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My name is Tristan Tate

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It's been commented on by many many people is

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But I'm here today to talk about how

You and your best friend your brother your companion whoever you like to hang out with

How your body language

Can complement each other

Now the main reason for this

Isn't to be

Combat-ready

As Andrew Touchstone of the previous video

But it's more to avoid

Confrontation

You're very controversial characters

Almost nobody who knows who we are

Lights off

You are one of the

Few people you're one of the

Elite the people actually understand what we're talkin about

And Lightfoot we have to say but most people don't

That said

We are Never

Started on

In the real world

Now of course now we're

Well renowned

Kickboxing Champions but we've always had the same principle

And the same body language in the same mannerism

And we've noticed that people do not start on this very often

And the best way to avoid conflict

And to avoid combat

Is Tubi

Perceptive

Do the very famous experiment actually done in India

Where

Tiger attack

On the Indian minors

Or

Completely going crazy. The numbers are through the roof and you can look this up please look it up

And the solution they came to

To avoid tigers attacking the miners

With these miners would take human face mask

And wear them on the back of their heads

So they'd do their mining go down in their boats drive around in their trucks be out in the open

With this mask on the back of their head

And if you look it up on Google images for sure you'll be able to find exactly what I'm talking about

You'll see that the mask

Look stupid that it looks ridiculous he was a very minor touch

That these guys

Philips about the problem

Actually applied something

But tigrett accidentally dropped 20

Now men

Very much like

Tigers

Are big pussies to

I just thought that I didn't actually write this

What you'll find is

Everyone's coward and no one wants to fight 101

Even if there's only two of you

Your body language how you stand and where you place yourself

Can be a massive deterrent

To being started on having any kind of physical,

Now in school they teach you

Things like

A strong handshake

I'm sure the basis of this is in every single

Korsal guide body language in the world

But they teach it for the wrong reasons

In school I was taught that strong handshake makes the person who I want to employ me

Like me more or take me more seriously

You could convey

Many different

Expressions

And emotions with something as simple as a handshake

If I'm in a room with a group of people who may or may not be hostile

If I'm in a room with a group of people who may or may not be hostile

The standard good handshake they'll teach you to give

With the right expression on your face can also mean

Don't f*** with me

It can say

I'm stronger than you

It could say

I'm not a pushover

These are things that people don't think about

Because it's never thought

Everyone is taught how to shake hands

To say please employ me please give me a job

But many other things could be conveyed

With the Hedge

Now when we were out in public

We're always watching each other's back

Paranoia is it cool

It isn't sexy

And it isn't really alpha-2b paranoid

All the time that somebody's going to start on you

I know people who walk through the world in this way

They're scared of everything and everybody

The police the person walking behind their jumpy

That's not why I'm talking

And that is not the way

Men like me and Andrew behave

When I talk about watching each other's back

It's the small things that mean and rude

People who hang around with

Pickup

You guys at home won't see these things because they're never recorded and they're never on cow

Me and Andrew always sit for example across the table

From one another

Just in case somebody decides to

Come up from behind and attack us

It's very much like

The tiger analogy wearing the mask in the back of your head

I am his advice

Avengers on the date with a beautiful woman

And I'm sitting with my back against the wall and I can see what's going on behind Andrew

Andrew can relax and you can have his good time

You cannot worry about

Looking over your shoulder because you do have a few enemies

Everywhere

This doesn't just apply

When you're with somebody else

Spike and very much apply to yourself

Are you by yourself are you in Starbucks getting a coffee about to do some work on your laptop

Be very careful

About where you sit

She's somewhere where your back is against the wall like right now I'm sitting in the corner I can see everything that's going on in the room in front of me

This is the place you want to say

Because you think somebody's going to come up and attack you not because you are

Scared of

Salem's or muggers or robbers

Just being able to see everything that goes on in the room

Gives you the chance to react

The situation

I guarantee if you would look at some of the violent crazy things that happened in Europe from bombings to terrorist attacks

In the last few years

Some of the people who survived

Survived because of where they were sitting

And it wasn't checks

A few of the people I'm sure

World

Self-aware

Enough to be

Perspicacious

About their environment

To sit in the corner to watch what's going on to be able to react

The environment around

Now that I see people with headphones in

Slap Subaru table with their coffee typing right away on their laptop and the whole rooms behind them and they're facing a wall

Look like

Retarded

You don't to be a tiger to know that that person

Is a target if anything goes down in that coffee shop

If anything goes down in that restaurant

That person is going to be one of the first to die

So what

Across the table from one another

Always

I have had people

Who've I've invited over

The Eastern Europe who assume that mean and where the kings of everywhere we go

Mostly because me and you are very adaptive Fighters and we can handle ourselves very well

But you need to understand in most situations from Western Europe to Eastern Europe when you go to

Very expensive

Exclusive places

Nightclub

First class lounges at airports

The people around you

Or your equals

Or your buttocks

It in some respect financially

Now if I'm in the club and I'm sitting in the VIP section there are six tables only an entire club that has Movie 2000

I know those other people

Or somebody's too

Very rarely will a club just let some loser into sit around and drink that super expensive alcohol and even then it's a promote

Closer who knows people or who's friends with the owner

Or something like that

Eastern Europe also what can you tell those backs

Isn't just

Actually viewing your surroundings and knowing what's going on around you

Self-awareness

It's also how you interact

The people

Who's around you

To give you an example

If I sit down at a table

And there are

Three or four Dudes number of due to outnumber us

Am I right

This has happened plenty of times

With our six or seven girls

On my table

Now how you assert yourself

Is going to

Determine whether or not those guy try to roll up on your women

You're only two guys

You're with six girls

They assume

Daddy's Girls are

Friends of my girlfriend that they don't know I'm f****** 39g f******

So course it's not totally normal for the guys to at least think about

Talking to the girls who come with you to the club

That doesn't happen to me then

Because of the way we assert ourselves

What you typically find

Is the most competent amongst

Works as a scout

We'll say hi will say can I borrow a lighter from one of the girls

When that happens

Always ask the girl

If she's okay after

I do all the time

GoGo God will be like Scooby-Doo like it for my girls

I'll say hey you okay

I touched her arm gently

So the guy says oh I was just asking for a lighter

No problem my friend handshake I contact you know you have to a server

Don't f*** with me

With the initial contact with the guy

If I just turn my back and ignore him

After the light has been bar and he gives it back he's going to say where you from who are you what's up

You know you have to cut things off

The moment they happen yet nip it in the butt

So the way you could duck yourself within your own group of people will stop others

Trying to come over and invade your space

So the key is always put yourself in a position of power

Don't just sit down and start causing the way on drinks

I don't typically sit next to add you and talk away in that are girls mind their own business

4 mixed in with the two or three girls / one of us at any

Stage around the Round Table

If you know what I mean

So we're always in control of our group and control of our herb if you

It's the way you position yourself lets others know not to creep up on you not try to talk to your women and

Especially

Not to start some sort stupid argument

That said in clubs also

Combat Readiness I always have to keep

At least one of my hands-free

If my hand isn't free something that can be used as a weapon

Now I've in my life

Bitten maybe two fights

Inside of my car

None of them in Eastern Europe it's more of an England

And I avoid conflict

Owl cost

But the way you stay

Can mean the difference

Between getting your ass kicked

And winning a fight

Typically even if I'm smoking a cigar the cigar can easily dropped I'll keep it in my left hand

My right hand is the hand I'm going to strike with first that's where I'll hold my glass

The glass can be used

As a weapon just as much as the fish can be used as a weapon

And I always stand left foot

In front of right foot

Ever-so-slightly

Just so I can't be caught off-guard just so that I'm not off balance

Just so that anyone time with my glass to my cigar in one hand if someone approaches really quickly which is how these things always start

You're always good to throw a strike for the glass

With epoxy

Before people even come over and try to talk to girls you

Or try to start a fight with

People will always

Scout you out they'll always stare you

For a little

. of time

The last of friends what do you think these two are doing with all those girls where do you think these guys are from

So when you catch him looking at you

Don't stare.

Cuz that just makes them want to fight you more especially if you're outnumbered that's going to encourage

Physical altercation

So you don't sit there looking angry at them and what you absolutely don't do

Is when they catch you looking at them look away instead

That shows cowardice

What I do I'm a very confident guy and you as well

Keep in mind that when we're in high-class establishment the people who are with us

AR

Successful Mafia guys dangerous

There's somebody to be sitting there

So I'm holding my dream typically if I catch him looking and I catch a contact

Glass slightly

And continue drinking Bill typically do the same thing back in that eases all tension

Nobody after that is going to come over

I stopped, so pumped

So if you sit confidently

And assert yourself just with your eyes

And the looks that you give the people around you

You can avoid

Basically all types

No one's going to come over and try and talk to your women and it was going to come over and try to assault you

Try to insult you

You have to set an atmosphere inside vibe

That you're friendly

But you're not to be fun

And one more time it takes me back to the handshake

That's what you need to say

When you introduce yourself to pee

Especially if they come over to your table and try to do something you don't like

Talk to you

Now I know I'm a look

Big and scary and some people watching making all well

You know it's alright for you

You're big and mean-looking

So nobody's going to start fight on you nobody's going to want to

Engage in conflict with you

That's not necessarily true

You can assert yourself

With confidence alone

The way you Scout the room everything I was saying earlier

Sitting in the corner watching everybody around you do need the chance to see exactly what's going on

And that reminds me of myself on the internet of a man I believe it was in Australia

Where

10 to 15 guys ran into a bar I think they were trying to attack somebody or rub the place I'm not sure what these assailants were doing

This guy was standing his back was to a pillar in the middle of the room so no one could necessarily running behind him

Anyone standing at the bar

He wasn't a very big guy or necessarily scary looking guy

But you stood there

With one of his hands on his glass and the other hand completely free

And as each person rushed by and rushed up to him

A glass that was slightly

Never CCTV footages a little grainy I can't see exactly how he looked at these people but he didn't look down at the floor

He didn't stare atmosphere and didn't sit there with an angry look on his face

He must have

By process of elimination 10/10 guys around by them they all glanced him and nobody started on them

He must have conveyed

Some of the tips I've been talking to you about

In this video

That was why does nobody starve

He doesn't panic he doesn't sleep he doesn't run

That portrays somebody who can

Handled himself

Sermon

His hands are free he's calm he's confident and he's

Looking at what's going on around 2

The people who rushton's that bar

Work 10 to 15 individuals

They were not

Confident men

Nobody who wants to go in rob somebody or attack somebody has to bring 10 to 15 of their friends

If they're not cowards

It's like splitting up

A pack of sheep

You know

The Herd on its own can look intimidating coming towards you

When you get one on the Run they're absolutely terrified and that's exactly how this guy handle the situation he looked at each

One of them as a one-on-one situation a101 man-o-man confrontation and when they got that look

Contact with him

When they brushed past him

None of those people wanted to fight him

And that's the way the real world is

This takes me back to my original

What those Indian miners do

By putting the masks on the back of their head Macy

So insignificant and so stupid and by all means

Please google it they look ridiculous

But all it takes is the tiniest

A little steps in the tiniest of little details

To deter physical confrontation in to stay out of conflict

The reason behind this is because most men

Are cowards

Most men don't want to fight you

101

Occasionally you'll meet that guy

Every once in awhile who thinks he can handle himself

Have a problem with you

And wants to deal with you

And she come forward wanting to fight you head-on but that's not the way the world is

99.9 per cent of men

Kenmore therapy

They can't do a punch

They can't take a punch in deep down

They know it

That's why tiny little detail

Can completely avoid conflict

Now in the last 10 years

Me and Andrew have had maybe

Five or six physical altercations we're hitting someone has become a necessity

And every single time they've been very easy to deal with

But on top of those

Definitely

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Where somebody has wanted to hit me or Andrew or somebody has stole something negative about me around when you could have spiraled into a physical

Altercation had I been in the wrong company

Or and I displayed the wrong body language

That's a massive part of comfortable yet