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-I am so proud of you.
-I'm kinda proud of myself too.
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Well, you should be.
I challenged you to go the whole weekend
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without contacting me,
and you did it.
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You see, this is what I was saying.
You're stronger than you think.
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Well, of course, it was hard.
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There were times where
I wanted to call you.
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-Well, of course.
-And when that happened,
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I wrote down what was scaring me
and my level of distress.
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-Oh, well, that would be valuable to see.
-Okay.
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See, I think what
this exercise demonstrates is
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that you're no longer
a slave to your anxieties.
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Oh, great, great.
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Great...
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Oh, there's, there's more.
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Just, just to confirm,
what you've listed here are
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only the occasions when
you would normally text or call me?
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Um... most of them.
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I didn't always have a pen on me.
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Great...
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Your writing is so small.
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-["Gotta Get Up" by Harry Nilsson plays]
-[alarm clock buzzing]
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♪ Gotta get up, gotta get out ♪
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♪ Gotta get homeBefore the morning comes ♪
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♪ What if I'm late?Got a big day ♪
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♪ Gotta get homeBefore the sun comes up ♪
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♪ Up and awayGot a big day ♪
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♪ Sorry can't stay ♪
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♪ I gotta run, run, yeah ♪
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♪ Gotta get homePick up the phone ♪
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♪ Gotta let the people knowI'm gonna be late ♪
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[Claire] Michael's here, Dr. Storper.
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Okay. Well, there's a lot
of good stuff here. Wow.
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Maybe, maybe the list is a little bloated.
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No, it isn't. I was painfully honest.
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Well, good. Good for you.
[clears throat]
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Now, the object of this exercise
is to make you more independent,
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so we'll tackle something together,
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-but I'll be more hands-off.
-No, I want you to be hands-on.
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-I want your hands on me.
-Let's be aggressive. Okay?
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Take on something hard, heights.
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-Heights! No way!
-Acrophobia is all over this list, see?
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Yeah, but that's because
it's my worst fear.
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Exactly. We'll be systematic.
We'll start with bridges,
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then we'll do elevators, then balconies,
and then, finally,
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unprotected, high, open spaces.
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This is not the best time to do heights.
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I got a lot of anxiety
in my life right now--
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personal stuff with Claire.
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We attack heights successfully,
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all your other anxieties will
fall like dominoes.
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Yeah, but this first domino is huge!
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-I am really, really not ready to do this.
-I think you are.
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-I'm not.
-I think you are.
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We'll start tomorrow.
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I know a perfect place.
It's more than a bridge.
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I feel really anxious.
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Well, that's to be expected.
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If the anxiety gets any worse,
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just remember: don't text or call.
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[David] Breaking Miguel's dependenceis a challenge.
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To wean him from my teat--
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from the... therapeutic teat--
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is a challenge. Lose "teat" reference.
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[elevator dings]
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But forcing him to
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face a major fear demonstratesthe progress he has made--
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that he is a different person
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than he was even a year ago--
that we both are.
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[Claire] Your ex-wife is here.
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What? She's...
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Um, is she alone?
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Ask, ask... uh...
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T-t-tell her I'm with a patient.
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She's not here in reception;she just called.
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She's in the café downstairs.
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There was no need to use the word "here".
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Okay.
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[classical music playing softly]
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I'm sorry.
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-For what?
-You know what for?
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Honestly, I don't know.
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For having sex with your divorce lawyer?
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Or, or humiliating me in public?
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Or forever tainting
the memory of the giant spider?
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-You made a scene; not me.
-I, I made the scene?
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You made it. You made the scene!
You're making another one now!
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Please, I didn't come here
to fight with you.
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-I came here to make a peace offering.
-What?
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Anthony's gonna waive his fee?
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I want you to have the country house.
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-You love that house.
-I know.
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But I can't go there-- too many memories.
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Anyway, I want us
to become friends, eventually,
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and so I thought this would
demonstrate my good will.
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I've already signed the papers.
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It's all yours.
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I, I, I don't know what to say.
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-Bitch! She's, she's a bitch!
-Mm-hmm.
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Go with that feeling.
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I... Why is she doing this?
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I, I, I've gone through
every possible motive in my head.
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You need to separate yourself
from that woman.
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We are separated.
We're in the middle of a divorce.
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Cut the emotional ties!
Sell the damn house;
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show her how free you are!
You do this with people,
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you know that? You do it
all the time--all the time.
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You depend on other people
for your happiness.
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You did it with this bitch woman,
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you're doing it now
with this patient, Mitchell.
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It's Michael,
and that's completely different.
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-Yeah?
-I'm not dependent on him.
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I care for him--
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-Ah?
-Of course. Naturally.
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-Ah?
-After 15 years.
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Ah. Ah, pathetic rationalizations.
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Is it possible to treat someone
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for 15 years without feeling
some affection for them?
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Of course!
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I feel nothing for my patients, nothing!
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It is the therapist's duty
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to separate himself emotionally.
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You understand?
Otherwise he can't be objective.
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[Dr. Wasserman belches]
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You've been seeing me
for almost ten years.
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Yes.
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You feel, you feel no affection for me?
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No, you're a special case.
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Is that, is that the phrase you use
when a patient asks you that question?
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[laughing]
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Yes. Yeah.
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It is.
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What? No, I've never even been
in the building on a weekend.
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You have to come in.
You're behind in your work.
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What, are you afraid of empty buildings?
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-No.
-Then what?
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It's just not a part of my normal routine.
I have a routine.
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-Ah, it's ghosts, isn't it?
-No.
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Are you afraid of the ghosts
of seniors who just wander
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the earth and come here
with their inquiries?
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-No.
-You know what, cowboy?
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I will tell Mr. Renn that you're too
afraid to come in this weekend.
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Don't worry, I will only mention
ghosts if he asks.
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He will understand.
There might be, um...
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a slight adjustment in your pay.
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-What time do you want me here?
-Let's say 11:00 am Saturday?
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-Fine.
-Good. Go team!
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[phone ringing]
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[people typing]
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[sighs]
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[fog horn]
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[water rushing]
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My mind is racing.
There's a lot going on in here.
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-Like what?
-I told you.
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I gotta go into work on the weekend.
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Could you come with me?
Just get me into the building?
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No, we're working towards
your independence, remember?
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I know, but I'm doing really
well with the not phoning
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or texting thing, and I thought...
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Exactly. You're doing really well.
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Remember, CBT is not about
conquering fear; it's about...
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you know, learning to live with it,
not letting it control you.
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Okay, I need you to cross
the rest of the bridge on your own.
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-Seriously?
-Yes. Hands-off, remember?
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-You need to do this by yourself.
-Well, where are you going?
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-I'm going back to the office.
-Seriously?
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You're just gonna leave me here?
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I'm confident you can do this
on your own.
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Now, I want you to cross three times,
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and remember, if you get
the urge to contact me--
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-Yeah, yeah, don't. I get it.
-Exactly.
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You're doing really well, Michael.
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I'm proud of you. Next time,
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we tackle a big one.
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Yeah, awesome.
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Oh, please, God.
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Oh, please.
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[music playing on stereo]
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Ah. Just one sec...
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[music turned off]
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[new track begins]
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Ah... ah...
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-It's not working.
-Seriously?
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Yeah. I, I, I can't. I'm not ready.
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Well, it's, it's okay. I understand.
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You know that you totally turn me on?
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Mm-hmm. I know.
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It's just, it's our first time,
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and I want everything to be perfect,
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and I don't want my mind
filled with other crap.
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Yeah. Okay. Sure, honey.
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I just want to be clear that I, you know,
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I want to have sex... with you.
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I-I-I want to have sex with you.
That's not the problem.
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Okay. So let's be proactive.
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Okay.
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It's just...
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that Dr. Storper's being really
cold lately.
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It feels like he's pushing me away.
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-Does he hate me or something?
-No, no, he doesn't hate you.
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Be rational.
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He's totally ignoring
this weekend at work thing.
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-It's freaking me out.
-What are you worried about?
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-Well, what if I get locked in?
-Um, use your key.
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Well, what if there's smoke
with lots of fire
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and the firemen can't find me
because of all the smoke?
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-Uh... bring a whistle.
-A whistle.
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-Yeah.
-That's good.
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I should be... writing... this down.
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-Hold on.
-Yeah.
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-What else should I bring?
-Mmm...
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-Uh, Ativan?
-Ativan.
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Cell phone, spare cell phone battery...
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-Cell phone battery...
-Granola bars,
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-bottle of water...
-Bottle...
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You know, you might want to start thinking
about the end of the book.
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Oh, I'm... I'm not there yet.
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I don't... I can't
wrap my head around that.
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It's just that the end will affect
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how we shape the earlier chapters,
particularly the--
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Fine! You want to talk
about the end of the book, fine.
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Okay, you didn't have to get--
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It's just, if things continue
as they are, I'm willing to bet
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I'll only have to see Miguel once a week.
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-That's it?
-Yes.
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That's the worst ending
I've ever heard of in my life.
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Nobody wants realistic, David,
they want to read how you cured him.
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He doesn't have the flu!
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He has a complex social anxiety disorder.
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-I can't cure him.
-But you know what I'm saying.
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Therapy is a process that never ends.
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It's about coping.
It's about making life bearable.
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No, you don't want
this book to end,
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because you don't want
this relationship with this guy to end.
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It's a profile of someone
struggling with anxiety!
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It's not Bridges of Madison County!
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Okay, you've obviously got
something enormous up your ass,
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so let's just drop it.
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I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
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It's this country house situation.
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I've decided to sell,
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and I'm going up there
this weekend to close it up.
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It's obviously weighing on my mind.
I'm sorry.
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Okay, I think that
I should go up there with you.
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-What?
-I think I should go up there.
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I think you need the company.
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Um...
247
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[traffic noise]
248
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-What's your anxiety level?
-Ten.
249
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-Really?
-This is a really big bridge.
250
00:11:27,645 --> 00:11:29,555
-But ten?
-Okay, fine, nine.
251
00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:32,067
Please, don't make me do this.
Can we just go back?
252
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Come with me to the rail.
253
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Uh, okay, but hands-on,
can you be more hands-on, please?
254
00:11:41,450 --> 00:11:43,910
Box breathing, visualize.
255
00:11:45,830 --> 00:11:48,830
All these drivers going by,
they're gonna think I'm a jumper.
256
00:11:48,916 --> 00:11:51,036
-They're not thinking that.
-They're jerks.
257
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You see? You're doing it.
258
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You're doing it all by yourself.
259
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I feel like I'm gonna throw up.
260
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[loud motor noise]
261
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Oh, I can't.
262
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-You're doing great.
-No, no, no, no! I'm freaking out!
263
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Don't worry about me. I-I'll be fine.
I'll see you on Tuesday.
264
00:12:13,941 --> 00:12:15,071
Michael, don't do this.
265
00:12:15,151 --> 00:12:17,401
-Just stop pushing me so hard!
-I-I'm not.
266
00:12:17,486 --> 00:12:19,526
What the hell's going on anyway?
It's like you hate me or something.
267
00:12:19,613 --> 00:12:21,663
Michael, you're not thinking clearly.
268
00:12:21,740 --> 00:12:22,950
Look, I don't know what I did
that was wrong,
269
00:12:23,033 --> 00:12:25,373
but it's totally unfair for you
to just be there for me all the time,
270
00:12:25,453 --> 00:12:27,333
and then suddenly cut me off.
271
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Don't-- This is dangerous.
272
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Michael, this is dangerous. Don't!
273
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Michael, come, come back.
This is a dangerous thing to do.
274
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Ah, no, no...
275
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-[tires screech]
-[driver] Come on!
276
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Michael, no! Come...
277
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Come down! Come down!
278
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Michael, I'm sorry!
279
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Not all exposures are successful.
280
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When faced with failure,it is tempting for the therapist
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to blame himself, but who cangauge another person's
282
00:13:03,532 --> 00:13:05,332
readiness to face their fears?
283
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The individual ultimately is the only one
284
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who can accurately judge whetheror not the time is right.
285
00:13:16,378 --> 00:13:17,958
Ah, wow.
286
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David!
287
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This is fabulous!
288
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It looks like the perfect little escape.
289
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You sure you want to sell this place?
290
00:13:29,850 --> 00:13:34,020
-Well, it's not an escape anymore.
-Ah.
291
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Right. Memories.
292
00:13:39,568 --> 00:13:41,858
Well, they can't all be bad.
Is this Stasia?
293
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-"Stay-sha."
-Oh.
294
00:13:44,114 --> 00:13:45,954
Look how happy you were there.
295
00:13:46,825 --> 00:13:48,365
No, no, no, D-D-D-David.
296
00:13:48,452 --> 00:13:50,372
I just want to check out
the pre-Sammy David.
297
00:13:50,454 --> 00:13:52,414
Is that okay?
I promise I won't judge.
298
00:13:57,753 --> 00:13:59,383
Oh, my God.
299
00:14:03,801 --> 00:14:06,681
[metal jangling]
300
00:14:17,189 --> 00:14:19,859
Um, hi... David.
301
00:14:19,942 --> 00:14:22,192
-Seriously? What the hell?
-Going camping?-
302
00:14:22,278 --> 00:14:23,738
What? Oh, no.
303
00:14:23,821 --> 00:14:25,611
Uh, I work here on the third floor.
304
00:14:25,698 --> 00:14:27,778
-So?
-The stairwell is locked.
305
00:14:27,867 --> 00:14:31,157
-Take the elevator.
-I have a problem with elevators.
306
00:14:31,245 --> 00:14:33,865
And I have a problem
with people who have problems.
307
00:14:33,956 --> 00:14:35,666
[ambient hum of building]
308
00:14:36,542 --> 00:14:39,802
[Sammy gasps]
My God! Look at you!
309
00:14:40,671 --> 00:14:41,881
Wow, how old?
310
00:14:41,964 --> 00:14:45,094
-Ten or 11.
-Oh, gosh, I just want
311
00:14:45,175 --> 00:14:48,635
to pinch those fat freckled
cheeks until they bleed.
312
00:14:49,138 --> 00:14:51,718
Oh. College.
313
00:14:51,807 --> 00:14:54,267
Wow, you're thin as a rake.
Same hair, though.
314
00:14:55,644 --> 00:14:57,524
It's a shame.
I was really hoping for a mullet.
315
00:14:57,605 --> 00:14:59,765
Um, this is really healthy, David.
316
00:14:59,857 --> 00:15:02,027
I'm really proud of you
for letting me do this.
317
00:15:02,693 --> 00:15:04,993
Aha! Wedding day.
318
00:15:05,070 --> 00:15:06,490
This is what I was looking for.
319
00:15:06,572 --> 00:15:07,952
Oh, my God.
320
00:15:09,533 --> 00:15:10,993
You were handsome.
321
00:15:11,619 --> 00:15:13,659
You were a handsome guy.
322
00:15:15,039 --> 00:15:16,829
[creepy, suspenseful music]
323
00:15:27,301 --> 00:15:29,011
[elevator dings]
324
00:15:34,391 --> 00:15:36,561
[dinging]
325
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David the security guard?
Nothing's happening.
326
00:15:47,488 --> 00:15:49,278
You gotta use your fob, genius.
327
00:15:52,785 --> 00:15:55,325
I didn't bring my fob,
'cause I don't use the elevator!
328
00:15:55,412 --> 00:15:57,752
[breathing quickly]
329
00:16:01,877 --> 00:16:03,127
[phone beeping]
330
00:16:04,588 --> 00:16:06,298
[ringing on other end]
331
00:16:06,382 --> 00:16:08,382
[Carlos] Welcome to the crypt!
332
00:16:08,467 --> 00:16:10,217
I didn't bring my fob.
Can you call the elevator,
333
00:16:10,302 --> 00:16:11,722
and I'll just ride it up to the floor?
334
00:16:11,804 --> 00:16:14,104
-No problem, cowboy.
-Okay, just please hurry.
335
00:16:19,728 --> 00:16:22,058
[dinging]
336
00:16:26,318 --> 00:16:27,648
Beep, beep.
337
00:16:30,197 --> 00:16:32,157
-[beep]
-[ding]
338
00:16:32,241 --> 00:16:33,831
Oh, shit.
339
00:16:36,704 --> 00:16:38,624
[creepy, suspenseful music]
340
00:16:40,958 --> 00:16:43,588
[floor indicator beeping]
341
00:16:51,802 --> 00:16:55,222
[music becoming louder]
342
00:16:57,891 --> 00:17:01,311
[music reaching climax]
343
00:17:01,395 --> 00:17:05,145
[whistle blown repeatedly]
344
00:17:10,237 --> 00:17:11,237
[creepy music stops]
345
00:17:11,321 --> 00:17:12,911
[catching his breath]
346
00:17:13,949 --> 00:17:15,449
[birds singing]
347
00:17:17,995 --> 00:17:19,325
[phone beeping]
348
00:17:22,624 --> 00:17:24,544
I'm really proud of you for doing this.
349
00:17:26,045 --> 00:17:28,125
Wow! Look at this! [gasps]
350
00:17:29,173 --> 00:17:31,843
Well, I guess the memories
can't be all that bad, huh?
351
00:17:32,426 --> 00:17:34,046
I mean, I know it's hard, but--
352
00:17:35,846 --> 00:17:38,466
-Are you kidding me?
-Oh, this is, this is
353
00:17:38,557 --> 00:17:40,767
the only place
where you can get a signal.
354
00:17:40,851 --> 00:17:42,731
We're here, so I'm just, um...
355
00:17:42,811 --> 00:17:44,151
And no messages. I'm done.
356
00:17:44,229 --> 00:17:46,649
Jesus, David. This is sick.
357
00:17:46,732 --> 00:17:49,782
Every time you are in
a difficult situation, you think of him.
358
00:17:49,860 --> 00:17:52,780
That's not what I'm doing.
He, he had a crisis--
359
00:17:52,863 --> 00:17:54,953
-He's constantly having crises.
-Exactly!
360
00:17:55,032 --> 00:17:57,332
Exactly why I can't
just put him out of my mind.
361
00:17:58,327 --> 00:18:00,537
Everybody thinks this is my problem;
it isn't.
362
00:18:00,829 --> 00:18:03,959
He has issues. I've been pushing him
too hard. Now he's in crisis.
363
00:18:04,041 --> 00:18:07,001
That's why I'm waving my phone in the air,
that's why I worry about him,
364
00:18:07,086 --> 00:18:08,956
that's why I haven't
told him about the book--
365
00:18:09,213 --> 00:18:11,763
What? What did you just say?
366
00:18:12,549 --> 00:18:15,889
I haven't... We haven't...
talked about the book in...
367
00:18:15,969 --> 00:18:18,009
-I haven't actually--
-You're an idiot!
368
00:18:18,097 --> 00:18:20,557
God, David! He could sue!
I don't believe this.
369
00:18:20,641 --> 00:18:21,891
He's not gonna sue.
370
00:18:21,975 --> 00:18:24,385
Listen to me.
This is a serious situation, okay?
371
00:18:24,478 --> 00:18:26,558
Listen to me. You are in denial.
372
00:18:26,647 --> 00:18:29,777
You are dependent on this person,
and you won't tell him about the book
373
00:18:29,858 --> 00:18:33,398
because you are afraid of losing him
and being alone.
374
00:18:34,988 --> 00:18:37,528
Am I wrong? Huh?
Am I wrong about this?
375
00:18:38,158 --> 00:18:40,198
Jesus! Goddamn it!
376
00:18:40,285 --> 00:18:42,325
[birds singing]
377
00:18:43,872 --> 00:18:45,502
[catching his breath]
378
00:19:04,935 --> 00:19:06,555
[taking deep breaths]
379
00:19:19,908 --> 00:19:21,658
Carlos, I-I-I gotta go.
380
00:19:21,743 --> 00:19:23,833
No, no. There's something I have to do.
381
00:19:30,502 --> 00:19:32,632
[rapid knocking at door]
382
00:19:35,048 --> 00:19:36,258
I'm ready.
383
00:19:36,341 --> 00:19:38,261
-You're ready?
-I'm incredibly ready.
384
00:19:43,682 --> 00:19:45,272
Oh!
385
00:19:56,403 --> 00:19:57,653
Okay.
386
00:20:04,578 --> 00:20:05,748
-You Okay?
-Yeah, I'm good.
387
00:20:12,836 --> 00:20:13,706
Take your shirt off.
388
00:20:16,632 --> 00:20:17,762
[grunting with effort]
389
00:20:23,055 --> 00:20:25,015
[David] Life is full of bridges,
390
00:20:25,098 --> 00:20:28,188
between people, between phases of life,
391
00:20:28,685 --> 00:20:30,595
between states of being.
392
00:20:30,687 --> 00:20:34,317
In Miguel's case,bridges are insurmountable obstacles.
393
00:20:35,317 --> 00:20:38,857
Miguel is afraid to cross,to separate from what is comfortable,
394
00:20:38,946 --> 00:20:41,776
because he finds great comfortin the familiar,
395
00:20:41,865 --> 00:20:45,985
and has convinced himself that thereis no great reward on the other side.
396
00:20:46,078 --> 00:20:48,498
Before we begin, I...
397
00:20:48,580 --> 00:20:51,330
-I need to tell you something--
-No, first, I need to apologize
398
00:20:51,416 --> 00:20:53,286
for yelling at you on the bridge.
I couldn't figure out
399
00:20:53,377 --> 00:20:55,667
what you were doing.
I thought you were trying to push me away.
400
00:20:55,754 --> 00:20:58,014
-No, no--
-No, no, but I get it now.
401
00:20:58,090 --> 00:20:59,010
It's totally clear.
402
00:20:59,091 --> 00:21:01,511
-You want me to be independent.
-Yes.
403
00:21:01,593 --> 00:21:03,143
Okay, you're not gonna
believe what happened.
404
00:21:03,220 --> 00:21:06,810
On the weekend, I went into work,
and I rode the elevator by myself--
405
00:21:06,890 --> 00:21:08,390
-to the 18th floor!
-Really?
406
00:21:08,475 --> 00:21:10,595
And then I went right to Claire's,
and we had sex,
407
00:21:10,686 --> 00:21:12,646
amazing sex. And then,
408
00:21:12,729 --> 00:21:15,109
I crossed the big bridge
on my way here this morning.
409
00:21:15,190 --> 00:21:17,320
So that thing you were doing,
the hardball approach,
410
00:21:17,401 --> 00:21:18,991
it totally worked.
411
00:21:19,695 --> 00:21:21,775
Okay? So... thank you.
412
00:21:21,863 --> 00:21:24,123
Now... you go.
413
00:21:25,951 --> 00:21:27,241
I'm... I'm sorry?
414
00:21:28,287 --> 00:21:29,827
You were gonna say something.
415
00:21:29,913 --> 00:21:31,623
Right. [clears throat]
416
00:21:34,501 --> 00:21:36,131
I'm writing a book about you.
417
00:21:37,921 --> 00:21:38,841
What?
418
00:21:39,256 --> 00:21:41,796
I have been for... for two years.
419
00:21:42,301 --> 00:21:46,101
About you and, and, uh...
your various fears.
420
00:21:47,681 --> 00:21:49,221
And... it's, uh,
421
00:21:49,308 --> 00:21:51,228
it's going to be published very soon.
422
00:21:53,103 --> 00:21:54,863
How does that make you feel?
423
00:21:58,233 --> 00:21:59,153
Michael?
424
00:22:02,029 --> 00:22:04,449
[whimsical music playing]
425
00:22:17,044 --> 00:22:19,254
[trumpet blares]
426
00:22:19,304 --> 00:22:23,854
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