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"PREVIOUSLY ON LOVE AND MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...

I'M TRYING TO HAVE A HEALTHY BABY, YOU KNOW,

I MEAN LOOK, I'M 37 WEEKS. -WELL, SPEAKING OF 37 WEEKS.

-YEAH, GIRL, WHAT? -I'M NINE WEEKS.

Melody: OVER THE YEARS DESTINY AND I HAVE

REALLY STARTED BUILDING OUR FRIENDSHIP.

I'M SO HAPPY FOR Y'ALL.

THANK YOU GUYS FOR COMING TO THE BABY SHOWER.

WELL, OF COURSE, YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO THANK US FOR THAT.

BECAUSE YOU COULD HAVE PICKED SIDES

BUT YOU COULD HAVE BEEN LIKE, "OKAY, THIS IS MY FAMILY

RIGHT HERE AND I DON'T WANT THEM FEELING NO KIND OF WAY."

IT NEVER OCCURRED TO US NOT TO GO.

AS SOON AS THE DOCTOR ARRIVES THE BABY WILL BE HERE.

OH, WOW. -OH.

WELL, I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU SO MUCH FOR COMING OUT TONIGHT.

-HI. -I WASN'T EXPECTING TO SEE YOU.

I KNOW. I SURPRISED YOU, RIGHT?

I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT TISHA HAS THE AUDACITY TO CRASH MY EVENT.

SECURITY, ARE YOU ALLOWED TO ESCORT ANYONE OUT?

-YES. -GREAT, OKAY.

SO LET ME SHOW YOU.

SHE'S RIGHT THERE IN THE YELLOW POLKA DOTS, HELP YOURSELF.

DON'T PLAY WITH ME.

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GOOD TO SEE YOU.

I KNOW. IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU FOREVER.

-IT IS. -HOW ARE YOU?

-GOOD, HOW ARE YOU? -GOOD.

I'M LaTISHA SCOTT. YOU LOOK NICE.

YES?

WHY?

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DON'T PLAY WITH ME.

SO KIMMI, I AM GOING TO LEAVE BECAUSE THIS NICE CHAP

SAID HE'S BEEN ASKED TO ESCORT ME OUT.

-WHO? WHAT? NO! NO! -YES!

YOU GOTTA COME WITH ME. THIS IS SO EMBARRASSING.

I'M DONE WITH THIS. -WHY WOULD SHE DO THAT?

-NO. I'M GOING TO THE CAR. -WE'RE GONNA FIND MELODY.

WHY?

BECAUSE IF YOU MAKE AN OLIVE BRANCH

TO TRY TO MAKE A MOVE THEN SHE SHOULD ACCEPT THAT.

OKAY, HOLD ON ONE SECOND, OKAY. JUST GIVE ME ONE SECOND.

KNOCK, KNOCK, KNOCK. -SO THIS IS RIDICULOUS.

I DON'T KNOW WHY I WOULD BE ASKED TO BE ESCORTED OUT.

WAIT. WAIT. WE'RE NOT GONNA START LIKE THAT, WAIT.

Melody: WHY IS THIS GIRL IN MY FACE RIGHT NOW?

THIS IS MY EVENT. I'M TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME,

POSITIVE ENERGY WITH CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

SHOO. GO ALONG. SHE CAME HERE WITH A PICNIC DRESS.

IF SHE HAD THE INVITATION, SHE WOULD HAVE SEEN SEMI-FORMAL.

WELL THAT'S PROBABLY SEMI-FORMAL TO HER.

IT'S A PRIVATE EVENT, I'M SORRY.

BUT MEL, YOU KNOW, I DON'T WANT THIS.

THIS IS THE PROBLEM WHAT I'M SAYING TO YOU,

I DON'T WANT THIS.

I DON'T TALK TO YOU, I DON'T SEE YOU, SO IT'S LIKE,

"YOU KNOW WHAT, SHE'S HAVING THE EVENT,

LET ME JUST GO UP THERE AND SURPRISE HER".

HAVE YOU ASKED ME, "CAN WE MEET UP?".

NO, BABY, THIS AIN'T NO GOOD SURPRISE.

YEAH, THAT'S A GOOD SURPRISE.

I WOULD LIKE FOR US TO TALK WOMAN TO WOMAN.

I NEED TO TRY AND FIX WHAT EVER IS GOING ON.

AND THAT'S FINE, RIGHT, BUT NOT AT MY PRIVATE EVENT

THAT I'M HOSTING. LIKE THIS IS MY THING RIGHT NOW

AND THE PEOPLE I CHOSE THAT I WANT.

AND I'M NOT TRYING TO MESS UP YOUR THING,

I'M NOT TRYING TO MESS UP YOUR THING.

I FEEL YOU. THE PEOPLE THAT I CHOSE AND INVITED

AND WANTED TO BE ARE THE --

BUT YOU'RE MAKING IT A BIG DEAL, MEL.

-I'M NOT. I JUST ASKED -- -HEY LISTEN, I'M SORRY.

SO EVERYTHING WILL STAY POSITIVE.

THIS AIN'T THE RIGHT PLACE RIGHT NOW THOUGH.

THIS IS A MAJOR EVENT FOR HER, SO...

AND THAT'S WHY I'M HERE.

I WANT TO CELEBRATE THIS MAJOR EVENT WITH YOU,

AND THAT'S WHAT I CAME HERE FOR TO CONGRATULATE YOU.

A TEXT COULD HAVE DONE THAT AND THEN A,

"CAN WE TALK", SOME OTHER BEFORE HAND.

I GUESS IT'S COOL OR WHATEVER THAT TISHA WANTS

TO BE "SUPPORTIVE," BUT GIRL,

IF I WANTED YOU HERE, I WOULD HAVE SENT YOU AN INVITE.

-SORRY. -WHAT YOU SORRY FOR.

HE SHOULD BE SORRY.

EXCUSE ME, HOLD UP, SHOULD BE SORRY FOR WHAT?

YOUR HUSBAND HAS FILED A POLICE REPORT AGAINST MY HUSBAND.

YES, BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND THREATENED MY HUSBAND.

I DIDN'T THREATEN HIM.

I HAD MARTELL BLOCKED FROM MY PHONE

BECAUSE HE'S BEEN SENDING ME RUDE TEXT MESSAGES.

I AM REALLY UPSET WITH MARTELL ACTION RIGHT NOW.

HE WAS SO DISRESPECTFUL, LYING ON TEXTS

SO JUST STOP ALL OF THAT. STOP IT.

I HATE THE DISRESPECT. NOW GET TO STEPPING, PLEASE.

LIKE SIR, YES, LaTISHA SHH. -YOU TELL ME TO SHH?

SIR, HAVE YOU NOT ASKED HER? YOU NEED TO CALL BACK UP?

LET'S GO.

-BECAUSE I MEAN [BLEEP]. -I GOT IT. I DON'T NEED HIM.

I CAN'T BELIEVE I'M BEING ESCORTED OUT OF HERE.

OH, MY GOD. I'M A PROFESSIONAL.

IT AIN'T THE FIRST TIME YOU'VE SEEN THEM.

IT IS THE FIRST TIME, MEL, WHAT ABOUT YOU?

LET'S NOT GO THERE, SWEETIE. -WE CAN.

-LET'S NOT GO THERE, HONEY. -YEAH WE CAN. GO! GO, GO, GO!

HELL [BLEEP] NO. I'M NOT DOING IT AGAIN.

[BLEEP] NO.

IT'S ALWAYS, "OH, TISHA, IS GONNA LOOK LIKE THE BAD PERSON,

TISHA TAKING ALL THE Ls."

OKAY, THAT DIDN'T GO WELL. THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE.

LIKE THIS IS LIKE BORDERING ON, LIKE, ALMOST CRAZY TALK.

OF COURSE. I AIN'T EVEN SWEAT.

FEEL GOOD. -THAT WAS AMAZING.

I THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.

IF SHE DON'T WANT IT, [BLEEP] IT.

IT'S A TOUGH SPOT, COOKIE. I'M GONNA WALK WITH YOU.

Martell: COME ON, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.

OH, AHA.

-THEY'LL COME TO YOU. -WELL, THAT'S FINE BECAUSE

HONEY, YOU KNOW, I GETS RID OF ALL THE BIRDS.

GET RID OF ALL THE BIRDS BUT THIS ONE.

I'M THE ONLY BIRD UP IN HERE.

SO WHAT WOULD YOU SAY, "ESCORT HER OUT"?

LIKE, I'M A PROFESSIONAL WOMAN IN FRONT

OF ALL THOSE BUSINESS PEOPLE, IT'S NOT COOL.

THAT WHOLE SECURITY LITTLE BUTTER BALL

WASN'T GONNA GET THAT JOB DONE, TRUST THAT.

HE WAS MAKING HIS BEST EFFORT.

AFTER THIS EVENT, I'M NOT REACHING OUT ANYMORE.

IF YOU WANT ME AT SOMETHING, YOU CAN CALL AND INVITE ME.

I'M DONE.

-HEY, BOO. -HEY, BOO. THAT WAS AWESOME.

DID YOU SEE TISHA COME? HOP UP IN MY PRIVATE EVENT?

I SAW HER. WAIT, SHE WASN'T INVITED?

OF COURSE SHE WASN'T INVITED.

I SAW HER AND THEN I DIDN'T SEE HER.

I ESCORTED HER OUT. SHE CAME WITH A GIFT OF ATTITUDE,

I GAVE HER THE GIFT OF ESCORTION.

GIFT OF ATTITUDE, GIFT OF ESCORTION.

KIMMI LEFT TOO. I WASN'T EVEN ASKING KIMMI TO LEAVE,

BUT THAT'S HER FAMILY SO I GET IT.

I INVITED KIMMI. -RIGHT.

I WANTED KIMMI TO BE HERE, BUT I DID NOT INVITE LaTISHA.

-I GOT YOU, T. -OKAY.

-I LOVE YOU. -LOVE YOU TOO.

BYE-BYE. -SHE REALLY JUST SHOWED UP.

AND IT WAS LIKE, "I WANTED US TO, YOU KNOW,

TALK AND MAYBE TRY TO --"

-THIS IS NOT THE PLACE. -THIS AIN'T -- AIN'T THE PLACE.

SEE, THAT'S WHY WE VIBE BECAUSE IT AIN'T THE PLACE.

-THIS AIN'T ABOUT YOU. -IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.

MY EVENT HAS ACTUALLY BEEN AMAZING, OKAY?

EVEN THOUGHT THERE WAS A LITTLE BIT WE HAD TO TAKE CARE OF,

A LITTLE BUSINESS WE HAD TO HANDLE

AND KIND OF GET ESCORTED OUT.

STILL, I'M STILL THANKFUL FOR PEOPLE LIKE DESTINY

AND ALL OF MY OTHER FRIENDS WHO ARE HERE

WHO ARE GENUINELY SUPPORTIVE OF ME

AND MY DREAMS AND MY GOALS.

-CAN YOU SEE ME? -YEAH, I CAN SEE YOU.

-OH, I CAN'T SEE YOU. -I'M DRIVING, THE LIGHT'S OFF.

WHAT'S UP? -I'M HERE AT MEL'S EVENT.

DO YOU KNOW IN FRONT OF KIM LEWIS

AND ALL OF THE BUSINESS PEOPLE, SHE CALLED SECURITY

AND TELL THEM, "ESCORT HER OUT"? [ LAUGHS ]

I AM SO PISSED. I WAS LIKE, "YOU'RE GONNA ESCORT ME OUT?

I'M NOT EVEN DOING ANYTHING.

LIKE, I JUST STEPPED IN THE ROOM TO TALK TO YOU".

WHY YOU SO QUIET?

THEY'RE NOT ON YOUR SIDE, THEY'LL NEVER BE ON YOUR SIDE,

THIS IS NOT EVER GONNA BE SOMETHING.

THIS IS ALWAYS MAKE TISHA LOOK STUPID THING, ALWAYS.

DON'T DO THAT [BLEEP], OKAY?

ASK YOURSELF THE HONEST QUESTION,

IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS, "WHAT IS ADDED TO YOUR LIFE?"

WHAT DO THEY DO? -NOTHING. BUT IT'S LIKE--

SO WHY DO YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM?

I DON'T. THAT'S THE THING, MARSAU,

IT'S NOT THAT I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM,

IT'S LIKE, I TRY TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON

TO JUST BE LIKE, "LISTEN."

[BLEEP] BIGGER PERSON. JUST BE THE REGULAR PERSON.

BE YOU. THAT'S NOT YOU. -YEAH.

WELL, DEFINITELY DEAD TO ME NOW. -THEY'RE THE ONES THREATENING US

AND THEN GET SECURITY. -RIGHT. RIGHT.

AND COME ON, MAN. [BLEEP] THEM.

COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...

I'M KIND OF TIRED OF KIMMI PLAYING MEDIATOR ON SOME [BLEEP]

SHE'S JUST BEING A LITTLE MESSY.

MAURICE AND HER WERE DATING FOR LIKE ABOUT SEVEN OR EIGHT YEARS.

-HE WASN'T DIVORCED YET. -KIMMI, SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK.

TISHA COMES UP TO ME, "THIS OFFICER'S PUTTING ME OUT".

-A OFFICER? -HE WAS KINDA OPIE-ISH.

-[ LAUGHS ] OH, NO! -LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY.

IT WAS. MJ DIDN'T WANT TO EAT, THEY WANTED THREE

DIFFERENT FOODS FROM THREE DIFFERENT RESTAURANTS

SO YEAH, IT WAS DEFINITELY CRAZY.

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Kimmi: HEY, WHY YOU TURN THE LIGHT ON?

Maurice: IT'S TIME TO GET UP BECAUSE IF I GET TOO COMFORTABLE,

I'M GOING TO GO BACK TO SLEEP. -I KNOW.

-WHAT DO YOU HAVE PLANNED? -SO TIRED.

I THINK I HAVE TO SHOW A HOUSE MAYBE AT 2:00.

I THINK I'M GONNA TAKE MY LUNCH LATE

SO I CAN SHOW THE HOUSE AT 2:00.

YOU'RE SELLING A HOUSE ON YOUR LUNCH BREAK?

BUT WHAT IF YOU JUST LIKE DIDN'T TAKE LUNCH BREAKS

TO SHOW YOUR HOUSE. -WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

LIKE QUITTING YOUR JOB?

MAURICE HAS WANTED ME TO GIVE INTO REAL ESTATE

FOR A WHILE NOW, BUT I'VE BEEN A NURSE FOR 22 YEARS.

I'M GOOD AT WHAT I DO

AND I DON'T TAKE THIS PARTICULAR DECISION LIGHTLY.

MAURICE IS AN ENTREPRENEUR,

AND MAURICE WANTS EVERYBODY TO BE AN ENTREPRENEUR.

THAT MAY BE WHAT'S BEST FOR HIM, BUT THIS DECISION,

I'VE GOTTA DO WHAT'S BEST FOR ME.

HOPEFULLY THAT'LL BE BEST FOR US AT THE END OF THE DAY.

I'M SO TIRED. -I KNOW, RIGHT.

I NEED TO MAKE SURE MONSTER'S GETTING READY.

I KNOW.

GET IN THERE AND TAKE THAT SUPER LONG SHOWER.

NO!

HE KEEPS TAKING 30 MINUTE SHOWERS.

HE NEEDS TO TAKE A 10 MINUTE SHOWER.

WHAT'S UP BOY? GET UP.

FINALLY FOR THE FIRST TIME SINCE MY DIVORCE,

MONSTER'S LIVING WITH ME FULL-TIME.

WHEN I WAS 13 GROWING UP, IT WAS ALMOST IDENTICAL TO MY SON.

I LIVED WITH MY DAD, I CHANGED SCHOOLS,

BUT IT'S SCARY TO SEE HIM GOING THROUGH

THE EXACT SAME TRANSITIONS.

A LOT HAPPENS IN THE TEENAGE YEARS.

-GOOD MORNING, SUNSHINE. -GOOD MORNING.

-CAN I GET SOME? -YEAH.

WE GOING TO GET A GOOD START TODAY?

MM-HMM.

YOU SMELL GOOD, LIKE YOU DID SOME STUFF IN THERE.

DID YOU PUT THAT STUFF IN YOUR HAIR?

-NOT YET. -WHAT'S THE WHOLE BLANKET THING?

YOU DON'T HAVE A BATHROBE? -NO.

-OKAY. -YOU DON'T HAVE A BATHROBE?

WHY YOU LOOKING AT ME LIKE THAT, BABY?

BY THE WAY, BABY. -WHAT'S UP?

I'M NOT TRYING TO MAKE YOU A HOUSE WIFE.

I JUST WANT YOU TO HAVE ALL THE TIME THAT YOU NEED.

ALL THE TIME I NEED FOR WHAT?

WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANNA DO.

LIKE I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD USE YOUR TIME

THE WAY YOU WANT TO USE YOUR TIME.

MAURICE KNOWS THAT I COUNT MY CORNS,

I WATCH WHERE MY MONEY GOES AND SO HE KNOWS VERY WELL

THAT LEAVING THIS JOB WITH THAT CHECK COMING EVERY TWO WEEKS

MAKES ME NERVOUS. LAST NIGHT WAS LONG.

-REALLY? -MM-HMM.

WE WERE IN THERE FOR MEL'S MBRACE,

YOU KNOW, HER RELEASE WAS YESTERDAY.

TISHA POPPED UP. -POPPED UP?

-YEAH. -SHE WASN'T INVITED?

I WASN'T UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT SHE WAS INVITED.

I DIDN'T TALK TO HER AHEAD OF TIME,

SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE PLAN WAS,

BUT WHATEVER IT WAS WENT REALLY BAD REALLY FAST.

SO LIKE LITERALLY OUT OF NOWHERE, TISHA COMES UP TO ME

AND GRABS MY ARM AND SHE WAS LIKE,

"THIS OFFICER'S PUTTING ME OUT".

-A OFFICER? -YES.

THEY CALLED THE POLICE?

I THINK IT WAS MORE LIKE THE SECURITY FROM THE PLACE.

HE WAS KIND OF OPIE-ISH.

[ BOTH LAUGH ]

HE WAS KINDA... -WAS TISHA WILDIN' OUT?

WELL, EVERYBODY WAS WILDIN' OUT, FIRST OF ALL.

THEY DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK TO EACH OTHER.

-THIS IS OFF THE MAP, BABY. -THEY DIDN'T TALK TO EACH OTHER.

MEL THROWING TISHA OUT OF THE EVENT IS JUST...

THAT'S OUT OF HAND, MAN I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND THAT.

YEAH, IT WAS A BIT MUCH.

I'VE BEEN SAYING IT JUST LIKE, IT RUINED THE WHOLE EVENT.

CALLING SECURITY IS A LITTLE EXTRA.

BUT THAT'S MEL. ALWAYS A LITTLE BIT EXTRA.

I DIDN'T EVEN GET TO TRY THE PRODUCTS.

AS A MATTER OF FACT, HEY MONSTER!

-YEAH? -YOU ARE HOLLERING.

JUST CHECKING TO SEE IF HE'S READY.

BECAUSE MAN, HE GETS IN THERE

AND GETS ON HIS EARPHONES OR SOMETHING.

ALRIGHT, BABE, I GOTTA GO GET DRESSED SO WE CAN TAKE

MONSTER TO SCHOOL. ALRIGHT.

-BYE, LOVE. -BYE, SWEETHEART.

I'LL BE READY IN 2.5, MONSTER.

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UPTOWN IS THE PERFECT LOCATION

FOR ME TO HAVE MY REAL ESTATE OFFICE HERE

BECAUSE IT'S MY DEVELOPMENT AND MY PLAZA.

THAT'S RIGHT. OUR MAJOR BUSINESS,

THE ANCHOR OF UPTOWN, WILL BE BLAQUE CIGAR LOUNGE.

WELL, MY CONCERN RIGHT NOW IS TIME.

AND ONCE THE ELECTRICAL BE DONE HERE THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS,

THEY'LL BE CALLING FOR AN INSPECTION

FIRST PART OF NEXT WEEK.

AND AFTER THAT AND AFTER YOU'RE DONE,

I'M READY TO INSULATE AND CLOSE THESE WALLS UP.

WE'VE HAD SOME CHALLENGES WITH THE RENOVATION

BECAUSE IT'S AN OLDER BUILDING, BUT WE'RE MAKING GOOD HEADWAY.

AND BECAUSE UPTOWN IS OUR PLAZA

AND WE'RE INVESTED IN IT OUT OF OUR OWN POCKET,

WE CAN TAKE OUR TIME WITH IT.

WE WANT TO MAKE SURE WE DO IT RIGHT,

WE'RE NOT JUST TRYING TO THROW SOMETHING TOGETHER.

IT IS GOING TO BE WORTH THE WAIT.

-WHAT UP? -NOTHING, HOW'S YOUR DAY GOING?

GOOD, I JUST MET WITH KEITH PETTY ABOUT BLAQUE.

I'M HAPPY THAT WE GOT PEOPLE IN THERE DOING SOME THINGS

BECAUSE I'M READY TO GET IT UP AND OPEN

AND MAKING SOME MONEY OFF OF IT. SO I'M GOING TO LET YOU KNOW

I HAVE THIS WOMEN EMPOWERMENT EVENT

THAT'S COMING UP SOON THAT I HAVE TO PREPARE FOR.

WAIT, WHAT? WHAT IS THAT? IS THAT IN TOWN?

YES. YES, IT'S GOING TO BE IN TOWN

SO I'VE BEEN ASKED TO BE THE GUEST SPEAKER THERE FOR IT,

WHICH I'M SUPER NERVOUS ABOUT THAT ALREADY.

BUT I'M LIKE, YOU KNOW WHAT? IT'S FOR A GOOD CAUSE.

-ARE YOU GOING TO DO IT? -YEAH, I'M GONNA DO IT.

-OKAY. -I WAS LIKE, "I'M GONNA DO IT".

PART OF THE DONATION IS GOING TO GO TOWARDS THIS ORGANIZATION

"EVERY CHILD HAS A STORY" AND IT SPEAKS ABOUT KIDS,

TEACHING THEM HOW TO WRITE A BOOK,

THEIR COMMUNICATION SKILLS, THEIR WRITING SKILLS.

AND YOU'RE GIVING A SPEECH ON THAT?

YEAH.

A LOT GOING ON. IS THAT AT NIGHT?

-YEAH, IT'S LIKE AT 6:00, SO. -OKAY.

SO WE'RE THINKING ABOUT WATCHING THE KIDS KINDA LIKE...

FOR DINNER.

YEAH. I'VE GROWN ACCUSTOMED TO THAT.

I'VE HAD TO DO DINNER LAST NIGHT.

WELL, YEAH, DINNER LAST NIGHT YOU HAD TO DO IT

BECAUSE LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY.

YEAH IT WAS. MJ DIDN'T WANT TO EAT MEAT.

THEY WANTED THREE DIFFERENT FOODS

FROM THREE DIFFERENT RESTAURANTS,

SO YEAH, IT WAS DEFINITELY CRAZY.

YOU KNOW, CAUGHT MYSELF GOING TO MEL'S LAUNCH PARTY

TO JUST TALK TO HER TO TRY TO LIKE,

"YOU KNOW WHAT? I'M READY TO PUT THE PAST BEHIND US

AND MOVE FORWARD."

DID YOU GET AN INVITATION FOR THAT?

I DIDN'T GET AN INVITATION.

DO YOU HAVE ANY EX-BOYFRIENDS THAT YOU CONTINUE TO TALK TO?

-NO, MARSAU. -OH, BUT YOU'RE DONE WITH THAT.

-YES. -OKAY.

BUT YOU KNOW HOW I AM.

IT'S LIKE WHAT I FEEL LIKE IF YOU SAY I DID SOMETHING,

IF YOU SAY I DID SOMETHING TO YOU, I'M LIKE,

"LISTEN, I REALLY WANT TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I DID TO YOU."

I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID. I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE ISSUE IS.

SO YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LISTEN. GOT YOU.

-NO, I AM LISTENING. -HAVE A GOOD DAY, BABE.

I HEAR WHAT YOU'RE SAYING BUT YOU'RE SAYING IT OVER.

WHY YOU GETTING UPSET? -BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT LISTENING.

I AM LISTENING TO YOU,

YOU JUST SAID IT LIKE THREE OR FOUR TIMES.

-OKAY. -I HEARD YOU THE FIRST TIME.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO KEEP REPEATING IT.

OKAY, BABE, HAVE A GOOD DAY.

SO IF I'M SAYING SOMETHING BACK TO YOU,

THAT DOESN'T MEAN I'M NOT LISTENING TO YOU,

YOU INSTANTLY YOU GET AN ATTITUDE WITH ME.

I DON'T HAVE ATTITUDE.

THAT'S JUST NOT MAKING THE SITUATION BETTER EITHER.

I DISAGREE WITH PUSHING FOR A RELATIONSHIP

THAT SEEMED LIKE IT'S NOT GROWING.

YOU'RE FORCING A RELATIONSHIP I FEEL LIKE.

I KEEP SAYING IT'S NOT ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP.

I'M FINE WITH US NOT HAVING A RELATIONSHIP.

I JUST WANT THE MEANNESS TO STOP.

THAT'S IT. -I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE SAYING,

"WELL YOU DON'T SUPPORT ME IN THIS,"

AND THE TRUTH IS, I DON'T. -WELL, THERE YOU HAVE IT.

I CAN'T.

YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED WITH?

-WHAT? -HONESTLY.

KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

I DO.

THAT'S WHY I ALWAYS COME TO YOU WHEN WE HAVE ISSUES.

-KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY. -I'M THE FIRST ONE.

NO, LET'S BE REAL, I'M USUALLY THE FIRST ONE

TO COME TO YOU AND APOLOGIZE TO YOU

AND FIGURE OUT LIKE WHAT'S GOING ON.

TISHA, IF YOU'RE THE FIRST ONE TO APOLOGIZE

THAT MEANS THAT YOU WERE THE ONE THAT WAS WRONG.

-OH, OKAY. BYE. -ALRIGHT. PEACE.

-JERK. -WHATEVER.

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COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...

MARTELL WANTS TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN,

AND I DON'T REALLY WANT TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN.

AND RIGHT NOW YOU'RE IN YOUR FEELINGS

SO, YOU KNOW, SOME YEARS ON DOWN THE LINE,

WE'RE GOING TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE.

YOU GET TO JUST GET UP AND GO, AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY

ABOUT TRYING TO FIND A BABYSITTER.

SHUCKS, YOU GOT TO FIND A BABYSITTER.

THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE.

I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW HARD YOUR LIFE WAS.

-HEY. -HEY THERE.

-COME ON IN. -IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU.

-HOW ARE YOU DOING? -YES, YOU LOOK SO GOOD.

DOESN'T LOOK LIKE YOU'VE HAD A BABY.

OH, THANK YOU, GIRL.

Melody: SO RIGHT NOW WE'RE AT DR. PETERSON'S OFFICE,

AND SO TODAY'S VISIT IS FOR HER TO REALLY SEE HOW I'M FEELING.

AT THE END OF THE DAY, I'M READY TO GO BACK TO WORK.

ME, TOO. I'M READY TO GO TO WORK, TOO.

YOU DOWN FOR THAT? -ALWAYS.

ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT.

SO NOT A WHOLE LOT TO DO ON POST-PARTUM VISITS WITH PEOPLE

ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY'VE HAD, YOU KNOW, FOUR BABIES,

SO USUALLY WHAT PEOPLE WANT TO KNOW ABOUT,

YOU KNOW, ON THIS VISIT IS --

MAKING SURE I CAN DIVE BACK IN TO IT.

RIGHT, RIGHT, AND IN THAT VEIN, WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT,

DO YOU WANT TO DIVE BACK INTO IT?

RIGHT.

AND I'M TALKING ABOUT LIKE HAVING MORE BABIES, YOU KNOW,

DO WE WANT SOME TYPE OF PERMANENT SOLUTION

OR DO SOMETHING SHORT-TERM

WHILE WE THINK ABOUT PERMANENT SOLUTIONS.

CAN I ASK A PERSONAL QUESTION?

DID YOU DO THE PILL, DID YOU DO THE NUVARING?

I ONLY DATE MEN THAT HAVE HAD A VASECTOMY.

THEY HAVE TO HAVE THEIR OWN KIDS AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED

FOR AT LEAST ONE PRACTICE MARRIAGE.

-A WOMAN WITH STANDARDS, HONEY. -YEAH.

SO I'LL SEE YOU IN A FEW YEARS, MARTELL.

[ LAUGHTER ]

HE DONE HAD A PRACTICE MARRIAGE, HE GOT HIS KIDS, VASECTOMY.

OH, LORD, DR. PETERSON'S TRYING TO DATE MY HUSBAND.

MARTELL, SHE BE COMING FOR YOU. SHE ALWAYS COME FOR YOU.

-OFF THE CHAIN. -I LOVE DR. PETERSON.

LIKE, SHE FIRST OF ALL, CHECKS MARTELL HOLT,

BUT SHE ALSO HAS MY BACK AS WELL.

SO MARTELL WANTS TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN

AND I DON'T REALLY WANT TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN.

OH, YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE FIVE?

BABY, WE DISCUSSED WE'D HAVE FIVE

BUT WE DON'T HAVE THE FIFTH ONE RIGHT NOW.

WE DISCUSSED THAT WE WERE GOING TO HAVE FIVE

AND THEN THE BULL [BLEEP] CAME. SO WITH THAT BEING SAID...

BUT THAT WAS ONLY TEMPORARY THOUGH, YOU KNOW.

THE BULL MESS WAS ONLY TEMPORARY.

WELL, I THINK THAT MAYBE WE SHOULD DISCUSS

MAYBE A FIFTH CHILD

WHENEVER SOME MORE GOOD THINGS BECOME PERMANENT.

THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING, FIVE YEARS FROM NOW

WE CAN HAVE OUR OTHER ONE SO WE'LL BE WELL-ESTABLISHED

WITHIN ALL OUR BUSINESSES.

I AIN'T TALKING ABOUT BUSINESS [BLEEP]

I'M TALKING ABOUT AS A HUSBAND. -BAE, SHE'S THE DOCTOR, OKAY?

NOT THE DAMN COUNSELOR AND RIGHT NOW YOU'RE YOUR FEELINGS

SO, YOU KNOW, SOME YEARS ON DOWN THE LINE,

WE'RE GOING TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE.

RIGHT NOW I THINK THAT EVERYBODY'S UP

IN THEIR FEELINGS,

AND IT WOULD PROBABLY NOT BE A GOOD TIME

FOR ANYBODY TO GET A PERMANENT PROCEDURE.

ALRIGHT, WELL LET ME GO OUT HERE AND MAKE SURE

JENNY GETS A CALL DOWN BEFORE I LET YOU ALL GO, OKAY?

-OKAY. SOUNDS GOOD. -ALRIGHT.

Melody: DON'T JUST COME TO ME WITH SOME WORDS,

PUT SOME ACTION BEHIND IT.

ALRIGHT, I AGREE WITH THAT ONE, SWEETHEART.

I AGREE. OKAY. YEAH.

-DO YOU DISAGREE? -I TOTALLY AGREE.

-SOUNDED LIKE YOU BEING FUNNY. -MNH-MNH. YOU WERE RIGHT.

SO WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE EVENT LAST NIGHT?

-MAN, I THINK IT WAS AMAZING. -IT WAS. LIKE, OH, MY GOSH.

YEAH, LIKE ALWAYS THOUGH. BUT THE CRAZY THING

WAS WHEN TISHA CAME UP IN THAT MOTHER SUCKER.

SO, I MEAN.

WHOO. I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE DID IT.

AND, YOU KNOW WHAT, TO BE REAL WITH YOU,

I CAN'T WAIT TO TALK TO KIMMI

BECAUSE I'M KIND OF TIRED OF HER PLAYING MEDIATOR [BLEEP].

THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE WITH KIMMI AND I,

SHE WAS JUMPING INTO STUFF TOO MUCH.

SO WHEN I WAS OVER AT THE HOUSE, SHE WAS JUST BEING A BIT MESSY,

LIKE IN CONVERSATION, YOU KNOW, BRINGING UP OLD STUFF.

LIKE YOU MEAN BRINGING UP, LIKE, STUFF WE'VE BEEN THROUGH?

-YEAH. -OH, WOW, REALLY?

YEAH. I MEAN THEN WHEN SHE MENTIONED THAT

AND ALL OF A SUDDEN I'M LIKE,

"OKAY, YOU WANT TO BRING UP WHAT I'VE DONE IN THE PAST,"

I MEAN, DON'T FORGET LIKE SHE'S THE SAME SITUATION.

WHAT DO YOU MEAN "THE SAME SITUATION"?

-KIMMI, SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK. -HOW YOU KNOW?

YOU KNOW, MAURICE AND HER

WAS DATING FOR LIKE SEVEN, EIGHT YEARS,

SO THAT'S WHAT WAS GOING ON SOCIAL MEDIA ABOUT THEM.

OH, SAYING HE WASN'T DIVORCED YET.

YEAH, AND WHILE THEY WERE DATING.

BUT I THINK HE SAID HE WAS DIVORCED.

YEAH.

I THINK THEY HAD BEEN INTRODUCED

BUT WEREN'T DATING YET IS HOW HE PUT IT, BUT

YOU KNOW, SOMETIMES IF YOU INTRODUCED

TO SOMEBODY, YOU ALL VIBING, AND IT CLICKS, I MEAN,

WHO KNOWS. -OH, GIRL, RIGHT.

BUT ANYWAY, MY POINT IS I DO FEEL LIKE KIMMI

SHE'S GOING TO PICK THE SCOTT SIDE

NO MATTER WHAT BECAUSE SHE IS A SCOTT.

AND THEN, YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE I DIDN'T LIKE?

HOLD UP! I ALSO DIDN'T LIKE THE FACT

WHEN TISHA TRIED TO THROW OUT THERE

LIKE HAD BEEN TEXTING HER PRIVATELY

LIKE SHE TRY TO TEST THE GROUP. -THEY PHONY AND FAKE.

YOU TEST THE GROUP, QUIT TWISTING UP THE WHOLE STORY.

LET ME BE QUIET BEFORE I GET KICKED OUT THE DOCTOR'S OFFICE.

BECAUSE THAT AIN'T WHAT HAPPENED.

BUT THEN THEY TRIED TO LIKE LOW-KEY

COME FOR MY MOTHER ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

-RIGHT. -WHO THE HELL YOU THINK YOU ARE

AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO BE UP IN MY EVENT?

AND YOU ALL ARE TRYING TO COME FOR MY MOM?

YOU BETTER BE GLAD I DIDN'T WHOOP YOUR TAIL

UP OUT THE EVENT.

-AND TEAR THAT ASS UP. -SO NOW DON'T COME FOR ME.

THE OLD MEL IS BACK.

COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...

SECURITY COMES UP TO ME, AND WAS LIKE,

"MA'AM, I'VE BEEN ASKED TO ESCORT YOU OUT."

SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED THAT BITCH, THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DID.

YES, I SAID IT. I SAID IT.

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HOWDY, HOWDY.

-READY FOR THE DAY? -I AM.

ALRIGHT. AWESOME, AWESOME. LET'S GET TO IT.

-OKAY, LET'S GET SET UP. -WE WILL HAVE YOU SET UP HERE.

-RIGHT THERE? OKAY. -YEAH, AND JUST WATCH YOUR STEP.

-HI. -HEY.

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-HEY THERE, MAMA DEAREST. -HI. HOW YOU DOING?

OOH WEE, GIRL, YOU BETTER ROCK THEM BOOTS.

I'M SO HAPPY YOU CAME. YOU MADE IT SAFE AND SOUND.

-THANK YOU, THANK YOU. -HOW YOU BEEN?

-ALRIGHT. HOW'S MARSAU? -THIS GONNA BE FUN.

SO YOU KNOW WHAT WE'RE GONNA DO TODAY?

GIRL, NO. WHAT?

WE JUST GOING TO TALK LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE TO DO.

BECAUSE THE NAME OF THE PODCAST IS "MOMMY BUSINESS,"

I FELT LIKE, YOU KNOW, I NEED TO HAVE MY MOM ON IT

SO WE GET JUST A LITTLE BIT MORE BACKGROUND INFORMATION ABOUT YOU

AND ABOUT YOUR UPBRINGING AND ME.

I'M OPEN, BABY, BRING IT ON.

HEY, GUYS. THIS IS LaTISHA SCOTT,

WELCOME TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF THE "MOMMY BUSINESS" PODCAST.

TODAY I HAVE A VERY SPECIAL GUEST,

IT'S MY MOM, MISS WANDA TYCE.

SAY HI, MOM.

HI, HOW IS EVERYBODY DOING OUT THERE?

SO WE'VE BEEN IN HERE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE.

YES. BRING IT ON, GIRL.

SO, I KNOW A LOT OF YOU ALREADY KNOW ABOUT MY HUSBAND.

SO IS MARSAU HAPPY WITH EVERYTHING?

YEAH, IT'S GOOD.

I MEAN, NO, LET ME NOT SAY IT'S GOOD.

HE'S WITH A LOT WITH THE WHOLE TRANSITIONING FROM THE TOWN HOME

TO DOWN SIZING TO THE INVESTMENT PROPERTY

THAT WE DECIDED TO MOVE INTO. THEN ON TOP OF THAT, SCHOOL

AND THEN ON TOP OF THAT WITH THE KIDS.

I KNOW, HOW MJ AND THEM DOING?

WE HAD A LITTLE ROUGH PATCH WITH MJ

TRYING TO ADJUST TO THE NEW SCHOOL,

AND SO WE HAD TO MAKE SURE WE TALKED TO HIM

ABOUT THE WHOLE BULLYING THING.

OH, WE ALL JUST LIKE YOU HAD YOUR THREE, I HAD MY THREE.

RAISING YOU ALL ALONE, AND NOW YOU GOT HELP,

IT SEEM LIKE YOU GOT TO RAISE ALL OVER AGAIN ALONE.

SO YOU HAD TO BE HARD. I GOT -- JUST STAY ON MARSAU,

I DON'T WANT YOU TO BE IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT I WAS IN.

I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO THROUGH ANOTHER MARRIAGE

AND THEN END UP IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT I WAS IN.

WELL, YOU KNOW, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU'RE ON A PERSON

YOU CAN'T STOP A PERSON FROM DOING WHAT THEY WANNA DO.

I UNDERSTAND THAT, BUT AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW.

YEAH. I MEAN, YEAH. AND ONCE I KNOW, IT'S UP TO ME

TO MAKE THE DECISION, BUT IF MARSAU MADE THE DECISION,

BECAUSE I KNOW IT'S A DECISION TO STEP OUT ON ME

AND OUR FAMILY, THAT MEANS YOU DON'T WANT

TO BE A PART OF THE FAMILY ANYMORE.

YOU NEVER HAD THE IDEA THAT MARSAU WAS CHEATING,

SO YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT BUT I DID.

I ALWAYS THOUGHT MEN WAS DOGS, AND I'M GOING TO TELL YOU

ALL THEM DOGS IS RUNNING AROUND HUNTSVILLE...

-OH, GOD. -YOUR FRIEND MELODY?

YOU KNOW, LIKE D'BLASSA WAS SAYING

THAT HE WAS OUT THERE CHEATING

BUT THEY COME TO FIND OUT, SHE ALREADY KNEW TWO YEARS

IN THAT HE WAS A CHEATER. -RIGHT.

WHY IS IT NOW THAT YOU MAKING IT SEEM LIKE IT'S SUCH A BIG THING.

GET OVER IT, YOU KNOW.

IF MARTELL HAD CAME, IF I FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING,

YOU KNOW WHAT THE FIRST THING I WOULD HAVE DONE?

WHAT YOU WOULDA DO, MA?

LISTEN HERE, SIR, WE GOING TO THE CLINIC.

WHATEVER CLINIC THAT OPEN, WE'RE GOING TO GO TO THE CLINIC.

MOST MEN ARE DOGS BECAUSE THEY HAVE SEVEN OR EIGHT GIRLFRIENDS

YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT.

I DIDN'T TELL YOU THIS, BUT MEL

WAS HAVING THIS EVENT FOR HER SKINCARE LINE.

SO I WAS LIKE, YOU KNOW, I'M GOING TO GO TO THE EVENT

JUST TO SAY, "I'M DONE," YOU KNOW, "LET'S MOVE FORWARD".

I WALKED IN AND THEN SECURITY COMES UP TO ME AND WAS LIKE,

"MA'AM, I'VE BEEN ASKED TO ESCORT YOU OUT."

GO AND GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE, I KNOW YOU LYING!

I KNOW YOU LYING! -I WAS LIKE, "EXCUSE ME?"

-GIRL, DON'T TELL ME THAT! -I WAS SO EMBARRASSED.

I WAS LIKE, "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WOULD DO THAT".

-YOU SHOULDA SLAPPED THAT BITCH. -OH, JESUS CHRIST.

THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DID, YOU SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED HER.

AND GO TO JAIL TO RISK ALL THE HARD WORK

I PUT IN FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS? NO, I DON'T BUY IT.

WELL, YOU KNOW WHAT? BUT YOU SHOULD HAVE INVITED ME THERE.

I'M THE TYPE OF PERSON EITHER YOU DOWN WITH ME

OR YOU AGAINST ME, AND I THINK MEL IS REALLY AGAINST TISHA.

FOR WHAT REASON, I DO NOT KNOW,

BUT WHEN YOU STEP ON MY DAUGHTER'S TOES,

YOU STEPPED ON MY TOWS.

I WAS GOING TO LEAVE AND THEN KIMMI WAS LIKE,

"NO, TISHA, NO, LET'S GO BACK HERE AND TALK TO HER."

I WAS LIKE, "NO, KIMMI I WANT TO GO."

SEE I TOLD YOU, KIMMI JUST SEEM LIKE -- I GUESS

SHE DON'T WANT TO BE IN NO MESS OR WHATEVER,

BUT IT JUST SEEM LIKE IT'S JUST SOMETHING AIN'T RIGHT THERE.

SHE'LL THROW A ROCK AND HIDE HER HANDS, NOT TALKIN' --

I'M NOT SAYING -- I KNOW WHAT YOU MAY FEEL,

BUT I'M JUST SAYING THAT'S WHAT IT SEEMS

LIKE TO ME IN SOME TIME. -NO.

AND IT'S JUST LIKE WHEN YOU WERE ALL ON THE SHOW,

SHE WAS LIKE, "YES, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT".

I'VE BEEN CALLED THE POST QUEEN AND BOUGIE.

SHE AIN'T TELLING NO LIE.

MELODY IS ACCURATE, WE TALKED HER ABOUT HER POSTING, PERIOD.

ONLY SPEAK FOR YOURSELF. YOU CANNOT SPEAK FOR NOBODY ELSE

AND WHEN SHE SAY, "YOU SURE AIN'T LYING",

KIMMI IS KIND OF SHADY A LITTLE BIT.

-I DON'T KNOW. I MEAN... -SHE'S KIND OF SHADY

A LITTLE BIT AND YES, I SAID IT. I SAID IT.

I DO NOT WANT TO GET IN THE MIDDLE OF KIMMI AND MY MOM.

LISTEN, I LOVE MY MOM TO DEATH,

AND I'M GOING TO HAVE MY MOM'S BACK REGARDLESS.

KIMMI IS MY SISTER, I LOVE KIMMI.

TWO ADULTS, I'M GOING TO LET THEM TAKE CARE OF THAT.

ALL THAT STUFF, YOU KNOW, THAT WAS JUST BAD ENERGY,

YOU KNOW, I'M HAPPY IT'S BEHIND ME NOW.

I HAVE A GREAT EVENT THAT'S COMING UP,

YOU KNOW, WOMEN EMPOWERMENT,

SO I'M GOING TO BE AROUND POSITIVE PEOPLE,

SPEAKING LIFE INTO PEOPLE AND THAT'S THE TYPE OF ENVIRONMENT

I WANT TO BE AROUND FROM THIS POINT OUT.

I HOPE YOU CAN COME. -I'M PUSHING FOR YOU.

-OH, I WILL BE THERE. -OKAY.

I'M 100% WITH YOU, GIRL.

COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...

HAVE YOU EXPRESSED TO LeBARRICK HOW YOU FEEL?

MM-HMM.

AND HE'S MAKING THE CHANGES, RIGHT?

I MEAN, WE'RE GOING TO COUNSELING WEEKLY.

ARE YOU GOING TO COME TO THE EVENT?

I'VE GOT A LOT OF STUFF TO DO.

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Melody: YEAH, PRINT THOSE OUT FOR ME,

PUT THE INITIALS WHERE THEY NEED TO BE AND SCAN IT

AND SHOOT IT BACK INTO HER. -OKAY, I WILL.

OKAY, THANK YOU SO MUCH, SWEETIE.

-YOU'RE WELCOME. -OKAY, BYE BYE.

YEAH GIRL. HEY GIRL. YOU CAN'T BE GOING TO SLEEP.

SAY, "I'M GOING TO KEEP YOU UP ALL NIGHT MAMA".

Melody: EVEN WITH THE NEW BABY I'M ALWAYS ON THE HUSTLE.

I'VE GOT MY SKINCARE LINE,

HOLT AND HOLT, HOLT CUSTOM HOMES.

WE'RE ACTUALLY PROMOTING OUR BOOK.

IT'S A LOT GOING ON BUT AIN'T NO STOPPING ME NOW.

I'LL REST WHEN I RETIRE, MAYBE.

-HEY, GIRL! -HI. HEY.

MY BABY MAMA. OH, MY GOD, GIRL.

LOOK AT YOU MY BABY MAMA. SNATCH.

LOOK, YOU ALREADY KNOW, I GOT TOO MUCH TO DO, GIRL.

EVEN WITH EVERYTHING THAT'S GOING ON

I STILL NEED MY GIRL TIME. I AIN'T CHECKIN' LaTISHA.

KIMMI AND I STILL HAVEN'T SPOKEN.

SO IT'S GREAT TO HAVE A REAL FRIEND AROUND LIKE DESTINY.

SO HOW YOU BEEN FEELING? WHAT'S YOUR BUTT BEEN DOING?

I'VE BEEN FEELING REALLY NAUSEOUS

AND ADJUSTING TO BEING HERE EVERY DAY AND LIVING DAY TO DAY

WITH SOMEBODY ELSE AND SHARING SPACE.

-YEAH, IT'S A LOT, ISN'T IT? -AHA.

YEAH, YOU ALL GOT A LOT,

YOU'RE COMING TOGETHER, JUST GOT MARRIED,

LIVING TOGETHER NOW, AND YOU'RE PREGNANT.

Destiny: I MADE A LOT OF CHANGES IN MY LIFE

TO ADJUST TO MARRIED LIFE.

MY HUSBAND HASN'T HAD TO MAKE THOSE SAME CHANGES.

IT'S JUST ME REALLY BRINGING MYSELF

AND UPROOTING MYSELF TO HIM,

ADJUSTING TO BEING IN HIS BACHELOR PAD,

TALKING ABOUT FINANCES.

WE DIDN'T PLAN ON GETTING PREGNANT THIS SOON

SO IT IS AN EXTREME ADJUSTMENT.

HOW WAS IT WHEN YOU ALL MOVED IN TOGETHER LIKE THE FIRST TIME?

IT WAS GREAT. WE WERE SUPER EXCITED

BUT WE WERE YOUNGER, I MEAN, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?

I WAS 22, YOU KNOW,

Y'ALL ARE KINDA SET IN YOUR WAYS MORE PROBABLY, DESTINY, NOW.

I THINK I COMPROMISE A LITTLE BIT MORE.

YOU KNOW, IT'S LIKE ADJUSTING TO BEING IN HIS BACHELOR HOME

WITH EVERYTHING IN IT IS HIS.

IT'S LIKE MY ENERGY'S NOT THERE, MY THINGS AREN'T THERE.

ALL MY STUFF IS IN STORAGE BECAUSE IT COULDN'T FIT EVEN

IF I WANTED TO PUT IT IN THERE. -OH, WOW.

SO YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE ANYTHING

FOR REAL, FOR REAL IN THERE BUT CLOTHES?

-MM-HMM. AND BOXES. -OH, YEAH.

NOT YOUR DISHES EITHER? HIS DISHES? OH.

HAVE YOU EXPRESSED IT TO LeBARRICK HOW YOU FEEL?

MM-HMM.

OKAY, AND HE MAKING THE CHANGES, RIGHT?

SURE.

YOU DIDN'T SAY THAT CONVINCINGLY.

I MEAN, WE'RE GOING TO COUNSELING.

-OH, THAT'S GOOD. -WEEKLY.

LeBARRICK AND I HAVE BEEN GOING TO THERAPY TO LEARN

TO LIVE TOGETHER TO KIND OF LEARN HOW TO BECOME ONE.

IT'S BEEN A REALLY ROUGH TIME, IT REALLY HAS.

IT'S A TRUE ADJUSTMENT FOR THE BOTH OF US.

THIS IS OUR SIXTH PREGNANCY. -WHEE.

YOU ALL HAD MULTIPLE MISCARRIAGES.

YOU ALL BEEN TRYING. -YEAH, THIS IS A WHOLE PROCESS

OF LIKE REALLY HAVING A BABY IN YOUR STOMACH

AND THEN LOSING IT AND THE MENTAL STUFF

THAT YOU GO THROUGH THAT IS NOT SEEN ON THE OUTSIDE,

AND HE'S JUST LIKE, I MEAN, HE DIDN'T GET IT

AND IT WAS DIFFICULT.

SO, YOU KNOW, LIKE FOR US, BEFORE I HAD MILANI

I ACTUALLY HAD A MISCARRIAGE.

IT'S LIKE, DANG, I KIND OF FELT LIKE, MAN

IS THERE A REASON THAT THIS HAPPENED

AND THEN AFTER DRAMA CAME AFTER THAT, I WAS LIKE, OKAY

MAYBE THAT TIMING WAS JUST ABSOLUTELY NOT RIGHT.

SO EVEN WHEN I GOT PREGNANT WITH HER, I DID CONSIDER,

I WAS THINKING LIKE, "SHOULD I HAVE AN ABORTION," YOU KNOW,

AND I FELT LIKE, "SHOULD I KEEP THIS CHILD OR NOT?"

THAT'S TOUGH.

BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I WENT THROUGH SO MUCH STRESS

WHILE I WAS PREGNANT WITH HER.

LIKE I HAD TO PUT ON A SMILEY FACE WHEN I DIDN'T WANT TO.

I HAD TO GET UP AND KEEP GOING EVEN WHEN I DIDN'T WANT TO.

I HAD TO, YOU KNOW, JUST CONTINUE TO GO.

ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR,

AND I REALLY WANT DESTINY

TO KNOW THAT MARRIAGE ISN'T ALWAYS EASY.

LIKE, YEAH, MARTELL AND I WERE ABLE TO COME THROUGH OUR MESS,

BUT IT WASN'T EASY. YOU HAVE TO PUT IN THE WORK.

WHEN YOU CAN LOOK BACK AND LOOK AT, YOU KNOW,

THOSE FIRST FEW YEARS OR FIVE YEARS

OR 10 YEARS, WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE

AND HOW YOU GUYS ARE ABLE TO BUILD A FOUNDATION

AND REALLY GROW AS BEST FRIENDS

AND ALL OF THAT. WHEN LIFE DOES HIT YOU,

YOU'RE KIND OF ABLE TO WITHSTAND IT A LITTLE BIT BETTER

BECAUSE YOU DO HAVE, YOU KNOW, THAT FOUNDATION.

BUT ONE THING I KNOW, YOU'RE STRONG ENOUGH TO HANDLE IT,

YOU ALL LOVE EACH OTHER ENOUGH TO HANDLE IT.

YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY, THE FIRST FEW YEARS

ARE ALWAYS THE TOUGHEST. -THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY, GIRL.

I DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE OR NOT BUT THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY.

AS MOMS AND WIVES, OUR DAY TO DAY SCHEDULE FILL UP FAST

FROM ALL OF THE DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES WITH THE KIDS,

HELPING THEM WITH THEIR SCHOOL WORK,

MAKING THE PTA MEETING. -BAD TIME?

WELL, I'M JUST TRYING TO PRACTICE THIS SPEECH

IN THE MIRROR JUST TO PREPARE MYSELF

BUT, YOU KNOW, I'M SHAKING

AND IT'S JUST ME IN THE MIRROR. -I LIKE IT.

SOMETIMES YOU CAN BE YOUR HARDEST CRITIC.

-THANK YOU, BAE. -CHEERS.

OOOH. SOMETHING TO TAKE THE EDGE OFF.

YEAH, IT'S PRETTY STRONG. FINISH IT, T.

MNH-MNH. YOU GOT SOME ALCOHOL IN HERE.

MAYBE JUST A LITTLE.

MAYBE JUST A LITTLE. -THANK YOU.

IT'S A DOWNER AND AN UPPER.

NOW YOU'RE RELAXED, LET'S HEAR THIS SPEECH.

OKAY, MOMS AND WIVES, OUR DAY TO DAY SCHEDULE FILL UP.

I MEAN, FROM ALL THE DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES WITH THE KIDS,

HELPING THEM WITH THEIR SCHOOL WORK,

AND LETS NOT FORGET TO MAKE SURE THE HOUSE IS CLEAN,

DINNER IS SERVED AT A CERTAIN TIME,

AND TAKING CARE OF THE MEN OF THE HOUSE.

OKAY, AFTER TAKING CARE OF EVERYBODY AROUND US,

WE TEND TO FORGET ABOUT THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON.

YES, THAT'S RIGHT, YOU.

I REMEMBER IN 2015, LOOKING IN THE MIRROR AND ASKING MYSELF,

"WHO IS THIS GIRL LOOKING BACK AT ME?".

OKAY, I HAVE TO GET READY TO GO, I DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME.

TONIGHT IS A VERY BIG NIGHT FOR ME.

IT'S BEEN A LONG JOURNEY COMING, I AM EXTREMELY PROUD OF ME.

I MEAN, IT FEELS REALLY GOOD TO SAY, I WANT TO DO SOMETHING

AND YOU SEE YOURSELF MOVING IN THAT DIRECTION.

YOU GOT THE KIDS AND EVERYTHING, RIGHT?

YOU SAID WHAT?

YOU KNOW I DIDN'T COOK DINNER, SO THAT'S ON YOU.

CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF THAT FOR ME?

TISHA, AT WHAT POINT IS THIS OKAY?

I WAS TRYING TO BUT THEN I STARTED

PRACTICING FOR THE SPEECH. -T, YOU KNOW WHAT'S FUNNY?

YOU KNOW WHAT'S REALLY FUNNY ABOUT THIS?

YOU CAN TAKE THIS HOWEVER YOU WANT TO TAKE IT

BUT IN 2015, YOU SAY,

"I'M LOSING ME, I GOT TO FOCUS ON ME," RIGHT?

LISTEN, THERE'S NEVER A TIME WHERE I'M LIKE,

"I GOT TO FOCUS ON ME". DO I HAVE A STAY-AT-HOME WIFE?

DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS? THAT MEANS EVERY SINGLE DIME

THAT COMES IN MY CHECK GOES TO MY FAMILY.

EVERYTHING. RIGHT? -RIGHT.

THAT'S NOT ME DOING ME.

THAT'S ME DOING WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE FOR THE FAMILY.

AND SO WHEN YOU MAKE THESE THINGS LIKE,

"I LOST MYSELF", BAE, WE LOSE OURSELVES, YOU KNOW WHY?

BECAUSE WE LOST HALF OF OURSELVES TO BE TOGETHER.

THAT'S WHAT MARRIAGE IS ABOUT.

IT'S ABOUT TWO PEOPLE BECOMING ONE,

BUT YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP PART OF WHO YOU ARE,

AND IF YOUR GOAL IS TO GET THAT BACK,

YOU'RE GOING TO GET IT BACK OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE.

YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO MAKE A LOT OF ADJUSTMENTS.

-WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? -WHEN WE FIRST GOT TOGETHER

IT WAS JUST YOU AND I, SINGLE. -TISHA,

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT MAKING A LOT OF ADJUSTMENTS?

WHEN YOU AND I GOT MARRIED

AND WE STARTED HAVING KIDS I WAS LIKE, "OH SNAP,"

ALL OF MY DREAMS WAS JUST ABOUT ME,

BUT NOW IT'S LIKE I HAVE A FAMILY,

AND IT'S LIKE, "OKAY, TISHA, PUT TISHA HERE,

FOCUS ON YOUR FAMILY, FOCUS ON THE KIDS".

THEN WE DECIDED FOR ME TO BE A STAY-AT-HOME MOM SO AFTER

THAT, THAT'S WHEN I STARTED LOOKING IN THE MIRROR,

I WAS LIKE, "I GOT TO FIGURE ME OUT AGAIN,

I'VE GOT TO GET TO KNOW WHO I AM AGAIN, THE NEW ME".

WHEN I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME, DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?

I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME

BECAUSE I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME FOR YOU, FOR THE FAMILY.

THAT'S WHAT I SAID IN MY SPEECH.

I'M JUST SAYING IS THAT I DON'T WANT IN YOUR SPEECH FOR YOU

TO BE SAYING, YOU KNOW,

"HEY, I'M JUST DOING ME NOW, MY HUSBAND AIN'T DONE NOTHING."

WHY WOULD I SAY THAT? THAT'S NOT BEING REAL.

-I DON'T WANT TO WALK IN. -BUT WHY WOULD I SAY THAT?

DO I EVER DISCREDIT YOU LIKE THAT?

-YES. -I DO?

YEAH. I WAS JUST TELLING YOU ABOUT THAT.

I DISCREDIT YOU?

I WAS LIKE, "MY HUSBAND DON'T DO ANYTHING,

I'M DOING EVERYTHING." -YEAH, YOU SAID THOSE WORDS.

REALLY, MARSAU?

I MEAN, THESE ARE MY RESPONSIBILITIES

BUT IT KIND OF GETS TO ME A LITTLE BIT

WHEN YOU MAKE IT SEEM LIKE, "OH, MY GOD,

I WAS A STAY-AT-HOME MOM, I HAD TO DO EVERYTHING."

I GUESS I WAS LOOKING AT IT FROM THIS PERSPECTIVE

LIKE, YES, YOU WAS WORKING,

BUT ONCE YOU GOT OFF OF WORK, YOU GOT A CHANCE TO GO

AND DO WHATEVER IT IS YOU WANT TO DO.

-[BLEEP] STOP IT. -BUT YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY

ABOUT FINDING A BABYSITTER. -WHEN HAVE I BEEN OFF WORK?

AT NIGHT TIME WHEN YOU'RE OFF WORK,

AND YOU'RE HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS.

TELL ME WHAT DAY OF THE YEAR?

WHAT DAY OF THE YEAR AM I EVER OFF WORK?

MARSAU, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FINDING A BABYSITTER,

CALL AROUND, ASK PEOPLE TO WATCH THE KIDS FOR YOU,

YOU GET TO JUST GET UP AND GO.

FOR ME, I'M WITH THE KIDS ALL THE TIME.

TISHA, YOU CAN, TOO.

NO, I HAVE TO FIND A BABYSITTER. I JUST CAN'T LEAVE MY KIDS.

OH, SHUCKS, YOU GOT TO FIND A BABYSITTER, DAMN.

THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE IS WHAT I'M SAYING.

I'VE GOT TO MAKE A CALL AND FIND A BABYSITTER.

IT WASN'T THAT EASY JUST MAKING A CALL.

GET OUT OF HERE. WOW. YOU KNOW WHAT? I'M SORRY, BABE.

I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW HARD YOUR LIFE WAS.

I DO NOT NEED THIS DISTRACTION RIGHT NOW

BEFORE I GET READY TO DO MY SPEECH.

MARSAU ALWAYS TELLS ME,

"DON'T LET ANYTHING DISTRACT YOU FROM YOUR GOALS,"

AND RIGHT NOW, HE IS A DISTRACTION.

SO YOU GOING TO COME TO THE EVENT?

I'VE GOT A LOT OF STUFF TO DO, BABE.

NEXT ON "LOVE AND MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...

YOU KNOW, WHEN PEOPLE SAY STUFF THAT I KNOW IS A BUNCH OF B.S.,

I'M GOING TO SAY SOMETHING. I MEAN, LIKE THAT JUNK

THAT MARSAU DID TALKING ABOUT HE HAD A SEX TAPE OF ME.

LaTisha: I'M HAPPY YOU WAS HERE TO SUPPORT.

YEAH, YOU KNOW KIMMI WASN'T GOING TO BE HERE

IF NO ONE ELSE DIDN'T COME.

-WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER? -I DON'T KNOW, WHAT'S THAT?

SO YOU JUST GO SEARCHING FOR TROUBLE?

I'M OUT HERE JUST TRYING TO MAKE MONEY.

OKAY.

-OH. -OH, MY GOD!

WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT YOU GOT YOUR TOBACCO LICENSE

AND ALL THAT FOR THE CIGAR LOUNGE?

I'M LaTISHA SCOTT AS KENYA JUST MENTIONED.

WELL...

...I'M SO NERVOUS, PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I'M SHAKING.