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♪♪♪

♪ Don't care what you think about it ♪

♪ Ain't here to please nobody ♪

♪ I'm a-running undercover

♪ Here comes trouble now

♪♪♪

♪ Me and my wicked ways

♪ I'll get you into trouble now ♪

♪ It's just so hard to behave ♪

♪ Got you seeing double now ♪

♪♪♪

♪ I'm the one your mama told you ♪

♪ Oh, boy, the world is torture ♪

♪ A risk you can't afford

♪ And here comes trouble now

♪ Turning it up all night

♪ Got you feeling high

♪ Turning it up all night

♪ Got you feeling high

♪ Get you into trouble now

♪♪♪

What color describes me in the bedroom?

Oh, eggshell.

I'm certainly not one of the primary colors.

- Pink, because everything about me is pink.

Because pink is super, like, cute and kind of submissive.

Red, 'cause it's fiery

and it's hot and it's lusty and slutty.

- I feel like it would be a color like black.

You're just, like, whipping the shit out of somebody.

If you pick a color like yellow,

you're just having weird, like, smiley, like--

the ones where they dress up as animals? Furry sex.

So I feel like in the middle, blue or green, is a safe space.

- The image of white popped into my head

'cause I think there's always gonna be a part of me

that's a little standoffish,

a little bit of a voyeur.

I would say I'm blue,

only because it's like aquatic

and calming and ocean and water.

Does that make sense? - Yeah. You're, like,

really smooth and relaxed and loving.

the least aggressive of the three of us.

- Yeah, yeah, yeah.

- Probably purple is the color that best describes me.

Like, not like an eggplant, like a royal purple,

and not a lavender. That's too feminine for me.

- Orangish-red and the reason why I think of that

is because sometimes there'll be candles in the room

or I'll have, like, my laptop open.

We'll be playing, like, YouTube,

like, videos of the weekend

or whatever artist I like, and there's like an orange hue

in the room--maybe orange.

- Oh, my God, like an oxblood color.

Red is, like, a very sensual, sexual color in general,

but like that deep red oxblood.

I don't know. I just get that vibe.

I can't even explain why, really.

- I'd say that in the bedroom, every color represents me

because I'm an artist, and for me,

every color stands for something different,

and I feel like I tap into so many different personas

with my sexual identity,

just 'cause I'm like, willing to, like, try anything.

- Except DP. - I'm willing to try it.

- Whoa! You just got that on camera.

- Record that. [ laughter ]

- My name is Teal. - My name is Mark.

- I'm Vera. - I'm Barbara.

- Adam. - Breeze.

- Angela. - And this--

- And this-- - And this

- This is our sex life.

- Or some approximation, or if I had a sex life,

this would be what it would look like,

like this right here.

♪♪♪

- Love and Paint is an experience

that brings creativity and romance together.

- It's about the connection, being there in that moment,

feeling the textures of the paint, loving each other,

and shutting everything out

and just leaving room for this experience.

I'm an artist by trade and a creative by trade.

I went to art school.

The idea originated from a moment. [ chuckles ]

I remember I was going out one night, got lucky,

and it was one of those nights where it was just a whirlwind,

like, just a really passionate night.

And in the morning, you know, after she left,

I went back into my room.

It looked like a hurricane had hit the room.

It was just insane. I started noticing, like,

the wrinkles of the sheets and all these different things,

and I was like, "God." I was like, "I wish I knew

exactly, like, what happened. Like, how did we start this?"

It looked like kind of an amazing night.

I was like, "Oh, how can you capture that night without,

"you know, film and technology or anything like that?

How can you kind of just tell that story?"

♪♪♪

I had asked this friend of mine, "Do you mind coming over?"

And I explained the concept and she was all about it.

I said, "Let's just wear, like, some, you know, underwear."

I wasn't even asking her to have sex.

It was just, "Let's just see what it's like

with two people and it's an experiment."

♪♪♪

We did it and it was an incredible experience.

I mean, we were laughing like kids, we were giddy.

Actually, we felt in love for the moment of it,

even though we were just friends.

And it's still, to this day, my favorite painting.

It was everything I'd pictured in my dreams.

It was just incredible and it's beautiful.

- Hi. - Hi. How are you?

- Alex. - Michael.

- Nice to meet you. - Michael, I'm Tyler.

- How are you? - Pleased to meet you, Tyler.

- Hi. Siouxsie. - Pleasure to meet you finally.

- Hi, Siouxsie, Tyler. - Hi.

- Great to meet you guys. - So good to meet you.

- So this is it. This is Love and Paint.

And this is your, you know, play area

where you guys can really, you know, start to explore,

and I think that that's really the kind of the key aspect here

is to really just kind of let yourself go free

and be as creative as you want within the space

and sometimes outside of it.

But Alex is just gonna kind of take you through

some of the color aspects of it.

- Yeah. - Excellent, yeah.

- So how it typically works is,

you know, one thing we try to avoid

is choosing every color in the rainbow because

you end up getting brown. - Yeah.

- And while brown is a beautiful color,

it doesn't need to be thecolor. - Right.

- What do you think about this orange?

- It reminds me of you.

[ laughs ] - I like that.

- You are an orange kind of dude.

- All right. - You are. You are.

- Awesome. So this is a really beautiful palette and actually,

I mean, these all complement each other quite nicely.

- Have you guys ever tried anything like this before?

- No. I have never finger painted with my body.

- It's interesting, you know. It's like such a simple concept,

but I think what's so cool about this

is the thing that's left behind is

that really amazing art piece that you have forever,

that no matter what you guys are feeling,

whatever emotions are going through,

if you guys are fighting or if you're in love,

you can look at that and really remember this moment

right now when you first came together and did it.

♪♪♪

- When we first met,

I had a couple of partners at the time.

You were in some monogamous situations.

- Right. I spent a long time-- 30 years exactly--

trying to be in monogamous relationships,

and it was just, I realized finally that I was

setting myself up for failure, because that is not

a relationship model that works for me.

- And your partner that you had before me, I think,

actually like, was just like,

"You know what? You need to do non-monogamy.

"You need to be in a polyamorous relationship and like maybe

"with somebody who really knows how to do it, such as Siouxsie.

Like, maybe you should date Siouxsie."

- Yeah. She was within my circle of friends.

So we'd see each other at events

and we'd talk and joke and have fun.

- We are currently in the process of saving

and hustling to buy a house.

You know, that's the America dream,

and I feel like this will sort of

commemorate that in a way.

We should take our clothes off.

Like, I just feel like-- I just feel very--

While not fully clothed?

- It's very hard to find a first.

We've been struggling. Like, we've done

so many things, but this is something we've not done.

We're taking each other's paint virginity today?

- I love it.

Making out covered in paint

rolling around sounds pretty great.

♪♪♪

Yes.

- I'm really excited. We're like--

there's a lot of clown and like, lighthearted energy

that comes with our sexual dynamic,

so, like... [ laughs ] It's gonna be fun.

[ gasps, laughs ]

No, back, back, back, back.

[ laughter ]

♪♪♪

[ laughs ]

♪♪♪

[ giggles ]

I still remember the first time that we kissed.

♪♪♪

That was kind of the difference for me.

- I think that kissing is-- can be a much more intimate act

than any other sexual act. - Mm-hmm.

I mean, like, your personal space comes so close together

and it really creates a connected feeling.

over, say, penetrative sex where you can just sort of

be back and disconnected.

When you're kissing somebody, you're there.

You're there.

♪♪♪

- The core concept of Love and Paint,

it's reawakening the butterflies in couples

that have lost that fire.

It's reminding ourselves not to take love too seriously,

to kind of get back at the root

of what it means to be connected.

♪♪♪

- Anybody can find the paint, and anybody can have sex,

but when you put them together, it just creates

this playful, fun moment of discovery.

I think that's really what the magic is

and that's why people want to do Love and Paint.

- Art is meant to draw something out of you,

to express ideas and sexuality is such a part of our lives.

It is so huge, and we-- you know, we can't escape it,

in any way, nor should we try to escape it.

[ laughs softly ]

[ laughs ] Very sexy.

[ gasps ]

- [ whispers ] Okay, just stand there.

I really like the concept of looking at the canvases

as a study of movement.

It's like a really interesting way of doing a time-lapse

for the sex event, right? - It's visceral.

- It's beginning to end, it's visceral,

and in the end, it's like

"Here it is. This is all of it."

- This is the scene. - This is the scene.

♪♪♪

- I envisioned taking this painting

and putting it over our mantel one day

in our beautiful home that we're gonna buy,

putting it out for the world for people to see.

- Put it on the ceiling, cover our ceiling.

- Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. - Lay there, look up at it.

- All right. I think we did it.

- I'm done. - I'm done.

- I love you. - I love you so much.

- That's what our love looks like.

- [ laughs ] - It's very good.

- That's pretty cool. - I love it.

♪♪♪

- I've always combined weed and sex.

Everything's just more tingly

and I'm just more free and feel more connected.

You're so tingly down there, it's so sensitive, it's just...

absolute heaven down there. It really--it feels great.

Perfect.

- I say that we probably

experiment with weed and sex

80% of the time.

- I think combining weed and sex

can either be hit or miss.

It can either be fantastic and it feels like you guys

are on the same level, or it's really awkward,

and then you start, like, looking at

all of the things you don't like

about the person or yourself.

- I'm a big marijuana connoisseur.

I think it's a great aphrodisiac,

specifically edibles. There's nothing like it.

I get horny as hell off edibles,

and I think it's great for couples in general.

- I have definitely combined weed and sex.

It's a great experience, especially on Indica

that just makes your entire body relax.

Can be really--it makes sex just feel even better.

- I think it's better sex. I've had Extasy sex.

I've had weed sex. Coke sex is bad,

because the girl's more turned on, and I'm less turned on.

Weed makes sex more sensual

just because you're both relaxed.

You're in the same rhythm, you're in the same place.

- I'm not a weed person at all,

but I did once or twice, and it made things--

like, it took me out of my head.

It made things go nice and smooth.

I had--it was a good experience.

- Uh, no weed, but, other--

oh, I shouldn't say that. Never mind.

- But heroin. - [ laughter ]

- But heroin. [ laughs ]

♪♪♪

- Cannabis is a pathway to experiencing amazing sex--

greater pleasure and turn-on and orgasm.

I like to say that cannabis is a tool

in your sexual toolbox alongside of

lube or condoms or dildo or vibrators.

You have the feeling of greater sensations,

heightened arousal. Some people feel tingly

or warmth, or they feel a pulsating,

and a lot of times greater arousal.

There's really something to combining sex and cannabis.

♪♪♪

♪♪♪

[ plastic rustling ]

- Hey. - Yo.

- Should we set up?

- What do you mean, set up the room?

- I created this workshop called Elevated Intimacy,

A Couple's Circle,

and I work with couples who want to

increase their intimacy and their connection

with the use of cannabis in a really safe and sacred way.

Cannabis actually releases a chemical in the brain

that is a, um-- like a bliss molecule.

It can help us relax and destress.

Let's put the joints front and center.

And then this ashtray can go here.

It can help us feel more alive.

It can help us feel happier

and your body gets to feel like you're on Pleasure Island.

I'll trim these for now.

We'll cut them, but for now I thought maybe...

This workshop was really birthed out of our experience,

the tools and techniques that have really helped us

in our relationship.

Take 'em all for a second. - Mm-hmm.

- The sex and intimacy stuff was where we just--

we struggled, and we felt like we were

two people in the night trying to find each other.

- That's nice. That adds a little bit more,

like, femininity to it.

What really, really helped us was cannabis.

I brought it into the bedroom with us.

I created ritual around it,

and we had this powerful sexual awakening.

And that's when I found out that I was

a multi-orgasmic woman.

- Yeah. - Yay.

- Yay me or yay cannabis?

- All of us. - Oh, all of us together.

- Each and every one of us has a unique pathway

to pleasure, turn-on, and arousal.

For many of us, this pathway is cannabis.

It is a vasodilator,

so it sends blood down to the genitals.

It helps us lower inhibitions speaking our desire,

so if your desire is to suck toes during sex,

maybe that's not something that you feel safe

expressing to your partner.

Cannabis has this ability to help us feel

more into pleasure and sexuality in a deeper way.

Welcome, everyone.

Thank you so much for your bravery,

and your vulnerability and your willingness

to really spend this time working on your relationship.

Couples are gonna take away some really, really simple tools

that they can use throughout their sexuality

to continue to grow and blossom together.

These tools that we teach are actually things

that we suggest doing before and after

each sexual exploration.

First I'd love to go around the room

and get to know everybody,

so say your name and why you've come to the workshop.

- My name is Mackenna. This is Eric.

I think getting out of our comfort zone is something

big for us, individually and as a couple.

- We've been together for what, six weeks?

- Six weeks. - Yes!

- So that's, like, super young.

I'm personally not a cannabis consumer

since like seven years ago.

It's got me very, very nervous, but I believe that it's

a wonderful tool for a lot of people.

I kind of wish it could be for me as well.

So I might be able to find my way back in

with a great guide... - [ chuckles ]

- ...'cause I love her, like, positivity

and connection to cannabis.

- This is like another thing. We already smoke weed.

We're already having sex. Why not, like, find better ways

to do it, you know? Sounds cool.

- A lot of the couples want to expand their intimacy,

have better sex, and feel more connected to their partner.

- Hi, I'm Amber, and Aries and I have been together

for two years now.

I choose him 'cause he's-- he's my calculated guy

that keeps me in check. - Aww!

- For us, the reason why we're here is

we just want to make sure we keep things interesting.

You know, just continue to just kind of keep that fire going

and hopefully this is gonna be one of those tools that will

allow us to kind of bring it throughout the years,

right, as we get older.

- One of the biggest challenges that couples face

is actually just getting stuck in a routine.

And this routine could be they have their sex down

as a routine, where it might be

"Hey, wanna do it?" And that's the initiation.

And then they have sex for two to five minutes or whatever,

and then it's over and then they go back

to whatever they were doing.

So who's ready to consume?

[ laughs ] Awesome!

♪♪♪

♪ Let's smoke weed

♪ Light up the blunt, get high ♪

♪ Let's blow trees

♪ Slide the dutchie on the west coast side ♪

♪ Puff, puff, pass it to me

♪ Inhale and exhale

♪ Getting lifted to the top of the sky ♪

♪ Hydro purple kush for the ride ♪

- Knowing what you're consuming, it's really important

and picking something that's low in THC,

maybe higher in CBD.

The different between CBD and THC

is THC has that euphoric feel, that high,

head in the clouds, where CBD

works on the body in a much different way.

♪ Light up the blunt, get high ♪

♪ Let's puff, puff, pass it to me ♪

♪ Inhale and exhale

♪ Let's smoke weed

♪♪♪

[ inhales, exhales ]

♪♪♪

- I want you all to kind of start to feel

the effects of the cannabis entering.

And just notice the arising sensations in your body.

The very first exercise we're gonna do

is called Desires, Fears and Love.

This one is my absolute favorite.

What we're gonna do is I'll have you get into your spaces

and then I'm just gonna walk you through.

This exercise, it's an opportunity for you

to clearly articulate within a five-minute span

of what you're really desiring.

The cannabis allows us to open up and share things

that otherwise you probably wouldn't talk about

in your relationship.

For some people, they've never been given

this opportunity or really felt comfortable

to really state what they wanted,

what they're really desiring,

so it's a really powerful tool for that.

Partner B is going to ask Partner A first.

What are you desiring?

And we'll begin.

- You mean...

And now we're gonna ask, so Partner B

is gonna ask Partner A, what do you fear?

This exercise is probably the most important tool

that I have as a coach

because you really get to learn things

about your partner that you never knew.

The final part of this one is what do you love about me?

- Okay, I'm sorry.

- This next exercise is...

For the breast and chest massage exercise,

we are gonna use cannabis intimacy oil.

We bring cannabis into this practice

because of its natural healing properties,

and for me, placing cannabis right on top

of the heart chakra is so grounding.

When you're reading you're just gonna start

to massage down on the inside,

out, up on the outside.

I think that it's really important

for couples to learn this exercise

because where our mind is while we're touching our partners

is really, really important.

- You're connecting to your partner's life.

Their breath, and their heart. - Mm-hmm.

- And you can feel them being alive.

- Mmm. - And you're with them.

♪♪♪

- I like that part.

- Yeah, I like that. - Yeah.

- And letting your hands just rest on the breasts.

Just giving them a little shake, some movement.

Just like up and down, yeah.

Have some fun with it. [ laughs ]

There are receptors in our brain

that cannabis activates

that opens up our receptivity to senses,

like touch and smell and taste.

And this is an area that's often oversexualized,

where the breast and chest massage is more

in a sensual, more vulnerable space.

And just whispering sweet things, sweet nothings

to the nipples.

♪♪♪

♪♪♪

- We're gonna move into the next exercise,

which is called Touching With Loving Presence.

What we're gonna have them do is we're gonna start

with the head and the hairline,

and Partner A, that's me,

is going to touch the way I want to be touched.

And then he in response

touches me exactly the way I touched him.

And then we're gonna go through different zones of the body,

and we're gonna leave the lower half for when they go home.

Moving to the lips now.

So Partner A is gonna show Partner B

how she desires to be touched.

- You can kind of, like, go around like...

- Over your head. - [ chuckles ]

- Or kissed...

or anything around the lips.

For some couples, what they have found in this exercise

is new ways that they like to be touched.

They had no idea.

You guys are amazing. Thank you all so much.

From the bottom of my pussy, thank you.

Can we all come back to the circle for a little closing?

I would love to just hear, um, your takeaways, you know.

What did you learn? What did you experience?

What did you notice? If anyone feels like sharing.

- I think the massage thing was nice,

because, um, like if you're having a tense day,

like, if you give each other like a good five minutes each

or something before you do anything else,

I feel like that's a cool tool.

- Whatever she did just felt great.

I didn't--I don't think I've actually had a preference,

nor did I actually even know coming into this

what I actually-- how I liked to be touched.

- Hmm. - Yeah.

- Do you feel like you have a better understanding

of yourself? - All of it.

The cannabis helped remove some of the things

that we normally just kind of inhibit ourselves

from sharing with our partners.

And so it just kind of opens us up to be able

to kind of be with each other and be present.

- Carys commented that she was really feeling like...

uh, a deeper connection

because of the massage on the chest, which was really cool.

I'm leaving with some new ideas on how to approach things,

how to talk about things.

- So I challenge you all to go home and have sex

within the next seven days.

Just within the week. No pressure.

And I want you to apply these tools,

and in your rides on your way home tonight,

I want you all to make just one action step together,

just one action step out of all the things

I suggested for you guys.

Having a conversation about what you want

your sex life to be like is so important

and so needed in relationships

to continue to grow and blossom together,

and I feel so much gratitude for the four couples that came

and were open and vulnerable and trusted us

to take them through this really amazing experience

of connection and communication and intimacy tools, and I think,

mission accomplished. We did just that.

♪♪♪

- The way I keep a spark with my husband

when we're not together, 'cause we're apart so much,

lots of FaceTime phone sex.

- And it's not like we don't masturbate,

'cause the good Lord knows everybody needs

to fuckin' masturbate. - We masturbate constantly.

- We experimented with a strap-on,

which I absolutely loved.

I walked around with that harness for like eight hours,

'cause I was just... [ laughter ]

I loved having a penis. It was great.

- We have sex toys, but we really haven't

played with them too much.

I guess we've just been having so much fun,

we haven't had the time to get to that yet.

- We did check into a hotel

recently in Hollywood, and there was a glass dildo

that was behind the door in the bathroom,

and I had never seen one before.

So we washed it off and we kept it

'cause we want to keep it as a--a--

like a piece, in the house.

- Oh, man, I have so many. I have so many sex toys.

My favorite right now is I have this beautiful,

like, it matches my hair, a neon pink dildo.

It's beautiful. It's like a little work of art.

I kept it in a box for a long time

'cause I was like, "It's so beautiful,"

and then my boyfriend was like, "Fuck no.

Open that. Like, we're using that."

And I was like, "Okay."

- I have many toys in the bedroom,

none of which are sexual.

- My vibrator has a nice bright light around it,

and so I use it in the dark, and then the bright light

just shows my vagina, and I'll show him that,

and he'll start talking nasty to me,

and then I'll start using the vibrator,

and then he'll start playing with his dick,

and we'll both come together.

- If I could eat her monkey,

and I could use the dildo,

and I could maybe even put in a butt plug

or I could experiment with variables

as opposed to just keeping it standard,

we're gonna have a lot of fun.

♪♪♪

- I'm from Arizona.

She's from New Jersey.

- So two or three hours every night

for about a month and a half,

we kind of just fell in love over the screen.

♪♪♪

Like, we're so far away from each other.

So technology is a vital part of our relationship.

- We make do. That's our lives.

♪♪♪

- Through the centuries, lovers have used many devices

to keep the flames of passion going while they were apart.

From letters to telegraphs and even smoke signals,

as technology progressed, so did the devices,

but there was never a product that provided actual sensation

from one partner to the other

until today.

- So I guess I should finish packing, huh?

- I mean, it's not gonna be that long, right?

- No. When am I back?

In two weeks? - Almost three.

- I don't think I've put enough water in here.

Made enough just for you. - Oh, that's mine?

- Perfect. Yeah. - Oh, that's exactly opposite

of what normally happens. - Shut up.

We had met on Facebook, just through a mutual friend.

At first it was super sexual.

We had Skype sex. Like, I never had Skype sex before.

Like, it was just weird to me.

But we knew we wanted to have

like, physical real sex one day.

I booked a flight to see him

and at that point after we booked the flight,

I was like, "I'm gonna be with him for a week.

I'd better like him." - [ laughs ]

- "Like, I should get to know him."

So we started to have conversations.

And then our conversations got longer and longer each night.

We just had a really, really intense, like--

every night for about a month and a half.

- I wasn't even going out. I was going into my room

and talking to her for three hours every night.

People who live in the same city

don't spend as much time as we spent together.

- We hadn't physically touched, met, kissed, nothing.

Like, it was all emotional.

- But the more and more we talked,

the more and more it was like... - Whoa.

- I'll see you in two weeks? - I think so.

- Did you even book your flight? - [ chuckles ] I did.

- Do you know what time you're coming in?

- Probably the red eye.

- He co-parents with his ex-wife.

I co-parent with my ex-husband.

Problem is, I co-parent in New Jersey.

I have to move back to New Jersey

for a couple months out of the year,

to spend time with her while she's in school.

But then I said I might come Father's Day weekend,

'cause Ari's gonna be with her dad.

- It's like a week or two. We'll have to figure that out.

- We have to. - It's not--

- I'll see you in a month. - Yeah. Nice. Who are you?

There's times that we go two to three weeks

without seeing each other physically.

- What else? - That's all I know.

- Okay. So I'm not seeing you in June.

- Probably not.

It's tough. I mean, it's tough.

But we work through it.

♪♪♪

- When I go back to New Jersey, my libido goes up,

and I think it's because I can be with him.

I need that physical interaction and he's gone.

We're still trying to figure out what works for us.

"Feel your partner's movements in nearly real time."

Skype sex for us is just talking dirty,

me busting out some toys, like performing oral sex

on a dildo, and then with him,

I just want to see him jerk it off.

I mean, he doesn't use any toys or anything.

- The world's first love toy that senses

and reacts to your lover's movements.

Lovense is a new line

of lovemaking toys that have a unique ability.

They can be controlled by your smartphone

from across the street, across town,

or even across the country.

They move their toy one way...

your toy moves the other,

just like in real life.

It's like being together, even if you're miles apart.

- He's never played with a toy, I don't think, right?

- Yeah, I'm not a big toy guy, I guess.

- So you put your dick in there. - [ laughs ]

- [ laughs ]

- I stick my dick in there? - Yes.

- And then you close it? - It looks like a tube.

Right? And it looks like it's got silicone parts inside of it

that is supposed to somehow simulate

me squeezing on you.

I think.

It's supposed to simulate my tightness or whatever.

I think. - I've never thought of

something that she can control pleasuring me.

I've never even thought about it.

- Would you try it? - All right.

I'll try anything once, you know that.

- Okay. - Why, did you order it already?

- Yeah. - Great.

- I'm always open to trying

new ways to connecting with each other,

'cause we do spend a lot of time apart,

so I'm open to a lot of different things.

Oh, so you just slide it up and down on it.

- Yeah. - Oh, I thought you like,

opened it, and-- - No, and then--no.

You put your dick in that thing. - Oh, yeah.

You just-- so the hole's in the end.

Oh, right there. - Yeah, see, there you go.

- Are you a little more sold now?

- I am a little more sold now.

- That's awesome.

Thanks. - You're welcome.

- I can't wait. Yeah. - Really?

- You're not scared of losing me?

- To a toy? No. - Yeah. All right.

- [ laughs ] No.

- Talks less. - [ laughs ]

Shut up.

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♪♪♪

- Hello? - Hi.

- Hi.

What is that?

Is that the package? - "What is it?"

You bought it. - [ laughs ]

It came in already? - Yep.

Look how small it is.

- That's like--

I think that's pretty big, don't you?

- No.

- Can't wait to play with that thing.

- So when are you coming home?

- Uh, soon.

- Okay. I'll be ready. I love you.

- Love you.

♪♪♪

Super squishy. Hey, babe!

- Yeah?

- This is awesome.

Is this what it feels like?

- Stop fingering it. God, you're gonna use it more than I am.

[ motor buzzing ]

- It's tough to get in. - What is it doing now?

- I don't know, but you can, uh,

if you get in there and feel the sides,

it'll start compressing.

- Oh. [ buzzing intensifies ]

- So I think when you start squeezing this thing,

that even squeezes more. - Really?

[ buzzing continues ] - Well.

- We gotta download the app.

Sync both of them. I was reading the instructions.

We gotta do all that.

- Install.

- This is--all right, so... - Okay.

- "Toy is currently not connected."

- Do I have to hit "sign"-- yeah.

I have to hit "sign up."

- Oh, you got the same screen. - Yeah.

- "Press down, hold button A for three to four seconds."

What is button A?

- Okay, mine's on. Now what?

[ toy buzzes ] [ laughter ]

It vibrated?

"Add toy."

See? Ah!

[ phone chimes ]

[ toys vibrate ] - Oh, there you go.

Look at that. - Look!

- [ imitates motor ]

Oh, stick that in there.

It's like watching two people have sex.

We need lube.

Told you you're gonna wake up with that one day.

[ laughter ]

- Oh, my God.

- I need to clean this. - It says your toy--

- Why is this all dirty? - I don't know why

you got your pussy all dirty already.

I don't know what you did.

- We're working towards what works for us.

The possibility of having a toy to relieve

some of this sexual tension and build-up

that we have when we're not together,

would be great.

- T, I got something for you. - What?

[ snickers ] - Don't forget about me.

Oh, my God.

You gonna miss that?

Just don't turn it on when I'm at the, uh--

- At the airport? - At the airport, please.

- Come on.

- I love you. - I love you.

♪♪♪

- We get so used to each other, the times we're together

for weeks at a time, and life just keeps going,

and then she goes away, so it's--

It gets frustrating. It's disappointment.

You know, it's all that.

- It's just-- it just is really weird.

I have--I feel like I have two separate lives.

But, yeah, it's really great when I'm with him.

It's just gonna suck being away.

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♪♪♪

- Hey. - Hi.

Did you fly the whole way with no panties?

- How'd you know?

- 'cause you still have no pant--Oh, my God.

[ laughter ]

- What do you want to do tonight?

- Try these new things out.

- Already? - Yeah!

- So, I have an idea.

Do you want to get on Skype?

What's up, baby?

I'm on.

Ooh.

Is that you?

Yeah. How do you do that?

So you want me to get naked?

- Yeah, go for it.

- While you lube that thing up.

♪♪♪

- Ooh.

- Well, hello there. - Well, hello there.

♪♪♪

- Where's your toy?

- Right here. - Oh, there you go. Come on.

- Be gentle. - [ laughs ]

So, I gotta try to get-- because this is

controlling this, too.

- Well, then get your fucking dick out.

Put it in there.

Go for it. Is it in?

- Yep. Whoa, yeah.

Oh, I forgot about that air hole.

Initially, just putting the lube in there and then feeling it,

it actually felt a lot more similar

to a pussy than I would have thought.

Well, the contracting is definitely contracting.

I could definitely get off. - You could?

- 'cause it's a tight squeeze.

You want to control it? - Sure.

For me it was exciting to control it for him.

- You feel that? - Yeah, there.

- That's good?

I was moving the cursor up and down,

to just, I guess, squeeze a little bit more for him

and I could see that it was working on his end.

There. That's for you.

- Ooh. - [ laughs ]

I like it!

Just knowing that you're being pleased,

but it's just like, I can't see your dick.

Well, now you're, like, super excited.

- [ laughs ]

- Oh, now you're gonna come? - Um, maybe.

- Better go fast. - Why, you gonna come, too?

Oh, my God! [ laughs ]

Because Andy's controlling it, there's a sort of intimacy,

and I can feel his will of pleasing me.

I know deep down inside, it's him being intimate with me,

him wanting me to be pleasured.

♪♪♪

- [ groans ] - There you go.

- Yeah. - Nice and sexy.

I'm looking at her getting herself off.

I love watching her get off.

- Fuck. - Yes.

- [ moans ]

Oh, fuck. - Yes.

[ panting ] Fuck.

[ moaning ]

[ exclaims ]

Oh, my God! - [ chuckles ]

- Oh, oh... - [ chuckles ]

- Whoa, shit. Oh, my God. I'm shaking.

- Was that good? - Yeah.

- Yeah? Worth the investment already?

- Huh? - Worth the investment already?

- Uh huh. It's nice to be able

to use a toy that I control and he controls

to kind of pleasure each other.

- Okay, see you later.

That's how it usually ends.

- Well, I miss you. - I miss you.

She's so far away.

She looks at me and I look at her

and we know that it's love.

- Well, I'm glad you let me try this with you.

I'm excited to try it another time.

Now we can hopefully explore a little bit more.

I'm excited that this opened new doors for us.

Well, I love you. I'm gonna clean up.

- I love you.

- Bye. - See ya.

♪♪♪