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My name is Daniel Babic.
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I moved to LA four years ago
to live my American dream,
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because I wanted
to be a TV host.
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I was working the red carpets,
interviewing all the biggest
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celebrities in the world.
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I was living the high
life, traveling the world.
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I have all these
fabulous outfits--
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I mean, the best
time of my life.
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But the problem
now is I'm broke.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG:
Here are the facts.
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The numbers are massive.
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44 million people have
borrowed over $1.5 trillion
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in student loan debt,
and it doesn't end there.
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My name is Dan
Rosensweig, and I'm
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the CEO of the multi-billion
dollar company Chegg.
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This is my mission.
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With the help of my financial
expert, Danetha Doe,
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we're going to
help young people--
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the walls are closing in?
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Yeah.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: --who are
drowning in extreme debt.
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How many credit cards?
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10, 11, in 12--
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12--
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: --to build a
life of financial independence.
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I just want to get out of
debt, and I want your help.
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When the world is pushing
down on you, it's very hard.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: This
is an economic crisis
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of epic proportions--
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I don't use that much.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: --and
we have to fix it.
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No, come on.
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[SCREAM]
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: They're
going to hate it.
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But, when we're done, they're
going to be on the road
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to financial freedom.
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Do you feel good about
what we've done so far?
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I do.
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Thank you.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: This
is Going From Broke.
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It's another day and another
dollar that somebody owes.
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Yes, they do.
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Who is the lucky winner today?
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The lucky winner
today is Daniel.
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He's a 23-year-old,
originally from Australia,
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now living here in Los Angeles.
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He's making $1,900 per month.
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He's got $80,000 in total debt.
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$26,000 of that is
credit card debt.
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Wow.
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He is not going broke.
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He is broke.
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Yes.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: All right,
Daniel, here we come.
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[KNOCKING]
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Hello.
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How are you?
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I'm Dan.
Come in.
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Come in.
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Hi, Dan, I'm Danetha.
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Very nice to meet you.
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I'm Dan as well.
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Oh, there we go.
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I love your little
pocket square.
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Come in.
Come in.
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All right, thanks
for having us.
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- OK if we go in here?
- Yeah, yeah.
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Come in here.
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Come to the kitchen.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: Nice place--
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so, Daniel--
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DANIEL BABIC: Yes.
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Tell us your situation
in your own words.
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Yeah, well, I booked
a TV show upon moving
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to Los Angeles at 21.
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And I was earning
hundreds and hundreds
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of thousands of dollars.
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So, I was being young and dumb,
and I lived like a superstar
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and a rock star.
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So, I spent all that money.
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When I was working as a TV host,
obviously you treat yourself.
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I'm on a TV show,
so you start buying
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some designer things,
$5,000 on a bracelet here,
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$8,000 on a watch here.
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Everything-- even
my friend would say
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you don't even
think when you buy.
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I was like-- no, if
I want it, I buy it.
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It was the best.
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And then, you know, it
all came crashing down.
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When the show ended, I
thought, oh, well great.
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I'm going to book
another TV show
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with the same amount of money,
but it didn't happen that way.
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Well, let's sit down,
and go through the numbers,
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and see if we can't help.
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Unfortunately, the Daniel
situation is not unique to him.
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It happens in Los Angeles.
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It happens in sports.
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It happens in Silicon Valley.
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It happens everywhere.
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You get a job for
big money, and you
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think that that's
what you're going
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to earn the rest of your life.
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Things change.
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Companies close,
job gets eliminated.
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People get fired.
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All those things
can happen to you.
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Let's start with how much you
made from your first TV host.
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About $300,000--
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: How
much of that is left?
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DANIEL BABIC: Well, none.
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Let's walk through
your expenses.
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So, your rent-- how much
are you paying per month?
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$1,250--
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DANETHA DOE: Food?
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I think it was $600.
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$600?
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$600, yeah.
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DANETHA DOE: So, that
right there is $1,850,
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and you're bringing in $2,000.
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Yeah.
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So, you got a hundred--
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And that $2,000
is before taxes.
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Before-- yeah, before-- yes.
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DANETHA DOE: So, we've
just covered rent and food.
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Yeah.
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And you're already
deficit spending.
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Yeah, yeah.
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DANETHA DOE: When you add in
all of Daniel's other expenses
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beyond food and rent,
he's spending $4,800.
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But he's only bringing
in $1,700, which means,
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every month, instead of
paying down his massive debt,
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he's adding $3,100 to it.
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And that's before
interest, so it's
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really much worse than that.
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Anything else that we
should know about in terms
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of your monthly spending.
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I used to have a car.
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The car got totaled,
and I didn't--
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I only had liability
insurance, so I'm
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still paying off that car.
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So, you have a car
payment but no car.
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DANIEL BABIC: Yes.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: And
how much is that?
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DANIEL BABIC: From the top
of my head, I can't remember.
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Because you seem very smart.
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DANIEL BABIC: Yes.
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And, my guess is, if you
wanted to know the numbers,
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you would know them.
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So, when we show up,
we expect that they've
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done at least as much
work on their own life
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as we have done on their life.
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I'm very concerned that Daniel
really has yet to accept
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how dire his consequences are.
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How many of your credit
cards have been shut off?
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They're all maxed out.
They're all maxed out.
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And are you making
payments on them?
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DANIEL BABIC: No.
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What's the one with
the highest balance?
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I think the highest
is like $25,000--
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I think.
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I can't remember, because
it's-- there's a lot of numbers.
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I made some very big
mistakes financially.
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I laugh at myself now.
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I'm like-- what an idiot.
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I'd be at the
Beverly Hills Hotel,
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and I'd buy everyone's dinner.
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So that's $1,000.
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It feels to me like,
for most of your life,
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you've been able to
avoid the responsibility
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that comes with adulting.
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Correct.
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If we asked you to
pick up your phone
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and call your parents,
would they be shocked?
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Yeah, they would
be shocked-- correct.
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Well, it's interesting.
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I'm actually going to
Australia for a week in--
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do I have to cancel that?
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[MUMBLING]
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Doesn't that cost money?
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It does, yeah.
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Who'd pay for it?
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I was actually
going [INAUDIBLE]
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with my credit card.
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I was going to go and surprise
my mom for her birthday
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for a week.
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Yeah, yeah.
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I think a nice phone call--
so, you're going to tell them--
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maybe that's what you say.
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It's like-- you know what?
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I wanted to come
and surprise you,
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but I've got a
different surprise,
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and it's not going
to be pleasant.
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What if they say--
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you know what?
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You're out of control.
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Come home.
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I don't like living in
Australia, and it depresses me.
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I'm from a small town.
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It is so boring, and it is so--
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just not who I am-- and I
don't connect with anyone,
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because I am so different.
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And I just feel like an alien.
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Well, let that be
motivation for you
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and change your spending habits.
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DANIEL BABIC: Yeah.
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Change the
decisions you've made
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up to this point to get you into
the situation that you're in.
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Look, Daniel comes
from a very small town
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in a beautiful but small country
where he felt that it was not
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the right environment for
him to actually be himself,
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and so I empathize with him.
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And I want him to achieve that
level of happiness and success
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that he's looking for.
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The good news is you're
healthy, and you're smart.
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You're making bad decisions.
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There's a way out of this.
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Yes, yes.
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I love that.
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Thank you.
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It's like-- the other
day, I went out and spent
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$60 on going out for dinner.
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Why?
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Because I was like--
you're in so much debt.
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What's another $60?
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: OK, well--
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And I just want to have
fun, because my life's
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been so serious.
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Can I ask you a question?
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DANIEL BABIC: Yeah.
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Why don't you get
a full time job?
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I have been applying
for TV hosting, yeah.
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But there probably aren't a
lot of available TV host jobs.
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Yeah, correct.
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Have you contemplated a
career path that would allow you
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to grow and to use some of the
skills that you've worked on,
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some of the education
that you've got.
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Because, if you're
going to hold on and try
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to be available for when
TV host jobs come up,
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there's no certainty
around that.
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That's the nicest
way I can say--
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Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah, yeah.
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I'm 24.
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I don't think, at 24, giving
up on your life dream--
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I think that's giving up.
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First of all, none of
this is about giving up
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on your life's dream.
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Yeah.
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We're talking about-- are you
prepared to live a financially
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responsible lifestyle that will
put you back into a position
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to be in control of your
own destiny and so that,
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if you want to take that risk
at another place in your life,
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you're more capable to do it.
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Because you've got--
dreams and opportunities
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come all through your life,
but you're in no position
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to take them unless you can
afford to take that risk.
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Yes, correct.
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So, do you understand the
gravity of the situation?
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I do.
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There's every
reason to believe you
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may not be able to stay here.
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Yeah, there is.
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You know, that's
obviously the last option,
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and I hope that's not the case.
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It may not even
be your option.
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In other words,
you owe this money.
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You don't pay it.
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It's not like they
just let you stay here.
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If I don't take the
advice of Dan and Danetha,
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my future is seriously at stake,
because I might be kicked out
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of the country by
the US government
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and never allowed to return.
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I might face
serious legal action
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and will lose complete
control of my own life.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG:
Do you understand
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the gravity of the situation?
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DANIEL BABIC: I do.
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There's every
reason to believe you
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may not be able to stay here.
DANIEL BABIC: Yeah, there is.
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You know?
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It turns out hanging
around waiting to become a TV
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host has not worked out well.
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You're going to
have to delay that.
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Delay-- delay--
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As we said, we're
ending our dream.
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We're just postponing the dream.
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DANIEL BABIC:
Post-- I like that.
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Good.
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OK?
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We're going to give
you some homework.
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So, journal on your expenses.
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Step number one for
everyone is to do
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a daily financial journal,
writing down every dollar
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they spend and what they
spend it on, because only then
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does it become real,
and only then can
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they do something about it.
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On top of that-- to find
as many jobs as you can,
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working as many hours you
can, whatever it takes,
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whether it's getting second,
a third, a fourth job--
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here's a tough one for you.
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OK.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: You need to
cut your expenses by $3,000
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a month.
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Time to move out.
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Yeah.
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What are your options
to get out of your lease?
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Well, I have to talk to them.
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I don't know my options.
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You own your life,
but you're going
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to have to treat it like it's a
business with a balance sheet,
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and with making tough decisions.
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And, actually, you'll feel
really good about your future.
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It will be a funny story to
tell in many years, hopefully.
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Yeah, well, let's hope
it's not that many years.
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DANIEL BABIC: That many years--
yeah.
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Daniel has the ability
to take full advantage
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of the side hustle economy.
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We've got so many apps
these days like Airbnb.
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We've got Handy.
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We've got so many opportunities
to make money on the side
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that it's a great
time for Daniel
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be able to increase his income
without really making a ton
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of changes to his spending.
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OK, I think we're done here.
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Yay!
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Thank you so much.
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I really appreciate it.
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These are common mistakes
made by millions of people.
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Unfortunately, I'm increasingly
worried that Daniel
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has yet to do the work to
fully embrace his situation.
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So, Daniel has
racked up a huge amount
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of credit card debt.
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There are options
out there to make
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those numbers more manageable.
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You can refinance your credit
cards into one payment.
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Another option to
look into is to call
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your credit card
companies and see if there
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is a balance transfer option.
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For some more ideas
and more options
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on how to manage your debt, be
sure to check out Grow By Acorns.
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As part of my
homework, Dan and Danetha
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have told me to get some
more income coming in.
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So, today I've booked a gig
cleaning someone's house,
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so I'm excited.
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Hi, I'm Daniel.
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Very nice to meet you.
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You too.
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Are you a cleaner?
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Yes, I am.
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Perfect, let me
show you around.
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Awesome.
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So, I want to
get the pool clean.
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Yep.
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Definitely this entire upper
deck needs to be swept off.
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So, it's a mess.
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We have a broom here for you.
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Perfect, yeah.
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And we got the pool net so
we can get all the leaves out.
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Just let me know whenever
you're done out here,
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and I'll show you
the pool house.
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DANIEL BABIC: OK, perfect.
Thank you so much.
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Time for the pool house.
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I don't really like
cleaning, I've discovered.
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But, I also don't really
like being in debt.
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I'm quite weak
physically, and I'm
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not really used to cleaning.
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I have a cleaner, and
I'm not very good at it.
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Even though I
secretly, deep down
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hate it and don't
want to be here,
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I'm remembering that I
put myself in this mess,
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so I'm the one that has to
clean it up, so to speak.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: So,
how have you been?
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Good-- very good.
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We asked you to keep a diary.
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Yes.
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Did you do that?
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DANIEL BABIC: Yes, I did.
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Can we see it?
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I don't actually
have it on here,
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because I'm-- it's
in my-- it's packed,
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because I'm actually flying
to Australia tonight, still.
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And I thought we
agreed we weren't going
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to go to Australia,
because we didn't
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have the money to do that.
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I, um-- yeah, well I--
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my grandma is very
ill, and I tried to get
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the money back from the flight.
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So, I made the executive
decision to still go.
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And I think I still need to
really talk to my parents
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about what's going
on, and they agreed.
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They said we'll talk about your
financials when you get here.
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I'm glad to see you're
bringing your diary,
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but I'd really like you
to get it for us here now.
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OK, yeah.
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It's just packed away, so I--
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I would love you to unpack it.
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DANIEL BABIC: OK, yeah.
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I will actually
be happy to wait.
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OK, yeah.
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It's important that we
do this with a process
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and with the
discipline necessary.
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So, how about we
wait here, and you--
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Yeah, cool.
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I'll be like five minutes.
DAN ROSENSWEIG: I'll be here.
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DANIEL BABIC: Thank you.
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DAN ROSENSWEIG: OK.
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Keeping a journal, for
someone like Daniel,
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is absolutely critical.
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Writing it down, and
actually seeing it
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in writing and acknowledging
it, is the first step in ending
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this vicious cycle of debt.
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So, uh--
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It's been 15 minutes.
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Yeah, I think
he's full of crap.
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DANIEL BABIC: Hello.
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A-ha--
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DANIEL BABIC: We
can't find my journal,
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so I just got a
notepad to take notes.
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DANETHA DOE: So, you haven't
been keeping a journal.
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I have been keeping a journal.
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We just can't find it.
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You said you just packed it.
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I did, yeah.
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You can even have-- we
looked through my stuff
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for five minutes, and we
just couldn't find it.
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But I've definitely
been keeping a journal.
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I'm not lying.
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OK, all evidence suggests
that's not the case.
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It is true.
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If it's not true, I'd
rather have you tell me.
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Dan, I didn't do it yet.
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I want to do it.
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I will do it, but
I didn't do it yet.
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Then we can continue.
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I don't know where
I [BLEEP] put it.
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I don't know where it is.
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I haven't seen it for two days.
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I thought I packed it
last night in my thing,
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and I can't find it.
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I'm just frustrated,
because it's like--
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it would almost be easier
to just say I'm lying
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and I never did it.
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It can only be in two places.
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00:14:01,170 --> 00:14:03,120
You come and look with
me, but I cannot find it.
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And I've written it.
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00:14:04,060 --> 00:14:05,050
And I almost feel like--
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Let's do it.
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I'm ready.
448
00:14:07,190 --> 00:14:10,070
So, I'm pretty sure I
packed it, but I'm not sure.
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00:14:10,070 --> 00:14:11,200
And I've searched my
bedroom for over two
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hours this morning looking for
it, and I couldn't find it.
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We presumed it would be in here,
because I was going to write
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in my journal this morning.
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And I just presumed that I
packed it in here last night.
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OK, well, we'll take
our time, because I
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believe you that you wrote it.
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Yeah, I did.
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And that's why-- and
I've torn apart my--
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DAN ROSENSWEIG:
But we want-- look.
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I can't find--
did you hear me?
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I cannot find it.
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00:14:28,140 --> 00:14:29,040
You know what?
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Yeah.
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It's clear to
me that you've got
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a lot going on in your life.
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You've got a lot
going on in your head,
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and you're not ready
for this conversation.
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00:14:38,190 --> 00:14:41,010
I'm, like, really putting
some really good changes, and I
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can't find my [BLEEP] journal.
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00:14:42,130 --> 00:14:43,080
And it's like--
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OK, I've lost the
journal, but I've
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done all these other things.
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And I've wanted your
help, and I'm li--
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and I've listened to you.
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You haven't listened to us.
DANIEL BABIC: Well, I've--
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So far all you're
doing is yelling at me.
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Yeah, I am.
477
00:14:52,140 --> 00:14:53,050
I'm sorry.
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I'm going to continue
to yell at you.
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Well, then I'm going to go.
480
00:14:55,110 --> 00:14:58,010
Because I have really
been listening to your--
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the advice that you gave me.
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00:14:59,100 --> 00:15:01,030
OK, so I'm going
to give you one--
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00:15:01,030 --> 00:15:02,150
I'm going to give
you one last chance.
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00:15:02,150 --> 00:15:04,160
Danetha can stay as
long as she would like.
485
00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,150
I'm not going to,
because lashing out at me
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doesn't solve the problem.
487
00:15:09,070 --> 00:15:11,100
I can respect the fact
that you're under stress,
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and I would be as well.
489
00:15:13,110 --> 00:15:17,060
But raising your voice, yelling,
isn't going to get us there.
490
00:15:17,060 --> 00:15:18,180
So, when you get
back from this trip,
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we're going to try it again.
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And it's very important that
you have the journal completed.
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Yeah.
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These conversations and
relationships are about trust,
495
00:15:26,220 --> 00:15:29,170
and I just don't trust that
Daniel has done the work.
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So my hope is, on his
trip to Australia,
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he will come clean
with his parents,
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and his parents will give him
the necessary kick that he
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needs to turn his life around.
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00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,090
The benefit of a
journal is that you're
501
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actually seeing what you're
spending your money on.
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The numbers don't lie.
503
00:15:52,180 --> 00:15:55,150
The reality of your spending
history doesn't lie.
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00:15:55,150 --> 00:15:58,090
So, get honest with yourself
and keep that journal.
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And then you may find
out ways to cut back.
506
00:16:00,190 --> 00:16:03,010
You'll be inspired to
make changes, because now
507
00:16:03,010 --> 00:16:05,030
you know where you want
to go and the mistakes
508
00:16:05,030 --> 00:16:06,090
that you're making.
509
00:16:06,090 --> 00:16:07,110
And that's the beauty of it.
510
00:16:07,110 --> 00:16:08,160
Maybe you'll find
out that you have,
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00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,180
actually, a little bit of
money left over to splurge.
512
00:16:16,140 --> 00:16:18,090
My parents don't fully
know the situation I'm in,
513
00:16:18,090 --> 00:16:19,220
because I would never
want to disappoint them
514
00:16:19,220 --> 00:16:20,190
and let them know.
515
00:16:20,190 --> 00:16:22,210
And I really do believe
in taking responsibility
516
00:16:22,210 --> 00:16:23,180
for your own life.
517
00:16:27,130 --> 00:16:28,120
Hey, y'all.
518
00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,120
I'm so excited, because
I'm currently in Australia
519
00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,160
at my childhood home.
520
00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,110
Mom, say hello to all
my American friends.
521
00:16:35,110 --> 00:16:36,060
Hi, American friends.
522
00:16:36,060 --> 00:16:36,200
How are you?
523
00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,090
I'm cooking up
some potatoes to go
524
00:16:38,090 --> 00:16:40,050
with the shrimp on the barbie.
525
00:16:40,050 --> 00:16:42,050
I'm feeling so
relaxed right now,
526
00:16:42,050 --> 00:16:44,000
and I feel like a massive
weight has been lifted off
527
00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,000
my shoulders, because
I finally just told
528
00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,030
my parents about
everything that's
529
00:16:47,030 --> 00:16:48,070
going on financially with me.
530
00:16:48,070 --> 00:16:51,060
And I have to say I feel
like a bloody idiot.
531
00:16:51,060 --> 00:16:53,130
I feel like a [BLEEP]
head, because I
532
00:16:53,130 --> 00:16:55,090
worked myself up so
much, and I really
533
00:16:55,090 --> 00:16:56,100
didn't give them enough credit.
534
00:16:56,100 --> 00:16:57,140
Of course they
were firm with me,
535
00:16:57,140 --> 00:16:59,020
and they were
really disappointed,
536
00:16:59,020 --> 00:17:02,070
but they were mainly
just wanting to help.
537
00:17:02,070 --> 00:17:03,190
You know, they said
to me you never should
538
00:17:03,190 --> 00:17:04,200
feel embarrassed or ashamed.
539
00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,210
We're your parents and, you
know, we're here for you.
540
00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:15,200
[KNOCKING]
541
00:17:17,090 --> 00:17:18,070
Hey, guys, how are you?
542
00:17:18,070 --> 00:17:19,010
Hi, Daniel.
543
00:17:19,010 --> 00:17:20,040
- Can we come in?
- Yeah, come in.
544
00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:20,180
Yeah.
545
00:17:20,180 --> 00:17:21,170
All right.
546
00:17:21,170 --> 00:17:23,200
Even though Daniel
was on a family trip,
547
00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,230
it's still important
that he did his homework
548
00:17:25,230 --> 00:17:27,180
so we can get a true
assessment of his
549
00:17:27,180 --> 00:17:30,080
current financial situation.
550
00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,030
You know, I want
to be optimistic.
551
00:17:32,030 --> 00:17:32,170
DANIEL BABIC: Yes.
552
00:17:32,170 --> 00:17:35,230
The first two times you and
I met didn't go very well.
553
00:17:35,230 --> 00:17:37,160
No.
554
00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:39,120
The third time's a charm.
555
00:17:39,120 --> 00:17:40,200
That's the hope.
556
00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,010
How do you think you're doing?
557
00:17:42,010 --> 00:17:43,120
I'm doing much better
than I was before,
558
00:17:43,120 --> 00:17:45,080
and I think I've made
some great changes, so--
559
00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,130
Well, that warms my heart.
560
00:17:47,130 --> 00:17:48,040
And--
561
00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,040
You have a heart, Dan?
562
00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,000
Yeah, and-- well,
we'll find out.
563
00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:55,030
Whether I have a heart
or don't have a heart--
564
00:17:55,030 --> 00:17:57,000
It's irrelevant, because
it's just business.
565
00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,210
Well, it's irrelevant
because, if you don't
566
00:17:58,210 --> 00:18:01,110
get your act
together, then there
567
00:18:01,110 --> 00:18:02,230
won't be a second act for you.
568
00:18:02,230 --> 00:18:05,070
My goal isn't to
get you to like me.
569
00:18:05,070 --> 00:18:07,140
My goal is to help you
get out of a situation
570
00:18:07,140 --> 00:18:09,180
which makes you very unhappy.
571
00:18:09,180 --> 00:18:10,110
Yes.
572
00:18:10,110 --> 00:18:13,220
I'd love to see
the infamous diary.
573
00:18:13,220 --> 00:18:15,230
I don't like
writing things down.
574
00:18:15,230 --> 00:18:17,010
So, no, you didn't do it.
575
00:18:17,010 --> 00:18:17,160
Do you know what?
576
00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,190
I-- the diary's not
really my thing.
577
00:18:19,190 --> 00:18:21,050
Well, that's pretty clear.
578
00:18:21,050 --> 00:18:23,000
DANIEL BABIC: Yeah,
so I fail in this one,
579
00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,220
but I get an A plus
in everything else.
580
00:18:24,220 --> 00:18:25,230
Well, we don't know that.
581
00:18:25,230 --> 00:18:26,130
Yeah.
582
00:18:26,130 --> 00:18:30,080
Yeah, so let's go through
what we had asked you to do.
583
00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:30,230
Yeah.
584
00:18:30,230 --> 00:18:34,040
First and foremost,
your monthly income--
585
00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,010
and we asked you to look
for ways to increase that.
586
00:18:37,010 --> 00:18:38,070
Where are we at with that?
587
00:18:38,070 --> 00:18:39,190
Now it's currently at $2,800.
588
00:18:39,190 --> 00:18:41,060
Great, OK.
589
00:18:41,060 --> 00:18:43,090
So, the next item
that we had you do
590
00:18:43,090 --> 00:18:45,100
was we asked you to cut
$3,000 out of your spending.
591
00:18:45,100 --> 00:18:46,000
Yeah.
592
00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:46,200
DAN ROSENSWEIG: A month--
593
00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,090
A month, yes--
594
00:18:48,090 --> 00:18:49,090
were you able to do that?
595
00:18:49,090 --> 00:18:50,140
DANIEL BABIC: I was
able to do that.
596
00:18:50,140 --> 00:18:52,210
So, just so I'm clear,
how have you cut spending
597
00:18:52,210 --> 00:18:53,190
when you haven't been here?
598
00:18:53,190 --> 00:18:54,160
Well, I've just changed.
599
00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,090
Now I'm very aware.
600
00:18:56,090 --> 00:18:58,140
I was living
mindlessly, whereas now
601
00:18:58,140 --> 00:19:00,170
I am very mindful of what I'm--
602
00:19:00,170 --> 00:19:03,080
So walk me through where
you cut out the $3,000.
603
00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:05,020
So, I have your
expenses listed here.
604
00:19:05,020 --> 00:19:09,090
We have rent at $1,250, and
you're still in your place.
605
00:19:09,090 --> 00:19:11,190
Oh, well, actually on
Monday I'm moving, so--
606
00:19:11,190 --> 00:19:12,100
To where?
607
00:19:12,100 --> 00:19:13,010
Oh, OK.
608
00:19:13,010 --> 00:19:17,030
I'm actually house sitting for
a friend for free for a month.
609
00:19:17,030 --> 00:19:19,160
When we suggested to move
out, you said that you couldn't
610
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,210
because you had a lease.
611
00:19:20,210 --> 00:19:21,120
I did.
612
00:19:21,120 --> 00:19:23,000
Even though my name's
still under the lease,
613
00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:24,230
I can still actually
legally sublease my bedroom.
614
00:19:24,230 --> 00:19:25,210
Right, have you done that?
615
00:19:25,210 --> 00:19:26,130
I've done that.
616
00:19:26,130 --> 00:19:27,100
They're already subleased.
617
00:19:27,100 --> 00:19:28,090
They're already in there.
618
00:19:28,090 --> 00:19:29,050
OK, what's her name?
619
00:19:29,050 --> 00:19:30,070
DANIEL BABIC: Her name is Karen.
620
00:19:30,070 --> 00:19:31,060
I'm encouraged.
621
00:19:31,060 --> 00:19:32,160
I really am encouraged.
622
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,020
I want to believe all this.
623
00:19:34,020 --> 00:19:35,010
DANIEL BABIC: OK.
624
00:19:35,010 --> 00:19:35,230
Let me ask you a question.
625
00:19:35,230 --> 00:19:37,010
Where is she now?
626
00:19:37,010 --> 00:19:37,210
DANIEL BABIC: She's out.
627
00:19:37,210 --> 00:19:39,010
DAN ROSENSWEIG: There
must be a sublease.
628
00:19:39,010 --> 00:19:40,130
- Yeah.
- Do you have the document?
629
00:19:40,130 --> 00:19:41,220
No, I don't have
that yet, because we're
630
00:19:41,220 --> 00:19:44,040
signing it tomorrow.
631
00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,140
DAN ROSENSWEIG:
Can we call Karen?
632
00:19:45,140 --> 00:19:46,100
Yes, we can.
Yes.
633
00:19:46,100 --> 00:19:47,070
Let's try her.
634
00:19:47,070 --> 00:19:48,010
DANIEL BABIC: Yeah,
let's give her a call.
635
00:19:48,010 --> 00:19:48,120
Yeah.
- OK.
636
00:19:51,020 --> 00:19:52,160
I don't hear anything.
637
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:53,210
DANIEL BABIC: No,
I don't I know why.
638
00:19:53,210 --> 00:19:54,120
It's ringing.
639
00:19:54,120 --> 00:19:55,230
It's got that thing in there.
640
00:19:55,230 --> 00:19:56,140
You know what?
641
00:19:56,140 --> 00:19:58,210
Maybe it'll make this easier,
if she's not going to answer--
642
00:19:58,210 --> 00:20:00,160
this would make me
feel very comfortable.
643
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,100
How about we go in the
room and see her clothes?
644
00:20:03,100 --> 00:20:05,210
Look, with Daniel it
never seems to add up.
645
00:20:05,210 --> 00:20:08,030
And he's making
a lot of excuses,
646
00:20:08,030 --> 00:20:09,140
and his story keeps changing.
647
00:20:09,140 --> 00:20:11,210
I'm going to get to
the bottom of this.
648
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:13,090
I don't feel comfortable
going in her room.
649
00:20:13,090 --> 00:20:15,090
I promised her I wouldn't and,
if [INAUDIBLE] shooting today
650
00:20:15,090 --> 00:20:16,220
is that we wouldn't
go in her room.
651
00:20:16,220 --> 00:20:18,130
Maybe just open the door.
652
00:20:18,130 --> 00:20:20,090
DANIEL BABIC: It's trash, so
I don't feel comfortable--
653
00:20:20,090 --> 00:20:21,230
DAN ROSENSWEIG: There's
nobody living in there.
654
00:20:21,230 --> 00:20:23,070
DANIEL BABIC: There is.
- How can I--
655
00:20:23,070 --> 00:20:23,210
Do you know--
656
00:20:23,210 --> 00:20:25,010
I'm like-- do not--
do you know?
657
00:20:25,010 --> 00:20:26,040
I think you should just go.
Goodbye.
658
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:27,030
- I agree.
- Goodbye.
659
00:20:27,030 --> 00:20:27,180
- Thanks.
- Goodbye.
660
00:20:27,180 --> 00:20:29,050
Good luck.
661
00:20:29,050 --> 00:20:32,090
OK, bye.
662
00:20:32,090 --> 00:20:36,040
Sadly for Daniel, he is
not interested in solving
663
00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,040
his problem yet.
664
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,170
Hopefully one day he will
be before it's too late.
665
00:20:39,170 --> 00:20:42,180
Look, if you're going
to lie to yourself,
666
00:20:42,180 --> 00:20:44,060
then you can't fix your problem.
667
00:20:44,060 --> 00:20:45,110
So, that's that.
668
00:20:45,110 --> 00:20:46,180
But I'm happy for
the-- you know,
669
00:20:46,180 --> 00:20:47,230
they did help me
with the advice,
670
00:20:47,230 --> 00:20:49,120
and I've got my
parents on-board.
671
00:20:49,120 --> 00:20:50,230
But, yeah, I think
I'm very upset.
672
00:20:50,230 --> 00:20:53,070
You control your own future.
673
00:20:53,070 --> 00:20:54,210
You control your own destiny.
674
00:20:54,210 --> 00:20:56,020
It may not be easy,
and you're going
675
00:20:56,020 --> 00:20:57,170
to have to make
decisions at a young age
676
00:20:57,170 --> 00:20:59,060
that you don't want
to have to make.
677
00:20:59,060 --> 00:21:02,070
And you're not going to think
it's your fault. In some cases,
678
00:21:02,070 --> 00:21:03,090
it might not be.
679
00:21:03,090 --> 00:21:05,200
In the case of Daniel,
it is his fault,
680
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:07,110
and it's his responsibility.
681
00:21:07,110 --> 00:21:10,090
And he wants to own the
responsibility for none of it.
682
00:21:10,090 --> 00:21:11,110
He's just disrespectful.
683
00:21:11,110 --> 00:21:12,210
He's disrespectful
of his own life.
684
00:21:12,210 --> 00:21:14,110
He's disrespectful of us.
685
00:21:14,110 --> 00:21:16,050
This is not the kind
of person that we
686
00:21:16,050 --> 00:21:17,080
need to spend time helping.
687
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,220
DANETHA DOE: Yeah, he's
not taking it seriously.
688
00:21:18,220 --> 00:21:22,070
I didn't think so, and
it's not worth our time.
689
00:21:22,070 --> 00:21:23,230
DANETHA DOE: We can't
help someone who isn't
690
00:21:23,230 --> 00:21:26,060
willing to help themselves.
691
00:21:26,060 --> 00:21:30,140
Hopefully one day Daniel
will go from broke.
692
00:21:30,140 --> 00:21:32,060
To find more
resources to empower
693
00:21:32,060 --> 00:21:34,090
your own journey of
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694
00:21:34,130 --> 00:21:36,150
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695
00:21:36,190 --> 00:21:38,070
Hey, it's Danetha.
696
00:21:38,070 --> 00:21:41,070
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702
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