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tonight on a Girl's Guide to 21st century sex

when three is not too crowded by having sex with multiple partners is becoming

increasingly popular

lichen sclerosus a potentially devastating skin conditions

the can make pitch to have sex impossible and the art of spanking

dramatic foreplay there

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welcome to the Girls Guide to 21st century sex

I'm docked Catherine hood and in this series I've been examining

all aspects lovemaking bring tips advice and new techniques

to give a greater confidence to try something new and invigorate your sex

life

every week will dissect and analyze the world's favorite sexual positions

with a specially designed cameras we'll see what really happens to a body during

intercourse

and each week the Girls Guide sexpert stopped

Ava Cadell and Lou Paget from Los Angeles bookie be your very own personal

coaching sessions

on everything from how to reach a peak sexual fitness

to food that will make your sex sessions last longer the coming up tonight

this week's exposition the exposition could lead to mass in lovemaking

sessions

and multiple orgasms first though

is having sex if more than one partner the key to satisfaction

the group sex

is sex involving more than two people at the same time it lotsa people present

is sometimes called orgy all gang bang but it's also common

swinging all-white something parties and rainbow parties which can involve

oral sex

there's no one group individuals who take part in groupsex

people of all ages and sexual persuasion scanning gate in the practice

although three sons are more common among young people where is the older

married generation may participate in Black swapping all swinging

the old she has time notoriety in pornographic films

group sex clubs do exist if you're willing to learn

there is something about having sex with a large group

people way you can lie back and shut your eyes natan

five minutes later and not known how many people touching your body because

your same comment in flash win-lose marriage

ended in divorce it was the trigger for her to want to act out her sexual

fantasies

so she went to a club mandel's teen group sex

she like the experience so much the group sex has now become a large part of

her life

up

Luc Nam regularly attends swinging parties where couples have sex with many

partners

group sex from me has definitely been

a massive UK based I E and

advertise myself Indian cinema I have literally hundreds

people telling me that I think I'm peaceful and

they want me XI miss a group sex may well be the

unpredictability uncertainty over its because

comparison to say that having sex in your regular partner where

most the time people know what to expect people often

we've reduce themselves quite limited repertoire

sexual behaviors why the exiled group sex is that but isn't the case and

you're doing

multiple partners many of whom are probably new to you

I can go to the club I'm walkin in now the FB

para hines will be on me when I can't stop club

and sometimes I just feel like tight pornstar

for people who don't know much about swinging assume that it's a big

free-for-all

orgy in fact it's not that way at all usually the women

are in control at swingers parties and

no means knowing people don't touch unless there is some kind of Q

given off by the other person mature its okay group sex sessions

generally have a own code of conduct for anyone wanting to take part

the biggest tool etiquette

in groupsex A's 9 means you need to have to say no

on and someone will call US ask

before touching someone no pain knee pain neck pain

is when Ms common McRath

if a couple are going to have to 6 been the most important thing

overall is to communicate properly been used to be consent from both of them

they need to be totally comfortable with the idea

and have talked to three beforehand and be able to talk through

afterwards if he can't doing tonight is a recipe for disaster

hearted blues favorite ways at meeting multiple partners

is to attend an organized event well in a cup in violent

people stop means paying and I love the outfit you wearing where to buy it

to you being asked to pose on the podium

and literally have thirty or forty men come up

and had my mind clitoris and tell me how beautifully

is and how amazing my piercings on how amazing they make me look

say I mean I've had from your ordinary everyday compliments he really profit

personal things that people just expound on how wonderful

I am I look my pics open sometimes women can give

subtle mating cheers like a smile or

batting eyelashes but usually there will be some kind of talking

some swingers parties have safe sex policies where they'll put condoms and

lubricant

out and insist that everyone do that and

if somebody doesn't then the guards cost them out other swingers parties are

they don't care it's up to you to do whatever kinda safe-sex practices you

wanna

however safe the sex may be

there are other risks to be aware of the group sex parties the

law single man

on the Greek sexy I can

be slightly more pissy I'm I think you if you just use common sense

if you make sure the single women backed

you don't go to a couple party here and there is someone to keep an eye on

and that when you meet single men you do it safely

that there isn't any particular problem with them

as long as you are prepared teen say no family

and not get offended by

slight pressure in her so anyone who has any sexual tastes at all

you have any left confident at a body that looks like

anything into I'm basically

there is a space for you somewhere at within-group hack

the wild groupsex opens its doors to people

all shapes and sizes was lost different ways that you can end up camping

group sex you can organizing me and

maybe not the couple that you know or several singles between

and you can how group except party

orders docking or and

game to end club where you can have sat it can be

anyone just walking into the room and wanting

play with him it's the fact that they want being

and desperately want you don't do anything to have you

that it's just such unique AP

East there is still a lot of to do surrounding group sex

but what do you approve or not the effect it had on lose life has been

dramatic

I've got in my head be middle-aged housewife to

having light total postpone South sex feeling

and creamy dream fantasy desire even thought

set across my mind

changing me into a happier person thing

three months old crap like by the home

a friend if you think

group sex might be for you his doctor a to Cadel with her team's

and Demps the in my opinion the power of suggestion

is the most exciting way to live at all your fantasies

don't wanna be a fairness is it having sex with lots of people

created in your mind and talk about what they're doing to you what they're doing

t allow other

and you'll be safer then catching std's or having embarrassing moment now

if you really want to have group sex make sure

that your partner does 20 make sure you're both on the same wavelength

how you do it Chaske 4 fun

I'm and her use it as a weapon in an argument

later on in your relationship that's the Doosan don't group sec

the if you participate in group sex

you increase the risk of catching a sexually transmitted infection

so always wear condoms in using new one each time

change partner coming up

the sexual technique

that's high on energy and satisfaction we demonstrate

the exposition welcome back to Girl's Guide to 21st century sex

coming up why some men engage in bizarre and sometimes dangerous me chills to get

their sexual fix

first most is only have sex in one of two positions

but hundreds imaginative and inventive positions

in school system partner eat has its own particular benefits

for example some more appropriate if you are pregnant or overweight

well others most suitable apart a small penis

tonight St exposition particularly good if you like your sessions to go on for

hours

to this you need a high-level stamina and a good pain threshold

I should warn you that the material you're about to see

is a particularly explicit nature the getting its name from the way that both

partners felman X like arrangement

disposition consists of both parties lying on my back was

up seat each other once the penis is inserted

you hold hands and gently rocking a way to mutual pleasure

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which lends itself well to more adventures for playing

such as the surprisingly popular practice spanking

adult spanking as a form of sexual titillation

has been popular throughout history and in the 16th century

became fashionable in the French Quarter I'll

one and fanned averotica graduations the French Queen

Catherine de Medici who's notorious for taking delight in witnessing the

spanking a young females

in the 18th century its notoriety in beast

when it was openly practiced by the famous libertine the marquee decide

could pay to spank and be spanked with

spent still remains popular the 2005 cosmopolitan survey finding the sexy

spanking schoolteacher

the most popular male fantasy Inc gentle spanking

can arouse the senses and prepare the mind and body into calls

that massage the area first to begin the arousing process

as well as this highly intimate former masage being a rousing due to its

proximity to the genitals

it's also a good way to prepare the buttocks for less gentle type of

attention

duties Maximus is the biggest muscle in the body

covered with fact and skin we call them the tix

they are different in men and women but share

common nerve endings with the gentler and therefore %ah

equally sensitive and erosions book

but there are subtle anatomical differences between male and female

assets

women's buttocks larger fleischer

than a month they also will indicate

much bigger a wider pelvis which denotes

fertility and the anthropologists believe that its

this sort of indicator fertility that meant unprotected

to get into the exposition the match starts by sitting facing his partner

she places her right leg under his left leg

and hooks her left leg over his right leg

once the pins inserted they both lean back

was holding hands been direct aid their hips

and gently thrust and slow prolonged movements

if you want to look at each other's faces or communicate

you can do so by prop yourself up onto elbows

if you require more direct stimulation to be to peak arousal

you can tilt up and put weight on only one album

leaving your other hand free to stimulate your clitoris

due to the very steep and love entry in this position

the head of the penis but strictly into the anterior wall

vagina thought to be the location of the g-spot and localize pressure should be

felt on it ok

variation at the exposition can be achieved if the woman

moves her left leg over her partner's left leg andress have food on the bed

bringing the legs close together if the man props himself up onto his arms to

they're both in a good position to build up momentum a trusting

and in this way

the woman gains control of the movement and create too tight a tunnel for the

man's penis

the increased grip provides greater stimulation for both palms

and at the point Wilkinson the first few contractions

are incredibly strong and push up

the vast majority of semen and sperm in one go

and then you get a series a small contractions

which gradually diminishing Beach the exposition can be very tiring

and you're more likely to enjoy it the fitter you both are to take you time

overexertion can pick you off his stride the now it despite some horrific disease

in this series

but this skin condition can cause terrible disfigurement your sexual

organs

the hill lichen sclerosus

is a rare disease that affects men women and children

but is most common in women

it primarily attacks the skin if the sex organs can spread elsewhere

the skin becomes pale with bright red or purple discoloration from bleeding

inside the skin layers

more severe cases lichen sclerosus produce scarring

that may cause the in ellipses devoted to shrink and disappear

the teachers to become covered with scar tissue the opening for China to narrated

that damage to my father and son believable the the clitoral hood

is welded to my clitoris part of my

in a labia is welded to the front my clitoris

26-year-old dunya Bella be

is living with the skin condition lichen sclerosus which is ruining her sex life

my vagina is closing up is

welding together my labia is vanishing for my very eyes

steps I clips on the inside lips is dry

Brito it cracks slicks

lichen sclerosus or s is thought to affect

up to one in three hundred women yet little is known about it outside to the

specialist medical circles

lichen sclerosus is a skin condition

commonly affecting women although disaffected men as well

usually affects the full

area and the anal area it's what we call in autoimmune condition

where party attacks body essentially the body's immune system the body's defense

mechanisms

attack other parts of the body this

an underlying inflammatory process going on the skin is inflamed

and as the inflammation settles

sclerosus of fibrosis all scarring develops and this leads to

various changes in the skin in severe cases

this inflammation and scarring results in irreversible damage to the affected

area

the side is her picture normal for you can see the top

the clitoris here but the clitoral hood and this is the external

labia minority here amateur on the outside

dissipation Liz long-standing lichen sclerosus

first thing you notice is that this Palin's

the skin this'll akers pigment generally the skin looks quite

white on the main fished lichen sclerosus is the Los anatomy you can see

where the

labia the lips have been reabsorbed

and the clitoris has said she disappeared

because the extreme inflammation the normal architecture

patrol for has been rented

most sufferers about lesser in the thirties or forties

but young children can also be affected I was about five years old when I first

well I subsequently terrible pain down there

activities bombing walking cycling anything like that was

agony philip has been cut into Eastbourne H staying

from doctors kept telling done yet the help ames imaginary

for her first sexual experience it sixteen convinced to something was

seriously wrong

it was my sometimes champion knifing may have something you know that

a just use take your breath away

as this pierced went in it would be like only just create a shin curl your toes

up

in just 90 like that until it was over and done with on a cruise off to a child

persian able to walk I was applied two free weeks afterwards

well-equipped open I place this

come up until published this and I couldn't pay every time up to guys the

toy I actually had to sit in the bar

guys torn it was that painful

it was to be several years after this traumatic experience

done you was finally given a diagnosis

then she was given the devastating news that she may never be able to enjoy anal

sex life

aftershock the trauma okay I was traumatized

felt sick Daisy going kill myself

really really wanted to go and talk myself and

yeah scrutiny

lichen sclerosus to make a woman give up sex because scarring

confusing around the phone for make any touch of friction on Baron

the skin becomes priest in

without treatment in it lacks stretch

lacks suppleness and when a woman tries to have sex

Spanish sex it splits just to the boss in here

is the four shit and this is where one would split unions course

because the skin splits and his pain

often penetration is impossible

and problems that arise because the woman

anticipate pain every time she s sex because tonya's condition went untreated

for so many years

another consequence have LS developed which makes full sexual intercourse

a physical impossibility my

actual vagina the whole is closing I have fusing

at the base pay I it just freaks me out everytime I look at it

I look at it and think black can be my body it can be mutilating it said surely

but is tanya has been advised to use plastic dilate is on a weekly basis

to stop the entrance to have a china closing up further

these this post to be inserted and left in place for a few minutes

she doesn't find this easy for the little one day

medium-size why normal size one in the pic 1

that is an absolute late screaming in agony

push I can get the medium size 18 in that

the big ones that syria says painful

the courses have lichen sclerosus are not completely known

but some doctors think there may be a genetic component

soon after she was diagnosed done yet found out that her mom

choice was also suffering from the same condition when I had two years house

particularly difficult I had stitches

stitches and name would not kill 12

course all the time it was saying ms

now passed on to you my sex life

this very difficult

to me soon tunes and it was never

never right level right

because the pain and discomfort tonya hasn't attempted to have sex for six

years

I don't want to talk about sex used to have these dreams literati dreams

and on just large way a teams doing it'd be nice and everything and i dont wake

up

on for 30 seconds as you wake up everything's okay and you really feel it

you just had sex in implant

your way there's no cure for ALS but certain prescription creams can help

slow the condition

but tanya is facing an uncertain future how far away

can the pic shrink how fused can clitoris become

how fuse come the whole become you know that does frighten me

really does lichen sclerosus

isn't infectious and you can catch it from having sex

many women with the condition initially think they have thrush

but if you experience teaching for over a year despite treatment

it may be a good idea to CTP now if you don't use sex toys

either on your own or in a relationship you know that some could be more

daunting than others

he's Lou Paget with the best the worst

and how to get the most out of them

people

often start with something like this the park a block

rather than just using a vibrator like this which can be too much

to San it's better to do crossways motion

a circular motion something that built sensation coming down this is the rabbit

pearl this is

truly the classic a little nose is used on

on clitoral area as a little years

and then the speed tier once inserted inside

Evelyn vaginally she takes her PC muscle around here its can heighten the

sensation

so you d this is that you get to stimulate both systems

this is the one that has to speech that is incredibly strong

now well women will do is they'll put this on a pillow and ride it

day will put it between their legs this thing

is hugely powerful it's designed as a back massager

in more than a novelty category

tax gone bad people can use it this point for one

here head your choice these

are little sleepy can be worn on your finger

to change sensation for him or for you cell a woman can use them

like this on her cell or like this on a man

okay

this lady's

is a thing called the G spot ur it's designed the way it is said that it goes

in it follows the natural

health occur into the vagina so cuz

and like this and then up like this so you can then

call right on with the G spot areas in women and men are both capable having

orgasm simply from having

anal stimulation is an anal toy that would be answers he was but the flange

anything that has a plan to the basal it is going to be an ideal

for you play local all the way in

so this is one style

avail time and their is this

anal beads now they would be inserted

up to here and then at the moment orgasm jog back and forth and

pulled out balancing tagged

up

and anytime that is used mainly is not to be used actually so that's the sex

toy segment

I trust to give you at least some expanded awareness

shop well and have fun coming up

extreme sexual behavior and white dressing up in leather

rubber and plastic can be a turn on from

welcome back to a Girl's Guide to 21st century sex

45 percent of couples have incorporated light bondage into their sex lives

but what happens when this fifty she's taken one step further

fetishism is the displacement have designed fancy

onto objects on body parts with can't resist temptations

mummification is the practice of restrain the human body

head to toe with anything from bandages to read the strips

from body bags to cling film 32-year-old

patty has been practicing self mummification in secret

over three years more comes like this

I am wearing clothes atlanta has not been outlined a

large enough internal

Watson C called

clinton also managed

looking at myself in the mirror and and a scene the whaler

a and it made 71 commit more exciting

mapping you something

film way of becoming aroused by separating yourself from the world

by Tom Danielson misgivings souter

author 15 self-assured making think

a time rapid Brett myself so that

everything is as tight loans to the feelings absolutely the same life but I

want some distort

Lisa another's I imagine that's what it felt like if you were

inserted into the Regina's warm soft

and the same load they think that mummies Mummy Mummy

being back inside to mask the wetness not found two thieves

wanting to get back inside the room it's like a very strong regression

it's actually about wanting to be back in the uterus

the last

tough love years inside hmm

figured out how to move my head mental blocks stage

welcome rap more or less my entire body on the dangers indication

would be prince would age would be suffocation the concern

and see if you wrap something around somebody's faithful

paid around the windpipe social something realistic

dreams that's highly dangerous Samuels

chin things to avoid Atlanta

the years have to that myself

tightly in certain directions but not in others say that

I still have to foot the bill to see to believe it's an SK

or distancing from the real world Clank

the world I feel asylum

completely removed from the universe the

I only exist within the clingfilm

Austin my conscious minds outside but on my body feels like it's

not in the world next thing I want to use maps & Al's

little bit bored record myself so

like seeing rat an attractive girl in take some pictures with anything

amazing different people willing gauge in different behaviors when they're

mummified some will make it sexual and like to engage in sexual behaviors while

Bob they are mummified normally I chose

masturbate within that linked him and was in taking a painter

masturbated other people are looking for other kinds of experience

some people who have a lot going on in their lives

they just wanna shut down and require

of sip let us acts known as party banks

on sleeping sacks can also be used from the medication

this to people that are in Sec heavy bondage feeling totally helpless

and once mummified left for and was on and off had someone down here 14 hours

mummified 50 shop owner missed

s and his play partner Adam into experimenting with this Puma bondage

this is Adam and tonight he's gonna be my way

and put in bondage and nowhere to sleep sack

the appeal of this fetish is to surrender control is your senses

created condition that can lead to disorientation

what even how to party experience

actually fairly simple to get into it him up

to go senses away from in his eyesight

this hearing really is a feeling of total loss control

if you trust body enough to have them take your control

away from you it mentally which to a place where

your an emotion into that with a year you letting go

sitting around with it

is like a meditation can be

because it's a little more than sexual they can take you to other places

isn't that a motherhood least I G hit like this for 24 hours

you really do lose touch with her where you are

the sounds around you can't see anything its

me sensory deprivation to the ultimate the dungeon

total sensory deprivation but today

as the danger within depravation

are hallucinations official or touching

apart from the wrists your mental health their physical dangers to

okay

up some people might get very frightened Spurs threat it possible for people

might experience a panic attack

and injure themselves by thrashing around trying to escape

and a yeah are you okay now yessir

agreed-upon had someone that went blind in session from panic

and then actually went dead for panic

because the mind want me to play that body would not allow it once that

happens in panic attacks

starts then you know you to convey

someone pass out somewhat suffocate this type effects play

can be an extreme game where the desire for pain becomes more important than the

sexual act itself

taking proper precautions these games rarely cause lasting damage either

physical or mental

the drive to sexual arousal is a powerful one

and this kind of extreme behavior will stretch both mind and body further than

they've ever been

this title bondage is only practice by minority

remember sex is what you make it dressed

I'm dressed our mission on the Girls Guide to 21st century sex

is to get you experiencing and enjoying better sex

all we can do is keep it tips and advice ultimately it's up to you to express

yourself and put it all into action

to join us next week as we continue our amazing journey

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