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A LITTLE REUNION

A Little Reunion - Episode 29

EPISODE 29

Hello

Hello, what do you need?

Sorry

I want to visit

A patient in room number 2, her name is Liu Jing

But it's

Not time to visit patients

Why don't you come back tomorrow?

No, please

She's sick but she hides ỉ from me

I just know about that

I came here

To see her situation

You're...

Right, I'm her husband

That's it

Ms, Liu always said that

You went far away for your business trip

Okay, I get it

Then you come inside

But you have to be hurry up

The patients here are all resting

Ms. Liu's room is in the front

Go straight

That room?

Yes

Okay, thank you

You're welcome

Lao Ji

I should apologize you

I shouldn't have hidden you this

What's your problem?

Breast

I've done a mammogram

The result is 4C

Which means there is possibility of high malignancy

So I was hospitalized to check

Such a big thing

Why didn't you tell me?

There are no results yet

What if they were just mistaken

To let everyone sad with me?

Your work is very special

Now it is important time

I have to think about the general situation

When will you get the result?

I biopsied the first time 2 days ago

But didn't get it

I have to do one more time on Monday

Lao Ji, don't suffer such a psychological burden

I still haven't checked it yet

There's no results

I'm fine, I'm fine

I think

All the past years

I've treated you and our son too much badly

Especially you

I'm with you everyday

But I didn't know you got sick

What kind of husband am I?

Don't mention it

No, I should have cared more about you

Stop talking

Okay

You're worried about many things at work

I have to share the burden with you

Moreover

Maybe I'm fine

Don't worry

Sorry

We have to lock the door

Can I stay here?

Yes, you can

Please go register with the nurse in the reception

Then take a folding bed

And you can stay here

Yes, okay

Don't sleep here

Yang Yang is at home

We have to hide Yang Yang this

If you stay here with me

He will know, right?

You said you would come home tomorrow

But you can't, how can you hide him this?

Don't worry

I'll find a way

When I come home next week

Let's see how I make up a perfect lie for him

Then I will come here tomorrow morning

I will come with you on surgery on Monday

What's on your mind?

Monday is Yang Yang's parent meeting

Biopsy is just a minor surgery

Yang Yang's university entrance exam is a big thing

You have to know which is more important

Don't worry, I'm fine

But you're here alone, I...

I'm okay

Go home

Yang Yang will doubt you if you get home late

You don't stay here?

Yes

Then I will take you out

Go, go

I'm going

Take rest soon

I'll come here tomorrow

Ms. Liu, so your husband

Came already

It's because of my son

This year he will take the university entrance exam, I'm afraid of affecting his studies

I also have a 3-year-old child, very naughty

I always want to wait for him to turn 18

and I would be liberated

It's not that easy

A 18-year-old boy is still a baby

It's critical period to maturity

Parents should be sacrificing a little, shouldn't them??

That's right

It's late, you should go to bed now

If you could choose

would you choose him as a father?

Yes

Hello ladies and gentleman

In this parent meeting

We arranged a psychological discussion

The goal is to let the school

And family come together

To reduce the pressure on the students

I have taken many 12th grade courses

Grade 12, is the most stressful school year

In 6 years of secondary school

Is also the most stressful year

since the time the students were young

So in these time

There are many students who engage in extreme behavior

Some wrong methods will be used to release the pressure

For example, loving

Smoking, drinking alcohol

There are even some violent acts

For example with love

Love doesn't just take time

But also causes other troubles

Till the end

It almost has no beautiful outcome

Family relationship is the same

Yes, we admit it

College examinations are very important

But it only accounts for a tenth of your life

You and your children shouldn't ruin your family relationships

Because of this school year

So today, our school

Invited professor of psychology of the Institute of Social Sciences

Teacher Sun

Teacher Sun

specializes in the study of adolescent psychological health

Please welcome Mr. Tôn

Share a bit on psychological topics

Hello everyone

Today the content I want to share

Has 2 parts

1, is the mental pressure

2 is the phenomenon of early love

Next

I will simply talk about

The content of these 2 parts

Later

I'll share the details with everyone

I think the parents here

Are very familiar with early love

Ms. Li, I don't believe in him

Just sit and listen

The most feared are early love in children

There is actually something more terrifying than early love

He already said

He would implement in detail later

You can listen later

Say it quickly

Have you ever loved early?

A lot of parents have told me before

Teacher Sun

You see our physical living conditions now

Is now enhanced

I'm asking you

But why are our children

Getting more increasingly weak and fragile?

I've never

My opinion is

So when was your first love?

Why are you asking me this?

I'm just curious

The rapid development of society

The increasing divorce rate every year

And single families

All of the above causes

Lead to a higher rate of suicide

Among teenagers

I'll talk about me first

I was very shy

After graduating from university, I fell in love with the first time

What's about you?

I have never been in love

Why?

No time, not interested

I just saw you on stage

I even thought you were obsessed with falling in love early

It has nothing to do with you whether I'm obsessed or not

In 12th grade there's a lot of pressure, so don't mess with me

Who messed with who?

Listen to him

Early love

is the early love that we're afraid of when we heard of it

In here

I want to assert a point of view

Love is not divided to sooner or later

We should not misunderstand it by the word "soon".

In fact we can imagine, love

Is a very beautiful thing

But it happens at a special stage

And is in conflict with the learning

Tasks of 12th grade students

Many 12th grade parents now are always

Suspicious of their children

Whether or not they eventually love early

I just say

Always such behavior

Will damage the father-children relationship between people

Increase interaction pressure between you

Teacher Sun teaches so good

This teacher is very realistic

I just recorded a lot earlier

This seminar is available every year

No, this year is the first time

It seems that because a student

With depression is hospitalized now

Hospitalized? Serious?

I didn't pay attention before

Otherwise this time

I knew the 12th graders were very hard

The psychologist already told us earlier

Looks like there are a lot of early lovers too

Really?

Fan Fan didn't tell me

How could he tell you?

He will not love soon, won't he?

He already loved, right?

With Tao Zi

He moved here because of Tao Zi, right?

Yes

I tell you

They're immature

So just let them be

- Fan Fan is just a kid | - Yes

After all, it's just a fuss of them

But I tell you

Tao Zi is a good

She is very calm and gentle

She studies well, and she's pretty, right?

No, Fan Fan does have a choice, right?

Our Ying Zi

Don't refuse

Okay, okay

My house has 4 rooms

Yes, yes

You come all to my house

I think Fan Fan is really good

He's cute

We're talking so energetically

We don't even know if she agrees or not

Attorney General Ji

Lao Ji

You | Didn't Liu Jing come?

She is on a business trip

Later if there's any important news, send me a message

Okay, okay

My office has an urgent job, I have to go now

Okay, okay

So you don't go to the teacher consultation?

I have no time left

I have to go now | Ok

Okay, ok, see you

Goodbye, goodbye

He looks in a hurry

Being a attorney general is not easy

I have to talk with Mr. Fan about Fan Fan

Teacher Fan

Yi Fan's mother

I'll go find Ms. Li, just talk to her

Okay, goodbye

Let's walk and talk

Thank you

You and

About, Fang Yi Fan wants to compete in art I told you

You gave us documents

Then talked with us on the phone

What do you think?

After you talked with us, we have been asking other people

And searching about it

We think we should forget it

If Fan Fan wants to prepare for it now

First is he doesn't have enough time

Second, we think

He really don't have this talent

So we think we should let it go

He should take the university entrance exam normally

That's fine

Anyway we respect the parent's opinion

We're teachers

We only make suggestions

Anyway, this is indeed

A path to the top schools

Yes, yes, we know that

But it's already October

So in the end whether the boy will take the exam or not

Is still up to you

No, no, we already decided

Ms. Li

You know Ying Zi's situation

Her performance dropped a lot

In this midterm exam

This is

We talked about this before, right?

Yes

I think this activity is very good

It reminds me

In fact, I don't know much about the specific situation

Of my children at school

I just want to ask you

Is Ying Zi in love with anyone?

No

Teacher Song, don't worry about this

Absolutely no

If we find out

Any early love signs

We will definitely talk to both students and parents

Moreover the other actions of the students

We can see clearly

That's good, that's good

Don't worry

Ying Zi is a good student

You should pay more attention to her psychological situation

Don't let her have too much pressure

Yes, yes

After this exam

I have talked with her

Actually, I also have to review myself a bit

Indeed I should change a few methods

For a 12th grade student

Teacher Song, you are my senior

You certainly have experience with 12th grade students

I don't, I don't

Ying Zi's background is very good

As long as her mood is stable

She will be able to bring up her previous levels

Certainly, college entrance exam doesn't matter to her

Don't worry

Right

I see that Ying Zi hasn't registered to participate

In winter camp

Don't you let her go?

No, no

Of course I support her

She just hasn't chosen a specific school yet

She is a Beijing girl, isn't she?

She still wants to choose a school within Beijing

Yes, the opportunity this time is hard to get

Registration time is almost out

We still encourage the children to participate

If students perform well in the winter camp

They can also participate in the autonomy enrollment

What's about..

Please negotiate with Ying Zi a little bit

If she wants to join

She should quickly submit an application

Ok, ok, we will be quick

Ok, ok, ok

Hello

Secretary Chen?

I have told Mr. Jia to put on your table

The plan of amendment and master for next year

Yes, finished already

No, no, no

This is all what I should do

It's also the end of the year

We should complete the planning early to deploy it sooner

The work of the later stage

Secretary Chen

I want to talk with you something

I want to take a few days off

Yes, yes, my family reason

My wife is sick

Ongoing surgical biopsy

okay

Thank you, thank you Secretary Chen

Attorney General Ji

Attorney General Ji

I'm sorry

I just heard it today

That your wife is in here

I caused trouble for you

No, no, no

I just went to the checkup room

So I came here to see

Attorney General Ji, you're

Too quiet

You should have come to greet me

I don't have any way

Right, your wife

I have already asked the results of her first biopsy

Her bump is mainly due to

The slightly shifted position, which is not easy to poke

So this time

We will arrange the best doctor

We also made pre-surgery consultation

Just need to adjust this position a bit

Then it's all fine

Don't worry

Okay, Dean Zhang

I have to thank you

Don't don't be a stranger with me

Dean Zhang, go do your job

Okay, okay

Thank you

Ok, goodbye, goodbye

Hello

Is my wife okay?

Attorney General Ji, don't worry

Biopsy was very successful today

The pathological specimen

Has already been checked

When can I get the result?

Normal pathological results require seven days

Can we wait patiently together?

Okay

Ah, I want to ask you

Does the patient need to pay any attention after surgery?

The biopsy site

Within 24 hours

Must be kept clean

Do not immerse in water

Apparently your wife's physical condition is not very good

You have to pay attention to her nutrition, okay?

Okay, thank you

Are you her family?

You can take her back to her room now

Ok, thank you

Ok

Ok, thank you

Why are you here?

How are you? Are you hurt?

I still have anesthetic in my body

I can't feel anything

That's good

I told you it's just a minor surgery

Don't come here

Before the surgery, the Dean took several of the main surgeons

To visit me

How was Duong Duong's parent meeting?

I just came here from there

Don't worry

Did you talk with his teacher?

I didn't see his teacher today

So I didn't talk with him

I will come to visit him next weel

But I had heard the whole seminar

What was it about?

Now grade 12 students

Their pressure is huge

It is important that parents teach methodically

He said

There are some kids

Having too much pressure, easily leading to neurological problems

This afternoon you don't have to study

The school will borrow everyone's time for a bit

Arrange for everyone

An intense psychology seminar

I already talked about this

At the parent meeting

Each student is required to participate

Topic is

Get to know yourself, relieve pressure

This one has lots of other activities too

Hope you can listen to and join in the fun

Okay?

Ms. Li

How much time must be involved in this activity?

Not long

You can't

Study 24 hours every day

It'll cause problems

You still have to have appropriate relaxation

So Ms. Li

Do we need to write any reports?

This topic is for you to get relaxed

If you write reports, is it still relaxing?

What is this seminar for? It is for you to relax

Minimize your pressure

Do not have any burden

I get it, I get it

After this afternoon's activity finishes

The next activity will be on next Wednesday afternoon

The topic is about family awareness

Really?

I think this topic is not good

Can we discuss

About another better topic

Like?

Like

How not to affect the learning situation

While promoting affection for the opposite sex

I think it should be corrected a little

How not to affect the learning situation

While promoting relationships the opposite sex

You two take it seriously for me

I will say some serious things to you

Grade 12

I've been through it

That was a few years ago, right?

I was like you

Seeing my parents as wolf

Seeing my home as a wicked old society

But

You can't move out either, right?

Every day you still have to face your parents

If you were scolded every day

I would not think you would be well-educated

So I find family awareness

Still important

When you're home with your parents

Talk to each other, talk whatever you want

I find that is also a very good way to reduce the pressure load

Teacher

I think if we do that

It is also a waste of time too

We should take the limited time

To invest in this infinite learning

Right?

Yes, yes

Therefore, such opportunities

Should still let the students studying well in class finish the goal

Make sense

Students, listen to me

This activity is scheduled for the entire course

No one can be absent

You hear me?

Yes

Everyone listens

The content of today's activity is self-awareness

I want before the activity starts

Play a small psychological game with everyone

The game rules are very simple

Everyone please obey my orders

Ignore the order of classes

Find people you know

every ten people forms a group, standing in circle

Then loudly

Introduce yourself to the other members

For example, I'm Sun Yi

I am the son of Sun Feng and Gao Xiao Fang

Maybe you

Would feel that this game rule is very simple

Even a little childish

But later in the process

You will discover

There are many among us

Who will react differently to everyone

If you find out that other members in your team

Have abnormal reactions

You have to remember it

Do not disturb him

Don't try to comfort him

Give him time

Let him clear his mood

Remember my request

Everyone has to explicitly introduce yourselves

Understand?

Yes

Ok, let's get started

Yang Yang, Ying Zi, Tao Zi, Lai Er come here

Da Xong comes here

Come here, Nian Yu Jing

It's you who invite me

Ok, ok, stop talking, come here

You're saying too much

Stand in circle

Come on, come on, circle, circle

Come on, move forward, move forward

Me first

I'm Fang Yi Fan

I'm Fang Yuan and Dong Wei Jie's son

I'm Ji Yang Yang

Son of Liu Jing and Ji Sheng Li

Tôi là Hoàng Chỉ Đào

My mother is Tao Yue

My father is Huang Wen Xin

I'm their daughter

I'm Gao Peng

My parents are divorced

I'm Qiao Ying Zi

My mother is Song Qian

My father is Qiao Wei Dong

Yes, her parents are divorced also

I'm Lin Lei Er

I'm the son of Lin Hui Wei and Tong Wen Jing

I'm Wang Yi Di

My father is Wang Da Zhu

General Director of Shang Shi company

My mother is Wang Qing

Li Xiao Chang

I'm the daughter of Li Chang

My father passed away

I'm Lin Sai Wen, I have two parents

I don't remember their names so it's better I don't say it

I'm He Yu Heng

My mother is Wu Jin Xing

My father is He Shi

My mother is Zhu Jia

I'm Yao Zhi Yi

My father is Yao Ming

My mother is Lin Li Qin

My father is Lin Xin Ping, my mother is Li Ying

I'm Zhu Ying Ding

My mother is Zhu Ying, my father is Zhu Yi Jun

I did not expect many children living in single families

I didn't know it

I thought there were just a few people

Finishing forming the groups then they can raise their hands

Okay

The first activity has been completed

Let's proceed to the second activity

The form is the same as before

Only the content is a bit different

It's that you don't need to talk

To each other anymore

Each one hug members on your left and right

Time should not be exceeded three seconds

This activity is what we call therapeutic hugs

It can reduce heart rate, lower blood pressure

Release Dopamine containing ingredients related to fun

So

All students, at this time

You absolutely must eliminate all thoughts in your heart

Don't be shy

Indifferently come to hug your opposite sex friends

Or same sex friends beeside you

Let's get started

Teacher Sun, come here

Hurry and finish the job, come on, come on, come on

Okay, okay

1 2 3 okay | Okay

Come on, Lei Er

Ok

What's are you doing?

Lower blood pressure

I don't need

Teacher Sun

I want to ask a bit

This activity

What is the specific meaning of it?

Let's take the nearest group for example

Is that student Fang Yi Fan?

Fang Yi Fan, right

Yes, we can feel that

His family life must be very happy

Normally the relationship between him and his parents

Is probably quite close

He himself doesn't feel lonely

So in the first activity

He can proudly speak out

The names of his parents

But he see in the second activity

Between him and the other members

Are just very short hugs and then they separated

We have the phrase "You take what you lack"

Normally in his life

This kind of sense of security from his family

Is already enough

So when the outside world expresses goodwill

He is hardly active

On the contrary, we will find out there are some students

At introducing their situations

They were in a very different mood and even crying

It shows that their families have hurt

Maybe they're from single families

New families

Or their parents weren't beside them when they were little

Raised by grandparents or close relatives

Normally we may not be able to see

What is wrong with them

But deep in their hearts

this kind of hurt from this family

It has a very long recovery process

These children

For well-meaning action from the outside world

They will have a very strong response

That's right

Ying Zi, I discovered something

Recently Lei Er is slightly unusual

You didn't see

When he hugged Tao Zi

There was clearly a strange feeling?

Wasn't it required by the teacher?

Yes, It was

But

I could vaguely feel it

He likes Tao Zi

No, no, just kidding

Miscellaneous, miscellaneous

Because I find him and Wang Yi Di even more suitable

I've been talking so much but you don't talk to me

What's wrong? This was the therapy hug

Hugging makes you sad?

The teacher said about

The influence of the family, right?

I was just thinking about my parents when I was a little uncomfortable

Because your parents are divorced

So you are uncomfortable?

Actually you don't need to be upset, I really admire you

You admire me?

Because you have two pocket money

You see

Your father gives you one, your mother gives you want

I stay with my parents

They give me only a portion

And give them based on time and quantity

But they can be together

No, I don't understand

What is good if they live together?

They will only teach you together

Manage you together

I tell you, I remember it clearly

When your parents divorced

We were in secondary school

At that time I said to my parents

"Mom, dad, why don't you get divorced also?"

As a result, they beat me up

Are you sick?

Don't you expect your parents to get along?

No, I hope so

But I think they're a little not suitable

You know?

Normally my father stays at home, always says yes, yes

Stoops and knees down

He is always

"Honey

Do you want to eat apples? Fruit?"

I have no feeling that he is in our house

At home, my mother is too strong

Everyday she says, Fang Yi Fan, get up

Fang Yuan, what are you doing? Stop talking

She is so strong, the two of them are not suitable at all

So I think that after they got divorced

My father would be like uncle Qiao

Be nice to me like he is to you

No, even better than uncle Qiao

Stop kidding

Don't comfort me

No one expects their parents to divorce

yes, yes, no one does

Of course, I'm not kidding

I mean

I couldn't decide whether they would divorce or not

So I don't want to talk about this

Anyway, later on when I look for a girlfriend

I won't look for someone like my mother

She's so fierce, very threatening

Okay, okay, you don't be like that anymore

Relax your mood

Come on, take it

What did you buy?

This is chutney, grilled skewers, and waffles

You're not letting these things in your house, are you?

Ying Zi likes it

I have to neglect it

You're good, you can neglect this

I can't

To be honest, I smelled this grease and I wanted to puke

Why did you buy so much?

You said to me

Must stand on the angle of the children

To understand their hobbies

I don't?

She likes this

What is good about this?

After eating this a lot, you can get fat

High blood pressure, disease in coronary arteries

Maybe they're still young

If we eat, then whatever disease we will get caught

Do you know why

They like these food?

Because it contains many spices

Something like essential oils, aromas, this, that..

Yes, it smells so good

So | Forget it, forget it, now

As long as she's happy, you let her eat some

Your Ying Zi is good enough

It's okay to eat these snacks

Yes, you all say she's good

I know she is very docile, studies well

Has good personality, right?

Yes

I'm her mother

I know her good

I also know the bad of her

You see, which mother doesn't care about her child?

Forget it, forget it

Let her eat what she likes

I can control the quantity a bit

Today the teacher already said

We need to relax

Yes, yes, relax, relax

I have to let myself relax

I have to let myself relax

Why do I think

Like I'm tying my rope up

There is no untie

Stop being upset like that

What's about...

Even that I don't believe in this hug therapy

But in the afternoon, I hugged Lei Lei for a while

I do not feel bad

The two of us have not hugged properly

I will reluctantly hug you for a moment

What's about it?

Come on, let's try | I don't need it

I'm going home

Why are you... Ying Zi

Ying Zi, listen to me

You cannot keep being upset like that

It's not good for your health

Second, do you feel uncomfortable when you keep repressing yourself today like that?

You would be more comfortable when you say it out

Right?

After my parents divorced

I could not open my heart

From then on

My mother seemed to turn into another person

Mom is very good to me

Anything else is not as important as me

She treats you well but you're still not happy?

But the better she treats me

The more pressure I get, you understand?

In my house, there is a plan

She wrote what I have to do from dust til dawn on it

I can't do anything

I strictly followed

That plan

I really could not breathe anymore

This mid-term exam

I actually know all of those questions

I know the answer is A

But I wrote B

I don't know why I did it

Apparently my mother taught me many tests

But I didn't want to write it down

Our situations are different

What's about me? What am I?

I wrote the whole exam paper completely

Filled in all the answers

But I don't know whether it's right or wrong

I just feel that it has no meaning

Meaningless grade 12

Meaningless high school

Meaningless family

School does not mean anything

Everything is meaningless

Stop there, I add one more sentence

I think your though is not right

You could not think every day that this is pointless

That is meaningless

You have to think of something that would make you happy

Understand?

That my dad came back makes me happy

I thought he would never leave me again

He could stay with me forever

But when I meet him

I have to worry about my mother's feelings

That house of my father

Is our first house

I was born and grew up in there

I remember we lived there for a long time

I even remember

There was a bed room of mine in that room

I remember all

After my parents divorced

My father packed his stuff

One by one

Moved out of that house

I lay on the terrace watching

I saw in downstairs

Pulling his suitcase

The further he went, the smaller his body got

It's fine, it's fine

From that moment I know

He would never come back

He would not belong to this house

Ok, Ying Zi

Ok, ok, ok

Why don't we...think of other things?

Ok, ok, hug, hug, hug

It's fine, it's fine

Don't cry, okay

Don't cry

It's fine

Ok, don't cry, don't cry

Stop thiking about these things

Stop thinking, stop thinking

What did you see?

What did you see?

It's Ying, Ying Zi and Fang yi Fan, right?

It's Ying Zi and Fang Yi Fan, right?

Stop crying

Ok, ok, stop crying

Stop thinking about these things

Why are they hugging each other?

I don't know

Right, why are they together??

Won't they kiss?

I'll take a look, take a look

Okay, okay

Quickly

I'll see, I'll see

It's fine, okay, okay

Stop crying, stop crying

I'm here

Are they there? Are they?

It's fine. He is rubbing..

No, no

Fang Yi Fan is rubbing Ying Zi's back

You didn't know about this before, did you?

How could I know?

I saw it with you

How could I know it before?

What should we do?

Not good, I have to go there

Ok, stop there, don't do it

Don't go now

What could you do if you went there?

They all need their faces

They're adults now, not kids

If they got caught, they would be very shy

Don't provoke them

What if neighbors see them?

They're hugging in the morning

Aren't they embarrassed?

Don't, don't