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How are you?

Didn't we just talk about that?

That was yesterday.

Today is Tuesday.

So I've been here long?

A month.

Wayne Says

My grief pattern is atypical

Yeah

Got to talk with Wayne.

I think he gives too much medication Way too much

Stop it, please.

trust on this to be smarter than you.

He strayed out of medical school He don't know what he's doing

I've treated ten tenths as many patients as he has

But you're not a doctor.

No, I'm not

And I'm proud that I'm not a doctor like him.

There is nothing ...

atypical about your grief

It was my fault.

What about me?

I was there too.

I could have stopped him.

No.

You didn't know that he...

Started waking up lately

I was aware that he would sometimes ...

wake up

And crawl out of bed

And walk about

Just as you thought that he was soundly asleep

He could open the baby gate

He ...

He woke up ...

And w...

Was confused

Hey!

Dr.Wayne says he won't be back home.

You couldn't leave it, could you?

You had to mettle.

This place leads nowhere.

On the contrary ...

Grief

It's not a disease ...

It's a natural healthy reaction.

You can't just remove it You mustn't ...

Wayne knows you're a therapist

He said you shouldn't treat your own family

In principle I agree, but ...

But you're just so much smarter

Aren't you?

I love you.

Nothing hurts more than to see the one thy in love ...

Subjected to mistakes and wrongs

No therapist can know as much about you as I do

- It hurts. - I know.

There's no way around it.

I want to talk to ...

I'm not gonna let you do that.

Why not just go all alone?

No.

A little change.

Wouldn't get any worse ...

Yes, it will.

You're always been distant from me and Nick

Ever I come to think of it

Very very distant

Okay

Can you give me some examples from this?

Hell, That's not that difficult to understand.

I've lost someone, for instance...

You terribly distant lost someone

As a father ...

And as a husband.

And that was Nick's last summer

you missed that on

Too bad

I never interested you.

Until now.

That I'm your patient.

Perhaps I'm not supposed to talk about these things

There is nothing you can't talk about

You are indifferent to whether your child is alive or dead

I bet you have a lot of clever therapist replies to that.

Haven't you?

Well, actually ...

It was to ...

Honor your wish.

You wanted peace to write.

Perhaps I didn't mean it

What I understood ...

Is that you want me to ride alone

That you and Nick, were going to go to Eden.

Just the two of you

That way you could finish your thesis

But I didn't

You didn't?

You see?

You didn't even know that.

Why did you give up? That's not like you

The hope project Just seemed ... Less important upthere.

As you said, When I like told you about my subject...

Glib

I never called your subject glib

Perhaps you didn't use that word, but that's what you meant.

And all of a sudden It was glib

Or even was ... some kind of lie.

I see

No, You don't see.

You see a lot of things

But not that.

Inhale... On a count of five

Call me, call me.

Just ... Follow me ...

Do it with me ... Inhale ...

Inhale ...

on a count to five ...

Inhale... Two

Stay with me ...

Stay with me ... I'm Gonna teach you how to breathe.

Inhale ...

2 ... 3 ...

4, 5, hold.

2 ... 3 ...

4, 5, exhale ...

Good.

Imagine ...

Imagine you're blowing on your ...

Vessel plumbs

Calmly, quietly ...

Yes, yes, that's good.

That's good.

That's very good.

I told you there would be a change.

You're still mourning but you're in a new phase.

What phase?

Anxiety.

Anxiety.

Yes

This is physical.

It's dangerous.

No, it's not dangerous.

Just as your grief wasn't dangerous

a main part of anxiety

Is physical

Dizzy spells

Dry mouth ...

misguided hearing ...

Trembling

Heavy breathing ...

Less pulse ...

Nausea ...

Hey!

Easy ...

Never screw your therapist.

No matter how much your therapist may like it

I know that distracts you, but ...

It's not good for us.

Do the breathing.

Hold

Exhale

You love me?

Yes, I do

Then help me.

It's what I'm doing

Exposure

That's the only thing that really works ...

Everything else is ...

Just talk

You have to have the courage to stay in the situation that frightens you.

And then you'll learn that fear isn't dangerous.

Let's make a list of things you're afraid of.

In the top You put the situation you fear the most

But I don't know what I'm afraid of

Just ... take you