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* your love is like a river *

* flowing through my veins *

* your love is the fever *

* I can't get enough *

* I'm on fire *

* we're on fire *

* our love's too much *

* for just one heart to take *

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Nice view.

Each person's
got to have their corner.

Today's our
ten-year anniversary.

Michael and I do everything
with our pod,

so I thought it'd be nice
to start off

with a little family picnic.

I would love
to propose this toast

to the fact that I didn't forget
our anniversary...

This year.

Congratulations on that,
Michael.

Congratulations.

- Yeah.
- Happy anniversary.

How many years?

Ten.

- Ten years.
- Wow.

Yeah, I think that's
a pretty momentous thing,

and... and it... you know,
you guys are moving in

right at our
ten-year anniversary.

It's... it's
pretty magical.

This anniversary is different

from our other anniversaries

mainly because Jen and Tahl
have moved in.

I'm looking forward
to the change,

but it's still
a little bit scary.

I have something
that I'd like to, um...

to give to you.

- Really?
- Yeah.

- Thank you.
- How exciting!

This is actually something

that I put a lot
of thought into.

When I first saw
that he was giving me a gift,

I was a little nervous.

Gift-giving has never
been his strength.

He never gets me jewelry.

Aww...

- Do you know what it is?
- Yeah.

The infinity sign in the heart.

Yeah, it's a polyamory symbol.

I hereby...

- It's really beautiful...
- Give you infinite...

- Even if you're goofy about it.
- Love.

I want to spend forever
with him,

and ten years is just,
like, the beginning.

It's a big journey,
and it's amazing where we're at,

celebrating it
with our live-in lovers now.

I have a surprise for you too.

Oh.

It's not
for public consumption,

so we get to go have
our private little surprise.

- Even better.
- Yeah.

Like, I really wanted
to celebrate

with you guys here,
but then I really want

to celebrate
intimately with you.

Mmm, that's what I like
the best.

- Happy anniversary.
- Thank you.

We love you both.

We love you, honey.

Because we have so many lovers,
I think it's important

that Michael and I
spend this anniversary alone.

I want him to know
I still find him sexy,

and that he's my priority.

What do you think
the surprise is?

I don't know,
but it's gonna be something...

- I mean, what could it be
that they haven't already done?

- Mala's creative.
- I guess so.

There's one of the apples
of my eye.

Linds!

- Huh?
- I got to go.

I need to talk
to you guys real quick.

Things are going really well
at the triad right now.

We're back on track,
and I've decided

that now's the time
for the next chapter in my life.

Guys, okay, guess what.
Guess what's happening.

Yeah?

Uh, it's almost
anniversary time.

Our anniversary and our
anniversaries are so close.

And because
we're doing three years,

I'd like to do one anniversary,
all three of us together.

Well, we have our wedding
anniversary anyway, so...

- Yeah.
- Right.

You have...
right, separate...

but I mean
for a triad anniversary.

The ones that involve me.

- Yes.
- Can we do one big three...

- Yeah, I like that idea.
- Yes, totally.

Okay.

We've never actually celebrated
the triad anniversary.

We... we... we tend
to celebrate them separately,

and so I feel like it's time
to have an anniversary date

that's... that's
all three of us together.

I have something really special
and awesome planned.

- Already?
- Yeah, I...

- Wait.
- What?

I have a big surprise for it,
so just don't plan.

I'm surprising them
with an anniversary dinner,

and I'm also going
to propose to them.

Okay, I got to go.
I got to go.

I'm meeting, uh, baby sister.

I love you.

- I'll miss you.
- Bye.

Bye, you guys.

What do you think
she's gonna do?

That's really cute.

Oh, my God.

Today I'm meeting
my younger sister Kelsey.

We really are close,
we really love each other a lot,

and she knows that I'm poly.

It's really important
for me to feel supported by her

because there's a lot going on.

So our three year anniversary
is really soon.

So exciting.

Are you guys gonna do anything?

Yeah, I'm planning,
like, a big...

dinner event thing.

- Fun.
- And, uh...

I'm going to propose.

Wow.

Have you talked about it,

or is this, like,
your grand surprise?

They have no idea.

Are you worried about it?

What if they don't agree to it?

If they say, "not right now,"
I can take it.

If they actually say, "no,
we don't want to do that ever,"

like...

"That's not the kind of
relationship we're in with you,"

then I...

then I don't
understand us anymore.

- Like, you know?
- Yeah.

Like, as far as I know,
this is what we're doing

is life commitment.
If... if suddenly they...

if they say no,

like, when faced with the choice
to do it publically or not,

then that isn't
what we're doing,

and I need to know that too.

I haven't thought of this.

I haven't thought
of this possibility

that it could
all come crashing down.

If they want to keep it all
in the closet,

it will make me angry
and hurt me a lot.

But that's something
that may happen.

If Anthony and Lindsey
say no to me,

then I have to face
that I have been wrong

about what we're doing.

That's the reality of it.

We should do
a ceremony with her.

I mean, Jesus, we've
been together for three years.

We have our own anniversary.
Our marriage anniversary.

- Yeah.
- And this is...

this is more about us
inviting her

into our marriage.

Italians get engaged,
like, ten years

before they get married.

I'm in no hurry
after three years,

talking about a ceremony.

I'm not prepared to say,
"I want a ceremony,"

because it's one thing
to fantasize about something,

it's another when you start
taking it seriously,

and then you go,
"what would that mean?"

I am going
to make it an official...

Okay.

"Tie you up
and take advantage of you."

Yay.

Most of my fantasies
have my eyes open

'cause I'm a very
visual person.

Like, if I'm getting
a blow job,

I'd like to watch
what's happening, so, um...

I'm not getting
a blow job, am I?

In the past, we've taken
the pod on wild adventures,

and this one feels
a little more mature,

and I wanted to spice it up

by making sure
that it's still very romantic.

Yay, I'm really excited.

It's gonna be a fun adventure.

Hmm, yay.

Welcome to our little
love nest.

Wow.

- We're gonna have a romantic...
- Ooh!

Just you and me evening.

I was really, really touched.

I did expect something
a little racier

because we're used
to playing with...

you know, with others
and hot lovers,

and I didn't expect this
to be as traditional as it was.

But it's almost like
she's going back to our roots

of initial courtship of two.

I have one more kind
of surprise I want to give you.

- I talked to Roxanne...
- Mm.

And she wants
to have a tea and a chat...

- Mm-hmm.
- To get to know you better.

So you're giving
the okay for...

for Roxanne and I
to have a relationship.

I mean, we're gonna start
with the tea and a chat.

Yeah.

But, um... but, yeah,
I just want to let you know

I'm growing and sharing
all of me with all of you.

- Thank you.
- I love you.

Mmm, I love you.

I felt that that was the...
the most intimate thing

that I could give him,

to be able to share
my girlfriend with my husband.

Oh, God.

I wanted to make love
to Michael

in every way possible.

I wanted to tell him
that there was no part of me

that I was holding back
from him.

- I love you.
- I love you.

It was beautiful
to just have a hotel room

with my primary lover.

And it was hot.
It really was hot.

Happy anniversary.

Hey, sweetie.

- You look handsome.
- Thank you.

Got to get ready
for my hot date.

Good.

How you feeling about it?

What kind of rules do we have?

Like... like how far
can we go?

I know it's
a fricking restaurant.

So the type of date
that I was allowed

to go on with Roxanne
was a tea and chat.

Whatever feels appropriate
to you guys is great.

But if it gets into, like,
heavy petting

of genitals or whatever,
I'd love a heads-up.

So we can do everything
up to sex.

- Yeah.
- Um...

- Then you're gonna...
- And... and we probably won't

because you've set it up
at a place where we can't.

So I get it.

This is the first time
I've ever felt this possessive

about any other lover.

You know, polyamory's
about loving without limits

and I have to look at
why I'm uncomfortable with it.

- Hey!
- Hey.

- Mwah.
- Mwah. It's good to see you.

Thank you.
You look beautiful.

- Thank you.
- Lemons?

Well, they were
kind of phallic.

- And these are for you.
- Oh!

- That's so sweet.
- These are flowers.

I'm pretty excited
about the date with Roxanne.

Roxanne's a beautiful woman.
I'd love to make love with her.

But it's not all about that.

I really just want to be able
to have a relationship with her

if that's what's going
to strengthen the bonds

between Kamala and I
and the rest of the pod.

I have to say first
I'm kind of nervous

'cause we've never done
a one-on-one before.

Kamala had really
wanted us to connect.

And we've been attracted
to each other

- and known each other for...
- Yeah.

- We've definitely had attraction.
- A long time, so...

We're, you know, kind of
bringing you more into the pod.

I was starting to wonder if
you were feeling excluded or...

I was, like, "I should
sit down and talk with him."

But I like how "tea and chat"

- has these undertones of...
- Something more?

"A tea and a chat."

No, I think it's just tea
and it's just chat.

If it was anything
more than that,

I think we'd be
in trouble, so...

I think so.

I thought it was kind of funny
that I was given this date

with Roxanne, but there
were still restrictions on it.

I get that it was a big deal
for Kamala and...

It's something
that we're working on.

I haven't heard
from either of them.

What... what time were they
supposed to come back?

Well, I mean, it's not like
I gave them a curfew.

You know, I'm not sure
who I'm more, like, jealous of.

If I'm more jealous of Michael
being hot to see Roxanne,

or Roxanne, you know,
spending time with Michael.

Like, two people you love
are together,

and you feel a little
left out, that's all.

Whether you're
monogamous or not,

jealousy's gonna come up.
You have to deal with it.

We have total honesty
and no drama.

But I will still feel jealousy.
That doesn't protect me.

There's always been this, like,

distant board up between us,

and I feel like
it's completely gone right now.

This is a first step

towards us just having more
communication within the pod.

- I love it too.
- Yeah.

I'm... I'm in.

Roxanne and I had a connection.

I'd really like
to bring Roxanne

into the relationship
with Kamala and I, but...

I don't think
Kamala wants that.

- This has been fantastic.
- Thank you so much.

It was good to...
it was good to meet with you.

We'll do more tea and chats.

- Absolutely.
- Okay.

Welcome to
our anniversary dinner.

Tonight's the big night.
I'm nervous.

I've planned this really
elaborate anniversary surprise,

and I'm proposing,
and it's a little surreal.

Ah.

When I see the restaurant,

it all of a sudden hits me
the beauty

of having a traditionally
romantic moment.

Wow, we're entering the world
of serious romance,

and I don't know what's coming.

One thing I'd like to do,

since this is three of us
and three years

and a special anniversary,

is think about what we're doing
as a triad,

just thinking
through our changes,

what we're proud of
and what we...

what we want
to keep doing together.

Well, I-I don't...

I feel like you're going
somewhere with this.

What I want to do is, like,
perfectly pull off

this, like,
super-suave surprise.

But Lindsey's not relaxed

and I definitely get
more nervous.

There's something that
I feel like is going to happen.

I don't like surprises.

I'm... I'm just trying...

She just said she has
a surprise for us.

Why do you have to be anxious
about it?

What do you think
she's gonna do?

Spring Mitt Romney on us?

I have not been honest
with you,

but I have a present for you.

This is one
of the most frustrating

and awesome things
about Lindsey

is that she's so honest,
it freaks her out.

Watching people be dishonest
makes her uncomfortable.

I got to get this out
before it hurts her.

Shit!
Look at that!

Everyone!

- We're all here.
- Everyone!

We're having
this romantic dinner,

and all of a sudden a parade

of our closest friends
bursts through the door.

I'm just blown away.

I brought together our, uh...
our closest friends,

our family of choice.

We really can't do
what we're doing without them.

Our very closest circle
involves Alan and Charlotte,

who are two of our closest
friends and lovers.

They lived with us in the house

and were monogamous at first,

and they are now married and
in a polyamorous relationship.

The three of you
changed my life forever.

Uh...

A year ago,
Charlotte and I got married,

and it would never
have happened

if it weren't for your
just expansive love.

Are you done
with the surprises?

- This is it?
- Uh, no.

I have another
anniversary surprise for you.

Oh, my God.

I feel a lot of pressure,

and I don't know,
you know, what's going on.

Michael's home.

Hey, sweetie.

Mwah.

- Present for the house.
- Ooh.

How was it?

- It was awesome.
- Yeah?

- Yeah.
- I want to hear about it.

Tell me about the date.

It was really nice.

Um, thank you
for setting that up.

- It was beautiful.
- Yeah.

She said that, you know,
she has been interested in me,

but she's kind of put me
on the back burner...

- Mm-hmm.
- Because she knew

that you didn't,
you know, approve.

How are you feeling about it?

- I see a...
- No, I-I...

- Look on your face.
- I'm sorry.

I'm feeling
a little bit, um...

I just feel overwhelmed,
you know?

Mm-hmm.

I so want
to be happy right now.

Mm-hmm.

I am so conflicted
'cause I'm really happy

that you're getting
to know her.

- Mm-hmm.
- I love you guys so much,

and I want... I want you guys
to get closer.

I just don't want, um...

like, I don't want to be
the bad guy

who's, like,
"hey," 'cause...

'cause if you are both attracted
to each other

and you want more
than a tea and a chat,

then I have to, um... you know,
I have to do more work.

After going through
this experience with Roxanne,

I hope that Kamala and I
are stronger.

It's part of poly is just
to have these processes

and to work on these things.

Actually, this makes me feel
more at ease with Roxanne too,

that you're getting
closer to her,

because I've never
been able to get...

- Tahl...
- Close, so...

One lover at a time.

You are not... you don't
have dating privileges yet.

My ideal scenario
would be for me

to get over being possessive
about Roxanne,

and to just accept wherever
their natural attraction is.

Where do we go from here?

I think it's like
a breakthrough

that you went out
on a first date alone,

and my preference would be
not to have you guys

keep going out alone.

I'd rather
have it be inclusive.

- Mm-hmm.
- And...

I'm gonna
take some time, and...

- and this will help us all grow.
- Mm-hmm.

I'm not ready to rush into,
like, a threesome

or a foursome
with Roxanne and Michael.

I'm proud of myself
for being willing

to share my girlfriend
with my husband,

but I'm not gonna say yes again
unless I'm a "hell, yes."

Okay, I love you.

Mmm, I love you.

I would like Anthony
and Lindsey to stand up.

I'm not certain about what
the outcome's gonna be.

I don't know
how they're gonna respond,

so I just try to remember
that I'm certain about this.

The first thing
I want to say is that

I absolutely adore,

respect, and love
your marriage,

your commitment to each other.

It is sacred to me.

Lindsey, I love you,

and I want to spend
my life with you.

Anthony, I love you,

and I want to spend
my life with you.

And so I'm asking you both,

now in the company
of our closest friends,

if you will...

Marry me too.

Holy shit.

Yes.

I'm in total overwhelmed mode,

and not in a negative way.

Just totally full of emotion.

It's unbelievable.

Yes.

Whoo!

I'm not gonna lie
and say that...

it was just all pure joy.

It's scary to say yes,

because life commitments
are huge,

but I can't imagine life
without her.

I'm so happy.
I'm so happy.

This is the life I want.

These might look
a little strange,

but that's just
because they're paper.

Lindsey, this is yours.

It has an "L"" an "A,"
and a "V" on it.

You put it
on your right ring finger

as a tattoo.

Excuse me.

In Europe, where we might
end up living,

they wear their wedding rings
on their right hand.

But then I thought about it.

You know, what if we do
something really different?

What if we tattoo the ring on?

You can't just pull
a tattoo off in a fight

and throw it across the room.

The love we have is permanent,

and so to demonstrate that

in the world this way
feels right.

Anthony, yours has an "A,"
a "V," and an "L."

It will go...

on your right ring finger
as a tattoo.

I love the idea
of different tattoos

'cause you can't go back.

I mean, this is one of
the beautiful things about poly.

You get the best
of both worlds.

Like, I have this stable,
beautiful relationship,

and the excitement
of being engaged

at the same time.

We get to get married again,

and we don't even have
to divorce to do it.

Are you sure?

- You're serious?
- I'm sure.

I'm really serious.

I'm just totally full
of emotion and amazement.

Thank you all for coming
to be here with us.

- Yes!
- No.

No.

I got this amazing hotel suite

and invited Alan and Charlotte

to come with the three of us

to bond, consummate,
make love with us.

You're really the only people
that we're this close to,

that we're lovers with,

that we wanted
to share this with.

So let's get naked.

We're gonna turn you
into a piece of art.

Charlotte had brought
these paints,

and Vanessa's body's
so beautiful,

I wanted to just decorate it
and show her attention.

Just thank her for everything
that she put into this night.

I wanted to give it back to her

with some physical affection.

Does it say "wisdom"
on my butt right now?

It does.

It's always said that.

- Ooh!
- Guys, this is so exciting.

You're getting married.

Married!

Great night.

When the five of us
get together,

because we know
each other so well,

we have all kinds of different
ways that we interact.

This night
was particularly integrated.

We were all touching each other
the whole time,

which was really
profound for me.

I felt totally held by that.

I love that Alan
and Charlotte are here

and are spending
the night with us.

I am making love
with my husband,

my fiancee, and two
of our closest friends.

How could it
get better than that?

I-I have the best
of both worlds.

I can't believe
tonight happened.

All five of us together,

so loving and happy,
it's amazing.

- Congratulations.
- Yeah!

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