dad.
1472
01:06:15,145 --> 01:06:16,929
Ben did this.
1473
01:06:16,973 --> 01:06:18,322
Told you he was thoughtful.
1474
01:06:19,801 --> 01:06:21,847
I can’t believe
he did this for me.
1475
01:06:30,073 --> 01:06:31,857
This looks beautiful.
1476
01:06:34,816 --> 01:06:36,166
Thank you.
1477
01:06:40,605 --> 01:06:41,780
Thank you.
1478
01:06:44,087 --> 01:06:45,523
I can’t believe that
guessing the right number
1479
01:06:45,566 --> 01:06:47,829
of jelly beans in a jar
got us a dinner here.
1480
01:06:47,873 --> 01:06:49,570
I’m glad it did.
1481
01:06:49,614 --> 01:06:54,358
It gives us a chance to take
a step back from work and from...
1482
01:06:54,401 --> 01:06:55,663
From wedding planning.
1483
01:06:57,448 --> 01:06:59,537
Tracy...
1484
01:06:59,580 --> 01:07:02,322
I wanna talk to you
about the wedding.
1485
01:07:06,196 --> 01:07:07,893
Give it a try.
1486
01:07:07,936 --> 01:07:09,373
Oh, you bet your life.
1487
01:07:09,416 --> 01:07:11,592
[engine starts, revs]
1488
01:07:11,636 --> 01:07:13,594
- [engine idling]
- That sounds good.
1489
01:07:13,638 --> 01:07:15,335
Thanks to you.
1490
01:07:15,379 --> 01:07:17,120
I’m gonna take it for a spin.
You wanna come along?
1491
01:07:17,163 --> 01:07:19,992
Stephanie and I have some
stuff to do, but maybe later.
1492
01:07:20,036 --> 01:07:21,994
All right, later it is.
1493
01:07:22,038 --> 01:07:23,996
[laughing]
1494
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:25,867
Enjoy! Bye-bye.
1495
01:07:29,045 --> 01:07:31,177
You know you just validated
his obsession, right?
1496
01:07:31,221 --> 01:07:32,613
Oh, you mean his hobby.
1497
01:07:32,657 --> 01:07:34,050
Same thing.
1498
01:07:36,052 --> 01:07:38,358
Look, I have to tell Quincy
an answer tomorrow,
1499
01:07:38,402 --> 01:07:41,100
so we should probably
talk about it.
1500
01:07:41,144 --> 01:07:42,623
I’ll go to England with you.
1501
01:07:46,192 --> 01:07:47,759
I was gonna tell you
I’m not gonna take the job,
1502
01:07:47,802 --> 01:07:50,153
but you would move to England?
1503
01:07:50,196 --> 01:07:51,458
You don’t wanna take the job?
1504
01:07:51,502 --> 01:07:53,156
No, I do.
1505
01:07:53,199 --> 01:07:55,201
To work with Quincy would be
a highlight of my career,
1506
01:07:55,245 --> 01:07:57,943
but without you,
then it doesn’t mean anything.
1507
01:07:59,553 --> 01:08:01,816
You would really move?
1508
01:08:01,860 --> 01:08:02,991
I would for you.
1509
01:08:05,342 --> 01:08:07,257
I can’t ask you to do that.
1510
01:08:09,128 --> 01:08:11,043
I know how hard
you’ve worked for everything,
1511
01:08:11,087 --> 01:08:13,437
and I couldn’t live with myself
1512
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:15,308
if I knew I made you
give it all up.
1513
01:08:17,528 --> 01:08:19,704
Maybe if we’d been together
for a couple years
1514
01:08:19,747 --> 01:08:23,099
and were actually on the same
page about what we wanted,
1515
01:08:23,142 --> 01:08:26,145
but we haven’t even
talked about this.
1516
01:08:26,189 --> 01:08:29,148
And we don’t actually know if we
want the same amount of kids.
1517
01:08:34,197 --> 01:08:36,112
Maybe we did rush into this.
1518
01:08:40,377 --> 01:08:41,334
So what now?
1519
01:08:43,728 --> 01:08:45,643
You take the job,
and I stay here.
1520
01:08:47,819 --> 01:08:48,776
And us?
1521
01:08:50,256 --> 01:08:53,129
Put a pin in it, take a break.
1522
01:08:53,172 --> 01:08:54,478
You could really do that?
1523
01:08:57,524 --> 01:08:59,700
If it meant
you following your dreams.
1524
01:09:01,572 --> 01:09:03,226
And you following yours.
1525
01:09:43,396 --> 01:09:45,398
Glad I caught you
before you left.
1526
01:09:45,442 --> 01:09:47,748
Mr. Bishop,
what are you doing here?
1527
01:09:47,792 --> 01:09:51,012
Thought I’d take
another drive in the T-Bird,
1528
01:09:51,056 --> 01:09:52,231
brought me here.
1529
01:09:52,275 --> 01:09:54,277
Which brings me
to my next point.
1530
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:56,366
What are you doing here?
1531
01:09:56,409 --> 01:09:58,194
Stephanie thought
this was for the best.
1532
01:10:00,979 --> 01:10:02,546
When Stephanie
was a little girl,
1533
01:10:02,589 --> 01:10:04,243
she dug a hole in the wall
1534
01:10:04,287 --> 01:10:06,593
and thought the fiberglass
insulation was cotton candy
1535
01:10:06,637 --> 01:10:08,595
and that it led
to a magical land,
1536
01:10:08,639 --> 01:10:10,815
so no, Stephanie doesn’t
always know what’s best.
1537
01:10:12,643 --> 01:10:15,646
She thought I’d be happy
taking my dream job,
1538
01:10:15,689 --> 01:10:19,345
but Stephanie doesn’t
realize that I can’t be happy
1539
01:10:19,389 --> 01:10:20,738
without her in my life.
1540
01:10:23,088 --> 01:10:26,265
Then I think there’s something
you’ve been meaning to ask me.
1541
01:10:27,658 --> 01:10:29,877
My blessing
to marry my daughter.
1542
01:10:29,921 --> 01:10:33,620
I didn’t think you liked me,
Mr. Bishop.
1543
01:10:33,664 --> 01:10:35,448
Isn’t about time
you called me Robert?
1544
01:10:37,581 --> 01:10:39,278
Look, I admit I...
1545
01:10:41,106 --> 01:10:43,282
I didn’t get you at first.
1546
01:10:43,326 --> 01:10:45,284
But now I see how thoughtful
you are about my daughter,
1547
01:10:45,328 --> 01:10:47,895
how you put her needs
before your own,
1548
01:10:47,939 --> 01:10:51,986
how you went above and beyond
to get me a little car part.
1549
01:10:52,030 --> 01:10:54,380
Bottom line, I’ve never seen
Stephanie smile more
1550
01:10:54,424 --> 01:10:55,860
than when she’s with you.
1551
01:10:55,903 --> 01:10:58,166
And I wish we could be together.
1552
01:11:00,908 --> 01:11:03,433
Sometimes when I’m working
on the car,
1553
01:11:03,476 --> 01:11:06,044
and it’s just not doing
what I want it to,
1554
01:11:06,087 --> 01:11:08,786
I stop, I breathe,
1555
01:11:08,829 --> 01:11:12,485
I look at it
from a different angle,
1556
01:11:12,529 --> 01:11:14,618
try to see my other options.
1557
01:11:14,661 --> 01:11:17,664
There’s always another way
to go about things.
1558
01:11:22,365 --> 01:11:24,845
Parked in a loading zone.
I’d better get going.
1559
01:11:27,544 --> 01:11:29,067
So anyway, you have it.
1560
01:11:29,110 --> 01:11:30,895
Have what?
1561
01:11:30,938 --> 01:11:32,984
My blessing.
1562
01:11:33,027 --> 01:11:35,378
For whenever you need it.
1563
01:11:38,511 --> 01:11:40,818
Thank you, Robert.
1564
01:11:46,737 --> 01:11:48,739
- [car door closes]
- BUS DRIVER: All aboard.
1565
01:11:51,481 --> 01:11:53,309
[engine starts]
1566
01:11:56,834 --> 01:11:58,314
ROBERT: Take care.
1567
01:12:17,115 --> 01:12:18,377
You’re up early.
1568
01:12:18,421 --> 01:12:21,249
Couldn’t sleep.
1569
01:12:21,293 --> 01:12:23,164
There’s something
that I have to tell you.
1570
01:12:23,208 --> 01:12:25,732
- Me too.
- Do you wanna go first?
1571
01:12:25,776 --> 01:12:27,343
No, you go.
1572
01:12:29,301 --> 01:12:30,998
Preston and I
are calling off the wedding.
1573
01:12:31,042 --> 01:12:32,391
What?
1574
01:12:32,435 --> 01:12:33,653
Preston doesn’t wanna
get married
1575
01:12:33,697 --> 01:12:35,089
unless all of his family
can be there,
1576
01:12:35,133 --> 01:12:37,048
especially his grandmother.
1577
01:12:37,091 --> 01:12:38,397
And I agree.
1578
01:12:38,441 --> 01:12:40,051
I was just on such a whirlwind
1579
01:12:40,094 --> 01:12:42,706
with getting the wedding
ready in time.
1580
01:12:42,749 --> 01:12:46,405
I never realized how he was
feeling till last night.
1581
01:12:46,449 --> 01:12:47,798
I get it.
1582
01:12:47,841 --> 01:12:49,408
It’d be really hard
to get married
1583
01:12:49,452 --> 01:12:51,149
without all the people
that you love most there.
1584
01:12:51,192 --> 01:12:54,848
Thank you for being
so understanding.
1585
01:12:54,892 --> 01:12:57,808
I know you’ve worked so hard
on this wedding,
1586
01:12:57,851 --> 01:13:00,376
and I was terrified
to tell you that it’s off.
1587
01:13:01,942 --> 01:13:04,554
I have to follow my heart.
1588
01:13:04,597 --> 01:13:06,251
Where’s Ben?
1589
01:13:06,294 --> 01:13:08,645
At the bus station.
1590
01:13:08,688 --> 01:13:10,560
Why? What happened?
1591
01:13:10,603 --> 01:13:14,564
I told him to take the job
and to put a pin in us.
1592
01:13:14,607 --> 01:13:18,568
Stephanie, you and I both know
you’re supposed to be with Ben.
1593
01:13:18,611 --> 01:13:20,134
- Go after him.
- I can’t.
1594
01:13:20,178 --> 01:13:22,441
I have to let him
go after what he wants.
1595
01:13:22,485 --> 01:13:23,573
Do you love him?
1596
01:13:24,704 --> 01:13:26,140
With all my heart.
1597
01:13:26,184 --> 01:13:28,012
I’ve seen the way
that he talks about you,
1598
01:13:28,055 --> 01:13:29,709
the way he looks at you.
1599
01:13:29,753 --> 01:13:31,494
You think some job
is more important
1600
01:13:31,537 --> 01:13:34,018
than what the two of you have?
1601
01:13:34,061 --> 01:13:36,673
It just all happened too fast.
1602
01:13:36,716 --> 01:13:38,675
I didn’t even know
his favorite color
1603
01:13:38,718 --> 01:13:40,067
until a couple weeks ago.
1604
01:13:40,111 --> 01:13:41,460
Who cares about that?
1605
01:13:41,504 --> 01:13:44,985
That’s not important,
and you know it.
1606
01:13:45,029 --> 01:13:48,032
I can’t give up what I've
been working for for some guy.
1607
01:13:48,075 --> 01:13:50,469
I didn’t do it with Dave,
and I’m not gonna do it now.
1608
01:13:50,513 --> 01:13:55,431
Ben is not some guy,
and he is definitely not Dave.
1609
01:13:57,215 --> 01:13:59,043
You need to ask yourself
1610
01:13:59,086 --> 01:14:02,350
what is best for you and Ben
as a couple.
1611
01:14:04,004 --> 01:14:07,225
You need to be honest
with each other.
1612
01:14:07,268 --> 01:14:08,356
I wanna be.
1613
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:10,358
Well?
1614
01:14:10,402 --> 01:14:12,317
What is your heart telling you?
1615
01:14:29,987 --> 01:14:32,206
He wasn’t at the bus stop.
1616
01:14:32,250 --> 01:14:33,904
I missed him.
1617
01:14:33,947 --> 01:14:35,514
Maybe check outside?
1618
01:14:36,602 --> 01:14:37,560
Why?
1619
01:14:37,603 --> 01:14:39,823
Trust me.
1620
01:14:54,228 --> 01:14:55,447
Hello, beautiful.
1621
01:14:55,491 --> 01:14:57,014
Hi.
1622
01:14:57,057 --> 01:14:59,364
So I just got off the phone
with Quincy,
1623
01:14:59,407 --> 01:15:04,935
and I told him that
I’m not taking the position.
1624
01:15:04,978 --> 01:15:07,546
But I did pitch him a new one.
1625
01:15:07,590 --> 01:15:10,810
One where I can stay in LA,
do my research,
1626
01:15:10,854 --> 01:15:13,073
and for once a year
for a couple of weeks,
1627
01:15:13,117 --> 01:15:15,989
I go to Oxford,
and I teach my findings.
1628
01:15:16,033 --> 01:15:18,644
And I thought for those
couple weeks, maybe...
1629
01:15:18,688 --> 01:15:20,254
that you’d come with me,
1630
01:15:20,298 --> 01:15:22,822
as long as I schedule it
over the summer.
1631
01:15:22,866 --> 01:15:26,173
I like this plan.
What'd he say?
1632
01:15:26,217 --> 01:15:28,654
He said he thought
it would work.
1633
01:15:30,090 --> 01:15:32,832
And as far as kids go,
1634
01:15:32,876 --> 01:15:34,442
we’ll figure it out.
1635
01:15:34,486 --> 01:15:36,967
Maybe I’ll want six kids.
1636
01:15:37,010 --> 01:15:41,188
Maybe I could just do four
with like two dogs.
1637
01:15:41,232 --> 01:15:44,322
I don’t care how long
we’ve known each other
1638
01:15:44,365 --> 01:15:46,193
or that we don’t know
every single thing
1639
01:15:46,237 --> 01:15:47,630
about each other yet
1640
01:15:47,673 --> 01:15:50,937
because, Stephanie,
what we have is real,
1641
01:15:50,981 --> 01:15:54,419
and it’s lasting.
1642
01:15:54,462 --> 01:15:56,595
I’m here for you,
1643
01:15:56,639 --> 01:16:00,077
and I wanna be here for you
for the rest of my life
1644
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,035
'’cause my only dream is you.
1645
01:16:06,213 --> 01:16:08,172
So I’m gonna ask you
a familiar question
1646
01:16:08,215 --> 01:16:10,957
that’s all about what you want,
1647
01:16:11,001 --> 01:16:15,440
not what you think is right or
what you think is best for me.
1648
01:16:15,483 --> 01:16:17,616
Do you think you could
answer it honestly?
1649
01:16:17,660 --> 01:16:19,183
Mm-hmm.
1650
01:16:23,056 --> 01:16:26,277
Stephanie, will you
still marry me?
1651
01:16:26,320 --> 01:16:27,713
With all my heart.
1652
01:16:41,118 --> 01:16:42,598
What is this?
1653
01:16:42,641 --> 01:16:44,643
Stephanie,
I wanna give this to you.
1654
01:16:44,687 --> 01:16:46,210
Mom bought it for you.
1655
01:16:47,428 --> 01:16:49,605
With it comes a wedding.
1656
01:16:49,648 --> 01:16:53,217
A perfect Fourth of July
dream wedding.
1657
01:16:53,260 --> 01:16:54,697
Are you sure?
1658
01:16:55,828 --> 01:16:56,873
It’s your wedding.
1659
01:16:56,916 --> 01:16:58,004
It always really was.
1660
01:17:00,746 --> 01:17:02,313
Well, I guess I’m gonna
have to get my parents
1661
01:17:02,356 --> 01:17:03,444
on the next flight out.
1662
01:17:03,488 --> 01:17:04,881
- [laughing]
- Yeah!
1663
01:17:04,924 --> 01:17:07,492
[clapping]
1664
01:17:07,535 --> 01:17:11,365
♪♪ ["Wedding March"]
1665
01:17:42,919 --> 01:17:44,268
Hey.
1666
01:17:44,311 --> 01:17:45,573
Good luck.
1667
01:17:48,489 --> 01:17:49,665
Thank you, sir.
1668
01:17:56,715 --> 01:17:58,978
You may now all be seated.
1669
01:18:02,590 --> 01:18:04,723
Ben...
1670
01:18:04,767 --> 01:18:07,508
you are my everything.
1671
01:18:07,552 --> 01:18:11,512
I am so lucky that I found you,
1672
01:18:11,556 --> 01:18:14,124
and there’s no one else
I’d rather grow old with.
1673
01:18:15,995 --> 01:18:18,389
I know what I want.
1674
01:18:18,432 --> 01:18:19,433
It’s you.
1675
01:18:20,957 --> 01:18:21,958
Now and forever.
1676
01:18:29,705 --> 01:18:31,924
Stephanie...
1677
01:18:31,968 --> 01:18:34,535
no matter what roadblocks
come our way,
1678
01:18:34,579 --> 01:18:38,844
I will always support
and love you.
1679
01:18:38,888 --> 01:18:42,108
You are the most amazing
woman that I ever met.
1680
01:18:42,152 --> 01:18:44,502
I’m so lucky that I found you.
1681
01:18:46,852 --> 01:18:48,114
Thank you.
1682
01:18:50,247 --> 01:18:53,032
Do you, Stephanie, take Ben to
be your lawfully wedded husband?
1683
01:18:53,076 --> 01:18:54,773
I do.
1684
01:18:54,817 --> 01:18:57,950
Do you, Ben, take Stephanie
to be your lawfully wedded wife?
1685
01:18:57,994 --> 01:18:59,125
I do.
1686
01:18:59,169 --> 01:19:01,040
You may now kiss the bride.
1687
01:19:22,148 --> 01:19:26,849
♪ The first time I saw you,
I knew ♪
1688
01:19:26,892 --> 01:19:31,941
♪ The spark
that I couldn’t undo ♪
1689
01:19:31,984 --> 01:19:37,598
♪ Not even if I wanted to
1690
01:19:37,642 --> 01:19:42,473
♪ And in this moment
1691
01:19:42,516 --> 01:19:47,217
♪ I saw my life pass before me ♪
1692
01:19:47,260 --> 01:19:48,871
♪ And I knew that it was love ♪
1693
01:19:48,914 --> 01:19:51,003
Ben is such a lovely young man.
1694
01:19:51,047 --> 01:19:52,962
Go get yourself a drink, Tom.
1695
01:19:53,005 --> 01:19:54,746
- Mom, Dad.
- Yeah.
1696
01:19:54,790 --> 01:19:56,356
There’s something
we wanna tell you.
1697
01:19:58,532 --> 01:20:01,144
- Good news?
- Very.
1698
01:20:01,187 --> 01:20:03,929
We just got off the phone
with the realtor.
1699
01:20:03,973 --> 01:20:06,671
Preston and I have decided
to buy the house from you.
1700
01:20:06,714 --> 01:20:08,238
What? Oh, my...
1701
01:20:08,281 --> 01:20:10,588
W-What about the other buyer?
1702
01:20:10,631 --> 01:20:11,937
Well, it took
a little convincing,
1703
01:20:11,981 --> 01:20:13,156
but we got him to drop out.
1704
01:20:13,199 --> 01:20:14,548
Did I just hear this right?
1705
01:20:14,592 --> 01:20:16,333
- Are you guys buying the house?
- We are!
1706
01:20:16,376 --> 01:20:20,119
- You sure you wanna do this?
- Yes.
1707
01:20:20,163 --> 01:20:22,905
We can’t imagine not having
this house in our family.
1708
01:20:22,948 --> 01:20:25,995
Besides, when Preston's grandma
feels better,
1709
01:20:26,038 --> 01:20:28,606
we still wanna have our wedding
right here in the backyard.
1710
01:20:28,649 --> 01:20:31,304
Ah, well, that’s
just wonderful, honey.
1711
01:20:31,348 --> 01:20:33,132
Oh, you’re gonna
make me cry again.
1712
01:20:33,176 --> 01:20:36,353
Hey, would you mind
if I have this dance?
1713
01:20:36,396 --> 01:20:38,616
This one and every one.
1714
01:20:38,659 --> 01:20:44,230
♪ And in this moment
1715
01:20:44,274 --> 01:20:48,582
♪ I see our dreams coming true ♪
1716
01:20:48,626 --> 01:20:50,454
What?
1717
01:20:50,497 --> 01:20:53,109
I was just thinking how they
found proof of humans dancing
1718
01:20:53,152 --> 01:20:55,198
on cave paintings
from 9,000 years ago.
1719
01:20:55,241 --> 01:20:56,373
That’s what you were
thinking about?
1720
01:20:56,416 --> 01:20:59,245
Yeah. I like how
it’s in our DNA
1721
01:20:59,289 --> 01:21:01,247
to wanna connect like this.
1722
01:21:01,291 --> 01:21:04,903
- I like it.
- Me too.
1723
01:21:04,947 --> 01:21:09,865
♪ Come on, let’s find a way,
find a way home ♪
1724
01:21:09,908 --> 01:21:15,305
♪ I’ll paint you a sky
full of rainbows ♪
1725
01:21:15,348 --> 01:21:20,527
♪ Come on, let’s find a way ♪
1726
01:21:20,571 --> 01:21:23,835
♪ Home
1727
01:21:25,576 --> 01:21:28,187
♪ Come on, let’s find a way ♪
1728
01:21:28,231 --> 01:21:33,758
♪ Find a way home
1729
01:21:35,978 --> 01:21:38,502
♪ Home
1730
01:21:38,545 --> 01:21:41,897
♪ Find a way home
1731
01:21:43,681 --> 01:21:48,773
♪ Ooh
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