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Do you want to live out your sexual fantasy?
What was that just now?
Love.
I love you.
And just like that, I came face-to-face with the truth I'd been trying to ignore.
And now,
it's my turn to make a decision.
HIT THE SPOT
EPISODE 8. THE CHOICE I MAKE FOR MYSELF
At 27,
my sex drive has hit an all-time low.
Yes, that's what I'm talking about.
I used to love masturbating,
but it's not fun anymore, and I can't be bothered to do it.
Rather than being with someone, I have a lot more fun
- on my own these days. - Bring it on!
Dating and sex might be out of the picture,
but between playing video games and self-improvement hobbies,
I have very little time to spare.
You're mine
You are mine, my darling
Here. Check out his abs.
Yi-kyung, you should get yourself a boyfriend.
She's right. Date someone and have some hot sex.
What are you, celibate?
Don't let your body go to waste.
Have as much sex as possible.
Exactly.
You'll get fewer chances once you turn 30.
You're going to regret it.
Now I'm wondering if you have some kind of problem.
The people around me are my problem.
- She looks spiritless. - My parents and friends
all worry about me.
Is it okay to live without dating or having sex?
Does that make me weird?
What do you think?
What this listener needs right now
is definitely not a relationship.
Why are people interested in other people's sex lives?
You shouldn't date someone or have sex with them
just because someone pushed you to make that decision.
It should be your own choice.
Right. Instead of thinking about whether to have sex or not,
just let it happen naturally.
If you want to have sex, then fine. If not, then that's fine too.
That's how it should be.
We have the right to enjoy sex as much as we want.
But we're also free to not have sex.
Once we stop wondering whether we're being weird or not,
then we can feel more liberated.
- This was Hit the Spot with DJ Son. - And DJ Min.
Thanks for listening to our final episode.
Surprise!
You shouldn't have!
This last episode was the best.
Blow out the candles.
- One, two, three. - Two, three.
Dozens of listeners write to us every week.
But maybe what they need aren't solutions to their problems
but rather someone encouraging them and their choices.
HIT THE SPOT
Whether you want to have sex or not
is completely your right.
Hold on. Are you crying?
I don't know why I'm tearing up.
It's okay. Just cry.
Just let it all out.
I'm not crying. There's something in my eye.
- You're crying too? - Get in here.
You did such a good job.
People might think that I tortured you guys or something.
Stop crying!
You two went through a lot these past couple of months.
I wasn't quite sure at first,
but thanks for pulling this off.
Mr. Sim.
Does this mean our real vacation starts tomorrow?
You won't find us at our desks.
Don't forget you promised us a month.
Fine. Enjoy your month-long vacation.
Thank you!
GOOD JOB Ta-da.
What on earth is this?
The podcast got such good ratings
that we got you a special vacation bonus.
Thank you, Mr. Sim! This is amazing.
You're the best.
We love you!
My gosh, save it.
Here's to a job well done, Hee-jae.
Same for me.
Good job.
Here's to our vacation time.
- Cheers! - Cheers!
What? He loves you?
You little minx.
So much for never dating him. I knew it.
We're not dating, though.
But you like him too.
Just date him. What's the problem?
Is this because of Hyun-woo?
It's only been two months since we broke up.
But getting right back on the horse?
That wouldn't be right to Hyun-woo.
Only two months?
It's been a long two months.
Besides, you already went all the way with him.
But we started off as sex partners.
Stop beating around the bush and just tell me.
What's the real issue here?
Damn it.
I don't know.
Dating is fine and all,
but I want some time to myself.
Finally!
Learn how to get to the point, will you?
I'm the worst, aren't I?
Don't ask someone who really is the worst.
Whatever.
It's your life and your choice.
Let me know if anyone judges you.
I'll teach them a lesson.
Forget it.
It sure is nice to be single, though.
You can eat what you want and do whatever you want
without feeling self-conscious.
Yes, exactly.
You can even let out really loud farts too.
Whatever.
So have you decided what to do on vacation?
I mean, it starts tomorrow.
Things have been crazy these days.
I'll start thinking about it now.
- What about you? - Me?
Well...
What is it?
I'm spending it with my boyfriend.
Hold on. A boyfriend? Just like that?
Wait. Are you dating that doctor?
What made you come all the way here?
I thought about what you said.
Were you saying you wanted to start dating?
That was the booze talking yesterday.
I didn't mean much by it, so just forget it.
Relationships are predictable.
But I'd like to give it a try with you.
We'll have the typical ups and downs and even sometimes hurt each other,
which is something that all couples experience.
But as long as I'm with you, I think I can get through it.
We can laugh, cry, and get angry over little things.
And maybe after that, we can fall asleep together.
Do you want to give it a try?
I'd love to.
You little minx.
Why didn't you tell me before?
Like you're one to talk.
Right.
We'll call it even.
Settled.
I wonder how he knew that I was there, though.
Did I tell him after I got drunk?
I don't remember.
- Hello? - Hello?
- Mi-na? - I'm Mi-na's friend.
Can you tell me where you are?
We're at...
What am I going to do on my vacation, though?
Any ideas?
We'll get together soon, so don't have fun without me.
I miss you.
Hey!
COUPANG TRAVEL SEARCH GANGWON-DO ACCOMMODATIONS
Let's go see a Christmas tree.
Don't get any snot on this.
Why are you really here, though?
I told you earlier.
My previous engagement got canceled.
Why?
Does it bother you that people think we're dating?
Of course, it bothers me.
Why do they have to define our relationship?
Because people like everything to be clear-cut.
What's your take on our relationship, then?
Our relationship?
Well...
I'm not sure.
I could feel that our ambiguous relationship
was coming to an end.
PLAY BOOKS
Mr. Kang.
Your lecture was the best. Thank you so much.
Mr. Kang, you're so handsome.
All I could focus on was your face.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
- Will there be a next time? - See you again.
Sure.
How did the lecture go?
How did the meeting go?
Were you waiting for me?
Of course.
I'd like to see that one.
Sure.
I'll take these.
It's for someone I really like, so I'd like it gift-wrapped nicely.
Yes, of course.
I don't see a tree around here.
But all of these are trees. See?
There are so many of them.
You're right.
They're as pretty as Christmas trees.
It's almost Christmas.
Yes, it's already that time of the year.
What are your plans for that day?
Excuse me.
Could you take a photo of us?
Of course.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
Here we go.
One, two, three.
- Let's do this. - Okay.
One, two, three.
- Thank you. - Thanks.
Can we take yours too?
No, thank you.
I see.
- Thank you again. - Thank you.
I think it's going to snow soon.
Did you know...
that being with you has changed me?
Really?
I sensed that about you, but I guess you felt it too.
It was like finding myself again.
Both in bed
and out of it.
I'm really grateful to you.
The old me
wasn't sure of who I was.
I wasn't honest with myself.
I wasn't confident enough
to tell people what I liked or didn't like.
That's understandable. You were still getting to know yourself.
You were still able to find your true self, though.
Now that you've been through this,
you'll never forget who you are again
because you know the way back to yourself.
But if you lose yourself along the way again...
I could help.
I think that's something I need to do alone.
You've done enough for me.
I'm grateful for everything.
But I'm also sorry.
What I need right now...
is time.
Time to figure out who I truly am.
I guess that means we can't be friends anymore.
Not when I'm aware of how you feel about me.
I can't ignore something like that.
I was true to my feelings...
and made my own choices.
If you're also being true to your feelings...
I won't resent you, so don't be sorry.
People can't always be...
on the same emotional page.
Thank you for saying that.
I know the timing is off...
but here you go.
What is it?
Your Christmas present.
But I can't...
It's nothing much.
I just wanted to thank you too.
For the first time in a while...
my heart skipped a beat.
Haven't I ever made your heart skip a beat?
Of course,
you have.
Then we're good.
Shall we get going, then?
I liked him.
And he stirred something inside me.
I just needed time to figure myself out.
What was that just now?
Love.
I love you.
Because I thought that when the time came again,
I'd have to love myself first
in order to love someone back.
Thanks. I'll get going now.
Not so fast.
Ta-da.
What's this?
It's something that will make your vacation perfect.
- Gosh. - Wait.
Open it when you're alone.
It must be something kinky.
It took you so long to discover orgasms. You need constant reminders.
Have fun.
Call me if anything happens.
I'll get going, then.
See you.
- Be careful. - Bye.
- Seoul Station, please. - Sure.
Bye.
Bye!
Here's to a lifetime of orgasms.
It's time to come to an agreement.
Like what?
People who like to lay out ground rules
feel better when they're written out, so I made a draft.
Just a second.
Here.
RELATIONSHIP AGREEMENT
An agreement?
THIS CONTRACT CONSISTS OF DATING RULES FOR LEE MI-NA, THE SUPERIOR,
AND CHA WOO-JAE, THE SUBORDINATE,
TO MAINTAIN A REASONABLE AND AMICABLE RELATIONSHIP
What's wrong? You don't like it?
I'm your boyfriend now, not your sex partner.
Is this necessary?
I don't want to waste our time arguing about little things.
It'll be nice to have some set ground rules.
Take a look.
Okay, then.
"Superior" and "subordinate."
That's taking it too far.
Fine, I'll delete that.
We should exchange our front door lock passcodes too.
Fine, but we're not allowed to show up unannounced.
Sure.
I think I got enough rest.
How many more times are you up for?
As many as you want.
While I'm here, I'll leave behind the days when I wasn't honest with myself
and replace them with what I've learned.
From time to time, I'm still scared of losing myself
while trying to navigate through life.
And who knows? I might fail again.
Actually, I'm pretty sure I'll fail.
But I know that
wishful thinking isn't how you find yourself.
It's up to you to seek it out.
A MONTH LATER
IT'S YOUR TIME TO SHINE AT PLAY BOOKS
Cheers.
I agree. Anyway, have a drink.
- Drink up. - Gosh.
- All right, then. - This is nice.
It looks like Mr. Kang isn't coming.
He no longer has a reason to come.
What? Why?
Let's raise our glasses.
- Cheers. - Cheers.
We worked hard, didn't we?
But seriously?
Why?
Mic check, one, two,
Attention, everyone!
Play Book's online merchandising team.
You all worked very hard last year.
There's been a huge increase in sales compared to two years ago,
and the number of podcast subscribers has blown up as well.
I want to say a lot more,
but I hear you millennials and Gen Z think that's old-fashioned.
Anyway,
I wish us all another good year in 2023.
So everyone...
A toast.
Here's to enjoying the new day,
giving in to all of our desires,
and to our youth!
- Cheers! - Cheers!
Cheers.
Is he really not coming?
Stop asking already.
I mean, why?
- You made it. - I'm a bit late.
- I'm sorry. - It's fine.
This is my best friend, Hee-jae.
Nice to meet you. I'm Cha Woo-jae.
Nice to meet you.
I've heard a lot about you.
Likewise.
And thank you.
Sure.
What are you thanking her for?
- Why did he thank you? - It's nothing.
What's going on?
I'll go introduce him to people.
Sure thing.
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Hey, why are we back here?
Did they promise you time off?
What about you?
- How many months? - That's a secret.
Jeez.
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Hello.
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Why do we have to feel embarrassed?
Why do we have to hide our desires?
How long do we have to fake it
or pretend to be inexperienced?
Isn't it about time we did it for ourselves?
We're here to cheer on your sex lives.
Here's to women having the right to be satisfied.
This is DJ Son.
And DJ Min's Hit the Spot.
And we're back with brand-new episodes.
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