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tonight on the Girls Guide to 21st century sex

the woman on top a position which gives you complete control of penetration

the dangers of taking illegal drugs to enhance sexual pleasure

revealing the truth about male masturbation

Michael shouldn't take offensive them and still enjoy some stipulations

a morning 25 minute before tea suffer from renews a disease that can cause a

bend in the penis

and make sex impossible there

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welcome to a girl

guy 21st century sex on but Catherine hood

and over the next few weeks we can explore every aspect

lovemaking to improve you in your pockets performance every show

will dissect and analyze the world's most populous sexual positions

give you expert tuition what looks best in the bedroom

with a specially designed cameras will see what really happens to a body during

intercourse

only explosive action myths and mysteries from how to tackle erectile

dysfunction

to the thrills in dangers a group sex and even how men

can have multiple orgasms will also bring

cautionary tales of sexually transmitted infections and horror stories about how

sex can go around

and the Girls Guide sex therapist

doctor Ava Cadell and Lou Paget from Los Angeles

will be here again to give you your very own personal one-on-one coaching

sessions

on everything from how to locate your g-spot to what can give you

all-round stimulation tonight

how to arouse your partner by remain but first

studies suggest that the average man will ejaculate at least 4,000

times through masturbation name so his the truth about male masturbation

the spanking the monkey

choking the chicken whatever you call it it something most mundane

its masturbation he started frowned upon

masturbation is now generally considered healthy pleasurable

and often in its compartment person sex life most men stopped masturbating

during puberty

a male who manages become so strong but if they don't masturbate

they could check late in their sleep known as a wet dream

assignment came when how is 11

am and I faced

my face I'm masturbating way to masturbate mice

to drug myself up and down on a bed so I wasn't actually use my hands

and and for a good couple against the way

aphids masturbating him from that kind of kick it the right way

him until relatively recent times men made to feel dirty for indulging

themselves

hope all sorts of devices were designed to prevent men practice in this sinful

behavior

one of the many myths that survived two centuries

was it doing it naked Lee could pick you go blind it will not

cause a person to go blind or at least there is

absolutely zilch scientific evidence to suggest it word

it certainly won't make you gain def it will not stand

your growth hands as long as one is masturbating

safely from that is not sticking

a penis into things that it is not designed to be stuck into

far from it doing home it can be pleasurable

and I like in hollywood doctor a ver caddell conducts research into male

masturbation techniques

feathery she's a strong believer that cell stimulation is an integral part of

sex

stand-up masturbation is good for your health always has been

and one of the biggest myths was that it's bad for your health but if you

masturbate

you're not gonna be able to make love with another person

week she hopes her findings will help her female clients

have difficulty stimulating their partners

you wanna masturbate with your partner cuz it's highly erotic

and for those people who were dating but not monogamous

its really erotic safe sacks

apart from sexual gratification also many other benefits for men who

masturbate regularly

in my practice I will good masturbation prescription

from Maine who could premature ejaculation if the land

when they're going to come a mandolin feeling just before the point of no

return

by masturbating frequently been the king went to prolong

about fees from Rosal 2 to ejaculation

if you masturbate guy it'll make you longer

the technique come to make the penis longer is simply

to Paul I like to pull in circular motions as opposed to just pulling like

this

cuz you gotta make sure that you don't Trapani hair

and also have a wet hands cover your hands in

oil or gentleman cute girlfriend to do this

every night before you go to sleep she has to pull it 20 times

and then in the morning she component twenty times now how's that for an

exercise

too much masturbation can in some cases cause different degrees of sexual

exhaustion

in young men can lead to a condition called p

impotence which causes pain around the growing area and the inability

to have likes the it's perfectly natural for men to masturbate

even if they're in a relationship to don't worry if your partner occasionally

like to experience an orgasm

without having sex with you of course it's perfectly natural for you to do the

same

if we masturbate slotting is not really wanted to get intimate with me

and that can be assigned a deep emotional problem Phoenix took over

coming up a position which gives you full control of the depth of penetration

and the sensual are two remain

welcome back to the Girls Guide to 21st century sex

coming up taking text went on sosexy experience

could ruin it for FL and how one man still manages to have great sex

despite lives on first

most have sex 9102 positions but there are hundreds imaginative

and adventurous positions have intercourse with your partner each has

its own particular benefits

instance some more appropriate if you're pregnant or the weight

others a suitable if your partner has a small penis

tonight's position is called the reverse cowgirl

ideal for women who like to be in control in the bedroom

I should warn you that the material about to see is a vertically explicit

nature

the to tell

reverse cowgirl is believed to have originated from United States

with the woman in control of pace and rhythm this empowering and fun position

reflects the adventurous spirit the Y West

to see in the reverse cowgirl position

the man lies on his back while the woman sits on top of him facing in the

opposite direction

his legs are kept together she sits astride him

using the power of her size to lift a up

as the woman's on top she's able to dictate

debt rhythm and and love penetration which can help you to achieve

orgasm the man

isn't able to reach the teachers or breasts in this position

so she has to do that for herself while the man can enjoy the very sensual views

his partners back

buttocks and a nurse the visual stimulation just from looking at the

baltics completed

tensely rising for the man in this situation this is because

the buttocks signify femininity and signified

fertility from having wide hips which is very different from male but its

this is also a good position to seem

is the man wishes to delay ejaculation some doctors believe that when a man is

resting on his back

but his ejaculation direction reflexes a less intense

in when upbeat the deep penetration offered by this position

also means that the glands penis the sensitive

in fact I'll tip of the penis doesn't receive such intense stimulation

one of the greatest sexual two teams

is the involvement if the anus during lovemaking it's often viewed as a secret

or special place and surrender in this area to park could be an active trust

openness

in this position the man is ideally situated to stimulate the woman's anus

and you can do this by most in his finger with lubricant or saliva

and Robbie's RAM sense to area around anus

even setting the finger if desired although most people require direct

stimulation to the genitals in order to achieve orgasm

ames stimulation alone consumption huntley to climax in both men and women

the Royal enormous number of nerve endings around the anal opening

and its this area which is almost as sensitive and in fact many say

at as as sensitive as a vagina but its inside game is that you have a sphincter

which reacts to both pressure and touch as well and

stimulation in this position by the man can also be very pleasurable

to feel closer to her partner

the woman may wish to life forward and a hat also along his legs

she moves her feet closer to her partner's head at this point

and brings her legs closer to the side his tolson

this will increase pressure under the John Wall and heighten sensation for

both partners

if a greater intensity thrusting his work on Lincoln also lean backwards in

this position

at the moment to the orgasm

activity in all areas of the brain slows down

and activity in the female emotion centers drops of

the male brain also experience is a level of deactivation in this area

but not to such a significant degree remains more focused on genital

stimulation

now bill clinton

along with four percent of men aged 40 a diagnosed with Crohn's disease

condition which causes the penis to bend can make sex impossible

it's good to be caused by hardening

the p90 she'd in a shocking 10 percent to sufferers

under the age of 30 and some are as young as 18

your man has abandoned his penis and it could be due to this condition

in the most severe cases sex becomes impossible

but it can be surgically corrected would be missed

wanna rock points towards the floor slightly to the left which makes

intercourse first impossible

62-year-old John Carter is suffering from peronist disease

a condition which causes penis to bend when it's a wrecked

the initially couple years ago there's a slight curvature

the show after the penis and which didn't prevent penetration and

just thought it was when these things have I H yes I was meant to disorient

presley worse

in serbian normal angle penis

is no to pin down the drastic to agree

so under a wreck conditions you got some its virtually useless to use

so how does the penis become so extreme you deformed

inflammation in the penis to start with

and that heels by Fulham in a scar now

scars as in anywhere in the body do not stretch

and so when you have an erection wherever that scar is on the penis that

part does not stretch in so

the deformity is the penis is then pulled over towards that scar

usually the lump forms and top of the shaft making the penis spend upwards

but it's the lump sum on the side it will bend downwards

there's no problem indirection that's what you can do with that when you got

to

the penis in the show the miners penetration is very very difficult thing

is not to the fold up

your punishment and angle found

it is called my wife I'm it's also painful from self

here surgeon David Ralph performs what's known as a nested operation to correct

the Canton patients penis

this in the 55-year-old first the patient is given an artificial objection

to see what type of deformities present

from the end there you can see with the penis erect he has a 30 degree deformity

going over to the patients left next

tissues dissected of in order to allow access to the muscle

the that another official direction test and you can see in this

the Max Planck part the curvatures about here

and then we'll just crossed but it but a tissue

like so and then repeat the curvature see whether we're actually in the right

place

an hour to any

artificial erection test with they clamp on any to see that

the penis is straight and so we know exactly where we need to exercise some

other tissue

to even up the sides cool media

okay so we're excited to get this issue

here are the two ages

so that when we stitch both this sense to this edge

that we shortened the right hand side

the penis will that be straight sayin a repeat artificial erection of to leave

so

up and you can see the pain now straight

this car is underneath the foreskin so you can see there's the incision that

we've named

to drop the skin down and then

the scar of that will be

under his foreskin so one straight penis

john is now on the waiting list to have this operation

he hopes that the surgery will allow him to resume a normal sex life

for those looking forward to the operation been successful

and getting back to normal way life severity of the disease varies

only a minority man afflicted with perennials are unable to engage section

do it can reduce the hardest erection it rarely causes impotence

throws disease affects a lot of men

but they don't always require surgery if your partner develops a hard lump on the

top of his penis

get pay with directions notices any pending in the city is TP

now

you feel relatively fit and healthy and sex can be as ambitious as you want it

to be

limited only by your imagination but what if you were to lose one if your

senses

become physically handicapped even lose the use

all all part of your body doesn't mean the end to your sex life

no through experimentation it's possible discover what works for you

and there are many aids gadgets and techniques to make sex enjoyable for the

disabled and their partners

people say can you get a hard on

well how'd you get home and Kenny still have normal sex

what is normal sex I would get questions

from strangers and and clubs

him come right out and ask can you still have sex

sure I can still have sex however not with you

hacer sakes isn't just a physical act

using the usage length doesn't mean you sex life is over

what control sexual function

I'm is is essentially your brain your brain and your

on spinal cord and nerves need to be intact

for arousal and orgasm to occur those whose father cord injury

because many of them have normal brains should be able to enjoy sexual function

even if they don't feel

I'll you know their private parts or feel enjoyment

in the same way that they used to enjoy before there are ways around every

injury

in the majority of cases there should be a way forward

in trying to achieve some satisfaction sex

after disability 36-year-old kalana stone

broke up back at the age of 17 after a car accident

disabled sacks

I I don't even know what disabled sexes my husband and I have

I guarantee you more sex than most people I know

walking around on their fate the off position

i feel that i cant do is to stand up

my sensations for sexual

sensation goes is completely normal

completely like it was before the accident so

that has not changed one bit and in fact if anything

it's perhaps been heightened in

cases such as Carl on a which depends on

the nature of the injury she clearly has what appears to be an

incomplete injury and although she's lost function meaning motor function

she does retain sensation and the reason for that is that the nerves

find alternate pathways for reaching the spinal cord as well as the brain

as far as my disability and it coming

into play with my sexuality now if he doesn't get

in the way sometimes we need a be a little bit more creative

about getting into positions for instance

I being on top and

which is one of my paper places to be because I'm

kind of a control freak in that way and body downturn enables me to be on top

the body bouncer is a metal frame with rubber

um seat on it basically an a hole cut in the middle

and she just sits on top a better straddles and I lay underneath it

and enables her to be on top in du Lac

all the things that she likes to do on top lets me be in control

happened

public perception is often disabled array sectional

but that's far from accurate over 50 percent had minimum

spinal cord injury say they can experience orgasm

this can be achieved by that park stimulating

to remain a virgin sends to watch the woman still wants to be penetrated by

had to say

ke bien Jesper found a way to achieving

just bad their positions about getting

now data could never have gotten beforehand before I was the same

night pre-election tonight a cash pot think the army aide

after a motorbike accident he was paralyzed

from his nipples down to his toes value can no longer feel his penis

TV sex life is far from over we can do most things Colin

things in the county we always try it once and then

if we can and we try again and again

would give up after about 20 time China nation I would say we typically and

creative we've got be creative when it comes to sex

yeah Kiwi spinal injury has caused a massive loss of function

however in some parts of his body sensations actually increased

dramatically

just just pulling my hair sometimes is enough

ha to really get me go you know when someone warn

use the expression someone walking over your grave

is very much like you get the ship ago danny back less from getting going down

the back when Nick

all I can affect running between my A's its

it's just nice I

since his accident chibi can't feel his genitals

and can't attack %eh but this doesn't stop him reaching a different type vogue

awsome

I can remember what my all getting shit feel like before I had my accident

they have very much the same only the feelings that I hate

I used to have in the end my penis now yeah at my head

so there's no difference other than the fact that

I'm not actually passing something on and reliving some think

help I actually get my orgasm is generally visually

getting off on what jess is doing for me Laura

and from what I can see or just will actually stops

playing with my nipples with a highly sensitive she catches to

good sometimes she could just be blowing on nichols'

at the time she can actually buy pullman very hot

and so much excitement in my head it actually feels like a

anything all these linked on the just passed around like the place

and I'll actually blackout well these mental

orgasms have taken Kiwi years of practice to achieve

but he still can't move the lower part of his body so how could he turn the

favor

I've stimulated Jess enough where she's got so worked up

and she's now wanting may

inside here so the the whole situation then stops within have to stop house

housesession apply Jess will for my pleasure

carry on with herself whether it be with my bedroom thing is

I would think it myself what's cost have a jet injection

it's a needle which I injected decided my penis

Kevin checked achieves normal direction

it and as neutral as possible directions with cabbage it could last for half an

hour

during such time the partner might achieve several orgasms

so this can be utilized positively for the benefit of the couple

so I now have a venerate still cannot be linking

net point then Jess flex to get on top

910 test of and she will get

she will jump up and down move about whichever providing I could see what's

happening

hiding get off patients will naturally experience spasms

as a result of the spinal cord injuries and sometimes use them during trance

as fascination involuntary our movement not on the controller brain it happens

without the control of the individual

LXT spread my legs at when my legs

collapse on me from sitting in the same position for sale

they will exit spasm just connect to sit on my penis

what sad and get and I will SB luck bye-bye to

a human vibrator I definitely site but he sucks fires me

and shields he said it may not be satisfied running around in a closed

dissatisfied for to have physically

mean and mentally on i'm satisfied so we've seen how the right prescription

drugs

make you in just his sex life so much better later how using illegal drugs to

enhance your sex life

could ruin it next

female multiple orgasms what they feel like

and how to increase your chances of having them you catch it has been a

certified sex educator in Los Angeles

for over 10 years and reveals the facts about the mechanics have multiple

orgasms

tonight we'll be covering

women's multiple orgasms and some love you out there

actually have been having them and not know you've been having

so tonight again I have four ladies joining me

Jenny and believe that they have had

multiple orgasms mask how they occurred for you I guess the first time

I I've given myself Iran's let's just

the roomie masturbation

was it with your fingers with a vibrator I'm very sensitive

honesty has crossed my legs and knees make and take your PC muscle

and I can initiate where the PC muscle is is that runs from the front to the

back at the pelvic us access

and during an orgasm that is the muscle

group of muscles that is responsible for the contractions that you feel

so the more toned the nature the PC muscle is

that do they gray to respond to that you know the greater response

people typically have for women

it is having more than one orgasm in the same

love making event this means that

we do not go through refractory phase that men do

so good blood remains pooled in the powers

so we have much easier chance being

multiplayer or gastric than men do the the

each woman's are gas make reaction

and are gassing potential is unique so

thinking that you have to have what somebody else had thankfully we can

remove that performance thing for all others if you're enjoying yourself

that's one thing but pleased not happy that it's a performance thing we have to

do

after the break how the shocking trend of using illegal drugs to enhance sexual

pleasure

can ruin your sex life welcome back to the Girls Guide to 21st century sex

many people think that taking illegal drugs can hop sexual experiences

but some stimulants like cocaine ecstasy could do more harm than good

cannabis

ecstasy cocaine other recreational drugs have often been used in the bedroom

cocaine is one of the most commonly used illegal sex trades

men and women have been known to help the powder on my genitals

to help premature ejaculation internal orgasm

some gay and bisexual men use poppers

all night raids and recently outlawed GHB

this group with drugs a muscle relaxants to help relaxing instance before sex

but on the whole illegal drugs are used 2002

a person's mental rather than physical state you can feel incredibly sexually

confident

and make love in a way that you he might

he might know half the gumption to Dave normally

checklist and thousands like him taking drugs reduces sexual inhibitions

but at what cost the dangers of using

artificial stimulus shooting six for example cocaine ecstasy and ketamine

poppers any of these drugs

are that if you associate good six with taking drugs

is like taking a third party into the bedroom it unless that but party is the

year

you want a good six

and sexual stimulants becoming easy to get hold of

ketamine is a prescription drug and is used by jets is a horse tranquilizer

but it's also popular on the dance scene it's very surreal drug

relations law of had a threesome once

aunt it felt like those 100 hands on me

is very intense experience and

or they the cases so he said Janet he canceled check POW and come around in

and you know

sometimes in a can be doing things that you wouldn't that may be necessary do

otherwise ketamine is a the general anesthetic drug say that in other words

it can affect near-fatal consciousness infection ability to feel pain

makes you hallucinate incident behaving very controlled manner

you can also I'm produce crisp artery

I'm depressions beepers with become unconscious

to the potentially quite dangerous dangerous substance

the drug often associated with love and sex is

ecstasy uses report teams have moved a heightened sense of touch

a significant losses sexual inhibitions what it does is

really stimulates Lawson and

serotonin Paul places massive surgeons

serotonin about an hour 3 year and that

can prove Creek rate is a great feeling a buddy nissen togetherness

warm and human and taken some evidence that this may be in your a toxic I E

Canucks of brain cells and these brain cells may not recoverable you don't

cover

so young people can calls themselves significant

long-term damage in that way but ecstasy can also have a negative impact on

sexual performance

can affect your action it may be a pain to shovel a

do keep going and going and going and going and

and you can't come to go on down days more

and you still can come in eventually if you're lucky after a while

stop list I in half and half in you manage to have an orgasm

but is not guaranteed crisp also occasionally takes cocaine

no longer the preserve rock stars and celebrities

it's now used by an estimated three-quarters of a million people in

the UK

the ultimate upper it offers a quick but short-lived

tie let's chop up a line coke

on my partner's behind and then

sort of its is very sensual at

is is quite sexy something a bit

to do about it in a bit dirty but it was kinda makes it all the more rising

sex on coke can be really good a Heinz a confidence

and if you look at porn star and have sex like a porn star in

you know they feel the same and I

just makes the whole experience a law more frantic

k in either its warden we form a crack form

often enhances sexual pleasure initially

usually because it makes people very euphoric

good love energy also can cause erectile dysfunction

artificial stimulants work by making people feel great im happy

but the downside is that when you stop taking them to three days later you get

the condo negative or pacific two for the drug causes

so if you have regular use within a relationship

in like an emotional roller coaster people can feel intense the fantastic

the food is Lee to feel absolutely miserable and matt has huge

psychological

impact on hope couples communicate how often they have six all the siblings

so is really not to be recommended many drugs predicted

and you can start depend on them feel sexual experience

you can also develop a degree of tolerance and

experimenting with a dangerous cocktail of drugs and different ways

taking them and some have gone to extreme lengths to increase their sexual

peak

in 1987 in New York a man injected

into schemes before having sex with his girlfriend his erection didn't subside

for three days

and nine days later gangrene set in and he lost his legs

nineteen this and his penis drugs really are the ideal retype from sexual

pleasure

his Hollywood sex therapist and love allergist to Eva caddell

with a safe artificial stimulants women my top tip tonight

a small what women can use as artificial enhancements

to increase their on gas make experience

games by Bram it's a little topical solution that you just tap on your

finger

and you pundit around the file

outside Regina Wow ingredient nice and is gonna make you feel my warm

gonna get the blood rushing to your genitals

to the you have a quicker bigger and longer

orgasm try it you'll like it

if your mind is blurred

in your ability to consent to sex is played to if you get yourself in such a

state that you don't know what you doing

not able to put up resistance and may find yourself in trouble

and never forget many of these drugs are illegal our mission on a Girl's Guide to

21st century sex

to get you joining experiencing better sex all we could do is give you advice

and tips

ultimately it's up to you to express yourself and put it all into practice

to join us next week as we continue our exciting journey into miss

the facts in the science of human sexuality next time on a Girl's Guide to

21st century sex

10 percent men experience erectile dysfunction during their lifetime

the prosthetic device to give your man a helping hand

and an erection why anal sex is no longer considered to be in for some

couples

will dispel the myths surrounding it explore how to introduce it to our

lovemaking

and will also examine the health risks attached

and the secretive tantric sex how many have multiple orgasms too