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- Look at you.
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- You like my uniform?
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I'm a working woman now.
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- If you want,
you can join my writers group.
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- Text me the information
when you get a chance.
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- Do you not want
to be seen with me?
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- Of course, I do.
I love you.
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- Well, you've just been acting
really weird on socials.
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- This could totally
blow up in my face.
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- It really could.
- But what if it doesn't?
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- This is Chance. He was forced
to live with me in college.
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- You should be honest with Marie.
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- That's scary.
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- Why?
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- 'Cause I don't want to lose her.
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[ambient music]
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♪ ♪
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Babe, at some point,
we need to pick a date.
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- Why the rush?
- Because we have to do
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at least six months
of premarital counseling.
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- Six months?
- Yeah.
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Marriage is not for the weak.
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- That's what I keep hearing.
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- We'll be fine.
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Why did you come in
so late last night?
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- Me and Chance
were just catching up.
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- It was good to see him.
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- Yeah.
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It's been a minute.
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- ♪ He won't let you go ♪
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♪ And I know why ♪
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♪ He wouldn't show ♪
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♪ I don't mind ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ Being alone ♪
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[gentle music]
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♪ ♪
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- Damn!
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Don't say shit, a'ight?
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- I miss you.
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- I miss you too.
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- ♪ Oh, oh, ooh ♪
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♪ ♪
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- [gasps]
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Oh, my goodness!
Oh, my goodness!
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Oh, my good--
[squeals]
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Sorry to disturb your process,
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but I just got verified!
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- I hope that doesn't mean
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you're gonna start
charging us more.
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- Do people really do that?
- Oh, all the time.
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- Okay. Well,
I will be a good person
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and keep my prices the same.
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all: Namaste.
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- But also, as a Black woman,
I do need you to know my worth.
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And my time and my gifts
are very valuable.
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So if my prices do go up,
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don't talk shit in my comments.
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Now, let us begin.
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- I am so sorry
to keep you all waiting.
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I'm Reverend Ty Harmon.
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Okay, Chuck and Marie?
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- Yes.
- Okay.
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All right,
so what are your pronouns?
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- She/her.
- He/him.
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- Okay, cool.
Mine are they/them.
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All right,
so first things first,
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I need you two
to finish this form
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before our next session.
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Here you go.
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No need to be alarmed.
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There are no right
or wrong answers.
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It's a questionnaire.
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It requires you all to look
very honestly at yourselves,
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at your partner,
and your relationship.
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Now, it's important
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that you all have some
private time to do this.
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Do not share or discuss
your answers with each other.
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This is going to help us to
determine where the strengths
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and, dare I say, weaknesses
are in your relationship
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so we know where
to start our conversations
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in the weeks to come.
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- It sounds stressful.
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- Not as stressful as divorce.
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Have a great day.
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- So, thank you all for
letting Hattie read your work,
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and thank you for reading hers.
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Hattie, we'll start with you.
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What did you think
of Jackson's script?
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- Jackson?
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Uh, come back to me.
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I want to see
how y'all do it first.
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- Please tell me
you read everybody's script.
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- I did--I didn't.
I--look, I'm sorry.
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Things got crazy.
I'm trying to get this new job.
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Nia's been getting
on my last nerve--
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- We also don't believe
in excuses in this group.
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- My bad.
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Look, I--I promise,
next week, I got y'all.
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- If everybody's cool with
giving Hattie a second chance,
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I'm willing
to let her slide this time.
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- Fine.
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- All right, look,
it won't happen again.
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All right?
I promise.
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- All right. So I guess I will
start with Jackson's script.
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[laughter]
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A crystal meth lab
in an old folk's home.
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Man, I was dying.
You had me rolling, man.
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What made you
come up with this?
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- Listen, I have some
crazy family members,
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and I can tell you,
I can write for days.
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- [whistling]
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- ♪ Well, she's fallen ♪
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♪ Looks sweet, yeah, she is one of a kind ♪
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- Yo, sorry, again,
about today.
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- You just had to embarrass me,
didn't you?
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- Yo, my bad.
Yo, Jackson was mad.
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- Yes, he was.
[laughter]
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But that's the whole point
of being in a group, though.
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You got folks that's going
to hold you accountable.
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- Yeah, I definitely
need more accountability,
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in all areas of my life.
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- Normally, I would give you
one of my good Ted Talks,
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but I can't be late
for work, so.
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- It's all good.
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Well, I guess
I'll catch you next time?
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Yo, thanks again
for inviting me.
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This is--it's dope.
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- Of course.
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Just come prepared next time.
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- I got you.
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[phone chimes]
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Hello?
- Hattie?
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I got good news,
and I got bad news.
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- Hit me with
the good news first.
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- Your job training is complete
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and you're now eligible
to earn money at the company.
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- Amazing!
What's the bad news?
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- I'm not gonna hire you.
- Why not?
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- You can't do this job.
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You don't have
any upper body strength.
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You talk too much.
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And you're always
on your phone.
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- Maurice?
[notification chimes]
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Hold on.
Can I call you back real quick?
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- No, you can't
call me back real quick.
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The second I hang up,
I'm blocking you.
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[hangs up]
- Damn!
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- All right.
Let's see what we got here.
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Okay.
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Okay. Wow!
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Well, first of all,
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you two are highly compatible
in several areas.
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For example, you both rate
family as "very important."
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- Yes, definitely.
- It's so important.
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- And also, you all are one
of the only couples I've seen
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to score so highly in
communication about finances.
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- Well, we know
that money troubles
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are a leading cause of divorce.
- Right.
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Communication is key.
It's everything.
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- Wow. Well, this is
very impressive.
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All right, so let's talk
about the weaknesses.
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Okay, in the section about sex,
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Marie, I noticed that
you marked sexual intimacy
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as "low importance"
in a relationship,
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and, Chuck, you marked it
as "highly important."
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I'll remind you all that
this is a safe space.
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- I don't dislike sex.
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I just don't think that
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it's the most important thing
in a relationship.
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- And, just for the record,
I'm no sex maniac.
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- And it would be fine
if you were,
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as long as everybody
you're getting wild with
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and wilding out with
is a consenting adult.
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- Well, I only want to wild out
with Marie.
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- [chuckles politely]
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And I also noticed that,
on the following question,
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you marked one thing,
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and then you erased it
and you marked something else.
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- You don't have to--
- The question is,
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"How comfortable
are you communicating
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your sexual desires
to your partner?"
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Originally, you wrote
"very comfortable."
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But then, you scratched it out
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and you wrote
"fairly comfortable."
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And, Marie, it looks like you
left that one blank altogether.
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- I don't remember
the question.
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- Do you feel comfortable
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communicating your
sexual desires to Chuck?
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Sexual pleasure is
a gift from God.
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There's nothing
to be ashamed of.
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And a marriage is
the perfect union
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for you to explore, enjoy,
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and embrace all of your sexual
desires with your partner.
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- Marie, maybe
we shouldn't get married.
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- Why not?
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- Because I'm bisexual.
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- I know.
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- You do?
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- I...
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I always thought you were.
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I just didn't know what to say.
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- Just because you're bisexual
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doesn't mean
you can't get married.
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- I've spent my whole life
trying to be straight.
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I don't know
how to be any other way.
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This is all very new to me.
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- Sexuality is rarely
ever black and white.
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And it's okay that
you are still on the journey.
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- It is?
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- Of course.
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It took me so long to be
comfortable in my own body.
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Everybody's journey
is different.
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Don't let anybody rush you.
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If you two don't show up
to this marriage
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as your complete
and authentic selves,
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it will fail.
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So, are we still on track
to get you two hitched?
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[gentle music]
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♪ ♪
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- What's up?
- Hey.
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- Need a ride?
- No, I hate golf carts.
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- Okay, then, you mind
if I walk with you?
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- Sure.
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- So, you enjoying
your new life as an actress?
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- Well, I still have
to teach yoga part-time, so.
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- Why?
- I have bills.
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- [chuckles]
Okay, then. Right.
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- Yeah, not everybody has
a title and a fancy salary.
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- I apologize for not
being aware of my privilege.
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- I was just messing with you.
- Oh, all right.
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I mean, no wonder
Black audiences
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don't want to see struggle
on the screen.
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They see it every day
in their lives.
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- Well, not all Black people
are struggling.
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- True, but our ancestors
had struggles in the past,
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and it still haunts us
every night.
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What kind of roles
are you interested in?
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- All kinds.
I want to play
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many different characters
with all kinds of layers.
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- Yeah, but not too many.
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- Yeah, I want to play
complicated characters.
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- I think simpler ones
might go over better.
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- I want to be challenged.
- Yeah.
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But what if audiences
don't want to be challenged?
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- Then I don't get to grow.
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- Oh. I never thought
about it like that.
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I'll chew on it
and circle back to you.
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Hey, you want
to grab drinks sometime?
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- What kind of drinks?
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- It will be a "getting to know
each other" kind of drinks.
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- Okay, I'm down.
- Great.
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I'll have my assistant
get something in books for us.
254
00:13:05,168 --> 00:13:07,836
- Okay.
- Okay. See you around.
255
00:13:15,345 --> 00:13:18,480
- What are you thinking?
256
00:13:18,548 --> 00:13:20,815
- I'm thinking a lot of things.
257
00:13:22,786 --> 00:13:25,220
- Like what?
258
00:13:25,288 --> 00:13:27,822
- I think that
somewhere along the way,
259
00:13:27,891 --> 00:13:29,924
we started treating
our relationship
260
00:13:29,993 --> 00:13:32,727
like we treat our careers--
261
00:13:32,796 --> 00:13:35,830
just checking things
off the list.
262
00:13:38,034 --> 00:13:42,370
- Get a college degree. Check.
263
00:13:42,439 --> 00:13:46,441
- Find an amazing partner.
Check.
264
00:13:47,978 --> 00:13:51,946
- Find a great house
to live in. Check.
265
00:13:54,050 --> 00:13:55,783
- Get engaged.
266
00:13:59,890 --> 00:14:01,523
- Check.
267
00:14:08,965 --> 00:14:13,902
I guess I never really stopped
to think about who I was, or...
268
00:14:13,970 --> 00:14:16,538
who I wanted to be.
269
00:14:16,606 --> 00:14:19,607
- Me too.
- Marie, I want to be with you.
270
00:14:19,676 --> 00:14:22,210
I just want
to make that very clear.
271
00:14:22,279 --> 00:14:25,046
- And I want to be with you.
272
00:14:25,115 --> 00:14:27,048
But not like this.
273
00:14:27,117 --> 00:14:31,386
I want you to have space to be
yourself before we get married.
274
00:14:33,056 --> 00:14:34,656
- What does that mean?
275
00:14:37,961 --> 00:14:41,062
- It means,
276
00:14:41,131 --> 00:14:43,398
we should explore a bit.
277
00:14:45,702 --> 00:14:49,837
- Do you want to explore too?
278
00:14:49,906 --> 00:14:51,306
- Maybe.
279
00:14:51,374 --> 00:14:55,243
I mean, it's not like
I have some black book
280
00:14:55,312 --> 00:14:57,378
I've been waiting to whip out.
281
00:15:01,885 --> 00:15:05,186
- If I didn't admit
to being bisexual,
282
00:15:05,255 --> 00:15:08,923
would we be having
this conversation?
283
00:15:08,992 --> 00:15:11,459
- Probably not.
284
00:15:11,528 --> 00:15:14,195
But I'm glad we're having it.
285
00:15:14,264 --> 00:15:17,932
We have to be honest with
each other or we won't last.
286
00:15:21,271 --> 00:15:22,804
- Okay, fine.
287
00:15:25,375 --> 00:15:29,611
- If everybody is safe,
I'm good.
288
00:15:38,488 --> 00:15:42,290
- I like us being honest
with each other
289
00:15:42,359 --> 00:15:45,193
and doing what works for us.
290
00:15:45,261 --> 00:15:46,928
- Me too.
291
00:15:46,997 --> 00:15:49,931
[hopeful music]
292
00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:56,938
♪ ♪
293
00:16:05,215 --> 00:16:08,049
- ♪ Na-na-na-na, na-na-na ♪
294
00:16:08,118 --> 00:16:10,451
♪ Gonna let me go ♪
295
00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:14,055
♪ Na-na-na-na, na-na-na ♪
296
00:16:14,124 --> 00:16:15,757
[laughter]
297
00:16:15,825 --> 00:16:18,459
- Well, look at you.
- I know.
298
00:16:18,528 --> 00:16:20,528
I got to take credit
for how great I look.
299
00:16:20,597 --> 00:16:22,330
Half of this outfit
is Valentina's.
300
00:16:22,399 --> 00:16:23,965
I came straight from work.
301
00:16:24,034 --> 00:16:25,233
- That's cool.
302
00:16:25,301 --> 00:16:28,536
Now, what are you drinking?
- Green tea on ice.
303
00:16:28,605 --> 00:16:30,104
- All right.
304
00:16:30,173 --> 00:16:32,373
Can I get a vodka on the rocks
for me,
305
00:16:32,442 --> 00:16:34,609
and a green tea on ice
for the lady?
306
00:16:34,678 --> 00:16:36,644
- Thanks.
- Yes, ma'am. Of course.
307
00:16:40,750 --> 00:16:44,719
- So, what's really going on
with you and Lauren?
308
00:16:44,788 --> 00:16:47,755
- All right.
Well, let me explain. I--
309
00:16:47,824 --> 00:16:49,023
- Please do.
310
00:16:51,761 --> 00:16:54,962
- I think Lauren and I
have gone as far as we can go.
311
00:16:55,031 --> 00:16:56,798
We're not growing together
anymore.
312
00:16:56,866 --> 00:16:58,900
It feels like we're just
going through the motions.
313
00:16:58,968 --> 00:17:02,937
It's...yeah.
314
00:17:03,006 --> 00:17:04,439
- Are you really
interested in me,
315
00:17:04,507 --> 00:17:06,808
or are you just trying
to get some street cred?
316
00:17:06,876 --> 00:17:09,310
- Oh, I'm not going to get
some street cred dating you.
317
00:17:09,379 --> 00:17:11,579
So, no.
318
00:17:11,648 --> 00:17:14,182
- That's true.
- Yeah.
319
00:17:16,453 --> 00:17:18,553
Look.
320
00:17:18,621 --> 00:17:21,089
Hey, I like you.
321
00:17:21,157 --> 00:17:23,157
I like the way
you move through the world.
322
00:17:23,226 --> 00:17:26,728
You're...calm.
323
00:17:26,796 --> 00:17:28,629
You're always looking
at the bright side of things
324
00:17:28,698 --> 00:17:32,033
and you aren't afraid
to follow your dreams.
325
00:17:34,537 --> 00:17:36,971
- Thanks, Ben.
326
00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:38,673
I receive that.
327
00:17:41,311 --> 00:17:42,844
- Enjoy.
- Ah.
328
00:17:44,380 --> 00:17:47,415
- Here's to finding yourself.
329
00:17:47,484 --> 00:17:48,883
- Even if it takes a while.
330
00:17:52,672 --> 00:17:55,606
[romantic music]
331
00:17:55,675 --> 00:17:57,742
♪ ♪
332
00:17:57,811 --> 00:18:00,778
- Dang, this is nice!
333
00:18:03,616 --> 00:18:05,049
We got the place to ourselves?
334
00:18:05,118 --> 00:18:07,685
- Yeah, and I hope
you like seafood.
335
00:18:07,754 --> 00:18:10,488
- Aw.
[clicks tongue]
336
00:18:10,557 --> 00:18:11,722
Actually, I'm allergic.
337
00:18:11,791 --> 00:18:13,124
- Oh, shit. Really?
338
00:18:13,193 --> 00:18:15,326
- Nah, I'm just messing
with you.
339
00:18:15,395 --> 00:18:16,627
But what if I was?
340
00:18:16,696 --> 00:18:19,063
- That's true.
I'll ask you first next time.
341
00:18:19,132 --> 00:18:21,799
- Yeah, you should.
342
00:18:21,868 --> 00:18:24,735
This is nice, though. Damn!
- Mm-hmm.
343
00:18:29,809 --> 00:18:31,776
- So we're really
the only people here?
344
00:18:31,845 --> 00:18:33,711
- Yeah, I rented the place out
for the night.
345
00:18:33,780 --> 00:18:35,880
The owner and I
are old friends.
346
00:18:40,153 --> 00:18:41,719
What? What's wrong?
347
00:18:44,491 --> 00:18:45,656
- Did you rent this place out
348
00:18:45,725 --> 00:18:47,124
because you were trying
to be romantic,
349
00:18:47,193 --> 00:18:51,462
or because you didn't want
to be seen with me in public?
350
00:18:51,531 --> 00:18:54,332
- I feel like every time
I try to do something nice,
351
00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,067
you have an issue with me.
352
00:18:58,037 --> 00:18:59,303
- I'm just asking a question.
353
00:18:59,372 --> 00:19:01,806
- I like my privacy.
354
00:19:01,875 --> 00:19:04,408
- No, you like your privilege,
355
00:19:04,477 --> 00:19:08,246
and this is just another way
for you to protect it.
356
00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:11,983
- You know what?
I think I lost my appetite.
357
00:19:12,051 --> 00:19:13,651
- Every day you walk out
of your house,
358
00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:15,052
you get to be
this light-skinned,
359
00:19:15,121 --> 00:19:16,821
straight-presenting,
curly-haired woman
360
00:19:16,890 --> 00:19:18,689
that doesn't have to deal
with half of the bullshit
361
00:19:18,758 --> 00:19:19,790
that the rest of us do.
362
00:19:19,859 --> 00:19:24,061
- Wow.
- Yeah, "Wow."
363
00:19:24,130 --> 00:19:26,764
- Hattie, have you ever
broken through a glass ceiling?
364
00:19:26,833 --> 00:19:28,165
- No, I haven't.
365
00:19:28,234 --> 00:19:31,002
- You get scarred by it.
366
00:19:31,070 --> 00:19:35,239
You accumulate bruises
that don't ever go away.
367
00:19:35,308 --> 00:19:37,542
My first five years,
368
00:19:37,610 --> 00:19:40,211
I cried myself to sleep
every night
369
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:44,081
because I didn't have
any friends or any support.
370
00:19:44,150 --> 00:19:45,416
My family started
giving up on me
371
00:19:45,485 --> 00:19:47,318
because my dream was
taking too long to come true.
372
00:19:47,387 --> 00:19:50,521
So I'm sorry that you can't
tell that I like women
373
00:19:50,590 --> 00:19:51,856
by looking at me,
and I'm sorry that
374
00:19:51,925 --> 00:19:53,624
I have a white grandfather,
but you know what?
375
00:19:53,693 --> 00:19:55,326
Those are things
that I can't help.
376
00:19:55,395 --> 00:19:56,460
- But you can acknowledge it.
377
00:19:56,529 --> 00:19:58,396
- What do you want me to do?
378
00:19:58,464 --> 00:20:00,331
You want me to apologize
every five minutes?
379
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,800
- I don't want your apology.
I just want you to know
380
00:20:02,869 --> 00:20:04,602
that we're not fighting
the same fight.
381
00:20:04,671 --> 00:20:08,039
- I know that.
- Do you?
382
00:20:08,107 --> 00:20:13,044
Look, we don't walk through
this world the same way.
383
00:20:13,112 --> 00:20:14,478
People take one look at me,
and they know
384
00:20:14,547 --> 00:20:16,414
that I'm gay as hell
and I'm Black as hell.
385
00:20:16,482 --> 00:20:20,184
And I can't hide from it.
You can.
386
00:20:20,253 --> 00:20:21,686
- I don't want to.
387
00:20:21,754 --> 00:20:24,422
- [scoffs]
I can't tell.
388
00:20:24,490 --> 00:20:27,758
- I have shared a lot
of my life with the world,
389
00:20:27,827 --> 00:20:29,093
and I was hoping
that this was one thing
390
00:20:29,162 --> 00:20:32,029
that I could keep to myself.
391
00:20:32,098 --> 00:20:35,466
- There's a way to be discreet
without disowning who you are.
392
00:20:37,337 --> 00:20:39,003
- I can work on that.
393
00:20:42,942 --> 00:20:46,444
- And, look, I--I really
appreciate the tough love
394
00:20:46,512 --> 00:20:50,581
and all the advice
that you've been giving me.
395
00:20:50,650 --> 00:20:53,384
It really means a lot.
396
00:20:53,453 --> 00:20:56,220
But I also want you to know
397
00:20:56,289 --> 00:21:01,292
that we're experiencing
two very different Hollywoods.
398
00:21:01,361 --> 00:21:04,395
The one that you walked into is
not the one that I'm living in.
399
00:21:06,399 --> 00:21:08,766
- I get that.
400
00:21:08,835 --> 00:21:11,402
- And, you know,
401
00:21:11,471 --> 00:21:15,106
some shit, I'ma have
to figure out on my own.
402
00:21:15,174 --> 00:21:16,540
- I guess there's
just this part of me
403
00:21:16,609 --> 00:21:19,343
that wants to protect you.
404
00:21:19,412 --> 00:21:22,880
- I want your love,
not your protection.
405
00:21:36,195 --> 00:21:38,963
- You hungry?
- Of course.
406
00:21:39,032 --> 00:21:41,432
I figured you were treating,
so I skipped lunch.
407
00:21:41,501 --> 00:21:45,036
- Oh, you just going to eat me
out of house and home?
408
00:21:45,104 --> 00:21:47,538
- See, I could have made
a dirty joke right then,
409
00:21:47,607 --> 00:21:49,173
but I ain't gon' do it.
410
00:21:49,223 --> 00:21:53,773
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