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and

i think your unhappiness

is based on the fact that you are

looking for happiness

in the wrong place

you know

most of us think that if we are

successful we will be

happy but from what everything

everything that i have learned

from my mother and sure of others

especially through my science

and medical studies

i found out that no this is certainly

not the way that happiness comes and

this is not the way human beings can

free themselves

from suffering

i think

99

of people live with

superstitions

even these ceremonies are performed as a

superstition and no it should be done

truly in true light

of its value

and not believe that just because you

lit

a deeper

or a diva

that you are going to be liberated or

your dreams enforced

what is happiness

everybody's seeking happiness everybody

wants to be happy oh is there somebody

who wants to be unhappy here i doubt it

i'm not in eight

nine

no 83 years old i have never met anybody

who says he wants to be unhappy

you paid for those mangoes but then you

go home and you take those mangoes with

you and you eat those mangoes you don't

leave them at the store and pay them

so here same thing if you come for a

seminar and you're paid spending time

i want you to bring about results for

yourself

and i am a living example

i practice what i teach and i have never

met anybody on this earth

accepting the divine mother children

where i saw

supreme happiness this is there are

really

unbelievable

beings and i'm the happiest man on earth

that i have known

and i want people to be happy

so please

you spent money time

profit from this particular

seminar so what is happiness

can you tell an idea

is that you have to understand

the terms very clearly what it means to

be happy

okay and what is happiness and i know

somebody who said to me oh i will be

happy

if the girl i love marries me

and sure they get married and he's happy

and then two years later

each one is trying to kill the other

now what is that happiness

i know a young girl who came

to me yesterday

spoke to me

and said

she's 25 years old

and

her parents wanted to marry

a man that dares chosen

who is rich very successful

but she

doesn't love him

and she's not at all happy that she

has to marry this man

and i spontaneously told her

don't make that mistake of marrying him

but no i have to because i have to make

my parents happy there they'll be

unhappy i have to consider my parents

yes i understand

but tell me

if you are so unhappy in the marriage

and you commit suicide do you think your

parents are going to be happy

and look at these two with parents

if i were the lord

of this world i would banish those

people

to tuesday those that couple the parents

of this woman

because they think that if they choose

their husband the right husband who's

stable was a good child who is rich then

their daughter will be happy look what

is their interpretation

or definition of happiness

and whereas the girl is saying no mommy

and daddy i don't love him because she

said that she was in love with somebody

else

now you can see

how crazy

your concept of happiness is

you want your children to marry the

people you don't think would be good for

them

and what are you going to do when your

daughter is unhappy

does that make you happy that is why you

got him married to a rich man

i mean what the hell is

what the hell is going on

in our society of a hindu society

there is no god who ever said that

parents should choose

and i'm not saying that arranged

marriage is the world my goodness

i have seen

more

happy marriages that were arranged

than

marriages that are love marriages

i come from the western society with

almost all marriages i love marriages

and i

am an indian

and i've seen so many happy

couples

that were married through arranged

marriage so it's not this arranged

marriage that is the problem but if the

girl does not feel happy and does not

love that person

then i don't think so it is right that

she marry a man just because he's stable

healthy and

rich and

has a good job

that is not happening and this girl

understands she says no i will be brave

i can't

and she showed me the picture of the man

he's handsome everything

he's a nice boy

but even he is not 100 for it

so i'm asking you what is happiness have

you ever sat down and asked

and you will see mostly you think you'll

be happy if you can attain good health

you'll be happy if your daughter gets

married you'll be happy if your son has

a good job

you'll be happy if if

if

and absolutely wrong you are trying to

go about the wrong way happiness does

not come from there to here

it initiates here and goes there

happiness is a state of being

this is

true spirituality

when you are happy you can never ever do

anything wrong you might make mistakes

but you will not be evil or wrong or me

because happiness is something that

comes

from your soul

people ask me you're 82 years old and

honest to god i don't need tablets or

drops or nothing

and i can even go without food for days

if necessary

not that i'm a sannyasi or something no

but a happy man like me can live with

very little

and if

people say i don't look 83 and they ask

me why i said because i'm a happy person

and honest to god

you are falling ill

because you are unhappy

but you are unhappy because you do not

know from where to acquire your

happiness

and this seminar

will tell you that happiness can only

come from within you

and it is not difficult

it is more difficult to find your

daughter

a

suitable husband

to make her happy

then for you to become happy and for her

to become happy with or without a

husband with an arranged marriage

marriage or a love marriage

okay

so

i don't criticize

this concept of arranged marriages i'm

criticizing this dynamic behind

you know and why create some suffering

oh

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