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Who's there?
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- Raymond - "Raymond" who?
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How many Raymonds do you know, Ray?
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Our father is dead
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By his own hand?
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No, not by his own He was sick, for Chrissake
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Can I come in?
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Put the gun away, Ray You know I don't like guns
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Then you shouldn't knock on people's doors in the middle of the night
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Well, I tried to call, but your phone was dead
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I'm behind on bills
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You want, uh, something to drink?
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Coffee
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Coffee
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When was I last here? Three years?
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After Athena's surgery
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Oh, that'd be five
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Really? Shit
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So, who called you about the old man?
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I mean, who even talks to him anymore?
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Uh, Reverend West, his pastor
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Harris has a pastor? Are you shitting me?
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Yeah His last wish was that his sons attend his funeral
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It's tomorrow, Ray Outside of Richmond
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You don't have to go
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He's dead He'll never know
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You're a very tender man, you know that?
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So what's your plan?
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I'll leave early, before dawn, but, uh, I can't alone
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I I don't I don't have a license, Ray
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I got a DUI
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I had two beers
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The first time I've been pulled over in 20 years
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I had to drive here tonight 'cause I couldn't reach you,
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but if I get stopped, I could be in deep shit
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Why doesn't your wife just drive you?
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We're on the rocks
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She left me in December
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Ho, ho, ho
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Why did you say "by his own hand" before?
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Why would he kill himself?
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I guess I just always thought he would
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Such a bitter son of a bitch Frustrated
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Everything he touched turned to shit
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Just thought he'd put himself to sleep one day
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I fantasized about it my whole childhood,
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him putting a gun in his mouth and blowing off the top of his head
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Jesus
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You're really gonna go?
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After the things he did to you?
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You still working at the plant?
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No Fired
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For what?
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I don't know Some altercation
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"Altercation"? Fancy
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If I asked the other guy, would he use that word?
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Hmm, it's difficult for him to speak with no teeth and all
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What was it about?
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Nothing
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What was it about, Ray?
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Uh
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Uh, he used the N-word I told him not to It escalated
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Wh-What are you doing for work now?
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Construction Here and there
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I have two days this week,
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which is another great reason to skip a funeral
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I saw a woman leaving earlier She a keeper?
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You playing any gigs?
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Nah, I haven't played a gig in forever
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Why not? You're sounding good
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I don't play anymore
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I heard you when I was knocking on the door
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- No - I heard it
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I don't have any horns anymore Sold 'em
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You sold your horns?
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It's okay
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No work and no horns? Sounds like dicey territory
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I'm fine Still clean, going on seven years
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Wow, that's great I-I'm proud of you
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What, is this where we hug?
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- Hug this - Oh, fuck
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You know, he does have other wives
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You can get them to go
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Nah
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Remember that Serbian woman? B Branka
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Branka Oh, wow Good memory Shit, she was hot
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I must have jerked off to her a hundred times and so did you
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- No, I was too busy getting laid - Oh, you're full of shit
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- How did he get himself women like that? - He could be funny when he wanted to be
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Does whipping our asses with his belt count as funny?
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'Cause if it does, he was a hoot
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Ray
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I wanna be there
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Not because he asked, but because I want to
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I wanna know what it looks like to put him underground,
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what it feels like
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But I'm scared it's gonna kick my ass
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Come with me
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J Wait one second
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Oh, really, is that necessary?
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You never know
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Keys You got it
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Where are we?
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'Bout a hour and a half out
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I was having a dream I was in a natural history museum
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There was one of those theater-like windows
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Remember those?
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The naked cavemen killing a man with Your mom used to take us
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Mmm, no That was your mom
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My mom hated that place Said it gave her the creeps
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No Didn't your mo mom…
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Oh, maybe you're right Uh, anyway…
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I'm in the museum and Dad Harris is one of the prehistoric men
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Yeah
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So I'm tryna break the glass, tryna get him out, tryna free him
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But I look down, and… …I'm naked too, like the other cavemen
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What do you think it means?
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Means it's gonna take a whole lot more than a hole in the ground
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to get the old man out of your head
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It's hard to imagine him as a little boy
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His father was a monster to him We repeat We repeat
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- We don't have to - Yeah, but we do
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It's the law of the land
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Mmm Were you a monster to your boy?
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Oh, hey I'm sorry
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Hello? Reverend West?
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How are you?
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Yeah, we're on the road Uh, do we come straight to you, or…
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All right
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You can give him this number
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- That it for you? - Yep
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- It's a cool store - Thanks
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Is it yours?
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Yeah, right Do I look like a boss lady to you?
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Yeah, you sure do
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It's like most girls in the South
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- So, like, I decided to rebel a little - Really?
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That is amazing
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What was that about in there?
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Nothing
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They just come to you, don't they?
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Like flies to shit
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Reverend West called
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How long have they even known each other?
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I mean, Dad died alone, I bet
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This guy just stepped in to make it all a little less desperate and depressing
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And this is what the end looks like when you've alienated everyone
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And now they've called us in to be the shills
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You don't have any good memories of him?
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I have some I wish I didn't
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Why?
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Hello? Raymond
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This is Mr Canfield from Remembrance Funeral Homes
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Oh, yes Hi
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First off, let me say that I am very sorry for your loss
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Well, thank you
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I met your father briefly a couple of years ago,
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when he was making arrangements
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Very charismatic A sensitive soul
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My condolences
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Wh-What kind of arrangements?
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He wanted to have an open casket
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Um, that requires embalming, of course, and we need to start on that right away
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if we want to have an early afternoon viewing,
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which is what he requested
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Okay
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The thing is, your father prepaid for the casket and the headstone
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and a deposit on the embalming, but he never paid the balance
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- I know in this difficult moment it's - How much is it?
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- I'm sorry? - That's my brother, Ray
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Here
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Uh, nice to meet you, sir I'm sorry for your loss
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How much is it?
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All in, with taxes, it's $475, and that includes cosmetic work
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Wh-Whoa, you talking 'bout makeup?
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Yes We would like to prepare him so that the experience is as rewarding
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Yeah, that's a bullshit expense We don't need that
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We don't need to see him
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Excuse me, I didn't I didn't catch that
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Please, go ahead with it We'll settle up when we get there
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Also, a Mr Mendez, your father's attorney,
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called earlier to see how things were going
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- And I will text you his number now - Okay, thank you very much
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See you soon
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Harris's attorney?
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I mean, $500? Can you afford that?
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No, but we only do this funeral once
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- Let's do it right - But I can't afford it
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- I'm not gonna pay - I'll do it, Ray
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Is that all right with you?
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Jesus Christ
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Pu Put it on speaker
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Max Mendez
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Yes Uh, Mr Mendez, my name's Raymond
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M Uh, my father was Ben Harris
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- Yes I'm very sorry for your loss - Thank you
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Your father was an exemplary man A very charming man too
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Yeah, he will be missed I am sure of it
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You You wanted to talk with us?
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Yes Unfortunately, I have another client waiting for me
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Um, could you come by a little later? There are some things to go over
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Is your brother Ray with you?
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Yes
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- Good 11:00? - 11:00 is good
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I will text you my address And as your father used to say, à bientôt
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À bientôt?
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You remember he made us go to those French lessons,
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and then he changed his mind and pulled us out?
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I really enjoyed those
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Thank you
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Sorry
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Sorry
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I'm looking for Mr Canfield
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- Hi That's me - Oh
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You're Mr Raymond Harris?
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- Yeah - Hi Pleased to meet you
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- This is Ray - Hi
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Rose, find out how long until Mr Harris is ready
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I'm very sorry for your loss
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So, you have a good trip?
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Y-Yes, thank you
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Mmm, where do you make your home?
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Couple hundred miles from here
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Mmm You resemble your father
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Mr Harris will be ready in a few minutes
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Felix will come looking for you
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Great In the meantime,
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I want to show you the casket that your father pre-selected
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If you'll follow me this way
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Thanks
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Um, if you don't mind waiting right here, I'll be right with you
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Really?
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The cheapest man who ever lived
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I believe it wasn't a matter of cost
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I offered him discounts on other caskets, but he insisted
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He said it was his favorite thing about being a Jew,
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the humility of the casket,
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which brings me to my question
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I know he was close with Reverend West,
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but perhaps you would also like a rabbi to attend?
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- That won't be necessary - No Our father was not a Jew
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- He converted for 30 minutes once… - Right
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…and No, and he was still miserable
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No rabbi Thank you
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Mr Harris is ready
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I'm sorry for your loss
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I worked on him a little
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He was quite, um, emaciated
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Yeah Well, thank you
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How'd he die?
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Well, you would have to speak with his physician about that,
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but I believe the death certificate mentioned congestive heart failure
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and cancer of the lung
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Y-Your father's wish was to be buried naked inside the casket
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I suggest he wear a shirt for the viewing, if you could provide one
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Will you be expecting a large group of people?
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Why, I don't think so
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Well, we'll leave you alone with him
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When did you last see him?
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Maybe at one of your weddings
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Oh, he only came to my wedding with… with Marsha
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Yeah
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He called your brother-in-law a retard, remember?
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Then your father-in-law almost attacked him
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I mean, that reception was one punch from a shit show
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It wasn't like that Don't rewrite history, Ray
267
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Was he always this little? What's this shit about being buried naked?
268
00:18:45,334 --> 00:18:47,711
He was always such an exhibitionist
269
00:18:51,298 --> 00:18:53,050
His dick is still bigger than ours
270
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It was really something seeing him lying there like that
271
00:19:03,727 --> 00:19:07,147
He's really gone now I feel it
272
00:19:08,649 --> 00:19:11,902
I feel good about it Letting it go
273
00:19:14,780 --> 00:19:16,073
Forgiveness is good
274
00:19:24,206 --> 00:19:27,793
Come in Come in, men
275
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So good to finally meet you, to put faces to the names
276
00:19:31,588 --> 00:19:34,675
- Well, thank you for meeting with us - Of course Sit, please
277
00:19:35,509 --> 00:19:37,261
Coffee? Water?
278
00:19:37,344 --> 00:19:38,804
- No, we're good - No, thanks
279
00:19:38,887 --> 00:19:41,974
You know, it's funny I heard him say so many times,
280
00:19:42,057 --> 00:19:44,351
"My sons, my children, my boys "
281
00:19:45,602 --> 00:19:48,522
How, um How long did you know our father?
282
00:19:48,605 --> 00:19:49,982
About seven years
283
00:19:51,024 --> 00:19:54,403
I represented a man who was suing him for slander
284
00:19:55,028 --> 00:19:57,072
- Huh - And my client won that case
285
00:19:57,155 --> 00:19:59,116
Your father was so impressed by my work
286
00:19:59,199 --> 00:20:02,452
that he hired me to help him sue the city of Bon Air
287
00:20:02,536 --> 00:20:03,537
For what?
288
00:20:03,620 --> 00:20:05,372
Christmas wreaths on City Hall
289
00:20:05,455 --> 00:20:08,208
He said it violated the separation of church and state
290
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How could he even afford you?
291
00:20:10,377 --> 00:20:11,795
I worked for him pro bono
292
00:20:12,296 --> 00:20:16,133
Your father was a great conversationalist, a ferocious debater
293
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,720
Not sophisticated necessarily, but tireless
294
00:20:20,554 --> 00:20:23,640
I would pay him just to hear him gripe about the world the way he did
295
00:20:25,392 --> 00:20:28,437
Okay Your father's last will
296
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:33,525
He leaves all his assets, it's about $5200 in a checking account,
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to be divided equally among his sons that attend the funeral
298
00:20:36,904 --> 00:20:38,214
I know it doesn't sound like much,
299
00:20:38,238 --> 00:20:40,449
but maybe it can help with the funeral expenses
300
00:20:40,532 --> 00:20:42,492
Travel expenses, perhaps
301
00:20:43,202 --> 00:20:47,414
Or you can throw a reception for the attendees afterwards
302
00:20:49,041 --> 00:20:50,125
It's up to you
303
00:20:54,463 --> 00:20:58,175
Your father also left you some personal items at his home
304
00:20:58,258 --> 00:20:59,718
Here is his address
305
00:20:59,801 --> 00:21:02,763
And, uh, Ms Delgado will be there all day
306
00:21:02,846 --> 00:21:04,348
- Ms Delgado? - Yes, sir
307
00:21:04,973 --> 00:21:11,355
And lastly, it was also your father's wish that you dig his grave
308
00:21:13,857 --> 00:21:14,858
What?
309
00:21:14,942 --> 00:21:19,863
That his sons dig his grave on their own, without machinery
310
00:21:20,364 --> 00:21:21,865
Shovels are fine, of course
311
00:21:22,658 --> 00:21:28,205
And then, you are to lower the casket into the ground and cover the grave again
312
00:21:28,872 --> 00:21:30,374
- What an asshole - No, Ray
313
00:21:30,457 --> 00:21:32,709
- No… - No, no Is this even allowed?
314
00:21:32,793 --> 00:21:34,878
The cemetery must accommodate all faiths
315
00:21:34,962 --> 00:21:37,548
Your father claimed his Tongan roots demanded it
316
00:21:38,131 --> 00:21:39,550
'Cause of our Tongan roots
317
00:21:41,426 --> 00:21:43,095
- Yeah - Here's the permit
318
00:21:45,889 --> 00:21:48,618
When you get there, please identify yourselves to the funeral director
319
00:21:48,642 --> 00:21:50,018
so that you can dig
320
00:21:50,102 --> 00:21:53,146
Make sure to bring a valid driver's license
321
00:22:19,882 --> 00:22:22,384
Hi We're, uh, Harris's sons
322
00:22:23,427 --> 00:22:24,970
I'm sorry for your loss
323
00:22:25,053 --> 00:22:26,180
Thank you
324
00:22:33,145 --> 00:22:34,313
What is that?
325
00:22:34,855 --> 00:22:36,398
- What? - What you did
326
00:22:36,899 --> 00:22:38,692
Oh D Nothing
327
00:22:39,401 --> 00:22:41,862
It looks like something What is it for?
328
00:22:41,945 --> 00:22:43,572
I-It's just a bad habit
329
00:22:44,239 --> 00:22:45,490
It makes you feel better?
330
00:22:47,367 --> 00:22:49,077
It's all good You are safe here
331
00:22:50,996 --> 00:22:53,540
Your father's room is upstairs, the last room
332
00:22:54,458 --> 00:22:55,626
I'm cooking something
333
00:22:56,543 --> 00:22:58,420
- Lucia - Ah I'm Raymond
334
00:22:58,504 --> 00:23:00,172
- This is - Raymond and Ray
335
00:23:02,257 --> 00:23:03,509
You're safe here, buddy
336
00:23:36,458 --> 00:23:37,459
What's that?
337
00:23:39,711 --> 00:23:41,630
His little altar to himself
338
00:24:21,336 --> 00:24:22,588
Hey, look at this
339
00:24:33,515 --> 00:24:34,641
Who the hell are they?
340
00:24:35,434 --> 00:24:36,518
I don't know
341
00:24:36,602 --> 00:24:38,312
Are you guys hungry?
342
00:24:38,395 --> 00:24:41,607
Oh, no no We're We're We're fine, thank you
343
00:24:41,690 --> 00:24:43,525
- We're good, thanks - Thanks
344
00:24:43,609 --> 00:24:44,818
I'll get your boxes
345
00:24:53,410 --> 00:24:56,371
Oh, look The moms So beautiful
346
00:24:58,707 --> 00:25:01,251
Before he sucked the lifeblood out of them
347
00:25:01,335 --> 00:25:02,419
Fuck
348
00:25:34,660 --> 00:25:37,329
Hey, it's just like Christmas
349
00:25:37,412 --> 00:25:38,830
Yeah, except we're not kids
350
00:25:38,914 --> 00:25:41,625
Are we not?
351
00:25:41,708 --> 00:25:44,711
We're a couple of grown-ass men whose lives didn't pan out
352
00:25:44,795 --> 00:25:46,505
- Don't say that - Mmm, it's the truth
353
00:25:46,588 --> 00:25:47,923
Hey, you're pissing me off
354
00:25:48,006 --> 00:25:50,050
- Whoo! Easy, horse - Hey, fuck you, Ray
355
00:25:50,133 --> 00:25:53,262
- Don't say my life hasn't panned out! - I like you angry About fucking time
356
00:26:10,737 --> 00:26:13,907
Oh, n Thank you
357
00:26:19,454 --> 00:26:20,455
Thank you
358
00:26:25,878 --> 00:26:27,004
Looks good
359
00:26:27,087 --> 00:26:28,088
Mm-hmm
360
00:26:29,590 --> 00:26:31,300
Mmm This is delicious
361
00:26:31,383 --> 00:26:32,551
I know
362
00:26:32,634 --> 00:26:34,469
How long have you worked here?
363
00:26:35,470 --> 00:26:36,597
It's my house
364
00:26:38,473 --> 00:26:39,933
Oh
365
00:26:40,017 --> 00:26:41,643
I love the way you've set it up
366
00:26:41,727 --> 00:26:46,481
Very free-spirited and and yet still sensible
367
00:26:48,734 --> 00:26:49,776
Thank you
368
00:26:51,195 --> 00:26:52,446
Was Harris your tenant?
369
00:26:52,946 --> 00:26:56,241
No My ex-husband and I had a car wash
370
00:26:57,242 --> 00:26:59,536
Harris came to the store for cigarettes
371
00:27:00,495 --> 00:27:04,666
He was older, but he was friendly and a good listener
372
00:27:06,460 --> 00:27:09,046
We were lovers for a while Then we stayed friends
373
00:27:09,796 --> 00:27:12,758
And when he got sick last year, I moved him in
374
00:27:14,676 --> 00:27:18,096
He looked at that picture of you guys at the lake all the time
375
00:27:19,765 --> 00:27:22,601
I said to him, "Why don't you call these boys?
376
00:27:22,684 --> 00:27:23,894
They can visit you "
377
00:27:25,687 --> 00:27:26,813
He said no
378
00:27:27,856 --> 00:27:30,651
He said, "The boys and the men were not the same thing "
379
00:29:02,743 --> 00:29:04,077
Is it one of yours?
380
00:29:04,995 --> 00:29:05,996
Yeah
381
00:29:07,539 --> 00:29:08,665
Uh-huh
382
00:29:09,750 --> 00:29:12,753
He took it from me after one of our big fights,
383
00:29:12,836 --> 00:29:14,087
summer of senior year
384
00:29:19,051 --> 00:29:22,387
He told me he pawned it
385
00:29:23,639 --> 00:29:27,142
Must have scoured every pawn shop in the States
386
00:29:30,479 --> 00:29:35,859
I mean, he was always an asshole to me, but that was the beginning of the end
387
00:29:36,610 --> 00:29:37,945
What was the fight about?
388
00:29:39,905 --> 00:29:41,031
I have no idea
389
00:29:42,157 --> 00:29:44,826
He had that cleaned and fixed just a few weeks ago
390
00:30:12,437 --> 00:30:14,189
I had no idea you thought my life was shit
391
00:30:14,273 --> 00:30:16,042
- That's not what I said - I heard what you said
392
00:30:16,066 --> 00:30:17,746
- You said my life hadn't panned out… - I
393
00:30:17,818 --> 00:30:20,362
- …which is one way of calling out failure - No, I
394
00:30:20,445 --> 00:30:22,364
- I like things the way I like them - I
395
00:30:22,447 --> 00:30:23,448
Steady
396
00:30:23,949 --> 00:30:26,451
Maybe that makes me boring or lazy
397
00:30:28,036 --> 00:30:29,955
It cost me my marriages I know that
398
00:30:31,540 --> 00:30:35,002
Olive said I was more interested in air conditioning than I was in her
399
00:30:36,170 --> 00:30:38,797
The first time Marsha saw me ironing a perfect shirt,
400
00:30:39,756 --> 00:30:42,050
she burst into tears thinking I was gay
401
00:30:45,053 --> 00:30:46,555
I like my peace and quiet
402
00:30:47,431 --> 00:30:49,975
If that means my life didn't pan out, then it didn't pan out
403
00:30:50,058 --> 00:30:51,977
I'm okay I sleep like a baby
404
00:30:54,605 --> 00:30:56,106
We come from chaos
405
00:31:08,118 --> 00:31:09,995
I hope everything is satisfactory
406
00:31:10,078 --> 00:31:11,330
Mmm
407
00:31:11,413 --> 00:31:13,582
Yeah, it's fine Thank you It looks good
408
00:31:14,208 --> 00:31:16,460
We will have to begin our move to the cemetery
409
00:31:16,543 --> 00:31:18,128
in about an hour and a half
410
00:31:18,212 --> 00:31:21,924
in order to make his desired time for the burial at sunset,
411
00:31:22,007 --> 00:31:23,967
allowing for the time to dig
412
00:31:24,051 --> 00:31:25,511
Mr Mendez spoke with you both
413
00:31:25,594 --> 00:31:27,846
about your father's wishes with respect to that?
414
00:31:27,930 --> 00:31:29,223
He did
415
00:31:29,306 --> 00:31:30,432
I think we'll be fine
416
00:31:31,058 --> 00:31:32,100
Oh, goody
417
00:31:32,184 --> 00:31:33,352
- Excuse me - Sorry
418
00:31:33,435 --> 00:31:35,187
Bonnie Michael
419
00:31:35,771 --> 00:31:36,855
- Who's Michael? - Oh
420
00:31:36,939 --> 00:31:41,777
Uh, it's often uncomfortable for mourners to be the first to arrive
421
00:31:41,860 --> 00:31:43,278
and find an empty room
422
00:31:43,362 --> 00:31:45,364
You know, the deceased by himself
423
00:31:45,447 --> 00:31:50,369
So, sometimes we, you know, place a couple of people just to sit in
424
00:31:50,452 --> 00:31:52,538
At At no cost to the family, of course
425
00:31:52,621 --> 00:31:55,249
And then, as the room begins to gradually fill,
426
00:31:55,332 --> 00:31:56,875
they will step out discreetly
427
00:31:56,959 --> 00:31:58,377
- Great - Yep
428
00:31:58,460 --> 00:32:01,880
Um, I'll need you to sign some documents in my office, though
429
00:32:02,464 --> 00:32:04,633
Um, yeah, and I'll need your driver's license
430
00:32:08,762 --> 00:32:11,139
Try not to fuck the funeral home receptionist
431
00:32:11,223 --> 00:32:12,641
at our own father's viewing
432
00:32:12,724 --> 00:32:13,934
Okay, I'll try
433
00:33:05,444 --> 00:33:07,154
You're cold as ice, Pops
434
00:33:33,472 --> 00:33:36,558
All right, thank you You can go Thanks Shoo
435
00:34:13,303 --> 00:34:15,429
Unfortunately, I can't stay longer
436
00:34:16,098 --> 00:34:18,433
Oh, don't worry Thank you so much for coming
437
00:34:18,516 --> 00:34:20,310
No, I'm happy to be here Yeah
438
00:34:22,563 --> 00:34:26,190
That didn't sound right, huh?
439
00:34:28,318 --> 00:34:33,282
Look at you You have a good smile It's open It does not lie
440
00:34:34,157 --> 00:34:35,158
Oh
441
00:34:44,042 --> 00:34:46,378
Are you married? Kids?
442
00:34:46,460 --> 00:34:51,675
I'm separated Um, twice divorced before that
443
00:34:52,301 --> 00:34:53,802
Wow
444
00:34:54,344 --> 00:34:57,764
And… how many kids?
445
00:34:58,932 --> 00:35:02,019
Oh, um… I have a son
446
00:35:03,437 --> 00:35:06,356
He's in the Army, um…
447
00:35:07,441 --> 00:35:09,193
And uh Wh
448
00:35:10,235 --> 00:35:11,820
You don't want to talk about him?
449
00:35:12,654 --> 00:35:14,907
No, it's fine
450
00:35:14,990 --> 00:35:16,491
How long are you guys in town?
451
00:35:16,575 --> 00:35:19,703
If you need a place to sleep, his room is available, of course
452
00:35:19,786 --> 00:35:20,913
Oh, thank you
453
00:35:20,996 --> 00:35:22,831
But I don't think I could sleep in that room
454
00:35:22,915 --> 00:35:23,916
Why?
455
00:35:23,999 --> 00:35:25,083
The hospital bed is gone
456
00:35:25,167 --> 00:35:28,420
and everything's going to the Salvation Army or to the trash
457
00:35:28,504 --> 00:35:30,005
- Is that what he wanted? - Yeah
458
00:35:30,088 --> 00:35:33,383
He left everyone something, and that's it The rest must go
459
00:35:33,467 --> 00:35:34,468
Oh
460
00:35:36,970 --> 00:35:39,264
But if you want anything like, I don't know,
461
00:35:39,348 --> 00:35:44,561
photos of you guys or your moms, it's okay for me
462
00:35:53,237 --> 00:35:55,113
Hi
463
00:36:00,202 --> 00:36:01,286
I will see you later
464
00:36:01,370 --> 00:36:02,371
Yeah, okay
465
00:36:02,454 --> 00:36:03,455
Mmm
466
00:37:25,370 --> 00:37:26,747
Do I know you?
467
00:37:27,331 --> 00:37:28,498
I don't think so
468
00:37:29,041 --> 00:37:30,375
You sure?
469
00:37:30,459 --> 00:37:31,460
Yeah
470
00:37:31,543 --> 00:37:34,254
So why you look at me like that when I walk by?
471
00:37:35,589 --> 00:37:36,590
Like what?
472
00:37:36,673 --> 00:37:40,093
- You think I enjoy it? - No, I
473
00:37:40,177 --> 00:37:42,763
I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from
474
00:37:42,846 --> 00:37:45,974
Wait, you, um You reminded me of someone
475
00:37:46,058 --> 00:37:50,938
Oh, you think I should be flattered, is that it?
476
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:25,639
- I'm sorry about gawking at you out there - That was a crappy thing to do
477
00:38:25,722 --> 00:38:28,183
Yes, crappy and creepy
478
00:38:28,267 --> 00:38:34,982
Well, I will endeavor to stop behaving like an asshole
479
00:38:35,899 --> 00:38:37,568
- Okay - Okay
480
00:38:39,945 --> 00:38:43,699
I'm Ray That's my father, Harris
481
00:38:46,994 --> 00:38:47,995
Kiera
482
00:38:49,580 --> 00:38:51,790
I was one of his nurses at St Anne's
483
00:38:52,416 --> 00:38:53,584
My condolences
484
00:38:55,586 --> 00:38:57,754
You always come to your patient's funerals?
485
00:38:57,838 --> 00:38:59,548
- No - Huh
486
00:38:59,631 --> 00:39:00,966
He asked me to
487
00:39:01,592 --> 00:39:05,345
He said it gave him comfort to know I'd be here, and I'm happy to do it
488
00:39:06,555 --> 00:39:08,765
Something about your father captured me
489
00:39:09,725 --> 00:39:14,438
A very old soul Haunted
490
00:39:17,191 --> 00:39:18,650
What was he like as a father?
491
00:39:19,943 --> 00:39:21,236
The worst
492
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,531
Huh I wouldn't have guessed that
493
00:39:25,866 --> 00:39:30,412
But then again, no one was there towards the end except his friend Lucia
494
00:39:30,495 --> 00:39:33,457
So, that explains that
495
00:39:37,127 --> 00:39:39,463
- Are you having a burial? - Oh, yeah
496
00:39:40,047 --> 00:39:45,093
We're digging the grave ourselves, my brother and I His final request
497
00:39:45,177 --> 00:39:46,887
Why would he want you to do that?
498
00:39:46,970 --> 00:39:49,556
Mmm Your guess is as good as mine
499
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,643
- What's yours? - Trying to screw with our heads
500
00:39:53,769 --> 00:39:57,356
Exercise his power over us for as long as possible
501
00:39:58,065 --> 00:39:59,816
You can always refuse
502
00:40:01,610 --> 00:40:04,279
Yeah We didn't
503
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,990
Well, then it worked
504
00:40:12,204 --> 00:40:16,416
He was ready to go Even declined painkillers
505
00:40:16,917 --> 00:40:19,753
He wanted to go out with all his senses
506
00:40:20,879 --> 00:40:25,008
I think music helped him get through a lot of it
507
00:40:26,343 --> 00:40:32,140
He'd He'd put on his earbuds and plug into his phone and close his eyes
508
00:40:32,224 --> 00:40:33,892
and weather the pain
509
00:40:35,561 --> 00:40:38,564
I asked him, I said I said, "What music is that?"
510
00:40:38,647 --> 00:40:40,482
He said, "Oh, it's a secret "
511
00:40:42,442 --> 00:40:45,279
But at night, when I came in to check on him,
512
00:40:45,362 --> 00:40:50,492
I could tell it was the same song over and over again
513
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:56,665
He'd fall asleep listening to it, when he could
514
00:41:01,420 --> 00:41:02,588
What song?
515
00:41:02,671 --> 00:41:08,427
Um… I don't know Something instrumental Bluesy, maybe
516
00:41:20,814 --> 00:41:22,316
I should get going
517
00:41:22,399 --> 00:41:26,987
Oh, uh Are you gonna be at the The cemetery later?
518
00:41:27,905 --> 00:41:30,532
No, I-I-I wasn't planning on it
519
00:41:30,616 --> 00:41:31,867
Oh, right
520
00:41:31,950 --> 00:41:33,994
- Don't think I can - Of course not
521
00:41:37,497 --> 00:41:38,832
Nice meeting you
522
00:42:05,734 --> 00:42:08,904
Hey, I need you to call that Mendez, the lawyer, right?
523
00:42:09,404 --> 00:42:11,156
I wanna find all Dad's personal belongings
524
00:42:11,240 --> 00:42:13,009
You know, all the stuff he left at the hospital
525
00:42:13,033 --> 00:42:15,369
- What for? - I just I want his cell phone
526
00:42:15,452 --> 00:42:17,263
You won't be able to use it past the billing date
527
00:42:17,287 --> 00:42:19,540
No, not It's fine, all right? Just call him
528
00:42:19,623 --> 00:42:20,749
Thank you
529
00:42:22,835 --> 00:42:23,961
Oh, fuck
530
00:42:26,839 --> 00:42:29,091
Mr Mendez It's Raymond Yeah
531
00:42:29,174 --> 00:42:31,444
Do you know what happened to our father's personal effects
532
00:42:31,468 --> 00:42:32,803
a-a-at the hospital?
533
00:42:35,764 --> 00:42:37,808
Okay, I We'll try that Thank you
534
00:42:37,891 --> 00:42:39,643
- So, what'd he say? - He had no idea
535
00:42:39,726 --> 00:42:40,978
- Ah, f - He said to ask
536
00:42:41,061 --> 00:42:43,188
He said to ask Lucia She'll be at the cemetery
537
00:42:43,272 --> 00:42:45,166
- All right Well, did you get her number? - What?
538
00:42:45,190 --> 00:42:47,109
Wha Call him back Get her number
539
00:42:47,192 --> 00:42:48,861
- What's up your ass? - Just do it
540
00:42:57,244 --> 00:42:59,246
- Voice mail - Fuck!
541
00:43:02,624 --> 00:43:04,293
You son of a bitch
542
00:43:04,376 --> 00:43:06,211
You think you can laugh at me from hell, huh?
543
00:43:06,295 --> 00:43:08,463
What the fuck do you know about music?
544
00:43:10,883 --> 00:43:11,884
It takes you 80 years
545
00:43:11,967 --> 00:43:14,261
to discover that it can help you through your pain, huh?
546
00:43:14,344 --> 00:43:16,430
You moron
547
00:43:22,394 --> 00:43:28,066
Don't fuck with me, Harris You'll regret it
548
00:43:41,997 --> 00:43:43,081
Call me
549
00:43:46,668 --> 00:43:48,670
God
550
00:43:52,883 --> 00:43:54,843
Imagine if the moms were here now
551
00:43:54,927 --> 00:43:57,387
- Uh, I'd rather not - Why?
552
00:43:57,471 --> 00:43:58,889
They'd get all tangled up
553
00:43:58,972 --> 00:44:00,140
Oh, not my mom
554
00:44:00,724 --> 00:44:02,017
No, when she shed him off,
555
00:44:02,100 --> 00:44:05,229
I think she shed him off for good, like changing skin
556
00:44:07,856 --> 00:44:12,402
The shit he got away with I mean, can you imagine?
557
00:44:13,028 --> 00:44:15,989
I mean, his wife and his lover become lifelong friends
558
00:44:16,073 --> 00:44:19,243
It's like the Battered Wives Club
559
00:44:21,119 --> 00:44:22,162
Well
560
00:44:23,830 --> 00:44:25,791
He was just a guy, Ray
561
00:44:25,874 --> 00:44:30,671
I mean, I know he could be a real asshole, and he could l-lose control, but
562
00:44:31,922 --> 00:44:34,049
Well, he Shit things happened to him too
563
00:44:34,132 --> 00:44:35,300
No, it's no excuse
564
00:44:35,384 --> 00:44:37,719
You know, he should take responsibility for his own life
565
00:44:37,803 --> 00:44:40,264
It's his life, his responsibility
566
00:44:40,347 --> 00:44:42,067
Yeah, like our lives are our responsibility
567
00:44:42,099 --> 00:44:44,101
Oh, God Why won't you point the finger at him?
568
00:44:44,184 --> 00:44:46,353
- What good would that do now? - Just face the facts
569
00:44:46,436 --> 00:44:47,896
- I face the facts - No, you don't
570
00:44:47,980 --> 00:44:49,582
- Oh, fuck off - I mean, he fucked your wife
571
00:44:49,606 --> 00:44:51,733
- Thanks for reminding me, Ray - What, you forgot?
572
00:44:51,817 --> 00:44:54,361
Oh, fuck you! Fuck you! Pull over! Pull over
573
00:44:54,444 --> 00:44:56,884
I'll walk the rest of the way and dig the fucking hole myself,
574
00:44:57,406 --> 00:44:58,949
you piece of shit
575
00:45:11,420 --> 00:45:16,091
Your anger, Ray I couldn't carry it It would crush me
576
00:45:27,519 --> 00:45:29,062
Good afternoon
577
00:45:30,147 --> 00:45:32,024
I'm with Cederdale Cemeteries
578
00:45:33,650 --> 00:45:36,195
- I'm very sorry for your loss - Oh, thank you
579
00:45:36,278 --> 00:45:38,864
I took the liberty of removing the grass to mark the area
580
00:45:39,364 --> 00:45:40,490
Okay Thank you
581
00:45:40,991 --> 00:45:43,702
This flat blade is gonna make things easier for you later
582
00:45:43,785 --> 00:45:46,413
This pickax for harder areas, rocks too
583
00:45:46,496 --> 00:45:47,664
H-H-How deep?
584
00:45:48,874 --> 00:45:49,958
Six feet
585
00:45:50,834 --> 00:45:51,835
Right
586
00:45:52,544 --> 00:45:54,505
I'll be around here if you need me
587
00:45:54,588 --> 00:45:55,714
Thanks
588
00:46:01,929 --> 00:46:03,096
Why are there no dates?
589
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,059
- It's what he requested - Did he say why?
590
00:46:07,142 --> 00:46:08,268
He did not
591
00:46:11,355 --> 00:46:12,481
Get to it
592
00:46:19,112 --> 00:46:21,823
Gentlemen Rev West
593
00:46:23,075 --> 00:46:24,660
It's great to finally meet you,
594
00:46:26,161 --> 00:46:27,579
despite the circumstances
595
00:46:27,663 --> 00:46:28,997
My condolences
596
00:46:29,081 --> 00:46:30,082
Thank you
597
00:46:31,375 --> 00:46:33,210
- Mr Canfield - Reverend West
598
00:46:34,628 --> 00:46:38,882
Harris spoke about you men many times, always in glowing terms
599
00:46:38,966 --> 00:46:40,050
- Yeah - Hmm
600
00:46:41,093 --> 00:46:42,886
Some backbreaking work
601
00:46:45,430 --> 00:46:46,932
Did I say something funny?
602
00:46:47,015 --> 00:46:49,726
"Glowing terms " "Backbreaking work "
603
00:46:49,810 --> 00:46:51,728
It's just, where do you get that shit?
604
00:46:52,604 --> 00:46:53,605
Are my words shit?
605
00:46:53,689 --> 00:46:55,941
I mean, do they teach that at divinity school?
606
00:46:56,024 --> 00:46:57,192
How to speak like a prophet?
607
00:46:57,276 --> 00:46:59,945
I apologize for my very unhappy brother, Reverend
608
00:47:00,028 --> 00:47:02,030
Ah
609
00:47:02,114 --> 00:47:04,825
No worries A difficult day for all
610
00:47:05,450 --> 00:47:07,411
But what's he even need a pastor for anyway?
611
00:47:07,494 --> 00:47:09,413
The last time I checked, he was Jewish
612
00:47:10,205 --> 00:47:13,542
He was Buddhist before that Muslim
613
00:47:13,625 --> 00:47:15,252
Harris was a restless seeker
614
00:47:16,044 --> 00:47:17,379
He was circumcised at 50
615
00:47:17,462 --> 00:47:18,881
That's enough
616
00:47:18,964 --> 00:47:23,302
I did not know that Painful, I'm sure
617
00:47:23,385 --> 00:47:25,804
What about the dates? How come there are no dates?
618
00:47:26,805 --> 00:47:28,682
He was never sure about his birthday
619
00:47:29,641 --> 00:47:32,102
Didn't want the stone to be wrong, so he opted for no dates
620
00:47:32,186 --> 00:47:34,730
Who would know or care if it was wrong?
621
00:47:35,230 --> 00:47:38,150
Few things matter to a dying man
622
00:47:38,233 --> 00:47:39,401
This mattered to him
623
00:47:41,445 --> 00:47:44,114
Just keep it secular as best you can Huh, Rev ?
624
00:47:45,240 --> 00:47:46,700
I'm a Christian pastor, Ray
625
00:47:59,004 --> 00:48:01,006
That's them, my love
626
00:48:03,634 --> 00:48:05,427
Let me help with that
627
00:48:05,928 --> 00:48:07,471
- Thank you, Reverend - Mm-hmm
628
00:48:08,388 --> 00:48:09,681
Thank you very much
629
00:48:10,182 --> 00:48:11,391
Mr Canfield
630
00:48:11,975 --> 00:48:13,352
Ms Delgado
631
00:48:13,435 --> 00:48:17,356
Hi, guys This is my son, Simon
632
00:48:18,398 --> 00:48:21,902
Raymond and Ray Your brothers
633
00:48:22,986 --> 00:48:24,238
Nice to meet you
634
00:48:25,989 --> 00:48:26,990
Hello
635
00:48:27,074 --> 00:48:28,367
Hey
636
00:48:32,538 --> 00:48:33,539
Over there
637
00:48:41,672 --> 00:48:43,090
Thank you, Reverend
638
00:48:46,593 --> 00:48:48,637
- Hey, can I ask you something? - Yeah, of course
639
00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:51,598
My father's stuff back at the hospital, do you know where that is?
640
00:48:51,682 --> 00:48:53,392
At home What are you looking for?
641
00:48:53,475 --> 00:48:54,977
His cell phone
642
00:48:55,060 --> 00:48:56,728
Harris left that to Simon Yeah
643
00:48:57,396 --> 00:48:58,814
Simon, come here
644
00:49:02,568 --> 00:49:04,027
Show your brother the phone
645
00:49:05,404 --> 00:49:06,905
You got any music on here?
646
00:49:07,447 --> 00:49:09,408
Not yet Just reset it today
647
00:49:10,325 --> 00:49:12,327
He's a techie Hmm?
648
00:49:12,828 --> 00:49:15,414
- So, you don't have any of Harris's stuff? - No
649
00:49:16,623 --> 00:49:17,916
Did you back it up?
650
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,585
No, what for?
651
00:49:29,011 --> 00:49:30,012
Thanks
652
00:49:57,956 --> 00:50:00,792
Mmm, a whiskey priest, hey
653
00:50:01,752 --> 00:50:02,753
Don't judge me, Ray
654
00:50:02,836 --> 00:50:05,797
Just a fellow like any other, running on feet of clay
655
00:50:05,881 --> 00:50:09,009
Mm-hmm Is that how you and Harris found each other?
656
00:50:09,718 --> 00:50:13,222
Mmm Nah Harris stopped drinking before I met him
657
00:50:14,515 --> 00:50:16,350
He said it revived him, being sober
658
00:50:17,184 --> 00:50:19,353
He was in his late 60s when he fathered that boy
659
00:50:21,355 --> 00:50:22,940
Life is unstoppable
660
00:50:23,023 --> 00:50:25,526
And no, that is not from divinity school
661
00:50:30,531 --> 00:50:32,783
- You got a family, Ray? - Ah, no
662
00:50:32,866 --> 00:50:34,701
I wouldn't know what to do with a kid
663
00:50:37,496 --> 00:50:38,580
Especially a boy
664
00:50:39,081 --> 00:50:40,541
Is a girl any easier?
665
00:50:40,624 --> 00:50:44,795
'Cause I got a girl and… …taken years off my life
666
00:50:47,965 --> 00:50:49,174
What is it about a boy?
667
00:50:50,175 --> 00:50:51,343
Back off, Reverend
668
00:50:56,431 --> 00:50:58,267
Got a question for you, though
669
00:50:58,350 --> 00:51:00,561
You really think that Harris believed in God?
670
00:51:02,062 --> 00:51:04,857
- I don't care - No, come on You're shitting me
671
00:51:05,524 --> 00:51:09,903
What matters is that we all belong to something greater than us
672
00:51:11,071 --> 00:51:12,072
An infinite
673
00:51:13,907 --> 00:51:15,075
Your father knew that
674
00:51:15,826 --> 00:51:17,202
No
675
00:51:17,286 --> 00:51:19,913
That is a humble thought,
676
00:51:21,164 --> 00:51:23,792
and my father didn't have a humble bone in his body
677
00:51:24,334 --> 00:51:26,587
Maybe he grew one when he realized the end was near
678
00:51:26,670 --> 00:51:28,463
Yeah, maybe it's easier at the end
679
00:51:29,089 --> 00:51:31,383
That's when all the bullies shit their pants
680
00:51:31,466 --> 00:51:34,344
Nah, he was never scared
681
00:51:35,846 --> 00:51:37,973
Only sad that the wonderful ride was over
682
00:51:39,516 --> 00:51:42,519
That's how he put it "The wonderful ride "
683
00:51:52,988 --> 00:51:54,072
Talk to me, Ray
684
00:51:58,243 --> 00:51:59,578
What about?
685
00:52:02,623 --> 00:52:03,707
What for?
686
00:52:04,958 --> 00:52:09,421
It's all gonna be over, a couple hours
687
00:52:11,965 --> 00:52:12,966
You sure about that?
688
00:52:14,343 --> 00:52:16,345
Oh, yeah
689
00:52:21,850 --> 00:52:23,435
I got it
690
00:52:36,573 --> 00:52:38,951
That boy, he bugs me
691
00:52:50,212 --> 00:52:54,550
No reception here That makes sense
692
00:53:02,599 --> 00:53:03,809
Where do you work?
693
00:53:05,185 --> 00:53:10,566
Water and Power Department in Cincinnati It's not very exciting
694
00:53:10,649 --> 00:53:12,818
You don't like it?
695
00:53:13,944 --> 00:53:15,362
Find something else
696
00:53:16,905 --> 00:53:18,031
I don't know
697
00:53:18,532 --> 00:53:21,159
You can have stability with an exciting job
698
00:53:21,827 --> 00:53:23,829
Risk makes you feel alive
699
00:53:25,122 --> 00:53:28,333
Sometimes even getting a little sloppy can be good
700
00:53:29,126 --> 00:53:30,836
- Can it? - Yeah
701
00:53:30,919 --> 00:53:36,800
You are so funny Ah…
702
00:53:37,384 --> 00:53:41,763
I drive an Uber four days a week, and I am a bartender three nights
703
00:53:43,015 --> 00:53:46,268
The driving is easier, but the bar is more money
704
00:53:47,853 --> 00:53:51,356
Both jobs give me a front-row seat to the human circus every day
705
00:54:01,617 --> 00:54:06,163
Sunscreen The sun is a silent killer
706
00:54:17,716 --> 00:54:18,717
Keep going
707
00:55:40,007 --> 00:55:42,926
Simon, please! Don't do that here!
708
00:55:43,010 --> 00:55:44,094
Nobody cares
709
00:55:44,636 --> 00:55:45,846
Incredible
710
00:55:47,014 --> 00:55:49,183
Stop S
711
00:55:51,185 --> 00:55:52,311
It's my turn
712
00:55:53,437 --> 00:55:56,815
I'm not sure that's going to be possible I mean, legally I would need to
713
00:55:56,899 --> 00:55:58,734
Come on It's his birthright
714
00:55:58,817 --> 00:56:00,110
Yeah, I think it's okay
715
00:56:01,069 --> 00:56:02,237
Here
716
00:56:23,592 --> 00:56:24,635
Mr West?
717
00:56:25,260 --> 00:56:27,638
- Reverend West Yes? - Sorry we're late
718
00:56:27,721 --> 00:56:31,391
- One of our flights was delayed - You're not late Um, Leon?
719
00:56:31,475 --> 00:56:32,476
- Leon - Leon
720
00:56:32,559 --> 00:56:33,685
- Leon, Vincent - Yeah
721
00:56:33,769 --> 00:56:36,271
Raymond Ray That's Simon over there
722
00:56:37,981 --> 00:56:39,149
Condolences
723
00:56:39,233 --> 00:56:40,234
Our sympathies
724
00:56:40,317 --> 00:56:41,318
Thank you
725
00:56:41,860 --> 00:56:44,780
Harris and our mother were custodians at a community center
726
00:56:44,863 --> 00:56:46,740
- in Tallahassee in the '90s - Tallahassee
727
00:56:47,741 --> 00:56:49,535
Simon
728
00:56:49,618 --> 00:56:51,828
Come meet your brothers!
729
00:56:51,912 --> 00:56:54,164
- I met them already - There's more
730
00:56:54,248 --> 00:56:56,083
Let me know when they're all here
731
00:56:58,293 --> 00:56:59,837
They have to dig too
732
00:57:03,674 --> 00:57:05,050
- Hmm - Hmm
733
00:57:17,604 --> 00:57:21,358
Look at Ray He's all What is the expression?
734
00:57:21,441 --> 00:57:25,529
Um, tied up Tied up in knots, huh?
735
00:57:26,363 --> 00:57:27,489
Both of you
736
00:57:35,664 --> 00:57:37,875
The old man was always screwing with us
737
00:57:40,586 --> 00:57:41,920
Gave us the same name
738
00:57:43,172 --> 00:57:46,425
So our moms called us Raymond and Ray to avoid confusion,
739
00:57:46,508 --> 00:57:50,429
but he'd just call me Ray and him Raymond and wreak havoc
740
00:57:52,097 --> 00:57:55,767
Ray would get rewarded for my stuff or I'd get punished for his
741
00:57:57,019 --> 00:57:59,271
Or he'd go see one of his games instead of mine
742
00:57:59,354 --> 00:58:02,566
I-I was a good athlete, but Ray sucked
743
00:58:02,649 --> 00:58:07,029
I mean, he was a genius student Straight A's But he sucked at sports
744
00:58:09,156 --> 00:58:12,492
The old man would start fights with the referees or the other dads
745
00:58:13,827 --> 00:58:16,580
Drive our mothers crazy, but he loved it
746
00:58:18,582 --> 00:58:21,168
Having us all bouncing around like pinballs
747
00:58:23,712 --> 00:58:25,422
Ray took it the hardest
748
00:58:28,342 --> 00:58:32,804
He's a recovering addict, and at his worst, he was a train wreck
749
00:58:33,889 --> 00:58:37,226
I tried to to reach out to him to help,
750
00:58:37,309 --> 00:58:39,394
but he wouldn't let me anywhere near him
751
00:58:40,229 --> 00:58:44,858
He was so embarrassed, the state he was in He vanished
752
00:58:46,985 --> 00:58:50,113
And then he found a woman who helped him turn his life around
753
00:58:51,573 --> 00:58:52,741
And then she died
754
00:58:54,785 --> 00:58:56,286
I mean, son of a bitch
755
00:59:04,419 --> 00:59:06,171
I made him come here with me today
756
00:59:08,173 --> 00:59:10,843
This is like ground zero for everything he hates
757
00:59:29,903 --> 00:59:31,196
Thanks for coming
758
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,282
I didn't wanna miss
759
00:59:33,824 --> 00:59:36,368
Yeah I mean, who would?
760
00:59:37,411 --> 00:59:38,537
Who are they?
761
00:59:39,204 --> 00:59:41,582
Oh, they're Harris's sons too
762
00:59:41,665 --> 00:59:44,293
- Oh - Yeah Even the kid
763
00:59:44,376 --> 00:59:46,545
- Little guy? - Yeah Lucia's
764
00:59:46,628 --> 00:59:49,423
Wow Go, Harris
765
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,638
- How many brothers are there? - Uh, I have no idea
766
00:59:56,722 --> 00:59:58,140
I just met them today
767
00:59:58,223 --> 01:00:00,142
- Oh - I mean, except for for Raymond
768
01:00:00,851 --> 01:00:02,019
You close to him?
769
01:00:02,728 --> 01:00:03,896
We're half brothers
770
01:00:04,479 --> 01:00:07,858
Growing up, we were connected at the hip Inseparable
771
01:00:08,775 --> 01:00:11,820
And then, we drifted apart through high school
772
01:00:11,904 --> 01:00:18,827
When you've been humiliated together, degraded, devalued like we were by Harris,
773
01:00:20,078 --> 01:00:23,207
then just being near each other is a reminder
774
01:00:24,791 --> 01:00:27,669
But over the years, we stayed in touch
775
01:00:27,753 --> 01:00:29,671
You know, he's he's good about that
776
01:00:30,172 --> 01:00:35,844
I'm always reluctant, but, uh, I never regret it
777
01:00:40,432 --> 01:00:43,894
Sometimes I wonder if if If we met today, if we'd even be friends
778
01:00:47,022 --> 01:00:50,234
I mean, he likes this kind of thing Rituals
779
01:00:51,610 --> 01:00:52,819
Rituals are comforting
780
01:00:54,404 --> 01:00:59,910
Yeah I mean, "I'm sorry for your loss " I've heard that a dozen times today
781
01:00:59,993 --> 01:01:02,287
It starts to sound like, "Have a nice day," you know
782
01:01:02,371 --> 01:01:03,872
- Or, "Pass the salt " Or… - Hmm
783
01:01:12,756 --> 01:01:17,553
I'm just My wife had this, uh, aggressive cancer,
784
01:01:17,636 --> 01:01:20,430
so I let her parents, you know,
785
01:01:20,514 --> 01:01:22,558
have complete say in the funeral arrangements
786
01:01:22,641 --> 01:01:25,018
I just I just couldn't deal
787
01:01:25,686 --> 01:01:29,314
They had everything organized and choreographed
788
01:01:29,398 --> 01:01:34,403
So much pomp and circumstance and solemnity standing in for sadness
789
01:01:36,071 --> 01:01:38,615
I hope it did them some good It kicked my ass
790
01:01:41,702 --> 01:01:46,081
I'm entertaining you with stories of other funerals, you know
791
01:01:47,457 --> 01:01:48,542
Suave
792
01:01:49,042 --> 01:01:50,627
I don't need to be entertained
793
01:02:03,015 --> 01:02:07,895
Mom! Look at these guys! They're acrobats!
794
01:02:11,773 --> 01:02:13,317
- Hup! - Hey!
795
01:02:13,901 --> 01:02:15,068
Come on! Do some more!
796
01:02:16,069 --> 01:02:19,656
I think that's enough, little man Come see us sometime
797
01:02:19,740 --> 01:02:21,158
- Please? - Simon!
798
01:02:21,241 --> 01:02:24,036
Oh, come on There's nothing wrong with a few tricks
799
01:02:24,119 --> 01:02:26,330
Right, Reverend? In honor of Simon's late father
800
01:02:26,413 --> 01:02:28,874
I think it's okay, if everybody agrees?
801
01:02:31,627 --> 01:02:33,378
- Okay - Thanks, bro!
802
01:02:34,379 --> 01:02:36,340
Here we go Ready? Hup!
803
01:02:42,429 --> 01:02:43,430
Here we go Hup!
804
01:02:43,931 --> 01:02:45,474
Whoo
805
01:02:45,557 --> 01:02:46,557
Bravo!
806
01:02:49,311 --> 01:02:51,897
- There we go Settle it - Ah! Uh-huh
807
01:02:51,980 --> 01:02:54,358
There it is
808
01:02:54,441 --> 01:02:55,943
Bravo, bravo, bravo!
809
01:02:56,026 --> 01:02:57,069
Coming down
810
01:02:59,947 --> 01:03:01,949
Benches Here we go And…
811
01:03:07,162 --> 01:03:09,039
- Simon, come on in - Come on in
812
01:03:09,122 --> 01:03:10,707
Hands up Hand up here Step on here
813
01:03:10,791 --> 01:03:13,210
- Okay? Step up - Very good There we go
814
01:03:13,293 --> 01:03:14,837
Good Nice and easy
815
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:16,797
- Step on his shoulder Good - Good
816
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:18,632
Style with a smile Hup!
817
01:03:19,216 --> 01:03:20,509
- Hey - Yay!
818
01:03:21,802 --> 01:03:23,512
- Bravo Solid - Hey
819
01:03:23,595 --> 01:03:25,222
- Nice - Coming on down
820
01:03:25,305 --> 01:03:27,891
Three, two, one Go
821
01:03:29,059 --> 01:03:30,519
Wow
822
01:03:30,602 --> 01:03:32,145
- Oh, bravo! - There he is
823
01:03:32,229 --> 01:03:33,480
Mi amor
824
01:03:40,821 --> 01:03:43,282
Shouldn't we talk to these guys, get to know them?
825
01:03:44,157 --> 01:03:47,578
And then what? Birthday parties, Christmas cards?
826
01:03:48,203 --> 01:03:49,830
I don't need any new people
827
01:03:49,913 --> 01:03:52,433
Ah, yeah You're plenty busy with all the friends and loved ones
828
01:03:52,499 --> 01:03:53,625
that surround you
829
01:03:57,045 --> 01:03:59,423
Athena died on me The rest is by choice
830
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:05,387
You have anything to drink?
831
01:04:05,888 --> 01:04:09,600
- Uh, yeah I mean, they're warm - Oh, that's fine
832
01:04:09,683 --> 01:04:11,476
- Thanks Oh! - Thanks
833
01:04:13,270 --> 01:04:16,064
- When do you guys head back? - Tonight, by bus
834
01:04:16,148 --> 01:04:18,025
We have a show in Charlotte tomorrow
835
01:04:18,942 --> 01:04:20,861
Did you see the old man often?
836
01:04:21,612 --> 01:04:22,779
Oh, we never met him
837
01:04:23,739 --> 01:04:24,990
He wanted us here anyway
838
01:04:25,532 --> 01:04:27,868
But how long were they together? With your mom?
839
01:04:27,951 --> 01:04:30,120
Oh, not long A week or two
840
01:04:30,621 --> 01:04:34,583
Vincent and I are fraternal twins Our stepdad, he's our true father
841
01:04:35,167 --> 01:04:37,169
He'll wanna hear all about this
842
01:04:37,669 --> 01:04:39,087
He'll get a kick out of it
843
01:04:39,755 --> 01:04:41,048
Uh, no offense
844
01:04:42,007 --> 01:04:43,008
Hmm
845
01:04:44,176 --> 01:04:45,719
You guys were close to him, right?
846
01:04:49,890 --> 01:04:51,350
- Oh - Oof
847
01:04:52,935 --> 01:04:53,936
- Thanks - Cheers
848
01:04:54,019 --> 01:04:55,020
Yeah
849
01:04:57,481 --> 01:05:00,734
Okay, let me get a picture of everybody
850
01:05:00,817 --> 01:05:02,653
Uh, please Go
851
01:05:02,736 --> 01:05:05,155
- Ray, Ray, you too You too Please - No, I-I-I
852
01:05:05,239 --> 01:05:07,282
Kiera, Mr Canfield
853
01:05:07,908 --> 01:05:10,494
Ay, get it there Come on, Ray
854
01:05:12,663 --> 01:05:14,623
You too, twins
855
01:05:14,706 --> 01:05:16,959
Mmm Grave man, sir?
856
01:05:18,335 --> 01:05:21,421
Join us You too Perfect
857
01:05:22,005 --> 01:05:25,592
Smile Scooch in, everybody
858
01:05:25,676 --> 01:05:28,762
Perfect One more
859
01:05:29,388 --> 01:05:34,601
The last one and… good
860
01:05:35,936 --> 01:05:38,230
Thank you very much Muchas gracias
861
01:05:45,112 --> 01:05:47,906
- Thanks for putting up with that - No worries
862
01:05:47,990 --> 01:05:50,450
Yeah, it's something you can tell your grandkids about
863
01:05:51,577 --> 01:05:52,995
Do you have kids?
864
01:05:53,078 --> 01:05:55,539
No, no Never wanted to
865
01:05:57,332 --> 01:05:59,251
Usually, people feel weird meeting a
866
01:05:59,334 --> 01:06:02,004
A grown-ass woman who doesn't have or want kids,
867
01:06:02,087 --> 01:06:04,798
like she's some unhappy freak of nature
868
01:06:05,299 --> 01:06:07,968
Yeah There's many ways to live a life
869
01:06:09,803 --> 01:06:11,597
I read that in a fortune cookie
870
01:06:29,656 --> 01:06:32,659
It's light Is he even in there?
871
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:35,787
Oh, your father was down to 125 pounds
872
01:06:35,871 --> 01:06:38,790
Wow I had a dog once that weighed more than that
873
01:06:39,291 --> 01:06:40,751
You remember Wilson, Raymond?
874
01:06:42,669 --> 01:06:45,714
Our dead dad weighs less than a dog
875
01:06:45,797 --> 01:06:47,633
Shut up, Ray, or I'll kill you
876
01:06:47,716 --> 01:06:49,259
Hey, do your part, boy
877
01:07:06,693 --> 01:07:10,280
Reverend West, I want Simon to see his father for the last time
878
01:07:12,658 --> 01:07:14,034
I don't think that's a good idea
879
01:07:14,117 --> 01:07:16,787
Ms Delgado, the time for viewing has passed
880
01:07:16,870 --> 01:07:19,998
My son was at school, and he couldn't come to the funeral home
881
01:07:20,082 --> 01:07:21,333
He's entitled
882
01:07:21,416 --> 01:07:25,963
Miss Delgado, Mr Harris has been traveling by car in this pine box…
883
01:07:26,046 --> 01:07:27,798
- Mm-hmm - …naked and unprotected
884
01:07:27,881 --> 01:07:29,681
He's been sitting in the heat for three hours
885
01:07:29,716 --> 01:07:33,887
And he was just carried to this spot, possibly banged up along the way
886
01:07:33,971 --> 01:07:35,389
The body takes a toll
887
01:07:35,472 --> 01:07:37,182
He's embalmed
888
01:07:37,266 --> 01:07:40,143
I still don't recommend it I insist, actually
889
01:07:40,644 --> 01:07:43,063
I'll take a look and see if he's okay
890
01:07:44,231 --> 01:07:46,483
I'm sorry, but legally, you are not next of kin
891
01:07:46,567 --> 01:07:49,278
Can't you do this for your brother, please?
892
01:07:49,361 --> 01:07:50,612
- W I - Raymond?
893
01:07:50,696 --> 01:07:52,739
I mean, Simon, do you wanna see the body?
894
01:07:53,407 --> 01:07:56,159
- Okay - He did not want this
895
01:07:57,035 --> 01:07:58,287
Let us take a look first
896
01:08:00,664 --> 01:08:01,665
Mr Canfield
897
01:08:03,083 --> 01:08:04,751
Okay Jonas
898
01:08:11,175 --> 01:08:13,135
Oh, my God
899
01:08:15,637 --> 01:08:16,805
He's facedown
900
01:08:18,432 --> 01:08:19,558
Why is he facedown?
901
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:22,227
It's what he requested, but he did not want anyone to know
902
01:08:22,310 --> 01:08:24,313
That's why I was hoping not to open the casket
903
01:08:24,395 --> 01:08:26,273
He was very adamant about this
904
01:08:26,356 --> 01:08:28,609
W Well, what does it mean, Reverend West?
905
01:08:29,151 --> 01:08:30,152
I have no idea
906
01:08:30,234 --> 01:08:32,946
Oh, it's some bullshit attempt to make amends with the universe
907
01:08:33,029 --> 01:08:36,992
You know, some final gasp at hokey atonement
908
01:08:37,743 --> 01:08:39,578
- We see through you, Harris! - Shut up, Ray
909
01:08:39,661 --> 01:08:43,165
- Lucia, did you know about this? - No, it's stupid
910
01:08:43,247 --> 01:08:45,626
- Let's turn him over - We cannot do that
911
01:08:45,709 --> 01:08:47,377
He's dead Flip him over
912
01:08:47,461 --> 01:08:51,423
Lucia Ju Let the boy take a look Then we'll proceed, okay?
913
01:08:51,506 --> 01:08:52,841
Mm-hmm
914
01:09:00,057 --> 01:09:01,475
I can't really see him
915
01:09:03,894 --> 01:09:04,895
Okay
916
01:09:04,978 --> 01:09:06,270
- W No Oh! Oh! - Ah!
917
01:09:11,193 --> 01:09:12,486
He looks uncomfortable
918
01:09:12,569 --> 01:09:14,363
Okay Enough
919
01:09:14,446 --> 01:09:16,156
Jesus, he's pathetic
920
01:09:17,533 --> 01:09:19,701
You know, in a way, it makes sense
921
01:09:19,785 --> 01:09:22,287
It's the way he lived his whole life, facedown like a loser
922
01:09:22,371 --> 01:09:24,264
- Don't talk about him like that - He is a loser
923
01:09:24,288 --> 01:09:27,209
- And everything he touched turned to shit - Oh, shut up! Shut up, Ray!
924
01:09:27,292 --> 01:09:29,545
Come on! You fucking hated him, Raymond
925
01:09:29,627 --> 01:09:31,255
- And he deserved to be hated - Stop it!
926
01:09:31,337 --> 01:09:32,941
- What will it take for you to say it? - Shut up!
927
01:09:32,965 --> 01:09:34,341
Why can't you say it? Fuck him!
928
01:09:34,424 --> 01:09:36,176
- Shut the fuck up, Ray! - Fuck our father!
929
01:09:36,260 --> 01:09:38,636
- He fucked your wife, Raymond - Ray, no!
930
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:41,223
And the boy you thought was your son was his son
931
01:09:41,305 --> 01:09:43,975
- How's that make you - Stop!
932
01:09:44,059 --> 01:09:46,435
- Come on, Raymond - Hey, hey, hey Come on
933
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:49,231
Raymond, Raymond Let him go
934
01:10:33,817 --> 01:10:36,486
Our Father, who art in heaven,
935
01:10:36,570 --> 01:10:37,905
hallowed be thy name
936
01:10:37,988 --> 01:10:39,448
Thy kingdom come,
937
01:10:39,531 --> 01:10:42,201
thy will be done on Earth as it is in heaven
938
01:10:42,701 --> 01:10:46,496
Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses
939
01:10:46,580 --> 01:10:49,082
as we forgive those who trespassed against us
940
01:10:49,166 --> 01:10:52,503
And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil
941
01:10:52,586 --> 01:10:53,587
Amen
942
01:10:55,631 --> 01:10:59,927
Harris wanted me to encourage anybody who wanted to speak
943
01:11:02,179 --> 01:11:03,388
"No pressure," he said
944
01:11:08,644 --> 01:11:09,645
Ray?
945
01:11:10,521 --> 01:11:11,688
Oh, uh, no
946
01:11:15,150 --> 01:11:16,527
- Lucia? - No
947
01:11:19,071 --> 01:11:20,280
Raymond?
948
01:12:26,513 --> 01:12:28,140
Raymond
949
01:12:28,724 --> 01:12:31,351
- Stay! - Raymond It's all right I'll get him
950
01:12:31,852 --> 01:12:33,395
Raymond Come on
951
01:12:34,771 --> 01:12:36,773
What are you doing?
952
01:12:36,857 --> 01:12:39,693
Raymond! Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
953
01:12:39,776 --> 01:12:40,777
Raymond
954
01:12:40,861 --> 01:12:42,613
- Let's talk - Oh, my God
955
01:12:43,947 --> 01:12:45,365
- Raymond - No!
956
01:12:45,449 --> 01:12:47,534
No, no Stop, stop, stop, stop!
957
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:36,792
We must report this, West To the police
958
01:13:36,875 --> 01:13:39,336
No Look, it's gonna be a whole ordeal
959
01:13:39,419 --> 01:13:42,172
Just be practical, my friend The outcome's the same
960
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:45,884
Ray
961
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:47,970
Say your goodbyes, Ray
962
01:13:49,304 --> 01:13:50,806
You will never regret it
963
01:14:13,287 --> 01:14:16,164
Oh, fuck me Now what?
964
01:17:37,533 --> 01:17:38,909
Rest in peace, Harris
965
01:17:42,621 --> 01:17:48,460
Leave behind fear, hope, anger, spilled milk
966
01:17:49,753 --> 01:17:51,004
Take silence only
967
01:17:52,548 --> 01:17:56,301
Sky, wind Sunrise after the rain
968
01:17:59,263 --> 01:18:00,472
Forget the rest
969
01:18:03,851 --> 01:18:04,977
Sleep, Harris
970
01:18:10,023 --> 01:18:11,441
Rest from yourself
971
01:18:24,872 --> 01:18:25,914
Take care
972
01:18:28,625 --> 01:18:31,461
Your father left you a letter to be delivered at this moment
973
01:18:35,632 --> 01:18:37,759
Uh, I'm sorry, sir That's the wrong one
974
01:18:49,688 --> 01:18:50,731
Thank you
975
01:19:18,467 --> 01:19:22,846
Okay, this stuff is going to the shed for charity
976
01:19:22,930 --> 01:19:25,057
This other stuff is going to the garbage
977
01:19:25,974 --> 01:19:30,145
After that, I'll make up a bed for you, and you are gonna sleep like a king
978
01:19:46,286 --> 01:19:47,871
Hey, folks
979
01:19:48,497 --> 01:19:50,040
I'll have a Corona
980
01:19:50,123 --> 01:19:52,584
Okay And for you, sir?
981
01:19:52,668 --> 01:19:56,380
I will have a coffee, black, and a cherry pie, warm
982
01:19:56,463 --> 01:19:58,340
- You want ice cream with that? - Uh, yeah
983
01:19:58,423 --> 01:19:59,591
And for dessert?
984
01:20:01,802 --> 01:20:02,845
You don't drink?
985
01:20:02,928 --> 01:20:06,557
No, I'm an addict But enough about me
986
01:20:09,268 --> 01:20:12,229
No, I was a heroin addict for three years It wasn't pretty
987
01:20:13,021 --> 01:20:15,816
My brother said that one of the things he needed to do to stay clean
988
01:20:15,899 --> 01:20:17,985
- was finding new sources of pleasure - Mmm
989
01:20:18,068 --> 01:20:20,404
Because the drugs, for better or worse, were pleasure
990
01:20:21,321 --> 01:20:22,489
Yeah Well, that's true
991
01:20:22,573 --> 01:20:25,534
I mean, when that drug first hits your body,
992
01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:28,996
- there's nothing like it - Mmm
993
01:20:29,079 --> 01:20:31,748
You know the sound of, uh, nails on a chalkboard?
994
01:20:32,457 --> 01:20:35,169
Heroin is that sound stopping
995
01:20:35,252 --> 01:20:39,798
It's all the pain in your body, the little rattle in your head, it's gone
996
01:20:39,882 --> 01:20:43,552
It's just the numbing of all that feeling That's the pleasure
997
01:20:44,678 --> 01:20:46,680
So, now pleasure's more muted, you know
998
01:20:47,472 --> 01:20:52,853
There's food Um, sex Not bad Uh, humor
999
01:20:52,936 --> 01:20:55,981
You know, just all the normal things that bring people pleasure
1000
01:20:56,064 --> 01:20:57,065
Music
1001
01:20:59,735 --> 01:21:02,029
When it's not bringing me pain
1002
01:21:02,946 --> 01:21:08,619
Nothing Nothing makes me happier than listening to jazz It's a drug
1003
01:21:09,453 --> 01:21:12,873
Listening more than playing? You sounded pretty good back there
1004
01:21:12,956 --> 01:21:15,751
- Hmm, for a white boy - You're not a boy
1005
01:21:18,170 --> 01:21:19,463
You know jazz?
1006
01:21:19,546 --> 01:21:21,548
No, no But I like it
1007
01:21:22,090 --> 01:21:23,800
My father used to say
1008
01:21:23,884 --> 01:21:29,306
that jazz was just Negro tribal music promoted by Jews to make cash
1009
01:21:30,474 --> 01:21:33,101
- Harris said that? - Yeah Yeah, he has lots of winners
1010
01:21:33,185 --> 01:21:35,062
"Work is not something you should enjoy "
1011
01:21:36,104 --> 01:21:37,397
If you had any real talent,
1012
01:21:37,481 --> 01:21:40,025
"it'd be written all over your white-trash face "
1013
01:21:40,108 --> 01:21:42,945
Charming
1014
01:21:43,737 --> 01:21:47,866
The things he said, they're like a A weight on my chest
1015
01:21:47,950 --> 01:21:52,663
You know, it's like I'd be playing, and in between phrases, I can feel my…
1016
01:21:54,414 --> 01:21:56,917
tank's not filling up, you know, from the weight
1017
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,670
Um, my whole life, just tried not to get crushed
1018
01:22:00,295 --> 01:22:01,922
Playing back there at the cemetery,
1019
01:22:02,005 --> 01:22:06,510
that's not like a-a-a real gig with other musicians
1020
01:22:06,593 --> 01:22:09,930
That's when the fear rears its ugly head
1021
01:22:10,013 --> 01:22:11,098
Fear of what?
1022
01:22:12,224 --> 01:22:13,392
Sounding like crap
1023
01:22:17,896 --> 01:22:18,939
Thanks
1024
01:22:21,191 --> 01:22:22,734
Appreciate it Yeah, I got ya
1025
01:22:24,778 --> 01:22:26,280
You have a picture of your wife?
1026
01:22:27,239 --> 01:22:28,574
Uh, yeah, yeah
1027
01:22:41,670 --> 01:22:44,715
Wow She was beautiful
1028
01:22:47,593 --> 01:22:52,181
So, when you're done eating, we're gonna go get you high
1029
01:23:27,049 --> 01:23:30,344
I'm finished with the shed boxes You show me where the dumpster is?
1030
01:23:30,427 --> 01:23:31,720
Dinner first
1031
01:23:32,221 --> 01:23:34,348
Well, I'd rather get it over and done with
1032
01:23:48,654 --> 01:23:50,239
That was weird today
1033
01:23:50,322 --> 01:23:51,490
Don't be rude
1034
01:23:53,784 --> 01:23:54,952
Thank you
1035
01:24:05,754 --> 01:24:08,048
Cuckoo, cuckoo, cuckoo
1036
01:25:35,636 --> 01:25:37,054
Did you love him?
1037
01:25:45,771 --> 01:25:48,815
He was a horny 67-year-old
1038
01:25:49,775 --> 01:25:52,945
And I was in a bad marriage and sad
1039
01:25:54,446 --> 01:25:57,866
And he gave me attention And he made me laugh
1040
01:26:00,577 --> 01:26:04,957
He was a bad father to you, a good father to Simon
1041
01:26:06,416 --> 01:26:11,213
He was a bad lover to your moms He was a good lover to me
1042
01:26:12,256 --> 01:26:15,843
He loved women, but he didn't understand them
1043
01:26:17,010 --> 01:26:20,013
He was a racist who liked everyone
1044
01:26:22,599 --> 01:26:24,476
He ate 10,000 meals
1045
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:29,898
and slept 10,000 nights with his dreams and his nightmares
1046
01:26:31,191 --> 01:26:35,195
He had a hundred jobs and no money in the end
1047
01:26:37,030 --> 01:26:43,287
He wanted to understand the world, life, everything
1048
01:26:43,370 --> 01:26:46,874
But no Who can?
1049
01:26:49,209 --> 01:26:51,128
He was a speck of dust
1050
01:27:16,069 --> 01:27:17,237
What does it mean?
1051
01:27:20,616 --> 01:27:22,075
Onwards
1052
01:28:29,268 --> 01:28:30,727
The real thing is better
1053
01:31:14,266 --> 01:31:16,810
You know what? I think I'm gonna walk
1054
01:31:16,894 --> 01:31:17,978
Where to?
1055
01:31:18,061 --> 01:31:20,314
I don't know I was just gonna walk, you know?
1056
01:31:21,023 --> 01:31:22,858
- You want company? - It's all right
1057
01:31:24,151 --> 01:31:25,903
Do you even know your way around here?
1058
01:31:27,070 --> 01:31:28,363
I'll be fine
1059
01:31:28,447 --> 01:31:29,615
What's going on?
1060
01:31:30,449 --> 01:31:31,575
Nothing, you know
1061
01:31:32,201 --> 01:31:35,204
Just been a long day and, uh, I'm done
1062
01:31:35,287 --> 01:31:37,039
- You're done? - Yeah
1063
01:31:37,122 --> 01:31:40,209
Look, don't be weird Just
1064
01:31:40,292 --> 01:31:43,086
Hey Hey Hey, hey Hey!
1065
01:31:45,255 --> 01:31:46,465
What the hell happened?
1066
01:31:47,132 --> 01:31:50,093
Did I say something? Clear it up for me, and I'll walk away
1067
01:31:50,177 --> 01:31:52,095
- Look, it's not about you - What'd I do?
1068
01:31:52,179 --> 01:31:54,890
Look, I'm not your pet project, Nurse Kiera
1069
01:31:57,184 --> 01:31:58,435
I'm such an idiot
1070
01:32:00,479 --> 01:32:04,107
You know what? People tell you who they are right away
1071
01:32:04,608 --> 01:32:08,695
My first impression was the right one You're a prick
1072
01:32:08,779 --> 01:32:10,280
Well, you're right about that
1073
01:32:42,563 --> 01:32:43,647
Shit
1074
01:32:43,730 --> 01:32:45,357
Hey! Shit!
1075
01:32:50,153 --> 01:32:51,154
Hey!
1076
01:32:58,412 --> 01:32:59,580
Oh, fuck
1077
01:32:59,663 --> 01:33:00,664
Hold it!
1078
01:33:01,665 --> 01:33:02,666
Shit!
1079
01:33:05,669 --> 01:33:06,837
Just hold on
1080
01:33:09,590 --> 01:33:12,301
Can I talk to you, please?
1081
01:33:14,803 --> 01:33:16,972
Kiera, just give me two seconds, all right?
1082
01:33:17,055 --> 01:33:19,224
Can you roll down the window for J
1083
01:33:19,308 --> 01:33:21,018
No, hey, hey, hey!
1084
01:33:21,101 --> 01:33:23,145
Please, just two seconds, all right?
1085
01:33:23,228 --> 01:33:25,856
I, uh Oh, f
1086
01:33:33,697 --> 01:33:35,282
- Everything okay? - Yeah
1087
01:33:35,908 --> 01:33:37,242
You sure?
1088
01:33:37,326 --> 01:33:38,619
I'm fine, thanks
1089
01:33:40,287 --> 01:33:41,288
You know this guy?
1090
01:33:42,497 --> 01:33:43,916
Mm-hmm Yeah
1091
01:33:46,877 --> 01:33:47,878
He's cute
1092
01:34:12,361 --> 01:34:13,362
Fuck you
1093
01:34:47,980 --> 01:34:52,860
Raymond, I regret that I caused you so much pain
1094
01:34:53,569 --> 01:34:58,323
I was in a lot of pain myself, but I've heard that's no excuse
1095
01:34:58,866 --> 01:35:03,453
It was exhausting work being a father, even a bad father
1096
01:35:04,121 --> 01:35:05,664
Find a way to forgive me
1097
01:35:07,040 --> 01:35:11,753
One more thing Your brother Ray, is not my son
1098
01:35:12,671 --> 01:35:14,715
His mother was already pregnant
1099
01:35:14,798 --> 01:35:17,593
but didn't know it when she and I started up
1100
01:35:18,594 --> 01:35:22,181
We went along with it because I loved her, I thought
1101
01:35:22,973 --> 01:35:26,518
So, in a way, he's not even your brother, I suppose
1102
01:35:27,769 --> 01:35:31,648
Do with that information what you will I trust you
1103
01:35:32,191 --> 01:35:36,195
Your father, Benjamin Reed Harris III
1104
01:36:00,135 --> 01:36:05,474
Ray, you were a golden boy I never knew what to do with you
1105
01:36:06,183 --> 01:36:10,646
Sincerely, Benjamin Reed Harris III
1106
01:36:45,848 --> 01:36:47,057
Oh
1107
01:37:00,028 --> 01:37:02,781
She invited me to stay a few days and I-I-I'm going to
1108
01:37:02,865 --> 01:37:04,408
So, y-you take the truck
1109
01:37:04,491 --> 01:37:07,286
Wait, are you sure? I mean, I can take the bus
1110
01:37:07,369 --> 01:37:09,305
Yeah I'll pick it up from your house this weekend
1111
01:37:09,329 --> 01:37:10,330
All right
1112
01:37:16,628 --> 01:37:19,339
Did you and, um, Lucia…
1113
01:37:21,425 --> 01:37:22,426
What?
1114
01:37:23,385 --> 01:37:24,595
What, what?
1115
01:37:25,470 --> 01:37:27,848
- Oh, my God - Ah, just cut the shit, Ray
1116
01:37:27,931 --> 01:37:31,226
Holy shit
1117
01:37:31,310 --> 01:37:34,354
You had sexual intercourse with his woman, bro!
1118
01:37:34,438 --> 01:37:36,231
Why do you have to point everything out?
1119
01:37:36,315 --> 01:37:38,442
Why can't you let silence speak for itself?
1120
01:37:39,067 --> 01:37:40,903
Where would the fun be in that, huh?
1121
01:37:42,946 --> 01:37:48,994
- Now his son could be your son - Jesus! Fuck
1122
01:37:49,912 --> 01:37:51,705
Oh
1123
01:37:53,624 --> 01:37:56,126
Um…
1124
01:37:57,878 --> 01:37:59,546
listen, you know, um…
1125
01:38:02,466 --> 01:38:04,468
thank you for making me come to this thing
1126
01:38:07,554 --> 01:38:08,764
Is this where we hug?
1127
01:38:10,265 --> 01:38:11,767
- Oh, hug this - Hug this!
1128
01:38:16,104 --> 01:38:17,731
Hey
1129
01:38:21,985 --> 01:38:23,654
We never really knew him, did we?
1130
01:38:28,200 --> 01:38:30,661
Let's talk this weekend
1131
01:38:33,080 --> 01:38:34,081
Yeah
84483
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