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Now we have an old truck,
it's got the panic button
on it, you can push it.
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And that panic button
is not for someone
attacking you,
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no the panic button
is "I can't find my car!"
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[crowd laughs]
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And so I start
walking up and down,
following the honk.
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Now, if you see me
at Walmart...
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...just smile and wave
and say...
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..."That's our pastor."
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[crowd laughs]
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You gotta love him
'cause the bible says so.
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[laughing]
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[Chris Clyatt]
Yeah, it's kinda weird
to drive by.
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You know, it's kinda
force of habit just to look,
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and go, "Oh, there's
Calvary Chapel."
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So that's where
the building is
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and it used to have
the sign right here.
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It brings up
some bittersweet emotions.
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You know,
we had good memories here
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and, uh, there were
a lotta great people
at this church.
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And they really, uh,
worked hard to be
the hands and feet of Jesus.
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I remember people
having problems finding it,
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looking for a traditional
church building
with a steeple.
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This was an old grocery store.
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We forget...
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...how faithful the lord
has been in the past.
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And we forget the promise
of God's word
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which tells us that nothing
can separate us from his love.
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[Clyatt] You know, we had
a lotta good times here.
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But then you think about
all the events that happened.
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And it kind of gives you
that little sick feeling
in your stomach.
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[Detective Nesli Suhi-Moore]
You and James
are literally the only people
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that can provide answers
that we need.
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[James Flanders]
We know you guys
are the only ones--
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[Tanya Flanders]
I don't understand!
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I don't understand why this...
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[Detective Suhi-Moore]
At this point,
we're just looking for help.
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What kinda things
are you talking about?
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[Tanya] This whole thing
just has blown us
out of the water.
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I'm still stunned by it.
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[opening theme playing]
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You're thinking:
"I'm gonna find life,
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I'm gonna find meaning,
I'm gonna find purpose,
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I'm gonna find satisfaction,
I'm gonna find peace.
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I'm gonna find
all of these things
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through what I get,
what I achieve,
what I accomplish."
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Where's the emphasis?
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[repeated] I.
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And Jesus is saying,
"You know what?
You're missing out."
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[Karen Glisson]
James was my pastor.
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We shopped around
for a long time for churches,
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and the very first time
we went in there
we never left.
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He was just, um...
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[clicks tongue] he was
an incredible young man.
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You were just instantly
drawn to him.
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And you wanted all
the knowledge that he had
in his head,
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you wanted it all too.
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Romans 8:28,
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We know that all things work
together for the good for them
that love the Lord
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for those who've been called
according to his purpose.
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We know that,
but then when it comes
to our own lives
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we forget it, don't we?
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[Clyatt]
He was less of a preacher
and more of a teacher.
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And he really broke it down.
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Like he would take uh, a verse
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and you'd read, like,
three words
and he'd go, "Okay, stop."
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Page by page,
sentence by sentence.
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It would take him a... a month
to do a chapter.
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He was my mentor.
He was my teacher.
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He was my connection to God.
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Hi.
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[Clyatt] He wasn't
just straight-laced.
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It was kind of cool
to see James
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riff on the guitar
every once in awhile.
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[Glisson]
Tanya is James' wife.
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They had a little
two man group.
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I play the cajon conga.
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And I sing.
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[Clyatt] She'd kinda
liked being
behind the scenes.
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Being the support for James.
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They made a great couple.
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They were kind of...
They had that good balance
with them.
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You're comin' in
at the wrong spot.
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The right spot feels wrong.
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The wrong spot
is feeling right for you
but it is wrong.
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Wrong, wrong, wrong.
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I'm not nervous,
I'm just excited.
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[giggles] Very excited!
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[Glisson]
Well, I remember when Marie
first came to the church.
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She was cute as a button.
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She had the greatest
little smile.
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And she could wear
the most precious
little hairdos.
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And always smiling,
always smiling.
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[Rose Bridges]
My sister, Marie...
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God, she was gorgeous...
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...inside and out.
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She would tell... everybody
how beautiful they were.
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Even when she didn't
believe that she was
beautiful herself.
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So we all grew up
in Angeles city, Philippines.
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And I would never change that
for the world.
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It was just a simpler
life there.
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We came to the United States
due to a volcano erupting.
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How many people can say that?
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[Bridges] Her journey,
her story, was different.
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We had lost touch
for a little bit.
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But she always wrote,
she was really good
about that.
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And she had issues.
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But she was getting
her stuff together.
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We don't stray too far
away from each other.
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Like, we need our family.
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No matter how crazy,
family's family.
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[Dennis Barber]
When she started working
with my wife,
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she was like a...
another part of our family.
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Marie was goin' down
a kinda dark path.
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She had an episode.
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She had got out of her car,
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I guess just totally
frustrated with herself.
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Just walking down
the road contemplating life.
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And this lady stops by
and picks her up,
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and takes her to church.
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[Glisson] She really
wanted to find
a church family.
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And she did.
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I remember her showing me
one of James' sermons.
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As believers,
we get all wacky.
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We've got this little
mountain in front of us,
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we forget there is a bigger
mountain behind us
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that God took us through
and we're okay.
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[Bridges] God helped her
get through a lot
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of whatever demons
she was facing.
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Feeling loved
and giving that love
in return.
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It's a time of getting
our focus back where
it needs to be.
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It's a time of helping us
not to forget...
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...what's really important.
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[Barber] She was happy,
real happy.
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They had a house
support system there
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that was part of her
healing herself.
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And then she came by.
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She's like, yeah I'm gonna go
and I'm gonna live with James
and... and Tanya.
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[Glisson] They took her
in and I thought
that was wonderful.
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Everybody goes through
hard times,
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especially when you move
to a new community.
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and you don't know anybody.
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But then...
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...James came out one Sunday,
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I mean and just stood
up on that stage,
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and he just said
that "We've been wanting
to have a baby."
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And Marie was the surrogate.
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Mean, you wanna talk
about some jaws droppin'.
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It was just like,
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"Here it is,
this is today's announcement."
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You know, and everybody
just about dropped
their teeth.
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[Bridges] I think a lot
of people feel that's odd.
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But her and I, at one point,
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actually talked
about being a surrogate...
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...for one of our friends.
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It wasn't like
"Oh, you would never
do that."
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I thought they're payin'
her bills because she's gonna
be a surrogate for them.
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In vitro fertilization
type thing.
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And she's gonna be a nanny
so it makes perfect sense.
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I figure as long
as these people
are helpin' Marie out...
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...she should be all right.
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[Barber] Beautiful child.
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But then a couple months later
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Marie came to the house
for a visit.
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Marie was trying to be happy.
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But you could tell
she was very nervous.
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She was so nervous
she had hives...
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...all over her body.
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She kinda put it off,
like she didn't really know
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but it's not really
a big deal.
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But it was to us.
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And then,
a couple of days later...
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we got a text message
from Marie.
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So October 19th,
when the mass text
was sent...
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Who writes like that?
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Double-spaced.
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Indentation.
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As if you were writing
a proper, formal, letter.
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So that...
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...struck me as odd.
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We didn't have any inkling
that Marie was in trouble.
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But my wife texts her back
and is like,
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"Well, what about the baby?"
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Marie always spoke of James,
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and if she did speak
of Tanya it was after James.
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For her to put Tanya...
in front of James name,
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it made no sense whatsoever.
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Something's wrong.
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This is not right.
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I'm leaving to do something
I've always wanted to do.
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I just remember that part.
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Very vague.
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Very vague.
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And I had...
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...of course, seen her before.
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And she seemed fine,
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as far as her mental
health went.
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And I think that
if she were to do
something like that?
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She would at least
tell one person.
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[Barber] We couldn't get
in contact with her
after this text message.
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We contact Tanya and James.
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Say, you know,
"What's goin' on
with Marie?"
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"Oh, we don't know, she left."
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My wife contacted everybody,
friends, family.
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I was riding around.
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Goin' to their house.
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"Have you seen
or heard from Marie?"
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[Bill Eddins] It was reported
to the sheriff's office
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that Marie Carlson
was a missing person.
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Well, of course,
that's a very difficult issue,
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whether or not someone
is a missing person.
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James Flanders expressed
to law enforcement
that it was not unusual
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for Marie to leave
and stay gone for even
a few days.
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- You know.
-[Special Agent Austin] Right.
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[Glisson] There was talk...
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...in the church
that Marie had left.
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I can't say that it was
she was considered missing
at that particular time.
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[Eddins]
What's always important
in any investigation
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is to speak in detail
with the last person
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to have contact
with the missing person.
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James and Tanya
were very helpful
to us,
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in developing the case.
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Everybody's looking
at me. [laughs]
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James Flanders indicated
the last day that he saw
Marie Carlson
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she had been in a bad mood
and wanted to be alone.
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Tanya decided she would
take baby Grace
and go to Destin...
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...to help with the Christmas
shopping.
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After that, Marie got
in an argument with him,
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Later, Tanya
decided she wanted
to look for Marie.
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[Eddins] Marie's truck
had been dropped off
there on the 18th,
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the day after
she went missing.
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[Bridges] Maybe she did
just take off.
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It wouldn't be out
of the realm of possibilities
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for her to have
gone somewhere.
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I wanted that.
I wanted her just to show up.
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You know, and just be like,
"Sorry, y'all.
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I'm back though."
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You know, and just...
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You know, and be like,
"Hey, don't ever do
that to me again.
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Don't worry me
like that again."
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You know?
I wanted that, badly.
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[Eddins] Investigators
did an excellent job
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determining her credit card
had not been used.
243
00:13:45,267 --> 00:13:49,097
She had not gotten
on an airplane
and flown anywhere.
244
00:13:49,133 --> 00:13:51,873
She hadn't gone on the bus
and gone anywhere.
245
00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,070
[Barber] Three days after
she went missing,
246
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James and Tanya
put all of her items
in storage.
247
00:14:15,933 --> 00:14:19,503
And they said,
"We've paid it up
for so many months."
248
00:14:19,533 --> 00:14:22,773
We're like, "Okay,
we'll take over after that,
249
00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,930
'cause we don't want
her stuff to be abandoned."
250
00:14:25,967 --> 00:14:29,967
So they gave us the key.
251
00:14:30,067 --> 00:14:34,497
All these things
that it just seems like
she just left behind.
252
00:14:35,867 --> 00:14:38,767
And we just handed
all that over to the police.
253
00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:40,700
[police siren wailing]
254
00:15:10,333 --> 00:15:11,533
[Barber] She had no money.
255
00:15:11,567 --> 00:15:13,267
Now, if she'd a sold her truck
256
00:15:13,300 --> 00:15:15,100
and if she'd used
her bank account...
257
00:15:16,533 --> 00:15:19,073
Yeah, there's a possibility
there, you know.
258
00:15:19,067 --> 00:15:22,297
But who's gonna leave
town with nothing, you know?
259
00:15:23,167 --> 00:15:26,067
I mean, doesn't make sense.
260
00:15:26,067 --> 00:15:27,727
I told my wife.
I'm like, "You know what?"
261
00:15:27,767 --> 00:15:31,197
I'm like, "Somebody
in that church
has to know something."
262
00:16:17,167 --> 00:16:19,067
I remember she was telling
me about it
263
00:16:19,067 --> 00:16:21,467
and then I was like,
"Oh, I wanna see pictures"
you know.
264
00:16:21,500 --> 00:16:23,070
Saying she was a surrogate.
265
00:16:23,067 --> 00:16:24,767
And I was like...
[blows raspberry]
266
00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,370
That's clearly your child.
267
00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,170
That is clearly not...
268
00:16:31,100 --> 00:16:33,170
...the child of two
white people.
269
00:16:33,833 --> 00:16:34,603
[scoffs]
270
00:16:38,100 --> 00:16:40,770
[Eddins] We discussed
the matter and agreed
271
00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:44,130
that it was a very suspicious
situation.
272
00:16:44,167 --> 00:16:47,267
And additional investigation
needed to be done.
273
00:17:07,267 --> 00:17:10,067
[Eddins] You want
to follow the case
wherever it takes you.
274
00:17:10,067 --> 00:17:15,927
When we learned that
the pregnancy occurred
"the old fashioned way"...
275
00:17:15,967 --> 00:17:18,727
...the investigators
wanted to make sure
that they understood
276
00:17:18,767 --> 00:17:21,567
the true nature
of the relationship
277
00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,700
between James and Tanya
Flanders, and Marie Carlson.
278
00:18:43,367 --> 00:18:47,627
Tanya seemed to be
honest about the nature
of the relationship
279
00:18:47,667 --> 00:18:50,697
with the baby
and the way that the child
was conceived.
280
00:19:03,633 --> 00:19:06,433
[Barber] We didn't think
it was a polygamist situation.
281
00:19:06,467 --> 00:19:11,597
We thought it may...
may have that element.
282
00:19:11,633 --> 00:19:14,503
But we really didn't
want to believe it,
I guess.
283
00:19:15,967 --> 00:19:19,897
We only found out
when we got control
of her possessions.
284
00:19:21,067 --> 00:19:24,527
We opened her bible up
and on one side of the bible
285
00:19:24,567 --> 00:19:29,067
it said, "Marie",
and on the other side
it said, "Flanders".
286
00:19:29,067 --> 00:19:30,367
Totally took me
by surprise.
287
00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:34,070
I like, "Oh, wait,
she thinks she's married
to this guy."
288
00:19:45,233 --> 00:19:47,773
[Barber] With Marie,
it was almost like
she was weightless
289
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:49,070
when she walked
through the room.
290
00:19:50,533 --> 00:19:54,903
The weightless feeling
that a bird has
when you see it fly?
291
00:19:54,933 --> 00:19:57,373
That's the spirit
that Marie had.
292
00:19:59,433 --> 00:20:02,403
She was vulnerable
because she was so giving.
293
00:20:04,500 --> 00:20:08,870
So if she ran across
somebody that... was a taker.
294
00:20:09,767 --> 00:20:11,227
She would give away anything.
295
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,830
The inner circle...
296
00:20:32,867 --> 00:20:38,597
...consisted of James, Tanya,
and anybody who worked
back in the office.
297
00:20:38,633 --> 00:20:42,273
They were in charge
of everything.
298
00:20:43,667 --> 00:20:44,697
Everything.
299
00:20:45,967 --> 00:20:48,627
They were very, very close.
300
00:21:26,067 --> 00:21:28,067
[Glisson] I'm a member
of the baby boomers.
301
00:21:28,067 --> 00:21:31,467
Yeah, we were wild
and crazy in the '60s
and all that,
302
00:21:31,500 --> 00:21:33,900
but we still had our scruples.
303
00:21:33,933 --> 00:21:35,803
He's supposed to be
your example.
304
00:21:35,833 --> 00:21:38,073
He's your Moses.
305
00:21:38,067 --> 00:21:40,397
He's the shepherd
and we're the sheep.
306
00:21:40,900 --> 00:21:41,900
It's hurtful.
307
00:21:42,500 --> 00:21:44,230
Very hurtful.
308
00:21:44,267 --> 00:21:46,667
They knew what was going on,
I'mma tell you that right now.
309
00:21:46,700 --> 00:21:49,400
You cannot convince me
for one second...
310
00:21:49,433 --> 00:21:52,433
...that they didn't know
the whole story of what
was going on...
311
00:21:53,100 --> 00:21:53,870
...from the get-go.
312
00:23:28,667 --> 00:23:31,267
It was a very
suspicious situation.
313
00:23:31,300 --> 00:23:33,370
And it was very suspicious
314
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,730
as it related to James
and Tanya.
315
00:23:36,767 --> 00:23:41,227
Our office, and myself,
just felt that there was
something fish going on.
316
00:24:17,567 --> 00:24:19,267
[phone dialing]
317
00:24:21,633 --> 00:24:23,873
[phone dialing]
318
00:24:37,933 --> 00:24:40,233
[Bridges] Investigators
are asking you questions.
319
00:24:40,267 --> 00:24:43,627
Now you're leaving up
in the middle of the night,
you know, with Grace.
320
00:24:44,267 --> 00:24:48,067
Why would you do that? Why?
321
00:24:48,067 --> 00:24:49,697
[Glisson] I didn't
know what to think.
322
00:24:49,733 --> 00:24:52,133
I mean, he was my pastor,
he was my teacher.
323
00:24:58,133 --> 00:25:01,373
[Eddins] Once they left,
and went to Arizona,
324
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,930
most of the investigation
that could be done,
had been done at that point.
325
00:25:04,967 --> 00:25:10,167
And we simply did
not have enough evidence
to proceed forward,
326
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,270
so it kind of had to languish.
327
00:25:21,667 --> 00:25:24,197
[Bridges] This is
a little big town.
People talk.
328
00:25:24,233 --> 00:25:27,433
And I was, like, somebody has
to know something.
329
00:25:27,467 --> 00:25:30,067
Come on! Nobody?
330
00:25:30,067 --> 00:25:33,927
So I was bartending,
and overheard a conversation.
331
00:25:34,767 --> 00:25:37,497
They said her name...
332
00:25:38,833 --> 00:25:39,503
... Marie.
333
00:25:41,067 --> 00:25:45,067
By the time I had
an opportunity to go back,
they were gone.
334
00:25:47,067 --> 00:25:50,367
But I overheard
someone sayin',
"She's in the backyard."
335
00:25:56,233 --> 00:25:58,603
What's interesting
to me is Jesus tells us
to love our enemies.
336
00:25:58,633 --> 00:26:03,073
Now, whenever someone
is backstabbing me, lying
about me, gossiping about me,
337
00:26:03,067 --> 00:26:05,797
trying to tear me down,
or whatever, you know
what I want to do?
338
00:26:05,833 --> 00:26:08,833
My feelings say choke
the life out of them!
339
00:26:10,933 --> 00:26:12,803
[congregation laughing]
340
00:26:18,167 --> 00:26:21,467
Yes, and so that means
we have to take control
341
00:26:21,500 --> 00:26:22,930
of our feelings
and our emotions,
342
00:26:22,967 --> 00:26:25,927
and say, "Okay, I'm gonna set
those things aside right now.
343
00:26:25,967 --> 00:26:28,227
God, what is the loving
thing to do?"
344
00:26:35,300 --> 00:26:38,170
[Eddins] The tip came
into Crime Stoppers
345
00:26:39,567 --> 00:26:42,067
that the body was buried
in the backyard.
346
00:26:42,100 --> 00:26:46,670
James and Tanya had left
and were living
in Arizona at that time,
347
00:26:46,700 --> 00:26:50,170
so it was determined
that the yard
should be searched.
348
00:26:51,267 --> 00:26:55,597
Not knowing really killed us.
349
00:26:55,633 --> 00:26:58,933
We had to know where she was.
We had to put her at rest.
350
00:27:01,767 --> 00:27:04,927
[Speed] I was the forensic
anthropologist
in the district,
351
00:27:04,967 --> 00:27:08,767
and the investigator
that handles any kind
of, um, buried bodies.
352
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,530
My job is the recovery,
353
00:27:11,567 --> 00:27:16,067
and to be able
to contribute to giving
answers to the family.
354
00:27:16,067 --> 00:27:20,767
In 2012, they obtained
a search warrant,
355
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:25,170
and they went to the Flanders
residence with cadaver dogs.
356
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,770
There were multiple questions.
357
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,670
They weren't sure,
was she in the backyard,
was she in the side yard?
358
00:27:31,300 --> 00:27:35,930
But there's a lot of ways
to be able to recognize
a clandestine grave.
359
00:27:35,967 --> 00:27:38,927
Is the grass different
in this area?
360
00:27:38,967 --> 00:27:42,197
We're taking ground
penetrating radar.
361
00:27:42,233 --> 00:27:45,773
There's just this huge
level of hope that this
is where she is.
362
00:27:47,067 --> 00:27:48,067
[dog barking]
363
00:27:49,067 --> 00:27:52,197
But unfortunately,
they did not find Marie.
364
00:27:55,600 --> 00:28:00,170
God! Do you care
if I have a cigarette?
365
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,370
Time to take a break
'cause that just, like...
366
00:28:22,367 --> 00:28:24,467
You wanna know why I like
livin' in the boondocks?
367
00:28:24,500 --> 00:28:26,070
-[Tanya] Why?
-I'll show you why.
368
00:28:26,100 --> 00:28:27,170
-Ready?
-[Tanya] Yeah.
369
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,100
[James] Okay, hold on!
370
00:28:31,500 --> 00:28:34,570
-[Tanya laughing]
-[James] Whoo!
371
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,270
[shouting] Welcome
to the boondocks!
372
00:28:45,067 --> 00:28:46,897
[Eddins] In 2012,
373
00:28:46,933 --> 00:28:51,573
they initially tried
to forensically
examine the computer,
374
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,370
but were unable to do so.
375
00:29:03,267 --> 00:29:05,797
[Eddins] Four
years later, in 2016,
376
00:29:05,833 --> 00:29:09,573
the forensic abilities
had developed dramatically.
377
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,200
Law enforcement was able
to get into the computer,
378
00:29:13,233 --> 00:29:18,073
providin' a lot of texting
with James Flanders
from her iPhone.
379
00:29:18,067 --> 00:29:24,267
It wasn't just a situation
where it was decided that she
was gonna be a surrogate,
380
00:29:24,300 --> 00:29:27,270
and he had sex with her
on the one occasion.
381
00:29:27,300 --> 00:29:30,630
There was
an ongoing relationship.
382
00:29:30,667 --> 00:29:34,567
We also learned
about the geography
of the cell phones.
383
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,800
When Marie Carlson's
group text went out,
384
00:29:38,833 --> 00:29:44,333
the location
of that phone was
in James' and Tanya's house.
385
00:29:44,367 --> 00:29:49,067
That was a major factor
in our belief that something
untoward had happened to her,
386
00:29:49,067 --> 00:29:53,827
and that, in fact,
James Flanders sent out
the group text himself.
387
00:29:55,767 --> 00:29:57,497
And when you put
it all together,
388
00:29:57,533 --> 00:30:01,003
we had sufficient evidence
to seek an arrest warrant,
389
00:30:01,033 --> 00:30:04,433
and I felt that we had
sufficient evidence
to obtain a conviction.
390
00:30:10,167 --> 00:30:11,167
[dog barking]
391
00:30:31,267 --> 00:30:35,867
Ah! I saw him
get arrested on TV.
392
00:30:35,900 --> 00:30:38,900
He was in his camouflage
pants, I'll never forget that.
393
00:30:38,933 --> 00:30:41,933
He didn't look like
the same James,
he didn't look as confident.
394
00:30:41,967 --> 00:30:47,897
And, uh, he wasn't spreadin'
the news, you know,
he was in the news,
395
00:30:48,633 --> 00:30:49,673
and I liked that.
396
00:30:50,500 --> 00:30:52,530
Yeah, mmm-hmm.
397
00:30:52,567 --> 00:30:54,227
[Clyatt] I remember
seein' in the news,
398
00:30:54,267 --> 00:30:59,327
and him bein' walked
through in handcuffs,
and a prison jumpsuit.
399
00:30:59,367 --> 00:31:01,597
It just looked so strange.
400
00:31:01,633 --> 00:31:08,373
I just remember thinkin'
how do things go downhill that
fast that here you are,
401
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:12,970
and why'd you not hit
the breaks when things
were going bad.
402
00:31:17,300 --> 00:31:20,630
[Eddins] I met
with James Flanders
to interview him,
403
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:28,130
and what I observed
was a person that was very
articulate under great stress.
404
00:31:33,767 --> 00:31:38,197
And I knew then that
it was going to be a very
difficult case to prosecute.
405
00:31:38,233 --> 00:31:43,533
Cause it was a no body case,
even in view of the facts
and circumstances we had.
406
00:31:43,567 --> 00:31:47,897
If it went to a trial,
he could be a very
difficult adversary.
407
00:31:50,333 --> 00:31:52,403
The defense attorney indicated
408
00:31:52,433 --> 00:31:57,633
that he would like to know
what would happen
if he could give us the body.
409
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,730
At that time, I'd been a trial
lawyer for over 40 years,
410
00:32:02,767 --> 00:32:07,367
I've never had a decision
that was any more difficult.
411
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,930
We had to consider
pleading to manslaughter.
412
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,200
[Bridges] It was hard,
it was hard to not know
where she was.
413
00:32:22,233 --> 00:32:26,173
I remember I was driving
through Arizona,
414
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:30,730
and I just lost
it because I was, like...
415
00:32:33,733 --> 00:32:34,903
... She could be anywhere.
416
00:32:36,767 --> 00:32:38,797
She could be out
in this dessert,
417
00:32:38,833 --> 00:32:42,633
this vast nothingness,
and we would never find her.
418
00:32:42,667 --> 00:32:45,667
And that's unfortunately
why we took the plea.
419
00:32:46,767 --> 00:32:49,697
[Eddins] So as a result
of the offer, we agreed
420
00:32:49,733 --> 00:32:55,233
that he would give
a statement, and tell
the truth about what happened.
421
00:33:11,867 --> 00:33:15,297
[Eddins] And they got into
an argument, she grabbed
him and he grabbed her.
422
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,970
[woman] You good, sir?
All right, let's go
to the front then.
423
00:35:15,900 --> 00:35:17,330
[sobbing]
424
00:35:28,267 --> 00:35:34,727
[Speed] They were there
in 2012, and unfortunately,
they did not find Marie.
425
00:35:34,767 --> 00:35:40,397
I kind of became the lead
on scene in the recovery
because of my expertise.
426
00:35:40,433 --> 00:35:43,533
When we started the dig,
as I was going down,
427
00:35:43,567 --> 00:35:47,567
um, I hit a portion
of the blanket.
428
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,370
And then I exposed part
of her lower extremity
429
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,670
that was, um, not wrapped
in the blanket.
430
00:35:57,333 --> 00:36:03,933
The first thought was kind
of a big exhale of...
okay, she's here.
431
00:36:03,967 --> 00:36:10,797
He buried her so deep that
what is used for locating
432
00:36:10,833 --> 00:36:13,233
a clandestine grave,
didn't work.
433
00:36:15,233 --> 00:36:20,373
But having him point out
where she was,
was the big difference.
434
00:36:26,267 --> 00:36:30,067
It's kinda hard to watch,
'cause it makes you...
I mean, it makes me mad.
435
00:36:30,100 --> 00:36:35,400
Oh, okay, so she's here,
and you want to have a moment.
436
00:36:37,467 --> 00:36:41,397
You know, it just of makes
me kind of infuriated
437
00:36:41,433 --> 00:36:45,503
to watch him get
so emotional over
something that he did.
438
00:36:45,533 --> 00:36:48,633
That's that feeling
that comes up, like, no!
439
00:36:48,667 --> 00:36:51,327
You shouldn't be emotional
like this, you did this.
440
00:37:09,533 --> 00:37:11,133
[Bridges] During
the court proceedings,
441
00:37:12,500 --> 00:37:17,630
I never felt that much
animosity towards somebody.
442
00:37:24,300 --> 00:37:30,070
I wanted to just, like,
"Look at me, look at us."
443
00:37:30,067 --> 00:37:33,797
You're looking above
and around, look at us!
444
00:37:35,133 --> 00:37:38,573
Look at... look
at what you did.
445
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,500
Ugh, I abhor you.
446
00:37:47,833 --> 00:37:49,833
[Bridges] How did
people believe you?
447
00:37:51,067 --> 00:37:53,497
Because I see
right through
your [bleep] !
448
00:37:57,333 --> 00:38:01,603
Now, whenever someone
is backstabbing me, lying
about me, gossiping about me,
449
00:38:01,633 --> 00:38:04,503
trying to tear me down,
or whatever, you know
what I want to do?
450
00:38:04,533 --> 00:38:07,303
My feelings say choke
the life out of them!
451
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,300
[congregation laughing]
452
00:38:11,333 --> 00:38:12,333
Then you laugh about it.
453
00:38:12,367 --> 00:38:14,567
And so that means
we have to take control
454
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,930
of our feelings
and our emotions,
455
00:38:15,967 --> 00:38:18,967
and say, "Okay, I'm gonna set
those things aside right now.
456
00:38:19,067 --> 00:38:21,227
God, what is the loving
thing to do?"
457
00:38:21,267 --> 00:38:21,927
Kill her!
458
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,130
[exhaling]
459
00:38:36,533 --> 00:38:40,203
I wanna... I wanna just
choke the stew out of him,
just like he talked about!
460
00:38:41,433 --> 00:38:43,303
See how you like it!
461
00:38:43,333 --> 00:38:46,133
Boy, I could say some really
foul words right now.
462
00:38:49,533 --> 00:38:52,273
I feel so sorry
for Marie's family.
463
00:38:52,300 --> 00:38:53,730
I don't know what
I could do for them.
464
00:38:53,767 --> 00:38:56,697
I don't know what in the world
I can ever say to them,
465
00:38:56,733 --> 00:38:58,603
'cause they are never
gonna have any comfort.
466
00:39:07,733 --> 00:39:11,333
That's not enough.
That's not enough time.
467
00:39:11,367 --> 00:39:17,067
I just hope that karma does
what she's good at doin'
with him.
468
00:39:18,733 --> 00:39:21,103
When that time comes.
469
00:39:21,133 --> 00:39:24,973
[Clyatt] Now, I really don't
know what somebody's
fully capable of
470
00:39:25,067 --> 00:39:26,897
if a pastor of a church
is capable of that.
471
00:39:26,933 --> 00:39:29,473
A pastor should
value life, period.
472
00:39:29,500 --> 00:39:32,270
You killed somebody
and you buried 'em
in your backyard.
473
00:39:32,300 --> 00:39:36,530
How much worse can you be?
That... It doesn't
get any worse than that.
474
00:39:48,500 --> 00:39:51,970
[Bridges] Tanya has done
a great job of raising her.
475
00:39:52,067 --> 00:39:56,967
Now, granted it should
have been my sister, or maybe
both of them together,
476
00:39:57,067 --> 00:40:02,297
whatever their plans were
but she's well taken care of.
477
00:40:07,500 --> 00:40:08,330
[Grace screaming]
478
00:40:11,133 --> 00:40:12,733
[Grace playing]
Somewhere
in the middle...
479
00:40:14,833 --> 00:40:18,803
[Barber] I want Grace to know
that her mother loved her,
480
00:40:18,833 --> 00:40:22,633
and we saw that
when she brought
her over to see us.
481
00:40:23,267 --> 00:40:26,267
And, uh, I want her to know
482
00:40:26,300 --> 00:40:33,570
that if she ever wants to see
her mother, all she has
to do is look in the mirror,
483
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,030
and she's always
there with her.
484
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:36,970
Just look in the mirror.
485
00:40:50,833 --> 00:40:54,173
[exhaling]
486
00:40:58,933 --> 00:41:02,433
[crying]
487
00:41:13,067 --> 00:41:14,897
Oh, I love you.
488
00:41:16,167 --> 00:41:19,297
[Bridges] She needed
to be known differently.
489
00:41:20,833 --> 00:41:24,273
She was not just a victim.
490
00:41:24,300 --> 00:41:29,370
Not just someone
who decided to shack up
with, you know, a couple.
491
00:41:30,467 --> 00:41:33,527
I don't want
her memory
to be that.
492
00:41:36,100 --> 00:41:40,870
She was a wonderful mom,
a wonderful sister,
a wonderful daughter.
493
00:41:40,900 --> 00:41:46,170
I just know she wants
to be remembered
in a good light.
494
00:41:47,667 --> 00:41:49,427
'Cause she was light.
495
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:53,670
Oh.
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