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Once Given Never Forgotten Ep34

Lianxin,

after we get married,

let's have two kids.

Growing up as an only child is truly lonely.

And if our kids

are very naughty

like the two kids yesterday

and they run away from home,

they can at least take care of each other.

What do you say?

I...

I don't know.

I don't know about it yet.

I don't want...

Do you not like kids?

It's that you have idealized the whole thing.

It's not complicated at all.

As long as we are together,

there is nothing we can't get through.

Have you ever considered

what would happen to our children if we break up?

We will never break up.

I...

I am just making assumptions.

Then, if one day,

I'm gone,

our children will suffer a lot.

I don't want myself to be the root of my children's suffering.

I don't think it's that complicated.

Why is that...

Table No. 20, your food is ready.

I'm hungry. Go get the food.

Thank you.

You are welcome.

Xiang Yuqiu

Hello,

have you seen

a girl about this tall?

No, I haven't.

Thank you.

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Doctor,

is my neurasthenia

caused by over-fatigue?

Because I've been forgetful recently.

You see,

according to the scan,

both your hippocampus and amygdalas

have shrunk, more or less.

What does it mean?

Doctor,

can you explain more to me?

It means that you do have

Alzheimer’s disease.

Are you sure?

Because I've been very busy with work recently.

I've been under great pressure,

so I feel fatigued very often

both physically and mentally...

I...

Doctor,

maybe we can do the test again.

Miss Lian.

Because there have been

many cases of misdiagnosis.

Shall we run the test again?

It must be wrong.

Can we run the test again, please?

How can it be? Please calm down,

Miss Lian.

You must have misdiagnosed it.

Take me to do the test again.

It can't be.

It's impossible.

It can't be.

Lianxin.

I didn't notice it and walked away.

I have checked in at a hotel nearby.

Don't worry about me.

Let me think about the thing of having kids.

Goodnight.

Sorry,

the number you have dialed is currently unavailable,

please try again later.

We did some simple tests for you before

and the results tell us that

you do show the symptoms of cognitive impairment.

So, I arranged for you

a series of tests including

cerebrospinal fluid analysis.

The results of the tests can't be wrong.

Early-onset Alzheimer's disease

is mainly hereditary.

But it's also related to people's different conditions.

The onset of the disease may be caused

by the hit on your head you suffered when you were little.

Besides,

physical and mental fatigue

also undermines the treatment.

Please go on.

I can take it.

That's good.

Medicine can relieve some symptoms

but your disease will get worse as time goes by.

It's inevitable.

Before your somatic functions weaken,

you will suffer from cognitive decline.

Your judgment will also be weakened.

That's enough.

I already know those things.

Basing on your current conditions,

you need your families to take care of you.

So, for your follow-up visits,

do ask your family to accompany you.

I'd rather not bother them.

I'm sorry. Sorry.

Then, doctor,

how long do I have?

I mean,

for how long can I still control my life?

The illness gets worse at different speeds

for different patients.

It's related to your personal conditions.

I can't say, either.

Thank you.

Here.

Don't rub it anymore.

Why didn't he give you a ring with a bigger diamond?

Go tell Chen Qi to buy you a better one.

Don't.

I'm not that kind of person.

I don't care about such things.

But it does look kind of plain.

Just let it be. That's it.

How was your trip?

It was fine.

The scenery was great.

You invited me out

not because there is another problem

with the orders, right?

Of course not.

It's not about work.

It's just the other day,

everything happened so suddenly that

I forgot to ask you an important question.

What's that?

My dear sister,

are you willing to be my maid of honor?

Of course.

Except for me,

who else can you think of?

Let me think about it.

I really can't think of anyone else.

When do you plan to have the wedding?

Maybe next year at this time.

What do you think?

No way.

Why is it?

One year is too long for you to wait.

Besides, Chen Qi has waited for you for so many years.

Do you want to keep him waiting?

And I also want to

see you in your wedding dress as soon as possible.

Then, tell me,

when do you think is the best?

You have told each other about your feelings anyway.

Then, let's do it quick.

What about next month?

I can't do that.

It's only a month away.

I haven't made any preparations. It's too hasty.

I can't.

Just rest assured.

I'm your maid of honor now.

It's my duty to worry about those things.

I will definitely

make sure that you are

the most beautiful bride in the world.

Are you serious?

All right. It's up to you now,

my little housekeeper.

...It can relieve the decline in memory.

It's usually used by

patients with Alzheimer's disease.

Then, can the drug slow the progression of the disease?

It can help with it.

But in the future, the patient will suffer

from worse memory loss.

It's inevitable.

Lianxin,

after we get married,

let's have two kids.

Growing up as an only child is truly lonely.

And if our kids

are very naughty

like the two kids yesterday

and they run away from home,

they can at least take care of each other.

What do you say?

I...

I don't know.

I don't know about it yet.

I don't want...

Do you not like kids?

It's that you have idealized the whole thing.

It's not complicated at all.

As long as we are together,

there is nothing we can't get through.

Have you ever considered

what would happen to

our children if we break up?

Why is it you again?

Just send me the promotion plan through e-mail.

I'm here to talk to you about the corporate propaganda.

I surely need to finalize it with you in person.

Why did you drink so much wine?

Why are you sleeping during the day?

What do you want?

What's wrong with you?

Nothing.

Did you catch a cold?

What if I did?

What if I didn't?

There is no difference.

Get up now.

Get up.

The concert will be held next month.

You must take it seriously.

The cold may develop into some serious illness.

The theme is still moot.

Why do we still need to hold the concert?

I mean...

Didn't you say that the concert is

very important for you?

I just don't want to do it rashly.

Without a proper theme,

I can't make a proper setlist.

Then, I'd rather not have the concert.

Didn't you come to talk about the promotion plan with me?

Yeah.

This is the initial draft.

Please have a look first.

I discussed with your assistant

and added something to it...

No problem.

I mean,

don't you need to read it carefully?

I can come to confirm it a few days later.

Not necessary.

I will cooperate with everything

in your promotion plan.

Do you have anything else?

I suppose...

I don't.

Then, it's my turn to ask you.

What is it?

Chen Qi said that

Lianxin and Xiang Yuqiu went on a vacation.

Is she back?

Yeah.

She got back yesterday.

How does she look?

She looks fine.

When she came in this morning,

she looked so happy.

Then, it's nice.

Dad,

are you looking at me?

I miss you so much.

Dad,

now,

it's a secret between the two of us.

I'm back.

You are home.

Lianxin,

it's time to eat.

I'm tired.

You can eat yourself.

Lianxin,

open the door. I have something to say to you.

I want to go to bed now.

We can talk about it tomorrow.

All right.

Goodnight.

I'm so sorry.

I...

You what?

Did you forget anything?

You need to eat more now that you caught a cold.

I know that you don't want to bother to go out,

so I brought something back for you.

Taozi,

do you have some special feelings for me...

Just cut it out.

You wish.

I just think that

at least, you are the brand's spokesperson of Beloved.

Otherwise, I wouldn't even care about you.

All right.

That's it.

I should go.

Remember to take the medicine half an hour after you have your meal.

I didn't say anything.

Classic piano music

It's so beautiful.

Do you like it?

From now on, it's your home as well.

Then, we can go home together.

Do you want to eat anything? I can get it for you.

Sugar-coated haws.

Sure. Wait for me.

It's fine.

Just rest assured.

You see,

today,

you almost wreaked havoc on our house,

but they didn't say anything.

If it were me, I would have been beaten to death.

She?

She's going to learn to dance?

It suits you better to practice Wing Chun Kung Fu.

When both of you grow up

and your father gets too old to move,

I won't even have a person to scratch my back for me.

She's talking about it again.

You're getting upset for nothing.

Then, I'll never grow up.

I'll scratch your back for you.

Just relax a bit.

If you give yourself too much pressure,

your disease will get even worse.

Doctor,

is my disease even worse than last time now?

Simply put, it should be...

Wait a second.

I'm afraid I might forget what you say.

The things we call age spots

have increased.

The frequency of cognitive disorders

has also increased.

So,

if you work for too long,

the disease will get worse.

You need to rest properly.

That's to say

my memory will get worse and worse.

So, I can't even write my proposal and reports,

can I?

The only thing we can do now

is to slow the progression of the disease.

You can engage in more cognitive

or social activities,

such as

listening to music

and doing puzzles.

Reading books

also helps.

All right.

I see.

Of course,

you also need to pay attention to your diet

and have some proper rest.

Most importantly,

you need to keep yourself in a good mood.

What is it?

This is a gift made just for you

by designers of our company.

Open it and take a look.

It's amazing.

How did you know that I like it?

I had meetings with you guys.

And I noticed you spent more time

doing this than discussing business with us.

So, I just learned it.

Thank you very much.

My pleasure. Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Okay, I'll have a look.

All right. I'll give it to you later.

Let me read the script.

Do you need to revise it?

-Miss Lian. -Miss Lian.

Morning.

Miss Lian.

All right, I see.

Miss Lian,

the VR eyewear manufacturer that's working with us

has launched a new collection of updated products.

They are said to be able to

deal with blurry peripheral vision.

And this afternoon,

Some products will be sent here for a test.

You can follow up on it.

Where is Taozi?

She's probably in the office.

She went there a while ago.

I see. You can go to do your work now.

Miss Lian.

Miss Lian,

you look so pretty today.

What is it?

Just say it.

My master,

I'm sorry. I'm so sorry.

I was just sitting there for fun.

It's true, really.

Don't be mad at me.

Don't kick me out.

My master.

Don't do this.

Why don't you say anything?

Please say something to me.

I'm scared.

You are scared?

I thought you sit very tight on that seat.

I guess...

The company is just fine without me.

No, no, no.

I can't sit tight on the seat at all.

I can't. Totally not.

Look, I'm falling down.

I'm falling off of it.

Oh, my god. That's enough.

The breakfast is really nice.

Did you buy it?

No.

This morning,

someone came here to Beloved

to send the breakfast.

But it's such a pity that he didn't get to see his beloved one.

In the future,

you can't hide in the office to eat anymore.

You need to set an example.

Otherwise, people will lose confidence in you.

They don't need to have confidence in me.

They just need to have confidence in you.

I'm not joking with you, Taozi.

All right.

It's fine.

Fine, I won't eat here again.

When I was downstairs,

I saw you with the foreign investors.

You did a good job.

When you were downstairs?

Did you see everything?

My sister's wedding will be held next month.

I will need you to take charge of the company.

Regard it as a short-term training.

If I can't be here anymore one day,

you will still be able to play the leading role on your own.

Why won't you be here?

Where are you going?

I don't want to take the leading role.

I want to be your assistant.

Who knows?

Maybe one day, I just get in the mood

and want to resign to travel around the world.

No, you can't.

You can't leave. You can't go anywhere.

I can't handle it on my own.

I was just joking with you.

Look at you,

you've got even darker shadows under your eyes recently.

It's all because of the VR thing.

I'm going to become a faded old woman.

Do you think I will believe it?

Tell me the truth.

Then, I'll say it.

Don't be mad at me.

I won't. Say it.

It's just the other day,

you asked me to find Luo Rui

to talk about the promotion.

So, I went.

He didn't go to work for days

and just stayed at home.

Then, I noticed that

he caught a cold.

Was it serious?

It was not serious.

But the problem is...

He didn't take it seriously at all.

So, I bought him some food.

Right, I also bought him some medicine.

And then?

Then...

Then...

There is no then.

You are trying to say that

you couldn't sleep

because of Luo Rui.

Oh, my god.

You finally realized it.

I asked you to handle Luo Rui's endorsement

just to create a chance for you to be together.

I asked you in a subtle way so many times,

but you wouldn't admit it.

I really wanted to just

give you up.

Because I was scared.

Were you scared that I might get mad at you?

Taozi,

I love Xiang Yuqiu.

Luo Rui will always be my older brother.

He has been, is, and will still be

my older brother.

So, you don't need to worry about that.

Now that you like him,

be brave and go for it.

But I feel that

he has no feelings for me at all.

He doesn't know how you feel.

Of course, he treats you as a friend.

That's what I'm worried about.

I'm afraid

if I tell him about my feelings,

we won't even be able to be friends anymore.

But you will always only be his friend if you don't tell him about it.

All right, then teach me.

How can I get the man I like to like me back?

The secret to it is...

Imagine the pain of

losing him one day

and you will try your best

to tell him about your feelings

and love him.

I don't get it.

The world of grownups is so complicated.

I don't understand it.

The patients we have here who suffer from that

are mostly old people.

We really don't have patients who get admitted for it

at such a young age.

Since Uncle Yuan passed away,

it's been a long time before you came.

So, you came this time to...

I have a friend who also got this disease.

So, I wonder

if we have any cases of

admitting younger patients.

This is a nursing home after all.

As for the case you mentioned,

I think you should mainly use home nursing.

Though, living in the nursing home

means he or she can have special care.

The company of the families is still much better.

Then, what can I do

to protect the self-esteem of the patient

and also take care of her?

When the patient knows that he or she has done something wrong,

don't say anything more.

They will feel guilty enough.

So, don't scale up the matter.

It's better if you can deal with it on your own

before they even know it.

If one of the parents

has familial Alzheimer's disease,

the chance for the next generation to have the same disease

is as high as 50%.

This is called dominant inheritance.

Lianxin,

after we get married,

let's have two kids.

I...

I don't know.

Do you not like kids?

What would happen to

our children if we break up?

We will never break up.

Then, if one day,

I'm gone,

our children will suffer a lot.

I don't want myself to be the root of my children's suffering.

Hello?

Here, the light.

This side. Get me some light.

Put it down a bit.

Lower.

Down a bit, right?

Okay, here, this way.

Very good. Keep that.

Here, smile.

Very good. Keep it that way.

Very good.

Look at here. This way.

Very good.

Come on, more light.

Make it lighter.

Nice, very good.

Buding, take a few pictures for me.

It's almost finished.

Sure.

Come on, get the hair done.

Sure.

Take a rest now.

Put it closer.

Yes, here.

These are taken in your studio.

I've developed all of them.

Thank you.

And this is for Lianxin.

It's about wedding planners.

Why don't you give it to her yourself?

Man,

I'm so busy with work all day today.

What is it?

Are you not willing to run an errand for your girlfriend?

We had a fight.

You had a fight?

Buding.

You can take it over now.

Sure.

It's time to show your skills.

I got it.

Let's go.

Here, come on.

Here, get the fan ready.

Stop chatting. Come on.

Get ready.

Pull up the dress.

It's fine. We don't need that.

This will do. Come on.

Get ready.

Here, get the fan closer. Closer.

So, you and Lianxin were talking about

if you want to have children.

Lianxin got upset and you had a fight.

So, she just left you there in the cold weather for a night.

I mean, why did you do that?

You are not married yet.

Why did you talk about children?

Never mind.

You won't understand it.

My man, you know what?

In a relationship,

it's the coldness, not the passion, that hurts.

If you are too cold, the relationship will be different.

But she has been avoiding me since she got back.

Tell me what I should do.

You are asking a man

who divorced his ex,

waited for his girlfriends for over ten years,

and got proposed by that girlfriend in the end.

Do you think you asked the right person?