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- Previously
on "Dirty John"...
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- I'm John.
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- Ronnie thinks
that John is creepy
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and might be a gold digger.
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I'm trying to find somebody
who's smart
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and funny
and someone I'm attracted to.
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- There's something wrong
with him.
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Do you not see that?
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- I found out some things
about you.
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You weren't in Iraq.
You lived in a trailer park.
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You don't even have
a medical license.
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- You worry about
your own sad life.
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I'll worry about Debbie.
We're married now.
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- We hired someone.
A private detective.
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We need to figure out
why he's lying to you.
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- John's not a perfect person.
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But I love him
because he's a good man.
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- Did you open my mail?
How dare you?
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It's a felony to open
someone's mail.
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My God, this place
makes me want
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to curl up
in the fetal position.
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- You said one drink.
- I say a lot of things.
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- Well, I actually listened
to this one.
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- I should have just gone home
and had a bowl of cereal--
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- Greyhound or sea breeze?
Greyhound or sea breeze?
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- Okay. If this place
has grapefruit juice,
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I'll pay your
next month's rent.
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- Hey, Ton.
- Hi.
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- So anyway, one of my patients
today was getting
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a quadruple bypass,
and his entire family...
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And it was getting
so annoying because...
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- Nice scrubs.
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- Thanks.
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- No, I mean, seriously, like,
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it's a great color.
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- Nice pants.
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You like 'em?
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- Good.
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I was kind of
on the fence today.
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I wasn't sure whether
to go with pants.
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And I thought, "Probably.
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Probably pants."
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- What were your other choices?
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Barrel and suspenders.
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Catsuit...
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some kind of decorative,
you know, paint situation.
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- Shorts?
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- Shorts. Yeah.
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That's definitely a choice
people make, right?
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So let me get this straight.
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So then do you get different
anesthesia training?
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- No. No, it's the same.
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But when a nurse...
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anesthetist.
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- You can't even say it.
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You can't even say it.
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- I can say it.
I can say it.
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But when a nurse anesthetist--
Anesthetist.
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Anes--anesthetist.
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- Administers anesthesia,
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it's nursing,
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so it has to be overseen
by a doctor.
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But when an anesthesiologist
does it,
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it's medicine, so it doesn't
have to be overseen, so.
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- Okay, wait.
- That's the difference.
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- So you do the same job
as anesthesiologist...
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- But with a chaperone
for half the money.
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- Well, I mean...
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half the money
is still great money.
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And no one really chaperones
me anymore...
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- But doesn't that
make you mad?
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- Um...
- I mean, that would--
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that would make me mad,
I'm sorry.
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But I mean, I'm mad for you.
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I--I mean...
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you should be paid more.
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- Maybe I should go
to law school then.
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There's still time.
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- Okay, you're making fun
of me now.
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I see.
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You know, I am on the pathway
to the...
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materially rich,
spiritually empty existence
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of my dreams.
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- That's not funny at all.
That's just sad.
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- Hi, I'm Ethan,
I'm the best man.
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Most of you don't know him
real well.
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I've known him,
three or four years now.
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And if you talk to any
of his friends,
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as far as the reaction
to him getting married,
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you are gonna find out
they are just
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completely shocked and baffled.
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- We are going for pancakes,
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and you are not invited
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because you are busy.
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- No, I'm not.
- You've got your hands full.
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- I mean, why don't you?
- Stop it.
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- You don't want a handful
of that guy, you must be crazy.
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- I will see you tomorrow.
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- And the reason why,
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I think the reason why
is that we're...
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skeptical people.
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So seeing him in love is...
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an inspiring thing for me.
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And I'm sure for anyone
who knows him too.
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- You're leaving with them?
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- Nope.
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- But you're leaving.
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Yeah.
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I--I have a shift tomorrow.
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I should really go.
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- Take me with you.
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No, I--I didn't mean it
like that.
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I just meant, like, you know,
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let's go get a coffee
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or go for a drive,
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you know, whatever
you're comfortable with.
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It's just...
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I mean, we're having
a good time.
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Right? I just--
I don't want it to end.
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Not yet.
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- Yeah, okay.
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- And so, in closing,
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I wish you the best
of everything, John.
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Let's everybody say, "Cheers!"
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all: Cheers!
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- May you live happily
ever after.
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- Come on, guys.
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Big smile for the camera.
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- I had a dream about this,
by the way.
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You did?
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- About eggs?
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- Well, eggs served
by a beautiful, sexy woman.
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I mean, what could be
a better dream than that?
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Maybe a dream
where I could fly.
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Maybe.
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Here you go.
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Thank you.
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- What's your day?
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- Um, I am...
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going to meet with a client
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in Mission Viejo.
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What's your day?
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- I have a clinic
in Garden Grove.
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I have to help
with a root canal.
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You ever heard
of an endodontist?
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An endodontist
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is a dentist that specializes
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in diseases of the pulp.
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Pulp, as in, like, your tooth--
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I know
what an endodontist is.
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I don't need to hear
any more about that.
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- You know, if you taught me
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how to cook eggs
that awesome French chef way,
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I could make them
for both of us.
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You don't have
to do that, hon.
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You do so much for me already.
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- We could also get the court
to enter a restraining order
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for depletion of capital.
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You know, to stop someone
from destroying assets.
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... okay.
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But that's not those, right?
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- No--I mean, well,
some of them do mention money,
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stolen money, but...
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They seem to mostly be...
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threats, harassment,
intimidation, yeah.
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- Wait, that's why
I was wondering,
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you know, is it possible
that maybe that's...
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not him, you know?
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I mean, maybe those
aren't about him.
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- You mean, like,
that John Meehan
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is a common name?
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Yeah, but...
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let's not ask him
about it just yet,
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because you did say that...
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this one is his ex-wife,
right? Tonia?
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Yeah.
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But that, you know,
that was a very,
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very ugly divorce.
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I mean, she...
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cheated on him and then
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wanted him to come back,
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and--and, you know,
she fought him for custody
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and made all kinds
of accusations.
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He eventually lost his job.
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- Yeah, I'm emailing these
to myself,
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okay, so that I can,
print them out.
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Okay.
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And, you know,
I-I thought, too,
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you know, maybe the, um,
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those printouts
from some of those online
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forums or whatever,
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maybe that could have
been Tonia too.
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'Cause I mean, anybody can
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make a profile
and post pictures,
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and, you know, all kinds
of nasty stuff online.
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- Yeah. Things can get
very out of control online.
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That's
the understatement
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of the century?
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Yeah, and I wish
I could tell you
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that I've never seen
this kind of behavior
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in family court, but, well,
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people do just keep on
surprising me.
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- Are you thinking you want
to file for an annulment?
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Would that help?
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Um...
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I don't know...
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- Okay. That's fine.
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Look, I know
that all of this here
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is very intimidating.
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I do.
I understand that.
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But I'm gonna figure out
what we're dealing with.
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Okay? We're gonna
figure it out, together.
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All right?
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- Okay. Thank you.
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- Okay, well,
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till then,
just keep your head down.
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- You all right?
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Please don't
make fun of me, okay?
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- I'm not.
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Remember, I told you,
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you don't even have to do this.
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- No, I do.
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Your dad's old-school.
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He asked your grandpa
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for your mom's hand
in marriage,
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and I'll do the same.
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- What if you throw up on him?
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I'm kidding.
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He loves you.
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They all do.
Why are you so worried?
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- Just... getting married,
you know?
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Families coming together,
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I don't know if I can do that.
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- You don't know
if you can do what?
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- My family, I can't...
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do that to yours, like,
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dishonor them with mine.
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You know,
I know you say that,
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and I know you had
a hard time growing up, but--
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- No, you don't.
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You couldn't, because,
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you know, your family's
loving and supportive.
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Mine were drug addicts
and alcoholics.
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Even before the divorce,
they hated each other.
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When I was little,
they hated me,
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and I knew that before
I even knew what it meant.
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- John...
- But you can't understand that
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because you were raised
by people to be a person.
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I was raised by monsters.
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- Well, I'm here.
To listen.
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- If I told you
what they did to me,
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you'll think about me
the same way that they did.
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You won't be able to help it.
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- John, baby, that's not true.
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- I told you that I, you know,
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don't talk to them
much anymore,
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but that's not true.
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I don't talk to them at all.
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- For how long?
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- Years.
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00:12:11,882 --> 00:12:13,231
For years now.
262
00:12:13,275 --> 00:12:16,626
It's just,
it was either that or...
263
00:12:16,669 --> 00:12:19,368
I mean, it had to be that.
264
00:12:19,411 --> 00:12:22,719
Listen, I want this life
with you more than anything.
265
00:12:22,763 --> 00:12:25,983
I do, it's just...
266
00:12:26,027 --> 00:12:28,420
if we're gonna do this,
267
00:12:28,464 --> 00:12:32,250
my family cannot
be a part of it.
268
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Ever.
269
00:12:34,949 --> 00:12:36,951
- Okay.
- No, you have to promise me.
270
00:12:36,994 --> 00:12:38,866
Because next thing,
we'll have a baby,
271
00:12:38,909 --> 00:12:40,868
and you'll be so in love.
272
00:12:40,911 --> 00:12:42,391
And you'll think,
273
00:12:42,434 --> 00:12:43,696
"They can share in this.
274
00:12:43,740 --> 00:12:45,568
This'll fix everything,"
but it won't.
275
00:12:45,611 --> 00:12:46,874
They'll poison us,
276
00:12:46,917 --> 00:12:48,397
and you can't let that happen,
277
00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,486
so please promise me.
278
00:12:50,529 --> 00:12:51,835
- I...
279
00:12:51,879 --> 00:12:54,533
Yeah, no, I promise.
280
00:13:00,801 --> 00:13:01,976
I promise.
281
00:13:08,373 --> 00:13:09,548
- Hey.
282
00:13:13,552 --> 00:13:15,598
- You married him?
283
00:13:17,643 --> 00:13:19,907
- I-I-I did.
284
00:13:19,950 --> 00:13:22,866
I-I--you know, honey,
I was gonna tell you,
285
00:13:22,910 --> 00:13:25,303
but I-I wanted to wait
for the right moment
286
00:13:25,347 --> 00:13:26,652
because you--you--
287
00:13:26,696 --> 00:13:29,003
you know, you hate him so much.
288
00:13:29,046 --> 00:13:31,614
- Toby told me.
289
00:13:31,657 --> 00:13:33,616
John told Toby.
290
00:13:34,965 --> 00:13:37,054
I didn't know that.
291
00:13:37,098 --> 00:13:39,796
- No, John wouldn't
have told you.
292
00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,885
Toby went to the house
the day before yesterday.
293
00:13:41,929 --> 00:13:43,974
He wanted to apologize to you.
294
00:13:44,018 --> 00:13:46,542
John told him
he was trespassing.
295
00:13:46,585 --> 00:13:48,805
And that he no longer
has an aunt.
296
00:13:48,849 --> 00:13:50,720
And that it was a good thing
his father shot his mother
297
00:13:50,763 --> 00:13:52,809
before she could see
what a loser Toby is.
298
00:13:52,853 --> 00:13:53,897
- Veronica--
- John said that.
299
00:13:53,941 --> 00:13:55,768
The man that you married...
300
00:13:57,988 --> 00:14:00,295
...and didn't tell us
that you married him,
301
00:14:00,338 --> 00:14:04,821
said that, about our family.
302
00:14:05,866 --> 00:14:08,477
- I don't--I, you know--
303
00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,480
I don't know about any of that.
304
00:14:11,523 --> 00:14:16,485
- You don't know this man
at all.
305
00:14:16,528 --> 00:14:18,487
Or what he is...
306
00:14:18,530 --> 00:14:20,532
potentially capable of.
307
00:14:23,448 --> 00:14:24,928
Do you really,
308
00:14:24,972 --> 00:14:27,322
really believe that
he doesn't want your money?
309
00:14:27,365 --> 00:14:28,889
You don't see that
that's what he's wanted
310
00:14:28,932 --> 00:14:30,325
from the beginning?
311
00:14:30,368 --> 00:14:32,936
- I am working through some--
312
00:14:32,980 --> 00:14:33,937
I'm figuring it out.
313
00:14:33,981 --> 00:14:35,025
- How?
314
00:14:35,069 --> 00:14:37,680
- I am dealing with it,
315
00:14:37,723 --> 00:14:38,986
Veronica.
316
00:14:39,029 --> 00:14:40,639
- I hope you got a prenup.
317
00:15:04,446 --> 00:15:06,013
- Not a science major.
318
00:15:06,056 --> 00:15:07,666
- No. No.
319
00:15:07,710 --> 00:15:09,668
I did do a lot of
extra science classes
320
00:15:09,712 --> 00:15:11,409
outside of my major, though.
321
00:15:11,453 --> 00:15:15,109
Growing up, I worked
at Stanford Med as an orderly.
322
00:15:15,152 --> 00:15:18,460
- So interested in medicine,
peripherally.
323
00:15:18,503 --> 00:15:19,983
- Yeah.
324
00:15:20,027 --> 00:15:22,812
And then I met Tonia, and...
325
00:15:22,855 --> 00:15:24,640
- I've been taking him
through all my old textbooks.
326
00:15:24,683 --> 00:15:27,164
He's picking things up
way faster than I did.
327
00:15:27,208 --> 00:15:29,471
- Yeah, law school taught me
the pros and cons
328
00:15:29,514 --> 00:15:31,777
of every make of luxury car,
329
00:15:31,821 --> 00:15:33,040
but at this point,
I can't even remember
330
00:15:33,083 --> 00:15:34,780
why I went there.
331
00:15:34,824 --> 00:15:36,434
I mean, if you decide
I can't do this,
332
00:15:36,478 --> 00:15:38,610
I-I can't go back to that.
333
00:15:38,654 --> 00:15:41,048
I-I really need some purpose.
I really do.
334
00:15:41,091 --> 00:15:42,571
- I will say we do see
335
00:15:42,614 --> 00:15:44,747
a proportionally high rate
of success
336
00:15:44,790 --> 00:15:48,142
with our older students.
337
00:15:48,185 --> 00:15:51,797
And you have this one
on your side, which helps.
338
00:15:51,841 --> 00:15:54,409
But it's gonna be
a lot of work.
339
00:15:54,452 --> 00:15:57,586
More than you even know.
340
00:15:57,629 --> 00:15:58,935
- When I want something,
341
00:15:58,979 --> 00:16:00,981
I know how to buckle down.
342
00:16:29,183 --> 00:16:31,881
- All right, just let me know
when you're finished.
343
00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:50,726
- Well, I have a little cash
here in the house
344
00:16:50,769 --> 00:16:52,249
that I just keep here
in case, you know,
345
00:16:52,293 --> 00:16:54,686
there's an earthquake,
God forbid, or...
346
00:16:54,730 --> 00:16:56,775
- How much is it?
347
00:16:56,819 --> 00:16:58,516
- I don't know, maybe...
348
00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:00,692
80,000 or 90,000?
349
00:17:00,736 --> 00:17:02,259
- I rented a safe
deposit box today.
350
00:17:02,303 --> 00:17:03,956
Yeah?
-Yeah, you know.
351
00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,002
For like, important papers,
passports,
352
00:17:06,046 --> 00:17:07,743
that kind of thing.
353
00:17:07,786 --> 00:17:10,746
I was thinking the cash
should go in there too.
354
00:17:10,789 --> 00:17:13,053
In case there's, like,
a fire or something.
355
00:17:17,535 --> 00:17:18,841
Hey.
- Hi.
356
00:17:18,884 --> 00:17:20,582
- How's it going?
357
00:17:20,625 --> 00:17:22,975
- Good.
- Just making myself some tea.
358
00:17:23,019 --> 00:17:24,673
I've got an upset stomach.
You want some?
359
00:17:24,716 --> 00:17:26,849
- No.
Yeah, sure.
360
00:17:26,892 --> 00:17:28,546
Thanks.
361
00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,597
- So I talked to a buddy.
362
00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,947
A guy I met back when
I was trying to stop Tonia
363
00:17:37,990 --> 00:17:42,299
from draining me dry
after the split.
364
00:17:42,343 --> 00:17:44,780
He used to not mind
investing cash for me
365
00:17:44,823 --> 00:17:46,608
through his firm
when I needed him to.
366
00:17:46,651 --> 00:17:48,305
So I asked him to,
367
00:17:48,349 --> 00:17:50,873
hook me up
with someone out here.
368
00:17:50,916 --> 00:17:54,572
To invest our cash.
369
00:17:54,616 --> 00:17:58,098
So that's why it's not in
the safe deposit box anymore.
370
00:18:04,930 --> 00:18:06,932
- I have the text alert option.
371
00:18:06,976 --> 00:18:09,021
So I got a text today
372
00:18:09,065 --> 00:18:10,153
saying that you were there.
373
00:18:10,197 --> 00:18:11,154
It didn't tell me why,
374
00:18:11,198 --> 00:18:12,242
but it made me realize
375
00:18:12,286 --> 00:18:13,548
I hadn't told you
376
00:18:13,591 --> 00:18:17,073
that I had taken the cash out.
377
00:18:18,988 --> 00:18:21,599
All right.
378
00:18:21,643 --> 00:18:23,340
That's fine.
379
00:18:25,255 --> 00:18:26,822
- So?
380
00:18:26,865 --> 00:18:28,215
Why were you there?
381
00:18:31,043 --> 00:18:33,916
- Well...
382
00:18:33,959 --> 00:18:37,615
Veronica came by
the office today.
383
00:18:37,659 --> 00:18:40,140
And, um,
384
00:18:40,183 --> 00:18:43,230
somehow, she knows
we're married.
385
00:18:43,273 --> 00:18:45,580
So cat's out of the bag.
386
00:18:48,235 --> 00:18:50,019
We can wear these now.
387
00:18:52,021 --> 00:18:53,153
- Really?
388
00:19:01,987 --> 00:19:03,250
Aww.
389
00:19:03,293 --> 00:19:04,947
We're married.
390
00:19:32,453 --> 00:19:35,630
Here we go.
391
00:19:35,673 --> 00:19:38,720
- Look at the camera.
392
00:19:38,763 --> 00:19:40,287
- We should treat every child
393
00:19:40,330 --> 00:19:42,637
not just as a case patient,
394
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,640
but as if they were part
of our own family.
395
00:19:45,683 --> 00:19:48,512
Thank you so much for coming.
396
00:19:54,301 --> 00:19:55,650
- Great talk.
Thank you.
397
00:19:55,693 --> 00:19:57,608
- Really appreciate it.
You have a good afternoon.
398
00:19:57,652 --> 00:19:59,480
Okay? Take care.
- Nice to meet you.
399
00:19:59,523 --> 00:20:01,046
- Nice to meet you. Bye.
400
00:20:02,439 --> 00:20:04,528
- No, please, sorry.
Drink it.
401
00:20:04,572 --> 00:20:06,095
I know everyone wants
to talk to you.
402
00:20:06,138 --> 00:20:08,315
- I'm Maggie.
- Tonia.
403
00:20:08,358 --> 00:20:10,752
I'm a CRNA at St. Hilda's
in Dayton.
404
00:20:10,795 --> 00:20:13,145
- Dayton, yeah, I've heard
that's a great hospital.
405
00:20:13,189 --> 00:20:16,061
- Yeah, yeah, I mean--
no, it is.
406
00:20:17,759 --> 00:20:19,326
- I-I just wanted to tell you
407
00:20:19,369 --> 00:20:21,066
how much I loved your talk.
408
00:20:21,110 --> 00:20:22,546
I always--well,
409
00:20:22,590 --> 00:20:24,809
I just prefer the more
anecdotal speeches
410
00:20:24,853 --> 00:20:26,811
to the really technical ones.
411
00:20:26,855 --> 00:20:28,378
- Well, and I know
a lot of our colleagues
412
00:20:28,422 --> 00:20:29,771
would like a little more...
413
00:20:29,814 --> 00:20:31,729
"Intracranial
cysts in children.
414
00:20:31,773 --> 00:20:34,297
"Peritoneal derivation
or endoscopic fenestration?
415
00:20:34,341 --> 00:20:35,733
Discuss."
416
00:20:35,777 --> 00:20:38,127
But I'm like you,
I like to hear about people.
417
00:20:38,170 --> 00:20:40,695
- I--well, I've only worked
one pediatric case.
418
00:20:40,738 --> 00:20:42,349
Two months old, hydrocephalus,
419
00:20:42,392 --> 00:20:44,525
VP shunt placement failed.
420
00:20:44,568 --> 00:20:46,744
You would not believe
how cute this baby was.
421
00:20:46,788 --> 00:20:48,529
Eyelashes like "swock."
422
00:20:48,572 --> 00:20:50,574
I would definitely
believe it.
423
00:20:50,618 --> 00:20:52,533
Do you have a family yourself?
424
00:20:52,576 --> 00:20:54,839
- Yep. Married, two kids.
Both under five.
425
00:20:54,883 --> 00:20:56,276
- Wow.
- I know.
426
00:20:56,319 --> 00:20:58,452
- You are an American hero.
427
00:20:58,495 --> 00:21:00,323
- Well, what about you?
428
00:21:00,367 --> 00:21:02,151
Not yet.
429
00:21:02,194 --> 00:21:04,501
I used to think I was
more effective without kids.
430
00:21:04,545 --> 00:21:06,721
Less emotional, in a good way.
431
00:21:06,764 --> 00:21:08,592
But then a few years ago,
I realized
432
00:21:08,636 --> 00:21:10,202
that wasn't true anymore.
433
00:21:10,246 --> 00:21:12,727
- Now you think
maybe you might?
434
00:21:12,770 --> 00:21:15,295
- Yeah. Um...
435
00:21:15,338 --> 00:21:16,731
I didn't want to do it alone.
436
00:21:16,774 --> 00:21:18,298
And, you know,
it took me a while
437
00:21:18,341 --> 00:21:21,083
to find the person,
you know, but...
438
00:21:21,126 --> 00:21:22,389
we're about ten months in now,
439
00:21:22,432 --> 00:21:24,260
and yeah, we're having
those conversations.
440
00:21:24,304 --> 00:21:25,740
- Well, congratulations.
441
00:21:25,783 --> 00:21:27,742
That's gonna be one smart kid.
- Thank you.
442
00:21:27,785 --> 00:21:30,745
- No, thank you, again,
for the talk, really.
443
00:21:30,788 --> 00:21:32,224
Well, it's my pleasure.
444
00:21:32,268 --> 00:21:35,663
And it was really nice
to meet you...
445
00:21:35,706 --> 00:21:37,578
- Tonia.
446
00:21:37,621 --> 00:21:39,754
Tonia Meehan.
447
00:21:39,797 --> 00:21:44,149
- Dayton, you said
you're a CRNA in Dayton?
448
00:21:44,193 --> 00:21:45,281
- Yeah.
449
00:21:47,457 --> 00:21:49,416
- What does your husband do?
450
00:21:49,459 --> 00:21:51,505
- John?
Well, he's actually one too.
451
00:21:51,548 --> 00:21:53,768
He travels a lot more than me.
452
00:21:53,811 --> 00:21:55,813
I stick near home for the kids.
453
00:21:55,857 --> 00:21:57,815
Actually, he's been coming
to Indiana a lot.
454
00:21:57,859 --> 00:21:59,687
You might have crossed paths
at work.
455
00:21:59,730 --> 00:22:01,602
It wouldn't be surprising
at all.
456
00:22:27,236 --> 00:22:28,716
- Hey.
457
00:22:28,759 --> 00:22:30,413
How's it going?
458
00:22:32,284 --> 00:22:33,503
You look wiped.
459
00:22:33,547 --> 00:22:37,246
It's a good thing
the kids are asleep.
460
00:22:37,289 --> 00:22:39,509
Those conferences
are tough?
461
00:22:39,553 --> 00:22:41,511
Not that looking after
two kids is easy.
462
00:22:41,555 --> 00:22:44,340
The latest thing is they've
taken to pinching each other.
463
00:22:46,386 --> 00:22:48,518
So...
464
00:22:48,562 --> 00:22:51,391
what's the latest
in anesthesia care?
465
00:22:56,308 --> 00:22:57,919
No? All right.
466
00:22:57,962 --> 00:23:00,443
Let's start smaller.
467
00:23:00,487 --> 00:23:02,576
What--what'd you learn?
468
00:23:04,795 --> 00:23:07,363
- I talked to a
pediatric neurosurgeon.
469
00:23:07,407 --> 00:23:09,539
- Yeah?
They're smart.
470
00:23:12,716 --> 00:23:13,978
- Yeah.
471
00:23:14,022 --> 00:23:16,328
Her name is Maggie Baratta.
472
00:23:30,517 --> 00:23:33,389
- Are...
473
00:23:33,433 --> 00:23:35,652
are you smiling?
474
00:23:35,696 --> 00:23:38,612
- Okay. All right.
475
00:23:38,655 --> 00:23:41,353
So you want to get
into this now?
476
00:23:41,397 --> 00:23:43,834
You want to get into this
right now.
477
00:23:47,055 --> 00:23:49,231
- Get into what, John?
478
00:23:49,274 --> 00:23:50,624
What are we getting into?
479
00:23:50,667 --> 00:23:54,541
She said you've been together
almost ten months.
480
00:24:06,074 --> 00:24:09,469
She operates two days a week.
481
00:24:09,512 --> 00:24:12,776
Sees patients two mornings.
482
00:24:12,820 --> 00:24:14,735
She probably makes,
I don't know,
483
00:24:14,778 --> 00:24:17,346
like, 500K?
484
00:24:17,389 --> 00:24:18,739
And you saw her.
485
00:24:18,782 --> 00:24:21,002
I mean, she even looks
expensive, right?
486
00:24:24,832 --> 00:24:26,442
- What are you even...
487
00:24:26,486 --> 00:24:27,835
What--what are you even saying?
488
00:24:27,878 --> 00:24:29,837
Are you trying to upgrade?
489
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,055
You're showing off.
490
00:24:31,099 --> 00:24:33,014
You're putting on
some kind of show.
491
00:24:33,057 --> 00:24:35,712
I don't know for who.
492
00:24:35,756 --> 00:24:37,714
What is this, John?
493
00:24:40,935 --> 00:24:43,459
What are you doing?
494
00:24:45,853 --> 00:24:47,768
- I don't know.
495
00:24:53,338 --> 00:24:55,776
It's something.
496
00:25:06,830 --> 00:25:08,919
- I'll go over
everything with you,
497
00:25:08,963 --> 00:25:10,878
and then I've also
printed up a copy.
498
00:25:10,921 --> 00:25:13,881
My God.
-It's--it's a lot.
499
00:25:13,924 --> 00:25:16,274
Arrest record's on top.
500
00:25:18,799 --> 00:25:20,714
- "Felony, burglary,
first degree.
501
00:25:20,757 --> 00:25:22,454
Felony, burglary,
second degree."
502
00:25:22,498 --> 00:25:24,239
What is the difference
between those two?
503
00:25:24,282 --> 00:25:26,110
- Second is entering
a commercial building
504
00:25:26,154 --> 00:25:28,199
with intent to commit.
505
00:25:28,243 --> 00:25:30,462
First is entering a residence.
506
00:25:30,506 --> 00:25:33,074
So both of those.
507
00:25:33,117 --> 00:25:35,032
- I knew it.
508
00:25:39,036 --> 00:25:42,300
"Felony threat
with intent to extort.
509
00:25:42,344 --> 00:25:45,260
"Felony...
510
00:25:45,303 --> 00:25:48,045
Possession of a gun
by a felon."
511
00:25:48,089 --> 00:25:50,265
John's a gun guy?
He has guns?
512
00:25:50,308 --> 00:25:51,527
- At least once
that we know of,
513
00:25:51,571 --> 00:25:55,270
he has been a guy
with a gun, yeah.
514
00:25:58,795 --> 00:26:00,754
- What are all
these numbers here?
515
00:26:00,797 --> 00:26:02,756
- Social Security numbers
he's used.
516
00:26:02,799 --> 00:26:06,237
- If he has been arrested
for all of these things,
517
00:26:06,281 --> 00:26:08,326
and he's been charged
with all of them,
518
00:26:08,370 --> 00:26:09,763
then why is he not in prison?
519
00:26:09,806 --> 00:26:11,939
- He was, and now he's not.
520
00:26:11,982 --> 00:26:14,115
- Okay, but, like,
he pled guilty
521
00:26:14,158 --> 00:26:16,030
for stalking and a gun
in California.
522
00:26:16,073 --> 00:26:17,597
It says that he was...
523
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,860
"given two concurrent
two-year sentences," so--
524
00:26:19,903 --> 00:26:21,252
- Right, so concurrent means
525
00:26:21,296 --> 00:26:23,428
you serve them
at the same time.
526
00:26:23,472 --> 00:26:25,953
So two concurrent sentences,
527
00:26:25,996 --> 00:26:28,477
and the court gave him credit
for time served
528
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,435
and good behavior.
529
00:26:30,479 --> 00:26:34,918
So two years minus
541 days credit
530
00:26:34,962 --> 00:26:36,833
is 6 1/3 months.
531
00:26:36,877 --> 00:26:38,487
Now, he should have gone
to state prison,
532
00:26:38,530 --> 00:26:41,925
but overcrowding,
so he serves 6 1/3 months
533
00:26:41,969 --> 00:26:44,580
at Theo Lacy Jail in Orange,
534
00:26:44,624 --> 00:26:46,626
and he was released.
535
00:26:46,669 --> 00:26:49,280
- The third week
of last September.
536
00:26:51,195 --> 00:26:53,981
That's when he met my mom.
537
00:26:54,024 --> 00:26:56,505
So where--where did he go
when he got out?
538
00:26:56,548 --> 00:26:57,985
Where was he living?
539
00:26:58,028 --> 00:27:00,161
- I haven't found
any fixed address for him
540
00:27:00,204 --> 00:27:01,641
in that time frame yet.
541
00:27:03,686 --> 00:27:05,906
- So...
542
00:27:05,949 --> 00:27:09,953
when I told my mom I thought
he looked homeless,
543
00:27:09,997 --> 00:27:13,174
maybe he actually was homeless.
544
00:27:20,398 --> 00:27:21,573
- There she is.
545
00:27:21,617 --> 00:27:22,966
You did great, Celia.
546
00:27:23,010 --> 00:27:24,576
You're a Spartan.
547
00:27:24,620 --> 00:27:26,317
- They get it all?
548
00:27:26,361 --> 00:27:28,580
- Yeah, surgeon's on his way
down to talk to you.
549
00:27:28,624 --> 00:27:31,540
You got a tube going there,
so be careful.
550
00:27:31,583 --> 00:27:33,585
Got a pump for your meds.
551
00:27:33,629 --> 00:27:36,240
How's your pain right now?
552
00:27:36,284 --> 00:27:37,589
From a one to ten?
553
00:27:37,633 --> 00:27:39,591
One, "I feel okay," to...
554
00:27:39,635 --> 00:27:41,942
Ten? Your pain is a ten?
555
00:27:41,985 --> 00:27:43,334
Okay. All right.
556
00:27:43,378 --> 00:27:46,207
I'm gonna take that away.
557
00:28:09,752 --> 00:28:11,972
- He barely drew out
the fentanyl.
558
00:28:12,015 --> 00:28:14,061
I think what he gave her
was saline.
559
00:28:14,104 --> 00:28:16,019
I know he didn't give her meds.
560
00:28:16,063 --> 00:28:19,283
And I saw him drop the vials
in his pocket.
561
00:28:19,327 --> 00:28:21,068
He didn't put them
in the receptacle.
562
00:28:21,111 --> 00:28:23,157
- You seriously think
John would steal drugs?
563
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,245
From a patient?
564
00:28:24,288 --> 00:28:26,290
- I'm telling you what I saw.
565
00:28:26,334 --> 00:28:28,510
And...
566
00:28:28,553 --> 00:28:30,120
I reported it to Aikiko.
567
00:28:30,164 --> 00:28:31,600
She's calling
the Nursing Board.
568
00:28:31,643 --> 00:28:33,733
My God.
569
00:28:33,776 --> 00:28:35,212
Lynn, why would you?
570
00:28:35,256 --> 00:28:37,171
He'll lose his license.
571
00:28:37,214 --> 00:28:40,087
- It was smooth, Tonia,
572
00:28:40,130 --> 00:28:41,392
what he did.
573
00:28:41,436 --> 00:28:43,090
This was not a "day one" thing.
574
00:28:43,133 --> 00:28:44,744
It was just the first time
anyone saw him.
575
00:29:11,422 --> 00:29:15,122
John is not the only CRNA
in your family, Tonia.
576
00:29:15,165 --> 00:29:17,689
If this is a bigger thing
577
00:29:17,733 --> 00:29:19,126
than what I--
578
00:29:19,169 --> 00:29:20,475
and it ends up with the cops
579
00:29:20,518 --> 00:29:21,519
searching your house for drugs,
580
00:29:21,563 --> 00:29:22,564
they could think that you
581
00:29:22,607 --> 00:29:23,695
were stealing them too.
582
00:29:23,739 --> 00:29:26,568
Or at least that
you knew he was.
583
00:29:37,187 --> 00:29:39,624
They could take your kids.
584
00:29:39,668 --> 00:29:41,365
And I know you.
585
00:29:41,409 --> 00:29:42,714
I know you would never.
586
00:29:50,157 --> 00:29:51,506
- But...
587
00:29:51,549 --> 00:29:55,118
I'm not the one you'd
have to prove it to.
588
00:30:32,242 --> 00:30:33,635
- Hello?
589
00:30:33,678 --> 00:30:35,115
- Hi, Debra,
it's Paula Harding,
590
00:30:35,158 --> 00:30:36,246
the attorney.
591
00:30:36,290 --> 00:30:37,769
- Hi, Paula, how are you?
592
00:30:37,813 --> 00:30:40,424
I...
593
00:30:40,468 --> 00:30:42,426
I'm just gonna start.
594
00:30:42,470 --> 00:30:45,212
- Well, that doesn't sound
very good.
595
00:30:45,255 --> 00:30:46,474
- They're him.
596
00:30:46,517 --> 00:30:47,475
The restraining orders
597
00:30:47,518 --> 00:30:49,216
in Ohio and California,
598
00:30:49,259 --> 00:30:51,783
and more in Indiana
and Kentucky, all...
599
00:30:51,827 --> 00:30:54,395
it's all the same guy,
it's all your husband.
600
00:30:54,438 --> 00:30:57,615
Okay. Well...
601
00:30:59,313 --> 00:31:01,445
Are you sure?
602
00:31:01,489 --> 00:31:04,187
- In California and Ohio,
he's been in prison.
603
00:31:04,231 --> 00:31:06,755
California more than once.
604
00:31:06,798 --> 00:31:07,843
- Prison for what?
605
00:31:07,887 --> 00:31:09,192
- Stalking a woman.
606
00:31:09,236 --> 00:31:10,454
Violating a restraining order
607
00:31:10,498 --> 00:31:12,282
against a different woman.
608
00:31:12,326 --> 00:31:13,762
Doing drugs.
609
00:31:16,199 --> 00:31:18,767
The online purchases were
component parts of a handgun,
610
00:31:18,810 --> 00:31:21,117
a Sig Sauer,
like he was trying to buy
611
00:31:21,161 --> 00:31:22,597
each piece
from a different place
612
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,078
and use them all
to build the one gun.
613
00:31:25,121 --> 00:31:26,470
- And was he able to do that?
614
00:31:26,514 --> 00:31:28,733
Was he able to get...
615
00:31:28,777 --> 00:31:30,605
all the pieces?
616
00:31:30,648 --> 00:31:32,302
- I-I don't know.
617
00:31:34,304 --> 00:31:35,610
And what, what--
618
00:31:35,653 --> 00:31:37,438
so then what should I do?
619
00:31:37,481 --> 00:31:38,743
Look.
620
00:31:38,787 --> 00:31:40,267
This man has sued every lawyer
621
00:31:40,310 --> 00:31:41,572
who's ever filed against him.
622
00:31:41,616 --> 00:31:42,660
Tied them up with complaints.
623
00:31:42,704 --> 00:31:44,314
He's sued his own lawyers
624
00:31:44,358 --> 00:31:45,837
after they've won
judgements for him
625
00:31:45,881 --> 00:31:49,754
so they couldn't collect
their fees, I-I--
626
00:31:49,798 --> 00:31:52,366
I-I just can't deal with
somebody like that.
627
00:31:54,411 --> 00:31:57,110
I'm sorry.
628
00:31:57,153 --> 00:31:59,329
Debra?
629
00:31:59,373 --> 00:32:01,897
- I'm--
okay, so that's it, then?
630
00:32:01,941 --> 00:32:03,594
- The annulment.
631
00:32:03,638 --> 00:32:05,422
You should file on that
right away.
632
00:32:05,466 --> 00:32:07,947
And if you have a will
and he's in it,
633
00:32:07,990 --> 00:32:09,644
take him out.
634
00:32:09,687 --> 00:32:11,298
If you don't have one,
635
00:32:11,341 --> 00:32:12,429
you need to make one
right away
636
00:32:12,473 --> 00:32:13,561
that does not mention him.
637
00:32:13,604 --> 00:32:14,562
And you need to make sure
638
00:32:14,605 --> 00:32:15,824
he knows it doesn't.
639
00:32:15,867 --> 00:32:16,868
Because if he thinks he would
640
00:32:16,912 --> 00:32:18,609
be getting your money,
641
00:32:18,653 --> 00:32:20,785
I don't know what he might do.
642
00:32:20,829 --> 00:32:23,136
- The palpitations?
Shortness of breath?
643
00:32:23,179 --> 00:32:24,615
Dizziness?
You were totally right
644
00:32:24,659 --> 00:32:26,313
to come here, okay?
645
00:32:26,356 --> 00:32:28,228
But it's not your heart.
646
00:32:28,271 --> 00:32:30,317
I'm gonna give you
some lorazepam.
647
00:32:32,536 --> 00:32:34,234
Anybody waiting?
648
00:32:34,277 --> 00:32:35,365
Do you need me to go out front,
649
00:32:35,409 --> 00:32:37,846
bring anyone back here for you?
650
00:32:37,889 --> 00:32:40,153
Husband? Partner?
651
00:32:40,196 --> 00:32:41,589
- No.
652
00:32:41,632 --> 00:32:42,851
- Well, then,
653
00:32:42,894 --> 00:32:44,461
you just rest here for a bit,
654
00:32:44,505 --> 00:32:45,549
and when I come back
with your script,
655
00:32:45,593 --> 00:32:46,768
we'll get you out of here.
656
00:32:46,811 --> 00:32:48,639
Okay?
657
00:32:48,683 --> 00:32:50,859
- Thank you.
658
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,477
Jeff.
659
00:33:00,521 --> 00:33:02,610
- Can you explain to us
a little bit about John?
660
00:33:02,653 --> 00:33:04,525
Shush.
661
00:33:04,568 --> 00:33:07,919
Someday, I'll be president,
and I will exile this man.
662
00:33:07,963 --> 00:33:09,704
Okay,
let me start by saying
663
00:33:09,747 --> 00:33:12,837
that John Meehan--
John Meehan's nickname
664
00:33:12,881 --> 00:33:15,101
is Filthy John Meehan.
665
00:33:15,144 --> 00:33:16,885
- And can you remember when
666
00:33:16,928 --> 00:33:18,582
you first created
that nickname and why?
667
00:33:18,626 --> 00:33:20,062
- Yes, yes, I can.
668
00:33:20,106 --> 00:33:22,021
But it cannot be divulged
on camera.
669
00:33:23,109 --> 00:33:24,197
- I just want to say,
670
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:25,763
I take showers now.
671
00:33:25,807 --> 00:33:27,069
And baths, okay?
672
00:33:27,113 --> 00:33:28,244
I'm a fan of being clean.
673
00:33:28,288 --> 00:33:29,767
All right?
674
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,902
- I mean, coke, yeah.
675
00:33:33,945 --> 00:33:34,990
We were in grad school.
676
00:33:35,034 --> 00:33:36,470
There was studying
677
00:33:36,513 --> 00:33:38,863
that some of us even
took seriously.
678
00:33:38,907 --> 00:33:40,648
But so a few of the guys
did coke.
679
00:33:40,691 --> 00:33:41,779
John did it, yeah.
680
00:33:41,823 --> 00:33:44,086
Keep-you-awake kind of stuff.
681
00:33:44,130 --> 00:33:46,958
We were young. Ish.
682
00:33:47,002 --> 00:33:50,658
Also, all of us in the house
thought you were great.
683
00:33:50,701 --> 00:33:52,051
Honestly, we kind of wondered
684
00:33:52,094 --> 00:33:54,531
why you would be with him.
685
00:33:54,575 --> 00:33:55,532
- Why?
686
00:33:55,576 --> 00:33:57,099
Why--why wouldn't I?
687
00:33:57,143 --> 00:33:59,580
About you being
nice and smart,
688
00:33:59,623 --> 00:34:00,842
a nurse.
689
00:34:00,885 --> 00:34:04,672
And just like...
690
00:34:04,715 --> 00:34:07,022
Just being, like,
a dog with women.
691
00:34:08,937 --> 00:34:10,634
- Is that why the name?
692
00:34:10,678 --> 00:34:13,289
He never told me.
- Dirty? Filthy?
693
00:34:13,333 --> 00:34:15,857
Yeah, I guess.
- Dirty John.
694
00:34:15,900 --> 00:34:18,555
- Yeah. Hello, hi.
695
00:34:18,599 --> 00:34:20,644
Second time asking for coffee.
696
00:34:20,688 --> 00:34:21,689
Whenever you get a chance.
697
00:34:21,732 --> 00:34:22,994
Um, but it was also about
698
00:34:23,038 --> 00:34:24,648
the other kinds of stuff
he was up to.
699
00:34:24,692 --> 00:34:26,302
You know, the credit cards,
the yard work thing.
700
00:34:30,654 --> 00:34:32,526
- Um, what are you
talking about?
701
00:34:32,569 --> 00:34:34,702
- He had...
God.
702
00:34:34,745 --> 00:34:36,182
He had business cards made up.
703
00:34:36,225 --> 00:34:38,053
Like for roofing, yard work.
704
00:34:38,097 --> 00:34:41,143
And he'd give them out
to older people
705
00:34:41,187 --> 00:34:43,058
and say he'd throw them
a break on--thank you--
706
00:34:43,102 --> 00:34:44,755
shingling or a chimney rebuild.
707
00:34:44,799 --> 00:34:46,279
Just--
that's enough, thanks.
708
00:34:46,322 --> 00:34:47,976
Give them an advance
for materials.
709
00:34:48,019 --> 00:34:50,631
And then he'd take the money
and not go back.
710
00:34:52,807 --> 00:34:54,200
- And what about
the credit cards?
711
00:34:54,243 --> 00:34:57,072
They'd come in the mail
to the house.
712
00:34:57,116 --> 00:34:58,856
All different names.
713
00:34:58,900 --> 00:35:02,730
At first we thought it was
a delivery mistake, but...
714
00:35:02,773 --> 00:35:04,253
It wasn't.
715
00:35:06,386 --> 00:35:09,215
Also, some of the guys saw him
716
00:35:09,258 --> 00:35:11,260
run into the street
at stop signs
717
00:35:11,304 --> 00:35:14,829
and throw himself onto the hood
of a car slowing down.
718
00:35:14,872 --> 00:35:16,918
And tell the driver,
"Give me 300 bucks
719
00:35:16,961 --> 00:35:19,703
and your premium won't go up."
720
00:35:19,747 --> 00:35:22,053
And they did.
721
00:35:22,097 --> 00:35:25,056
- Um...
722
00:35:25,100 --> 00:35:28,147
how was he keeping
all these scams straight
723
00:35:28,190 --> 00:35:31,237
and going to classes too?
724
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,805
- Last semester, second year,
he was definitely gone.
725
00:35:34,849 --> 00:35:36,590
But he might have bailed
before that.
726
00:35:36,633 --> 00:35:39,332
We weren't in the same classes.
727
00:35:39,375 --> 00:35:40,811
Sorry.
728
00:35:42,422 --> 00:35:44,728
- For what?
- I lived with him that year.
729
00:35:44,772 --> 00:35:46,817
And we had good times
or whatever.
730
00:35:46,861 --> 00:35:49,168
But he never talked about
things and I never asked.
731
00:35:49,211 --> 00:35:51,344
I don't know why.
732
00:35:51,387 --> 00:35:52,954
So...
733
00:35:52,997 --> 00:35:55,783
I don't know... why.
734
00:35:55,826 --> 00:35:58,220
There's just...
735
00:35:58,264 --> 00:36:00,701
a blank space
where the story should be.
736
00:36:22,810 --> 00:36:24,246
Are you okay?
737
00:36:24,290 --> 00:36:26,814
- Yeah? Come on.
738
00:36:49,358 --> 00:36:51,012
- What are you doing here?
739
00:36:51,055 --> 00:36:52,318
- If I ask you a question,
740
00:36:52,361 --> 00:36:54,885
will you answer me honestly?
741
00:36:54,929 --> 00:36:57,888
- John, I am the most
honest person you know.
742
00:36:57,932 --> 00:36:59,716
- Okay.
743
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,066
Who called
the state Nursing Board?
744
00:37:02,110 --> 00:37:03,459
- I'm not telling you.
745
00:37:03,503 --> 00:37:05,287
Why would I?
746
00:37:10,423 --> 00:37:11,728
- If you won't tell me
who it was,
747
00:37:11,772 --> 00:37:12,729
it means it was you.
748
00:37:12,773 --> 00:37:15,819
My God.
749
00:37:15,863 --> 00:37:18,039
This is what you care about.
750
00:37:18,082 --> 00:37:20,302
Not the patients
whose meds you stole?
751
00:37:20,346 --> 00:37:22,957
People relying on you
who you could have killed?
752
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:24,219
Either because
you're so out of it,
753
00:37:24,263 --> 00:37:25,873
you miss something,
754
00:37:25,916 --> 00:37:27,353
or because their hearts
could have stopped
755
00:37:27,396 --> 00:37:29,833
from the shock.
756
00:37:29,877 --> 00:37:32,227
Do you know we could have lost
the girls over this?
757
00:37:32,271 --> 00:37:34,273
- I have it
on excellent authority
758
00:37:34,316 --> 00:37:35,361
that you're the one who called.
759
00:37:35,404 --> 00:37:37,972
- Well, I didn't.
760
00:37:38,015 --> 00:37:39,278
You really sound like
you're going
761
00:37:39,321 --> 00:37:40,714
off the deep end,
you know that?
762
00:37:40,757 --> 00:37:42,106
- How would you know
what I sound like?
763
00:37:42,150 --> 00:37:44,239
You don't even know who I am.
764
00:37:51,333 --> 00:37:54,075
- Well, if you were me,
what would you do?
765
00:37:54,118 --> 00:37:55,468
Would you leave?
766
00:37:55,511 --> 00:37:57,818
- I'm not you.
767
00:37:57,861 --> 00:38:00,429
- Well...
Supposing that you were.
768
00:38:00,473 --> 00:38:02,431
- I can't make
this decision for you.
769
00:38:02,475 --> 00:38:04,085
Only you can.
770
00:38:04,128 --> 00:38:05,391
Because only you will know
771
00:38:05,434 --> 00:38:06,914
if you're really ready
for what might happen
772
00:38:06,957 --> 00:38:08,089
when you do.
773
00:38:08,132 --> 00:38:09,090
- Wait, what, what do you mean,
774
00:38:09,133 --> 00:38:10,918
"what might happen?"
775
00:38:10,961 --> 00:38:12,398
- His plan is ruined.
776
00:38:12,441 --> 00:38:14,965
Whatever it was,
you got the jump on him.
777
00:38:15,009 --> 00:38:17,272
Took him by surprise.
778
00:38:17,316 --> 00:38:18,273
- He's not gonna like that.
779
00:38:18,317 --> 00:38:20,188
- Probably not.
780
00:38:20,231 --> 00:38:23,409
And I don't know if
your daughter told you, but...
781
00:38:23,452 --> 00:38:26,412
two of the restraining orders
against him
782
00:38:26,455 --> 00:38:28,936
were taken out by...
783
00:38:28,979 --> 00:38:30,285
cops.
784
00:38:30,329 --> 00:38:32,505
Irvine PD. Women.
785
00:38:32,548 --> 00:38:34,855
A detective and a uni, I think?
786
00:38:34,898 --> 00:38:36,160
But still.
787
00:38:36,204 --> 00:38:37,466
Active duty cops.
788
00:38:37,510 --> 00:38:39,338
- So it's not dumb
to be scared.
789
00:38:39,381 --> 00:38:40,861
- No.
790
00:38:40,904 --> 00:38:41,905
Or to want to leave.
791
00:38:41,949 --> 00:38:42,906
And if you do leave,
792
00:38:42,950 --> 00:38:45,256
it's good to have a plan.
793
00:38:46,519 --> 00:38:48,434
- What kind of a plan?
794
00:38:48,477 --> 00:38:49,957
- Stay in hotels
795
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,524
or places you've never
stayed before
796
00:38:51,567 --> 00:38:53,177
but not the same place
for too long.
797
00:38:53,221 --> 00:38:55,092
We should get
a new car. Right?
798
00:38:55,136 --> 00:38:56,267
- And different clothes.
799
00:38:56,311 --> 00:38:57,965
Ones that blend in more.
800
00:38:58,008 --> 00:39:00,141
Her clothes do blend in
in Orange County.
801
00:39:00,184 --> 00:39:01,490
It's yours that stand out.
802
00:39:01,534 --> 00:39:04,014
- Snap.
803
00:39:04,058 --> 00:39:05,320
Dye your hair, probably.
804
00:39:05,364 --> 00:39:06,365
- Or wigs.
805
00:39:06,408 --> 00:39:07,931
There are great wigs today.
806
00:39:07,975 --> 00:39:08,976
- When you come
into a crowded place,
807
00:39:09,019 --> 00:39:10,412
really study the room.
808
00:39:10,456 --> 00:39:12,980
Try to notice if someone's
following you.
809
00:39:13,023 --> 00:39:15,199
Make yourself
a difficult target.
810
00:39:17,506 --> 00:39:19,160
- I have to go.
811
00:39:19,203 --> 00:39:22,816
Because he's picking
me up from work, and...
812
00:39:22,859 --> 00:39:24,339
I don't know...
813
00:39:24,383 --> 00:39:26,210
what he would do
if I wasn't there.
814
00:39:26,254 --> 00:39:28,430
So I need to, um--
I'm gonna go.
815
00:39:28,474 --> 00:39:30,171
Thank you.
816
00:39:32,173 --> 00:39:33,130
Bye, hon.
817
00:39:33,174 --> 00:39:34,480
- Look, Debra.
818
00:39:34,523 --> 00:39:37,352
Just get yourself out.
819
00:39:37,396 --> 00:39:40,355
That's what I'd do.
820
00:39:40,399 --> 00:39:43,358
- Okay. Thank you.
821
00:39:43,402 --> 00:39:45,578
I'll talk to you later, Ronnie.
822
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,121
Hi.
- Hey.
823
00:40:18,088 --> 00:40:19,916
I know you're in there,
Tonia. I can hear you.
824
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,265
You changed the locks on me?
825
00:40:21,309 --> 00:40:22,571
- I changed them all
so you know
826
00:40:22,615 --> 00:40:24,921
your keys don't work anymore.
827
00:40:24,965 --> 00:40:27,141
- You think I can't
get in there if I want to?
828
00:40:27,184 --> 00:40:28,621
- Why would you want to, John?
829
00:40:28,664 --> 00:40:30,187
There's nothing for you
in here.
830
00:40:30,231 --> 00:40:31,580
- You know what!
- Just the kids and me.
831
00:40:31,624 --> 00:40:33,103
What, your drugs?
832
00:40:33,147 --> 00:40:34,496
I got rid of them.
833
00:40:34,540 --> 00:40:36,063
To protect my children.
834
00:40:36,106 --> 00:40:38,108
Let me in!
835
00:40:39,196 --> 00:40:41,416
Get me my shit!
836
00:40:43,287 --> 00:40:45,420
Give me my shit, Tonia!
837
00:41:04,308 --> 00:41:07,094
- Mommy?
- Mommy!
838
00:41:15,668 --> 00:41:18,148
- Hello?
839
00:41:18,192 --> 00:41:20,499
Yes.
840
00:41:20,542 --> 00:41:23,110
I'm sorry to call so late.
841
00:41:23,153 --> 00:41:24,546
Maybe you're having dinner.
842
00:41:24,590 --> 00:41:26,113
California's
three hours behind,
843
00:41:26,156 --> 00:41:27,201
so I thought it would be okay.
844
00:41:27,244 --> 00:41:29,464
- Who is this?
845
00:41:29,508 --> 00:41:33,599
- I-I, um... I...
- Tonia?
846
00:41:33,642 --> 00:41:35,426
Is this Tonia?
847
00:41:35,470 --> 00:41:37,472
- Is this Delores?
848
00:41:37,516 --> 00:41:38,473
Meehan?
849
00:41:38,517 --> 00:41:40,257
My God.
850
00:41:40,301 --> 00:41:43,478
I knew you would call.
I knew it.
851
00:41:43,522 --> 00:41:45,306
And I wanted you to,
and I didn't.
852
00:41:45,349 --> 00:41:46,655
Because that means
853
00:41:46,699 --> 00:41:50,311
it's all gone wrong,
hasn't it?
854
00:41:50,354 --> 00:41:52,443
John warned me so many times,
855
00:41:52,487 --> 00:41:54,576
don't ever call you
or the kids,
856
00:41:54,620 --> 00:41:56,143
don't even try.
857
00:41:56,186 --> 00:41:58,058
Don't even think about it.
858
00:42:01,496 --> 00:42:04,499
Is he still doing drugs?
859
00:42:16,598 --> 00:42:18,382
- John?
860
00:42:20,776 --> 00:42:23,126
- John?
861
00:42:25,085 --> 00:42:26,652
Can you call someone?
-My God!
862
00:42:26,695 --> 00:42:28,349
- Deb...
- What's going on?
863
00:42:28,392 --> 00:42:30,046
- I don't know.
- Okay.
864
00:42:30,090 --> 00:42:31,526
My God.
My God.
865
00:42:37,358 --> 00:42:39,708
- With the nonmechanical
obstruction
866
00:42:39,752 --> 00:42:41,362
in your intestines,
I worry about infection.
867
00:42:41,405 --> 00:42:42,842
Which, we're okay, but we need
to move quickly.
868
00:42:42,885 --> 00:42:44,321
- What about the pain?
869
00:42:44,365 --> 00:42:45,496
- You'll be going into surgery
870
00:42:45,540 --> 00:42:46,541
hopefully tonight, Mr. Meehan.
871
00:42:46,585 --> 00:42:47,803
- I don't understand.
872
00:42:47,847 --> 00:42:50,806
He was fine and then
he just collapsed.
873
00:42:50,850 --> 00:42:52,547
- Is the surgery now?
874
00:42:52,591 --> 00:42:54,593
Like right goddamn now,
because if it isn't--
875
00:42:54,636 --> 00:42:56,377
- We're giving you 2 milligrams
of Dilaudid.
876
00:42:56,420 --> 00:42:59,380
- I need Dilaudid-HP.
Four milligrams.
877
00:42:59,423 --> 00:43:01,643
- How long have you been
on opioids, Mr. Meehan?
878
00:43:04,341 --> 00:43:06,039
- Deb, this is insane.
Come on.
879
00:43:06,082 --> 00:43:07,649
- Can you tell me, Mrs. Meehan?
880
00:43:07,693 --> 00:43:08,911
- Tell you--
- How long has your husband
881
00:43:08,955 --> 00:43:10,521
been taking opioids,
or which ones?
882
00:43:10,565 --> 00:43:12,393
- Because that's something
883
00:43:12,436 --> 00:43:14,395
to do with
his intestines, or...
884
00:43:14,438 --> 00:43:15,396
- He has a paralytic ileus.
885
00:43:15,439 --> 00:43:17,790
His blood work...
886
00:43:17,833 --> 00:43:19,356
could you help me understand
887
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,619
his history with narcotics?
888
00:43:20,662 --> 00:43:22,925
- I don't--I don't know it.
889
00:43:22,969 --> 00:43:24,405
I don't know.
890
00:43:24,448 --> 00:43:26,886
- I'm on a pain management
program.
891
00:43:26,929 --> 00:43:29,671
I injured--fractured
my right ankle.
892
00:43:29,715 --> 00:43:31,891
I also have
a spinal compression.
893
00:43:31,934 --> 00:43:33,588
So ever since,
I've been dealing with
894
00:43:33,632 --> 00:43:36,460
a cervical radiculopathy.
895
00:43:36,504 --> 00:43:38,680
- How did you injure yourself?
896
00:43:40,595 --> 00:43:42,945
- Iraq.
897
00:43:42,989 --> 00:43:45,687
Well, I'm not sure,
who was helping you here,
898
00:43:45,731 --> 00:43:47,602
but they shouldn't have let
this blockage develop.
899
00:43:47,646 --> 00:43:48,951
Pretty bad?
900
00:43:48,995 --> 00:43:50,779
But right now my tolerance
is so high.
901
00:43:50,823 --> 00:43:53,652
- I'm giving you 4 milligrams
of Dilaudid-HP
902
00:43:53,695 --> 00:43:56,002
every two hours.
903
00:43:56,045 --> 00:43:57,917
- I, um...
904
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,659
I don't think I'm gonna stay
here for the consult.
905
00:44:00,702 --> 00:44:01,964
It's not a problem.
906
00:44:02,008 --> 00:44:04,053
- I don't want them
to have to dumb it down
907
00:44:04,097 --> 00:44:06,403
for John,
and I'm not very good at
908
00:44:06,447 --> 00:44:08,928
thinking about blood, and...
909
00:44:11,104 --> 00:44:13,933
I'm gonna go to the chapel.
910
00:44:13,976 --> 00:44:16,109
And pray.
911
00:44:16,152 --> 00:44:17,763
- Okay.
912
00:44:19,590 --> 00:44:21,114
- I love you.
913
00:44:27,903 --> 00:44:30,036
You'll be just fine.
914
00:45:28,964 --> 00:45:30,139
- Yes?
915
00:45:30,183 --> 00:45:31,445
- You know why I have
916
00:45:31,488 --> 00:45:32,707
this big smile on my face?
917
00:45:36,058 --> 00:45:38,017
- Why, John?
918
00:45:38,060 --> 00:45:39,845
- 'Cause trust me.
919
00:45:39,888 --> 00:45:42,761
Just trust me.
That's why.
920
00:45:44,458 --> 00:45:45,981
- Trust you what?
You're not making any sense.
921
00:45:46,025 --> 00:45:48,505
- You'll understand
when it happens.
922
00:45:48,549 --> 00:45:51,073
You'll understand it all.
923
00:45:51,117 --> 00:45:53,510
I won't be anywhere near it.
924
00:45:53,554 --> 00:45:56,557
I'll be in Bermuda
or wherever,
925
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,429
having a drink
with a 22-year-old,
926
00:45:59,473 --> 00:46:03,216
smiling like I am right now.
927
00:46:03,259 --> 00:46:06,088
You should enjoy
your time left, Tonia.
928
00:46:06,132 --> 00:46:08,874
Your time left on this earth.
929
00:46:08,917 --> 00:46:11,877
That's what it's gonna
come down to.
930
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,749
Just, when it happens?
931
00:46:14,793 --> 00:46:16,533
When you see it in your eyes
932
00:46:16,577 --> 00:46:17,926
and you know,
933
00:46:17,970 --> 00:46:20,711
promise you'll remember
it was me.
934
00:46:32,985 --> 00:46:34,943
- Come here.
Come here, okay?
935
00:46:46,215 --> 00:46:47,260
- Do you have any words to say
936
00:46:47,303 --> 00:46:48,914
to the wedding couple?
937
00:46:48,957 --> 00:46:51,003
- Just keep your eyes
on him, Tonia.
938
00:46:51,046 --> 00:46:52,221
Don't let him
out of your sight.
939
00:46:54,789 --> 00:46:55,877
- Run!
63932
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