Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 00:00:30:No, but I like the red one.|Not all red... the one with the backrest. 00:00:35:That's the one. 00:00:39:I don't think that's too much.|It's nice. 00:00:42:We'll start with 10 to 15 pieces|and see how we go. 00:00:46:Give my regards to New York...'bye! 00:01:19:Excuse me. 00:01:21:- Hi!|- Hi. 00:01:25:- How are things?|- Really good. Everybody's here. 00:01:30:Pity about the rain. 00:01:32:We spent an hour trying to get|that horrible tent thing up. 00:02:01:- What did they say about the baby change|table? - There's a few weeks delivery. 00:02:05:But I think that's better.|The other one was a bit wide. 00:02:10:OK. 00:03:21:- What's the matter?|- Don't worry, it's alright. 00:03:25:But what is it? 00:03:28:What's up? 00:03:43:Hello... my wife's due to have|a caesarean in 2 weeks... 00:03:46:She's just woken up... in severe pain. 00:03:51:She's Erika Ram�n. 00:03:53:Yes. 00:03:55:It's not due at all. 00:03:58:- I don't know.|- Am I going to lose it or something?! 00:04:08:Come on now, we're there, darling! 00:04:11:- Come on, hold onto me.|- No, no, no! 00:04:13:Out you come...|just hang onto me! 00:04:19:- No, wait!|- Nearly there! 00:04:23:- I want to lie down!|- Just get inside! 00:04:27:See, we're almost there. Here we are.|Just through here. 00:04:36:Erika, can you try and lay back?|we have to take a scan of your stomach. 00:04:43:- I'm to have a caesarean.|- We have to do a CTG on the baby first. 00:04:48:If you can try to relax.|We'll just open a bit down there. 00:04:51:It hurts like hell! 00:04:53:It'll get better...|Concentrate on breathing. 00:04:56:- Oskar! Can...|- There you are! 00:05:00:Darling... it's all going to be fine! 00:05:03:Erika, try not to fight it.|Deep breath. That's the way. 00:05:09:- Calm down.|- Erika, Erika... 00:05:13:Your baby's heartbeat's a bit low. 00:05:15:What does that mean? 00:05:18:I'll see how much you opened up. 00:05:22:Am I having the caesar now, or...? 00:05:23:No, we have to see... 00:05:26:You have to have it. 00:05:27:- For Alexander. You need oxygen.|- You need to give birth now. 00:05:30:You are fully open and ready to give birth.|The baby's head has dropped down... 00:05:36:No, I won't have a normal birth!|Can't he just be taken out? 00:05:42:- We've booked it!|- But the baby is not well. 00:05:46:- I can have it done instead.|- The baby is not well! 00:05:50:- Here's the doctor. He'll check.|- I don't want to! I don't want to! 00:05:55:- I want my caesarean! - What are you|doing? We're to have a caesarean! 00:05:59:The baby has to come out now! 00:06:05:Darling, thins haven't worked out|as we thought. 00:06:09:There's been a change. 00:06:11:I'm to have a caesarean! 00:06:13:Tell them I won't have|a normal birth! 00:06:17:Erika, lift your legs!|Hold onto me. 00:06:21:It's okay, it's okay.|Erika... 00:06:27:There, there. Push now. 00:06:32:Erika, Erika, calm down! 00:06:35:Calm down. We're nearly there. 00:06:39:Good. Just keep breathing like that.|Great. 00:07:05:Your son showed signs of asphyxia|during labor. 00:07:13:There is some risk that he will|develop a permanent brain injury. 00:07:24:But we're doing everything we can|to help him in every way possible. 00:08:42:- Does he have to have all those things?|- Yes, he needs them. 00:08:45:- For how long?|- Unfortunately, we can't say yet. 00:08:50:Somebody must know, for God's sake!|You must know what the tubes are for? 00:08:55:But not how long|he'll need them. 00:08:58:Can you...?|Are there any doctors around? 00:09:01:Someone who's responsible?|Responsible for this situation. 00:09:05:Just what the hell is wrong?!|I can manage... Leave off! 00:09:13:Excuse me, is there a doctor here?|Will you just keep your hands off me! 00:09:16:Are you the one responsible here?|Responsible for all that over there? 00:09:20:I want to know what the tubes are for...|and how long he'll be like that. 00:09:23:I can't answer that at this stage. 00:09:27:Aren't you the responsible doctor? 00:09:31:I'm sorry, we just don't know any more. 00:09:33:Just tell me what's happened! 00:09:35:Of course! We SHALL sit down and... 00:09:37:What do you mean "SHALL"?|Can't you just tell me?! 00:09:43:We take things calmly, one step at a time.|It doesn't help... 00:09:57:I'll just park the car. 00:11:16:- Erika.|- I can't! 00:11:18:There's nothing to be ashamed of. 00:11:21:You need to talk about what's happened. 00:12:48:G'day. You ordered a baby's change table 00:13:13:I can't even think.|I can't even feel anything. 00:13:26:I read in the paper last week about a woman|who could choose... 00:13:31:what she wanted to feel|in different situations. 00:13:37:She had something wrong, so she had|no real contact with her surroundings. 00:13:47:She described her inner self|as being like a... hotel. 00:13:52:A hotel? 00:13:54:So, every morning she'd... 00:13:57:She'd wake up in a different room... 00:14:03:And if that one didn't suit her,|she'd simply shift into another. 00:14:14:She refuses to come to the hospital|to be with Alexander. 00:14:17:She says that this isn't her life|and she wants to exchange it. 00:14:26:That she wants to be somebody else. 00:14:30:I try to persuade her that|she mustn't think that way. 00:14:36:Is there something she might get involved|in, where the focus isn't purely on HER. 00:14:44:That's not the way we usually do it. That|would be more like a regular talk group... 00:14:49:with people with totally different|sorts of problems. 00:14:54:She could sit in and participate|in some other way. 00:14:58:Or I don't know how... but somehow. 00:15:06:Yes... I've got extended sick leave|'til spring. 00:15:13:The call it... "burnout". 00:15:19:She was on my back all day long, nagging|and screaming that things had to go faster. 00:15:29:On one occasion she lunged toward me|and I had a sort of panic attack. 00:15:33:But you have to look after yourself. 00:15:37:Stop and think. 00:15:43:Ann-Sofi, you took the bus here today. 00:15:47:Even though it was only 2 stops. 00:15:49:Then a whole lot of people got on|and it got so crowded. 00:15:55:But... I did it... two stops. 00:16:00:Much of what you have said here|is linked to "social shame". 00:16:06:Is that something you all have|concerns about? 00:17:01:Surely you can bring yourself|to hold him. 00:17:04:You could at least watch|while I hold him! 00:17:08:It's no problem for you to go in there... 00:17:11:But I can't understand why|you force me to come here. 00:17:16:Everything okay? 00:17:19:She still hasn't held him. 00:17:26:What's that to do with HIM? 00:17:45:Somebody hits me in the stomach. I fall|down on the floor and it's wet and cold. 00:17:52:So I huddle myself up... trying to protect my|body, my breasts, and my stomach, that way. 00:18:00:They say I'm the ugliest|in the whole school. 00:18:04:And they had this thing... this bottle... 00:18:08:...that they wanted to...|wanted to stick into me. 00:18:13:Then they say I have to open my legs. 00:18:19:So I do it. 00:18:24:It's cold and hard. 00:18:28:Afterwards, it bleeds a bit and I go out|into the playground again. 00:18:34:But nobody looks at me at all,|except... 00:18:47:Since I don't have kids,|family or anything at all... 00:18:52:...it all feels quite meaningless. 00:18:56:Including my life. 00:19:02:My problem is... the present... reality.|I hate reality! 00:19:15:Hello! 00:19:26:How've you been today? 00:19:42:It's so goddamn hard trying to keep|this all together, all on my own. 00:19:48:Erika... 00:20:06:So what would you like me to do? 00:20:10:Well?! 00:20:13:Act as though everything's normal?|As if nothing happened? 00:20:16:I don't know. Maybe I'd like you to...|I don't know. 00:20:21:Could at least accept that it's all|for real, that it's here... and now. 00:20:26:- Accept it?|- Yes. 00:20:31:So what do you think|would happen then? 00:20:32:I don't know. 00:20:48:You are so goddamned naive! 00:20:53:What do you think will happen? 00:20:56:We bring Alexander home,|and everything's OK again? 00:21:04:With tubes and machines...|and a lot of schedules to follow! 00:21:12:And a lot of people running|around all over the place. 00:21:15:What the hell do you want us to do?|HE IS NOT DEAD! 00:21:37:I'm sorry. 00:21:46:I can't do any better than this. 00:21:52:Listen... 00:21:53:I AM sorry. 00:22:10:I'll go down to Copenhagen|and see Christopher over the holidays. 00:22:15:I've got to get away for a bit, and think. 00:22:20:OK. 00:22:33:The film is 90 minutes long|and I didn't think of Mum once. 00:22:38:So this movie made you want to repress|the memory of your mother? 00:22:45:You've got to think of something else|sometimes, don't you? 00:22:49:Definitely. I'm just trying to understand|what Rikard's getting at. 00:22:53:Even though Indians were tortured,|they didn't all get depressed about it. 00:22:57:It was just "back to work" harvesting|in the fields, or out hunting. 00:23:02:- Didn't they live in the jungle?|- Guatemala. 00:23:06:That was more fields. 00:23:09:They didn't have time to feel bad.|To get beaten to a pulp was nothing. 00:23:15:They stuck together. Children died...|natural disasters... war... 00:23:19:But they just kept going...|and I find that very inspiring. 00:23:22:I feel I might start thinking like that...|one day... if all goes well. 00:23:28:- That's very interesting.|- Yes. 00:23:38:I've thought that way, too, sometimes. 00:23:43:- Or something like it.|- In what way? 00:23:46:- What have you thought, Ann-Sofi?|- Well... 00:23:50:It would be great being someone else|for a while... Sometime. 00:23:57:If you could leave yourself...|or just take a holiday, you could say... 00:24:01:from everything you carry with you... see. 00:24:07:So what are you getting at|with those thoughts? 00:24:10:At being someone else...|anyone at all! 00:24:13:Perhaps a Mayan Indian, for example, or... 00:24:17:See things differently... 00:24:22:Just get to be someone else! 00:24:25:I get that, totally. 00:24:26:I don't get it at all. 00:24:28:Sounds like a simple case of repression. 00:24:32:Doesn't everybody think that at some stage?|Escape from reality? 00:24:35:- More so probably when we were kids.|- Sorry... I don't quite get it. 00:24:40:Thinking like someone else?|That doesn't happen. 00:24:44:I see that time is running out,|so we may wind up for today. 00:24:50:So let's give some thought to how|we can develop this idea. 00:24:53:- Is that OK with you, Rikard?|- Yes. 00:24:57:So we'll see each other in 2 weeks.|Goodbye for now. 00:25:05:Turn it over... 00:25:12:- I totally get what you were on about.|- Do you? 00:25:20:Seeing that I... 00:25:24:I've thought like that, too... like you. 00:25:29:Yes... to replace... everything. 00:25:36:Yes. 00:25:37:What brings you to think that way.|I mean... how are things... for you? 00:25:47:I want to be somewhere else. 00:25:51:Somewhere where I... where I don't...|Where I can't relate to anything. 00:25:58:Where I can be who I want... 00:26:01:Like in a hotel room,|I've thought sometimes. 00:26:06:Can't you do that?|Go away for a bit. 00:26:15:Of course I can. 00:26:25:I just can't seem to think straight|when I'm alone. 00:26:31:Can't you take someone with you. 00:26:32:Everyone I know is too opinionated. 00:26:35:I'll come with you. 00:26:38:What's wrong? I've got no opinions|and I don't know you at all. 00:26:47:I wouldn't mind staying in a hotel. 00:26:56:- Isn't it awfully expensive?|- I can pay for it. 00:27:03:- And you're staying ONE night?|- That's right. 00:27:09:Here are your keys.|The lifts are there to the left. 00:27:14:The restaurant is straight ahead.|Breakfast is served between 7 and 10. 00:29:04:Everyone respects me. 00:29:09:Good. Go on. 00:29:11:I'm popular. 00:29:15:When I come to work in the morning,|then... 00:29:20:EVERYBODY says good morning|to me, and the boss... 00:29:26:She winks at me. She says|"Ann-Sofi, nice to see you!". 00:29:33:Everyone asks what sort of a holiday|I had and I say it was great. 00:29:39:We talk about TV shows|and we talk about books. 00:29:46:Things like that. Things people do.|And we're going to the Caribbean. 00:29:51:A bunch of us at work are going|to the Caribbean... on vacation. 00:29:57:We all see each other after work as well...|that's why we're going. 00:30:02:Everything's great.|They all want to be with me. 00:30:12:That's it. 00:30:14:- Good.|- Thanks. 00:30:16:Excellent! 00:30:21:- Good.|- You're very brave. 00:30:27:I'm strong. 00:30:31:I'm as strong as a... Mayan Indian. 00:30:37:I'm strong and I have hair. 00:30:42:I'm not scared of anything. 00:30:46:Because I'm so strong.|And my mum... 00:30:50:She's there, but I don't think about her|the whole time. 00:30:56:Other people's pain hardens me,|and I am really fine. 00:31:04:Mum stays in the background,|but she likes me. 00:31:09:She looks me over when I'm leaving|and says: 00:31:14:"You're so handsome! 00:31:17:"You're so strong!" 00:31:28:It happens to people... 00:31:33:Get so stressed out|by their goddamn "nuclear family". 00:31:37:Making out they're happy, but|really walking around empty inside. 00:31:46:They want to fuck somebody else.|But they're not allowed to. 00:31:53:And that gets them obsessed. 00:31:57:In the end, all they want to do|is have sex with a stranger. 00:32:05:Someone like me. 00:32:10:God, I'm so stupid! 00:32:22:I took everything there was. 00:32:26:Still more! 00:32:30:- Really salty!|- Can I have a taste? 00:32:54:Then I'll even go to Val d'ls�re...|in France. 00:33:02:With my mum and dad. 00:33:06:I've got the finest of ski equipment. 00:33:15:When we're on tour with the school|so... everyone's there... 00:33:22:And I get: "Fuckin' hell, man...|what a great zip-suit!" 00:33:27:- Everyone thinks it's...|- Hang on... wait! 00:33:30:- Are we going this?|- What? 00:33:34:Do you have to use notes? 00:33:37:That's totally irrelevant! 00:33:40:- They were just memory-joggers...|- I think it's great, Peter. 00:33:45:- It's cheating.|- No, you can say whatever you want. 00:33:49:Keep going, Peter. Ignore him. 00:33:53:It's blue... the zip-suit is blue. 00:34:09:I can... I can't. 00:34:39:- Sorry... I'm so big.|- I know how it is. 00:34:43:Yeah? How old? 00:34:48:- Nearly one.|- Nice! Your first? 00:34:57:He doesn't sleep much at night. You know|how it is when they're starting to walk. 00:35:03:Just loves to run full bore! 00:35:08:Unbelievable. My body's been taken over. 00:35:10:Then before you know it they're|running around like real little people. 00:36:40:Are you paying all the mini bar charges|on this card? 00:36:44:Yes. 00:37:00:I can't do it. 00:37:07:Erika, I can't go.|I can't go either! 00:37:14:- Peter...|- Wait. 00:37:24:They're full here, but we can go|somewhere else. 00:37:28:- Where?|- I don't know. Anywhere. 00:38:05:We also need a credit card. 00:38:10:4 keys. 00:38:25:- Hi.|- Hi. 00:38:29:How... how was Copenhagen? 00:38:31:Fine. 00:38:34:Whereabouts are you? 00:38:36:I'm on a course. 00:38:40:The discussion-group leader|though I should do this course. 00:38:44:Trauma-abatement course.|So I'm on it now. 00:38:49:- OK. How long's it for?|- A week. 00:38:54:- Possibly two... it depends.|- Is it any good? 00:38:59:Yes, it's really great... really great!|The leader... everything... 00:39:07:I honestly think it's really great for me. 00:39:12:Most important is to turn off cell phones|and computers, so there won't be... 00:39:18:anything ringing... so we lose the feeling. 00:39:21:I don't want to hear about any bad|things... No natural disasters, no wars. 00:39:28:Nothing nasty, I'll say. 00:39:30:No TV, no Facebook. 00:39:34:Don't we need some sort of structure? 00:39:40:So some sort of timetable. 00:39:41:I think we should explore the Mayan stuff|a bit further. 00:39:46:If that's what you want, then|you should do it. We can help you. 00:39:53:- Yes.|- OK. 00:40:01:- This must go back here.|- Then this has to go up there. 00:40:12:Wait or you'll hurt your neck. 00:40:14:- OK, try that.|- It's not going to work. 00:40:20:We'll try it between the feet.|It'd be better if you... 00:40:25:- Does that hurt a bit?|- Yes. 00:40:27:- Straight up, then we'll tie|them together. - Can we try it? 00:40:34:- Is this quite safe?|- Yes. I bet it hurts though. 00:40:38:3...2...1...pull! 00:40:53:- Sorry!|- Stop. 00:40:56:What is it? Why did you all stop? 00:41:00:You were yelling...|It must have been hurting. 00:41:02:But you can't just break off like that!|That was the whole point of it. 00:41:07:It's supposed to hurt. That's the point.|I'm only communicating my pain. 00:41:13:Sorry, then. 00:41:15:Once again... pull! 00:42:41:- I could tie you up if you like, Erika.|- What!? 00:42:47:- I could tie you up if you like.|- No, I don't fancy being tied up. 00:42:51:It's important to dare to face your pain. 00:42:59:How are things, Pernilla? 00:43:02:I have this ongoing anxiety.|I didn't sleep all night. 00:43:07:My life is shit. It's|difficult not to accept that. 00:43:17:It can't be all that bad? 00:43:19:It can be that bad! 00:43:21:Sorry, I can't control myself. 00:43:26:- Pernilla, is there anything we can do?|- I'm so goddamn lonely! 00:43:33:I hate my body, and I hate|that no one else likes it. 00:43:36:- You aren't alone.|- Yes I am. Totally alone! 00:43:43:You CAN get something|if you really want it. 00:43:48:Oh yes! 00:43:53:Is it just that you want to fuck?|That can be arranged. 00:44:00:- That's no problem.|- What? 00:44:03:Pick someone. Pick someone here. 00:44:06:- Here? You mean one of us?|- No. Point out someone and we'll fix it. 00:44:10:Can you do that? Point out someone?|Here in this room? 00:44:14:We helped you yesterday.|Now we're helping Pernilla today. 00:44:18:What age should he be? Type? 00:44:21:I want him to be married. 00:45:05:Hey... I think I've found someone. 00:45:08:- Whereabouts?|- He's sitting over there. 00:45:11:- With a blonde and two kids.|- The one in a red... 00:45:17:- I have to see how he looks.|- Is he married? 00:45:21:- I have a nose for such things.|- You have a nose for such things? 00:45:24:- I have a nose for such things.|- OK. 00:45:29:We need to move fast. 00:45:30:Excuse me. 00:45:32:I am responsible for entertainment|here at the hotel. 00:45:35:It's important for me that the children|have good time as well. 00:45:43:We have a new entertainment facility and it|would be helpful to us if you'd give it a try. 00:45:50:Yes! 00:45:52:Forgive me, but are you responsible|for the broken blind in room 212? 00:45:59:No. 00:46:00:We'll there's been a complaint|about a broken blind. 00:46:03:I wonder if you want to come|and identify it? 00:46:07:No we want the entertainment! 00:46:10:Go and see what this is about... 00:46:11:Then we'll take a look at|the entertainment thing. OK? 00:46:19:I wonder if you'd like to come|and fuck me in the toilet. 00:46:30:What happened? 00:46:37:OK, but it'll have to be quick. I can't|be away more than 10-15 minutes. 00:47:00:It's ecological. 00:47:21:Do you want to try it? 00:48:08:If you check in, I'll bring the stuff in. 00:48:14:- Can I help you, Erika?|- No, I'll be right with everything. 00:48:19:I've got 5 small children here. 00:48:25:Do you have any preference|for a boy or a girl? 00:48:26:- I want a girl.|- You get a girl. - You get a boy. 00:48:30:- What do I get?|- Maybe twins. 00:48:35:- He'll be called Jens.|- Here's a little boat for the boy. 00:48:45:This is so cute. 00:48:51:Thanks, Erika. 00:48:53:I can't believe how lucky I was. 00:48:56:There was a parents' co-op|right around the corner. 00:49:02:A lot of work, but it's so worth it. They|have their own chef. Breakfast and lunch. 00:49:09:And fresh bread in the mornings.|It's absolutely amazing. 00:49:15:It feels good. I'm starting to like...|get into it more. 00:49:21:Besides, you still wake up at 4|every morning. Not much sleep. 00:49:28:The routine I'll be easier once they start|in kindy. 00:49:32:Much easier than I thought.|It's a breeze. 00:49:37:You wash, bake buns and breastfeed.|Last week I was able to go to work. 00:49:44:He was cool as a cucumber under the table.|I was able to have a meeting. 00:49:49:No problem. You can combine|both that life and being a mum. 00:49:55:- It can be done.|- You must be so happy about that, Erika. 00:49:58:- It's amazing.|- Truly amazing. 00:50:25:Mummy... 00:50:30:Hello mummy! 00:50:35:What? What are you doing now? 00:50:39:Mummy... I think it's|hard to learn to swim. 00:50:47:Rikard... 00:50:48:Couldn't you teach me to swim? 00:50:57:- I think it's scary, Mummy.|- Can't you swim? 00:51:03:You were doing it before. 00:51:05:Only my arms. My legs sink. 00:51:11:Of course I'll help you, if you can't swim. 00:51:15:Will you? 00:51:18:But you mustn't be afraid.|You can go out there, and I'll... 00:51:22:- I'll hang on to you the whole time.|- Do you promise? 00:51:26:Yes, I'll be there the whole time.|Nothing will happen to you. 00:51:32:- But I'm a bit scared.|- Don't be scared. There's no danger. 00:51:36:- We'll stay at the shallow end.|- I don't want to go where it's deep. 00:51:39:- We'll stay where it's shallow.|- Yes, I might drown. 00:51:45:- And sink like a stone.|- Don't be afraid. 00:51:49:Very good! Now, like we did on land.|As far out as possible, and together. 00:51:54:Close together with your hands. Straight|ahead. You'll be swimming on your own soon. 00:52:00:- I can let you go here.|- No, no, no... you can't let me go! 00:52:07:I held you the whole time|I didn't let you go. 00:52:09:It felt like you did. 00:52:11:No, I just said you were close|to being able to swim yourself. 00:52:17:I don't want to swim any more.. 00:52:27:Sweetie... 00:52:29:- Come on out! Ann-Sofi!|- We want to see you. 00:52:32:We want Ann-Sofi!|When do we want her? Now! 00:52:35:Ann-Sofi! Ann-Sofi! 00:52:48:- Get a look at her!|- God! You are cute! 00:52:52:- You are so goddamn cute!|- I'd die for legs like that! 00:53:00:Cutest in town! Cutest in town!|Cutest in town! Cutest in town! 00:53:09:I think that's the cutest and sexiest pair|I've ever seen. 00:53:13:In my whole goddamn fucking life! 00:53:19:So fucking perfect. All|this is fucking perfect! 00:53:41:- Is that nice, Ann-Sofi?|- Mmm. 00:53:51:So lift your arms. 00:53:59:Come on little head... Hi! 00:54:09:Off to beddy-byes? 00:54:13:- Comfy?|- Mmm. 00:54:16:So lift your feet. 00:54:19:You're like a cocoon! 00:55:25:- Hi.|- Hi, it's me. 00:55:31:How's it going? 00:55:37:Did you get my message? 00:55:40:What? No. 00:55:45:It felt as though|he heard me today. 00:55:50:I was singing to him and it felt as though|he was pressing closer into my arms. 00:56:05:We were told he couldn't hear. 00:56:14:Your problem is that you're|so fucking self-centred. 00:57:05:Are you coming?|Breakfast closes in fifteen minutes. 00:57:08:Does it? I'll just be a moment. 00:57:17:- Sleep well?|- Really well. Great pillows. 00:57:32:Henke! 00:57:35:What the hell are you doing here?|Where were you last Saturday? 00:57:44:- I really have no idea what you're|talking about - Our squash game. 00:57:55:You've got the wrong person.|His name isn't Henke... it's Peter. 00:58:00:Lina said you were at a conference|in Antwerp over the holiday. 00:58:08:Henke... 00:58:12:- Who's Lina?|- I don't know. 00:58:17:- Peter!|- Who's Lina? Peter! 00:58:21:- Peter, wait a minute!|- Did you lie to me, Peter? 00:58:24:- Wait!|- Stop! 00:58:27:Wait! 00:58:31:- Wait there.|- Stop! 00:58:49:Tell us. Who's Lina?|Who's Lina? You've got to... 00:58:53:Come clean. Have you cheated? 00:58:58:I went to a psychologist.|He laughed, didn't take me seriously. 00:59:04:I needed to talk and I met you. 00:59:06:I fibbed a little bit here and there,|but I didn't lie from my heart. 00:59:12:I didn't mean to. Of course you hate me.|I can't help that. 00:59:16:- You lied to me!|- I know, but I didn't lie about... 00:59:21:- You lied to me! You lied to me!|- You gotta calm down! 00:59:27:- I didn't lie with my heart.|- Ann-Sofi, get off now. 00:59:31:I've been true to you. More than I've been|to anybody else. I'm sorry. 00:59:36:- I know you must hate me.|- Forgive me, Ann-Sofi. Can you forgive me? 00:59:39:Henke! What the fuck are you up to?|What am I to say about this? 00:59:46:- You must be sick in the head!|- Come on... go away... go! 00:59:52:Just stay there. 00:59:54:Scram... go away! Go...|You can't be here! 00:59:59:- You're crazy.|- Scram! 01:00:02:Henke! Get out of there.|You're going home. 01:00:24:Unfortunately we have two weddings|booked, so the restaurant is closed. 01:00:30:Do you have a conference room|that can be booked? 01:00:32:Yes. When would you like...? 01:00:36:- Right now, thanks.|- Yes, we can check if it's available. 01:00:41:- Good, you can take it.|- Where is it? 01:00:45:- At the end on the left.|- Come on. 01:00:51:Yes... 01:00:55:Yes... I have a wife, 2 kids|and a dachshund. 01:01:04:We live in a house, or rather...|a townhouse. 01:01:12:And we have a country place on �land. 01:01:15:So you haven't been bullied|at all then, or...? 01:01:20:No. I had a happy childhood. Or nothing|special, you could say, perhaps. 01:01:33:I didn't feel good. 01:01:37:I always suffered anxiety, like all of you. 01:01:42:The fact that I wasn't bullied,|or tortured by my mother 01:01:45:doesn't mean I was happy. 01:01:51:All that I've felt about you|has been genuine. 01:01:58:I love you, Ann-Sofi. 01:02:06:- I love you.|- No! 01:02:09:- My beloved!|- Get off me! 01:02:12:If you forgive me, I promise|to leave everything for you. 01:02:16:I promise. 01:02:40:This is Lina. Hello? 01:02:45:- Hi, this is Henke.|- Hi, darling. How are things? 01:02:50:- Fine.|- I've been a bit worried. 01:02:53:You forgot to cancel your squash game|with Robert last Saturday. 01:02:56:I left messages for you but you|never rang back. How come? 01:03:02:- I'm not in Antwerp.|- What? 01:03:06:I'm not in Antwerp.|I'm not at a conference. 01:03:11:Uh? Where are you then? 01:03:16:I've met somebody else. 01:03:21:I've met someone else and I want a divorce. 01:03:28:What are you on about? How long has...?|I don't get it! What are you up to? 01:03:34:- I'm sorry, Lina.|- Henrik! 01:03:37:I'm sorry, forgive me. 01:03:39:- I've got some photocopies here I thought you might interest you.|- Here's one with Jesus on the cross. Here's a Indian being tormented 01:04:59:Here they're burning each other up...|but I don't think we'll get into that. 01:05:03:Here, Erika. 01:05:08:Here's a map, too.|This where the Mayan Indians lived. 01:05:13:Thanks. 01:05:15:It won't do to escape any pain you|might have. You can't do that. 01:05:20:But we've got an advantage in here. We can|create our own pain, and face up to it. 01:05:27:In here we can overcome that pain.|That's what this is all about. 01:05:32:Daring to take that pain... in here...|to our team... and work with that. 01:05:38:By learning to win over physical pain,|we'll be able to win over psychic pain. 01:05:46:As you can see, I've purchased|a few bits and pieces. 01:05:48:There are many ways they can be used.|I liked the whip. 01:05:53:But that doesn't mean it'll work for you. 01:05:57:The wire brush... What... how...? 01:05:59:You can take that. That can really hurt. 01:06:03:Best to follow your first impulse.|In my experience anyway. 01:06:09:There's no particular way of doing it.|Everyone can just do what they want. 01:06:13:In these pictures here... 01:06:19:Sure... we can do a group exercise as well. 01:06:20:But I thought we'd start off with Erika. 01:06:25:You can get started and we'll support you|and help you... through this. 01:06:31:Whatever you choose.|We'll see where we end up. It's free play. 01:06:35:This seems to be something you've invented|to gratify your own perversions. 01:06:42:Why do you have to drag US into it? 01:06:50:But we all agreed to this. 01:06:51:It's not my perversion... 01:06:51:Your "thing" then. We can tie you up again. 01:06:55:You like whips? We'll whip you. 01:06:56:Erika, we must dare to face our pain. 01:07:00:Try it. 01:07:01:You can try... don't be a coward. 01:07:04:You have to... 01:07:13:Don't forget there's a wedding tonight. 01:08:24:Hi. 01:08:29:A whisky, please. 01:08:33:When I woke up on the beach|completely naked... 01:08:39:I realised it was "time to grow up." 01:08:40:So then I moved home|and I've been slogging away since. 01:08:44:Here I am just talking about myself.|Who are you? 01:08:48:Who am I?|I'm an interior designer. 01:08:53:Nothing more? 01:08:57:- "More" what? Shall I...?|- "More" whatever you like. 01:09:03:Talk about anything you like. 01:09:07:OK. 01:09:14:I...I... 01:09:20:I had a son recently|who was injured at birth. 01:09:28:So I became depressed. I escaped|with my discussion group to get a break. 01:09:35:A break from myself. 01:09:52:No, I must go...|I think I should... go. 01:09:56:I must... go home. 01:09:59:- Are you sure?|- It's alright. 01:10:19:Boo! 01:11:00:So we sold the townhouse, the country|house, the dachshund, and moved to L.A. 01:11:05:Then it wasn't long before I met Jon. 01:11:09:Of course you get homesick sometimes.|But not that often, actually. 01:11:13:- Jon, which Jon?|- Bon Jovi. We're well connected. 01:11:18:As soon as we got into the studio,|it all started happening... full bore. 01:11:22:- Are you in music, too?|- Heavens no! 01:11:25:I've done some modelling, but the|industry's very shallow in LA. 01:11:35:Our friend from LA was on the same plane,|so she also lost her luggage. 01:11:42:- This is all I have to wear.|- Have you heard anything about the bags? 01:11:46:Boo! 01:11:49:- Have you seen Rikard anywhere?|- He went off a while ago. 01:11:53:- I think he's in the dining-room.|- Which is...? 01:11:56:- There. Free drinks for another hour.|- OK, thanks. 01:12:18:Sorry if I upset you. 01:12:21:It's okay. 01:12:32:I just don't know how I'll manage|to shut out my feelings. 01:12:38:No, I never said that. 01:12:39:I never said you should|shut your feelings out. 01:12:43:So what did you say? 01:12:44:You have to face up to your feelings. 01:12:48:You must learn to cope with your feelings. 01:12:53:Boo! 01:12:58:- Who are you?|- I'm... 01:13:02:A person, a sort of male person. 01:13:06:You look like an ape. 01:13:18:It's boring here. 01:13:20:I think the wedding's super-boring. 01:13:24:I know. It is.|Want to see my Indians? 01:13:29:Do you have Indians? 01:13:32:- Whereabouts?|- In my room. Mayan Indians. 01:13:36:You have Mayan Indians in your room? 01:13:38:But they're nice Indians. 01:13:40:Yes. One of the biggest misunderstandings|in modern history... 01:13:45:That the Indians fought all the time.|They were quite nice, as... 01:13:48:- What's your name? - Max.|- As Max says. 01:13:51:What's your name? 01:13:51:- Rikard.|- Do you want to come to my room? 01:13:57:We're sitting here, and he's having dinner. 01:14:02:- No.|- Bring the Indians down here. 01:14:06:No... come to my room...|Please! Please! Please! 01:14:11:Maybe we could... just for a bit. 01:15:43:Is this it? 01:15:48:Quick... quick! 01:15:56:Where are they? 01:15:58:You got nice stuff, eh? 01:16:01:A wolf..and here's mummy Indian. 01:16:07:Wow! Check out these great Indians! 01:16:12:- That's a tepee isn't it?|- No, it's a mountain. 01:16:28:Look at this! You attack me,|I defend myself with horses. 01:16:33:OK, it's war then. 01:16:38:Give him a death-blow! 01:16:42:He ended up on his stomach. 01:16:43:"Hi, how are you going?" 01:16:44:"I'm going to spit fire on you." 01:17:11:Sometimes it's hard to know|who's done what. 01:17:15:I heard what you did. 01:17:19:Whether it's his music or mine. 01:17:21:- Excuse me... have you seen Max?|- No. 01:17:32:- Hey, baby. How's it all going?|- Where's our son got to? 01:17:36:Haven't a clue.|I thought he was with you. 01:17:40:He must be around somewhere.|I've no idea. 01:17:44:- Won't you come with me?|- Alright! 01:17:55:She is really cute, Dad,|but it's my wedding day for fuck's sake! 01:18:05:- Did you fuck Dad?|- What the hell...? 01:18:11:- Have you fucked my Dad?|- No, I have not. 01:18:14:Okay... fine... 01:18:17:- Now the shampoo...|- No! 01:18:20:- And balsam.|- You too. 01:18:24:- There's cream in my hair.|- Do you get it all out? 01:18:27:- This is horrible.|- Sorry, it was a little too hot. 01:18:31:- I'm getting it in my eyes.|- It hurts my eyes too. 01:18:35:Wait, wait! Towel!|Come on... calm down. 01:18:52:He's crazy! 01:18:55:I'm glad I decided not to join you in the|bath. Don't just sit there laughing. 01:19:02:My colleague saw a man, a woman|and a little boy walking up the stairs. 01:19:09:- What's that... yes!|- No, Rikard. Stop it now. 01:19:15:There are chemicals in the pens.|There's a paper you can draw on. 01:19:19:Little rascal... eh? 01:19:23:- Draw your picture here.|- That's no fun! 01:19:31:- It's scary!|- Yes, it's scary! 01:19:36:I'll do his stomach. 01:19:40:How's that! There... and there...|and there... 01:19:43:Max! 01:19:51:- What the hell are you doing?|- This is our room! 01:19:55:- Get up.|- What? Ouch! 01:19:57:I want you out of here. 01:19:59:We haven't done anything.|We were just playing... 01:20:02:- Grab onto him!|- What "grab"? 01:20:04:We just played a bit with Max's toys.|What's the harm in that? 01:20:09:Get down... wait... stay there. 01:20:15:This has been a big misunderstanding. 01:20:18:We met Max in reception.|He wanted to show us his Indians. 01:20:35:- Don't touch me!|- You hit me? 01:20:39:So hit me... come on... hit me! 01:20:56:Are you hitting me too? He just|stood there. He's not helping you. 01:21:01:You're just being unpleasant.|Knock it off now. 01:21:04:- So hit me!|- I don't want to! 01:21:07:Oh, come on now!|Damn, what are you doing? 01:21:10:You! Could say it to|Kerstin, do you think? 01:21:14:- Say what?|- That you haven't fucked Dad. 01:21:25:I've got some of this.|Fucking expensive. 01:21:28:Don't start crying.|Hit me instead. 01:21:32:What's your favourite?|Don't you dare tell him? 01:21:37:Are you deaf?|At least show you're a man! 01:21:45:Can you just cut it out?|I can't cope with this! 01:23:41:It's alright. 01:23:48:We'd best check out, eh? 01:24:19:It's alright! Alright. 01:24:22:What the hell are you doing?|You need to persuade her. Come on. 01:24:29:What's your problem...?|Come on now, you fucking whore! 01:24:32:Let me go! Let me go!|Help! Help me! 01:28:26:I'm going now. 01:28:44:Thanks. 01:29:10:Good luck. 01:29:30:- Look after yourself, OK?|- Yes. 01:31:11:[Women's Hospital - Maternity Ward] 34972