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I could say the only thing
I really ever fantasized about
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was being like GI Joe.
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- Tom of Finland type
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- macho has always
been my fantasy.
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You know we grew up riding
motorcycles in the desert.
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My dad would always wear
Levis and these lace up tall
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motorcycle boots and a white
t-shirt to ride his motorcycle
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in and like that's become
my fantasy sort of
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outfit of masculinity.
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This very masculine look
that I guess I always
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fantasized about achieving.
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My mom would never
buy me Levis,
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"No, no boys would
wear those things."
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And I'm thinking,
yah aren't I a boy?
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I used to get very
nervous around my father.
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My dad would only know how to
react through anger cause I
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think that's what he
was taught from his dad.
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And I don't blame what my
parents did to me cause they
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didn't know how to deal with it.
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They didn't understand why
I was so out of control.
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They didn't understand why
I was so angry.
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You know maybe they are going
to tell you something different,
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I don't know.
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This is what I remember;
this is my feelings of
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those particular times.
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- You guys are so hot.
- I know.
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From the states?
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Yes, actually I moved out
of the United States to
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Mexico now, I don't live
in the US anymore.
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Yah I like it here, there's much
more freedom here to do things.
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I work in the sex industry so
people are much more open about
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sexuality here and sex.
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Not in the US.
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No they are
very closed-minded.
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Yah I don't know it's always
been like that in the US
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- they are very scared
of naked people.
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[laughter].
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- Why?
- I don't know, it's weird.
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They are basically
just going to eat me up here.
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I have no doubt in my mind
that they are just ready for
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something like Buck Angel.
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I mean they are perverts in
Europe - and they are proud
of it.
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I am lost.
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Today I am at the Venus show -
and I just signed a contract
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with Shots video, which is
probably one of the largest
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distribution companies in all of
Europe to distribute my videos.
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So I am here kind of making
an appearance and a
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presence to meet me, cause
they don't necessarily
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understand who and what I am.
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Here you go.
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Thank you very much.
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I think my favorite
thing is that it's a
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nude photo because I think
before they were talking
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about maybe just putting a photo
of me I had some leather pants
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on and my cigar, but I think
that the fact that they actually
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put a full nude photo of me
is awesome because
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it's just in your face.
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I guess they kinda
had to make me naked,
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or you wouldn't really get
it - cause with pants on I just
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look like a dude.
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I am trying to change that
it has nothing to do with my
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genitals - just because I have a
pussy doesn't make me not a man.
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Buck Angel!
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What's going on
with Buck Angel?
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When I gave them
the whole low down,
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they were like oh - oh I got it.
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And they are just
cool about it?
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When I first
heard Buck Angel,
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I saw him and I saw Buck
Angel, man with a pussy
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- and I thought, oh shit.
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This is a guy who
has gone there,
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there he is - and there's
the word pussy and it's in
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really big letters - and
man does he have balls
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for doing that.
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I felt like that it was
important for me to show the
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world that it's okay not to
fit in the box and it was very
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important for me to represent
myself in a positive healthy,
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sexual way.
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Hey I'm Buck - Buck Angel.
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Enus, Enus what?
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Delwood.
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Enus Delwood? That's
a fucked up name.
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Basically you can
see anything in porn right?
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And there was nobody like me
in the whole adult business.
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I know, I know you did.
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You were like...
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You have to look.
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Oh my god. Look at that!
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Are you kidding me? Is
that photo shopped?
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I thought he had
a small penis
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- but that's really a vagina.
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A lot of people get their
basic sex education from porn
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- not that they
necessarily should,
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and it's because we don't
have decent or really any sex
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education in most of
the United States.
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Most porn is
not designed to be sex ed.
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It's designed to be a fantasy.
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Learning about sex from most
porn is like learning about the
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laws of physics from
a Michael Bay movie.
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However porn that is
intended to be sex educational,
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I think can be
incredibly powerful.
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You see that in
work that Buck does,
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you see it in work that
Tristan Taormino does.
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My opinion is that when
you do things like he with a
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question mark, and she with a
question mark - it's just like
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what the fuck, you know
own it - you are a woman,
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you just happen to have a cock.
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People just can't
seem to get around that.
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But I am exploiting it, and
that's my prerogative cause it's
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mine and I own it.
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But I'm not an it.
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Want a picture?
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Can I have a
picture with you two please,
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Thank you!
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I get this email
saying I just started a website,
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I want to exchange banners so I
went to the website and I was
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like - now me being a
transsexual I get people all
the time
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saying that's odd---and
I said to myself - now
that's pretty odd.
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I didn't know how to like - you
know what I am saying?
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I was like does he identify
himself as a transsexual.
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I was doing all the
things that make me mad.
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Like people would say he
when they spoke about me
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- I kept saying she.
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I didn't know I had
never been around it.
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I'm just a little nervous
but I'm excited to be here.
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I've been wanting to get
you in one of my videos for a
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long time because I
think you are so beautiful.
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It's incredible.
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We did a video together.
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He was really cool.
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He knew that this was the first
time I ever had sex with how can
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I say this, but not a female,
first time I ever had
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sex with a vagina.
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That's the best way to put it.
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So what I think is really
amazing is when Buck does a
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scene with a trans-woman who
hasn't had bottom surgery.
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When you really think about it
- any way you slice it you
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have a man having sex with
a woman, you have a penis
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going into a vagina.
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That penis is on the woman
and the vagina is on a man,
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and it's a total mind
fuck cause it's not how
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it's supposed to be.
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So I don't really know if we
step back if we really consider
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heterosexual - but I don't care
cause it's awesome regardless.
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When I see him in
a film with these tightened
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contract stars -
that's gay porn.
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At the moment when these
categories of - lesbian gay
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bisexual straight - their
meaning is really in flux.
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He's really got that
zeitgeist - he's like clutching
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that moment and taking it
to this whole other place.
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[Introduces Buck Angel]
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You are kidding me right, this
is such a confusing night for me
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tonight, Buck.
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Because that's true,
you look like a man,
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and you transformed yourself
to a man - but not entirely,
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you are still half woman right?
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Well no - I mean,
that's your opinion.
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For me I'm totally male.
Just because I don't
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have a cock, doesn't
mean I'm not a man.
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Yes that's the hardest part
of me explaining that to the
world.
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As Borat would say
you still have a "virgine"?
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Yes and it's working.
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Your vagina is
still working?
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It works 100 percent.
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I use it - that's
how I do my porn.
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That's like sort
of weird universe.
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You and everybody
else...I'm sure everybody in the
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world is like.
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I'm sure some would
call you a shemale then?
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I chose not to
have bottom surgery,
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because I personally don't
feel that that surgery
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is good enough for me.
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I don't want to say
that it's a bad surgery.
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My own choice is that I don't
think it's a good surgery and I
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don't understand why somebody
would want to have a penis that
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bad - a penis that doesn't
operate like a genetic man's
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penis opeerates. The amount
of money you spend on it,
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the amount of recovery time...
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He'd rather buy a new truck.
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For 50,000 dollars I
can think of a lot
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of things I'd rather buy.
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And he also takes testosterone
injections that have
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masculinized him and he works
out at the gym really hard to
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build those hunky hot muscles.
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Purposely made it not
nude so you can hang it.
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Family friendly
Family friendly.
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I think I've been lucky to get
to this point - not just in this
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transition but in my life.
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Being so free with myself,
and not giving a shit...
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I forget...
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It's a place a lot of
trans people try to get to,
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I think.
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Ya not even just
trans - just people in general.
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We are very, very excited
and privileged to welcome
Mr. Buck Angel.
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When puberty hit, and I hit
puberty at a very late stage.
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I think most girls hit
puberty at like 13-14.
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But I went at like 16.
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Which I think is pretty late for
a girl to go through puberty.
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I remember the first thing that
happened when I got my period
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and I was playing football
on the street with a bunch of
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guys - at 16, as a girl, is a
little weird - I know that.
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And I understand that.
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Most 16 year old girls are
hanging out with other girls -
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and whatever they do,
I don't even know what
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16 year old girls do -
cause I wasn't doing it.
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I specifically remember catching
the ball and then feeling
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wetness between my legs, and I
am like what - I thought I peed
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myself, I had no
clue what was going on.
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And I go home - I was like I
gotta go and I go home to go to
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the bathroom---and there's
blood in my underwear.
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And I'm like holy
shit - did you know,
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I didn't even
know what that was?
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My parents didn't even
bring up the whole talk of
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menstruation - or the whole
talk of what you're going to go
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through, because I think
they really raised me as a boy.
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Growing up, when we would
play army - we would be the
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nurses and the guys would be
the army guys and my brother,
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my sister though, cause it's
weird for me to even say my
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brother - because
thinking back then,
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that is my sister.
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My sister would be one
of the army soldiers.
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That's just how it was.
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Because he was a tomboy.
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He was the one that was
always with Bill - getting the
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bikes ready, loading them up,
doing all the things that a boy
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would do with the father.
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He was never with the
woman, getting stuff
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- he was always
with the guys.
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We were going to
go to church one time,
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I recall, and she at that point,
wanted to wear a cowboy outfit,
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this is a girl
wearing a cowboy outfit,
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including boots and
I wouldn't allow it.
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The line was drawn, I wasn't
going to take her unless she
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dressed like a girl - and she
wasn't going to go unless she
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dressed like a boy.
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Very, very stubborn.
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Those situations
were like,
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okay something's wrong
with this picture
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and it became a
big thing.
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This big thing in our family - I
was only being kind of pushed
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back and forth,
pushed back and forth,
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and I think that's
honestly why my dad ,
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or he feels like h fucked me up
in that way - cause he would
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want me to be a boy, but
then he realized oh gosh,
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she's really a girl, we
have to put the dress on her.
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One time I remember he
was over by the water fountain
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and two boys road up and
just started giving me,
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just hassling me
and picking on me.
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My brother comes out of nowhere,
I didn't even know he was around
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and just beats the crap out of
the two boys - and doesn't just
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beat the crap out of them, but
takes their notebooks and pulls
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all their schoolwork out - and
because we were at the water
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fountain and it was all muddy
and watery - shoves all their
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paper in there... And you
ever pick on my sister again,
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blah, blah blah - the boys are
crying and I'm like and I am
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just standing back in
awe of who is this?
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And this is my sister kicking
these two boys ass - and they
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deserved it, I mean
they absolutely did,
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but I was like that's
just somebody you
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don't wan to mess with.
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Like playing soccer,
it was like get out of my way,
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I am coming.
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She kick that ball
right into you or wherever.
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So there was a lot of
anger issues in her,
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I'm sure.
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Back then, you don't know,
what doctor do I call
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- where do I take him,
what I'd find out.
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You don't.
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I think with my sisters,
we always wanted to achieve this
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approval with our dad - cause
that's sort of the way he was,
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he was sort of like god
of the family.
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You know we didn't say I love
you - it was sort of like hey
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meat head or hey asshole - that
was the way we said I love you
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- it was a smack on the
head or a bleh,
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that was a hug!
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And then when we
got in trouble,
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he did hit us -
physically hit us,
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which I have
mixed feelings about.
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He did cross the boundaries of
sort of discipline and beating.
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I was never academic,
like I just couldn't get school.
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I was flunking out.
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D's and F's - in every class,
except physical education.
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I was really a gifted runner -
and that was my passion and
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that was my thing, I
was having people
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from all kinds of
schools scouting me
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- and as a girl
that's a big deal.
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I got invited to this amazing
invitational event called the
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Sunkist invitational, which
is like a really high ranking,
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indoor running event.
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I kept telling him, get
your grades up cause you know if
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you don't you aren't gonna
be able to go to Sunkist.
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It's impossible for me
to make my grades up
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- it's just not
going to happen.
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Then you are not
going to run the event.
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And I just remember being
devastated and my coach
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coming over, and begging
my dad, please,
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please, we've worked so hard.
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That was a big
thing, telling him,
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he couldn't run the Sunkist
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- cause that was a big race.
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Well that was what you
did - you held things back from
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them if they weren't performing.
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You know you just did as your
parents would do to you
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- you follow their guidance.
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My dad just said no.
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He said no, I don't care and I
remember just like breaking down
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and crying and being like
how is it possible?
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Like it still makes me
get really emotional
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cause I didn't get to run.
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And there was like a bottle of
pills in the bathroom and then I
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just took them all.
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My mom found me in the bedroom
and she freaked out and was like
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ah - and my dad was like just
take him to the hospital
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What did he do?
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And then they had to pump
my stomach - and then that
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night they had to put
me in the psych ward.
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So my mom would come
and visit me - my dad wouldn't.
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♪♪
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I don't have
distribution in the states,
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I have distribution in Europe,
which is doing extremely well,
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that's where I am cashing in,
is Europe.
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I am doing so amazing in Europe.
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I pulled out of the market
in the states cause they are
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horrible for me here - it's not
even worth my time for me to
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replicate my
movies - it's so out of control.
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They just - no one.
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So right now, I am in
New York doing business,
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and I am talking to a
couple companies to take
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me on to distribute.
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How we doing?
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It's really
great to meet you.
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Great to meet you.
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Awesome.
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I really appreciate you seeing
me you know it's like a lot of
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people in this
business want to talk to me.
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They do and they ...
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I'm controversial.
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I'm very controversial.
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I mean through
this computer,
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I receive the whole day long
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"ever think about the
gay man desires?"
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Weird requests.
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But there's never ever - this
request came to this company
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that someone would say
I want a masculine man
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- a butch man with a vagina.
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I never have that.
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Because it's your
company - because I think that
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people don't know
that I exist.
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Now people know
that I exist
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- you see with fetishes or
whatever you wanna call it
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people want to call it - once
people are introduced to
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something different,
they say - oooh,
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I never really thought
of that, maybe I could
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be attracted to that.
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Who would be sexually
attracted to you?
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Gay men, gay men - it's
amazing, I think so too.
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Really, when I
started doing the work,
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I didn't know who my client
base or my customer
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base was going to be.
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It ended up being mostly gay
men - I found something that I
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felt was important to show to
the world cause I like sex and I
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like porn and what I do is
not freaky-it's totally normal.
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Well you wouldn't
convince people that it's
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totally normal, because
people don't want it...
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But I am.
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I think you will
convince a lot of people who are
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in your situation.
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I think you are a
role model for them.
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And you will convince them that
you are not a freak and that
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they are not freaks, but I don't
think you will convince the
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world, cause the world is ,
can hardly except that gays and
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lesbians are not freaks.
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Okay let's go.
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♪♪
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[trainer speaking]
I want every movement that you
do to have purpose.
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I want every movement
that you do in my workout
to have meaning.
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You're not just rolling
through it.
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Three, two, hold it up.
Beautiful. Breathe.
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We met on the Internet,
and I can certainly say that I
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fell in love with him
before we ever met in person.
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And we actually discussed the
possibility of marriage that if
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things were as good in person
as they were at this great
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distance, where he was in
California and I was in
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New Orleans, and if the feeling
remained once we touched and saw
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each other - then we would marry
and spend our lives together.
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After a breakup - I said, I am
never going to find
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anybody that's right for me.
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A friend said, well make a wish
list - write everything down
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that you can think of that
you would want in a partner.
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Five pages later, I had
the impossible dream of
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my dream partner.
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And I asked for some
very unusual things,
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you must understand.
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Somebody who has
their own identity,
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somebody who is into
fitness and health.
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Born female but likes
to be called he and him.
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Somebody who didn't
drink and do drugs.
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Has hygiene habits, um
with teeth brushing
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and nail trimming.
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Who likes using sex toys - the
biggest to the smallest.
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I mean I had a lot of stuff
on that list - and it's him.
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When I tell buck he is
the man of my dreams
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- he knows that I mean it.
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[indistinct conversation,
dogs barking]
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Stop it!
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You wait. You just wait!
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Our life together is
extremely wonderful
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- more than wonderful.
It's like a dream.
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Sit, sit, good girl.
Good girl.
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Elayne and I were living in New
Orleans - I loved living in
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New Orleans. It was a
really great city,
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but a lot of things were
happening with Bush in office.
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And just the whole
political climate was very
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uncomfortable for us.
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We really weren't happy with
the direction of the country,
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and they were starting to crack
down on the adult entertainment
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industry, in a way that
made us really uncomfortable.
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I had this internal imperative,
I can't really describe where
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it may have come from - but
something in my gut was
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screaming, move out of the US
now - we put the condo up for
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sale and we were preparing
to have a yard sale
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and then that was
the day we ended up
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evacuating for
hurricane Katrina,
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we bought our home about two
weeks before the storm came.
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We were planning to move anyway
and of course the New Orleans we
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ended up leaving isn't
the one we had lived in.
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Never have we looked back.
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We can't.
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it was just too
smooth and weird.
433
00:26:35,466 --> 00:26:37,733
It was just supposed to be.
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Just everything about
it has been brilliant.
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And then of course, I got to
write my book which I probably
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wouldn't have been
able to complete.
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I had started it but
getting it done and
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published probably
would not have
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happened if I had
stayed in new Orleans.
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I got the first tongue piercing,
that was known to be a permanent
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tongue piercing worn in the
united states and I got the
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first multiple tongue piercing
and I actually wear five of
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them - and they are
in there right now.
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And I have nipple piercings, and
I have pierced navel and I have
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9 fancy genital piercings
including my actual clitoris,
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which is quite rare.
447
00:27:24,900 --> 00:27:27,533
I have about 40
piercings personally.
448
00:27:27,566 --> 00:27:29,333
But far more impressive is the
fact that I have pierced about
449
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40,000 other people in my
career since the 1980s.
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00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:40,566
Okay is that about
as flat as your nipples get,
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or do they get even flatter.
452
00:27:41,833 --> 00:27:44,733
I feel like they
can get a little flatter,
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00:27:44,766 --> 00:27:47,300
but that's about it.
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00:27:47,333 --> 00:27:50,966
I'll tell you that some
people vary in what it's like to
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get their nipple pierced.
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Some people actually enjoy
it, and there is no extra
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charge if you do.
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And some people not so much, but
they pretty much agree that it's
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tolerable because it's so brief.
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00:28:03,633 --> 00:28:06,700
So, give me a nice little deep
breath in...
461
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And then exhale.
[woman exhales]
462
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You're pierced.
It's done.
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If I were going to
charge anybody extra,
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it might be you.
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00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:26,166
Alright your jewelry is in -
and that's all there is to it.
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♪♪
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We are in Vegas for
the AEE which is the
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Adult Entertainment Expo - and
we are here to hopefully to get
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some buyers who want to want
to buy my videos for their
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stores and see my fans.
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People think it's
just all fun and games,
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00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,033
like we get to
fuck all the time,
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00:29:02,066 --> 00:29:03,866
and we get to go to these cool
conventions and be around porn
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stars, and we
work our asses off.
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It's non stop
smiley, smiley - hi, hi,
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buy my videos, what
do you need from me?
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Constantly, go, go, go, go.
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Would be nice - would be
nice if I made some sales.
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00:29:22,933 --> 00:29:25,033
That's for sure.
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00:29:26,233 --> 00:29:28,700
Honey can you
grab the other side?
481
00:29:31,566 --> 00:29:33,400
Can you go back and see?
482
00:29:33,433 --> 00:29:35,700
A big part of what
I've done is just put my support
483
00:29:35,733 --> 00:29:40,600
behind it, both emotionally and
as a partner and financially in
every way to
484
00:29:40,633 --> 00:29:42,766
say this is a
fantastic thing to be doing.
485
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,666
And it really is important work
I think in many ways.
486
00:29:45,700 --> 00:29:48,566
He welcomes my input and I
get to put my finger in it
487
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,366
everywhere as it...[laughter].
488
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,833
I love to watch him have
sex with other people.
489
00:29:53,866 --> 00:29:55,100
It's his job.
490
00:29:55,133 --> 00:29:57,233
The boundaries are very
clear, it's not an interpersonal
491
00:29:57,266 --> 00:29:59,566
thing - although he can get
friendly with other talent.
492
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,366
It's not a date.
493
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,333
And I pierce genitals on a
regular basis and he knows that
494
00:30:04,366 --> 00:30:07,666
I am not flirting or
purposely stimulating someone.
495
00:30:07,700 --> 00:30:09,133
It's my job.
496
00:30:09,166 --> 00:30:11,133
So we are very comfortable
with those boundaries
497
00:30:11,166 --> 00:30:12,900
and those roles.
498
00:30:14,966 --> 00:30:16,100
We come first.
499
00:30:16,133 --> 00:30:17,533
Bottom line is - we come first.
500
00:30:17,566 --> 00:30:19,666
If my porn interfered with
my relationship with her,
501
00:30:19,700 --> 00:30:21,566
I would stop today.
502
00:30:27,833 --> 00:30:29,266
Okay how's it going?
503
00:30:29,300 --> 00:30:30,866
Good to see you.
504
00:30:30,900 --> 00:30:33,833
This is Elayne my wife.
505
00:30:35,333 --> 00:30:38,533
We pass as a straight couple.
506
00:30:38,566 --> 00:30:41,100
Maybe we will go somewhere
where it's clothing optional,
507
00:30:41,133 --> 00:30:44,033
so we will get naked and run
around and people will be like
508
00:30:44,066 --> 00:30:47,866
why is she so happy, he's got
the smallest dick in the world.
509
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,200
Like sometimes they just
think I have a small dick.
510
00:30:51,233 --> 00:30:54,600
They don't even realize that
it's actually a pussy.
511
00:30:57,233 --> 00:30:59,366
It takes a lot of educating
cause people look at
512
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,200
him and they don't
immediately know what he is.
513
00:31:01,233 --> 00:31:02,700
A hermaphrodite?
514
00:31:02,733 --> 00:31:04,033
A hermaphrodite is
someone who has characteristics
515
00:31:04,066 --> 00:31:07,033
of both genders at birth,
but he was female at birth,
516
00:31:07,066 --> 00:31:10,000
and through taking testosterone
and working out and having
517
00:31:10,033 --> 00:31:12,966
surgery to remove his
breasts, he's a man.
518
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,633
So he's legally... That's
not a small cock.
519
00:31:14,666 --> 00:31:16,300
It's a huge clit.
520
00:31:16,833 --> 00:31:18,666
Sometimes I will have to
go over it time and time again
521
00:31:18,700 --> 00:31:20,766
because he's
incredibly masculine.
522
00:31:25,900 --> 00:31:28,366
It's boobs and it's upper
bodies and if you want to talk
523
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,400
about gender, it's the penis
that we are all obsessed with so
524
00:31:31,433 --> 00:31:34,600
you have this masculine body
with a vagina that kind of blows
525
00:31:34,633 --> 00:31:37,566
everybody's minds, because it's
not supposed to be that way.
526
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,366
It's the parts of the body that
don't automatically sexualize.
527
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,933
He's presenting
himself as a sexual object,
528
00:31:43,966 --> 00:31:48,266
and wasn't even born this
way, so when all of that comes
529
00:31:48,300 --> 00:31:51,333
together, it's just an
incredible mix of confusion
530
00:31:51,366 --> 00:31:53,600
for a lot people.
531
00:31:53,633 --> 00:31:55,600
You have to be passionate about
your work and you have to have a
532
00:31:55,633 --> 00:31:57,566
very strong sense of self.
533
00:31:58,766 --> 00:32:02,833
And it sort of makes me
in awe of him sometimes that he
534
00:32:02,866 --> 00:32:08,066
can just continue to be out
there and be so public and do so
535
00:32:08,100 --> 00:32:10,066
many public events.
536
00:32:10,100 --> 00:32:13,400
It's like there's no
stopping him or something.
537
00:32:19,666 --> 00:32:23,200
I have a lot more fans than
I kind of thought I did
538
00:32:23,233 --> 00:32:25,066
- especially women.
539
00:32:25,100 --> 00:32:27,300
In the business, I think I
am a lot more respected
540
00:32:27,333 --> 00:32:29,200
than I thought I was.
541
00:32:29,233 --> 00:32:30,700
What are you up to today?
542
00:32:30,733 --> 00:32:33,733
Just running around,
all like crazy...
543
00:32:33,766 --> 00:32:37,466
It makes me feel like all the
hard work I have really been
544
00:32:37,500 --> 00:32:40,966
doing is paying off,
finally.
545
00:32:47,766 --> 00:32:50,233
A lot of these
tattoos were before my change.
546
00:32:50,266 --> 00:32:52,400
My arms were very, very skinny.
547
00:32:52,433 --> 00:32:56,033
It's really interesting because
this tattoo here is from me and
548
00:32:56,066 --> 00:32:59,233
my best friend at the time - it
says best friends in Japanese.
549
00:32:59,266 --> 00:33:01,300
Because of the
growth of my arms,
550
00:33:01,333 --> 00:33:03,300
it literally stretched like
three times the size of the
551
00:33:03,333 --> 00:33:04,866
original tattoo.
552
00:33:04,900 --> 00:33:07,066
I have a tattoo of
pervert on my back.
553
00:33:07,100 --> 00:33:10,333
Some people think
it says perfect,
554
00:33:10,366 --> 00:33:13,033
which is quite embarrassing.
555
00:33:13,066 --> 00:33:15,000
And then Irish boy, for
when I used to be a boy
556
00:33:15,033 --> 00:33:17,133
and now I am a man.
557
00:33:19,300 --> 00:33:20,333
Let's see.
558
00:33:20,366 --> 00:33:23,466
I just got a new
tattoo here.
559
00:33:26,100 --> 00:33:27,633
And this is the
Buck Angel tattoo
560
00:33:27,666 --> 00:33:31,800
It's a buck's head, with
angel wings and a crown
561
00:33:31,833 --> 00:33:34,166
cause I will be
the king.
562
00:33:37,900 --> 00:33:38,966
So that's that.
563
00:33:43,133 --> 00:33:51,166
♪♪
564
00:34:15,733 --> 00:34:17,900
I became a model because
somebody saw me who was a
565
00:34:17,933 --> 00:34:22,633
photographer and I let them take
photos of me and somehow those
566
00:34:22,666 --> 00:34:26,000
photos got into a
modeling agency.
567
00:34:26,033 --> 00:34:28,600
One of those stories, where I
was discovered on the street and
568
00:34:28,633 --> 00:34:30,600
brought into the agency and
became a model - just a totally
569
00:34:30,633 --> 00:34:32,766
crazy story like that.
570
00:34:37,833 --> 00:34:41,433
People comment on it, why
would he became such an ugly
571
00:34:41,466 --> 00:34:44,200
man when he was such
a beautiful woman?
572
00:34:45,233 --> 00:34:47,300
Why wouldn't he just want
to be a beautiful woman
573
00:34:47,333 --> 00:34:49,500
and be a
super model?
574
00:34:49,533 --> 00:34:52,400
Because it's not
what's inside my body.
575
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,400
But modeling was just a fluke.
576
00:34:55,433 --> 00:34:58,366
I was making money doing it
and wow lots of drugs and
577
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:02,900
alcohol-ALRIGHT,
where do I sign?
578
00:35:04,233 --> 00:35:06,500
I think she was living a
lifestyle we weren't even really
579
00:35:06,533 --> 00:35:08,000
truly aware of.
580
00:35:08,033 --> 00:35:09,400
She would come around
for holidays or whatever,
581
00:35:09,433 --> 00:35:11,433
maybe pop in once in a while.
582
00:35:13,766 --> 00:35:16,266
I was missing all my
modeling jobs because I was
583
00:35:16,300 --> 00:35:19,233
doing coke and
drinking, and out of my mind.
584
00:35:22,733 --> 00:35:24,300
They just gave up on me.
585
00:35:28,466 --> 00:35:30,766
That's when everything
really started coming
586
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,200
to head with him.
587
00:35:32,233 --> 00:35:34,866
I thought I am going to be going
to a cemetery one day if things
588
00:35:34,900 --> 00:35:36,566
don't get changed around.
589
00:35:39,466 --> 00:35:41,600
I would just take
a razor blade and cut,
590
00:35:41,633 --> 00:35:43,400
cut, cut, cut, cut.
591
00:35:43,433 --> 00:35:45,500
Like just cut.
592
00:35:45,533 --> 00:35:48,900
I would do it when I was
sober or between getting high.
593
00:35:51,366 --> 00:35:54,633
I would cut my
skin down like this.
594
00:35:54,666 --> 00:35:59,233
It was totally purely out of
hatred for my physical self.
595
00:35:59,266 --> 00:36:02,933
When you cut the balloon
it's sort of like shoo
596
00:36:02,966 --> 00:36:04,266
That's what it
felt like for me.
597
00:36:04,300 --> 00:36:05,333
It was like a release.
598
00:36:05,366 --> 00:36:07,433
It would literally
release tension from my body.
599
00:36:07,466 --> 00:36:10,466
♪♪
600
00:36:29,666 --> 00:36:32,766
She kind of even pulls
away from the family and it's
601
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:37,700
almost like a relief because
deal with your issues.
602
00:36:37,733 --> 00:36:38,700
We didn't know.
603
00:36:38,733 --> 00:36:40,833
We didn't know what to do.
604
00:36:40,866 --> 00:36:44,133
I would get calls, Mom I need
some money for rent. I'm low and
605
00:36:44,166 --> 00:36:48,500
all this, and I knew in my mind,
it wasn't really going there,
606
00:36:48,533 --> 00:36:49,866
or I have to pay a phone bill.
607
00:36:49,900 --> 00:36:52,066
Uh I need 100
dollars for my phone bill.
608
00:36:52,100 --> 00:36:53,033
I didn't need 100 dollars
for my phone bill.
609
00:36:53,066 --> 00:36:55,700
I needed 100 dollars
to buy crack.
610
00:36:56,500 --> 00:37:04,500
♪♪
611
00:37:11,866 --> 00:37:14,166
One time my parents went
away for two weeks and I knew
612
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:15,100
they went away .
613
00:37:15,133 --> 00:37:17,466
I didn't even live
at their house.
614
00:37:17,500 --> 00:37:19,233
And I remember calling
all my friends,
615
00:37:19,266 --> 00:37:21,866
my parents are out of
town - come over.
616
00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:23,833
We broke into the
house and had a party.
617
00:37:23,866 --> 00:37:26,400
Well guess what, my
parents came home early.
618
00:37:26,433 --> 00:37:31,300
WOAH, my parents came home early
and then I remember everyone
619
00:37:31,333 --> 00:37:33,700
saying, oh my god
- Buck's parents
620
00:37:33,733 --> 00:37:34,733
are home, jump!
621
00:37:34,766 --> 00:37:36,700
Everybody jumped over the
railing and like ran
622
00:37:36,733 --> 00:37:39,766
but my dad snatched me.
623
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,366
He beat the crap out
of me, and said
624
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,366
"I never want to see you again.
625
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,400
You are lucky I
don't call the police."
626
00:37:47,466 --> 00:37:49,433
I was a bad person, you
know, I was out on the streets.
627
00:37:49,466 --> 00:37:52,600
I was prostituting
as a little boy.
628
00:37:55,566 --> 00:37:59,033
So then one day I got a call
and he was in the halfway
629
00:37:59,066 --> 00:38:01,600
house and it was awful.
630
00:38:01,633 --> 00:38:06,366
That's when I knew you better
start thinking and accepting
631
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:11,000
that way or trying to
pushing back to where...
632
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:16,566
And I swear it wasn't two weeks
later after this whole thing was
633
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:21,133
over, back out there with
that same group of people
634
00:38:21,166 --> 00:38:23,466
and into it again.
635
00:38:23,500 --> 00:38:28,000
So it was like,
what do we do now?
636
00:38:28,700 --> 00:38:31,000
But you just keep going?
637
00:38:43,166 --> 00:38:46,200
Then I don't know how
I ended up in the gutter,
638
00:38:46,233 --> 00:38:47,766
literally
physically in the gutter,
639
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,800
and the police driving by
telling me that either I get out
640
00:38:50,833 --> 00:38:54,266
of the street right now or
they are going to arrest me.
641
00:38:54,300 --> 00:38:57,166
I remember getting on the phone
to my ex girlfriend at the time,
642
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,000
and sayingI need
help I am going to kill myself.
643
00:39:01,033 --> 00:39:02,600
And she's like the only way
I am going to help you
644
00:39:02,633 --> 00:39:04,266
is if you get sober.
645
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,266
And I had stayed sober
from that moment on.
646
00:39:08,633 --> 00:39:16,633
♪♪
647
00:39:27,666 --> 00:39:29,266
I think it
looks good open.
648
00:39:29,300 --> 00:39:32,300
It looks you cause you
usually have some skin showing.
649
00:39:32,333 --> 00:39:34,566
Honey, it's the porn awards.
650
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,266
I am up for what?
651
00:39:36,300 --> 00:39:38,700
Transsexual performer
of the year and two different
652
00:39:38,733 --> 00:39:42,033
scenes for most
outrageous sex scene.
653
00:39:44,366 --> 00:39:46,866
Ok does my ass look big?
654
00:39:47,900 --> 00:39:51,033
I think it would really be a
huge thing if I win that award.
655
00:39:51,066 --> 00:39:53,300
It's just gonna
blow everybody away,
656
00:39:53,333 --> 00:39:56,533
not just the transsexuals,
but I think the whole industry
657
00:39:56,566 --> 00:40:00,266
together will be
pretty amazed by that.
658
00:40:02,366 --> 00:40:10,366
♪♪ [cheering]
659
00:40:22,500 --> 00:40:26,666
[indistinct woman speaker
on microphone]
660
00:40:26,700 --> 00:40:28,466
[cheering]
661
00:40:28,500 --> 00:40:31,966
I fucking won transsexual
performer of the year.
662
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:36,566
Holy shit dude, I saw my picture
and I couldn't believe it.
663
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:38,300
Like I almost started to cry.
664
00:40:38,333 --> 00:40:40,866
I was screaming for myself.
665
00:40:40,900 --> 00:40:42,700
I feel like a star.
666
00:40:42,733 --> 00:40:46,500
You are a star.
You busted in.
667
00:40:47,366 --> 00:40:50,866
Dude I won the fucking award,
dude.
668
00:40:50,900 --> 00:40:55,033
He's again surpassed
everyone's expectations.
669
00:40:55,466 --> 00:40:57,700
I am so proud,
I am so proud of you.
670
00:40:58,733 --> 00:41:02,733
He has paved the way
for an entire new
671
00:41:02,766 --> 00:41:07,433
generation of trans masculine
gender queer, gender variant,
672
00:41:07,466 --> 00:41:11,000
trans male sex performers..
673
00:41:30,766 --> 00:41:34,333
My mission I think is
really honestly it sounds so
674
00:41:34,366 --> 00:41:37,833
cheesy, but to change the world.
675
00:41:37,866 --> 00:41:40,066
It was not my mission
in the beginning,
676
00:41:40,100 --> 00:41:43,966
it was to make porn and to
change the porn business.
677
00:41:45,500 --> 00:41:48,633
I do enjoy making porn, but
I also feel like I did it,
678
00:41:48,666 --> 00:41:51,033
and I need to do something else
now and I need to reach a larger
679
00:41:51,066 --> 00:41:53,633
audience of people.
680
00:41:55,700 --> 00:41:58,333
People often talk about how
pornography is like the defacto
681
00:41:58,366 --> 00:42:02,733
sex ad. What are ways that it
can educate people in a good way
682
00:42:02,766 --> 00:42:05,233
rather than just in the negative
way that people generally mean
683
00:42:05,266 --> 00:42:06,700
when they talk about that?
684
00:42:06,733 --> 00:42:08,966
My work is really I
think helping people to feel
685
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,266
comfortable in their body.
686
00:42:10,300 --> 00:42:12,800
I didn't really purposely
do that in the beginning.
687
00:42:12,833 --> 00:42:16,733
I just wanted to make hot sex,
but I think because it was so
688
00:42:16,766 --> 00:42:19,700
new, and it was so out there,
and no one had ever done it
689
00:42:19,733 --> 00:42:23,066
before, it kind
of became sex ed.
690
00:42:23,100 --> 00:42:25,766
That's been really
the most amazing
691
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,966
and strong part of
doing my work.
692
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,900
I mean that's a great
point because not
693
00:42:29,933 --> 00:42:31,700
all guys want to see the
stereotypical porn star,
694
00:42:31,733 --> 00:42:33,433
the idea of what a porn star is.
695
00:42:33,466 --> 00:42:34,766
All of us can relate.
696
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,566
It's totally
weird being here.
697
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,300
Because I didn't even
graduate high school.
698
00:42:47,833 --> 00:42:51,866
I am really excited
that Buck is moving more toward
699
00:42:51,900 --> 00:42:54,566
education and public speaking
because he has such an important
700
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,400
message and there's so
many people who need to
701
00:42:56,433 --> 00:42:58,366
hear what he
has to say.
702
00:42:59,566 --> 00:43:02,133
The one thing that I
think that takes away from who
703
00:43:02,166 --> 00:43:06,100
he is I think the fact that
he got involved in the porn
704
00:43:06,133 --> 00:43:08,100
industry, that I
think is just a bummer.
705
00:43:08,133 --> 00:43:10,633
It hasn't' been easy for me to
get booked to speak.
706
00:43:10,666 --> 00:43:13,166
It hasn't been easy for people
to take me serious as someone
707
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,233
who has something
important to say because
708
00:43:16,266 --> 00:43:17,733
of being a porn star.
709
00:43:17,766 --> 00:43:20,166
I know it's easier for
me to deal with the transgender
710
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,966
side than it is to
deal with the porn side,
711
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:27,333
so I almost think it's like
you hit people once being
712
00:43:27,366 --> 00:43:29,866
transgender, now you
just smacked them again,
713
00:43:29,900 --> 00:43:31,400
cause you're in porn.
714
00:43:31,433 --> 00:43:33,600
There's a limit of
how big a spotlight a porn star
715
00:43:33,633 --> 00:43:38,533
can attract cause porn is
stigmatized and even though that
716
00:43:38,566 --> 00:43:40,533
everybody knows that porn is
this big multi-billionaire
717
00:43:40,566 --> 00:43:43,033
dollar industry, and that
everybody is watching porn,
718
00:43:43,066 --> 00:43:46,400
everybody is in
polite denial about it,
719
00:43:46,433 --> 00:43:49,533
wants to pretend that porn isn't
important doesn't really have
720
00:43:49,566 --> 00:43:52,266
the cultural influence
or impact that it has,
721
00:43:52,300 --> 00:43:55,133
and so there's this desire
when we are horny to really
722
00:43:55,166 --> 00:43:57,866
appreciate the work
that porn stars do,
723
00:43:57,900 --> 00:44:00,766
and when we aren't horny to
really demograte porn stars.
724
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,600
Oh yeah, that's a
good beanie actually.
725
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,133
- Oh good.
- I don't want to give a
message that I
726
00:44:10,166 --> 00:44:12,000
feel bad about doing porn.
727
00:44:12,033 --> 00:44:13,000
Because I don't.
728
00:44:13,033 --> 00:44:15,433
I do not feel bad
about it and I never will.
729
00:44:15,466 --> 00:44:18,500
It's a positive thing for me and
it's a positive thing for many
730
00:44:18,533 --> 00:44:20,666
other people who
have had body issues.
731
00:44:22,500 --> 00:44:25,833
But at the same time I would
like to move into other avenues
732
00:44:25,866 --> 00:44:27,733
and it's just been...
733
00:44:27,766 --> 00:44:28,900
I am going to break through.
734
00:44:28,933 --> 00:44:30,433
I will.
735
00:44:30,466 --> 00:44:32,900
I promise you I
will break through.
736
00:44:35,466 --> 00:44:40,666
[phone ringing]
737
00:44:40,700 --> 00:44:42,800
I am okay.
How are you doing?
738
00:44:42,833 --> 00:44:44,933
Ya, so he said that's
fine, totally cool,
739
00:44:44,966 --> 00:44:48,366
so I'll come back
rest, and do the show,
740
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,733
and do the show, and that's it.
741
00:44:51,266 --> 00:44:53,366
Hello listeners and welcome
back to Here with Josh
742
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:54,600
and Sarah.
743
00:44:54,633 --> 00:44:56,766
We are so thrilled to have here
with us today in the studio,
744
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,366
the self-proclaimed
man with a pussy,
745
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,366
- I love that title
by the way.
- It's trademarked.
746
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,766
I might actually put it on a
t-shirt if you don't mind.
747
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:07,100
And he's also the AEE
Transsexual performer
748
00:45:07,133 --> 00:45:10,033
of the year for 2007.
749
00:45:10,066 --> 00:45:12,033
Is there some sort of mourning
process that your
750
00:45:12,066 --> 00:45:14,733
parents and your family had to
go through to let go of this
751
00:45:14,766 --> 00:45:17,466
girl that they knew
and bring this boy in.
752
00:45:17,500 --> 00:45:20,300
It's almost a
re-birth if you will.
753
00:45:20,333 --> 00:45:22,366
When I came out
to them as a gay woman,
754
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,766
they were like - duh.
755
00:45:25,466 --> 00:45:27,900
You know what I mean, I think
everybody has dealt with that
756
00:45:27,933 --> 00:45:29,400
with the coming out process.
757
00:45:29,433 --> 00:45:32,266
Parents know,
they aren't stupid.
758
00:45:32,300 --> 00:45:34,533
But they weren't happy for me.
759
00:45:34,566 --> 00:45:37,200
They weren't happy
dealing with me as a gay woman.
760
00:45:37,233 --> 00:45:38,966
It was very
uncomfortable for them.
761
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,266
They didn't like for me
to go to family functions.
762
00:45:42,300 --> 00:45:43,533
I was very dikey.
763
00:45:43,566 --> 00:45:44,466
They were not in to that.
764
00:45:44,500 --> 00:45:46,233
And then I think
they were sort of like,
765
00:45:46,266 --> 00:45:48,000
this is not okay.
766
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,766
This is a picture of
a man named Buck
767
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,600
- Buck's face is very rugged.
768
00:45:54,633 --> 00:45:57,800
He's got a shaved head
and he's got a goatee...
769
00:45:57,833 --> 00:46:04,266
Buck is a man's man, but
Buck also has a vagina.
770
00:46:04,300 --> 00:46:07,800
Everybody in the studio audience
is looking at full frontal Buck
771
00:46:07,833 --> 00:46:09,633
from the waist down.
772
00:46:09,666 --> 00:46:11,833
Really, they
are showing you naked?
773
00:46:11,866 --> 00:46:14,700
We just looked at photos of you
nude - and you really are,
774
00:46:14,733 --> 00:46:17,500
I mean I am looking at you
now you are a masculine,
775
00:46:17,533 --> 00:46:22,633
a man, manly,
like thick man neck,
776
00:46:22,666 --> 00:46:24,466
thick facial hair.
777
00:46:24,500 --> 00:46:26,733
So you are a man with a vagina.
778
00:46:26,766 --> 00:46:29,300
Yes I was born female,
but I had a sex change to a man,
779
00:46:29,333 --> 00:46:33,333
but I did not
have bottom surgery.
780
00:46:33,366 --> 00:46:35,266
I like my vagina.
781
00:46:35,300 --> 00:46:36,133
You like your vagina?
782
00:46:36,166 --> 00:46:39,366
I love my vagina. Yes
783
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,366
-Do you love your vagina?
-No!
784
00:46:46,300 --> 00:46:47,366
I was asked to come on the
show cause she was going to do a
785
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:48,533
whole show about Buck Angel.
786
00:46:48,566 --> 00:46:50,066
And it wasn't?
787
00:46:50,100 --> 00:46:52,066
No it wasn't.
788
00:46:52,100 --> 00:46:54,133
So when I got there
and I am going on stage,
789
00:46:54,166 --> 00:46:57,700
is when they decided to
tell me, they didn't' tell me.
790
00:46:57,733 --> 00:47:00,566
Elayne looks up and it says
Buck next for sexual oddities
791
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,333
and I'm like huh?
792
00:47:03,366 --> 00:47:05,100
And there was three people
ahead of me already.
793
00:47:05,133 --> 00:47:07,566
I was the 4th person
going on the show.
794
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,133
To be honest with
you it came out okay.
795
00:47:10,166 --> 00:47:13,400
I think it did
too, you're more upset.
796
00:47:13,433 --> 00:47:16,400
It's the
subject of the show,
797
00:47:16,433 --> 00:47:20,200
and the subject of the show was
sexual oddities or something,
798
00:47:20,233 --> 00:47:22,266
I am not a sexual oddity.
799
00:47:24,666 --> 00:47:25,800
You don't think so?
800
00:47:25,833 --> 00:47:28,066
No I don't think so
but you are - if you look at
801
00:47:28,100 --> 00:47:32,666
masses, I mean oddity means
that you're not with the norm.
802
00:47:32,700 --> 00:47:34,866
I don't fit into the norm,
but that's the whole point.
803
00:47:34,900 --> 00:47:36,533
I am trying to change that.
804
00:47:36,566 --> 00:47:38,200
And there are a lot
of people like me.
805
00:47:38,233 --> 00:47:40,166
I consider myself very normal.
806
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,033
And so it's okay for you to
think that I don't fit in,
807
00:47:43,066 --> 00:47:46,733
but for me I do fit in,
and I am a normal person,
808
00:47:46,766 --> 00:47:49,533
and so I don't want the world to
go around thinking that people
809
00:47:49,566 --> 00:47:51,133
like us aren't normal.
810
00:47:51,166 --> 00:47:54,166
♪♪
811
00:47:59,266 --> 00:48:00,533
What is a
woman, you ask?
812
00:48:00,566 --> 00:48:01,833
Simple answer: a vagina.
813
00:48:01,866 --> 00:48:03,500
If you are born with a
vagina, you are a woman.
814
00:48:03,533 --> 00:48:04,900
End of story.
815
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,566
You are one mixed
up individual,
816
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,900
you need help and bad.
817
00:48:10,766 --> 00:48:12,600
Killercrew23: You are
one sick son of a bitch.
818
00:48:12,633 --> 00:48:15,500
Well I can't really be nasty
to you because you are a girl.
819
00:48:15,533 --> 00:48:17,733
People like you
should be put to death.
820
00:48:19,266 --> 00:48:21,000
I hope you die of AIDS,
you freak of society.
821
00:48:21,033 --> 00:48:22,833
You are so arrogant and
disgusting that you have to
822
00:48:22,866 --> 00:48:25,166
change your sex
trying to play god,
823
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,333
I swear if I ever
cross paths with you,
824
00:48:27,366 --> 00:48:30,533
I will have a gun and
it's going in your face.
825
00:48:31,900 --> 00:48:34,400
You know, he has the appearance
of it rolling off him,
826
00:48:34,433 --> 00:48:37,666
oh you know these crazy
people, but it has
827
00:48:37,700 --> 00:48:40,100
to hurt on some level.
828
00:48:43,333 --> 00:48:44,966
I don't spend a lot of
time worrying about it,
829
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,966
but every once in a while and
especially when I read things
830
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,900
like this, I can't help but
think about it and the fact that
831
00:48:49,933 --> 00:48:52,400
he is potentially in some sort
of danger just by being a public
832
00:48:52,433 --> 00:48:54,800
figure who he is.
833
00:48:55,466 --> 00:48:57,166
Ya that smells
good - that's a beaut.
834
00:49:09,566 --> 00:49:10,633
Uh it's funny .
835
00:49:10,666 --> 00:49:13,433
I just totally keep
getting emails from these kids,
836
00:49:13,466 --> 00:49:15,900
from these young trans kids.
837
00:49:15,933 --> 00:49:21,033
A lot of times they ask me
for certain monetary help,
838
00:49:21,066 --> 00:49:24,733
which I don't know,
well I guess I do know,
839
00:49:24,766 --> 00:49:29,066
they think I am butt ass
rich, and I can afford to get
840
00:49:29,100 --> 00:49:32,000
everybody their
surgery, but honestly,
841
00:49:32,033 --> 00:49:35,933
even if I was, I wouldn't
because I think part of the
842
00:49:35,966 --> 00:49:40,333
transformation is doing it on
your own and sort of coming up
843
00:49:40,366 --> 00:49:42,166
with the money on your own
- makes you independent
844
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,400
and it's like I did this all
on my own, nobody's help,
845
00:49:44,433 --> 00:49:46,800
so like I didn't
have to ask somebody.
846
00:49:46,833 --> 00:49:48,700
I worked two jobs, I
did this I did that,
847
00:49:48,733 --> 00:49:51,600
and I think it's important for
these guys to understand that
848
00:49:51,633 --> 00:49:54,433
maybe you can't have your chest
surgery today but you can have
849
00:49:54,466 --> 00:49:58,833
it in two years, if you put 20
bucks a week away or whatever.
850
00:49:58,866 --> 00:50:00,466
I didn't get mine right away.
851
00:50:00,500 --> 00:50:03,466
It took me years
before I got mine.
852
00:50:04,633 --> 00:50:06,166
Wow do I have a
lot of stuff in here.
853
00:50:10,733 --> 00:50:12,233
I put it somewhere safe.
854
00:50:14,300 --> 00:50:15,466
Here it is.
855
00:50:16,500 --> 00:50:18,066
So how are you feeling
today?
856
00:50:18,100 --> 00:50:19,200
A little bit nervous
857
00:50:19,233 --> 00:50:22,000
Understandable ya.
858
00:50:25,133 --> 00:50:26,700
It's that time.
859
00:50:30,333 --> 00:50:32,100
How are you doing?
860
00:50:32,133 --> 00:50:34,066
Giving you a little more
medicine through the iv.
861
00:50:34,100 --> 00:50:35,466
Start to get nice and sleepy.
862
00:50:35,500 --> 00:50:38,200
Sometimes this might sting a
little bit in the left arm just
863
00:50:38,233 --> 00:50:40,133
for a minute...
864
00:50:40,866 --> 00:50:44,166
When I told my dad at one
time that I felt more like a guy
865
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:48,666
than a girl, he blamed himself.
866
00:50:48,700 --> 00:50:54,166
He said it's my fault.
867
00:50:58,166 --> 00:51:00,366
I said no it isn't your fault.
868
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,433
I feel like a man
because I am a man.
869
00:51:02,466 --> 00:51:06,600
They didn't get it at the time.
870
00:51:13,433 --> 00:51:15,833
There you
go, you with us?
871
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,433
Okay you doing alright there?
872
00:51:20,466 --> 00:51:24,500
Okay My chest
surgery was my sex change.
873
00:51:24,533 --> 00:51:29,033
That was the whole turning point
of my life when I did that.
874
00:51:29,066 --> 00:51:30,366
That was it.
875
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:31,900
It was like that's
what I needed to do.
876
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:41,400
♪♪
877
00:51:51,166 --> 00:51:53,233
I was not in touch
with my family for many,
878
00:51:53,266 --> 00:51:56,466
many years because
of my situation.
879
00:51:56,500 --> 00:52:00,133
I think after about a year or
two of my sobriety when I was
880
00:52:00,166 --> 00:52:03,466
changing, I had called them
up and decided to tell them.
881
00:52:04,233 --> 00:52:06,066
They said, your
voice sounds weird,
882
00:52:06,100 --> 00:52:07,700
what's wrong with you?
883
00:52:07,733 --> 00:52:10,800
I said okay, I need to tell you
I started the hormone treatments
884
00:52:10,833 --> 00:52:13,933
and it was changing my
voice, and my mother was like,
885
00:52:13,966 --> 00:52:16,800
you know what, if that's
what's going to make you happy,
886
00:52:16,833 --> 00:52:21,200
I was like, is this my mother?
887
00:52:21,233 --> 00:52:27,100
So it took a lot.
888
00:52:27,133 --> 00:52:28,866
But I'm glad we did.
889
00:52:28,900 --> 00:52:31,900
Because now he's the happiest
I've ever seen him.
890
00:52:31,933 --> 00:52:33,866
And we get along fine.
891
00:52:33,900 --> 00:52:35,900
No- I don't, you know...
892
00:52:35,933 --> 00:52:38,866
There's people that can probably
never deal with it.
893
00:52:38,900 --> 00:52:42,900
But I can now and
I'm happy for it.
894
00:52:44,933 --> 00:52:50,400
The process continues by the
way. For me...
895
00:52:50,433 --> 00:52:56,833
Patty was much much more
acceptable than I was.
896
00:52:56,866 --> 00:52:58,733
I wrote Buck out of my life.
897
00:53:22,066 --> 00:53:24,433
As a man, it's
tough to accept it.
898
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,700
Can we stop for a minute?
899
00:53:34,466 --> 00:53:42,500
♪♪
900
00:54:28,533 --> 00:54:35,500
[sirens]
901
00:54:35,533 --> 00:54:37,066
I got really sick one day.
902
00:54:37,100 --> 00:54:38,866
I had to be rushed to
the emergency hospital.
903
00:54:38,900 --> 00:54:40,866
Thank god we have amazing
health care.
904
00:54:40,900 --> 00:54:42,066
It's like 5 minutes away.
905
00:54:42,100 --> 00:54:43,666
Rush into the emergency room
cause they can't figure out
906
00:54:43,700 --> 00:54:44,900
what's wrong with me.
907
00:54:44,933 --> 00:54:46,833
I am throwing up, I am sick,
they bring a specialist in.
908
00:54:46,866 --> 00:54:48,566
They start poking
around down here,
909
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,633
it's really sore...they say oh
I think your appendix burst.
910
00:54:51,666 --> 00:54:54,000
So I have to go have
exploratory surgery,
911
00:54:54,033 --> 00:54:58,633
they go in, they find out that
my uterus is totally infected
912
00:54:58,666 --> 00:55:00,933
and my fallopian tube
is infected because
913
00:55:00,966 --> 00:55:03,366
I haven't had a hysterectomy.
914
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:07,233
Many years of testosterone
atrophied the inside of my
915
00:55:07,266 --> 00:55:10,366
vagina, my cervix and my
uterus atrophied together.
916
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,333
So your uterus is like this
and you know everything
917
00:55:13,366 --> 00:55:15,000
comes out this way.
918
00:55:15,033 --> 00:55:18,666
It wasn't letting it...basically
my uterus became a petri dish
919
00:55:18,700 --> 00:55:20,166
and it started to
become infected,
920
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:23,633
so he said it was time for
me to have a hysterectomy.
921
00:55:24,566 --> 00:55:31,000
She doesn't understand why I
am going to the gynecologist.
922
00:55:31,033 --> 00:55:37,200
It's always an issue when you go
to the gynecologist cause people
923
00:55:37,233 --> 00:55:41,033
don't understand why a man
is going to the gynecologist,
924
00:55:41,066 --> 00:55:44,966
but they are very good
about having poker face here.
925
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,100
I've been asking for years about
having a hysterectomy.
926
00:55:48,133 --> 00:55:50,600
They didn't say over the
years of testosterone use,
927
00:55:50,633 --> 00:55:52,000
the walls could atrophy.
928
00:55:52,033 --> 00:55:53,700
They never told me that.
929
00:55:57,700 --> 00:55:59,866
I do have concerns about
his health overall because I
930
00:55:59,900 --> 00:56:02,200
don't think they have a whole
lot information about long term
931
00:56:02,233 --> 00:56:04,700
use of testosterone and
what it does to the body,
932
00:56:04,733 --> 00:56:08,966
and I am aware that it is
hard on certain organs like
933
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,533
the liver, heart, and
potentially kidneys.
934
00:56:11,566 --> 00:56:13,900
It's a medical
necessity as he sees it,
935
00:56:13,933 --> 00:56:15,166
and I accept that.
936
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,133
I mean he has told me flat out,
if they told me that I had to
937
00:56:17,166 --> 00:56:20,666
stop taking
testosterone or I die sooner,
938
00:56:20,700 --> 00:56:23,533
or something of that nature, he
said I'm sorry I'd keep taking
939
00:56:23,566 --> 00:56:26,933
it and I said I know that
about you and I accept that,
940
00:56:26,966 --> 00:56:30,100
it's more important to you
than anything to maintain your
941
00:56:30,133 --> 00:56:32,333
masculinity, because if
you didn't have that,
942
00:56:32,366 --> 00:56:36,533
you wouldn't be you anymore, and
I accept that and I respect his
943
00:56:36,566 --> 00:56:39,933
decision and it concerns me
because I want him to be
944
00:56:39,966 --> 00:56:44,200
healthy and to live a long
healthy happy life with me.
945
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:51,700
Okay, so say your surgery
is this week,
946
00:56:51,733 --> 00:56:56,400
uhm...well we
really gotta wait...
947
00:57:02,433 --> 00:57:05,933
[speaking Spanish]
12:00 today?
948
00:57:05,966 --> 00:57:06,933
Okay.
949
00:57:06,966 --> 00:57:08,200
Gracias.
950
00:57:08,233 --> 00:57:09,366
Okay.
951
00:57:10,533 --> 00:57:11,633
And that's how it works.
952
00:57:11,666 --> 00:57:13,100
You can get a
doctor's appointment.
953
00:57:13,133 --> 00:57:14,266
It's 10.
954
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:16,700
Got to love it.
955
00:57:17,700 --> 00:57:19,566
One day for the exams...
956
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,166
One day for [indistinct].
957
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,100
One day to talk, etc.
958
00:57:24,133 --> 00:57:28,400
Next week I think we
can make it without problems.
959
00:57:28,633 --> 00:57:30,933
The rest...
960
00:57:32,366 --> 00:57:33,366
[speaking Spanish]
961
00:57:51,733 --> 00:57:57,000
Okay I am going to touch.
962
00:57:59,433 --> 00:58:01,233
A little press.
963
00:58:01,266 --> 00:58:04,233
More press, more
press, more press.
964
00:58:04,266 --> 00:58:06,766
It's really better
than the last time.
965
00:58:08,300 --> 00:58:11,333
You are making ....
966
00:58:12,700 --> 00:58:14,166
Relax.
967
00:58:16,500 --> 00:58:23,166
And it's okay, I am
going to make a cold...
968
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,933
Oh wow.
969
00:58:25,966 --> 00:58:27,600
This white are may be a lesion,
pre-malignant.
970
00:58:34,166 --> 00:58:42,166
All this white lesion.
And this is another cause
to make surgery.
971
00:58:45,966 --> 00:58:48,600
My vagina hasn't
always been high maintenance,
972
00:58:48,633 --> 00:58:52,666
now I have to put estrogen cream
like every three days to keep it
973
00:58:52,700 --> 00:58:56,666
moist, and I saw it
completely sort of rejuvenate.
974
00:58:56,700 --> 00:58:58,100
It was incredible,
even the doctor saw it.
975
00:58:58,133 --> 00:58:59,700
He's like "wow,
that's a new vagina."
976
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:09,800
♪♪
977
00:59:18,900 --> 00:59:20,200
Oh this is
a great picture.
978
00:59:20,233 --> 00:59:23,633
Let's see, it's you and dad.
979
00:59:24,900 --> 00:59:27,266
Oh it says Bill pinched Pat
980
00:59:27,300 --> 00:59:29,100
That's what it
says on the back.
981
00:59:29,133 --> 00:59:31,666
Bill pinched Pat, 1961.
982
00:59:31,700 --> 00:59:34,100
Oh, I was pregnant
with you.
983
00:59:34,133 --> 00:59:37,200
That was at nanny's house.
And it's a cool picture.
984
00:59:38,833 --> 00:59:46,066
♪♪
985
00:59:46,100 --> 00:59:49,233
Thanks Doc. Hi I'm Buck Angel,
986
00:59:49,266 --> 00:59:51,800
and for men like me,
gynecological problems
987
00:59:51,833 --> 00:59:55,633
are still a reality. Early
detection is critical,
988
00:59:55,666 --> 00:59:57,366
and having your plumbing
checked regularly
989
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:59,533
is a simple thing
to do.
990
00:59:59,566 --> 01:00:01,800
Be proud and be smart.
991
01:00:01,833 --> 01:00:03,433
You know when you shoot
992
01:00:03,466 --> 01:00:04,833
testosterone; it just
puts weight on you.
993
01:00:04,866 --> 01:00:06,100
And sometimes it's
not healthy weight,
994
01:00:06,133 --> 01:00:08,833
If you don't watch what you are
eating and work out and make an
995
01:00:08,866 --> 01:00:11,200
effort, you are not
going to get muscle mass.
996
01:00:11,233 --> 01:00:14,633
With my advocacy
work, my education work,
997
01:00:14,666 --> 01:00:18,333
the internet was an amazing tool
for me to figure out how can I
998
01:00:18,366 --> 01:00:19,900
reach a wider audience.
999
01:00:19,933 --> 01:00:22,466
For more information on
my nutrition and body building,
1000
01:00:22,500 --> 01:00:26,033
please take a look at
BuckAngelbodybuilding.com
1001
01:00:26,066 --> 01:00:28,700
I do four egg whites
and one whole egg.
1002
01:00:28,733 --> 01:00:32,500
I just started wow I have
such a tool here to educate.
1003
01:00:32,533 --> 01:00:36,333
I was isolated ,
didn't know who to reach out to.
1004
01:00:36,366 --> 01:00:39,366
I tried to commit
suicide a couple times.
1005
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,166
I would cut my arms.
1006
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:46,666
I get emotional
because I made it.
1007
01:00:46,700 --> 01:00:50,400
I made it and you
can make it too.
1008
01:00:54,533 --> 01:01:01,033
My trans man project
which is probably never ending.
1009
01:01:01,066 --> 01:01:02,900
So many guys interested in
talking to me about their
1010
01:01:02,933 --> 01:01:08,533
change, and how their hormones
have effected their sexuality
1011
01:01:08,566 --> 01:01:12,333
and just
themselves and their body.
1012
01:01:12,366 --> 01:01:15,466
I never felt
like I could say my vagina,
1013
01:01:15,500 --> 01:01:18,666
like that just felt
like such a weird thing,
1014
01:01:18,700 --> 01:01:21,733
and also in the beginning too, I
couldn't say my cock or my penis
1015
01:01:21,766 --> 01:01:25,766
cause that was just weird too,
so I would just say my junk.
1016
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:28,666
Seeing a billboard and a
dude in his underwear and
1017
01:01:28,700 --> 01:01:30,900
I'm like god I want his body.
1018
01:01:30,933 --> 01:01:34,133
This is very recent too, that I
have kind of come to terms with
1019
01:01:34,166 --> 01:01:40,066
the fact that I want to, I know
at least be sexual with men.
1020
01:01:41,533 --> 01:01:42,866
So brilliant.
1021
01:01:46,833 --> 01:01:48,566
I like these - these
are fucking awesome.
1022
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:52,766
These are the kind of shit
that get people all crazy.
1023
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:53,700
It's weird.
1024
01:01:53,733 --> 01:01:54,933
My dad came back into my life.
1025
01:01:54,966 --> 01:01:56,200
My brother was like just try.
1026
01:01:56,233 --> 01:01:57,633
And so I talked to him.
1027
01:01:57,666 --> 01:02:00,266
He came up in November, spent
a couple days at the house,
1028
01:02:00,300 --> 01:02:03,533
We had a fantastic time. We
just talked the whole time.
1029
01:02:03,566 --> 01:02:04,833
It was amazing.
1030
01:02:04,866 --> 01:02:06,033
That's awesome dude.
1031
01:02:06,433 --> 01:02:09,000
The fact that you
own your vagina,
1032
01:02:09,033 --> 01:02:13,466
to me, has probably been one of
the most amazing things for me
1033
01:02:13,500 --> 01:02:18,666
to discover as a trans
person - because I never felt
1034
01:02:18,700 --> 01:02:22,433
connected to it, and now I
do, and I love my little dick.
1035
01:02:22,466 --> 01:02:28,533
I fucking, I
actually love my body now.
1036
01:02:28,566 --> 01:02:31,733
And sexually when
I am having sex,
1037
01:02:31,766 --> 01:02:36,033
I feel so there, and because I
started getting into porn and
1038
01:02:36,066 --> 01:02:39,966
really exploring
that side of myself,
1039
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:44,333
all of a sudden, I was...I
used to be like a lights off,
1040
01:02:44,366 --> 01:02:47,900
under the blankets kind
of like you know sex guy,
1041
01:02:47,933 --> 01:02:50,633
and now I am like let's go.
1042
01:02:50,666 --> 01:02:53,966
I am like I am
there, I want, I want it,
1043
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,366
put lights on it.
1044
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:56,500
I want to see everything.
1045
01:02:56,533 --> 01:02:57,533
I want to right in there.
1046
01:02:57,566 --> 01:02:59,933
So I got a
huge variety of people,
1047
01:02:59,966 --> 01:03:03,500
not just trans men, but
like lovers of trans men or
1048
01:03:03,533 --> 01:03:07,500
biological women who only
ever dated biological men.
1049
01:03:07,533 --> 01:03:10,400
[dog barking]
1050
01:03:10,433 --> 01:03:12,633
Lola!
1051
01:03:15,666 --> 01:03:16,533
Our house is a zoo.
1052
01:03:17,866 --> 01:03:19,000
Our house is a zoo.
1053
01:03:20,300 --> 01:03:22,000
That is the most annoying bark.
1054
01:03:25,066 --> 01:03:29,033
[dogs barking]
1055
01:03:29,066 --> 01:03:33,333
So this word gratitude
is the best word ever.
1056
01:03:33,366 --> 01:03:36,633
Cause really Elayne actually
taught me about gratitude.
1057
01:03:36,666 --> 01:03:38,566
And you have to have gratitude,
and when you have gratitude,
1058
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:44,300
that's when
everything comes to you.
1059
01:03:48,333 --> 01:03:50,966
Even though he
lives out of the country,
1060
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:52,733
we are always in touch.
1061
01:03:52,766 --> 01:03:56,700
It's not like you go 6 months
at a time without talking... no.
1062
01:03:56,733 --> 01:04:00,666
- I think Buck
knows we love him.
- Of course he does.
1063
01:04:00,700 --> 01:04:01,733
Whether it be a man or a woman.
1064
01:04:01,766 --> 01:04:02,900
Doesn't really
make any difference.
1065
01:04:02,933 --> 01:04:04,300
That's not the issue.
1066
01:04:04,333 --> 01:04:05,766
But he treats us well.
1067
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:11,700
He's respectful and I mean
there's certainly a lot worse
1068
01:04:11,733 --> 01:04:15,466
things that have
happened to people.
1069
01:04:18,100 --> 01:04:20,566
My father thinks of
me as an oddity.
1070
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,766
It does hurt my feelings,
but it doesn't make me upset.
1071
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:26,700
It only makes me know that
my work is that much more
1072
01:04:26,733 --> 01:04:31,200
important, and that will I
ever change my dad's idea,
1073
01:04:31,233 --> 01:04:34,566
that no dad, I am not an
oddity, you don't understand.
1074
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:35,666
I am not.
1075
01:04:35,700 --> 01:04:41,666
There is still an emotional
issue within the family.
1076
01:04:41,700 --> 01:04:43,333
We don't discuss it.
1077
01:04:43,366 --> 01:04:45,200
We just accept it and move on.
1078
01:04:45,233 --> 01:04:47,933
I mean there's no conversations
around the table saying well
1079
01:04:47,966 --> 01:04:49,733
what do you think?
1080
01:04:49,766 --> 01:04:57,766
We just accept and move on
and just live our lives.
1081
01:05:02,333 --> 01:05:04,566
What he's doing with
himself and how
1082
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:07,133
he's treating people and...
1083
01:05:07,166 --> 01:05:10,533
and he's going out
and talking about this,
1084
01:05:10,566 --> 01:05:11,666
all over the world.
1085
01:05:11,700 --> 01:05:12,766
Let's talk about
going to the bathroom.
1086
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:16,033
Duh you of course you
go to the male side,
1087
01:05:16,733 --> 01:05:18,566
Go In the stall...
1088
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:22,133
Well I can stand
up. It's not a problem.
1089
01:05:22,166 --> 01:05:24,200
You can stand up
and pee?
1090
01:05:24,233 --> 01:05:25,566
So dumb...
1091
01:05:27,900 --> 01:05:29,500
That made me
remember something.
1092
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:33,400
When you were about 5 or 6,
and I walked in the bathroom,
1093
01:05:33,433 --> 01:05:38,000
and you were standing,
straddling the toilet,
1094
01:05:38,033 --> 01:05:39,833
you said I am peeing like dad.
1095
01:05:39,866 --> 01:05:42,500
That's awesome.
1096
01:05:42,533 --> 01:05:45,966
- I said you can't
pee like that.
- That should have been
1097
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,000
your first clue, Mom.
1098
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:54,500
♪♪
1099
01:05:54,533 --> 01:05:56,433
It was like a light
bulb went on in my head,
1100
01:05:56,466 --> 01:06:01,033
and I said like why do I
care so much what you tell
1101
01:06:01,066 --> 01:06:03,566
me I have to be.
1102
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:08,000
Why? Why do we all care what
other people think about us?
1103
01:06:08,033 --> 01:06:10,133
When I realize I
don't care anymore,
1104
01:06:10,166 --> 01:06:12,766
that was it, it was
like I don't care.
1105
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:14,000
I have a vagina.
1106
01:06:14,033 --> 01:06:18,033
You know what, my
vagina is awesome.
1107
01:06:19,233 --> 01:06:21,566
[cheering, applause]
1108
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:27,600
The fact that I had to waste 28
years of my life worrying about
1109
01:06:27,633 --> 01:06:30,233
what the world thought of me
and that I was never going to be
1110
01:06:30,266 --> 01:06:32,733
happy is never
going to happen again.
1111
01:06:32,766 --> 01:06:35,833
And I really want the world and
people to understand that you
1112
01:06:35,866 --> 01:06:40,133
don't have to conform to the way
society tells you to conform.
1113
01:06:40,166 --> 01:06:45,833
Tell them screw you, I am who I
am whether you like it or not.
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