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namaste

really

you give us some

suggestions to

to live a better life but i have

some more questions that people wanted

to ask you

one that you told them already something

but

why am i not happy

it's a few words exactly

why you're not happy

why a person is not happy

is because that person does not know

what he wants that would make him happy

he says i would be happy

if i was rich but he does not know what

he means by being rich

he does not know why exactly what is it

that he when he wants individuals

and one can be happy truly

with very little

provided one has the right attitude and

knows what is happening

so when somebody says

why am i not happy i said tell me

what is bugging you what would make you

happy and you received by asking what

would make you happy

the answers for the yes his response

would be very very vague

as i've said yes

if i was healthy yeah what do you mean

by health

what is bothering you what is money

you have to be very specific to know

what is making you unhappy

and i know i've i've observed i've

learned a lot by observing my own

thoughts and my own attitude and my own

reactions

and honesty god

the reason most people

if not all are unhappy is because they

don't know

what they want in life

and they don't even truly know precisely

what is making them unhappy

when a woman calls me and says i'm not

happy i'm married i love my husband

anything he loves me but i'm not happy

then i ask her why and then when she

says yeah because

his mother lives with us

then that is very precise now she knows

that she's not happy because the mother

is

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now we can do something about it we can

talk we have a point

but a lot of people tell me no i don't

know i have everything but i'm not happy

and believe it or not

i've met a lot of wealthy people who

have everything

but i've seen their eyes that are not

happy i've seen people meditating

in ashrams

in spiritual places in churches in

temples

and i see that i'm happy

how can you be unhappy

when you're speaking to a child how can

you believe

and what is it that makes them unhappy

lack of awareness

yes i think i'm beginning to understand

this inner consciousness

that is what makes us really aware of

also outer things

but we are only outwardly

conscious

that there is a car coming so watch out

you don't get help by

we are conscious about the fact that

somebody is fighting with somebody or

somebody is insulting you or hurting me

but we are

not

this inner consciousness is not there

to look at the beauty of life the divine

presence is everything

within us

and automatically everything changes

it's a different lens altogether a

different perspective of life altogether

comes through this inner attitude and so

on so when people say

why i'm not happy is because i think he

doesn't even know and that's why he's

asking why i'm unhappy

you know tell me what will make you

happy

you know and most of the time they don't

know what precisely you want

and it's very it's very weird because

even when they say they are rich but

what do you what do you mean by riches

what

you want amount of money will that make

you happy

you know

no

so what do you want a cover

a house

with space so you can say here i would

like to have a car because

i have to walk three miles a day to work

so if i could have a car so now that we

know then we can go over say okay how do

we go

how does it go about getting money

through work

but there is always a solution when the

person knows precisely what the problem

is and this is what we do in medicine is

when the doctor knows precisely what the

pathology is or what the problem is then

we can treat it we can cure it

but if a person comes and says

i'm hurting it's paining

and he can't say where

and what and precisely then we have to

analyze what is it he has to say no

i'm hurting it's my knee already it is

more precise

and so the same thing in happiness if

people know exactly what is making them

unhappy

then we know and believe it or not

if they knew more what they want to be

happy then that would even solve the

problem because then you

you do what you want realize what you

want and you expect

you