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''Youth'' - Singer: Zhang Cheng

♫ Hey, Shine like the sun ♫

♫ Hey, Strength starting to ignite ♫

♫ The vast sky is open to embrace ♫

♫ We spread our wings and hope to fly ♫

♫ Even if I fall, don't be afraid to smile and keep running ♫

♫ Even if there is trouble, I won't run away, persist till I get old ♫

♫ Even if I've lost everything, I will still be proud ♫

♫ I want to find my life, by myself ♫

♫ Life is too short, know what is important before it's too late ♫

♫ Recall our youthful years ♫

♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫

♫ Don't ask the future how much it knows ♫

♫ Recall our youthful years ♫

♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫

♫ Life is too short, know what is important before it's too late ♫

♫ Recall our youthful years ♫

♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫

♫ Don't ask the future how much it knows ♫

♫ Recall our youthful years ♫

♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫

[Hello Debate Opponent Season 2]

Xi Wang!

Yes, Father will kiss you.

[Episode 19]

You didn't stay up all night, right?

[I am willing.]

I can only think of her glancing and smiling at me.

And also, my limitless dedication towards her.

And finally, in the very end,

she still chose to leave.

♫ The extreme similar username ♫

♫ Recalling the past— ♫

I need to ask you something.

His name is Gong Chen. He was Xiaoyu's Prince Charming in high school.

He is good at workouts, swimming, and debate.

He was also the champion of three consecutive debate tournaments.

He's won the "Best Debater" title countless times.

He went abroad to study in high school.

He is very capable, studies well, and

- he's also handsome. - You can stop, stop, stop. Wait a moment.

- What's wrong? You don't want to hear all that? - Did I ask you about all that? What are you talking about?

Then, what's up?

Your potato chips are expired, I'll get some more for you.

Are they expired?

I think this point is pretty decent.

Love is essentially a kind of relationship.

Furthermore, all relationships need to be managed. I'll write it down.

That's incorrect. Do family relationships, where "blood is thicker than water," still need to be managed? (T/N: means blood-related relations should be closer than anything else)

- Do they not? - No, they don't need it.

Even if I don't listen to my father, he will still be my comrade-in-arms.

Well, that's because your father manages the relationship well for you.

Well, it's because the relationship between my father's and my relationship is "blood is thicker than water." There's no need to manage it.

And as for love? Love that doesn't need to be managed

is called true love.

What do you mean?

I mean, love should "go with the flow."

If you just "go with the flow," then you'll spend your remaining years alone.

- I'm talking about the debate topic. - Me too.

If love is not managed then it's forced to come to an end.

To summarize, the topic is limited to college love only.

More than 95% of campus romances fail, can we not do that?

Then we "go with the flow," enjoy the beauty of pure love, and die naturally.

This is the mission of college love, does that not work?

- No, it doesn't. - No, it doesn't.

- Xiaoyu! - What are you doing here?

- Why is he here? - Why are you raising your voice for?

Who's raising their voice?

- What's up? - She really liked the gift you told me to give her.

- She liked it? If she liked it, then that's great. - Oh, that's right.

You all know it, right?

Your opponent for the next competition is my team.

Nan Bei.

The next debate will be a two-person competition.

Does anyone want to volunteer?

Since this is a love topic,

of course lovers would be the most suitable.

The two of us, the two of us will go.

Aren't you a dictator? Make the decision yourself.

Let's give it a try.

Oh, are you asking for my opinion?

No need. There's no need for you to ask.

What's up with you? You're being cryptic.

Well then, you two can give it a try first.

All right. I'll be the first debater.

No, this competition is the second debater's offense.

Aren't you good at offense? You'll be the second debater.

- No. - What's going on with you?

How do you know what I'm good at?

- You're getting excited, right, Nan Bei? - I'm angry.

Xiaoyu, he's waiting for you to coax him.

I won't coax him.

What's with you? If subservience is love then I'm going to fail.

How about the two of us?

I don't think so.

In terms of tacit understanding,

Sister Xiao Hao and I are better.

How long have you been on the team?

It's time to eat, how about I treat everyone to a meal?

No thanks, Sister Xiao Hao. I have a drawing class this afternoon. I've got to hurry off.

I'm going, Xiaoyu. Bye!

If it's your treat, then I have time.

If you all won't be going,

then we'll head out.

When are you busy today? Let's eat together.

Hello? What's going on?

Didn't I ask you to wait for me? Why are you coming to the school?

All right. Well, I'll go find you then.

Who was that?

He said in the dorm earlier that his childhood friend is coming.

- His childhood friend? - It's his class monitor from his class in elementary school.

You also know that Nan Bei was mischievous when he was young.

The homeroom teacher arranged for him to be desk-mates with the class monitor.

That's how the story developed. A story of a mischievous classmate

and a smart girl who tutored and helped with homework.

[The previous night]

"An eye for an eye."

Do you know why they are wasting time and doing this for?

He has too much time and has nothing to do.

Are you angry?

Are you sad?

Do you know how I felt when I hated Gong Chen?

Put yourself in my shoes!

I'm sorry, Nan Bei.

I know that I was wrong. In the future, I won't dare to do this again.

I'm sorry.

Oh.

Give me some feedback after you try it.

Next week, the coffee bar near campus

is going to have a Hitchcock showing. Let's go together.

I'll think about it.

[Beloved Hot and Spicy Soup]

[Goodbye to the old and better than the new; Time to have nicer food]

Thank you.

What's wrong with you?

I'm thinking about the issue between Xiaoyu and Nan Bei.

Actually, I really understand Nan Bei.

You said that they struggled round and round, now they are finally together.

And suddenly, a former Prince Charming who is better in every aspect appears.

It's very normal to be a bit emotional.

I think it's of Nan Bei's own doing.

I thought that you were on his side.

We are all in our 20s, who doesn't have the youth years?

Besides, Xiaoyu is really quite good.

You're right to say that.

However, I've always thought

that Xiaoyu should consider Nan Bei's feelings more.

You've got your old problem again, you want everyone to be happy.

Look! The noodles are getty soggy.

But I think if two people are together,

then you should give more consideration to your partner's feelings.

I think that no matter what, one's own feelings should be more important.

I think that the partner's feelings should still be more important.

Do you think that if two people are together,

their opinions regarding many things are different,

is that a problem?

No, that's not a problem.

Take a break, take a break.

What are you all doing here?

Ma Nan said, exercise

helps one to forget about sadness.

Then you all can go out and run.

Ma Nan said that lion dance will set off the body's endorphins.

What false reasoning are you spreading around again?

Endorphins are a hormone, also known as the 'happiness factor' within the body.

When your exercise reaches a certain intensity, the body will have the "endorphin effect."

You'll be in a happier mood. Unpleasant feelings and pressure on you will be taken away.

But your exercise intensity isn't enough.

Hasn't your plan already been implemented then? Why are you dejected again?

- It's no use for a straight guy like Xiaoyu. - What are you planning to do then?

For the sake of love and justice in the world,

I have to make it cruel.

[How to tell a man is jealous]

[Method/Steps]

Are you still not fed up with listening to this song?

I feel like this song is talking about me.

I saw on the Internet before that when one breaks up,

listening to all the love songs sounds like they are all talking about oneself.

I thought it was phony before.

When I look at you being like this right now, it seems real.

Have you decided what to do in the future?

I don't know.

She blocked me on WeChat and on the phone.

I went to her room today and her roommate blocked me in the doorway.

She told me to not waste my energy again.

I can put up with all that, truly.

I just don't understand why she's being like this towards me.

If she was thirsty, I bought something for her to drink.

If she was hungry, I bought something for her to eat.

Even when she said she wanted to eat some watermelon in the middle of the night,

I ran ten kilometers to the 24-hour fruit shop

and bought some for her.

And her? If she says she won't get in touch, she won't.

If she says she'll leave, she'll leave.

Was I not good enough to her?

Who hasn't been in love for the first time?

She will think about how good you were.

And you? How are you and Xiaoyu?

Are you fighting?

We put ourselves in each other's shoes.

I think this is very normal.

But when Gong Chen is really standing before me,

when I think about how Xiaoyu secretly loved him before, and

he's quite outstanding. I feel revolted in my heart for no reason.

Can we change the song?

Are you still at odds with Nan Bei?

I'm not in the mood to deal with him.

Strictly speaking, Nan Bei should be your first love.

Even not strictly speaking, he is.

Well, then try and think about it like this.

When he argues tediously, plagues you with unreasonable demands, and being jealous,

means that he cares about you.

There are many types of methods to show that one cares, why did he have to pick the most annoying method?

For both of you, this is your first time being in love,

When expressing your feelings, it's hard to know the right amount.

Is it like many times you wanted to hug Nan Bei,

but in the end, the hug became a beating?

As someone who's been through this before,

of course I wasn't successful.

I think you should still go and coax Nan Bei.

After he feels better and gains his confidence, then you can settle everything with him.

- What do you think? - He isn't confident?

He feels inferior.

I don't think that he's inferior to Gong Chen.

But he doesn't know that's what you think.

When one faces the person he likes,

it's very normal to not be confident.

Sister Xiao Hao, if your boyfriend was jealous and angry,

how would you coax him? I don't have any experience with this.

You're asking me?

My experience isn't worthy of referencing.

That's right, don't make us break up.

Tell me. Why didn't she have a reaction

Well for me, although I won't turn down the opportunity to watch all the fun, I think that

you three should stop messing around.

Especially you. Be careful and don't ask for trouble yourself.

- Well then what do you think I should do? - You should talk about your true feelings directly with her.

- I should tell the truth? - Yes.

I should say that her Prince Charming is stronger than me,

that he is an elite student who has studied abroad, and I'm just an ordinary mediocre

- student who's studied in China, that I'm envious and jealous. - Yes.

It's like this... When two people are together, although it's said to just go with the flow,

but you also must manage it. Right?

You said that the two of you, for a while now,

have been envious and suspicious of each other. It's very tiring, isn't it?

What you are saying makes sense.

However, I think we should still talk about "an eye for an eye."

Next time, how about you... you dress up again in women's clothing?

- Why does it have to be me again? - How about I go?

- Why are you here again? They didn't stop you again? - Right.

We will start training very soon. Shall we watch a movie together before training?

I've got the tickets.

What movie?

An innutritious commercial movie.

Didn't you say commercial movies were tacky?

You like them.

Hurry and go, the two of you!

Wash up quickly then. I will wait for you downstairs.

She hasn't left. She hasn't left.

When is the movie?

It's in the afternoon. What's up?

Nothing.

My childhood friend is coming to see me in the evening.

Then...

I have to show her around

to see the campus, right?

What time will you go to meet her?

What time...

I always listened to her when we were young.

She can decide.

My childhood friend won't miss even one.

What do you think about this one? My childhood friend likes this kind of flowery dress a lot.

Back then, I took my childhood friend home every day after school.

She was a lightweight when she was young.

She sat at the back. I took her and rode forward.

The speed was very quick. Also, back then—

Look. Look. It works.

The fourth point:

haul in the net.

Okay, let's organize all the arguments of attacking and defending according to this framework.

- I think every argument should at least have 2 example illustrations and questions. - Okay.

I have asked Wei Wei to have dinner together today. I will confess to her when we have dinner.

Look forward to your good news.

Look. Look. Look.

He is planning to confess to Wei Wei, now you can be at ease.

I have never worried about it.

What are you going to do later?

My childhood friend is coming.

I have to eat with her.

Who is your childhood friend?

You have arrived?

You guys continue. I have to leave now.

Wait for me. I'm coming to pick you up.

Let's continue.

Nan Bei, come!

What's up?

I'm catching up with my childhood friend.

Shut up.

- You are upset? - Nonsense.

Now you know my feeling.

Let me tell you, Nan Bei.

I was ignorant in high school so I did think that he was not bad.

But that was before I met you.

Him coming back this time, before we ate at the time you came,

I had already told him that I had a boyfriend.

He was also coming back for a girl that he likes for many years.

I was just helping him brainstorm, that's it.

I have you already. I'm not a woman that changes my mind easily.

Get rid of the soap opera in your brain!

You should have told me this earlier.

Give me a hug.

It's too hot.

I didn't tell her in the end.

Probably it's because I'm afraid of failure.

- Go. - For what?

Go and see your high school's Prince Charming.

Sorry,

I made you guys come out this late because of me.

It's good that you realize it.

Why didn't you tell her?

I'm leaving next week.

But I'm not sure if she will wait for me or not.

Long-distance relationships will have a lot of problems.

Also, I'm afraid that

this is all my own thoughts, my imagination.

Maybe Wei Wei is not interested in me at all.

Can you understand it?

I can.

But I think it makes more sense to tell her because of this.

What if you regret it in the future?

Long-distance relationships are not a big problem in this time.

Even if in the same city and school, look at Nan Bei and me,

we have trouble with each other every couple of days. I have a new reason for killing him every day.

Don't listen to her talking nonsense. We are very much in love.

But I think as long as two persons like each other,

even if he has lots of shortcomings,

even if he is childish, stingy, always gets jealous, and likes bragging, so what?

I won't not like him because there seems to be a potential person better than him.

Don't think too much.

All these rubbish trivial matters altogether

are not as frustrating as you can't be with her.

Thank you, Xiaoyu.

Thank you, Nan Bei.

Send it. [No matter when and where, please remember I'll always support you and take care of you, because I love you the most.]

This is all Nan Bei and I can do for you.

We are leaving. Go!

You're leaving? I haven't finished eating.

Hurry, let's go.

Bye.

Don't be too happy.

I said that to coax Gong Chen.

I know it.

This Wei Wei... his taste is not that good.

The blindest person in the world is me.

We haven't announced our relationship on Wechat Moments.

Do you want to? Let's post now.

No need actually. We don't need so much trouble.

My Nan Bei has grown up.

Nan Bei, stop!

Jingwen, this is my first time dating a girl.

I know I didn't do well in many aspects.

Can I have one more chance?

I will correct anything, everything. Okay?

This is also my first time.

But we really don't fit each other.

Sorry.

[Xinxing Cup Debate Invitational Tournament]

The arguments of both sides are very solid.

They have broken even.

For the cross-questioning, Nan Bei and Xiaoyu have performed quite well.

They were better. Next is the free debate.

I think it's very critical to expanding the lead.

What do you think?

What's wrong?

Look at Xiaoyu and her Prince Charming.

They look unconcerned, but actually, they are crossing swords frequently.

Look at Xiaoyu's aura and her aggressive look.

She didn't spare her old lover at all.

But why do I feel

there is a bit of tenderness in her Primce Charming's eyes?

He still has feelings for her?

Or is it compassion?

It's so complicated. Fantastic!

Your focus is completely off track.

Look at Nan Bei.

He looks calm on the surface.

But deep inside he is turbulent.

I think his jealousy

has risen to an unprecedented level.

Silly.

Your argument states only if working hard on the relationship, we know how much we are willing to do for the partner,

then we can know how much we love the partner. Right?

Of course. Will you cherish the love that you get for free?

I will cherish a lot the gold I picked up on the road.

May I ask if I have done a lot but I realize that I don't love my partner that much, what should I do?

Then break up thoroughly.

So to getting an accurate judgment on your relationship also requires working hard on it.

This is not right. When you find out that you don't love your partner, then you break up, isn't it called "go with the flow"?

"Go with the flow" is passive. Breaking up is active.

You use "go with the flow" way to actively break up, then it's not called "go with the flow."

Can you give an example of "going with the flow"?

Block silently.

Isn't the action of blocking active, too?

He said it wrong. He meant waiting to be blocked.

According to the data from the website of China Public Opinion Research, only 26% of the relationship in college

can last for over 1 year. There are less than 10% can last for over 5 years.

Only 2% can lead to marriage in the end.

The success rate is so low. What's the point of working hard in a relationship?

It is because everyone is like my opponent,

everyone who isn't managing their relationship makes the data look terrible.

Doesn't it prove our argument that we should

work hard on a relationship in college?

Is the process or result more important for love?

- What is the result of love? - To get married and have kids.

Will love be gone after getting married or will love disappear after the kids are born?

Why is getting married and having kids the result?

What comes next is to grow old together.

Isn't "to grow old together" the process of love till the end?

Why "to grow old together" is the result now?

So what do you think is the result of love?

We hold the opinion that love doesn't have a result. Love itself is a process.

So your question is invalid.

You misunderstood the meaning of "result." We said love blossomed and yielded fruit.

But we didn't mean love came to the end. We meant love enters into a deeper stage.

If you define it in this way, entering into a deeper stage is more important.

Otherwise, what we expect is superficial love?

Or just the favorable impression and passion on the surface?

Or what you want for your whole life is to hold your partner's hand

but nothing else?

You think love is a relationship.

- So all the relationships need to be managed, right? - Correct.

- May I know if the unrequited love is a relationship? - Is unrequited love counted as love?

Is it not love?

Love is the affection and feelings between two people.

Unrequited love is from one person. Of course, it's not love.

From "Cooing and Wooing" from "The Book of Songs," to Xin Qiji's "Melody of Green Jade," these literature works of describing unrequited love,

- aren't they masterpieces of describing love? - Of course they are.

Unrequited love doesn't belong to a relationship. But in terms of emotional type, it can be counted as love.

It doesn't belong to a relationship but belongs to love.

May I ask my opponent

how you define unrequited love?

My opponent, you probably feel that

unrequited love is being sad and alone under the moonlight,

it's watching silently from a distance,

it's carefulness of not getting close.

I don't think so.

Sometimes you don't even realize your unrequited love by yourself.

You don't realize that your eyes have never left her.

You don't realize that no matter what she does,

you will find all the reasons for her.

You don't realize that your every pen remembers her name.

You also don't realize that you have set her chat

on the top for a very long time.

You even don't realize that you won't be sad and mad at her if she soils or breaks your favorite sneakers.

Every time when she wants to hit you,

you probably will feel that you really deserve the beating.

So, unrequited love isn't consensual love.

The unrequited love should be love

to be discovered.

I'm getting goosebumps now.

Now, is the last round of this competition.

The step of the summary.

Let's welcome the first debater of the affirmative side.

Hi, everyone. What we are discussing today is

how to maintain our love in college.

Our opponents say we shouldn't maintain it just for the sake of it.

We should go with the flow to enjoy love in its original form.

It seems when we try to manage love,

it's not pure and beautiful anymore.

It seems working hard becomes an intention,

so it makes love lose its essence.

But what kind of precious affection

doesn't have intention?

To work hard on it is an intention.

Whose love can be casual?

The most beautiful side of love

is two people working hard on it together.

Those compromises, fights, struggles, and conflicts.

One second you want to slap him, the next second you are sad

like you were stabbed in the heart, that split personality.

This is...

the most charming part of love.

If we can't learn this,

then we are losing the most precious treasure of love.

Even if I don't eat meat, you can still eat.

Your protein intake is so little. Who else can the coach punish if he doesn't punish you?

That's why you got cramps.

I'm willing to do it.

Look, I like eating vegetables now.

So tasty.

The love in college...

Perhaps as my opponent said,

the success rate isn't high.

But when faced with every true affection,

please cherish and protect it.

Maintain and manage it with our life.

In this way, every hopeless love

can be able to bear the sweetest fruit.

Thank you.

Now I will announce that the winner of this competition is

the affirmative side, 235 Team. Let's congratulate them!

Jingwen!

Jingwen! I have straightened out my thinking. I took it for granted.

I always thought that I listened to you for everything.

I thought I considered you for everything.

I thought I thought about you for everything.

But I ignored your real feelings.

I just lived in my own dream.

No wonder my name is You Mengyuan. (T/N: His name means wandering in dreams.)

Jingwen, I won't apologize to you this time.

Thank you for appearing in my life.

- Bye-bye. - Bye.

- Bye-bye. - Bye.

Bye-bye.

Shall we go to watch Hitchcock's movie tomorrow?

It's still early, shall we walk a little bit more?

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''To Be Continued'' - Singer: Zhang Xi

♫ All the joy is secretly seeping in ♫

♫ Some sadness can be comforted but not able to explain ♫

♫ The love I miss will become part of my silence ♫

♫ The crowd of lost souls moves back and forth ♫

♫ Counting the Christmas fireworks ♫

♫ Write a love song for you ♫

♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫

♫ Take all your memories, all your messages ♫

♫ Delete everything ♫

♫ Write a love song for you ♫

♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫

♫ I will fill the holes in my heart ♫

♫ With just our memories ♫

♫ Write a love song for you ♫

♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫

♫ I will fill the holes in my heart ♫

♫ With just our memories ♫

♫ Write a love song for you ♫

♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫

♫ I will fill the holes in my heart ♫

♫ With just our memories ♫