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All right, buckle your seatbelt.
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This is going to be the bet.
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If I won,
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I get to come over to your house
with my bag of goodies.
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Inside my bag of goodies,
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there are several different bundles
of Shibari rope.
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Shibari is the Japanese art
of rope bondage.
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My bet was going to involve
showing up at your place
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and tying you up and incapacitating you,
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and then being able to do
whatever I wanted
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to every single hole in your body
until I was done with you.
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Trouble for Golden Globe nominee
Armie Hammer,
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known for his roles in The Social Network
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and Call Me By Your Name.
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Disturbing messages
allegedly sent to women
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by the actor Armie Hammer
are trending on Twitter.
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Shocking DMs allegedly sent
from Armie Hammer’s public accounts
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are going viral on social media.
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How did Armie Hammer go
from Hollywood golden boy
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to an alleged abuser?
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The actor Armie Hammer
has been confirmed as the suspect
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in an alleged sexual assault case
by the Los Angeles Police Department.
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I thought we were joking
about that Hammer stuff,
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but that’s real.
I just found out that that’s real?
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His aunt wrote a book about their family,
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and this stuff didn’t start with Armie.
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I know my grandfather had a dark side.
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I saw my father's dark side firsthand,
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and I've seen my brother's dark side.
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And I've just heard about Armie's
dark side, but I believe it.
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More, more, more.
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Every generation of my family
has been involved in dark misdeeds.
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And it just gets worse and worse
and worse.
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My name's Courtney Vucekovich.
I am from Dallas, Texas.
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I am the CEO and founder
of an app called FLASHD.
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I started that in 2017.
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I’m here to talk about...
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what happened in my relationship
with Armie Hammer.
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I would love to be able
to paint a picture
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of the red flags that I saw. And...
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what happened in order for me
to get in the mindset
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where I was almost fully controlled
by somebody.
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I had lost my entire sense of self.
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You’re his, completely.
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I think it was November, December 2019.
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I remember the lights
in Highland Park Village.
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They light up. It's super-gorgeous.
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I was trying to enjoy a night
with my friends at a bar in Dallas.
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My friend said, "That's Armie Hammer
from the movie."
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I didn’t know who he was. But he was tall
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and he didn’t dress like a frat boy,
so I was like, "Oh, he's super-cute."
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We, like, saw each other in passing,
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spoke very briefly at the bar.
And then I go home.
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But then I woke up the next morning,
and he had added me on Instagram.
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I followed him back
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and we just sat there from afar
looking at each other’s lives.
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He acts very goofy.
I remember being like, "This is fun."
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It made him feel interesting.
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Breaking news tonight as the COVID-19
virus continues to spread,
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forcing millions of Americans
into lockdown,
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non-essential business ordered to close.
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Covid happened in March,
so everything shut down.
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My business was on pause.
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So you’re, like, sitting there
with your thoughts.
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It was difficult. And then June 2020,
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I get an Armie Hammer DM.
Little blue check mark.
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He just chose to speak to me one day,
so I was like...
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You know, in my brain I’m like,
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"I’ve been doing nothing for a month.
It’s COVID, this is interesting."
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But I was very hesitant because I see
the persona that was public,
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was he’s married, and he is a father
of these two beautiful kids.
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So I was like, "Aren’t you married?"
You know?
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He’s like, "My wife and I have been
separated for almost two years.
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I’ve been living in New York,
she lives in LA."
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And I believed it,
he would send me text messages
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and call me every day.
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Constant communication,
the second he woke up
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to we’d fall asleep
on the phone together.
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And immediately, he was just sharing
all these things with me.
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Intimate details about his parents,
family secrets.
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And I’m like, "Wow."
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This is really powerful.
He must feel really safe.
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In return, I felt very safe
telling him mine.
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I had gotten out of a really,
really toxic relationship,
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and we were sharing
just very intimate things.
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A lot of the things we shared
were trauma we experienced
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as children.
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And it is even a deeper connection.
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Really rooted those bonds for me
that he was so vulnerable to share,
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because I never told anybody.
I wanted to help him.
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At the same time, he’s blowing me up
with compliments.
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"How could you be this beautiful,
this smart, so funny?
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You're such a good listener. You get me."
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He's like, "I feel such an intense
connection with you.
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Is that crazy? Are we being crazy?"
And I'm just like, "Maybe we are."
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Between the love bombing
and the attention,
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I felt like this was all perfect.
This was amazing.
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Like what we are all taught to think
is a fairytale when we are little.
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Not only is he an actor,
a pretty well-known actor.
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He was gorgeous and tall.
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What does he want with me?
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You know, to say that it didn't have
an effect...
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I think it would have an effect
on anybody.
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Unfortunately,
Armie Hammer can’t be here,
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which is probably better
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because we’d all be staring at him
since he is such a goddamn hunk.
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There's people that,
if they shine their light on you,
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you believe
you're the only one in the room.
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There is an element of that to Armie.
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I know Armie through acting class.
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We were in the same Tuesday night
acting class for years.
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I got to watch his kind of rise
to stardom.
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Armie had bit player roles
in the beginning.
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He would have a couple of lines.
You know, it builds a resume.
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And then he got Gossip Girl,
and that was what, a couple episodes.
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We were all in the same kind of boat,
we were scrambling to get auditions.
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The Social Network auditions
kind of hit like a tornado.
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Everybody was auditioning
for these roles.
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This is a great opportunity.
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Armie was cast as the Winklevoss twins.
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They had the idea for Facebook
on the Harvard campus.
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You know, the attributes are tall,
good-looking,
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comes from extreme wealth.
Armie has all of those.
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And I do remember hearing
that David Fincher,
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the director of The Social Network,
liked Armie's pedigree.
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These are millionaires.
Who knows better than that
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than the descendant of Armand Hammer?
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I can’t get over what a great name
Armie Hammer is.
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It's a hard name when you're five
as it’s short for Armand,
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which is a big name for a little kid.
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Named for your great grandfather,
who was the billionaire owner
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of Occidental Petroleum,
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which sounds like the bad corporation
in a Batman movie, by the way.
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Armie didn't like speaking
about his family or his history.
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Having lived in Hollywood for 20 years,
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you see the name Hammer
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on museums and on parks,
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so I knew that family
has a lot of money and power.
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My name is Seth Abramovitch.
I write for The Hollywood Reporter.
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When I interviewed Armie,
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he was in award contention
for Call Me By Your Name
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and was on that teetering cusp
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of establishing himself as a force
to be contended with in Hollywood.
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We started at Holmby Park in Westwood
at his request.
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There is a sign that says,
"The Armand Hammer Golf Course."
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I was like, "Look, it’s your
great-grandfather’s name."
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Dr. Hammer parlayed outstanding
private success into public power
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as chairman and CEO
of Occidental Petroleum,
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a diversified 16-billion-dollar company.
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Dr. Armand Hammer is one
of the world’s leading capitalists.
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Armie’s a very handsome actor
who came out of privilege
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and the history of his family
is interesting.
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No typical childhood.
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So right away, I was intrigued
by who this person was.
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Armie was born in Santa Monica,
California,
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and he said his father
made an unusual decision
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which was to move the family
to the Cayman Islands.
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He and his young brother
were brought there from a young age.
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I was curious. Why the Cayman Islands?
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I associate the Cayman Islands
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with offshore bank accounts
that can’t be touched,
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so I assumed it was something financial.
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They return to Los Angeles,
I think he was in 7th grade.
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And Armie started pursuing this idea
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he had when he was younger.
He wanted to be an actor.
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The Social Network started his career.
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He starred opposite Justin
Timberlake, Andrew Garfield.
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It was the movie of the year.
That was what made him.
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I remember bumping into him,
and all of the sudden,
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there's Armie in a three-piece suit,
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looking amazing,
looking like a movie star.
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It’s official. I have arrived.
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And Elizabeth was with him.
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- I’m here with my beautiful wife.
- Hi.
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The roles just kept coming,
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where he was always
playing the handsome man.
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But the problem was, it was a wave
of box office bombs after bombs.
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You know, these movies weren’t hitting.
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What movie besides Social Network
had really made money?
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Thankfully, Call Me By Your Name happened
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and got him buzzing again.
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There was this buzz everywhere you looked
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in the run up to this movie coming out.
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It just sounded very daring, very sexy.
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The two of them together
being sexual on screen
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was going to make headlines.
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He was taking a real risk.
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Hollywood loves
when an actor takes a risk like that.
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So that buzz is what pushed him
onto our cover.
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You were reading about him
all the time. People cared more.
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He was doing massive press for the movie
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as he was on an Oscar campaign.
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"Your fans want to hear from you."
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You could say
Armie started cosplaying the life
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of kind of a perfect movie star,
if you will.
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He seemed to be doing things
the exact right way.
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He had the picture-perfect marriage,
he had two children,
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everything he described
was much lovey-dovey, fairy tale.
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He came from this family of wealth
and privilege,
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and his career was swimming.
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Generally, you did not get the whiff
of scandal around him.
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There was one thing
that repeatedly came up
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when I talked to people
and told them I was profiling him,
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and it was about that he had
a sort of edgy interest in BDSM sex.
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I did bring it up,
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and he shut me down pretty decisively.
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He said he has less of a comment
than even if he had no comment.
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Julia.
Are you okay to bring up your phone
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so we can talk
about some of those examples?
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I haven’t really digested this one.
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He says, "I have a fantasy
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about having someone prove
their love and devotion
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and tying them up in a public place
at night
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and making their body free use
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and seeing
if they will fuck strangers for me."
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When I saw that Armie Hammer
was following me,
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it was about a week before quarantine.
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And I looked up his Instagram,
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and I said, "Oh, it's the guy
from The Social Network ."
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Like, he's a big movie star.
He was just in Call Me By Your Name.
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I opened up my messages
with the intention of saying,
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"Thanks for the follow,"
or something like that.
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And I had seen that
he had already messaged me in 2017.
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And it was this long message.
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He was inquiring about a series
of photographs of me.
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And when I reached out back to him
almost exactly three years later...
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he got back to me within an hour,
and then we just started talking.
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My name is Julia Morrison.
I am an artist and writer
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based in New York and Los Angeles.
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That series of artworks
is titled For Arabella
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by an artist named Sarah Bahbah.
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They are about a toxic relationship
and breaking free from that.
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You have very existentialist sorts
of captions with beautiful girls.
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A lot of them are quite provocative.
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I did ask him which artworks
of that series he was drawn in by.
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He said he liked that photo
of me being choked.
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He started saying like,
"You’re so perfect.
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It’s like you were made for me."
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Which is ironic, because, you know,
he completely missed the message.
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Being a young woman in this industry
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where you're modeling,
acting, making art,
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people shower you with compliments,
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and you're like, "My shit's tight.
Why wouldn't they be obsessed?"
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So, like, I mean, I don’t want
to sound totally full of myself,
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but, no, I was not fully alarmed.
I was more intrigued.
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He invited me to a play really early on.
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Within a few hours really
of our conversation was, you know,
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"Oh, are you in New York?
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I'm working on a play here.
Do you want to come?"
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And I was interested in going,
and then lockdown happens.
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Shortly after, things became sexual
in conversation.
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It didn’t really seem that unnatural,
at first, for me
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because of the context of the times
we were going through in that moment.
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You know, my friends were telling me
about zoom dates
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and phone sex with so and so
from, you know, Hinge or Tinder.
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And I'm speaking with Armie Hammer
like this in my Instagram DMs.
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Once the sexual nature
of the DMs started,
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it was all he wanted to ever talk about.
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He says to me, "Fine.
Let's be open and honest.
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I've wanted to tie you up since I saw
the pictures and messaged you.
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Shibari is how it's spelled,
it's the Japanese art of rope bondage
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with its cousin Kinbaku
for total restraint."
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And then he was saying to me
about how if I were to submit to him
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at the level where he could, you know,
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call me and say one word
and get me to come on command,
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like Pavlovian dog style.
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Like kind of getting you
into this submissive space
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where, like, you know, he's,
you know, the dominant...
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These are messages being sent
within seconds of each other.
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You know, very heavy and very frequent.
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"Let me take care of everything?
You don't worry about anything
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except being a good little pet,
my own personal little slave.
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In return, you will be worshipped,
fed, and fucked.
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I was like, "Like."
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But those little hearts
means you're engaged
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or that you received it.
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That’s different than being
in an intimate space with someone.
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All of that very forward talk
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was kind of like back and forth
for six months.
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But I did Google and see that he had,
you know, had a family.
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And so I figured a man who is married
who is doing that with me,
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I am not naïve enough
to think that I’m the only one.
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For July 4th,
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he tells me he was doing this road trip.
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He was going Miami to LA,
and cross through Texas.
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I had plans to go to The Hamptons
with some friends.
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It was already set.
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And he almost got upset with me
that I was going to be gone
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when he was driving through.
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Somebody had my phone
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and, "Somebody
named Armie has called you 22 times."
292
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He sends me a picture, when I'm away,
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of my building in Dallas.
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At this point, we’ve never spent time
together, so it was weird.
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I remember being like,
"Are we flirting, or is this scary?"
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I get back from New York,
and he left me this note.
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"Oh, this will be a cute note."
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I open the envelope, and it says,
"I'll bite the fuck out of you."
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And then he autographed this note.
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I didn’t know how to feel about the note.
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You know it was like...
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He talks sweetly sometimes on the phone,
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compliments and compliments.
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And I get a note that says,
"I'll bite the fuck out of you."
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As crazy as that sounds,
I took it metaphorically.
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I thought he wanted the intimacy,
the closeness,
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wanted us to be together.
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So I chose to look at it
as more flattering than concerning.
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When I told my friends about us,
I left that part out.
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I think that says a lot.
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Elizabeth Chambers
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and her actor-husband Armie Hammer split.
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On Friday, the movie star
shared the news in an Instagram post.
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Quote,
"It has been an incredible journey,
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but together we’ve decided
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to turn the page
and move on from our marriage."
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They released a joint statement,
interestingly.
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They'd be supportive of each other.
319
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"This was an amicable split.
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We’ve grown apart,
we’ve done everything."
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There’s this thing of, like,
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if you get married young,
if you have kids young,
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eventually, you are going to have
a mid-life crisis
324
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or something that you’ll explore
these darker sides.
325
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Or was that Armie all along?
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I was coming to LA to see a friend.
327
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After talking constantly, Armie and I
were like, "Okay, we have to meet."
328
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This is a new experience to me.
329
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I've never been with somebody like this.
330
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He's like, "We're going
on an adventure, to the desert."
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This is flirty, fun, different,
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but bizarre, risky.
I've never met this man.
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So I’m freaking out.
334
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,076
I’m so anxious.
335
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,839
I didn't know what was going to happen.
336
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When I got to LA,
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the plan was, Armie would pick me up
after I had dinner with my friends.
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I was very nervous.
So was he, he was texting me like,
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"I can’t believe this, I’m so nervous."
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He pulls his truck up, and I had my dog,
341
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and I had a little suitcase.
342
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,715
We saw each other, we kissed
on the lips immediately.
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I think we were both like, "What?"
It just felt natural.
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I got in the car,
and then we were off to the desert.
345
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,396
It was very surreal. I’d spent, like,
the last month talking to this person
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five hours a day, and then you
are spending time with each other.
347
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,799
We spent every day together
for the next three weeks.
348
00:25:23,079 --> 00:25:26,515
We spent a lot of time in 29 Palms.
349
00:25:26,599 --> 00:25:30,960
Armie's friend owns a motel
that he's renovating.
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They’ve painted it.
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I have a picture of my little dog
under this, like, motel sign.
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Here is where we would have, like...
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you know, like, dinners right here
on this long table,
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candle-lit dinners.
We didn't leave each other's side.
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00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:02,316
If my chair was a foot away from his,
he's pulling my chair over.
356
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:06,195
He’s always like... His hand's on my leg.
357
00:26:06,279 --> 00:26:09,675
Even the first day we met,
his hand was always just on my knee,
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Always touching me, showing affection,
359
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,279
making me feel really comfortable
and really safe.
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00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:22,119
It was so hot. So I'd be in a bikini
all day, on the back of the scooter.
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00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,636
At night, we would go by the pool
at the back of the motel
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and put a projector out and a screen
and just watch E.T.
363
00:26:37,079 --> 00:26:42,519
It felt like... I don’t know, it felt
like another world. It felt magical.
364
00:26:48,279 --> 00:26:51,275
We really connected just as two people,
365
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not a famous actor and...
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me, who’s a very private person.
I’m just a business owner in Dallas.
367
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,275
It's not me to drop everything
and leave for a man.
368
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,876
I've never been like that.
369
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,235
I was starting to fall for him, for sure.
370
00:27:09,319 --> 00:27:13,995
I wouldn’t have said "I love you,"
but it was heading towards that.
371
00:27:14,079 --> 00:27:15,715
I took a picture right there,
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00:27:15,799 --> 00:27:18,556
a post to remember
how happy I am for a second.
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I truly was so fucking happy.
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00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,519
I was like, "I can’t believe
this is happening to me."
375
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:35,799
But there were times
that something didn't feel right.
376
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:45,920
This is at this tractor supply
where he looked for those ropes.
377
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,995
He would take me in the rope section.
378
00:27:53,079 --> 00:27:56,076
They were out of rope,
and I was just like, thankful.
379
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,955
I'm just like, "Okay, let’s go."
380
00:27:59,039 --> 00:28:02,755
I think that's when he sensed
that was out of my comfort zone,
381
00:28:02,839 --> 00:28:05,759
so he kind of softened.
382
00:28:07,599 --> 00:28:10,955
One night he was like,
"Watch this movie."
383
00:28:11,039 --> 00:28:14,675
It's called Secretary.
It is one of his favorite movies.
384
00:28:14,759 --> 00:28:19,556
Maggie Gyllenhaal is the assistant
to this lawyer.
385
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:23,839
He was training her
to be very submissive.
386
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,316
She acts as the desk,
387
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:31,475
or she'll do the stapler with her chin,
388
00:28:31,559 --> 00:28:33,396
or do everything for him.
389
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,836
And I just was like,
"Is this what he wants from me?"
390
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,000
And...
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there was one thing that happened to me.
392
00:28:46,079 --> 00:28:49,596
I don’t even like to think about it.
393
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,556
The situation that happened
was something...
394
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,796
I didn’t...
395
00:28:55,880 --> 00:29:01,715
It’s something you speak about
before it’s done,
396
00:29:01,799 --> 00:29:06,356
and we didn’t speak about this. I...
397
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,515
It was something
that has never been done to me,
398
00:29:09,599 --> 00:29:14,636
and it is something
that is very degrading, belittling.
399
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,400
And I just don’t...
400
00:29:17,839 --> 00:29:21,400
I don't like to...
I don’t want to put it out there.
401
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,356
And then I’m like, "Holy shit.
I’ve got to get back to my life."
402
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,319
So I go home.
403
00:29:37,759 --> 00:29:43,000
I broke down in the shower.
Crying in the shower.
404
00:29:44,079 --> 00:29:47,836
And I got this wave of anxiety.
405
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:53,195
It was like my body was trying
to be like, "Something is not right."
406
00:29:53,279 --> 00:29:57,755
But I put it out of my mind
because when we talk, it's like,
407
00:29:57,839 --> 00:30:01,356
"I miss you so much, you should move
to LA, be my girlfriend."
408
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,596
He needed me. And it felt nice.
409
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,916
And so we saw each other
about a week later.
410
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:15,396
He is, like, giving me quality time,
and constant communication, and PDA.
411
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,799
You just feel so loved.
412
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:23,515
Together, it felt good.
But when we were apart, I had this...
413
00:30:23,599 --> 00:30:25,195
pit in my stomach.
414
00:30:25,279 --> 00:30:27,876
We didn’t have say
if where we were exclusive,
415
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,356
but we have these talks
416
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,275
where I'm not supposed to be
with anybody, just him.
417
00:30:32,359 --> 00:30:33,876
He wants control of me,
418
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:37,636
and I didn’t have the capacity
to think about another soul
419
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,435
because he is sending me
a thousand texts and a hundred calls.
420
00:30:41,519 --> 00:30:45,000
I wasn’t going on dates.
That is how he wanted it.
421
00:30:46,319 --> 00:30:50,675
Actress Rumer Willis was spotted
on a date with Armie Hammer.
422
00:30:50,759 --> 00:30:53,356
The couple were photographed
walking around LA.
423
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,195
According to an insider,
he’s not looking for a relationship.
424
00:30:57,279 --> 00:31:00,319
And they denied claims
that he is currently dating anyone.
425
00:31:04,279 --> 00:31:08,755
The thing with Rumer happened, and...
426
00:31:08,839 --> 00:31:12,715
he said it didn’t mean anything,
427
00:31:12,799 --> 00:31:15,836
but I remember seeing
428
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:20,916
the way his hand was around her.
429
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,116
He’s very aggressive with his hands.
430
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,156
He always wanted to be hand on me,
hand on my arm, hugging me, always.
431
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:32,636
But the way he was touching her
made me feel even smaller.
432
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,916
And I felt betrayed,
433
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,916
so I tried to end it.
434
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:46,079
I was supposed to come back to LA
in September.
435
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,836
By this time, he had moved
into this teeny, tiny pool house.
436
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,475
I go to the teeny, tiny pool house,
and I’m like, "I'm going to end it."
437
00:31:59,559 --> 00:32:04,876
I was like, "You're hurting me.
I can't do this anymore."
438
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,799
And he said, "No, you're gonna have
to block me and do all these things."
439
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,559
I leave, we're both crying.
440
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,556
The next day, I go to my friend’s
in Beverly Hills.
441
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:44,675
We were on a walk, and he showed up
on his scooter where we were walking.
442
00:32:44,759 --> 00:32:47,359
He had my location on his phone, and...
443
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:52,995
And I fell right back into it.
I thought it was romantic.
444
00:32:53,079 --> 00:32:54,675
"He's fighting for me."
445
00:32:54,759 --> 00:32:58,359
And instead of going back to Dallas,
we went on another road trip.
446
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,556
When you really care for somebody,
it's crazy what your mind
447
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:11,559
is willing to look past or justify.
448
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:17,035
But then there are these things
that keep happening that...
449
00:33:17,119 --> 00:33:22,920
I would have hand marks
that would stay on my body.
450
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,035
I think Armie took that picture.
451
00:33:27,119 --> 00:33:33,195
He bites hard, and he tells you
to wear them like a badge of honor.
452
00:33:33,279 --> 00:33:38,195
Almost like he convinced me
I'm lucky to have it. It’s, like...
453
00:33:38,279 --> 00:33:40,675
As fucked up as that sounds,
454
00:33:40,759 --> 00:33:43,475
at that time,
I was interpreting that as love.
455
00:33:43,559 --> 00:33:46,515
Looking at it now makes me sick.
456
00:33:46,599 --> 00:33:51,836
And he pushes your boundaries
a little bit at a time.
457
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:57,440
And the tone of the next trip just
felt different from the beginning.
458
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,796
This time, when he picked me up,
459
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:12,119
I saw a brown bag and it had ropes in it.
460
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,760
We drove through Sedona.
461
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,760
We get to this hotel.
462
00:34:26,039 --> 00:34:28,236
We have dinner.
463
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:33,155
He has this gin vermouth.
Like, he orders four of these.
464
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,716
I've had one margarita.
465
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,196
And it’s like we're not getting along.
466
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:44,435
He's in a weird mood.
Nothing about the moment felt good.
467
00:34:44,519 --> 00:34:48,320
And then he mentions the ropes.
My heart dropped in my stomach.
468
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:56,716
He told me he's only ever tied up
mannequins, never people.
469
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:01,995
He wants to share this with me,
his fantasy, this experience.
470
00:35:02,079 --> 00:35:05,400
Something new that he's never tried
with anybody.
471
00:35:10,159 --> 00:35:13,475
I was like, "I’m not in the mood,
I don’t feel well."
472
00:35:13,559 --> 00:35:17,236
And he just acted mad, would look away.
473
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,719
I just was like,
"How do I get out of this?"
474
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:35,876
Then that night, he was drunk. I was not.
475
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,676
And...
476
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,756
I didn’t say no.
477
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,280
I said, "I didn't feel good."
I said everything except no.
478
00:35:50,039 --> 00:35:56,356
So he puts on this creepy playlist,
479
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,119
and...
480
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,280
Just like...
481
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:10,075
Like... It's... Like, the ropes
were around your neck,
482
00:36:10,159 --> 00:36:14,440
your wrists, your ankles
behind your back. It’s like...
483
00:36:15,559 --> 00:36:20,515
I mean, had bruises. I hated it.
It’s like...
484
00:36:20,599 --> 00:36:27,155
I understand if this is your fantasy
or your thing, more power to you.
485
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:31,595
But this was not. I didn't like it.
And it’s like...
486
00:36:31,679 --> 00:36:34,796
It didn't feel safe or, like...
487
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,995
I didn't feel, like, loved, or...
488
00:36:38,079 --> 00:36:42,236
It was just horrible.
And you're completely immobilized.
489
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:47,595
And it's like...
There’s something about trauma...
490
00:36:47,679 --> 00:36:50,196
while you're immobilized and can't move.
491
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,756
There's that fight or flight,
you can't do either, you're stuck.
492
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:58,435
I'm just closing my eyes until it ended.
493
00:36:58,519 --> 00:37:02,955
And then he just went to sleep
like it was nothing.
494
00:37:03,039 --> 00:37:04,840
Can we take a break?
495
00:37:10,119 --> 00:37:13,716
I almost didn't want to make it real
by writing it down.
496
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,236
But...
497
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,239
After that night,
this is what I took away from it.
498
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:26,916
"Armie wanted total control of me
and absolute compliance,
499
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:31,075
destroying any sense of bodily autonomy.
500
00:37:31,159 --> 00:37:33,360
His ultimate fantasy."
501
00:37:36,679 --> 00:37:40,555
That scenario in Sedona,
I really started to kind of unravel.
502
00:37:40,639 --> 00:37:42,676
It didn’t sit well with me,
503
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,796
but then it's followed up
with him pulling me even closer
504
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,396
and being like,
"I want you to meet my mom,"
505
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,196
which is huge to me.
506
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:57,435
I think that’s a really big deal.
It felt like, "Okay."
507
00:37:57,519 --> 00:38:01,519
You know I’m just clinging
to little things to make this okay.
508
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:08,555
The situation with the ropes
was three days before I met his mom.
509
00:38:08,639 --> 00:38:11,836
At that point, it was like
a Band-Aid on a bullet wound.
510
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,155
There was just like,
too much had happened.
511
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:19,599
We broke up two days
after meeting his mom.
512
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,276
I knew something about him
would come up in the future
513
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,796
because I know how careless he is.
I know how he texts
514
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,280
and he just leaves trails
of all this madness everywhere.
515
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,155
I woke up on the second week
of January, I got my coffee,
516
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:10,916
I sat down, and I started opening up
Twitter and combing through.
517
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,639
My name is Candice Cronkhite,
and my IG handle is bbfbravo.
518
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,396
I have always been interested
in pop culture.
519
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,075
I like deep diving
in people’s backgrounds
520
00:39:21,159 --> 00:39:22,676
why they are how they are,
521
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:27,396
and curating things that the public
may not know about a person.
522
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,916
I passed by a screenshot of a DM
with the headline,
523
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,320
"Armie Hammer's ex-girlfriend
is leaking his DMs."
524
00:39:42,119 --> 00:39:46,876
All of these screengrabs
pulled on Twitter were coming
525
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:50,360
from an anonymous account
called House of Effie.
526
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,800
When I opened up that first text,
it was shocking.
527
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:12,276
The content you're reading,
you’re like, "This is kinky,"
528
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:16,955
to progressively getting darker
and darker.
529
00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:21,039
Like, "This is shocking,"
to, "This is disturbing."
530
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:28,155
After a couple of text messages,
I would see this one
531
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,075
posted by House of Effie.
532
00:40:31,159 --> 00:40:34,716
"You were the most intense and
extreme version that I've ever had.
533
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:38,435
Raping you on your floor
with a knife against you.
534
00:40:38,519 --> 00:40:40,515
Everything else seemed boring.
535
00:40:40,599 --> 00:40:43,316
You crying and screaming,
me standing over you.
536
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,995
I felt like a god.
537
00:40:45,079 --> 00:40:48,440
I've never felt such power or intensity."
538
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:55,676
There are some kinky things
or things you are unfamiliar with.
539
00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:00,435
But the idea that somebody gets off
on raping somebody,
540
00:41:00,519 --> 00:41:05,955
and that is what they're pretending
to do, it’s...
541
00:41:06,039 --> 00:41:10,840
I can't. It's just really sick.
542
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,276
And so I couldn't stop.
543
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:21,475
I had to do a story, because I could
tell that this was going to be big.
544
00:41:21,559 --> 00:41:24,555
Armie Hammer has been in hot water
over leaked texts.
545
00:41:24,639 --> 00:41:27,756
Due to community guidelines,
I can't say what it’s about,
546
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:31,756
you can head over to my IG highlights
to see for yourself.
547
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,716
Sadly, I saw people laugh it off
548
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,876
and not believe House of Effie
549
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,920
and give it the attention it deserves.
550
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:53,676
In January, I see a message
from the DeuxMoi account.
551
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,676
It’s a gossip account.
552
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,196
She knew that Armie and I
had been together in a relationship,
553
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,236
because my name had already been leaked,
554
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,880
and so DeuxMoi would talk about it.
555
00:42:07,159 --> 00:42:11,515
The DeuxMoi account
was posting these screenshots
556
00:42:11,599 --> 00:42:13,916
from an account called House of Effie.
557
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,480
And they were really
sexually violent messages.
558
00:42:18,559 --> 00:42:22,196
So she messaged me.
559
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,035
"Is this true?"
560
00:42:25,119 --> 00:42:27,916
I know how this man speaks.
I could write it.
561
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,676
I've seen it a million times.
562
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,440
I know the language he uses,
punctuation he uses.
563
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,519
He always used the word "kitten."
564
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:45,035
He'd be like, "Hi, my little kitten."
That was very common.
565
00:42:45,119 --> 00:42:48,396
The messages that House of Effie
was showing,
566
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,155
he said this exact same word to me.
567
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,039
I was like, "That's 100 percent Armie."
568
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:11,239
At that point, I wanted to validate
what House of Effie was saying.
569
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:30,276
The next morning, my life just blew up.
570
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:33,435
Armie Hammer’s ex-girlfriend
Courtney Vucekovich...
571
00:43:33,519 --> 00:43:36,916
Vucekovich has come forward
with claims against her ex.
572
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:42,075
Once Courtney was willing to go
on the record, this story blew open.
573
00:43:42,159 --> 00:43:47,475
It was about abuse, and power,
and gaslighting.
574
00:43:47,559 --> 00:43:51,796
He said things like he wanted
to barbecue and eat her.
575
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,356
What is happening with Armie Hammer?
576
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,475
Disturbing and racy messages
allegedly sent to women
577
00:43:57,559 --> 00:44:00,955
by the actor Armie Hammer
are trending on Twitter.
578
00:44:01,039 --> 00:44:04,796
Shocking DMs allegedly sent
from Armie Hammer’s public accounts
579
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,356
are going viral on social media.
580
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,396
His sexually graphic texts and DMs
of dominating,
581
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:15,435
BDSM, and even cannibalism
began trending.
582
00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:19,800
This specific one that she posted
really shocked people.
583
00:44:22,639 --> 00:44:24,719
He said, "I'm 100 percent a cannibal."
584
00:44:27,559 --> 00:44:31,639
He said, "It feels weird saying it."
I can picture him saying it vividly.
585
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,280
And then he said that he shot a deer
and then ate its heart.
586
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:54,075
There's this whole darker underbelly
that starts getting you sicker.
587
00:44:54,159 --> 00:44:57,555
He's talking about wanting to eat flesh.
588
00:44:57,639 --> 00:45:01,360
Really, really horrific things
and imagery.
589
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,559
Where does this end?
590
00:45:09,599 --> 00:45:12,995
At this point, people were running
with the cannibalism.
591
00:45:13,079 --> 00:45:15,316
I'm loco, Four Loko Mad like Hannibal
592
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,920
But not like Armie Hammer
That dude’s a cannibal
593
00:45:20,679 --> 00:45:24,196
Nobody cared about anything
except the word "cannibal."
594
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,396
Pretending like it was all a joke.
595
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:30,599
It didn't sit well with me,
because it wasn't a joke.
596
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,756
Now it's entertainment.
597
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:40,515
Now we're like... We’re leaned in,
waiting to see how dark this is.
598
00:45:40,599 --> 00:45:45,155
While the DMs remain unverified,
the stories have kept coming in.
599
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:49,555
Once Courtney came forward,
other women started coming forward.
600
00:45:49,639 --> 00:45:53,836
One of them was the writer Jessica.
601
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:57,316
She said, if anyone's questioning
whether these DMs are real,
602
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,599
I'm here to tell you that they are.
603
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:05,435
Paige Lorenze was another woman
involved with Armie Hammer.
604
00:46:05,519 --> 00:46:09,716
She told her whole story,
and she did not hold back.
605
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:14,916
He kind of took me under his wing,
and he really was so all-consuming.
606
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,676
He made me feel like it was a safe space,
607
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,955
like this was normal, he made me feel
as this was fun and sexy.
608
00:46:22,039 --> 00:46:25,716
But I think he used BDSM
as a smokescreen ultimately
609
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:31,635
to hurt women and inflict pain,
which is the scariest part.
610
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,155
Hollywood is a very business-oriented
industry.
611
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:39,075
And now after #MeToo happened
and Time's Up,
612
00:46:39,159 --> 00:46:41,716
nobody is taking a chance on anybody.
613
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:45,756
Armie Hammer has been dropped
from the film Shotgun Wedding
614
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,796
which he was due to be starring in
with Jennifer Lopez.
615
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:52,955
Armie said in a statement,
"In light of the attacks against me,
616
00:46:53,039 --> 00:46:55,635
I cannot, in good conscience,
leave my children
617
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:57,396
for four months to shoot."
618
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:01,595
As allegations start to come out
that seem to have substance,
619
00:47:01,679 --> 00:47:04,075
they're dropping you like a hot potato.
620
00:47:04,159 --> 00:47:08,115
WME immediately dropped Armie Hammer.
621
00:47:08,199 --> 00:47:11,196
Armie Hammer has been fighting
for his career
622
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,440
after being plagued
by a social media scandal.
623
00:47:20,599 --> 00:47:26,196
It was always, "What will Armie do?
He lost this movie deal."
624
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,475
Nobody was talking about the victims.
625
00:47:28,559 --> 00:47:31,719
I just felt like I couldn’t leave
this story alone.
626
00:47:34,079 --> 00:47:36,435
I wanted to figure out more about him,
627
00:47:36,519 --> 00:47:39,475
wondering what different things
has he dropped
628
00:47:39,559 --> 00:47:41,320
that we have all been missing.
629
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,676
The first thing I saw was an interview
630
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,716
where he was talking
about tying a rope within 30 seconds.
631
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,876
People get thrilled
when you pull out rope at a party.
632
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,676
And it was like, "That's weird."
633
00:47:55,760 --> 00:48:01,196
You look through the Twitter,
at who he's following on Instagram.
634
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:06,316
He followed a lot of Shibari accounts
which is a form of Japanese bondage,
635
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,236
a lot of women in suggestive poses.
636
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:14,756
And then there was an article on Playboy.
637
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:18,716
Armie Hammer, in Playboy,
said he likes rough sex,
638
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,276
he likes to pull hair,
maybe a bit of choking,
639
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,719
but he would never do it to his wife
because he respects her too much.
640
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,756
I found more DMs
that were showing more texts,
641
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,435
and more and more and more content
642
00:48:32,519 --> 00:48:36,836
relating to him being involved
in the BDSM world.
643
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,480
I was just confused
about it beyond Fifty Shades of Grey.
644
00:48:42,199 --> 00:48:46,236
I found out that if you set
these predetermined boundaries
645
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:50,400
and they're crossed over
and over again, that is a problem.
646
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,876
The more I researched,
the more I’ve found what he did
647
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,435
are actually not BDSM,
but he is calling them BDSM.
648
00:49:05,519 --> 00:49:11,239
But it's actually unsafe behavior
that would normally be criminal.
649
00:49:13,639 --> 00:49:17,916
When I looked into it,
you could tell this was not BDSM.
650
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,676
This was getting darker.
651
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,559
This looked like abuse.
652
00:49:25,599 --> 00:49:29,955
And then Effie of Instagram account
House of Effie came forward.
653
00:49:30,039 --> 00:49:33,236
She had hired famed attorney
Gloria Allred
654
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,876
who's known for advocating for women.
655
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:40,515
Effie is 24 years old,
and she lives in Europe.
656
00:49:40,599 --> 00:49:45,396
She had a romantic and an intimate
relationship with Armie Hammer,
657
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:50,756
on and off, between 2016 to 2020.
658
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:54,840
Effie issued a statement
that was an absolute bombshell.
659
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,995
I'm Attorney Gloria Allred.
660
00:50:02,079 --> 00:50:05,316
I'm a women's rights attorney
in Los Angeles.
661
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,716
I’m a partner in the law firm.
662
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:12,716
I deal with many victims of rape,
sexual assault,
663
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,079
and sexual harassment.
664
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,716
I do represent Effie.
665
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:26,595
Victims need to have support
if they're going to come forward
666
00:50:26,679 --> 00:50:30,155
against a rich, powerful, famous figure.
667
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,115
They shouldn't have to do it alone.
668
00:50:33,199 --> 00:50:37,555
Doing it alone is dangerous,
it's frightening.
669
00:50:37,639 --> 00:50:40,039
This is not for the faint of heart.
670
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:49,920
I met Armie Hammer on Facebook
in 2016 when I was 20 years old.
671
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,356
The relationship progressed rapidly,
672
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:57,276
and the emotions from both sides
became really intense.
673
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,075
He would often test my devotion to him.
674
00:51:00,159 --> 00:51:02,955
Finally removing and crossing
my boundaries
675
00:51:03,039 --> 00:51:07,075
as he became increasingly more violent.
676
00:51:07,159 --> 00:51:12,079
He abused me mentally,
emotionally and sexually.
677
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:21,756
How can you see somebody
breaking down like that
678
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:26,480
and not feel for it?
And, oh, it was hard to watch.
679
00:51:31,639 --> 00:51:37,595
On April 24th, 2017, Armie Hammer...
680
00:51:37,679 --> 00:51:43,236
violently raped me
for over four hours in Los Angeles...
681
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:47,276
during which he repeatedly
slammed my head against the wall,
682
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,035
bruising my face.
683
00:51:50,119 --> 00:51:54,480
During those four hours, I tried
to get away, but he wouldn’t let me.
684
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,876
The way that she was speaking
through her story, through tears,
685
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:07,356
and her conviction
about what she had been through,
686
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,836
I just thought, every woman thinks,
687
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,075
"Oh, God, that could have been me,
and it’s been close to being me."
688
00:52:14,159 --> 00:52:16,475
And in other situations,
"It has been me."
689
00:52:16,559 --> 00:52:20,316
So I was really grateful...
690
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,760
for what she had done,
and her bravery of coming forward.
691
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,916
She came forward and told everything.
692
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,035
He also committed other acts
of violence against me,
693
00:52:32,119 --> 00:52:34,239
to which I did not consent.
694
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:45,316
It launched a police investigation
within the LAPD
695
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,955
The actor Armie Hammer
has been confirmed as the suspect
696
00:52:49,039 --> 00:52:53,115
in an alleged sexual assault case
by the Los Angeles Police Department.
697
00:52:53,199 --> 00:52:57,075
Right now, Armie's being represented
by Andrew Brettler, who's known
698
00:52:57,159 --> 00:53:01,916
for his defense of people accused
of sexual abuse or sexual misconduct.
699
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:05,236
And that seemed a very strategic move.
700
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:06,716
And in a statement,
701
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:10,796
vehemently denied any wrongdoing
on behalf of his client.
702
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,276
I know his attorney well.
703
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:18,435
We've had many cases against that firm.
704
00:53:18,519 --> 00:53:21,955
And I have said many years ago,
and it's still true today,
705
00:53:22,039 --> 00:53:25,876
that firm represents Hollywood bad boys,
706
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,440
and I represent the women they hurt.
707
00:53:32,119 --> 00:53:38,119
Even in BDSM relationships,
consent is still at the heart of it.
708
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:53,196
It doesn't mean
that anyone can do anything
709
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,356
to anyone during a sexual relationship.
710
00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:00,876
If she withdraws her consent
and he continues,
711
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:05,196
that's a crime. Simple as that.
712
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:10,079
Kinky is not against the law, rape is.
713
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:20,276
I do think a lot of women and men
can relate to engaging with somebody
714
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:25,555
who presented themselves in an almost
too-good-to-be-true way
715
00:54:25,639 --> 00:54:31,115
that was just a manipulation tactic
that led to really bad behavior.
716
00:54:31,199 --> 00:54:36,515
My name is Lauren Skae.
I go by TheZenBlonde on social media.
717
00:54:36,599 --> 00:54:39,475
Armie’s lawyers
call the claims outrageous
718
00:54:39,559 --> 00:54:42,396
and said that all of his encounters
were consensual.
719
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,955
I saw the Hammer case unfolding,
and in hearing the stories,
720
00:54:46,039 --> 00:54:50,876
I wanted to amplify them
to push them towards justice.
721
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:54,236
I had many tips,
and it wasn't just tips about Armie.
722
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:58,236
It was tips about the whole family.
Armie is not only a famous actor
723
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:01,075
but a famous actor
whose family is an institution.
724
00:55:01,159 --> 00:55:04,276
And then eventually,
my friend just tipped me off
725
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:08,595
that the Hammer family was crazy,
and that there were books about it.
726
00:55:08,679 --> 00:55:13,316
Casey Hammer is Armie Hammer's aunt.
I found Casey's book on Audible,
727
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,995
so I downloaded it
and started listening to it.
728
00:55:17,079 --> 00:55:21,356
And literally, I could not believe
what I was hearing.
729
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:25,555
That is when I understood
the red down her front was blood.
730
00:55:25,639 --> 00:55:28,716
She was screaming for my father to stop.
731
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:32,196
I could see pain and fear
shooting out from her eyes.
732
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:36,716
I heard her voice in my head, "Run, run!"
733
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,719
I was paralyzed with fear.
734
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:45,995
I was so infuriated by the book.
For me, just observing it from afar,
735
00:55:46,079 --> 00:55:49,676
it seemed like it was
a multi-generational trend
736
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,836
that very wealthy, privileged men
737
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:58,916
got away with different bad things
throughout these generations.
738
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:03,555
I’m on Google and, "I can’t be
the one that tied this together."
739
00:56:03,639 --> 00:56:06,756
This has to be something known.
I’m late to the story."
740
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:11,236
And realizing that nobody knows this
and then feeling like
741
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:12,836
I need to put this out,
742
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,039
this needs to be part of the narrative.
743
00:56:17,159 --> 00:56:18,756
I have a new development.
744
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,356
His aunt wrote a book about their family.
745
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:23,595
The stuff didn’t start with Armie.
746
00:56:23,679 --> 00:56:27,035
He is the great-grandson
of Armand Hammer, an oil tycoon,
747
00:56:27,119 --> 00:56:30,595
whose son, Julian, who would be
Armie’s grandfather, was insane.
748
00:56:30,679 --> 00:56:33,316
He beat the living daylights
out of his wife.
749
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:38,876
I posted everything in succession
as I was still listening to the book.
750
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,555
The first video went viral,
751
00:56:40,639 --> 00:56:42,916
and everyone jumped to the videos after.
752
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,316
And some people
were literally watching them live.
753
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,635
She found photos of her dad,
again Armie’s grandfather,
754
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,555
watching as one of the housekeepers
performed a sexual act on a man.
755
00:56:53,639 --> 00:56:58,316
I have to say, like, things exploded
on TikTok really quickly.
756
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,475
It grew overnight.
757
00:57:01,559 --> 00:57:05,155
When it went viral, I was like,
"Oh, no. This is a real human.
758
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:08,639
I should have maybe alerted her
that I was doing this?"
759
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:17,475
Someone texted me and said,
"Someone’s blowing you up on TikTok."
760
00:57:17,559 --> 00:57:21,555
I remember pulling up that video,
and I was watching comments
761
00:57:21,639 --> 00:57:24,236
on the screen, things like,
762
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:28,316
"Are you sure it’s his aunt?
Did anybody do a DNA test?"
763
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,756
I mean, it makes sense.
764
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,595
I had been erased from the family.
765
00:57:33,679 --> 00:57:36,995
She actually reposted me on Instagram.
766
00:57:37,079 --> 00:57:39,756
"I don’t know who you are,
but thank you."
767
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:45,035
Part of me was kind of pleased
because the world was finding out.
768
00:57:45,119 --> 00:57:48,876
And the other part of me was,
"Oh, my God, I’m dead.
769
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:51,119
My brother’s going to fucking kill me."
770
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:59,475
What Armie is experiencing came from,
I'm convinced,
771
00:57:59,559 --> 00:58:02,075
maybe even further back
than my grandfather.
772
00:58:02,159 --> 00:58:05,155
Because you just don't wake up...
773
00:58:05,239 --> 00:58:11,676
and become this dark controller, abuser.
774
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,039
There has to be a seed that's planted.
775
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,716
My grandfather built an oil empire.
776
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:22,955
He had politicians in his back pocket.
777
00:58:23,039 --> 00:58:24,836
He never took no for an answer.
778
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,035
His life was all about secrets.
779
00:58:28,119 --> 00:58:31,035
My father had loaded guns all over
the house.
780
00:58:31,119 --> 00:58:35,039
He used to shoot at me.
It was terrifying.
781
00:58:36,239 --> 00:58:39,995
That’s the sign of a true monster.
You can look in the mirror
782
00:58:40,079 --> 00:58:43,396
and not see any fault
or that you're doing anything wrong.
783
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:46,676
And that's how deep it goes
with my brother.
784
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:51,515
And that's why he's so scary,
because he has no conscience.
785
00:58:51,599 --> 00:58:53,836
Now it's Armie.
786
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:57,995
Every generation of my family
has been involved in dark misdeeds,
787
00:58:58,079 --> 00:59:01,396
and it just gets worse and worse
and worse.
788
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:05,400
There's so much beneath the surface
now it's finally coming to light.
789
00:59:07,679 --> 00:59:10,876
My name is Casey Hammer,
and I’m about to reveal
790
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:13,599
the dark, twisted secrets
of the Hammer family.
791
00:59:29,079 --> 00:59:33,000
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