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- Is this the memorial park?
- Yes. The entire lawn.

- You don't know where the ashes are.
- Isn't that the whole idea?

The woman I love was placed
here somewhere, yesterday.

That's not really my department.

That's the whole idea.

Maybe I'm in the wrong place
trying to figure out what happened.

I thought I knew a lot about love.

I don't think so anymore.

Lena... Are you awake?

Hi, Lena.

It's all over now.

- What are you doing?
- Taking a picture of you.

- So we won't forget.
- The police are going to keep him.

- He can't hurt you anymore.
- And these pictures...

We're going to save them
for when they let him out.

And when he comes crawling
on his knees begging forgiveness,

we'll get out the pictures
and look at them again.

TO LOVE SOMEONE

- Not too long or it'll dry out.
- Hi, Mia. Make sure to buy a lot.

- She won't take my money.
- You have to take their money.

I didn't just beat her.

I beat our two children as well.

I didn't just spank them...

I hit them hard.
I abused them.

If they laughed
and I didn't know why...

... I was sure they laughed at me.

When you pulled her hair,
did her hair come off in your hands?

Did you shout? Or were you silent?

- I've held it.
- You worthy of that? Let's see it.

- Isn't it a beauty?
- A shame it's stuck with an amateur.

Careful!
Oh, a golfer's nightmare.

I didn't beat her that much.

Usually, I just threatened her.

I told her I could easily kill her.

Called her ugly and good for nothing.

I said I could...
do what I liked with her.

And that no one could stop me.

You can get pretty far with that.

Almost without beating.

- Are you going to get lunch?
- Do you want the usual?

- Lena... Jesus, not again.
- It's nothing.

Come here.

- Look...
- I'm okay. It's over.

- I'm okay, I promise.
- It's not okay to have dizzy spells.

- No.
- No ..!

I'll get lunch
and I'll get you the usual.

Lift me down, will you?

I keep thinking about...

... one of the last times
I pulled Lena by the hair...

... and knocked her head
into a closet.

I think about
how often I'd done that.

All of a sudden it just...

... seemed a normal thing to do.

And now, Hannes?

Now...

Now I have to live by myself.

So it won't happen again.

- I'll never get used to this.
- See you in a couple of hours.

I love sleeping. I want to sleep
for the rest of my life.

Hi.

- Hi, Jeanette.
- You look great with long hair.

- Thanks. I might cut it again.
- No.

We've put the kettle on
and found your old tea cup.

- Great.
- Did you bring your cell?

Yes. Here.

You can always call 911.

I'm storing the number so you're only
a quick dial away from the police.

If you feel threatened, dial it.
Will you promise me that, Lena?

Some men go straight from prison
to their ex to get back at them.

- Think of it as a life line.
- Okay.

I guess I was happy that day.

I had the van packed
with fresh fish, it was summer...

You never know when you're happy.

You don't think about it.
Not until afterwards.

Go on, smoke.
Why do we have to pretend it's me?

Alf's fiftieth is coming up.
I could throw him a surprise party.

- Is that a bad idea?
- No.

I think I will.

I think I will.

Hello there.

- Have you been smoking?
- It's me. Sorry, it's so rude of me.

There is a risk of relapse, Hannes,

so we're placing you
under surveillance.

You've served
two-thirds of your sentence.

You have to report
to your probation officer.

Your probation implies
a great responsibility.

Of course I won't contact her.

Never again.

We want you to deal actively
with your problems

and focus on getting a job...

It's going to be great
with the new apartment and...

Good.

And I'll keep up my therapy.

I guess I still have some issues

but I think I'm doing pretty well.

- He's coming out tomorrow?
- Yes.

Are you anxious?

If he comes near you, I'll see to it
they lock him up again.

- I know.
- Never leave home without your cell.

Right.

If he touches you again,
I'll kill him.

I mean it.

- Still, you can't say that.
- I mean it.

- Aren't you wearing the other one?
- The other one?

The red one I gave you. I'm sorry,
but it suits you so much better.

Well, it does.

- The usual?
- Yeah... No, on rye today.

- Rye?
- A little variation doesn't hurt.

Here you go.

- Why are you showering at this hour?
- I just felt like it.

It's the fish smell.

The caterer and I agreed on
340 kroner per head.

He decides the menu, but no fish!

Lena, I love you.

I don't want it to happen again
or to take pictures of you again.

- I understand.
- I don't want to live without you.

You won't have to live without me.

Thank you.

- Let's pick a different place today.
- But they make the best sandwiches.

- White bread with olives.
- Yes.

- Özkan, the usual?
- Okay.

One more with ham and cheese.

- There you go.
- Thanks.

- Where's Alf?
- He left.

- Where?
- He took the car. Anything else?

Tell him I didn't feel well.
Tell him I was dizzy.

Sure.

Anything else?

Hello.

Hi there. How are you?

- Let's go to the bedroom.
- The bedroom?

I want to have sex.

Now?

That was a surprise.

I saw him.

Where?

I happened to see him
and followed him to where he lives.

He sensed I was there.

It was okay... in a weird way.
Very innocent.

- Why did you do that?
- I wanted to get it over with.

- Over with?
- Seeing him again.

I saw him and I'm not afraid.
Not anymore.

- I want to know what he looks like.
- He's not allowed to look me up.

And that's why I want to know
what he looks like.

In case he starts lurking around
near the shop.

Tell me, what does he look like?

Medium height or so,
dark hair.

Average build.

Skinny, but not too skinny.

He's got an oval face.

Straight nose.

His eyes are a bluish brown
but with a hint of green.

He's got one of those faces
that transforms.

He looks tough but when he smiles,
he's like a different person.

- I'm no good at this.
- Sure you are.

I didn't do anything. I just let
time go by and minded the store.

Bought and sold fish.

It's easy to know better afterwards.
I guess I should've understood.

I guess I should've done a lot
of things. I hoped for the best.

Got up, minded the store.

But I didn't sing anymore.

Right. Has anyone written a letter?

Hannes.

"Dear Lena."

"I'm writing to say I'm sorry
for all the pain I've caused you."

"You have nothing to fear now."

"I've been in therapy
and I'm a different person now."

"I can never see you again."

"We can't risk it."

"I'm going to stay away from you,
and you have to stay away from me."

"But you'll always be
in my thoughts."

"I'm sorry for everything
I've done."

"And I don't deserve
your forgiveness."

"I love you... Hannes."

Can I mail it?

No, you don't have to. The main thing
was for you to write it.

It's not
that I'm hoping for anything...

You've done very well, Hannes.

But she's got her own life now.
She's moved on.

I just don't want her to go around
in fear of me.

I don't want her to fear me.

Hello.

Is everything okay?

Yes.

- Haven't seen him again, have you?
- No.

- If he comes, we'll call the police.
- He won't. I just came across him.

Sure, but if he comes near,
we'll call the police.

Hello.

Don't write to me, goddammit!

You know you can't send me letters.

You shouldn't be here, Lena. Go.

I've seen you on the bench. Twice.

You won't see me anymore, Lena.
Please go away.

Go away, Lena.

I've got a new man now
and he's great, if you want to know.

Just go away.
I'm moving to a new apartment soon.

So you won't ever have
to see me again, okay?

Lena...

- I'm not dizzy. Not like that.
- Lena, enough is enough.

- It's not like that.
- You have to see a professional.

I'm sure Hasse knows a doctor
who'll see you quickly.

- Excuse me. I have to deliver this.
- To whom?

- That's my purse. Thanks.
- A man told me to deliver it.

- Did he say anything?
- He gave me 20 kroner for doing it.

Okay. Thanks.

That'll be 90 kroner.

I don't know why I want to see him.

"I've been in therapy and I'm
a different person." Like hell he is!

- What if it's true?
- This is what psychopaths do.

They sweet-talk you, act all normal,
and then they snap.

He's not a psychopath, Mia.

- You don't know what he's been...
- Look at me.

Hannes is a sick man.

- Mia...
- Don't you "Mia" me.

Stay away from him!

Let's focus
on your surprise party instead.

Alf treats you well. He's got his
own store and a sense of humor. Alf!

Alf, yes.

The large room is 1,660 square feet.
We have a small one that's 1,000.

No, I want the large one.

The buffet goes here.

I want smaller tables
placed around the room.

That's entirely up to you.

I also want to rent candelabra
and tableware. No expenses spared.

It's his fiftieth birthday
and I love him so much.

Excuse me. Yes?

I'm sorry about the letter.

I wrote
I was a different person but...

I don't really know if I am.

They've been trying to teach me
how to control my anger.

Maybe it can be controlled
but you can't make it disappear.

So you can't really say
I'm a different person.

We can't write or see each other...

And you can't come here.

Okay?

Hello?

Let's not forget what I did to you.

I pulled you by the hair and
knocked your head into the closet.

Remember, Lena?

Do you remember that?
Remember

when I pinned you down and hit you
in the eyes with my fists?

Remember that? I keep seeing...

- What's up?
- Is everything all right?

Sure. I'm just watching TV.

If there is anything, please tell me.

There isn't.

Good.

Maybe she was scared.
I thought I could take care of her.

I wanted to be with her and
make sure nothing happened to her.

Something had changed.

But I couldn't see it.

I almost fell asleep. It was great.

- Ever been in a car accident?
- Never.

The only scan I've seen resembling
yours was of an ex-prizefighter.

Strange.

This area is severely injured
and you have several minor injuries.

- What can you do about it?
- The dizziness won't go away.

You have to lead
a quiet, stress-free life.

No alcohol, no smoking,
some exercise, but don't overdo it.

In these cases,

we have to ask our patients
if they've been abused.

No... I haven't.

No, you don't boil a fish like this.
Steam it for a few minutes...

Hi.

Sprinkle it with Parmesan.

And I'd spring for a bottle
of Chablis or something like that.

- Yeah.
- It's me.

No, no, no.

No, Lena.

You shouldn't be here, Lena.

You shouldn't have come.

I have to see you.

I want to see
what kind of a person you are now.

- You can't do this, Lena.
- I want to see you drunk.

When you were drunk,
you almost always beat me.

I want to see you when you're drunk.

I want to see if you're past that...
or not.

I can quick-dial the police
if I need to.

I'm going to sit here
next to the open door.

Stay there.

Are you out of your mind?

You owe me a lot.

You owe me a lot.

- No...
- Get a glass and get drunk.

I don't drink. Alcohol is bad for me.

But if you do, who are you then?
Are you the same Hannes?

Are you always the same Hannes?
Don't I have a right to know?

Don't I?

- I've only got large glasses.
- That'll do fine.

When I've emptied it,
you're leaving.

Yes.

I'm mad as hell at you.

They made us understand
what we've done, Lena.

I've told everything
to a room full of strangers.

I had to hide.
You got help, not I.

I was afraid of being abused,
and you got help.

- Isn't that sick?
- They help 70% of the men.

70%.

I just carried on and then I met Alf.

And I tried to forget.

I'm drunk now, Lena.
You have to go now.

It would be more like you
to make me stay.

I have to throw up.

Go throw up.

Don't come back.

- I don't want to get my hopes up.
- You already have.

I don't want anything to happen,
okay?

I don't want anything to happen!

Is it true, then?

- Have they helped you?
- No, no, I don't know.

I don't know.

Hi.

- You're awfully late.
- Yes, it dragged out.

- Finding a pair of shoes?
- Yes, I couldn't make up my mind.

You haven't been out
shopping for shoes.

- No.
- Then what?

First I went to Mia's and then...

I was going to go to that lecture
but then we started talking.

You know Mia and me.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

- I'm sorry.
- Did you go to see him?

He got drunk. I brought a bottle
and he drank it.

I wanted to see
if he really had changed.

Why did you want to see
if he'd changed?

- Why, goddammit?
- Alf, you're hurting me.

What did you do?

- What did you do?
- Nothing. We just sat there.

He drank and... nothing happened.

Don't ever see him again.
Never!

Think I'm going to put up with you
running off to see that psycho?

- I care so much about you.
- Swear you'll never see him again!

I swear... I swear.

I've been sick with worry,
and you go to see him.

Am I too weak for you?
Do you want me to be different?

Do you want me to beat you up too?
Is that what you're missing?

I'll beat you... I'll beat you.

Just say the word.

Just say the word.

Please don't beat me.

Alf...

I'm not going away on that golf trip.

- No.
- I'm staying home.

No... we have to carry on as usual.

I can't leave you alone now.

Mia will take care of me.

Mia can move in.

You mean so much to me.

Do I?

- I don't feel right about this.
- I do. I get Lena all to myself.

- I still think it's strange.
- Enjoy your trip. We'll be fine.

It's only for two days.

Kiss your women goodbye
and let's get out of here.

- Did you want him to leave?
- No, I want him to go on as usual.

Do stuff he likes to do.

- Don't spill.
- Dammit... Sorry.

- What?
- No, relax.

I've made up the bed in Alf's office.

- What's that?
- Oh, that was Alf.

I was stupid
and he grabbed hold of me.

Alf would never do that
and you know it.

Good night.

Good night.

- I ran all the way.
- You ran all the way?

I'm all sweaty.

No...

I miss you.

God, how I miss you.

You snuck out the back door.

I can't explain it.

Try.

I just had to see him.

- I don't know what's going on.
- Explain it to me.

- I demand an explanation.
- I don't know what I'm doing.

Oh, my God,
I don't know what I'm doing.

Alf, I don't know what I'm doing.
I don't know what's going on.

I wish he'd just go away. I wish
everything could be like before.

Alf! I don't know...

What's his address?

- What do you need that for?
- I want to know everything.

What he looks like, where he lives,
what he does.

And then I don't want you
to keep any secrets from me.

What's his address?

What do you want me to tell you?

Why do you look like that
in the photos?

- Hannes beat me and kicked me.
- Why?

I don't remember.
I guess he was annoyed.

It didn't take much.

It could be the food or the music.

Or he got jealous.
I don't know...

But why do you want
to see him again?

He's all alone.
He's... all alone.

- But then... he deserves to be.
- Exactly.

If you start seeing him again,
it'll end with this.

He's been in therapy.
He's a different person now.

Lena, you don't turn into
a different person.

It's an illusion.
Lena, it's an illusion.

What about you?

Are you a different person?

Lena, these men beat their women
because they want to dominate them.

Yes.

You're right. You can't turn into
a different person.

Do you know who I am?

When I met Lena,
you'd been inside for several months.

- She was barely holding out.
- Yes.

Scared of everything.

Loud noises, sudden movements.

She had nightmares every night.

She's finally becoming herself again.

Great.

I don't believe
you're a new and better person now.

I don't believe it.
Not for one goddamn minute.

I love her.

I deserve her.
I've been treating her right.

- Not you, you goddamn psycho.
- I'm no psycho, but you're right.

You're not a new and better person.

That's enough!

You beat her to a pulp.

I took care of her.

That's the difference.

We're here about Lena's
ex-boyfriend. Hannes Ahlgren.

Tell him, Lena.

- He called me.
- And?

- That's all. He called me.
- And he came to see you.

He came to see Lena
and he called her.

- And he punched me.
- He punched you?

That really won't do.

He's a psychopath and we won't
put up with his harassment anymore.

He's sick. He just acts sane.

- But he's sick. He's a psychopath.
- No.

I went to see him. It's my fault
and I won't do it again.

- You're confusing me.
- Alf went to see him.

- We've only got ourselves to blame.
- Look at her!

He's harassing us.
She's terrified of him.

We're not reporting him.
This is wrong.

No, I just clean forgot about it.

I know. No,
I haven't paid anything.

I think we'll just have
a quiet party at home.

I'm really sorry. Yes, I should have.

- I'm not looking her up.
- Is she the one looking you up?

- Aren't you allowed to hope?
- You have a restraining order.

- I haven't been to see her.
- Don't push her to do anything.

- I'm not pushing her.
- You can't...

- Am I a human being?
- Hannes, sit down.

This doesn't solve anything. Please.

- Hey, you.
- What are you doing?

Jesus Christ!

I never want to hear a word
about this. Not one word!

We'll never talk about it again.

- There's a little over a pound.
- Where's Lena?

- She left.
- Left?

Look.

At the glasses?

No, us.

We look like an ordinary couple.

Only the guy can't ride a bike.

- There you go.
- It's huge.

We're celebrating
that this was where we met.

Right, a long time ago.
You stood there and I stood here.

- Ten years ago.
- Ten happy years.

- Really?
- It was a chance meeting.

And we've been together ever since.

You could only get sausages
and mash then.

And that's what both of us ordered.
Sausages and mash.

And he said, "Can I pay for that?"

I was very romantic.

- In that case it's on the house.
- What?

If this was where you met
ten years ago, it's on the house.

We didn't meet here.

- Why don't you take some time off?
- No.

- We have a business to run.
- I can't take time off.

That store is our livelihood.
We have its reputation to think of.

Here's what we'll do.
You're taking a few weeks off.

It'll do you good to relax.

Stay at home and relax.

Watch TV and read a book. When
was the last time you read a book?

You've seen him again.

Lena, what the hell are you up to?

A surprise party.

I've arranged a surprise party
for you the day after tomorrow.

All our friends are coming.
We'll be 45.

The guests arrive at eight and
the food arrives half an hour later.

I've hired two classical guitarists

to play that music
you like so much.

And I've hired two girls
to do the dishes.

- That's why I haven't been myself.
- Forgive me.

Forgive me for pressuring you.

It's just that...

- I imagined all kinds of things...
- It's okay.

And I can't get Hannes
out of my head.

What?

I've tried everything, Alf.

I know you're a wonderful man.

Then why are you doing this?

It doesn't matter what you all say,
because I love him.

Hi, Martin. Yes, thank you.

I know you've been invited
to a surprise party tonight.

I'm afraid we have to cancel it.

Lena isn't feeling well.
I'll make sure to tell her.

I've called everyone
to say it's cancelled.

- Thank you.
- I don't know what to do now.

I don't think I've ever cared
for anyone like I care for you.

I'm moving out.

No more.

Hello. We're here with the food.

- Where do you want it?
- In the kitchen, I guess.

I'll just go through the dressings.

This one's for the fish
and this is for the vegetables...

- We'll work it out.
- Hello.

Sorry we're late, but there's been
an accident on the highway.

You know what's right
and what's wrong. You know.

But you forget.

And then you do what you've got
to do without thinking.

You just do it.

You need professional help.

You need help, Lena.

It's obvious I can't help you.

I'm going to miss you.

I'm going to miss you, too.

This is for you.

- Take care.
- What if it really is love?

Love is nothing like this.

A brand-new Mercedes.

It doesn't even come with a key.
I've rented it.

Good.
I have a lot of bags.

I'll go get the bags.

- Hey, the long hair...
- Yes?

- It looks good.
- Thanks.

Hell...

- Let's make a day out of it.
- Make a day out of it?

Like ordinary people.
Let's do something ordinary.

- What?
- Go see something and get a room.

- Go out and have a steak...
- With parsley butter.

And drink Fanta.

Okay.

I think I'll always be afraid of you.

I'll always be afraid of me.

I don't know what I had in mind.

I guess I wanted to threaten him.
Or her.

Suddenly I knew it was over.

I'd seen it.
I'd seen her laughing with him.

Laughing for real.

I'd lost love.

There wasn't much else to do.

There was nothing else to do.

- Ready?
- Wait... One, two, three.

- You didn't smile.
- Because you weren't in the picture.

Hey...
It's going to start beeping soon.

Okay, wait.

One, two, three.
Oh, come on ..!

Are you okay? Lena!

Christ!

No, I don't know much
about love anymore.

I don't know what it looks like
or what it's supposed to look like.

I just know it exists.

And that's it.

That's it, I guess.

Subtitles: Helle Schou Kristiansen