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I know it's been
a long night, team,
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and we have a long shift
ahead of us,
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but I want you all
to know that Diane.
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Jack. Don't worry.
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I got a rapid test this morning,
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so I'm clean as a whistle.
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What are y What is she
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I asked her to come.
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There's been a death,
and you are all grieving,
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so I asked her to come.
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I'm sorr You me.
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You talking about George
Floyd? You brought in a therapist
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to help us process the death
of George Floyd?
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I did.
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I feel powerless to help,
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and this felt like
something I could do.
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There are not many fire captains
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who would treat a moment
of national crisis
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like an internal tragedy,
and your captain is.
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I respect it,
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so I'm honored to be here
to help however I can.
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I don't need you
to talk about Mr. Floyd.
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I'm not gonna make you
talk to me at all.
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This isn't mandatory.
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I'm just here if you need me.
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You're bold, and you're trying.
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Right or wrong,
you tried something today.
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You tried something to help.
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Thank you.
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I love you.
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How do you do it?
I mean, how do you.
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I-I-I know you have to be
as shaken up as I am,
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so how do you.
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How do I do my job? Well, yeah.
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You fought a fire this morning.
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How did you do it?
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I pushed my pain aside
and did what had to be done.
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Same.
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I saw what happened to
Dean Miller.
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He's suing
the police department,
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and he's right to do it.
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But?
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But, - it
it makes me uncomfortable.
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Because he's a firefighter
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and we're supposed to shut up
and look pretty?
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No, because when the police
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made me lie down on the street
like an animal
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during a routine traffic stop.
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You didn't sue.
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I didn't do
much of anything at all.
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I did yell, you know,
whi which was.
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I feel like a hypocrite.
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A hypocrite? Yeah.
I have two kids.
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I have a new son
since we last spoke.
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Congratulations. Thanks.
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You get any sleep?
Well, he's 18, so, you know...
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While I'm not losing sleep
because of him.
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You're losing sleep over him.
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Yeah.
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Anyway, m-my wife and I, we
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we gave "the talk"
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and explained
that young Black men
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don't get to behave
any old way they want
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when dealing with the police.
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We told them to do whatever
it took to get home safe.
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But when I had a run-in
with the police myself,
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I I-I yelled at that officer
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as he got into his car.
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I mean, if my boys had yelled
at a cop like that, I.
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You'd be upset with them?
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Well, hell, yes, I'd be upset!
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I'd...
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But I'd also be proud.
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U Because they'd be right.
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You know, I was right.
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Miller was right.
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But y-you can't do that.
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You can't yell at a cop
because, you know, w
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because they've got a gun,
you know?
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They're given authority.
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They have the power t.
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D-Do you have kids?
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Three teenagers.
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Wow. Okay, so, you get
just how frustrating
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and infuriating it is
to pour every ounce
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of energy
and brain power you have
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into them to
to try and mold them
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into confident young men
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to make them honestly believe
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that they can
accomplish anything,
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to to work so hard
to get them to s-stand tall
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and feel good in their own skin
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only to then
have to tell them that
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because of the color
of that skin,
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they have to shrink
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when in the presence
of a police officer.
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Do you tell them that?
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Do you tell them to shrink?
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No.
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No, I I don't tell them
to shrink.
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I
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I tell them to stand
with dignity,
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and I tell them to de-escalate.
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I-I tell them that in any
confrontational situation,
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their job is to de-escalate.
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But it should be the cop's job.
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You're right. It should.
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So, let me just make sure
I have this straight.
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You're mad at yourself
that you didn't do more
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after that cop
treated you that way,
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and you're mad at yourself
that you didn't do less
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after that cop
treated you that way.
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Because Miller's doing more,
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and because you want your boys
to do less.
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Look
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I'm exhausted, you know?
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I'm exhausted by navigating
a a w a world
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that sees me and
and my kids as a threat.
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I mean, it's it's this
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it's this constant nagging worry
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that that never goes away.
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And I-if I do manage to forget
and just
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you know, just exist
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a comment or a look
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or the news that a man
has been killed in the street
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reminds me
that I have to be careful.
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And And it steals all of
my mental and emotional energy
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that I should be giving
to my wife
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and my kids and my health.
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Is something going on
with your health?
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Being Black in America is
a life-threatening condition.
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Other than that.
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Seattle protests continued late
into the evening last night
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with police presence
on the scene.
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Should we go?
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Can we?
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I mean, after shift.
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No, still can we? You mean.
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Because we're FD.
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I mean,
is that an official policy?
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Do they have to say anything?
We know.
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Well, it's a free country, so...
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In theory.
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But the Department's
a public entity.
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And the protests
are considered anti-police.
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'Cause asking
for our right to live
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is inherently anti-police,
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and nobody seems to
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realize that's the problem.
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Any takers?
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Just one, so far.
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And you. What?
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Sit. No, I'm not.
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You're what? You're You're
You're not grieving?
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You had a happy little firehouse
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where everyone was best friends
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and racial disparity
was not a hot topic.
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And now? Everything has changed.
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Everything and nothing.
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I know fire.
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I mean, I'm the person
that studies them for fun.
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But this fire.
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This fire is beneath our feet.
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It's built into every foundation
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our history,
language, n-news coverage.
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It's everywhere.
I mean, we vent fires
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to let out
the hot smoke and gasses
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so that we can contain the fire,
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but I don't see
how we can contain this,
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let alone put it out.
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And growing up,
we were taught about.
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Black history
and the Civil Rights movement.
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We were taught to believe
that they had beat it.
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And I think, on some level,
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that belief
was still inside of me,
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because I didn't listen to Dean,
and I didn't listen
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to the mothers
of those kidnapped girls,
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and I am so embarrassed
saying that to you.
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Well, you were taught that
in school,
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and probably also at home.
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And that teaching,
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it's the coal
that keeps the fire hot.
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When I was a child
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and I learned about
the Native American genocide,
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I pictured one small village
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one small village of men
with feathers in their hair
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who gave the white people turkey
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and then got mad
that they wouldn't leave.
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Now, I pictured it because
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those were the literal pictures
in my history books.
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And even though I knew
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that my people
had been stolen from their homes
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and brought here
chained up on ships,
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somehow,
I believed that textbook.
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I was 35 years old
when I learned that in 1492,
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Columbus sailed the ocean blue,
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and in the wake of that,
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millions upon millions of people
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who had been living here
for 15,000 years
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were extinguished.
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And the ones who survived
were fighting every day
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against a culture
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that still wants to pretend
they don't exist.
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We learn when we learn.
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And the shame we feel
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at having taken so long
to learn,
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well, that can be useful
as long as we use it well.
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Once we know better,
we have to do better.
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When I was 13,
I ran cross country and track,
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and during the off-season,
my dad would train
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a group of us girls
who ran both.
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And he would push us too hard,
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and when I didn't hit a drill
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the way he wanted me to
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he'd make me do it
over and over and over
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until I would collapse
on the ground.
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And my dad would leave me there,
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and one by one,
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my team members
would lie down next to me.
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Face to the concrete,
eyes on me, silent.
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Giving me space, but
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also making sure I wasn't alone.
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And my instinct is that
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that is what I have to do
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for the Black members of my team
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to quietly show up
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and let them know
that I support them.
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But I think
that instinct is wrong,
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because when my friends and I
were 13,
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we didn't have the capacity
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to stand up against
an abusive power.
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And now I do.
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I I have the power to stand up
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and say when something is wrong.
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I mean, I have the power
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to call out injustices
when I see them.
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I have
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the power to make sure
that everyone can breathe.
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Hey. Hey.
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The protests have really grown.
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Yeah, I saw.
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What happened to you?
You get into a bar fight?
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Yeah, with an SCBA.
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You okay? Nope.
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You gonna talk to Diane?
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I doubt it.
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Yep.
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God, look at that.
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It's just getting
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bigger and bigger?
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It's all over the world.
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Almost makes you
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hopeful?
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Take this.
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Turn to channel 17.
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And let me get that.
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What? So you don't
throw it across the room.
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The news in Minneapolis.
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We stand in support
of our communities,
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no matter their color.
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God.
Give me that coffee cup back.
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This little play-act
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has been on loop
for half an hour now,
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and these stations
are eating it up.
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Like he's some shining example
of PD valor.
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God, I just threw up
in my mouth a little bit,
267
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I think. Well, get ready
to throw up some more.
268
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As far as any question about
where this department stands
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on the issue of Black Lives.
270
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I know this little earthworm
is not gon.
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What?! Yeah.
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Come on. That.
273
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That is why every time I wonder
274
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whether to continue
with the lawsuit,
275
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whether it's too much
276
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too little, too fast, too slow.
277
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It's It's something, at least.
278
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Some way to fight against this
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this performative, -
hypocritical, destructive...
280
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Travis.
283
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Diane.
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You know, the Department
pays me no matter what,
285
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but, there's only
286
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so many crossword puzzles
I can do, so...
287
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You want to talk? No.
288
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I mean, I I want to let
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the Black firefighters go first.
290
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O Do you see a line
outside this door?
291
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I-I know the past couple months
292
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can't have been easy
for you, either.
293
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Hate crimes are hate crimes,
294
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no matter the race.
295
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My mom got, -.
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Well, she was spit on
at the grocery store
297
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the same day that
George Floyd...
298
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My, - my mom was leaving,
299
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and a crazy mask less woman
was like...
300
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"If this Kung Flu is real,
301
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it's because of people
like her."
302
00:14:35,541 --> 00:14:37,686
The woman both
didn't believe COVID was real
303
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and was blaming my mom for it.
304
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When my mom told me,
305
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it actually felt like
my organs were melting.
306
00:14:51,808 --> 00:14:53,702
I was so hot with rage,
you know,
307
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remembering the times
when I was a kid,
308
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and, you know,
people would say stuff to us.
309
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And then, we would just go home.
310
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Never to be discussed again.
311
00:15:04,654 --> 00:15:07,091
And I And I didn't say
anything to anyone here about it
312
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because, you know,
it didn't feel appropriate.
313
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This giant, massive thing
was happening
314
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a hate crime.
315
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An atrocity so much more brutal
and egregious.
316
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You know, other people
were hurting so much more.
317
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I'm sorry.
318
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I don't know why
I'm talking to you about this.
319
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I don't know why I'm doing that.
320
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Because I'm a Black woman,
321
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and my racist stuff is "bigger"?
322
00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:35,661
Something like that.
323
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That doesn't work.
324
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It doesn't not work.
325
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I know that since COVID,
326
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hate crimes against
Asian Americans
327
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have spiked like crazy.
328
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And yet, no one is talking
about it
329
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no one but us.
330
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Not the media.
331
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No the
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I mean, grandmas and grandpas
333
00:16:00,334 --> 00:16:02,146
halmoni and haraboji.
334
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People being shoved into walls
335
00:16:04,213 --> 00:16:06,191
and off subway platforms.
336
00:16:06,215 --> 00:16:08,861
You have Filipina nurses
337
00:16:08,885 --> 00:16:10,112
who say goodbye
to their families
338
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and their own country
to come here
339
00:16:12,138 --> 00:16:13,866
to work the front lines
of a pandemic
340
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being attacked in the streets.
341
00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,119
A 2-year-old and a 6-year-old
342
00:16:17,143 --> 00:16:19,163
stabbed at a big-box store.
343
00:16:19,187 --> 00:16:21,582
I mean, who stabs a 2-year-old?
344
00:16:21,606 --> 00:16:25,169
And why is that not news?
345
00:16:25,193 --> 00:16:28,338
Why are we so
346
00:16:28,362 --> 00:16:29,673
invisible?
347
00:16:29,697 --> 00:16:31,592
I don't know.
348
00:16:31,616 --> 00:16:33,760
I
349
00:16:33,784 --> 00:16:34,761
I don't know.
350
00:16:34,785 --> 00:16:36,704
I don't know either!
351
00:16:38,414 --> 00:16:41,643
But how can we even make a fuss
352
00:16:41,667 --> 00:16:46,148
when this is all it is
relative to how horrifically
353
00:16:46,172 --> 00:16:47,858
this country treats
Black people?
354
00:16:47,882 --> 00:16:50,652
I mean,
I watched that whole video,
355
00:16:50,676 --> 00:16:54,156
and in addition to the
absolute horror that I felt
356
00:16:54,180 --> 00:16:58,351
and feel I also thought.
357
00:16:59,894 --> 00:17:04,583
"What do we have
to even complain about?"
358
00:17:04,607 --> 00:17:09,296
Travis, it's all bad.
359
00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,006
I know you're trying
to be generous,
360
00:17:11,030 --> 00:17:14,551
but it is all bad.
361
00:17:14,575 --> 00:17:18,305
There are no winners
in the Oppression Olympics.
362
00:17:18,329 --> 00:17:19,723
Okay?
363
00:17:19,747 --> 00:17:22,226
And it's gas lighting
if anyone tells you
364
00:17:22,250 --> 00:17:24,102
or if you tell yourself
365
00:17:24,126 --> 00:17:25,938
to be okay with the brutalities
366
00:17:25,962 --> 00:17:27,731
being inflicted
on your community
367
00:17:27,755 --> 00:17:30,007
because worse things
are happening to another.
368
00:17:47,316 --> 00:17:48,752
She's just trying to help.
369
00:17:48,776 --> 00:17:50,236
Okay.
370
00:17:52,613 --> 00:17:54,049
Robert.
371
00:17:54,073 --> 00:17:55,968
Look, I'm not gonna do it, okay?
372
00:17:55,992 --> 00:17:57,719
I'm not gonna just sit there
373
00:17:57,743 --> 00:17:59,221
and and perform my pain...
374
00:17:59,245 --> 00:18:00,722
It's not
375
00:18:00,746 --> 00:18:02,349
so that Bishop
can feel better, alright?
376
00:18:02,373 --> 00:18:03,392
That's not I'm not gonna do it.
377
00:18:03,416 --> 00:18:05,978
Andy, I just need a minute.
378
00:18:06,002 --> 00:18:07,295
Okay.
379
00:18:09,297 --> 00:18:10,524
I need a minute.
380
00:18:10,548 --> 00:18:12,425
Okay. Okay.
381
00:18:22,101 --> 00:18:23,579
You know,
it's always bothered me
382
00:18:23,603 --> 00:18:27,040
when men would suddenly
see the world differently
383
00:18:27,064 --> 00:18:28,125
after they had a daughter.
384
00:18:28,149 --> 00:18:29,418
Like, I always wondered
385
00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:31,086
why it took
them having a daughter
386
00:18:31,110 --> 00:18:33,005
in order to open their eyes.
387
00:18:33,029 --> 00:18:35,549
But I guess
that's how it feels for me now.
388
00:18:35,573 --> 00:18:36,949
I'm that guy.
389
00:18:37,992 --> 00:18:41,054
The world changed for me
390
00:18:41,078 --> 00:18:44,057
because I fell in love
with a Black man,
391
00:18:44,081 --> 00:18:46,435
and now I see what he sees.
392
00:18:46,459 --> 00:18:49,938
You know, I I worry
for him every day.
393
00:18:49,962 --> 00:18:51,732
I-I've taken on the fear
394
00:18:51,756 --> 00:18:53,775
that he doesn't
allow himself to feel.
395
00:18:53,799 --> 00:18:56,153
I You know, I've always seen it
396
00:18:56,177 --> 00:18:57,195
and felt it growing up.
397
00:18:57,219 --> 00:18:58,780
I saw my dad go through it.
398
00:18:58,804 --> 00:19:01,241
People would call him
awful names,
399
00:19:01,265 --> 00:19:03,869
and he would
he would just walk by,
400
00:19:03,893 --> 00:19:05,454
hold his head up high.
401
00:19:05,478 --> 00:19:08,165
A-As a kid, people would look at
my last name,
402
00:19:08,189 --> 00:19:10,524
and they would ask me,
"Where are you really from?"
403
00:19:12,276 --> 00:19:14,421
I even had teachers
who would look really surprised
404
00:19:14,445 --> 00:19:16,465
once they realized
that I was smart.
405
00:19:16,489 --> 00:19:17,907
But, you know, mostly...
406
00:19:21,911 --> 00:19:23,889
It's okay to say it.
Mostly, I got treated okay
407
00:19:23,913 --> 00:19:25,682
because my skin is light.
408
00:19:25,706 --> 00:19:27,351
I pass for white.
409
00:19:27,375 --> 00:19:29,936
And you feel guilty about that?
410
00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,229
I
411
00:19:31,253 --> 00:19:32,773
You know
412
00:19:32,797 --> 00:19:35,567
I swear to God,
I don't even know how I feel.
413
00:19:35,591 --> 00:19:36,801
Can we walk?
414
00:19:38,094 --> 00:19:41,365
This year has been
so much so much.
415
00:19:41,389 --> 00:19:43,617
It's been just one thing
after another a
416
00:19:43,641 --> 00:19:45,702
with no time to recover.
417
00:19:45,726 --> 00:19:47,871
And that video?
418
00:19:47,895 --> 00:19:49,289
I feel
419
00:19:49,313 --> 00:19:52,334
I feel betrayed.
420
00:19:52,358 --> 00:19:55,170
I mean, j I know
it's always been this way,
421
00:19:55,194 --> 00:19:57,923
but I needed to love a Black man
422
00:19:57,947 --> 00:19:59,883
I needed to be married
to a Black man
423
00:19:59,907 --> 00:20:01,468
in order to see
the whole picture?
424
00:20:01,492 --> 00:20:04,429
Why? Why?
Where was my call for justice?
425
00:20:04,453 --> 00:20:05,931
Like, why didn't I
see this before?
426
00:20:05,955 --> 00:20:09,601
W Why am I just waking up now?
427
00:20:09,625 --> 00:20:11,812
A lot of people
are waking up now,
428
00:20:11,836 --> 00:20:14,815
and they're asking themselves
the same questions.
429
00:20:14,839 --> 00:20:16,817
And you you're the daughter
430
00:20:16,841 --> 00:20:18,902
of a fire captain.
431
00:20:18,926 --> 00:20:20,195
Police have been
a part of your life
432
00:20:20,219 --> 00:20:21,697
since you were a little girl.
433
00:20:21,721 --> 00:20:23,973
Cops and firefighters
were your family.
434
00:20:26,225 --> 00:20:28,120
They would call me Pruitita.
435
00:20:28,144 --> 00:20:29,788
It means Little Pruitt.
436
00:20:29,812 --> 00:20:32,749
And there was this sort of
mental gymnastics going on
437
00:20:32,773 --> 00:20:35,919
where, a-as I got older,
I thought I knew
438
00:20:35,943 --> 00:20:37,713
that police brutality
was rampant.
439
00:20:37,737 --> 00:20:39,172
But at the same time,
440
00:20:39,196 --> 00:20:40,841
I didn't count the cops
that I knew personally
441
00:20:40,865 --> 00:20:42,175
into that issue.
442
00:20:42,199 --> 00:20:43,844
You know, it was double-think.
443
00:20:43,868 --> 00:20:45,595
Like, I never stopped
and questioned
444
00:20:45,619 --> 00:20:48,056
why the good cops weren't
calling out the bad ones.
445
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,852
You know, not a single one
of my dad's old police friends
446
00:20:51,876 --> 00:20:54,855
have stepped forward
to denounce the actions
447
00:20:54,879 --> 00:20:56,606
of the officers
that murdered George Floyd?
448
00:20:56,630 --> 00:20:59,925
Not a single one.
449
00:21:01,969 --> 00:21:04,906
It is my instinct
as a therapist to comfort you,
450
00:21:04,930 --> 00:21:07,451
but your comfort
451
00:21:07,475 --> 00:21:09,453
and everyone else's comfort
452
00:21:09,477 --> 00:21:13,165
has been such a big part
of this problem
453
00:21:13,189 --> 00:21:14,273
for so long.
454
00:21:23,824 --> 00:21:25,719
You're beautiful,
and you're brave,
455
00:21:25,743 --> 00:21:28,680
and you are Okay,
no, just listen.
456
00:21:28,704 --> 00:21:30,515
I want to tell everyone
457
00:21:30,539 --> 00:21:33,018
that I support them
attending the protests.
458
00:21:33,042 --> 00:21:34,311
I want to go.
459
00:21:34,335 --> 00:21:37,439
I don't want
to silently support anymore.
460
00:21:37,463 --> 00:21:39,524
I want to scream in the streets.
461
00:21:39,548 --> 00:21:41,234
Wonderful. I'll join you.
462
00:21:41,258 --> 00:21:43,111
You don't understand.
463
00:21:43,135 --> 00:21:46,698
It's Things are bad enough
right now between 19 and PD.
464
00:21:46,722 --> 00:21:48,950
The Department won't like it.
465
00:21:48,974 --> 00:21:50,952
Okay, but they cannot
466
00:21:50,976 --> 00:21:53,705
officially discipline you
for it, though, right?
467
00:21:53,729 --> 00:21:55,540
No, no.
468
00:21:55,564 --> 00:21:56,750
But
469
00:21:56,774 --> 00:21:59,252
I'm on a track,
470
00:21:59,276 --> 00:22:02,589
and if I support this publicly
471
00:22:02,613 --> 00:22:04,800
which everything in me
wants to do
472
00:22:04,824 --> 00:22:06,593
it'll take me off that track.
473
00:22:06,617 --> 00:22:09,679
Because people are setting
fires to police stations.
474
00:22:09,703 --> 00:22:13,016
Yes, and because firefighters
work with the police, okay?
475
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,310
They're our brothers, too,
476
00:22:15,334 --> 00:22:16,770
and there are
some bad apples, bu.
477
00:22:16,794 --> 00:22:18,855
Okay, they keep saying that
on the news.
478
00:22:18,879 --> 00:22:20,774
The "one bad apple,"
"one bad apple."
479
00:22:20,798 --> 00:22:22,108
And I didn't understand
what it meant,
480
00:22:22,132 --> 00:22:23,568
so I looked it up,
481
00:22:23,592 --> 00:22:25,904
and one bad apple
ruins the whole barrel.
482
00:22:25,928 --> 00:22:27,405
That's the saying.
483
00:22:27,429 --> 00:22:29,658
So, after we all saw
the horrific video,
484
00:22:29,682 --> 00:22:31,535
why aren't all the brothers
485
00:22:31,559 --> 00:22:33,203
why aren't all the friends
486
00:22:33,227 --> 00:22:35,288
why isn't
every member of the police force
487
00:22:35,312 --> 00:22:37,499
in the streets
demanding systemic change?
488
00:22:37,523 --> 00:22:39,376
Why?
489
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,152
Because it'll take them
off of the track.
490
00:22:46,448 --> 00:22:48,385
Can I ask you a question?
491
00:22:48,409 --> 00:22:49,761
Of course.
492
00:22:49,785 --> 00:22:51,453
How do you become a therapist?
493
00:22:52,830 --> 00:22:56,226
I'm sorry. I'm not,
often taken off-guard.
494
00:22:56,250 --> 00:22:59,271
Are you considering
a career change?
495
00:22:59,295 --> 00:23:00,772
No. No, no, no. I mean, not now.
496
00:23:00,796 --> 00:23:02,482
I just It would be nice
497
00:23:02,506 --> 00:23:04,067
to have a back-up plan
that's better than
498
00:23:04,091 --> 00:23:05,610
waiting tables
at my parents' restaurant
499
00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:07,487
in case I get injured or...
500
00:23:07,511 --> 00:23:09,013
Or what?
501
00:23:10,306 --> 00:23:13,368
Or if I give myself permission
502
00:23:13,392 --> 00:23:14,870
to throw a brick
at a police station
503
00:23:14,894 --> 00:23:16,562
and it gets me kicked out of FD.
504
00:23:17,897 --> 00:23:19,374
It's, four years of undergrad
505
00:23:19,398 --> 00:23:21,001
plus two years of grad school.
506
00:23:21,025 --> 00:23:22,460
I'm only like eight credits shy
507
00:23:22,484 --> 00:23:24,170
of my undergrad degree, so...
508
00:23:24,194 --> 00:23:25,589
In what?
509
00:23:25,613 --> 00:23:27,591
It'll be a
Bachelor of Fine Arts.
510
00:23:27,615 --> 00:23:29,342
A Bachelor of of Fine Arts?
511
00:23:29,366 --> 00:23:30,635
Yeah, I studied musical theater.
512
00:23:30,659 --> 00:23:32,095
Wow.
513
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:33,930
What are the classes
when you get
514
00:23:33,954 --> 00:23:35,140
a Bachelor of Fine Arts
in musical theater?
515
00:23:35,164 --> 00:23:36,641
Well, let's see.
516
00:23:36,665 --> 00:23:38,643
There's voice and speech,
517
00:23:38,667 --> 00:23:40,520
and acting, singing, ballet,
518
00:23:40,544 --> 00:23:42,105
and also circus skills
519
00:23:42,129 --> 00:23:45,817
like walking a tightrope
or juggling.
520
00:23:45,841 --> 00:23:47,485
And they give you a degree
for that?
521
00:23:47,509 --> 00:23:49,571
Well, they would have,
but the theater burned down,
522
00:23:49,595 --> 00:23:51,239
and my favorite teacher
didn't make it out.
523
00:23:51,263 --> 00:23:52,908
And I did make it out,
but I couldn't go back.
524
00:23:52,932 --> 00:23:54,701
I couldn't finish, so...
525
00:23:54,725 --> 00:23:56,393
So...?
526
00:23:58,312 --> 00:24:00,498
Why are we talking about this?
527
00:24:00,522 --> 00:24:02,584
I don't know,
but if I had to guess,
528
00:24:02,608 --> 00:24:05,086
I'd say it's because
you are desperate to talk
529
00:24:05,110 --> 00:24:06,755
and think about
literally anything
530
00:24:06,779 --> 00:24:08,381
besides that video.
531
00:24:08,405 --> 00:24:10,508
Can you think of anything...
532
00:24:10,532 --> 00:24:12,201
No.
533
00:24:20,501 --> 00:24:22,312
I like to fix things.
534
00:24:22,336 --> 00:24:24,189
I see a fire and I put it out.
535
00:24:24,213 --> 00:24:27,275
But we have been having
this same fight for so long
536
00:24:27,299 --> 00:24:29,110
for so long.
537
00:24:29,134 --> 00:24:30,570
I mean, my grandma used to
tell me about the sit-ins
538
00:24:30,594 --> 00:24:32,614
and boycotts she used to do
in the '60s.
539
00:24:32,638 --> 00:24:34,199
And we're how many moments
540
00:24:34,223 --> 00:24:36,284
and movements and marches later,
541
00:24:36,308 --> 00:24:38,203
and what do we have
to show for it?
542
00:24:38,227 --> 00:24:40,413
And to see so many people
act like this is news
543
00:24:40,437 --> 00:24:42,666
like this is just
some brand-new information
544
00:24:42,690 --> 00:24:44,209
they're just now waking up to.
545
00:24:44,233 --> 00:24:46,169
Do you know how many
white friends
546
00:24:46,193 --> 00:24:49,214
texted me or emailed me
just out of the blue?
547
00:24:49,238 --> 00:24:50,840
Right? And everything
under this guise
548
00:24:50,864 --> 00:24:53,051
of just checking in
and just asking how I was doing.
549
00:24:53,075 --> 00:24:54,386
"How are you feeling?" You know?
550
00:24:54,410 --> 00:24:57,222
I I knew they meant well,
551
00:24:57,246 --> 00:25:01,017
but I also knew
what was behind it guilt.
552
00:25:01,041 --> 00:25:03,269
So, I Pbht.
I don't know, how am I feeling?
553
00:25:03,293 --> 00:25:05,254
How are you feeling?
'Cause that Like.
554
00:25:06,839 --> 00:25:08,400
'Cause as much
as I couldn't fix this problem,
555
00:25:08,424 --> 00:25:09,901
at least I knew it was there.
556
00:25:09,925 --> 00:25:11,653
And for a better reason
than I was just
557
00:25:11,677 --> 00:25:13,029
stuck inside my house this time
558
00:25:13,053 --> 00:25:15,323
and I couldn't look away.
559
00:25:15,347 --> 00:25:17,242
Yeah.
560
00:25:17,266 --> 00:25:20,787
And the way they're
talking about him already.
561
00:25:20,811 --> 00:25:23,164
Yeah. T-T-The spin already afoot
562
00:25:23,188 --> 00:25:25,166
by usual suspects in the media
563
00:25:25,190 --> 00:25:28,628
trying to vilify him
rather than the murder of him.
564
00:25:28,652 --> 00:25:30,171
You kn You know what's almost
565
00:25:30,195 --> 00:25:31,423
equally as enraging to me, too?
566
00:25:31,447 --> 00:25:34,300
It's the people patting
themselves on the back
567
00:25:34,324 --> 00:25:35,844
trying to humanize him.
568
00:25:35,868 --> 00:25:37,828
It's like, you're trying
to humanize a person.
569
00:25:39,204 --> 00:25:41,850
Do you really
have to look for proof
570
00:25:41,874 --> 00:25:43,268
that we're people, too?
571
00:25:43,292 --> 00:25:44,352
Really?
572
00:25:44,376 --> 00:25:45,770
We should care more about him
573
00:25:45,794 --> 00:25:47,355
because he was a a good father
574
00:25:47,379 --> 00:25:48,857
or a loving brother
575
00:25:48,881 --> 00:25:50,275
or a high-school athlete
or he's fun at a party?
576
00:25:50,299 --> 00:25:52,027
No, we we should care about him
577
00:25:52,051 --> 00:25:53,218
because he was a person.
578
00:25:55,304 --> 00:25:57,032
George Floyd shouldn't have been
579
00:25:57,056 --> 00:26:00,035
treated this way
because he's a person.
580
00:26:00,059 --> 00:26:02,478
A cop
581
00:26:04,396 --> 00:26:06,583
should not have had his knee
on his neck
582
00:26:06,607 --> 00:26:09,169
until the last gasp of life
was choked out of him,
583
00:26:09,193 --> 00:26:11,028
because he is a person.
584
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,939
So, do you think I could
get into grad school, or...?
585
00:26:29,963 --> 00:26:32,716
You really gonna throw
that brick?
586
00:26:48,941 --> 00:26:51,401
I just want a back-up plan.
587
00:27:05,624 --> 00:27:07,060
I'm sorry.
588
00:27:07,084 --> 00:27:09,229
I'm sure I'm not the one
you're here to talk to.
589
00:27:09,253 --> 00:27:11,523
I'm here to talk
to anyone who needs it.
590
00:27:11,547 --> 00:27:13,942
I'm afraid to talk
to anyone right now.
591
00:27:13,966 --> 00:27:15,443
Not just you t-to anyone.
592
00:27:15,467 --> 00:27:17,445
I'm afraid
to talk to my best friend.
593
00:27:17,469 --> 00:27:19,012
Miller.
594
00:27:20,347 --> 00:27:22,742
I'm afraid I'm gonna get
every word wrong,
595
00:27:22,766 --> 00:27:24,410
or even one word.
596
00:27:24,434 --> 00:27:25,995
Yeah, I know I'm not a racist.
597
00:27:26,019 --> 00:27:27,580
I-I know that.
598
00:27:27,604 --> 00:27:31,000
You do realize that
"I'm not racist" is kind of
599
00:27:31,024 --> 00:27:34,087
the the club slogan of racists?
600
00:27:34,111 --> 00:27:36,214
And that's because
we live in a culture
601
00:27:36,238 --> 00:27:38,007
built on white supremacy,
602
00:27:38,031 --> 00:27:40,093
so the racism is baked in.
603
00:27:40,117 --> 00:27:42,178
And we can't begin to undo it
604
00:27:42,202 --> 00:27:43,263
until we name it and own it.
605
00:27:43,287 --> 00:27:45,014
Okay, see,
this is exactly my point.
606
00:27:45,038 --> 00:27:47,267
You know, I'm damned if I do,
and I'm damned if I don't.
607
00:27:47,291 --> 00:27:49,727
Cops take a knee,
join the protests,
608
00:27:49,751 --> 00:27:51,396
they're called hypocrites.
609
00:27:51,420 --> 00:27:53,189
And Dixon? He is a hypocrite.
610
00:27:53,213 --> 00:27:55,191
He is a racist.
611
00:27:55,215 --> 00:27:57,676
But it can't be that
across the board.
612
00:27:59,386 --> 00:28:02,282
Jack, you come to see me
twice a month,
613
00:28:02,306 --> 00:28:05,743
so I have to assume
that you like me, right?
614
00:28:05,767 --> 00:28:08,037
You like
that I give you tough love
615
00:28:08,061 --> 00:28:10,147
and tell it like it is
and don't pull punches?
616
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,918
And you came in here today
looking for some clarity.
617
00:28:13,942 --> 00:28:15,503
So, here it is.
618
00:28:15,527 --> 00:28:17,755
I know what you mean
619
00:28:17,779 --> 00:28:19,340
when you say you aren't racist,
620
00:28:19,364 --> 00:28:20,550
and I believe
621
00:28:20,574 --> 00:28:24,095
that you do not have hatred
in your heart.
622
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,473
But you also aren't damned.
623
00:28:27,497 --> 00:28:29,058
Not even in the least bit.
624
00:28:29,082 --> 00:28:32,520
You're blessed as hell.
625
00:28:32,544 --> 00:28:34,689
I know you grew up
on the streets in the system,
626
00:28:34,713 --> 00:28:37,275
and I'm not diminishing
your hardship,
627
00:28:37,299 --> 00:28:39,152
but you are.
628
00:28:39,176 --> 00:28:40,612
Yeah, I'm privileged
because I'm white.
629
00:28:40,636 --> 00:28:42,113
I get it.
630
00:28:42,137 --> 00:28:45,742
When I was a kid
when I was squatting
631
00:28:45,766 --> 00:28:48,286
after that last foster home,
632
00:28:48,310 --> 00:28:51,122
there were a few of us
who would hunker down
633
00:28:51,146 --> 00:28:53,499
to make a place for ourselves.
634
00:28:53,523 --> 00:28:54,709
You know,
to stay out of the system.
635
00:28:54,733 --> 00:28:57,086
Eventually,
the cops would find us,
636
00:28:57,110 --> 00:28:58,671
and we'd run.
637
00:28:58,695 --> 00:29:01,007
And it was scary.
638
00:29:01,031 --> 00:29:03,092
But when I was being chased,
639
00:29:03,116 --> 00:29:05,637
not once did I think that,
640
00:29:05,661 --> 00:29:10,582
"If he catches me,
he might kill me."
641
00:29:12,167 --> 00:29:14,211
I never feared for my life.
642
00:29:15,837 --> 00:29:19,984
But I know
some of my friends did.
643
00:29:20,008 --> 00:29:22,427
I know I'm privileged, Diane.
644
00:29:24,388 --> 00:29:26,741
I watched
what those cops did to Miller,
645
00:29:26,765 --> 00:29:28,701
I watched that video,
646
00:29:28,725 --> 00:29:31,704
and I want to blow up the world.
647
00:29:31,728 --> 00:29:33,748
And?
648
00:29:33,772 --> 00:29:35,875
And
649
00:29:35,899 --> 00:29:38,252
we're firefighters.
650
00:29:38,276 --> 00:29:41,589
We need the cops,
and they need us.
651
00:29:41,613 --> 00:29:43,424
And we can't all of a sudden
overnight decide
652
00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:45,176
that the whole institution
is evil.
653
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,096
Some good guys stayed silent,
654
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,640
and that makes them bad.
655
00:29:50,664 --> 00:29:54,894
Except, they're not
actually all bad.
656
00:29:54,918 --> 00:29:57,355
They're individuals.
657
00:29:57,379 --> 00:29:59,399
And I feel like
I'm not allowed to say that.
658
00:29:59,423 --> 00:30:04,219
I'm afraid to say anything.
659
00:30:07,431 --> 00:30:10,493
I was a firefighter, too.
660
00:30:10,517 --> 00:30:13,371
I have cop buddies, too.
661
00:30:13,395 --> 00:30:17,190
Our cop buddies
are not the point.
662
00:30:21,111 --> 00:30:23,780
Do you know
what the 13th Amendment did?
663
00:30:25,198 --> 00:30:27,051
Abolished slavery.
664
00:30:27,075 --> 00:30:29,429
Except as a punishment
for a crime.
665
00:30:29,453 --> 00:30:31,097
Yeah, but that was like.
666
00:30:31,121 --> 00:30:32,432
That's still the law.
667
00:30:32,456 --> 00:30:35,935
It is still legal
to enslave Americans
668
00:30:35,959 --> 00:30:38,062
as a punishment for a crime.
669
00:30:38,086 --> 00:30:40,148
And do you know the statistics
670
00:30:40,172 --> 00:30:42,316
of incarcerated Black folks
in America?
671
00:30:42,340 --> 00:30:44,318
34%.
672
00:30:44,342 --> 00:30:46,904
We are 34%
of the prison population,
673
00:30:46,928 --> 00:30:50,491
but we only make up 13%
of this country's population.
674
00:30:50,515 --> 00:30:52,326
That seem right to you?
675
00:30:52,350 --> 00:30:54,120
And you're thinking,
676
00:30:54,144 --> 00:30:56,914
"Well, that's because
more Black people are poor,
677
00:30:56,938 --> 00:30:58,624
so they have to resort to crime.
678
00:30:58,648 --> 00:31:01,044
So they get arrested more.
679
00:31:01,068 --> 00:31:03,880
Sucks for them, but, hey, you do
the crime, you do the time."
680
00:31:03,904 --> 00:31:06,549
But how many crimes
did you commit, Jack,
681
00:31:06,573 --> 00:31:08,617
when you were out there
on the streets?
682
00:31:09,785 --> 00:31:13,222
Did you, steal to eat?
Did you run from police?
683
00:31:13,246 --> 00:31:15,183
Did you get drunk sometimes and
make a mess with your friends?
684
00:31:15,207 --> 00:31:16,976
Yeah, all of that.
685
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,394
But you never went to prison.
686
00:31:18,418 --> 00:31:19,896
Never went to jail.
687
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,398
Never had a gun pointed at you.
688
00:31:22,422 --> 00:31:24,859
Never have a knee
put on your neck.
689
00:31:24,883 --> 00:31:28,071
When you make mistakes,
you get to learn from them.
690
00:31:28,095 --> 00:31:31,199
When people who look like me
make any kind of mistake,
691
00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:34,035
we go to prison... or worse.
692
00:31:34,059 --> 00:31:37,789
And way too often,
no mistake is needed.
693
00:31:37,813 --> 00:31:40,249
We can laugh too loud
and they'll arrest us.
694
00:31:40,273 --> 00:31:41,751
We can put our hands in the air,
695
00:31:41,775 --> 00:31:42,835
and they'll shoot us.
696
00:31:42,859 --> 00:31:44,629
It's not in the past.
697
00:31:44,653 --> 00:31:46,446
It's now. It's still.
698
00:31:48,698 --> 00:31:51,969
And I know you don't have
hatred in your heart, Jack.
699
00:31:51,993 --> 00:31:53,971
But that's not enough anymore.
700
00:31:53,995 --> 00:31:55,932
You have to dig deeper.
701
00:31:55,956 --> 00:31:58,059
When you're
too uncomfortable to talk
702
00:31:58,083 --> 00:31:59,936
and you don't know what to say?
703
00:31:59,960 --> 00:32:02,021
That's okay.
704
00:32:02,045 --> 00:32:04,589
Listen instead.
705
00:32:17,644 --> 00:32:19,789
I know.
706
00:32:19,813 --> 00:32:22,583
You want me to talk to her.
707
00:32:22,607 --> 00:32:28,155
No, I want you to do
whatever you need to do.
708
00:32:50,177 --> 00:32:52,530
Hey, there. Yeah?
709
00:32:52,554 --> 00:32:53,698
Is it alright if we come in?
710
00:32:53,722 --> 00:32:55,658
You guys okay?
711
00:32:55,682 --> 00:32:57,076
You need medical attention
or anything?
712
00:32:57,100 --> 00:32:58,536
No. I was just hoping
713
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,997
someone could show my boys
around the station.
714
00:33:01,021 --> 00:33:02,832
Can we slide down the pole?
715
00:33:02,856 --> 00:33:05,501
Sorry, but the station tours
are cancelled because of COVID.
716
00:33:05,525 --> 00:33:06,627
I'm sorry. Aww!
717
00:33:06,651 --> 00:33:08,671
Can we go now?
718
00:33:08,695 --> 00:33:12,925
Hey, guys, um
just, um, wait for me
719
00:33:12,949 --> 00:33:14,594
out there on the bench
for me, okay? Fine.
720
00:33:14,618 --> 00:33:16,179
I'll be right out.
721
00:33:16,203 --> 00:33:19,206
Look, u sir,
I'm I'm sorry, but I...
722
00:33:22,667 --> 00:33:24,252
My kids saw the video.
723
00:33:25,587 --> 00:33:26,939
They watched it.
724
00:33:26,963 --> 00:33:28,774
I didn't tell them
that they could,
725
00:33:28,798 --> 00:33:30,401
but it's all over social media.
726
00:33:30,425 --> 00:33:33,362
And before I even
got home from work,
727
00:33:33,386 --> 00:33:35,156
they had watched it.
728
00:33:35,180 --> 00:33:39,452
My 11-year-old slept with
his comfort blanket last night.
729
00:33:39,476 --> 00:33:42,455
He dug it out of storage
and he hid it under his pillow.
730
00:33:42,479 --> 00:33:44,498
He thought I didn't see it.
731
00:33:44,522 --> 00:33:47,919
He hasn't slept with that
since he was 8 years old.
732
00:33:47,943 --> 00:33:50,421
They don't understand,
733
00:33:50,445 --> 00:33:52,924
and I cannot find
any honest words
734
00:33:52,948 --> 00:33:54,467
to explain it to them.
735
00:33:54,491 --> 00:33:58,221
But I saw your station
on the news,
736
00:33:58,245 --> 00:34:00,431
and I knew that there were
Black firefighters here.
737
00:34:00,455 --> 00:34:03,267
And I thought
that my boys should see
738
00:34:03,291 --> 00:34:06,437
good people in uniform
people that look like them.
739
00:34:06,461 --> 00:34:09,506
So... please.
740
00:34:13,009 --> 00:34:14,552
Stand back, sir. Please.
741
00:34:26,690 --> 00:34:28,251
You all have to sanitize,
alright?
742
00:34:28,275 --> 00:34:30,211
Come on. Let's go.
743
00:34:30,235 --> 00:34:31,796
Hey, guys, come on!
Come on, boys.
744
00:34:31,820 --> 00:34:32,820
Here you guys go.
745
00:35:17,866 --> 00:35:20,160
Thanks.
746
00:35:42,307 --> 00:35:45,202
See that? Whoa!
747
00:35:45,226 --> 00:35:47,163
This is Station 19.
This thing is huge!
748
00:35:47,187 --> 00:35:49,248
Awesome. Whoa, it's so.
749
00:35:49,272 --> 00:35:50,833
Firefighter, baby!
Perfect, yeah.
750
00:35:50,857 --> 00:35:52,501
Does it look good on me?
Of course it does, yeah!
751
00:35:52,525 --> 00:35:54,045
I'm wearing a
firefighter helmet! Whoa!
752
00:35:54,069 --> 00:35:55,588
Unh!
753
00:35:55,612 --> 00:35:57,381
Yeah, man!
754
00:35:57,405 --> 00:35:59,216
Hey! Hi! Hi!
755
00:35:59,240 --> 00:36:00,593
Hey!
756
00:36:00,617 --> 00:36:02,011
Bye! Bye! Say thank you.
757
00:36:02,035 --> 00:36:03,328
Come on. Thank you!
758
00:36:28,603 --> 00:36:32,208
This one was different.
759
00:36:32,232 --> 00:36:33,417
This wasn't just another video
760
00:36:33,441 --> 00:36:36,671
of an innocent Black man
being shot by police.
761
00:36:36,695 --> 00:36:39,924
This wasn't an officer
making a split-second decision
762
00:36:39,948 --> 00:36:43,886
that resulted in another
Black man losing his life.
763
00:36:43,910 --> 00:36:47,640
This wasn't fight-or-flight
or panic-induced impulse
764
00:36:47,664 --> 00:36:50,226
or unconscious bias
or unnecessary escalation.
765
00:36:50,250 --> 00:36:53,437
This was the murder
of an unarmed, defenseless,
766
00:36:53,461 --> 00:36:55,106
compliant Black man
767
00:36:55,130 --> 00:36:57,858
in the middle of the street
in broad daylight.
768
00:36:57,882 --> 00:36:59,610
Right in front of our eyes
769
00:36:59,634 --> 00:37:01,654
all of our eyes.
770
00:37:01,678 --> 00:37:03,489
And, you know, white people
are finally realizing
771
00:37:03,513 --> 00:37:07,016
that we aren't hysterical
or beating a dead horse.
772
00:37:08,685 --> 00:37:10,705
They saw that white woman
in Central Park
773
00:37:10,729 --> 00:37:14,125
casually use a racist
police system as a weapon,
774
00:37:14,149 --> 00:37:17,128
and they're starting
to understand
775
00:37:17,152 --> 00:37:21,507
that all of it renders us
Black people terrorized.
776
00:37:21,531 --> 00:37:23,008
Hunted.
777
00:37:23,032 --> 00:37:27,537
Exhausted by everyday life.
778
00:37:30,623 --> 00:37:32,935
And, you know, I'm tired.
779
00:37:32,959 --> 00:37:35,521
I'm And I'm mad, and I'm sad.
780
00:37:35,545 --> 00:37:39,424
And I'm tired for having to
explain why I'm mad and sad.
781
00:37:41,009 --> 00:37:44,280
I'm mad because
I have to take a magic pause
782
00:37:44,304 --> 00:37:47,950
every time I'm being tracked
by eyeballs in a store.
783
00:37:47,974 --> 00:37:51,370
Or when people who are
in life-threatening danger
784
00:37:51,394 --> 00:37:54,582
choose to take their chances
by themselves
785
00:37:54,606 --> 00:37:57,984
rather than being rescued
by a Black firefighter.
786
00:38:05,617 --> 00:38:08,095
But, you know,
mostly, I'm scared.
787
00:38:08,119 --> 00:38:10,205
I'm scared.
788
00:38:12,081 --> 00:38:14,769
Because no matter
how tired I am,
789
00:38:14,793 --> 00:38:17,646
how mad I get, how sad I get,
790
00:38:17,670 --> 00:38:22,151
there's nothing I can say
to change their minds.
791
00:38:22,175 --> 00:38:23,652
There's nothing I can do
792
00:38:23,676 --> 00:38:28,073
that will make them see me
as a hardworking professional.
793
00:38:28,097 --> 00:38:30,117
A loving husband.
794
00:38:30,141 --> 00:38:34,121
Or just a man.
795
00:38:34,145 --> 00:38:37,082
There's nothing that prevents
something like this
796
00:38:37,106 --> 00:38:38,667
from happening to me.
797
00:38:38,691 --> 00:38:40,836
Nothing.
798
00:38:40,860 --> 00:38:43,881
I'm scared because
I am eight minutes away
799
00:38:43,905 --> 00:38:47,617
from being another George Floyd.
800
00:38:54,457 --> 00:38:56,602
We're a quiet bunch tonight.
801
00:38:56,626 --> 00:38:59,230
Look, I'm just
I'm just glad to see your faces.
802
00:38:59,254 --> 00:39:01,440
You know,
know you're good and safe.
803
00:39:01,464 --> 00:39:03,818
Are you sure
we can't go to the protest?
804
00:39:03,842 --> 00:39:05,653
A bunch of my friends are going.
805
00:39:05,677 --> 00:39:07,655
They're all masked
and everything.
806
00:39:07,679 --> 00:39:09,240
I'll follow your lead, Ben.
807
00:39:09,264 --> 00:39:12,368
Another Black Trans woman
was killed today.
808
00:39:12,392 --> 00:39:15,037
Tuck I want to march, Aunt Roz.
809
00:39:15,061 --> 00:39:17,164
I want to march for you
and for myself.
810
00:39:17,188 --> 00:39:18,541
I want to march.
811
00:39:18,565 --> 00:39:21,943
W-W-Why won't you let us march?
812
00:39:24,904 --> 00:39:25,923
You sure? Hey.
813
00:39:25,947 --> 00:39:27,258
It'll be great.
814
00:39:27,282 --> 00:39:29,176
I was thinking tomorrow
after shift,
815
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,678
Captain Bishop
has given the all-clear
816
00:39:30,702 --> 00:39:32,555
for us to go to a protest.
817
00:39:32,579 --> 00:39:34,890
Us?
818
00:39:34,914 --> 00:39:37,542
I'd like to go,
if you'll have me.
819
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,773
- Cool.
- Yeah.
820
00:39:42,797 --> 00:39:44,525
Um, but if anybody
comes at us with weapons,
821
00:39:44,549 --> 00:39:47,820
it is your job to put your body
between us and them.
822
00:39:47,844 --> 00:39:49,822
Got it. Yeah, he's not kidding.
823
00:39:49,846 --> 00:39:51,031
I'm not kidding.
824
00:39:51,055 --> 00:39:53,033
I kinda figured, yeah.
825
00:39:53,057 --> 00:39:55,435
Okay.
826
00:40:11,701 --> 00:40:13,679
I was so desperate
for a promotion
827
00:40:13,703 --> 00:40:17,600
that I was gonna try and stop
Miller's lawsuit,
828
00:40:17,624 --> 00:40:20,603
which is the best shot we have
at anything changing.
829
00:40:20,627 --> 00:40:22,605
Robert...
830
00:40:22,629 --> 00:40:26,609
This demotion has been humbling.
831
00:40:26,633 --> 00:40:28,068
It's been humbling,
832
00:40:28,092 --> 00:40:31,864
and I've had
so many dark thoughts.
833
00:40:31,888 --> 00:40:36,702
Sometimes, I doubt my own
834
00:40:36,726 --> 00:40:39,455
my own goodness.
835
00:40:39,479 --> 00:40:43,876
No one is just good.
836
00:40:43,900 --> 00:40:46,879
We We make mistakes,
and we learn from them,
837
00:40:46,903 --> 00:40:48,130
and we do better next time.
838
00:40:48,154 --> 00:40:49,673
That's how goodness works.
839
00:40:49,697 --> 00:40:52,927
It's not about purity.
840
00:40:52,951 --> 00:40:56,579
It's about It's about growth.
841
00:41:11,177 --> 00:41:12,529
Let's get into the
car real quick. I
842
00:41:12,553 --> 00:41:13,948
19.
843
00:41:13,972 --> 00:41:15,950
Hopefully this goes
without saying,
844
00:41:15,974 --> 00:41:18,702
but although you have the right
to peacefully protest
845
00:41:18,726 --> 00:41:20,746
and my wholehearted support,
846
00:41:20,770 --> 00:41:24,500
I trust that you will not engage
in any activity or action
847
00:41:24,524 --> 00:41:27,819
that will bring discredit
to you, 19, or the SFD.
848
00:41:29,821 --> 00:41:31,548
19.
849
00:41:31,572 --> 00:41:33,491
19.19.19.19.
850
00:41:42,834 --> 00:41:44,293
No justice, no peace!
851
00:41:51,217 --> 00:41:53,177
No justice, no peace!
No justice, no peace!
852
00:41:59,350 --> 00:42:01,245
No justice, no peace!
853
00:42:01,269 --> 00:42:02,812
No justice, no peace!
854
00:42:10,153 --> 00:42:12,155
No justice, no peace!
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