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>> When you drink your tea,
you may like to bring your mind
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back to your body, so that
you'll be completely there,
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established in the
present moment.
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And when you drink
like that, you
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drink not only with your
body, but you drink and so
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with your mind.
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You drink the tea, and
you are aware that you
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are drinking the tea.
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That is mindfulness
of drinking, you see?
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And when you're drinking
your tea with mindfulness,
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you are really there.
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And the tea is clearly there.
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And in that moment,
there's true life.
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If your mind is elsewhere, you
are not entirely with your tea.
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You are not there in soul.
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So that the act of
drinking tea is not life.
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You'll behave-- you operate
like a robot and machine.
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Your mind is not there.
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Mindful means you
are full of mind.
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So when you breathe
in and if you
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know that you are breathing
in, that is mindful breathing.
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And when you breathe
mindfully, your mind
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is back to your body,
mind-body together.
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You are truly there
in the here and now.
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You are fully alive.
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You are fully present.
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So mindfulness make you
fully alive, fully present.
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Mindfulness is
the kind of energy
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that allow you to be
in the here and now,
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so that you can get in touch
with the wonders of life that
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are in you and around you.
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And if you can get in touch
with these wonders of life that
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are refreshing,
healing, nourishing,
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and you get the
nourishment from it,
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you'll get the
healing that you need.
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So mindfulness, first
of all, is the capacity
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to be truly there in the
here and now in order
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for you to get in touch
with the wonders of life,
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so that you can
truly live your life.
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And when you go
back to yourself,
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you might encounter
something that
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is negative, like your
sorrow or your fear, anger.
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And mindfulness help you
to have an opportunity
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to take care of your
fear, your anger.
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The energy of
mindfulness may help
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you to recognize the
presence of your fear,
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your anger, your depression.
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The energy of
mindfulness generated
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by your mindful breathing can
help you to embrace tenderly
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the fear, the sorrow
that is in you, so
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that you may get a relief.
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So mindfulness can also help
you to take care of yourself
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when you need to take care
when you go back to yourself.
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And if you encounter
the positive things
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and then you can be
nourished and heal
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by these positive things,
when mindfulness bring
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your mind back to your body and
if you encounter some tensions,
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some pain, some sorrow,
then mindfulness
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will help recognize, embrace
tenderly, these emotions,
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these feelings, these pains
so that you will suffer less.
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And mindfulness, if
you practice regularly,
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will be stronger every day and
will bring more concentration.
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And with mindfulness
and concentration,
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you can look deeply
at what is there
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and you can understand
deeply the nature
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of what is there, maybe
your anger, your fear.
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If you know how to look
deeply into the nature
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of your fear, your anger,
you will get the insight
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into their nature.
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And that kind of insight
will liberate you from harm
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from your fear, your anger.
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So mindfulness bring
concentration and mindfulness
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and concentration bring
insight that is liberating.
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>> Mindfulness is conscious,
curious, unattached,
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nonjudgmental awareness.
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It could be awareness of what's
happening in the outside world.
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It could be awareness of
what's happening in your body.
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It could be awareness
of your thoughts.
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It could be awareness of
images and consciousness.
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It could be awareness
of emotions.
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So when you observe without
judgment, that's mindfulness,
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and it's very profound.
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It's the highest form
of human intelligence.
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Because in the mirror
observing of yourself, because
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in that sense, you're observing
you, your perceptions,
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your thoughts, your
sensations, your images.
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So the highest form
of human intelligence
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is to be able to
observe yourself
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without judging yourself.
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And in the mirror, observation
of yourself without judgment
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is transformation insight,
intuition, creativity,
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imagination, healing,
self-repair, self-organization,
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homeostasis, the tying in
of your biological rhythms
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to the rhythms of the universe,
which we call circadian
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rhythms and seasonal rhythms.
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It's healing, basically.
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It's your essential state.
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You're a human being.
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You're not a human doing.
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>> It's the idea
of just noticing,
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just noticing in
the present moment,
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without putting words to the
experience and just noticing.
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Then there's the
describing practice,
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which is just to put words
on what the experience is.
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The flower has petals.
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The petals are red.
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The smell is sweet.
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>> When you breathe in and
if you bring your mind,
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your attention to
your in breath,
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your mind stop all thinking,
whether of the past,
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of the future, of your projects.
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Your mind is focusing
only on your in breathe.
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Stopping the thinking help you.
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You become your in breath.
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You are concentrated
on your breath.
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And when you breathe out,
you focus your attention
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on your out breath.
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You stop the thinking.
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You are only in breath.
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The only object of
your mind is your
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in breath and your out breath.
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You are concentrated on your
in breath, on your out breath.
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And if you continue to breathe
like that for a few moments,
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the quality of your in
breath and out breath
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will be improved.
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Your in breath and
out breath have
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become slower, more
peaceful, more harmonious,
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and you'll feel better.
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There's a peace now, more
peace now in your breathing.
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And as your breathing
has become more peaceful,
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your body will profit from it.
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There may be a lot of tension
and pain in your body,
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but if your breath
has become peaceful,
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your body will
become more peaceful.
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And I would propose that when
we go back to our body, now
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you should recognize
our body as existing.
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And you may realize
that there is
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tension and pain in our body.
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So I propose the
exercise breathing in,
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I am aware of my whole body.
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Breathing out, I release
the tension in my body.
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So to go back to your
body to recognize
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the presence of your body
is a kind of reconciliation
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because you may have not
taken good care of your body.
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You may have worked
your body to hard,
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and you have allowed
tension and pain
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to be accumulated
into your body.
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And therefore, the mind
going home to the body and
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allowed the body to
release the tension.
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That's very nice.
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That is a practice of
reconciliation with the body,
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helping the body to
release the tension.
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This is very important.
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When you have some
peace in your breathing,
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that peace will be
extended to your body.
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And then if you have feelings
that are painful emotions,
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your mindfulness can help
recognize these emotions,
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these painful feelings,
hold them dearly, tenderly,
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and help you to get relief.
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So first of all, you bring
your mind back to your body
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and take care of your body.
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And your body will have
more peace, more relaxation,
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and then you are in
a position to take
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care of your feelings
and your emotions.
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There are pleasant feeling.
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There are painful feeling.
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There are strong emotions
that make you suffer,
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so mindfulness is
the kind of energy
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that can also recognize
a feeling and emotion
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and also help embrace
tenderly that feeling,
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that emotion so that
you can get a relief.
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And if you are a
good practitioner,
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if you continue your practice
of mindful breathing, mindful
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holding, then you
can look deeply
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into the roots of your
feeling, of your emotion
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and find out the reasons,
the causes that have
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brought that feeling to you.
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And that kind of looking
deeply is called meditation.
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It identifies
sources of suffering.
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And once you have identified
the roots of your being,
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you can get the
liberation that you need.
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It's like when your doctor
has identified your sickness,
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and then he can
propose you to use
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the kind of medicine,
the kind of life that
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can help end the sickness.
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So mindfulness and concentration
helped bring a relief,
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help you to understand deep
root to your suffering,
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help you to see the path
leading to the healing,
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the transformation.
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>> Yes, mindfulness heals
because in mindfulness,
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there's equanimity.
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And when there is
equanimity, then you're
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sustained in that equanimity.
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There's joy, and when
there's joy and equanimity,
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there's the birth in
that of compassion.
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And all of those things
actually cause your body
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to go to its
essential state, which
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we call in medicine--
we call it homeostasis,
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which is self-regulation.
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In our society, people
are doing, doing, doing,
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and it's mostly mindless doing.
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Then, of course,
they're thinking a lot,
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and it's mostly
about themselves.
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There's no creative
thinking, other
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than in the creative fields.
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But even that is mostly what
I call simulated creativity.
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It's not real creativity.
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There's very little feeling,
and there's no being.
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And mindfulness reverses the
whole thing spontaneously.
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When you're mindful, you're
in the state of being.
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And when you're in
the state of being,
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it spontaneously awakens
love and compassion.
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And when you're there,
then it spontaneously
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unfolds into creativity, and
then you do the right thing.
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>> Breathe your life.
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It means nothing, and
it means everything.
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It depends on our state of mind
because as my brother shared
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earlier, all of us, we breathe.
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In the womb, mother breathed
for us, and the moment
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that we are born
and we start to cry,
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that's our first in breath.
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And so however old
we are right now,
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we have breathed all our lives.
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But for most of us,
it means nothing
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because we're not aware of it.
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There's a breathing
center in the brain that
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takes care of it, and so we
do not have to think about it.
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We do not have to
be aware of it.
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It's done automatically,
and so that's the life
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that we have also continues.
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It can continue automatically
because the body
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has an amazing capacity
to take care of itself,
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to regulate itself.
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And so breathe is something
can be very automatic
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and to be alive can be--
there is something also
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very automatic for
our whole lives.
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But a person who
learns to be aware
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that he or she is breathing,
then it changes everything.
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And a person who learns
that he or she is alive,
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it really changes everything,
the health, the mental health,
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and also the physical health.
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So in that way, the awareness of
the body, which is the breath--
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we start with the breath.
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We learn to be aware
of that, and we
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learn to touch the changes
in the breath, the changes
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in the breathing patterns.
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And through that, we learn
to be more aware of our body.
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Right now, some of us are
quite relaxed and some of us
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are less relaxed.
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of our breathing,
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we will be more aware of whether
we are relaxed or less relaxed.
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So we are in touch
with the body.
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And when we are
aware of our breath,
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also we are aware of our mind
because when we have anger,
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we breathe differently.
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When we have sadness, worries,
we breathe differently.
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So what do we learn to be
aware, more and more aware
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of the patterns of our
breathing and abrupt changes
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in every moment,
then we learn to be
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aware of what's going
on in our mind, what's
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going on in our thoughts
and perceptions that
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causes that change
that breathing pattern.
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And so it makes life very
dynamic, very lively.
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>> I actually think that
mindfulness should be
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the centerpiece of psychiatric
treatment because in the West,
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we are so
scientifically oriented.
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So if we put mindfulness
to rigorous scientific
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experimentation,
we find that it has
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ways of working with the
mind that calm the mind.
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And I think that
in today's world,
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where everything is a
disorder-- we're pathologizing
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everything--
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that mindfulness has a core
and central role in healing.
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>> If you are mindful,
if you are truly there,
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you are truly there in
the here and the now.
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You are concentrating.
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And drinking your
tea in mindfulness
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is a spirituality already.
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So when you look at one person--
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if you are truly aware that
he is there, she is there--
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in that person,
there is suffering.
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There is the need to transform.
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And if you can
look at him or her
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with compassion and
understanding like that,
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that is spirituality already.
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And when you take a step,
and if you are aware
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that you are making
this step, that you
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are walk, that you touch the
earth with your foot mindfully,
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and that is a
spiritual act also.
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There is a gatha--
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placing your foot on the
ground is to perform a miracle.
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Every mindful step
help reveal to you
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the Kingdom of God, the
pure land of the Buddha.
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So walking with
mindfulness can help
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you touch all the
wonders of life that
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are available in
the here and now,
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and that's very
nourishing and healing.
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Many of us walk
like sleepwalkers.
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We don't enjoy our steps.
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Our mind is elsewhere in
our projects, in the future.
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So you don't get the
healing, the transformation.
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You don't touch
the Kingdom of God,
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with all the wonders, the
blue sky, the flowers that
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are blooming, the
green hills, children
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who are playing around you.
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They all belong to
the Kingdom of God,
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to the pure land of the Buddha,
and if you are truly the here
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and now, you can get in touch.
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So you can live
your spiritual life
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in every minute of
your daily life.
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Whether you are driving,
eating, cooking, washing,
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your life can be
spiritual in every moment.
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And if you have enough
healing and peace in you,
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everything you do and you say
will help people around you.
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>> Being mindful helps you be
a better actor because it helps
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you be a better listener, and
I think being a better listener
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is the root of being
a better actor.
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>> In other words, I'm
not a dog whisperer,
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I'm a dog listener because I'm
listening from the moment I am
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20 feet in front of a dog.
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I know how he feels.
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The dog is talking.
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They're just a
human not listening.
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What dog whisper means
to me is the human
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who knows how to listen.
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It's not the human who is
whispering in the ear of a dog.
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That's a myth.
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That's a beautiful title.
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That's very magical,
but it's not reality.
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The human tells you the story.
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The dog tells you the reality.
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[MEDITATION CHIME]
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>> Many people are not capable
of being happy in the present
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moment.
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They think it is
impossible for them
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to be happy right
now, right here.
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They need more conditions
to be happy, so many of them
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are looking for happiness
in the future or elsewhere.
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But according to the
teaching of the Buddha,
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you have enough conditions to be
happy right here and right now.
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And mindfulness help you to
go home to the present moment
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and to recognize these
conditions of happiness that
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are available.
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In the teaching of
[? Wudai, ?] it is
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said that it is
possible to live happily
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right in the here and the now.
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And that is why the practice
of mindful breathing, mindful
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walking can bring you home
to the here and the now.
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The past is only gone.
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The future is not yet there.
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You only have one moment where
you can live your life deeply.
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That is the present moment.
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And you have an
appointment with life,
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and that appointment takes
place in the present moment.
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And if you miss
that present moment,
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you'll miss your
appointment with life.
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Therefore, I have
arrived means I have
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arrived in the present moment.
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so that I can meet with
life and come to life.
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I have arrived in
the here and the now.
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It means I don't run anymore.
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I have-- I do not
want to run anymore.
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I have run all my life, and that
is why I am determined to stop.
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So every breath, every
step brings me back
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to the here and
the now, so that I
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can be established in
the here and the now
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to encounter the wonders
of life that are available.
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So I have arrived means I
don't want to run anymore.
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I want to touch life deeply, and
life can be touched deeply only
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in the here and the now.
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And my home is in
the here and the now,
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and if you look
deeply, you will see
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that the Kingdom of God,
the pure land of the Buddha
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and your happiness
must be sought,
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must be found in the
here and the now.
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We used to say that the
kingdom is now or never.
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There is no way to happiness.
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Happiness is the way.
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You have to find happiness
right in the here and the now.
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So I have arrived.
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I am home.
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It means that I am
fully established
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in the present moment.
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I am truly alive.
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I am truly, fully present.
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And that is not a statement.
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That is a practice.
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And you breathe in such a
way, you walk in such a way
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that every breath,
every step brings you
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home to the here and the now.
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And you are free from your
worries, from your despair,
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from your regret.
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And getting in touch with
the wonders of life that
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are refreshing and
hearing and nourishing,
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you get the healing
that you need.
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You get the
nourishment you need.
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And after that, you can
be helpful to the people
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around you.
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>> Recently, there is
research on meditation--
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and I'm sure it applies
to mindfulness as well--
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is that it increases the level
of an enzyme called telomerase.
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Telomerase influences the
length of little telomeres,
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which are like buttons at
the end of your shoe laces.
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Like, your chromosomes have
these buttons similar to that.
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As we get older,
these buttons or--
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they're called telomeres--
they start to fray,
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and then when they start
to fray to a certain level,
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that's biological death.
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And we measure the
biological clock
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through the length of telomeres.
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Now, just a few
months ago, there
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was a study that was done by
scientists here in California.
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One of the authors
of the study is
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the woman who won the
Nobel Prize for discovering
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telomerase, and they showed
that within three to four months
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of meditative
practice, mindfulness,
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you increase telomerase.
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So you're changing
your biological clock.
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>> First benefit is
you're a happy person.
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And when I'm under the
weather that I'm happy.
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And when I handle
a piece of bread,
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I do not need to think anything.
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Oh, it's come from the sky,
the good rain, the good farmer,
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the good harvest, a lot
of love, a lot of care.
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I leave the present
moment, but I
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taste the whole universe in that
wonderful way, and I'm happy.
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>> Would I say animals are
more mindfully than humans?
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A horse, a cat, a dolphin, a dog
will know exactly how you feel,
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regardless how different
they are as a species.
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Energy is a universal
language that all animals
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have the capability
to be mindfully aware.
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>> If one has a spiritual
radiance about him,
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you sense it.
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You sense in the eyes.
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You sense it in their
demeanor, and that person
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can generally lift up
the spirits of the people
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around him.
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That's what's remarkable
all over the world,
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everywhere I've gone.
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[MEDITATION CHIME]
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When anger comes up, you feel--
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you suffer.
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You suffer.
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And if you allow anger to
possess you, to overwhelm you,
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you go hurt or say things
that will create suffering.
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When anger comes up,
if you don't practice,
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you will suffer, and you will
make people around you suffer.
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And if you are a
practitioner, you
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know what to do when
anger is coming up.
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You go back to your breathing.
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You practice mindful breathing.
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You generate the
energy of mindfulness,
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and with that energy
of mindfulness,
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you recognize that
anger is in you.
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Breathing in, I
know anger is in me.
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Breathing out, I'm taking
good care of my anger.
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I'm holding it peacefully.
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And the energy of mindfulness
embracing the energy
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of anger, although energy
of anger is still there,
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but you are much safer because
mindfulness is also there.
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Mindfulness tell
you that anger--
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while you are anger, is not goo
say anything, to do anything.
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It may cause damage.
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So do you just
continue to practice
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mindful breathing,
mindful walking,
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so that you can take
care of your anger.
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And you get a relief, and if you
practice looking more deeply,
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you will see the
roots of your anger
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and the cause of your
suffering might be in you, not
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in the other person.
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And if you recognize
things like that,
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you can transform your anger.
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Sometime, many times,
the seat of anger in you
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is very important.
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Other people, when they
hear the same sentence,
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they don't get angry.
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But you, you get angry because
of the seat of anger in you
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is too important.
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So you now-- you
have the insight
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that the suffering
comes from you more than
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from the other person.
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So that is the kind of insight
that can help you to transform.
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And then when you look
deeply at the other person,
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you see that that person has
a lot of anger and suffering
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in him.
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And he does not know how
to handle his suffering,
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so he makes people
around him suffer,
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and you happen to
be one of them.
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So if you try to punish
him, he will suffer more,
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and if he suffer more, he
will make you suffer more.
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00:30:04,220 --> 00:30:10,160
So that person needs help
and does not need punishment.
501
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:15,530
And you may be motivated by
the desire to go and help him.
502
00:30:15,530 --> 00:30:19,010
And when you are motivated by
a desire to go and help him,
503
00:30:19,010 --> 00:30:22,070
your anger has
become compassion.
504
00:30:22,070 --> 00:30:25,670
You have transformed, so
that is the kind of insight
505
00:30:25,670 --> 00:30:27,800
that you can get
when you practice
506
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:32,090
mindfulness and concentration.
507
00:30:32,090 --> 00:30:38,840
>> The human brain is a very
fascinating, three pound, soft,
508
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,100
jello-like organ
inside the skull,
509
00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:44,630
which is more complicated than
anything else in the universe.
510
00:30:44,630 --> 00:30:46,280
We have three
parts to our brain.
511
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,560
The first part of the brain
is called the midbrain.
512
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,250
It's also called
the reptilian brain.
513
00:30:52,250 --> 00:30:56,600
The reptilian brain evolved
300 million years ago.
514
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,730
The reason it's called
the reptilian brain
515
00:30:58,730 --> 00:31:00,310
is that when you go
next to a reptile
516
00:31:00,310 --> 00:31:03,440
and you either make a sudden
movement or a sudden noise,
517
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,080
if you're very close, the
reptile will attack you.
518
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,560
If you're a little further
away, it will slither away.
519
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,080
This is the beginning of what
we call the fight or flight
520
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:16,460
response, and this then
becomes, in our society,
521
00:31:16,460 --> 00:31:18,500
the stress response.
522
00:31:18,500 --> 00:31:20,810
You're not trying to save
yourself from a saber tooth
523
00:31:20,810 --> 00:31:24,450
tiger, but somebody
blows the horn at you
524
00:31:24,450 --> 00:31:26,625
or somebody says
something that triggers,
525
00:31:26,625 --> 00:31:30,470
and all the hurt
pushes your buttons
526
00:31:30,470 --> 00:31:32,600
and you attack or you run.
527
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,510
And sometimes you're not
attacking or running,
528
00:31:35,510 --> 00:31:38,690
but you feel frustrated and
that raises your blood pressure.
529
00:31:38,690 --> 00:31:39,800
Heart rate goes up.
530
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,960
Cortisol goes up.
531
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,230
Adrenaline goes up.
532
00:31:45,230 --> 00:31:50,120
Stress is linked to almost every
major epidemic of civilization.
533
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,780
Whether it is cancer or
heart disease or infections
534
00:31:53,780 --> 00:31:59,540
or premature aging, sudden death
from cardiovascular illness,
535
00:31:59,540 --> 00:32:01,380
all linked to stress.
536
00:32:01,380 --> 00:32:05,330
And this is what the stress
is, the midbrain reacting as it
537
00:32:05,330 --> 00:32:08,480
has done for 300 million years.
538
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,180
Then the second
part of your brain
539
00:32:10,180 --> 00:32:12,350
is called the
limbic brain, which
540
00:32:12,350 --> 00:32:16,370
is about 100 million years old.
541
00:32:16,370 --> 00:32:17,930
This is our emotional brain.
542
00:32:17,930 --> 00:32:20,720
So we have basically
five emotions,
543
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,300
and everything else
is a variant of them.
544
00:32:23,300 --> 00:32:27,935
The first emotion is happiness,
so love, compassion, kindness.
545
00:32:27,935 --> 00:32:29,055
They all fit in happiness.
546
00:32:29,055 --> 00:32:32,100
It makes you happy
when you're in love.
547
00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:34,740
The second emotion is sadness.
548
00:32:34,740 --> 00:32:37,270
The third is anger
and hostility.
549
00:32:37,270 --> 00:32:40,020
The fourth is fear.
550
00:32:40,020 --> 00:32:44,910
The fifth is shame,
and what do you call--
551
00:32:44,910 --> 00:32:48,210
guilt. And every other emotion--
552
00:32:48,210 --> 00:32:51,680
disgust, jealousy--
is a variant of these.
553
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,300
Now, it turns out that
when you're happy--
554
00:32:54,300 --> 00:32:56,380
and this happens
only in mammals.
555
00:32:56,380 --> 00:32:59,280
Reptiles don't have
a emotional life.
556
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,540
But all mammals
form social groups.
557
00:33:03,540 --> 00:33:06,540
All mammals nurture their young.
558
00:33:06,540 --> 00:33:09,730
Believe it or not,
all mammals sing.
559
00:33:09,730 --> 00:33:14,820
All mammals play, and
this is the experience
560
00:33:14,820 --> 00:33:18,510
of what we call love
that occurs immediately
561
00:33:18,510 --> 00:33:22,290
after a child is born and even
in the anticipation of a child.
562
00:33:22,290 --> 00:33:24,390
And it turns out that
our feedback loops,
563
00:33:24,390 --> 00:33:27,120
self-repair mechanisms
in the body,
564
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,320
are matured and
come into existence
565
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,590
as a result of the
experience of love.
566
00:33:34,590 --> 00:33:39,090
If we don't have that attention,
affection, appreciation,
567
00:33:39,090 --> 00:33:43,590
cooing cuddling,
kissing, touching,
568
00:33:43,590 --> 00:33:46,470
the dance between an
adult and a child,
569
00:33:46,470 --> 00:33:51,600
which is eye movements, facial
expressions, body language,
570
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:52,875
voice tone--
571
00:33:52,875 --> 00:33:55,620
a child doesn't understand
rational language
572
00:33:55,620 --> 00:33:58,790
but understands that
language from day one, OK?
573
00:33:58,790 --> 00:34:02,070
And that is it responsible
for the maturation
574
00:34:02,070 --> 00:34:05,460
of self-repair mechanisms
and self-regulation.
575
00:34:05,460 --> 00:34:10,560
If you're deprived of that,
you will be a sick adult.
576
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,350
When you grow up,
your everything
577
00:34:13,350 --> 00:34:15,540
will be affected because
the self-repair is linked
578
00:34:15,540 --> 00:34:17,909
to hormone levels,
body temperature
579
00:34:17,909 --> 00:34:21,540
regulation, autonomic
responses, everything
580
00:34:21,540 --> 00:34:23,790
that keeps the body healthy.
581
00:34:23,790 --> 00:34:25,500
That's our limbic brain.
582
00:34:25,500 --> 00:34:29,010
Most people have
dysfunctional limbic systems,
583
00:34:29,010 --> 00:34:32,650
in that they're resentful
or angry about the past.
584
00:34:32,650 --> 00:34:36,590
They're anticipating
something fear in the future.
585
00:34:36,590 --> 00:34:38,610
They have shame and
guilt about things
586
00:34:38,610 --> 00:34:40,960
that they regret that
they shouldn't have done.
587
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,630
And as a result, you
their biological systems
588
00:34:44,630 --> 00:34:47,969
are totally disrupted.
589
00:34:47,969 --> 00:34:50,790
But on the other hand, when you
have what the Buddhists call
590
00:34:50,790 --> 00:34:59,820
loving-kindness, joy, peace
of mind, and compassion--
591
00:34:59,820 --> 00:35:02,760
the Buddhists call them
divine attributes--
592
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:08,790
in that state your body's the
best it could possibly be, OK?
593
00:35:08,790 --> 00:35:11,040
So that's your limbic
brain, and then you
594
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,620
have this cortical
brain, which is huge,
595
00:35:13,620 --> 00:35:15,870
which is only four
million years old.
596
00:35:15,870 --> 00:35:19,410
The cortical brain
houses rationality.
597
00:35:19,410 --> 00:35:24,090
It's also responsible for
orchestrating intention,
598
00:35:24,090 --> 00:35:26,940
and it seems this
is the place we
599
00:35:26,940 --> 00:35:32,010
use for imagination and insight
and intuition and creativity.
600
00:35:32,010 --> 00:35:33,060
Now, here's the secret.
601
00:35:33,060 --> 00:35:35,490
In mindfulness, what
you can learn to do--
602
00:35:35,490 --> 00:35:38,850
and this is proven
scientifically--
603
00:35:38,850 --> 00:35:44,010
you can totally
override your midbrain.
604
00:35:44,010 --> 00:35:46,710
So a person like Thich
Nhat Hahn, for example,
605
00:35:46,710 --> 00:35:50,670
for all practical
purposes, his midbrain
606
00:35:50,670 --> 00:35:53,790
is no longer functioning.
607
00:35:53,790 --> 00:35:58,980
You can't get him to be angry
or feel hostility or resentful.
608
00:35:58,980 --> 00:36:04,290
He's just-- he's quieted it
through mindfulness practice.
609
00:36:04,290 --> 00:36:08,070
And if you sustain that
mindfulness practice,
610
00:36:08,070 --> 00:36:12,270
you feel so connected
that spontaneously,
611
00:36:12,270 --> 00:36:15,510
your limbic system starts to get
activated so you nurture only
612
00:36:15,510 --> 00:36:18,740
healthy emotions, like
love, compassion, joy, et
613
00:36:18,740 --> 00:36:22,050
cetera, that come from
that place of equanimity.
614
00:36:22,050 --> 00:36:24,960
So you're using
your cortical brain
615
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:31,560
to, first of all, override
the detrimental, destructive
616
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,240
tendencies of the
midbrain, which
617
00:36:33,240 --> 00:36:37,680
is no longer relevant
in the modern society,
618
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,720
and you're also activating
the limbic brain
619
00:36:39,720 --> 00:36:41,130
for nurturing relationships.
620
00:36:41,130 --> 00:36:44,640
You're literally rewiring
your nervous system.
621
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,220
In neuroscience, we say
neurons that fire together
622
00:36:47,220 --> 00:36:48,390
wire together.
623
00:36:48,390 --> 00:36:50,820
You're an intelligent
human being
624
00:36:50,820 --> 00:36:55,170
who has subdued the
reptilian brain, who
625
00:36:55,170 --> 00:36:57,990
knows how to activate
the limbic brain, who
626
00:36:57,990 --> 00:37:00,450
knows how to
self-repair and heal,
627
00:37:00,450 --> 00:37:04,890
who has more intuition, insight,
imagination, creativity,
628
00:37:04,890 --> 00:37:05,970
and choice making.
629
00:37:05,970 --> 00:37:08,670
It's a new evolution
of the human species.
630
00:37:08,670 --> 00:37:13,410
>> Imagine a situation where
your day was going fine.
631
00:37:13,410 --> 00:37:16,620
Someone looked at
you in a way that you
632
00:37:16,620 --> 00:37:19,830
imagined was attacking,
accusatory, or judgmental,
633
00:37:19,830 --> 00:37:21,270
and you get angry.
634
00:37:21,270 --> 00:37:25,200
Now, whereas in the past, you
might have become very angry
635
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,750
and disregulated and done
behaviors that got you
636
00:37:29,750 --> 00:37:31,750
into more trouble, whether
it's drugs or alcohol
637
00:37:31,750 --> 00:37:35,110
or whatever it is, what
you do with mindfulness
638
00:37:35,110 --> 00:37:39,340
is you pay attention to what
is in this present moment.
639
00:37:39,340 --> 00:37:40,690
What happened?
640
00:37:40,690 --> 00:37:42,790
Describe what happened.
641
00:37:42,790 --> 00:37:48,370
The person looked at me
from the side of their face.
642
00:37:48,370 --> 00:37:50,440
They seem to have a frown.
643
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,040
Whatever it is that
you're describing,
644
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:56,890
you're describing what is,
not what you imagine it to be.
645
00:37:56,890 --> 00:38:01,540
And by doing that, it
gives you a fighting chance
646
00:38:01,540 --> 00:38:04,040
of staying a lot calmer than
what you could have gone,
647
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,800
because once you
start describing,
648
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,090
then you also have the
opportunity to be curious.
649
00:38:08,090 --> 00:38:10,120
You might ask the
person, hey, why did you
650
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,080
give me that bad look?
651
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,700
He say, what bad look?
652
00:38:12,700 --> 00:38:16,350
I have gastric problems from the
burrito I had at lunch today,
653
00:38:16,350 --> 00:38:18,080
and maybe I was grimacing.
654
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:18,880
I mean, who knows?
655
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,497
>> We should be
listening to each other.
656
00:38:21,497 --> 00:38:22,330
You see what I mean?
657
00:38:22,330 --> 00:38:27,850
Because often, it's little
things that we misinterpret
658
00:38:27,850 --> 00:38:31,390
and we go into fight/flight
avoidance between you and I.
659
00:38:31,390 --> 00:38:33,130
We don't go into surrender.
660
00:38:33,130 --> 00:38:34,970
But once we listen,
we understand.
661
00:38:34,970 --> 00:38:36,820
Oh, I get it.
662
00:38:36,820 --> 00:38:39,070
>> During the day,
these always--
663
00:38:39,070 --> 00:38:44,050
life never unfold
exactly like we wish,
664
00:38:44,050 --> 00:38:47,620
and so we have to expect that
when people promise something,
665
00:38:47,620 --> 00:38:48,700
they don't do it.
666
00:38:48,700 --> 00:38:51,460
And it's normal that
we feel irritate.
667
00:38:51,460 --> 00:38:54,220
But we feel irritate, we
say that when I'm irritate,
668
00:38:54,220 --> 00:38:58,330
I do not fulfill my
task in the best way.
669
00:38:58,330 --> 00:39:01,000
So I go back to my in
breath and out breath
670
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,870
and calming and relaxing
and say that I will do it.
671
00:39:04,870 --> 00:39:08,200
So you note that
unsatisfied thing,
672
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:12,280
and you do other thing who
make you not irritate first.
673
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,210
You come back.
674
00:39:13,210 --> 00:39:14,080
You will come back.
675
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,910
But while you do the
other job profoundly,
676
00:39:17,910 --> 00:39:21,340
the other things will
settle a little bit.
677
00:39:21,340 --> 00:39:23,352
And then sometime
during your work--
678
00:39:23,352 --> 00:39:25,810
the second work have nothing
to do with the first work that
679
00:39:25,810 --> 00:39:27,190
make you irritate.
680
00:39:27,190 --> 00:39:29,390
Second, work
mindfully-- suddenly
681
00:39:29,390 --> 00:39:33,100
that is an insight
because your irritation
682
00:39:33,100 --> 00:39:35,770
send the message into
your soul consciousness.
683
00:39:35,770 --> 00:39:39,400
It mean the deep part of
yourself, your unconscious.
684
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,440
That person is always like that.
685
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:42,710
He has that quality.
686
00:39:42,710 --> 00:39:44,610
He has that weakness.
687
00:39:44,610 --> 00:39:48,790
So suddenly, you remember
that to handle that situation,
688
00:39:48,790 --> 00:39:50,920
you have to touch
that point in order
689
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,070
to help him to change
or help her to change.
690
00:39:54,070 --> 00:39:55,760
So and then you go
back to your work.
691
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,730
You say, that, I
don't handle yet.
692
00:39:57,730 --> 00:40:01,045
>> You're listening to the
outcome, not the fundamentals.
693
00:40:01,045 --> 00:40:02,920
So it's fundamentals,
technique, and outcome.
694
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,780
Most of the people
sees aggression.
695
00:40:04,780 --> 00:40:06,220
I see before aggression.
696
00:40:06,220 --> 00:40:08,230
Therefore, I can
prevent aggression.
697
00:40:08,230 --> 00:40:11,470
>> Just take those three seconds
when you walk into a room
698
00:40:11,470 --> 00:40:14,260
and when you walk into
any new situation.
699
00:40:14,260 --> 00:40:19,450
And that helps me quite a bit
because we're taking in so much
700
00:40:19,450 --> 00:40:25,270
that I find if I just don't
just blow through everything
701
00:40:25,270 --> 00:40:29,600
and I take those three seconds,
or I get a new situation, if I
702
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,400
just--
703
00:40:33,780 --> 00:40:37,530
I will find that I have
that intuitive notion,
704
00:40:37,530 --> 00:40:41,980
and if I just I just hit
it there for a second.
705
00:40:41,980 --> 00:40:45,330
I've got the information that
I need to handle each given
706
00:40:45,330 --> 00:40:48,640
situation, that it's
been put before me
707
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,330
and I have it in
my head account.
708
00:40:52,330 --> 00:40:54,780
I've been given that
information already.
709
00:40:54,780 --> 00:40:56,190
I've seen it somewhere.
710
00:40:56,190 --> 00:40:57,900
I have it in my mind.
711
00:40:57,900 --> 00:41:02,310
I've been prepared for the
things that are befalling me.
712
00:41:02,310 --> 00:41:03,870
I'm actually ready.
713
00:41:03,870 --> 00:41:07,720
You almost see it
before it happens.
714
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:10,150
You can see it coming.
715
00:41:10,150 --> 00:41:12,150
It's like if you would see--
716
00:41:12,150 --> 00:41:16,360
like a tsunami, you see the
wave far out in the ocean.
717
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:17,910
It's like it's slow motion.
718
00:41:17,910 --> 00:41:19,590
Ah, there's the wave.
719
00:41:19,590 --> 00:41:23,370
I think I'll go get my
stuff, put it in the car,
720
00:41:23,370 --> 00:41:25,800
and drive far up
in the mountain,
721
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,270
long before the wave
comes to the shore.
722
00:41:28,270 --> 00:41:31,810
>> In mindfulness, there's
also these mindful practices.
723
00:41:31,810 --> 00:41:36,030
First, you you evoke
love and compassion
724
00:41:36,030 --> 00:41:40,110
in your mind for somebody
that it would be easy
725
00:41:40,110 --> 00:41:45,870
for you to do, like your child
or your spouse or somebody
726
00:41:45,870 --> 00:41:48,060
that you really care about.
727
00:41:48,060 --> 00:41:50,100
You evoke that in your mind.
728
00:41:50,100 --> 00:41:53,190
You observe an act of
compassion or love.
729
00:41:53,190 --> 00:41:57,390
But then you could go to
the mall and see a stranger.
730
00:41:57,390 --> 00:41:59,040
And if you're mindful,
you'll realize
731
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,250
that that stranger
has joy and sorrow,
732
00:42:02,250 --> 00:42:04,970
like you do, pleasure
and pain, like you do,
733
00:42:04,970 --> 00:42:07,720
is going to grow old, like you
do, who's going to die one day,
734
00:42:07,720 --> 00:42:08,520
like you do.
735
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,380
And when you do that,
you have compassion
736
00:42:10,380 --> 00:42:12,960
for that human being,
because he's just like you.
737
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:17,550
And then, you can do that with
an enemy, a perceived enemy.
738
00:42:17,550 --> 00:42:22,320
And slowly, you train
your mind in such a way
739
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,115
that you deprive
yourself of all enemies.
740
00:42:25,115 --> 00:42:27,240
>> Well, that's one of the
things that people enjoy
741
00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:29,700
the most about an animal, right?
742
00:42:29,700 --> 00:42:32,460
The number one is
unconditional love.
743
00:42:32,460 --> 00:42:34,770
Number two is how
present they are.
744
00:42:34,770 --> 00:42:36,900
Number three is they
live in the moment.
745
00:42:36,900 --> 00:42:40,470
Number four is there
the master of forgiving.
746
00:42:40,470 --> 00:42:42,420
How many times human
makes mistakes.
747
00:42:42,420 --> 00:42:43,740
Every single day.
748
00:42:43,740 --> 00:42:45,090
How often the dog forgive them?
749
00:42:45,090 --> 00:42:47,440
Every single day.
750
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,220
>> One of the best goals of
Buddhism is to take negative
751
00:42:50,220 --> 00:42:54,390
energy and make it positive, and
that's not always easy to do.
752
00:42:54,390 --> 00:42:58,320
>> During the war in Vietnam, I
heard that my hometown had been
753
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,960
bombarded.
754
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:06,160
And I right away took many
means to go to my hometown.
755
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:12,930
And when I arrived, I
was so mad because most
756
00:43:12,930 --> 00:43:15,630
of the house, big cows--
757
00:43:15,630 --> 00:43:19,500
unfortunately, only my
house is halfly bombarded,
758
00:43:19,500 --> 00:43:22,230
but we still live in.
759
00:43:22,230 --> 00:43:24,490
Parts of other house
have been bombed,
760
00:43:24,490 --> 00:43:27,300
and people cry and
scream and they
761
00:43:27,300 --> 00:43:34,380
say, oh, they hate all the--
762
00:43:34,380 --> 00:43:36,770
they hate the sight
of nationalist.
763
00:43:36,770 --> 00:43:38,370
They hate the
sight of communist.
764
00:43:38,370 --> 00:43:39,360
They said that.
765
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:44,900
And the communist
tried to provoke,
766
00:43:44,900 --> 00:43:49,620
and then the nationalists called
American plane to bombard.
767
00:43:49,620 --> 00:43:53,670
And so I'm angry at everything.
768
00:43:53,670 --> 00:43:58,640
I don't know, and so I
said that, what I can do?
769
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:02,220
I went back to my breath,
and I walk calmly.
770
00:44:02,220 --> 00:44:05,250
Mindfully, I walk.
771
00:44:05,250 --> 00:44:08,520
And during, I tried to
be mindful in my step.
772
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,160
It means my mind
only with the contact
773
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,310
of my shoes and the ground.
774
00:44:13,310 --> 00:44:14,110
That's all.
775
00:44:14,110 --> 00:44:15,080
And I walk.
776
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,060
I walk, and suddenly,
among the green,
777
00:44:18,060 --> 00:44:21,570
I started the little
flower, very tiny,
778
00:44:21,570 --> 00:44:25,290
little violet flower come
through all the rain,
779
00:44:25,290 --> 00:44:26,490
like smiling.
780
00:44:26,490 --> 00:44:28,880
And I said, oh,
the little flower.
781
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:35,130
They have to grow through
all this wind and bloom.
782
00:44:35,130 --> 00:44:37,950
And me, I cannot be my peace?
783
00:44:37,950 --> 00:44:44,940
And then I calm myself,
and I look around.
784
00:44:44,940 --> 00:44:46,740
And I tried to see
positive things.
785
00:44:46,740 --> 00:44:50,490
I see that the people who try
their best to do something
786
00:44:50,490 --> 00:44:52,680
to help those who
are wounded, those
787
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,930
who are still very something.
788
00:44:55,930 --> 00:45:01,740
And so there are people who make
rice more to go and distribute
789
00:45:01,740 --> 00:45:03,720
to those who have nothing.
790
00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:06,890
There are those who
carry because bombard
791
00:45:06,890 --> 00:45:08,120
is gone already.
792
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:14,640
And so I feel that I see many
bodhisattva, many great being,
793
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,150
who are not angry like
me and want to shout,
794
00:45:18,150 --> 00:45:21,490
but they try to help
to do normal thing, so
795
00:45:21,490 --> 00:45:24,150
that these things to the--
796
00:45:24,150 --> 00:45:30,000
going to my peace that I can
see many wonderful things.
797
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,680
And when you have your own
peace, you know what to do
798
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,716
and what not to do.
799
00:45:37,716 --> 00:45:41,132
[MEDITATION CHIME]
800
00:45:43,580 --> 00:45:46,360
>> First of all, you have to
recognize that fear is in you.
801
00:45:49,220 --> 00:45:56,187
Lots of people, most of
people try to forget.
802
00:46:01,117 --> 00:46:03,640
They are afraid of many things.
803
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,560
They're afraid of
losing their job,
804
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:11,740
that the other person does
not love them anymore,
805
00:46:11,740 --> 00:46:15,060
that tomorrow,
they will be sick,
806
00:46:15,060 --> 00:46:22,780
abandoned, that they will
die, things like that.
807
00:46:22,780 --> 00:46:27,560
And they don't want to
think about these things.
808
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,010
They get busy in
order to forget.
809
00:46:38,430 --> 00:46:51,240
And most of the time, the fear
does not have a foundation.
810
00:46:51,240 --> 00:46:58,410
They're afraid of things
that do not exist,
811
00:46:58,410 --> 00:47:07,570
and that is why they
need to look deeply,
812
00:47:07,570 --> 00:47:10,120
or they might need a
friend to tell them
813
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:19,250
that their fear
has no foundation
814
00:47:19,250 --> 00:47:25,520
so that they can recognize
the nature of their fear
815
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:29,120
and get liberate.
816
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:37,130
There is a wonderful
practice in Buddhism
817
00:47:37,130 --> 00:47:44,150
that is very helpful for
us to reduce our suffering.
818
00:47:44,150 --> 00:47:49,250
That is the practice of
avoiding the second arrow.
819
00:47:49,250 --> 00:47:52,550
When someone is stuck by--
820
00:47:52,550 --> 00:47:56,990
when someone is hit by
an arrow, that person's
821
00:47:56,990 --> 00:47:59,480
suffers, of course.
822
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:04,760
But if a second arrow comes
and strike him or her exactly
823
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:12,200
at the same spot, the pain
will be many, many times
824
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:18,410
more intense, and that is why
it is very helpful to avoid
825
00:48:18,410 --> 00:48:19,640
the second arrow.
826
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:23,600
And the Buddha said that
sometime something happen
827
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,690
to your body, to your
mind, you suffer.
828
00:48:29,690 --> 00:48:36,210
But if you get angry at it, if
you worry too much about it,
829
00:48:36,210 --> 00:48:43,410
you will magnify the
pain into 100 times.
830
00:48:43,410 --> 00:48:50,450
So if you imagine
too much, if you
831
00:48:50,450 --> 00:48:54,530
don't know the
reality of your pain,
832
00:48:54,530 --> 00:48:58,700
then you will suffer 10
times more or 100 times more.
833
00:48:58,700 --> 00:49:03,340
So that kind of anger,
that kind of imagination,
834
00:49:03,340 --> 00:49:07,730
that kind of fear
intensified your pain
835
00:49:07,730 --> 00:49:10,910
by 10 time, 100 time more.
836
00:49:10,910 --> 00:49:13,700
That is the second arrow.
837
00:49:13,700 --> 00:49:18,980
So fear can make you
suffer much more,
838
00:49:18,980 --> 00:49:21,088
and fear is based on ignorance.
839
00:49:25,270 --> 00:49:26,845
And that is why
looking deeply help
840
00:49:26,845 --> 00:49:30,020
you to have the insight
that can dissipate,
841
00:49:30,020 --> 00:49:33,540
remove your ignorance.
842
00:49:33,540 --> 00:49:35,110
And a [INAUDIBLE]
friend can help
843
00:49:35,110 --> 00:49:39,460
you to see that your
fear has no foundation.
844
00:49:39,460 --> 00:49:41,740
>> I grew up on a
farm, number one.
845
00:49:41,740 --> 00:49:44,470
I grew up with a philosophy
of never work against Mother
846
00:49:44,470 --> 00:49:45,610
Nature.
847
00:49:45,610 --> 00:49:50,710
Always make sure you, human,
gain their trust, respect them.
848
00:49:50,710 --> 00:49:53,770
They're going to give you a
beautiful gift called loyalty.
849
00:49:53,770 --> 00:49:58,100
So once you grew up with
those two sentences,
850
00:49:58,100 --> 00:50:00,190
this is what you become, right?
851
00:50:00,190 --> 00:50:01,450
You live a philosophy.
852
00:50:01,450 --> 00:50:05,523
You live a lifestyle that
triggers an energy in you.
853
00:50:05,523 --> 00:50:06,940
Well, in the animal
world, this is
854
00:50:06,940 --> 00:50:11,380
very attractive, to
be calm from within.
855
00:50:11,380 --> 00:50:16,180
Because animals' biggest goal
is the family and the harmony,
856
00:50:16,180 --> 00:50:20,410
to be part of a family and
to live a harmonious life.
857
00:50:20,410 --> 00:50:24,640
Once you study human,
that's not his goal.
858
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,040
His goal is fame.
859
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,360
His goal is money.
860
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,642
His goal is a degree.
861
00:50:29,642 --> 00:50:31,350
My clients are Harvard
graduate, but they
862
00:50:31,350 --> 00:50:32,490
can't walk a chihuahua.
863
00:50:32,490 --> 00:50:34,698
>> Whether you have a
psychological reason or whether
864
00:50:34,698 --> 00:50:39,870
you have a spiritual thing, it
is undeniable that stress is
865
00:50:39,870 --> 00:50:43,650
taking a massive
toll on this country,
866
00:50:43,650 --> 00:50:47,910
how we think about each other,
and that by bringing mindful
867
00:50:47,910 --> 00:50:50,940
practice back, an ancient
practice that was always
868
00:50:50,940 --> 00:50:51,770
there--
869
00:50:51,770 --> 00:50:54,090
the wisdom to use it
was always there--
870
00:50:54,090 --> 00:50:57,510
back into our lives,
we begin to have
871
00:50:57,510 --> 00:51:01,800
a much healthier and holistic
way of approaching stress,
872
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:06,180
and, in fact, bring a stillness
and contentment to our life
873
00:51:06,180 --> 00:51:08,850
that is more profound
than any quick hit.
874
00:51:08,850 --> 00:51:12,280
>> We do things the way we
do because we're not aware.
875
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,130
So then it's just a pattern.
876
00:51:14,130 --> 00:51:16,920
You go out every Friday
night and things like that,
877
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,780
but it becomes very boring.
878
00:51:18,780 --> 00:51:22,080
But you still go because
what else do you do?
879
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,840
So I share with teenagers that--
880
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:26,700
be aware of what's going on.
881
00:51:26,700 --> 00:51:29,100
And when you have that
sense of calmness,
882
00:51:29,100 --> 00:51:31,940
it's actually very
attractive to others.
883
00:51:31,940 --> 00:51:35,610
When you are calm
and composed and you
884
00:51:35,610 --> 00:51:38,220
seem to be at ease
with yourself,
885
00:51:38,220 --> 00:51:39,820
all the guys will
come and ask you.
886
00:51:39,820 --> 00:51:44,250
Or you have enough confidence
to go and ask a guy to dance.
887
00:51:44,250 --> 00:51:48,000
So that's a little tip I
share with the young people.
888
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:54,390
>> I think people can have these
things happen just because you
889
00:51:54,390 --> 00:51:57,390
need some help.
890
00:51:57,390 --> 00:52:01,980
You need some way to
balance your life.
891
00:52:01,980 --> 00:52:06,030
For me, this mindfulness,
this way to be responsible,
892
00:52:06,030 --> 00:52:08,910
this way to be
respectful to yourself
893
00:52:08,910 --> 00:52:14,280
and others, this way to
find a quiet journey when
894
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:18,480
the world just seems too chaotic
and when things are happening
895
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,970
to you and you
think, I just don't
896
00:52:20,970 --> 00:52:25,560
know how I can handle
all of these things.
897
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,750
It's going to be a balance.
898
00:52:27,750 --> 00:52:31,830
Nothing is just great all the
time, and you're going to--
899
00:52:31,830 --> 00:52:37,320
life is difficult.
Life is a struggle.
900
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:42,270
You have to work hard
to have things go ahead.
901
00:52:42,270 --> 00:52:47,490
And life doesn't get easier,
but things get easier
902
00:52:47,490 --> 00:52:49,080
to understand.
903
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,770
>> Neurotic environment
makes a neurotic dog.
904
00:52:52,770 --> 00:52:54,780
Aggressive environment
makes an aggressive dog.
905
00:52:54,780 --> 00:52:57,020
A fearful environment
makes a fearful dog.
906
00:52:57,020 --> 00:53:00,310
[MEDITATION CHIME]
907
00:53:02,670 --> 00:53:07,330
>> For those of us who have
looked deeply into the nature
908
00:53:07,330 --> 00:53:13,040
of sickness, of
death, of old age,
909
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,416
we can also transcend our fear.
910
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:25,580
Because looking deeply, we can
see that it is possible for us
911
00:53:25,580 --> 00:53:29,250
to go through these things
peacefully, sickness,
912
00:53:29,250 --> 00:53:32,630
old age, and death.
913
00:53:32,630 --> 00:53:38,960
When you look at a cloud
and if you look deeply,
914
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,510
you'll see that the
nature of a cloud
915
00:53:41,510 --> 00:53:44,615
is a nature of no
birth and no death.
916
00:53:44,615 --> 00:53:50,150
A cloud has not
come from non-being
917
00:53:50,150 --> 00:53:53,510
before the cloud is a cloud.
918
00:53:53,510 --> 00:53:57,770
The cloud had been
other things, so a cloud
919
00:53:57,770 --> 00:54:00,500
has not come from nothing.
920
00:54:00,500 --> 00:54:04,360
So the nature of the
cloud is no birth.
921
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:07,850
The appearance of the
cloud, the form of a cloud
922
00:54:07,850 --> 00:54:09,830
is only a continuation.
923
00:54:09,830 --> 00:54:14,210
Before the cloud is a cloud,
it has been the water vapor.
924
00:54:14,210 --> 00:54:16,740
It has been the
water in the ocean,
925
00:54:16,740 --> 00:54:20,000
the heat generated by the sun.
926
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:26,870
So the cloud is
only a continuation.
927
00:54:26,870 --> 00:54:32,720
And when the cloud cease to
be a cloud, that's not dying.
928
00:54:32,720 --> 00:54:35,030
A cloud cannot die.
929
00:54:35,030 --> 00:54:37,726
It's impossible
for a cloud to die.
930
00:54:37,726 --> 00:54:43,040
A cloud can become
rain, snow, or ice,
931
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,430
but a cloud cannot
become nothing.
932
00:54:46,430 --> 00:54:50,840
And if the cloud
knows how to meditate,
933
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:57,620
it will see that this nature is
nature of no death, no drying.
934
00:54:57,620 --> 00:55:00,160
To be a cloud floating
in the sky is wonderful,
935
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,230
but to become the rain falling
on a rice field on a mountain
936
00:55:03,230 --> 00:55:04,880
is also wonderful.
937
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,280
And a cloud can look down
and see part of the cloud
938
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:17,420
has become the river, so to
become a river is so nice.
939
00:55:17,420 --> 00:55:20,660
And when you practice
meditation deeply,
940
00:55:20,660 --> 00:55:22,910
you see that your
nature is nature
941
00:55:22,910 --> 00:55:24,800
of no birth and
no death, and you
942
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:29,963
can transcend the fear of
birth and death, you see?
943
00:55:29,963 --> 00:55:31,380
So there are many
ways of practice
944
00:55:31,380 --> 00:55:35,120
in order to deal with our fear.
945
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:39,230
And because we are so
busy now in daily life,
946
00:55:39,230 --> 00:55:42,390
we have no time in
our life to practice.
947
00:55:42,390 --> 00:55:47,360
We have become victims of our
fear and anger, frustration.
948
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,160
And that is why
is very important
949
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:55,610
that everyone in society should
bring in a spiritual dimension
950
00:55:55,610 --> 00:55:58,370
to their life, so that
they will suffer less.
951
00:55:58,370 --> 00:56:03,560
A politician, a businessman,
a schoolteacher, a filmmaker
952
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:09,230
should bring in their
life a spiritual dimension
953
00:56:09,230 --> 00:56:13,140
so that they will suffer less.
954
00:56:13,140 --> 00:56:17,030
And when they suffer less, they
can do their job much better.
955
00:56:17,030 --> 00:56:20,670
>> There's no need to fear death
because death doesn't happen
956
00:56:20,670 --> 00:56:21,470
to you.
957
00:56:21,470 --> 00:56:24,540
Death is-- basically,
you upgrade the illusion,
958
00:56:24,540 --> 00:56:26,400
I think, after death.
959
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,650
>> There is no way to happiness.
960
00:56:28,650 --> 00:56:30,060
Happiness is the way.
961
00:56:30,060 --> 00:56:31,220
There is no way to peace.
962
00:56:31,220 --> 00:56:32,480
Peace is the way.
963
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:36,260
And the way is to
breathe in mindfully.
964
00:56:36,260 --> 00:56:40,520
The way is to take one
mindful step because when
965
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:46,300
you when you do that, the energy
of mindfulness is generated.
966
00:56:46,300 --> 00:56:48,980
And it is exactly with
that energy of mindfulness
967
00:56:48,980 --> 00:56:52,790
that you can recognize
the suffering inside.
968
00:56:52,790 --> 00:56:55,760
And you embrace it,
and you get a relief.
969
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:58,880
>> We are not human beings
who have occasional spiritual
970
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,300
experiences.
971
00:57:00,300 --> 00:57:04,070
We are spiritual beings who have
occasional human experiences.
972
00:57:04,070 --> 00:57:07,430
[MEDITATION CHIME]
973
00:57:09,830 --> 00:57:12,650
>> If you don't have peace,
you cannot offer peace.
974
00:57:12,650 --> 00:57:15,950
If you don't have calm,
you cannot offer calm.
975
00:57:15,950 --> 00:57:20,480
If you don't have compassion,
you cannot offer compassion.
976
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,410
And therefore, you
have to walk your path.
977
00:57:24,410 --> 00:57:26,960
You have to do it for you first.
978
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,110
If you don't know how to
take care of yourself,
979
00:57:29,110 --> 00:57:31,700
if you don't know
how to love yourself,
980
00:57:31,700 --> 00:57:33,710
you cannot take care
of another person.
981
00:57:33,710 --> 00:57:36,410
You cannot love another person.
982
00:57:36,410 --> 00:57:42,220
So self-love, self-protection
is the foundation
983
00:57:42,220 --> 00:57:45,710
for the love and protection
of another person.
984
00:57:45,710 --> 00:57:47,910
>> When you are
involved in the process,
985
00:57:47,910 --> 00:57:49,650
the outcome is going to be good.
986
00:57:49,650 --> 00:57:52,340
So I've been-- I've
trained executive leaders
987
00:57:52,340 --> 00:57:54,890
for leadership and
business skills.
988
00:57:54,890 --> 00:57:58,550
I tell them, pursue
excellence and ignore success.
989
00:57:58,550 --> 00:58:02,570
Because if you pursue
success, then your whole body
990
00:58:02,570 --> 00:58:05,270
will go into stress response.
991
00:58:05,270 --> 00:58:08,990
When you pursue excellence,
your whole body will go into joy
992
00:58:08,990 --> 00:58:11,570
and the success is guaranteed.
993
00:58:11,570 --> 00:58:13,850
If I'm walking
from here to there,
994
00:58:13,850 --> 00:58:15,380
I shouldn't be
always looking there.
995
00:58:15,380 --> 00:58:16,220
I'll stumble.
996
00:58:16,220 --> 00:58:18,283
I should be mindful
of my walking.
997
00:58:18,283 --> 00:58:20,450
If I'm studying for an exam,
I shouldn't be thinking
998
00:58:20,450 --> 00:58:21,860
of the results of all the time.
999
00:58:21,860 --> 00:58:23,480
I should be studying.
1000
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,280
That's mindfulness.
1001
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,040
That guarantees success, but
you're not attached to it
1002
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:30,290
because it comes from within.
1003
00:58:30,290 --> 00:58:32,540
You see, people who
are attached think
1004
00:58:32,540 --> 00:58:37,550
there's something out there that
is the source of their success
1005
00:58:37,550 --> 00:58:39,580
or whatever happiness.
1006
00:58:39,580 --> 00:58:43,340
But happiness, success,
all these things
1007
00:58:43,340 --> 00:58:47,150
that human beings pursue, the
source is within yourself.
1008
00:58:47,150 --> 00:58:50,960
>> It's a training, a training
to remember that in us,
1009
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:57,540
there is that ability to be very
peaceful, very understanding,
1010
00:58:57,540 --> 00:58:58,910
very loving.
1011
00:58:58,910 --> 00:59:02,890
But with the busy life,
and especially if we are
1012
00:59:02,890 --> 00:59:06,150
surround by very
negative condition,
1013
00:59:06,150 --> 00:59:09,860
we are easily irritate.
1014
00:59:09,860 --> 00:59:15,430
And when we irritate, we
are like a pond of water
1015
00:59:15,430 --> 00:59:19,670
very turbulent and you do
not see anything clear.
1016
00:59:19,670 --> 00:59:23,390
And then practice is to
restore the stillness
1017
00:59:23,390 --> 00:59:26,430
of the water in you,
the peace in you.
1018
00:59:26,430 --> 00:59:30,050
And when you see,
you are a limpid,
1019
00:59:30,050 --> 00:59:31,640
more clear in your mind.
1020
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,310
You see thing in its totality.
1021
00:59:34,310 --> 00:59:39,320
I usually say that when
your mind is agitate,
1022
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:43,010
you look at the moon and
you only see little piece.
1023
00:59:43,010 --> 00:59:47,870
But when your mind is still,
you can see the whole totality
1024
00:59:47,870 --> 00:59:48,990
of the full moon.
1025
00:59:48,990 --> 00:59:51,320
>> The dog mindfulness
is helping us,
1026
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,860
but our lack of being
mindful is hurting them.
1027
00:59:54,860 --> 00:59:58,100
>> So there's something to be
said that no matter how much
1028
00:59:58,100 --> 00:59:59,587
the world will
condemn somebody--
1029
00:59:59,587 --> 01:00:00,920
you remember the story of Jesus?
1030
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,960
He was condemned too.
1031
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:07,880
No matter how much the
world condemns the man,
1032
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,710
open your heart to what
that man is saying.
1033
01:00:09,710 --> 01:00:11,450
There might be a message there.
1034
01:00:11,450 --> 01:00:13,970
>> What's difficult it is for
the psychiatrist who's got 15
1035
01:00:13,970 --> 01:00:17,160
minutes to write a prescription.
1036
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,460
It's difficult for them
to integrate mindfulness
1037
01:00:19,460 --> 01:00:20,570
into those practices.
1038
01:00:20,570 --> 01:00:24,470
For people who have a full
hour, they're able to do this.
1039
01:00:24,470 --> 01:00:30,200
But the irony or the silliness
to this is that a prescription
1040
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:34,190
that I give you-- that I write,
and I can write every month--
1041
01:00:34,190 --> 01:00:38,570
you take it once a day, comes
with side effects, costs
1042
01:00:38,570 --> 01:00:40,490
you, costs the
insurance company.
1043
01:00:40,490 --> 01:00:42,200
Mindfulness-- and I
sometimes do this.
1044
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:44,283
I'll take up my prescription
pad, and they'll say,
1045
01:00:44,283 --> 01:00:46,810
you need to give me
something for anxiety.
1046
01:00:46,810 --> 01:00:48,800
So I say, I've got
just the thing for you.
1047
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:49,850
And I'll write this--
1048
01:00:49,850 --> 01:00:54,380
mindfulness, take
daily as needed,
1049
01:00:54,380 --> 01:00:57,630
may repeat as many
times as you want.
1050
01:00:57,630 --> 01:00:59,865
And then I'll take out this
and I'll hand it to them
1051
01:00:59,865 --> 01:01:01,490
and they'll look at
me as if I'm crazy.
1052
01:01:01,490 --> 01:01:04,250
And I'll say, this is
the way out for you.
1053
01:01:04,250 --> 01:01:08,540
>> You are in a situation
where you suffer very deeply.
1054
01:01:08,540 --> 01:01:15,540
There is a way to suffer
that can bring relief.
1055
01:01:15,540 --> 01:01:18,970
And everyone wants to learn
how to suffer like that
1056
01:01:18,970 --> 01:01:21,020
in order not to suffer.
1057
01:01:21,020 --> 01:01:24,410
And the practice is very clear.
1058
01:01:24,410 --> 01:01:26,322
Don't be afraid
of your suffering.
1059
01:01:26,322 --> 01:01:28,390
Live with it.
1060
01:01:28,390 --> 01:01:32,290
Take one deep breath,
come back to yourself,
1061
01:01:32,290 --> 01:01:37,150
and recognize the suffering
and try to hold it dearly.
1062
01:01:37,150 --> 01:01:41,520
You can do that because while
you are breathing in mindfully,
1063
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,530
you generate the
energy of mindfulness.
1064
01:01:44,530 --> 01:01:47,350
And it is exactly with
that energy of mindfulness
1065
01:01:47,350 --> 01:01:50,240
that you can recognize and
embrace your suffering.
1066
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:54,310
Otherwise, you are
overwhelmed by your suffering.
1067
01:01:54,310 --> 01:01:55,930
The practice of
mindful breathing,
1068
01:01:55,930 --> 01:01:58,750
the practice of mindful
walking helps generate
1069
01:01:58,750 --> 01:02:01,060
that energy of mindfulness.
1070
01:02:01,060 --> 01:02:04,030
Without that
mindfulness, you are
1071
01:02:04,030 --> 01:02:05,560
overwhelmed by your suffering.
1072
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:08,170
With that mindfulness,
you are able to recognize
1073
01:02:08,170 --> 01:02:13,720
the suffering, embrace it,
and be at peace with it.
1074
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:18,880
And that is how you
learn how to suffer.
1075
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,650
>> Now, at Gallup,
we've done studies--
1076
01:02:20,650 --> 01:02:22,025
I'm part of Gallup
organization--
1077
01:02:22,025 --> 01:02:26,320
that if you have a happy friend,
your happiness goes up by 15%.
1078
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,470
If you have a happy friend
who has a happy friend,
1079
01:02:28,470 --> 01:02:30,200
it goes up another 10%.
1080
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:33,010
And if the happy friend's happy
friend has a happy friend,
1081
01:02:33,010 --> 01:02:35,260
it goes up again, incrementally.
1082
01:02:35,260 --> 01:02:38,950
So your happiness is dependent
on the happiness of others,
1083
01:02:38,950 --> 01:02:40,660
and we are all entangled.
1084
01:02:40,660 --> 01:02:43,360
We are entangled
horizontally now,
1085
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,830
not only through relationships
but through social networks,
1086
01:02:46,830 --> 01:02:49,090
Twitter or Facebook,
this, that, and the other.
1087
01:02:49,090 --> 01:02:52,120
The other day, somebody
asked me on Twitter,
1088
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,160
how do I find the right person?
1089
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:56,600
And I just tweeted back.
1090
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,690
I said, instead of finding
the right person become
1091
01:02:58,690 --> 01:02:59,760
the right person.
1092
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:03,190
Now, within five minutes,
people started retweeting it.
1093
01:03:03,190 --> 01:03:04,990
And in five hours,
five million people
1094
01:03:04,990 --> 01:03:06,730
were passing on the message.
1095
01:03:06,730 --> 01:03:11,890
So our emotions are contagious,
our thoughts, our insights.
1096
01:03:11,890 --> 01:03:14,490
And these networks
are taking that mind
1097
01:03:14,490 --> 01:03:19,000
and proving what I said, that
there is no separate self.
1098
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,460
And not only is there no
separate self horizontally
1099
01:03:21,460 --> 01:03:25,150
but vertically
because your mind is
1100
01:03:25,150 --> 01:03:27,280
influenced by the
cultural mind that
1101
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,320
goes back millions of years.
1102
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:35,020
So vertically-- we
exchange meaning
1103
01:03:35,020 --> 01:03:37,770
through each other horizontally
through relationship,
1104
01:03:37,770 --> 01:03:39,690
and this is through
social networks--
1105
01:03:39,690 --> 01:03:42,610
but vertically through
culture and history.
1106
01:03:42,610 --> 01:03:45,070
In other words, if
you go deep enough,
1107
01:03:45,070 --> 01:03:49,420
your mind is all mind ever
since the beginning of time.
1108
01:03:49,420 --> 01:03:54,790
>> But it is also very important
to be careful and understand
1109
01:03:54,790 --> 01:03:59,890
that you have to be
mindful of your compassion,
1110
01:03:59,890 --> 01:04:04,480
that there are people who
are not quality people,
1111
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:09,700
and there are people who choose
to be lost each and every day.
1112
01:04:09,700 --> 01:04:12,260
There are people that are--
1113
01:04:12,260 --> 01:04:15,850
if you keep giving
them your love,
1114
01:04:15,850 --> 01:04:18,470
they're not going to get better.
1115
01:04:18,470 --> 01:04:20,920
They're not people who were
just hurt in their childhood
1116
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,140
and if you love them and
love them and love them,
1117
01:04:23,140 --> 01:04:25,390
you're going to fix them.
1118
01:04:25,390 --> 01:04:28,690
And so if you just keep being
compassionate and loving
1119
01:04:28,690 --> 01:04:31,840
and they keep being
mean and abusive,
1120
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:35,920
your compassion is going
to make them better.
1121
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:37,750
There are people who
wake up every day,
1122
01:04:37,750 --> 01:04:40,300
and they're lost on purpose.
1123
01:04:40,300 --> 01:04:48,840
And it's very important for
you to be mindful of yourself
1124
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:53,970
and to observe people with
thoughtful mindfulness--
1125
01:04:53,970 --> 01:04:57,900
mindful of yourself,
mindful of them--
1126
01:04:57,900 --> 01:05:03,750
and be aware if that person is
choosing to be lost every day.
1127
01:05:03,750 --> 01:05:06,865
>> The world loves dogs,
but it behaves like a cat.
1128
01:05:06,865 --> 01:05:07,740
You know what I mean?
1129
01:05:07,740 --> 01:05:09,800
So when it comes to--
when you see behavior,
1130
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,600
cat-- you have excuse the cat
because the cat was programmed
1131
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:13,500
that way.
1132
01:05:13,500 --> 01:05:15,610
The human is not
programmed to be selfish.
1133
01:05:15,610 --> 01:05:18,060
The human is programmed
to be pack-oriented,
1134
01:05:18,060 --> 01:05:21,060
but when it's money
involved and then
1135
01:05:21,060 --> 01:05:22,950
it becomes single-oriented.
1136
01:05:22,950 --> 01:05:26,340
What everybody wants is
trust, respect, and love,
1137
01:05:26,340 --> 01:05:28,140
but that's what you want.
1138
01:05:28,140 --> 01:05:30,210
Are you giving it?
1139
01:05:30,210 --> 01:05:31,385
That's the question.
1140
01:05:31,385 --> 01:05:34,710
[MEDITATION CHIME]
1141
01:05:36,610 --> 01:05:40,670
There are people
who just do that.
1142
01:05:40,670 --> 01:05:43,970
They don't need another
person to tell them.
1143
01:05:43,970 --> 01:05:47,450
They have learned from
their own suffering.
1144
01:05:47,450 --> 01:05:50,300
They know that they
waste their life if they
1145
01:05:50,300 --> 01:05:56,280
live without mindfulness.
1146
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,510
The opposite of mindfulness
is forgetfulness.
1147
01:05:59,510 --> 01:06:00,850
You live in forgetfulness.
1148
01:06:00,850 --> 01:06:02,120
You live like a robot.
1149
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:05,630
You are on automatic pilot.
1150
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:12,440
And there are those of us
who need a friend in order
1151
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:17,000
to learn how to live mindfully
by watching that friend,
1152
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:20,510
walking, sitting, drinking
his tea, something like that.
1153
01:06:23,180 --> 01:06:28,160
Everyone has the capacity
of being mindful.
1154
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,410
You can drink your
tea mindfully.
1155
01:06:30,410 --> 01:06:33,050
You can drive your
car mindfully, only
1156
01:06:33,050 --> 01:06:38,090
your mindfulness last
just one or two seconds.
1157
01:06:38,090 --> 01:06:40,760
So if you train
yourself, then you
1158
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:45,840
can be mindful for longer times.
1159
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:48,920
And when you are
mindful, you enjoy more.
1160
01:06:51,740 --> 01:06:55,120
You are truly there, and you
live more deeply every moment
1161
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:56,370
of your daily life.
1162
01:06:56,370 --> 01:06:59,300
And that's not hard work.
1163
01:06:59,300 --> 01:07:00,740
It's very pleasant.
1164
01:07:00,740 --> 01:07:03,920
>> So some people think
that mindfulness is--
1165
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,950
identify with being a
hippy, with Burning Man,
1166
01:07:06,950 --> 01:07:12,540
with sitting around singing "Kum
ba ya," smoking a little peyote
1167
01:07:12,540 --> 01:07:16,790
or whatever it is, it's this
really alternative practice.
1168
01:07:16,790 --> 01:07:22,880
But in reality, mindfulness is
being practiced in Ivy League
1169
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:27,170
schools, at all the
major universities,
1170
01:07:27,170 --> 01:07:30,550
and a lot of therapists
and psychologists
1171
01:07:30,550 --> 01:07:31,550
are doing it themselves.
1172
01:07:31,550 --> 01:07:33,008
Although you wouldn't
know about it
1173
01:07:33,008 --> 01:07:34,720
because they're not
talking about it,
1174
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:41,900
and a lot of people who are
serious members of society--
1175
01:07:41,900 --> 01:07:46,070
that are very respected, who
wouldn't be connected with
1176
01:07:46,070 --> 01:07:50,240
desert-dwelling
peyote-smoking hippie--
1177
01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:51,950
are doing mindfulness.
1178
01:07:51,950 --> 01:07:55,110
>> It's a reckoning
with yourself every day,
1179
01:07:55,110 --> 01:07:59,330
which is essentially a
solitude, and a solitude
1180
01:07:59,330 --> 01:08:03,690
that's disciplined in the
sense that you have to--
1181
01:08:03,690 --> 01:08:07,340
when you wander off into
the clouds of thoughts
1182
01:08:07,340 --> 01:08:14,270
that you have, you gently
return to the center.
1183
01:08:14,270 --> 01:08:16,960
>> Everyone can do it.
1184
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,880
A Buddhist can do it.
1185
01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:21,529
A non-Buddhist can do it.
1186
01:08:21,529 --> 01:08:26,229
A Christian, a Jew, a
communist-- everyone can do it.
1187
01:08:26,229 --> 01:08:27,029
>> Life is simple.
1188
01:08:27,029 --> 01:08:28,340
We make a complicated.
1189
01:08:28,340 --> 01:08:31,040
>> I think if you
start with say,
1190
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:34,609
mindful awareness of
breath as a lifestyle,
1191
01:08:34,609 --> 01:08:37,460
it soon becomes a meditative
experience living.
1192
01:08:37,460 --> 01:08:39,260
>> The only way to
do it is to practice.
1193
01:08:39,260 --> 01:08:41,848
And it is true, like
with any other skill
1194
01:08:41,848 --> 01:08:43,890
with any other practice,
that the more you do it,
1195
01:08:43,890 --> 01:08:45,200
the better you get at it.
1196
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:46,670
And the more
efficient it becomes,
1197
01:08:46,670 --> 01:08:48,335
and the easier it is to do.
1198
01:08:48,335 --> 01:08:50,210
>> No matter what the
situation in the world,
1199
01:08:50,210 --> 01:08:51,950
you can breathe through it.
1200
01:08:51,950 --> 01:08:56,060
>> And the breath is the link
between the body and the mind.
1201
01:08:56,060 --> 01:08:57,920
And tends to the breath--
1202
01:08:57,920 --> 01:08:59,840
you go back and you
pay attention only
1203
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:04,412
to the in breath, the air which
is entering into your lung,
1204
01:09:04,412 --> 01:09:06,109
and you're calm.
1205
01:09:06,109 --> 01:09:08,729
Breathing out, you relax.
1206
01:09:08,729 --> 01:09:10,270
You calm.
1207
01:09:10,270 --> 01:09:13,609
You relax when you
do it for a while,
1208
01:09:13,609 --> 01:09:16,439
and then you touch
slowly your peace.
1209
01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:21,710
And when you have that
peace, you start to think
1210
01:09:21,710 --> 01:09:24,859
and you start to speak or act.
1211
01:09:24,859 --> 01:09:28,229
So that is the key point for
those who practice mindfulness.
1212
01:09:28,229 --> 01:09:32,540
>> The breathing in
should be pleasant.
1213
01:09:32,540 --> 01:09:36,399
If you don't feel a pleasure
when you're breath in,
1214
01:09:36,399 --> 01:09:40,490
you are not really
practicing correctly.
1215
01:09:40,490 --> 01:09:44,390
In the beginning, you might just
focus your attention to your
1216
01:09:44,390 --> 01:09:45,319
in breath.
1217
01:09:45,319 --> 01:09:47,779
Your in breath might be
short, not very peaceful.
1218
01:09:47,779 --> 01:09:49,899
But you allow it
to be like that.
1219
01:09:49,899 --> 01:09:51,979
You just allow
yourself to breathe in
1220
01:09:51,979 --> 01:09:56,100
and to become aware
of your in breath.
1221
01:09:56,100 --> 01:09:58,640
And if you continue like that,
your in breath and out breath
1222
01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:05,600
will be come deeper, more
harmonious, more peaceful
1223
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,270
by itself alone.
1224
01:10:08,270 --> 01:10:10,857
That is the miracle of practice.
1225
01:10:10,857 --> 01:10:12,440
And when your in
breath and out breath
1226
01:10:12,440 --> 01:10:17,090
has become a little bit
deeper, slower, more peaceful,
1227
01:10:17,090 --> 01:10:20,120
your body will profit from it.
1228
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,520
The stress, the
tension in your body
1229
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:26,070
will be reduced because
you'll know how to breathe
1230
01:10:26,070 --> 01:10:31,580
in peacefully and with harmony.
1231
01:10:31,580 --> 01:10:35,490
And so even if you
have a painful feeling,
1232
01:10:35,490 --> 01:10:40,010
a painful emotion within
yourself, mindful breathing,
1233
01:10:40,010 --> 01:10:44,330
the peaceful breathing will help
you to suffer less right away.
1234
01:10:44,330 --> 01:10:49,870
>> When I wake up, I train
myself to see that I have 24
1235
01:10:49,870 --> 01:10:51,800
hour to live deeply.
1236
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:55,520
It doesn't mean that my
day is only wonderful.
1237
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:57,860
I have many stressful
thing to do.
1238
01:10:57,860 --> 01:11:02,870
But I say that I vow to make
my days more relaxing, even I
1239
01:11:02,870 --> 01:11:08,210
have a lot of expiring
date, project due to finish.
1240
01:11:08,210 --> 01:11:11,090
But I have to do that in
order to remind myself.
1241
01:11:11,090 --> 01:11:12,100
That is the first act.
1242
01:11:12,100 --> 01:11:18,490
And then I start to
stand them up and walk,
1243
01:11:18,490 --> 01:11:20,540
and I walk mindfully.
1244
01:11:20,540 --> 01:11:21,440
That is straining.
1245
01:11:21,440 --> 01:11:22,310
It's not easy.
1246
01:11:22,310 --> 01:11:24,260
>> I don't see a
dog as a student,
1247
01:11:24,260 --> 01:11:26,230
I see a dog as a teacher.
1248
01:11:26,230 --> 01:11:29,360
What the human have to do is
to humble himself and learn
1249
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,040
from an animal
because a human always
1250
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,110
wants to teach the animal.
1251
01:11:33,110 --> 01:11:37,680
>> For businessmen walking
from one building to another,
1252
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:41,290
he might enjoy
every step he make.
1253
01:11:43,990 --> 01:11:47,300
He has to make a
decision, of course.
1254
01:11:47,300 --> 01:11:48,170
But why walking?
1255
01:11:50,930 --> 01:11:55,280
He might like to enjoy
every step that he makes.
1256
01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:59,460
And if he can get the
peace, the joy while
1257
01:11:59,460 --> 01:12:02,980
walking, when he
arrived is fresh
1258
01:12:02,980 --> 01:12:05,360
and he can make a
better decision.
1259
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:06,860
>> Quiet doesn't mean calm.
1260
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,670
He's sitting down,
which a lot of people
1261
01:12:13,670 --> 01:12:15,230
interpret as he's calm.
1262
01:12:15,230 --> 01:12:20,885
No, quiet and calm is
two different things.
1263
01:12:20,885 --> 01:12:23,860
A lot of people say,
"I am calm, Cesar."
1264
01:12:23,860 --> 01:12:24,660
They're quiet.
1265
01:12:27,230 --> 01:12:31,930
This is calm, not calm, calm.
1266
01:12:31,930 --> 01:12:34,420
>> With mindfulness
practice and meditation,
1267
01:12:34,420 --> 01:12:39,940
you can turn on the good genes
and turn off the bad genes.
1268
01:12:39,940 --> 01:12:44,650
There are about 400 to 500
genes that influence things
1269
01:12:44,650 --> 01:12:49,660
like inflammation, autoimmune
illnesses, heart disease,
1270
01:12:49,660 --> 01:12:51,550
and certain types of cancer.
1271
01:12:51,550 --> 01:12:55,120
Within four months, you
can turn on the good ones
1272
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:59,080
and turn off the bad ones
through the following things--
1273
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:04,970
good sleep, meditation,
mindfulness, exercise,
1274
01:13:04,970 --> 01:13:08,890
healthy relationships, and
a reasonably good diet,
1275
01:13:08,890 --> 01:13:11,950
which means not eating
anything that comes in a can
1276
01:13:11,950 --> 01:13:12,790
or has a label.
1277
01:13:12,790 --> 01:13:15,590
So that is genetic
indeterminism,
1278
01:13:15,590 --> 01:13:18,850
which means regulating
your own genes.
1279
01:13:18,850 --> 01:13:22,450
And then neuroplasticity-- when
you change your brain structure
1280
01:13:22,450 --> 01:13:25,450
through mindful practices,
you're going through the genes.
1281
01:13:25,450 --> 01:13:28,410
And neurons that fire
together, wire together.
1282
01:13:28,410 --> 01:13:29,890
You're laying down new proteins.
1283
01:13:29,890 --> 01:13:31,330
In order to lay
down new proteins,
1284
01:13:31,330 --> 01:13:33,202
you've got to go through DNA.
1285
01:13:33,202 --> 01:13:35,410
You've got to go through
what is called transcription
1286
01:13:35,410 --> 01:13:37,570
and translation,
so you're actually
1287
01:13:37,570 --> 01:13:39,910
turning on genes to do that.
1288
01:13:39,910 --> 01:13:43,990
>> I have said that there
are people who learn from
1289
01:13:43,990 --> 01:13:47,080
themselves, from
their own suffering.
1290
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:49,130
And there are those who
can learn from a friend,
1291
01:13:49,130 --> 01:13:50,275
from a teacher.
1292
01:13:50,275 --> 01:13:51,880
They had to learn.
1293
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:54,790
There are those who
read books and know
1294
01:13:54,790 --> 01:13:56,575
how to do it by themselves.
1295
01:13:56,575 --> 01:13:59,260
There are those who
need to go to a teacher,
1296
01:13:59,260 --> 01:14:00,710
to a group of friends.
1297
01:14:00,710 --> 01:14:06,810
We have to learn, and the
best thing you might offer,
1298
01:14:06,810 --> 01:14:10,600
best gift you can make to a
friend might be to tell him
1299
01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:15,340
or to tell her how to live his
or her life more deeply, more
1300
01:14:15,340 --> 01:14:18,340
mindfully.
1301
01:14:18,340 --> 01:14:23,290
But you cannot do that
unless you know how to do it.
1302
01:14:23,290 --> 01:14:27,940
You have to live
your life mindfully.
1303
01:14:27,940 --> 01:14:34,570
You have the capacity
of arriving in the here
1304
01:14:34,570 --> 01:14:37,720
and the now, feeling at home
in the here and the now,
1305
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,980
before you can help
another person.
1306
01:14:40,980 --> 01:14:44,746
And one person living like
that can help so many people.
1307
01:14:44,746 --> 01:14:48,148
[MEDITATION CHIME]
1308
01:14:50,100 --> 01:14:53,370
>> So how do we, then, begin
to integrate mindfulness?
1309
01:14:53,370 --> 01:14:57,120
I think there has to be
a point at which you say,
1310
01:14:57,120 --> 01:15:01,320
what I'm doing isn't
working for me.
1311
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:03,840
The other solutions--
talking to my friends--
1312
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,960
isn't working for me, if
it isn't, and so I now
1313
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,070
need to do something else.
1314
01:15:09,070 --> 01:15:13,160
The problem is that for
a lot of Westerners,
1315
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,580
they are so used to very
rapid results, where
1316
01:15:17,580 --> 01:15:23,220
everything is, I want this now.
1317
01:15:23,220 --> 01:15:25,470
The practice of
mindfulness can sometimes
1318
01:15:25,470 --> 01:15:27,930
take much longer
than a pill does.
1319
01:15:27,930 --> 01:15:30,270
So certainly, a line
of cocaine or a line
1320
01:15:30,270 --> 01:15:33,420
or a shot of heroin
or a drug is going
1321
01:15:33,420 --> 01:15:35,580
to make you feel
better much quicker.
1322
01:15:35,580 --> 01:15:39,030
At the end of the day
though, is that the aftermath
1323
01:15:39,030 --> 01:15:41,580
of that line of
cocaine and the heroin
1324
01:15:41,580 --> 01:15:43,870
is tremendous unhappiness.
1325
01:15:43,870 --> 01:15:46,350
So it's a short-term solution
to a long term problem.
1326
01:15:46,350 --> 01:15:55,650
>> It's biologically ingrained
in us to live in a way that is
1327
01:15:55,650 --> 01:16:02,490
of the least resistance, the way
that is easiest and also just
1328
01:16:02,490 --> 01:16:04,020
safest.
1329
01:16:04,020 --> 01:16:08,710
Like our ancestors,
animals, first human beings
1330
01:16:08,710 --> 01:16:12,360
when they lived in a cave,
the most important thing
1331
01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:15,120
was to survive, to be safe.
1332
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:18,450
So we developed
instincts that helped us.
1333
01:16:18,450 --> 01:16:22,890
If we hear a noise, we'll have
a fight or flight response
1334
01:16:22,890 --> 01:16:24,180
immediately.
1335
01:16:24,180 --> 01:16:25,470
Or we see something.
1336
01:16:25,470 --> 01:16:30,060
We immediately
categorize it so that we
1337
01:16:30,060 --> 01:16:33,780
can make a very quick decision
whether it is something
1338
01:16:33,780 --> 01:16:36,150
safe or something unsafe.
1339
01:16:36,150 --> 01:16:42,600
So that was developed very
early in our history as living
1340
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:46,230
beings, and so that's
much more ingrained.
1341
01:16:46,230 --> 01:16:53,970
The capacity to be aware, the
capacity to recognize, to--
1342
01:16:53,970 --> 01:16:57,570
those are much more
developed, and they
1343
01:16:57,570 --> 01:17:01,770
have been developed much later
in our history, especially
1344
01:17:01,770 --> 01:17:06,390
the evolutionary of human
beings, of the Homo sapiens.
1345
01:17:06,390 --> 01:17:10,190
So when we have the brain,
the cortex, developed,
1346
01:17:10,190 --> 01:17:14,340
that includes our capacity,
like mindfulness, awareness,
1347
01:17:14,340 --> 01:17:16,800
compassion, altruism.
1348
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,990
But those are
developed much later.
1349
01:17:19,990 --> 01:17:23,910
So for us, we live
with our instincts,
1350
01:17:23,910 --> 01:17:26,730
and that's easier and quicker.
1351
01:17:26,730 --> 01:17:28,770
We can make a quick
decision, and that's
1352
01:17:28,770 --> 01:17:32,550
why I will share later that
life can be very monotonous.
1353
01:17:32,550 --> 01:17:36,000
Because we look at something, we
immediately make a conclusion.
1354
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:37,020
Oh, it's a tree.
1355
01:17:37,020 --> 01:17:38,040
It's an animal.
1356
01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:41,910
It's that friend or that's
my wife or something.
1357
01:17:41,910 --> 01:17:44,950
And we make that
decision immediately,
1358
01:17:44,950 --> 01:17:46,080
and so then it's over.
1359
01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:47,940
The brain doesn't
process anymore.
1360
01:17:47,940 --> 01:17:51,570
We don't see the situation,
the person anymore.
1361
01:17:51,570 --> 01:17:55,960
The brain shuts down and look
for another new stimulus,
1362
01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:56,760
you see?
1363
01:17:56,760 --> 01:18:00,240
But learning to be
mindful, it takes more work
1364
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:03,090
because it takes us
to still the mind,
1365
01:18:03,090 --> 01:18:06,660
to quiet the mind so that
the brain doesn't just
1366
01:18:06,660 --> 01:18:10,710
make a top-down control, a
top-down decision to say,
1367
01:18:10,710 --> 01:18:11,730
that is that.
1368
01:18:11,730 --> 01:18:14,100
But we keep the mind
quiet, so that we
1369
01:18:14,100 --> 01:18:20,730
continue to process that
stimulus, that person, that--
1370
01:18:20,730 --> 01:18:25,090
maybe our wife, our children,
ourselves, our feelings,
1371
01:18:25,090 --> 01:18:26,040
our body.
1372
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:30,930
The brain continues to be in
touch with that in a new way
1373
01:18:30,930 --> 01:18:32,790
we call the beginner's mind.
1374
01:18:32,790 --> 01:18:35,390
We are in touch with
it new every moment.
1375
01:18:35,390 --> 01:18:37,230
And it is a mental training.
1376
01:18:37,230 --> 01:18:41,720
We have that capacity within
us, but the other capacity
1377
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,820
of relying on our
instincts, that's
1378
01:18:44,820 --> 01:18:48,300
much more ingrained and
much easier and quicker.
1379
01:18:48,300 --> 01:18:54,210
>> People have been bamboozled
and hypnotized into hard work,
1380
01:18:54,210 --> 01:18:57,120
exacting plans,
driving ambition,
1381
01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:00,360
which is the perfect
recipe for failure.
1382
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:04,530
It's part of the
Judeo-Christian ethic.
1383
01:19:04,530 --> 01:19:09,330
Work hard, make
plans, be ambitious,
1384
01:19:09,330 --> 01:19:11,850
beat the other guy, et cetera.
1385
01:19:11,850 --> 01:19:14,880
And it's the perfect
recipe for failure
1386
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:18,680
because even when you get there,
you won't be a happy person.
1387
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,180
>> But it's an explanation of,
what's the difference between
1388
01:19:21,180 --> 01:19:22,950
happiness and pleasure?
1389
01:19:22,950 --> 01:19:27,420
And pleasure is the thing that
you do and you get it right now
1390
01:19:27,420 --> 01:19:29,340
and it's all great,
right that second.
1391
01:19:29,340 --> 01:19:33,060
And happiness is the choice
that you make that sustains.
1392
01:19:33,060 --> 01:19:36,840
And I really think it gets
really simple to pick.
1393
01:19:36,840 --> 01:19:40,980
If I have three martinis, I'm
going to get a great big buzz,
1394
01:19:40,980 --> 01:19:43,580
and I'm going to feel
really crappy tomorrow.
1395
01:19:43,580 --> 01:19:47,070
If I don't have three martinis,
but I sit with my friends
1396
01:19:47,070 --> 01:19:50,470
and do the mindful thing, I'm
going to have a lot of fun
1397
01:19:50,470 --> 01:19:54,280
right now and I'm going to
have a lot of fun tomorrow.
1398
01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:59,290
>> My mind is with my
step, and then when I enter
1399
01:19:59,290 --> 01:20:05,470
into the washroom, I open the
water tap to clean my face.
1400
01:20:05,470 --> 01:20:10,840
But my mind is with the water
tap, and when I open the water,
1401
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:11,670
I see the water.
1402
01:20:11,670 --> 01:20:15,700
And then some time,
my mind is so deep
1403
01:20:15,700 --> 01:20:20,260
that I see something
that, usually,
1404
01:20:20,260 --> 01:20:25,780
if my mind is not there, I
do not see, like the water.
1405
01:20:25,780 --> 01:20:29,330
Our ancestor do not have water
in our washroom like that.
1406
01:20:29,330 --> 01:20:32,770
They have to go far
and pick up the water.
1407
01:20:32,770 --> 01:20:37,760
And in some area, there's
so very little water.
1408
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:43,810
And here, the water flow clean,
and I only swish the water tap.
1409
01:20:43,810 --> 01:20:46,140
In the left side, it
will be cold water
1410
01:20:46,140 --> 01:20:48,350
and the right side
will be hot water.
1411
01:20:48,350 --> 01:20:51,220
And it's so wonderful,
and so I feel
1412
01:20:51,220 --> 01:20:55,570
that the wisdom of
many generation,
1413
01:20:55,570 --> 01:21:00,900
of previous generation,
the plumber, the engineer
1414
01:21:00,900 --> 01:21:03,680
to bring that wonderful water.
1415
01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:07,240
Hot water-- in the cold
winter, I have so warm.
1416
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:08,710
Hot water is--
1417
01:21:08,710 --> 01:21:10,540
I cannot take it for granted.
1418
01:21:10,540 --> 01:21:13,510
When I see deeply like
that, I'm so happy.
1419
01:21:13,510 --> 01:21:17,560
>> The bottom line is that
mindfulness is a cleaner,
1420
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:24,390
side effect-free way to
longer-term mental health
1421
01:21:24,390 --> 01:21:28,457
stability way of being than
any of these other short-term
1422
01:21:28,457 --> 01:21:30,040
solutions that come
with side effects.
1423
01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:34,010
>> You have the
potential for greatness.
1424
01:21:34,010 --> 01:21:37,210
You're a field of
infinite possibilities.
1425
01:21:37,210 --> 01:21:40,610
Your intentions
are very powerful.
1426
01:21:40,610 --> 01:21:43,540
You have infinite
creativity, and you're
1427
01:21:43,540 --> 01:21:47,820
connected to all that exists,
not only now, but in the past
1428
01:21:47,820 --> 01:21:49,250
and in the future.
1429
01:21:49,250 --> 01:21:51,490
You are the
immeasurable potential
1430
01:21:51,490 --> 01:21:55,270
of all that was, all that is,
and all that will ever be.
1431
01:21:55,270 --> 01:22:00,970
>> Every morning when
I wake up, I am happy.
1432
01:22:00,970 --> 01:22:03,850
>> Life is a miracle.
1433
01:22:03,850 --> 01:22:08,440
When you breathe
in mindfully, you
1434
01:22:08,440 --> 01:22:11,440
might get insight that
you are still alive.
1435
01:22:14,440 --> 01:22:20,320
And to see that you are
alive is only a miracle.
1436
01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:24,300
A person who is already dead
cannot breathe in anymore,
1437
01:22:24,300 --> 01:22:27,350
cannot take another
step anymore.
1438
01:22:27,350 --> 01:22:30,610
So when you breathe
in mindfully or when
1439
01:22:30,610 --> 01:22:34,030
you make a step
mindfully, you realize
1440
01:22:34,030 --> 01:22:37,450
the miracle of being
alive and that miracle
1441
01:22:37,450 --> 01:22:40,120
can happen in every moment.
1442
01:22:40,120 --> 01:22:42,220
[MEDITATION CHIME]
1443
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:46,420
[GUITAR MUSIC PLAYING]
1444
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:10,470
[MEDITATION CHIME]
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