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''Youth'' - Singer: Zhang Cheng
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♫ Hey, Shine like the sun ♫
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♫ Hey, Strength starting to ignite ♫
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♫ The vast sky is open to embrace ♫
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♫ We spread our wings and hope to fly ♫
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♫ Even if I fall, don't be afraid to smile and keep running ♫
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♫ Even if there is trouble, I won't run away, persist till I get old ♫
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♫ Even if I've lost everything, I will still be proud ♫
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♫ I want to find my life, by myself ♫
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♫ Life is too short, know what is important before it's too late ♫
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♫ Recall our youthful years ♫
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♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫
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♫ Don't ask the future how much it knows ♫
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♫ Recall our youthful years ♫
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♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫
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♫ Life is too short, know what is important before it's too late ♫
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♫ Recall our youthful years ♫
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♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫
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♫ Don't ask the future how much it knows ♫
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♫ Recall our youthful years ♫
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♫ The enthusiasm of youth floating and fluttering in the wind ♫
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[Hello Debate Opponent Season 2]
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Xi Wang!
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Yes, Father will kiss you.
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[Episode 19]
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You didn't stay up all night, right?
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[I am willing.]
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I can only think of her glancing and smiling at me.
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And also, my limitless dedication towards her.
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And finally, in the very end,
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she still chose to leave.
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♫ The extreme similar username ♫
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♫ Recalling the past— ♫
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I need to ask you something.
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His name is Gong Chen. He was Xiaoyu's Prince Charming in high school.
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He is good at workouts, swimming, and debate.
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He was also the champion of three consecutive debate tournaments.
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He's won the "Best Debater" title countless times.
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He went abroad to study in high school.
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He is very capable, studies well, and
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- he's also handsome.
- You can stop, stop, stop. Wait a moment.
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- What's wrong? You don't want to hear all that?
- Did I ask you about all that? What are you talking about?
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Then, what's up?
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Your potato chips are expired, I'll get some more for you.
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Are they expired?
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I think this point is pretty decent.
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Love is essentially a kind of relationship.
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Furthermore, all relationships need to be managed. I'll write it down.
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That's incorrect. Do family relationships, where "blood is thicker than water," still need to be managed?
(T/N: means blood-related relations should be closer than anything else)
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- Do they not?
- No, they don't need it.
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Even if I don't listen to my father, he will still be my comrade-in-arms.
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Well, that's because your father manages the relationship well for you.
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Well, it's because the relationship between my father's and my relationship is "blood is thicker than water." There's no need to manage it.
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And as for love? Love that doesn't need to be managed
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is called true love.
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What do you mean?
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I mean, love should "go with the flow."
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If you just "go with the flow," then you'll spend your remaining years alone.
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- I'm talking about the debate topic.
- Me too.
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If love is not managed then it's forced to come to an end.
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To summarize, the topic is limited to college love only.
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More than 95% of campus romances fail, can we not do that?
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Then we "go with the flow," enjoy the beauty of pure love, and die naturally.
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This is the mission of college love, does that not work?
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- No, it doesn't.
- No, it doesn't.
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- Xiaoyu!
- What are you doing here?
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- Why is he here?
- Why are you raising your voice for?
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Who's raising their voice?
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- What's up?
- She really liked the gift you told me to give her.
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- She liked it? If she liked it, then that's great.
- Oh, that's right.
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You all know it, right?
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Your opponent for the next competition is my team.
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Nan Bei.
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The next debate will be a two-person competition.
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Does anyone want to volunteer?
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Since this is a love topic,
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of course lovers would be the most suitable.
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The two of us, the two of us will go.
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Aren't you a dictator? Make the decision yourself.
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Let's give it a try.
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Oh, are you asking for my opinion?
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No need. There's no need for you to ask.
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What's up with you? You're being cryptic.
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Well then, you two can give it a try first.
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All right. I'll be the first debater.
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No, this competition is the second debater's offense.
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Aren't you good at offense? You'll be the second debater.
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- No.
- What's going on with you?
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How do you know what I'm good at?
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- You're getting excited, right, Nan Bei?
- I'm angry.
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Xiaoyu, he's waiting for you to coax him.
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I won't coax him.
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What's with you? If subservience is love then I'm going to fail.
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How about the two of us?
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I don't think so.
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In terms of tacit understanding,
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Sister Xiao Hao and I are better.
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How long have you been on the team?
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It's time to eat, how about I treat everyone to a meal?
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No thanks, Sister Xiao Hao. I have a drawing class this afternoon. I've got to hurry off.
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I'm going, Xiaoyu. Bye!
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If it's your treat, then I have time.
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If you all won't be going,
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then we'll head out.
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When are you busy today? Let's eat together.
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Hello? What's going on?
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Didn't I ask you to wait for me? Why are you coming to the school?
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All right. Well, I'll go find you then.
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Who was that?
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He said in the dorm earlier that his childhood friend is coming.
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- His childhood friend?
- It's his class monitor from his class in elementary school.
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You also know that Nan Bei was mischievous when he was young.
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The homeroom teacher arranged for him to be desk-mates with the class monitor.
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That's how the story developed. A story of a mischievous classmate
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and a smart girl who tutored and helped with homework.
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[The previous night]
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"An eye for an eye."
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Do you know why they are wasting time and doing this for?
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He has too much time and has nothing to do.
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Are you angry?
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Are you sad?
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Do you know how I felt when I hated Gong Chen?
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Put yourself in my shoes!
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I'm sorry, Nan Bei.
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I know that I was wrong. In the future, I won't dare to do this again.
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I'm sorry.
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Oh.
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Give me some feedback after you try it.
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Next week, the coffee bar near campus
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is going to have a Hitchcock showing. Let's go together.
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I'll think about it.
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[Beloved Hot and Spicy Soup]
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[Goodbye to the old and better than the new; Time to have nicer food]
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Thank you.
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What's wrong with you?
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I'm thinking about the issue between Xiaoyu and Nan Bei.
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Actually, I really understand Nan Bei.
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You said that they struggled round and round, now they are finally together.
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And suddenly, a former Prince Charming who is better in every aspect appears.
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It's very normal to be a bit emotional.
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I think it's of Nan Bei's own doing.
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I thought that you were on his side.
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We are all in our 20s, who doesn't have the youth years?
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Besides, Xiaoyu is really quite good.
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You're right to say that.
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However, I've always thought
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that Xiaoyu should consider Nan Bei's feelings more.
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You've got your old problem again, you want everyone to be happy.
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Look! The noodles are getty soggy.
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But I think if two people are together,
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then you should give more consideration to your partner's feelings.
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I think that no matter what, one's own feelings should be more important.
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I think that the partner's feelings should still be more important.
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Do you think that if two people are together,
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their opinions regarding many things are different,
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is that a problem?
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No, that's not a problem.
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Take a break, take a break.
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What are you all doing here?
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Ma Nan said, exercise
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helps one to forget about sadness.
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Then you all can go out and run.
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Ma Nan said that lion dance will set off the body's endorphins.
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What false reasoning are you spreading around again?
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Endorphins are a hormone, also known as the 'happiness factor' within the body.
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When your exercise reaches a certain intensity, the body will have the "endorphin effect."
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You'll be in a happier mood. Unpleasant feelings and pressure on you will be taken away.
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But your exercise intensity isn't enough.
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Hasn't your plan already been implemented then? Why are you dejected again?
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- It's no use for a straight guy like Xiaoyu.
- What are you planning to do then?
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For the sake of love and justice in the world,
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I have to make it cruel.
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[How to tell a man is jealous]
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[Method/Steps]
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Are you still not fed up with listening to this song?
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I feel like this song is talking about me.
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I saw on the Internet before that when one breaks up,
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listening to all the love songs sounds like they are all talking about oneself.
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I thought it was phony before.
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When I look at you being like this right now, it seems real.
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Have you decided what to do in the future?
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I don't know.
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She blocked me on WeChat and on the phone.
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I went to her room today and her roommate blocked me in the doorway.
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She told me to not waste my energy again.
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I can put up with all that, truly.
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I just don't understand why she's being like this towards me.
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If she was thirsty, I bought something for her to drink.
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If she was hungry, I bought something for her to eat.
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Even when she said she wanted to eat some watermelon in the middle of the night,
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I ran ten kilometers to the 24-hour fruit shop
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and bought some for her.
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And her? If she says she won't get in touch, she won't.
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If she says she'll leave, she'll leave.
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Was I not good enough to her?
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Who hasn't been in love for the first time?
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She will think about how good you were.
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And you? How are you and Xiaoyu?
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Are you fighting?
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We put ourselves in each other's shoes.
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I think this is very normal.
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But when Gong Chen is really standing before me,
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when I think about how Xiaoyu secretly loved him before, and
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he's quite outstanding. I feel revolted in my heart for no reason.
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Can we change the song?
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Are you still at odds with Nan Bei?
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I'm not in the mood to deal with him.
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Strictly speaking, Nan Bei should be your first love.
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Even not strictly speaking, he is.
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Well, then try and think about it like this.
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When he argues tediously, plagues you with unreasonable demands, and being jealous,
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means that he cares about you.
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There are many types of methods to show that one cares, why did he have to pick the most annoying method?
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For both of you, this is your first time being in love,
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When expressing your feelings, it's hard to know the right amount.
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Is it like many times you wanted to hug Nan Bei,
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but in the end, the hug became a beating?
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As someone who's been through this before,
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of course I wasn't successful.
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I think you should still go and coax Nan Bei.
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After he feels better and gains his confidence, then you can settle everything with him.
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- What do you think?
- He isn't confident?
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He feels inferior.
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I don't think that he's inferior to Gong Chen.
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But he doesn't know that's what you think.
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When one faces the person he likes,
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it's very normal to not be confident.
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Sister Xiao Hao, if your boyfriend was jealous and angry,
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how would you coax him? I don't have any experience with this.
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You're asking me?
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My experience isn't worthy of referencing.
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That's right, don't make us break up.
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Tell me. Why didn't she have a reaction
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Well for me, although I won't turn down the opportunity to watch all the fun, I think that
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you three should stop messing around.
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Especially you. Be careful and don't ask for trouble yourself.
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- Well then what do you think I should do?
- You should talk about your true feelings directly with her.
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- I should tell the truth?
- Yes.
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I should say that her Prince Charming is stronger than me,
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that he is an elite student who has studied abroad, and I'm just an ordinary mediocre
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- student who's studied in China, that I'm envious and jealous.
- Yes.
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It's like this... When two people are together, although it's said to just go with the flow,
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but you also must manage it. Right?
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You said that the two of you, for a while now,
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have been envious and suspicious of each other. It's very tiring, isn't it?
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What you are saying makes sense.
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However, I think we should still talk about "an eye for an eye."
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Next time, how about you... you dress up again in women's clothing?
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- Why does it have to be me again?
- How about I go?
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- Why are you here again? They didn't stop you again?
- Right.
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We will start training very soon. Shall we watch a movie together before training?
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I've got the tickets.
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What movie?
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An innutritious commercial movie.
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Didn't you say commercial movies were tacky?
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You like them.
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Hurry and go, the two of you!
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Wash up quickly then. I will wait for you downstairs.
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She hasn't left. She hasn't left.
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When is the movie?
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It's in the afternoon. What's up?
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Nothing.
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My childhood friend is coming to see me in the evening.
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Then...
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I have to show her around
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to see the campus, right?
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What time will you go to meet her?
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What time...
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I always listened to her when we were young.
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She can decide.
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My childhood friend won't miss even one.
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What do you think about this one? My childhood friend likes this kind of flowery dress a lot.
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Back then, I took my childhood friend home every day after school.
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She was a lightweight when she was young.
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She sat at the back. I took her and rode forward.
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The speed was very quick. Also, back then—
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Look. Look. It works.
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The fourth point:
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haul in the net.
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Okay, let's organize all the arguments of attacking and defending according to this framework.
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- I think every argument should at least have 2 example illustrations and questions.
- Okay.
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I have asked Wei Wei to have dinner together today. I will confess to her when we have dinner.
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Look forward to your good news.
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Look. Look. Look.
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He is planning to confess to Wei Wei, now you can be at ease.
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I have never worried about it.
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What are you going to do later?
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My childhood friend is coming.
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I have to eat with her.
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Who is your childhood friend?
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You have arrived?
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You guys continue. I have to leave now.
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Wait for me. I'm coming to pick you up.
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Let's continue.
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Nan Bei, come!
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What's up?
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I'm catching up with my childhood friend.
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Shut up.
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- You are upset?
- Nonsense.
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Now you know my feeling.
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Let me tell you, Nan Bei.
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I was ignorant in high school so I did think that he was not bad.
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But that was before I met you.
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Him coming back this time, before we ate at the time you came,
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I had already told him that I had a boyfriend.
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He was also coming back for a girl that he likes for many years.
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I was just helping him brainstorm, that's it.
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I have you already. I'm not a woman that changes my mind easily.
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Get rid of the soap opera in your brain!
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You should have told me this earlier.
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Give me a hug.
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It's too hot.
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I didn't tell her in the end.
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Probably it's because I'm afraid of failure.
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- Go.
- For what?
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Go and see your high school's Prince Charming.
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Sorry,
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I made you guys come out this late because of me.
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It's good that you realize it.
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Why didn't you tell her?
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I'm leaving next week.
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But I'm not sure if she will wait for me or not.
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Long-distance relationships will have a lot of problems.
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Also, I'm afraid that
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this is all my own thoughts, my imagination.
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Maybe Wei Wei is not interested in me at all.
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Can you understand it?
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I can.
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But I think it makes more sense to tell her because of this.
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What if you regret it in the future?
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Long-distance relationships are not a big problem in this time.
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Even if in the same city and school, look at Nan Bei and me,
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we have trouble with each other every couple of days. I have a new reason for killing him every day.
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Don't listen to her talking nonsense. We are very much in love.
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But I think as long as two persons like each other,
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even if he has lots of shortcomings,
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even if he is childish, stingy, always gets jealous, and likes bragging, so what?
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I won't not like him because there seems to be a potential person better than him.
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Don't think too much.
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All these rubbish trivial matters altogether
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are not as frustrating as you can't be with her.
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Thank you, Xiaoyu.
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Thank you, Nan Bei.
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Send it.
[No matter when and where, please remember I'll always support you and take care of you, because I love you the most.]
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This is all Nan Bei and I can do for you.
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We are leaving. Go!
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You're leaving? I haven't finished eating.
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Hurry, let's go.
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Bye.
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Don't be too happy.
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I said that to coax Gong Chen.
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I know it.
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This Wei Wei... his taste is not that good.
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The blindest person in the world is me.
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We haven't announced our relationship on Wechat Moments.
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Do you want to? Let's post now.
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No need actually. We don't need so much trouble.
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My Nan Bei has grown up.
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Nan Bei, stop!
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Jingwen, this is my first time dating a girl.
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I know I didn't do well in many aspects.
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Can I have one more chance?
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I will correct anything, everything. Okay?
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This is also my first time.
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But we really don't fit each other.
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Sorry.
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[Xinxing Cup Debate Invitational Tournament]
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The arguments of both sides are very solid.
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They have broken even.
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For the cross-questioning, Nan Bei and Xiaoyu have performed quite well.
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They were better. Next is the free debate.
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I think it's very critical to expanding the lead.
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What do you think?
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What's wrong?
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Look at Xiaoyu and her Prince Charming.
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They look unconcerned, but actually, they are crossing swords frequently.
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Look at Xiaoyu's aura and her aggressive look.
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She didn't spare her old lover at all.
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But why do I feel
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there is a bit of tenderness in her Primce Charming's eyes?
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He still has feelings for her?
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Or is it compassion?
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It's so complicated. Fantastic!
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Your focus is completely off track.
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Look at Nan Bei.
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He looks calm on the surface.
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But deep inside he is turbulent.
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I think his jealousy
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has risen to an unprecedented level.
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Silly.
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Your argument states only if working hard on the relationship, we know how much we are willing to do for the partner,
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then we can know how much we love the partner. Right?
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Of course. Will you cherish the love that you get for free?
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I will cherish a lot the gold I picked up on the road.
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May I ask if I have done a lot but I realize that I don't love my partner that much, what should I do?
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Then break up thoroughly.
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So to getting an accurate judgment on your relationship also requires working hard on it.
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This is not right. When you find out that you don't love your partner, then you break up, isn't it called "go with the flow"?
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"Go with the flow" is passive. Breaking up is active.
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You use "go with the flow" way to actively break up, then it's not called "go with the flow."
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Can you give an example of "going with the flow"?
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Block silently.
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Isn't the action of blocking active, too?
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He said it wrong. He meant waiting to be blocked.
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According to the data from the website of China Public Opinion Research, only 26% of the relationship in college
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can last for over 1 year. There are less than 10% can last for over 5 years.
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Only 2% can lead to marriage in the end.
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The success rate is so low. What's the point of working hard in a relationship?
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It is because everyone is like my opponent,
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everyone who isn't managing their relationship makes the data look terrible.
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Doesn't it prove our argument that we should
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work hard on a relationship in college?
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Is the process or result more important for love?
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- What is the result of love?
- To get married and have kids.
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Will love be gone after getting married or will love disappear after the kids are born?
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Why is getting married and having kids the result?
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What comes next is to grow old together.
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Isn't "to grow old together" the process of love till the end?
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Why "to grow old together" is the result now?
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So what do you think is the result of love?
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We hold the opinion that love doesn't have a result. Love itself is a process.
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So your question is invalid.
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You misunderstood the meaning of "result." We said love blossomed and yielded fruit.
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But we didn't mean love came to the end. We meant love enters into a deeper stage.
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If you define it in this way, entering into a deeper stage is more important.
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Otherwise, what we expect is superficial love?
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Or just the favorable impression and passion on the surface?
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Or what you want for your whole life is to hold your partner's hand
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but nothing else?
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You think love is a relationship.
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- So all the relationships need to be managed, right?
- Correct.
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- May I know if the unrequited love is a relationship?
- Is unrequited love counted as love?
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Is it not love?
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Love is the affection and feelings between two people.
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Unrequited love is from one person. Of course, it's not love.
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From "Cooing and Wooing" from "The Book of Songs," to Xin Qiji's "Melody of Green Jade," these literature works of describing unrequited love,
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- aren't they masterpieces of describing love?
- Of course they are.
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Unrequited love doesn't belong to a relationship. But in terms of emotional type, it can be counted as love.
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It doesn't belong to a relationship but belongs to love.
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May I ask my opponent
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how you define unrequited love?
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My opponent, you probably feel that
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unrequited love is being sad and alone under the moonlight,
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it's watching silently from a distance,
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it's carefulness of not getting close.
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I don't think so.
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Sometimes you don't even realize your unrequited love by yourself.
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You don't realize that your eyes have never left her.
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You don't realize that no matter what she does,
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you will find all the reasons for her.
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You don't realize that your every pen remembers her name.
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You also don't realize that you have set her chat
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on the top for a very long time.
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You even don't realize that you won't be sad and mad at her if she soils or breaks your favorite sneakers.
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Every time when she wants to hit you,
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you probably will feel that you really deserve the beating.
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So, unrequited love isn't consensual love.
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The unrequited love should be love
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to be discovered.
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I'm getting goosebumps now.
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Now, is the last round of this competition.
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The step of the summary.
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Let's welcome the first debater of the affirmative side.
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Hi, everyone. What we are discussing today is
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how to maintain our love in college.
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Our opponents say we shouldn't maintain it just for the sake of it.
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We should go with the flow to enjoy love in its original form.
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It seems when we try to manage love,
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it's not pure and beautiful anymore.
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It seems working hard becomes an intention,
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so it makes love lose its essence.
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But what kind of precious affection
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doesn't have intention?
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To work hard on it is an intention.
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Whose love can be casual?
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The most beautiful side of love
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is two people working hard on it together.
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Those compromises, fights, struggles, and conflicts.
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One second you want to slap him, the next second you are sad
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like you were stabbed in the heart, that split personality.
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This is...
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the most charming part of love.
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If we can't learn this,
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then we are losing the most precious treasure of love.
486
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Even if I don't eat meat, you can still eat.
487
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Your protein intake is so little. Who else can the coach punish if he doesn't punish you?
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That's why you got cramps.
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I'm willing to do it.
490
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Look, I like eating vegetables now.
491
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,300
So tasty.
492
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,800
The love in college...
493
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,600
Perhaps as my opponent said,
494
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,600
the success rate isn't high.
495
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,200
But when faced with every true affection,
496
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,300
please cherish and protect it.
497
00:35:48,300 --> 00:35:52,400
Maintain and manage it with our life.
498
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,700
In this way, every hopeless love
499
00:35:55,700 --> 00:35:59,000
can be able to bear the sweetest fruit.
500
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:00,800
Thank you.
501
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,600
Now I will announce that the winner of this competition is
502
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,500
the affirmative side, 235 Team. Let's congratulate them!
503
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,800
Jingwen!
504
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:47,100
Jingwen! I have straightened out my thinking. I took it for granted.
505
00:36:47,100 --> 00:36:49,800
I always thought that I listened to you for everything.
506
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,800
I thought I considered you for everything.
507
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:53,800
I thought I thought about you for everything.
508
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,550
But I ignored your real feelings.
509
00:36:56,550 --> 00:36:58,700
I just lived in my own dream.
510
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,800
No wonder my name is You Mengyuan.
(T/N: His name means wandering in dreams.)
511
00:37:02,410 --> 00:37:06,440
Jingwen, I won't apologize to you this time.
512
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,100
Thank you for appearing in my life.
513
00:37:37,900 --> 00:37:39,800
- Bye-bye.
- Bye.
514
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,000
- Bye-bye.
- Bye.
515
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,900
Bye-bye.
516
00:37:58,300 --> 00:38:01,600
Shall we go to watch Hitchcock's movie tomorrow?
517
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,100
It's still early, shall we walk a little bit more?
518
00:38:50,020 --> 00:39:00,060
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''To Be Continued'' - Singer: Zhang Xi
520
00:39:16,900 --> 00:39:24,000
♫ All the joy is secretly seeping in ♫
521
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:31,200
♫ Some sadness can be comforted but not able to explain ♫
522
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:37,200
♫ The love I miss will become part of my silence ♫
523
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,800
♫ The crowd of lost souls moves back and forth ♫
524
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:45,000
♫ Counting the Christmas fireworks ♫
525
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,800
♫ Write a love song for you ♫
526
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,200
♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫
527
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,000
♫ Take all your memories, all your messages ♫
528
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,400
♫ Delete everything ♫
529
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,800
♫ Write a love song for you ♫
530
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:07,400
♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫
531
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:12,800
♫ I will fill the holes in my heart ♫
532
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,900
♫ With just our memories ♫
533
00:40:20,380 --> 00:40:23,980
♫ Write a love song for you ♫
534
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,400
♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫
535
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,400
♫ I will fill the holes in my heart ♫
536
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,700
♫ With just our memories ♫
537
00:40:34,700 --> 00:40:38,200
♫ Write a love song for you ♫
538
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:42,600
♫ Won't be able to finish singing and continue ♫
539
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:48,400
♫ I will fill the holes in my heart ♫
540
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:52,800
♫ With just our memories ♫
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