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Why isn't that lamp on?
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I made that shade for you
three sessions ago
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and you've never turned it on.
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The chemical smell coming off it
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led me to do some research
on papier-mâché.
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The word "flammable"
kept coming up.
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Flammable, inflammable.
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I can never get it straight.
Which one are kid's pajamas?
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The point is,
thin smelly paper and heat
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are not two things
I want to put together.
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Look, I have a spare room.
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I've got to do something
productive with it.
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Doesn't have to be papier-mâché.
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It could be something
more game-changing,
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like, I don't know,
driftwood furniture.
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I like it. Repurposing.
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When Christy was little,
"repurposing"
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was just a fancy word
for survival.
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You find a TV set
on the side of the road,
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you break out the glassand turn it into puppet theater.
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Inventive.
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Until it gets stolen,
then you're stuck
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with two potatoes
that have wigs.
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By the way,
how's Christy doing?
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She's great. Did you know
how big driftwood furniture was
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in the '60s?
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I think it's time
for a comeback,
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like civil disobedience
and feathered hair.
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You have no idea how great
I looked with feathered hair.
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I have another client whose
daughter went away to college.
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It's a big life change.
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It's hard to concentrate
on what you're saying,
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what with it
being so dark in here.
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Fine, I'll turn it on.
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Maybe I was wrong.
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Really gives the room
a nice, warm glow.
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Say what you will,
but that was frickin' cool.
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Ooh.
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How many dating
sites are you on?
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All of them,
including Farmers Only.
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I can get a whole lot
of house in Iowa.
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You have a whole lot
of house here.
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Yeah, but it doesn't
have a sexy farmer in it.
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I don't know. I havea bone to pick with farmers.
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Why should the whole worldhave to change their clocks
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twice a year just because theydon't want to work in the dark?
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Bring a flashlight.
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Jill, I think it's great
you're trying to be proactive,
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but you and Andy
just broke up.
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It's okay to be sad.
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Nope. I'm skipping
over the "sweatpants,
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"pint of ice cream, head
under the water in the tub
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a little too long" stage.
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Hey, what about that guy Davewho shared at the meeting today?
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Dave is two days sober.He's still got more meth
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in his systemthan a rodeo clown.
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Yeah, what I'm hearing is
he can stay up all night
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and has laser focus.
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Geez Louise, has it been
20 minutes already?
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We need to feed
the parking meter.
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You know, if you put more than
25 cents in at a time, you...
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Don't start with me, Tammy.
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Here, we should usethese nickels.
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I'm going to the ladies'.
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My God,she drives me insane.
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I picked up on the whole"we" means "you" thing.
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You don't even knowthe half of it.
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I mean, you guys get to seewise, patient Marjorie.
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I live with her.I see Marjorie raw and uncut.
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She lashes out if things
aren't done her way.
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She hovers around me going,
"No, no, no. No, no, no."
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All I can think of is what those"No, no, no's" would sound like
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under a pillow.
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: No, no, no.That's not how you smother.
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No...
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Why don't you just
stand your ground?
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'Cause I'm more comfortable
seething with resentment.
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On my way, boss. I hate my life.
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So I'm thinking
I put my driftwood bin here,
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my table saw here.
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By the way, we're gonna needto go to the beach this weekend.
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No place my wheelchair
loves more than the beach.
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So you're locked
in on driftwood?
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I just said
I had a driftwood bin.
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Yes, I'm locked in on it.
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God, see, this is what
it was like for the masters.
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Michelangelo's husband
sat there eating a grape going,
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: "I don't get
it, why paint on the ceilings?"
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Little hard to keep up.
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Yesterday you were
looking at kilns.
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This conversation is over.
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How do you stay so cool?
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'Cause I know it's not about me.
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She's yelling at you.
Isn't that about you?
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I used to think that,
and then I saw her yelling
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at a hat blowing down
the street.
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Was it a fedora?
Because a lot of us were lied to
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about how fashionable
those were.
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I'm angry, too.
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No, the point is
it's not personal.
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I just wish I could be
that zen with Marjorie.
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She's never satisfied
no matter how hard I try.
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She has 24 different sighs
to convey disappointment.
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She can even close the fridge
in a way that says,
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"You've let me down."
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You know, all those sentences
started with "she."
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Because she's the problem.
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: Hey, I get it.
It took me a long time
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to learn how to live
with Bonnie.
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But I started going
to Al-Anon meetings
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and that really helped me
with this whole
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"living with a lunatic" stuff.
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I don't think I'm allowed
to go to those meetings
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because I'm an alcoholic.
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We have plenty
of alcoholics there.
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We call you double winners.
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Double winners?Yeah.
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I like it already.
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No offense,
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but I think this wood drifted
out to sea for a reason.
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You know,
if you're gonna complain,
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I'm not gonna make you
one for Christmas.
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Hey, how you doing?
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You see her, too, right?
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Wow. Look at that.
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Gorgeous, right?
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It certainly is
a unique shape.
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It's like someone
spilled something
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and that spill
hardened into a table.
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Are you bringing it
just to show me?
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Well, it's not going
back in my car.
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Hi.
It's Jill, right?
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Aren't you sweet
to remember?
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How have you been?Getting heavy.
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Let me
help you with that.
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Well, would you look at that?
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Chivalry is not dead.
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No, but something in this table
sure smells like it is.
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That could be a sand crab.
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I probably should've
let the wood dry out.
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Where do you want it?
Here? Good.
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This is lovely.
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Big upgrade
since the last time I was here.
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Yeah, no lawn chairs,
it's not dark
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and there's a plant in the
corner instead of me weeping.
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Hush that fuss.
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It's nice to see
a man's sensitive side.
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Okay, Scarlett.
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Cutting in on my healing time.
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Yeah, I should get going back
to my big old lonely house.
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Let me show you to the door.
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It's the door-shaped hole
with the door attached to it
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right behind me.
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That room is just
brimming with potential,
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but Adam doesn't see it.
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He's just not capable
of supporting my dreams.
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Well, your dreams have
been quite the moving target.
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What's that supposed to mean?
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Well, let me see.
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Um, I don't have them all,
but, florist.
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Cobbler.
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Cartoon voice-over actor.
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Mayor.
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Excuse me, y-you've been
writing down what I say?
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Yeah. What do you think
I've been doing?
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Grocery list, drawing penises.
I don't know.
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How about we step back
and examine
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your recent
entrepreneurial impulses?
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And where they come from.
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You mean like you stepped back
to ogle my friend Jill?
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What?
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Come on, I saw you.
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You practically stepped
on your tongue.
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That is ridiculous.
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If you say so.
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I am, I'm freshly dating.
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I'm not ready for divorce.
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I-I mean...
You know what I mean.
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Wow, it's like watching
a coming-of-age movie.
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Can we please get back to you
and your creative pursuits?
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Maybe I could photograph babies.
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Every phone call with my mom
used to be a boxing match.
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So I set a boundary.
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I talk to her until I hear
the ice in her glass,
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then I say,
"Bye, Mom, I love you."
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Detach with love.
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I don't go to bed angry,
and with all my new free time,
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I learned to play the guitar.
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"Detach with love." Did
she just make that up?
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No, no, that's
a big one around here.
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Wow, it's so weird to
hear this side of it.
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I mean, technically, I have
heard this side of it,
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but I wasn't exactly
sober at my intervention.
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Would anyone else
like to share?
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Hi, I'm Adam.
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Hi, Adam.
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Okay, well,
this won't take long.
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I had a great week,
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which is kind of a miracle
since my wife is spinning out.
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Normally,
I would try to stop it,
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but that's like trying
to stop a fan with your hand.
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And then you
just end up with a bloody stump.
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So, I just walked away.
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And let me tell you,
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I win all those fights
that don't happen.
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Thanks.
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Is that also something
you guys say?
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No, that one
I just came up with.
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Would our, newcomer
like to share?
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Sure. Okay.
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Hi, I'm Tammy.ALL:
Hi, Tammy.
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This is my first meeting.
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Um, I'm here because,
well, I live with an alcoholic.
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I also am an alcoholic,
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so from all of us
to all of you, sorry.
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No, no, no.
That's the coffee urn.
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We use the other one
for hot water.
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What's the difference?
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"What's the difference?"
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What?
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You could've saved the water.
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You know what?
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I love you,
and I think you got this.
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God, that feels good.
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What?I just Al-Anon'd the
crap out of Marjorie.
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Right.
You went to Adam's meeting.
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So what did he say
about me?
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You know I can't
tell you that.
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Thought
if I asked it real fast,
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you could make it happen.
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I did another lap
around the room.
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None of the guys
got better looking.
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One even got worse.
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You're cruising an 11:00 a.m.
meeting on a Wednesday.
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What about Harry?
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He gave up corn
and his eczema went away.
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You know
what didn't go away?
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Complaining
about his eczema.
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We get it, Harry.
Move on.
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Bonnie, I was thinking,
would you mind if I...
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Trevor's off-limits.
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But that's not what--
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I-I mean, I wasn't even...
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Why?
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Because he's my therapist.
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I like to think he folds up
at the end of the day
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and goes in the cupboard.
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That's true.
Therapists and magicians
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should not have sex lives.
250
00:10:58,440 --> 00:10:59,963
What about me? I need one.
251
00:11:00,007 --> 00:11:02,139
I'd rather you date
the twitchy meth head.
252
00:11:02,183 --> 00:11:04,489
He's got a
girlfriend. I checked.
253
00:11:07,318 --> 00:11:09,451
Here's the thing.
The minute I decide
254
00:11:09,494 --> 00:11:12,062
what I'm gonna be doing
in that room, I'm in a box.
255
00:11:12,106 --> 00:11:14,282
And then, for the rest of my
life, I'm the hot palm reader
256
00:11:14,325 --> 00:11:15,718
in the upstairs bedroom.
257
00:11:15,762 --> 00:11:16,937
You're gonna be a psychic?
258
00:11:16,980 --> 00:11:18,460
Great, you just put me in a box.
259
00:11:18,503 --> 00:11:20,767
And I knew you were gonna do it.
260
00:11:21,985 --> 00:11:25,380
Perhaps your reluctance
to choose a course of action
261
00:11:25,423 --> 00:11:27,774
might be tied to the room
itself.
262
00:11:27,817 --> 00:11:29,384
I know.
There's a weird energy in there.
263
00:11:29,427 --> 00:11:30,994
I think it might be haunted.
264
00:11:31,038 --> 00:11:33,301
Or perhaps...
265
00:11:33,344 --> 00:11:35,477
someone you cared about deeply
used to live in it.
266
00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:37,784
I don't know
who rented it before me.
267
00:11:38,872 --> 00:11:41,918
As I recall,
they left an ashtray.
268
00:11:41,962 --> 00:11:43,485
God, don't you miss smoking?
269
00:11:43,528 --> 00:11:45,269
I smoke.
270
00:11:45,313 --> 00:11:46,967
You lucky bastard.
271
00:11:47,010 --> 00:11:49,491
Describe your last cigarette
in detail.
272
00:11:49,534 --> 00:11:52,668
But before, I was referring
to Christy.
273
00:11:52,712 --> 00:11:53,756
Why?
274
00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:54,975
Because I was trying
to make you see
275
00:11:55,018 --> 00:11:56,454
that maybe you don't want
to change the room
276
00:11:56,498 --> 00:11:58,805
because, as long
as it stays the same,
277
00:11:58,848 --> 00:12:00,067
then you can still believe
278
00:12:00,110 --> 00:12:02,156
that Christy
might be coming back to it.
279
00:12:02,199 --> 00:12:04,245
And altering it means
280
00:12:04,288 --> 00:12:05,812
you might have to accept
the fact
281
00:12:05,855 --> 00:12:07,770
that she might be gone for good.
282
00:12:07,814 --> 00:12:09,467
That's ridiculous.
283
00:12:09,511 --> 00:12:10,730
Humor me.
284
00:12:10,773 --> 00:12:12,775
How about I give you
a homework assignment?
285
00:12:12,819 --> 00:12:15,038
Go on.
286
00:12:15,082 --> 00:12:18,128
Before you worry
about what's going in,
287
00:12:18,172 --> 00:12:22,002
how about you worry about
packing up what's going out?
288
00:12:25,570 --> 00:12:26,702
Did you wear cologne
'cause you thought
289
00:12:26,746 --> 00:12:28,051
you'd see my friend Jill today?
290
00:12:28,095 --> 00:12:30,358
I'm sorry, we're out of time.
291
00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,364
Can we get these
groceries put away?
292
00:12:36,407 --> 00:12:39,106
Marjorie, I love you,
but I'm good.
293
00:12:39,149 --> 00:12:41,108
I didn't ask if you were good.
294
00:12:41,151 --> 00:12:42,892
I just want to get the salmon
into the fridge
295
00:12:42,936 --> 00:12:44,676
before the cats catch on.
296
00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:47,767
I love you. You got this.
297
00:12:47,810 --> 00:12:51,683
We don't leave an eggy plate
in the sink without rinsing it.
298
00:12:51,727 --> 00:12:55,122
I do. But I say that
with much affection.
299
00:12:57,602 --> 00:12:59,213
Okay.
300
00:12:59,256 --> 00:13:00,954
Time to chat.
301
00:13:01,955 --> 00:13:02,999
All of a sudden,
302
00:13:03,043 --> 00:13:05,306
you have been
very cold,
303
00:13:05,349 --> 00:13:07,569
very distant, very...
304
00:13:07,612 --> 00:13:09,223
Detached with love?
305
00:13:09,266 --> 00:13:11,747
Just because you've said
"I love you" a thousand times
306
00:13:11,791 --> 00:13:13,488
doesn't mean it's been loving.
307
00:13:13,531 --> 00:13:15,882
Well, I've been going to Al-Anon
and learning about boundaries.
308
00:13:15,925 --> 00:13:17,448
I'm familiar with that program,
309
00:13:17,492 --> 00:13:19,711
and you're not doing it right.
310
00:13:20,712 --> 00:13:22,497
See? Always correcting me.
311
00:13:22,540 --> 00:13:25,239
And I'm always pretzeling
myself to please you.
312
00:13:25,282 --> 00:13:27,415
I've never even told
you I hate salmon.
313
00:13:27,458 --> 00:13:29,678
Weight lifted.
314
00:13:29,721 --> 00:13:31,898
I don't think you realize
how hard you are to live with.
315
00:13:31,941 --> 00:13:33,421
You have so many rules.
316
00:13:33,464 --> 00:13:35,553
Well, it is my house.
317
00:13:35,597 --> 00:13:37,425
Yes, but it happens at the
bistro, it happens at meetings,
318
00:13:37,468 --> 00:13:39,514
it happened in the
dressing room at Marshalls.
319
00:13:39,557 --> 00:13:41,342
I can put my own shirt on!
320
00:13:41,385 --> 00:13:42,909
It was a turtleneck, Tammy.
321
00:13:42,952 --> 00:13:44,606
They're tricky.
322
00:13:46,260 --> 00:13:48,915
I didn't realize
you were so unhappy.
323
00:13:48,958 --> 00:13:51,178
I wasunhappy,
324
00:13:51,221 --> 00:13:54,268
but now I win every
discussion I don't have.
325
00:13:54,311 --> 00:13:56,879
What?Something we say.
You wouldn't get it.
326
00:13:56,923 --> 00:13:59,055
By the way, the cats
are going to town on the salmon.
327
00:14:01,057 --> 00:14:03,016
No, no, no! No, no, no!
328
00:14:03,059 --> 00:14:04,887
Where do you want to start?
329
00:14:04,931 --> 00:14:06,410
I don't care.
330
00:14:06,454 --> 00:14:08,586
This is Trevor's
lame assignment.
331
00:14:08,630 --> 00:14:10,458
Okay, well, why don't
we tackle the closet first?
332
00:14:10,501 --> 00:14:12,503
Good idea.
333
00:14:14,331 --> 00:14:16,116
Unbelievable.
334
00:14:16,159 --> 00:14:18,640
Christy could've packed
this up a little.
335
00:14:18,683 --> 00:14:20,424
Look at all these
tiny hoodies.
336
00:14:20,468 --> 00:14:21,991
You'd think I have
a ten-year-old son.
337
00:14:22,035 --> 00:14:24,298
She probably left stuff here
for when she visits.
338
00:14:24,341 --> 00:14:25,516
Like that's gonna happen.
339
00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:26,517
Of course it is.
340
00:14:26,561 --> 00:14:27,910
No, she used
to call me every day.
341
00:14:27,954 --> 00:14:29,651
Now I'm lucky
if she calls me once a week.
342
00:14:29,694 --> 00:14:31,522
She's busy.Yeah, not too busy
343
00:14:31,566 --> 00:14:33,394
to have two dates with a guy.
344
00:14:33,437 --> 00:14:35,962
Too busy to tell me. I had
to hear about it from Wendy.
345
00:14:36,005 --> 00:14:37,137
You mean Bennett.
346
00:14:37,180 --> 00:14:38,312
Bennett?!
347
00:14:38,355 --> 00:14:39,922
His name is Bennett?
348
00:14:41,097 --> 00:14:42,316
Bet he wears
boat shoes.
349
00:14:42,359 --> 00:14:43,534
Bonnie!
350
00:14:43,578 --> 00:14:45,014
What? By the time
she's done with school,
351
00:14:45,058 --> 00:14:47,234
she'll be too fancy
for these clothes
352
00:14:47,277 --> 00:14:48,713
and too fancy for me!
353
00:14:48,757 --> 00:14:50,628
Those just as easily
could've gone in the boxes.
354
00:14:50,672 --> 00:14:51,891
Yeah. You're right.
355
00:14:51,934 --> 00:14:53,153
She's not
gonna need this.
356
00:14:53,196 --> 00:14:55,198
She's not
gonna need this.
357
00:14:55,242 --> 00:14:57,374
A picture of me
she obviously didn't want.
358
00:14:57,418 --> 00:14:59,942
Look, the earrings I gave
her which she said she loved
359
00:14:59,986 --> 00:15:01,944
but I guess not enough
to take to law school.
360
00:15:01,988 --> 00:15:03,511
Okay, Bon,
come here and sit down.
361
00:15:03,554 --> 00:15:06,209
What, on the bed Christy's
never gonna sleep in again?
362
00:15:06,253 --> 00:15:07,950
Not gonna need this anymore!
363
00:15:11,475 --> 00:15:13,216
What's going on up there?!
364
00:15:13,260 --> 00:15:15,871
Don't worry!
My therapist told me to do this!
365
00:15:22,008 --> 00:15:24,662
What's happening?I have no idea. One minute,
we're boxing up clothes,
366
00:15:24,706 --> 00:15:26,664
the next,she's freaking out.Why?
367
00:15:26,708 --> 00:15:29,624
Christy has too many sweatshirts
and she's never coming home.
368
00:15:29,667 --> 00:15:31,191
That's crazy.
369
00:15:31,234 --> 00:15:33,106
Agreed.
Let's bail and hit a meeting.
370
00:15:33,149 --> 00:15:34,934
No, I'm not gonna bail
on my wife.
371
00:15:34,977 --> 00:15:37,110
But this isn't about you.
Don't get sucked in.
372
00:15:37,153 --> 00:15:38,720
Bloody stumps!
373
00:15:38,763 --> 00:15:41,027
Tammy, you can have boundaries
and still help people.
374
00:15:41,070 --> 00:15:44,334
Bonnie! Can you come down
so we can talk?
375
00:15:44,378 --> 00:15:45,553
No!
376
00:15:45,596 --> 00:15:46,728
You tried. Let's go.
377
00:15:47,729 --> 00:15:49,122
Shh.
378
00:15:49,165 --> 00:15:51,602
It's gone quiet.
That's not good.
379
00:15:51,646 --> 00:15:54,344
All right, I'm gonna need
your help to get up the stairs.
380
00:15:54,388 --> 00:15:56,346
Piggyback
or cradle you like a baby?
381
00:15:56,390 --> 00:15:58,174
I can handle myself.
382
00:15:58,218 --> 00:15:59,654
I just need you
to carry my chair.
383
00:15:59,697 --> 00:16:02,265
Right. God, I'm
always offering too much.
384
00:16:11,448 --> 00:16:13,059
Bonnie?
385
00:16:13,102 --> 00:16:15,104
Adam?
386
00:16:17,367 --> 00:16:19,413
What are you doing
up here?
387
00:16:19,456 --> 00:16:21,371
I came to check on you.
388
00:16:21,415 --> 00:16:24,070
Seems like you're...
having a hard time.
389
00:16:24,113 --> 00:16:25,593
Or maybe it always looks
like this.
390
00:16:25,636 --> 00:16:27,116
I don't know.
I've never seen it.
391
00:16:28,248 --> 00:16:30,467
It's usually a little neater.
392
00:16:30,511 --> 00:16:33,340
So, what are you doing
in the closet?
393
00:16:33,383 --> 00:16:34,689
Or do you hang out there?
394
00:16:34,732 --> 00:16:37,344
I don't know.
Again, first time up here.
395
00:16:38,345 --> 00:16:39,737
My daughter abandoned me.
396
00:16:39,781 --> 00:16:41,087
Aw, honey.
397
00:16:41,130 --> 00:16:42,349
It's true.
398
00:16:42,392 --> 00:16:44,177
I haven't wanted to face it,
but it's true.
399
00:16:45,178 --> 00:16:46,396
Come here.
400
00:16:48,137 --> 00:16:50,096
Trevor was right.
401
00:16:50,139 --> 00:16:52,272
The reason I couldn't figure out
what to do with this room
402
00:16:52,315 --> 00:16:53,882
was because I...
403
00:16:53,925 --> 00:16:56,711
I didn't want to accept
that Christy's not coming back.
404
00:16:57,973 --> 00:16:59,801
I guess I just was hoping
405
00:16:59,844 --> 00:17:03,022
she'd realize she wasn't cut out
for the winter and come home.
406
00:17:03,065 --> 00:17:05,111
But...
407
00:17:05,154 --> 00:17:06,895
she's got a good coat.
408
00:17:08,375 --> 00:17:10,507
She's thriving
without me, so...
409
00:17:10,551 --> 00:17:12,814
Babe, did you ever think
that maybe she's thriving
410
00:17:12,857 --> 00:17:14,076
becauseof you?
411
00:17:14,120 --> 00:17:16,774
That's dumb.
412
00:17:17,775 --> 00:17:19,516
Did you know
she's dating someone?
413
00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,430
You mean Bennett?
414
00:17:20,474 --> 00:17:22,302
...Shh.
415
00:17:22,345 --> 00:17:24,652
Christy's not gone forever.
416
00:17:24,695 --> 00:17:26,262
And you've been so strong.
417
00:17:26,306 --> 00:17:28,482
I'm not surprised
it's hitting you.
418
00:17:28,525 --> 00:17:29,613
I have been strong.
419
00:17:29,657 --> 00:17:31,093
Well, let me be strong tonight
420
00:17:31,137 --> 00:17:33,008
and you just let it out.
421
00:17:37,056 --> 00:17:40,668
Am I crazy or could we fit
a Ping-Pong table in here?
422
00:17:45,151 --> 00:17:46,717
Hey.
423
00:17:46,761 --> 00:17:48,154
Hey.
424
00:17:48,197 --> 00:17:50,069
You want some help with that?
425
00:17:50,112 --> 00:17:51,766
Is that a trick question?
426
00:17:51,809 --> 00:17:53,463
No.
427
00:17:56,423 --> 00:17:58,729
Listen, I've been trying out
some new habits,
428
00:17:58,773 --> 00:18:01,167
and I haven't quite got
the hang of it.
429
00:18:01,210 --> 00:18:02,820
I'm sorry.
430
00:18:03,821 --> 00:18:05,127
Well,
431
00:18:05,171 --> 00:18:08,043
I have some old habits
that have crept back in,
432
00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:09,653
and I'm sorry, too.
433
00:18:09,697 --> 00:18:11,351
I love you.
434
00:18:11,394 --> 00:18:12,874
No, sincerely.
I'm not doing the thing.
435
00:18:12,917 --> 00:18:15,050
But now it sounds fake.
Forget it.
436
00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:16,486
No, no, no. I...
437
00:18:18,706 --> 00:18:20,186
I love you, too.
438
00:18:36,463 --> 00:18:37,420
Hi.
439
00:18:37,464 --> 00:18:38,682
Hi.
440
00:18:38,726 --> 00:18:40,206
Bonnie's not here.
441
00:18:40,249 --> 00:18:41,772
I didn't come to see Bonnie.
442
00:18:41,816 --> 00:18:43,034
I came to see you.
443
00:18:43,078 --> 00:18:44,384
As a patient?
444
00:18:44,427 --> 00:18:46,168
No, I already have a therapist.
445
00:18:46,212 --> 00:18:48,779
His name is Ted. He's
my personal shopper at Neiman's.
446
00:18:49,998 --> 00:18:51,739
I came bearing gifts.
447
00:18:52,740 --> 00:18:54,133
Wow, this is nice.
448
00:18:54,176 --> 00:18:55,264
I made it.
449
00:18:55,308 --> 00:18:56,613
I'm a little crafty, too.
450
00:18:56,657 --> 00:18:58,963
A lot crafty.
451
00:18:59,007 --> 00:19:02,141
Last time I was here, I noticed
you had a naked tissue box.
452
00:19:02,184 --> 00:19:04,534
I'm comfortable
with all things naked,
453
00:19:04,578 --> 00:19:06,188
but, in your
line of work,
454
00:19:06,232 --> 00:19:08,451
I thought it might be nice
to spruce it up a bit.
455
00:19:08,495 --> 00:19:10,453
Thank you, Jill.
456
00:19:10,497 --> 00:19:12,455
Now every time somebody
has a nervous breakdown,
457
00:19:12,499 --> 00:19:13,630
you'll think of me.
458
00:19:13,674 --> 00:19:15,719
I will.
459
00:19:16,981 --> 00:19:21,334
Um, unfortunately,
I'm expecting a client.
460
00:19:22,422 --> 00:19:24,206
No worries.
461
00:19:24,250 --> 00:19:25,468
I got to go anyway.
462
00:19:25,512 --> 00:19:27,383
I'm parked next
to a karate studio.
463
00:19:29,211 --> 00:19:30,821
See you round.
464
00:19:31,866 --> 00:19:33,346
See ya.
465
00:19:38,133 --> 00:19:39,874
All things naked?
466
00:19:49,144 --> 00:19:51,190
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