All language subtitles for Far.from.the.Tree.2017.1080p.WEBRip.x265-RARBG2_English

♪

[wind blowing]

[wind chime ringing]

[Emily]
What happens if fiction
continues to be fiction?

Can you deal with that?

[Jason]
I can't deal with that.

I can't.
- No?

How about things
that you know are fiction?

What about things like
Cinderella or Snow White?

No, no. What I'm trying to say
is that, um, that, um,

can I fall in love
with my own imagination?

Well, we've gotta
be really careful

when we deal with what's real
and what's fiction.

I don't-I don't even know
what's real or not.

I know.
[chuckles]

That's the problem.

It's not very cold out.

- It's not very cold out?
- Nope. Not too bad.

[birds chirping]

[ambient music ♪]

[Jason]
All the world's a stage

and men and women
are merely players.

They're the exits
and the entrances,

and each man in his life
plays many parts.

♪ You can take
what you can get ♪

♪ I'll forgive
but I'll forget ♪

♪

[traffic noise]

[Joe]
Once this guy said to me,

"Man, if I were you,
I'd probably kill myself."

You know, just by seeing me
and my body in a wheelchair,

he thought that I must
be miserable.

And, you know, I think that
it's probably, um,

a pretty common assumption.

And so what body you're in

has everything to do with
your perspective of the world.

♪ You wake up
and you can't pretend ♪

♪ The dream was just
a dream again ♪

♪ Won't you dry your eyes?

♪

♪ But it
doesn't matter anymore ♪

♪ Do just
what you did before ♪

♪ Until you realize the words
go la, la, la, la, la ♪

Push the button!

You can push.

[Jack's mother]
It was not a normal
mother-son relationship ever.

Ow!

[Jack's mother]
Jack, do you wanna
hear the volume?

[Jack crying]

It was overwhelming.

I didn't want it.

♪

I did not want it.

♪ You can dip your brain
in joy ♪

♪

♪ Once we understand

♪ No one understands at all

♪ Singing la, la, la, la, la

♪

[song fades out]

[distant traffic noise]

[Andrew]
I think in some ways,
I wrote the book

to understand what happened.

And maybe I wrote it
to forgive my parents.

I think my mother imagined
that her first-born son

would be part of
the real mainstream,

the kind of kid
who was popular at school,

athletic, at ease in the world,

and basically
quite conventional.

And instead, she got me.

[soft, dramatic music ♪]

When I was growing up,
I had a lot of weird hang-ups.

I mean, I refused
to wear blue jeans.

I refused to listen
to rock music of any kind.

I was obsessed
with Emily Dickinson's
poems of anguish,

and told my friends
the plots of operas.

I was a weirdo.

And, you know, my parents
were really good.

My mom, in particular.

She would sort of
get on board

with the things
that interested me...

...even when they were
a little bit strange.

I feel like there was
a lot of leeway for me to be...

...different in all
kinds of ways...

...but my parents really didn't want to have a gay son...

...and I thought
if I tell them I'm gay,

they're going
to be brutally disappointed.

And I told them,
and they were.

It was a catastrophe.

My mother sort of
lectured me about

what a sad and lonely life
it would be,

and I mentioned
some gay family friends

and I said that they'd
done all right,

and my mother said,

"If I had thought that
inviting them into our house

was gonna make you think that
was an acceptable way of life,

they would never
have crossed the threshold."

♪

For many years after that,
I was...

...angry,
I was ambivalent.

I wanted to understand

why my parents dealt with me
the way they did.

I wanted to see how
other families managed it.

I thought I don't wanna know
just about families
of gay people.

I wanted to look
as widely as I could.

I set out to write
Far From the Tree,

which was my attempt
to investigate

how families go about

dealing with children who are
very different from them.

I spent 10 years researching
and writing this book.

[Woman]
We'll look at things
like dwarfism,

an autistic child,

a child who commits a crime.

It's a tough thing sometimes
for a parent to reconcile with.

There are some children
who were born with an identity

or a way of being
or a set of priorities

that are completely foreign
to his or her parents.

The stories I heard felt
so alien at the beginning,

but bit by bit, they came
to feel very real

and very intimate to me.

♪

And I realized that
in telling these stories,

I was investigating the very
nature of family itself.

♪

[crow cawing]

[Emily]
You know what?

This actually looks
very modernistic.

This could be by Picasso.
- Oh, yeah.

Doesn't that look very modern?

And look at this.

Looks like
Turn the World Around.

The the-
It looks like what?

Yes. Yes, indeed, it does.

I think that's where they
got their inspiration

for those masks.

Yeah.

Ooh.

[both giggle]
[toy squeaks]

- Oh!
- Ooh!

[both laugh]

[Emily]
Where is everybody?

We are the last people
on the planet.

Hello!

[chuckles]

When Jason was born,

the doctor said,

"What we do
with children like this

is we send them away before
an attachment is formed."

I mean, this is so ludicrous

that an obstetrician
doesn't understand

that you have spent nine months
forming an attachment.

What did they think this was?

[crickets chirping]

All right, my love.
I had a wonderful time.

Be good.

- Love you.
- Love you, honey.

Okay.
Talk to you soon.

Okay.

Oops.

[Man]
You got it?

Come here.
Give it here.

Let me get you.

Yeah?

[Jason speaking]

This is what
we called retarded.

We don't want to say that word
because it's banned from...

...it was banned
from conversation.

Down syndrome is
a chromosomal mishap.

It's-it's an extra chromosome.

Never ever goes away.

[quiet nursery music ♪]

Hey!

[Emily]
The doctors told us,
"Your child is a Mongoloid.

He's not gonna walk.
He's not gonna talk.

He's not gonna read.
He's not gonna write."

And I was frightened.

[toy jingling]

It was as if Jason
had this rubber stamp,

this great black rubber stamp

with the word "retarded"
over his forehead.

- Jason.
- Jason.

Jason, would you put your
hands on your head for Daddy?

[both]
Yay!

[Emily]
But Charles and I decided
that you don't write off

a person because of a label
that he carries.

That Jason was a person
who could learn.

[Charles]
Jason, what does that say?

Okay. What does this say?

What does this say?

[Charles]
The point that I'm driving at

is that when you walk
out of here today

and somebody says to you,
"Retarded people,

Down syndrome people,
they'll never learn to read,

they'll sit against the wall
and just grow big."

and so forth and so on.

And you could sort of
give the lie to it

and won't take the opportunity
at any time to...

...come and talk to people.

As you get to know them,

you realize that friendship
and warmth

are things that
they respond to.

[applause]

[Emily]
As Jason started
accomplishing things...

When you have four bagels
and you take away one bagel...

Three.

[Emily]
We were so excited.

It was such a miracle.

Hey, you know what?
Can you count to 10 in Spanish?

Okay.
[counting in Spanish]

[Emily]
He walked, he talked,

and he did all kinds of things that he was not supposed to do.

What does it mean
to be retarded?

Do they think like we do?

Do they have the same feelings?

And now I'd like you to meet

Emily and Charles Kingsley,
Jason's parents.

[Emily]
He is now reading
on a second-grade level.

The child they told us
to junk and throw away

is doing second-grade reading,
first-grade math.

[Emily]
And he became a bit
of a celebrity.

[TV Announcer]
Meet Jason Kingsley.

You might think Down syndrome
hardly gets in his way.

I was studying sound,
electricity, and energy.

[Emily]
I literally thought, "Well,
this is a piece of cake.

This is-this is really-
this is really thrilling,

and they must have been
just plain wrong."

[distant phone ringing]

- [Woman] Hi, Jason.
- [Jason] Hi.

[Jason]
I worked here about 18 years.

I deliver the mail
and deliver the packages.

When I work here,

I mostly work independently.

It keeps me learning.

It keeps me on my toes.

[phone ringing]

I think slowly,
but I'm smart in my own way.

I'm mostly with emotions.

I mean, sometimes I'm happy.

Sometimes I'm a little bit sad.

You have a great weekend, okay?

- Okay.
- See you next time.

- See you next time.
- Take care.

- Bye.
- Bye.

[Jason speaking]

Here we go.

[Jason speaking]

[gentle music ♪]

And I like my life now

until something better happens.

All right.

[Raymond]
You guys good?

Yeah, we're good.

Let's eat.

[Yaniv]
I do like Jason...

... as a roommate,

as a friend and musketeer.

But he doesn't know how to-
how to juggle between...

...reality and fantasy.

[wind chimes jingling]

[Jason]
I painted my room blue.

I've got all blue clothes.

I have a costume.

I wear this,
and I wear these pants...

...and I wear this...

...as Queen Elsa.

[music on TV ♪]

[Yaniv]
He's obsessed withFrozen,

and it gets me crazy
all the time.

That's his personality.

[on TV]
♪ ...let them in,
don't let them see ♪

♪ Be the good girl
you always have to be ♪

[Jason speaking]

And I was close-minded

until Elsa came
and let it go.

♪ Let it go,
let it go ♪

[Jason]
She opened my heart.

♪ Let it go,
let it go ♪

[Jason speaking]

And it feels like that I
fell in love with her.

[on TV]
♪ The cold never
bothered me anyway ♪

♪ The cold never
bothered me anyway ♪

That makes me feel happy.
That part.

I always do that.

[Emily]
It has sort of taken over
his life,

and it's very difficult

to talk any kind of...

...commonsense to him about it.

But if it gives him
comfort and...

What are you gonna do?

[crowd singing]
♪ Happy birthday to you

♪ Happy birthday to you

♪ Happy birthday, dear Jason

♪ Happy birthday to you

[applause]

[crowd cheering]

[indistinct chatter]

More blue shirts.

[Emily]
This is because
you've been wearing

your blue clothes a lot.

So, I figured you could
use some fresh ones.

Um, um, I have
this stuff already.

I've got already um, um,
blue clothes

already color-coordinated.

Mm-hmm. Yep.

[Emily]
It was letting go of a dream

when I realized that Jason
was gonna be who he is.

We worked so hard
and he worked so hard to...

...develop so many skills.

All for one, and one for all.

[laughter]

[Emily]
He was bright,
and he is bright.

And I see him as
sort of falling into a lazy,

unchallenging life mode
which could stay that way

for years and years
and years and years.

And that saddens me.

But, you know,
I have to realize

that I am dealing with a child
who has a disability.

There are certain limitations
that are just built in.

Somebody was asking me today
how you feel about

the part of your life
when you were so famous,

and you were going around
giving speeches

and being a celebrity

as you were showing
so many people

what a person with Down
syndrome was capable of

and how much you could do.

I see things now
in a different angle,

and I can't go back
to who I was.

[Emily]
Well, do you think that people
still look up to you now

and still think that you
are somebody to admire?

No.

[ambient music ♪]

[distant chatter]

[distant traffic noise]

[Andrew]
It wasn't until I tried
to change who I was

and tried as hard
as I possibly could

that I realized that
who I was wasn't changeable.

When I was growing up,
I'd always been told

nothing matters
more than having a family,

and my mother said to me,

"You would be
a wonderful father,

and if you make this choice,

you aren't going
to have a family,

and I am not going
to have any grandchildren."

[distant traffic noise]

And of course, it was then
seen by lots of people

as a choice.

[somber music ♪]

It wasn't just a different way
to be.

It was understood to be a sin
and an illness.

Something that was treatable,
and it was curable.

And I thought what I have to do

is to get married
and have children.

[quiet chatter]

And I thought to myself, how
can I get to the point

at which I'm physically capable of doing that.

I said to myself, I need to
change myself,

and I can remember getting
copies of Playboy magazine

and trying to sit with them and stare at those women

and trying to get myself to be
attracted to them.

And then I read an ad

for something called sexual
surrogacy therapy.

And I went to this weird office on 47th Street

and it was this set-up in which
there were these people

who you were encouraged
to call doctors,

and they would sit and talk to
you for a little while,

and then you went into
another room

with these women you were
supposed to call surrogates

and with whom you actually went through sexual exercises.

So, I went through that therapy for months

with those surrogates.

You know, it sort of worked
because I had been terrified

at the idea of having sex
with women,

and after that, I wasn't so
terrified by it.

But, boy, I was
torturing myself.

Taking myself down to
that office.

The indignity of the exercises.

All of that.
But most of all...

...most of all, it was that
belief that...

...it wasn't okay to be
who I was,

and that I had to torture myself

to try to be someone else.

[light music ♪]

[Jack's father]
There's our doctor.

Okay. Ready?

Gotta do more pushin'.

[baby crying]

[Doctor]
There's your man.

[Jacks mother]
Hello.

All the equipment
and everything.

[Jack's father]
He's got all the parts.

[child giggling]

[Jack's father]
Oh, yeah.

Jack, Jack, Jack, Jack.

A yellow hood.

Hi, buddy boy.

[Jack's mother]
It's a duck.

♪ Happy birthday, dear Jack

[laughter]

[Jack's father]
Jack was just such a happy,

crazy little guy

for the first year and a half,
two years.

[Man]
Hey, big boy!

[Jack's father] And to look at those videos now

and to see that,

and then go, "Wow, that's gone,
it's never coming back."

It's hard.

[Jack's mother]
Jack wants to go for
a wagon ride.

Bye-bye!
Wave, Jackie!

[Jack's mother]
I remember we were outside
one day,

and this giant jumbo jet
flew overhead.

Jackie!

And I'm like, "Jack,
look at the plane."

He didn't look.

Hey, Jackie, can you wave
bye-bye?

- No.
- He can say bye.

[Jack's mother]
He wasn't using words.

Jack.
Jackie!

You know, I thought maybe it
was a hearing thing.

Good morning.

[Jack's father]
Hey, Jackie. Hi, Jackie.
Merry Christmas.

[Jack's mother]
And finally,
a psychologist came.

Show me the chair.

Touch your nose.

[Jack's mother]
That was in January.

And by July, we knew...

...he had autism.

Touch your shoulders.

Touch your shoulders.

I watched him, and, you know,
they'd ask him

to point at the yellow duck
and he couldn't do it.

So I thought, "Wow, he...

...he can't even point
to a picture."

[family singing]
♪ Happy birthday to you

♪ Happy birthday to you

[Jack's mother]
And because he never
spoke to us,

I just assumed that he
was impaired...

...and that he couldn't
understand us.

[Jack's father]
Give a kiss for Mommy.

[Jack's mother]
That he had no idea what was
going on.

You have to sit in your chair.

Wave to Daddy.

- [Jack's father] Hey, buddy.
- Wave.

[Jack's father]
Can you wave?
Maybe not.

[Jack's mother]
And I researched everything,

and we were of the mentality

we're going to do
everything we can.

[sniffles]

So, we did.

Train coming.

Oh!

[Jack's father]
If there was anything out
there, we jumped on it.

Robot!

[light music ♪]

Robot!

[Jack's father]
And we did music therapy where
they're playing Mozart

and while they're doing
physical therapy.

[Jack's mother]
We did allergy testing.

Saw a naturopath.

Chiropractor.

He was eating a gluten-free,
dairy-free diet,

so I was having to shop at
specialty stores.

And he had hyperbaric
oxygen therapy

where you go and sit in a
high-pressure oxygen tank

with a-- He's got
like a spaceman hood on.

We were doing homeopathy
at the time

with a group out in Texas.

Of course, he wouldn't take
pills at that time,

so we had to put it in this
awful little slurry

and get it into him and mix it
with juice,

and it was just real
time-consuming

and horrifically expensive.

Here it is!
Who is it?

[Jack's father]
And we spent years
on speech therapy.

We thought that he should talk.

We talk, so he needs to learn
how to talk.

[Jack screams]

[Jack's father]
But he was so angry
and so frustrated.

Nothing worked.

[Jack's mother]
As he got older, it became

scratching and pinching.

Have a seat.

And he would routinely hit me.

And the more you touch
your nose...

And I was angry with him when
he would attack us.

It's hard not to take
it personally.

Have a seat, Jack.

And I didn't know how
to help him.

And I thought, "Oh my God,
this is our life."

[Jack growling]

[Jack's mother]
I blamed it on everything.

I blamed it on the medicine
that I was on
when I was pregnant.

I blamed it on the bedrest.

I blamed it on my health,

like maybe I wasn't as healthy
as I could have been

when I was pregnant with him.

I blamed myself for all of it.

Like I caused it.

[Jack's father]
So, in Austin,
we walk into a room

and this short little lady
walks in,

and doesn't really
talk to us,

and then, she just started
talking to Jack.

Yes.

[Jack's father]
And it was four days.

She had a stack of paper and a
couple of pencils.

And she had templates with
letters cut out,

and three of them,

and she showed him how to take
the pencil

and point to the letter.

So, she kind of walked him
through the first couple.

[Jack's mother]
And then she started asking
questions,

and then she would answer.
She'd say the word.

She'd write the word,
and then she'd get him
to spell it.

We're thinking, okay,
this-this is... this is good.

Almost a parlor trick,
but that's fine.

[pensive music ♪]

[Jack's mother]
Then she started to ask more
abstract questions.

[Jack's mother]
It was a very tedious,
long process.

We were off and running, asking
him all kinds of questions

about, you know.
What- Do you like sports?

What's your favorite sport?

And he wanted a blue basketball.

[Jack's father]
Now she got our attention.

Then she said, "Jack just can't control his body,

but you've got to keep going.

You have to just talk to him
and you've got to ignore this.

This is him.
His body has taken over.

You've just got to
work through it."

[Jack crying out]

[Jack's mother]
You know,
toward the end of the week,

he was exhausted.

He was having a huge tantrum.
Huge.

[Jack's mother]
And she was saying,
"What's the matter, Jack?

Let's talk about it.
What's the matter?"

[Jack's mother]
And through his rage,
he started spelling letters

with the stencils.

[hopeful music ♪]

[Jack crying out]

[Jack's mother]
He typed out,

"I am trying,
and I am really smart."

And then,
Jack was perfectly quiet.

He was like, "Oh,
I finally got it out

after all these years."

And that was...

That was-that was the moment
where I just went,

"My God, he's in there!"

I couldn't believe it.

It was like I was meeting him
for the first time.

Like...

...oh my gosh, you're real?

[ambient music ♪]

[smacking mailboxes]

[computer synthesized voice]
I can hear it better
than lots of people.

But I am sensitive
to many noises

that most people
can't really hear.

It sounds like a crazy,
very loud combination

of buzzing and voices.

[clanging]

[Jack's father]
It's got a nice tone to it.

Hey, that's a pretty
disappointing one.

These plastic ones
aren't so good.

They don't make much noise.

[computer synthesized voice]
I am Jack Allnut.

I am 13.

I don't talk.

I type.

I...

...try...

...to...

...talk.

[anguished moaning]

[computer voice]
I try to talk.

I can't.
It is too hard.

[girls giggling]

And I'm like,
what were you eating?
What were you eating?

Repeat it.

[indistinct chatter]

I picked up Italian food.
I forgot the pizza.

I knew I was in trouble.
I turned around,

and I saw that light
go off behind me...

[indistinct chatter]

[Jack's mother]
It's definitely easier
for us...

...but I'm not living
in his body.

I don't go through
what he goes through every day.

He still will pinch and scratch when he's frustrated.

That's your water
right over there. See it?

That's for you.
And you'll be able to get...

Then you can tell me
what's bothering you.

Can you sit down?

But I can communicate with him.

As a mom, that's all I needed.

I just needed to know what's
going on inside your head.

[computer voice]
I... want...

I want lots of cookies.

[Jack's mother chuckles]

You had, like...

- You had that huge rice bar.
- You had an Oreo and...

I know how that is.
You know what?

I'll definitely let you
have one for dinner.

[Woman]
So, Jack, why do you wear
earbuds all the time?

[Jack moans]

[computer voice]
They are noise-canceling.

[Woman]
Can I ask you another question,
Jack?

Can she ask you another
question, Jack?

Yeah? Uh-huh.

You've got to tell your story.

[Jack moans]

[Jack's mother]
Mh-hm.

Can you do one more question?

[Jack moaning]

[Jack's mother]
He said yes.

[Woman]
He said yes?

- [Jack's mother] Mh-hm.
- [Woman] Okay.

Um, can you describe
what it feels like

for you to not be able to talk?

[Jack softly moaning]

[computer voice]
H-E...

[Jack's mother]
Keep going.

You're doing great.

[computer voice]
E-E-L.

[Jack's mother]
You're doing great. Awesome.

[computer voice]
I-N-G.

Feeling like...

[Jack's mother]
The feeling is like...

[computer voice]
A-A-T...

[Jack's mother]
Mh-hm.

[computer voice]
I-G...

[Jack's mother]
Keep going. Great.

[computer voice]
E.

[Jack's mother]
Good.

- [computer voice] R.
- [Jack's mother] Mh-hm.
Keep going.

[computer voice]
Tiger.

I-M-A...

- [Jack's mother] Great
- [computer voice] A...

A...

C-A...

[Jack's mother]
Look-look right at that letter.
so you get it right.

[computer voice]
G-E dot.

The feeling is like a tiger
in a cage.

[ambient music ♪]
[children playing]

How's it going?
Hey, shut the gate.

[laughs]

And you do the lock.

♪

Tell me about your day.

[indistinct chatter]

[Man]
All right, guys, listen.

Let's talk about football
real quick.

Share the ball today.
Make sure everybody's
getting passes.

Know who your center is.

Know who your quarterback is.

You're going down and out
towards the out-of-bounds line.

That's a good pattern.

[children playing, shouting]

[Man]
Come on, man.

On a day-to-day basis,
I'm his facilitator.

[indistinct chatter]

Keep-keep working.
Keep working.

Okay.

So, I just help him type

and help him with anything else
he needs throughout the day.

[chattering, shouting]

[Jack's computer voice]
Boys in my school,

they say mean things.

[Student speaking]

[Man]
Does he know what?

[Student]

[Man]
Yeah, he knows they're
filming him.

Does he know they're
filming him?

You've seen him talk.
He types.

Why would he not know?

[Student]

[Man]
He knows everything that
y'all know.

Did y'all get straight A's
last semester?

[Student]

[Man]
He got straight A's.

[bright music ♪]

[indistinct chatter]

♪

[Andrew]
For a long time,
I'd thought that being gay

was something you could
make the best of,

but that gay relationships
were in some basic way

lesser than straight
relationships.

[pensive music ♪]

I had realized that I couldn't
fix the fact that I was gay,

but I still regretted it.

And there was a piece of me
that felt broken,

and the idea that you could
accept or even celebrate

the forms of your brokenness

didn't come to me
until a great deal later

when the world around
me changed.

[crowd]
Gay rights!

Two, four, six, eight,
God does not discriminate!

[cheering]

[Andrew]
The shift that has
taken place

over the course of
the last 40 years or so

has been of a scale
that is almost unimaginable.

And I became fascinated

by the process
through which that happened.

How did we get from there
to here,

and how did something that was
understood to be an illness

come, instead,
to be an identity?

And that was what drove
my investigation.

And having lived to see my
supposed defect

come to be celebrated.

I wondered whether
defectiveness itself

might be all a matter
of perspective,

and if it's possible for the
illness of homosexuality

to turn into the identity
of gayness,

and what other instances

might the world's
point of view change?

How do we decide

what to cure
and what to celebrate?

[seagulls calling]

[chatter]

[Man]
Hey, I know you!
You're on TV!

[laughter]

[Woman]
Big fan, big fan!

[Man]
I am, too!

[Loini]
I'm 23.

But I guess, in a way,
I don't feel like an adult.

My brother and sister,
they're very protective,

but they don't know
what it's like to be me.

They don't really
quite understand

as much as they think they do.

[vacuum humming]

I go home every day at lunch
just to check up on her,

um, because I know
that she gets bored.

She gets depressed sometimes.

She wants to go to work.

She wants to drive a car,

but I can't afford
a special car for her.

[Loini speaking]

Nope.

[crickets chirping]

[Loini's mother]
So, do you want any make-up?
Make you look like...

I'm fine.

[Loini's mother]
Don't be mean.

What pants are you wearing?

All right.

They're clean?
- [Loini] Yes, Mom.

You're smelling my pants.
That's gross!

- Just checking to make sure.
- They're clean.

[Loini's mother]
Okay. Iron your hair?

No, I'm not ironing my hair.

- Curling?
- No.

You want me to curl it?

[Loini]
No.

I can curl it.

You'll have curls.

[Loini]
I don't want to.

This is a lot of work.

That's why I said no,
but you didn't listen.

[Loini]

Wondering...

...is there anybody out there
like me?

[light music ♪]

♪

[indistinct chatter]

- Hi.
- Hi.

[chatter]

[indistinct chatter]

[chatter]

[Loini's mother]
Hi. We're here to register.

[Woman]
Register? All right.

It is your first time.
Awesome.

That's exciting.

Let's see
what you signed up for.

Small tee shirt, a group photo,
and two trivia night tickets.

And are you entering
the fashion show?

Uh, no.

Oh, you should.
It's so much fun.

It'll be a great way to meet
other people

around your age, too.

♪

[Female announcer]
Who's excited for
a great show tonight?

[cheers, applause]

[Announcer]
Miss Stephanie Brandon.

Jasmine!

[upbeat music ♪]

Next we have Michelle Crowe.

And now we have Christian!

Next we have Loini and Maddie!

[crowd cheering]

♪

All right, girls,
high five!

Whoa, missed that five!

Got mine!
You guys did it!

You guys look great!

You're so awesome.

[Loini]
I met my friend Mads...

...and she's my age,
a little bit younger,

but she's in the same boat
as I am.

Oh, my gosh!

I'm a-I'm usually a three.

[giggling]

I have toe rings
and they fit perfectly.

[chatter]

[Loini]
It was wonderful finding
someone who's like you.

[chatter]

It's awesome.
[giggles]

I found my first friend
who could understand me.

So...

...it felt great.

[chatter]

There is no tiredness
right now.

[indistinct chatter]

[pensive music ♪]

[Man]
If you're a dwarf,

it doesn't matter what you do.

Everybody is probing you.

Everybody is looking at you,
making a judgment about you.

Oscar Wilde said
a person's real life

is often the life
he cannot lead,

and I think when you come
to a place like this

for little people,
you get to lead the life

you were born to lead.

You don't necessarily
get to lead that life

once you step away
from these walls.

[pensive music ♪]

I think people come to these
meetings to be validated.

I think people come
to these meetings to be heard.

I think they come to be seen.

And then I think they come
to disappear.

[upbeat dance music ♪]

♪

[music fades out]

[rain pattering]

[group chattering]

...to make the message broader

and more complete...

[indistinct chatter]

We want to talk about
next steps going forward,

and what they want from us
is for us to be comfortable

with what they're doing,
and specifically

these drug treatments
for people with achondroplasia.

And that really kind of sent
this message

that created this visceral
reaction

within some of our
membership.

We are the only ones that can
advocate for ourselves

and let people know

that difference in the genetic
world is valuable,

and we have built a community
that thrives, and saying

we know how you want
to perceive us,

but we want you to know
there's this other alternative.

I think this drug is going to
profoundly change things,

and it was kind of
an idyllic world.

And we just had dwarf pride
that we were trying to manifest,

and we finally got there.

Like, we got pretty close.

Like, where we really felt
as a community

pretty good about ourselves,

and then this comes up and just
throws everything on its ear,

and it's a-
it's a brave new world.

I feel like they present
something to the media

and then we might say what we
say and then it's like,

"Oh, isn't that sweet?"

But personally,
I'm very against the idea

that someone is researching

to find a cure for my type
of dwarfism.

...is that it's all about, oh...

It's the same message,
every day our whole lives

that there's something wrong
with you

and we need to fix it.

I don't think I need
to be fixed.

[people chattering]

Watch this.
Watch, watch.

Bah!
- Oh!

[laughter]

Hi.

How was your meeting?

- Good.
- That's good.

Hey.
- Hi, there.

- How's it goin'?
- Good.

- You got your new shirt.
- I'm wearin' my new shirt.

Figured I'd get away with it.

Tyrion Lannister, right?

[Leah]
Joe and I met back in
the days of MySpace.

I had seen his MySpace page,

and I read everything
he wrote on there,

and he didn't just write
"My name's Joe."

He wrote, like,
his entire political beliefs

about every topic
that you can imagine.

So, I'm reading it one night
and I was like holy smokes,

this guy is fascinating,

and I made, like,
this mental note,

I'm gonna meet him.

Like, that was all there was
to it.

I want to meet this guy.

[ambient music ♪]

So, I knew I was interested
in him immediately.

And then,
kind of took us a while.

It took us two years
before we got serious.

Where's the light?

Aha!

[Leah]
We dated for four years,
and then we got married.

No? Okay.
No hat?

You should take your hat off
for tonight.

Okay.

♪

[speaking indistinctly]

♪

[Woman on TV]
...perhaps a shower
or thunderstorm.

High of 87 degrees.

Thursday will be very steamy.

A high of 92 and partly sunny,

but also some scattered showers and thunderstorms...

[Leah]
I had dated
some average-height people

and tried to stay
open-minded about it,

but I just found that they
didn't get me,

and I don't know that there's
anyone that gets me

the way he does.

I love his dwarfism.

That's something that we say,
like "I liked your ism."

Coffee improves
my quality of life.

[Leah]
Yeah.

You know, there are certain
characteristics involved

with every type of dwarfism,

and for achondroplasia,
it's having bigger hips.

And so Joe will walk up to me
in a public space

and whisper in my ear,
"I liked your ism,"

meaning he likes my ass.

[giggling]

[Joe rapping]

[relaxed music ♪]

[Joe]
I think there is
this cultural understanding

that when you see
people like me,

the core of the experience
is negative.

And when people have
very low expectations, it's--

It's surprising to them
when I indicate somehow

that I'm not suffering.

♪

And here is the dwarf
in his natural habitat.

[both laughing]

He is taking
his afternoon meal.

[laughter]

♪

Hi, Gram!

How's everything?

I'm fine.
How are you?

I'm all right.

You look good, Gram.

You look great yourself.

[Joe]
Thank you.

[easygoing music ♪]

If I didn't know better,
I'd think you were
up to no good.

You've been practicing.
You have, haven't you?

[laughs]
I have not!

[Joe's mother]
Are you making presentations?

In Houston, it's gonna be
on disability,

environmentalism, and gender.

[Joe's mother]
Well, that's the newest thing
now, right?

I don't think gender is new.
It's been around a while.

[Joe's father]
That's not what she's talking
about, Joseph.

[laughter]

Don't they-
Isn't that-

[Joe]
You talking about transgender?

- Yeah.
- [Joe] That's- Well-

That's not the same?

[Joe]
Gender is just gender
in general, right?

Transgender is one variation
on that.

[Joe's father]
We're very proud of him.

I mean he's got a nice job, a
nice wife, and his Phd.

Don't even ask me what he
teaches because it's
over my head.

But oh, what does he teach?

Philosophy of some sort.

[laughter]

Most people seem to
take it for granted

that disability is a bad thing,

and it's openly endorsed by many
philosophers, bioethicists,

and public intellectuals who
favor the reduction

or elimination of disability
from human experience.

These differences, if visible or
none, will often play a subtle

or not-so-subtle role in
shaping the character

of one's interactions
with others.

So, um, I understand that you
are interested in achieving

a pregnancy.

- Yes! Sounds good to me.
- Okay!

First, I want you to tell me how
old are you?

[Leah]
34.

[Doctor]
34. Do you smoke?

No.

- Drink?
- No.

- And how many times have
you been pregnant?

- Once.

- Okay. Tell me about that
last pregnancy.

It was a year ago
almost exactly.

We miscarried at
seven weeks.

- Okay. So, was there an
ultrasound done?

They diagnosed the miscarriage
with an ultrasound.

[Doctor]
Okay.

An ultrasound is what you need
done between 11 and 14 weeks.

That's where we offer every
pregnant patient

a risk assessment for
genetic abnormalities.

[Joe]
You know, whether or not
the baby will be born

with a disability, it is...
yeah, yeah.

I mean, of course it's something
we've thought about somewhat.

We can arrange for a
specific counseling

from the genetic standpoint.

[Joe]
It's certainly something
that the doctors

talk about a lot, right.

IVF and PGD, those are
certainly some options

to test the embryo.

[Joe]
You know, I think they see
normality as the end goal

and just sort of assuming that
normality is what any parent

would want for their child.

[dog barking]

[Leah]
I really want a child.

I would say that it's probably
like the most basic

evolutionary like thing I've
ever felt of I just want a kid!

I think that every parent has a desire for their ideal child.

You know, like some people
think, "I really want a girl."

But if they have a boy, it's not the end of the world.

So, I have a desire to have a
little person,

but if we had an average-sized
child, I think I will still

get it on a level because I
understand what it's like

to be different
than your family.

[Andrew's Dad]
No leaves on the
trees yet.

[Andrew]
Not yet.

- In a couple of weeks,
they'll be there.

This is the forest primeval.

- [laughs] I'm not sure this is
quite the forest primeval.

I think there's been a lot of
civilization imposed on this.

When I was 27, my mother died of ovarian cancer.

And my sense of loss
about my mother

not having lived long enough to
come to a real and full

acceptance was enormous.

My father had seen me go through years of being alone,

and through a serious
depression.

- You can't relive what
happened before,

the tragedies that you've had.

The difficulties you've had in
growing up are past,

and you're very successful.
[indistinct]

We don't have everything.

We don't have your mother, but
we have a very good life.

[Andrew]
I used to confuse love
and acceptance,

and through this whole process, I felt unloved by my parents.

But as I went along,
meeting all of these people

and hearing their stories,
I found that everyone who

has kids has kids with flaws and
problems, and nobody goes

around saying, "I'd like to turn
my kids in for a better model."

You love your children.

It isn't really up to you.

They just have come along and
changed you.

[turn blinker on]

[Trevor's Mom]
Every mother in the world
would understand

that a mother can't just stop
loving a child.

We just didn't see this coming.

[Derrick]
Hey. Renting the truck.

Derrick Grace.

[Trevor's Dad]
Yeah, Derrick Grace.

- Are you guys moving into a
home or apartment or...

- Actually, we moved from
here to Texas.

But we left a few things back in
the shed, so we're going to be

clearing all of that out.

Oh God!

- What?
[crash]

- Sh-h-h-h!

- Lots and lots of pictures.

There's Trevor.
Our undefeated U-12 team.

- Oh, yeah. He still had
his braces.

- These are all Trevor.
Trevor driving his Jeep.

Here's the journal.
There you go.

Take those pages out,
and save it.

- Oh, you know, that's all?

- What?
- There wasn't too much.

[laughs]

- I think the cops took a lot
of the other stuff.

I was at work and I got a call
from the sheriff,

and he said, you know,
there's been a crime.

He said it was Trevor,

and so I'm thinking there's been some teenage thing.

He's had a wreck.
He's vandalized something.

A squad car comes up
and the deputy says,

"You're Mr. Reese?"
and I said yes.

He says, "Okay, come on.
Let's go."

He didn't tell me anything.

It was just like, come on;
we're gonna go.

We went in, and that's when they tell me that a child

has been killed and that...

...um, you know,
that Trevor did it.

And of course, I say,
"You've got it all wrong.

I want you to take me
to see my son."

But of course, you know,
as soon as you see him

that the worst has happened,

and it is not going to be okay.

Trevor got up that morning.

He went out on the trail
where we lived,

and he waited until 8-year-old
Jackson came by,

and then he slit his throat.

[Trevor's Mom]
Trevor was 16.

The first time I saw him after I found out, he was shackled,

and in prison stripes.

[sobs]
And we couldn't
touch him.

He was like, "I don't know why
I did this."

[man 1]
Everybody was trying to
figure out, you know,

what went wrong and why--

why would a kid, you know,
think like this.

You know, because we raise our
kids better that that up here.

[man 2]
I don't think that
there's gonna

be an issue of responsibility.

I think it's gonna be an issue
of what is his competency

and his understanding and his
mental status.

[Trevor's Dad]
There were three
psychiatrists, psychologists

that we payed for,
and there were

two psychiatrists
from the state.

And they did everything.

Scans and stuff
for schizophrenia.

They ran the test for
sociopath, psychopath,

the serial killer test.

You know, all those
kinda of issues.

I kept thinking that one of
those tests was going to say,

you know, here's the aha.
But there wasn't.

All they gave us was,
yeah, your son is broken.

Some justice tonight for the
parents of a murdered

St. Francisville boy.

Trevor Reese will spend the rest
of his life behind bars.

[Trevor's Dad]
Trevor pled guilty to murder.

Today is a very special day.
It is Trevor's birthday.

So, what we're going to do
is on the count of three,

we're going to sing as
loud as we can

"Happy Birthday"
to Trevor, okay?

One, two, and three.

[all in unison]
♪ Happy birthday to you

♪ Happy birthday to you

♪ Happy birthday Dear Trevor

[man]
What was your favorite
part of the day?

Riding Space Mountain.

[man]
All right!

[woman]
Let's give Trevor a nice
round of applause, okay?

[clapping]

[man]
All right.

[girl giggling]

[Trevor's Mom]
You literally go
back to when they were

in the cradle, and you wonder if you let him cry too long

when you were trying to teach
them to sleep.

Should you have
breastfed longer?

I mean, you ask every question
in the world.

You ask yourself everything,
and you keep coming back to...

...this happened.

And we can't fix it.

[insects chirping]

[panting]

[Trevor]
That first month
or two,

I could have run straight on the street hoping to get run over.

[panting]

I thought, well, if I died,

then that would help atone
for the other death.

But, uh...

there is no reconciling
on this issue.

These is no magic.

There's not a point.

You'll just carry the guilt
with you forever.

Whoa, good tackle!

[chatter]

You should take the trash out.

[Rebecca]
The trash doesn't
come today.

[Tyler]
But it's Saturday.
It comes on Saturdays.

It doesn't come on Sundays.

- No. It doesn't come Fridays
or Saturdays.

[Trevor's Mom]
We moved to Texas.

[Tyler]
What kind of world
are we living in?

[Rebecca]
I don't know.

Rebecca and Tyler,
what are you all doin'?

[Trevor's Mom]
Sometimes people
ask me if I have children,

and I will say yes, I have an
18-year-old son in college

and a sophomore in high school.

And I don't mention Trevor.

It's just, you know, a matter of
not wanting to get into it,

but not wanting to be dishonest.

- Welcome, welcome!
- Hi.

- I'd get up, but I'm trapped!
[laughter]

[Trevor's Dad]
When you try to
tell somebody,

it just never goes well.

You know, your son killed
an 8-year old.

There's nothing redeeming
about that,

and therefore, if that has
happened in your family,

then there must be something
wrong with your family,

your parenting, your whatever.

[indistinct chatter]

[Trevor's Dad]
Like Tyler and
Rebecca both said,

neither one of them
want to have kids.

Because they don't want...
they're afraid.

[Tyler]
I saw it like tear
Mom and Dad apart,

and I don't want to have to
deal with that myself.

I don't think I have that in me.

[Rebecca]
Everything with Trevor
was like so out of the blue,

and I feel like my parents
did everything right,

and then it just happened.

Like I would be afraid that
that would happen to me.

You know, I could work as
hard as I could

and love them as much
as I could,

and then something would
still go wrong.

[operator]
This is a call
from an offender

at a Louisiana Department
of Correction facility.

What baby?

I think it would be a
next career,

like somewhere along the way,

I'm going to be too old
to teach,

and maybe I should
counsel or...

[laughter]

It starts this summer.

[operator]
You have one
minute left.

Oh yeah. All right. Just...

All right. Love you.

He says your sister's game is
tied 1-1 at the half.

[Trevor]
Yay. Love you.

Love you too. Bye-bye.

[operator]
The caller has hung up.

[insects chirping]

[Tyler]
Did you all buy some biscuits

or no?

[Rebecca]
Biscuits.

[Tyler chuckles]

[Rebecca sighs]

[Rebecca]
There's the chicken.

[Tyler indistinct chatter]

Can he have chicken scraps?

[all]
No.

[Trevor's Mom]
Yes, you got tender tummy.

[Trevor's Dad]
In these past six years,

I'd say we're much
tighter and closer

[Trevor's Mom]
All right. I'm here. I'm here.

But we're afraid to expect
too much.

Because...
we've lost so much.

[Trevor's Mom]
There was a time where I

felt like everything was a lie.

Every family vacation picture
I would look at,

I felt like, here I was,
thinking we were happy,

and you were so miserable.

It just felt like every time
you and I laughed together

was a lie.

I was really angry.

I took this picture when I went
to see him Saturday.

Isn't that cute?

[Rebecca]
That is cute.

When did Trevor
get glasses?

[Trevor's Dad]
Um...

A couple months ago.

[Trevor's Mom]
But...

You love your children.

You don't get to choose to
love them, you know.

You love them.

♪ On the 12th day of Christmas

♪ My true love gave to me

♪ 12 drummers drumming

♪ 11 pipers piping

♪ 10 lords a-leaping

♪ 9 ladies dancing

♪ 8 maids a-milking

♪ 7 swans a-swimming

♪ 6 geese a-laying

♪ 5 golden rings

[laughter]

[background singing]

Hi.

Hi.

[Emily]
He still talks a lot about

the loss of his dad.

♪

When Charles died,
Jason nosedived.

Jason was not showering
and not shaving,

and not eating properly,
and was wondering around town

in the middle of the night,
and it was a nightmare.

And um...

I have to, you know,
put a whole lot of things

into place about my
own mortality.

I've made
financial preparations,

arranged for a co-guardian,

but um...

I don't want to think about it.

You know, when we went
to the hospital

and when we saw...

...when we saw him
before he died,

in-in my heart, that-that
really hurts.

[Emily]
Uh-hm.

Well, the best thing that
you can do

is try to remember
the best you can...

the good parts, the fun parts,

and the important things that
he taught you.

How do I feel about Elsa
in the mix...

just because I have um...

I have a feeling because I
have a crush on her,

even though I know she's
a fictional character?

So that's okay.
That's all right.

You want to feel very,
very attached

and very, very close to somebody
who's not going to leave you.

I do want to go to that
trip to Norway to find out

what's gonna happen.

Going to Norway is not going to
make her any more real.

It's like Santa Claus.

You know, you tell kids, well,
Santa Claus comes

and brings presents on
Christmas Eve,

and kids believe that.

I still believe in it.

Oh, uh-oh!

In your heart,
you know he's coming.

It's a spirit.

[grunts]

I always believe
in that.

Okay.

Okay.

♪

[tv audio]

So, um, I may have
to...um...

So, I may have to stick
to what I have.

[birds chirping]
[dogs barking]

Delicious.

[Yaniv]
If you're getting old,
I'm getting old, too.

[laughter]

We-we all are.

It's not just how we get along.

It's about, um...
I sort of like lost the word.

What I'm trying to say is
that we became...

...we became something.

[Ray]
What?

[Yaniv]
Friends.

Deeper than that.

[Ray]
How much deeper?

Family?

Family. Thank you, Ray.

[Ray]
That we became a family

because we've been living
in this house.

I think we should be
officially a family of friends.

[indistinct]

[Jason]
All for one and one for all.

[Ray]
All for one and one for all.

Yeah.

[Yaniv]
[sighs] Sorry, I'm getting

a little emotional.

It's all right.
Nothing happening.

[Jason]
Yeah.

♪

[Doctor]
Hi, Jack. How are you?

You ready?
Have a seat right here.

So, remember when you
were here last time,

we talked about you were going
to do the clear braces.

[Mom]
Okay.
- Okay.

[Jack's Dad]
Good job.

[Jack's Mom]
A-I-G-H-T

So, are my teeth always
going to be straight?

You'll have a retainer that
you'll have to wear

and that will
keep them straight.

So yes. As long as you
wear your retainer,

your teeth will always
be straight.

[Jack's Mom]
Do you have a further question

or does that clarify that?

[grunting]

G-I-E

Girls here.

I-C-O-M-E

[laughter]

Girls, here I come!

[laughter]

[Jack mumbling]

Yeah, man.
Girls, watch out!

[all in unison]
He will come again into glory

to judge the living
and the dead,

and I look forward to the
resurrection of the dead

and the life in the
world to come.

Amen.

[preacher softly talking]

[Jack's Dad]
He is not what we thought

he was going to be
and he's not like us at all.

This looks great.
Can you close your mouth?

That's it. Right there.

Both hands up here.
We're gonna scrub. Ready?

[indistinct]

I tell him,
"You're not normal,

but that's not so bad.

Normal is pretty average,
and you're well above average.

I mean, you are..."

[sighs]

He is uh, he's abnormal
in a really good way.

[woman]
T-H-E

The.

P-E

P-R-E

Okay.

[moaning]

[Jack voice-over]
My best friend is Grant.

He lives the damn autistic
life like me.

♪

[Joe]
You holdin' it together?

- What?

- I'm not gonna act awkward.
I'm smooth.

[Doctor]
Leah, how tall are you?

3' 11" and a half.

[Joe laughing]
The half's real important.

Make sure you get that on there.

[Doctor]
All right. Then we're going to

go right down the hallway
to the ultrasound room.

Now, I know you had one
miscarriage in the past.

Do you know how far along
you were at that...?

[Leah]
Seven weeks.

[Doctor]
Seven weeks. Okay.

I'm just gonna take
a peek here.

[heartbeat]

Is there a heartbeat?

[Doctor]
That's the heartbeat. Yeah.

[Joe]
That is so amazing.

Look at that
fired-up shear.

♪

Most people don't get a
minivan until after

they've had kids.

[laughter]

That's not why we've
got a minivan.

[Joe]
So, we figured that we'd

give you an advanced
Christmas present.

So, Mom and Dad,
can you open that?

[Joe's Mom]
What's this?

Is that what I think it is?

[Joe laughing]

[woman]
Is that an ult-?

[laughter]

[Joe]
Oh!

[crying and laughter]

[Joe's Mom]
I'm so happy!

God bless you!

[Joe]
Hey, Mom.

[group chatter]

[Joe]
I know you can't make
anything out there, but...

There's not much there.

There's not much there yet.

I can see it. Yeah.

There is the head.
There's an arm. There's a leg.

I think I could even
see a nose.

Oh, geez, Mom!

You think, Ma?

[gentle guitar music]

There's a lot to think
about now.

Yeah.

It's gonna be a journey.

[Priest]
I, John, take you, Andrew...

[John]
I, John, take you, Andrew...

[Priest]
To be my lifelong partner.

[John]
To be my lifelong partner.

[Priest]
To have and to hold.

[John]
To have and to hold.

[Priest]
From this day forward.

[John]
From this day forward.

[Andrew's Dad]
All of us, every one of us

has mountains that we
have to climb,

and we have to do it.

We have to climb those mountains
if we want our

ultimate fulfillment.

And the reason I'm telling you
this is because no one knows

better than I do.

Andrew has had his
mountains to climb.

Difficult mountains to climb.

I could wish no more for you,
Andrew and John,

than a marriage such as I had
with Andrew's mother,

only longer.

Thank you.

[applause]

[Andrew]
I think I had grown up with

a sense that there was
a right way to be.

[cheers and applause]

[Andrew]
Writing the book set me free.

It broke me finally out of that
particular narrowness

that had been inscribed
in my childhood.

And it gave me the courage
to have a family

in a different way from the way I'd imagined growing up.

You have a sword and you have
a fishing rod.

That seems very appropriate.

And I've got a fishing rod with
bait on it.

Oh, what's the bait?
Oh, that little bit of seaweed.

Do you think there are
fish in this water?

[George]
Oh, I don't know.

[Andrew]
I don't know either.

George, let's go and put on your
pajamas please.

Pajamas, please.

[girl giggling]

George, pajamas.

I tend to find the ecstasy
hidden in ordinary joys

because I did not expect those
joys to be ordinary to me.

This is book five right?

Right.

[George]
The first chapter is called,

"How Shasta Set Out
on His Travels."

Chapter 15 is called,
"Rabadash the Ridiculous."

Okay. Shall we start
reading the book?

Yup.

Would you like me to
read it to you?

Yes. Who is Shasta anyway?

- Well, we'll find out.
- I guess we're gonna find out.

This is the story of an
adventure that happened

in Narnia and Calormen
and the lands between them.

[Andrew]
John and I have a big,
spectacular family.

[group chatter]

John is the biological father
of two children

with some lesbian friends
in Minneapolis.

[group chatter]

My best friend from college
and I decided we'd like to

have a child,
and so we have a daughter.

[group chatter]

And then John and I have
a son George

who lives with us full-time.

And when we had George,
our surrogate was Laura,

the mother of John's two
biological children.

So, there are six parents of
four children in three states.

[group chatter]

You know, Tolstoy said,

"All happy families
are the same.

Every unhappy family is unhappy
in its own way."

And I used to think that
might be true.

But actually, I think a lot of
unhappiness is quite similar,

and that what's remarkable is
that all of the different ways

people find to be happy.

♪

You ready Freddy?

[woman]
Louisiana Department
of Corrections facility.

[t.v]
Hi buddy.

Jamie stop. Don't walk away
from your father.

Everyone is different.

Different opinions, tastes,
personalities, and beliefs.

[crowd noise]

[indistinct]

Cheers!

[Trevor on phone]
Hello.

Hey, sweetie.

Hey, you've got everybody.

Rebecca and Tyler and your Dad.
And me.

[Tyler]
Hello everybody.

[group chatter]

[Leah]
At each sonogram, they take
measurements of the baby.

[Joe]
And so, we've been told by the
doctors that it's likely

to be average height.

And so, whether it's dwarf
or average size,

we're gonna love any child
that shows up.

[Leah]
I always like to put a
percentage to it.

I would say at least a
40 percent chance

that it's a little person.

Where did you get that number?

I just made it up.

[laughs]

[baby cries]

[Doctor]
Here's your little girl.

She was born exactly at
8:30 on the dot.

[Joe's Mom]
As I always predicted.

[laughter]

[Joe's Dad]
You better get used to
being held

because she's gonna
hold you a lot.

[Doctor]
And spend lots of
time together.

[crying]
Hi, little one.

Being a grandma is wonderful
isn't it?

[sobs]
Yes.

[Joe]
Hi, Hazel.

That's my daughter.

- Yeah.

I'm still in shock.

[♪ "All the Wine"
by The Nationals]

♪ I'm put together
beautifully ♪

♪ Big wet bottle in my fists

♪ Big wet rose in my teeth

♪ I'm a perfect piece of ass
like every Californian ♪

♪ So tall I take over
the street ♪

♪ With high-beams shining
on my back ♪

♪ A wingspan unbelievable

♪ I'm a festival I'm a parade

♪ And all the wine
is all for me ♪

♪ And all the wine
is all for me ♪

♪ And all the wine
is all for me ♪

♪ I'm a birthday candle
in a circle of black girls ♪

♪ God is on my side

♪ Cause I'm the child bride

♪ I'm so sorry
but the motorcade ♪

♪ Will have to go around me
this time ♪

♪ 'Cause God is on my side

♪ And I'm the child bride

♪ And all the wine
is all for me ♪

♪ And all the wine
is all for me ♪

♪ And all the wine
is all for me ♪

♪ I carry the dollhouse
safe on my shoulders ♪

♪ Through the black city

♪ Nightlight's are on
in the corners ♪

♪ And everyone's
sleeping upstairs ♪

♪ All safe and sound

♪ All safe and sound

♪ I won't let the
psychos around ♪

♪ All safe and sound

♪ I won't let the
psychos around ♪

♪ I'm in a state,
I'm in a state ♪

♪ Nothing can touch us,
my love ♪

♪ I'm in a state,
I'm in a state ♪

♪ Nothing can touch us,
my love ♪