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and
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i think your unhappiness
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is based on the fact that you are
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looking for happiness
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in the wrong place
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you know
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most of us think that if we are
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successful we will be
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happy but from what everything
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everything that i have learned
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from my mother and sure of others
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especially through my science
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and medical studies
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i found out that no this is certainly
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not the way that happiness comes and
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this is not the way human beings can
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free themselves
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from suffering
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i think
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99
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of people live with
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superstitions
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even these ceremonies are performed as a
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superstition and no it should be done
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truly in true light
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of its value
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and not believe that just because you
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lit
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a deeper
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or a diva
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that you are going to be liberated or
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your dreams enforced
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what is happiness
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everybody's seeking happiness everybody
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wants to be happy oh is there somebody
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who wants to be unhappy here i doubt it
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i'm not in eight
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nine
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no 83 years old i have never met anybody
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who says he wants to be unhappy
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you paid for those mangoes but then you
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go home and you take those mangoes with
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you and you eat those mangoes you don't
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leave them at the store and pay them
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so here same thing if you come for a
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seminar and you're paid spending time
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i want you to bring about results for
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yourself
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and i am a living example
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i practice what i teach and i have never
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met anybody on this earth
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accepting the divine mother children
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where i saw
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supreme happiness this is there are
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really
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unbelievable
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beings and i'm the happiest man on earth
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that i have known
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and i want people to be happy
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so please
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you spent money time
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profit from this particular
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seminar so what is happiness
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can you tell an idea
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is that you have to understand
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the terms very clearly what it means to
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be happy
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okay and what is happiness and i know
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somebody who said to me oh i will be
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happy
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if the girl i love marries me
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and sure they get married and he's happy
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and then two years later
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each one is trying to kill the other
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now what is that happiness
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i know a young girl who came
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to me yesterday
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spoke to me
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and said
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she's 25 years old
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and
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her parents wanted to marry
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a man that dares chosen
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who is rich very successful
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but she
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doesn't love him
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and she's not at all happy that she
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has to marry this man
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and i spontaneously told her
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don't make that mistake of marrying him
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but no i have to because i have to make
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my parents happy there they'll be
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unhappy i have to consider my parents
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yes i understand
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but tell me
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if you are so unhappy in the marriage
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and you commit suicide do you think your
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parents are going to be happy
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and look at these two with parents
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if i were the lord
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of this world i would banish those
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people
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to tuesday those that couple the parents
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of this woman
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because they think that if they choose
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their husband the right husband who's
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stable was a good child who is rich then
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their daughter will be happy look what
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is their interpretation
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or definition of happiness
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and whereas the girl is saying no mommy
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and daddy i don't love him because she
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said that she was in love with somebody
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else
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now you can see
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how crazy
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your concept of happiness is
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you want your children to marry the
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people you don't think would be good for
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them
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and what are you going to do when your
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daughter is unhappy
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does that make you happy that is why you
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got him married to a rich man
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i mean what the hell is
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what the hell is going on
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in our society of a hindu society
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there is no god who ever said that
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parents should choose
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and i'm not saying that arranged
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marriage is the world my goodness
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i have seen
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more
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happy marriages that were arranged
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than
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marriages that are love marriages
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i come from the western society with
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almost all marriages i love marriages
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and i
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am an indian
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and i've seen so many happy
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couples
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that were married through arranged
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marriage so it's not this arranged
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marriage that is the problem but if the
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girl does not feel happy and does not
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love that person
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then i don't think so it is right that
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she marry a man just because he's stable
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healthy and
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rich and
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has a good job
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that is not happening and this girl
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understands she says no i will be brave
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i can't
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and she showed me the picture of the man
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he's handsome everything
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he's a nice boy
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but even he is not 100 for it
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so i'm asking you what is happiness have
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you ever sat down and asked
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and you will see mostly you think you'll
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be happy if you can attain good health
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you'll be happy if your daughter gets
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married you'll be happy if your son has
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a good job
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you'll be happy if if
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if
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and absolutely wrong you are trying to
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go about the wrong way happiness does
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not come from there to here
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it initiates here and goes there
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happiness is a state of being
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this is
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true spirituality
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when you are happy you can never ever do
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anything wrong you might make mistakes
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but you will not be evil or wrong or me
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because happiness is something that
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comes
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from your soul
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people ask me you're 82 years old and
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honest to god i don't need tablets or
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drops or nothing
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and i can even go without food for days
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if necessary
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not that i'm a sannyasi or something no
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but a happy man like me can live with
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very little
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and if
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people say i don't look 83 and they ask
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me why i said because i'm a happy person
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and honest to god
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you are falling ill
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because you are unhappy
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but you are unhappy because you do not
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know from where to acquire your
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happiness
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and this seminar
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will tell you that happiness can only
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come from within you
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and it is not difficult
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it is more difficult to find your
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daughter
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a
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suitable husband
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to make her happy
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then for you to become happy and for her
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to become happy with or without a
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husband with an arranged marriage
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marriage or a love marriage
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okay
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so
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i don't criticize
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this concept of arranged marriages i'm
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criticizing this dynamic behind
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you know and why create some suffering
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oh
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