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so
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you are so cute
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in 1948 when my
brother randall was born
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everyone said he
was the most beautiful
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baby in the world
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he was my parents
third child and he was
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supposed to be the last
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they believed
they had it all the
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requisite three pretty children
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the big old house they bought in
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seattle's north
end on a tree-lined
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street
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perfect house
for a perfect family
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that is a beautiful little boy
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my mother was
immersed in the kids my
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father's career was flourishing
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and most important
they had each other
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i love you i love
making love to you
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i love every part
of you and i always
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will
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my parents became
charter members of her
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circle of new friends
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thank you
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it was 1950s
family life right out of
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the magazines
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weekends were
filled with parties
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cocktails and a lot
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of children
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they must have been
so happy that fourth
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of july i can almost
hear my mother's
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shout of laughter
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delirious silly a
child and a woman at
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once
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and see my father
with this camera
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taking roll after roll of family
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pictures
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there are certain
moments in life when
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everything changes
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look at the king isn't
he darling what a
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beautiful
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child the picture
my father took of
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randall that fourth
of july captured the
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moment when my
parents lives changed
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forever
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i didn't really understand how
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completely that
moment affected my life
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until 1983.
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by then my parents
were divorced and my
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own marriage was in trouble
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i fled home to
seattle to my mother's
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loft downtown
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i don't know i i
don't know if we're
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separated well
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i'm not being
manipulative when i think
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of you i taught you i don't know
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i don't like this any
more than you do
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no i'm not enjoying this
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listen i've spent
the last four years
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understanding how you feel
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will no listen to
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will hello
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nina you all right yeah
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sorry mom okay that's sorry
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blinding music
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seattle girl wins
photography prize i
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remember that
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i didn't know you'd
kept all this stuff
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you're good why wouldn't i
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rest is just family
stuff i don't have a
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moral fiber to look at it
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it all seems so
simple looking at this
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20 20 hindsight
makes everything look
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simple
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but life justice isn't like that
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you should call him
you know he's still
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your father
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i had been avoiding
my father and knew
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he would tell me why
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he's a psychiatrist
when i was young
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shrinks were taken seriously
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they were like
priests of the mind
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even as a grown-up
i still dreaded his
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quiet impartial
analysis of us all
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i think she's alone
too much i worry
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about her
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so why don't you call her
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she doesn't want to
see me knees how do
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you know that dad
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besides you don't
have to see her you
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could just call her to talk
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there's got to be
somebody do you know
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any men she could go up
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no i don't you
shouldn't talk that way
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about mother not to
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yeah me i'm sorry
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time for a break darling
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mimi my name is nina
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by 1983 my parents
had been divorced for
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several years and
my father was about to
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marry tony baker
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our old neighbor
meanwhile they were
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living in sin
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well they're
riveting they really
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got your attention
but it's it's a
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gimmick isn't it the
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technique well
that's all technique is
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really gimmicks
learned and perfected
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thanks for the
critique i'm sorry pete i
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didn't mean to be
dismissive i think the
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work is very fine really
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it's just uh just what
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well this photograph
reminds me of the
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one i took of randall
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look at the king
isn't what he darling
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child yeah but
what's wrong with him
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why doesn't he
move it was the first
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time i
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i'd let myself think
that there was
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something wrong with randall
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what i remember
most was the relief
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letting go the denial
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there's nothing
like lydia or mac
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but the pediatrician
said that they were
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precocious and
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randall was normal he was so
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placid and we were busy
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your mom had her
hands full just doing
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the ironing took a day and
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i was involved in my work and i
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guess we were just
pleased to have a
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quiet baby
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didn't you think
he was strange oh
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einstein didn't talk
until he was three
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and i thought randall
might be like that
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you know what his first word was
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umbrella
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perfectly enunciated
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i guess what i'm
what i'm trying to do
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here is to
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apologize for my
reaction to all this
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who just brought
it back so clearly
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and the fact is that
they changed my
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life
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and your mothers i'm sure it did
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i started her journal that day
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you might like
to take a look at it
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i'd like it back
when you're finished
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thanks
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oh nini wait wait
i've got some coffee
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cake for your mother
i know she doesn't
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like to cook yeah
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thanks and don't
forget we have our
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hearts set on you
doing the photography
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for the wedding
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oh i don't know if
i'm gonna be able to
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make it oh you can
spend another month
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laney would love
the company i want all
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the children to come
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max tending bar and
sarah's playing the
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fiddle
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uh liddy's going to
be coming yes and uh
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mary's going to come
whether she's had
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the baby or not
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say yes you can't
let us down well i
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don't know i'll talk
to mother about it
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all right thanks a lot
quite welcome bye
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good morning
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july the 6th 1950
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randall is two he
never asks the name of
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anything
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he never points
hugs feeds himself
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he never says mama or data
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are not responding to others
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no reaction to
loud noises isolates
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himself at every opportunity
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dr bettelheim's
theory of autism that
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the mother
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rejects the baby
before it is born and
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after birth
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unconsciously
rejects the child is
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unacceptable
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delaney she refuses
to be apart from r
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even though to be
apart from her is the
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only hope
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for his recovery
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laney pregnant
again she will not
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discuss the
possibility of a second
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autistic child
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i suggest termination
no response
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that was me
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hell in denial
impossible to reason with
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okay
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laney found this journal
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all hell broke loose
how dare you write
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about us as though
we're your damn
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patients
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thar did this elle
said that i was just
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trying to organize
my thoughts that's
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all i
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i never mad at dr
bettelheim's theory on
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autism
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unacceptable to
al you're damn right
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it's unacceptable
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i'm amazed you
take him so seriously
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given your low
opinion of psychologists
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lainey dr bettelheim
is the head of the
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orthogenic school
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he is doing
breakthrough work with
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emotionally disturbed
children and his
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book is
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a theory and a very
convenient theory if
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you happen to be the father of a
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disturbed child since
bethlehem blames
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the mother
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i didn't want randall
i rejected randall
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before he was born
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and now he has to
be sent away because
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i'm the cause of
what's wrong with him
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you son of a [ __ ]
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you blame me for
rattle because god
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knows you don't
want to blame yourself
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it couldn't have
anything to do with you
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you bastard
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our fourth child born a girl
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seems normal elle
wants to name her
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nina i am unsure
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this morning randall
kept repeating shot
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from guns shot from guns
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shot from gowns
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taking a look at
the traffic report for
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the seattle area
this morning captain
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building kbf
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sky mobile reports
the two vehicles 509
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at 128.
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coffee oh thanks there we are
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nina mary sarah
dad's little pictures of
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health
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the extras the last straws
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i warned him you'd
understand that one
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day really
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what did he say
and the truth shall set
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you free
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the truth was that
after randall was
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diagnosed my parents
went ahead and had
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three more children
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me then mary and
when baby sarah came
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home from the hospital in 1954
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the family was complete
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six children the
neighbors set in
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disbelief as though
my mother was some
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sort of neurotic rabbit
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or my father couldn't
keep his hands off
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her
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let's go see mommy
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are you all right
of course i'm all
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right darling i'm here
277
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aren't i you think
the hospital would
278
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let me go if i was sick
279
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see the baby hi hi penny
280
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[Music]
281
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beautiful
282
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[Music]
283
00:14:29,832 --> 00:14:32,298
a sister home for
you penny looks like
284
00:14:32,832 --> 00:14:34,807
we have some work
to do here before
285
00:14:34,831 --> 00:14:35,951
santa shows up
286
00:14:36,831 --> 00:14:38,831
she looks just like mary mrs e
287
00:14:42,830 --> 00:14:44,764
except now mary's my big girl
288
00:14:48,830 --> 00:14:50,806
david for the christmas
tree ornaments
289
00:14:50,830 --> 00:14:52,509
in the nativity scene
290
00:14:54,829 --> 00:14:57,096
i couldn't find
them it's two hours
291
00:14:58,829 --> 00:14:59,805
right penny
292
00:14:59,829 --> 00:15:00,828
here you go
293
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you're welcome bye
guys you'll be good
294
00:15:05,828 --> 00:15:06,804
now
295
00:15:06,828 --> 00:15:08,961
merry christmas
same to you penny
296
00:15:09,827 --> 00:15:11,803
they're in the basement david in
297
00:15:11,827 --> 00:15:12,803
grandma's box
298
00:15:12,827 --> 00:15:14,803
it'll only take a
second to find them
299
00:15:14,827 --> 00:15:16,803
yeah i'll i'll look
for him tomorrow
300
00:15:16,827 --> 00:15:17,827
okay
301
00:15:18,826 --> 00:15:21,093
you want something
to eat no thanks
302
00:15:21,826 --> 00:15:24,226
honey let me get
you something to eat
303
00:15:24,826 --> 00:15:26,506
it's christmas eve david
304
00:15:26,826 --> 00:15:28,265
okay i'll do it no
305
00:15:30,825 --> 00:15:33,158
i'll do it after i
fet the kids i'll
306
00:15:33,825 --> 00:15:35,505
feed them if you just
307
00:15:36,824 --> 00:15:37,800
would you look
after the baby for a
308
00:15:37,824 --> 00:15:39,024
minute children
309
00:15:41,824 --> 00:15:44,290
another girl four of
us and one of you
310
00:15:44,824 --> 00:15:47,290
two randall doesn't
count he does soul
311
00:15:47,823 --> 00:15:48,799
count
312
00:15:48,823 --> 00:15:50,690
oh it's ugly ugly ugly happy
313
00:15:52,823 --> 00:15:54,503
shh i'll make mom cry
314
00:15:56,822 --> 00:15:58,555
liddy come and help please
315
00:16:01,822 --> 00:16:04,288
i sure hope i get a
chemistry set nina
316
00:16:04,821 --> 00:16:05,821
come on
317
00:16:06,821 --> 00:16:07,821
randall
318
00:16:08,821 --> 00:16:10,341
mac i'm mac say mac
319
00:16:13,820 --> 00:16:15,820
you're randall say randall mac
320
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randall mac wendy
321
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she brought forth
her firstborn son and
322
00:16:25,819 --> 00:16:27,795
wrapped him in
swaddling clothes and
323
00:16:27,819 --> 00:16:29,419
laid him in a manger
324
00:16:29,819 --> 00:16:32,018
because there was
no room for them
325
00:16:32,818 --> 00:16:33,794
and they were in
the same country
326
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shepherds abiding in the
327
00:16:36,818 --> 00:16:38,498
field keeping david no
328
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he won't stop he's
as much right as
329
00:16:41,817 --> 00:16:43,793
anyone to hear
the christmas story i
330
00:16:43,817 --> 00:16:45,497
want him treated the same
331
00:17:00,815 --> 00:17:02,335
about the shepherds
332
00:17:04,815 --> 00:17:07,081
where was i shepherd
and there were
333
00:17:08,814 --> 00:17:11,414
in the same country
shepherds abiding in
334
00:17:11,814 --> 00:17:12,814
the field
335
00:17:13,814 --> 00:17:16,347
keeping watch over
their flock by night
336
00:17:17,813 --> 00:17:20,280
and lo the angel of
the lord came upon
337
00:17:20,813 --> 00:17:21,813
them
338
00:17:22,813 --> 00:17:24,789
and the glory of
the lord shone round
339
00:17:24,813 --> 00:17:25,788
about them
340
00:17:25,812 --> 00:17:27,492
and they were sore afraid
341
00:17:42,811 --> 00:17:45,344
it's not like that
lady i don't want to
342
00:17:45,810 --> 00:17:46,786
wash my
343
00:17:46,810 --> 00:17:48,786
hands with randall
i love randall he's
344
00:17:48,810 --> 00:17:51,276
my responsibility
too i am thinking of
345
00:17:52,810 --> 00:17:54,943
randall what's
best for the whole
346
00:18:00,809 --> 00:18:01,785
all i'm saying is
it would be a lot
347
00:18:01,809 --> 00:18:03,488
better for everyone if
348
00:18:05,808 --> 00:18:07,784
randall went to the
orthogenic school in
349
00:18:07,808 --> 00:18:08,808
chicago
350
00:18:09,808 --> 00:18:12,407
but so far it wouldn't
be better for him
351
00:18:14,807 --> 00:18:17,140
please lanny at
least think about it
352
00:18:20,806 --> 00:18:22,782
randall's as much
our child as this one
353
00:18:22,806 --> 00:18:23,806
is david
354
00:18:26,806 --> 00:18:28,782
he deserves the
same love and care and
355
00:18:28,806 --> 00:18:30,485
attention as she gets
356
00:18:31,805 --> 00:18:34,405
and if you don't want
him then i'm sorry
357
00:18:35,805 --> 00:18:37,938
but you are not sending him away
358
00:18:53,803 --> 00:18:54,803
[Music]
359
00:19:01,802 --> 00:19:03,778
we're listening to
all of our holiday
360
00:19:03,802 --> 00:19:05,778
favorites on this christmas day
361
00:19:05,801 --> 00:19:08,401
from our family here
at kbex your family
362
00:19:08,801 --> 00:19:10,777
we wish you a
very very beautiful
363
00:19:10,801 --> 00:19:11,921
christmas okay
364
00:19:14,801 --> 00:19:15,776
how was your night
i heard you get up a
365
00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,333
couple times she's
sleeping now finally
366
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,333
oh god i think we
should call her sarah
367
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,066
they'll be twins
siri and mary just
368
00:19:25,799 --> 00:19:27,599
please go on the left dummy
369
00:19:27,799 --> 00:19:29,775
no they don't they
go on the big plates
370
00:19:29,799 --> 00:19:30,775
until we sit down
371
00:19:30,799 --> 00:19:32,775
robert that is your
grandmother's china
372
00:19:32,799 --> 00:19:34,478
you're about to break
373
00:19:36,798 --> 00:19:38,774
keep an eye on him
for a while will you
374
00:19:38,798 --> 00:19:40,774
sure you know
dad i think i got the
375
00:19:40,798 --> 00:19:41,774
chemistry set
376
00:19:41,798 --> 00:19:43,773
one box feels
like the right shape
377
00:19:43,797 --> 00:19:45,997
that's so disgusting
poking around
378
00:19:47,797 --> 00:19:49,773
just for today may
we have a moratorium
379
00:19:49,797 --> 00:19:51,316
on the war with mac
380
00:20:03,795 --> 00:20:05,475
mac it's christmas liddy
381
00:20:07,795 --> 00:20:08,771
run upstairs and get
nina mary dressed
382
00:20:08,795 --> 00:20:10,074
will you darling
383
00:20:10,794 --> 00:20:11,794
good girl
384
00:20:18,793 --> 00:20:20,993
what's that mag
go find out what's
385
00:20:21,793 --> 00:20:22,769
happening with you honey
386
00:20:22,793 --> 00:20:24,769
how come it's always
me because liddy's
387
00:20:24,793 --> 00:20:25,913
busy honey bun
388
00:20:30,792 --> 00:20:32,525
mom the ornament was broke
389
00:20:34,792 --> 00:20:36,072
broken not broke
390
00:20:37,791 --> 00:20:40,058
oh my god david
is it going to hurt
391
00:20:41,791 --> 00:20:43,767
well the stitches
aren't comfortable but
392
00:20:43,791 --> 00:20:44,767
it won't be as bad
as you think they'll
393
00:20:44,791 --> 00:20:46,657
give you a local anaesthetic
394
00:20:46,790 --> 00:20:49,190
will you stay with
me dad of course i
395
00:20:49,790 --> 00:20:49,791
will
396
00:20:49,792 --> 00:20:51,590
the doctor didn't say no no
397
00:20:54,790 --> 00:20:56,765
we're real busy so
you may have to wait
398
00:20:56,789 --> 00:20:57,765
a while i want you
to keep this pad
399
00:20:57,789 --> 00:20:58,765
pressed
400
00:20:58,789 --> 00:21:00,765
tight until the
bleeding stops can you
401
00:21:00,789 --> 00:21:02,922
do that i expect so i'm a doctor
402
00:21:03,789 --> 00:21:05,764
well thank heavens
for small mercies
403
00:21:05,788 --> 00:21:07,764
we'll have you home
to your presents
404
00:21:07,788 --> 00:21:10,121
quick as we can
son thank you doctor
405
00:21:11,788 --> 00:21:13,987
will they open
presents without us
406
00:21:14,787 --> 00:21:16,763
with your mom's
christmas routine
407
00:21:16,787 --> 00:21:17,763
exactly the way her
parents do it every
408
00:21:17,787 --> 00:21:18,787
year
409
00:21:19,787 --> 00:21:21,763
no they'll wait
what do you think
410
00:21:21,787 --> 00:21:23,146
they're doing now
411
00:21:23,786 --> 00:21:26,186
well let's see i
like getting dressed
412
00:21:28,786 --> 00:21:31,252
and uh liddy's on
her third outfit and
413
00:21:31,785 --> 00:21:33,761
it's still not right
so she's going back
414
00:21:33,785 --> 00:21:36,318
upstairs to get
another randle's outfit
415
00:21:36,785 --> 00:21:37,761
is
416
00:21:37,785 --> 00:21:40,118
perfect and he's
chewing on a sleeve
417
00:21:40,784 --> 00:21:42,760
wishing your mother
a loud ketchup on
418
00:21:42,784 --> 00:21:45,184
clothes and mary
and nina are wearing
419
00:21:45,784 --> 00:21:47,224
each other's shoes
420
00:21:47,784 --> 00:21:50,317
on the wrong feet
and i've got two legs
421
00:21:50,783 --> 00:21:52,759
sticking out the same leg hole
422
00:21:52,783 --> 00:21:55,250
why don't they come
dad don't mind mac
423
00:21:56,783 --> 00:21:58,463
can't you sew me up well
424
00:22:00,782 --> 00:22:01,758
i'm a little rusty
at that stuff i might
425
00:22:01,782 --> 00:22:03,582
slow your foot to your knee
426
00:22:04,782 --> 00:22:06,758
and doctors aren't
supposed to work on
427
00:22:06,782 --> 00:22:08,461
their families you know
428
00:22:08,781 --> 00:22:10,981
is that why you
don't kill randall
429
00:22:12,781 --> 00:22:15,247
well that's part
of it but mostly it's
430
00:22:15,781 --> 00:22:16,756
because there's
only a few people that
431
00:22:16,780 --> 00:22:17,756
know about
432
00:22:17,780 --> 00:22:18,756
the disease that
he has and it's a
433
00:22:18,780 --> 00:22:20,756
different kind of
psychiatric of the
434
00:22:20,780 --> 00:22:21,756
kind that i do
435
00:22:21,780 --> 00:22:24,380
if i'm a psychiatrist
when i grow up the
436
00:22:24,780 --> 00:22:26,513
white kind of psychiatrist
437
00:22:26,779 --> 00:22:28,713
would they let me kill randle
438
00:22:30,779 --> 00:22:32,912
that's a complicated
question mac
439
00:22:34,779 --> 00:22:37,312
we just don't know
enough yet is he all
440
00:22:40,778 --> 00:22:41,754
right
441
00:22:41,778 --> 00:22:43,978
yeah he's all right
what about you
442
00:22:44,777 --> 00:22:47,177
tell me if anything
was wrong there's
443
00:22:47,777 --> 00:22:48,753
nothing wrong
444
00:22:48,777 --> 00:22:51,377
i'm having a great
time it's a christmas
445
00:22:52,777 --> 00:22:53,776
adventure
446
00:22:59,776 --> 00:23:00,752
i don't think you
should be a doctor
447
00:23:00,776 --> 00:23:02,455
because of randall meg
448
00:23:02,775 --> 00:23:04,751
your mother and i
are in charge of him
449
00:23:04,775 --> 00:23:06,775
and we should be what you want
450
00:23:07,775 --> 00:23:10,375
not worry about your
brother i wish this
451
00:23:10,775 --> 00:23:10,776
hadn't
452
00:23:10,777 --> 00:23:13,308
happened today what
day would have been
453
00:23:13,774 --> 00:23:13,775
better
454
00:23:13,776 --> 00:23:15,974
a school day i get
to stay home or
455
00:23:17,774 --> 00:23:19,974
wednesday piano
lessons friday you
456
00:23:20,773 --> 00:23:22,973
wouldn't have to
put out the trash
457
00:23:25,773 --> 00:23:28,173
damn my mother was
scary when we were
458
00:23:28,773 --> 00:23:28,774
small
459
00:23:28,775 --> 00:23:31,306
she had this intense
quality if she was
460
00:23:31,772 --> 00:23:32,748
angry she was
461
00:23:32,772 --> 00:23:35,372
really angry or she'd
swoop down and hug
462
00:23:35,772 --> 00:23:37,212
us incredibly hard
463
00:23:37,772 --> 00:23:39,747
he never knew which
way she was going to
464
00:23:39,771 --> 00:23:40,771
go
465
00:23:41,771 --> 00:23:42,747
thank you again
for the chemistry set
466
00:23:42,771 --> 00:23:45,037
this is the happiest
day of my life
467
00:23:45,771 --> 00:23:48,237
oh darling i hope
all your days are as
468
00:23:49,770 --> 00:23:51,130
happy as this one
469
00:23:55,770 --> 00:23:57,503
well god bless us everyone
470
00:23:59,769 --> 00:24:02,302
is that grace no
darling that's dickens
471
00:24:03,769 --> 00:24:05,745
we'll sing the
doxology if lydia will
472
00:24:05,769 --> 00:24:06,744
pitch us
473
00:24:06,768 --> 00:24:09,368
like at grandma's
just like at grandma's
474
00:24:19,767 --> 00:24:20,767
[Music]
475
00:24:22,767 --> 00:24:23,767
praise him
476
00:24:36,765 --> 00:24:37,765
[Music]
477
00:24:42,764 --> 00:24:43,764
[Applause]
478
00:24:44,764 --> 00:24:45,764
praise
479
00:24:51,763 --> 00:24:52,763
[Music]
480
00:24:58,763 --> 00:24:59,763
ah
481
00:25:12,761 --> 00:25:13,761
here
482
00:25:39,758 --> 00:25:42,225
i'm sorry did you
wake you know how he
483
00:25:43,758 --> 00:25:44,734
hates the thunder
484
00:25:44,758 --> 00:25:47,357
that's not the thunder
what the train an
485
00:25:47,757 --> 00:25:49,733
ambulance a police
car we all know the
486
00:25:49,757 --> 00:25:50,733
list
487
00:25:50,757 --> 00:25:52,690
david i don't want to do this
488
00:25:59,756 --> 00:26:00,756
fire fire
489
00:26:02,756 --> 00:26:04,889
when's the last time he spoke no
490
00:26:06,755 --> 00:26:07,755
david no
491
00:26:09,755 --> 00:26:12,355
fellaini he needs
more help than you can
492
00:26:12,755 --> 00:26:13,730
give him
493
00:26:13,754 --> 00:26:15,954
he has helped
david he has help at
494
00:26:16,754 --> 00:26:18,730
school and i work
with him day and night
495
00:26:18,754 --> 00:26:21,087
he's my responsibility
i know you're
496
00:26:21,754 --> 00:26:22,953
doing your best
497
00:26:23,753 --> 00:26:25,729
oh and as usual
that's not good but you
498
00:26:25,753 --> 00:26:27,729
are responsible for
his not getting help
499
00:26:27,753 --> 00:26:29,433
from qualified people
500
00:26:29,753 --> 00:26:32,086
is that all why
do you do this it'll
501
00:26:32,752 --> 00:26:34,728
make you feel
saintly or something
502
00:26:34,752 --> 00:26:35,728
i don't see why i should have to
503
00:26:35,752 --> 00:26:37,685
sacrifice randall's sacrifice
504
00:26:38,752 --> 00:26:40,727
the only thing is
being sacrificed here
505
00:26:40,751 --> 00:26:41,727
is this family
506
00:26:41,751 --> 00:26:44,218
on the altar you've
made of randall if
507
00:26:44,751 --> 00:26:46,727
anyone's sacrificing
this family it's
508
00:26:46,751 --> 00:26:47,751
you david
509
00:26:48,751 --> 00:26:51,084
on the altar of
your psychiatric ego
510
00:27:02,749 --> 00:27:03,725
violence in a newly
admitted manic
511
00:27:03,749 --> 00:27:06,082
depressive is
unusual but we arrange
512
00:27:06,749 --> 00:27:08,348
this just for you dr
513
00:27:08,748 --> 00:27:10,724
mcgill we do say that
humility makes one
514
00:27:10,748 --> 00:27:12,428
more inclined to learn
515
00:27:13,748 --> 00:27:14,724
there is another
lesson to be learned
516
00:27:14,748 --> 00:27:17,214
here we can all
learn from the nursing
517
00:27:17,747 --> 00:27:18,723
staff
518
00:27:18,747 --> 00:27:21,214
about the management
of patients thank
519
00:27:21,747 --> 00:27:23,747
you dr evelyn that's very kind
520
00:27:24,747 --> 00:27:26,722
all right gentlemen
any questions yes
521
00:27:26,746 --> 00:27:27,722
doctor i have one
522
00:27:27,746 --> 00:27:29,722
what are the early indicators of
523
00:27:29,746 --> 00:27:30,722
incipient violence
524
00:27:30,746 --> 00:27:33,012
you tell me acting
out on the manic
525
00:27:33,746 --> 00:27:34,746
depressive
526
00:27:35,745 --> 00:27:38,012
what do we know
dr miguel any ideas
527
00:27:49,744 --> 00:27:50,744
[Music]
528
00:27:59,743 --> 00:28:00,719
the girls thought we
should come up with
529
00:28:00,743 --> 00:28:02,718
a name you know
for the whole group
530
00:28:02,742 --> 00:28:03,718
because we get together so often
531
00:28:03,742 --> 00:28:06,075
so tony came up
with it the houdinis
532
00:28:07,742 --> 00:28:10,142
houdini the magician
see every friday
533
00:28:10,742 --> 00:28:11,717
night
534
00:28:11,741 --> 00:28:14,341
we get together and
escape from the kids
535
00:28:16,741 --> 00:28:17,741
[Music]
536
00:28:25,740 --> 00:28:26,716
the camping trip's
been planned for
537
00:28:26,740 --> 00:28:28,716
months daniel's touching on him
538
00:28:28,740 --> 00:28:31,339
erica my sweet hmm
where is your husband
539
00:28:32,739 --> 00:28:34,715
i want one of freddy's
famous martinis
540
00:28:34,739 --> 00:28:36,715
ooh i make a mean martini myself
541
00:28:36,739 --> 00:28:38,714
i'm sure you do
but i want one of
542
00:28:38,738 --> 00:28:40,418
freddy's is he upstairs
543
00:28:41,738 --> 00:28:42,714
okay i'll take a
look around david
544
00:28:42,738 --> 00:28:44,538
freddy's not here let it go
545
00:28:46,738 --> 00:28:48,871
you saw here i saw him with jane
546
00:28:51,737 --> 00:28:53,804
freddy and jane you didn't know
547
00:28:55,737 --> 00:28:57,712
well not until a
minute ago i think i
548
00:28:57,736 --> 00:28:59,416
will have one of yours
549
00:28:59,736 --> 00:29:00,712
well i knew lainey
wouldn't have put it
550
00:29:00,736 --> 00:29:01,712
together but i thought
you would have
551
00:29:01,736 --> 00:29:02,736
guessed
552
00:29:06,735 --> 00:29:08,711
any others having
a fears i don't know
553
00:29:08,735 --> 00:29:09,735
about
554
00:29:10,735 --> 00:29:11,855
a couple of us
555
00:29:13,735 --> 00:29:15,668
us i've been known to indulge
556
00:29:20,734 --> 00:29:21,734
and uh
557
00:29:23,734 --> 00:29:25,467
it's all right with gerald
558
00:29:27,733 --> 00:29:29,709
sweetheart i wouldn't
still be married
559
00:29:29,733 --> 00:29:31,413
if it wasn't all right
560
00:29:31,733 --> 00:29:32,733
gerald
561
00:29:36,732 --> 00:29:39,132
david penny called
randall's having a
562
00:29:39,732 --> 00:29:41,412
tantrum i have to go home
563
00:29:42,731 --> 00:29:44,411
you don't know you stay
564
00:29:45,731 --> 00:29:47,091
you're having fun
565
00:29:48,731 --> 00:29:50,531
besides i have some work to
566
00:29:53,730 --> 00:29:54,850
he finish ride
567
00:30:29,726 --> 00:30:30,846
don't touch me
568
00:30:44,725 --> 00:30:45,725
[Applause]
569
00:30:48,724 --> 00:30:50,524
there's no point pretending
570
00:30:53,724 --> 00:30:55,657
you're tired of me is that it
571
00:30:57,723 --> 00:30:59,856
i just don't feel desire for you
572
00:31:05,722 --> 00:31:06,722
why
573
00:31:09,722 --> 00:31:10,722
did i do
574
00:31:13,721 --> 00:31:14,721
[Applause]
575
00:31:16,721 --> 00:31:17,721
look
576
00:31:20,721 --> 00:31:23,054
amazing love to use
has come to mean
577
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,320
having another child
578
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:28,696
and those three
little girls sleeping
579
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,720
upstairs
580
00:31:31,719 --> 00:31:33,695
i'm living breathing
decisions and i
581
00:31:33,719 --> 00:31:34,695
wasn't privy to
582
00:31:34,719 --> 00:31:36,695
they're your children
no they're not
583
00:31:36,719 --> 00:31:37,719
really yours
584
00:31:38,719 --> 00:31:40,159
i wasn't consulted
585
00:31:41,718 --> 00:31:43,985
ever since randall
is diagnosed all
586
00:31:44,718 --> 00:31:45,838
you've done is
587
00:31:46,718 --> 00:31:47,998
have more babies
588
00:31:49,717 --> 00:31:51,517
stop blaming me for randall
589
00:31:53,717 --> 00:31:55,693
so far your medical
profession has
590
00:31:55,717 --> 00:31:56,693
diagnosed randall
591
00:31:56,717 --> 00:31:58,916
as deaf as [ __ ]
as schizophrenic
592
00:32:00,716 --> 00:32:02,692
who knows how long
the diagnosis will be
593
00:32:02,716 --> 00:32:04,916
autistic maybe
they're wrong about
594
00:32:05,716 --> 00:32:06,716
randall
595
00:32:07,716 --> 00:32:10,249
wrong about randall
you don't know that
596
00:32:10,715 --> 00:32:11,691
damn
597
00:32:11,715 --> 00:32:14,248
you don't know that
you don't know that
598
00:32:15,715 --> 00:32:16,715
you know
599
00:32:39,712 --> 00:32:41,845
you are very kind to them doctor
600
00:32:42,712 --> 00:32:43,688
personality is
always hard to accept
601
00:32:43,712 --> 00:32:45,391
especially in the father
602
00:32:45,711 --> 00:32:47,444
all those years of seeming
603
00:32:47,711 --> 00:32:49,391
indestructibility and
604
00:32:50,711 --> 00:32:53,244
strength yes would
you sign this please
605
00:33:07,709 --> 00:33:08,709
[Music]
606
00:33:19,708 --> 00:33:20,683
when we were little
we couldn't imagine
607
00:33:20,707 --> 00:33:22,683
our parents going
to the bathroom
608
00:33:22,707 --> 00:33:25,174
or making love to
each other much less
609
00:33:25,707 --> 00:33:27,973
having an affair
with somebody else
610
00:33:28,707 --> 00:33:31,106
if my father was
unfaithful we didn't
611
00:33:32,706 --> 00:33:33,706
[Music]
612
00:33:36,706 --> 00:33:37,706
know
613
00:33:39,705 --> 00:33:40,705
[Music]
614
00:34:30,700 --> 00:34:31,700
[Applause]
615
00:34:47,698 --> 00:34:49,378
father called mother died
616
00:34:53,697 --> 00:34:55,297
oh lady i'm so sorry
617
00:34:55,697 --> 00:34:56,673
[Music]
618
00:34:56,697 --> 00:34:59,297
it's all right lily i
haven't even cried
619
00:35:00,696 --> 00:35:02,672
i have to go to
connecticut though
620
00:35:02,696 --> 00:35:04,672
father wants the
funeral in the summer
621
00:35:04,696 --> 00:35:04,697
home
622
00:35:04,698 --> 00:35:06,672
i have to open it
up all right you wake
623
00:35:06,696 --> 00:35:07,696
me up
624
00:35:08,696 --> 00:35:10,135
scrambled or fried
625
00:35:10,695 --> 00:35:11,695
[Music]
626
00:35:15,695 --> 00:35:18,295
what'd she die of she
was old honey your
627
00:35:18,695 --> 00:35:19,814
heart gave out
628
00:35:20,694 --> 00:35:22,670
i'm sad for grandpa
he'll be all alone
629
00:35:22,694 --> 00:35:23,694
macky's sad
630
00:35:24,694 --> 00:35:26,827
too much eat your
breakfast honey
631
00:35:27,694 --> 00:35:29,893
don't you care
doesn't anyone care
632
00:35:30,693 --> 00:35:33,093
oh darling of
course i care i'll miss
633
00:35:34,693 --> 00:35:35,693
grandma too
634
00:35:38,692 --> 00:35:40,668
mommy and mac
are sad nina but they'll
635
00:35:40,692 --> 00:35:41,668
be better soon
636
00:35:41,692 --> 00:35:43,668
but you're not
sad all you want is
637
00:35:43,692 --> 00:35:44,692
breakfast
638
00:35:45,692 --> 00:35:48,025
you make me sick
i am so sad you pig
639
00:35:49,691 --> 00:35:51,958
but not too sad
to eat mac it's all
640
00:35:52,691 --> 00:35:53,667
right if you don't
want to eat but it's
641
00:35:53,691 --> 00:35:54,667
okay for the girls
642
00:35:54,691 --> 00:35:56,666
liddy would you go
upstairs and see if
643
00:35:56,690 --> 00:35:58,666
your daddy's done
dressing the little
644
00:35:58,690 --> 00:35:59,666
ones
645
00:35:59,690 --> 00:36:00,690
no
646
00:36:01,690 --> 00:36:02,690
[Music]
647
00:36:06,689 --> 00:36:08,665
i was too young to
know grandma very
648
00:36:08,689 --> 00:36:10,665
well or to understand
what death really
649
00:36:10,689 --> 00:36:11,665
meant
650
00:36:11,689 --> 00:36:13,664
i do remember that
when we went to
651
00:36:13,688 --> 00:36:14,664
grandma's house my mother was
652
00:36:14,688 --> 00:36:15,688
transformed
653
00:36:16,688 --> 00:36:19,155
suddenly we children
must be quiet and
654
00:36:19,688 --> 00:36:19,689
good
655
00:36:19,690 --> 00:36:21,821
meet and tidy seen but not heard
656
00:36:24,687 --> 00:36:25,663
grandma's house
was meticulous and
657
00:36:25,687 --> 00:36:27,487
orderly our house was chaos
658
00:36:28,687 --> 00:36:30,663
and when mom left
for grandma's funeral
659
00:36:30,687 --> 00:36:32,820
the chaos at home didn't improve
660
00:36:35,686 --> 00:36:37,662
this is the hard
part putting in the
661
00:36:37,686 --> 00:36:40,286
pins you see you
have to be real careful
662
00:36:40,685 --> 00:36:42,365
you don't stick them in
663
00:36:42,685 --> 00:36:44,661
you gotta make
sure the baby doesn't
664
00:36:44,685 --> 00:36:46,485
move no matter what happens
665
00:36:46,685 --> 00:36:49,018
nina nina what's
the matter with you
666
00:36:49,685 --> 00:36:51,660
what are you doing
to him leave him
667
00:36:51,684 --> 00:36:54,017
alone leave him
alone do you hear me
668
00:36:54,684 --> 00:36:56,660
how can you let
them do that what are
669
00:36:56,684 --> 00:36:57,660
you [ __ ] or something
670
00:36:57,684 --> 00:36:58,684
stupid
671
00:36:59,683 --> 00:37:00,683
[Music]
672
00:37:06,683 --> 00:37:08,658
pictures have power
because of what they
673
00:37:08,682 --> 00:37:10,362
show and what they hide
674
00:37:11,682 --> 00:37:13,658
photos can only
remind the rest of us
675
00:37:13,682 --> 00:37:15,362
what grandma looked like
676
00:37:15,682 --> 00:37:18,215
the real memories
of her are moms alone
677
00:37:20,681 --> 00:37:22,657
yeah so so just
just change it to
678
00:37:22,681 --> 00:37:25,147
tomorrow i can't
help it angela you're
679
00:37:25,681 --> 00:37:28,214
just gonna have to
cancel my 10 o'clock
680
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,280
i know you can't my
nine o'clock now i'm
681
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,360
asking thank you angela
682
00:37:39,679 --> 00:37:40,679
[Music]
683
00:37:44,678 --> 00:37:46,198
hello tony hi david
684
00:37:47,678 --> 00:37:49,654
i hope you don't mind
i brought you some
685
00:37:49,678 --> 00:37:50,678
chicken
686
00:37:52,678 --> 00:37:53,877
hi randall well
687
00:37:56,677 --> 00:37:59,210
we better get this
off before it stains
688
00:38:02,676 --> 00:38:03,716
you're a mess
689
00:38:04,676 --> 00:38:05,676
[Music]
690
00:38:10,676 --> 00:38:12,651
every parent leaves
their child some
691
00:38:12,675 --> 00:38:13,795
kind of legacy
692
00:38:14,675 --> 00:38:17,275
it could be anything
an old sweater some
693
00:38:17,675 --> 00:38:19,355
embroidered linens or
694
00:38:19,675 --> 00:38:21,650
even a pair of shoes
that suddenly seem
695
00:38:21,674 --> 00:38:23,354
much too large to fill
696
00:38:33,673 --> 00:38:34,673
[Music]
697
00:38:56,671 --> 00:38:58,537
david you won't believe this
698
00:39:00,670 --> 00:39:02,646
mother left us the
summer house isn't
699
00:39:02,670 --> 00:39:03,646
that wonderful
700
00:39:03,670 --> 00:39:06,003
think of the
vacations we'll have hi
701
00:39:06,669 --> 00:39:07,645
randall
702
00:39:07,669 --> 00:39:09,189
who are you darling
703
00:39:10,669 --> 00:39:12,469
oh it's so great to be home
704
00:39:14,669 --> 00:39:17,135
no not that what
about the movies then
705
00:39:20,668 --> 00:39:23,068
i saw that last week
i hate this show
706
00:39:23,668 --> 00:39:25,401
oh i know him i don't care
707
00:39:28,667 --> 00:39:29,867
no okay hey dad
708
00:39:33,666 --> 00:39:35,346
uh no i don't think so
709
00:39:37,666 --> 00:39:38,642
if that teacher talk
to you one more
710
00:39:38,666 --> 00:39:40,599
time about chewing gum and hi
711
00:39:41,666 --> 00:39:44,265
you're home early
you did all this today
712
00:39:44,665 --> 00:39:45,665
uh-huh even
713
00:39:48,665 --> 00:39:50,345
domesticated freud here
714
00:39:53,664 --> 00:39:56,264
well he needed to be
tamed the other one
715
00:39:56,664 --> 00:39:57,784
scared randall
716
00:39:59,664 --> 00:40:01,263
why two enunciations
717
00:40:02,663 --> 00:40:04,023
and an enunciator
718
00:40:06,663 --> 00:40:08,596
i don't know i like them both
719
00:40:10,662 --> 00:40:13,129
this one's so peaceful
the angel looks
720
00:40:14,662 --> 00:40:15,638
kind and
721
00:40:15,662 --> 00:40:16,638
mary looks so happy
722
00:40:16,662 --> 00:40:17,662
[Music]
723
00:40:19,661 --> 00:40:22,061
but in this one the
angel looks angry
724
00:40:24,661 --> 00:40:25,661
[Music]
725
00:40:26,661 --> 00:40:28,994
seems afraid afraid
to have the baby
726
00:40:29,660 --> 00:40:31,727
i'll tape it i miss her so much
727
00:40:34,660 --> 00:40:36,636
she always knew
how to make everything
728
00:40:36,660 --> 00:40:38,793
right she always knew what to do
729
00:40:39,659 --> 00:40:40,659
[Music]
730
00:40:45,659 --> 00:40:47,634
now you stopped
trying to be as perfect
731
00:40:47,658 --> 00:40:49,338
as you thought she was
732
00:40:56,657 --> 00:40:57,657
[Music]
733
00:41:02,657 --> 00:41:04,632
i asked you to
watch him for an hour
734
00:41:04,656 --> 00:41:06,632
while i went to the damn market
735
00:41:06,656 --> 00:41:08,632
i could have choked
to death you could
736
00:41:08,656 --> 00:41:09,632
have killed your
brother because you're
737
00:41:09,656 --> 00:41:10,936
so irresponsible
738
00:41:11,656 --> 00:41:14,189
i said oh sorry sorry
isn't good enough
739
00:41:14,655 --> 00:41:16,335
i trusted you and you let
740
00:41:16,655 --> 00:41:18,631
you let him destroy
the couch you let
741
00:41:18,655 --> 00:41:20,631
him swallow half
the fabric well at
742
00:41:20,655 --> 00:41:21,631
least now you don't
have to worry about
743
00:41:21,655 --> 00:41:23,588
getting him to eat his dinner
744
00:41:27,654 --> 00:41:29,654
my master of the silver lining
745
00:41:30,654 --> 00:41:32,587
my mistress of the dark cloud
746
00:41:36,653 --> 00:41:37,629
when i was growing
up i wanted to be
747
00:41:37,653 --> 00:41:39,629
different from my baby sisters
748
00:41:39,653 --> 00:41:41,586
i wanted to be special unique
749
00:41:43,652 --> 00:41:45,628
after years of trial
and error i finally
750
00:41:45,652 --> 00:41:46,652
found a way
751
00:41:48,652 --> 00:41:50,651
i switched sides of the camera
752
00:41:51,651 --> 00:41:53,331
great that was perfect
753
00:41:54,651 --> 00:41:57,051
my parents
thanksgiving party in 1963
754
00:41:58,651 --> 00:41:59,626
was another one of
those pivotal moments
755
00:41:59,650 --> 00:42:01,330
when everything changes
756
00:42:02,650 --> 00:42:04,626
liddy was home
from studying music at
757
00:42:04,650 --> 00:42:05,626
juilliard
758
00:42:05,650 --> 00:42:08,183
the houdinis came
out in force and even
759
00:42:08,649 --> 00:42:11,116
mac managed to
stay around for an hour
760
00:42:11,649 --> 00:42:14,182
my sisters and i
weren't invited but we
761
00:42:14,649 --> 00:42:16,329
didn't let that stop us
762
00:42:16,649 --> 00:42:17,624
every year i tried to
come up with a way
763
00:42:17,648 --> 00:42:20,048
of getting into the
party as an adult
764
00:42:20,648 --> 00:42:22,624
and that year was no
exception come on i
765
00:42:22,648 --> 00:42:24,248
got an idea let's go
766
00:42:32,647 --> 00:42:33,623
hallelujah
767
00:42:33,647 --> 00:42:34,647
[Music]
768
00:42:35,646 --> 00:42:37,513
michael rode the boat ashore
769
00:42:42,646 --> 00:42:43,646
hallelujah
770
00:42:46,645 --> 00:42:48,712
the river is deep and the river
771
00:42:50,645 --> 00:42:51,645
is white
772
00:42:53,644 --> 00:42:56,244
you like that it's
for the party tonight
773
00:42:59,644 --> 00:43:01,324
i think it's pretty say
774
00:43:02,643 --> 00:43:03,683
pretty pretty
775
00:43:08,643 --> 00:43:10,323
michael the boat ashore
776
00:43:14,642 --> 00:43:15,642
[Music]
777
00:43:24,641 --> 00:43:25,641
how
778
00:43:26,641 --> 00:43:27,641
oh i
779
00:43:29,641 --> 00:43:30,920
love you so much
780
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:36,706
you do understand i know you do
781
00:43:40,639 --> 00:43:41,639
[Music]
782
00:43:47,639 --> 00:43:50,238
good evening mr daddy
well my unexpected
783
00:43:50,638 --> 00:43:52,318
guests the last straws
784
00:43:54,638 --> 00:43:56,838
nina the pinter
and the siri maria
785
00:43:59,637 --> 00:44:01,904
goes back you
extras after that now
786
00:44:03,637 --> 00:44:06,103
dad yeah libby we
need you to help tim
787
00:44:06,636 --> 00:44:07,636
boss
788
00:44:09,636 --> 00:44:11,569
hey bunny rabbit hi lily dads
789
00:44:12,636 --> 00:44:15,036
needs how can we
always treat me like
790
00:44:15,635 --> 00:44:16,611
mary and sarah
791
00:44:16,635 --> 00:44:19,035
i'm way more mature
than they are why
792
00:44:19,635 --> 00:44:20,611
can't i help like lady
793
00:44:20,635 --> 00:44:22,611
well if you wanted
to help you could
794
00:44:22,635 --> 00:44:23,611
have helped all day instead of
795
00:44:23,635 --> 00:44:25,901
playing until 10
minutes ago oh but
796
00:44:26,634 --> 00:44:27,610
that's not
797
00:44:27,634 --> 00:44:30,101
fair life's not
fair to it's life just
798
00:44:30,634 --> 00:44:31,834
isn't like that
799
00:44:33,633 --> 00:44:35,609
but she gets all
the good stuff she's
800
00:44:35,633 --> 00:44:37,609
going to juilliard
and i have to stay
801
00:44:37,633 --> 00:44:37,632
here
802
00:44:37,633 --> 00:44:38,609
i think you're a
little young to go to
803
00:44:38,633 --> 00:44:40,566
new york just now which means
804
00:44:41,633 --> 00:44:43,608
but i do think you're
old enough to go
805
00:44:43,632 --> 00:44:45,608
back upstairs with
your own inimitable
806
00:44:45,632 --> 00:44:46,992
disgusted flounce
807
00:44:47,632 --> 00:44:48,608
you and your gang
of thugs can watch
808
00:44:48,632 --> 00:44:50,608
from the stairs if you're good
809
00:44:50,632 --> 00:44:53,231
i promise we'll be
good can we have some
810
00:44:53,631 --> 00:44:55,607
hors d'oeuvres and
stuff like last time
811
00:44:55,631 --> 00:44:57,764
good night means
it was as always
812
00:44:58,631 --> 00:45:01,030
a pleat and a
treasure to talk to you
813
00:45:04,630 --> 00:45:05,630
[Music]
814
00:45:16,629 --> 00:45:17,629
um
815
00:45:18,629 --> 00:45:19,628
[Music]
816
00:45:24,628 --> 00:45:26,604
ah it's an earthquake
the world's coming
817
00:45:26,628 --> 00:45:27,628
to an end
818
00:45:29,627 --> 00:45:31,894
i'm going out not
a minute after 11
819
00:45:32,627 --> 00:45:34,147
o'clock you hear me
820
00:45:34,627 --> 00:45:35,627
[Music]
821
00:45:42,626 --> 00:45:44,626
david i can't do this we don't
822
00:45:45,626 --> 00:45:47,625
have to stop seeing each other
823
00:45:49,625 --> 00:45:52,158
yes we do it wasn't
supposed to be like
824
00:45:52,625 --> 00:45:53,601
this
825
00:45:53,625 --> 00:45:55,358
tony i want to be with you
826
00:45:58,624 --> 00:46:00,304
i want to be with you too
827
00:46:11,623 --> 00:46:12,663
don't mind me
828
00:46:15,622 --> 00:46:16,622
[Music]
829
00:46:36,620 --> 00:46:37,620
come on
830
00:46:43,619 --> 00:46:44,619
[Music]
831
00:46:52,618 --> 00:46:54,298
wait nina will you mac
832
00:47:03,617 --> 00:47:04,817
dad no it's mac
833
00:47:06,617 --> 00:47:07,617
[Music]
834
00:47:08,616 --> 00:47:09,896
where is he gone
835
00:47:12,616 --> 00:47:13,896
that's gone nina
836
00:47:49,612 --> 00:47:50,612
[Music]
837
00:48:49,605 --> 00:48:50,605
you
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