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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,497 --> 00:00:04,990 [MUSIC PLAYING] 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:00:09,481 --> 00:00:12,974 [MEDITATION CHIME] 5 00:00:16,467 --> 00:00:19,960 [MEDITATION CHIME] 6 00:00:22,954 --> 00:00:26,447 [MEDITATION CHIME] 7 00:00:30,439 --> 00:00:33,932 [MEDITATION CHIME] 8 00:00:35,970 --> 00:00:42,390 >> When you drink your tea, you may like to bring your mind 9 00:00:42,390 --> 00:00:48,130 back to your body, so that you'll be completely there, 10 00:00:48,130 --> 00:00:51,630 established in the present moment. 11 00:00:51,630 --> 00:00:53,550 And when you drink like that, you 12 00:00:53,550 --> 00:00:56,620 drink not only with your body, but you drink and so 13 00:00:56,620 --> 00:00:57,420 with your mind. 14 00:01:01,350 --> 00:01:04,319 You drink the tea, and you are aware that you 15 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,210 are drinking the tea. 16 00:01:06,210 --> 00:01:10,830 That is mindfulness of drinking, you see? 17 00:01:10,830 --> 00:01:13,040 And when you're drinking your tea with mindfulness, 18 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,400 you are really there. 19 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,300 And the tea is clearly there. 20 00:01:18,300 --> 00:01:21,770 And in that moment, there's true life. 21 00:01:21,770 --> 00:01:27,030 If your mind is elsewhere, you are not entirely with your tea. 22 00:01:27,030 --> 00:01:29,160 You are not there in soul. 23 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:33,340 So that the act of drinking tea is not life. 24 00:01:33,340 --> 00:01:40,920 You'll behave-- you operate like a robot and machine. 25 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,890 Your mind is not there. 26 00:01:43,890 --> 00:01:49,180 Mindful means you are full of mind. 27 00:01:49,180 --> 00:01:51,690 So when you breathe in and if you 28 00:01:51,690 --> 00:01:59,290 know that you are breathing in, that is mindful breathing. 29 00:01:59,290 --> 00:02:02,820 And when you breathe mindfully, your mind 30 00:02:02,820 --> 00:02:07,290 is back to your body, mind-body together. 31 00:02:07,290 --> 00:02:09,210 You are truly there in the here and now. 32 00:02:09,210 --> 00:02:10,710 You are fully alive. 33 00:02:10,710 --> 00:02:14,310 You are fully present. 34 00:02:14,310 --> 00:02:18,630 So mindfulness make you fully alive, fully present. 35 00:02:18,630 --> 00:02:21,210 Mindfulness is the kind of energy 36 00:02:21,210 --> 00:02:24,480 that allow you to be in the here and now, 37 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:29,880 so that you can get in touch with the wonders of life that 38 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,410 are in you and around you. 39 00:02:34,050 --> 00:02:37,160 And if you can get in touch with these wonders of life that 40 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:42,870 are refreshing, healing, nourishing, 41 00:02:42,870 --> 00:02:46,390 and you get the nourishment from it, 42 00:02:46,390 --> 00:02:50,550 you'll get the healing that you need. 43 00:02:50,550 --> 00:02:54,690 So mindfulness, first of all, is the capacity 44 00:02:54,690 --> 00:02:57,570 to be truly there in the here and now in order 45 00:02:57,570 --> 00:03:02,040 for you to get in touch with the wonders of life, 46 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,870 so that you can truly live your life. 47 00:03:06,745 --> 00:03:08,120 And when you go back to yourself, 48 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,810 you might encounter something that 49 00:03:09,810 --> 00:03:15,730 is negative, like your sorrow or your fear, anger. 50 00:03:15,730 --> 00:03:18,300 And mindfulness help you to have an opportunity 51 00:03:18,300 --> 00:03:21,210 to take care of your fear, your anger. 52 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:28,080 The energy of mindfulness may help 53 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,540 you to recognize the presence of your fear, 54 00:03:30,540 --> 00:03:33,660 your anger, your depression. 55 00:03:33,660 --> 00:03:36,480 The energy of mindfulness generated 56 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:42,990 by your mindful breathing can help you to embrace tenderly 57 00:03:42,990 --> 00:03:45,630 the fear, the sorrow that is in you, so 58 00:03:45,630 --> 00:03:47,700 that you may get a relief. 59 00:03:47,700 --> 00:03:54,960 So mindfulness can also help you to take care of yourself 60 00:03:54,960 --> 00:04:01,620 when you need to take care when you go back to yourself. 61 00:04:01,620 --> 00:04:07,010 And if you encounter the positive things 62 00:04:07,010 --> 00:04:10,290 and then you can be nourished and heal 63 00:04:10,290 --> 00:04:13,650 by these positive things, when mindfulness bring 64 00:04:13,650 --> 00:04:18,149 your mind back to your body and if you encounter some tensions, 65 00:04:18,149 --> 00:04:22,260 some pain, some sorrow, then mindfulness 66 00:04:22,260 --> 00:04:27,090 will help recognize, embrace tenderly, these emotions, 67 00:04:27,090 --> 00:04:32,670 these feelings, these pains so that you will suffer less. 68 00:04:32,670 --> 00:04:36,570 And mindfulness, if you practice regularly, 69 00:04:36,570 --> 00:04:41,960 will be stronger every day and will bring more concentration. 70 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,890 And with mindfulness and concentration, 71 00:04:43,890 --> 00:04:47,460 you can look deeply at what is there 72 00:04:47,460 --> 00:04:51,690 and you can understand deeply the nature 73 00:04:51,690 --> 00:04:58,180 of what is there, maybe your anger, your fear. 74 00:04:58,180 --> 00:05:01,710 If you know how to look deeply into the nature 75 00:05:01,710 --> 00:05:05,850 of your fear, your anger, you will get the insight 76 00:05:05,850 --> 00:05:07,230 into their nature. 77 00:05:07,230 --> 00:05:10,340 And that kind of insight will liberate you from harm 78 00:05:10,340 --> 00:05:13,200 from your fear, your anger. 79 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:17,790 So mindfulness bring concentration and mindfulness 80 00:05:17,790 --> 00:05:22,410 and concentration bring insight that is liberating. 81 00:05:22,410 --> 00:05:30,900 >> Mindfulness is conscious, curious, unattached, 82 00:05:30,900 --> 00:05:34,155 nonjudgmental awareness. 83 00:05:34,155 --> 00:05:38,130 It could be awareness of what's happening in the outside world. 84 00:05:38,130 --> 00:05:41,580 It could be awareness of what's happening in your body. 85 00:05:41,580 --> 00:05:44,700 It could be awareness of your thoughts. 86 00:05:44,700 --> 00:05:48,450 It could be awareness of images and consciousness. 87 00:05:48,450 --> 00:05:50,370 It could be awareness of emotions. 88 00:05:50,370 --> 00:05:55,710 So when you observe without judgment, that's mindfulness, 89 00:05:55,710 --> 00:05:57,340 and it's very profound. 90 00:05:57,340 --> 00:05:59,310 It's the highest form of human intelligence. 91 00:05:59,310 --> 00:06:03,240 Because in the mirror observing of yourself, because 92 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:07,060 in that sense, you're observing you, your perceptions, 93 00:06:07,060 --> 00:06:12,960 your thoughts, your sensations, your images. 94 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,600 So the highest form of human intelligence 95 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,810 is to be able to observe yourself 96 00:06:18,810 --> 00:06:20,520 without judging yourself. 97 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:25,080 And in the mirror, observation of yourself without judgment 98 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:30,070 is transformation insight, intuition, creativity, 99 00:06:30,070 --> 00:06:34,680 imagination, healing, self-repair, self-organization, 100 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:40,830 homeostasis, the tying in of your biological rhythms 101 00:06:40,830 --> 00:06:44,430 to the rhythms of the universe, which we call circadian 102 00:06:44,430 --> 00:06:48,070 rhythms and seasonal rhythms. 103 00:06:48,070 --> 00:06:49,350 It's healing, basically. 104 00:06:49,350 --> 00:06:50,785 It's your essential state. 105 00:06:50,785 --> 00:06:51,660 You're a human being. 106 00:06:51,660 --> 00:06:53,100 You're not a human doing. 107 00:06:53,100 --> 00:06:55,290 >> It's the idea of just noticing, 108 00:06:55,290 --> 00:06:57,690 just noticing in the present moment, 109 00:06:57,690 --> 00:07:02,310 without putting words to the experience and just noticing. 110 00:07:02,310 --> 00:07:04,110 Then there's the describing practice, 111 00:07:04,110 --> 00:07:08,010 which is just to put words on what the experience is. 112 00:07:08,010 --> 00:07:09,420 The flower has petals. 113 00:07:09,420 --> 00:07:12,000 The petals are red. 114 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:13,290 The smell is sweet. 115 00:07:13,290 --> 00:07:16,608 [MEDITATION CHIME] 116 00:07:19,930 --> 00:07:29,170 >> When you breathe in and if you bring your mind, 117 00:07:29,170 --> 00:07:33,810 your attention to your in breath, 118 00:07:33,810 --> 00:07:39,520 your mind stop all thinking, whether of the past, 119 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,550 of the future, of your projects. 120 00:07:41,550 --> 00:07:46,030 Your mind is focusing only on your in breathe. 121 00:07:46,030 --> 00:07:48,780 Stopping the thinking help you. 122 00:07:48,780 --> 00:07:51,870 You become your in breath. 123 00:07:51,870 --> 00:07:55,500 You are concentrated on your breath. 124 00:07:55,500 --> 00:07:58,770 And when you breathe out, you focus your attention 125 00:07:58,770 --> 00:08:00,900 on your out breath. 126 00:08:00,900 --> 00:08:02,070 You stop the thinking. 127 00:08:02,070 --> 00:08:04,050 You are only in breath. 128 00:08:04,050 --> 00:08:07,470 The only object of your mind is your 129 00:08:07,470 --> 00:08:09,210 in breath and your out breath. 130 00:08:09,210 --> 00:08:13,900 You are concentrated on your in breath, on your out breath. 131 00:08:13,900 --> 00:08:17,670 And if you continue to breathe like that for a few moments, 132 00:08:17,670 --> 00:08:20,640 the quality of your in breath and out breath 133 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,610 will be improved. 134 00:08:23,610 --> 00:08:25,620 Your in breath and out breath have 135 00:08:25,620 --> 00:08:33,210 become slower, more peaceful, more harmonious, 136 00:08:33,210 --> 00:08:34,789 and you'll feel better. 137 00:08:34,789 --> 00:08:39,170 There's a peace now, more peace now in your breathing. 138 00:08:39,170 --> 00:08:43,200 And as your breathing has become more peaceful, 139 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:47,950 your body will profit from it. 140 00:08:47,950 --> 00:08:50,820 There may be a lot of tension and pain in your body, 141 00:08:50,820 --> 00:08:54,900 but if your breath has become peaceful, 142 00:08:54,900 --> 00:08:58,230 your body will become more peaceful. 143 00:08:58,230 --> 00:09:03,840 And I would propose that when we go back to our body, now 144 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:09,510 you should recognize our body as existing. 145 00:09:09,510 --> 00:09:12,990 And you may realize that there is 146 00:09:12,990 --> 00:09:15,870 tension and pain in our body. 147 00:09:15,870 --> 00:09:22,640 So I propose the exercise breathing in, 148 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,730 I am aware of my whole body. 149 00:09:25,730 --> 00:09:31,530 Breathing out, I release the tension in my body. 150 00:09:31,530 --> 00:09:35,490 So to go back to your body to recognize 151 00:09:35,490 --> 00:09:39,300 the presence of your body is a kind of reconciliation 152 00:09:39,300 --> 00:09:44,730 because you may have not taken good care of your body. 153 00:09:44,730 --> 00:09:47,030 You may have worked your body to hard, 154 00:09:47,030 --> 00:09:50,400 and you have allowed tension and pain 155 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,940 to be accumulated into your body. 156 00:09:53,940 --> 00:09:58,740 And therefore, the mind going home to the body and 157 00:09:58,740 --> 00:10:01,920 allowed the body to release the tension. 158 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:03,120 That's very nice. 159 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:09,450 That is a practice of reconciliation with the body, 160 00:10:09,450 --> 00:10:11,760 helping the body to release the tension. 161 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,040 This is very important. 162 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:17,310 When you have some peace in your breathing, 163 00:10:17,310 --> 00:10:20,930 that peace will be extended to your body. 164 00:10:20,930 --> 00:10:27,040 And then if you have feelings that are painful emotions, 165 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:31,410 your mindfulness can help recognize these emotions, 166 00:10:31,410 --> 00:10:38,280 these painful feelings, hold them dearly, tenderly, 167 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,860 and help you to get relief. 168 00:10:40,860 --> 00:10:45,450 So first of all, you bring your mind back to your body 169 00:10:45,450 --> 00:10:47,940 and take care of your body. 170 00:10:47,940 --> 00:10:53,700 And your body will have more peace, more relaxation, 171 00:10:53,700 --> 00:10:56,100 and then you are in a position to take 172 00:10:56,100 --> 00:10:59,570 care of your feelings and your emotions. 173 00:10:59,570 --> 00:11:01,890 There are pleasant feeling. 174 00:11:01,890 --> 00:11:03,410 There are painful feeling. 175 00:11:03,410 --> 00:11:09,120 There are strong emotions that make you suffer, 176 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:12,030 so mindfulness is the kind of energy 177 00:11:12,030 --> 00:11:17,400 that can also recognize a feeling and emotion 178 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:21,690 and also help embrace tenderly that feeling, 179 00:11:21,690 --> 00:11:24,710 that emotion so that you can get a relief. 180 00:11:24,710 --> 00:11:28,020 And if you are a good practitioner, 181 00:11:28,020 --> 00:11:31,980 if you continue your practice of mindful breathing, mindful 182 00:11:31,980 --> 00:11:36,360 holding, then you can look deeply 183 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:41,490 into the roots of your feeling, of your emotion 184 00:11:41,490 --> 00:11:48,270 and find out the reasons, the causes that have 185 00:11:48,270 --> 00:11:51,750 brought that feeling to you. 186 00:11:51,750 --> 00:11:55,320 And that kind of looking deeply is called meditation. 187 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,920 It identifies sources of suffering. 188 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:04,140 And once you have identified the roots of your being, 189 00:12:04,140 --> 00:12:07,830 you can get the liberation that you need. 190 00:12:07,830 --> 00:12:12,240 It's like when your doctor has identified your sickness, 191 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,880 and then he can propose you to use 192 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,400 the kind of medicine, the kind of life that 193 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:23,760 can help end the sickness. 194 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:30,480 So mindfulness and concentration helped bring a relief, 195 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:35,000 help you to understand deep root to your suffering, 196 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:39,600 help you to see the path leading to the healing, 197 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,160 the transformation. 198 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,780 >> Yes, mindfulness heals because in mindfulness, 199 00:12:43,780 --> 00:12:46,540 there's equanimity. 200 00:12:46,540 --> 00:12:50,640 And when there is equanimity, then you're 201 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,410 sustained in that equanimity. 202 00:12:53,410 --> 00:12:58,320 There's joy, and when there's joy and equanimity, 203 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,410 there's the birth in that of compassion. 204 00:13:01,410 --> 00:13:06,300 And all of those things actually cause your body 205 00:13:06,300 --> 00:13:09,480 to go to its essential state, which 206 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,280 we call in medicine-- we call it homeostasis, 207 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,330 which is self-regulation. 208 00:13:15,330 --> 00:13:18,480 In our society, people are doing, doing, doing, 209 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,940 and it's mostly mindless doing. 210 00:13:20,940 --> 00:13:22,830 Then, of course, they're thinking a lot, 211 00:13:22,830 --> 00:13:25,620 and it's mostly about themselves. 212 00:13:25,620 --> 00:13:27,270 There's no creative thinking, other 213 00:13:27,270 --> 00:13:30,690 than in the creative fields. 214 00:13:30,690 --> 00:13:38,370 But even that is mostly what I call simulated creativity. 215 00:13:38,370 --> 00:13:40,290 It's not real creativity. 216 00:13:40,290 --> 00:13:44,122 There's very little feeling, and there's no being. 217 00:13:44,122 --> 00:13:48,660 And mindfulness reverses the whole thing spontaneously. 218 00:13:48,660 --> 00:13:51,390 When you're mindful, you're in the state of being. 219 00:13:51,390 --> 00:13:52,990 And when you're in the state of being, 220 00:13:52,990 --> 00:13:56,970 it spontaneously awakens love and compassion. 221 00:13:56,970 --> 00:13:59,880 And when you're there, then it spontaneously 222 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,570 unfolds into creativity, and then you do the right thing. 223 00:14:03,570 --> 00:14:07,110 >> Breathe your life. 224 00:14:07,110 --> 00:14:11,570 It means nothing, and it means everything. 225 00:14:11,570 --> 00:14:18,900 It depends on our state of mind because as my brother shared 226 00:14:18,900 --> 00:14:21,010 earlier, all of us, we breathe. 227 00:14:21,010 --> 00:14:24,430 In the womb, mother breathed for us, and the moment 228 00:14:24,430 --> 00:14:28,080 that we are born and we start to cry, 229 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,775 that's our first in breath. 230 00:14:29,775 --> 00:14:32,220 And so however old we are right now, 231 00:14:32,220 --> 00:14:33,900 we have breathed all our lives. 232 00:14:33,900 --> 00:14:36,600 But for most of us, it means nothing 233 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,770 because we're not aware of it. 234 00:14:38,770 --> 00:14:41,370 There's a breathing center in the brain that 235 00:14:41,370 --> 00:14:47,100 takes care of it, and so we do not have to think about it. 236 00:14:47,100 --> 00:14:48,810 We do not have to be aware of it. 237 00:14:48,810 --> 00:14:53,070 It's done automatically, and so that's the life 238 00:14:53,070 --> 00:14:55,560 that we have also continues. 239 00:14:55,560 --> 00:15:00,240 It can continue automatically because the body 240 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,630 has an amazing capacity to take care of itself, 241 00:15:03,630 --> 00:15:05,390 to regulate itself. 242 00:15:05,390 --> 00:15:09,270 And so breathe is something can be very automatic 243 00:15:09,270 --> 00:15:11,760 and to be alive can be-- there is something also 244 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,130 very automatic for our whole lives. 245 00:15:17,130 --> 00:15:20,640 But a person who learns to be aware 246 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:26,310 that he or she is breathing, then it changes everything. 247 00:15:26,310 --> 00:15:29,620 And a person who learns that he or she is alive, 248 00:15:29,620 --> 00:15:34,380 it really changes everything, the health, the mental health, 249 00:15:34,380 --> 00:15:37,930 and also the physical health. 250 00:15:37,930 --> 00:15:45,300 So in that way, the awareness of the body, which is the breath-- 251 00:15:45,300 --> 00:15:46,470 we start with the breath. 252 00:15:46,470 --> 00:15:48,770 We learn to be aware of that, and we 253 00:15:48,770 --> 00:15:56,610 learn to touch the changes in the breath, the changes 254 00:15:56,610 --> 00:15:59,700 in the breathing patterns. 255 00:15:59,700 --> 00:16:03,450 And through that, we learn to be more aware of our body. 256 00:16:03,450 --> 00:16:07,610 Right now, some of us are quite relaxed and some of us 257 00:16:07,610 --> 00:16:08,873 are less relaxed. 258 00:16:08,873 --> 00:16:11,580 But if we are aware of our breathing, 259 00:16:11,580 --> 00:16:16,050 we will be more aware of whether we are relaxed or less relaxed. 260 00:16:16,050 --> 00:16:19,090 So we are in touch with the body. 261 00:16:19,090 --> 00:16:21,180 And when we are aware of our breath, 262 00:16:21,180 --> 00:16:25,230 also we are aware of our mind because when we have anger, 263 00:16:25,230 --> 00:16:27,090 we breathe differently. 264 00:16:27,090 --> 00:16:31,270 When we have sadness, worries, we breathe differently. 265 00:16:31,270 --> 00:16:34,080 So what do we learn to be aware, more and more aware 266 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,530 of the patterns of our breathing and abrupt changes 267 00:16:37,530 --> 00:16:40,020 in every moment, then we learn to be 268 00:16:40,020 --> 00:16:43,320 aware of what's going on in our mind, what's 269 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,470 going on in our thoughts and perceptions that 270 00:16:46,470 --> 00:16:50,450 causes that change that breathing pattern. 271 00:16:50,450 --> 00:16:55,240 And so it makes life very dynamic, very lively. 272 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,290 >> I actually think that mindfulness should be 273 00:16:58,290 --> 00:17:02,550 the centerpiece of psychiatric treatment because in the West, 274 00:17:02,550 --> 00:17:04,290 we are so scientifically oriented. 275 00:17:04,290 --> 00:17:08,040 So if we put mindfulness to rigorous scientific 276 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,440 experimentation, we find that it has 277 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:14,740 ways of working with the mind that calm the mind. 278 00:17:14,740 --> 00:17:19,109 And I think that in today's world, 279 00:17:19,109 --> 00:17:23,190 where everything is a disorder-- we're pathologizing 280 00:17:23,190 --> 00:17:25,619 everything-- 281 00:17:25,619 --> 00:17:31,530 that mindfulness has a core and central role in healing. 282 00:17:31,530 --> 00:17:34,785 [MEDITATION CHIME] 283 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:43,110 >> If you are mindful, if you are truly there, 284 00:17:43,110 --> 00:17:46,254 you are truly there in the here and the now. 285 00:17:46,254 --> 00:17:49,060 You are concentrating. 286 00:17:49,060 --> 00:17:51,840 And drinking your tea in mindfulness 287 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:55,390 is a spirituality already. 288 00:17:55,390 --> 00:18:00,330 So when you look at one person-- 289 00:18:00,330 --> 00:18:04,190 if you are truly aware that he is there, she is there-- 290 00:18:04,190 --> 00:18:06,580 in that person, there is suffering. 291 00:18:06,580 --> 00:18:10,530 There is the need to transform. 292 00:18:10,530 --> 00:18:12,120 And if you can look at him or her 293 00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:14,250 with compassion and understanding like that, 294 00:18:14,250 --> 00:18:17,260 that is spirituality already. 295 00:18:17,260 --> 00:18:22,440 And when you take a step, and if you are aware 296 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,930 that you are making this step, that you 297 00:18:24,930 --> 00:18:33,060 are walk, that you touch the earth with your foot mindfully, 298 00:18:33,060 --> 00:18:36,960 and that is a spiritual act also. 299 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,090 There is a gatha-- 300 00:18:42,430 --> 00:18:49,120 placing your foot on the ground is to perform a miracle. 301 00:18:52,370 --> 00:18:55,760 Every mindful step help reveal to you 302 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:59,450 the Kingdom of God, the pure land of the Buddha. 303 00:18:59,450 --> 00:19:02,810 So walking with mindfulness can help 304 00:19:02,810 --> 00:19:04,940 you touch all the wonders of life that 305 00:19:04,940 --> 00:19:07,900 are available in the here and now, 306 00:19:07,900 --> 00:19:11,540 and that's very nourishing and healing. 307 00:19:11,540 --> 00:19:15,110 Many of us walk like sleepwalkers. 308 00:19:15,110 --> 00:19:17,150 We don't enjoy our steps. 309 00:19:17,150 --> 00:19:23,060 Our mind is elsewhere in our projects, in the future. 310 00:19:23,060 --> 00:19:26,960 So you don't get the healing, the transformation. 311 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:30,320 You don't touch the Kingdom of God, 312 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:34,700 with all the wonders, the blue sky, the flowers that 313 00:19:34,700 --> 00:19:39,800 are blooming, the green hills, children 314 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,510 who are playing around you. 315 00:19:41,510 --> 00:19:44,180 They all belong to the Kingdom of God, 316 00:19:44,180 --> 00:19:47,640 to the pure land of the Buddha, and if you are truly the here 317 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:49,140 and now, you can get in touch. 318 00:19:52,360 --> 00:19:58,070 So you can live your spiritual life 319 00:19:58,070 --> 00:20:00,800 in every minute of your daily life. 320 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:06,340 Whether you are driving, eating, cooking, washing, 321 00:20:06,340 --> 00:20:10,520 your life can be spiritual in every moment. 322 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:15,610 And if you have enough healing and peace in you, 323 00:20:15,610 --> 00:20:20,628 everything you do and you say will help people around you. 324 00:20:20,628 --> 00:20:23,170 >> Being mindful helps you be a better actor because it helps 325 00:20:23,170 --> 00:20:27,040 you be a better listener, and I think being a better listener 326 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,280 is the root of being a better actor. 327 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,860 >> In other words, I'm not a dog whisperer, 328 00:20:32,860 --> 00:20:37,240 I'm a dog listener because I'm listening from the moment I am 329 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,620 20 feet in front of a dog. 330 00:20:38,620 --> 00:20:40,330 I know how he feels. 331 00:20:40,330 --> 00:20:42,440 The dog is talking. 332 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,170 They're just a human not listening. 333 00:20:44,170 --> 00:20:46,790 What dog whisper means to me is the human 334 00:20:46,790 --> 00:20:48,725 who knows how to listen. 335 00:20:48,725 --> 00:20:51,100 It's not the human who is whispering in the ear of a dog. 336 00:20:51,100 --> 00:20:51,900 That's a myth. 337 00:20:51,900 --> 00:20:53,350 That's a beautiful title. 338 00:20:53,350 --> 00:20:56,650 That's very magical, but it's not reality. 339 00:20:56,650 --> 00:20:58,270 The human tells you the story. 340 00:20:58,270 --> 00:20:59,520 The dog tells you the reality. 341 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,782 [MEDITATION CHIME] 342 00:21:06,050 --> 00:21:12,380 >> Many people are not capable of being happy in the present 343 00:21:12,380 --> 00:21:14,360 moment. 344 00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:17,660 They think it is impossible for them 345 00:21:17,660 --> 00:21:20,510 to be happy right now, right here. 346 00:21:20,510 --> 00:21:24,700 They need more conditions to be happy, so many of them 347 00:21:24,700 --> 00:21:30,230 are looking for happiness in the future or elsewhere. 348 00:21:30,230 --> 00:21:33,350 But according to the teaching of the Buddha, 349 00:21:33,350 --> 00:21:39,230 you have enough conditions to be happy right here and right now. 350 00:21:39,230 --> 00:21:42,770 And mindfulness help you to go home to the present moment 351 00:21:42,770 --> 00:21:46,690 and to recognize these conditions of happiness that 352 00:21:46,690 --> 00:21:49,580 are available. 353 00:21:49,580 --> 00:21:51,230 In the teaching of [? Wudai, ?] it is 354 00:21:51,230 --> 00:21:55,760 said that it is possible to live happily 355 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,280 right in the here and the now. 356 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:03,080 And that is why the practice of mindful breathing, mindful 357 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:08,390 walking can bring you home to the here and the now. 358 00:22:08,390 --> 00:22:10,760 The past is only gone. 359 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,770 The future is not yet there. 360 00:22:12,770 --> 00:22:18,470 You only have one moment where you can live your life deeply. 361 00:22:18,470 --> 00:22:21,100 That is the present moment. 362 00:22:21,100 --> 00:22:24,150 And you have an appointment with life, 363 00:22:24,150 --> 00:22:27,330 and that appointment takes place in the present moment. 364 00:22:27,330 --> 00:22:30,270 And if you miss that present moment, 365 00:22:30,270 --> 00:22:32,990 you'll miss your appointment with life. 366 00:22:32,990 --> 00:22:36,890 Therefore, I have arrived means I have 367 00:22:36,890 --> 00:22:39,720 arrived in the present moment. 368 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:44,630 so that I can meet with life and come to life. 369 00:22:44,630 --> 00:22:47,000 I have arrived in the here and the now. 370 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,220 It means I don't run anymore. 371 00:22:49,220 --> 00:22:52,520 I have-- I do not want to run anymore. 372 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:59,420 I have run all my life, and that is why I am determined to stop. 373 00:22:59,420 --> 00:23:03,140 So every breath, every step brings me back 374 00:23:03,140 --> 00:23:05,180 to the here and the now, so that I 375 00:23:05,180 --> 00:23:09,110 can be established in the here and the now 376 00:23:09,110 --> 00:23:13,290 to encounter the wonders of life that are available. 377 00:23:13,290 --> 00:23:17,660 So I have arrived means I don't want to run anymore. 378 00:23:17,660 --> 00:23:22,970 I want to touch life deeply, and life can be touched deeply only 379 00:23:22,970 --> 00:23:25,070 in the here and the now. 380 00:23:25,070 --> 00:23:29,810 And my home is in the here and the now, 381 00:23:29,810 --> 00:23:31,310 and if you look deeply, you will see 382 00:23:31,310 --> 00:23:33,980 that the Kingdom of God, the pure land of the Buddha 383 00:23:33,980 --> 00:23:36,600 and your happiness must be sought, 384 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:41,830 must be found in the here and the now. 385 00:23:41,830 --> 00:23:44,330 We used to say that the kingdom is now or never. 386 00:23:46,940 --> 00:23:49,140 There is no way to happiness. 387 00:23:49,140 --> 00:23:50,360 Happiness is the way. 388 00:23:50,360 --> 00:23:54,510 You have to find happiness right in the here and the now. 389 00:23:54,510 --> 00:23:57,170 So I have arrived. 390 00:23:57,170 --> 00:23:58,940 I am home. 391 00:23:58,940 --> 00:24:01,220 It means that I am fully established 392 00:24:01,220 --> 00:24:02,590 in the present moment. 393 00:24:02,590 --> 00:24:04,040 I am truly alive. 394 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,250 I am truly, fully present. 395 00:24:07,250 --> 00:24:09,450 And that is not a statement. 396 00:24:09,450 --> 00:24:11,550 That is a practice. 397 00:24:11,550 --> 00:24:14,810 And you breathe in such a way, you walk in such a way 398 00:24:14,810 --> 00:24:17,060 that every breath, every step brings you 399 00:24:17,060 --> 00:24:19,730 home to the here and the now. 400 00:24:19,730 --> 00:24:23,790 And you are free from your worries, from your despair, 401 00:24:23,790 --> 00:24:25,820 from your regret. 402 00:24:25,820 --> 00:24:30,350 And getting in touch with the wonders of life that 403 00:24:30,350 --> 00:24:33,680 are refreshing and hearing and nourishing, 404 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,290 you get the healing that you need. 405 00:24:35,290 --> 00:24:38,190 You get the nourishment you need. 406 00:24:38,190 --> 00:24:42,290 And after that, you can be helpful to the people 407 00:24:42,290 --> 00:24:43,430 around you. 408 00:24:43,430 --> 00:24:45,770 >> Recently, there is research on meditation-- 409 00:24:45,770 --> 00:24:48,860 and I'm sure it applies to mindfulness as well-- 410 00:24:48,860 --> 00:24:55,640 is that it increases the level of an enzyme called telomerase. 411 00:24:55,640 --> 00:25:01,260 Telomerase influences the length of little telomeres, 412 00:25:01,260 --> 00:25:04,490 which are like buttons at the end of your shoe laces. 413 00:25:04,490 --> 00:25:08,450 Like, your chromosomes have these buttons similar to that. 414 00:25:08,450 --> 00:25:11,060 As we get older, these buttons or-- 415 00:25:11,060 --> 00:25:13,710 they're called telomeres-- they start to fray, 416 00:25:13,710 --> 00:25:16,550 and then when they start to fray to a certain level, 417 00:25:16,550 --> 00:25:18,770 that's biological death. 418 00:25:18,770 --> 00:25:21,470 And we measure the biological clock 419 00:25:21,470 --> 00:25:22,960 through the length of telomeres. 420 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,480 Now, just a few months ago, there 421 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,390 was a study that was done by scientists here in California. 422 00:25:29,390 --> 00:25:31,220 One of the authors of the study is 423 00:25:31,220 --> 00:25:34,610 the woman who won the Nobel Prize for discovering 424 00:25:34,610 --> 00:25:38,570 telomerase, and they showed that within three to four months 425 00:25:38,570 --> 00:25:40,990 of meditative practice, mindfulness, 426 00:25:40,990 --> 00:25:42,680 you increase telomerase. 427 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,660 So you're changing your biological clock. 428 00:25:44,660 --> 00:25:47,480 >> First benefit is you're a happy person. 429 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:53,100 And when I'm under the weather that I'm happy. 430 00:25:53,100 --> 00:25:56,300 And when I handle a piece of bread, 431 00:25:56,300 --> 00:25:58,370 I do not need to think anything. 432 00:25:58,370 --> 00:26:04,160 Oh, it's come from the sky, the good rain, the good farmer, 433 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:08,000 the good harvest, a lot of love, a lot of care. 434 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,110 I leave the present moment, but I 435 00:26:11,110 --> 00:26:15,970 taste the whole universe in that wonderful way, and I'm happy. 436 00:26:15,970 --> 00:26:19,030 >> Would I say animals are more mindfully than humans? 437 00:26:19,030 --> 00:26:23,140 A horse, a cat, a dolphin, a dog will know exactly how you feel, 438 00:26:23,140 --> 00:26:26,620 regardless how different they are as a species. 439 00:26:26,620 --> 00:26:32,080 Energy is a universal language that all animals 440 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:36,370 have the capability to be mindfully aware. 441 00:26:36,370 --> 00:26:38,950 >> If one has a spiritual radiance about him, 442 00:26:38,950 --> 00:26:40,420 you sense it. 443 00:26:40,420 --> 00:26:41,470 You sense in the eyes. 444 00:26:41,470 --> 00:26:43,720 You sense it in their demeanor, and that person 445 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,800 can generally lift up the spirits of the people 446 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:46,600 around him. 447 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,600 That's what's remarkable all over the world, 448 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:50,811 everywhere I've gone. 449 00:26:50,811 --> 00:26:54,248 [MEDITATION CHIME] 450 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:03,695 When anger comes up, you feel-- 451 00:27:07,380 --> 00:27:08,360 you suffer. 452 00:27:08,360 --> 00:27:10,180 You suffer. 453 00:27:10,180 --> 00:27:18,180 And if you allow anger to possess you, to overwhelm you, 454 00:27:18,180 --> 00:27:27,590 you go hurt or say things that will create suffering. 455 00:27:27,590 --> 00:27:33,320 When anger comes up, if you don't practice, 456 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:37,820 you will suffer, and you will make people around you suffer. 457 00:27:37,820 --> 00:27:40,880 And if you are a practitioner, you 458 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,750 know what to do when anger is coming up. 459 00:27:44,750 --> 00:27:48,350 You go back to your breathing. 460 00:27:48,350 --> 00:27:50,310 You practice mindful breathing. 461 00:27:50,310 --> 00:27:54,080 You generate the energy of mindfulness, 462 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,720 and with that energy of mindfulness, 463 00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,230 you recognize that anger is in you. 464 00:28:00,230 --> 00:28:03,780 Breathing in, I know anger is in me. 465 00:28:03,780 --> 00:28:06,930 Breathing out, I'm taking good care of my anger. 466 00:28:06,930 --> 00:28:10,370 I'm holding it peacefully. 467 00:28:10,370 --> 00:28:13,370 And the energy of mindfulness embracing the energy 468 00:28:13,370 --> 00:28:17,180 of anger, although energy of anger is still there, 469 00:28:17,180 --> 00:28:21,260 but you are much safer because mindfulness is also there. 470 00:28:21,260 --> 00:28:23,330 Mindfulness tell you that anger-- 471 00:28:23,330 --> 00:28:27,890 while you are anger, is not goo say anything, to do anything. 472 00:28:27,890 --> 00:28:31,080 It may cause damage. 473 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,110 So do you just continue to practice 474 00:28:33,110 --> 00:28:35,990 mindful breathing, mindful walking, 475 00:28:35,990 --> 00:28:38,510 so that you can take care of your anger. 476 00:28:38,510 --> 00:28:45,000 And you get a relief, and if you practice looking more deeply, 477 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,020 you will see the roots of your anger 478 00:28:48,020 --> 00:28:55,400 and the cause of your suffering might be in you, not 479 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,380 in the other person. 480 00:28:57,380 --> 00:28:59,690 And if you recognize things like that, 481 00:28:59,690 --> 00:29:04,390 you can transform your anger. 482 00:29:04,390 --> 00:29:10,940 Sometime, many times, the seat of anger in you 483 00:29:10,940 --> 00:29:14,200 is very important. 484 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,220 Other people, when they hear the same sentence, 485 00:29:16,220 --> 00:29:17,320 they don't get angry. 486 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,840 But you, you get angry because of the seat of anger in you 487 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,180 is too important. 488 00:29:23,180 --> 00:29:25,400 So you now-- you have the insight 489 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,310 that the suffering comes from you more than 490 00:29:28,310 --> 00:29:29,930 from the other person. 491 00:29:29,930 --> 00:29:34,940 So that is the kind of insight that can help you to transform. 492 00:29:34,940 --> 00:29:39,410 And then when you look deeply at the other person, 493 00:29:39,410 --> 00:29:43,970 you see that that person has a lot of anger and suffering 494 00:29:43,970 --> 00:29:45,680 in him. 495 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:51,140 And he does not know how to handle his suffering, 496 00:29:51,140 --> 00:29:55,340 so he makes people around him suffer, 497 00:29:55,340 --> 00:29:58,110 and you happen to be one of them. 498 00:29:58,110 --> 00:30:01,220 So if you try to punish him, he will suffer more, 499 00:30:01,220 --> 00:30:04,220 and if he suffer more, he will make you suffer more. 500 00:30:04,220 --> 00:30:10,160 So that person needs help and does not need punishment. 501 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:15,530 And you may be motivated by the desire to go and help him. 502 00:30:15,530 --> 00:30:19,010 And when you are motivated by a desire to go and help him, 503 00:30:19,010 --> 00:30:22,070 your anger has become compassion. 504 00:30:22,070 --> 00:30:25,670 You have transformed, so that is the kind of insight 505 00:30:25,670 --> 00:30:27,800 that you can get when you practice 506 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:32,090 mindfulness and concentration. 507 00:30:32,090 --> 00:30:38,840 >> The human brain is a very fascinating, three pound, soft, 508 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,100 jello-like organ inside the skull, 509 00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:44,630 which is more complicated than anything else in the universe. 510 00:30:44,630 --> 00:30:46,280 We have three parts to our brain. 511 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,560 The first part of the brain is called the midbrain. 512 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,250 It's also called the reptilian brain. 513 00:30:52,250 --> 00:30:56,600 The reptilian brain evolved 300 million years ago. 514 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,730 The reason it's called the reptilian brain 515 00:30:58,730 --> 00:31:00,310 is that when you go next to a reptile 516 00:31:00,310 --> 00:31:03,440 and you either make a sudden movement or a sudden noise, 517 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,080 if you're very close, the reptile will attack you. 518 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,560 If you're a little further away, it will slither away. 519 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,080 This is the beginning of what we call the fight or flight 520 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:16,460 response, and this then becomes, in our society, 521 00:31:16,460 --> 00:31:18,500 the stress response. 522 00:31:18,500 --> 00:31:20,810 You're not trying to save yourself from a saber tooth 523 00:31:20,810 --> 00:31:24,450 tiger, but somebody blows the horn at you 524 00:31:24,450 --> 00:31:26,625 or somebody says something that triggers, 525 00:31:26,625 --> 00:31:30,470 and all the hurt pushes your buttons 526 00:31:30,470 --> 00:31:32,600 and you attack or you run. 527 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,510 And sometimes you're not attacking or running, 528 00:31:35,510 --> 00:31:38,690 but you feel frustrated and that raises your blood pressure. 529 00:31:38,690 --> 00:31:39,800 Heart rate goes up. 530 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,960 Cortisol goes up. 531 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,230 Adrenaline goes up. 532 00:31:45,230 --> 00:31:50,120 Stress is linked to almost every major epidemic of civilization. 533 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,780 Whether it is cancer or heart disease or infections 534 00:31:53,780 --> 00:31:59,540 or premature aging, sudden death from cardiovascular illness, 535 00:31:59,540 --> 00:32:01,380 all linked to stress. 536 00:32:01,380 --> 00:32:05,330 And this is what the stress is, the midbrain reacting as it 537 00:32:05,330 --> 00:32:08,480 has done for 300 million years. 538 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,180 Then the second part of your brain 539 00:32:10,180 --> 00:32:12,350 is called the limbic brain, which 540 00:32:12,350 --> 00:32:16,370 is about 100 million years old. 541 00:32:16,370 --> 00:32:17,930 This is our emotional brain. 542 00:32:17,930 --> 00:32:20,720 So we have basically five emotions, 543 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,300 and everything else is a variant of them. 544 00:32:23,300 --> 00:32:27,935 The first emotion is happiness, so love, compassion, kindness. 545 00:32:27,935 --> 00:32:29,055 They all fit in happiness. 546 00:32:29,055 --> 00:32:32,100 It makes you happy when you're in love. 547 00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:34,740 The second emotion is sadness. 548 00:32:34,740 --> 00:32:37,270 The third is anger and hostility. 549 00:32:37,270 --> 00:32:40,020 The fourth is fear. 550 00:32:40,020 --> 00:32:44,910 The fifth is shame, and what do you call-- 551 00:32:44,910 --> 00:32:48,210 guilt. And every other emotion-- 552 00:32:48,210 --> 00:32:51,680 disgust, jealousy-- is a variant of these. 553 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,300 Now, it turns out that when you're happy-- 554 00:32:54,300 --> 00:32:56,380 and this happens only in mammals. 555 00:32:56,380 --> 00:32:59,280 Reptiles don't have a emotional life. 556 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,540 But all mammals form social groups. 557 00:33:03,540 --> 00:33:06,540 All mammals nurture their young. 558 00:33:06,540 --> 00:33:09,730 Believe it or not, all mammals sing. 559 00:33:09,730 --> 00:33:14,820 All mammals play, and this is the experience 560 00:33:14,820 --> 00:33:18,510 of what we call love that occurs immediately 561 00:33:18,510 --> 00:33:22,290 after a child is born and even in the anticipation of a child. 562 00:33:22,290 --> 00:33:24,390 And it turns out that our feedback loops, 563 00:33:24,390 --> 00:33:27,120 self-repair mechanisms in the body, 564 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,320 are matured and come into existence 565 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,590 as a result of the experience of love. 566 00:33:34,590 --> 00:33:39,090 If we don't have that attention, affection, appreciation, 567 00:33:39,090 --> 00:33:43,590 cooing cuddling, kissing, touching, 568 00:33:43,590 --> 00:33:46,470 the dance between an adult and a child, 569 00:33:46,470 --> 00:33:51,600 which is eye movements, facial expressions, body language, 570 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:52,875 voice tone-- 571 00:33:52,875 --> 00:33:55,620 a child doesn't understand rational language 572 00:33:55,620 --> 00:33:58,790 but understands that language from day one, OK? 573 00:33:58,790 --> 00:34:02,070 And that is it responsible for the maturation 574 00:34:02,070 --> 00:34:05,460 of self-repair mechanisms and self-regulation. 575 00:34:05,460 --> 00:34:10,560 If you're deprived of that, you will be a sick adult. 576 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,350 When you grow up, your everything 577 00:34:13,350 --> 00:34:15,540 will be affected because the self-repair is linked 578 00:34:15,540 --> 00:34:17,909 to hormone levels, body temperature 579 00:34:17,909 --> 00:34:21,540 regulation, autonomic responses, everything 580 00:34:21,540 --> 00:34:23,790 that keeps the body healthy. 581 00:34:23,790 --> 00:34:25,500 That's our limbic brain. 582 00:34:25,500 --> 00:34:29,010 Most people have dysfunctional limbic systems, 583 00:34:29,010 --> 00:34:32,650 in that they're resentful or angry about the past. 584 00:34:32,650 --> 00:34:36,590 They're anticipating something fear in the future. 585 00:34:36,590 --> 00:34:38,610 They have shame and guilt about things 586 00:34:38,610 --> 00:34:40,960 that they regret that they shouldn't have done. 587 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,630 And as a result, you their biological systems 588 00:34:44,630 --> 00:34:47,969 are totally disrupted. 589 00:34:47,969 --> 00:34:50,790 But on the other hand, when you have what the Buddhists call 590 00:34:50,790 --> 00:34:59,820 loving-kindness, joy, peace of mind, and compassion-- 591 00:34:59,820 --> 00:35:02,760 the Buddhists call them divine attributes-- 592 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:08,790 in that state your body's the best it could possibly be, OK? 593 00:35:08,790 --> 00:35:11,040 So that's your limbic brain, and then you 594 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,620 have this cortical brain, which is huge, 595 00:35:13,620 --> 00:35:15,870 which is only four million years old. 596 00:35:15,870 --> 00:35:19,410 The cortical brain houses rationality. 597 00:35:19,410 --> 00:35:24,090 It's also responsible for orchestrating intention, 598 00:35:24,090 --> 00:35:26,940 and it seems this is the place we 599 00:35:26,940 --> 00:35:32,010 use for imagination and insight and intuition and creativity. 600 00:35:32,010 --> 00:35:33,060 Now, here's the secret. 601 00:35:33,060 --> 00:35:35,490 In mindfulness, what you can learn to do-- 602 00:35:35,490 --> 00:35:38,850 and this is proven scientifically-- 603 00:35:38,850 --> 00:35:44,010 you can totally override your midbrain. 604 00:35:44,010 --> 00:35:46,710 So a person like Thich Nhat Hahn, for example, 605 00:35:46,710 --> 00:35:50,670 for all practical purposes, his midbrain 606 00:35:50,670 --> 00:35:53,790 is no longer functioning. 607 00:35:53,790 --> 00:35:58,980 You can't get him to be angry or feel hostility or resentful. 608 00:35:58,980 --> 00:36:04,290 He's just-- he's quieted it through mindfulness practice. 609 00:36:04,290 --> 00:36:08,070 And if you sustain that mindfulness practice, 610 00:36:08,070 --> 00:36:12,270 you feel so connected that spontaneously, 611 00:36:12,270 --> 00:36:15,510 your limbic system starts to get activated so you nurture only 612 00:36:15,510 --> 00:36:18,740 healthy emotions, like love, compassion, joy, et 613 00:36:18,740 --> 00:36:22,050 cetera, that come from that place of equanimity. 614 00:36:22,050 --> 00:36:24,960 So you're using your cortical brain 615 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:31,560 to, first of all, override the detrimental, destructive 616 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,240 tendencies of the midbrain, which 617 00:36:33,240 --> 00:36:37,680 is no longer relevant in the modern society, 618 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,720 and you're also activating the limbic brain 619 00:36:39,720 --> 00:36:41,130 for nurturing relationships. 620 00:36:41,130 --> 00:36:44,640 You're literally rewiring your nervous system. 621 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,220 In neuroscience, we say neurons that fire together 622 00:36:47,220 --> 00:36:48,390 wire together. 623 00:36:48,390 --> 00:36:50,820 You're an intelligent human being 624 00:36:50,820 --> 00:36:55,170 who has subdued the reptilian brain, who 625 00:36:55,170 --> 00:36:57,990 knows how to activate the limbic brain, who 626 00:36:57,990 --> 00:37:00,450 knows how to self-repair and heal, 627 00:37:00,450 --> 00:37:04,890 who has more intuition, insight, imagination, creativity, 628 00:37:04,890 --> 00:37:05,970 and choice making. 629 00:37:05,970 --> 00:37:08,670 It's a new evolution of the human species. 630 00:37:08,670 --> 00:37:13,410 >> Imagine a situation where your day was going fine. 631 00:37:13,410 --> 00:37:16,620 Someone looked at you in a way that you 632 00:37:16,620 --> 00:37:19,830 imagined was attacking, accusatory, or judgmental, 633 00:37:19,830 --> 00:37:21,270 and you get angry. 634 00:37:21,270 --> 00:37:25,200 Now, whereas in the past, you might have become very angry 635 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,750 and disregulated and done behaviors that got you 636 00:37:29,750 --> 00:37:31,750 into more trouble, whether it's drugs or alcohol 637 00:37:31,750 --> 00:37:35,110 or whatever it is, what you do with mindfulness 638 00:37:35,110 --> 00:37:39,340 is you pay attention to what is in this present moment. 639 00:37:39,340 --> 00:37:40,690 What happened? 640 00:37:40,690 --> 00:37:42,790 Describe what happened. 641 00:37:42,790 --> 00:37:48,370 The person looked at me from the side of their face. 642 00:37:48,370 --> 00:37:50,440 They seem to have a frown. 643 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,040 Whatever it is that you're describing, 644 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:56,890 you're describing what is, not what you imagine it to be. 645 00:37:56,890 --> 00:38:01,540 And by doing that, it gives you a fighting chance 646 00:38:01,540 --> 00:38:04,040 of staying a lot calmer than what you could have gone, 647 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,800 because once you start describing, 648 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,090 then you also have the opportunity to be curious. 649 00:38:08,090 --> 00:38:10,120 You might ask the person, hey, why did you 650 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,080 give me that bad look? 651 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,700 He say, what bad look? 652 00:38:12,700 --> 00:38:16,350 I have gastric problems from the burrito I had at lunch today, 653 00:38:16,350 --> 00:38:18,080 and maybe I was grimacing. 654 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:18,880 I mean, who knows? 655 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,497 >> We should be listening to each other. 656 00:38:21,497 --> 00:38:22,330 You see what I mean? 657 00:38:22,330 --> 00:38:27,850 Because often, it's little things that we misinterpret 658 00:38:27,850 --> 00:38:31,390 and we go into fight/flight avoidance between you and I. 659 00:38:31,390 --> 00:38:33,130 We don't go into surrender. 660 00:38:33,130 --> 00:38:34,970 But once we listen, we understand. 661 00:38:34,970 --> 00:38:36,820 Oh, I get it. 662 00:38:36,820 --> 00:38:39,070 >> During the day, these always-- 663 00:38:39,070 --> 00:38:44,050 life never unfold exactly like we wish, 664 00:38:44,050 --> 00:38:47,620 and so we have to expect that when people promise something, 665 00:38:47,620 --> 00:38:48,700 they don't do it. 666 00:38:48,700 --> 00:38:51,460 And it's normal that we feel irritate. 667 00:38:51,460 --> 00:38:54,220 But we feel irritate, we say that when I'm irritate, 668 00:38:54,220 --> 00:38:58,330 I do not fulfill my task in the best way. 669 00:38:58,330 --> 00:39:01,000 So I go back to my in breath and out breath 670 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,870 and calming and relaxing and say that I will do it. 671 00:39:04,870 --> 00:39:08,200 So you note that unsatisfied thing, 672 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:12,280 and you do other thing who make you not irritate first. 673 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,210 You come back. 674 00:39:13,210 --> 00:39:14,080 You will come back. 675 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,910 But while you do the other job profoundly, 676 00:39:17,910 --> 00:39:21,340 the other things will settle a little bit. 677 00:39:21,340 --> 00:39:23,352 And then sometime during your work-- 678 00:39:23,352 --> 00:39:25,810 the second work have nothing to do with the first work that 679 00:39:25,810 --> 00:39:27,190 make you irritate. 680 00:39:27,190 --> 00:39:29,390 Second, work mindfully-- suddenly 681 00:39:29,390 --> 00:39:33,100 that is an insight because your irritation 682 00:39:33,100 --> 00:39:35,770 send the message into your soul consciousness. 683 00:39:35,770 --> 00:39:39,400 It mean the deep part of yourself, your unconscious. 684 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,440 That person is always like that. 685 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:42,710 He has that quality. 686 00:39:42,710 --> 00:39:44,610 He has that weakness. 687 00:39:44,610 --> 00:39:48,790 So suddenly, you remember that to handle that situation, 688 00:39:48,790 --> 00:39:50,920 you have to touch that point in order 689 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,070 to help him to change or help her to change. 690 00:39:54,070 --> 00:39:55,760 So and then you go back to your work. 691 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,730 You say, that, I don't handle yet. 692 00:39:57,730 --> 00:40:01,045 >> You're listening to the outcome, not the fundamentals. 693 00:40:01,045 --> 00:40:02,920 So it's fundamentals, technique, and outcome. 694 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,780 Most of the people sees aggression. 695 00:40:04,780 --> 00:40:06,220 I see before aggression. 696 00:40:06,220 --> 00:40:08,230 Therefore, I can prevent aggression. 697 00:40:08,230 --> 00:40:11,470 >> Just take those three seconds when you walk into a room 698 00:40:11,470 --> 00:40:14,260 and when you walk into any new situation. 699 00:40:14,260 --> 00:40:19,450 And that helps me quite a bit because we're taking in so much 700 00:40:19,450 --> 00:40:25,270 that I find if I just don't just blow through everything 701 00:40:25,270 --> 00:40:29,600 and I take those three seconds, or I get a new situation, if I 702 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,400 just-- 703 00:40:33,780 --> 00:40:37,530 I will find that I have that intuitive notion, 704 00:40:37,530 --> 00:40:41,980 and if I just I just hit it there for a second. 705 00:40:41,980 --> 00:40:45,330 I've got the information that I need to handle each given 706 00:40:45,330 --> 00:40:48,640 situation, that it's been put before me 707 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,330 and I have it in my head account. 708 00:40:52,330 --> 00:40:54,780 I've been given that information already. 709 00:40:54,780 --> 00:40:56,190 I've seen it somewhere. 710 00:40:56,190 --> 00:40:57,900 I have it in my mind. 711 00:40:57,900 --> 00:41:02,310 I've been prepared for the things that are befalling me. 712 00:41:02,310 --> 00:41:03,870 I'm actually ready. 713 00:41:03,870 --> 00:41:07,720 You almost see it before it happens. 714 00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:10,150 You can see it coming. 715 00:41:10,150 --> 00:41:12,150 It's like if you would see-- 716 00:41:12,150 --> 00:41:16,360 like a tsunami, you see the wave far out in the ocean. 717 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:17,910 It's like it's slow motion. 718 00:41:17,910 --> 00:41:19,590 Ah, there's the wave. 719 00:41:19,590 --> 00:41:23,370 I think I'll go get my stuff, put it in the car, 720 00:41:23,370 --> 00:41:25,800 and drive far up in the mountain, 721 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,270 long before the wave comes to the shore. 722 00:41:28,270 --> 00:41:31,810 >> In mindfulness, there's also these mindful practices. 723 00:41:31,810 --> 00:41:36,030 First, you you evoke love and compassion 724 00:41:36,030 --> 00:41:40,110 in your mind for somebody that it would be easy 725 00:41:40,110 --> 00:41:45,870 for you to do, like your child or your spouse or somebody 726 00:41:45,870 --> 00:41:48,060 that you really care about. 727 00:41:48,060 --> 00:41:50,100 You evoke that in your mind. 728 00:41:50,100 --> 00:41:53,190 You observe an act of compassion or love. 729 00:41:53,190 --> 00:41:57,390 But then you could go to the mall and see a stranger. 730 00:41:57,390 --> 00:41:59,040 And if you're mindful, you'll realize 731 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,250 that that stranger has joy and sorrow, 732 00:42:02,250 --> 00:42:04,970 like you do, pleasure and pain, like you do, 733 00:42:04,970 --> 00:42:07,720 is going to grow old, like you do, who's going to die one day, 734 00:42:07,720 --> 00:42:08,520 like you do. 735 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,380 And when you do that, you have compassion 736 00:42:10,380 --> 00:42:12,960 for that human being, because he's just like you. 737 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:17,550 And then, you can do that with an enemy, a perceived enemy. 738 00:42:17,550 --> 00:42:22,320 And slowly, you train your mind in such a way 739 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,115 that you deprive yourself of all enemies. 740 00:42:25,115 --> 00:42:27,240 >> Well, that's one of the things that people enjoy 741 00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:29,700 the most about an animal, right? 742 00:42:29,700 --> 00:42:32,460 The number one is unconditional love. 743 00:42:32,460 --> 00:42:34,770 Number two is how present they are. 744 00:42:34,770 --> 00:42:36,900 Number three is they live in the moment. 745 00:42:36,900 --> 00:42:40,470 Number four is there the master of forgiving. 746 00:42:40,470 --> 00:42:42,420 How many times human makes mistakes. 747 00:42:42,420 --> 00:42:43,740 Every single day. 748 00:42:43,740 --> 00:42:45,090 How often the dog forgive them? 749 00:42:45,090 --> 00:42:47,440 Every single day. 750 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,220 >> One of the best goals of Buddhism is to take negative 751 00:42:50,220 --> 00:42:54,390 energy and make it positive, and that's not always easy to do. 752 00:42:54,390 --> 00:42:58,320 >> During the war in Vietnam, I heard that my hometown had been 753 00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,960 bombarded. 754 00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:06,160 And I right away took many means to go to my hometown. 755 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:12,930 And when I arrived, I was so mad because most 756 00:43:12,930 --> 00:43:15,630 of the house, big cows-- 757 00:43:15,630 --> 00:43:19,500 unfortunately, only my house is halfly bombarded, 758 00:43:19,500 --> 00:43:22,230 but we still live in. 759 00:43:22,230 --> 00:43:24,490 Parts of other house have been bombed, 760 00:43:24,490 --> 00:43:27,300 and people cry and scream and they 761 00:43:27,300 --> 00:43:34,380 say, oh, they hate all the-- 762 00:43:34,380 --> 00:43:36,770 they hate the sight of nationalist. 763 00:43:36,770 --> 00:43:38,370 They hate the sight of communist. 764 00:43:38,370 --> 00:43:39,360 They said that. 765 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:44,900 And the communist tried to provoke, 766 00:43:44,900 --> 00:43:49,620 and then the nationalists called American plane to bombard. 767 00:43:49,620 --> 00:43:53,670 And so I'm angry at everything. 768 00:43:53,670 --> 00:43:58,640 I don't know, and so I said that, what I can do? 769 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:02,220 I went back to my breath, and I walk calmly. 770 00:44:02,220 --> 00:44:05,250 Mindfully, I walk. 771 00:44:05,250 --> 00:44:08,520 And during, I tried to be mindful in my step. 772 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,160 It means my mind only with the contact 773 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,310 of my shoes and the ground. 774 00:44:13,310 --> 00:44:14,110 That's all. 775 00:44:14,110 --> 00:44:15,080 And I walk. 776 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,060 I walk, and suddenly, among the green, 777 00:44:18,060 --> 00:44:21,570 I started the little flower, very tiny, 778 00:44:21,570 --> 00:44:25,290 little violet flower come through all the rain, 779 00:44:25,290 --> 00:44:26,490 like smiling. 780 00:44:26,490 --> 00:44:28,880 And I said, oh, the little flower. 781 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:35,130 They have to grow through all this wind and bloom. 782 00:44:35,130 --> 00:44:37,950 And me, I cannot be my peace? 783 00:44:37,950 --> 00:44:44,940 And then I calm myself, and I look around. 784 00:44:44,940 --> 00:44:46,740 And I tried to see positive things. 785 00:44:46,740 --> 00:44:50,490 I see that the people who try their best to do something 786 00:44:50,490 --> 00:44:52,680 to help those who are wounded, those 787 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,930 who are still very something. 788 00:44:55,930 --> 00:45:01,740 And so there are people who make rice more to go and distribute 789 00:45:01,740 --> 00:45:03,720 to those who have nothing. 790 00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:06,890 There are those who carry because bombard 791 00:45:06,890 --> 00:45:08,120 is gone already. 792 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:14,640 And so I feel that I see many bodhisattva, many great being, 793 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,150 who are not angry like me and want to shout, 794 00:45:18,150 --> 00:45:21,490 but they try to help to do normal thing, so 795 00:45:21,490 --> 00:45:24,150 that these things to the-- 796 00:45:24,150 --> 00:45:30,000 going to my peace that I can see many wonderful things. 797 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,680 And when you have your own peace, you know what to do 798 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,716 and what not to do. 799 00:45:37,716 --> 00:45:41,132 [MEDITATION CHIME] 800 00:45:43,580 --> 00:45:46,360 >> First of all, you have to recognize that fear is in you. 801 00:45:49,220 --> 00:45:56,187 Lots of people, most of people try to forget. 802 00:46:01,117 --> 00:46:03,640 They are afraid of many things. 803 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,560 They're afraid of losing their job, 804 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:11,740 that the other person does not love them anymore, 805 00:46:11,740 --> 00:46:15,060 that tomorrow, they will be sick, 806 00:46:15,060 --> 00:46:22,780 abandoned, that they will die, things like that. 807 00:46:22,780 --> 00:46:27,560 And they don't want to think about these things. 808 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,010 They get busy in order to forget. 809 00:46:38,430 --> 00:46:51,240 And most of the time, the fear does not have a foundation. 810 00:46:51,240 --> 00:46:58,410 They're afraid of things that do not exist, 811 00:46:58,410 --> 00:47:07,570 and that is why they need to look deeply, 812 00:47:07,570 --> 00:47:10,120 or they might need a friend to tell them 813 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:19,250 that their fear has no foundation 814 00:47:19,250 --> 00:47:25,520 so that they can recognize the nature of their fear 815 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:29,120 and get liberate. 816 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:37,130 There is a wonderful practice in Buddhism 817 00:47:37,130 --> 00:47:44,150 that is very helpful for us to reduce our suffering. 818 00:47:44,150 --> 00:47:49,250 That is the practice of avoiding the second arrow. 819 00:47:49,250 --> 00:47:52,550 When someone is stuck by-- 820 00:47:52,550 --> 00:47:56,990 when someone is hit by an arrow, that person's 821 00:47:56,990 --> 00:47:59,480 suffers, of course. 822 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:04,760 But if a second arrow comes and strike him or her exactly 823 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:12,200 at the same spot, the pain will be many, many times 824 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:18,410 more intense, and that is why it is very helpful to avoid 825 00:48:18,410 --> 00:48:19,640 the second arrow. 826 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:23,600 And the Buddha said that sometime something happen 827 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,690 to your body, to your mind, you suffer. 828 00:48:29,690 --> 00:48:36,210 But if you get angry at it, if you worry too much about it, 829 00:48:36,210 --> 00:48:43,410 you will magnify the pain into 100 times. 830 00:48:43,410 --> 00:48:50,450 So if you imagine too much, if you 831 00:48:50,450 --> 00:48:54,530 don't know the reality of your pain, 832 00:48:54,530 --> 00:48:58,700 then you will suffer 10 times more or 100 times more. 833 00:48:58,700 --> 00:49:03,340 So that kind of anger, that kind of imagination, 834 00:49:03,340 --> 00:49:07,730 that kind of fear intensified your pain 835 00:49:07,730 --> 00:49:10,910 by 10 time, 100 time more. 836 00:49:10,910 --> 00:49:13,700 That is the second arrow. 837 00:49:13,700 --> 00:49:18,980 So fear can make you suffer much more, 838 00:49:18,980 --> 00:49:21,088 and fear is based on ignorance. 839 00:49:25,270 --> 00:49:26,845 And that is why looking deeply help 840 00:49:26,845 --> 00:49:30,020 you to have the insight that can dissipate, 841 00:49:30,020 --> 00:49:33,540 remove your ignorance. 842 00:49:33,540 --> 00:49:35,110 And a [INAUDIBLE] friend can help 843 00:49:35,110 --> 00:49:39,460 you to see that your fear has no foundation. 844 00:49:39,460 --> 00:49:41,740 >> I grew up on a farm, number one. 845 00:49:41,740 --> 00:49:44,470 I grew up with a philosophy of never work against Mother 846 00:49:44,470 --> 00:49:45,610 Nature. 847 00:49:45,610 --> 00:49:50,710 Always make sure you, human, gain their trust, respect them. 848 00:49:50,710 --> 00:49:53,770 They're going to give you a beautiful gift called loyalty. 849 00:49:53,770 --> 00:49:58,100 So once you grew up with those two sentences, 850 00:49:58,100 --> 00:50:00,190 this is what you become, right? 851 00:50:00,190 --> 00:50:01,450 You live a philosophy. 852 00:50:01,450 --> 00:50:05,523 You live a lifestyle that triggers an energy in you. 853 00:50:05,523 --> 00:50:06,940 Well, in the animal world, this is 854 00:50:06,940 --> 00:50:11,380 very attractive, to be calm from within. 855 00:50:11,380 --> 00:50:16,180 Because animals' biggest goal is the family and the harmony, 856 00:50:16,180 --> 00:50:20,410 to be part of a family and to live a harmonious life. 857 00:50:20,410 --> 00:50:24,640 Once you study human, that's not his goal. 858 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,040 His goal is fame. 859 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,360 His goal is money. 860 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,642 His goal is a degree. 861 00:50:29,642 --> 00:50:31,350 My clients are Harvard graduate, but they 862 00:50:31,350 --> 00:50:32,490 can't walk a chihuahua. 863 00:50:32,490 --> 00:50:34,698 >> Whether you have a psychological reason or whether 864 00:50:34,698 --> 00:50:39,870 you have a spiritual thing, it is undeniable that stress is 865 00:50:39,870 --> 00:50:43,650 taking a massive toll on this country, 866 00:50:43,650 --> 00:50:47,910 how we think about each other, and that by bringing mindful 867 00:50:47,910 --> 00:50:50,940 practice back, an ancient practice that was always 868 00:50:50,940 --> 00:50:51,770 there-- 869 00:50:51,770 --> 00:50:54,090 the wisdom to use it was always there-- 870 00:50:54,090 --> 00:50:57,510 back into our lives, we begin to have 871 00:50:57,510 --> 00:51:01,800 a much healthier and holistic way of approaching stress, 872 00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:06,180 and, in fact, bring a stillness and contentment to our life 873 00:51:06,180 --> 00:51:08,850 that is more profound than any quick hit. 874 00:51:08,850 --> 00:51:12,280 >> We do things the way we do because we're not aware. 875 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,130 So then it's just a pattern. 876 00:51:14,130 --> 00:51:16,920 You go out every Friday night and things like that, 877 00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,780 but it becomes very boring. 878 00:51:18,780 --> 00:51:22,080 But you still go because what else do you do? 879 00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,840 So I share with teenagers that-- 880 00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:26,700 be aware of what's going on. 881 00:51:26,700 --> 00:51:29,100 And when you have that sense of calmness, 882 00:51:29,100 --> 00:51:31,940 it's actually very attractive to others. 883 00:51:31,940 --> 00:51:35,610 When you are calm and composed and you 884 00:51:35,610 --> 00:51:38,220 seem to be at ease with yourself, 885 00:51:38,220 --> 00:51:39,820 all the guys will come and ask you. 886 00:51:39,820 --> 00:51:44,250 Or you have enough confidence to go and ask a guy to dance. 887 00:51:44,250 --> 00:51:48,000 So that's a little tip I share with the young people. 888 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:54,390 >> I think people can have these things happen just because you 889 00:51:54,390 --> 00:51:57,390 need some help. 890 00:51:57,390 --> 00:52:01,980 You need some way to balance your life. 891 00:52:01,980 --> 00:52:06,030 For me, this mindfulness, this way to be responsible, 892 00:52:06,030 --> 00:52:08,910 this way to be respectful to yourself 893 00:52:08,910 --> 00:52:14,280 and others, this way to find a quiet journey when 894 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:18,480 the world just seems too chaotic and when things are happening 895 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,970 to you and you think, I just don't 896 00:52:20,970 --> 00:52:25,560 know how I can handle all of these things. 897 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,750 It's going to be a balance. 898 00:52:27,750 --> 00:52:31,830 Nothing is just great all the time, and you're going to-- 899 00:52:31,830 --> 00:52:37,320 life is difficult. Life is a struggle. 900 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:42,270 You have to work hard to have things go ahead. 901 00:52:42,270 --> 00:52:47,490 And life doesn't get easier, but things get easier 902 00:52:47,490 --> 00:52:49,080 to understand. 903 00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,770 >> Neurotic environment makes a neurotic dog. 904 00:52:52,770 --> 00:52:54,780 Aggressive environment makes an aggressive dog. 905 00:52:54,780 --> 00:52:57,020 A fearful environment makes a fearful dog. 906 00:52:57,020 --> 00:53:00,310 [MEDITATION CHIME] 907 00:53:02,670 --> 00:53:07,330 >> For those of us who have looked deeply into the nature 908 00:53:07,330 --> 00:53:13,040 of sickness, of death, of old age, 909 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,416 we can also transcend our fear. 910 00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:25,580 Because looking deeply, we can see that it is possible for us 911 00:53:25,580 --> 00:53:29,250 to go through these things peacefully, sickness, 912 00:53:29,250 --> 00:53:32,630 old age, and death. 913 00:53:32,630 --> 00:53:38,960 When you look at a cloud and if you look deeply, 914 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,510 you'll see that the nature of a cloud 915 00:53:41,510 --> 00:53:44,615 is a nature of no birth and no death. 916 00:53:44,615 --> 00:53:50,150 A cloud has not come from non-being 917 00:53:50,150 --> 00:53:53,510 before the cloud is a cloud. 918 00:53:53,510 --> 00:53:57,770 The cloud had been other things, so a cloud 919 00:53:57,770 --> 00:54:00,500 has not come from nothing. 920 00:54:00,500 --> 00:54:04,360 So the nature of the cloud is no birth. 921 00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:07,850 The appearance of the cloud, the form of a cloud 922 00:54:07,850 --> 00:54:09,830 is only a continuation. 923 00:54:09,830 --> 00:54:14,210 Before the cloud is a cloud, it has been the water vapor. 924 00:54:14,210 --> 00:54:16,740 It has been the water in the ocean, 925 00:54:16,740 --> 00:54:20,000 the heat generated by the sun. 926 00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:26,870 So the cloud is only a continuation. 927 00:54:26,870 --> 00:54:32,720 And when the cloud cease to be a cloud, that's not dying. 928 00:54:32,720 --> 00:54:35,030 A cloud cannot die. 929 00:54:35,030 --> 00:54:37,726 It's impossible for a cloud to die. 930 00:54:37,726 --> 00:54:43,040 A cloud can become rain, snow, or ice, 931 00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,430 but a cloud cannot become nothing. 932 00:54:46,430 --> 00:54:50,840 And if the cloud knows how to meditate, 933 00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:57,620 it will see that this nature is nature of no death, no drying. 934 00:54:57,620 --> 00:55:00,160 To be a cloud floating in the sky is wonderful, 935 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,230 but to become the rain falling on a rice field on a mountain 936 00:55:03,230 --> 00:55:04,880 is also wonderful. 937 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,280 And a cloud can look down and see part of the cloud 938 00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:17,420 has become the river, so to become a river is so nice. 939 00:55:17,420 --> 00:55:20,660 And when you practice meditation deeply, 940 00:55:20,660 --> 00:55:22,910 you see that your nature is nature 941 00:55:22,910 --> 00:55:24,800 of no birth and no death, and you 942 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:29,963 can transcend the fear of birth and death, you see? 943 00:55:29,963 --> 00:55:31,380 So there are many ways of practice 944 00:55:31,380 --> 00:55:35,120 in order to deal with our fear. 945 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:39,230 And because we are so busy now in daily life, 946 00:55:39,230 --> 00:55:42,390 we have no time in our life to practice. 947 00:55:42,390 --> 00:55:47,360 We have become victims of our fear and anger, frustration. 948 00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,160 And that is why is very important 949 00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:55,610 that everyone in society should bring in a spiritual dimension 950 00:55:55,610 --> 00:55:58,370 to their life, so that they will suffer less. 951 00:55:58,370 --> 00:56:03,560 A politician, a businessman, a schoolteacher, a filmmaker 952 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:09,230 should bring in their life a spiritual dimension 953 00:56:09,230 --> 00:56:13,140 so that they will suffer less. 954 00:56:13,140 --> 00:56:17,030 And when they suffer less, they can do their job much better. 955 00:56:17,030 --> 00:56:20,670 >> There's no need to fear death because death doesn't happen 956 00:56:20,670 --> 00:56:21,470 to you. 957 00:56:21,470 --> 00:56:24,540 Death is-- basically, you upgrade the illusion, 958 00:56:24,540 --> 00:56:26,400 I think, after death. 959 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,650 >> There is no way to happiness. 960 00:56:28,650 --> 00:56:30,060 Happiness is the way. 961 00:56:30,060 --> 00:56:31,220 There is no way to peace. 962 00:56:31,220 --> 00:56:32,480 Peace is the way. 963 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:36,260 And the way is to breathe in mindfully. 964 00:56:36,260 --> 00:56:40,520 The way is to take one mindful step because when 965 00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:46,300 you when you do that, the energy of mindfulness is generated. 966 00:56:46,300 --> 00:56:48,980 And it is exactly with that energy of mindfulness 967 00:56:48,980 --> 00:56:52,790 that you can recognize the suffering inside. 968 00:56:52,790 --> 00:56:55,760 And you embrace it, and you get a relief. 969 00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:58,880 >> We are not human beings who have occasional spiritual 970 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,300 experiences. 971 00:57:00,300 --> 00:57:04,070 We are spiritual beings who have occasional human experiences. 972 00:57:04,070 --> 00:57:07,430 [MEDITATION CHIME] 973 00:57:09,830 --> 00:57:12,650 >> If you don't have peace, you cannot offer peace. 974 00:57:12,650 --> 00:57:15,950 If you don't have calm, you cannot offer calm. 975 00:57:15,950 --> 00:57:20,480 If you don't have compassion, you cannot offer compassion. 976 00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,410 And therefore, you have to walk your path. 977 00:57:24,410 --> 00:57:26,960 You have to do it for you first. 978 00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,110 If you don't know how to take care of yourself, 979 00:57:29,110 --> 00:57:31,700 if you don't know how to love yourself, 980 00:57:31,700 --> 00:57:33,710 you cannot take care of another person. 981 00:57:33,710 --> 00:57:36,410 You cannot love another person. 982 00:57:36,410 --> 00:57:42,220 So self-love, self-protection is the foundation 983 00:57:42,220 --> 00:57:45,710 for the love and protection of another person. 984 00:57:45,710 --> 00:57:47,910 >> When you are involved in the process, 985 00:57:47,910 --> 00:57:49,650 the outcome is going to be good. 986 00:57:49,650 --> 00:57:52,340 So I've been-- I've trained executive leaders 987 00:57:52,340 --> 00:57:54,890 for leadership and business skills. 988 00:57:54,890 --> 00:57:58,550 I tell them, pursue excellence and ignore success. 989 00:57:58,550 --> 00:58:02,570 Because if you pursue success, then your whole body 990 00:58:02,570 --> 00:58:05,270 will go into stress response. 991 00:58:05,270 --> 00:58:08,990 When you pursue excellence, your whole body will go into joy 992 00:58:08,990 --> 00:58:11,570 and the success is guaranteed. 993 00:58:11,570 --> 00:58:13,850 If I'm walking from here to there, 994 00:58:13,850 --> 00:58:15,380 I shouldn't be always looking there. 995 00:58:15,380 --> 00:58:16,220 I'll stumble. 996 00:58:16,220 --> 00:58:18,283 I should be mindful of my walking. 997 00:58:18,283 --> 00:58:20,450 If I'm studying for an exam, I shouldn't be thinking 998 00:58:20,450 --> 00:58:21,860 of the results of all the time. 999 00:58:21,860 --> 00:58:23,480 I should be studying. 1000 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,280 That's mindfulness. 1001 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,040 That guarantees success, but you're not attached to it 1002 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:30,290 because it comes from within. 1003 00:58:30,290 --> 00:58:32,540 You see, people who are attached think 1004 00:58:32,540 --> 00:58:37,550 there's something out there that is the source of their success 1005 00:58:37,550 --> 00:58:39,580 or whatever happiness. 1006 00:58:39,580 --> 00:58:43,340 But happiness, success, all these things 1007 00:58:43,340 --> 00:58:47,150 that human beings pursue, the source is within yourself. 1008 00:58:47,150 --> 00:58:50,960 >> It's a training, a training to remember that in us, 1009 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:57,540 there is that ability to be very peaceful, very understanding, 1010 00:58:57,540 --> 00:58:58,910 very loving. 1011 00:58:58,910 --> 00:59:02,890 But with the busy life, and especially if we are 1012 00:59:02,890 --> 00:59:06,150 surround by very negative condition, 1013 00:59:06,150 --> 00:59:09,860 we are easily irritate. 1014 00:59:09,860 --> 00:59:15,430 And when we irritate, we are like a pond of water 1015 00:59:15,430 --> 00:59:19,670 very turbulent and you do not see anything clear. 1016 00:59:19,670 --> 00:59:23,390 And then practice is to restore the stillness 1017 00:59:23,390 --> 00:59:26,430 of the water in you, the peace in you. 1018 00:59:26,430 --> 00:59:30,050 And when you see, you are a limpid, 1019 00:59:30,050 --> 00:59:31,640 more clear in your mind. 1020 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,310 You see thing in its totality. 1021 00:59:34,310 --> 00:59:39,320 I usually say that when your mind is agitate, 1022 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:43,010 you look at the moon and you only see little piece. 1023 00:59:43,010 --> 00:59:47,870 But when your mind is still, you can see the whole totality 1024 00:59:47,870 --> 00:59:48,990 of the full moon. 1025 00:59:48,990 --> 00:59:51,320 >> The dog mindfulness is helping us, 1026 00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,860 but our lack of being mindful is hurting them. 1027 00:59:54,860 --> 00:59:58,100 >> So there's something to be said that no matter how much 1028 00:59:58,100 --> 00:59:59,587 the world will condemn somebody-- 1029 00:59:59,587 --> 01:00:00,920 you remember the story of Jesus? 1030 01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,960 He was condemned too. 1031 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:07,880 No matter how much the world condemns the man, 1032 01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,710 open your heart to what that man is saying. 1033 01:00:09,710 --> 01:00:11,450 There might be a message there. 1034 01:00:11,450 --> 01:00:13,970 >> What's difficult it is for the psychiatrist who's got 15 1035 01:00:13,970 --> 01:00:17,160 minutes to write a prescription. 1036 01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,460 It's difficult for them to integrate mindfulness 1037 01:00:19,460 --> 01:00:20,570 into those practices. 1038 01:00:20,570 --> 01:00:24,470 For people who have a full hour, they're able to do this. 1039 01:00:24,470 --> 01:00:30,200 But the irony or the silliness to this is that a prescription 1040 01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:34,190 that I give you-- that I write, and I can write every month-- 1041 01:00:34,190 --> 01:00:38,570 you take it once a day, comes with side effects, costs 1042 01:00:38,570 --> 01:00:40,490 you, costs the insurance company. 1043 01:00:40,490 --> 01:00:42,200 Mindfulness-- and I sometimes do this. 1044 01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,283 I'll take up my prescription pad, and they'll say, 1045 01:00:44,283 --> 01:00:46,810 you need to give me something for anxiety. 1046 01:00:46,810 --> 01:00:48,800 So I say, I've got just the thing for you. 1047 01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:49,850 And I'll write this-- 1048 01:00:49,850 --> 01:00:54,380 mindfulness, take daily as needed, 1049 01:00:54,380 --> 01:00:57,630 may repeat as many times as you want. 1050 01:00:57,630 --> 01:00:59,865 And then I'll take out this and I'll hand it to them 1051 01:00:59,865 --> 01:01:01,490 and they'll look at me as if I'm crazy. 1052 01:01:01,490 --> 01:01:04,250 And I'll say, this is the way out for you. 1053 01:01:04,250 --> 01:01:08,540 >> You are in a situation where you suffer very deeply. 1054 01:01:08,540 --> 01:01:15,540 There is a way to suffer that can bring relief. 1055 01:01:15,540 --> 01:01:18,970 And everyone wants to learn how to suffer like that 1056 01:01:18,970 --> 01:01:21,020 in order not to suffer. 1057 01:01:21,020 --> 01:01:24,410 And the practice is very clear. 1058 01:01:24,410 --> 01:01:26,322 Don't be afraid of your suffering. 1059 01:01:26,322 --> 01:01:28,390 Live with it. 1060 01:01:28,390 --> 01:01:32,290 Take one deep breath, come back to yourself, 1061 01:01:32,290 --> 01:01:37,150 and recognize the suffering and try to hold it dearly. 1062 01:01:37,150 --> 01:01:41,520 You can do that because while you are breathing in mindfully, 1063 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,530 you generate the energy of mindfulness. 1064 01:01:44,530 --> 01:01:47,350 And it is exactly with that energy of mindfulness 1065 01:01:47,350 --> 01:01:50,240 that you can recognize and embrace your suffering. 1066 01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:54,310 Otherwise, you are overwhelmed by your suffering. 1067 01:01:54,310 --> 01:01:55,930 The practice of mindful breathing, 1068 01:01:55,930 --> 01:01:58,750 the practice of mindful walking helps generate 1069 01:01:58,750 --> 01:02:01,060 that energy of mindfulness. 1070 01:02:01,060 --> 01:02:04,030 Without that mindfulness, you are 1071 01:02:04,030 --> 01:02:05,560 overwhelmed by your suffering. 1072 01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:08,170 With that mindfulness, you are able to recognize 1073 01:02:08,170 --> 01:02:13,720 the suffering, embrace it, and be at peace with it. 1074 01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:18,880 And that is how you learn how to suffer. 1075 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,650 >> Now, at Gallup, we've done studies-- 1076 01:02:20,650 --> 01:02:22,025 I'm part of Gallup organization-- 1077 01:02:22,025 --> 01:02:26,320 that if you have a happy friend, your happiness goes up by 15%. 1078 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,470 If you have a happy friend who has a happy friend, 1079 01:02:28,470 --> 01:02:30,200 it goes up another 10%. 1080 01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:33,010 And if the happy friend's happy friend has a happy friend, 1081 01:02:33,010 --> 01:02:35,260 it goes up again, incrementally. 1082 01:02:35,260 --> 01:02:38,950 So your happiness is dependent on the happiness of others, 1083 01:02:38,950 --> 01:02:40,660 and we are all entangled. 1084 01:02:40,660 --> 01:02:43,360 We are entangled horizontally now, 1085 01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,830 not only through relationships but through social networks, 1086 01:02:46,830 --> 01:02:49,090 Twitter or Facebook, this, that, and the other. 1087 01:02:49,090 --> 01:02:52,120 The other day, somebody asked me on Twitter, 1088 01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,160 how do I find the right person? 1089 01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:56,600 And I just tweeted back. 1090 01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,690 I said, instead of finding the right person become 1091 01:02:58,690 --> 01:02:59,760 the right person. 1092 01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:03,190 Now, within five minutes, people started retweeting it. 1093 01:03:03,190 --> 01:03:04,990 And in five hours, five million people 1094 01:03:04,990 --> 01:03:06,730 were passing on the message. 1095 01:03:06,730 --> 01:03:11,890 So our emotions are contagious, our thoughts, our insights. 1096 01:03:11,890 --> 01:03:14,490 And these networks are taking that mind 1097 01:03:14,490 --> 01:03:19,000 and proving what I said, that there is no separate self. 1098 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,460 And not only is there no separate self horizontally 1099 01:03:21,460 --> 01:03:25,150 but vertically because your mind is 1100 01:03:25,150 --> 01:03:27,280 influenced by the cultural mind that 1101 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,320 goes back millions of years. 1102 01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:35,020 So vertically-- we exchange meaning 1103 01:03:35,020 --> 01:03:37,770 through each other horizontally through relationship, 1104 01:03:37,770 --> 01:03:39,690 and this is through social networks-- 1105 01:03:39,690 --> 01:03:42,610 but vertically through culture and history. 1106 01:03:42,610 --> 01:03:45,070 In other words, if you go deep enough, 1107 01:03:45,070 --> 01:03:49,420 your mind is all mind ever since the beginning of time. 1108 01:03:49,420 --> 01:03:54,790 >> But it is also very important to be careful and understand 1109 01:03:54,790 --> 01:03:59,890 that you have to be mindful of your compassion, 1110 01:03:59,890 --> 01:04:04,480 that there are people who are not quality people, 1111 01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:09,700 and there are people who choose to be lost each and every day. 1112 01:04:09,700 --> 01:04:12,260 There are people that are-- 1113 01:04:12,260 --> 01:04:15,850 if you keep giving them your love, 1114 01:04:15,850 --> 01:04:18,470 they're not going to get better. 1115 01:04:18,470 --> 01:04:20,920 They're not people who were just hurt in their childhood 1116 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,140 and if you love them and love them and love them, 1117 01:04:23,140 --> 01:04:25,390 you're going to fix them. 1118 01:04:25,390 --> 01:04:28,690 And so if you just keep being compassionate and loving 1119 01:04:28,690 --> 01:04:31,840 and they keep being mean and abusive, 1120 01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:35,920 your compassion is going to make them better. 1121 01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:37,750 There are people who wake up every day, 1122 01:04:37,750 --> 01:04:40,300 and they're lost on purpose. 1123 01:04:40,300 --> 01:04:48,840 And it's very important for you to be mindful of yourself 1124 01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:53,970 and to observe people with thoughtful mindfulness-- 1125 01:04:53,970 --> 01:04:57,900 mindful of yourself, mindful of them-- 1126 01:04:57,900 --> 01:05:03,750 and be aware if that person is choosing to be lost every day. 1127 01:05:03,750 --> 01:05:06,865 >> The world loves dogs, but it behaves like a cat. 1128 01:05:06,865 --> 01:05:07,740 You know what I mean? 1129 01:05:07,740 --> 01:05:09,800 So when it comes to-- when you see behavior, 1130 01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,600 cat-- you have excuse the cat because the cat was programmed 1131 01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:13,500 that way. 1132 01:05:13,500 --> 01:05:15,610 The human is not programmed to be selfish. 1133 01:05:15,610 --> 01:05:18,060 The human is programmed to be pack-oriented, 1134 01:05:18,060 --> 01:05:21,060 but when it's money involved and then 1135 01:05:21,060 --> 01:05:22,950 it becomes single-oriented. 1136 01:05:22,950 --> 01:05:26,340 What everybody wants is trust, respect, and love, 1137 01:05:26,340 --> 01:05:28,140 but that's what you want. 1138 01:05:28,140 --> 01:05:30,210 Are you giving it? 1139 01:05:30,210 --> 01:05:31,385 That's the question. 1140 01:05:31,385 --> 01:05:34,710 [MEDITATION CHIME] 1141 01:05:36,610 --> 01:05:40,670 There are people who just do that. 1142 01:05:40,670 --> 01:05:43,970 They don't need another person to tell them. 1143 01:05:43,970 --> 01:05:47,450 They have learned from their own suffering. 1144 01:05:47,450 --> 01:05:50,300 They know that they waste their life if they 1145 01:05:50,300 --> 01:05:56,280 live without mindfulness. 1146 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,510 The opposite of mindfulness is forgetfulness. 1147 01:05:59,510 --> 01:06:00,850 You live in forgetfulness. 1148 01:06:00,850 --> 01:06:02,120 You live like a robot. 1149 01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:05,630 You are on automatic pilot. 1150 01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:12,440 And there are those of us who need a friend in order 1151 01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:17,000 to learn how to live mindfully by watching that friend, 1152 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:20,510 walking, sitting, drinking his tea, something like that. 1153 01:06:23,180 --> 01:06:28,160 Everyone has the capacity of being mindful. 1154 01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,410 You can drink your tea mindfully. 1155 01:06:30,410 --> 01:06:33,050 You can drive your car mindfully, only 1156 01:06:33,050 --> 01:06:38,090 your mindfulness last just one or two seconds. 1157 01:06:38,090 --> 01:06:40,760 So if you train yourself, then you 1158 01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:45,840 can be mindful for longer times. 1159 01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:48,920 And when you are mindful, you enjoy more. 1160 01:06:51,740 --> 01:06:55,120 You are truly there, and you live more deeply every moment 1161 01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:56,370 of your daily life. 1162 01:06:56,370 --> 01:06:59,300 And that's not hard work. 1163 01:06:59,300 --> 01:07:00,740 It's very pleasant. 1164 01:07:00,740 --> 01:07:03,920 >> So some people think that mindfulness is-- 1165 01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,950 identify with being a hippy, with Burning Man, 1166 01:07:06,950 --> 01:07:12,540 with sitting around singing "Kum ba ya," smoking a little peyote 1167 01:07:12,540 --> 01:07:16,790 or whatever it is, it's this really alternative practice. 1168 01:07:16,790 --> 01:07:22,880 But in reality, mindfulness is being practiced in Ivy League 1169 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:27,170 schools, at all the major universities, 1170 01:07:27,170 --> 01:07:30,550 and a lot of therapists and psychologists 1171 01:07:30,550 --> 01:07:31,550 are doing it themselves. 1172 01:07:31,550 --> 01:07:33,008 Although you wouldn't know about it 1173 01:07:33,008 --> 01:07:34,720 because they're not talking about it, 1174 01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:41,900 and a lot of people who are serious members of society-- 1175 01:07:41,900 --> 01:07:46,070 that are very respected, who wouldn't be connected with 1176 01:07:46,070 --> 01:07:50,240 desert-dwelling peyote-smoking hippie-- 1177 01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:51,950 are doing mindfulness. 1178 01:07:51,950 --> 01:07:55,110 >> It's a reckoning with yourself every day, 1179 01:07:55,110 --> 01:07:59,330 which is essentially a solitude, and a solitude 1180 01:07:59,330 --> 01:08:03,690 that's disciplined in the sense that you have to-- 1181 01:08:03,690 --> 01:08:07,340 when you wander off into the clouds of thoughts 1182 01:08:07,340 --> 01:08:14,270 that you have, you gently return to the center. 1183 01:08:14,270 --> 01:08:16,960 >> Everyone can do it. 1184 01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,880 A Buddhist can do it. 1185 01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:21,529 A non-Buddhist can do it. 1186 01:08:21,529 --> 01:08:26,229 A Christian, a Jew, a communist-- everyone can do it. 1187 01:08:26,229 --> 01:08:27,029 >> Life is simple. 1188 01:08:27,029 --> 01:08:28,340 We make a complicated. 1189 01:08:28,340 --> 01:08:31,040 >> I think if you start with say, 1190 01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:34,609 mindful awareness of breath as a lifestyle, 1191 01:08:34,609 --> 01:08:37,460 it soon becomes a meditative experience living. 1192 01:08:37,460 --> 01:08:39,260 >> The only way to do it is to practice. 1193 01:08:39,260 --> 01:08:41,848 And it is true, like with any other skill 1194 01:08:41,848 --> 01:08:43,890 with any other practice, that the more you do it, 1195 01:08:43,890 --> 01:08:45,200 the better you get at it. 1196 01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:46,670 And the more efficient it becomes, 1197 01:08:46,670 --> 01:08:48,335 and the easier it is to do. 1198 01:08:48,335 --> 01:08:50,210 >> No matter what the situation in the world, 1199 01:08:50,210 --> 01:08:51,950 you can breathe through it. 1200 01:08:51,950 --> 01:08:56,060 >> And the breath is the link between the body and the mind. 1201 01:08:56,060 --> 01:08:57,920 And tends to the breath-- 1202 01:08:57,920 --> 01:08:59,840 you go back and you pay attention only 1203 01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:04,412 to the in breath, the air which is entering into your lung, 1204 01:09:04,412 --> 01:09:06,109 and you're calm. 1205 01:09:06,109 --> 01:09:08,729 Breathing out, you relax. 1206 01:09:08,729 --> 01:09:10,270 You calm. 1207 01:09:10,270 --> 01:09:13,609 You relax when you do it for a while, 1208 01:09:13,609 --> 01:09:16,439 and then you touch slowly your peace. 1209 01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:21,710 And when you have that peace, you start to think 1210 01:09:21,710 --> 01:09:24,859 and you start to speak or act. 1211 01:09:24,859 --> 01:09:28,229 So that is the key point for those who practice mindfulness. 1212 01:09:28,229 --> 01:09:32,540 >> The breathing in should be pleasant. 1213 01:09:32,540 --> 01:09:36,399 If you don't feel a pleasure when you're breath in, 1214 01:09:36,399 --> 01:09:40,490 you are not really practicing correctly. 1215 01:09:40,490 --> 01:09:44,390 In the beginning, you might just focus your attention to your 1216 01:09:44,390 --> 01:09:45,319 in breath. 1217 01:09:45,319 --> 01:09:47,779 Your in breath might be short, not very peaceful. 1218 01:09:47,779 --> 01:09:49,899 But you allow it to be like that. 1219 01:09:49,899 --> 01:09:51,979 You just allow yourself to breathe in 1220 01:09:51,979 --> 01:09:56,100 and to become aware of your in breath. 1221 01:09:56,100 --> 01:09:58,640 And if you continue like that, your in breath and out breath 1222 01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:05,600 will be come deeper, more harmonious, more peaceful 1223 01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,270 by itself alone. 1224 01:10:08,270 --> 01:10:10,857 That is the miracle of practice. 1225 01:10:10,857 --> 01:10:12,440 And when your in breath and out breath 1226 01:10:12,440 --> 01:10:17,090 has become a little bit deeper, slower, more peaceful, 1227 01:10:17,090 --> 01:10:20,120 your body will profit from it. 1228 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,520 The stress, the tension in your body 1229 01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:26,070 will be reduced because you'll know how to breathe 1230 01:10:26,070 --> 01:10:31,580 in peacefully and with harmony. 1231 01:10:31,580 --> 01:10:35,490 And so even if you have a painful feeling, 1232 01:10:35,490 --> 01:10:40,010 a painful emotion within yourself, mindful breathing, 1233 01:10:40,010 --> 01:10:44,330 the peaceful breathing will help you to suffer less right away. 1234 01:10:44,330 --> 01:10:49,870 >> When I wake up, I train myself to see that I have 24 1235 01:10:49,870 --> 01:10:51,800 hour to live deeply. 1236 01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:55,520 It doesn't mean that my day is only wonderful. 1237 01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:57,860 I have many stressful thing to do. 1238 01:10:57,860 --> 01:11:02,870 But I say that I vow to make my days more relaxing, even I 1239 01:11:02,870 --> 01:11:08,210 have a lot of expiring date, project due to finish. 1240 01:11:08,210 --> 01:11:11,090 But I have to do that in order to remind myself. 1241 01:11:11,090 --> 01:11:12,100 That is the first act. 1242 01:11:12,100 --> 01:11:18,490 And then I start to stand them up and walk, 1243 01:11:18,490 --> 01:11:20,540 and I walk mindfully. 1244 01:11:20,540 --> 01:11:21,440 That is straining. 1245 01:11:21,440 --> 01:11:22,310 It's not easy. 1246 01:11:22,310 --> 01:11:24,260 >> I don't see a dog as a student, 1247 01:11:24,260 --> 01:11:26,230 I see a dog as a teacher. 1248 01:11:26,230 --> 01:11:29,360 What the human have to do is to humble himself and learn 1249 01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,040 from an animal because a human always 1250 01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,110 wants to teach the animal. 1251 01:11:33,110 --> 01:11:37,680 >> For businessmen walking from one building to another, 1252 01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:41,290 he might enjoy every step he make. 1253 01:11:43,990 --> 01:11:47,300 He has to make a decision, of course. 1254 01:11:47,300 --> 01:11:48,170 But why walking? 1255 01:11:50,930 --> 01:11:55,280 He might like to enjoy every step that he makes. 1256 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:59,460 And if he can get the peace, the joy while 1257 01:11:59,460 --> 01:12:02,980 walking, when he arrived is fresh 1258 01:12:02,980 --> 01:12:05,360 and he can make a better decision. 1259 01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:06,860 >> Quiet doesn't mean calm. 1260 01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,670 He's sitting down, which a lot of people 1261 01:12:13,670 --> 01:12:15,230 interpret as he's calm. 1262 01:12:15,230 --> 01:12:20,885 No, quiet and calm is two different things. 1263 01:12:20,885 --> 01:12:23,860 A lot of people say, "I am calm, Cesar." 1264 01:12:23,860 --> 01:12:24,660 They're quiet. 1265 01:12:27,230 --> 01:12:31,930 This is calm, not calm, calm. 1266 01:12:31,930 --> 01:12:34,420 >> With mindfulness practice and meditation, 1267 01:12:34,420 --> 01:12:39,940 you can turn on the good genes and turn off the bad genes. 1268 01:12:39,940 --> 01:12:44,650 There are about 400 to 500 genes that influence things 1269 01:12:44,650 --> 01:12:49,660 like inflammation, autoimmune illnesses, heart disease, 1270 01:12:49,660 --> 01:12:51,550 and certain types of cancer. 1271 01:12:51,550 --> 01:12:55,120 Within four months, you can turn on the good ones 1272 01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:59,080 and turn off the bad ones through the following things-- 1273 01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:04,970 good sleep, meditation, mindfulness, exercise, 1274 01:13:04,970 --> 01:13:08,890 healthy relationships, and a reasonably good diet, 1275 01:13:08,890 --> 01:13:11,950 which means not eating anything that comes in a can 1276 01:13:11,950 --> 01:13:12,790 or has a label. 1277 01:13:12,790 --> 01:13:15,590 So that is genetic indeterminism, 1278 01:13:15,590 --> 01:13:18,850 which means regulating your own genes. 1279 01:13:18,850 --> 01:13:22,450 And then neuroplasticity-- when you change your brain structure 1280 01:13:22,450 --> 01:13:25,450 through mindful practices, you're going through the genes. 1281 01:13:25,450 --> 01:13:28,410 And neurons that fire together, wire together. 1282 01:13:28,410 --> 01:13:29,890 You're laying down new proteins. 1283 01:13:29,890 --> 01:13:31,330 In order to lay down new proteins, 1284 01:13:31,330 --> 01:13:33,202 you've got to go through DNA. 1285 01:13:33,202 --> 01:13:35,410 You've got to go through what is called transcription 1286 01:13:35,410 --> 01:13:37,570 and translation, so you're actually 1287 01:13:37,570 --> 01:13:39,910 turning on genes to do that. 1288 01:13:39,910 --> 01:13:43,990 >> I have said that there are people who learn from 1289 01:13:43,990 --> 01:13:47,080 themselves, from their own suffering. 1290 01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:49,130 And there are those who can learn from a friend, 1291 01:13:49,130 --> 01:13:50,275 from a teacher. 1292 01:13:50,275 --> 01:13:51,880 They had to learn. 1293 01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:54,790 There are those who read books and know 1294 01:13:54,790 --> 01:13:56,575 how to do it by themselves. 1295 01:13:56,575 --> 01:13:59,260 There are those who need to go to a teacher, 1296 01:13:59,260 --> 01:14:00,710 to a group of friends. 1297 01:14:00,710 --> 01:14:06,810 We have to learn, and the best thing you might offer, 1298 01:14:06,810 --> 01:14:10,600 best gift you can make to a friend might be to tell him 1299 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:15,340 or to tell her how to live his or her life more deeply, more 1300 01:14:15,340 --> 01:14:18,340 mindfully. 1301 01:14:18,340 --> 01:14:23,290 But you cannot do that unless you know how to do it. 1302 01:14:23,290 --> 01:14:27,940 You have to live your life mindfully. 1303 01:14:27,940 --> 01:14:34,570 You have the capacity of arriving in the here 1304 01:14:34,570 --> 01:14:37,720 and the now, feeling at home in the here and the now, 1305 01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,980 before you can help another person. 1306 01:14:40,980 --> 01:14:44,746 And one person living like that can help so many people. 1307 01:14:44,746 --> 01:14:48,148 [MEDITATION CHIME] 1308 01:14:50,100 --> 01:14:53,370 >> So how do we, then, begin to integrate mindfulness? 1309 01:14:53,370 --> 01:14:57,120 I think there has to be a point at which you say, 1310 01:14:57,120 --> 01:15:01,320 what I'm doing isn't working for me. 1311 01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:03,840 The other solutions-- talking to my friends-- 1312 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,960 isn't working for me, if it isn't, and so I now 1313 01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,070 need to do something else. 1314 01:15:09,070 --> 01:15:13,160 The problem is that for a lot of Westerners, 1315 01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,580 they are so used to very rapid results, where 1316 01:15:17,580 --> 01:15:23,220 everything is, I want this now. 1317 01:15:23,220 --> 01:15:25,470 The practice of mindfulness can sometimes 1318 01:15:25,470 --> 01:15:27,930 take much longer than a pill does. 1319 01:15:27,930 --> 01:15:30,270 So certainly, a line of cocaine or a line 1320 01:15:30,270 --> 01:15:33,420 or a shot of heroin or a drug is going 1321 01:15:33,420 --> 01:15:35,580 to make you feel better much quicker. 1322 01:15:35,580 --> 01:15:39,030 At the end of the day though, is that the aftermath 1323 01:15:39,030 --> 01:15:41,580 of that line of cocaine and the heroin 1324 01:15:41,580 --> 01:15:43,870 is tremendous unhappiness. 1325 01:15:43,870 --> 01:15:46,350 So it's a short-term solution to a long term problem. 1326 01:15:46,350 --> 01:15:55,650 >> It's biologically ingrained in us to live in a way that is 1327 01:15:55,650 --> 01:16:02,490 of the least resistance, the way that is easiest and also just 1328 01:16:02,490 --> 01:16:04,020 safest. 1329 01:16:04,020 --> 01:16:08,710 Like our ancestors, animals, first human beings 1330 01:16:08,710 --> 01:16:12,360 when they lived in a cave, the most important thing 1331 01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:15,120 was to survive, to be safe. 1332 01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:18,450 So we developed instincts that helped us. 1333 01:16:18,450 --> 01:16:22,890 If we hear a noise, we'll have a fight or flight response 1334 01:16:22,890 --> 01:16:24,180 immediately. 1335 01:16:24,180 --> 01:16:25,470 Or we see something. 1336 01:16:25,470 --> 01:16:30,060 We immediately categorize it so that we 1337 01:16:30,060 --> 01:16:33,780 can make a very quick decision whether it is something 1338 01:16:33,780 --> 01:16:36,150 safe or something unsafe. 1339 01:16:36,150 --> 01:16:42,600 So that was developed very early in our history as living 1340 01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:46,230 beings, and so that's much more ingrained. 1341 01:16:46,230 --> 01:16:53,970 The capacity to be aware, the capacity to recognize, to-- 1342 01:16:53,970 --> 01:16:57,570 those are much more developed, and they 1343 01:16:57,570 --> 01:17:01,770 have been developed much later in our history, especially 1344 01:17:01,770 --> 01:17:06,390 the evolutionary of human beings, of the Homo sapiens. 1345 01:17:06,390 --> 01:17:10,190 So when we have the brain, the cortex, developed, 1346 01:17:10,190 --> 01:17:14,340 that includes our capacity, like mindfulness, awareness, 1347 01:17:14,340 --> 01:17:16,800 compassion, altruism. 1348 01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,990 But those are developed much later. 1349 01:17:19,990 --> 01:17:23,910 So for us, we live with our instincts, 1350 01:17:23,910 --> 01:17:26,730 and that's easier and quicker. 1351 01:17:26,730 --> 01:17:28,770 We can make a quick decision, and that's 1352 01:17:28,770 --> 01:17:32,550 why I will share later that life can be very monotonous. 1353 01:17:32,550 --> 01:17:36,000 Because we look at something, we immediately make a conclusion. 1354 01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:37,020 Oh, it's a tree. 1355 01:17:37,020 --> 01:17:38,040 It's an animal. 1356 01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:41,910 It's that friend or that's my wife or something. 1357 01:17:41,910 --> 01:17:44,950 And we make that decision immediately, 1358 01:17:44,950 --> 01:17:46,080 and so then it's over. 1359 01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:47,940 The brain doesn't process anymore. 1360 01:17:47,940 --> 01:17:51,570 We don't see the situation, the person anymore. 1361 01:17:51,570 --> 01:17:55,960 The brain shuts down and look for another new stimulus, 1362 01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:56,760 you see? 1363 01:17:56,760 --> 01:18:00,240 But learning to be mindful, it takes more work 1364 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:03,090 because it takes us to still the mind, 1365 01:18:03,090 --> 01:18:06,660 to quiet the mind so that the brain doesn't just 1366 01:18:06,660 --> 01:18:10,710 make a top-down control, a top-down decision to say, 1367 01:18:10,710 --> 01:18:11,730 that is that. 1368 01:18:11,730 --> 01:18:14,100 But we keep the mind quiet, so that we 1369 01:18:14,100 --> 01:18:20,730 continue to process that stimulus, that person, that-- 1370 01:18:20,730 --> 01:18:25,090 maybe our wife, our children, ourselves, our feelings, 1371 01:18:25,090 --> 01:18:26,040 our body. 1372 01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:30,930 The brain continues to be in touch with that in a new way 1373 01:18:30,930 --> 01:18:32,790 we call the beginner's mind. 1374 01:18:32,790 --> 01:18:35,390 We are in touch with it new every moment. 1375 01:18:35,390 --> 01:18:37,230 And it is a mental training. 1376 01:18:37,230 --> 01:18:41,720 We have that capacity within us, but the other capacity 1377 01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,820 of relying on our instincts, that's 1378 01:18:44,820 --> 01:18:48,300 much more ingrained and much easier and quicker. 1379 01:18:48,300 --> 01:18:54,210 >> People have been bamboozled and hypnotized into hard work, 1380 01:18:54,210 --> 01:18:57,120 exacting plans, driving ambition, 1381 01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:00,360 which is the perfect recipe for failure. 1382 01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:04,530 It's part of the Judeo-Christian ethic. 1383 01:19:04,530 --> 01:19:09,330 Work hard, make plans, be ambitious, 1384 01:19:09,330 --> 01:19:11,850 beat the other guy, et cetera. 1385 01:19:11,850 --> 01:19:14,880 And it's the perfect recipe for failure 1386 01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:18,680 because even when you get there, you won't be a happy person. 1387 01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,180 >> But it's an explanation of, what's the difference between 1388 01:19:21,180 --> 01:19:22,950 happiness and pleasure? 1389 01:19:22,950 --> 01:19:27,420 And pleasure is the thing that you do and you get it right now 1390 01:19:27,420 --> 01:19:29,340 and it's all great, right that second. 1391 01:19:29,340 --> 01:19:33,060 And happiness is the choice that you make that sustains. 1392 01:19:33,060 --> 01:19:36,840 And I really think it gets really simple to pick. 1393 01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:40,980 If I have three martinis, I'm going to get a great big buzz, 1394 01:19:40,980 --> 01:19:43,580 and I'm going to feel really crappy tomorrow. 1395 01:19:43,580 --> 01:19:47,070 If I don't have three martinis, but I sit with my friends 1396 01:19:47,070 --> 01:19:50,470 and do the mindful thing, I'm going to have a lot of fun 1397 01:19:50,470 --> 01:19:54,280 right now and I'm going to have a lot of fun tomorrow. 1398 01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:59,290 >> My mind is with my step, and then when I enter 1399 01:19:59,290 --> 01:20:05,470 into the washroom, I open the water tap to clean my face. 1400 01:20:05,470 --> 01:20:10,840 But my mind is with the water tap, and when I open the water, 1401 01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:11,670 I see the water. 1402 01:20:11,670 --> 01:20:15,700 And then some time, my mind is so deep 1403 01:20:15,700 --> 01:20:20,260 that I see something that, usually, 1404 01:20:20,260 --> 01:20:25,780 if my mind is not there, I do not see, like the water. 1405 01:20:25,780 --> 01:20:29,330 Our ancestor do not have water in our washroom like that. 1406 01:20:29,330 --> 01:20:32,770 They have to go far and pick up the water. 1407 01:20:32,770 --> 01:20:37,760 And in some area, there's so very little water. 1408 01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:43,810 And here, the water flow clean, and I only swish the water tap. 1409 01:20:43,810 --> 01:20:46,140 In the left side, it will be cold water 1410 01:20:46,140 --> 01:20:48,350 and the right side will be hot water. 1411 01:20:48,350 --> 01:20:51,220 And it's so wonderful, and so I feel 1412 01:20:51,220 --> 01:20:55,570 that the wisdom of many generation, 1413 01:20:55,570 --> 01:21:00,900 of previous generation, the plumber, the engineer 1414 01:21:00,900 --> 01:21:03,680 to bring that wonderful water. 1415 01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:07,240 Hot water-- in the cold winter, I have so warm. 1416 01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:08,710 Hot water is-- 1417 01:21:08,710 --> 01:21:10,540 I cannot take it for granted. 1418 01:21:10,540 --> 01:21:13,510 When I see deeply like that, I'm so happy. 1419 01:21:13,510 --> 01:21:17,560 >> The bottom line is that mindfulness is a cleaner, 1420 01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:24,390 side effect-free way to longer-term mental health 1421 01:21:24,390 --> 01:21:28,457 stability way of being than any of these other short-term 1422 01:21:28,457 --> 01:21:30,040 solutions that come with side effects. 1423 01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:34,010 >> You have the potential for greatness. 1424 01:21:34,010 --> 01:21:37,210 You're a field of infinite possibilities. 1425 01:21:37,210 --> 01:21:40,610 Your intentions are very powerful. 1426 01:21:40,610 --> 01:21:43,540 You have infinite creativity, and you're 1427 01:21:43,540 --> 01:21:47,820 connected to all that exists, not only now, but in the past 1428 01:21:47,820 --> 01:21:49,250 and in the future. 1429 01:21:49,250 --> 01:21:51,490 You are the immeasurable potential 1430 01:21:51,490 --> 01:21:55,270 of all that was, all that is, and all that will ever be. 1431 01:21:55,270 --> 01:22:00,970 >> Every morning when I wake up, I am happy. 1432 01:22:00,970 --> 01:22:03,850 >> Life is a miracle. 1433 01:22:03,850 --> 01:22:08,440 When you breathe in mindfully, you 1434 01:22:08,440 --> 01:22:11,440 might get insight that you are still alive. 1435 01:22:14,440 --> 01:22:20,320 And to see that you are alive is only a miracle. 1436 01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:24,300 A person who is already dead cannot breathe in anymore, 1437 01:22:24,300 --> 01:22:27,350 cannot take another step anymore. 1438 01:22:27,350 --> 01:22:30,610 So when you breathe in mindfully or when 1439 01:22:30,610 --> 01:22:34,030 you make a step mindfully, you realize 1440 01:22:34,030 --> 01:22:37,450 the miracle of being alive and that miracle 1441 01:22:37,450 --> 01:22:40,120 can happen in every moment. 1442 01:22:40,120 --> 01:22:42,220 [MEDITATION CHIME] 1443 01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:46,420 [GUITAR MUSIC PLAYING] 1444 01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:10,470 [MEDITATION CHIME] 110015

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