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The most intense orifice to get fucked in.

It's the easiest way to make me come. It's fun. It feels the best.

Added hotness to the sexual experience.

there's so much potential from pleasure.

Because the ass is so rich in nerve endings.

Way more stimulation when I do have an orgasm from anal sex.

It's way more intense.

I think that no part of our bodies should be off limits to us.

If it feels good we should go for it in a safe and consensual manner.

The taboo of it all.

It's like something different, you know?

Bored of the other 2!

Kinky to me. For me?

Anal sex is the easiest way to get off.

Having something in there really feels good.

The entire anal area...externally and internally...

...is wonderfully sensitive.

We delve into advanced techniques to help you take anal sex to the next level.

Don't put the pressure on yourself. If it isn't gonna happen today, your butt's always gonna be there.

It takes it to a new level.

Welcome to the Expert Guide to Advanced Anal Sex. I'm Tristan Taromino.

Before we delve into advanced techniques to help you take anal sex to the next level...

Let's review some of the basics first.

there's so much potential for pleasure, because the ass is so rich in nerve endings.

Beginning with the external opening...

The anus is very sensitive to touch as well as vibration.

Just inside, the first inch to inch and a half, is the anal canal.

The tissue of the anal canal has lots of nerve endings.

And it gets that tight feeling from the sphincter muscles.

The internal and external sphincter muscles are the muscles that expand and contract during bowel movements.

you must learn to relax them in order for anal penetration to be comfortable.

beyond the anal canal is the rectum.

the rectum is not a straight tube, but has 2 gentle curves.

One of the ways men have anal pleasure and have orgasm is through direct prostate stimulation.

I can come very quickly through prostate stimulation, especially in missionary.

if i look at who I'm having sex with...

it takes like 5 seconds, and without a doubt.

The prostate, sometimes referred to as the P spot, or the male G spot...

surrounds part of a man's urethra.

It's behind the pubic bone, below the bladder, and above the base of the penis.

A mass of muscle, glands, and connective tissue, the prostate is about the size of a walnut.

It produces ejaculatory fluid that combines with semen from the testicles to make ejaculate.

As a man gets aroused the prostate gets aroused and swells.

Although women don't have prostates, we do have G-spots.

The G spot is the spongy urethral gland which is around the urethra.

Like the prostate, when a women gets turned on the g spot swells with fluid.

Women can experience indirect G spot stimulation through anal penetration.

Especially in certain positions.

For some this indirect G spot stimulation leads to orgasm.

For others, the combination of anal penetration and clitoral stimulation does the trick.

The entire anal area externally and internally is wonderfully sensitive.

And the rectum can expand to easily accept fingers, toys, or a penis.

But the sensitive tissue is also quite delicate.

so you have to treat it with care.

That means be gentle, go slowly, warm up, and always use lube.

It's always a good idea to have a bowel movement and wash up before anal sex.

If you are going to do a lot of anal play, big toys, etc. , you may want to have an enema first.

An enema is the process of introducing water to loosen fecal matter stimulate the bowels and clean out the anal canal and rectum.

The simplest and least expensive way to do this is to purchase one.

To use it unscrew the top and pour out the contents.

All store bought enemas contain a chemical laxative which you don't need.

Rinse the bottle and refill it with plain warm water.

Cool or cold water can produce cramping so make sure the water is warm enough.

Replace the top on the plastic bottle, lubricate the tip...

and pick a comfortable position that allows you easy access.

Gently slide the nozzle into your ass.

Squeeze the bottle to release the water into your butt.

Take a deep breath and hold the water for as long as you can.

Always allow a few hours after the end of your enema to begin your anal play.

This gives your body a chance to recover and every thing that has been loosened has a chance to come out.

You can also purchase an enema bag kit.

Contrary to what some people think the ass is not self-lubricating.

Lube is an important ingredient and you have to use the right stuff for the job.

Beware of lube brands that claim to make anal sex easy.

Or marketed as desensitizing, ease, or easy.

These contain a numbing agent which is a bad idea.

Lubes that numb your butt are dangerous.

People who use them are more likely to push farther than they should.

You don't need to numb your butt for penetration to be possible.

You want to be able to feel everything and listen to your body.

Some like to use oil-based products like baby oil, Vaseline,..

But they are not ideal for anal intercourse.

If you are using condoms these break down them.

Plus oil based lubes should never be used for vaginal penetration.

They are a risk for vaginal infections.

You're much better off with a water or silicone based lube.

Water based lubes are easy to clean up, nonstaining, odorless

And compatible with condoms and all sex toys.

Choose a water based lube with a thick texture, similar to hair gel.

Silicone lubes stay wet for a long time.

They are more expensive than water based, but you use a lot less.

You don't have to re-lube as often.

Silicone lubes are compatible with condoms but not sex toys.

If you are having trouble getting lube to go where you want it to try one of these.

The lube shooter is a plastic reusable syringe.

Astroglides anal shooters are disposable with an extra long neck for insertion.

Great butt sex, especially when you adventure into advanced territory is all about the warm up.

Rimming is a great way to begin anal pleasure.

Using soft strokes of your tongue to wake up the anal area.

When you are ready to begin penetration, start with one well-lubed finger or a small toy.

Give your body plenty of time before you move on to fingers or a bigger toy.

Butt plugs are a fantastic warm up tool because they are designed to go in and stay in.

They get your ass used to having something inside it, get you relaxed, and leave you feeling open and ready for more.

And all of this without any in and out motions which can stress and wear out the sphincter muscles.

you can wear a butt plug for an extended period of time in order to get ready for extended sex.

Choose a butt plug made of soft flexible material like silicone.

Use plenty of lube and keep some on hand in case you want to re-lube.

Use common sense. If you've only ever worn a butt plug for 15 minutes...

don't jump right into 4 hours.

If you want a secure plug for an extended time...

Try one of these techniques. You can wear a tight pair of thong underwear.

Or you can make a harness out of bondage tape.

Or you can buy a butt plug harness.

In addition to butt plugs there are other great toys for anal penetration.

Dildos and wands made of wood, glass, acrylic, and metal.

Whether you are playing with a toy, strap-on, or a penis...

Here are some tips for the partner who is doing the giving.

communicate with your partner.

Ask them what they like. Start with a stiff erection.

Lubricate your penis, and re-lube her ass.

For the initial penetration have her move her body toward your cock when you guide it inside.

Or rube her cock against her opening and this external stimulation should relax her anus.

As the sphincter muscles relax take the opportunity to slide in.

Or you can press your cock against the opening and gently press against it.

She may want to either relax or bear down slightly.

..in order to let you inside.

When you first enter her, just put the head in.

Stop and stay where you are.

Keep your movements slow, gentle, and subtle at first.

If you are on the receiving end of penetration, here are some tips.

Take some deep breaths. Deep breathing can help ground you...

stay in touch with your body and help to relax your sphincter muscles.

talk to your partner...tell them how you are feeling.

How slow, how fast, how deep.

How not so deep. If you are new to the world of anal penetration can feel strange at first.

Some beginners have the overwhelming feeling they have to go to he bathroom.

Don't worry. It's pretty common.

Take some deep breaths and try to just sit with the feeling.

If you have to stop, by all means, go ahead.

Your ass is used to pushing things out of it.

so when you put something in it...

It's as if your ass has become disoriented.

The more you do it, the more your ass will get used to the feeling.

As penetration begins, bear down slightly.

Imagine you are pushing something out of your butt.

This helps to relax the sphincter muscles.

And what if it hurts. Weill, there may be too much friction.

Withdraw add some lube and see if it feels better.

If that doesn't work stop the movement, but stay inside...

...and see if the pain subsides.

You could also decrease the number of fingers or use a smaller toy.

Work your way back up, but never force anything.

Now let's look at some different positions for anal intercourse.

I'm not really picky. Most girls are like, "I can only do it doggie, or I can only do it missionary."

But I can pretty much do it every way.

These will be demonstrated with a male giver and a female receiver.

Others can try these.

Most also work well for strap on sex.

I think over all the favorite would have to be missionary.

In traditional missionary position, she lays on her back and he comes between her legs.

In order to make her ass more accessible, try missionary L.

Where she puts her legs straight up.

He can hold onto her legs or she can rest them against his torso.

If he wants to lay on top of her, try missionary fold.

Where she folds her knees back against her chest.

She can keep her knees bent or straighten her legs against her shoulders.

I had the best time on camera once...

with missionary, my butts hanging off the table...

with the eye contact...I could relax.

.....Relaxing thing...

...get my hand on my clit...the eye contact...

..maybe with the guy standing on the edge of the bed...

that way it's just yunno...

Easy. You're not falling in the bed...

straight in.

Doing what you need to do. Hitachi on the clit.

In flying missionary she lays on her back with her butt scooted to the end of the bed...

...and he stands at the end of the bed.

She bends her knees and rests her feet on his abdomen.

The usual position for anal at home is some version of doggie.

Doggie, I guess,...

Cause you can see the line where her butt splits...

And it comes right to where your cock is in it. It's really hot!

Doggie style,...

is a versatile position with may possibilities.

When she puts her ass in the air and her head down...

...her body is angled perfectly for him to stimulate her G spot.

In the tail gate position, she lies flat with her legs spread slightly...

He sits on top of her and enters her from behind.

Then he lays his body on top of hers.

In flying doggie, she kneels on all 4's on the bed and she stands...

...rather than kneels behind her.

She puts her legs together with his legs on either side and he enters her from above.

In froggie, instead of resting on her knees, she squats on her feet.

This gives her more leverage.

To get into reverse froggie positions, she begins in reverse cowgirl and the gets up on her feet.

In stallion, she stands with her legs apart and leans on the bed.

And he stands behind her.

Yab yum is a classic tantra sex position.

Where one sits in the other's lap and they face each other.

Although it's usually for vaginal penetration, it works for anal too.

The man sits with his legs loosely crossed.

And the woman sits in his lap and wraps her legs around him.

For the extra yumm version of yab yum...

...the couple begins in yab yum...

...then she bends her knees and raises her legs to his shoulders.

He puts his arms under her legs and around her torso.

In the chairman position he sits in a chair, she straddles him.

In lap dance position, he sits and she straddles him with her back to him.

He keeps his legs apart and she sits between his legs with her legs together.

Cowgirl is the quintessential position with woman on top.

The man lies on his back and the woman straddles on him, resting on her knees.

...lowering herself onto his penis.

This is a good position for anal sex beginners, since she can control the angle, pace and depth.

In reverse cowgirl, she straddles facing away from him.

In reverse isis position, he lies back with his legs parted and slightly bent...

...she sits between his legs facing his feet, leaning forward on her knees, legs together.

If it works for him, she can lean all the way down, breasts touching his legs.

In the spooning position, both lay on their side facing the same way and he enters from behind.

He does most of the work of penetration.

In spoon and fork, she puts her left leg under his right leg and her right leg over it.

so it's wrapped around his waist.

He can put his arm down to get more leverage and greater thrusting power.

Some women like to have both their vagina and their anus penetrated at the same time.

It can be a stimulating of fullness like no other.

Some can accommodate something in both holes with ease.

for others, it takes effort.

Lots of warm up and practice.

When you first start out, use a dildo of rubber or silicone.

For most women when something of size goes in one hole...

...the membrane that separates the vaginal and rectal cavities...

...gives slightly one way or another to accommodate it.

so if there is a large toy in your vagina, then your ass will feel tighter.

or vice versa. Try out different techniques.

You may want to inch the dildo into your vagina as he inches his penis into your ass.

Work yourself in slowly, alternating between the 2, until it feels comfortable.

Or, have him penetrate one orifice...

possibly the ass, because for most women it requires the most warm up...

...then work the dildo into your vagina.

Some people like to alternate holes. As the penis goes into the back, the dildo comes out the front.

And then they switch.

Your testing the limits of your body with double penetration.

so make sure you go slowly and give your partner plenty of feed back about how it feels.

If you and your partner want to explore strap-on anal sex, all the rules about warm up apply.

Make sure you start with fingers and toys.

You want to position the dildo so the base is against your clit.

The harness should feel tight.

If it slips, it's too lose.

for tips on choosing the right strap-on...

see the extra.

Vibrators are really cool.

You like them. Love 'em.

Much more than anything that doesn't vibrate.

When his ass is ready for the dildo...

use your hand to help guide it or have him come back on it.

some men want or need cock and ball stimulation during penetration.

Where others don't.

some men can have an orgasm from prostate stimulation alone.

while others like a combination.

Remember some men may lose erection during prostate stimulation.

If this happens, check with him.

But realize, it's normal and doesn't mean something is wrong.

I prefer a butt plug.

I believe it pressures the prostate which for me is enjoyable.

and the other reason is being filled up.

Feels really good.

But getting penetrated with motion is enjoyable.

I go soft automatically.

My body tenses up.

As you explore more advanced anal techniques, these shouldn't hurt.

If something hurts, listen to your body.

If you use lube, go slowly and warm up.

Your ass will amaze you at what it can do.

But make sure to take care.

Because a healthy butt is a happy butt.

What don't I love about anal sex?

I adore anal sex.

Even in my private life, it's required.

the kink factor...

It's extra fun to be added to sex.

Makes it less than your standard.

One of the things I've been into lately is squirting. I've taught myself how to squirt.

and I've realized I can actually squirt more if I'm stimulated through my ass.

It hits my G spot better, so I've had my partner stimulate that way.

And that, automatically makes me come.

It's usually with the Hitachi as well.

It's a mental thing, it's added hotness.

What I usually tell women is to start small. Teach them to do it alone.

And start with something small, like your fingers and some lube.

Go from there. and move up to a small toy. Some thing smooth.

And play with that. Make yourself come with a finger or Hitachi while you're doing it.

And just graduate your way up.

don't try to be the "anal queen" right off.

Work your way up.

If you are a girl, going to be fucked in the ass...

you need to be comfortable to discuss how everything feels.

You need to be able to communicate.

go slower, go faster, leave it alone...

If you are alone you are not going to be worried about messes.

You might get dirty. Don't freak out if something happens. That will scar your woman.

The worst thing in the world is that if you are going along, you pull out and there's a little something and say, "Oh my god"..

Understand that you are entering a part of their body and if you want it to feel good you want to do it right.

do it by yourself, start small, start slow. If it hurts, don't do it.

It's something that 2 people do together.

so you can't say, this guy does it wrong.

I love Kylie.

Pretty much amazing. I like it to be genuine. She's really hot.

There's a lot of really good things about Kylie.

That's nice.

I do like your finger in my ass.

That feels good.

How hard you are! You're going to fuck my ass with this cock?

I'm going to fuck your ass!

You're preparing me for that big cock of yours?

I'm going to fuck your ass.

OOh that feels good!

It's all slippery inside.

What are you doing?

It feels so good!

Bend over.

Oh that's it. Nice and slow. Torture me.

Is it opening up? I've got the whole thing in there.

you got the whole thing in there; it feels so good.

Wait wait wait! Kiss me.

You make me take all that cock.

Nice and slow and deep baby.

Put it back in? Yes!

That's amazing!

That's it. Fuck me! Fuck me!

I don't want to come yet! You don't want to come yet? Why not? I don't want to come yet.

because it feels too good.

When I come my ass gets all tight!

I love the way your cock feels in my ass.

You trying not to come? I'm trying not to come.

It feels too good!

You going to have some crazy big orgasm?

You make me come, you're never get your hand in my ass...I know you want to do that. That's true.

I want to get every single toy in your ass.

My pussy is so wet....it's because your fucking my ass.

When I finish with your ass, I'm going to come all over the place.

You like watching it?

I wish I could.

Don't do it. Don't come.

I feel like I'm in high school. What are you doing now?

If you're going to stick that in there, I want to turn over.

Whatever you want.

Dildos under my pillows. The modern version of the tooth fairy.

You like watching that cock slide into my ass? It looks so Hot!

That's hot!

Put it back in.

That's dirty.

don't come yet. Stop fucking me if you don't want me to come yet!

If you start doing this, I'll probably squirt.

It feels so good.

Stretching your asshole.

Yes. that's good right there.

Stop. I said stop. OoHH!

Take it out. Take it out!

That was fucking awesome!

You happy now?

That was nice!

For me, anal sex is the easiest way to get off.

It's the easiest way for me to have an orgasm.

And it's just really, it's an intensity that's not there for me just doing vag.

It just feels a little bit dirtier than normal sex which is good.

It's way more stimulation.

When I do have an orgasm from anal sex vs vaginal sex, it's way more intense.

The tend to last longer.

It's a little bit of a taboo.

You're pushing the taboo.

Adds another element.

If I'm in reverse cowgirl...

He's doing the work pumping my ass and I'm playing with my clit...

...the most intense.

but it could be ass fucking plus me playing with my pussy or using the vibrator.

I prefer a butt plug. It puts pressure on your prostate.

There's something about being filled up. It's not everyday sex.

It feels good if something is in there while I'm have a blow job.

I think my number one piece of advice is go slow...

When you are first starting out there's a little bit...

of uncertainty that maybe it might not feel OK.

Or you want be able to do it.

Go ahead and play with your pussy first and have an orgasm.

Or have somebody go down on you first.

Just do things really slowly.

If you can't take a whole bunch at one time...

..then you don't need to.

Just don't put the pressure on yourself.

If it isn't going to happen today, then it'll happen next time or the time after.

so your butt's always going to be there.

It is the most intense orifice to get fucked in.

If you get bored of the other 2!

It's something more exciting.

The sensation is very different for me.

You know in the beginning I couldn't get into it.

I could not see the purpose. A lot of women weren't prepared for it.

My inexperience and their unpreparedness.

Created a messy situation. Nothing attractive about doing that.

Over the years, most girls are more prepared for it.

The more relaxed that helps. And I've probably got more experience.

It's still the taboo.

This girl she shouldn't be what she is. It's so kinky to me.

How I perceive her...

takes it to another level.

I would say I like them equally for different reasons.

They are 2 very different things.

...different sexual pleasures.

I don't do a lot of anal sex in my private life, because...

...I have a phobia of fecal matter.

It requires me to clean out.

When you're home you don't want to take the time to clean out.

I'll do it occasionally, but I have to think about it first before my boyfriend gets home and gets turned on.

...and I get turned on, I have to do that stuff first.

For work it's great, I do all that stuff beforehand.

Then the scene comes, then you get turned on.

Then you're prepared for it.

Anal sex is still for me, because I only do it at work...

..like exciting, something different.

If you talk to people outside the industry...

...it's something to look forward to.

Something to prepare themselves for. It's a bonus.

It's elevated. It's different.

So lubes matter. Find what works.

Choose your positions wisely.

So you can be comfortable. It's intense.

Yeah. Oh yeah!

I think no part of our body should be off limits to us.

If it feels good we should go for it.

The taboo of it all. You're somewhere you're not supposed to be.

The best thing I like about anal sex is the intensity.

As much as I like vaginal intercourse, nothing is as as intense as anal penetration.

Cause if you let you do that, it's kind of a power thing.

Then they kind of like it, then wow, I kind of like it.

It's got all kinds of good properties.

What enabled me to do it, of course, was having the willingness to try.

And having a very experienced partner.

who'd had lots of anal intercourse.

What I would tell people in the beginning was...

It's like having your clit hauled out and tickled from the inside.

It was just a revelation.

I found my strongest orgasms have an anal component.

It feels really good.

When the girl's into it, you know it's right.

And when she wants to experience anal pleasure...

...you can warm her up...

She's turned on and you're turned on.

It's just an addition. No bad. Nothing bad.

Even if we're not going to anal intercourse, he always plays with my butt.

A lot of butt plugs, so it's never special. It's special but it's no butt, no butt....Butt Night!

Cause I think that people think that well tonight we're gonna have butt sex.

You've got to have that conversation on and off for weeks and months.

Maybe we will, maybe we won't. We don't know.

I always have to have some direct clitoral stimulation.

I admire the women who can just come without apparent direct clit stimulation.

I need to have it on my clit.

But the clit-butt combination...LAAAA!

I don't do opera, but I'd hit a high C.

It's pretty great!

Sex period is mental.

A new orgasm every time.

What I like about Christian is first and foremost, he embraces his freaky side.

And he embraces the fact that, "Yeah"..."I like my butt played with, what about it?"

I really appreciate that.

Butts can be fun!

Well I was doing it off camera, why wouldn't I do it on camera?

I probably said this before...

I never thought it was that big of a deal. If you like it why not?

the firestorm of controversy that somehow envelopes it...

It escaped me.

As a nurse, I don't like anybody to find a part of their body unacceptable.

Or a part of their body a no go zone.

What a like about Christian is that so few of men in this business embrace their freak.

Maybe you don't believe me but I swear, i thought it was just normal.

He's not coy about it. He's no shy about it.

He's freaky. And he's big and beefy. Strong. Athletic.

Smart.. That helps a lot.

Nina is great...She talks about it and what she's going to do.

It's matter of fact, but a sexy matter of fact.

She'd be great for like a sex infomercial.

He's a fun on camera partner. It's a party. It's a show.

We're here to have a good time.

And a massive flirt.

so he makes a woman feel very pretty, sexy, attractive, as opposed to...

OK, well, I'll do it. That always helps.

I've watched a lot of Nina Hartley. Let's just put it that way.

Four hour compilation of Nina Hartley's greatest hits.

I like that.

Oh my gosh!

I like a man who can take a good blow job.

Yes, please!

Perfect!

Like touching your cock. I love that.

Jerking it while you suck my pussy.

Love it.

Suck on it just like that!

Don't suffocate there, dude.

I know what I want. I want a taste of that cock.

I always thought your cock was so fucking nice!

Yeah, got that glove?

I would love a thumb in my butt while you fuck me like that.

Stretch it slow...yes.

I bet you'd like a thumb in your ass.

You want to get on your back and get comfy?

Are you going to do bad things to me?

I'm going to do good things to you baby.

Yes I am.

That feels so fucking good!

You're so tall, I can barely reach your prostate.

Right there? Oh yeah, jerk it.

Stay right there.

I know its cold. 1..2...3...

And we're in..

I'm going to sit on you.

You feel the toy?

You got a nice cock!

I want a little more butt warm up first.

It's heavy and smooth.

It's the next best thing to the real thing.

I want let you hurt me. Don't worry.

Wow! The weight of its just so...

Do you want me to twist it?

I wonder if you can even get in my pussy with that in there? Of course.

That's totally different! Wow!

That's fun! Oh! You're in there!

Really now!

I'm going to come.

Calm down big boy. You still got to fuck my ass.

That's going to be fucking awesome!

You have to fuck my ass now.

Are you serious? Serious.

There you have it!

Are we good enough to roll over on my back with you still in me?

Oh, we're good!

Oh, fuck, you're so there!

Who you slapping on the ass?

That tickles.

That would tickle if I was on the skinny side.

Your hardness rubs my clit on every stroke.

You want some lube for your cock darling? No.

You fit in my ass so well. I was really happy for that.

Thank you. Thank you.

Let's do it again. You're just a little piggy!

We're the most fun.