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namaste

so

what should be our attitude

towards happiness

and suffering

very simple

suffering inhabiting happiness is truly

a question for of inner attitude

most people have this attitude which is

what i call

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very critical and negative attitude

they always see defects they see defects

in everything

in politics

in social life

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in their personal relationships

and they fail to look at the glory of

this creation

you know i don't know how many people

really

see of flowers how beautiful what a

divine creation

but people get irritated because they

see dirt on the street because they see

somebody throw a cigarette

on the world

it's a negative attitude

to say oh that's bad no you don't do it

that's enough

you know you can't change the world so

attitude is how you look at life and i

see most people look at life critically

and they are unhappy

so the attitude is the state of being

inside and if you adopt a positive

attitude and try to see the

good aspect of this life the majority of

these creations is something divine it's

a divine creation

you know and sure i agree with everyone

that war is not something nice

but not the whole world is that

there are wars

but there is so much love there's so

much peace

i will give you a very classical example

you read a newspaper

of a big accident where people are

killed

and everybody talks about it everybody

knows about it everybody knows about the

disaster that

this

virus is creating

but nobody is talking about mrs smith

next door who brought to earth twins

no only a few people around her know

that she is a happy mother she has

dreams

but these are not of interest to others

something so beautiful happy no

nobody's nobody

looks at the flowers going and says look

how wonderful this creation is

but everybody's aware that there's a war

in syria

everybody's

aware that there is a family

and this also i see during this this

crisis

chronic crisis

the foreign

this is this is just one aspect of life

the sun loves this morning look at the

blue sky outside how beautiful

and when i open the windows in the

morning

i see this guy and i say my god how

glorious this creation is

yes i know there is a family

but that should not be the primary

factor of my feeling happy free

i take precautions like my mask i wash

my hands i keep distance from people

good

i can't they forget

they forget that there's love

they forget this passion

they don't remember the kiss they

received last night

from their loved one

but they remember

a harsh word that she said

you know

so

when people ask

there is this question

that somebody said you know

why why

i'm married i love my family but i'm not

happy

because

most of the time they're not happy

because they're looking at the defects

and i know these questions and when i go

behind it why

i have this discussion with my wife she

doesn't agree with this i want that she

doesn't want this

stupidity but he doesn't talk to me he

said last night she hugged me and gave

me a kiss and i it was so nice i was in

seventh head

so people forget the good part of things

the beauty of life

and this is again spirituality is when

you start adopting an attitude

of saying

that i want to be in this state of

consciousness and in the state of

consciousness

truly has a lot to do with your inner

attitude

how you look at life how you look at

yourself

i don't see why i should be unhappy with

myself because i have certain defense

if i become aware of it and sickly i'm

going to try and correct them fine but

if my life is going to be difficult

dictated my happiness is going to be

detected because i have certain

weaknesses or i have certain defects

i think that is it is wrong i should see

them i should correct them fine but they

should not rule

i should be ruled by my soul and my

inner consciousness

and i'm not saying i should be egoistic

and i should be

i should not uh relay importance to my

faults or my defects no i'm not saying

that i'm saying that these should not be

the primary factor that guides my life

and my happiness

you know

and i should say okay

i get angry very fast

i should change that i should

i will and

perhaps if i'm truly

happy

i want a reason to be angry

i still get angry and i'm truly happy i

think i'm the happiest man as far as i

know you are right

thank you matthew