All language subtitles for harry.and.meghan.s01e02.1080p.web.h264-bigdoc_track4_[eng]

[male voice1]
So, yes, so when we come out of here,

we'll go all the way
to the West Side Highway.

But as soon as we get on it,

if you can grab me the lane all the way
to the left against the center median.

-[voice2 on walkie-talkie] Not a problem.
-[voice1] Um, southbound.

[male voice3] They're gonna be waiting
when you get in, you'll see.

[male voice1] Oh yeah,
they're camped out now.

[voice3] Yeah.

[male voice4 outside the car] You're late.

[voice1] Unfortunately.

[Meghan] Thank you.

-[Meghan] Okay. Hello!
-[Harry] Weee!

-[Harry] Hey man, how are you doing?
-[voice1] How are you guys?

[voice1] I'm well. Good morning.

-[Meghan] Never a dull moment.
-[voice1] Oh no.

-[muttered indistinctly]
-[Meghan] Mm?

Do you know how long the drive is?

Maybe like, um,

I don't know now with our detour…

Brad, how long is the drive gonna be?

[Brad] I looked before,
20-something minutes.

Okay.

[Brad] Can we just double check
cause I wasn't getting good service?

-Do we have that pap on the scooter again?
-[Brad] Yes, ma'am.

-Oh we do, really? Same guy?
-[Brad] Same guy.

Oh my gosh.

[Brad] Watched him going to this park.

He's going to be with us?

[Brad] Yes, sir. He was just ahead.

[Harry] There's a lot of people who think,

"They've got such
a problem with paparazzi."

There was um, the guys
in the basement of the building too,

as we were doing that walk,
they were recording

just so you're aware.

[Harry] Back in my mom's days,
it was physical harassment.

They had cameras in your face,
following you, chasing you.

[wistful music playing]

-[Meghan] Still following us?
-[Brad] No.

This pap.
The worst case scenario, our safety first.

Worst case scenario,
we are going from one garage to another.

Like this route.

[Harry] Paparazzi still harass people.

The harassment really
exists more online now.

Once the photographs are out
and the story is then put next to it,

then comes the social media harassment.

To see another woman
in my life who I love,

go through
this feeding frenzy. That's hard.

It is basically,
the hunter versus the prey.

We'll be with friends
in less than ten minutes.

Yeah.

[theme music playing]

[theme music playing]

[man] Sorry, do you mind leaning
forward just one second. Thank you.

[clears throat]

[woman] Can you just start off
by introducing yourself to us?

Sure. My name is Doria
and I'm Meghan's mom.

And um, the last five years
has been challenging.

Yeah.

[female interviewer] How does it feel
to be here talking about that today?

I'm ready to have
my voice heard, that's for sure.

A little bit in my experience,
you know, as her mom. Yeah.

[woman] Do you remember, [laughs]
when Meg told you she was dating Harry?

I do. And when she told me,
we were on the phone and she says,

[whispering] "Mommy,
I'm going out with Prince Harry."

And I started whispering,

[whispering] "Oh my God."

She says, "You can't tell anyone." And so
it was from the beginning, it was sort of,

[whispering] "Oh my God.
Nobody can, you know…"

Mm-hmm and I remember
when I first met him too.

You know, he was just like six one,
handsome man with red hair.

Really great manners.
He was just really nice.

And they looked really happy together.

Yeah, like he was the one.

Once it was announced
that they were together,

it seemed kind of, like a novelty.

[man on TV] It's official…

[instrumental music playing]

…American actress, Meghan Markle,
is the new girlfriend of Prince Harry.

[woman on TV] Prince Harry, it seems
like he's fallen for something rumored.

Her name is Meghan Markle.

[woman on TV] She's on the show Suits

in case you are wondering like,
"How do we know her?"

She's the brainy beauty
who's captured Prince Harry's heart.

Actress Meghan Markle has reportedly won
the heart of royal bad boy, Prince Harry.

[crowd whooping, cheering]

[woman] I'm so excited!

[Meghan] Right when the news broke,
I think we both felt tremendous relief.

And the people
that I hadn't told I was dating H

were just texting me,
"Is it true? Oh my gosh! What?!"

And people were just overjoyed.

When I saw the headlines,
I was happy for her.

It looked like a fairy tale.

My sister called me and said,
"Do you know who Meghan is with?"

I think she's with Prince Harry.

And I said, "What?!"

My phone just started going crazy.

I was like "What is happening?"

And then, it was like this tidal wave.

[female reporter] This young lady
though is very philanthropic.

She's also a part of the UN.

She does a lot of charity work,

which was probably
their original connection.

I remember we discussed this,
"Wouldn't it be great

if somebody already had
their identity, some successes

and had carved their role in the world?"

If there is a problem out there

and we have the means
to really find the call to action

and do something about it,

then I completely believe
that it's our responsibility to do it.

[woman on TV] All eyes are on
that new transatlantic alliance.

A British Prince
and his American sweetheart.

[Meghan] There was a frenzy happening.

It almost felt like all the things
we were nervous about, of it getting out.

Okay, don't worry. It's fine.

And then that very quickly changed.

[Meghan] I remember going to get flowers,
coming out of the flower shop.

And there must have been nine or ten paps

standing in the middle of the street

and they are all sort of blocking the car

and saying
"Hey, how are you doing, Meghan?"

And I was like,
"Oh, thanks. Stay warm, guys!"

And I remember H the next
day saying, you can't talk to them.

And I was like, "I'm just trying
to be pleasant. I don't know what to do.

I've never dealt with this before."

He says, "Right
but the UK media are saying you love it."

You're smiling, you love it.

[Lucy] I remember saying
to her, "When this goes public,

it is not gonna be easy."

The UK media are notorious
for doing whatever they can

to get a story.

And that they go through rubbish bins,
they'll try and break into accounts.

They will do whatever they can
to get an exclusive and make money.

I remember she was quite shocked.

And she was like
"Really? They would do that?"

I said, "Well, yeah. When
it's going to make them millions."

[Meghan] It felt like all
of the UK media descended upon Toronto.

[instrumental music playing]

My house was just surrounded.

Just men
sitting in their cars all the time.

Waiting for me to do anything.

[Harry] I was hearing all
of this from thousands of miles away.

And trying to do something
about it but being completely helpless.

[Meghan] Then my neighbors said
they are knocking on everyone's door,

-trying to find you.
-[camera shutters clicking]

They had paid certain neighbors to put
a life stream camera into my backyard.

Suddenly, it was like everything about
my life just got so much more insular.

Like, all the curtains were pulled,
all the blinds were pulled.

It was scary.

My face was everywhere,
my life was everywhere.

Tabloids had taken over everything.

Long distance relationships are work,
no matter what way you slice it.

Then you add this layer?

And look, bearing in mind you're still
discovering things about each other.

There were things said and things written

that I had to go to her to ask.

And, that was the hardest piece.

And so it really accelerates
the learning curve [laughs]

in a relationship.

[female presenter] Tongues are wagging
needless to say,

let's find out more about her,

what people are saying.

What do we know
about this mysterious woman, Paula?

-[Meghan] Such a sweet neighborhood.
-[Doria] Yeah.

[Doria] I remember you came home
one day from the Immaculate parties

and said "We live over a garage."

-I was like, "Yep, it's a great spot."
-[Meghan] It was a great--

-[Meghan] We walked down the driveway.
-[Doria] That was our driveway.

-It was private.
-[Meghan] Oh, my gosh.

-We had our parties back there.
-[wistful music playing]

I remember I would take a little wagon

and come down the driveway and be
able to come back up the other side.

[wistful music continues]

[Meghan] I grew up in LA,

and I remember my mom telling me stories
about taking me to the grocery store

and women going "Who's child is that"?

"You must be the…"
She's like, "It's my child."

They are like,
"You must be the nanny. Where's her mom?"

Because I was really
fair-skinned and my mom darker.

My parents lived
in the valley until I was about two.

When their relationship ended, she and I
moved to a 40-minute drive from there.

At the time it was mostly a Black
community where my mom and I were living.

[Doria] We were close to
my mom, her grandma.

And my sister was close by.

And my girlfriends were close by.

So we had a nice network of women

who really helped me raise Meg.

She was always so easy to get along
with, very congenial, making friends.

You know, she was a very empathic child.

Very mature.

I remember asking Meg
if I feel like her mom.

And she told me that
I felt like her older controlling sister.

I never forgot that.

[children chattering indistinctly]

[Meghan squeals] Oh!

Ms. Debby.

[Debbie] You know the mass,
our Grand Duchess!

[Meghan] Oh my gosh!

How are you?

[Debbie] I'm very well.

So happy to see you! [laughing]

[Doria] Nice to see you.

[Debbie] Love you.

[Doria] My goodness. It's amazing.

What a great choice
this was to start Meg here.

[Meghan] When we went back to,
Hollywood School House.

I was there from ages two to 12.

It was so nice to be back.

[Debbie] I want you to see
what you wrote to me.

[Meghan] Oh my gosh! Show me. [laughs]

[Debbie] Your penmanship was fantastic.

Go ahead and read that.
But I want you to pay attention to the PS.

[Meghan] "Dear Ms. Debby,
you've helped me so much

since I was two years old.

I knew I could count on you to be there
for me as a principal and also a friend.

I can't thank you enough. Even though
I was at this school for ten years,

I wish I could have stayed for ten more.

This school will always have a special
place in my heart. Much love, Meghan.

PS: When I am rich
and famous and I write my life story,

I will talk about you and the school,
so you will be known worldwide."

[Meghan laughing]

[Doria] That's true.

-[Meghan] Say's the 11-year-old.
-[Debbie laughing]

[Meghan] Oh my God.

[instrumental music playing]

I was a big nerd growing up.

This is an important part
that people don't understand about me.

Like, I was not the pretty one.

My entire identity was wrapped up
in being the smart one.

There are those catalyzing moments
in your life and from my standpoint,

I had this commercial changed when I was
young because I found it to be sexist.

[man on TV] Women are fighting greasy
pots and pans with Ivory Clear…

[Meghan] I was eleven.

[young Meghan] "Dear sir,
last week at my school,

we decided to
watch news for social studies.

While flipping through the channels,

we saw a commercial for
the new Ivory Clear dishwashing liquid.

In the commercial
they said women are battling grease,

meaning only women do dishes.

When I heard this,
the boys in my class started saying,

"Yeah, that's where
women belong… in the kitchen."

So I was wondering if you'll be able

to change your commercial
to people all over America."

[man on TV] The gloves are coming off.

People are fighting greasy
pots and pans with Ivory Clear.

[Meghan] I changed that commercial,
from my little handwritten letter.

And it was a big deal because I was going
to middle school after that. So I was like

I was the little activist.

[rock music playing]

[Susan] I met Meghan in the seventh grade.

We were walking
into all of our new classes

and she was holding
the door open, tap dancing.

We became fast friends. We were both
into the same extracurricular activities.

And spent a lot of time in
leadership roles at school, volunteering.

When I ran for Student Council,
she was like my campaign manager.

And took it so seriously.

After school, I'd go
see my dad who was a lighting director.

Sometimes I'd go on the set of this
TV sitcom called Married With Children.

I loved being on set. I loved it.

And I loved the camaraderie of a crew.

[Susan] Tom did a lot for our school,

being a lighting director and Meghan
being so involved with performances.

-You could not.
-I could too.

You could not, little liar!

I'm not lying!

[Susan] Meghan loved the theater.

I would go to all
of her musicals, performances.

[screaming]

[Susan] She was so passionate about it.

And very driven to be successful.

I couldn't help her
with her home work. She was way smarter.

She got straight A's, very disciplined.

I would say that Meg is an old soul.

We will always dedicate ourselves to
making it a better world. Thank you.

[crowd applause]

This is where I had my high
school graduation. The Hollywood Bowl.

Hundred and three girls
on the stage, all wearing white gowns.

Not like cap and gowns,
like beautiful white gowns.

There it is. The last concert
I went to there, I went with my mom.

And we were in the parking lot leaving

and my mom honked, this woman was taking
a long time to figure out how to get out.

And the woman turned around
and screamed the N-word at my mom.

I just remembered my mom like, the
grip her hand had on the steering wheel.

And you could see her fist was
so tight, like the knuckles got all white.

And she was just silent the rest of
the drive home, we never talked about it.

[somber music playing]

[Meghan] I had never in my life
heard someone say the N-word.

Very different to be a minority

but not be treated
as a minority right off the bat.

I'd say now,
people are very aware of my race

because they made it
such an issue when I went to the UK.

But before that…

most people didn't
treat me like a "Black woman."

So that talk didn't have to happen for me.

[Doria] As a parent,

in hind sight, absolutely,
I would like to go back

and have that kind of real conversation

about how the world sees you.

Can you imagine if he…
You be Harry and I'll be the Queen.

-Grandmother, I met this beautiful woman,
-Yeah.

she just happens to be mixed-race.

[all laughing]

I said to her. I remember this
very clearly, that this is about race.

And Meg said
"Mommy, I don't wanna hear that"

And I said, you may not want to hear it
but this is what's coming down the pike.

At that time I wasn't thinking about
how race played a part in any of this.

I genuinely didn't think about it.

Within that first week
that it became public knowledge,

the first story was, 'Harry's new girl
[almost] straight out of Compton.'

I was like, "Whoa!"

Well firstly, I'm not from
Compton, I've never lived in Compton.

So it's factually incorrect. But why
do you have to make a dig at Compton?

[somber music playing]

[Harry] The direction
of the palace was, "Don't say anything."

[Meghan] No comment.
Everyone just say, "No comment."

[Harry] But what people
need to understand is

as far as a lot
of the family were concerned,

everything that she was being put through,

they'd been put through as well.

So it was almost like a rite of passage.

Some of the members of the family were
like, but "My wife had to go through that.

So why should your
girlfriend be treated any differently?

Why should you get special
treatment. Why should she be protected?"

And I said,
"The difference here is the race element."

[tense music playing]

They would take pictures
of different parts of, say, skid row

and say that was where I lived
and that was where she was from.

[camera shutters clicking]

[Meghan] It was horrible.

But I continued to
hold the line, say nothing.

[Harry] Eight days after
the relationship became public,

I put out a statement,

calling out the racist undertones
of articles and headlines

that were written by the British press,

as well as outright racism
from those articles across social media.

[wistful music playing]

[female reporter1]
Kensington palace issuing a statement

about the harassment
being experienced by Meghan Markle.

[female reporter2]
Now, he says that she has suffered

abuse and harassment
with racist undertones.

Prince Harry is worried about Ms. Markle's
safety and is deeply disappointed

that he has not been able to protect her.

This is not a game, it's her life.

It is a very clear message
to the British press, "Back off."

[David] She was a princess
straight out of Compton.

It was, brutal but it was
also in some ways unsurprising.

[dramatic music playing]

[James Holt] The UK tabloids have a
very unique role to play in British life.

On one hand they have
the real sensationalized element

that loves the gossip.

But equally, it's not just entertainment

because the tabloids have been arbiters
of public opinion for such a long time.

A number of the tabloids
could sway governments.

At election time, they are
the popular press for a reason.

The British tabloid press exists
both as a series of publications

but also as a mentality. And it's toxic.

We have to recognize
that this is a White industry.

Black people are
about 3.5% of the population

and about 0.2% of the journalists.

So, people
who come up with these headlines,

they are doing so in
a newsroom that's almost entirely White.

And they get to decide whether something
has crossed the line of being racist.

And, anyone who steps into the public eye,

particularly someone
who's female and someone who is Black,

is fair game in their minds.

[woman] This is everything on our list.

I'll take it from here.

Whoop!

They are gonna take you
in just a few minutes here.

I've come a long way
from Little Red School House.

Is it tight?

-[Meghan] Are you nervous?
-Yes.

-Just go with the flow.
-[laughing]

Urgh!

[Meghan] People don't talk about
what it's like to be mixed race.

So much of my self-identification

was, trying to figure out where I fit in.

And I think a lot of that is, you're not
White enough or you're not Black enough,

but I don't see the world that way.

-Nice to meet you.
-You too. My mom's here tonight.

-Mama! Meghan Markle's mom is here too.
-[Mama] What?

Hey, brother. Anthony. Nice to meet you.

[Harry] One thing I've learnt is that

we don't see the world as it is.
We see it as we are.

By the time I met Meghan, I think
I had traveled half the Commonwealth.

I met people
and communities all around the world.

And through that, I thought I knew.

I thought I had an
awareness to issues, ways of living,

unconscious bias. Like, all of it.

[male announcer] And now,
it is my honor to present

the NAACP President's Awards to

Prince Harry and Meghan,
the Duke and Duchess of Sussex.

[crowd applause]

[Harry] But hearing her talk

and having seen her
have conversations and chats,

I was like, here you are just blissfully,
like, I guess, sleepwalking through life.

It's safe to say, I come from a different
background than my incredible wife.

Yet our lives
were brought together for a reason.

We share
a commitment to a life of service.

A responsibility to confront injustice,

and a belief that
the most often overlooked

are the most important to listen to.

And I couldn't be prouder
that we are doing this work together.

We moved to California, my home state,
shortly before the murder of George Floyd.

And for Black America, those nine
minutes and 29 seconds transcended time,

invoking centuries of our unhealed wounds.

My son, my daughter, my children

are mixed race
and I'm really proud of that.

When my kids grow up
and they look back at this moment

and they turn to me and say,
"What did you do in this moment?"

I want to be able to give them an answer.

[Harry singing] ♪ Heigh-ho,
Heigh-ho, it's off to work we go ♪

-[Harry whistling]
-[wistful music playing]

[Harry] I think it's such
a responsibility as human beings.

That if you bring
a small person into this world,

you should be doing anything you can
to make the world a better place for them.

[Archie indistinctly]

[whispering] We won't get a chance to be
this close to hummingbirds ever again.

-[Archie] Why?
-[Harry whispering] Just watch.

Because they're scared of humans.

These guys, look at them!

Archie!

[Archie] I've got a dirty foot, mama!

Because I was with you.

[laughing]

[Meghan laughing] Oh my God!

[Archie] I've got a dirty foot.

[Meghan] You've got
a dirty foot, sweetheart.

Papa is a bird watcher,
so this is a big moment for him.

[bird chirping]

[Harry] But equally, what's
most important for the two of us

is to make sure that we don't repeat the
same mistakes that our parents made.

[Harry] "Who's that?

That is the centipede."

[Meghan] There's so much
from anyone's childhood

that you bring with you into the present.

Especially when you are
the product of divorce.

[wistful music playing]

[Harry] I think most kids who are
the products of divorced parents

have a lot in common, [laughs]
no matter what your background is.

Being pulled from one place to another
or maybe your parents are competitive

or you're in one place
longer than you want to be

or another place less than you want to be.
There's all sorts of pieces to that.

[Meghan] Even though
my parents co-parented well,

if you think about how that informs
what you grew up to be and what you want…

It's so funny, when I was 12,
I was at Immaculate Heart,

and one of the assignments
was to write a poem about your life.

And I remember
this poem till this day, which was,

Two houses, two homes
Two kitchens, two phones

Two couches where I lay
Two places that I stay

Moving, moving here and there
From Monday to Friday, I'm everywhere

Don't get me wrong, it's not that bad
But often times it makes me sad.

I want to live that nuclear life
With a happy dad and his loving wife

A picket fence, a shaggy dog
A fire place with a burning log

But it's not real, it's just a dream
I cannot cry or even scream

So here I sit with cat number three
Life would be easy if there were two of me

[wistful string music playing]

[Meghan] I was with my mom during the week

and with my dad on the weekends.

And my dad lived alone,
he had two adult children

who had moved out of his house.

[young Meghan] Where's Daddy?

Woah. I gotta zoom back on you.

Gotta push that button on the back.

-[young Meghan] Oh yeah.
-See? If you hit that button

you go forward, right?

Okay. Alright. Am I there? I wonder.

Okay, see you later. Bye-bye.

[Meghan]
I was a daddy's-girl my whole life.

Okay, I gotta press the button there.

[Meghan] And I was with him a lot.

[Meghan's dad] Go ahead.

[young Meghan] Daddy's pictures.

[Meghan's dad] We're gonna
catch fish for dinner, right?

[young Meghan] Fish for dinner.

That's our goal. Yes it is.

[Meghan] But I do remember
also feeling lonely when I was a kid.

And wanting to have more people around.

-[Meghan's dad] Determined.
-What?

[Meghan's dad] Determined.

[laughs]

[lively upbeat music playing]

She had a whole life before she met H.

She had a core group of friends

and, Meg was very outgoing, super social.

Living in Toronto.

She was very openhearted.

I lived in a great little
residential community. I had my two dogs.

And it was great. It was easy, low-key.

Go for hikes and walks. You go to set.

I loved my job.

[male TV crew] Here they come. Get ready
with the slates please. Lock it up.

[Chantelle] I feel Toronto
was kind of a safe haven

for actors who were working in the city.

Meg would go to
the grocery store and get recognized.

And people would say,
"Aren't you that girl from Suits?"

[Abigail] When we were out
on the streets, she would always

interacting physically with the fans.

And like, let's take a selfie.
And putting their arms around her.

Of course! What's your name?

[Chantelle] Other than that,
she had so much freedom.

She had such a beautiful life

before everything exploded.

[tense music playing]

-[camera shutters clicking]
-[woman2] Hey! Hi!

[man] Get a hold of that.

[woman3] Yeah, of course.

[Chantelle] It really did take
a dark turn quickly.

There is like a baked-in
level of curiosity and

opinion, dealing with royals
that I have not seen before.

The paparazzi started
coming out to try to get eyes on her.

And, there were
people trying to buy call sheets

from production assistants on our show,

so they could
find out when she was shooting.

They'd get this
really long lenses and like hide on hills

so that they could get a view of her.

There were people breaking
into the area where their trailers are,

and trying
to get pictures of her coming in

and out of her trailer. Started
feeling a little bit dangerous for her.

At a certain point,
we had to cage in all the trailers.

And that was really challenging

logistically because she was on a TV show

and her nature is to never
make things more difficult for anyone.

But I don't think anyone knew how to

manage that new normal.

[camera shutters clicking]

I was terrified somebody was gonna
just be in her trailer waiting for her.

[Meghan] So I would say to the police,

if any other woman
in Toronto right now said to you,

"I have six grown men who
are sleeping in their cars around my house

and following me
everywhere that I go and I feel scared,

wouldn't you say it was stalking?"

And they said
"Yes, there's really nothing we can do

because of who you are dating."

So like,
I'm just supposed to live like this?

And then I got a death threat,

then things changed
because I needed to have security.

[Steve] I was hired by NBC
to take over the security for Meghan.

And this has been
the most intense situation

with the media. I mean, I've worked
with A-list celebrities before,

high net-worth families before…

This blew the meter right out the water.

[woman] Meg, c'mon!

[Steve] The paparazzi that would do
what they have to do to get a picture.

My job was to make sure they
didn't really know where we were going

-and when we were going there.
-[somber music playing]

We had a special driver taking myself
and Meghan to the studio all the time.

He was trained in evasive driving.

And we used to have
to take different routes to the studio

to get away
from the paparazzi that were chasing us.

And when we were coming back
down to the residence after the studio,

there were people on
radios letting people know

we were coming back down to the area.

So we had to go down in alleys

and bring Meghan to the back
of the house, open the garage door,

make sure no one was
there so we could sneak in.

[camera shutters clicking]

[woman] It was scary.

There were people constantly at her door.
Or trying to get into her house

or trying to get around
so that they can find her.

[Steve] Mail was screened,
it was coming into the studio.

There were some things that came in
that were a little bit out of the ordinary

and we used to send those over
to Harry's security detail in the UK

and they used to take care of those
situations and monitor what was going on.

[Meghan] When all
of that started happening,

my friends and people in my life
who love me and care about me are like,

"Is he worth this?"

Like, we know that you're happy
and we know that you love him.

Is he worth this?
Look at what's happening to your life.

We just did everything we
could to be there for each other.

We had to stay connected.

We wouldn't have
survived it if we weren't.

I don't know how we did it but we did it.

[instrumental music playing]

[Harry] Most of the times,
we were on the other side of the Atlantic.

She was in Canada working.

I would try to get over and see her

and she would get over and see me more.

[camera shutters clicking]

[Meghan] I would go straight
from set to the airport. Get there,

land. Get harassed.

Try to get to him discretely, hunker down.

And then fly right back and go to set.

Just rinse and repeat. Constantly.

Dating became
the combination of car chases,

anti-surveillance driving and

[inhales deeply]

disguises. [chuckles]

Which isn't a particularly
healthy way to start a relationship.

But we always came at it
with as much humor as possible.

So whenever we saw each other

we would just give each other
a massive hug and [breathe in deeply]

try and have as much
of a normal life as possible.

So I'd go away and have a
weekend with her with a group of friends.

[laughing]

It's so funny if I look back at it now

because now I know so much,
and I'm so glad I didn't then.

Because I could just authentically be
myself without so much preparedness.

[instrumental music playing]

Even when Will and Kate came over

and I had met her for
the first time… They came for dinner.

I remember I was
in ripped jeans and I was barefoot.

I was a hugger, always being a hugger.

I didn't realize that that is
really jarring for a lot of Brits.

I guess I started
to understand very quickly

that the formality on the outside,
carried through on the inside.

That there is
a forward-facing way of being.

And then you close
the door and you are like

[sighing] "Oh, great.
Okay, we can relax now."

But that formality
carries over on both sides.

And that was surprising to me.

[Harry] My grandmother
was the first senior member

of the family that Meghan met.

She had no idea what it all consisted of.

So it was a bit
of a shock to the system for her.

[Meghan] I mean, it's surreal.

[instrumental music playing]

There wasn't like some big moment of,
"Now you're gonna meet my grandmother."

I didn't know
I was gonna meet her until moments before.

We were in the car and
we were going to Royal Lodge for lunch,

and he was like, "Oh, my grandmother is
here, she's gonna be there after church."

We were in the car, driving and he's like,
"You know how to curtsy, right?"

And I just thought it was a joke.

[royal music playing]

[Harry] How do you explain that to people?

How do you explain
that you bow to your grandmother?

And that you would need to curtsy,
especially to an American. That's weird.

[soft instrumental music playing]

[Meghan] Now I'm starting
to realize this is a big deal.

I mean, Americans would understand this.

We have Medieval Times,
dinner and tournament.

It was like that.
Like, I curtsied as though I was like…

[instrumental music ends dramatically]

[titters]

Pleasure to meet you, Your Majesty.

Like, was that okay?

It was so intense.

And then when she left,
Eugenie and Jack and Fergie say

"You did great!"

Thanks. I didn't know what I was doing.

I remember my family first meeting
her and being incredibly impressed.

Some of them didn't quite know
what to do with themselves. [laughs]

So I think they were. They were surprised.

They were surprised that the ginger
could land such a beautiful woman.

And such an intelligent woman.

But the fact
that I was dating an American actress,

was probably what clouded their judgment
more than anything else in the beginning.

Oh, she's an
American actress, this won't last.

[man] Hi, Meghan!

[Meghan] The actress thing was
the biggest problem, funny enough.

There was a big idea
of what that looks like

from the UK standpoint. Hollywood and…

[inhaling deeply]

It was just very easy
for them to typecast that.

-Hi.
-Hi.

-Hi.
-Hi.

[Nick] I first met Meghan, it was 2007.

At that point she had
already gotten cast in a few things.

I got a phone call from executive.

You know Fox,
the man said we cast this girl

and she was amazing
and she needs an agent and we love you

and whatever.
You should meet her. I was like, "Great."

[instrumental music playing]

[Nick] She had to just go in
and meet and audition

and start from the ground up.

[Meghan] It is very hard
on your confidence

to be an auditioning actor, especially
when you don't fit into any box.

[Nick] I did not know she was biracial.

I thought she was
sun-kissed California, freckly.

I don't even remember the point
at which I found out she was biracial.

And I think once I found out,
I would send her out for Black roles.

Sometimes I'd pitch her for those roles,
the casting would ask, "What do you mean?"

And I'd be like,
"She's biracial, her mom is Black."

And they'd say, "No, she doesn't look it."

[Meghan] When you hear, "No" all the time,

you go, "What's wrong with me?
I'm not good enough for this or this."

It triggers the same stuff
for me when I was a kid.

It's like, where do I fit in?

[lively instrumental music playing]

[Heather] She was auditioning

and getting close
to roles but not getting them.

I was just so amazed and proud of her

that like, you know,
you fall down, you get back up.

She just kept going and going.

All I wanted was to be on a
TV show with longevity and consistency.

[Doria] She was relentless,
which was amazing,

that she didn't throw in the towel.

[Doria] And then finally,
the universe said yes.

Mike Ross?

Hi. I'm Rachael Zane,
I'd be giving you your orientation.

Wow! You're pretty.

Good. You've hit on me. We can get
it out of the way that I'm not interested.

I always loved that picture.

[laughs] Me too.

[Nick] Rachael Zane
was really in some ways

one of the first representations I'd seen

of a real identified biracial woman.

You know, seeing her
family and how it fits together.

I was a child.

Most children let things go.

[Nick] Once they knew who she was,
to their credit they wrote to it.

[Silver] She'd just
bring this, like, lightness.

And for a director,
she is such a simple actor

in that she is always natural
but is absolutely trusting.

She didn't overthink it, she just did it.

And I think
it put a lot of people at ease.

Hi. Welcome to the
Suits blooper reel, Season Five.

[soft rock music playing]

[Silver] All the cast
really cared for each other.

And that was the glue
for a lot of those cast relationships.

Blooper reel.

I think she liked being part of something.

But I don't think acting
was actually her true passion.

She just seemed
like boiling over with ideas.

That's how
I would describe her at that time.

[lively instrumental music playing]

I think she was on
a track to do bigger things.

Now, we are in Beverly hills
and we're gonna pass the, um,

Beverly Hilton Hotel, where I'll be on
Sunday meeting other Northwestern people.

[Meghan] At Northwestern,
I had double-majored

in Theater and International Relations.

And I just, I loved writing.
And I minored in English.

So there is the brainy part.

There is the care
about how the world functions.

Oh my god! [laughing]

-That is proper…
-That is really fun! [laughing]

[Meghan] I've never really been
the type of person to do only one thing.

I guess that's how my website was born.

[Silver] When she first
was describing it to me,

she was like, "It's your bestfriend
telling you all the fun things

that you wish
you knew about, in one place."

[Meghan] There was fashion.
There was tons of food and travel.

It was all the things I loved.

And TheTig wasn't just a hobby,

it became a really successful business.

I always said to her,
I'd say, "I think you are a producer.

I think you are a producer.
I think you are an activist."

[Meghan] I was writing
op-eds about your self worth.

And about being biracial
and about volunteer work.

When I would
do Suits, I would in hiatus go to India.

Go to Rwanda and do cause-driven work.

[people singing in Swahili]

[Meghan] That's what I was excited about.

I wasn't trying to find,
like the great Indie film

that's gonna get me an Oscar. No.

I just wanted to go and volunteer.

[crowd cheering]

Distinguished Ladies and Gentlemen,
I am tremendously honored

to be UN Women's advocate for
political participation and leadership.

I am proud to be a woman and a feminist.

[crowd cheering]

[Silver] She's fed through service.
And I think H is like that too.

And that's rare.

[Meghan] Welcome
and thank you all for being here, truly.

We're very grateful.
This is something we've been…

[Meghan] A lot of what
H and I connected on

in our courtship was that H
and I have so many parallel interests

even though our world
and our lives were so different.

[Meghan] For us,
what's deeply important is this

idea of equity. Be it racial equity,

gender equity
and in this sense, vaccine equity.

To just be equipped with
the information that we need to be able to

better serve this larger purpose.

[Harry] From my perspective,
I fell head over heels in love with her…

because my heart told me

that she was the one that I was
gonna spend the rest of my life with.

And then, once I got to know even more,

my head then told me, "Well, she's
absolutely perfect for the role as well."

[soft music playing]

When it came to Meghan,

that was, I guess the case
of finding a needle in a haystack.

[female interviewer] Tell me about
the proposal, please.

Are you looking at me? You tell it.

[string music plays]

[Harry] I wanted to do it earlier.

Like, I was… because I had to ask
permission from my grandmother,

I couldn't do it outside of the UK.

I did pop a bottle of champagne
while she was greasing the chicken

and that kind of
slightly gave the game away.

She was like, "You don't
drink champagne. What's the occasion?"

I was like, "I don't know. Just had it
laying around here, whatever."

It was a magnum. [laughing]

[Harry] Wasn't that I knew she'd say yes,

but she'd already moved Guy over.
So I had Guy as a hostage.

My dog, yeah.

[Harry] He was using stilts,
so he couldn't run away.

And then in the North garden
being over looked by the staff flats,

I got 15 of those electric candles.

[Meghan whispering]
Oh my God, Jess. It's happening.

Oh my God.

He told me not to peek.

-Oh my God.
-[interviewer] What position were you in?

Downward dog.

[Meghan laughing]

-You're doing good. That's really clever.
-Doing good?

You see, he's funny.

[Harry] Of course I got down on one knee.

Of course I did.

[Meghan] He's down on one knee
and I was just like, "Yes!"

I was so joyful and excited.

I was like, "Ah, we're doing this."

♪ I know why I've waited ♪

♪ Know why I've been blue ♪

♪ I've been waiting each day ♪

♪ For someone exactly like you ♪

[Lucy] They were so happy.

And they were gonna keep it quiet because
it was gonna be announced few weeks later.

We had a little engagement party

and everyone
was dressed in animal onesies.

And Meghan and Harry
were in matching penguin onesies

because penguins mate for life.
And they were so sweet.

And we had so much fun.

She felt like
they could take on the world.

♪ She knew just around the corner ♪

♪ Yes, she knew just around the corner ♪

♪ That there was somebody
Exactly like you ♪

[female reporter] Breaking royal news.

Prince Harry officially engaged
to American actress, Meghan Markle.

The announcement putting
weeks of speculation to rest.

[male reporter]
Lots of people are very excited

that she's gonna bring
this fresh sparkle, if you like,

into the Royal Family
and it's all seen as good news.

I can't tell you
how excited we are. The whole world is.

It just shows how much more
in touch with the general population

the Royal Family is becoming.

Raise your hand. Does everyone know

-who Meghan Markle is?
-[school children] Yeah.

I think it would make
a difference slightly

because some people are really racist
to other people because of their color.

And because Meghan Markle
is joining the Royal Family,

I think it might make
them change their minds.

[Misan] The union of Harry and Meghan,

for lots of people of color
and the UK Black community

possibly for the first time,
made a lot of people feel seen.

[soft music playing]

[David] Like everyone else,

a lot of Black people
were standing, getting swept up

in this romance and they sort of,
they're gonna wonder in this moment.

I wanted it to work,
just like many people wanted it to work.

[soft music continues]

[David] But this fairy-tale
is embedding itself

in a nation that is having a pretty
toxic debate about the European Union.

[tense music playing]

Now, this is a once-in-a-lifetime chance.

We have
to take back control of this country.

-Can you hear me in the back?
-[man shouts fanatically] Yeah!

Immigration is the number one issue.

The people are very upset,
they are very unhappy.

[crowd protesting]

If you go back and look
at the social media of that moment,

immigration was
in the absolute center of those debates.

And immigration is very often,
in this country, a cipher for race.

[crowd clamoring]

[man1] Everybody should feel
concerned about illegal immigration.

We don't know who these people are.

[man2] Go back to Africa!

Send them back home.

[crowd clamoring indistinctly]

So the EU commissioned a report
in 2016, exactly the same time

that our relationship became public.

It warned that if the government
isn't going to do something

or if the media aren't going to
sort themselves out,

then a culture war, that already existed,

was going to become huge
and become a real problem.

[tense music continues]

[James] It was a perfect storm,

that gave credence
to jingoism and nationalism.

And gave people
with really horrible views of the world,

a little bit more strength and confidence

to say what they wanted to say,
to do whatever they wanted to do.

[crowd protesting indistinctly]

[Nick] So it was an inauspicious moment

for Britain to try this fairy-tale story,
with a fairy-tale princess in this

diverse modernizing country.

-[tense music playing]
-[crowd protests indistinctly]

[Nick] You were slightly watching it
with your hand in your mouth.

Could the tabloids control themselves?

Could the Palace persuade
the tabloids to control themselves?

Could we as a nation wean ourselves
off wanting to intrude into the lives of

the Royal Family
far more than is reasonable?

[camera shutters clicking sporadically]

[woman] Congratulations from all
of us. How are you guys feeling?

-Uh, yeah, thrilled. [laughs]
-[Meghan laughs]

Also we're very glad
it's not raining, as well.

[female reporter] Hi Meghan,
how are you feeling?

So happy, thank you.

At that point, I was still
very much believing what I was being told.

[soft instrumental music playing]

[Meghan] Which was,
'It will pass. It will get better.'

It's just what
they do right at the very beginning.

This promise of once you're married,
don't worry, it would get better.

Once they get used to you,
it will get better.

Of course, it will be better.

But truth be told, no matter how hard
I tried, no matter how good I was.

No matter what I did…

they were still gonna find a way

to destroy me.

["Pledging My Love"
by Erma Franklin playing]

♪ Forever my darling ♪

♪ My love will be true ♪

♪ Always and forever ♪

♪ I'll love just you ♪

♪ Just promise me darling ♪

♪ Your love in return ♪

♪ May this fire in my soul dear ♪

♪ Forever burn ♪

♪ My heart's at your command dear ♪

♪ To keep love and to hold ♪

♪ Making you happy is my desire dear ♪

♪ Keeping you is my goal ♪

♪ I'll forever love you ♪

♪ For the rest of my days ♪

♪ I'll never part from you ♪

♪ And your loving ways ♪

Subtitle translation by: Regina Njoku