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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:10,701 --> 00:00:13,632 "PREVIOUSLY ON LOVE AND MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"... 2 00:00:13,634 --> 00:00:15,732 I'M TRYING TO HAVE A HEALTHY BABY, YOU KNOW, 3 00:00:15,734 --> 00:00:19,332 I MEAN LOOK, I'M 37 WEEKS. -WELL, SPEAKING OF 37 WEEKS. 4 00:00:19,334 --> 00:00:21,699 -YEAH, GIRL, WHAT? -I'M NINE WEEKS. 5 00:00:21,701 --> 00:00:23,365 Melody: OVER THE YEARS DESTINY AND I HAVE 6 00:00:23,367 --> 00:00:25,399 REALLY STARTED BUILDING OUR FRIENDSHIP. 7 00:00:25,401 --> 00:00:27,732 I'M SO HAPPY FOR Y'ALL. 8 00:00:27,734 --> 00:00:30,032 THANK YOU GUYS FOR COMING TO THE BABY SHOWER. 9 00:00:30,034 --> 00:00:31,465 WELL, OF COURSE, YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO THANK US FOR THAT. 10 00:00:31,467 --> 00:00:33,465 BECAUSE YOU COULD HAVE PICKED SIDES 11 00:00:33,467 --> 00:00:36,465 BUT YOU COULD HAVE BEEN LIKE, "OKAY, THIS IS MY FAMILY 12 00:00:36,467 --> 00:00:38,599 RIGHT HERE AND I DON'T WANT THEM FEELING NO KIND OF WAY." 13 00:00:38,601 --> 00:00:40,299 IT NEVER OCCURRED TO US NOT TO GO. 14 00:00:40,301 --> 00:00:43,699 AS SOON AS THE DOCTOR ARRIVES THE BABY WILL BE HERE. 15 00:00:43,701 --> 00:00:49,332 OH, WOW. -OH. 16 00:00:49,334 --> 00:00:52,899 WELL, I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU SO MUCH FOR COMING OUT TONIGHT. 17 00:00:52,901 --> 00:00:56,399 -HI. -I WASN'T EXPECTING TO SEE YOU. 18 00:00:56,401 --> 00:00:58,232 I KNOW. I SURPRISED YOU, RIGHT? 19 00:00:59,667 --> 00:01:04,032 I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT TISHA HAS THE AUDACITY TO CRASH MY EVENT. 20 00:01:04,034 --> 00:01:06,432 SECURITY, ARE YOU ALLOWED TO ESCORT ANYONE OUT? 21 00:01:06,434 --> 00:01:07,432 -YES. -GREAT, OKAY. 22 00:01:07,434 --> 00:01:08,732 SO LET ME SHOW YOU. 23 00:01:08,734 --> 00:01:10,765 SHE'S RIGHT THERE IN THE YELLOW POLKA DOTS, HELP YOURSELF. 24 00:01:12,467 --> 00:01:14,099 DON'T PLAY WITH ME. 25 00:01:15,401 --> 00:01:18,399 -- Captions by VITAC -- www.vitac.com 26 00:01:18,401 --> 00:01:21,432 CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS 27 00:01:23,367 --> 00:01:24,865 GOOD TO SEE YOU. 28 00:01:24,867 --> 00:01:27,432 I KNOW. IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU FOREVER. 29 00:01:27,434 --> 00:01:28,532 -IT IS. -HOW ARE YOU? 30 00:01:28,534 --> 00:01:29,899 -GOOD, HOW ARE YOU? -GOOD. 31 00:01:30,267 --> 00:01:31,899 I'M LaTISHA SCOTT. YOU LOOK NICE. 32 00:01:31,901 --> 00:01:33,199 YES? 33 00:01:35,767 --> 00:01:36,999 WHY? 34 00:01:39,601 --> 00:01:46,065 ¶¶ 35 00:01:46,067 --> 00:01:47,765 DON'T PLAY WITH ME. 36 00:01:47,767 --> 00:01:51,665 SO KIMMI, I AM GOING TO LEAVE BECAUSE THIS NICE CHAP 37 00:01:51,667 --> 00:01:54,932 SAID HE'S BEEN ASKED TO ESCORT ME OUT. 38 00:01:54,934 --> 00:02:00,299 -WHO? WHAT? NO! NO! -YES! 39 00:02:00,301 --> 00:02:03,432 YOU GOTTA COME WITH ME. THIS IS SO EMBARRASSING. 40 00:02:03,434 --> 00:02:08,699 I'M DONE WITH THIS. -WHY WOULD SHE DO THAT? 41 00:02:08,701 --> 00:02:12,032 -NO. I'M GOING TO THE CAR. -WE'RE GONNA FIND MELODY. 42 00:02:12,034 --> 00:02:13,132 WHY? 43 00:02:13,134 --> 00:02:16,965 BECAUSE IF YOU MAKE AN OLIVE BRANCH 44 00:02:16,967 --> 00:02:21,565 TO TRY TO MAKE A MOVE THEN SHE SHOULD ACCEPT THAT. 45 00:02:26,567 --> 00:02:30,532 OKAY, HOLD ON ONE SECOND, OKAY. JUST GIVE ME ONE SECOND. 46 00:02:30,534 --> 00:02:35,132 KNOCK, KNOCK, KNOCK. -SO THIS IS RIDICULOUS. 47 00:02:35,134 --> 00:02:37,465 I DON'T KNOW WHY I WOULD BE ASKED TO BE ESCORTED OUT. 48 00:02:37,467 --> 00:02:39,365 WAIT. WAIT. WE'RE NOT GONNA START LIKE THAT, WAIT. 49 00:02:39,367 --> 00:02:42,299 Melody: WHY IS THIS GIRL IN MY FACE RIGHT NOW? 50 00:02:42,301 --> 00:02:45,099 THIS IS MY EVENT. I'M TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME, 51 00:02:45,101 --> 00:02:48,665 POSITIVE ENERGY WITH CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS. 52 00:02:48,667 --> 00:02:51,132 SHOO. GO ALONG. SHE CAME HERE WITH A PICNIC DRESS. 53 00:02:51,134 --> 00:02:54,899 IF SHE HAD THE INVITATION, SHE WOULD HAVE SEEN SEMI-FORMAL. 54 00:02:54,901 --> 00:02:57,232 WELL THAT'S PROBABLY SEMI-FORMAL TO HER. 55 00:02:57,234 --> 00:02:59,532 IT'S A PRIVATE EVENT, I'M SORRY. 56 00:02:59,534 --> 00:03:01,699 BUT MEL, YOU KNOW, I DON'T WANT THIS. 57 00:03:01,701 --> 00:03:03,232 THIS IS THE PROBLEM WHAT I'M SAYING TO YOU, 58 00:03:03,234 --> 00:03:04,765 I DON'T WANT THIS. 59 00:03:04,767 --> 00:03:06,732 I DON'T TALK TO YOU, I DON'T SEE YOU, SO IT'S LIKE, 60 00:03:06,734 --> 00:03:08,065 "YOU KNOW WHAT, SHE'S HAVING THE EVENT, 61 00:03:08,067 --> 00:03:09,699 LET ME JUST GO UP THERE AND SURPRISE HER". 62 00:03:09,701 --> 00:03:11,565 HAVE YOU ASKED ME, "CAN WE MEET UP?". 63 00:03:11,567 --> 00:03:13,599 NO, BABY, THIS AIN'T NO GOOD SURPRISE. 64 00:03:13,601 --> 00:03:15,465 YEAH, THAT'S A GOOD SURPRISE. 65 00:03:15,467 --> 00:03:17,732 I WOULD LIKE FOR US TO TALK WOMAN TO WOMAN. 66 00:03:17,734 --> 00:03:19,465 I NEED TO TRY AND FIX WHAT EVER IS GOING ON. 67 00:03:19,467 --> 00:03:23,199 AND THAT'S FINE, RIGHT, BUT NOT AT MY PRIVATE EVENT 68 00:03:23,201 --> 00:03:26,099 THAT I'M HOSTING. LIKE THIS IS MY THING RIGHT NOW 69 00:03:26,101 --> 00:03:27,665 AND THE PEOPLE I CHOSE THAT I WANT. 70 00:03:27,667 --> 00:03:28,732 AND I'M NOT TRYING TO MESS UP YOUR THING, 71 00:03:28,734 --> 00:03:29,899 I'M NOT TRYING TO MESS UP YOUR THING. 72 00:03:29,901 --> 00:03:30,899 I FEEL YOU. THE PEOPLE THAT I CHOSE AND INVITED 73 00:03:30,901 --> 00:03:32,032 AND WANTED TO BE ARE THE -- 74 00:03:32,034 --> 00:03:33,499 BUT YOU'RE MAKING IT A BIG DEAL, MEL. 75 00:03:33,501 --> 00:03:35,999 -I'M NOT. I JUST ASKED -- -HEY LISTEN, I'M SORRY. 76 00:03:36,001 --> 00:03:37,299 SO EVERYTHING WILL STAY POSITIVE. 77 00:03:37,301 --> 00:03:39,965 THIS AIN'T THE RIGHT PLACE RIGHT NOW THOUGH. 78 00:03:39,967 --> 00:03:41,865 THIS IS A MAJOR EVENT FOR HER, SO... 79 00:03:41,867 --> 00:03:43,099 AND THAT'S WHY I'M HERE. 80 00:03:43,101 --> 00:03:45,165 I WANT TO CELEBRATE THIS MAJOR EVENT WITH YOU, 81 00:03:45,167 --> 00:03:47,099 AND THAT'S WHAT I CAME HERE FOR TO CONGRATULATE YOU. 82 00:03:47,101 --> 00:03:48,732 A TEXT COULD HAVE DONE THAT AND THEN A, 83 00:03:48,734 --> 00:03:51,232 "CAN WE TALK", SOME OTHER BEFORE HAND. 84 00:03:51,234 --> 00:03:53,232 I GUESS IT'S COOL OR WHATEVER THAT TISHA WANTS 85 00:03:53,234 --> 00:03:55,365 TO BE "SUPPORTIVE," BUT GIRL, 86 00:03:55,367 --> 00:03:58,632 IF I WANTED YOU HERE, I WOULD HAVE SENT YOU AN INVITE. 87 00:03:58,634 --> 00:04:01,399 -SORRY. -WHAT YOU SORRY FOR. 88 00:04:01,401 --> 00:04:04,199 HE SHOULD BE SORRY. 89 00:04:04,201 --> 00:04:06,132 EXCUSE ME, HOLD UP, SHOULD BE SORRY FOR WHAT? 90 00:04:06,134 --> 00:04:09,999 YOUR HUSBAND HAS FILED A POLICE REPORT AGAINST MY HUSBAND. 91 00:04:10,001 --> 00:04:12,199 YES, BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND THREATENED MY HUSBAND. 92 00:04:12,201 --> 00:04:13,432 I DIDN'T THREATEN HIM. 93 00:04:13,434 --> 00:04:15,065 I HAD MARTELL BLOCKED FROM MY PHONE 94 00:04:15,067 --> 00:04:17,699 BECAUSE HE'S BEEN SENDING ME RUDE TEXT MESSAGES. 95 00:04:17,701 --> 00:04:21,165 I AM REALLY UPSET WITH MARTELL ACTION RIGHT NOW. 96 00:04:21,167 --> 00:04:24,299 HE WAS SO DISRESPECTFUL, LYING ON TEXTS 97 00:04:24,301 --> 00:04:26,432 SO JUST STOP ALL OF THAT. STOP IT. 98 00:04:26,434 --> 00:04:29,099 I HATE THE DISRESPECT. NOW GET TO STEPPING, PLEASE. 99 00:04:29,101 --> 00:04:32,365 LIKE SIR, YES, LaTISHA SHH. -YOU TELL ME TO SHH? 100 00:04:32,367 --> 00:04:34,732 SIR, HAVE YOU NOT ASKED HER? YOU NEED TO CALL BACK UP? 101 00:04:34,734 --> 00:04:36,265 LET'S GO. 102 00:04:36,267 --> 00:04:39,832 -BECAUSE I MEAN [BLEEP]. -I GOT IT. I DON'T NEED HIM. 103 00:04:39,834 --> 00:04:42,165 I CAN'T BELIEVE I'M BEING ESCORTED OUT OF HERE. 104 00:04:42,167 --> 00:04:44,165 OH, MY GOD. I'M A PROFESSIONAL. 105 00:04:44,167 --> 00:04:46,632 IT AIN'T THE FIRST TIME YOU'VE SEEN THEM. 106 00:04:46,634 --> 00:04:48,532 IT IS THE FIRST TIME, MEL, WHAT ABOUT YOU? 107 00:04:48,534 --> 00:04:50,499 LET'S NOT GO THERE, SWEETIE. -WE CAN. 108 00:04:50,501 --> 00:04:54,099 -LET'S NOT GO THERE, HONEY. -YEAH WE CAN. GO! GO, GO, GO! 109 00:04:56,134 --> 00:04:59,832 HELL [BLEEP] NO. I'M NOT DOING IT AGAIN. 110 00:04:59,834 --> 00:05:02,099 [BLEEP] NO. 111 00:05:02,101 --> 00:05:05,599 IT'S ALWAYS, "OH, TISHA, IS GONNA LOOK LIKE THE BAD PERSON, 112 00:05:05,601 --> 00:05:08,232 TISHA TAKING ALL THE Ls." 113 00:05:08,234 --> 00:05:15,099 OKAY, THAT DIDN'T GO WELL. THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE. 114 00:05:15,101 --> 00:05:20,799 LIKE THIS IS LIKE BORDERING ON, LIKE, ALMOST CRAZY TALK. 115 00:05:20,801 --> 00:05:24,232 OF COURSE. I AIN'T EVEN SWEAT. 116 00:05:24,234 --> 00:05:27,499 FEEL GOOD. -THAT WAS AMAZING. 117 00:05:27,501 --> 00:05:29,332 I THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. 118 00:05:29,334 --> 00:05:32,265 IF SHE DON'T WANT IT, [BLEEP] IT. 119 00:05:32,267 --> 00:05:35,465 IT'S A TOUGH SPOT, COOKIE. I'M GONNA WALK WITH YOU. 120 00:05:35,467 --> 00:05:36,532 Martell: COME ON, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. 121 00:05:36,534 --> 00:05:37,999 OH, AHA. 122 00:05:38,001 --> 00:05:41,032 -THEY'LL COME TO YOU. -WELL, THAT'S FINE BECAUSE 123 00:05:41,034 --> 00:05:43,365 HONEY, YOU KNOW, I GETS RID OF ALL THE BIRDS. 124 00:05:45,334 --> 00:05:47,099 GET RID OF ALL THE BIRDS BUT THIS ONE. 125 00:05:47,101 --> 00:05:48,599 I'M THE ONLY BIRD UP IN HERE. 126 00:05:51,401 --> 00:05:53,399 SO WHAT WOULD YOU SAY, "ESCORT HER OUT"? 127 00:05:53,401 --> 00:05:55,799 LIKE, I'M A PROFESSIONAL WOMAN IN FRONT 128 00:05:55,801 --> 00:05:59,465 OF ALL THOSE BUSINESS PEOPLE, IT'S NOT COOL. 129 00:05:59,467 --> 00:06:01,765 THAT WHOLE SECURITY LITTLE BUTTER BALL 130 00:06:01,767 --> 00:06:04,465 WASN'T GONNA GET THAT JOB DONE, TRUST THAT. 131 00:06:07,067 --> 00:06:09,465 HE WAS MAKING HIS BEST EFFORT. 132 00:06:09,467 --> 00:06:12,332 AFTER THIS EVENT, I'M NOT REACHING OUT ANYMORE. 133 00:06:12,334 --> 00:06:16,732 IF YOU WANT ME AT SOMETHING, YOU CAN CALL AND INVITE ME. 134 00:06:16,734 --> 00:06:19,232 I'M DONE. 135 00:06:19,234 --> 00:06:21,865 -HEY, BOO. -HEY, BOO. THAT WAS AWESOME. 136 00:06:21,867 --> 00:06:24,632 DID YOU SEE TISHA COME? HOP UP IN MY PRIVATE EVENT? 137 00:06:24,634 --> 00:06:26,732 I SAW HER. WAIT, SHE WASN'T INVITED? 138 00:06:26,734 --> 00:06:28,932 OF COURSE SHE WASN'T INVITED. 139 00:06:28,934 --> 00:06:31,832 I SAW HER AND THEN I DIDN'T SEE HER. 140 00:06:31,834 --> 00:06:34,732 I ESCORTED HER OUT. SHE CAME WITH A GIFT OF ATTITUDE, 141 00:06:34,734 --> 00:06:37,299 I GAVE HER THE GIFT OF ESCORTION. 142 00:06:37,301 --> 00:06:39,432 GIFT OF ATTITUDE, GIFT OF ESCORTION. 143 00:06:39,434 --> 00:06:41,699 KIMMI LEFT TOO. I WASN'T EVEN ASKING KIMMI TO LEAVE, 144 00:06:41,701 --> 00:06:43,532 BUT THAT'S HER FAMILY SO I GET IT. 145 00:06:43,534 --> 00:06:45,099 I INVITED KIMMI. -RIGHT. 146 00:06:45,101 --> 00:06:49,199 I WANTED KIMMI TO BE HERE, BUT I DID NOT INVITE LaTISHA. 147 00:06:49,201 --> 00:06:50,732 -I GOT YOU, T. -OKAY. 148 00:06:50,734 --> 00:06:53,499 -I LOVE YOU. -LOVE YOU TOO. 149 00:06:53,501 --> 00:06:59,265 BYE-BYE. -SHE REALLY JUST SHOWED UP. 150 00:06:59,267 --> 00:07:00,865 AND IT WAS LIKE, "I WANTED US TO, YOU KNOW, 151 00:07:00,867 --> 00:07:02,265 TALK AND MAYBE TRY TO --" 152 00:07:02,267 --> 00:07:06,032 -THIS IS NOT THE PLACE. -THIS AIN'T -- AIN'T THE PLACE. 153 00:07:06,034 --> 00:07:09,199 SEE, THAT'S WHY WE VIBE BECAUSE IT AIN'T THE PLACE. 154 00:07:09,201 --> 00:07:11,399 -THIS AIN'T ABOUT YOU. -IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU. 155 00:07:11,401 --> 00:07:14,365 MY EVENT HAS ACTUALLY BEEN AMAZING, OKAY? 156 00:07:14,367 --> 00:07:18,232 EVEN THOUGHT THERE WAS A LITTLE BIT WE HAD TO TAKE CARE OF, 157 00:07:18,234 --> 00:07:19,565 A LITTLE BUSINESS WE HAD TO HANDLE 158 00:07:19,567 --> 00:07:21,432 AND KIND OF GET ESCORTED OUT. 159 00:07:21,434 --> 00:07:24,465 STILL, I'M STILL THANKFUL FOR PEOPLE LIKE DESTINY 160 00:07:24,467 --> 00:07:25,965 AND ALL OF MY OTHER FRIENDS WHO ARE HERE 161 00:07:25,967 --> 00:07:28,065 WHO ARE GENUINELY SUPPORTIVE OF ME 162 00:07:28,067 --> 00:07:29,699 AND MY DREAMS AND MY GOALS. 163 00:07:33,667 --> 00:07:37,499 -CAN YOU SEE ME? -YEAH, I CAN SEE YOU. 164 00:07:37,501 --> 00:07:40,032 -OH, I CAN'T SEE YOU. -I'M DRIVING, THE LIGHT'S OFF. 165 00:07:40,034 --> 00:07:43,065 WHAT'S UP? -I'M HERE AT MEL'S EVENT. 166 00:07:43,067 --> 00:07:45,499 DO YOU KNOW IN FRONT OF KIM LEWIS 167 00:07:45,501 --> 00:07:48,865 AND ALL OF THE BUSINESS PEOPLE, SHE CALLED SECURITY 168 00:07:48,867 --> 00:07:54,065 AND TELL THEM, "ESCORT HER OUT"? [ LAUGHS ] 169 00:07:54,067 --> 00:07:58,899 I AM SO PISSED. I WAS LIKE, "YOU'RE GONNA ESCORT ME OUT? 170 00:07:58,901 --> 00:08:00,332 I'M NOT EVEN DOING ANYTHING. 171 00:08:00,334 --> 00:08:03,699 LIKE, I JUST STEPPED IN THE ROOM TO TALK TO YOU". 172 00:08:06,801 --> 00:08:09,399 WHY YOU SO QUIET? 173 00:08:09,401 --> 00:08:12,532 THEY'RE NOT ON YOUR SIDE, THEY'LL NEVER BE ON YOUR SIDE, 174 00:08:12,534 --> 00:08:14,799 THIS IS NOT EVER GONNA BE SOMETHING. 175 00:08:14,801 --> 00:08:19,565 THIS IS ALWAYS MAKE TISHA LOOK STUPID THING, ALWAYS. 176 00:08:21,901 --> 00:08:24,832 DON'T DO THAT [BLEEP], OKAY? 177 00:08:24,834 --> 00:08:26,999 ASK YOURSELF THE HONEST QUESTION, 178 00:08:27,001 --> 00:08:33,532 IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS, "WHAT IS ADDED TO YOUR LIFE?" 179 00:08:33,534 --> 00:08:36,699 WHAT DO THEY DO? -NOTHING. BUT IT'S LIKE-- 180 00:08:36,701 --> 00:08:38,265 SO WHY DO YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM? 181 00:08:38,267 --> 00:08:40,499 I DON'T. THAT'S THE THING, MARSAU, 182 00:08:40,501 --> 00:08:42,499 IT'S NOT THAT I WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM, 183 00:08:42,501 --> 00:08:44,465 IT'S LIKE, I TRY TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON 184 00:08:44,467 --> 00:08:45,799 TO JUST BE LIKE, "LISTEN." 185 00:08:45,801 --> 00:08:47,599 [BLEEP] BIGGER PERSON. JUST BE THE REGULAR PERSON. 186 00:08:47,601 --> 00:08:54,065 BE YOU. THAT'S NOT YOU. -YEAH. 187 00:08:54,067 --> 00:08:59,999 WELL, DEFINITELY DEAD TO ME NOW. -THEY'RE THE ONES THREATENING US 188 00:09:00,001 --> 00:09:03,632 AND THEN GET SECURITY. -RIGHT. RIGHT. 189 00:09:03,634 --> 00:09:07,332 AND COME ON, MAN. [BLEEP] THEM. 190 00:09:11,201 --> 00:09:13,832 COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"... 191 00:09:13,834 --> 00:09:16,265 I'M KIND OF TIRED OF KIMMI PLAYING MEDIATOR ON SOME [BLEEP] 192 00:09:16,267 --> 00:09:17,732 SHE'S JUST BEING A LITTLE MESSY. 193 00:09:17,734 --> 00:09:19,065 MAURICE AND HER WERE DATING FOR LIKE ABOUT SEVEN OR EIGHT YEARS. 194 00:09:19,067 --> 00:09:23,299 -HE WASN'T DIVORCED YET. -KIMMI, SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK. 195 00:09:23,301 --> 00:09:25,999 TISHA COMES UP TO ME, "THIS OFFICER'S PUTTING ME OUT". 196 00:09:26,001 --> 00:09:28,865 -A OFFICER? -HE WAS KINDA OPIE-ISH. 197 00:09:28,867 --> 00:09:32,099 -[ LAUGHS ] OH, NO! -LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY. 198 00:09:32,101 --> 00:09:35,832 IT WAS. MJ DIDN'T WANT TO EAT, THEY WANTED THREE 199 00:09:35,834 --> 00:09:37,065 DIFFERENT FOODS FROM THREE DIFFERENT RESTAURANTS 200 00:09:37,067 --> 00:09:38,965 SO YEAH, IT WAS DEFINITELY CRAZY. 201 00:09:42,401 --> 00:09:48,632 ¶¶ 202 00:09:48,634 --> 00:09:54,899 ¶¶ 203 00:09:54,901 --> 00:09:58,265 Kimmi: HEY, WHY YOU TURN THE LIGHT ON? 204 00:09:58,267 --> 00:10:01,032 Maurice: IT'S TIME TO GET UP BECAUSE IF I GET TOO COMFORTABLE, 205 00:10:01,034 --> 00:10:03,765 I'M GOING TO GO BACK TO SLEEP. -I KNOW. 206 00:10:03,767 --> 00:10:05,965 -WHAT DO YOU HAVE PLANNED? -SO TIRED. 207 00:10:05,967 --> 00:10:08,332 I THINK I HAVE TO SHOW A HOUSE MAYBE AT 2:00. 208 00:10:08,334 --> 00:10:11,399 I THINK I'M GONNA TAKE MY LUNCH LATE 209 00:10:11,401 --> 00:10:14,465 SO I CAN SHOW THE HOUSE AT 2:00. 210 00:10:14,467 --> 00:10:18,599 YOU'RE SELLING A HOUSE ON YOUR LUNCH BREAK? 211 00:10:18,601 --> 00:10:20,665 BUT WHAT IF YOU JUST LIKE DIDN'T TAKE LUNCH BREAKS 212 00:10:20,667 --> 00:10:22,699 TO SHOW YOUR HOUSE. -WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? 213 00:10:22,701 --> 00:10:25,599 LIKE QUITTING YOUR JOB? 214 00:10:25,601 --> 00:10:28,632 MAURICE HAS WANTED ME TO GIVE INTO REAL ESTATE 215 00:10:28,634 --> 00:10:32,299 FOR A WHILE NOW, BUT I'VE BEEN A NURSE FOR 22 YEARS. 216 00:10:32,301 --> 00:10:33,965 I'M GOOD AT WHAT I DO 217 00:10:33,967 --> 00:10:37,165 AND I DON'T TAKE THIS PARTICULAR DECISION LIGHTLY. 218 00:10:37,167 --> 00:10:39,865 MAURICE IS AN ENTREPRENEUR, 219 00:10:39,867 --> 00:10:42,932 AND MAURICE WANTS EVERYBODY TO BE AN ENTREPRENEUR. 220 00:10:42,934 --> 00:10:48,232 THAT MAY BE WHAT'S BEST FOR HIM, BUT THIS DECISION, 221 00:10:48,234 --> 00:10:50,432 I'VE GOTTA DO WHAT'S BEST FOR ME. 222 00:10:50,434 --> 00:10:53,899 HOPEFULLY THAT'LL BE BEST FOR US AT THE END OF THE DAY. 223 00:10:53,901 --> 00:10:56,432 I'M SO TIRED. -I KNOW, RIGHT. 224 00:10:56,434 --> 00:11:00,032 I NEED TO MAKE SURE MONSTER'S GETTING READY. 225 00:11:00,034 --> 00:11:02,832 I KNOW. 226 00:11:02,834 --> 00:11:05,832 GET IN THERE AND TAKE THAT SUPER LONG SHOWER. 227 00:11:05,834 --> 00:11:06,932 NO! 228 00:11:06,934 --> 00:11:09,065 HE KEEPS TAKING 30 MINUTE SHOWERS. 229 00:11:09,067 --> 00:11:12,165 HE NEEDS TO TAKE A 10 MINUTE SHOWER. 230 00:11:12,167 --> 00:11:15,165 WHAT'S UP BOY? GET UP. 231 00:11:18,867 --> 00:11:22,065 FINALLY FOR THE FIRST TIME SINCE MY DIVORCE, 232 00:11:22,067 --> 00:11:23,565 MONSTER'S LIVING WITH ME FULL-TIME. 233 00:11:23,567 --> 00:11:28,265 WHEN I WAS 13 GROWING UP, IT WAS ALMOST IDENTICAL TO MY SON. 234 00:11:28,267 --> 00:11:30,765 I LIVED WITH MY DAD, I CHANGED SCHOOLS, 235 00:11:30,767 --> 00:11:32,232 BUT IT'S SCARY TO SEE HIM GOING THROUGH 236 00:11:32,234 --> 00:11:34,232 THE EXACT SAME TRANSITIONS. 237 00:11:34,234 --> 00:11:37,132 A LOT HAPPENS IN THE TEENAGE YEARS. 238 00:11:37,134 --> 00:11:39,032 -GOOD MORNING, SUNSHINE. -GOOD MORNING. 239 00:11:39,034 --> 00:11:40,632 -CAN I GET SOME? -YEAH. 240 00:11:40,634 --> 00:11:42,532 WE GOING TO GET A GOOD START TODAY? 241 00:11:42,534 --> 00:11:43,865 MM-HMM. 242 00:11:43,867 --> 00:11:46,499 YOU SMELL GOOD, LIKE YOU DID SOME STUFF IN THERE. 243 00:11:46,501 --> 00:11:48,432 DID YOU PUT THAT STUFF IN YOUR HAIR? 244 00:11:48,434 --> 00:11:50,999 -NOT YET. -WHAT'S THE WHOLE BLANKET THING? 245 00:11:51,001 --> 00:11:52,599 YOU DON'T HAVE A BATHROBE? -NO. 246 00:11:52,601 --> 00:11:55,965 -OKAY. -YOU DON'T HAVE A BATHROBE? 247 00:11:55,967 --> 00:11:57,932 WHY YOU LOOKING AT ME LIKE THAT, BABY? 248 00:11:57,934 --> 00:12:00,165 BY THE WAY, BABY. -WHAT'S UP? 249 00:12:00,167 --> 00:12:03,265 I'M NOT TRYING TO MAKE YOU A HOUSE WIFE. 250 00:12:03,267 --> 00:12:08,432 I JUST WANT YOU TO HAVE ALL THE TIME THAT YOU NEED. 251 00:12:08,434 --> 00:12:10,132 ALL THE TIME I NEED FOR WHAT? 252 00:12:10,134 --> 00:12:12,065 WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANNA DO. 253 00:12:12,067 --> 00:12:15,699 LIKE I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD USE YOUR TIME 254 00:12:15,701 --> 00:12:17,665 THE WAY YOU WANT TO USE YOUR TIME. 255 00:12:17,667 --> 00:12:19,765 MAURICE KNOWS THAT I COUNT MY CORNS, 256 00:12:19,767 --> 00:12:24,065 I WATCH WHERE MY MONEY GOES AND SO HE KNOWS VERY WELL 257 00:12:24,067 --> 00:12:27,465 THAT LEAVING THIS JOB WITH THAT CHECK COMING EVERY TWO WEEKS 258 00:12:27,467 --> 00:12:30,265 MAKES ME NERVOUS. LAST NIGHT WAS LONG. 259 00:12:30,267 --> 00:12:32,265 -REALLY? -MM-HMM. 260 00:12:32,267 --> 00:12:36,065 WE WERE IN THERE FOR MEL'S MBRACE, 261 00:12:36,067 --> 00:12:38,132 YOU KNOW, HER RELEASE WAS YESTERDAY. 262 00:12:38,134 --> 00:12:40,732 TISHA POPPED UP. -POPPED UP? 263 00:12:40,734 --> 00:12:43,999 -YEAH. -SHE WASN'T INVITED? 264 00:12:44,001 --> 00:12:48,032 I WASN'T UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT SHE WAS INVITED. 265 00:12:48,034 --> 00:12:49,965 I DIDN'T TALK TO HER AHEAD OF TIME, 266 00:12:49,967 --> 00:12:51,765 SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE PLAN WAS, 267 00:12:51,767 --> 00:12:55,632 BUT WHATEVER IT WAS WENT REALLY BAD REALLY FAST. 268 00:12:55,634 --> 00:12:59,732 SO LIKE LITERALLY OUT OF NOWHERE, TISHA COMES UP TO ME 269 00:12:59,734 --> 00:13:04,432 AND GRABS MY ARM AND SHE WAS LIKE, 270 00:13:04,434 --> 00:13:05,732 "THIS OFFICER'S PUTTING ME OUT". 271 00:13:05,734 --> 00:13:08,199 -A OFFICER? -YES. 272 00:13:08,201 --> 00:13:10,232 THEY CALLED THE POLICE? 273 00:13:10,234 --> 00:13:13,665 I THINK IT WAS MORE LIKE THE SECURITY FROM THE PLACE. 274 00:13:13,667 --> 00:13:15,999 HE WAS KIND OF OPIE-ISH. 275 00:13:16,001 --> 00:13:20,365 [ BOTH LAUGH ] 276 00:13:20,367 --> 00:13:25,932 HE WAS KINDA... -WAS TISHA WILDIN' OUT? 277 00:13:25,934 --> 00:13:30,032 WELL, EVERYBODY WAS WILDIN' OUT, FIRST OF ALL. 278 00:13:30,034 --> 00:13:33,532 THEY DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK TO EACH OTHER. 279 00:13:33,534 --> 00:13:37,299 -THIS IS OFF THE MAP, BABY. -THEY DIDN'T TALK TO EACH OTHER. 280 00:13:37,301 --> 00:13:40,765 MEL THROWING TISHA OUT OF THE EVENT IS JUST... 281 00:13:40,767 --> 00:13:43,299 THAT'S OUT OF HAND, MAN I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND THAT. 282 00:13:43,301 --> 00:13:44,699 YEAH, IT WAS A BIT MUCH. 283 00:13:44,701 --> 00:13:48,565 I'VE BEEN SAYING IT JUST LIKE, IT RUINED THE WHOLE EVENT. 284 00:13:48,567 --> 00:13:52,632 CALLING SECURITY IS A LITTLE EXTRA. 285 00:13:52,634 --> 00:13:56,765 BUT THAT'S MEL. ALWAYS A LITTLE BIT EXTRA. 286 00:13:56,767 --> 00:13:58,365 I DIDN'T EVEN GET TO TRY THE PRODUCTS. 287 00:13:58,367 --> 00:13:59,999 AS A MATTER OF FACT, HEY MONSTER! 288 00:14:00,001 --> 00:14:01,965 -YEAH? -YOU ARE HOLLERING. 289 00:14:01,967 --> 00:14:03,332 JUST CHECKING TO SEE IF HE'S READY. 290 00:14:03,334 --> 00:14:04,599 BECAUSE MAN, HE GETS IN THERE 291 00:14:04,601 --> 00:14:07,765 AND GETS ON HIS EARPHONES OR SOMETHING. 292 00:14:07,767 --> 00:14:09,899 ALRIGHT, BABE, I GOTTA GO GET DRESSED SO WE CAN TAKE 293 00:14:09,901 --> 00:14:13,699 MONSTER TO SCHOOL. ALRIGHT. 294 00:14:13,701 --> 00:14:15,665 -BYE, LOVE. -BYE, SWEETHEART. 295 00:14:15,667 --> 00:14:18,432 I'LL BE READY IN 2.5, MONSTER. 296 00:14:18,434 --> 00:14:27,665 ¶¶ 297 00:14:27,667 --> 00:14:29,799 UPTOWN IS THE PERFECT LOCATION 298 00:14:29,801 --> 00:14:32,965 FOR ME TO HAVE MY REAL ESTATE OFFICE HERE 299 00:14:32,967 --> 00:14:35,732 BECAUSE IT'S MY DEVELOPMENT AND MY PLAZA. 300 00:14:35,734 --> 00:14:39,499 THAT'S RIGHT. OUR MAJOR BUSINESS, 301 00:14:39,501 --> 00:14:43,665 THE ANCHOR OF UPTOWN, WILL BE BLAQUE CIGAR LOUNGE. 302 00:14:43,667 --> 00:14:46,765 WELL, MY CONCERN RIGHT NOW IS TIME. 303 00:14:46,767 --> 00:14:50,465 AND ONCE THE ELECTRICAL BE DONE HERE THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS, 304 00:14:50,467 --> 00:14:51,599 THEY'LL BE CALLING FOR AN INSPECTION 305 00:14:51,601 --> 00:14:53,065 FIRST PART OF NEXT WEEK. 306 00:14:53,067 --> 00:14:55,299 AND AFTER THAT AND AFTER YOU'RE DONE, 307 00:14:55,301 --> 00:14:57,832 I'M READY TO INSULATE AND CLOSE THESE WALLS UP. 308 00:14:57,834 --> 00:15:00,299 WE'VE HAD SOME CHALLENGES WITH THE RENOVATION 309 00:15:00,301 --> 00:15:03,865 BECAUSE IT'S AN OLDER BUILDING, BUT WE'RE MAKING GOOD HEADWAY. 310 00:15:03,867 --> 00:15:06,899 AND BECAUSE UPTOWN IS OUR PLAZA 311 00:15:06,901 --> 00:15:09,599 AND WE'RE INVESTED IN IT OUT OF OUR OWN POCKET, 312 00:15:09,601 --> 00:15:10,899 WE CAN TAKE OUR TIME WITH IT. 313 00:15:10,901 --> 00:15:12,232 WE WANT TO MAKE SURE WE DO IT RIGHT, 314 00:15:12,234 --> 00:15:13,865 WE'RE NOT JUST TRYING TO THROW SOMETHING TOGETHER. 315 00:15:13,867 --> 00:15:15,965 IT IS GOING TO BE WORTH THE WAIT. 316 00:15:18,001 --> 00:15:20,899 -WHAT UP? -NOTHING, HOW'S YOUR DAY GOING? 317 00:15:20,901 --> 00:15:23,665 GOOD, I JUST MET WITH KEITH PETTY ABOUT BLAQUE. 318 00:15:23,667 --> 00:15:26,532 I'M HAPPY THAT WE GOT PEOPLE IN THERE DOING SOME THINGS 319 00:15:26,534 --> 00:15:28,499 BECAUSE I'M READY TO GET IT UP AND OPEN 320 00:15:28,501 --> 00:15:32,599 AND MAKING SOME MONEY OFF OF IT. SO I'M GOING TO LET YOU KNOW 321 00:15:32,601 --> 00:15:34,699 I HAVE THIS WOMEN EMPOWERMENT EVENT 322 00:15:34,701 --> 00:15:37,132 THAT'S COMING UP SOON THAT I HAVE TO PREPARE FOR. 323 00:15:37,134 --> 00:15:39,699 WAIT, WHAT? WHAT IS THAT? IS THAT IN TOWN? 324 00:15:39,701 --> 00:15:41,299 YES. YES, IT'S GOING TO BE IN TOWN 325 00:15:41,301 --> 00:15:44,765 SO I'VE BEEN ASKED TO BE THE GUEST SPEAKER THERE FOR IT, 326 00:15:44,767 --> 00:15:47,399 WHICH I'M SUPER NERVOUS ABOUT THAT ALREADY. 327 00:15:47,401 --> 00:15:49,865 BUT I'M LIKE, YOU KNOW WHAT? IT'S FOR A GOOD CAUSE. 328 00:15:49,867 --> 00:15:51,965 -ARE YOU GOING TO DO IT? -YEAH, I'M GONNA DO IT. 329 00:15:51,967 --> 00:15:53,399 -OKAY. -I WAS LIKE, "I'M GONNA DO IT". 330 00:15:53,401 --> 00:15:56,265 PART OF THE DONATION IS GOING TO GO TOWARDS THIS ORGANIZATION 331 00:15:56,267 --> 00:16:00,765 "EVERY CHILD HAS A STORY" AND IT SPEAKS ABOUT KIDS, 332 00:16:00,767 --> 00:16:02,499 TEACHING THEM HOW TO WRITE A BOOK, 333 00:16:02,501 --> 00:16:05,465 THEIR COMMUNICATION SKILLS, THEIR WRITING SKILLS. 334 00:16:05,467 --> 00:16:06,532 AND YOU'RE GIVING A SPEECH ON THAT? 335 00:16:06,534 --> 00:16:07,565 YEAH. 336 00:16:07,567 --> 00:16:10,399 A LOT GOING ON. IS THAT AT NIGHT? 337 00:16:10,401 --> 00:16:13,365 -YEAH, IT'S LIKE AT 6:00, SO. -OKAY. 338 00:16:13,367 --> 00:16:16,532 SO WE'RE THINKING ABOUT WATCHING THE KIDS KINDA LIKE... 339 00:16:16,534 --> 00:16:18,499 FOR DINNER. 340 00:16:18,501 --> 00:16:21,699 YEAH. I'VE GROWN ACCUSTOMED TO THAT. 341 00:16:21,701 --> 00:16:27,199 I'VE HAD TO DO DINNER LAST NIGHT. 342 00:16:27,201 --> 00:16:29,965 WELL, YEAH, DINNER LAST NIGHT YOU HAD TO DO IT 343 00:16:29,967 --> 00:16:32,599 BECAUSE LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY. 344 00:16:32,601 --> 00:16:35,832 YEAH IT WAS. MJ DIDN'T WANT TO EAT MEAT. 345 00:16:35,834 --> 00:16:36,999 THEY WANTED THREE DIFFERENT FOODS 346 00:16:37,001 --> 00:16:38,032 FROM THREE DIFFERENT RESTAURANTS, 347 00:16:38,034 --> 00:16:40,399 SO YEAH, IT WAS DEFINITELY CRAZY. 348 00:16:42,434 --> 00:16:47,632 YOU KNOW, CAUGHT MYSELF GOING TO MEL'S LAUNCH PARTY 349 00:16:47,634 --> 00:16:49,932 TO JUST TALK TO HER TO TRY TO LIKE, 350 00:16:49,934 --> 00:16:51,665 "YOU KNOW WHAT? I'M READY TO PUT THE PAST BEHIND US 351 00:16:51,667 --> 00:16:52,732 AND MOVE FORWARD." 352 00:16:52,734 --> 00:16:53,732 DID YOU GET AN INVITATION FOR THAT? 353 00:16:53,734 --> 00:16:56,399 I DIDN'T GET AN INVITATION. 354 00:16:56,401 --> 00:16:59,365 DO YOU HAVE ANY EX-BOYFRIENDS THAT YOU CONTINUE TO TALK TO? 355 00:16:59,367 --> 00:17:01,165 -NO, MARSAU. -OH, BUT YOU'RE DONE WITH THAT. 356 00:17:01,167 --> 00:17:02,332 -YES. -OKAY. 357 00:17:02,334 --> 00:17:03,565 BUT YOU KNOW HOW I AM. 358 00:17:03,567 --> 00:17:06,532 IT'S LIKE WHAT I FEEL LIKE IF YOU SAY I DID SOMETHING, 359 00:17:06,534 --> 00:17:07,965 IF YOU SAY I DID SOMETHING TO YOU, I'M LIKE, 360 00:17:07,967 --> 00:17:10,899 "LISTEN, I REALLY WANT TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I DID TO YOU." 361 00:17:10,901 --> 00:17:13,199 I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID. I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE ISSUE IS. 362 00:17:13,201 --> 00:17:14,532 SO YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LISTEN. GOT YOU. 363 00:17:14,534 --> 00:17:16,032 -NO, I AM LISTENING. -HAVE A GOOD DAY, BABE. 364 00:17:16,034 --> 00:17:18,265 I HEAR WHAT YOU'RE SAYING BUT YOU'RE SAYING IT OVER. 365 00:17:18,267 --> 00:17:20,232 WHY YOU GETTING UPSET? -BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT LISTENING. 366 00:17:20,234 --> 00:17:21,499 I AM LISTENING TO YOU, 367 00:17:21,501 --> 00:17:23,765 YOU JUST SAID IT LIKE THREE OR FOUR TIMES. 368 00:17:23,767 --> 00:17:25,165 -OKAY. -I HEARD YOU THE FIRST TIME. 369 00:17:25,167 --> 00:17:26,465 YOU DON'T HAVE TO KEEP REPEATING IT. 370 00:17:26,467 --> 00:17:27,565 OKAY, BABE, HAVE A GOOD DAY. 371 00:17:27,567 --> 00:17:28,899 SO IF I'M SAYING SOMETHING BACK TO YOU, 372 00:17:28,901 --> 00:17:30,232 THAT DOESN'T MEAN I'M NOT LISTENING TO YOU, 373 00:17:30,234 --> 00:17:32,332 YOU INSTANTLY YOU GET AN ATTITUDE WITH ME. 374 00:17:32,334 --> 00:17:33,499 I DON'T HAVE ATTITUDE. 375 00:17:33,501 --> 00:17:36,065 THAT'S JUST NOT MAKING THE SITUATION BETTER EITHER. 376 00:17:36,067 --> 00:17:38,799 I DISAGREE WITH PUSHING FOR A RELATIONSHIP 377 00:17:38,801 --> 00:17:42,632 THAT SEEMED LIKE IT'S NOT GROWING. 378 00:17:42,634 --> 00:17:44,165 YOU'RE FORCING A RELATIONSHIP I FEEL LIKE. 379 00:17:44,167 --> 00:17:46,499 I KEEP SAYING IT'S NOT ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP. 380 00:17:46,501 --> 00:17:49,532 I'M FINE WITH US NOT HAVING A RELATIONSHIP. 381 00:17:49,534 --> 00:17:53,532 I JUST WANT THE MEANNESS TO STOP. 382 00:17:53,534 --> 00:17:55,965 THAT'S IT. -I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE SAYING, 383 00:17:55,967 --> 00:17:57,465 "WELL YOU DON'T SUPPORT ME IN THIS," 384 00:17:57,467 --> 00:18:00,699 AND THE TRUTH IS, I DON'T. -WELL, THERE YOU HAVE IT. 385 00:18:00,701 --> 00:18:02,165 I CAN'T. 386 00:18:05,601 --> 00:18:07,032 YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED WITH? 387 00:18:07,034 --> 00:18:09,299 -WHAT? -HONESTLY. 388 00:18:09,301 --> 00:18:12,999 KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY IN YOUR MARRIAGE. 389 00:18:14,234 --> 00:18:15,565 I DO. 390 00:18:15,567 --> 00:18:17,265 THAT'S WHY I ALWAYS COME TO YOU WHEN WE HAVE ISSUES. 391 00:18:17,267 --> 00:18:18,932 -KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY. -I'M THE FIRST ONE. 392 00:18:18,934 --> 00:18:21,665 NO, LET'S BE REAL, I'M USUALLY THE FIRST ONE 393 00:18:21,667 --> 00:18:23,532 TO COME TO YOU AND APOLOGIZE TO YOU 394 00:18:23,534 --> 00:18:24,832 AND FIGURE OUT LIKE WHAT'S GOING ON. 395 00:18:24,834 --> 00:18:26,699 TISHA, IF YOU'RE THE FIRST ONE TO APOLOGIZE 396 00:18:26,701 --> 00:18:28,432 THAT MEANS THAT YOU WERE THE ONE THAT WAS WRONG. 397 00:18:28,434 --> 00:18:31,465 -OH, OKAY. BYE. -ALRIGHT. PEACE. 398 00:18:33,734 --> 00:18:36,832 -JERK. -WHATEVER. 399 00:18:36,834 --> 00:18:46,865 ¶¶ 400 00:18:46,867 --> 00:18:49,232 COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"... 401 00:18:49,234 --> 00:18:51,199 MARTELL WANTS TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN, 402 00:18:51,201 --> 00:18:53,899 AND I DON'T REALLY WANT TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN. 403 00:18:53,901 --> 00:18:55,532 AND RIGHT NOW YOU'RE IN YOUR FEELINGS 404 00:18:55,534 --> 00:18:56,832 SO, YOU KNOW, SOME YEARS ON DOWN THE LINE, 405 00:18:56,834 --> 00:18:58,265 WE'RE GOING TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE. 406 00:19:00,167 --> 00:19:02,365 YOU GET TO JUST GET UP AND GO, AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY 407 00:19:02,367 --> 00:19:03,732 ABOUT TRYING TO FIND A BABYSITTER. 408 00:19:03,734 --> 00:19:05,432 SHUCKS, YOU GOT TO FIND A BABYSITTER. 409 00:19:05,434 --> 00:19:06,565 THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE. 410 00:19:06,567 --> 00:19:09,365 I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW HARD YOUR LIFE WAS. 411 00:19:13,467 --> 00:19:14,932 -HEY. -HEY THERE. 412 00:19:14,934 --> 00:19:16,765 -COME ON IN. -IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU. 413 00:19:16,767 --> 00:19:19,399 -HOW ARE YOU DOING? -YES, YOU LOOK SO GOOD. 414 00:19:19,401 --> 00:19:21,765 DOESN'T LOOK LIKE YOU'VE HAD A BABY. 415 00:19:21,767 --> 00:19:23,099 OH, THANK YOU, GIRL. 416 00:19:23,101 --> 00:19:25,532 Melody: SO RIGHT NOW WE'RE AT DR. PETERSON'S OFFICE, 417 00:19:25,534 --> 00:19:29,065 AND SO TODAY'S VISIT IS FOR HER TO REALLY SEE HOW I'M FEELING. 418 00:19:29,067 --> 00:19:31,899 AT THE END OF THE DAY, I'M READY TO GO BACK TO WORK. 419 00:19:31,901 --> 00:19:33,732 ME, TOO. I'M READY TO GO TO WORK, TOO. 420 00:19:33,734 --> 00:19:35,399 YOU DOWN FOR THAT? -ALWAYS. 421 00:19:35,401 --> 00:19:37,199 ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT. 422 00:19:37,201 --> 00:19:40,832 SO NOT A WHOLE LOT TO DO ON POST-PARTUM VISITS WITH PEOPLE 423 00:19:40,834 --> 00:19:43,099 ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY'VE HAD, YOU KNOW, FOUR BABIES, 424 00:19:43,101 --> 00:19:46,799 SO USUALLY WHAT PEOPLE WANT TO KNOW ABOUT, 425 00:19:46,801 --> 00:19:48,999 YOU KNOW, ON THIS VISIT IS -- 426 00:19:49,001 --> 00:19:50,699 MAKING SURE I CAN DIVE BACK IN TO IT. 427 00:19:50,701 --> 00:19:56,499 RIGHT, RIGHT, AND IN THAT VEIN, WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT, 428 00:19:56,501 --> 00:19:59,465 DO YOU WANT TO DIVE BACK INTO IT? 429 00:19:59,467 --> 00:20:01,165 RIGHT. 430 00:20:01,167 --> 00:20:04,232 AND I'M TALKING ABOUT LIKE HAVING MORE BABIES, YOU KNOW, 431 00:20:04,234 --> 00:20:07,632 DO WE WANT SOME TYPE OF PERMANENT SOLUTION 432 00:20:07,634 --> 00:20:09,132 OR DO SOMETHING SHORT-TERM 433 00:20:09,134 --> 00:20:11,199 WHILE WE THINK ABOUT PERMANENT SOLUTIONS. 434 00:20:11,201 --> 00:20:12,832 CAN I ASK A PERSONAL QUESTION? 435 00:20:14,901 --> 00:20:17,699 DID YOU DO THE PILL, DID YOU DO THE NUVARING? 436 00:20:17,701 --> 00:20:20,399 I ONLY DATE MEN THAT HAVE HAD A VASECTOMY. 437 00:20:20,401 --> 00:20:24,165 THEY HAVE TO HAVE THEIR OWN KIDS AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 438 00:20:24,167 --> 00:20:26,265 FOR AT LEAST ONE PRACTICE MARRIAGE. 439 00:20:26,267 --> 00:20:28,399 -A WOMAN WITH STANDARDS, HONEY. -YEAH. 440 00:20:28,401 --> 00:20:30,499 SO I'LL SEE YOU IN A FEW YEARS, MARTELL. 441 00:20:30,501 --> 00:20:33,665 [ LAUGHTER ] 442 00:20:33,667 --> 00:20:38,999 HE DONE HAD A PRACTICE MARRIAGE, HE GOT HIS KIDS, VASECTOMY. 443 00:20:39,001 --> 00:20:42,165 OH, LORD, DR. PETERSON'S TRYING TO DATE MY HUSBAND. 444 00:20:42,167 --> 00:20:44,765 MARTELL, SHE BE COMING FOR YOU. SHE ALWAYS COME FOR YOU. 445 00:20:44,767 --> 00:20:47,932 -OFF THE CHAIN. -I LOVE DR. PETERSON. 446 00:20:47,934 --> 00:20:51,632 LIKE, SHE FIRST OF ALL, CHECKS MARTELL HOLT, 447 00:20:51,634 --> 00:20:53,799 BUT SHE ALSO HAS MY BACK AS WELL. 448 00:20:53,801 --> 00:20:56,899 SO MARTELL WANTS TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN 449 00:20:56,901 --> 00:20:58,665 AND I DON'T REALLY WANT TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN. 450 00:20:58,667 --> 00:20:59,965 OH, YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE FIVE? 451 00:20:59,967 --> 00:21:01,999 BABY, WE DISCUSSED WE'D HAVE FIVE 452 00:21:02,001 --> 00:21:03,665 BUT WE DON'T HAVE THE FIFTH ONE RIGHT NOW. 453 00:21:03,667 --> 00:21:05,599 WE DISCUSSED THAT WE WERE GOING TO HAVE FIVE 454 00:21:05,601 --> 00:21:08,232 AND THEN THE BULL [BLEEP] CAME. SO WITH THAT BEING SAID... 455 00:21:08,234 --> 00:21:11,099 BUT THAT WAS ONLY TEMPORARY THOUGH, YOU KNOW. 456 00:21:11,101 --> 00:21:12,932 THE BULL MESS WAS ONLY TEMPORARY. 457 00:21:12,934 --> 00:21:14,765 WELL, I THINK THAT MAYBE WE SHOULD DISCUSS 458 00:21:14,767 --> 00:21:16,032 MAYBE A FIFTH CHILD 459 00:21:16,034 --> 00:21:18,632 WHENEVER SOME MORE GOOD THINGS BECOME PERMANENT. 460 00:21:18,634 --> 00:21:20,065 THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING, FIVE YEARS FROM NOW 461 00:21:20,067 --> 00:21:22,432 WE CAN HAVE OUR OTHER ONE SO WE'LL BE WELL-ESTABLISHED 462 00:21:22,434 --> 00:21:23,999 WITHIN ALL OUR BUSINESSES. 463 00:21:24,001 --> 00:21:25,599 I AIN'T TALKING ABOUT BUSINESS [BLEEP] 464 00:21:25,601 --> 00:21:29,599 I'M TALKING ABOUT AS A HUSBAND. -BAE, SHE'S THE DOCTOR, OKAY? 465 00:21:29,601 --> 00:21:32,299 NOT THE DAMN COUNSELOR AND RIGHT NOW YOU'RE YOUR FEELINGS 466 00:21:32,301 --> 00:21:33,565 SO, YOU KNOW, SOME YEARS ON DOWN THE LINE, 467 00:21:33,567 --> 00:21:35,665 WE'RE GOING TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE. 468 00:21:35,667 --> 00:21:37,732 RIGHT NOW I THINK THAT EVERYBODY'S UP 469 00:21:37,734 --> 00:21:39,099 IN THEIR FEELINGS, 470 00:21:39,101 --> 00:21:40,999 AND IT WOULD PROBABLY NOT BE A GOOD TIME 471 00:21:41,001 --> 00:21:44,599 FOR ANYBODY TO GET A PERMANENT PROCEDURE. 472 00:21:44,601 --> 00:21:47,832 ALRIGHT, WELL LET ME GO OUT HERE AND MAKE SURE 473 00:21:47,834 --> 00:21:50,132 JENNY GETS A CALL DOWN BEFORE I LET YOU ALL GO, OKAY? 474 00:21:50,134 --> 00:21:51,965 -OKAY. SOUNDS GOOD. -ALRIGHT. 475 00:21:54,534 --> 00:21:56,499 Melody: DON'T JUST COME TO ME WITH SOME WORDS, 476 00:21:56,501 --> 00:21:57,965 PUT SOME ACTION BEHIND IT. 477 00:21:57,967 --> 00:21:59,365 ALRIGHT, I AGREE WITH THAT ONE, SWEETHEART. 478 00:21:59,367 --> 00:22:01,999 I AGREE. OKAY. YEAH. 479 00:22:02,001 --> 00:22:04,165 -DO YOU DISAGREE? -I TOTALLY AGREE. 480 00:22:04,167 --> 00:22:05,832 -SOUNDED LIKE YOU BEING FUNNY. -MNH-MNH. YOU WERE RIGHT. 481 00:22:05,834 --> 00:22:07,765 SO WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE EVENT LAST NIGHT? 482 00:22:07,767 --> 00:22:10,465 -MAN, I THINK IT WAS AMAZING. -IT WAS. LIKE, OH, MY GOSH. 483 00:22:10,467 --> 00:22:13,565 YEAH, LIKE ALWAYS THOUGH. BUT THE CRAZY THING 484 00:22:13,567 --> 00:22:16,999 WAS WHEN TISHA CAME UP IN THAT MOTHER SUCKER. 485 00:22:17,001 --> 00:22:18,899 SO, I MEAN. 486 00:22:18,901 --> 00:22:20,565 WHOO. I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE DID IT. 487 00:22:20,567 --> 00:22:21,832 AND, YOU KNOW WHAT, TO BE REAL WITH YOU, 488 00:22:21,834 --> 00:22:23,465 I CAN'T WAIT TO TALK TO KIMMI 489 00:22:23,467 --> 00:22:26,065 BECAUSE I'M KIND OF TIRED OF HER PLAYING MEDIATOR [BLEEP]. 490 00:22:26,067 --> 00:22:28,099 THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE WITH KIMMI AND I, 491 00:22:28,101 --> 00:22:30,432 SHE WAS JUMPING INTO STUFF TOO MUCH. 492 00:22:30,434 --> 00:22:32,832 SO WHEN I WAS OVER AT THE HOUSE, SHE WAS JUST BEING A BIT MESSY, 493 00:22:32,834 --> 00:22:35,599 LIKE IN CONVERSATION, YOU KNOW, BRINGING UP OLD STUFF. 494 00:22:35,601 --> 00:22:37,799 LIKE YOU MEAN BRINGING UP, LIKE, STUFF WE'VE BEEN THROUGH? 495 00:22:37,801 --> 00:22:39,432 -YEAH. -OH, WOW, REALLY? 496 00:22:39,434 --> 00:22:41,199 YEAH. I MEAN THEN WHEN SHE MENTIONED THAT 497 00:22:41,201 --> 00:22:42,532 AND ALL OF A SUDDEN I'M LIKE, 498 00:22:42,534 --> 00:22:45,099 "OKAY, YOU WANT TO BRING UP WHAT I'VE DONE IN THE PAST," 499 00:22:45,101 --> 00:22:49,365 I MEAN, DON'T FORGET LIKE SHE'S THE SAME SITUATION. 500 00:22:49,367 --> 00:22:50,599 WHAT DO YOU MEAN "THE SAME SITUATION"? 501 00:22:50,601 --> 00:22:53,899 -KIMMI, SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK. -HOW YOU KNOW? 502 00:22:53,901 --> 00:22:55,965 YOU KNOW, MAURICE AND HER 503 00:22:55,967 --> 00:22:57,299 WAS DATING FOR LIKE SEVEN, EIGHT YEARS, 504 00:22:57,301 --> 00:23:00,732 SO THAT'S WHAT WAS GOING ON SOCIAL MEDIA ABOUT THEM. 505 00:23:00,734 --> 00:23:03,299 OH, SAYING HE WASN'T DIVORCED YET. 506 00:23:03,301 --> 00:23:04,832 YEAH, AND WHILE THEY WERE DATING. 507 00:23:04,834 --> 00:23:07,232 BUT I THINK HE SAID HE WAS DIVORCED. 508 00:23:07,234 --> 00:23:08,532 YEAH. 509 00:23:08,534 --> 00:23:10,865 I THINK THEY HAD BEEN INTRODUCED 510 00:23:10,867 --> 00:23:12,832 BUT WEREN'T DATING YET IS HOW HE PUT IT, BUT 511 00:23:12,834 --> 00:23:14,199 YOU KNOW, SOMETIMES IF YOU INTRODUCED 512 00:23:14,201 --> 00:23:16,599 TO SOMEBODY, YOU ALL VIBING, AND IT CLICKS, I MEAN, 513 00:23:16,601 --> 00:23:17,999 WHO KNOWS. -OH, GIRL, RIGHT. 514 00:23:18,001 --> 00:23:21,165 BUT ANYWAY, MY POINT IS I DO FEEL LIKE KIMMI 515 00:23:21,167 --> 00:23:23,065 SHE'S GOING TO PICK THE SCOTT SIDE 516 00:23:23,067 --> 00:23:24,565 NO MATTER WHAT BECAUSE SHE IS A SCOTT. 517 00:23:24,567 --> 00:23:25,965 AND THEN, YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE I DIDN'T LIKE? 518 00:23:25,967 --> 00:23:29,332 HOLD UP! I ALSO DIDN'T LIKE THE FACT 519 00:23:29,334 --> 00:23:31,765 WHEN TISHA TRIED TO THROW OUT THERE 520 00:23:31,767 --> 00:23:33,865 LIKE HAD BEEN TEXTING HER PRIVATELY 521 00:23:33,867 --> 00:23:36,665 LIKE SHE TRY TO TEST THE GROUP. -THEY PHONY AND FAKE. 522 00:23:36,667 --> 00:23:38,799 YOU TEST THE GROUP, QUIT TWISTING UP THE WHOLE STORY. 523 00:23:38,801 --> 00:23:40,665 LET ME BE QUIET BEFORE I GET KICKED OUT THE DOCTOR'S OFFICE. 524 00:23:40,667 --> 00:23:42,432 BECAUSE THAT AIN'T WHAT HAPPENED. 525 00:23:42,434 --> 00:23:44,399 BUT THEN THEY TRIED TO LIKE LOW-KEY 526 00:23:44,401 --> 00:23:46,432 COME FOR MY MOTHER ON SOCIAL MEDIA. 527 00:23:46,434 --> 00:23:48,665 -RIGHT. -WHO THE HELL YOU THINK YOU ARE 528 00:23:48,667 --> 00:23:50,799 AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING TO BE UP IN MY EVENT? 529 00:23:50,801 --> 00:23:53,065 AND YOU ALL ARE TRYING TO COME FOR MY MOM? 530 00:23:53,067 --> 00:23:54,432 YOU BETTER BE GLAD I DIDN'T WHOOP YOUR TAIL 531 00:23:54,434 --> 00:23:55,699 UP OUT THE EVENT. 532 00:23:55,701 --> 00:23:58,299 -AND TEAR THAT ASS UP. -SO NOW DON'T COME FOR ME. 533 00:23:58,301 --> 00:24:00,065 THE OLD MEL IS BACK. 534 00:24:00,067 --> 00:24:03,265 COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"... 535 00:24:03,267 --> 00:24:05,432 SECURITY COMES UP TO ME, AND WAS LIKE, 536 00:24:05,434 --> 00:24:07,999 "MA'AM, I'VE BEEN ASKED TO ESCORT YOU OUT." 537 00:24:08,001 --> 00:24:10,199 SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED THAT BITCH, THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DID. 538 00:24:10,201 --> 00:24:13,399 YES, I SAID IT. I SAID IT. 539 00:24:15,367 --> 00:24:20,499 ¶¶ 540 00:24:20,501 --> 00:24:25,665 ¶¶ 541 00:24:25,667 --> 00:24:26,732 HOWDY, HOWDY. 542 00:24:26,734 --> 00:24:28,332 -READY FOR THE DAY? -I AM. 543 00:24:28,334 --> 00:24:30,599 ALRIGHT. AWESOME, AWESOME. LET'S GET TO IT. 544 00:24:30,601 --> 00:24:34,165 -OKAY, LET'S GET SET UP. -WE WILL HAVE YOU SET UP HERE. 545 00:24:34,167 --> 00:24:36,832 -RIGHT THERE? OKAY. -YEAH, AND JUST WATCH YOUR STEP. 546 00:24:36,834 --> 00:24:38,465 -HI. -HEY. 547 00:24:38,467 --> 00:24:44,099 ¶¶ 548 00:24:44,101 --> 00:24:48,332 -HEY THERE, MAMA DEAREST. -HI. HOW YOU DOING? 549 00:24:48,334 --> 00:24:50,732 OOH WEE, GIRL, YOU BETTER ROCK THEM BOOTS. 550 00:24:50,734 --> 00:24:54,332 I'M SO HAPPY YOU CAME. YOU MADE IT SAFE AND SOUND. 551 00:24:54,334 --> 00:24:56,865 -THANK YOU, THANK YOU. -HOW YOU BEEN? 552 00:24:56,867 --> 00:25:01,132 -ALRIGHT. HOW'S MARSAU? -THIS GONNA BE FUN. 553 00:25:01,134 --> 00:25:02,599 SO YOU KNOW WHAT WE'RE GONNA DO TODAY? 554 00:25:02,601 --> 00:25:04,832 GIRL, NO. WHAT? 555 00:25:04,834 --> 00:25:06,965 WE JUST GOING TO TALK LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE TO DO. 556 00:25:06,967 --> 00:25:08,899 BECAUSE THE NAME OF THE PODCAST IS "MOMMY BUSINESS," 557 00:25:08,901 --> 00:25:11,632 I FELT LIKE, YOU KNOW, I NEED TO HAVE MY MOM ON IT 558 00:25:11,634 --> 00:25:16,199 SO WE GET JUST A LITTLE BIT MORE BACKGROUND INFORMATION ABOUT YOU 559 00:25:16,201 --> 00:25:18,832 AND ABOUT YOUR UPBRINGING AND ME. 560 00:25:18,834 --> 00:25:21,832 I'M OPEN, BABY, BRING IT ON. 561 00:25:21,834 --> 00:25:24,165 HEY, GUYS. THIS IS LaTISHA SCOTT, 562 00:25:24,167 --> 00:25:28,132 WELCOME TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF THE "MOMMY BUSINESS" PODCAST. 563 00:25:28,134 --> 00:25:30,532 TODAY I HAVE A VERY SPECIAL GUEST, 564 00:25:30,534 --> 00:25:33,932 IT'S MY MOM, MISS WANDA TYCE. 565 00:25:33,934 --> 00:25:35,299 SAY HI, MOM. 566 00:25:35,301 --> 00:25:38,132 HI, HOW IS EVERYBODY DOING OUT THERE? 567 00:25:38,134 --> 00:25:41,665 SO WE'VE BEEN IN HERE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE. 568 00:25:41,667 --> 00:25:43,599 YES. BRING IT ON, GIRL. 569 00:25:43,601 --> 00:25:46,599 SO, I KNOW A LOT OF YOU ALREADY KNOW ABOUT MY HUSBAND. 570 00:25:46,601 --> 00:25:48,499 SO IS MARSAU HAPPY WITH EVERYTHING? 571 00:25:48,501 --> 00:25:50,332 YEAH, IT'S GOOD. 572 00:25:50,334 --> 00:25:54,399 I MEAN, NO, LET ME NOT SAY IT'S GOOD. 573 00:25:54,401 --> 00:25:58,565 HE'S WITH A LOT WITH THE WHOLE TRANSITIONING FROM THE TOWN HOME 574 00:25:58,567 --> 00:26:00,799 TO DOWN SIZING TO THE INVESTMENT PROPERTY 575 00:26:00,801 --> 00:26:03,865 THAT WE DECIDED TO MOVE INTO. THEN ON TOP OF THAT, SCHOOL 576 00:26:03,867 --> 00:26:06,232 AND THEN ON TOP OF THAT WITH THE KIDS. 577 00:26:06,234 --> 00:26:08,232 I KNOW, HOW MJ AND THEM DOING? 578 00:26:08,234 --> 00:26:09,799 WE HAD A LITTLE ROUGH PATCH WITH MJ 579 00:26:09,801 --> 00:26:12,032 TRYING TO ADJUST TO THE NEW SCHOOL, 580 00:26:12,034 --> 00:26:13,599 AND SO WE HAD TO MAKE SURE WE TALKED TO HIM 581 00:26:13,601 --> 00:26:15,599 ABOUT THE WHOLE BULLYING THING. 582 00:26:15,601 --> 00:26:20,565 OH, WE ALL JUST LIKE YOU HAD YOUR THREE, I HAD MY THREE. 583 00:26:20,567 --> 00:26:23,965 RAISING YOU ALL ALONE, AND NOW YOU GOT HELP, 584 00:26:23,967 --> 00:26:27,632 IT SEEM LIKE YOU GOT TO RAISE ALL OVER AGAIN ALONE. 585 00:26:27,634 --> 00:26:31,032 SO YOU HAD TO BE HARD. I GOT -- JUST STAY ON MARSAU, 586 00:26:31,034 --> 00:26:33,365 I DON'T WANT YOU TO BE IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT I WAS IN. 587 00:26:33,367 --> 00:26:34,765 I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO THROUGH ANOTHER MARRIAGE 588 00:26:34,767 --> 00:26:37,399 AND THEN END UP IN THE SAME PREDICAMENT I WAS IN. 589 00:26:37,401 --> 00:26:39,032 WELL, YOU KNOW, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU'RE ON A PERSON 590 00:26:39,034 --> 00:26:41,099 YOU CAN'T STOP A PERSON FROM DOING WHAT THEY WANNA DO. 591 00:26:41,101 --> 00:26:43,465 I UNDERSTAND THAT, BUT AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW. 592 00:26:43,467 --> 00:26:45,465 YEAH. I MEAN, YEAH. AND ONCE I KNOW, IT'S UP TO ME 593 00:26:45,467 --> 00:26:48,732 TO MAKE THE DECISION, BUT IF MARSAU MADE THE DECISION, 594 00:26:48,734 --> 00:26:51,465 BECAUSE I KNOW IT'S A DECISION TO STEP OUT ON ME 595 00:26:51,467 --> 00:26:53,365 AND OUR FAMILY, THAT MEANS YOU DON'T WANT 596 00:26:53,367 --> 00:26:55,232 TO BE A PART OF THE FAMILY ANYMORE. 597 00:26:55,234 --> 00:26:57,499 YOU NEVER HAD THE IDEA THAT MARSAU WAS CHEATING, 598 00:26:57,501 --> 00:27:00,365 SO YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT BUT I DID. 599 00:27:00,367 --> 00:27:04,032 I ALWAYS THOUGHT MEN WAS DOGS, AND I'M GOING TO TELL YOU 600 00:27:04,034 --> 00:27:08,365 ALL THEM DOGS IS RUNNING AROUND HUNTSVILLE... 601 00:27:08,367 --> 00:27:10,465 -OH, GOD. -YOUR FRIEND MELODY? 602 00:27:10,467 --> 00:27:12,365 YOU KNOW, LIKE D'BLASSA WAS SAYING 603 00:27:12,367 --> 00:27:14,732 THAT HE WAS OUT THERE CHEATING 604 00:27:14,734 --> 00:27:17,465 BUT THEY COME TO FIND OUT, SHE ALREADY KNEW TWO YEARS 605 00:27:17,467 --> 00:27:19,432 IN THAT HE WAS A CHEATER. -RIGHT. 606 00:27:19,434 --> 00:27:23,532 WHY IS IT NOW THAT YOU MAKING IT SEEM LIKE IT'S SUCH A BIG THING. 607 00:27:23,534 --> 00:27:24,799 GET OVER IT, YOU KNOW. 608 00:27:24,801 --> 00:27:28,299 IF MARTELL HAD CAME, IF I FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING, 609 00:27:28,301 --> 00:27:30,165 YOU KNOW WHAT THE FIRST THING I WOULD HAVE DONE? 610 00:27:30,167 --> 00:27:31,332 WHAT YOU WOULDA DO, MA? 611 00:27:31,334 --> 00:27:33,365 LISTEN HERE, SIR, WE GOING TO THE CLINIC. 612 00:27:33,367 --> 00:27:36,365 WHATEVER CLINIC THAT OPEN, WE'RE GOING TO GO TO THE CLINIC. 613 00:27:36,367 --> 00:27:41,065 MOST MEN ARE DOGS BECAUSE THEY HAVE SEVEN OR EIGHT GIRLFRIENDS 614 00:27:41,067 --> 00:27:43,199 YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT. 615 00:27:43,201 --> 00:27:45,465 I DIDN'T TELL YOU THIS, BUT MEL 616 00:27:45,467 --> 00:27:48,265 WAS HAVING THIS EVENT FOR HER SKINCARE LINE. 617 00:27:48,267 --> 00:27:50,699 SO I WAS LIKE, YOU KNOW, I'M GOING TO GO TO THE EVENT 618 00:27:50,701 --> 00:27:54,299 JUST TO SAY, "I'M DONE," YOU KNOW, "LET'S MOVE FORWARD". 619 00:27:54,301 --> 00:27:58,732 I WALKED IN AND THEN SECURITY COMES UP TO ME AND WAS LIKE, 620 00:27:58,734 --> 00:28:01,332 "MA'AM, I'VE BEEN ASKED TO ESCORT YOU OUT." 621 00:28:01,334 --> 00:28:03,899 GO AND GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE, I KNOW YOU LYING! 622 00:28:03,901 --> 00:28:06,532 I KNOW YOU LYING! -I WAS LIKE, "EXCUSE ME?" 623 00:28:06,534 --> 00:28:09,265 -GIRL, DON'T TELL ME THAT! -I WAS SO EMBARRASSED. 624 00:28:09,267 --> 00:28:10,532 I WAS LIKE, "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WOULD DO THAT". 625 00:28:10,534 --> 00:28:12,032 -YOU SHOULDA SLAPPED THAT BITCH. -OH, JESUS CHRIST. 626 00:28:12,034 --> 00:28:13,432 THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DID, YOU SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED HER. 627 00:28:13,434 --> 00:28:15,765 AND GO TO JAIL TO RISK ALL THE HARD WORK 628 00:28:15,767 --> 00:28:17,332 I PUT IN FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS? NO, I DON'T BUY IT. 629 00:28:17,334 --> 00:28:19,732 WELL, YOU KNOW WHAT? BUT YOU SHOULD HAVE INVITED ME THERE. 630 00:28:19,734 --> 00:28:22,599 I'M THE TYPE OF PERSON EITHER YOU DOWN WITH ME 631 00:28:22,601 --> 00:28:27,032 OR YOU AGAINST ME, AND I THINK MEL IS REALLY AGAINST TISHA. 632 00:28:27,034 --> 00:28:29,232 FOR WHAT REASON, I DO NOT KNOW, 633 00:28:29,234 --> 00:28:31,332 BUT WHEN YOU STEP ON MY DAUGHTER'S TOES, 634 00:28:31,334 --> 00:28:32,699 YOU STEPPED ON MY TOWS. 635 00:28:32,701 --> 00:28:34,932 I WAS GOING TO LEAVE AND THEN KIMMI WAS LIKE, 636 00:28:34,934 --> 00:28:36,932 "NO, TISHA, NO, LET'S GO BACK HERE AND TALK TO HER." 637 00:28:36,934 --> 00:28:38,199 I WAS LIKE, "NO, KIMMI I WANT TO GO." 638 00:28:38,201 --> 00:28:41,132 SEE I TOLD YOU, KIMMI JUST SEEM LIKE -- I GUESS 639 00:28:41,134 --> 00:28:42,799 SHE DON'T WANT TO BE IN NO MESS OR WHATEVER, 640 00:28:42,801 --> 00:28:46,999 BUT IT JUST SEEM LIKE IT'S JUST SOMETHING AIN'T RIGHT THERE. 641 00:28:47,001 --> 00:28:49,899 SHE'LL THROW A ROCK AND HIDE HER HANDS, NOT TALKIN' -- 642 00:28:49,901 --> 00:28:52,299 I'M NOT SAYING -- I KNOW WHAT YOU MAY FEEL, 643 00:28:52,301 --> 00:28:53,999 BUT I'M JUST SAYING THAT'S WHAT IT SEEMS 644 00:28:54,001 --> 00:28:55,832 LIKE TO ME IN SOME TIME. -NO. 645 00:28:55,834 --> 00:28:57,999 AND IT'S JUST LIKE WHEN YOU WERE ALL ON THE SHOW, 646 00:28:58,001 --> 00:29:00,365 SHE WAS LIKE, "YES, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT". 647 00:29:00,367 --> 00:29:04,499 I'VE BEEN CALLED THE POST QUEEN AND BOUGIE. 648 00:29:04,501 --> 00:29:05,965 SHE AIN'T TELLING NO LIE. 649 00:29:05,967 --> 00:29:10,132 MELODY IS ACCURATE, WE TALKED HER ABOUT HER POSTING, PERIOD. 650 00:29:10,134 --> 00:29:13,199 ONLY SPEAK FOR YOURSELF. YOU CANNOT SPEAK FOR NOBODY ELSE 651 00:29:13,201 --> 00:29:16,465 AND WHEN SHE SAY, "YOU SURE AIN'T LYING", 652 00:29:16,467 --> 00:29:19,432 KIMMI IS KIND OF SHADY A LITTLE BIT. 653 00:29:19,434 --> 00:29:21,332 -I DON'T KNOW. I MEAN... -SHE'S KIND OF SHADY 654 00:29:21,334 --> 00:29:25,165 A LITTLE BIT AND YES, I SAID IT. I SAID IT. 655 00:29:25,167 --> 00:29:29,065 I DO NOT WANT TO GET IN THE MIDDLE OF KIMMI AND MY MOM. 656 00:29:29,067 --> 00:29:30,999 LISTEN, I LOVE MY MOM TO DEATH, 657 00:29:31,001 --> 00:29:33,265 AND I'M GOING TO HAVE MY MOM'S BACK REGARDLESS. 658 00:29:33,267 --> 00:29:36,899 KIMMI IS MY SISTER, I LOVE KIMMI. 659 00:29:36,901 --> 00:29:39,665 TWO ADULTS, I'M GOING TO LET THEM TAKE CARE OF THAT. 660 00:29:39,667 --> 00:29:42,399 ALL THAT STUFF, YOU KNOW, THAT WAS JUST BAD ENERGY, 661 00:29:42,401 --> 00:29:44,532 YOU KNOW, I'M HAPPY IT'S BEHIND ME NOW. 662 00:29:44,534 --> 00:29:47,399 I HAVE A GREAT EVENT THAT'S COMING UP, 663 00:29:47,401 --> 00:29:48,965 YOU KNOW, WOMEN EMPOWERMENT, 664 00:29:48,967 --> 00:29:50,965 SO I'M GOING TO BE AROUND POSITIVE PEOPLE, 665 00:29:50,967 --> 00:29:54,699 SPEAKING LIFE INTO PEOPLE AND THAT'S THE TYPE OF ENVIRONMENT 666 00:29:54,701 --> 00:29:57,599 I WANT TO BE AROUND FROM THIS POINT OUT. 667 00:29:57,601 --> 00:29:59,232 I HOPE YOU CAN COME. -I'M PUSHING FOR YOU. 668 00:29:59,234 --> 00:30:00,632 -OH, I WILL BE THERE. -OKAY. 669 00:30:00,634 --> 00:30:02,865 I'M 100% WITH YOU, GIRL. 670 00:30:02,867 --> 00:30:06,232 COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"... 671 00:30:06,234 --> 00:30:08,199 HAVE YOU EXPRESSED TO LeBARRICK HOW YOU FEEL? 672 00:30:08,201 --> 00:30:09,299 MM-HMM. 673 00:30:09,301 --> 00:30:10,632 AND HE'S MAKING THE CHANGES, RIGHT? 674 00:30:10,634 --> 00:30:13,665 I MEAN, WE'RE GOING TO COUNSELING WEEKLY. 675 00:30:13,667 --> 00:30:16,032 ARE YOU GOING TO COME TO THE EVENT? 676 00:30:16,034 --> 00:30:17,799 I'VE GOT A LOT OF STUFF TO DO. 677 00:30:19,634 --> 00:30:23,132 ¶¶ 678 00:30:23,134 --> 00:30:25,132 Melody: YEAH, PRINT THOSE OUT FOR ME, 679 00:30:25,134 --> 00:30:27,132 PUT THE INITIALS WHERE THEY NEED TO BE AND SCAN IT 680 00:30:27,134 --> 00:30:30,465 AND SHOOT IT BACK INTO HER. -OKAY, I WILL. 681 00:30:30,467 --> 00:30:31,865 OKAY, THANK YOU SO MUCH, SWEETIE. 682 00:30:31,867 --> 00:30:35,832 -YOU'RE WELCOME. -OKAY, BYE BYE. 683 00:30:35,834 --> 00:30:41,232 YEAH GIRL. HEY GIRL. YOU CAN'T BE GOING TO SLEEP. 684 00:30:41,234 --> 00:30:44,399 SAY, "I'M GOING TO KEEP YOU UP ALL NIGHT MAMA". 685 00:30:44,401 --> 00:30:47,532 Melody: EVEN WITH THE NEW BABY I'M ALWAYS ON THE HUSTLE. 686 00:30:47,534 --> 00:30:49,332 I'VE GOT MY SKINCARE LINE, 687 00:30:49,334 --> 00:30:52,532 HOLT AND HOLT, HOLT CUSTOM HOMES. 688 00:30:52,534 --> 00:30:54,665 WE'RE ACTUALLY PROMOTING OUR BOOK. 689 00:30:54,667 --> 00:30:57,465 IT'S A LOT GOING ON BUT AIN'T NO STOPPING ME NOW. 690 00:30:57,467 --> 00:31:02,332 I'LL REST WHEN I RETIRE, MAYBE. 691 00:31:02,334 --> 00:31:06,465 -HEY, GIRL! -HI. HEY. 692 00:31:06,467 --> 00:31:11,165 MY BABY MAMA. OH, MY GOD, GIRL. 693 00:31:11,167 --> 00:31:13,365 LOOK AT YOU MY BABY MAMA. SNATCH. 694 00:31:13,367 --> 00:31:16,199 LOOK, YOU ALREADY KNOW, I GOT TOO MUCH TO DO, GIRL. 695 00:31:16,201 --> 00:31:17,599 EVEN WITH EVERYTHING THAT'S GOING ON 696 00:31:17,601 --> 00:31:20,665 I STILL NEED MY GIRL TIME. I AIN'T CHECKIN' LaTISHA. 697 00:31:20,667 --> 00:31:22,932 KIMMI AND I STILL HAVEN'T SPOKEN. 698 00:31:22,934 --> 00:31:26,365 SO IT'S GREAT TO HAVE A REAL FRIEND AROUND LIKE DESTINY. 699 00:31:26,367 --> 00:31:28,632 SO HOW YOU BEEN FEELING? WHAT'S YOUR BUTT BEEN DOING? 700 00:31:28,634 --> 00:31:30,432 I'VE BEEN FEELING REALLY NAUSEOUS 701 00:31:30,434 --> 00:31:35,165 AND ADJUSTING TO BEING HERE EVERY DAY AND LIVING DAY TO DAY 702 00:31:35,167 --> 00:31:37,632 WITH SOMEBODY ELSE AND SHARING SPACE. 703 00:31:37,634 --> 00:31:39,865 -YEAH, IT'S A LOT, ISN'T IT? -AHA. 704 00:31:39,867 --> 00:31:41,032 YEAH, YOU ALL GOT A LOT, 705 00:31:41,034 --> 00:31:42,799 YOU'RE COMING TOGETHER, JUST GOT MARRIED, 706 00:31:42,801 --> 00:31:46,232 LIVING TOGETHER NOW, AND YOU'RE PREGNANT. 707 00:31:46,234 --> 00:31:48,299 Destiny: I MADE A LOT OF CHANGES IN MY LIFE 708 00:31:48,301 --> 00:31:50,065 TO ADJUST TO MARRIED LIFE. 709 00:31:50,067 --> 00:31:52,932 MY HUSBAND HASN'T HAD TO MAKE THOSE SAME CHANGES. 710 00:31:52,934 --> 00:31:54,932 IT'S JUST ME REALLY BRINGING MYSELF 711 00:31:54,934 --> 00:31:56,565 AND UPROOTING MYSELF TO HIM, 712 00:31:56,567 --> 00:31:59,099 ADJUSTING TO BEING IN HIS BACHELOR PAD, 713 00:31:59,101 --> 00:32:00,899 TALKING ABOUT FINANCES. 714 00:32:00,901 --> 00:32:02,365 WE DIDN'T PLAN ON GETTING PREGNANT THIS SOON 715 00:32:02,367 --> 00:32:04,865 SO IT IS AN EXTREME ADJUSTMENT. 716 00:32:04,867 --> 00:32:09,332 HOW WAS IT WHEN YOU ALL MOVED IN TOGETHER LIKE THE FIRST TIME? 717 00:32:09,334 --> 00:32:11,865 IT WAS GREAT. WE WERE SUPER EXCITED 718 00:32:11,867 --> 00:32:14,165 BUT WE WERE YOUNGER, I MEAN, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING? 719 00:32:14,167 --> 00:32:16,499 I WAS 22, YOU KNOW, 720 00:32:16,501 --> 00:32:20,299 Y'ALL ARE KINDA SET IN YOUR WAYS MORE PROBABLY, DESTINY, NOW. 721 00:32:20,301 --> 00:32:22,799 I THINK I COMPROMISE A LITTLE BIT MORE. 722 00:32:22,801 --> 00:32:26,132 YOU KNOW, IT'S LIKE ADJUSTING TO BEING IN HIS BACHELOR HOME 723 00:32:26,134 --> 00:32:28,132 WITH EVERYTHING IN IT IS HIS. 724 00:32:28,134 --> 00:32:31,765 IT'S LIKE MY ENERGY'S NOT THERE, MY THINGS AREN'T THERE. 725 00:32:31,767 --> 00:32:33,832 ALL MY STUFF IS IN STORAGE BECAUSE IT COULDN'T FIT EVEN 726 00:32:33,834 --> 00:32:35,165 IF I WANTED TO PUT IT IN THERE. -OH, WOW. 727 00:32:35,167 --> 00:32:36,432 SO YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE ANYTHING 728 00:32:36,434 --> 00:32:38,265 FOR REAL, FOR REAL IN THERE BUT CLOTHES? 729 00:32:38,267 --> 00:32:40,699 -MM-HMM. AND BOXES. -OH, YEAH. 730 00:32:40,701 --> 00:32:44,365 NOT YOUR DISHES EITHER? HIS DISHES? OH. 731 00:32:48,334 --> 00:32:50,432 HAVE YOU EXPRESSED IT TO LeBARRICK HOW YOU FEEL? 732 00:32:50,434 --> 00:32:51,932 MM-HMM. 733 00:32:51,934 --> 00:32:53,932 OKAY, AND HE MAKING THE CHANGES, RIGHT? 734 00:32:53,934 --> 00:32:55,932 SURE. 735 00:32:55,934 --> 00:32:57,299 YOU DIDN'T SAY THAT CONVINCINGLY. 736 00:32:57,301 --> 00:32:58,632 I MEAN, WE'RE GOING TO COUNSELING. 737 00:32:58,634 --> 00:33:01,332 -OH, THAT'S GOOD. -WEEKLY. 738 00:33:01,334 --> 00:33:03,999 LeBARRICK AND I HAVE BEEN GOING TO THERAPY TO LEARN 739 00:33:04,001 --> 00:33:08,799 TO LIVE TOGETHER TO KIND OF LEARN HOW TO BECOME ONE. 740 00:33:08,801 --> 00:33:11,765 IT'S BEEN A REALLY ROUGH TIME, IT REALLY HAS. 741 00:33:11,767 --> 00:33:14,032 IT'S A TRUE ADJUSTMENT FOR THE BOTH OF US. 742 00:33:14,034 --> 00:33:17,132 THIS IS OUR SIXTH PREGNANCY. -WHEE. 743 00:33:17,134 --> 00:33:18,965 YOU ALL HAD MULTIPLE MISCARRIAGES. 744 00:33:18,967 --> 00:33:21,232 YOU ALL BEEN TRYING. -YEAH, THIS IS A WHOLE PROCESS 745 00:33:21,234 --> 00:33:25,332 OF LIKE REALLY HAVING A BABY IN YOUR STOMACH 746 00:33:25,334 --> 00:33:27,899 AND THEN LOSING IT AND THE MENTAL STUFF 747 00:33:27,901 --> 00:33:30,132 THAT YOU GO THROUGH THAT IS NOT SEEN ON THE OUTSIDE, 748 00:33:30,134 --> 00:33:32,799 AND HE'S JUST LIKE, I MEAN, HE DIDN'T GET IT 749 00:33:32,801 --> 00:33:36,065 AND IT WAS DIFFICULT. 750 00:33:36,067 --> 00:33:40,199 SO, YOU KNOW, LIKE FOR US, BEFORE I HAD MILANI 751 00:33:40,201 --> 00:33:42,665 I ACTUALLY HAD A MISCARRIAGE. 752 00:33:42,667 --> 00:33:45,665 IT'S LIKE, DANG, I KIND OF FELT LIKE, MAN 753 00:33:45,667 --> 00:33:47,499 IS THERE A REASON THAT THIS HAPPENED 754 00:33:47,501 --> 00:33:50,232 AND THEN AFTER DRAMA CAME AFTER THAT, I WAS LIKE, OKAY 755 00:33:50,234 --> 00:33:52,965 MAYBE THAT TIMING WAS JUST ABSOLUTELY NOT RIGHT. 756 00:33:52,967 --> 00:33:56,432 SO EVEN WHEN I GOT PREGNANT WITH HER, I DID CONSIDER, 757 00:33:56,434 --> 00:34:00,132 I WAS THINKING LIKE, "SHOULD I HAVE AN ABORTION," YOU KNOW, 758 00:34:00,134 --> 00:34:03,732 AND I FELT LIKE, "SHOULD I KEEP THIS CHILD OR NOT?" 759 00:34:03,734 --> 00:34:05,032 THAT'S TOUGH. 760 00:34:05,034 --> 00:34:07,365 BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I WENT THROUGH SO MUCH STRESS 761 00:34:07,367 --> 00:34:09,099 WHILE I WAS PREGNANT WITH HER. 762 00:34:09,101 --> 00:34:12,332 LIKE I HAD TO PUT ON A SMILEY FACE WHEN I DIDN'T WANT TO. 763 00:34:12,334 --> 00:34:15,532 I HAD TO GET UP AND KEEP GOING EVEN WHEN I DIDN'T WANT TO. 764 00:34:15,534 --> 00:34:20,399 I HAD TO, YOU KNOW, JUST CONTINUE TO GO. 765 00:34:20,401 --> 00:34:23,832 ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR, 766 00:34:23,834 --> 00:34:25,965 AND I REALLY WANT DESTINY 767 00:34:25,967 --> 00:34:28,432 TO KNOW THAT MARRIAGE ISN'T ALWAYS EASY. 768 00:34:28,434 --> 00:34:31,732 LIKE, YEAH, MARTELL AND I WERE ABLE TO COME THROUGH OUR MESS, 769 00:34:31,734 --> 00:34:36,165 BUT IT WASN'T EASY. YOU HAVE TO PUT IN THE WORK. 770 00:34:36,167 --> 00:34:38,365 WHEN YOU CAN LOOK BACK AND LOOK AT, YOU KNOW, 771 00:34:38,367 --> 00:34:40,665 THOSE FIRST FEW YEARS OR FIVE YEARS 772 00:34:40,667 --> 00:34:42,965 OR 10 YEARS, WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE 773 00:34:42,967 --> 00:34:45,532 AND HOW YOU GUYS ARE ABLE TO BUILD A FOUNDATION 774 00:34:45,534 --> 00:34:47,665 AND REALLY GROW AS BEST FRIENDS 775 00:34:47,667 --> 00:34:50,599 AND ALL OF THAT. WHEN LIFE DOES HIT YOU, 776 00:34:50,601 --> 00:34:52,899 YOU'RE KIND OF ABLE TO WITHSTAND IT A LITTLE BIT BETTER 777 00:34:52,901 --> 00:34:56,132 BECAUSE YOU DO HAVE, YOU KNOW, THAT FOUNDATION. 778 00:34:56,134 --> 00:35:00,565 BUT ONE THING I KNOW, YOU'RE STRONG ENOUGH TO HANDLE IT, 779 00:35:00,567 --> 00:35:03,032 YOU ALL LOVE EACH OTHER ENOUGH TO HANDLE IT. 780 00:35:03,034 --> 00:35:04,799 YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY, THE FIRST FEW YEARS 781 00:35:04,801 --> 00:35:07,432 ARE ALWAYS THE TOUGHEST. -THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY, GIRL. 782 00:35:07,434 --> 00:35:11,499 I DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE OR NOT BUT THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY. 783 00:35:18,367 --> 00:35:22,899 AS MOMS AND WIVES, OUR DAY TO DAY SCHEDULE FILL UP FAST 784 00:35:22,901 --> 00:35:25,432 FROM ALL OF THE DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES WITH THE KIDS, 785 00:35:25,434 --> 00:35:27,199 HELPING THEM WITH THEIR SCHOOL WORK, 786 00:35:27,201 --> 00:35:29,832 MAKING THE PTA MEETING. -BAD TIME? 787 00:35:29,834 --> 00:35:31,565 WELL, I'M JUST TRYING TO PRACTICE THIS SPEECH 788 00:35:31,567 --> 00:35:33,632 IN THE MIRROR JUST TO PREPARE MYSELF 789 00:35:33,634 --> 00:35:34,899 BUT, YOU KNOW, I'M SHAKING 790 00:35:34,901 --> 00:35:37,132 AND IT'S JUST ME IN THE MIRROR. -I LIKE IT. 791 00:35:37,134 --> 00:35:38,532 SOMETIMES YOU CAN BE YOUR HARDEST CRITIC. 792 00:35:38,534 --> 00:35:40,632 -THANK YOU, BAE. -CHEERS. 793 00:35:40,634 --> 00:35:42,432 OOOH. SOMETHING TO TAKE THE EDGE OFF. 794 00:35:42,434 --> 00:35:46,865 YEAH, IT'S PRETTY STRONG. FINISH IT, T. 795 00:35:46,867 --> 00:35:49,132 MNH-MNH. YOU GOT SOME ALCOHOL IN HERE. 796 00:35:49,134 --> 00:35:50,932 MAYBE JUST A LITTLE. 797 00:35:50,934 --> 00:35:52,699 MAYBE JUST A LITTLE. -THANK YOU. 798 00:35:52,701 --> 00:35:54,132 IT'S A DOWNER AND AN UPPER. 799 00:35:54,134 --> 00:35:55,865 NOW YOU'RE RELAXED, LET'S HEAR THIS SPEECH. 800 00:35:55,867 --> 00:35:59,665 OKAY, MOMS AND WIVES, OUR DAY TO DAY SCHEDULE FILL UP. 801 00:35:59,667 --> 00:36:03,965 I MEAN, FROM ALL THE DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES WITH THE KIDS, 802 00:36:03,967 --> 00:36:05,665 HELPING THEM WITH THEIR SCHOOL WORK, 803 00:36:05,667 --> 00:36:08,232 AND LETS NOT FORGET TO MAKE SURE THE HOUSE IS CLEAN, 804 00:36:08,234 --> 00:36:10,565 DINNER IS SERVED AT A CERTAIN TIME, 805 00:36:10,567 --> 00:36:13,832 AND TAKING CARE OF THE MEN OF THE HOUSE. 806 00:36:13,834 --> 00:36:16,132 OKAY, AFTER TAKING CARE OF EVERYBODY AROUND US, 807 00:36:16,134 --> 00:36:19,465 WE TEND TO FORGET ABOUT THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON. 808 00:36:19,467 --> 00:36:21,965 YES, THAT'S RIGHT, YOU. 809 00:36:21,967 --> 00:36:27,365 I REMEMBER IN 2015, LOOKING IN THE MIRROR AND ASKING MYSELF, 810 00:36:27,367 --> 00:36:31,032 "WHO IS THIS GIRL LOOKING BACK AT ME?". 811 00:36:31,034 --> 00:36:34,799 OKAY, I HAVE TO GET READY TO GO, I DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME. 812 00:36:34,801 --> 00:36:38,432 TONIGHT IS A VERY BIG NIGHT FOR ME. 813 00:36:38,434 --> 00:36:43,699 IT'S BEEN A LONG JOURNEY COMING, I AM EXTREMELY PROUD OF ME. 814 00:36:43,701 --> 00:36:47,165 I MEAN, IT FEELS REALLY GOOD TO SAY, I WANT TO DO SOMETHING 815 00:36:47,167 --> 00:36:51,732 AND YOU SEE YOURSELF MOVING IN THAT DIRECTION. 816 00:36:51,734 --> 00:36:53,465 YOU GOT THE KIDS AND EVERYTHING, RIGHT? 817 00:36:53,467 --> 00:36:54,665 YOU SAID WHAT? 818 00:36:54,667 --> 00:36:57,365 YOU KNOW I DIDN'T COOK DINNER, SO THAT'S ON YOU. 819 00:36:57,367 --> 00:36:59,332 CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF THAT FOR ME? 820 00:36:59,334 --> 00:37:01,832 TISHA, AT WHAT POINT IS THIS OKAY? 821 00:37:01,834 --> 00:37:03,799 I WAS TRYING TO BUT THEN I STARTED 822 00:37:03,801 --> 00:37:06,465 PRACTICING FOR THE SPEECH. -T, YOU KNOW WHAT'S FUNNY? 823 00:37:06,467 --> 00:37:08,032 YOU KNOW WHAT'S REALLY FUNNY ABOUT THIS? 824 00:37:08,034 --> 00:37:09,865 YOU CAN TAKE THIS HOWEVER YOU WANT TO TAKE IT 825 00:37:09,867 --> 00:37:11,699 BUT IN 2015, YOU SAY, 826 00:37:11,701 --> 00:37:14,899 "I'M LOSING ME, I GOT TO FOCUS ON ME," RIGHT? 827 00:37:14,901 --> 00:37:17,265 LISTEN, THERE'S NEVER A TIME WHERE I'M LIKE, 828 00:37:17,267 --> 00:37:22,599 "I GOT TO FOCUS ON ME". DO I HAVE A STAY-AT-HOME WIFE? 829 00:37:22,601 --> 00:37:25,999 DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS? THAT MEANS EVERY SINGLE DIME 830 00:37:26,001 --> 00:37:30,599 THAT COMES IN MY CHECK GOES TO MY FAMILY. 831 00:37:30,601 --> 00:37:32,965 EVERYTHING. RIGHT? -RIGHT. 832 00:37:32,967 --> 00:37:35,765 THAT'S NOT ME DOING ME. 833 00:37:35,767 --> 00:37:38,399 THAT'S ME DOING WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE FOR THE FAMILY. 834 00:37:38,401 --> 00:37:40,265 AND SO WHEN YOU MAKE THESE THINGS LIKE, 835 00:37:40,267 --> 00:37:43,265 "I LOST MYSELF", BAE, WE LOSE OURSELVES, YOU KNOW WHY? 836 00:37:43,267 --> 00:37:46,899 BECAUSE WE LOST HALF OF OURSELVES TO BE TOGETHER. 837 00:37:46,901 --> 00:37:49,099 THAT'S WHAT MARRIAGE IS ABOUT. 838 00:37:49,101 --> 00:37:51,065 IT'S ABOUT TWO PEOPLE BECOMING ONE, 839 00:37:51,067 --> 00:37:53,532 BUT YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP PART OF WHO YOU ARE, 840 00:37:53,534 --> 00:37:58,365 AND IF YOUR GOAL IS TO GET THAT BACK, 841 00:37:58,367 --> 00:38:01,099 YOU'RE GOING TO GET IT BACK OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE. 842 00:38:03,601 --> 00:38:05,732 YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO MAKE A LOT OF ADJUSTMENTS. 843 00:38:05,734 --> 00:38:08,065 -WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? -WHEN WE FIRST GOT TOGETHER 844 00:38:08,067 --> 00:38:09,432 IT WAS JUST YOU AND I, SINGLE. -TISHA, 845 00:38:09,434 --> 00:38:11,665 WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT MAKING A LOT OF ADJUSTMENTS? 846 00:38:11,667 --> 00:38:13,265 WHEN YOU AND I GOT MARRIED 847 00:38:13,267 --> 00:38:16,265 AND WE STARTED HAVING KIDS I WAS LIKE, "OH SNAP," 848 00:38:16,267 --> 00:38:18,165 ALL OF MY DREAMS WAS JUST ABOUT ME, 849 00:38:18,167 --> 00:38:20,199 BUT NOW IT'S LIKE I HAVE A FAMILY, 850 00:38:20,201 --> 00:38:22,665 AND IT'S LIKE, "OKAY, TISHA, PUT TISHA HERE, 851 00:38:22,667 --> 00:38:25,165 FOCUS ON YOUR FAMILY, FOCUS ON THE KIDS". 852 00:38:25,167 --> 00:38:29,899 THEN WE DECIDED FOR ME TO BE A STAY-AT-HOME MOM SO AFTER 853 00:38:29,901 --> 00:38:31,965 THAT, THAT'S WHEN I STARTED LOOKING IN THE MIRROR, 854 00:38:31,967 --> 00:38:33,699 I WAS LIKE, "I GOT TO FIGURE ME OUT AGAIN, 855 00:38:33,701 --> 00:38:36,399 I'VE GOT TO GET TO KNOW WHO I AM AGAIN, THE NEW ME". 856 00:38:36,401 --> 00:38:39,265 WHEN I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME, DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS? 857 00:38:39,267 --> 00:38:40,965 I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME 858 00:38:40,967 --> 00:38:44,599 BECAUSE I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME FOR YOU, FOR THE FAMILY. 859 00:38:44,601 --> 00:38:46,165 THAT'S WHAT I SAID IN MY SPEECH. 860 00:38:46,167 --> 00:38:51,965 I'M JUST SAYING IS THAT I DON'T WANT IN YOUR SPEECH FOR YOU 861 00:38:51,967 --> 00:38:54,632 TO BE SAYING, YOU KNOW, 862 00:38:54,634 --> 00:38:59,265 "HEY, I'M JUST DOING ME NOW, MY HUSBAND AIN'T DONE NOTHING." 863 00:38:59,267 --> 00:39:01,899 WHY WOULD I SAY THAT? THAT'S NOT BEING REAL. 864 00:39:01,901 --> 00:39:04,265 -I DON'T WANT TO WALK IN. -BUT WHY WOULD I SAY THAT? 865 00:39:04,267 --> 00:39:06,765 DO I EVER DISCREDIT YOU LIKE THAT? 866 00:39:06,767 --> 00:39:07,832 -YES. -I DO? 867 00:39:07,834 --> 00:39:09,265 YEAH. I WAS JUST TELLING YOU ABOUT THAT. 868 00:39:09,267 --> 00:39:10,432 I DISCREDIT YOU? 869 00:39:10,434 --> 00:39:11,799 I WAS LIKE, "MY HUSBAND DON'T DO ANYTHING, 870 00:39:11,801 --> 00:39:14,432 I'M DOING EVERYTHING." -YEAH, YOU SAID THOSE WORDS. 871 00:39:14,434 --> 00:39:16,032 REALLY, MARSAU? 872 00:39:16,034 --> 00:39:18,532 I MEAN, THESE ARE MY RESPONSIBILITIES 873 00:39:18,534 --> 00:39:21,399 BUT IT KIND OF GETS TO ME A LITTLE BIT 874 00:39:21,401 --> 00:39:26,165 WHEN YOU MAKE IT SEEM LIKE, "OH, MY GOD, 875 00:39:26,167 --> 00:39:29,865 I WAS A STAY-AT-HOME MOM, I HAD TO DO EVERYTHING." 876 00:39:29,867 --> 00:39:32,332 I GUESS I WAS LOOKING AT IT FROM THIS PERSPECTIVE 877 00:39:32,334 --> 00:39:34,199 LIKE, YES, YOU WAS WORKING, 878 00:39:34,201 --> 00:39:36,399 BUT ONCE YOU GOT OFF OF WORK, YOU GOT A CHANCE TO GO 879 00:39:36,401 --> 00:39:38,299 AND DO WHATEVER IT IS YOU WANT TO DO. 880 00:39:38,301 --> 00:39:39,699 -[BLEEP] STOP IT. -BUT YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY 881 00:39:39,701 --> 00:39:42,532 ABOUT FINDING A BABYSITTER. -WHEN HAVE I BEEN OFF WORK? 882 00:39:42,534 --> 00:39:44,765 AT NIGHT TIME WHEN YOU'RE OFF WORK, 883 00:39:44,767 --> 00:39:46,632 AND YOU'RE HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS. 884 00:39:46,634 --> 00:39:48,665 TELL ME WHAT DAY OF THE YEAR? 885 00:39:48,667 --> 00:39:53,165 WHAT DAY OF THE YEAR AM I EVER OFF WORK? 886 00:39:53,167 --> 00:39:54,565 MARSAU, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING. 887 00:39:54,567 --> 00:39:56,399 YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FINDING A BABYSITTER, 888 00:39:56,401 --> 00:39:58,999 CALL AROUND, ASK PEOPLE TO WATCH THE KIDS FOR YOU, 889 00:39:59,001 --> 00:40:00,932 YOU GET TO JUST GET UP AND GO. 890 00:40:00,934 --> 00:40:02,565 FOR ME, I'M WITH THE KIDS ALL THE TIME. 891 00:40:02,567 --> 00:40:03,965 TISHA, YOU CAN, TOO. 892 00:40:03,967 --> 00:40:06,699 NO, I HAVE TO FIND A BABYSITTER. I JUST CAN'T LEAVE MY KIDS. 893 00:40:06,701 --> 00:40:09,532 OH, SHUCKS, YOU GOT TO FIND A BABYSITTER, DAMN. 894 00:40:09,534 --> 00:40:11,199 THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE IS WHAT I'M SAYING. 895 00:40:11,201 --> 00:40:13,832 I'VE GOT TO MAKE A CALL AND FIND A BABYSITTER. 896 00:40:13,834 --> 00:40:16,632 IT WASN'T THAT EASY JUST MAKING A CALL. 897 00:40:16,634 --> 00:40:21,265 GET OUT OF HERE. WOW. YOU KNOW WHAT? I'M SORRY, BABE. 898 00:40:21,267 --> 00:40:24,865 I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW HARD YOUR LIFE WAS. 899 00:40:24,867 --> 00:40:26,965 I DO NOT NEED THIS DISTRACTION RIGHT NOW 900 00:40:26,967 --> 00:40:29,132 BEFORE I GET READY TO DO MY SPEECH. 901 00:40:29,134 --> 00:40:30,765 MARSAU ALWAYS TELLS ME, 902 00:40:30,767 --> 00:40:33,432 "DON'T LET ANYTHING DISTRACT YOU FROM YOUR GOALS," 903 00:40:33,434 --> 00:40:35,832 AND RIGHT NOW, HE IS A DISTRACTION. 904 00:40:35,834 --> 00:40:38,699 SO YOU GOING TO COME TO THE EVENT? 905 00:40:41,667 --> 00:40:43,465 I'VE GOT A LOT OF STUFF TO DO, BABE. 906 00:40:45,601 --> 00:40:48,832 NEXT ON "LOVE AND MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"... 907 00:40:48,834 --> 00:40:52,765 YOU KNOW, WHEN PEOPLE SAY STUFF THAT I KNOW IS A BUNCH OF B.S., 908 00:40:52,767 --> 00:40:55,932 I'M GOING TO SAY SOMETHING. I MEAN, LIKE THAT JUNK 909 00:40:55,934 --> 00:40:59,899 THAT MARSAU DID TALKING ABOUT HE HAD A SEX TAPE OF ME. 910 00:40:59,901 --> 00:41:02,065 LaTisha: I'M HAPPY YOU WAS HERE TO SUPPORT. 911 00:41:02,067 --> 00:41:03,532 YEAH, YOU KNOW KIMMI WASN'T GOING TO BE HERE 912 00:41:03,534 --> 00:41:04,965 IF NO ONE ELSE DIDN'T COME. 913 00:41:04,967 --> 00:41:07,199 -WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER? -I DON'T KNOW, WHAT'S THAT? 914 00:41:09,601 --> 00:41:12,299 SO YOU JUST GO SEARCHING FOR TROUBLE? 915 00:41:12,301 --> 00:41:13,799 I'M OUT HERE JUST TRYING TO MAKE MONEY. 916 00:41:13,801 --> 00:41:15,132 OKAY. 917 00:41:16,867 --> 00:41:19,665 -OH. -OH, MY GOD! 918 00:41:19,667 --> 00:41:21,599 WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT YOU GOT YOUR TOBACCO LICENSE 919 00:41:21,601 --> 00:41:23,865 AND ALL THAT FOR THE CIGAR LOUNGE? 920 00:41:27,901 --> 00:41:31,599 I'M LaTISHA SCOTT AS KENYA JUST MENTIONED. 921 00:41:31,601 --> 00:41:33,265 WELL... 922 00:41:35,267 --> 00:41:39,065 ...I'M SO NERVOUS, PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I'M SHAKING. 79317

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