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Dre: Back in the day,
you didn't know all that much
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about people around you --
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your co-workers, acquaintances, your mailman.
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Most people were strangers
who lived a life of mystery,
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because there was a thing
called privacy.
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But since the explosion
of social media,
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everyone knows everything
about everybody.
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And in these
politically divided times,
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this onslaught of social media
means
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we know everyone's thoughts
on every single issue.
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That can really change
your perception of a person.
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Take Bow's cousin Gary,
for example.
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I knew he lived
somewhere in L.A.
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and thought you should
go for it on fourth and 1.
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But social media introduced me
to a whole other side of Gary.
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That's where I found out he was
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BLM's newest, whitest ally.
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So, with George Floyd's murder
and the uprisings,
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I guess I shouldn't have been
surprised when this happened.
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[ Cellphone ringing ]
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Hey, Gary!
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I've been waiting
on this call, man.
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When is the fantasy draft?
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Gary: What are you talking
about football, man?
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Turn on the news.
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America doesn't care
about Black people, okay?
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We need to make a change ASAP,
and you need to help me.
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Gary: Hey, man,
I'm sorry to call again,
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but Bow isn't picking up,
and I just got to say
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this country isso behind.
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It feels like the '80s.
Or the '60s.
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Whichever decade
is the most racist.
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Call me back.
This is Gary.
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Yeah. Mm-hmm. This is
the sixth one that he left me.
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Mm-hmm.
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Bow, our relationshipisn't meant to handle this.
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The only timeI should see Gary cry is
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when they're reuniting a soldierwith a dog at halftime.
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Gary has been emotional
his entire life.
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He cried four times
during the movie "Face/Off."
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That's why I don't answer
any of his calls.
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Eh, ah, uh, Bow...
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I feel that White people arelosing their mind, all right?
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[ Chuckles ]
They've all been reaching out
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because some meme told themto check on their Black friends.
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Oh, I know.
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I know, Dre.
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Hmm?
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Listen.[ Cellphone beeps ]
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Woman: [ Sobbing ]
What happened to Americ--
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[ Cellphone beeps ]Woman #2:
I just feel so terrible about my own privilege.
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If you want to skip tennis --[ Cellphone beeps ]
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Woman #3:
I think my daughter needs a Black hero right now, and I --
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Okay. Okay. Okay.
Enough.
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None of those people
are my friends.
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Not a one.
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And that last woman --
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she's just someone
who found my wallet in 2005.
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That's crazy.
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Bow, you know what?
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I feel that the people who arecalling are drowning in guilt
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and are lookingfor a Black life preserver.
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But I didn't expect that
from Gary!
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The best thing
that you can do here
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is pretend that this call
never happened.
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Mm.
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It's Gary. All right?
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So in a few weeks,
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when "The Great British
Bake Off" comes back on,
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he will forget
that Black lives ever mattered.
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Yeah,you're probably right.
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Mm-hmm.
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I'll delete them.
Yeah.
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Maybe it'll all go awayon its own,
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just like a jury summonsor a red light ticket.
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Pshh.[ Cellphone chimes ]
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Oh! Look at this.
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CVS is alerting us
that Black lives matter
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andthere is 20% off
of all Tussin.
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Oh.
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♪♪
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Babe, you are so sweet
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for helping me
with my psych homework.
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I don't mind at all.
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I feel like psychologistsare real doctors.
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I don't care
what my mom says.
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[ Toaster pops ]
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Oh, no.
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Jack, we have talked
about this.
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It is hot
when it comes out.
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No, no, no.
I-I chipped the icing.
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Well, it's still
gonna taste the same.
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It's not for me.
It's for Diane.
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She places a high value on the
aesthetic of the toaster pasty.
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Well, if she's
that particular,
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wouldn't it just be easier
for her to make it herself?
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[ Laughing ][ Laughing ]
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Junior, school your girl.
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She's clearly never been on the
business end of Diane's wrath.
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[ Exhales deeply ]
Mnh-mnh.
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Whoa, Junior.
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Your brother is acting out
this theory in my textbook.
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[ Toaster clicks ]Jack clearly has
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what the book calls
a fearful attachment.
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He will do anything
to make his twin sister happy.
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Wow.
That does make sense.
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You know, one time,
Diane got the flu,
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and Jack immediately
tried to register
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[ Toaster pops ]to be an organ donor.
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[ Inhales sharply ]
Ah.
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You know, Jack, just because
you love your sister
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doesn't mean you got to burn
your fingerprints off for her.
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If you ever want to talk
about ways
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to assert yourself
in your relationship
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and break free
from your fear of rejection,
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I'm here.
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I'll think about it.
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Whoa! Whoa!
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Jack,
you should feel lucky
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that Olivia has blessed you
with this knowledge.
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You know, some day, Mom is gonna
spend hundreds of dollars
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for you to get
this same kind of therapy.
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Good.
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Because I saw Grandma
changing for the pool once,
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and it really
messed me up.
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Ugh.
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[ Cellphone chiming ] Even though Bow told me
to ignore Gary,
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it didn't seem like he was
going to let me do that.
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Stevens: Hold everything.
Dre's got a problem.
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My money is on
bad credit score.
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Dre: No.
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Bow's White cousin Gary --
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he wants to talk to me
about race.
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How is that a problem
for you?
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Yeah, you talk so much
about race, Dre,
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I watch "American History X"
totally differently now.
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I don't talk about it
that much.
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[ Laughing ] What?![ Laughs ]
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You talk about race so much,
we basically owe you tuition.
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Dre, I thought Rodney King was
King of South L.A. real estate
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until I met you.
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Because of you, Dre,
I now have a relationship
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with my daughter's boyfriend,
Lamar.
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Your daughter has
a Black boyfriend?
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Yes, Dre,
she has a Black boyfriend.
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And because of you,
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I didn't assume that he wanted
fried chicken for dinner.
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Well, you know,
now that I think about it...
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Gary didn't call
just anyBlack friend.
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No, he did not.He called the...
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Yep.
...Black friend.
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You're damn right.
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You know, he needs me.
It's time I answer his call.
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Yeah.
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Feel that, Dre?
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What?
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Come on.
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That's progress.
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Thisis the dream
Rodney King was talking about.
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The guys were right.
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I had to take advantage
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of the opportunity
to build a better White man.
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Gary!
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Hey, man. Oh.
[ Exhales deeply ]
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Hey, thanks for being down
to talk.
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Hey. Well, you know what?
You picked the right person.
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I am excited
to be your race master.
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[ Inhales sharply ]
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Lesson number one --
let's lose the word "master."
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It gets weird real quick.
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Like a lot of White people,
it turned out Gary had a ton
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that he wanted
to get off his chest
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to his Black friend.
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I guess
just since the uprisings,
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I've felt very lost
and discouraged
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that I haven't done
my fair share
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of really trying to understand
the Black experience,
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and I just want
to do better.
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Mm.
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So, that...
is just the first step.
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Yeah.
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What if I were to give you
an opportunity
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to learn more
about the Black experience?
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Yes.
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Ask me anything.
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Anything?
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Yes. Anything.
No question is dumb.
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Great.
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Um...what is Bruno Mars?
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He's Black, right?
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That's...your question?
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I don't know, man!
I froze!
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This whole thing
feels like a setup.
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No, no, no.
It's -- It's not. Honestly.
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You're --
Gary, ask me anything, man.
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Just ask. Anything!
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If I'm singing alongto a rap song...
Mm-hmm.
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...and they say the N-word,
do I just go silent,
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or can I say..."ninja"?
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[ Exhales deeply,
chuckles ]
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Wh-- You almost
had me there, Gary.
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Uh...you know,
I-I-I think it's safe to say
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that you should never
sing along to a rap song.
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Ever.
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But what about Macklemore?
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Eh--
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You know what?
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Uh...
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let me break it down
to you.
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♪ Hit it Once Gary and I got going,
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something beautiful happened.
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[ Rob Base and DJ E-Z Rock's
"It Takes Two" plays ]
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♪♪
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♪ It takes two
to make a thing go right ♪
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♪ It takes two
to make it outta sight ♪
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♪♪
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♪ It takes two
to make a thing go right ♪
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♪ It takes two
to make it outta sight ♪
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♪ Hit it
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♪ I wanna rock right now
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♪ I'm Rob Base,
and I came to get down ♪
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♪ I'm not
internationally known ♪
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♪ But I'm known
to rock the microphone ♪
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All right.
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Let me ask you this.
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How many Black friends
do you have?
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♪ No, not a loser
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Not counting family members
and co-workers.
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♪ Ladies love me,
girls adore me ♪
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♪ I mean, even the ones
who never saw me ♪
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♪ Like the way that I rhyme
at a show ♪
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♪ The reason why, man,
I don't know ♪
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♪ So let's go, 'cause
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♪ It takes two
to make a thing go right ♪
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♪ It takes two
to make it outta sight ♪
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♪ It takes two, i-it takes two
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♪ I-It takes two to make a...
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So, that's how redlining
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prevented Black people
from even participating
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in the greatest accumulation
of wealth in American history?
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That's right.
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See, they didn't teach us that
in school.
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Ha!
They taught us
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that every American had
the same opportunity.
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Well, that's what
they wanted you to think.
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Because if Black people
were responsible
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for our own oppression,
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then that would make it easier
to reinforce the narrative
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of White success
and Black failure.
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And if our failure
was ourfault,
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then White people
wouldn't have any responsibility
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to make change.
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I hear you, man.
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And I got to say, I want to be
responsible, you know?
255
00:09:28,176 --> 00:09:30,221
I want to do something.
Okay.
256
00:09:30,265 --> 00:09:33,877
Well, these books can explain it
a whole lot better than I can.
257
00:09:33,921 --> 00:09:36,619
If you want to put in the work,
that's a great place to start.
258
00:09:36,663 --> 00:09:38,316
Thanks, man.
Can't wait to read.
259
00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:39,622
All right.
260
00:09:39,666 --> 00:09:41,798
Hey, good luck
on your journey, grasshopper.
261
00:09:41,842 --> 00:09:43,539
All right.
[ Chuckles ]
262
00:09:43,583 --> 00:09:44,671
Oh!
Uh, one more thing.
263
00:09:44,714 --> 00:09:45,759
Yeah?
264
00:09:45,802 --> 00:09:47,543
Is it weird
to like "Hamilton"?
265
00:09:47,587 --> 00:09:49,719
Our future's at stake,
Gary.
266
00:09:49,763 --> 00:09:51,765
We don't have time
for non-"Wiz" musicals.
267
00:09:51,808 --> 00:09:53,418
Right.
All right?
268
00:09:53,462 --> 00:09:56,378
Now, ease on down that road.
[ Laughs ]
269
00:09:56,421 --> 00:09:59,163
♪♪
270
00:09:59,207 --> 00:10:00,774
[ Exhales deeply ]
271
00:10:00,817 --> 00:10:02,732
Jack: Hey, Olivia.
272
00:10:02,776 --> 00:10:04,995
Once I started thinking
about what you said about Diane,
273
00:10:05,039 --> 00:10:06,083
it made a lot of sense.
274
00:10:06,127 --> 00:10:07,911
I came up with
a lot of grievances.
275
00:10:07,955 --> 00:10:09,696
And once I got going,
it didn't stop.
276
00:10:09,739 --> 00:10:11,088
Good job.Wait.
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
277
00:10:11,132 --> 00:10:13,917
All of this...
is about Diane?
278
00:10:13,961 --> 00:10:14,831
Mm-hmm.
279
00:10:14,875 --> 00:10:16,441
[ Chuckles ]
280
00:10:16,485 --> 00:10:18,052
You're not planning
on giving this to her, are you?
281
00:10:18,095 --> 00:10:20,228
No, no, no, no, no.
This is great progress, Jack.
282
00:10:20,271 --> 00:10:22,099
You've identified
your issues.
283
00:10:22,143 --> 00:10:23,492
Now you just
got to find the time
284
00:10:23,535 --> 00:10:25,363
where you can both
look each other in the eye
285
00:10:25,407 --> 00:10:26,930
and you tell her
what's bothering you.
286
00:10:26,974 --> 00:10:28,366
Good job.
287
00:10:28,410 --> 00:10:31,413
Ornow that you have gotten
your feelings
288
00:10:31,456 --> 00:10:33,807
out of your body
and onto this paper,
289
00:10:33,850 --> 00:10:35,635
you can burn it.
290
00:10:35,678 --> 00:10:39,551
That way,
no one ever gets to read it,
291
00:10:39,595 --> 00:10:43,381
and no one will ever punish you
for writing it.
292
00:10:43,425 --> 00:10:45,383
Ooh, that reminds me
of what she said
293
00:10:45,427 --> 00:10:47,168
when I tried to wear
that fedora.
294
00:10:47,211 --> 00:10:48,517
Let me see.
Wh--
295
00:10:48,560 --> 00:10:51,041
Be right back.
I need more paper.
296
00:10:51,085 --> 00:10:52,564
Wh--
297
00:10:52,608 --> 00:10:53,827
Isn't this great?
298
00:10:53,870 --> 00:10:56,612
Jack's gonna heal
his attachment issues.
299
00:10:56,656 --> 00:10:58,570
Oh, I feel really good
about this.
300
00:10:58,614 --> 00:10:59,920
[ Chuckles nervously ]
301
00:10:59,963 --> 00:11:03,271
H-Hey, babe, you know I --
I love when you feel good,
302
00:11:03,314 --> 00:11:05,752
but, um...
I feel like maybe
303
00:11:05,795 --> 00:11:08,711
you don't know Diane well enough
to give this kind of advice.
304
00:11:08,755 --> 00:11:09,712
You know?
305
00:11:09,756 --> 00:11:11,061
Oh, really?
306
00:11:11,105 --> 00:11:12,410
Um...
307
00:11:12,454 --> 00:11:13,977
I see what's going on here.
308
00:11:14,021 --> 00:11:15,718
You want to protect Jack,
309
00:11:15,762 --> 00:11:17,938
but you're also worried
about hurting myfeelings.
310
00:11:18,895 --> 00:11:20,810
Textbook anxious attachment.
311
00:11:20,854 --> 00:11:22,725
You have abandonment issues.
312
00:11:22,769 --> 00:11:24,684
What?
No, I don't.
313
00:11:24,727 --> 00:11:27,251
You're so terrified
you'll say or do the wrong thing,
314
00:11:27,295 --> 00:11:28,731
you try to keep me happy,
315
00:11:28,775 --> 00:11:31,342
even if that means
not standing up for yourself.
316
00:11:31,386 --> 00:11:34,084
What?
Okay, that is ridiculous.
317
00:11:35,999 --> 00:11:37,653
Maybe "ridiculous"
is too harsh a word.
318
00:11:37,697 --> 00:11:38,741
What do you think?
319
00:11:38,785 --> 00:11:40,003
[ Smacks lips ]
320
00:11:40,047 --> 00:11:42,005
I am gonna get a book
out of this family.
321
00:11:42,049 --> 00:11:43,833
[ Chuckles ]
And I will buy it.
322
00:11:43,877 --> 00:11:44,704
[ Inhales sharply ]
323
00:11:46,575 --> 00:11:50,318
I had done it.
I had molded a squishy mind.
324
00:11:50,361 --> 00:11:55,062
And I knew that, thanks to me,
Gary was going to be an ally.
325
00:11:55,105 --> 00:11:57,542
You and Gary were up late
last night.
326
00:11:57,586 --> 00:11:58,935
[ Refrigerator door closes ]
327
00:11:58,979 --> 00:12:01,851
Your cousin and I had
an excellent conversation.
328
00:12:01,895 --> 00:12:03,548
Did ya?
Yes.
329
00:12:03,592 --> 00:12:07,161
I led a horse to water,
and I taught him how to fish.
330
00:12:07,204 --> 00:12:09,511
I am pretty sure
that you can't cure
331
00:12:09,554 --> 00:12:11,948
40 years of racist conditioning
in one night.
332
00:12:11,992 --> 00:12:14,777
Bow, Bow, Bow.
333
00:12:14,821 --> 00:12:17,649
This is just like the Magic Eye
all over again.
334
00:12:17,693 --> 00:12:18,563
No.
335
00:12:18,607 --> 00:12:20,261
Just because
you can't see it
336
00:12:20,304 --> 00:12:21,784
doesn't mean
it's not there.
337
00:12:21,828 --> 00:12:23,133
That was
a defective painting.
338
00:12:23,177 --> 00:12:24,831
Ha!
And you need to trust me.
339
00:12:24,874 --> 00:12:27,703
I grew up
in a mixed family.
340
00:12:27,747 --> 00:12:31,751
And my cousins and I had
these conversations about Reagan
341
00:12:31,794 --> 00:12:33,274
all those years ago,
342
00:12:33,317 --> 00:12:35,798
the same way
you're having them now.
343
00:12:35,842 --> 00:12:39,933
This is never ending,
and it is not yours to fix.
344
00:12:39,976 --> 00:12:41,586
I don't mind, Bow.
345
00:12:41,630 --> 00:12:42,936
It's what I do.
346
00:12:42,979 --> 00:12:43,980
It's w--
347
00:12:44,024 --> 00:12:45,068
Stevens.
348
00:12:45,112 --> 00:12:46,287
[ Sighs ]
Josh.
349
00:12:46,330 --> 00:12:47,679
Oh, my God.
350
00:12:47,723 --> 00:12:48,898
Gary.
351
00:12:48,942 --> 00:12:50,595
[ Chuckles ]
352
00:12:50,639 --> 00:12:52,859
Give me enough time,
and I can convert
353
00:12:52,902 --> 00:12:55,600
any AM radio host
in this country.
354
00:12:55,644 --> 00:12:56,688
Huh.
355
00:12:56,732 --> 00:12:57,733
Watch.
356
00:12:57,777 --> 00:13:00,083
♪♪
357
00:13:00,127 --> 00:13:04,000
I can't believe I was ever
attracted to this side of you!
358
00:13:05,088 --> 00:13:07,221
[ Cellphone rings ]
359
00:13:07,264 --> 00:13:09,614
Hey, Gary. My man.
What's up?
360
00:13:09,658 --> 00:13:11,660
Dre, we need to talk.
361
00:13:11,703 --> 00:13:13,096
Uh...
362
00:13:13,140 --> 00:13:15,751
Hey, d-does it have to be
right now?
363
00:13:15,795 --> 00:13:17,840
You know, I'm, uh,
I'm taking care of the baby.
364
00:13:17,884 --> 00:13:18,841
Can I please come over?
365
00:13:18,885 --> 00:13:21,017
Sure. Why not?
366
00:13:21,061 --> 00:13:23,106
Good, 'cause I'm outside right now.
367
00:13:23,150 --> 00:13:24,804
What?[ Door closes ]
368
00:13:24,847 --> 00:13:27,284
Did you know that right now,
as we speak,
369
00:13:27,328 --> 00:13:30,418
White gentrifiers are moving
into Black communities?
370
00:13:30,461 --> 00:13:32,463
Okay, and starting
their own charter schools,
371
00:13:32,507 --> 00:13:34,596
which takes away the funding
from the public schools
372
00:13:34,639 --> 00:13:36,337
that everybody else
has to go to?
373
00:13:36,380 --> 00:13:37,904
So that leaves
the Black schools
374
00:13:37,947 --> 00:13:39,862
completely understaffed
and underfunded.
375
00:13:39,906 --> 00:13:40,776
It's terrible.
376
00:13:40,820 --> 00:13:42,734
You are totally right,
Gary,
377
00:13:42,778 --> 00:13:44,345
and I agree with you.
378
00:13:44,388 --> 00:13:46,173
So, tell me this --
what's your plan?
379
00:13:46,216 --> 00:13:47,870
Ha.
I'm glad you asked.
380
00:13:47,914 --> 00:13:49,654
First of all,
I'm starting a parents' group.
381
00:13:49,698 --> 00:13:52,222
We're gonna write letters
and make calls every day
382
00:13:52,266 --> 00:13:53,876
to politicians.
Okay.
383
00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,444
And I think I can also organize
a Zoom fundraising concert
384
00:13:56,487 --> 00:13:58,533
with the bassist
from The Goo Goo Dolls.
385
00:13:58,576 --> 00:14:00,317
He's a friend
of a friend. Okay.
386
00:14:00,361 --> 00:14:01,579
I don't know if --
Okay. Okay.
387
00:14:01,623 --> 00:14:04,234
Gary,
let me ask you this --
388
00:14:04,278 --> 00:14:06,802
are you putting your kids
in public school?
389
00:14:06,846 --> 00:14:09,152
Well, [clears throat]
great question.
390
00:14:09,196 --> 00:14:11,067
And we are considering it.
391
00:14:11,111 --> 00:14:12,503
I haven't talked to Jennifer
about it,
392
00:14:12,547 --> 00:14:13,896
but it is on the table.
393
00:14:13,940 --> 00:14:18,466
Are...you...sending your kids
to public school?
394
00:14:18,509 --> 00:14:20,076
I mean, I wish I could.
395
00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:21,817
The school
that we're zoned for,
396
00:14:21,861 --> 00:14:23,906
the -- the testing scores there
are not great, so --
397
00:14:23,950 --> 00:14:25,690
Okay. Gary, let me --
let me get this straight.
398
00:14:25,734 --> 00:14:28,215
So, you want to topple
the system... Yes.
399
00:14:28,258 --> 00:14:31,131
...but you're not willing to do
the one thing that you cando?
400
00:14:31,174 --> 00:14:34,786
I hear ya, but why do my kids
have to be the guinea pigs?
401
00:14:34,830 --> 00:14:36,440
I mean, yourkids don't go
to public school.
402
00:14:36,484 --> 00:14:38,921
That's the whole thing!
403
00:14:38,965 --> 00:14:41,358
When White kids go
to these schools,
404
00:14:41,402 --> 00:14:43,621
they suddenly find
resources!
405
00:14:43,665 --> 00:14:46,537
But my Black kids going there
doesn't change a thing.
406
00:14:46,581 --> 00:14:48,713
So if you're not willing
to do that,
407
00:14:48,757 --> 00:14:51,107
you know, there's not much that
we really need to talk about.
408
00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:54,502
Hey, I'm just trying
to be an ally here.
409
00:14:54,545 --> 00:14:55,895
Okay.
Hey, look, Gary.
410
00:14:55,938 --> 00:14:57,984
You know, I really thought
this was a great idea,
411
00:14:58,027 --> 00:15:01,465
but I'm starting to feel like
this is just a big mistake.
412
00:15:01,509 --> 00:15:03,946
I'm sorry,
but I can't take you on.
413
00:15:03,990 --> 00:15:05,643
Okay? Bye.
414
00:15:05,687 --> 00:15:07,907
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa!
Look.
415
00:15:07,950 --> 00:15:11,649
I'm just a White man standing
in front of his Black cousin,
416
00:15:11,693 --> 00:15:14,870
asking him to solve racism --
together.
417
00:15:14,914 --> 00:15:16,437
I can't do it, Gary.
418
00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:17,917
Hey.
Lose my number, man.
419
00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:19,701
Wh-- Yeah.
420
00:15:19,744 --> 00:15:21,572
I understand what's going on.
This is part of the process.
421
00:15:25,446 --> 00:15:27,361
Hey.
Hey.
422
00:15:27,404 --> 00:15:29,493
What are you doing out here
by yourself?
423
00:15:29,537 --> 00:15:31,843
[ Gasps ] Oh, no.
424
00:15:31,887 --> 00:15:34,150
Did you find the Playboy
that your mom was in?
425
00:15:34,194 --> 00:15:36,022
I told you -- those pictures
she sent to Hugh Hefner
426
00:15:36,065 --> 00:15:38,285
were unsolicited.
427
00:15:38,328 --> 00:15:39,634
No.
428
00:15:39,677 --> 00:15:42,985
I had to drop Gary.
He got to be too much.
429
00:15:43,029 --> 00:15:44,160
[ Sighing ] Dre.
430
00:15:45,422 --> 00:15:48,338
Dre, Dre.
431
00:15:48,382 --> 00:15:51,037
Dre.
432
00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:55,476
Did he surprise you and do
exactly what I said he would?
433
00:15:55,519 --> 00:15:57,782
Thanks for
not rubbing it in.
434
00:15:57,826 --> 00:15:59,480
I knew
you would end up here
435
00:15:59,523 --> 00:16:02,309
because I have done this
so many times before, Dre,
436
00:16:02,352 --> 00:16:04,789
and I didn't want you to be
disappointed, the way I was.
437
00:16:04,833 --> 00:16:08,054
Gary wanted to jump in
and fix the entire system
438
00:16:08,097 --> 00:16:10,012
without owning his own part
in it.
439
00:16:11,274 --> 00:16:14,277
Sometimes I think it's easier
to post "Black lives matter"
440
00:16:14,321 --> 00:16:17,106
and shame your grandma online
than look in the mirror
441
00:16:17,150 --> 00:16:18,586
and realize
that you are complicit.
442
00:16:18,629 --> 00:16:19,935
Yes!
443
00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:23,156
What is it about this moment
that so many people
444
00:16:23,199 --> 00:16:26,376
are finally comfortable
saying Black lives matter?
445
00:16:27,595 --> 00:16:29,684
Where were they
for Aiyana Jones,
446
00:16:29,727 --> 00:16:33,470
Trayvon Martin, Mike Brown,
Sandra Bland?
447
00:16:33,514 --> 00:16:38,519
I think that after four years
of overt tiki torch racism,
448
00:16:38,562 --> 00:16:41,391
it's socially acceptable
for White people
449
00:16:41,435 --> 00:16:45,047
to finally fight
for the dignity of Black people.
450
00:16:45,091 --> 00:16:45,961
That's what scares me.
451
00:16:46,005 --> 00:16:47,267
I know.
452
00:16:47,310 --> 00:16:49,791
If they can flip a switch
and care,
453
00:16:49,834 --> 00:16:51,488
they can just as easily
flip a switch
454
00:16:51,532 --> 00:16:52,533
and go back
to notcaring.
455
00:16:52,576 --> 00:16:53,969
Agreed.
456
00:16:54,013 --> 00:16:55,492
And what are we supposed to say
next time we see Gary?
457
00:16:55,536 --> 00:16:57,407
Oh, my God. Dre.
458
00:16:57,451 --> 00:16:59,801
You still want
to engage him?
459
00:16:59,844 --> 00:17:01,933
He's the only oneof your family members
that I like, Bow.
460
00:17:01,977 --> 00:17:03,065
What?!
461
00:17:03,109 --> 00:17:04,110
I'm not ready
to let that go.
462
00:17:04,153 --> 00:17:05,676
Oh, my God.
463
00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,156
He goes for it
on fourth and 1
464
00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:08,984
no matter where he is
on the field!
465
00:17:09,028 --> 00:17:10,377
What's fourth and 1?
466
00:17:10,420 --> 00:17:12,118
See?
You wouldn't understand.
467
00:17:12,161 --> 00:17:13,902
Okay.
468
00:17:13,945 --> 00:17:15,121
Okay.
469
00:17:15,164 --> 00:17:17,949
When I win the Nobel Prize
for psychology,
470
00:17:17,993 --> 00:17:19,299
I'm gonna shout you out.
471
00:17:19,342 --> 00:17:20,517
You better.
472
00:17:20,561 --> 00:17:21,779
[ Chuckles ]
473
00:17:21,823 --> 00:17:22,780
Um...
474
00:17:22,824 --> 00:17:25,392
Oh, hey.
How'd it go with Diane?
475
00:17:25,435 --> 00:17:26,741
Oh, well, uh,
about that --
476
00:17:26,784 --> 00:17:29,091
Actually,
I've got to talk to you
477
00:17:29,135 --> 00:17:30,832
about
this psychology stuff.
478
00:17:30,875 --> 00:17:32,660
Okay.
479
00:17:32,703 --> 00:17:35,576
I don't think it's a good idea
for you to diagnose my family.
480
00:17:35,619 --> 00:17:39,797
Yeah, we have our problems,
but what family doesn't?
481
00:17:39,841 --> 00:17:41,973
Plus, if you would've tried this
on my grandma,
482
00:17:42,017 --> 00:17:43,671
she probably would've shot you
in your belly.
483
00:17:43,714 --> 00:17:45,151
She's done it before.
484
00:17:45,194 --> 00:17:47,501
Why didn't you say this
the other day?
485
00:17:47,544 --> 00:17:49,459
It's my usual MO
to squash my feelings
486
00:17:49,503 --> 00:17:51,244
to make other people
happy.
487
00:17:51,287 --> 00:17:55,509
But I love our relationship,
and because of that,
488
00:17:55,552 --> 00:17:58,077
it's important that I let you
know how I really feel.
489
00:17:58,120 --> 00:17:59,600
Ohh.
490
00:17:59,643 --> 00:18:01,080
I'm so sorry.
491
00:18:01,123 --> 00:18:02,733
I did it again.
492
00:18:02,777 --> 00:18:05,780
I'm always screwing something up
with my dumb psych major.
493
00:18:05,823 --> 00:18:06,868
No, baby.
494
00:18:06,911 --> 00:18:08,522
Even my own family
got tired of it.
495
00:18:09,740 --> 00:18:11,568
Honestly...
496
00:18:11,612 --> 00:18:13,135
I'm just trying
to impress you guys.
497
00:18:13,179 --> 00:18:14,528
Aww.
498
00:18:14,571 --> 00:18:15,964
You do impress me.
499
00:18:16,007 --> 00:18:18,140
♪♪
500
00:18:18,184 --> 00:18:19,533
Dre: Okay.
501
00:18:19,576 --> 00:18:21,100
Ah. All right.
502
00:18:21,143 --> 00:18:23,102
Well,
thank you for the beer.
503
00:18:23,145 --> 00:18:24,625
That's not all I did.
504
00:18:24,668 --> 00:18:27,193
I had a long talk
with Jennifer, and...
505
00:18:27,236 --> 00:18:29,020
it looks like we're not
gonna be sending our kids
506
00:18:29,064 --> 00:18:30,631
to public school
next year.
507
00:18:30,674 --> 00:18:32,720
And before you say anything,
I know, man --
508
00:18:32,763 --> 00:18:34,548
I'm a hypocrite.
Mm-hmm.
509
00:18:34,591 --> 00:18:37,986
But I just don't know if I can
make a huge sacrifice like that
510
00:18:38,029 --> 00:18:40,815
without knowing for sure
that it's gonna pay off.
511
00:18:40,858 --> 00:18:42,599
That's what a movement is --
512
00:18:42,643 --> 00:18:45,385
many people sacrificing
parts of their lives
513
00:18:45,428 --> 00:18:48,823
to move the needle,
even if the needle barely moves.
514
00:18:48,866 --> 00:18:52,653
Look, man, I know
your eyes are newly open
515
00:18:52,696 --> 00:18:55,177
to all of the injustice
in this country
516
00:18:55,221 --> 00:18:57,179
and you want to change
everything all at once.
517
00:18:57,223 --> 00:18:58,398
Yeah.
518
00:18:58,441 --> 00:19:00,356
But what matters
to memost
519
00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:06,101
is that in five days,
five months, five years,
520
00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:07,624
you're still doing the work.
521
00:19:09,322 --> 00:19:12,151
You're so right, man.
There's so much for me to learn.
522
00:19:12,194 --> 00:19:13,935
And there's just racism
everywhere.
523
00:19:13,978 --> 00:19:16,067
Got to just open my eyes
to it.
524
00:19:16,111 --> 00:19:17,504
Yep.
525
00:19:17,547 --> 00:19:19,462
Okay, let's go watch
Chiefs-Redskins.
526
00:19:20,942 --> 00:19:23,205
It's the Washington
Football Team.
527
00:19:23,249 --> 00:19:24,859
It is?
Yeah.
528
00:19:24,902 --> 00:19:28,210
And I don't know how the Chiefs
got out of changing their name.
529
00:19:28,254 --> 00:19:29,864
And, uh...
530
00:19:29,907 --> 00:19:31,561
I'm gonna get
some more beer.
531
00:19:31,605 --> 00:19:33,389
Oh, well, they only brew this
every three years.
532
00:19:33,433 --> 00:19:35,043
It's kind of special.
533
00:19:35,086 --> 00:19:37,001
Uh, maybe they should brew it
every fiveyears.
534
00:19:37,045 --> 00:19:38,438
Hey, did you read any...
535
00:19:38,481 --> 00:19:41,223
It's good that more people
are talking about things
536
00:19:41,267 --> 00:19:44,618
they wouldn't talk about
even just a few years ago.
537
00:19:44,661 --> 00:19:47,534
That doesn't mean
that the work is easy.
538
00:19:47,577 --> 00:19:50,667
But it shows we made progress,
and that's what's important.
539
00:19:53,714 --> 00:19:56,456
But then you smear it --Dre. Thank God you're here.
540
00:19:56,499 --> 00:19:57,761
Okay, Josh and I are having what
I can call a disagreement...
541
00:19:57,805 --> 00:19:59,110
Sure.
542
00:19:59,154 --> 00:20:01,504
...about what technically
constitutes blackface.
543
00:20:01,548 --> 00:20:03,332
What do you think?
544
00:20:03,376 --> 00:20:04,594
Are you serious?
545
00:20:04,638 --> 00:20:06,509
Oh, yes! Dre rant!
546
00:20:06,553 --> 00:20:07,902
I got some popcorn!
547
00:20:07,945 --> 00:20:08,642
Hold.
548
00:20:08,685 --> 00:20:09,643
And go.
549
00:20:09,686 --> 00:20:11,035
You know what?
550
00:20:11,079 --> 00:20:15,431
As a little treat,
I made my rant into a song.
551
00:20:15,475 --> 00:20:18,042
What? How could you
possibly have known what we were gonna ask you?
552
00:20:18,086 --> 00:20:21,089
So, you find yourself
wanting to ask a Black person
553
00:20:21,132 --> 00:20:23,047
a question about race.
554
00:20:23,091 --> 00:20:24,266
Uh-huh.
Well...
555
00:20:24,310 --> 00:20:31,578
♪ What a friend we have
in Google ♪
556
00:20:31,621 --> 00:20:38,759
♪ All your questions
answered there ♪
557
00:20:38,802 --> 00:20:45,635
♪ What a privilege to Google
558
00:20:45,679 --> 00:20:52,294
♪ Instead of asking
your Black friends ♪
559
00:20:52,338 --> 00:20:54,470
Hey, Dre, is it racist
if I make this song my --
560
00:20:54,514 --> 00:20:56,037
♪ Oh, what peace it is...
561
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,213
You know what?
I'll just listen to the words.
562
00:20:58,263 --> 00:21:02,813
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