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All right so I'm going to talk about how to use your voice to make the p**** moist and what do I mean by

Well

The reality is

Most men

Nowadays

Walk around read timidly

Eversoft with her voice

And they don't command the room right they don't command someone's attention

Here's an example what's a are going to Starbucks

And you're going to get you a cappuccino

Right baby you drink soy lattes whatever

But when you order lot of people are timid like

Have the

How the number three right

And if someone isn't here on they just kind of sit back and let it be instead of a commanding

The persons working at attention

Writes about a walkout

An order is for a latte

Old walkout

Excuse me

I'll take a number 3

Write your commanding

The retention your commanding what you want

So things you want to command attention

Right at the king

Walks in the room you think is Timber

So you have to think this whole course whole point is you have to start considering yourself a king regular king of your domain

The king of your state or king of your country

You're king of the world

Right when you walk into a room your commanding it

When you talk to someone

You're using your voice

To make a point why you saying I'm pausing

So a lot of people be like well I don't have an actually deep voice with me like I don't sound like you

That's fine

Every f****** man

Can absolutely take voice lessons can you know

Right can you not take voice lessons

Not even that expensive out of a community college in the states maybe they don't know what they called other countries

Junior College whatever

You can go and literally pay a few bucks and get voice lessons

And learn how to speak from here

Right

They learn how to use your voice

To compel people look at all another excellent and this is how I learn how to speak

What

Speeches

And watch interviews

With Bill Clinton

So f*** the politics right f*** all the politics that you cares

Don't care about that Bill Clinton won the most charismatic people in the world

The Watch

How he moves watch how he speaks

Watch all deliberate is

Barack Obama

I've actually met

Charismatic but not

I don't think it was that big extremely effective with his speech

But he does have a ways a Cadence and how he speaks and says that

So

When it comes

Two girls

It's a absolute scientific fact that women are turned on by voice right a deep voice

It's just cuz it's manly write a text telling them subconsciously is high testosterone there for you

You'll be good to breed within this baby

Will actually survive

Junior talking to girls not just lowering your voice a bit

But slowing it down

So think about this

If you have someone who's nervous around pretty girls which is natural

DFW to work through that

And there was a pretty girl what's your name

Where you from okay cool

Jon Lovett

Right there getting the words of someone who feels like they're not heard

Four people don't respect them will speak quickly in order to get it all out before someone interrupts

Very f****** true

Someone who's used to being respected or having establishing boundaries

In the sense of don't cut me off don't talk over me

The boss

And what I do cuz people still try to cut you off it's rested like a New York

Motherfukers speak quick that's where does all the way palsy like

I'm not done

And give it a Beat

Regular second show

Because every establishes the frame of like okay I do need to listen

So you really have to all your space

With people when you're speaking with girls

Slow the voice down don't f****** speak super quick

Take your time because what happened is the girls going to go while this guy actually

Like we said something he means it

Is deliberate with a speech

That doesn't mean you can't talk quicker whatnot cuz I'm talking fast right now

11 tension and punching you with the words

Are you sending the words to you

I'm not sending them here most people go ideas to go

Yeah.

They throw away the words

Well you know I don't shoot them to you

Where are you going

United mean

Where are you going

Is Trump shooting the word student

So get out here and what happens is special about introverts

There's there so here

Instead of focusing on the other person if you focus on the other people

The focus on the other person if you find something about them that's interesting

Then you'll be able to speak to them

With intention

So it's very important so to wrap it up

If you have issues with your voice give a list

Right

It's f****** fixable when I was six years old

I couldn't without certain words

Legitimately Royal Dead series is sick boy

So is like a joke in my family

Whatever my dad was like working on the car would have her so I would say

Is he getting

So they took me like a speech pathologist

And a speech pathologist was like all he'll work it out it whatever you know it's my mom kind of work with me

So I don't want to hear excuses if I have a lisp

Or I stutter you work through it f****** work through it a lot of people that stutter the reason why they stutter the fact

Is because

They think what they're going to say people going to make fun of

Right so it makes him nervous

I know people have overcome stutters list

And being gay

So anyway, wrap it up

But

Deliberate get a voice coach if you need it when you're talking to girls slow at the fuk down own your space

On what you're saying

And here's the deal if you believe

The way you say super f****** important

Other people will tell