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(bright festive music)
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("Joy to the World")
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(phone chimes)
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- Hey, Pop.
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- (gasps) It's my favorite
daughter in the whole wide world.
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- [Georgia] Your only daughter.
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- I stand by my statement.
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(Georgia laughs)
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- How you doing?
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- [William] I'm good. Merry Christmas.
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- Merry Christmas.
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I'm so excited.
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I got your package in.
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- [William] You did?
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- Mmhmm.
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- [William] Oh, good. I was worried.
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(Georgia chuckles)
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You know, mailing this
time of year, it's just,
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it's like a crapshoot.
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- Did you get mine?
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- I did. I did.
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I'm very excited.
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- [Georgia] Yes.
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- I had to wait.
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- [Georgia] It's only the first few.
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I have a bigger one coming in tomorrow.
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- Really?
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- [Georgia] It's not the best presents.
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Don't lose hope.
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There's tomorrow.
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- Okay.
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But what is it?
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- The big present?
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- [William] Yeah.
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- That's a secret.
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- [William] (sighs) I hate secrets.
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- (laughs) What kind of Santa would I be
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if I just let you know
what it was gonna be?
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(William groans)
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You gotta wait.
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- Okay, so I think last year, I started.
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This year, you start
first to open presents.
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- You did a pretty good
job wrapping. (chuckles)
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- [William] You know what?
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I practiced all year.
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Let me tell you, the
comments was horrible.
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(gentle piano music)
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- Is it a good look?
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- [William] Very cute, yes.
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(Georgia giggles)
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Yes, very nice.
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- Oh, it's so nice.
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Let's see.
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Oh, this looks cozy.
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- I know, right?
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Alright, my turn.
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- [Georgia] Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
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- Let's see, I want...
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Oh, look at this.
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(Georgia giggles)
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Talk about wrapping, huh?
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- [Georgia] I know, I know, I know.
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- [William] Well, it's not money.
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- [Georgia] (laughs) No, definitely not.
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- And we have a...
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Oh, look at that.
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(Georgia giggles)
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We have a severed Santa mug.
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- [Georgia] Oh. (laughs)
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- Love it.
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Oh, this is cute.
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- (giggles) Santa hot pants.
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- [William] (laughs) Yeah, exactly.
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Santa hot pants.
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Very nice, honey. Thank you.
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Alright, you're up.
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- Okay, um...
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Let's see, this tubular one.
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- [William] Mmhmm.
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You're never gonna guess.
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- Never gonna guess? Okay.
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- [William] Never gonna guess.
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- I'll try.
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A map.
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A...
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- [William] Uh-huh.
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- Oh, a telescope.
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- [William] Exactly, so you
can see where you're going.
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- (laughs) Who knows where I'm going?
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- [William] Does anyone know?
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- I don't think so.
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Oh, I love it.
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Yes.
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Thank you, Dad, I needed one of these.
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- [William] Thank you.
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I thought, you know, for the car.
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Warm or cold,
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it keeps it, like, whatever
it's supposed to be.
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Super cold, super hot, whatever.
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- I love that.
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- Tell me it's your favorite color, right?
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- [Georgia] Yes, green.
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- There you go.
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(Georgia giggles)
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Alright, my turn.
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- [Georgia] Yes.
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- Oh, it's got a bow.
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- [Georgia] Yeah, it's so pretty.
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- There you go.
- Oh, I see.
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Now we're twins.
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- Thank you.
(Georgia giggles)
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We're always friends.
(Georgia giggles)
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Well, this is a better job.
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- [Georgia] Thank you.
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- It's okay.
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- [Georgia] First one
was a trial and error.
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- Well, you know, you got a severed Santa,
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so that's kinda hard to wrap.
(Georgia laughs)
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Alright, and what have...
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Box.
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And...
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(box jingles)
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Ooh, it jingles.
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- [Georgia] Mmhmm.
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- Well, honey, what is this?
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What?
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- [Georgia] It's so you can be pretty.
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A pretty Christmas tree. (laughs)
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- (chuckles) Really?
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- [Georgia] Yes, put it on.
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- (sighs) Alright.
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We're gonna, oh, I'm sorry.
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We're gonna have to upgrade.
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- [Georgia] Yeah.
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Oh, so beautiful. (giggles)
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- Right?
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Come on.
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(Georgia giggles)
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Ooh, let's put it on.
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- [William] Maybe if it lit
up, that would be like...
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Right?
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- Oh, you know, I should've
gotten the more expensive one.
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- [William] No, you shouldn't.
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This is...
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Just trust me, this is more than enough.
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- Alright.
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Merry Christmas.
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- [William] Merry Christmas.
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- It's so much wrapping.
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- [William] Mmhmm.
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Well, it's very special
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so I wanna make sure
it's wrapped properly.
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- Is this Mom's?
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- [William] Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I was going through
some stuff and I saw it
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and it was one of her favorite shirts.
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- I saw all the pictures with her in it
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from, like, the '90s or something.
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- [William] Mmhmm, yeah, in the dark ages.
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(sighs) Let you have it.
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- I love it.
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- [William] Hmm.
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- It's all worn.
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- [William] Yeah.
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- Thanks, Dad.
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- You are welcome.
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Chocolate brownie mix.
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- [Georgia] It's your favorite. (giggles)
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- Yeah.
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- [Georgia] I wasn't
there to help you bake,
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so I thought maybe if I got it for you,
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it would make it a little easier for you.
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- Well, let me tell you,
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I have vastly improved my cooking skills
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over the years.
- Oh, really?
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- Yeah, really.
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- [Georgia] Mmhmm.
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- Absolutely.
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- [Georgia] How so?
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Did you make anything special lately?
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- Why, yes, I did.
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- [Georgia] Oh?
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- Uh-huh.
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- [Georgia] Mmhmm.
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- I had my wonderful girlfriend over
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and I made a very delicious meal.
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- [Georgia] Ooh.
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- And it was absolutely,
fantastically horrible
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'cause it burnt.
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(Georgia laughs)
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Yeah, I got an A for effort,
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but, man, execution was like an F.
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- (sighs) At least you tried.
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(laughs) Nailed it.
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- [William] Oh, yeah, we sure nailed it.
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(Georgia laughs)
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Alright, you know...
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Hmm, I tell you,
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Mom cooked.
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I mean, she, she was amazing.
- Yeah.
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- [William] You know?
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You would think after all those years
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I could glean something
from the brilliance
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of what she could just whip up,
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but apparently I just
don't have that skill-set.
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I don't know.
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So we just did the
leftovers and, you know,
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she forgave me.
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At least I didn't poison her,
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so that's something.
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- (laughs) Yeah, she's still here.
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- Yeah, she's still here.
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She's still kicking around.
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(Georgia laughs)
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I like her, pickles.
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Yeah, it's-
- I can't wait to meet her.
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- I do too. I do too.
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It's been, um,
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it's been a good six months so, you know,
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I appreciate you helping me through that.
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- Of course.
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All the best things in life
start out as scary, you know?
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- Yeah,
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like you, you know, taking
the trip down to Florida,
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just, you know, facing your fear.
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Well, I don't think you
ever really been scared.
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I mean, when you were a
kid, you were fearless.
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You just went head-on, 100%.
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Just whatever you wanted to do,
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bam, you just did it.
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So what's the plan for Christmas,
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besides these amazing
gifts that I've given you?
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- [Georgia] (giggles) You're welcome.
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- You're welcome.
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- [Georgia] Um, my plan?
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Well, actually I just got a
notification, like, last night
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that there's, like, a surge in prices
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and there's all these people,
high demand, wanting rides.
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So I don't know,
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I thought I'd pick up a couple of people
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and make a couple extra bucks.
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- Really?
- Be Santa's sleigh.
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- [William] What, you wanna work today?
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- Yeah.
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- [William] I mean,
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this is supposed to be,
like, everyone's day off.
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Like, the one day.
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- Well, I don't know.
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I've always stayed home on Christmas.
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I've never really went out.
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- [William] Yeah.
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- But I don't know.
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I already connected with you.
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I feel like this is what I do.
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I see you,
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and then there's nobody else
really to hang out with.
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So maybe spread some
cheer, make some friends,
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help some people out.
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- [William] Okay.
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- [Georgia] Well, it was
good to hear from you, Dad.
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- It's always good to
hear from you, honey.
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(Georgia giggles)
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I am going to be wearing this all day and-
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- [Georgia] It works for you. (laughs)
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- I know.
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You know, red's my color.
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So, yeah, I think I'm gonna
be doing some bingeing
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and drinking some hot cocoa and relaxing.
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And then probably shoveling
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because it's always snowing.
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Hey, love you, be safe.
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Make good choices.
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- Love you too, Pop.
- Alright, pickles.
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- I'll do my best.
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- [William] Alright, I need to figure out
277
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how to turn this off again because-
278
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- Oh, I'll take care of it.
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Love you, bye.
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- [William] Love you more, bye.
281
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(bright festive music)
282
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- [Radio DJ] Good morning, Tampa Bay.
283
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It is Christmas Day.
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Woop, Christmas Day.
285
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Get that hot cocoa ready.
286
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You know, I just wanna take a moment
287
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and thank all of our police officers,
288
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our RNs, our doctors, ambulance drivers,
289
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gas station attendants.
290
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Hell, the ride-share
drivers are even out today.
291
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So if you guys are drinking tonight,
292
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make sure you call your ride-share driver
293
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and let's all arrive alive.
294
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Let's be safe.
295
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Everyone have a great holiday
296
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and call a loved one today.
297
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I'm sure they could really-
298
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(phone chimes)
299
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- Hi, guys.
- Hello.
300
00:11:46,690 --> 00:11:48,634
- Hi. Georgia, right?
- Yes, yes.
301
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- Of course.
- Merry Christmas.
302
00:11:51,384 --> 00:11:52,214
- Thank you.
- Why don't you give me
303
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your purse, dear.
- Okay.
304
00:11:53,433 --> 00:11:54,200
- [Georgia] Don?
305
00:11:54,266 --> 00:11:55,354
- [Don] Yeah, Don and Nancy.
306
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- [Georgia] Okay, nice to meet you guys.
307
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- [Nancy] Nice to meet you.
308
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Oh, this weather is so beautiful.
309
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- Yeah, it's a little toasty. (laughs)
310
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- I can't believe it.
311
00:12:05,803 --> 00:12:08,714
I don't think we've
ever been anywhere warm,
312
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really warm for Christmas.
313
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- It doesn't seem like it, no.
314
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- [Georgia] You guys
just always in New York,
315
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er, in New Jersey?
316
00:12:14,060 --> 00:12:15,394
- Well, um-
- Yeah, all around.
317
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- Don is military and we've been,
318
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I think we've spent Christmas
in 10 different places
319
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throughout the years.
320
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- [Georgia] Oh wow.
321
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- Yes.
322
00:12:26,151 --> 00:12:26,918
- Yeah, it's been quite the ride.
323
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Oh, remember Jeremy's first
Christmas with Santa? (chuckles)
324
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- We took him to see Santa
when he was three months old.
325
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He couldn't really sit up.
326
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And so we put him on Santa's knee,
327
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and Santa's holding him,
kind of propping him up.
328
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And he reaches up and gets
a hold of Santa's beard
329
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and starts to pull it off.
(Georgia laughs)
330
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And everyone in line was just laughing.
331
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And here is Santa trying to hold the baby
332
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and keep his beard on
333
00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:58,759
and it was hysterical.
- Trying to look like Santa.
334
00:12:58,825 --> 00:12:59,944
- [Georgia] (giggles) What a nightmare.
335
00:13:00,010 --> 00:13:02,289
- You should see the picture of that one.
336
00:13:02,355 --> 00:13:03,455
(laughs) It's so cool.
337
00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,684
We've had some fun times.
338
00:13:06,750 --> 00:13:09,034
We lived in Germany.
339
00:13:09,100 --> 00:13:11,204
- I bet it was like a story book.
340
00:13:11,270 --> 00:13:14,144
I feel like that's where
Christmas was invented.
341
00:13:14,210 --> 00:13:15,124
- Beautiful.
342
00:13:15,190 --> 00:13:16,924
It looks just like you would imagine it.
343
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A little village
344
00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:22,627
and the houses are so
like fairytale houses.
345
00:13:22,693 --> 00:13:23,460
- [Georgia] Aw.
346
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- [Don] Cobblestone streets.
347
00:13:24,359 --> 00:13:26,704
- Yes, and there's a place
called the Marktplatz.
348
00:13:26,770 --> 00:13:30,274
And at Christmas, they
have a Kris Kringle mart
349
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and have all the vendors out there
350
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and your toes get all cold,
351
00:13:36,918 --> 00:13:38,554
but you're able to drink Gluhwein,
352
00:13:38,620 --> 00:13:39,825
and that warms you down to your toes.
353
00:13:39,891 --> 00:13:40,658
(Don chuckles)
354
00:13:40,724 --> 00:13:41,814
- [Georgia] Is that hot wine?
355
00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:45,374
- Yes, spiced wine.
- Yeah, yeah, spiced wine.
356
00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:46,207
- Very good.
357
00:13:46,273 --> 00:13:47,040
- [Georgia] Oh, okay. (giggles)
358
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- [Nancy] Very good.
359
00:13:47,939 --> 00:13:51,488
Oh, this car is so festive. I love it.
360
00:13:51,554 --> 00:13:52,764
- (laughs) Thank you.
361
00:13:52,830 --> 00:13:53,831
- [Don] Ooh, you'd think it
were Christmas or something.
362
00:13:53,897 --> 00:13:54,664
- [Georgia] Right?
363
00:13:54,730 --> 00:13:55,707
- Yes.
(Don laughs)
364
00:13:55,773 --> 00:13:57,561
- [Georgia] It's the sleigh today.
365
00:13:57,627 --> 00:14:00,199
- [Nancy] And you have
to work on Christmas.
366
00:14:00,265 --> 00:14:02,204
- Well, at least I'm not doing my day job.
367
00:14:02,270 --> 00:14:03,644
I usually have to work with kids.
368
00:14:03,710 --> 00:14:05,124
So I thought maybe I could,
369
00:14:05,190 --> 00:14:08,616
it would be nice to talk to
some real adults (laughs)
370
00:14:08,682 --> 00:14:09,649
and help people.
371
00:14:09,715 --> 00:14:10,482
- [Nancy] Yeah, and you
could have a party going
372
00:14:10,548 --> 00:14:13,264
all day long with everybody.
- There you go. (giggles)
373
00:14:13,330 --> 00:14:14,864
It's nice to talk to adults
374
00:14:14,930 --> 00:14:17,594
and to help people get on
their way on Christmas.
375
00:14:17,660 --> 00:14:18,634
- [Don] Oh, that's nice, yeah.
376
00:14:18,700 --> 00:14:20,144
- Yes.
377
00:14:20,210 --> 00:14:22,294
Thank you.
- Oh, yeah, thank you so much.
378
00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:23,127
This has been so much fun.
379
00:14:23,193 --> 00:14:25,079
- And merry Christmas to you.
- Yes, yes.
380
00:14:25,145 --> 00:14:27,234
- Oh, thank you.
381
00:14:27,300 --> 00:14:30,014
♪ Noel, Noel ♪
382
00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,114
♪ Noel, Noel ♪
383
00:14:33,180 --> 00:14:36,930
♪ Born is the King of Israel ♪
384
00:14:39,290 --> 00:14:40,824
Awesome, so Hanukkah, that's
where we're celebrating?
385
00:14:40,890 --> 00:14:42,744
- Hanukkah, yeah.
- Alright.
386
00:14:42,810 --> 00:14:45,724
- Yeah, my sister was
having a latkes party for-
387
00:14:45,790 --> 00:14:46,557
- [Georgia] Latkes?
388
00:14:46,623 --> 00:14:47,854
- Latkes, yeah.
- Is that-
389
00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:49,314
- Fried potatoes.
- Potatoes, that's right.
390
00:14:49,380 --> 00:14:50,754
- Fried potato pancakes, yes.
391
00:14:50,820 --> 00:14:51,804
- [Georgia] Sounds so yummy.
392
00:14:51,870 --> 00:14:52,644
- Yeah.
393
00:14:52,710 --> 00:14:54,034
- [Georgia] I'm down with anything potato.
394
00:14:54,100 --> 00:14:57,551
- Right, who doesn't love
a good crispy potato?
395
00:14:57,617 --> 00:14:58,664
(Georgia giggles)
396
00:14:58,730 --> 00:15:00,804
- [Georgia] So I kind of decked out
397
00:15:00,870 --> 00:15:02,302
in all of my Christmas stuff
398
00:15:02,368 --> 00:15:03,224
so I hope it's okay.
- Well, I mean it's Christmas.
399
00:15:03,290 --> 00:15:04,057
So, yeah,
400
00:15:04,123 --> 00:15:05,674
I don't expect, you
know, the whole world to,
401
00:15:05,740 --> 00:15:06,894
you know, jump on the wagon. (laughs)
402
00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:08,584
- [Georgia] Maybe I could
have one little Star of David.
403
00:15:08,650 --> 00:15:09,501
Just representation would be nice.
404
00:15:09,567 --> 00:15:10,544
- Right. (laughs)
405
00:15:10,610 --> 00:15:12,573
- [Georgia] I didn't
even think about that.
406
00:15:13,602 --> 00:15:15,284
Oh, that's awesome.
407
00:15:15,350 --> 00:15:17,024
So is...
408
00:15:17,090 --> 00:15:18,084
Has it already started
409
00:15:18,150 --> 00:15:19,231
or, like, it starts today?
- Yeah, it's like the,
410
00:15:19,297 --> 00:15:20,064
what is today?
411
00:15:20,130 --> 00:15:20,974
Today's the fourth.
412
00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:21,807
It's the fourth night.
413
00:15:21,873 --> 00:15:22,784
- [Georgia] Oh, so it's, like, halfway.
414
00:15:22,850 --> 00:15:24,767
- So we're halfway, halfway through, yeah.
415
00:15:24,833 --> 00:15:25,600
- [Georgia] Okay.
416
00:15:25,666 --> 00:15:26,664
So it's eight.
417
00:15:26,730 --> 00:15:27,784
Is it, do you get...
418
00:15:27,850 --> 00:15:29,744
Okay, so you get eight days.
419
00:15:29,810 --> 00:15:30,746
- Eight days, mmhmm.
420
00:15:30,812 --> 00:15:33,484
- [Georgia] And do you
have parties every day?
421
00:15:33,550 --> 00:15:34,594
- No.
422
00:15:34,660 --> 00:15:36,914
We light the candles every night.
423
00:15:36,980 --> 00:15:40,994
It's the menorah and
each night you light a,
424
00:15:41,060 --> 00:15:41,827
light a new candle
425
00:15:41,893 --> 00:15:42,834
until on the eighth night,
426
00:15:42,900 --> 00:15:44,971
all of the candles are burning.
427
00:15:45,037 --> 00:15:47,434
- [Georgia] And it's lit,
as the kids would say.
428
00:15:47,500 --> 00:15:49,044
- Yeah, it's lit.
(Georgia laughs)
429
00:15:49,110 --> 00:15:50,167
What, what?
430
00:15:50,233 --> 00:15:51,094
- [Georgia] (laughs) That's awesome.
431
00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,382
- Say a nice little
prayer and strike a match.
432
00:15:54,448 --> 00:15:55,215
- [Georgia] Nice one.
433
00:15:55,281 --> 00:15:56,048
And you get gifts?
434
00:15:56,114 --> 00:15:58,454
- We do, we do, we get gifts.
- Right.
435
00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:01,694
- Like, it's nothing,
you know, it's not...
436
00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:02,674
But when I was growing up,
437
00:16:02,740 --> 00:16:05,314
my friends used to think it was so cool
438
00:16:05,380 --> 00:16:07,311
that I got gifts, like eight.
439
00:16:07,377 --> 00:16:08,544
"You got, like, eight gifts?"
440
00:16:08,610 --> 00:16:10,914
And I'm like, "Yeah, but, like,
441
00:16:10,980 --> 00:16:13,654
it's socks."
- Oh no, that's the worst.
442
00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:18,720
- Or, you know, a new
pencil box for school.
443
00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,820
It's super practical.
- What?
444
00:16:20,886 --> 00:16:23,049
- It's like what you guys
get in your stockings,
445
00:16:23,115 --> 00:16:25,194
we just get it spread
out over eight nights.
446
00:16:25,260 --> 00:16:26,914
And then maybe on one,
447
00:16:26,980 --> 00:16:27,747
one of the nights,
448
00:16:27,813 --> 00:16:29,444
we get a nice, you know, a bike,
449
00:16:29,510 --> 00:16:33,224
or a, you know, one of the big gifts.
450
00:16:33,290 --> 00:16:35,834
- Oh no, (giggles) okay.
- But, yeah, it's not,
451
00:16:35,900 --> 00:16:37,423
it's not the, uh,
452
00:16:38,350 --> 00:16:41,514
the raining, raining presents, like, uh-
453
00:16:41,580 --> 00:16:42,894
- [Georgia] You didn't win
the holiday lottery. (laughs)
454
00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:47,683
- No, no, it's not, yeah. (chuckles)
455
00:16:49,277 --> 00:16:50,044
- Do you,
456
00:16:50,110 --> 00:16:53,114
do you guys, like, not
like Christmas that much?
457
00:16:53,180 --> 00:16:55,584
- It's, well, so, okay.
458
00:16:55,650 --> 00:16:56,904
Hanukkah is not...
459
00:16:56,970 --> 00:16:59,244
It's like, everybody thinks
it's the Jewish Christmas,
460
00:16:59,310 --> 00:17:00,583
but it's, it's, it's not.
461
00:17:01,570 --> 00:17:04,010
- [Georgia] Oh, is it not
really like a big deal?
462
00:17:04,076 --> 00:17:05,254
- I mean, it's, you know, it's...
463
00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,292
We made it a big deal because...
464
00:17:07,358 --> 00:17:08,204
(Georgia giggles)
465
00:17:08,270 --> 00:17:13,270
So when families were
immigrating to the United States,
466
00:17:14,164 --> 00:17:16,914
they saw all the, you know,
467
00:17:16,980 --> 00:17:18,634
all the Christian kids
celebrating Christmas.
468
00:17:18,700 --> 00:17:19,467
- [Georgia] Right.
469
00:17:19,533 --> 00:17:22,304
- And the adults, they
wanted to assimilate,
470
00:17:22,370 --> 00:17:23,137
they wanted to blend in.
471
00:17:23,203 --> 00:17:24,974
They didn't wanna feel like, you know,
472
00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:26,694
they were any different than anybody else.
473
00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,304
So they kind of took Hanukkah
474
00:17:28,370 --> 00:17:32,094
and it kind of became
the Jewish Christmas.
475
00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:33,534
- Oh, okay.
- So, you know,
476
00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:35,654
so it looked like we were-
- It stacks up.
477
00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,454
- You know, just as, you
know, commercially, you know,
478
00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,054
greedy as everybody else. (laughs)
479
00:17:41,120 --> 00:17:41,887
- [Georgia] I mean, it sells.
480
00:17:41,953 --> 00:17:43,734
Like, that's America. (giggles)
481
00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:45,664
- So it's not, yeah, it's not...
482
00:17:45,730 --> 00:17:47,014
But it's a miracle.
483
00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:48,094
It's a miracle holiday,
484
00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,586
but it's not like one of the
high holidays you call them.
485
00:17:51,652 --> 00:17:52,428
- Right.
486
00:17:52,494 --> 00:17:54,552
♪ Silver bells ♪
487
00:17:54,618 --> 00:17:59,618
♪ It's Christmas time in Tampa ♪
488
00:17:59,781 --> 00:18:01,848
♪ Ring-a-ling ♪
489
00:18:01,914 --> 00:18:03,443
♪ Hear them ring ♪
490
00:18:03,509 --> 00:18:04,276
(phone chimes)
491
00:18:04,342 --> 00:18:08,759
♪ Soon I will pick someone up ♪
492
00:18:08,825 --> 00:18:11,254
(Georgia clicks tongue)
493
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:12,087
Shannon?
494
00:18:12,153 --> 00:18:13,224
- [Shannon] Yes, hi.
495
00:18:13,290 --> 00:18:14,464
- [Georgia] Hi, Georgia, yeah.
496
00:18:14,530 --> 00:18:15,297
- Hi.
- Hi there.
497
00:18:15,363 --> 00:18:16,634
- [Shannon] Oh, you look so nice.
498
00:18:16,700 --> 00:18:18,084
- [Georgia] Wow, I love you guys.
499
00:18:18,150 --> 00:18:20,254
- Oh, merry Christmas.
- Merry Christmas.
500
00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,424
- [Dylan] I love your hair, Georgia.
501
00:18:21,490 --> 00:18:22,257
- Mine?
502
00:18:22,323 --> 00:18:23,551
- Yeah.
- Yes, oh, yeah, that's me.
503
00:18:23,617 --> 00:18:24,934
- [Dylan] It's very festive, yeah.
504
00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:25,767
- [Georgia] So you guys like Christmas?
505
00:18:25,833 --> 00:18:27,102
- Oh, we love Christmas.
506
00:18:27,168 --> 00:18:27,935
- [Shannon] Mmhmm.
507
00:18:28,001 --> 00:18:29,252
- It's a big staple in our relationship.
508
00:18:29,318 --> 00:18:31,472
- Yeah, oh my gosh, we
met on Christmas, it's-
509
00:18:31,538 --> 00:18:32,305
- [Georgia] No.
510
00:18:32,371 --> 00:18:33,232
- Yeah.
- On Christmas Eve.
511
00:18:33,298 --> 00:18:34,065
- [Georgia] Where do
you meet on Christmas?
512
00:18:34,131 --> 00:18:34,898
Like, at a party?
513
00:18:34,964 --> 00:18:35,794
- An airport.
- An airport.
514
00:18:35,860 --> 00:18:37,613
- [Georgia] Oh, how romantic. (giggles)
515
00:18:37,679 --> 00:18:38,446
(Shannon laughs)
516
00:18:38,512 --> 00:18:39,824
- Actually, you know what?
517
00:18:39,890 --> 00:18:41,547
I look at it as very romantic.
518
00:18:41,613 --> 00:18:42,380
- It was.
519
00:18:42,446 --> 00:18:44,124
We could've been anywhere.
- I mean, we have, like-
520
00:18:44,190 --> 00:18:46,434
We actually just got
engaged yesterday, so.
521
00:18:46,500 --> 00:18:47,267
- [Georgia] Really?
522
00:18:47,333 --> 00:18:48,384
- Yeah.
- Yeah, Christmas Eve morning.
523
00:18:48,450 --> 00:18:49,984
- [Georgia] Oh, wow. Wow.
524
00:18:50,050 --> 00:18:51,664
- Yeah, yeah.
525
00:18:51,730 --> 00:18:52,497
Right here.
526
00:18:52,563 --> 00:18:53,330
- One second.
527
00:18:53,396 --> 00:18:54,163
- [Shannon] Oh, I did
this at the wrong time.
528
00:18:54,229 --> 00:18:54,996
(Georgia laughs)
529
00:18:55,062 --> 00:18:55,914
- [Dylan] Yeah, yeah, sorry, sorry.
530
00:18:55,980 --> 00:18:56,958
- It's gorgeous.
531
00:18:57,024 --> 00:18:57,791
- [Shannon] Thank you.
532
00:18:57,857 --> 00:18:59,244
- [Dylan] We're actually gonna
tell some of our friends...
533
00:18:59,310 --> 00:19:00,524
None of our friends know.
534
00:19:00,590 --> 00:19:01,571
- [Georgia] They don't know?
535
00:19:01,637 --> 00:19:02,474
- No.
- No, not yet.
536
00:19:02,540 --> 00:19:03,414
We're gonna surprise them.
537
00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:04,247
- Yeah.
538
00:19:04,313 --> 00:19:05,080
- [Georgia] That's so cool.
539
00:19:05,146 --> 00:19:07,014
- I don't think they're even
suspecting it, to be honest.
540
00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:08,057
- You don't?
541
00:19:08,123 --> 00:19:09,064
You didn't tell anyone?
542
00:19:09,130 --> 00:19:09,897
- No.
543
00:19:09,963 --> 00:19:10,730
No, I mean, I thought we had a pact
544
00:19:10,796 --> 00:19:11,563
that we weren't gonna say anything.
545
00:19:11,629 --> 00:19:12,434
- No, that's true, that's true.
546
00:19:12,500 --> 00:19:13,824
But I mean when you were planning.
547
00:19:13,890 --> 00:19:15,584
But I'm, oh my, I'm so excited.
548
00:19:15,650 --> 00:19:16,597
I can't wait to see their faces.
549
00:19:16,663 --> 00:19:18,654
- I know, I'm excited.
550
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,164
They're gonna be,
551
00:19:20,230 --> 00:19:21,244
they're gonna be shook.
552
00:19:21,310 --> 00:19:23,634
(Dylan and Shannon laugh)
553
00:19:23,700 --> 00:19:25,294
- What if you had a Christmas wedding?
554
00:19:25,360 --> 00:19:27,654
- The only thing that
we are indifferent about
555
00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:28,724
for having a Christmas wedding
556
00:19:28,790 --> 00:19:30,194
is that, you know, her family,
557
00:19:30,260 --> 00:19:31,944
both of our families
live in different States.
558
00:19:32,010 --> 00:19:32,777
- Yeah.
- Oh.
559
00:19:32,843 --> 00:19:33,754
- And we're thinking
about the travel expenses
560
00:19:33,820 --> 00:19:35,914
for our families throughout
the Christmas season, you know?
561
00:19:35,980 --> 00:19:38,154
- Yeah.
- 'Cause I personally
562
00:19:38,220 --> 00:19:40,644
would rather have a
non-Christmas themed wedding
563
00:19:40,710 --> 00:19:42,254
and be able to have all
of our family there.
564
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:43,087
You know what I mean?
565
00:19:43,153 --> 00:19:43,920
- No, exactly.
566
00:19:43,986 --> 00:19:44,753
And that's a really good idea.
567
00:19:44,819 --> 00:19:45,586
And, you know,
568
00:19:45,652 --> 00:19:47,384
we could even do like a
Christmas in July type thing
569
00:19:47,450 --> 00:19:48,399
if we really wanted to.
570
00:19:48,465 --> 00:19:49,324
That's always fun.
571
00:19:49,390 --> 00:19:50,157
- [Georgia] That would be fun.
572
00:19:50,223 --> 00:19:50,990
- Yeah.
573
00:19:51,056 --> 00:19:53,294
We definitely would be the
first to do that. (laughs)
574
00:19:53,360 --> 00:19:54,354
- [Georgia] Absolutely.
575
00:19:54,420 --> 00:19:55,341
- But, um, yeah,
576
00:19:55,407 --> 00:19:57,904
and I really do wanna her family there,
577
00:19:57,970 --> 00:19:59,447
your sister and her kids.
- Mmhmm, yeah, well of course.
578
00:19:59,513 --> 00:20:01,804
She's my maid of honor,
I have to have her there.
579
00:20:01,870 --> 00:20:03,034
- Yeah, and, um-
580
00:20:03,100 --> 00:20:04,494
- And your mom.
- Yeah, my mom.
581
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,381
- Will lose her mind if she can't make it.
582
00:20:05,447 --> 00:20:06,774
- And my 50 cousins.
(Georgia laughs)
583
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,234
Like, yeah, family is a big
thing in our life so, you know.
584
00:20:10,300 --> 00:20:12,040
We hope to have a big family one day.
585
00:20:12,106 --> 00:20:14,194
- I can't wait to tell everyone tonight.
586
00:20:14,260 --> 00:20:15,894
- Me too, I'm excited.
587
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:16,727
I'm a little nervous.
588
00:20:16,793 --> 00:20:17,844
(Shannon chuckles)
589
00:20:17,910 --> 00:20:18,677
Are you nervous?
590
00:20:18,743 --> 00:20:19,944
- I mean, of course.
591
00:20:20,010 --> 00:20:22,294
Though, I think they're gonna
just yell "finally" at us
592
00:20:22,360 --> 00:20:23,254
more than anything else.
593
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,924
- I think so, yeah, to be honest.
594
00:20:25,990 --> 00:20:26,834
- All good.
595
00:20:26,900 --> 00:20:27,824
- [Georgia] Have a good night, guys.
596
00:20:27,890 --> 00:20:28,938
- Oh, thank you so much.
- Thank you.
597
00:20:29,004 --> 00:20:29,771
- [Georgia] Gifts, parting gifts.
598
00:20:29,837 --> 00:20:30,604
- Thanks.
599
00:20:30,670 --> 00:20:31,767
- Oh, that's very thoughtful of you.
600
00:20:31,833 --> 00:20:32,600
- [Georgia] Merry Christmas. (laughs)
601
00:20:32,666 --> 00:20:33,824
- Oh, merry Christmas.
602
00:20:33,890 --> 00:20:38,858
♪ You know Dasher and Dancer
and Prancer and Blitzen ♪
603
00:20:38,924 --> 00:20:43,855
♪ Comet and Cupid and Donner and Vixen ♪
604
00:20:43,921 --> 00:20:48,921
♪ But do you recall the most
famous reindeer of all ♪
605
00:20:50,742 --> 00:20:53,554
(phone chimes)
606
00:20:53,620 --> 00:20:54,387
- [Robbie] Merry Christmas.
607
00:20:54,453 --> 00:20:55,864
- [Georgia] Oh, merry Christmas, guys.
608
00:20:55,930 --> 00:20:56,954
So where are you going?
609
00:20:57,020 --> 00:20:58,188
- [John] Ah, we're going
to the amusement park,
610
00:20:58,254 --> 00:20:59,021
right, buddy?
611
00:20:59,087 --> 00:20:59,854
- Mmhmm, yep.
- Oh.
612
00:20:59,920 --> 00:21:01,548
- You know, Florida, theme
parks is where it's at.
613
00:21:01,614 --> 00:21:02,381
- [Georgia] Oh, that's true.
614
00:21:02,447 --> 00:21:03,805
- Even though I've been to
these way too many times.
615
00:21:03,871 --> 00:21:04,638
- [Georgia] (laughs) That's fun.
616
00:21:04,704 --> 00:21:06,698
- Have you been there?
- Yes, I love it.
617
00:21:06,764 --> 00:21:07,824
- [John] Ah.
618
00:21:07,890 --> 00:21:09,574
I'm afraid of roller coasters,
so we'll see. (laughs)
619
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:10,407
- Oh no, that's, like, the whole...
620
00:21:10,473 --> 00:21:12,184
Okay. (laughs)
621
00:21:12,250 --> 00:21:13,048
- [Robbie] But it's okay,
622
00:21:13,114 --> 00:21:14,244
I told him they have animals
here too so, you know.
623
00:21:14,310 --> 00:21:16,131
- Yes, yes, they have animals.
624
00:21:16,197 --> 00:21:17,634
I think there's a water ride.
625
00:21:17,700 --> 00:21:19,554
- [John] Oh, fun. I like water rides.
626
00:21:19,620 --> 00:21:20,387
- [Georgia] Cool.
627
00:21:20,453 --> 00:21:21,220
- [John] Are you from here?
628
00:21:21,286 --> 00:21:22,053
- Yeah.
629
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:23,374
Well, I'm from here now,
630
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,404
but originally I was from New York.
631
00:21:25,470 --> 00:21:26,714
I moved down a couple years ago.
632
00:21:26,780 --> 00:21:28,460
- [John] Ah, what
brought you to this area?
633
00:21:29,377 --> 00:21:31,311
- Well, (laughs)
634
00:21:31,377 --> 00:21:32,824
not to get heavy, but it was a boy.
635
00:21:32,890 --> 00:21:35,497
And needless to say, it did not work out.
636
00:21:35,563 --> 00:21:37,314
I think it was, like,
637
00:21:37,380 --> 00:21:39,644
the move down was a lot of stress
638
00:21:39,710 --> 00:21:41,513
and then it was just us, so,
639
00:21:42,467 --> 00:21:43,765
I mean, a bit of pressure.
- Yeah, I guess
640
00:21:43,831 --> 00:21:44,598
when it's just the two of you
641
00:21:44,664 --> 00:21:46,719
and you gotta be each other's
best friends and everything.
642
00:21:46,785 --> 00:21:47,704
- [Georgia] Yep.
643
00:21:47,770 --> 00:21:48,724
- [John] And, yeah, it gets a little much.
644
00:21:48,790 --> 00:21:49,584
- [Georgia] No others.
645
00:21:49,650 --> 00:21:51,334
- Is your family all up in New York?
646
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,314
- [Georgia] Yeah, my dad.
My dad's up in New York.
647
00:21:53,380 --> 00:21:54,147
- [John] Ah.
648
00:21:54,213 --> 00:21:55,424
- We talk to each other
at least once a week,
649
00:21:55,490 --> 00:21:57,757
but, like, it's not the same. (giggles)
650
00:21:57,823 --> 00:21:59,034
- No, no, it's not at all.
651
00:21:59,100 --> 00:22:00,274
- [Robbie] It's better
than nothing though.
652
00:22:00,340 --> 00:22:02,164
- [Georgia] It's true, it's true.
653
00:22:02,230 --> 00:22:03,280
At least we're close.
654
00:22:05,933 --> 00:22:07,934
(Georgia sighs)
655
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,194
- [Robbie] We're gonna have
some fun today, brother.
656
00:22:09,260 --> 00:22:11,434
I'm telling you right now.
- Yeah, I expect so.
657
00:22:11,500 --> 00:22:13,424
- [Robbie] Today's going to
be the best trip we've had
658
00:22:13,490 --> 00:22:15,574
in the last five Christmases.
659
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,354
- That's specific. Why five?
660
00:22:17,420 --> 00:22:18,304
- [John] Yeah, well, every year.
661
00:22:18,370 --> 00:22:20,201
- [Robbie] Well, you know, weather
662
00:22:20,267 --> 00:22:23,424
and we had a couple mishaps
the past few years, you know,
663
00:22:23,490 --> 00:22:24,257
fun stuff,
664
00:22:24,323 --> 00:22:25,614
nothing, you know, between us.
(Georgia giggles)
665
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,744
Just, you know, you know how it goes,
666
00:22:27,810 --> 00:22:29,491
you know, when guys get together
and they have too much fun.
667
00:22:29,557 --> 00:22:31,669
- Oh, oh, that's why
you got the ride-share.
668
00:22:31,735 --> 00:22:32,502
Okay, got it. (laughs)
669
00:22:32,568 --> 00:22:33,792
- [John] Yeah, that's why
we got the ride-share, yeah.
670
00:22:33,858 --> 00:22:34,625
(John and Robbie laugh)
671
00:22:34,691 --> 00:22:35,994
We're meeting, like, 10
of our buddies over here.
672
00:22:36,060 --> 00:22:36,894
- That's a huge group.
673
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,157
- Yeah, yeah.
- Yep.
674
00:22:38,223 --> 00:22:39,034
- [John] It used to be bigger, but-
675
00:22:39,100 --> 00:22:40,498
- [Robbie] Yeah, but,
you know, life happens.
676
00:22:40,564 --> 00:22:41,331
- [Georgia] Wow.
677
00:22:41,397 --> 00:22:42,374
- [Robbie] You know, sometimes
guys can't make it every year
678
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:43,507
for personal or whatever reason.
679
00:22:43,573 --> 00:22:44,447
- They get married or-
- They get married, you know,
680
00:22:44,513 --> 00:22:45,668
moving on with life.
681
00:22:45,734 --> 00:22:46,501
- [Georgia] Yeah,
682
00:22:46,567 --> 00:22:48,314
so are you guys all
just like friends, like?
683
00:22:48,380 --> 00:22:49,428
- [John] Yeah.
684
00:22:49,494 --> 00:22:50,686
- Are you all from here?
- Yeah, we're dating.
685
00:22:50,752 --> 00:22:51,519
(John and Robbie laugh)
686
00:22:51,585 --> 00:22:52,424
- Oh, oh, I didn't wanna know.
687
00:22:52,490 --> 00:22:54,599
You guys are very manicured
and beautiful, so. (laughs)
688
00:22:54,665 --> 00:22:55,514
- [John] (laughs) Oh.
689
00:22:55,580 --> 00:22:57,026
She's really trying to
get that tip now. (laughs)
690
00:22:57,092 --> 00:22:58,913
- [Robbie] Yeah, now she
is, for sure. (laughs)
691
00:22:58,979 --> 00:22:59,777
We're onto you now.
692
00:22:59,843 --> 00:23:01,364
(Georgia laughs)
(John laughs)
693
00:23:01,430 --> 00:23:03,028
No, we've all known each
other since college, so yeah.
694
00:23:03,094 --> 00:23:04,751
- Oh, okay. That makes sense.
695
00:23:04,817 --> 00:23:07,711
So are you guys all from Tampa?
696
00:23:07,777 --> 00:23:08,826
- No.
- No, from all over.
697
00:23:08,892 --> 00:23:09,659
- He is.
- Oh.
698
00:23:09,725 --> 00:23:10,725
- [John] Well, he's in this area.
699
00:23:10,791 --> 00:23:12,084
- Okay.
- Yeah.
700
00:23:12,150 --> 00:23:14,325
I will never get used to the cold weather.
701
00:23:14,391 --> 00:23:15,158
(John laughs)
702
00:23:15,224 --> 00:23:15,991
- [Georgia] Right, you're acclimated now.
703
00:23:16,057 --> 00:23:18,804
Your blood is thinner, or
whatever needs to happen,
704
00:23:18,870 --> 00:23:20,162
and now you're Floridian.
705
00:23:20,228 --> 00:23:21,144
- Yeah.
- Yep.
706
00:23:21,210 --> 00:23:23,061
- [Georgia] Have you always been here, or?
707
00:23:23,127 --> 00:23:24,264
- Originally I'm from Boston.
708
00:23:24,330 --> 00:23:25,454
- [Georgia] Oh, wow, okay, alright.
709
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,514
So, yeah, you definitely adapted
710
00:23:27,580 --> 00:23:28,347
to the Florida climate. (laughs)
711
00:23:28,413 --> 00:23:29,180
- Came down here
712
00:23:29,246 --> 00:23:31,174
and I was like, this is
where it's at, you know.
713
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:32,404
It's a great place to live.
714
00:23:32,470 --> 00:23:34,674
It's like a year round
spring break a lot of times.
715
00:23:34,740 --> 00:23:36,934
It's very relaxing, you know?
716
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:37,767
- [Georgia] It's awesome.
717
00:23:37,833 --> 00:23:39,254
- Yeah, absolutely.
718
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:40,874
It's not like the
Northeast, that's for sure.
719
00:23:40,940 --> 00:23:42,032
The people are friendly.
720
00:23:42,098 --> 00:23:42,954
(Georgia and John laugh)
721
00:23:43,020 --> 00:23:44,714
It's just, you know, it's warm.
722
00:23:44,780 --> 00:23:46,224
You know, it's all about
the weather, you know.
723
00:23:46,290 --> 00:23:47,084
I get it, you know.
724
00:23:47,150 --> 00:23:49,834
You know, when you're
in that gloomy weather,
725
00:23:49,900 --> 00:23:51,582
when you're in the cold,
726
00:23:51,648 --> 00:23:53,643
it makes life a little bit more difficult.
727
00:23:53,709 --> 00:23:54,476
- [Georgia] Yeah.
728
00:23:54,542 --> 00:23:55,309
So where are you from?
729
00:23:55,375 --> 00:23:57,264
- Me? Oh, all over.
- Yeah?
730
00:23:57,330 --> 00:23:59,644
- Gosh, I was born in LA.
731
00:23:59,710 --> 00:24:00,614
My mom's from Germany.
732
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,294
My dad from Philadelphia.
- Oh, wow.
733
00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:04,779
- They moved all over, so, yeah.
734
00:24:04,845 --> 00:24:05,612
- [Georgia] That's crazy.
735
00:24:05,678 --> 00:24:07,313
- So I like to adventure and travel, so.
736
00:24:08,348 --> 00:24:09,115
And I like to surf
737
00:24:09,181 --> 00:24:11,584
so I took off and went
to Costa Rica one time
738
00:24:11,650 --> 00:24:14,351
and never really came back. (chuckles)
739
00:24:14,417 --> 00:24:15,184
(Georgia giggles)
740
00:24:15,250 --> 00:24:16,674
- [Robbie] I know you've
moved, like, four times
741
00:24:16,740 --> 00:24:17,507
since I met you, man.
742
00:24:17,573 --> 00:24:18,354
You never stay put.
743
00:24:18,420 --> 00:24:19,214
- [John] Oh, you know, well,
744
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,159
I don't know, I like change.
745
00:24:21,225 --> 00:24:25,490
♪ Jingle bells, jingle
bells, jingle all the way ♪
746
00:24:25,556 --> 00:24:29,791
♪ Oh, what fun is to ride in
a one horse open sleigh, hey ♪
747
00:24:29,857 --> 00:24:34,251
♪ Jingle bells, jingle
bells, jingle all the way ♪
748
00:24:34,317 --> 00:24:38,251
♪ Oh, what fun it is to ride
in a one horse open sleigh ♪
749
00:24:38,317 --> 00:24:39,084
(Georgia giggles)
750
00:24:39,150 --> 00:24:39,917
- [John] I'm excited.
751
00:24:39,983 --> 00:24:40,750
- [Robbie] I can't wait.
752
00:24:40,816 --> 00:24:41,583
We're gonna see all the animals.
753
00:24:41,649 --> 00:24:42,416
This is gonna be exciting.
754
00:24:42,482 --> 00:24:43,249
- [Georgia] Yeah, they'll be out and about
755
00:24:43,315 --> 00:24:44,514
because they're nice and cool.
756
00:24:44,580 --> 00:24:45,482
- Perfect.
(John laughs)
757
00:24:45,548 --> 00:24:46,322
- [Georgia] Alright.
758
00:24:46,388 --> 00:24:47,155
- Well, thank you very much.
759
00:24:47,221 --> 00:24:48,161
- [Georgia] Great, have a great day, guys.
760
00:24:48,227 --> 00:24:49,082
- Thank you so much.
- Hey, you too.
761
00:24:49,148 --> 00:24:49,915
Merry Christmas.
762
00:24:49,981 --> 00:24:50,748
- [Georgia] Thank you.
763
00:24:50,814 --> 00:24:51,723
Oh, before you go, a gift. (laughs)
764
00:24:51,789 --> 00:24:53,519
- Oh, thank you.
- Stay fresh. (laughs)
765
00:24:53,585 --> 00:24:54,594
- Thank you so much.
- Yeah, we'll stay fresh.
766
00:24:54,660 --> 00:24:55,429
Take care.
- Happy holidays.
767
00:24:55,495 --> 00:24:57,828
- [Georgia] Have a good one.
768
00:24:58,783 --> 00:24:59,815
- It's a good evening, man.
- Yeah.
769
00:24:59,881 --> 00:25:04,575
- That was some good stuff.
(Robbie laughs)
770
00:25:04,641 --> 00:25:05,955
(Georgia sighs)
771
00:25:06,021 --> 00:25:07,925
♪ Sleigh bells ring ♪
772
00:25:07,991 --> 00:25:10,005
♪ Are you listening ♪
773
00:25:10,071 --> 00:25:11,866
♪ In the lane ♪
774
00:25:11,932 --> 00:25:14,586
♪ Snow is glistening ♪
775
00:25:14,652 --> 00:25:16,565
♪ A beautiful sight ♪
776
00:25:16,631 --> 00:25:17,825
♪ We're happy tonight ♪
777
00:25:17,891 --> 00:25:18,658
(phone chimes)
778
00:25:18,724 --> 00:25:22,377
♪ Walking in a winter wonderland ♪
779
00:25:22,443 --> 00:25:24,144
How are you doing tonight?
780
00:25:24,210 --> 00:25:25,494
- I'm doing good. How are you doing?
781
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,514
- [Georgia] Doing pretty good. (giggles)
782
00:25:27,580 --> 00:25:29,094
- Cool.
783
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:30,274
- [Georgia] You going anywhere special?
784
00:25:30,340 --> 00:25:31,774
- Um, yeah,
785
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,534
I'm gonna go out and have a drink or two
786
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:34,484
with the little lady.
787
00:25:34,550 --> 00:25:35,784
- [Georgia] Aw, nice.
788
00:25:35,850 --> 00:25:36,684
- Been awful busy lately.
789
00:25:36,750 --> 00:25:37,764
- [Georgia] Oh, really?
790
00:25:37,830 --> 00:25:38,597
- Yeah.
791
00:25:38,663 --> 00:25:39,440
- [Georgia] Working hard?
792
00:25:39,506 --> 00:25:40,273
- Yeah.
793
00:25:40,339 --> 00:25:43,004
Yeah, I was out late last night. (laughs)
794
00:25:43,070 --> 00:25:44,893
Yeah, yep.
795
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,554
I bet you're busy this time of year.
796
00:25:49,620 --> 00:25:51,074
- [Georgia] Oh, picking up people?
797
00:25:51,140 --> 00:25:51,907
- Yeah.
798
00:25:51,973 --> 00:25:53,374
- [Georgia] This is kind
of like my side gig,
799
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,314
but, I mean, it's been pretty busy today.
800
00:25:55,380 --> 00:25:59,384
I'm surprised by how many people
are actually out and about
801
00:25:59,450 --> 00:26:00,614
on Christmas Day.
802
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,201
- Well, I don't know
what's after Christmas.
803
00:26:02,267 --> 00:26:04,214
You kind of loosen your
belt up a little bit.
804
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:05,694
- [Georgia] You know,
usually people stay at home
805
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,217
with the family, I would think, you know?
806
00:26:09,130 --> 00:26:10,964
- Well, you know, families
are different these days.
807
00:26:11,030 --> 00:26:12,564
- [Georgia] That's true.
808
00:26:12,630 --> 00:26:13,714
- There's a lot of big families
809
00:26:13,780 --> 00:26:15,494
and sometimes you got more than one.
810
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:16,854
- [Georgia] True.
811
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,464
That's a good point.
812
00:26:18,530 --> 00:26:19,414
- Mine's up North.
813
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,247
- Oh, really?
- Yeah.
814
00:26:20,313 --> 00:26:21,134
- [Georgia] Is that where you're from?
815
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:22,214
- Yeah, I'm from way up North.
816
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,494
- [Georgia] Oh, hmm.
817
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,844
- It's funny being down
here and not having any snow
818
00:26:26,910 --> 00:26:27,677
at Christmas time, you know?
819
00:26:27,743 --> 00:26:29,284
- [Georgia] Yeah, it
doesn't feel as festive.
820
00:26:29,350 --> 00:26:30,154
I'm from New York,
821
00:26:30,220 --> 00:26:32,104
so, yeah, I get it.
- Oh, yeah.
822
00:26:32,170 --> 00:26:32,937
Nice place.
823
00:26:33,003 --> 00:26:34,574
I stop through there once
or twice a year, yeah.
824
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:35,828
- [Georgia] Yeah?
825
00:26:35,894 --> 00:26:36,854
Hmm.
826
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,129
What is your job?
827
00:26:38,195 --> 00:26:38,962
What do you do?
828
00:26:39,028 --> 00:26:40,614
- Um...
829
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,569
Oh, I'm kind of an ambassador,
830
00:26:42,635 --> 00:26:43,402
you know?
- Okay.
831
00:26:43,468 --> 00:26:45,774
- I'm kind of a spokesperson.
832
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,354
- [Georgia] Oh.
833
00:26:47,420 --> 00:26:50,354
- I do a lot of work with
the youth and children
834
00:26:50,420 --> 00:26:51,187
and, you know.
835
00:26:51,253 --> 00:26:52,962
- [Georgia] That's really important, yeah.
836
00:26:53,028 --> 00:26:53,897
That's really nice.
837
00:26:53,963 --> 00:26:55,474
- Yep, I enjoy the heck out of it.
838
00:26:55,540 --> 00:26:57,144
I sure do.
(Georgia giggles)
839
00:26:57,210 --> 00:26:58,864
- [Georgia] Well, they say
if you do what you love,
840
00:26:58,930 --> 00:27:00,274
you never work a day in your life.
841
00:27:00,340 --> 00:27:01,446
- Ain't that the truth.
842
00:27:01,512 --> 00:27:03,664
- [Georgia] (giggles)
I work with kids too.
843
00:27:03,730 --> 00:27:05,424
I work at a kid's retail store actually.
844
00:27:05,490 --> 00:27:06,391
- Oh, that's awesome.
845
00:27:06,457 --> 00:27:07,224
- [Georgia] So it's kind of nice
846
00:27:07,290 --> 00:27:09,416
to talk to a big kid or an adult. (laughs)
847
00:27:09,482 --> 00:27:10,332
- Yeah.
848
00:27:10,398 --> 00:27:11,412
Well, I ain't nothing but a big kid.
849
00:27:11,478 --> 00:27:12,245
(Georgia laughs)
850
00:27:12,311 --> 00:27:13,465
Or a big elf, some people say. (laughs)
851
00:27:13,531 --> 00:27:14,298
- [Georgia] Oh. (laughs)
852
00:27:14,364 --> 00:27:17,174
- (laughs) You know.
853
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,007
- [Georgia] Yep,
854
00:27:18,073 --> 00:27:19,954
I consider myself Santa's
little helper today,
855
00:27:20,020 --> 00:27:22,134
just driving my little sleigh around.
856
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,140
- Well, Santa needs all the
help he can get, I promise.
857
00:27:24,206 --> 00:27:26,874
- [Georgia] (giggles) I bet.
858
00:27:26,940 --> 00:27:29,494
So have any plans for today?
859
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,438
- Yes, I'm actually on my
way to go see my boyfriend
860
00:27:32,504 --> 00:27:34,234
and his family. (giggles)
861
00:27:34,300 --> 00:27:35,434
- [Georgia] Oh, the family?
862
00:27:35,500 --> 00:27:36,267
- Yes. (laughs)
863
00:27:36,333 --> 00:27:37,100
- [Georgia] Oh my gosh.
864
00:27:37,166 --> 00:27:38,134
Is it the first time you're meeting them?
865
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,033
- Yes, it is.
866
00:27:40,025 --> 00:27:40,804
It's exciting.
867
00:27:40,870 --> 00:27:42,444
It's been a couple of years,
868
00:27:42,510 --> 00:27:44,164
and, you know,
869
00:27:44,230 --> 00:27:46,154
this Christmas, we just wanted
it to be really special.
870
00:27:46,220 --> 00:27:47,644
So everyone's gonna be around
871
00:27:47,710 --> 00:27:49,754
and I'm nervous. (laughs)
872
00:27:49,820 --> 00:27:51,484
- [Georgia] I'm sure if he's
kept you around this long,
873
00:27:51,550 --> 00:27:54,054
he likes you enough to
bring around to family.
874
00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:55,214
- I hope so.
875
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:56,564
- [Georgia] That's awesome.
876
00:27:56,630 --> 00:27:57,397
- Yeah.
877
00:27:57,463 --> 00:27:58,664
Do you have anyone?
878
00:27:58,730 --> 00:28:01,304
- Oh, no. I,
879
00:28:01,370 --> 00:28:02,194
I had somebody,
880
00:28:02,260 --> 00:28:04,624
and just our lives didn't line up.
881
00:28:04,690 --> 00:28:05,664
I just,
882
00:28:05,730 --> 00:28:06,644
I think I'm better off.
883
00:28:06,710 --> 00:28:07,704
I have my roommates,
884
00:28:07,770 --> 00:28:10,804
even though they're also gone right now.
885
00:28:10,870 --> 00:28:12,074
It's been nice to pick up people
886
00:28:12,140 --> 00:28:13,414
and see some faces. (laughs)
887
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,864
- [Sara Beth] Yeah, definitely
bringing us cheer. (giggles)
888
00:28:15,930 --> 00:28:17,474
- [Georgia] Yeah, a little Santa's sleigh.
889
00:28:17,540 --> 00:28:19,714
- Yes, with your Santa
hat and your green hair,
890
00:28:19,780 --> 00:28:20,684
it's like the Grinch,
(Georgia laughs)
891
00:28:20,750 --> 00:28:22,741
but it's Christmas. (laughs)
892
00:28:22,807 --> 00:28:24,684
- [Georgia] And my
heart has grown so much.
893
00:28:24,750 --> 00:28:25,934
I'm ready to share it.
894
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:26,767
- Mine too.
895
00:28:26,833 --> 00:28:29,254
- Yeah, told her I loved her.
896
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:30,420
She breaks up with me.
897
00:28:31,310 --> 00:28:32,844
- [Georgia] Geez, that's kinda rough.
898
00:28:32,910 --> 00:28:33,965
- Yeah.
899
00:28:34,031 --> 00:28:36,094
And you know what really pisses me off?
900
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,160
She was supposed to meet my
family today for the first time.
901
00:28:40,370 --> 00:28:41,137
- [Georgia] Why is it
902
00:28:41,203 --> 00:28:44,004
when everything seem
like they're working out,
903
00:28:44,070 --> 00:28:45,994
you know, like, it's all
building to something,
904
00:28:46,060 --> 00:28:48,436
it just, like, collapses.
905
00:28:48,502 --> 00:28:49,624
- (sighs) Yeah.
906
00:28:49,690 --> 00:28:51,384
I mean, I was so excited
907
00:28:51,450 --> 00:28:53,594
because this is the first
time I've had a girlfriend
908
00:28:53,660 --> 00:28:54,984
in probably six years
909
00:28:55,050 --> 00:28:56,783
for Christmas, you know?
910
00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,247
- [Georgia] Geez.
911
00:28:59,313 --> 00:29:00,094
- And my family,
912
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,934
they were gonna, like,
cook her a special meal,
913
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,264
'cause I told her, you know,
914
00:29:04,330 --> 00:29:07,574
told my mom that she
loves stuffed chicken.
915
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,114
So my mom is making a stuffed chicken
916
00:29:10,180 --> 00:29:12,614
for the girlfriend who's
not gonna be there.
917
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,882
I mean, what am I supposed to say?
918
00:29:14,948 --> 00:29:16,783
- Yeah, it is kind of awkward.
919
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,914
- [Anna] I mean, what would
you say if it were you?
920
00:29:19,980 --> 00:29:23,618
- Well, I would be honest
921
00:29:23,684 --> 00:29:26,704
and hope that, I don't know,
922
00:29:26,770 --> 00:29:28,444
being around the people who love me
923
00:29:28,510 --> 00:29:30,063
would make it feel better.
924
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,929
- Well, Christmas isn't the
happiest of times now, is it?
925
00:29:34,995 --> 00:29:36,754
- [Georgia] Not always.
926
00:29:36,820 --> 00:29:38,313
- Christmas is so strange.
927
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,984
Every time, like, we all
spend money on each other
928
00:29:43,050 --> 00:29:45,603
when why not just spend
time with each other?
929
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,194
I mean, the whole point of Christmas
930
00:29:49,260 --> 00:29:52,483
is to celebrate joy and happiness and...
931
00:29:52,549 --> 00:29:56,203
♪ A cup of hot chocolate ♪
932
00:29:56,269 --> 00:30:00,084
♪ On the second day of Christmas,
my true love gave to me ♪
933
00:30:00,150 --> 00:30:01,150
- I can't afford it.
934
00:30:01,990 --> 00:30:03,984
How can I enjoy the holidays
if I can't even get...
935
00:30:04,050 --> 00:30:05,274
- My phone, oh my god,
936
00:30:05,340 --> 00:30:06,484
it's about to die on me.
937
00:30:06,550 --> 00:30:07,844
Hey, listen, do you have a charger?
938
00:30:07,910 --> 00:30:09,624
I, I feel so...
939
00:30:09,690 --> 00:30:10,804
- Jolly.
940
00:30:10,870 --> 00:30:12,994
Oh my god, he was so sweet.
941
00:30:13,060 --> 00:30:14,214
I was so impressed.
942
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,684
Like, this was the real Santa.
943
00:30:15,750 --> 00:30:19,243
- Consumerism at its finest.
944
00:30:20,302 --> 00:30:21,654
I can't believe these kids.
945
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,024
They get so many toys.
946
00:30:24,090 --> 00:30:25,104
It's ridiculous
947
00:30:25,170 --> 00:30:29,044
how they sort of rack up
everything constantly.
948
00:30:29,110 --> 00:30:30,684
They're begging for stuff,
949
00:30:30,750 --> 00:30:33,291
and they're going to their
moms and dads and saying,
950
00:30:33,357 --> 00:30:36,014
"Santa's gonna bring me all
kinds of stuff this year.
951
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,864
Please, please, please.
952
00:30:37,930 --> 00:30:41,724
I want some, I want more,
I want more, I want more."
953
00:30:41,790 --> 00:30:45,084
And then they grow up
and then they have kids,
954
00:30:45,150 --> 00:30:47,710
and those kids want more,
want more, want more.
955
00:30:49,770 --> 00:30:50,713
It's constant.
956
00:30:51,750 --> 00:30:53,184
- Hey.
- Hey.
957
00:30:53,250 --> 00:30:54,917
- [Georgia] Alright.
958
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:58,674
Alright, so where are you headed?
959
00:30:58,740 --> 00:30:59,507
- Uh, just home.
960
00:30:59,573 --> 00:31:01,567
(phone chimes)
961
00:31:01,633 --> 00:31:05,403
- [Georgia] Oh, sorry,
safety first. (giggles)
962
00:31:07,985 --> 00:31:11,108
(Georgia sighs)
963
00:31:11,174 --> 00:31:13,154
(soft melancholy music)
964
00:31:13,220 --> 00:31:14,374
- You married?
965
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,133
- [Georgia] Oh, no, not at all.
966
00:31:20,380 --> 00:31:23,733
Actually, I just got
out of a relationship.
967
00:31:25,476 --> 00:31:26,714
- [Mark] Oh.
968
00:31:26,780 --> 00:31:27,683
- [Georgia] Are you?
969
00:31:29,105 --> 00:31:29,938
- No.
970
00:31:31,525 --> 00:31:32,292
I, uh,
971
00:31:32,358 --> 00:31:33,643
I just got out of, well,
972
00:31:34,810 --> 00:31:37,130
didn't just get out of one, but...
973
00:31:38,740 --> 00:31:40,272
- [Georgia] It's rough.
974
00:31:40,338 --> 00:31:41,171
- Yeah.
975
00:31:46,330 --> 00:31:47,771
Yeah, I had a son.
976
00:31:47,837 --> 00:31:49,087
- [Georgia] Oh.
977
00:31:50,190 --> 00:31:51,524
Can not relate.
978
00:31:51,590 --> 00:31:52,573
I'm so sorry.
979
00:31:53,658 --> 00:31:54,825
- [Mark] Yeah.
980
00:31:56,685 --> 00:31:59,194
- [Georgia] Do you at least
get to, like, hang out
981
00:31:59,260 --> 00:32:00,413
or anything?
982
00:32:02,296 --> 00:32:03,129
- No.
983
00:32:04,088 --> 00:32:05,530
No, not as much as...
984
00:32:08,750 --> 00:32:10,100
Not as much as I'd like.
985
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:12,903
- [Georgia] Sorry to hear that.
986
00:32:16,690 --> 00:32:17,683
You know, um,
987
00:32:18,790 --> 00:32:22,244
I grew up for most of my
life with just my dad and me,
988
00:32:22,310 --> 00:32:26,324
and I bonded with my dad, so,
989
00:32:26,390 --> 00:32:28,144
I don't know, there's,
990
00:32:28,210 --> 00:32:30,490
you can't lose hope, you know?
991
00:32:31,827 --> 00:32:34,373
- No, she, yeah,
992
00:32:36,230 --> 00:32:38,077
she got full custody of, uh, of him.
993
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,073
- [Georgia] Oh.
994
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,503
I understand.
995
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,624
I mean, I don't understand.
996
00:32:49,690 --> 00:32:51,184
- [Mark] I know.
997
00:32:51,250 --> 00:32:52,213
You know, it's,
998
00:32:53,442 --> 00:32:54,542
you know, how can you,
999
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,044
how can you ruin a relationship
1000
00:32:59,110 --> 00:33:01,033
and then get sole custody of the kid?
1001
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:03,704
How can you do that?
1002
00:33:03,770 --> 00:33:07,623
- Does your son understand
this whole separation thing?
1003
00:33:09,540 --> 00:33:11,614
- [Mark] No, that's the worst part.
1004
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:12,447
- How old is he?
1005
00:33:12,513 --> 00:33:13,346
- He's five.
1006
00:33:14,700 --> 00:33:16,377
It's just that, you know,
1007
00:33:18,330 --> 00:33:21,563
you can't get out of bed sometimes.
1008
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,890
I mean, I have this weight
1009
00:33:26,390 --> 00:33:29,163
of it's not only me anymore.
1010
00:33:30,109 --> 00:33:33,224
I have to think about David.
1011
00:33:33,290 --> 00:33:35,434
And I have to think about what she did,
1012
00:33:35,500 --> 00:33:38,961
and I have to think, and...
1013
00:33:39,027 --> 00:33:41,783
And I just can't, I can't get up.
1014
00:33:48,660 --> 00:33:50,103
I used to love Christmas.
1015
00:33:53,137 --> 00:33:55,904
(chuckles) I mean, look at me.
1016
00:33:55,970 --> 00:33:56,737
I can't,
1017
00:33:56,803 --> 00:34:00,244
I can't even find simple joy.
1018
00:34:00,310 --> 00:34:02,010
And the fact that people are happy
1019
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,223
makes it worse, even.
1020
00:34:07,850 --> 00:34:09,224
- [Georgia] Like, it's all just so fresh
1021
00:34:09,290 --> 00:34:11,410
right now probably, I don't know.
1022
00:34:12,550 --> 00:34:14,534
It does get better. It will get better.
1023
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:15,674
You just have to...
1024
00:34:15,740 --> 00:34:16,674
It sucks, it sucks.
1025
00:34:16,740 --> 00:34:18,730
You have to get through the suck first.
1026
00:34:18,796 --> 00:34:20,515
- (scoffs) How do you know that?
1027
00:34:20,581 --> 00:34:21,348
- [Georgia] I don't...
1028
00:34:21,414 --> 00:34:23,334
I mean, I, nobody knows,
1029
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,564
but I don't think it's okay
1030
00:34:25,630 --> 00:34:27,923
to just tell yourself it's not okay.
1031
00:34:29,981 --> 00:34:32,398
(Mark sighs)
1032
00:34:34,130 --> 00:34:37,543
It's okay to be upset and
you're allowed to be mad.
1033
00:34:38,530 --> 00:34:41,534
Being vulnerable is not weakness.
1034
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,533
It's being human.
1035
00:34:45,260 --> 00:34:48,984
My therapist told me to write
down one positive thing,
1036
00:34:49,050 --> 00:34:53,044
one affirmation, something
to motivate me every day.
1037
00:34:53,110 --> 00:34:56,544
So maybe, maybe even
try to write something,
1038
00:34:56,610 --> 00:34:57,623
just anything.
1039
00:35:00,331 --> 00:35:02,945
- Like something, like,
1040
00:35:03,011 --> 00:35:04,261
something good?
1041
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:10,454
- [Georgia] Just maybe
how you feel, get it out,
1042
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,844
or maybe something you wanna feel.
1043
00:35:12,910 --> 00:35:14,374
And that could be what you focus on
1044
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,693
is something that you would
like to be able to do.
1045
00:35:26,321 --> 00:35:29,068
You don't have to, I just
1046
00:35:29,134 --> 00:35:30,287
thought it might help.
- No, it's fine.
1047
00:35:30,353 --> 00:35:33,608
I'm, I'm just thinking.
1048
00:35:33,674 --> 00:35:35,091
- [Georgia] Yeah.
1049
00:35:38,723 --> 00:35:42,056
(Georgia clears throat)
1050
00:35:45,420 --> 00:35:48,213
- These people keep telling me to man up.
1051
00:35:52,091 --> 00:35:55,660
And they say, oh, there's
plenty of fish in the sea and...
1052
00:36:00,111 --> 00:36:02,751
But I don't know how to use
my rod and reel, you know,
1053
00:36:02,817 --> 00:36:05,130
and the bait (sighs)
1054
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,127
stinks, you know?
1055
00:36:12,393 --> 00:36:14,063
- It's gonna be okay.
1056
00:36:16,090 --> 00:36:18,274
Just reach out to the people that,
1057
00:36:18,340 --> 00:36:19,590
the people that love you.
1058
00:36:21,170 --> 00:36:22,420
They'll be there for you.
1059
00:36:25,589 --> 00:36:26,844
- Okay.
1060
00:36:26,910 --> 00:36:29,083
Thanks. (sniffs)
1061
00:36:32,174 --> 00:36:34,591
(Mark sighs)
1062
00:36:42,714 --> 00:36:45,381
(Georgia sighs)
1063
00:36:48,150 --> 00:36:53,150
♪ Silent night ♪
1064
00:36:53,612 --> 00:36:58,612
♪ Holy night ♪
1065
00:36:59,027 --> 00:37:03,815
♪ All is calm ♪
1066
00:37:03,881 --> 00:37:08,881
♪ All is bright ♪
1067
00:37:10,361 --> 00:37:14,944
♪ 'Round young virgin mother and child ♪
1068
00:37:21,010 --> 00:37:25,093
♪ Holy infant so tender and mild ♪
1069
00:37:31,750 --> 00:37:35,250
♪ Sleep in heavenly peace ♪
1070
00:37:42,140 --> 00:37:45,640
♪ Sleep in heavenly peace ♪
1071
00:37:52,010 --> 00:37:52,974
- [William] Hey, pickle.
1072
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:53,873
- Hey, Pop.
1073
00:37:55,930 --> 00:37:59,177
- [William] Hey, hey,
hey, what's going on?
1074
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,953
- Just feeling real low right now.
1075
00:38:04,050 --> 00:38:07,744
I thought I would spread cheer
and pick up all these people
1076
00:38:07,810 --> 00:38:11,923
and, you know, see what
it's like out there. (sighs)
1077
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:14,873
- Listen,
1078
00:38:16,490 --> 00:38:18,374
it's tough, you know?
1079
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,193
Christmas is a hard time of year.
1080
00:38:21,171 --> 00:38:22,594
You know, remember when, you know,
1081
00:38:22,660 --> 00:38:25,664
Mom passed away, the first year after?
1082
00:38:25,730 --> 00:38:26,563
Yeah.
1083
00:38:29,010 --> 00:38:32,434
You know, presents, mistletoe, cheer,
1084
00:38:32,500 --> 00:38:33,404
all that sort of thing,
1085
00:38:33,470 --> 00:38:36,794
it's, you know, great on
greeting cards and commercials,
1086
00:38:36,860 --> 00:38:39,444
and, you know, watching "White Christmas,"
1087
00:38:39,510 --> 00:38:42,184
but it can be tough.
1088
00:38:42,250 --> 00:38:45,823
Let me tell you, I am proud of you.
1089
00:38:46,890 --> 00:38:49,354
You went out there with a open heart.
1090
00:38:49,420 --> 00:38:52,724
You know, you tried to
interact with people,
1091
00:38:52,790 --> 00:38:54,404
give some cheer, you know what I mean?
1092
00:38:54,470 --> 00:38:56,053
Show some Christmas spirit.
1093
00:38:58,770 --> 00:39:00,664
I'm sorry it didn't go
the way you wanted to,
1094
00:39:00,730 --> 00:39:01,583
but, um,
1095
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,020
I know Mom would be very proud of you too.
1096
00:39:08,163 --> 00:39:08,930
That help?
1097
00:39:08,996 --> 00:39:10,474
- A little.
1098
00:39:10,540 --> 00:39:11,444
- [William] Yeah.
1099
00:39:11,510 --> 00:39:12,834
- Can I talk about it?
1100
00:39:12,900 --> 00:39:13,733
- Absolutely.
1101
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:15,873
What happened?
1102
00:39:17,420 --> 00:39:19,244
- [Georgia] It started out really nice.
1103
00:39:19,310 --> 00:39:20,974
There was this sweet, old couple,
1104
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,244
and they had been together forever,
1105
00:39:22,310 --> 00:39:23,084
it feels like.
- Okay.
1106
00:39:23,150 --> 00:39:24,694
- [Georgia] And it gave me hope
1107
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,841
that maybe someday I would
be with somebody forever.
1108
00:39:27,907 --> 00:39:29,464
- You might.
1109
00:39:29,530 --> 00:39:32,474
- And then, like, there
was just such good momentum
1110
00:39:32,540 --> 00:39:35,054
and then it just came to a screeching halt
1111
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:36,794
once, like, reality hit
1112
00:39:36,860 --> 00:39:40,734
and I realized that not
everybody has a good situation
1113
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:45,264
and sometimes people's
families are taken from them.
1114
00:39:45,330 --> 00:39:50,330
I just, it's not fair. (sighs)
1115
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:51,287
- [William] No.
1116
00:39:51,353 --> 00:39:56,024
- And it's hard to, like,
tell people, you know,
1117
00:39:56,090 --> 00:39:58,301
keep your chin up, believe in yourself.
1118
00:39:58,367 --> 00:40:03,184
You know, all these positive
affirmations that we say,
1119
00:40:03,250 --> 00:40:04,203
it's just, like,
1120
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,033
it doesn't, it doesn't
just work like that.
1121
00:40:09,420 --> 00:40:10,553
What's the point?
1122
00:40:12,570 --> 00:40:16,743
- Well, the point is that you try,
1123
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,624
you go out there with the best intentions,
1124
00:40:20,690 --> 00:40:22,834
you try to interact.
1125
00:40:22,900 --> 00:40:25,834
And you'd be surprised
1126
00:40:25,900 --> 00:40:29,134
how even a second that you
spend time with someone,
1127
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:30,664
you're changing that person.
1128
00:40:30,730 --> 00:40:31,544
- [Georgia] You think so?
1129
00:40:31,610 --> 00:40:32,544
- Oh, yeah.
1130
00:40:32,610 --> 00:40:36,294
Every time that you bump into someone,
1131
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:37,914
smile at someone,
1132
00:40:37,980 --> 00:40:38,914
yell at someone,
1133
00:40:38,980 --> 00:40:40,724
laugh at someone,
1134
00:40:40,790 --> 00:40:42,084
you're interacting with them,
1135
00:40:42,150 --> 00:40:44,064
you're affecting them,
1136
00:40:44,130 --> 00:40:47,634
and that makes them
emotionally make a decision
1137
00:40:47,700 --> 00:40:50,794
of how they're going
to react back, alright?
1138
00:40:50,860 --> 00:40:51,627
- [Georgia] Yeah.
1139
00:40:51,693 --> 00:40:53,323
- So if you're positive,
1140
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:56,544
that's all you can do,
1141
00:40:56,610 --> 00:40:58,634
and hope they have a positive reaction
1142
00:40:58,700 --> 00:41:00,454
from what you're doing.
1143
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:01,854
Some people have it tough.
1144
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,454
Some people have a hard time accepting,
1145
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,704
you know, positive affirmation or a smile
1146
00:41:08,770 --> 00:41:12,914
or a kind word because-
- They're not used to it.
1147
00:41:12,980 --> 00:41:15,034
- Some people feel
they're not worthy of it
1148
00:41:15,100 --> 00:41:16,994
or they don't deserve it.
1149
00:41:17,060 --> 00:41:18,374
But those are the ones
1150
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,914
that you really need to
spend that time with.
1151
00:41:20,980 --> 00:41:24,314
They're the ones you really
need to take that extra minute,
1152
00:41:24,380 --> 00:41:25,444
you know?
- Yeah.
1153
00:41:25,510 --> 00:41:28,794
- I mean, when I was down
and didn't feel talking,
1154
00:41:28,860 --> 00:41:32,144
I mean, you didn't allow
me to wallow or whatever.
1155
00:41:32,210 --> 00:41:34,030
And vice versa.
1156
00:41:34,096 --> 00:41:35,204
- [Georgia] You weren't alone.
1157
00:41:35,270 --> 00:41:36,037
Neither one of us were.
1158
00:41:36,103 --> 00:41:36,870
- No.
1159
00:41:36,936 --> 00:41:37,944
No, we were lucky, you know.
1160
00:41:38,010 --> 00:41:38,963
We had each other.
1161
00:41:40,260 --> 00:41:42,644
But some families aren't quite that close
1162
00:41:42,710 --> 00:41:44,824
or have that kind of relationship.
1163
00:41:44,890 --> 00:41:47,094
So all you can do is,
1164
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:50,754
you can show them there's hope.
1165
00:41:50,820 --> 00:41:51,587
- Yeah.
1166
00:41:51,653 --> 00:41:52,507
- That that's really it.
1167
00:41:52,573 --> 00:41:57,094
That's the gift of Christmas, right?
1168
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,903
Christmas is all about
giving, not getting.
1169
00:42:01,670 --> 00:42:02,503
- Yeah.
1170
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:06,904
It's like Christmas is
the one time of year
1171
00:42:06,970 --> 00:42:09,003
where you just pause,
1172
00:42:10,110 --> 00:42:12,634
where everybody just comes together
1173
00:42:12,700 --> 00:42:16,766
or just has a moment to themselves.
1174
00:42:16,832 --> 00:42:18,304
- [William] Mmhmm.
1175
00:42:18,370 --> 00:42:21,813
- And everybody seems to
have a little bit more hope.
1176
00:42:24,140 --> 00:42:26,253
- [William] Yeah, yeah.
1177
00:42:27,430 --> 00:42:29,160
And for some people that's hard,
1178
00:42:29,226 --> 00:42:30,184
you know?
- Yeah.
1179
00:42:30,250 --> 00:42:32,444
- [William] And some people that's easy.
1180
00:42:32,510 --> 00:42:35,704
But it doesn't mean that
you should stop trying.
1181
00:42:35,770 --> 00:42:37,334
- You're right.
1182
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,409
- [William] You're doing a good thing.
1183
00:42:39,475 --> 00:42:42,234
- (sighs) Thanks, Pop.
1184
00:42:42,300 --> 00:42:43,250
- [William] Course.
1185
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:45,713
- I needed that.
1186
00:42:46,620 --> 00:42:48,534
- You call anytime you need to talk, okay?
1187
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,454
- [Georgia] Always.
1188
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:50,724
- Okay. Love you.
1189
00:42:50,790 --> 00:42:51,557
- [Georgia] Love you too.
1190
00:42:51,623 --> 00:42:52,946
- Alright, bye.
- Bye.
1191
00:42:53,012 --> 00:42:55,595
(gentle music)
1192
00:43:11,849 --> 00:43:16,372
♪ Christmas lights, see them shine ♪
1193
00:43:16,438 --> 00:43:21,438
♪ In the eyes of a child ♪
1194
00:43:23,318 --> 00:43:28,318
♪ Let them shine ♪
1195
00:43:29,908 --> 00:43:34,582
♪ I used to be one of them ♪
1196
00:43:34,648 --> 00:43:39,648
♪ Christmas tree, innocent ♪
1197
00:43:41,501 --> 00:43:46,501
♪ Let them shine ♪
1198
00:43:46,778 --> 00:43:51,172
♪ As I fell for your spell ♪
1199
00:43:51,238 --> 00:43:55,732
♪ Christmas bell like a symphony ♪
1200
00:43:55,798 --> 00:44:00,540
♪ Through the air, Christmas flare ♪
1201
00:44:00,606 --> 00:44:05,491
♪ Floats a simple melody ♪
1202
00:44:05,557 --> 00:44:07,720
♪ Merry Christmas ♪
1203
00:44:07,786 --> 00:44:10,100
♪ Can you feel it ♪
1204
00:44:10,166 --> 00:44:14,341
♪ If you feel it then sing with me ♪
1205
00:44:14,407 --> 00:44:18,872
♪ I wish you merry Christmas ♪
1206
00:44:18,938 --> 00:44:21,901
♪ May all your dreams come true ♪
1207
00:44:21,967 --> 00:44:25,084
(phone chimes)
1208
00:44:25,150 --> 00:44:26,633
- [Georgia] So where are you headed?
1209
00:44:27,729 --> 00:44:28,734
- Home.
- Yeah?
1210
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,290
- Yeah.
1211
00:44:30,356 --> 00:44:31,584
- [Georgia] You got any holiday plans?
1212
00:44:31,650 --> 00:44:35,956
- [Lyric] Well, just
left the family's dinner.
1213
00:44:36,022 --> 00:44:36,894
- [Georgia] Oh.
1214
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,504
- Yeah, we get together for Christmas,
1215
00:44:39,570 --> 00:44:40,574
have a nice dinner,
1216
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,110
everyone brings something, and
1217
00:44:45,340 --> 00:44:48,784
things just got a little out of hand.
1218
00:44:48,850 --> 00:44:53,423
I recently found out that
I was adopted, and, yeah.
1219
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,064
So I'm sure I have a lot of family here
1220
00:44:56,130 --> 00:44:58,023
that I don't know about yet,
1221
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,484
that I am questioning if I want to meet.
1222
00:45:03,550 --> 00:45:04,764
- [Georgia] Whoa.
1223
00:45:04,830 --> 00:45:06,434
- Yeah, so.
1224
00:45:06,500 --> 00:45:10,617
- [Georgia] Wow, that's a lot, um-
1225
00:45:10,683 --> 00:45:11,516
- Yeah.
1226
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:19,920
Yeah, I just talked to my
adoptive parents at the dinner
1227
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:25,164
and asked if they would be okay
1228
00:45:25,230 --> 00:45:26,494
or how they would feel
1229
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,880
with me reaching out to that family
1230
00:45:31,770 --> 00:45:33,657
that I don't know of, um,
1231
00:45:38,472 --> 00:45:39,555
I don't know.
1232
00:45:40,474 --> 00:45:42,100
I don't know.
1233
00:45:42,166 --> 00:45:45,799
♪ If you feel it then sing with me ♪
1234
00:45:45,865 --> 00:45:46,849
♪ I wish you ♪
1235
00:45:46,915 --> 00:45:48,389
(phone chimes)
1236
00:45:48,455 --> 00:45:50,389
♪ Merry Christmas ♪
1237
00:45:50,455 --> 00:45:54,455
♪ May all your dreams come true ♪
1238
00:45:58,930 --> 00:45:59,964
- [Georgia] Hi, I'm Georgia.
1239
00:46:00,030 --> 00:46:01,494
- [Indie] George, okay, okay. I'm Indie.
1240
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:03,004
- Yes.
- Hi.
1241
00:46:03,070 --> 00:46:04,124
Hey.
1242
00:46:04,190 --> 00:46:05,224
- [Lyric] Hi.
1243
00:46:05,290 --> 00:46:08,754
- Oh, I didn't even
realize it was Christmas.
1244
00:46:08,820 --> 00:46:09,587
- [Georgia] Oh yeah,
1245
00:46:09,653 --> 00:46:11,544
it just kind of snuck up
on everybody, I guess.
1246
00:46:11,610 --> 00:46:12,377
- It did.
1247
00:46:12,443 --> 00:46:15,144
I really thought, like, maybe
we had another week. (laughs)
1248
00:46:15,210 --> 00:46:16,464
Honestly.
- Mmhmm.
1249
00:46:16,530 --> 00:46:19,693
- Oh, that just goes to
show you how spirited I am.
1250
00:46:22,429 --> 00:46:27,429
So I don't wanna be a compare
and contrast kind of girl, but
1251
00:46:28,630 --> 00:46:30,314
let's, uh,
1252
00:46:30,380 --> 00:46:32,054
let's do this side by side thing.
1253
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,023
What's up with your holiday today?
1254
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:42,073
- Well, I recently found
out that I was adopted.
1255
00:46:43,270 --> 00:46:46,854
And today I confronted my parents,
1256
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:48,714
my adoptive parents.
1257
00:46:48,780 --> 00:46:49,694
- [Indie] No joke.
1258
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:50,634
- About...
1259
00:46:50,700 --> 00:46:52,664
'Cause they knew the whole time, you know,
1260
00:46:52,730 --> 00:46:55,170
where my biological parents were
1261
00:46:56,130 --> 00:47:00,634
and they never even told
me that I was adopted.
1262
00:47:00,700 --> 00:47:03,174
Then, let alone, when I did find out,
1263
00:47:03,240 --> 00:47:05,770
to not even tell me that they're here.
1264
00:47:05,836 --> 00:47:08,914
Um, so, yeah, I want-
1265
00:47:08,980 --> 00:47:11,624
- [Indie] Have you never
asked about them before.
1266
00:47:11,690 --> 00:47:14,394
- I never knew I was adopted to even ask.
1267
00:47:14,460 --> 00:47:17,284
And then when I did find
out that I was adopted,
1268
00:47:17,350 --> 00:47:19,464
about a month ago.
- Oh, wow.
1269
00:47:19,530 --> 00:47:23,974
- And they made it seem
like they had no idea
1270
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,604
who my real parents were.
1271
00:47:26,670 --> 00:47:28,774
And the whole time they,
1272
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:30,643
they knew they were here.
1273
00:47:31,500 --> 00:47:36,053
So I asked how they would
feel if I reached out,
1274
00:47:36,900 --> 00:47:41,900
and they said that I was just ungrateful.
1275
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:47,833
And they don't understand
what I would need from them,
1276
00:47:49,258 --> 00:47:50,913
and I don't really know.
1277
00:47:52,570 --> 00:47:53,683
I don't really know.
- Yeah.
1278
00:47:57,610 --> 00:48:00,473
That's some tough stuff.
1279
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:02,473
Wow.
1280
00:48:03,580 --> 00:48:04,524
How do you...
1281
00:48:04,590 --> 00:48:08,434
Where do you come off
calling your adopted child,
1282
00:48:08,500 --> 00:48:11,234
someone you brought into your family,
1283
00:48:11,300 --> 00:48:15,274
someone you wanted, for whatever reason,
1284
00:48:15,340 --> 00:48:17,533
how, where do you get off going?
1285
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:20,407
How are you so...
1286
00:48:20,473 --> 00:48:22,864
Oh my god, I can't, I can't.
1287
00:48:22,930 --> 00:48:26,083
I don't understand that,
that logic, that concept.
1288
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:28,824
- Yeah, this,
1289
00:48:28,890 --> 00:48:31,464
I think they're just embarrassed
1290
00:48:31,530 --> 00:48:34,483
because they wanted
everybody to think that,
1291
00:48:35,910 --> 00:48:38,344
you know, I was theirs.
1292
00:48:38,410 --> 00:48:42,354
And really, they've been living a lie.
1293
00:48:42,420 --> 00:48:43,914
- [Georgia] Right.
1294
00:48:43,980 --> 00:48:46,003
- This whole time, all these years.
1295
00:48:48,180 --> 00:48:49,504
30 years.
1296
00:48:49,570 --> 00:48:51,570
- [Georgia] It's not fair to you.
1297
00:48:51,636 --> 00:48:53,774
They had this cookie-cutter
image they wanted to have
1298
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,234
and they just forced you into it
1299
00:48:56,300 --> 00:48:59,573
without ever considering the
possibility of this happening.
1300
00:49:02,270 --> 00:49:03,843
- Yeah, just,
1301
00:49:04,910 --> 00:49:05,743
it hurts.
1302
00:49:06,630 --> 00:49:08,263
It really hurts.
1303
00:49:09,100 --> 00:49:11,935
- How do you,
1304
00:49:12,001 --> 00:49:13,617
how do you, (chuckles)
1305
00:49:13,683 --> 00:49:17,793
how do you calculate a response to that?
1306
00:49:25,921 --> 00:49:28,025
- (sighs) Yeah.
1307
00:49:28,091 --> 00:49:28,924
Yeah.
1308
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:35,034
Yeah, and everyone's like, well,
what is gonna be different?
1309
00:49:35,100 --> 00:49:36,994
When you find out, you know,
1310
00:49:37,060 --> 00:49:38,234
who your real parents are,
1311
00:49:38,300 --> 00:49:41,174
when you meet them, what
is gonna be different?
1312
00:49:41,240 --> 00:49:43,904
You have a mom, you have a dad,
1313
00:49:43,970 --> 00:49:46,254
you have everything, you know,
1314
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:51,033
that, you know, a kid could
ask for in their childhood.
1315
00:49:52,820 --> 00:49:53,653
And I,
1316
00:49:55,530 --> 00:49:56,453
I don't even know.
1317
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,714
- [Georgia] Maybe nothing will change.
1318
00:49:59,780 --> 00:50:00,547
But you'll never know, what if?
1319
00:50:00,613 --> 00:50:02,333
- So what's the point, right?
1320
00:50:03,660 --> 00:50:05,444
Should I just not, you know?
1321
00:50:05,510 --> 00:50:07,034
If nothing's gonna change
1322
00:50:07,100 --> 00:50:11,850
and it's just gonna make
the parents who raised me
1323
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,144
feel some type of way,
1324
00:50:15,210 --> 00:50:18,663
it's like, maybe I shouldn't, you know?
1325
00:50:20,780 --> 00:50:23,544
Maybe God just put me in the right hands,
1326
00:50:23,610 --> 00:50:24,963
the right parents,
1327
00:50:28,101 --> 00:50:30,493
and I should just be happy with that.
1328
00:50:30,559 --> 00:50:33,334
Like, maybe I am being selfish,
1329
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,554
maybe I am being ungrateful,
1330
00:50:35,620 --> 00:50:37,824
and maybe I should just let it go,
1331
00:50:37,890 --> 00:50:39,883
but I can't, I can't.
1332
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:42,087
I can't.
1333
00:50:42,153 --> 00:50:44,454
- [Georgia] I think your
heart's in the right place.
1334
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,444
So if you wanna do that
and answer the what ifs,
1335
00:50:47,510 --> 00:50:49,010
I don't think that could hurt.
1336
00:50:49,930 --> 00:50:53,144
And I feel like they owe it to
you to let you explore that.
1337
00:50:53,210 --> 00:50:54,144
And if they do love you,
1338
00:50:54,210 --> 00:50:56,743
they'll be there for you, even afterwards.
1339
00:51:01,490 --> 00:51:02,323
- You're right.
1340
00:51:04,609 --> 00:51:05,863
(sighs) You're right.
1341
00:51:07,950 --> 00:51:08,793
This is for me.
1342
00:51:13,631 --> 00:51:16,964
(sighs) This is for me,
1343
00:51:18,403 --> 00:51:22,603
and I deserve just to get
whatever I'm gonna get out of it.
1344
00:51:24,170 --> 00:51:25,605
What's your story?
1345
00:51:25,671 --> 00:51:28,694
- Ah. (groans)
1346
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:32,894
Do you have a lifetime to listen? (laughs)
1347
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,224
'Cause, yeah.
1348
00:51:35,290 --> 00:51:39,334
Well, there's a lot of different things.
1349
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,934
And I have a very indifferent opinion
1350
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,794
about families and holidays,
1351
00:51:44,860 --> 00:51:45,824
especially recently.
1352
00:51:45,890 --> 00:51:49,624
I've chosen to take a
leave of absence this year.
1353
00:51:49,690 --> 00:51:53,573
And, honestly,
1354
00:51:54,860 --> 00:51:56,613
if there were another world,
1355
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:00,984
I vote to move there. (laughs)
1356
00:52:01,050 --> 00:52:02,423
'Cause families,
1357
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:05,543
they're another story.
1358
00:52:07,745 --> 00:52:10,124
(sighs) You know how
they have a black sheep
1359
00:52:10,190 --> 00:52:11,794
in every family?
- Yeah.
1360
00:52:11,860 --> 00:52:13,710
- You could say I'm the purple sheep.
1361
00:52:15,370 --> 00:52:16,583
Just, I,
1362
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:22,624
I mean, it's always been a case
of whether I fit in or not,
1363
00:52:22,690 --> 00:52:23,743
but there's, like,
1364
00:52:24,723 --> 00:52:26,454
there's, like, layers of that,
1365
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:27,688
of not fitting in
1366
00:52:27,754 --> 00:52:31,374
or comprehending my coexistence
1367
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,334
with some of these people. (chuckles)
1368
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:34,833
Especially my dad.
1369
00:52:36,282 --> 00:52:39,493
My dad, he's, uh,
1370
00:52:40,670 --> 00:52:44,174
he's a bit surprising, to say the least.
1371
00:52:44,240 --> 00:52:45,354
I honestly don't,
1372
00:52:45,420 --> 00:52:48,994
I don't really know what
surprises me anymore about him.
1373
00:52:49,060 --> 00:52:51,544
I don't know why that I feel surprised.
1374
00:52:51,610 --> 00:52:52,654
I honestly shouldn't,
1375
00:52:52,720 --> 00:52:55,964
but I guess it just stems from, you know,
1376
00:52:56,030 --> 00:52:58,554
the culture in my family on his side
1377
00:52:58,620 --> 00:53:00,184
and where we come from
1378
00:53:00,250 --> 00:53:04,344
and who I've always
wanted to know more about,
1379
00:53:04,410 --> 00:53:05,924
you know, historically,
1380
00:53:05,990 --> 00:53:07,743
and where we come from.
1381
00:53:08,580 --> 00:53:11,244
And in the last couple of years,
1382
00:53:11,310 --> 00:53:16,204
he's become oddly political
1383
00:53:16,270 --> 00:53:19,504
and very opinionated in that fact.
1384
00:53:19,570 --> 00:53:23,534
And not on the side that
you would think. (laughs)
1385
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:26,604
You know, in this time of year, (chuckles)
1386
00:53:26,670 --> 00:53:29,004
you should be, like, closer to family.
1387
00:53:29,070 --> 00:53:34,070
And I am just so okay being
as far away as possible.
1388
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:37,313
- Is this you?
1389
00:53:38,170 --> 00:53:39,153
- [Lyric] Yes, yes.
1390
00:53:44,820 --> 00:53:46,420
- [Georgia] Well, um, thank you.
1391
00:53:47,870 --> 00:53:49,144
- Hope it gets better.
- Yeah.
1392
00:53:49,210 --> 00:53:52,538
- And if not, just sock it to 'em.
1393
00:53:52,604 --> 00:53:55,364
- (laughs) I will.
1394
00:53:55,430 --> 00:53:58,196
I will try to sock it to 'em.
1395
00:53:58,262 --> 00:53:59,797
(everyone laughs)
1396
00:53:59,863 --> 00:54:01,336
- [Georgia] Here, this is for you.
1397
00:54:01,402 --> 00:54:02,836
- Oh, thank you.
(Georgia giggles)
1398
00:54:02,902 --> 00:54:03,696
Merry Christmas.
1399
00:54:03,762 --> 00:54:04,574
- Merry Christmas.
- Merry Christmas.
1400
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:06,290
Nice meeting you too.
- You too.
1401
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,274
- Sorry about getting so deep.
1402
00:54:17,340 --> 00:54:20,644
I feel like we're having
therapy sessions. (laughs)
1403
00:54:20,710 --> 00:54:21,477
- [Georgia] No, it's okay.
1404
00:54:21,543 --> 00:54:23,994
- On our way.
- Yeah, no, it's fine.
1405
00:54:24,060 --> 00:54:27,034
I wanna help people and, you know,
1406
00:54:27,100 --> 00:54:28,984
sometimes people just need
to get it off their chest
1407
00:54:29,050 --> 00:54:30,093
and just sound off.
1408
00:54:30,939 --> 00:54:32,674
- I really do, honestly.
1409
00:54:32,740 --> 00:54:33,994
And I,
1410
00:54:34,060 --> 00:54:35,194
I appreciate you listening,
1411
00:54:35,260 --> 00:54:38,334
'cause that's heavy stuff.
1412
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,454
That was some heavy stuff.
1413
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,334
- [Georgia] Yeah.
1414
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,733
- I just, I don't know,
1415
00:54:44,790 --> 00:54:49,784
the holidays, to me, have not
been holiday-ish this year.
1416
00:54:49,850 --> 00:54:53,374
And then, to say the least bit,
1417
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:54,333
like, I,
1418
00:54:55,220 --> 00:54:59,430
there's no spirit for
me, in any sense, and...
1419
00:55:04,090 --> 00:55:06,190
I don't know, I think it's just adjusting.
1420
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:12,054
I'm sad to cut it off with family,
1421
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:13,263
but I'm not,
1422
00:55:15,130 --> 00:55:17,704
I'm not regretful, if that makes sense.
1423
00:55:17,770 --> 00:55:20,494
- [Georgia] I feel
like, in this situation,
1424
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:22,224
it's a healthy decision
1425
00:55:22,290 --> 00:55:25,454
'cause it sounded like you
were being manipulated.
1426
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:26,884
Like, this season,
1427
00:55:26,950 --> 00:55:28,924
people are expected to
be nice to each other,
1428
00:55:28,990 --> 00:55:31,824
so you think that they're
being actually nice to you
1429
00:55:31,890 --> 00:55:36,174
and honestly they're just,
like you said, faking it.
1430
00:55:36,240 --> 00:55:37,214
- Yeah, why does it...
1431
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,698
I mean, fake it all year. (laughs)
1432
00:55:40,764 --> 00:55:42,934
If you really wanna be a family,
1433
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:44,324
like, fake it all year.
1434
00:55:44,390 --> 00:55:47,724
Don't just wait 'til the
holidays and come around.
1435
00:55:47,790 --> 00:55:49,924
I mean, it's almost,
1436
00:55:49,990 --> 00:55:53,464
it's almost how I felt last
year, going into holidays.
1437
00:55:53,530 --> 00:55:56,654
I have a super supportive,
you know, boyfriend,
1438
00:55:56,720 --> 00:56:01,720
and his family and him are
super close and it's great.
1439
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:06,804
I just, I found myself
trying to perceive the same,
1440
00:56:06,870 --> 00:56:07,944
in a sense,
1441
00:56:08,010 --> 00:56:10,574
inviting him over to
family gatherings and stuff
1442
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,424
that I normally don't
attend on a regular basis,
1443
00:56:13,490 --> 00:56:14,604
especially throughout the year.
1444
00:56:14,670 --> 00:56:15,437
- [Georgia] Right.
1445
00:56:15,503 --> 00:56:18,150
- [Indie] And doing Christmas
last year was just like,
1446
00:56:19,300 --> 00:56:22,004
here they are, it's a picture,
1447
00:56:22,070 --> 00:56:24,284
and that's pretty much it.
- Right.
1448
00:56:24,350 --> 00:56:27,064
- 'Cause nobody really
cares what you're doing
1449
00:56:27,130 --> 00:56:31,404
and nobody really has
any interest in anything,
1450
00:56:31,470 --> 00:56:33,474
but your status or...
1451
00:56:33,540 --> 00:56:34,744
And I don't know.
1452
00:56:34,810 --> 00:56:36,344
I just, I don't know,
1453
00:56:36,410 --> 00:56:38,474
I decided, like, I don't
wanna be a part of that.
1454
00:56:38,540 --> 00:56:39,844
I'm not...
1455
00:56:39,910 --> 00:56:41,764
That's the kind of stuff
I keep out of my life.
1456
00:56:41,830 --> 00:56:44,504
If I'm gonna do that with my friends,
1457
00:56:44,570 --> 00:56:47,044
then why would I do that with,
1458
00:56:47,110 --> 00:56:49,424
why won't I do that with my family?
1459
00:56:49,490 --> 00:56:50,884
You make your family.
1460
00:56:50,950 --> 00:56:53,174
You make your own family,
1461
00:56:53,240 --> 00:56:56,104
whether it's blood relatives or not.
1462
00:56:56,170 --> 00:56:57,003
And I just,
1463
00:56:59,700 --> 00:57:01,314
I just, I don't know.
1464
00:57:01,380 --> 00:57:04,823
It's holidays, to me, are an excuse.
1465
00:57:05,910 --> 00:57:07,073
And I feel like,
1466
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:13,960
although I miss being kind of
joyful and jolly and stuff,
1467
00:57:14,610 --> 00:57:16,414
I used to be really into
the holidays growing up,
1468
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:18,594
but it's become,
1469
00:57:18,660 --> 00:57:19,814
it's become just that.
1470
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:21,854
Just a holiday.
1471
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:23,404
Why are we decorating?
1472
00:57:23,470 --> 00:57:25,884
Because it's something you do together?
1473
00:57:25,950 --> 00:57:28,243
Or because other people are doing it?
1474
00:57:29,110 --> 00:57:31,014
Why do you give each other gifts?
1475
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:32,464
Because it's required?
1476
00:57:32,530 --> 00:57:37,094
No, it's saying, hey, this
is a time of celebration.
1477
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:41,224
I'm thinking of you, like I usually do,
1478
00:57:41,290 --> 00:57:43,004
and merry Christmas,
1479
00:57:43,070 --> 00:57:46,401
here's a trinket of my
love for you or whatever.
1480
00:57:46,467 --> 00:57:47,984
- [Georgia] Right, it's how it should be.
1481
00:57:48,050 --> 00:57:49,569
- Mm, it is.
1482
00:57:49,635 --> 00:57:52,708
(phone chimes)
1483
00:57:52,774 --> 00:57:56,514
(Raven exhales loudly)
1484
00:57:56,580 --> 00:57:57,680
- [Georgia] Rough day?
1485
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:00,093
- Rough year.
1486
00:58:03,670 --> 00:58:04,770
- [Georgia] I feel ya.
1487
00:58:06,660 --> 00:58:10,313
Well, if you need to
talk about it, I'm here.
1488
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:18,303
- My mom died.
1489
00:58:20,570 --> 00:58:22,470
- [Georgia] I'm so sorry to hear that.
1490
00:58:24,510 --> 00:58:28,073
- Just, it hurts hard, you know.
1491
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:31,327
- [Georgia] I've been there.
1492
00:58:31,393 --> 00:58:34,653
Well, still there, actually.
1493
00:58:39,151 --> 00:58:40,944
- You could just let me
out right here, it's fine.
1494
00:58:41,010 --> 00:58:42,204
- [Georgia] What? No.
1495
00:58:42,270 --> 00:58:43,674
- It's fine, don't worry about it.
1496
00:58:43,740 --> 00:58:46,074
Um, I'll be fine.
1497
00:58:46,140 --> 00:58:47,664
- [Georgia] No, no.
1498
00:58:47,730 --> 00:58:50,214
I'll get you to where you need to be.
1499
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:51,603
It's okay. It's okay.
1500
00:58:52,890 --> 00:58:53,723
Is there,
1501
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:58,050
is there anybody else in
your life right now with you
1502
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:00,173
whenever you go home?
1503
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:05,353
Do you have any family?
1504
00:59:06,660 --> 00:59:09,290
- [Raven] My brother,
but he doesn't live here.
1505
00:59:10,249 --> 00:59:12,943
We're not, we're not close.
1506
00:59:14,430 --> 00:59:16,423
- [Georgia] If you don't mind me asking,
1507
00:59:17,750 --> 00:59:19,003
how did she pass?
1508
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:22,233
- Cancer.
1509
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:27,204
Yours?
1510
00:59:27,270 --> 00:59:28,120
- [Georgia] Same.
1511
00:59:29,870 --> 00:59:30,637
Sucks.
1512
00:59:30,703 --> 00:59:31,821
- I hate it.
1513
00:59:31,887 --> 00:59:33,563
I hate it so much.
1514
00:59:35,350 --> 00:59:36,973
- [Georgia] Doesn't make any sense.
1515
00:59:41,248 --> 00:59:44,374
- I don't wanna feel alone anymore.
1516
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:49,193
- [Georgia] Look, Raven,
I don't wanna overstep,
1517
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:54,614
but I've also had a pretty rough day.
1518
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:58,610
I know it can't compare to
what you're going through,
1519
01:00:01,940 --> 01:00:03,574
and I'm, I,
1520
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,040
I'm not feeling so great either right now
1521
01:00:09,860 --> 01:00:11,923
and I also don't wanna be alone.
1522
01:00:12,900 --> 01:00:16,304
Kind of actually afraid
of being alone right now.
1523
01:00:16,370 --> 01:00:17,313
So just,
1524
01:00:19,890 --> 01:00:21,363
let's just take this ride.
1525
01:00:26,492 --> 01:00:28,820
(sighs) There's this place
1526
01:00:30,370 --> 01:00:32,253
that I go to to clear my mind.
1527
01:00:35,094 --> 01:00:38,394
(traffic humming)
(gentle guitar music)
1528
01:00:38,460 --> 01:00:41,313
- How long ago did you lose her?
1529
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:43,473
- 10 years.
1530
01:00:48,790 --> 01:00:51,633
- Does it ever get any easier?
1531
01:00:54,767 --> 01:00:58,044
- (sniffs) No.
1532
01:00:58,110 --> 01:01:00,124
I wish I could say that
it does, but it doesn't.
1533
01:01:00,190 --> 01:01:03,503
It's never not not gone.
1534
01:01:05,380 --> 01:01:07,624
But you, you figure it out.
1535
01:01:07,690 --> 01:01:11,323
You think about the fact that she,
1536
01:01:12,670 --> 01:01:14,414
she would want me to be here,
1537
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:18,053
she would want me to just keep going and,
1538
01:01:18,930 --> 01:01:21,944
and to live the life that she couldn't.
1539
01:01:22,010 --> 01:01:25,854
And you just,
1540
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:27,704
you kind of learn to cope
1541
01:01:27,770 --> 01:01:30,143
and you find your will to live,
1542
01:01:31,260 --> 01:01:32,093
eventually.
1543
01:01:34,598 --> 01:01:35,847
It never doesn't suck.
1544
01:01:38,853 --> 01:01:43,853
- Have you ever felt like nothing
you do makes a difference?
1545
01:01:48,180 --> 01:01:49,013
- Yeah.
1546
01:01:52,700 --> 01:01:54,373
When I very first lost my mom,
1547
01:01:57,059 --> 01:01:57,892
I just,
1548
01:01:58,790 --> 01:01:59,783
I felt so, like,
1549
01:02:02,143 --> 01:02:03,234
like, a lack of control,
1550
01:02:03,300 --> 01:02:04,824
like I had no control over anything.
1551
01:02:04,890 --> 01:02:05,657
I couldn't help her,
1552
01:02:05,723 --> 01:02:06,490
I couldn't save her,
1553
01:02:06,556 --> 01:02:07,760
I couldn't bring her back.
1554
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:14,800
I just felt like, what the hell, (sniffs)
1555
01:02:15,165 --> 01:02:16,244
what-
1556
01:02:16,310 --> 01:02:18,564
- Like, what am I even doing?
1557
01:02:18,630 --> 01:02:20,124
- Yeah.
1558
01:02:20,190 --> 01:02:23,264
What's the point if they
could be gone tomorrow?
1559
01:02:23,330 --> 01:02:24,744
Like, what?
1560
01:02:24,810 --> 01:02:27,393
Why do we try so hard if
it could be over so quick.
1561
01:02:28,970 --> 01:02:29,737
(Raven sniffles)
1562
01:02:29,803 --> 01:02:31,130
Well, I'll tell you one thing.
1563
01:02:32,340 --> 01:02:36,220
Even though I felt worthless
and hopeless for so long,
1564
01:02:38,500 --> 01:02:41,714
finally, I saw a glimmer of hope,
1565
01:02:41,780 --> 01:02:42,923
I saw something good.
1566
01:02:44,669 --> 01:02:46,519
But it took a long time to get there.
1567
01:02:49,530 --> 01:02:52,453
- I haven't seen a glimmer in a long time.
1568
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,300
- Tell me more about your brother.
1569
01:03:03,330 --> 01:03:04,673
- We aren't close.
1570
01:03:05,570 --> 01:03:07,334
He's younger than me,
1571
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:08,963
lives in California,
1572
01:03:10,110 --> 01:03:11,034
works in finance.
1573
01:03:11,100 --> 01:03:12,653
We're really different.
1574
01:03:16,810 --> 01:03:17,643
I love him.
1575
01:03:22,010 --> 01:03:23,553
I wish we were close.
1576
01:03:26,963 --> 01:03:31,454
Sometimes I feel like
I'm a bad sister. (sobs)
1577
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:33,034
- The fact that you care means a lot.
1578
01:03:33,100 --> 01:03:36,554
The fact that you wanna
be better, it means a lot.
1579
01:03:36,620 --> 01:03:38,237
It's not the end of the world.
1580
01:03:38,303 --> 01:03:40,277
You could always,
1581
01:03:40,343 --> 01:03:42,743
you can always try and
you can always reach out.
1582
01:03:44,493 --> 01:03:48,493
(gentle guitar music continues)
1583
01:03:59,450 --> 01:04:00,543
- I'm scared.
1584
01:04:04,910 --> 01:04:07,199
- Rejection is terrifying.
1585
01:04:07,265 --> 01:04:11,174
- I've just faced so much already.
1586
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:16,033
Like, you know,
1587
01:04:19,510 --> 01:04:22,514
before my mom died,
1588
01:04:22,580 --> 01:04:26,203
I used to think that
everything was gonna be okay,
1589
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:29,343
no matter what, yeah.
1590
01:04:30,570 --> 01:04:32,963
And then it wasn't. (sobs)
1591
01:04:34,590 --> 01:04:35,563
It wasn't okay.
1592
01:04:37,911 --> 01:04:38,911
- You gotta,
1593
01:04:40,510 --> 01:04:41,494
you gotta reach out.
1594
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:43,484
He's going through it too, you know?
1595
01:04:43,550 --> 01:04:44,623
It's his mom too.
1596
01:04:47,750 --> 01:04:50,393
If anything, that might
even bring you back closer,
1597
01:04:51,530 --> 01:04:53,621
just sharing that, knowing
you have each other.
1598
01:04:53,687 --> 01:04:55,164
You just gotta get over the hump.
1599
01:04:55,230 --> 01:04:59,974
You have to just bite
the bullet and reach out
1600
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:02,534
because you don't wanna
live the rest of your life
1601
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:03,367
without him.
1602
01:05:03,433 --> 01:05:07,281
You don't wanna regret
never talking to him.
1603
01:05:07,347 --> 01:05:08,913
You don't wanna make a mistake.
1604
01:05:11,371 --> 01:05:16,371
- Do you think he'd wanna see me?
1605
01:05:17,871 --> 01:05:18,974
- Of course.
1606
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:20,904
Probably more than anybody else right now,
1607
01:05:20,970 --> 01:05:21,764
he wants to see you,
1608
01:05:21,830 --> 01:05:24,774
'cause you're the only one
who's also going through it,
1609
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:26,323
only one that can understand.
1610
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:29,700
- Do you have any brothers or sisters?
1611
01:05:30,660 --> 01:05:31,960
- It's just me and my dad.
1612
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:37,394
I've never really been too
close to anybody else, really.
1613
01:05:37,460 --> 01:05:38,794
Anybody who's came into my life
1614
01:05:38,860 --> 01:05:39,654
has ended up leaving.
1615
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:43,305
I had no one, just had him.
1616
01:05:43,371 --> 01:05:45,514
- (sniffs) It's nice
you have him at least.
1617
01:05:45,580 --> 01:05:47,200
- Yeah, I haven't seen him
1618
01:05:48,771 --> 01:05:50,274
in, like, three years,
1619
01:05:50,340 --> 01:05:52,717
and tomorrow I finally
get to see him again.
1620
01:05:53,931 --> 01:05:54,777
- Are you excited?
1621
01:05:54,843 --> 01:05:56,114
- I'm so excited.
1622
01:05:56,180 --> 01:05:58,565
It's too long, it's too long,
1623
01:05:58,631 --> 01:05:59,705
and he's been alone.
1624
01:05:59,771 --> 01:06:01,414
I mean, he's has been dating, thank god.
1625
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:04,480
I don't want him to be
alone forever, but (sobs)
1626
01:06:05,610 --> 01:06:07,473
we're all just too spread apart.
1627
01:06:20,940 --> 01:06:24,003
- I'm glad you picked me up tonight.
1628
01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:27,474
- I'm glad you got in my car.
1629
01:06:27,540 --> 01:06:31,374
I'm glad you came with me
'cause (exhales loudly)
1630
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:35,144
honestly, I was feeling hopeless.
1631
01:06:35,210 --> 01:06:36,553
I was feeling like,
1632
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,534
you know, I can help all these people,
1633
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:43,404
but they can't even help themselves.
1634
01:06:43,470 --> 01:06:44,594
I'm riding around
1635
01:06:44,660 --> 01:06:46,214
and I'm picking up these people
1636
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:50,344
and all of their energy
is just rubbing off on me.
1637
01:06:50,410 --> 01:06:51,694
And I'm trying to be positive,
1638
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,844
I'm trying to be jolly.
1639
01:06:53,910 --> 01:06:56,584
You know, it's a holiday for god's sake.
1640
01:06:56,650 --> 01:07:00,123
And I feel spent.
1641
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,474
I feel like I can't help them
1642
01:07:04,540 --> 01:07:06,854
because they're just so lost in it.
1643
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:10,344
They're just drowning in their own stuff.
1644
01:07:10,410 --> 01:07:12,564
And I know that I'm not
supposed to fix everybody,
1645
01:07:12,630 --> 01:07:16,360
but I thought just something
nice for somebody else
1646
01:07:18,010 --> 01:07:21,053
would make the season brighter.
1647
01:07:25,270 --> 01:07:27,660
But (sobs) I just feel like...
1648
01:07:31,502 --> 01:07:33,727
- You did something nice for me.
1649
01:07:36,860 --> 01:07:37,884
Thank you.
1650
01:07:37,950 --> 01:07:38,783
- Thank you.
1651
01:07:41,450 --> 01:07:42,750
It's nice not to be alone.
1652
01:07:44,470 --> 01:07:47,107
- Yeah, it is. (sniffs)
1653
01:07:50,209 --> 01:07:53,292
(car engine humming)
1654
01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:01,863
Have you ever called a hotline?
1655
01:08:03,130 --> 01:08:03,980
- [Georgia] Yeah.
1656
01:08:04,829 --> 01:08:06,654
Like, when my mom passed,
1657
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:08,193
it was just me and dad.
1658
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,144
There's just only so much talking
1659
01:08:13,210 --> 01:08:16,344
between two sad people
that you can handle.
1660
01:08:16,410 --> 01:08:17,544
- Yeah.
1661
01:08:17,610 --> 01:08:19,214
- [Georgia] Before it
starts getting cyclical,
1662
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:24,280
and then everybody's crying
and it's just, (sighs)
1663
01:08:25,710 --> 01:08:26,893
it feels hopeless.
1664
01:08:29,087 --> 01:08:30,314
- [Raven] Of course,
1665
01:08:30,380 --> 01:08:31,724
no substitute for your mom
1666
01:08:31,790 --> 01:08:32,623
- [Georgia] No.
1667
01:08:36,878 --> 01:08:39,614
- [Raven] Do you know the number?
1668
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:40,764
- 988.
1669
01:08:40,830 --> 01:08:41,597
- [Raven] That's it?
1670
01:08:41,663 --> 01:08:42,430
- That's it.
1671
01:08:42,496 --> 01:08:44,704
They made it shorter so
it's easier for people.
1672
01:08:44,770 --> 01:08:47,243
But that's it now.
1673
01:08:48,266 --> 01:08:51,323
- 988, I can remember that.
1674
01:08:53,890 --> 01:08:56,613
- Hey, thanks for riding with me today.
1675
01:08:59,112 --> 01:09:02,362
(bright festive music)
1676
01:10:00,581 --> 01:10:01,548
(stamp thuds)
1677
01:10:01,614 --> 01:10:02,957
(toy squeaks)
1678
01:10:03,023 --> 01:10:03,908
(dog barks)
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