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**
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So do you guys
have a safe word?
Lucy No.
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He's consented
to pretty much
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whatever I want to do,
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of course, beyond, like,
killing him,
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which I would never do.
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Karley:
Ugh. Life is so hard.
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Between meeting
my blog deadlines
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and performing my gender,
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I barely have time
to get anything done.
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Sometimes I wish I had someone
who would clean my apartment,
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change my tampons
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and, like, drop to their knees
and be my human bench
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whenever I got tired,
you know?
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God,
I need a lifestyle slave.
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I've heard that
it's actually a thing,
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but who on this flat Earth
would want that job,
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and am I bitch
for wanting one?
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And, more importantly,
is there an app for that?
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**
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Back in my mid-20s,
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I moonlit as a dominatrix
for a couple of years.
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For me, this basically meant
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that Wall Street bros
would pay me
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to pee on them in a dungeon
for, like, an hour,
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but it never extended
beyond that into my actual life.
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But I have a friend.
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She goes by the name
Mistress Lucy Sweetkill,
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and she's a full-time
professional dominatrix,
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but her relationships
with her submissives
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get very personal,
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far more than anything
I've ever experienced.
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Some of them even serve her
on a 24/7 basis.
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In the BDSM community,
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this is what's known
as a lifestyle slave,
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and I want
to find out more about
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what this dynamic
has to offer
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for both parties involved.
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Karley:
So you have clients
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who pay you to session with
in a dungeon,
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and then you also have
lifestyle slaves
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who are people who, like,
follow you around,
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carry your handbag,
and, like, TBD.
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My business is filled with
a lot of clients
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who just
want to be submissive
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in a specific session
in a paid time,
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and then that's all.
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And then a lifestyle
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wants to actually do it
more 24/7.
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They serve me
on a day-to-day.
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Some are great
at cooking.
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Some are great
at technology.
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So they're, like,
unpaid, sex-slave interns.
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Um...yeah.
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They're definitely unpaid.
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But the exchange
is different.
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They provide support
in my life,
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and I support them
through this journey
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of connecting
to their submission
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and connecting
to their sexuality
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that only a dominant
in their life
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can help them do.
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**
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Hello.
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Hi, Pups.
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Leave your bag over there.
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Shoes off.
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**
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Let's put your collar on.
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**
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Karley: So how did
you meet Pain Puppy?
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Lucy: Pain Puppy was a client
in the dungeon.
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I kind of saw something
in him
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that you know, was like,
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"This person is much more
submissive than he realizes."
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And then, from there,
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we organically had
the conversation of, like,
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"Do you want to try something
a little more 24/7?"
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Lucy: Why don't you make me
some tea, actually, too?
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Fill it halfway only,
though.
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Which flavor
would you like?
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Your not
watching the water.
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That's not halfway.
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Do you know
what halfway means?
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I watched.
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If I looked at it,
would it be halfway?
Yes.
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Would you like to look?
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This is the line
it can only go to.
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Go pour some of it out.
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**
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So do you have sex
with Puppy?
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No.
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It's sexual in nature,
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but it's not
penetrative sex.
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There is no, you know,
oral, vaginal penetration --
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none of that.
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So what do you get
out of this dynamic?
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Well, the obvious thing is
I get support.
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But, for me, it's a very deep
personal enjoyment.
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There are people out there
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who feel like
they're outside of their skin,
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but when they're with me,
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they feel
they're most whole.
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Make sure, like, Mrs. Hazel
is put in his cage.
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I want it all clean.
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Karley: So, basically,
she gets all the perks
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of having a manservant.
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Jealous.
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But what about
the other side.
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I need to know.
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What can you get out of
doing someone's bitch work?
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**
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All right, I need you
to do a few things for me.
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I put them
in your slave tasks,
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but I need you
to go grab the laundry.
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**
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* Dun, dun, da-da
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So this is Lucy's laundry,
yeah?
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I'm doing the laundry
for her job,
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which is, like,
from her dungeon.
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Oh, you're literally
cleaning the robes.
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Yes.
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Is there anything gross
in there?
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I don't know
where they've been.
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Do you enjoy
doing chores for her?
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Maybe not in the idea
that most people have.
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Like, most people
probably think
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that I enjoy,
like, cleaning and stuff.
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It's more of, like,
supporting her and her business.
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I'm part of Team Lucy.
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So you don't get a boner
from doing laundry?
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I wish.
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I wish it was that easy.
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Do you have
sexual interactions
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with people outside of
your relationship with Lucy?
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Not very often anymore
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just because of
my whole chastity device.
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Can you explain what it means
to be in chastity
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because I think
some people/partially me
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have no idea
what that means.
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It's...hmm.
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It's a tube
you put your penis in,
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and then it locks on,
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and then it prevents you
from getting erect,
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and, also, you can't really
touch yourself or have sex.
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My vagina, like, hurts
thinking about that.
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So does mine.
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So what makes
a good lifestyle slave?
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Depends on the person,
I guess.
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So, for me,
I'm, like, handyman.
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I'm good at cleaning now,
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because I've been
cleaning her dungeon
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for, like,
a year and a half.
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So this is like a job for you,
essentially.
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You look at it as,
she's your employer.
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It's part employment,
part life coach-y,
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and, in return,
I get a mistress.
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Karley:
What was Pain Puppy like
when you first met him?
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He was very shy.
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So is slave training
sort of like a makeover?
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Yeah, I would say,
in certain ways.
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And with Pups,
we talked about
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how he didn't really
have friends,
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so we worked on
all of that.
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I set up a schedule.
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I controlled his calendar.
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We worked on him
working out.
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You know, he took a wine course
for eight weeks.
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He took
some Japanese classes.
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And through all those things,
he gained friends.
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He's kind of
changed his outlook.
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Wow.
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I met Lucy, maybe, at
a bottom point in my life.
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I was really depressed,
you know.
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I didn't like my body image
back then.
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When I met her,
I was 200,
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and then, now, I fluctuate
between 160 and 170,
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but it's muscle now
and not flubber.
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That's a huge change.
Mm-hmm.
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Wow.
Congratulations.
Thank you.
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It's definitely been,
you know,
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a struggle to get here,
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but she's taught me
a lot about myself.
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Karley: So Puppy gets,
kind of, a life makeover.
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That's cool.
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But isn't he exhausted
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from slaving around the Earth
all day?
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It seems like
a big price to pay
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for a workout regimen
and a spanking.
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You're a weirdo.
I'm a weirdo.
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You're a pervert.
I'm a pervert.
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-This will cut skin.
-Nice.
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**
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**
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Karley: These days, thanks
to "Fifty Shades of Grey,"
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everyone knows
about the pleasures
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of tying someone to your bed
and torturing them, obviously.
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But who wants
that kind of abuse
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to extend into
their everyday life?
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Huh.
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I wonder what the average
enlightened New Yorker
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has to say
about the prospect of being
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in a full-time
master-slave relationship?
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Are you guys
all familiar with
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the BDSM term
"lifestyle slave?"
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Yes.
I'm not, but okay.
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Actually -- yes.
Yeah.
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Vaguely, yeah.
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Uh, kind of,
yeah, generally.
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Like, I have the Internet
at home, so...
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A lifestyle what?
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Like,
what is that to you?
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You being with another
individual partner
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and doing whatever that
they want to do to you.
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That's exactly right.
Yeah.
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You didn't know that?
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Now that I know,
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that's gonna be
a hard "no" from me.
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There ain't
nobody locking me up.
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Would you be interested
in having
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sort of, like,
a full-time sex intern?
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Yeah.
That'd be sick.
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Would you want to have
a lifestyle slave?
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No,
I don't think I would.
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Does that appeal to you?
Hell, no.
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I think I could do it
to someone else.
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And what about you?
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Would you rather be
the submissive or the dominant?
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The dominant.
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I'm not about to get hit.
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Yeah.
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Karley:
While many people seem open
to bossing someone around,
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most seem vaguely traumatized
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by the idea
of being enslaved 24/7.
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Is there something
inherently tragic
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about a person
wanting to be abused?
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Deep thoughts.
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I need to consult
with an actual smart person
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to get a better understanding
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of why someone would sign up
to be a literal slave.
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The term slave is such
an intense word to use
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in association with your
sexuality or lifestyle.
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Absolutely.
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Slave is a very loaded,
very intense word.
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In some ways, though,
I think it is appropriate
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for the level of intensity
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that this kind of lifestyle
involves.
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And I'm sure,
for a lot of people,
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that loadedness
is part of the appeal.
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Why would someone want to do
someone else's chores, though?
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Like, what is the impetus
of being a lifestyle slave?
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It comes down to
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our human need
to be taken care of
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and to take care
of other people.
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And, so, for some,
that kind of gets taken
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to one extreme or the other,
258
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having a lot more of
one of those needs
259
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and a lot less of
the other need.
260
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So, are these relationships
exploitative?
261
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People do have this notion
that it's exploitative,
262
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that the dominant
gets everything they want,
263
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and then the submissive,
264
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all they do is just
give, give, give, right?
265
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But at the same time,
266
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there's
a lot of responsibility
267
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in a dominant taking over
268
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the reins
of somebody else's life.
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They are responsible
for what this person eats.
270
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Do they smoke?
Do they drink?
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Do they have
other partners or not?
272
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And for the submissive,
there is something appealing
273
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about wanting to kind of
not have control,
274
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not be responsible.
275
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There is a certain level
of freedom in that.
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**
277
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So I'm outside
to the grocery store.
278
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I'm about to meet Pups
279
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and Shine, who's Lucy's
other lifestyle slave.
280
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Lucy says
she often send her subs
281
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out on sort of lifestyle slave
team-building exercises...
282
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Man: You're welcome.
283
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Pain Puppy: Let's shop.
284
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...like, shop for groceries,
for example.
285
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So now that I understand
that each person
286
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gets something unique
from this relationship,
287
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it will be interesting to see
how everyone gets along.
288
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Are they, like, one happy
little perverted family?
289
00:10:51,018 --> 00:10:52,820
What's on the list
that Lucy gave you?
290
00:10:52,853 --> 00:10:54,021
Okay.
291
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So last night,
she requested, uh,
292
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chips, salsa, guacamole,
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strawberries,
blueberries, pineapple.
294
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Okay, so you guys, like,
know her eating habits
295
00:11:03,063 --> 00:11:04,197
and what she doesn't like?
296
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I have a total list
going on.
297
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**
298
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May I do something?
299
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Do you guys fight over
who gets to carry her stuff?
300
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I do like carrying her stuff,
anyone's stuff.
301
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I love it.
302
00:11:16,376 --> 00:11:18,245
**
303
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So do you guys
304
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ever get competitive
with each other?
305
00:11:22,916 --> 00:11:24,451
Yeah.
No.
306
00:11:24,484 --> 00:11:26,019
Yeah, Pups.
Not with Shine.
307
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Some of my favorite times
308
00:11:27,287 --> 00:11:28,722
have been
with Puppy and her --
309
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together,
all three of us playing.
310
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It's just like,
oh, my god, so powerful.
Why do you like that?
311
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Because of the connection,
you know,
312
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of taking her pain
together.
313
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Oh. That's nice.
314
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And speaking of pain...
315
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Pain Puppy:
316
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...whoa,
this is solid pain.
317
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-Hi.
-Hi.
318
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Lucy: Nice stuff.
319
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They're talking about you,
obviously.
320
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Lucy: Yeah.
Let's see if this --
321
00:11:49,476 --> 00:11:50,978
This doesn't look good.
322
00:11:51,011 --> 00:11:52,913
Put your jacket down.
All right.
323
00:11:52,946 --> 00:11:54,247
Thank you.
324
00:11:55,783 --> 00:11:57,384
Karley:
Do you feel like there is
325
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still a lingering stigma?
326
00:11:59,486 --> 00:12:02,055
I definitely think
there's still a stigma,
327
00:12:02,089 --> 00:12:06,493
but I've hid parts of myself
long enough,
328
00:12:06,526 --> 00:12:09,930
and all I feel
is upset at myself.
329
00:12:09,963 --> 00:12:12,833
BDSM is not for everyone,
330
00:12:12,866 --> 00:12:17,304
but I find the most caring,
compassionate,
331
00:12:17,337 --> 00:12:18,939
and open-minded people
332
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come from the BDSM community
333
00:12:21,108 --> 00:12:24,044
because everybody's
weirdness
334
00:12:24,077 --> 00:12:25,412
is positive, you know?
335
00:12:25,445 --> 00:12:27,080
You're a weirdo.
I'm a weirdo.
336
00:12:27,114 --> 00:12:29,049
You're a pervert.
I'm a pervert, you know.
337
00:12:29,082 --> 00:12:30,517
Let's do this.
338
00:12:30,550 --> 00:12:32,252
Karley: Wow.
339
00:12:32,285 --> 00:12:33,987
Sharing pork rinds
and strawberries
340
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with these leather-clad perverts
got me thinking.
341
00:12:36,556 --> 00:12:40,493
Maybe lifestyle slaves
are just like us...
342
00:12:40,527 --> 00:12:43,263
Pain Puppy:
343
00:12:43,296 --> 00:12:45,799
Karley: ...except for, maybe,
a few minor differences.
344
00:12:50,337 --> 00:12:55,876
**
345
00:12:55,909 --> 00:12:57,577
Karley: I'm here
at a dungeon in Chelsea
346
00:12:57,610 --> 00:12:59,246
about to go meet
Lucy and Puppy
347
00:12:59,279 --> 00:13:01,314
to watch one of
their BDSM play sessions.
348
00:13:01,348 --> 00:13:03,550
**
349
00:13:03,583 --> 00:13:05,919
And I think
what's gonna happen is that,
350
00:13:05,953 --> 00:13:07,454
essentially,
she's just going to whip him
351
00:13:07,487 --> 00:13:09,556
into a state
of transcendence,
352
00:13:09,589 --> 00:13:12,292
but I guess
I'm gonna find out.
353
00:13:12,325 --> 00:13:17,130
**
354
00:13:17,164 --> 00:13:20,834
Lucy: So I have, you know,
some hoods and gags.
355
00:13:20,868 --> 00:13:22,302
I love latex,
356
00:13:22,335 --> 00:13:24,571
so I'm wearing
one of my catsuits.
357
00:13:24,604 --> 00:13:26,473
It looks good.
Thank you.
358
00:13:26,506 --> 00:13:29,342
My two favorite whips
with me,
359
00:13:29,376 --> 00:13:32,512
and this one is what
we call a single-tail whip,
360
00:13:32,545 --> 00:13:35,315
and this is a mini bullwhip.
361
00:13:35,348 --> 00:13:37,350
So this is
really painful?
Yes.
362
00:13:37,384 --> 00:13:39,486
It's one of the most painful.
This will cut the skin.
363
00:13:39,519 --> 00:13:41,488
Nice.
364
00:13:41,521 --> 00:13:43,623
Okay, so,
where is Puppy, anyway?
365
00:13:43,656 --> 00:13:46,026
He's in the bathroom
getting ready.
366
00:13:46,059 --> 00:13:47,194
Pups, come out.
367
00:13:48,095 --> 00:13:50,097
Karley: Hey.
Hello.
368
00:13:50,130 --> 00:13:51,598
Nice undies.
Thank you.
369
00:13:51,631 --> 00:13:53,333
It's my favorite color --
pink.
370
00:13:53,366 --> 00:13:55,435
Lucy: You want to show her
what they say?
371
00:13:56,036 --> 00:13:58,338
Karley: Oh, my God.
That's amazing.
372
00:13:58,371 --> 00:14:00,040
They have matching tops,
too.
373
00:14:00,073 --> 00:14:04,011
**
374
00:14:04,044 --> 00:14:06,013
So do you guys
have a safe word?
No.
375
00:14:06,046 --> 00:14:08,882
That's part of our consensual
non-consent.
376
00:14:08,916 --> 00:14:12,152
He's consented
to pretty much
377
00:14:12,185 --> 00:14:14,922
whatever I want to do,
378
00:14:14,955 --> 00:14:16,924
of course,
beyond, like, killing him.
379
00:14:16,957 --> 00:14:18,325
Which I would never do.
380
00:14:18,358 --> 00:14:20,293
Would you ever consent to that,
like, ahead of time?
381
00:14:20,327 --> 00:14:22,896
Would that be something
that, like, would happen?
That's my limit.
382
00:14:24,297 --> 00:14:26,299
So he's shining
your latex now.
383
00:14:26,333 --> 00:14:27,968
Yeah. Spray more.
384
00:14:28,001 --> 00:14:29,937
Don't rub it in too hard,
though.
385
00:14:29,970 --> 00:14:31,972
Latex takes
a lot of maintenance.
386
00:14:32,005 --> 00:14:33,306
As a rubber fetishist,
387
00:14:33,340 --> 00:14:35,442
this is definitely his treat
right now,
388
00:14:35,475 --> 00:14:39,046
before it gets painful.
389
00:14:39,079 --> 00:14:41,148
Karley: Having been
a dominatrix myself,
390
00:14:41,181 --> 00:14:43,316
seeing someone be bullwhipped
is old news,
391
00:14:43,350 --> 00:14:44,617
but it's harder to imagine
392
00:14:44,651 --> 00:14:46,553
torturing someone
you see everyday
393
00:14:46,586 --> 00:14:48,388
as opposed to
beating up a random.
394
00:14:48,421 --> 00:14:52,625
It'll be interesting to see
how this feels different.
395
00:14:52,659 --> 00:14:54,427
All right,
I'm going to go soft first.
396
00:14:54,461 --> 00:14:57,530
And then maybe
every third or fourth one
397
00:14:57,564 --> 00:14:59,066
is gonna be
a little bit harder.
398
00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,334
Mm-hmm?
399
00:15:01,368 --> 00:15:02,936
One.
400
00:15:02,970 --> 00:15:04,471
**
401
00:15:04,504 --> 00:15:05,939
Two.
402
00:15:08,741 --> 00:15:10,577
Three.
403
00:15:10,610 --> 00:15:12,379
I like to aim
for the nipple
404
00:15:12,412 --> 00:15:15,415
because I am nasty
like that.
405
00:15:17,450 --> 00:15:20,087
-Ooh.
-Good job, Pups.
406
00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:21,454
Look at that.
407
00:15:21,488 --> 00:15:23,423
Is your spit
getting everywhere?
408
00:15:23,456 --> 00:15:24,691
Swallow.
409
00:15:25,725 --> 00:15:28,061
We're gonna hear
what noises come out of you
410
00:15:28,095 --> 00:15:29,362
without a gag.
411
00:15:34,301 --> 00:15:37,637
**
412
00:15:37,670 --> 00:15:40,340
Mm. Good boy.
413
00:15:40,373 --> 00:15:42,342
I just think
they're so beautiful,
414
00:15:42,375 --> 00:15:45,345
these, you know,
signs of devotion.
415
00:15:45,378 --> 00:15:47,014
Pups, turn to the side
and show Karley.
416
00:15:47,047 --> 00:15:49,249
Yeah. Yeah.
That's all from today?
417
00:15:49,282 --> 00:15:51,484
That thing is not joking.
418
00:15:51,518 --> 00:15:53,486
And I like to work
on my backhand.
419
00:15:59,259 --> 00:16:00,493
Good boy.
420
00:16:00,527 --> 00:16:01,661
What was that like?
421
00:16:01,694 --> 00:16:03,663
It hits that spot,
422
00:16:03,696 --> 00:16:07,334
and I will get to what I'm
looking for eventually.
423
00:16:07,367 --> 00:16:09,469
You seem really calm,
actually.
Yeah.
424
00:16:09,502 --> 00:16:11,304
I'm fine right now.
425
00:16:11,338 --> 00:16:13,040
I can't really
say things right now.
Yeah.
426
00:16:15,175 --> 00:16:17,677
Your mind goes somewhere else
in a subspace,
427
00:16:17,710 --> 00:16:19,479
and you're just feeling.
428
00:16:19,512 --> 00:16:21,648
Is there a sexual component
to this for you?
429
00:16:21,681 --> 00:16:23,583
Like, are you --
This is not sexual?
430
00:16:23,616 --> 00:16:26,053
In the same way
it's mental for her,
it's mental for me.
431
00:16:26,086 --> 00:16:27,554
This isn't my sex.
432
00:16:27,587 --> 00:16:29,322
This is my endorphin rush.
433
00:16:29,356 --> 00:16:32,392
We've done
a powerful session before,
434
00:16:32,425 --> 00:16:34,427
where I was whipping him,
435
00:16:34,461 --> 00:16:36,596
and I was going
through some --
436
00:16:36,629 --> 00:16:41,034
so really emotional things
myself, personally,
437
00:16:41,068 --> 00:16:45,272
and while he was,
you know, definitely
crying and releasing
438
00:16:45,305 --> 00:16:48,408
from the things
he needed to get out of him,
439
00:16:48,441 --> 00:16:50,310
I was as well, you know.
440
00:16:50,343 --> 00:16:53,046
And there was
that back-and-forth of, like,
441
00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,715
that I needed
that release, too.
442
00:16:55,748 --> 00:17:00,487
**
443
00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,789
You know, I'm gonna
put him in a body bag,
444
00:17:02,822 --> 00:17:05,192
and it's almost like
a place for him
445
00:17:05,225 --> 00:17:06,459
to sort of decompress,
446
00:17:06,493 --> 00:17:08,195
like a sensory
deprivation tank,
447
00:17:08,228 --> 00:17:12,132
and just let it mentally,
like, let him float.
448
00:17:12,165 --> 00:17:16,336
**
449
00:17:16,369 --> 00:17:17,737
Karley: Watching them,
450
00:17:17,770 --> 00:17:19,406
it was very clear
that they both really enjoyed
451
00:17:19,439 --> 00:17:20,840
the roles
that they were playing
452
00:17:20,873 --> 00:17:22,675
and that they have
a genuine chemistry.
453
00:17:22,709 --> 00:17:25,578
A more traditional couple
would use sex
454
00:17:25,612 --> 00:17:29,582
as a way to achieve a state
of intimacy and vulnerability,
455
00:17:29,616 --> 00:17:31,218
and it just felt like
456
00:17:31,251 --> 00:17:34,154
they were using pain
to achieve the same thing.
457
00:17:34,187 --> 00:17:35,788
I realize that
it's counterintuitive
458
00:17:35,822 --> 00:17:38,358
to leave a scene where someone
is being beaten until they bleed
459
00:17:38,391 --> 00:17:39,826
and say
that it was a sweet moment,
460
00:17:39,859 --> 00:17:42,562
but it did genuinely
feel that way.
461
00:17:42,595 --> 00:17:46,099
And ultimately,
she looked really hot,
462
00:17:46,133 --> 00:17:48,101
which is probably
the most important thing.
463
00:17:48,135 --> 00:17:49,802
And I should probably
get myself some latex.
464
00:17:49,836 --> 00:17:51,304
Karley: Would you be okay
with sort of, like,
465
00:17:51,338 --> 00:17:52,739
cleaning my vibrators?
466
00:17:53,806 --> 00:17:56,709
**
467
00:17:58,645 --> 00:18:01,281
**
468
00:18:01,314 --> 00:18:03,383
Karley: After spending time
with Lucy and Puppy,
469
00:18:03,416 --> 00:18:04,717
I've realized that each side
470
00:18:04,751 --> 00:18:06,619
gets something special
from this dynamic.
471
00:18:06,653 --> 00:18:09,489
They perfectly cater
to each other's kinks and needs.
472
00:18:09,522 --> 00:18:11,191
So, it turns out,
473
00:18:11,224 --> 00:18:13,360
there's nothing bitchy
about wanting a lifestyle slave,
474
00:18:13,393 --> 00:18:14,694
because let's be honest --
475
00:18:14,727 --> 00:18:16,596
Being a mistress
sounds like a full-time job.
476
00:18:16,629 --> 00:18:18,598
Clearly,
I need to find a submissive
477
00:18:18,631 --> 00:18:20,333
who I truly connect to.
478
00:18:20,367 --> 00:18:23,170
And so I've put out
a casting call
479
00:18:23,203 --> 00:18:25,472
for my own lifestyle slave.
480
00:18:25,505 --> 00:18:28,175
**
481
00:18:28,208 --> 00:18:29,242
Hi.
482
00:18:29,276 --> 00:18:30,477
Hello.
483
00:18:30,510 --> 00:18:31,644
Why are you interested
484
00:18:31,678 --> 00:18:33,313
in being
my lifestyle slave?
485
00:18:33,346 --> 00:18:35,582
When I first
started having sex,
486
00:18:35,615 --> 00:18:38,218
I realized, like,
very, very quickly
487
00:18:38,251 --> 00:18:42,355
that vanilla sex
was just not my cup of tea.
488
00:18:42,389 --> 00:18:45,592
**
489
00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:47,160
Hi.
490
00:18:47,194 --> 00:18:48,661
Do you think
that you're qualified
491
00:18:48,695 --> 00:18:49,762
to be my lifestyle slave?
492
00:18:49,796 --> 00:18:50,863
**
493
00:18:50,897 --> 00:18:52,599
Do you find me attractive?
494
00:18:52,632 --> 00:18:56,603
**
495
00:18:56,636 --> 00:18:58,305
Hey.
-Hi.
496
00:18:58,338 --> 00:18:59,939
Sadley -- where'd you get
that name?
497
00:18:59,972 --> 00:19:02,342
It was given to me
by my mistress.
498
00:19:02,375 --> 00:19:04,544
So you have
another mistress?
Yes.
499
00:19:04,577 --> 00:19:06,579
Are you slutty?
Yes.
500
00:19:06,613 --> 00:19:08,515
Same.
501
00:19:08,548 --> 00:19:09,882
I'm looking for someone
502
00:19:09,916 --> 00:19:12,319
who is really great
at being a human bench
503
00:19:12,352 --> 00:19:13,853
because I like
to wear high heels,
504
00:19:13,886 --> 00:19:15,755
so, when I'm walking
around the city,
505
00:19:15,788 --> 00:19:17,357
sometimes I get really tired,
My feet hurt.
Me too, yeah.
506
00:19:17,390 --> 00:19:18,825
I need someone
who's just gonna be like,
507
00:19:18,858 --> 00:19:21,228
"Get down on all fours,"
and I can sit on your back.
508
00:19:21,261 --> 00:19:23,896
You can certainly sit
and rest yourself on my body.
509
00:19:23,930 --> 00:19:26,866
If it helps you,
it makes me feel good.
510
00:19:26,899 --> 00:19:28,401
How squeamish are you?
511
00:19:28,435 --> 00:19:29,736
Like, would you be okay
with, sort of, like,
512
00:19:29,769 --> 00:19:31,238
cleaning my vibrators
513
00:19:31,271 --> 00:19:32,939
or, like, picking up
sort of used condoms,
514
00:19:32,972 --> 00:19:34,474
like, next to my bed?
515
00:19:34,507 --> 00:19:37,544
Are you good at shaving
my bikini line?
516
00:19:38,878 --> 00:19:40,413
I'm not even good
at that.
517
00:19:40,447 --> 00:19:43,616
I enjoy
going down on women.
518
00:19:43,650 --> 00:19:45,352
Have you ever gone down
on a girl
519
00:19:45,385 --> 00:19:46,486
when she had her period?
520
00:19:46,519 --> 00:19:47,920
No.
Okay.
521
00:19:47,954 --> 00:19:49,522
That was unrelated,
but I was just wondering.
522
00:19:49,556 --> 00:19:50,557
No. It's fine.
523
00:19:50,590 --> 00:19:52,259
What turns you on sexually?
524
00:19:52,292 --> 00:19:54,694
Being slapped and spanked,
525
00:19:54,727 --> 00:19:55,862
spit on.
Oh, really?
526
00:19:55,895 --> 00:19:57,397
I love to be spanked.
527
00:19:58,898 --> 00:20:00,967
**
528
00:20:02,502 --> 00:20:04,704
Karley: They were all
promising candidates,
529
00:20:04,737 --> 00:20:07,774
but there was just something
about this one guy.
530
00:20:07,807 --> 00:20:09,842
Did you have
some kind of "aha" moment
531
00:20:09,876 --> 00:20:10,910
where you were like,
532
00:20:10,943 --> 00:20:12,445
"Oh, this is exactly
the role
533
00:20:12,479 --> 00:20:13,880
that I've always
wanted to play"?
534
00:20:13,913 --> 00:20:17,350
There was a moment
that I was instructed
535
00:20:17,384 --> 00:20:19,519
to untie a knot
for my mistress.
536
00:20:19,552 --> 00:20:21,621
The urgency
to untie this knot
537
00:20:21,654 --> 00:20:24,324
became more and more intense,
538
00:20:24,357 --> 00:20:25,725
and it was really
at that moment
539
00:20:25,758 --> 00:20:27,294
that it really clicked on me
540
00:20:27,327 --> 00:20:29,562
that there was more than
just -- just fun to this.
541
00:20:29,596 --> 00:20:31,931
I have a need to please,
542
00:20:31,964 --> 00:20:34,667
to give of myself
to someone,
543
00:20:34,701 --> 00:20:36,736
and that makes me
feel needed,
544
00:20:36,769 --> 00:20:38,371
and it gives me purpose.
545
00:20:38,405 --> 00:20:39,672
So being a submissive
seems like
546
00:20:39,706 --> 00:20:41,040
it's been
very therapeutic for you?
547
00:20:41,073 --> 00:20:42,442
Absolutely.
548
00:20:42,475 --> 00:20:43,543
That's cool.
549
00:20:43,576 --> 00:20:46,546
Yeah.
I kind of like it, myself.
550
00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:48,748
Can you tell me
what your kinks are?
551
00:20:48,781 --> 00:20:51,984
I enjoy being whipped
intensely and hard.
552
00:20:52,018 --> 00:20:54,287
So you want me to whip you
intensely and hard?
553
00:20:54,321 --> 00:20:55,688
Yes, please, mistress.
554
00:20:55,722 --> 00:20:57,290
I feel like we're really
gonna get along.
555
00:20:57,324 --> 00:20:58,057
I'd love that.
556
00:20:58,090 --> 00:20:59,559
This is great.
557
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,863
What position do you like
to be spanked in?
558
00:21:03,896 --> 00:21:05,498
Uh, for ease, I suppose,
559
00:21:05,532 --> 00:21:07,600
if I put my hands
on the chairs
560
00:21:07,634 --> 00:21:10,803
and place my buttocks
in your general direction.
561
00:21:10,837 --> 00:21:12,004
Okay. Let's try.
562
00:21:12,038 --> 00:21:15,408
**
563
00:21:17,043 --> 00:21:19,412
You like that?
I did like that.
Thank you, mistress.
564
00:21:20,847 --> 00:21:22,682
On a pain scale
from 1 to 10,
565
00:21:22,715 --> 00:21:23,816
how bad was that?
566
00:21:23,850 --> 00:21:25,552
About a 6.
567
00:21:25,585 --> 00:21:26,953
You can go way more hard,
yes, mistress.
568
00:21:31,691 --> 00:21:33,393
How was that?
569
00:21:33,426 --> 00:21:34,627
Thank you, mistress.
570
00:21:34,661 --> 00:21:35,728
**
571
00:21:35,762 --> 00:21:37,330
Thank you.
Thank you, mistress.
572
00:21:37,364 --> 00:21:38,731
I really enjoyed that.
Did you?
573
00:21:38,765 --> 00:21:40,367
Yeah, you made me
feel really good.
574
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,769
I'm glad because
it made me feel good, too.
575
00:21:42,802 --> 00:21:44,871
Karley: After hanging out
with a dominatrix
576
00:21:44,904 --> 00:21:46,906
and her devoted
lifestyle slaves,
577
00:21:46,939 --> 00:21:50,009
I've realized that all day,
every day, dom-sub partnerships
578
00:21:50,042 --> 00:21:52,345
can be just as versatile
and transformative
579
00:21:52,379 --> 00:21:54,046
as vanilla relationships.
580
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:55,848
Sure, the
dom gets her chores done,
581
00:21:55,882 --> 00:21:57,417
but the slaves get
582
00:21:57,450 --> 00:21:58,818
the acceptance and discipline
they crave,
583
00:21:58,851 --> 00:22:00,953
because, really,
we all just want to be loved
584
00:22:00,987 --> 00:22:03,122
for the freaks
that we are, right?
585
00:22:03,155 --> 00:22:05,525
Relationships come
in all different shapes,
586
00:22:05,558 --> 00:22:07,126
sizes, and perversions,
587
00:22:07,159 --> 00:22:09,429
whether you only sleep
with one person for life
588
00:22:09,462 --> 00:22:10,797
or you sleep in a cage.
589
00:22:10,830 --> 00:22:12,399
The moral of the story is,
590
00:22:12,432 --> 00:22:14,701
there's someone out there
for everyone.
591
00:22:14,734 --> 00:22:16,769
And, as for me,
well, it turns out
592
00:22:16,803 --> 00:22:19,672
my submissive Prince Charming
actually does exist,
593
00:22:19,706 --> 00:22:21,107
and I don't even have to feel
like a...about it.
594
00:22:22,475 --> 00:22:23,443
Whip you later, sluts.
42341
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