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Hey, sexy sirens. Welcome to Scott Club.
Okay, I really wasn't expecting this.
Three, two, one, go!
A trio of lusty ladies licking tequila shots off my body
in a sex club.
I know it looks pretty steamy, but I am doing this for science.
I'm trying to get the low-down on female sexuality.
This is the land of clits.
The land of clits!
Why is the female sex drive still such a mystery?
This is something I call the Pussy Sandwich.
If this was inside of you, this is not that big, obviously.
It's almost like it's this.
I know from my own love life just how sexual women can be.
So why do straight women seem to have less free
and fulfilling sex lives than men?
And what can we do about it?
Just try to tease your hole.
You want the pussy to, like, want that finger and welcome it in.
Strap on and get ready for some eye-opening stuff.
And no, that is not my orgasm face.
It would be good if you start masturbating now.
Is that good?
Take one, alright.
Are women as horny as men? I am horny... I don't know!
I do think women are less able and are less accepted
to speak about how horny they are.
I think female sexual desire has been repressed.
It's interesting to be able to talk about all these things
and the discovery of the female orgasm.
I've always wanted to learn about it, and I'm sure many others too.
So let's start with the basics.
How do females orgasm? And is it different for males?
I'm in Germany where scientists are making new discoveries
about the big O.
And I'm down for playing guinea pig in the wildest experiment.
We are about to go into a university hospital
where I'm going to masturbate.
Yep, I'm here to have an orgasm and donate it to science.
Husband and wife team Johannes Fuร and Sarah Biedermann
studied the chemical changes in our brains when we cum.
Of course they do.
We realized that there is not much going on
in the whole field of sex research.
There are a lot of people doing neuroscience in the field
but there's not so much exploring of sexuality.
We're assessing neurobiological factors
like chemicals in the brain and how does the body react
to sexual stimuli.
What I want to know is,
what exactly makes us feel so good when we get our rocks off?
-Oh, it is pleasant. -Intimate setting.
There's a bed. It's like a hotel room.
You can have a shower.
I will leave the room and then I would ask you masturbate
for at least ten minutes.
At least? That's a nice amount of time.
If you take longer, that's no problem.
I'm not looking at you because I'm scared.
-You don't... -I'm bad at blood.
Before I get down to some solo sexy time,
I need to give a blood sample.
It's coming out!
Once I hit the big O,
Sarah and Johannes will take another sample to see
what's changed in my blood.
Good. Cara, when you climax, you will just blow the whistle.
Oh, yay. I should always have that whistle.
-I will give this to you, and... -Thank you.
I will come in and take blood very quickly.
Can I let myself settle for a minute, or should I just be like,
"Orgasm! Blow whistle!"
It would be good if you start masturbating now.
And in case I need extra help, sex toys.
Talk about German efficiency.
I have had some weird sexual experiences,
but this is definitely up there.
-So! -I'm okay.
-I'll take your blood now. -Oh!
Masturbation!
Run, Johannes, run!
That blood contains all the secrets of my climax.
Luckily, this man can pipet like a pro
and is back with the results before I can say "Ubergasm".
-Hi, welcome back. -Oh, my gosh.
So tell me, what did you find? What's in there?
We processed your blood and we found that it produced endocannabinoids.
Endocannabinoids are basically your body's own version of cannabis.
-That's what it sounded like. Wow. -Yeah, exactly.
That's why I felt dopey. Is it like cannabis?
The body is producing it's own cannabis-like substance.
-Wow. -And it makes you kind of high
after masturbation.
And just like cannabinoid chemicals in plants,
endo-cannabinoids in our bodies can be a brilliant upper.
A bit like that feeling after a workout
or a runner's high.
Does that happen to everyone?
We know from research that roughly 80 percent of people
had such an increase of endo-cannabinoids
after masturbation to orgasm.
-Is it men and women? Both have... -Yeah.
We think that's why sex feels so good.
I feel fantastic.
What a great journey! Thank you, guys.
-Thank you for participating. -Heroes of sex!
Heroes of sex!
Wow! Orgasm produce endo-cannabinoids.
That is hot news!
And even better, Sarah and Johannes found
that males and females can both hit the same high.
So it stands to reason that men and women
should be having equally mind-blowing sex, right?
Well, prepare for a shock.
I came across a very interesting study
that said that 95 percent of straight men orgasm during sex.
But only 65 percent of straight women orgasm during sex.
I think that number is very high
and most women I've asked also agree with me.
They say it's probably more around ten, 15, 20 percent,
but again, who knows?
This tragic state of affairs is called the Orgasm Gap.
And for the benefit of people with vaginas and clits,
I want to know how to close it.
Wish me luck!
I'm using a lot of different terms in this film.
But whether you identify as a woman or non-binary,
own a vulva or a clit, we're talking about you.
And for decades, thanks to prudish and patriarchal attitudes,
you've been missing out on pleasure.
We look back on times when we used to wear corsets
and showing an ankle was something like female flirting.
It's come a long way since then.
I still always felt a lot of shame about being a woman.
Shame about my vagina,
and to kind of put shame in female sexuality
is really dangerous.
In many countries worldwide,
talking about female sexuality is still taboo,
including here, in Lebanon.
There's definitely one thing that unites all Arab countries...
...the culture of shame regarding the female body.
It's very deeply embedded.
Women grow up with a fear around sex.
Sura and Hala have agreed to speak to us...
...anonymously.
We always say, women are expected to be very sexually attractive
but not sexually active.
You're not the one in control of your own body
who gets to call the shots.
Society does, culture does.
And so that causes women to totally disassociate
from their own bodies.
These two women are bringing much-needed change
by starting a sexual wellness brand called Mauj.
Who's reading the video chart?
Openly encouraging female pleasure without getting shut down
is a massive challenge.
So Mauj created a video series where the most intimate of women stories
are read out by volunteers, called Hakuatis.
Hakuati means storyteller in Arabic.
This was typically a role that only men used to play in society.
So we came up with the idea of flipping Hakuatia into the feminine.
I felt cold, so he put his arms around me to warm me up.
Suddenly he grabbed my hand and put it on his penis.
We really wanted to find a way to start to share women's stories
when it came to everything related to their body, sexuality,
masturbation, and sexual pleasure.
If they speak up, there's a risk that their families might hurt them.
I've always been an advocate for women's rights.
This was an opportunity for me to publicly speak up
about a cause I believe in.
Warmth and wetness.
My fingers kept moving, in and out, around.
I opened my legs wider as my fingers hit that spot.
It's harder for them to hear stories
that celebrate pleasure and orgasm.
There's still this shame of, like,
"I don't necessarily want to be associated with that."
They're still not yet at the level of public discourse as easy
as some of the stories around pain.
Mauj is dedicated to helping de-stigmatize female sexuality.
It's very difficult to find pleasure products in the Arab world.
You can't buy a vibrator.
They created a new device called Deem.
What's really special about Deem is
that it is the first product of its kind designed by and for Arab women.
But breaking taboos can be risky.
So being discrete is incredibly important.
We wanted Deem to be accessible and available to every woman,
even women practicing their religious belief
of not engaging in any penetration before marriage.
We get asked a lot why our first product is a pleasure product.
And our answer is,
"Because what's more taboo than female pleasure?"
Taboos around female sexuality exist in many more places worldwide.
And that, lovely people, is holding women back.
I'm in Japan where it's actually against the law
to show female genitalia.
Step up radical artist Rokudenashiko.
Or should that be, paddler?
In 2014, she decided to challenge Japanese censorship
around female sexuality
by creating a canoe modeled on her own vulva.
As you do.
-Hello. -Hello.
-Nice to meet you. -Thank you so much.
So... That's so cool! Oh, my gosh!
I really want to row in the vagina canoe, though.
Rokudenashiko's also been rocking the boat
with her vag-tastic miniatures.
Is this a real mold of a vagina?
-My vagina. -That's your vagina!
Now I understand, yes.
Why did you start making vagina art?
Pussy is a very taboo subject in Japan,
and I'm trying to change that perception and make it more fun.
When my art was featured on a news site
I received a lot of backlash.
I was told, "Vaginas are dirty and smelly,
don't make things like that."
-Crazy. Crazy! -Crazy!
Originally, in Japan, a lot of mythology featured pussies
and no one was bothered by it.
Western Christian culture arrived, sex became taboo.
Now images of vaginas are censored,
as if it's something you shouldn't see.
If someone sees this work and laughs at how silly it is
I hope to give people the opportunity to question
why pussies are forbidden.
But it wasn't much of a laugh when Rokodenashiko was arrested
for breaking Japan's obscenity laws.
Luckily she didn't have to go to prison
but had to pay a pretty hefty fine of nearly 4,000 Dollars.
You're very inspiring. What you're doing is amazing.
Yay!
Let's disrupt the patriarchy! Whoo! Okay, cool.
Today I'm going to make my own vag art.
Okay. Now let's make a mold of a pussy.
Step one, whip up some clay.
I can see why you have nice arms now.
Yay.
See you later!
What? Surely you didn't think I was going to show you that bit.
-I'll start! -Do you want to hold it?
Stop looking at it!
What? I get really nervous! My vagina...
Oh, my God!
Very cute!
Very pretty!
-Oh, my God! I'm gonna cry! -Very nice.
It's done!
So, I've made the mold with help, of course.
It was successful, I hope.
It was a bit of cracking, but, you know?
Now for a bit of vagazzeling.
I never thought I would do this. For sure.
You don't usually face your pussy, do you?
I can eat dinner having my own pussy in front of me.
This is so fun. I'm so glad I did this.
It's really sweet, I love it. I'm really proud of what I made.
So, wanna know which plaster master piece is mine?
Is it the moon landing?
The sandy bottom beach sea?
Or the golf course? Hole in one!
Sorry to let you down, but you're never gonna know.
I admire Rokudenashiko's openness, but my privates stay private.
So what does that say about me?
I feel, as a model, as someone who sells their image,
my vagina is the one private thing I have.
That's the thing that I decide who sees it, when, how, why.
-But I thank you so much... -Thank you for what?
For what you've done! I'm gonna tell people about your art
and spread the message of vagina positivity.
So much fun! I had so much fun with my vagina today.
I mean, this job really suits me perfectly,
because the things I get to do are just so me.
Best time ever!
She's trying to spread a selfless message
of people, and women specifically, to love themselves
from something that has put so much shame on.
And that is seen as a criminal offense?
It's mind-blowing.
Culture has a lot to answer for.
Shame, taboo, even prison. It's all about control.
But that's not the only reason
women of the world aren't getting their kicks.
A vital part of our anatomy has been rudely overlooked.
Until just a few decades ago,
people thought the clitoris was this tiny, tricky to access button,
hard to stimulate and generally less of a big deal than the penis.
Nearly 30 years after the moon landings...
It's one small step for man...
...the clitoris was finally mapped in 1998 by a woman.
And what a revelation that was! It's massive,
with three times more nerves than the penis.
It's time the clitoris was given the recognition it deserves.
Meet New Yorker Sophia
who is on what she calls, "a Cliteracy campaign".
Cliteracy is my attempt to blast the clitoris into public awareness.
Using large scale, using text, using neon.
It all began when she found out that her grandma, a mother of five,
had never once had an orgasm.
People with clits are having not a lot of orgasms,
whether its their clits being externally excised
or its being shamed, the clit has this ability for pleasure,
and it's not getting that.
So I thought, "Someone needs to call bullshit on this."
I put a lot of attention into how I design the clits
because I feel like that's the most important part.
I mean, it feels good, it's beautiful,
and also to see, and not to look closely at it.
There are very few depictions of it that are actually specific,
it's usually just this round sort of blob.
But if you actually look closely at the glands, it is a shape,
and it's also very diverse, person to person.
All this knowledge about the mysterious clit
is just blowing my mind.
It's about time I saw it in all its glory.
This is the land of clits.
The land of clits!
My focus is drawn straight to the booty.
So these are these porcelain sculptures that I made
in order to honor this part of the body
that is often so shamed.
And I just think, everyone should be a, like,
in awe of how amazing clits are but also being drawn to the glands
because there's a ton of nerves.
There's 8,000 nerves here. This part activates
and then everything else engorges...
-This is erectile tissue. -Wow.
Basically the same amount of erectile tissue as the penis.
Also, we wake up with morning wood.
We don't even have words for a clit erection.
-Crazy, huh? -That's true.
Like, when you wake up, but you call it morning wood?
-You call it that? -We should make new words.
If this was inside of me... This is obviously not that big.
It's almost like this orientation, which is really funny,
but it's just so we understand it.
It's so confusing because it's never been drawn in its anatomy.
I will always draw penises on things as a joke
because I think it's funny and I'm really bad at drawing.
But it's so true. I would never draw a vagina, you know?
I'm just drawing a penis comic. Wohoo, that's funny! It's not.
Well, we're taught to think that penises are hilarious
and, like, cool.
A clit is just, like, "Oh, you can't find it, ha, ha!"
You know, having sex with other women
where I realize how much more sensitive women are than they think.
When you take your time and you are super slow and soft,
you see how much more nerves there are than in the penis.
It's crazy. It's a beautiful organ.
Exactly. I mean, my son is 19 months old
and he will never not know what a clit is. I'm proud about that.
-You know what I'm saying? -Yes!
A huge part of the so-called orgasm gap
is that women have been told to keep silent about their sexuality.
But I do think things are changing.
-Is it just on or off? -It has two speeds.
Fast and faster.
-It's just really like... -Okay, we'll plug it in.
I'll show you.
PENDA N'DIAYE FOUNDER, PRO HOE
Penda N'diaye brings women together to share the secrets of pleasure,
especially within black communities.
So, as much as I love a bit of sex talk,
I'm respectfully sitting this one out.
Black women in particular are undergoing
this incredible revolution right now.
And I think sexual identity is a huge part of that revolution,
knowing what feels good and not accepting anything less.
Today, the women are giving their inside stories
on some homework pender set
to test drive a bunch of new sex toys.
Once you understand the capacity of your pleasure,
you can use that to inform who we are
and not silencing ourselves.
So I'm really glad that all of you are joining me in this journey
of pleasure and feeling good, and you're down for the sex toys
that are here.
My mom gave me my first vibrator for Christmas.
She's like, "I don't need to now what you're doing or with whom,
just as long as you're getting it in."
It's honestly just having conversations with a lot of women
who have never had orgasms.
Sometimes I'm still like, "Wow."
And if you thought you didn't need a sex toy
well, listen and learn.
-I'm Shadae. -Hey, everyone.
Hey, this is Shadae's first sex toy experience.
-You popped the cherries. -Yes.
How do your partners feel about you bringing toys into the room?
I was always in my mind thinking
that men may find it a little intimidating.
There's something so powerful about being able to please yourself
-without anyone else. -Right.
First time using it, I was like, "Damn, this feels so much easier."
And I felt like I had more control over my orgasms.
Now I know what I need
whereas before, so often in my sex experiences,
I relied on men.
Today I got liberated.
It felt really freeing to have that type of discourse
among women that look like me
and that remind me of myself.
I'm Lisa. For me it's exploring different types of toys
with my partner and then even going shopping for toys with my partner
to create that ease.
I had the Double Trouble.
And I got to do it with my partner.
And, you know, he would hold it and I was able to have three orgasms,
-like, back to back to back. -Yeah.
Growing up as a black girl, being told not to do things,
you know, we're being limited.
Sexual pleasure is for ultimate freedom.
I feel like I've been able to be my complete self,
including my sexuality, with my partner.
I'm not used to using vibrators internally,
-it's more like, clit. -Yes.
I had an amazing, magical orgasm,
and I pulled it out and looked at it, and I was like, "Wow!"
This is the way.
It was interesting to see
because I'm used to seeing it on a dick, I'm not used to...
-Or penis. -Yeah.
There's times when I'm like, "I'm gonna pee myself."
But I just had to squirt.
So my orgasms are getting better as I age.
I can't wait to see how they are in the future.
It's no secret I do love a sex toy,
because honestly, if you're waiting for someone else to give you a hand,
it can all be a bit touch and go.
Love you guys so much.
Master interview, take two.
For me, the earliest ideas I ever got towards sex were, you know,
man plus woman, dick plus vagina equals orgasm.
I don't want to go into the art of making a woman cum,
but it's just a lot more complicated and a lot more fun.
I do feel that generally men are not equipped with the right tools
to be able to handle women, especially sexually.
I mean, I get it.
It's a lot more complicated for a woman to have to tell you,
"You're not doing it right. Sit down and listen to what I say."
It's an ego killer which most men can't handle.
Look, I might be unfair to single men here,
so let's make sure I'm not missing anything
by getting a 101 on the power packed in our pants.
Sexpert Marieke Dewitte will love to get into the juicy details.
Let's start off with a casual question.
Is there any difference between the male and female orgasm?
Why is the gap so big?
We know that men and women do not differ in the capacity
to reach orgasm, to experience pleasure,
but only a few women, less than 30 percent,
can actually climax via penetration
and that's often where it goes wrong.
We don't get the right stimulation.
The clitoris is the female sex organ,
not the vagina. The vagina is a birth channel.
-Drop the mic right there! -Yeah, exactly!
I mean, it is much less sensitive than the clitoris
which is a good thing
or giving childbirth would be horrible.
-Oh, my God! -It would be the end of humanity.
So the idea that women have less sexual desire than men is wrong.
They just don't get the right sexual stimulation.
Physically, the duration of an orgasm is really short.
It takes about 20, 25 seconds in women
and about five to 25 seconds in men.
And in general, it takes longer for women to reach orgasm.
For some women, actually, if you continue to stimulate them,
they also continue to climax,
so that's why women can have multiple orgasms.
The clitoris is actually a small penis.
It includes the glands and the forehead,
it gets swollen during arousal.
So, in a way, women have on the inside
what men have on the outside.
Most women know that the clitoris obviously needs to be stimulated
but do they think that penetrative sex is it that will make them...
Well, we maybe have sex in a way that fits the male sexual script.
For a long time
sex has been studied from a biological perspective.
Biologists study sex as reproduction.
So we know a lot about the penis and so on
-because that's for reproduction. -That's the one giving the juice.
If we think about the female orgasm and the female sexual response,
there's so much we don't know yet
because we constantly have this male gaze looking at sexuality.
-Totally. -But it's also about
focusing on your own sexual pleasure.
And that's also something that is difficult for women
because we're socialized to prioritize
the pleasure of the partner.
Women, remember those words!
Put your own pleasure first!
Actually, I am something of an expert in that.
One of my earliest memories is masturbating,
but I didn't know it was anything sexual.
It was just, "This feels good!
Why would I not touch there to feel better about life?"
It just made sense.
But I do think that there's just a lot more fear
about talking about women touching themselves.
But just because I think men can go around and be like,
"Yeah, I just came nine times today, bro!
I can't even walk!" And they're like, "Sick!"
"Well, I touch myself." They're like, "Gross."
Ah, the "m" word! Masturbation.
Probably one of the best things we can do
to get that orgasm count up for women.
Knowing what feels good can make it a lot easier to tell someone else.
So I'm on my way to, wait for it, a group masturbation class.
Only in New York. I mean, at this point, why not?
I'm Lola Jean, and I am a sex educator.
I like to call it...
A masturbation class if more of like a yolk class for your bits.
Sitting in a room full of women...
I'm not gonna lie, I sat next to my friend
and masturbated next to each other, but that's it.
I'm terrified.
-Hello. -Hi.
-So you're here for the workshop? -Oh, yes.
If not, we're all in for a little surprise.
-This is like my house! -Oh, really?
-Is anyone nervous? -Yeah.
I'm very curious, and if there's anything I can learn
and feel less shame about having a vagina, that would be great.
Okay, so how many of you have been masturbating the same way
since you were, like, seven, or whenever you started?
-No. -Definitely.
-The same way? -Yeah, doing the same thing.
Like humping your pillow, humping your hand...
I've only once spent really an hour
really making love to myself,
like touching every part of my body, like, I cried.
That's the thing, nothing is weird or abnormal,
because if you know your button, oh, my God, you know your thing!
That's amazing to have, and maybe there's more buttons to figure out.
We're trying to find different pathways to pleasure.
This is my vulva, but not my actual vulva
because its eerily and bright red.
So, there's something I call the pussy sandwich,
and that's where you're gonna take the outer and inner labia
between your index finger and your thumb.
The chopsticking of the clitoris is when you're gonna take
an inverted peace sign and it's going to go on the inner labia.
So knuckling is something that's gonna look like drumming,
but it's going to be with our knuckles.
and we can do that kind of around the inner labia.
This one is called the motorcycle rub.
So you're two middle fingers, your middle finger and your ring
will be inside of the vagina and you're gonna rub the motorcycle.
There's one that we're gonna go back to a lot and change it up,
and that's going from the bottom of the vulva to the top.
Looks nice with my pants.
Really goes well.
I'm gonna get so self-conscious
because in my mind I'm like, "I just want the lights to be off."
-Can you... -Or my face to be covered.
Despite the safe space,
I still feel like I need to wear a mask.
Close your eyes and take a few breaths in and out.
And now we're gonna make a pussy sandwich.
Masturbation is just another healthy part of our life,
and there's so much we can gain from it that actually has nothing to do
with pleasure or orgasm. It can be stress,
to relieve cramps or a headache.
And as soon as we start removing that stigma,
the dirtiness, and the same, the more we can start enjoying
the actual benefits of masturbation
instead of trying to assign morality to what it means.
Look, I revved, chopsticked and sandwiched for a full-on hour
and it was kind of sexy, but it also felt weird for me.
And what I definitely didn't do was orgasm.
Yet somehow I feel utterly changed.
It is a very brave thing to come to a class and masturbate
with a group of strangers. What was that like?
It's the bravest thing I've ever done.
I liked the normalizing aspect and that we're all just laying here,
it was just much more exploratory, it felt really safe.
I've never masturbated in front of anyone ever
apart from when I did it in bed with my friend.
I can't believe that I did it.
But... I haven't actually used my hand
to touch myself in so long.
Because, again, I feel really, like, so much shame around my vagina.
"My vagina is not like other girls I've slept with."
You masturbated in front of people and you survived.
It's like, "Oh, that's nice, it's actually quite soft!
Oh, my God, I feel great, I feel nice."
-Thank you. -Absolutely.
Take what you learned here, go home, be by yourself.
Be in an area that's comfortable for you
and continue to explore and do these things.
I think I'm learning a lot from everyone I've met so far, for sure.
It's making me be a lot more open in my own personal life.
In my mind, the most important thing about life
is connections with other humans,
and I haven't even begun to have enough conversations like this
with enough people.
But we can learn so much from each other.
Sexuality! Yes.
Here we are, heading for the climax of my journey
to understand women's sexuality and unlock female pleasure.
I've already put myself out there like never before
but tonight I'm going all the way.
I'm off to a women-only sex party
to see what happens when everyone's free to explore their raw sexuality
with no inhibitions.
And more importantly, no men.
We've got lots of newbies tonight.
Always at least over 80 percent are first-timers.
So keep your eyes peeled for anyone that looks a little bit unsure.
After everything I've learned, am I brave enough to shed the shame
and put my sexual desires out there in public?
I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty nervous,
so I've asked my friend Elena to join me.
When we were talking about it, she was like,
"Yeah, I'd be so down for watching women get off with each other
but I would be a bit more awkward."
There is that one three-way with another girl and guy,
but that was really it. That was my one brush.
That's my most straight friend.
Financial advisor Genevieve set up Skirt Club in 2014
to host sex parties for women.
It now has 18,000 members in cities all over the world.
Nice to meet you, darling, how are you doing?
-Pleasure! Nice to meet you. -How are you doing?
Welcome to Skirt Club. Consent is a huge thing.
And remember, like you, a lot of women are here for the first time.
So they're nervous, okay?
They may not have ever kissed a woman before.
Some women here are straight, some gay, some bi, some pan.
But most are just curious and horny.
-What's your name? -I'm Bella.
-I love that! -Yeah? You're welcome.
Okay, sexy sirens, welcome to Skirt Club.
We believe in the power of the feminine here.
Skirt Club is a safe space for you to explore all of your desires.
We're gonna take good care of you. Your pleasure is paramount.
That is the key to the gate to heaven.
-Yeah! -Welcome!
If you do feel uncomfortable, I'm the consent fairy,
so come and find me.
Please make sure to be safe,
have conscious communication with each other.
If it's not a "hell, yes," it's a no.
I appreciate the fact that every single person that's showed up
is gorgeous in every way, shape, or form.
We're all here for the same purpose. To enjoy each other.
So, good people, this is just a little taste
of what women can get up to when they've let go of shame,
left their inhibitions behind
and feel free to explore their sexuality.
I think I'm gonna like this.
I've always known that I've been bisexual.
I am married, I have a family,
but there's a part of me that needs more.
And I have the position right now to have both,
and it's amazing.
It makes me feel powerful. I've never felt that before.
And as the evening hots up,
well, so do I.
Three, two, one, go!
This is tequila shots, Skirt club style.
It's a lot of fun.
Women doing this together, that's an amazing thing.
It makes you feel super, super safe.
People are here to enjoy themselves, lift each other up,
appreciate each other.
I feel really truly free.
It's been such a tense formation for me
because I come from a really conservative background
with, you know, like, long skirts and, like, really crazy catholic,
and Skirt Club really gave me the opportunity to express myself.
One of my fantasies is to have sex with several women at once.
You know, like five, six women laying on a bed
going down on each other.
That's definitely amazing.
You don't have to be a lesbian. You don't have to be anything.
You just do whatever you want. You can be bi-curious.
You can be married, you can be... It doesn't matter.
There's no label on it, so Skirt Club opens the door.
Girls are generally so focused on pleasuring the male.
Here it's all about girls and their pleasure and their right
to own that.
What happened next?
Well, I'm gonna let that be the only mystery left in this show.
What I've learned about female sexuality is
there is so much left we need to learn.
I honestly think that most people know more about space
than the inner workings of the female orgasm.
I had to come face to face with my own vagina,
had an orgasm for science,
and attempted to masturbate in a room full of strangers
which I never thought I would do.
What this has made me feel is we need to fight for equality
and pleasure more than ever.
We deserve equal pleasure. We deserve orgasms!
Who doesn't want that?
There is all this pleasure right there
and it's still left unexplored.
Having a clitoris is a super power.
So let's become superheroes and shout it from the rooftops!
Vaginas!
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