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Heartbeating is strong...

and regular, *** is good

and he seems to be
chanting "hail Satan."

What? I'm kidding. Come on now.

When you've been
delivering babies as long

as we have, sometimes you
have to make your own fun.

I cannot believe the
baby's almost here.

Went by so fast.
Did it now?

So much for the stereotype
of gay men being more in tune

with women's feelings, huh?

Well, do you have any questions
for me?

Oh, I think I'm good.

Have any questions, Bry?

Um, yes, actually.
I'm using that app that makes

a picture of yourself look 30
years older, and I look like

Hillary Clinton. Should I be concerned.
Should you?

Bryan, do you have any

questions about our baby
for Dr. Venkatashar?

No. I'm sure you've
got it covered.

He doesn't think he needs to be
prepared for emergencies

because I'm a doctor.

David. Heimlich.

Okay, here we go, sir.

Big up, big up.

My medical experience shouldn't
stop you from paying attention

in our doctor's office

when we're talking
about our baby.

Okay, it's, you know,
a partnership, Bry.

Yes, I know.

I handle food, fashion, art,

architecture and conversations
people enjoy.

You handle boring medical stuff
and facts about batteries.

First of all,
batteries are fascinating.

And second of all, you should
know as much as any dad knows

about the birthing process.

You know what?

From now on, I am not a doctor.

From now on, I'm just a dad.

So, why don't you put that
toy away and be one, too?

In your face.

What?

I'm not a parent to this child.

I can be as immature as I want.

So, Dr. Sawyer, what kind

of fetal monitoring do you want
during the delivery?

Internal, external?

I have no idea, I'm just a dad.

Why don't you ask Bryan?

I'm good with whatever kind

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Hi, honey, how was
your basketball match?

My match was fine.

Thank you for
pretending to care.

What's all this?

You were right, David.

There's nothing more important

than our child's healthy journey
into this world,

and it was wrong of me
to put that all on you.

Oh, thanks, Bry.

That makes me feel good.

Especially now that
I've done some research

and I see how many
blind spots you have

due to your Western
medical training.

Huh. Well, that was
a short-lived feeling.

There are so many other

viable birthing options, David.

There's the natural birth,
there's a water birth,

there's acupuncture instead of
epidural anesthesia.

It's very exciting.

Look, Bry,

I'm all for railing

against the traditional
medical establishment.

I mean, I never got
those veneers

that Dr. McKay recommended,
did I?

No.

But there's a reason

why some things
are established.

It's because they work.

They safeguard against the
many dangers of childbirth.

David, you want me
to be more involved,

and then when I become
informed and passionate,

you dismiss me?

You're right.

All right.

Let's take a look at

your alternative
birthing methods.

Good, because I signed us all up

for a birth class
at the natural birthing center.

I've never been
so excited to spend

three hours with a room
full of strangers

wearing Tom's throwaway shoes.

I-I don't think you're supposed
to throw them away.

Wow.

It's a beautiful woman
with a beer gut to be proud of.

Oh, hi, Brice.
Hi.

No, I'm actually pregnant.

Really?

Wow, you have a firm grip

and smell like peaches.

Uh, is my Nana here?

Jane?

She's your gra... she told
me she was your mother.

Well, probably because
a lot of men

don't associate
"grandma" with "sexy."

Well, I'm sure
there's a whole legion

of Susan Lucci fans
that would disagree with you.

Your grandmother is
out showing a house,

but she'll be back soon.

Great. I don't want
her to hear this.

I want to rent a retail space.

I design and sell clothes
at the farmer's market,

and I've been selling
a lot of them, actually.

I use Bryan and David's
guesthouse

as a base of operations
but I-it's too small.

I need to expand.

Well, that's very ambitious
for someone

who's already sort of expanded.

Well, that's why I don't
want Nana to know.

She'll try to scare me
out of it

and I'm already so scared.

Mm.
But there's

this little voice inside me

that keeps telling me...

This is the time.
Hmm.

And it's not the baby.

At least, I don't think it is.

If it is, he has
a really deep voice.

This is the time.

You know, you remind me
of my daughter.

And I'm not lying,

she really is my daughter.

You know, I think
your grandmother

basically catfished me.

Let's see what

we can find you here, all right?
Here we go.

Hmm, Nana's right.

You do have fast fingers.

Yeah, texting.

She said you were fast
at texting.

Yes, we'd love to do
one of your songs on sing!

You've got big fans
around here.

Oh, Nikki, you will just
not stop pooping.

I'm sorry, Ms. Minaj.

I wasn't talking to you.

Hello?

Hey, Rocky, I'm here.

So cool we have the
place to ourselves.

What are we doing today?

Girl, I'm just here
to make sure you don't

set yourself on fire while your
mom is at that birth class.

Hey, what's wrong
with Nikki's hair?

Oh, no, she's got
that stubborn hair.

I think her dad was a broom.

Do you need some help?
I could watch her.

I'm cpr certified,
well-versed with Dr. Seuss

and I take care
of a pack of feral cats

that live under my school.
I'm more than qualified.

No, thanks, honey,

I think I've got it
all under control.

Let me... oh, damn it!

Oh, God, I actually
could use some help.

I've got a meeting with that

Chris brown to discuss
rehabilitating his image

by playing a transgendered
soup kitchen worker.

God.

All right, watch your step.

Wow, this is gonna
be great, guys!

I am so excited to try all
the different birthing methods.

And I want to try them all,
I've only ever done missionary.

Uh, so, guys,

if anyone asks,
I am not a doctor.

Just a regular dad
here to open my mind

to the exciting possibilities

of alternative
birthing methods.

For which I thank you, and I
grant you your number one choice

for our next romantic
getaway destination.

Oh, cape canaveral.

Hey, folks, come and join us.

It's started.

All right. Okay.

Hi, I'm Frank.

And this is my soul mate, Amy.

Hi.

Oh. I'm Bryan, uh,
this is our surrogate, Goldie,

and, uh, this is David.

I would call him my soul mate,
if he could learn

how to rinse a plate before
he put it in the dishwasher.

You look like you're
about to pop.

What are you,
about, uh, 38 weeks?

Yes! Do you practice
midwifery?

Uh, no, no.

Just a... just
a regular man.

Fireman, actually.

Well, technically,
smoke jumper.

You know, forest fires,

mountains...

Yeah, it's hard work.

So, you guys must be
just so excited.

We are.

We're doing a hypno-birth.

Yeah. We're socialized
to be afraid of labor,

but our bodies aren't.

Yes, that's exactly what I want

for our child.

Our son's journey
into this world

to be as natural
and loving as possible.

Without all that intrusive

medical intervention.
Right, David?

Yeah. I mean, who needs

antibiotics and a surgical team

when you have sandalwood
oil and fresh mint?

Oh, I love fresh mint

in my iced tea.

I love sandals, too.

My thoughts are
really scattered.

Hey, Rocky.

Hey. So, how badly
did my baby wear you out?

Not at all.

Nikki's eaten,

played, peed,

slept, cooed.
Hmm.

Did you miss your mommy?

You miss your mama? Hey.

Oh, my God, what happened to
my baby's hair? I did it.

Now, how does
a ten-year-old white girl,

who's whiter
than Dakota fanning,

know how to do black hair?

From watching Gavin.

He's a YouTube lifestyle guru

with tips for tweens.

So easy,
even white people can learn!

Next up, a history
of black hair:

From finger waves
to high-top fades.

Plus, how to use
a hot comb and relaxer.

Queen Latifah, I'm putting you
on front street.

So, do you need anything else?

That will be all.

By being on all fours,

you allow the pelvis
to expand 30% more,

making for a more natural

and less painful delivery.

Looks exactly how I used to show

my champion goat
at the state fair.

Uh, I-I'm sorry, Debra.

Yes, uh, hi.

This is all great in theory,

but in the case
of a real emergency

now, wouldn't this
position actually make it

more difficult for a
physician to gain access?

That's exactly
what Western medicine

wants you to believe,
when, in fact,

giving birth on your back...
Wow.

You seem to know a lot about
birthing babies for a smoke jumper.

Oh, yeah.

A lot of animals in the woods.

You ever seen an elk whelp?

I have.

This is just one example

of how to create

a peaceful environment
for a home birth.

This is footage from one that

I
facilitated on the solstice.

Notice how engorged

her opening is.

And there's her husband,

and her two small children

nude and unashamed

alongside her.

Ah, there!

Success.

What you are looking at is

full dilation.

Here comes

The baby...

A lot more meconium and blood

than you had imagined, huh?

Okay.

There you go.

Dr. Sawyer?

Dr. Sawyer's man-wife.

I heard you passed out
at your birth class.

Uh, yeah, I'm very embarrassed.

I mean, you know,
who faints anymore

besides anorexics
and maids on Telenovelas?

Oh,

witnessing childbirth
is not for everyone,

Mrs. doctor Sawyer.

Bryan.

A father person

who faints in the delivery room

can distract the physician

both from the patient
and the child.

Like this.

Oh, my God,
I don't want to be that guy.

I don't want to put our baby at risk.
You're just

intimidated by vagina.

And there is that.

I really am sorry, madam.

You sure you're gonna be okay
while I'm at the store?

As long as that's a sack
of Vicodin you're carrying, yes.

Well, maybe I'll get you
a little codeine.

I am sorry

that you can't be
in the delivery room.

I know how important
it was for you.

Hey. Hi. Hey.

Uh, Joel, Frank,
from the birthing class.

Yeah, yeah, I remember.

We came by to see how
Bryan was feeling. Oh.

That's so sweet.

Uh, he's in the den.
Come on in.

Okay.

Yeah.

Hi.

Hi, Bryan.

Uh... how you feeling?

You know, bossy and needy,
but that's sort of

an ongoing thing
unrelated to the accident.

Uh, come in, come in, please.

Yeah.

It's, um, very nice of you
to check in on me.

I'm sorry to say, I will not be
able to come back to the class.

Hmm.

Lucky bastard.

I thought you guys
were excited to have

a front row seat to see your kid
plop into the world.

Not... at... all.

We're freaked out.

We don't want to see
all that. We just...

Tell our wives what
they want to hear.

Look, if you feel
this strongly about it,

you owe it to your wives
just to be honest.

Partnership is about
telling the truth,

even when it's not easy.

Hey, Rocky. Let me know
when you're ready for me

to take Nikki, 'cause I have
a big day planned for us.

I thought we'd start off

with a puppet show inspired
by early kabuki theater.

No, thanks. Besides, Nikki
is offended by whiteface.

I got it all
under control today.

Are you sure you don't
need a babysitter?

'Cause let's face it.

I'm a better mom than you.

What did you just say to me?

You're a terrible mom.

You're impatient,
you can't cook,

your singing voice
is anything but soothing

and you sext and drive.

You really think
those qualities

are conducive
to successful child rearing?

Listen to the girl,

Rocky.
Mama?

You don't have time
to raise no child.

You're too busy climbing
that stupid corporate ladder.

I can't climb no ladder,

'cause I ain't got but one foot.

But if you're always workin',

how you gonna find a husband
to help raise that baby?

Face it, Rocky.

No matter how much you pretend

to be Nikki's mom,
you are going to fail,

because you're not good enough.

What do you want from me?
I'm doing the best that I can.

I just wanted
to know if you're sure

you don't need a babysitter.

I'm sure. Now please leave.

I have work to do and a baby
to take care of.

I don't need your help.

Well, I think it's
genius.

Now here's what we
gonna do.

We're gonna negotiate
the year's lease

and then boom... you watch
all your dreams come true.

A year?

Th-that's a big,
scary commitment.

You make it sound so easy.
Oh,

it's not easy.
Starting a new business,

putting it all on the line...
it's terrifying.

Building a business is like...

Well, like having a baby.
I mean, it's painful and messy

and everybody's staring
at your goods.

That's why most people
try to avoid it.

But... they are missing out
because you're about

to create a whole new,
big, beautiful life.

Now, isn't that worth
the price of fear?

Oh, hi, Bryan.

Hey. Hi.

Uh, I'm going
to the fabric store.

You want to come?

Oh, I don't really like
to see fabric

before it's clothes.

It's like seeing chocolate chips
before they're cookies.

Have fun.
I will. Thank you.

You're welcome. It's gonna be great.

Hey, hot shot.

How's it feel to have impending

fatherhood put its
boot on your neck?

Uh, well, I fainted

during a video
of a birthing class,

so if that's any indication. Well,
if it makes you feel better

I fainted during an episode
of sons of anarchy.

Our doctor says that I shouldn't
be in the delivery room

when we have the baby.

Says I can't handle it.

Ah. You know, the same thing
happened to me

when my daughter was born.

So I didn't go in.

And I've been trying to make up
for it ever since.

Well, that's sweet
that you make

more of an effort
with your daughter.

No, it's not really about Amber.

I'm trying to...
Make it up to myself.

I wasn't there to
hear her first cry

or see her eyes blink open.

Oh, I'd gladly trade the fear
of that moment of discomfort

if I could do it all over again.

I'd instagram the hell out
of those moments.

Listen, my only regrets
are the fears I didn't face.

That little boy can't wait
to meet you, Bryan.

You be there to shake his hand.

Husbands, come with me.
Uh, but, dude,

what's up? You had
the free pass out of here.

Yeah, we're about to tell
our wives we won't be

in the delivery room,
just like you.

No, guys, I was wrong.
We have to be there.

I always believed that fear
belonged to other people,

weaker people,
and that it didn't touch me.

But when it does touch you,

you realize
it's been there all along.

Wow. That's deep.

Yeah, and it was deep
when Jodie foster said it

in the brave one I watched it
last night on cable, too.

I'm telling my wife right now.

But I... Amy, I need
to tell you something.

My water just broke.
What?

In the bathroom. My water broke.

When was your last contraction?

I've been having them all day.

I thought it was false labor.

I'm-I'm not due for two weeks.

Oh, I'm having one now.

Ow! Ow! All right, we need
to get you to the hospital.

No hospital. We can bring
this new life into the world

right here. I'll fill
the birthing tub.

Somebody find my flute.

Shut the Up
and get me to a hospital!

Oh. Right, left, right, left.

All right,
take deep breaths, Amy.

You're gonna be fine.
Bryan,

how we doing?
Well, traffic is a mess.

There's a legless man being pulled
in a wagon by a dog. Oh, that is

a strong puggle. Geez!
Oh, my God!

Oh, my God! Oh, my God!
Oh, my God!

All right, Amy, listen
to me. Listen to me.

I'm gonna need to examine you.
Is that all right? Anything!

I don't care!
Okay. Flip around, flip around.

Lean on Goldie.
Here we go.

Frank, can you hand me
the hand sanitizer, please?

Keep breathing, Amy.
Frank. Hand sanitizer.

Hand. Sanitizer.
Thank you.

Okay.
Wait, isn't he a smoke jumper?

Oh, okay. We're gonna be
at the hospital in ten minutes.

Oh, ten minutes. That's great!
Hey, that's nothing.

- That's good, right?
- Ten minutes is great!

Bryan, pull over. We're not
gonna make it to the hospital.

What? What? What?

All right, easy. Put
all your weight on me.

Okay, perfect. Just take a breath.
Bryan, can you get those seats down?

- I
- thought that's why you got this car, to put

canoes and tents
and things in it.

I just said that because
it's politically incorrect

to drive a car this big!

What are you guys doing here?

A hell of a route you took...
sunset on a Friday?

I can't do this.
I can't do this.

Okay, Amy, I know this
wasn't your birth plan,

but it's happening.
Ah! I want to push!

Well, that's exactly what you should do.
On your next contraction,

I want you to push,

okay?
Frank, this is nothing.

Okay.

Amy.

All right, great. Let's do
that one more time, okay?

Your next contraction,
a nice big push.

All right, stop pushing.

Frank, I need your help.

I can't do this.
I'm not ready for this.

I need some help here, please!
Okay, okay. I'm-I'm right here.

I'm right here. I'm right here,
David. I'm right here.

Okay, uh...

Amy, I want you to grab
onto your knees

okay? Just grab onto those
knees. You're doing great.

Listen to me, Bryan.
The baby's anterior shoulder

is obstructed behind the pelvis.

I need to shift it,
okay? I need you

to take your hands
and put them like this

and put direct pressure
right on the pelvis. Okay.

Right here. Right here. Perfect, perfect.
Okay. Okay.

All right, here we go, Amy.
Amy,

I know this is very scary
and there's a lot going on,

but you have to trust that David
knows what he's doing, okay?

You're
doing great, Amy.

Oh, my God. That's
a real vagina.

Oh, my God.

That's a baby coming
out of the vagina.

Um, you, uh... plaid
shirt, plaid shirt.

I'm sorry I can't think
of your name right now,

but this is amazing.
Uh, you have to see this.

I-I know you're afraid,

but whatever it is,
it's not worth missing this.

Ow! Frank! I need you!

Get over here.

Frank,

I want you to grab
your wife's hand.

All right, you're
doing great, Amy. Keep breathing.

After your next contraction,
take one more big push.

All right, Frank, Frank.
Tell me about your baby.

Do you know what you're having?
No,

we wanted it to be a surprise.

He wants a girl, but I-I don't
care as long as she doesn't

look like my sister.

All right.

Okay!
There you go.

Happy Birthday.

Here you go, papa.

You have a beautiful daughter.

Smoke jumper!

Smoke jumper! Smoke jumper!
Smoke jumper!

Oh, hey, Rocky.
Don't talk. Just listen.

So, you don't want lemonade?

I'll take a lemonade.

Shania, I've come to realize...

That lemonade needs sugar.

Yuck.

Anyway, I'm sorry I was rude

when you offered
to babysit Nikki.

I know you see me
as a strong, confident,

Michelle Obama-like
beacon of hope...

I don't see you that way.

But the truth is I was scared.

When I saw how naturally taking
care of Nikki came to you...

...you just made it
look so easy.

Half the time she just grabbed
at my glasses

and the other half I made
fart noises with my mouth.

Sure, it was fun for an hour,

but at the end of the day,
she needs you.

You're her mom.

Hey.

I love you.

You gonna sweeten up
that lemonade or what?

Hey, sweetie.

Mwah! Look at you.
Look how pretty you are.

I'm your mama. Yes. Yes, I am.

When I get scared, my
first instinct is to run away.

Or shut my eyes real tight.

Or both at the same time.

Thank you so much. That's
very nice. Can I get you...

But if you run around
with your eyes closed,

not only do you bump
into walls a lot,

you miss out on seeing
some pretty amazing stuff.

Peekaboo! Peekaboo!
So what I'm learning

is to face my fears head on.

I don't run anymore,
and I don't cover my eyes.

I'm embracing my fears
because...

They're the seeds
of a new life.

They bring new joys
and new dreams.

When I look my fears straight
in the eye, I see my future.

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