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"PREVIOUSLY ON LOVE AND MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...
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I'M TRYING TO HAVE
A HEALTHY BABY, YOU KNOW,
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I MEAN LOOK, I'M 37 WEEKS.
-WELL, SPEAKING OF 37 WEEKS.
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-YEAH, GIRL, WHAT?
-I'M NINE WEEKS.
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Melody: OVER THE YEARS DESTINY
AND I HAVE
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REALLY STARTED
BUILDING OUR FRIENDSHIP.
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I'M SO HAPPY FOR Y'ALL.
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THANK YOU GUYS FOR COMING
TO THE BABY SHOWER.
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WELL, OF COURSE, YOU DIDN'T
HAVE TO THANK US FOR THAT.
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BECAUSE YOU COULD
HAVE PICKED SIDES
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BUT YOU COULD HAVE BEEN LIKE,
"OKAY, THIS IS MY FAMILY
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RIGHT HERE AND I DON'T WANT THEM
FEELING NO KIND OF WAY."
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IT NEVER OCCURRED
TO US NOT TO GO.
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AS SOON AS THE DOCTOR
ARRIVES THE BABY WILL BE HERE.
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OH, WOW.
-OH.
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WELL, I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU
SO MUCH FOR COMING OUT TONIGHT.
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-HI.
-I WASN'T EXPECTING TO SEE YOU.
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I KNOW. I SURPRISED
YOU, RIGHT?
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I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT TISHA HAS
THE AUDACITY TO CRASH MY EVENT.
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SECURITY, ARE YOU ALLOWED
TO ESCORT ANYONE OUT?
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-YES.
-GREAT, OKAY.
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SO LET ME SHOW YOU.
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SHE'S RIGHT THERE IN THE YELLOW
POLKA DOTS, HELP YOURSELF.
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DON'T PLAY WITH ME.
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GOOD TO SEE YOU.
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I KNOW.
IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU FOREVER.
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-IT IS.
-HOW ARE YOU?
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-GOOD, HOW ARE YOU?
-GOOD.
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I'M LaTISHA SCOTT.
YOU LOOK NICE.
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YES?
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WHY?
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DON'T PLAY WITH ME.
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SO KIMMI, I AM GOING TO LEAVE
BECAUSE THIS NICE CHAP
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SAID HE'S BEEN ASKED
TO ESCORT ME OUT.
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-WHO? WHAT? NO! NO!
-YES!
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YOU GOTTA COME WITH ME.
THIS IS SO EMBARRASSING.
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I'M DONE WITH THIS.
-WHY WOULD SHE DO THAT?
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-NO. I'M GOING TO THE CAR.
-WE'RE GONNA FIND MELODY.
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WHY?
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BECAUSE IF YOU MAKE
AN OLIVE BRANCH
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TO TRY TO MAKE A MOVE
THEN SHE SHOULD ACCEPT THAT.
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OKAY, HOLD ON ONE SECOND, OKAY.
JUST GIVE ME ONE SECOND.
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KNOCK, KNOCK, KNOCK.
-SO THIS IS RIDICULOUS.
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I DON'T KNOW WHY I WOULD
BE ASKED TO BE ESCORTED OUT.
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WAIT. WAIT. WE'RE NOT GONNA
START LIKE THAT, WAIT.
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Melody: WHY IS THIS GIRL
IN MY FACE RIGHT NOW?
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THIS IS MY EVENT.
I'M TRYING TO HAVE A GOOD TIME,
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POSITIVE ENERGY
WITH CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
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SHOO. GO ALONG. SHE CAME HERE
WITH A PICNIC DRESS.
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IF SHE HAD THE INVITATION,
SHE WOULD HAVE SEEN SEMI-FORMAL.
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WELL THAT'S PROBABLY
SEMI-FORMAL TO HER.
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IT'S A PRIVATE EVENT,
I'M SORRY.
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BUT MEL, YOU KNOW,
I DON'T WANT THIS.
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THIS IS THE PROBLEM
WHAT I'M SAYING TO YOU,
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I DON'T WANT THIS.
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I DON'T TALK TO YOU,
I DON'T SEE YOU, SO IT'S LIKE,
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"YOU KNOW WHAT,
SHE'S HAVING THE EVENT,
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LET ME JUST GO UP THERE
AND SURPRISE HER".
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HAVE YOU ASKED ME,
"CAN WE MEET UP?".
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NO, BABY, THIS AIN'T
NO GOOD SURPRISE.
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YEAH, THAT'S
A GOOD SURPRISE.
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I WOULD LIKE FOR US
TO TALK WOMAN TO WOMAN.
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I NEED TO TRY AND FIX
WHAT EVER IS GOING ON.
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AND THAT'S FINE, RIGHT,
BUT NOT AT MY PRIVATE EVENT
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THAT I'M HOSTING.
LIKE THIS IS MY THING RIGHT NOW
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AND THE PEOPLE
I CHOSE THAT I WANT.
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AND I'M NOT TRYING
TO MESS UP YOUR THING,
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I'M NOT TRYING
TO MESS UP YOUR THING.
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I FEEL YOU. THE PEOPLE
THAT I CHOSE AND INVITED
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AND WANTED TO BE
ARE THE --
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BUT YOU'RE MAKING IT
A BIG DEAL, MEL.
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-I'M NOT. I JUST ASKED --
-HEY LISTEN, I'M SORRY.
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SO EVERYTHING
WILL STAY POSITIVE.
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THIS AIN'T THE RIGHT
PLACE RIGHT NOW THOUGH.
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THIS IS A MAJOR EVENT
FOR HER, SO...
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AND THAT'S WHY
I'M HERE.
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I WANT TO CELEBRATE
THIS MAJOR EVENT WITH YOU,
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AND THAT'S WHAT I CAME HERE
FOR TO CONGRATULATE YOU.
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A TEXT COULD HAVE DONE THAT
AND THEN A,
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"CAN WE TALK",
SOME OTHER BEFORE HAND.
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I GUESS IT'S COOL OR WHATEVER
THAT TISHA WANTS
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TO BE "SUPPORTIVE,"
BUT GIRL,
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IF I WANTED YOU HERE,
I WOULD HAVE SENT YOU AN INVITE.
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-SORRY.
-WHAT YOU SORRY FOR.
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HE SHOULD BE SORRY.
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EXCUSE ME, HOLD UP,
SHOULD BE SORRY FOR WHAT?
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YOUR HUSBAND HAS FILED A POLICE
REPORT AGAINST MY HUSBAND.
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YES, BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND
THREATENED MY HUSBAND.
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I DIDN'T THREATEN HIM.
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I HAD MARTELL
BLOCKED FROM MY PHONE
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BECAUSE HE'S BEEN SENDING ME
RUDE TEXT MESSAGES.
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I AM REALLY UPSET WITH
MARTELL ACTION RIGHT NOW.
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HE WAS SO DISRESPECTFUL,
LYING ON TEXTS
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SO JUST STOP ALL OF THAT.
STOP IT.
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I HATE THE DISRESPECT.
NOW GET TO STEPPING, PLEASE.
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LIKE SIR, YES, LaTISHA SHH.
-YOU TELL ME TO SHH?
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SIR, HAVE YOU NOT ASKED HER?
YOU NEED TO CALL BACK UP?
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LET'S GO.
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-BECAUSE I MEAN [BLEEP].
-I GOT IT. I DON'T NEED HIM.
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I CAN'T BELIEVE I'M
BEING ESCORTED OUT OF HERE.
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OH, MY GOD.
I'M A PROFESSIONAL.
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IT AIN'T THE FIRST TIME
YOU'VE SEEN THEM.
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IT IS THE FIRST TIME,
MEL, WHAT ABOUT YOU?
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LET'S NOT GO THERE, SWEETIE.
-WE CAN.
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-LET'S NOT GO THERE, HONEY.
-YEAH WE CAN. GO! GO, GO, GO!
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HELL [BLEEP] NO.
I'M NOT DOING IT AGAIN.
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[BLEEP] NO.
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IT'S ALWAYS, "OH, TISHA, IS
GONNA LOOK LIKE THE BAD PERSON,
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TISHA TAKING ALL THE Ls."
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OKAY, THAT DIDN'T GO WELL.
THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE.
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LIKE THIS IS LIKE BORDERING
ON, LIKE, ALMOST CRAZY TALK.
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OF COURSE.
I AIN'T EVEN SWEAT.
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FEEL GOOD.
-THAT WAS AMAZING.
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I THINK YOU
DID THE RIGHT THING.
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IF SHE DON'T WANT IT,
[BLEEP] IT.
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IT'S A TOUGH SPOT, COOKIE.
I'M GONNA WALK WITH YOU.
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Martell: COME ON, YOU KNOW
WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.
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OH, AHA.
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-THEY'LL COME TO YOU.
-WELL, THAT'S FINE BECAUSE
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HONEY, YOU KNOW,
I GETS RID OF ALL THE BIRDS.
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GET RID OF ALL THE BIRDS
BUT THIS ONE.
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I'M THE ONLY BIRD
UP IN HERE.
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SO WHAT WOULD YOU
SAY, "ESCORT HER OUT"?
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LIKE, I'M A PROFESSIONAL
WOMAN IN FRONT
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OF ALL THOSE BUSINESS PEOPLE,
IT'S NOT COOL.
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THAT WHOLE SECURITY
LITTLE BUTTER BALL
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WASN'T GONNA GET
THAT JOB DONE, TRUST THAT.
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HE WAS MAKING
HIS BEST EFFORT.
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AFTER THIS EVENT,
I'M NOT REACHING OUT ANYMORE.
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IF YOU WANT ME AT SOMETHING,
YOU CAN CALL AND INVITE ME.
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I'M DONE.
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-HEY, BOO.
-HEY, BOO. THAT WAS AWESOME.
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DID YOU SEE TISHA COME?
HOP UP IN MY PRIVATE EVENT?
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I SAW HER.
WAIT, SHE WASN'T INVITED?
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OF COURSE
SHE WASN'T INVITED.
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I SAW HER AND THEN
I DIDN'T SEE HER.
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I ESCORTED HER OUT. SHE CAME
WITH A GIFT OF ATTITUDE,
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I GAVE HER
THE GIFT OF ESCORTION.
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GIFT OF ATTITUDE,
GIFT OF ESCORTION.
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KIMMI LEFT TOO. I WASN'T
EVEN ASKING KIMMI TO LEAVE,
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BUT THAT'S HER FAMILY
SO I GET IT.
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I INVITED KIMMI.
-RIGHT.
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I WANTED KIMMI TO BE HERE,
BUT I DID NOT INVITE LaTISHA.
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-I GOT YOU, T.
-OKAY.
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-I LOVE YOU.
-LOVE YOU TOO.
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BYE-BYE.
-SHE REALLY JUST SHOWED UP.
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AND IT WAS LIKE,
"I WANTED US TO, YOU KNOW,
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TALK AND MAYBE TRY TO --"
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-THIS IS NOT THE PLACE.
-THIS AIN'T -- AIN'T THE PLACE.
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SEE, THAT'S WHY WE VIBE
BECAUSE IT AIN'T THE PLACE.
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-THIS AIN'T ABOUT YOU.
-IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.
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MY EVENT HAS ACTUALLY
BEEN AMAZING, OKAY?
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EVEN THOUGHT THERE WAS A LITTLE
BIT WE HAD TO TAKE CARE OF,
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A LITTLE BUSINESS
WE HAD TO HANDLE
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AND KIND OF
GET ESCORTED OUT.
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STILL, I'M STILL THANKFUL
FOR PEOPLE LIKE DESTINY
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AND ALL OF MY OTHER FRIENDS
WHO ARE HERE
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WHO ARE GENUINELY
SUPPORTIVE OF ME
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AND MY DREAMS AND MY GOALS.
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-CAN YOU SEE ME?
-YEAH, I CAN SEE YOU.
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-OH, I CAN'T SEE YOU.
-I'M DRIVING, THE LIGHT'S OFF.
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WHAT'S UP?
-I'M HERE AT MEL'S EVENT.
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DO YOU KNOW IN FRONT
OF KIM LEWIS
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AND ALL OF THE BUSINESS PEOPLE,
SHE CALLED SECURITY
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AND TELL THEM, "ESCORT HER OUT"?
[ LAUGHS ]
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I AM SO PISSED. I WAS LIKE,
"YOU'RE GONNA ESCORT ME OUT?
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I'M NOT EVEN DOING ANYTHING.
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LIKE, I JUST STEPPED IN THE ROOM
TO TALK TO YOU".
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WHY YOU SO QUIET?
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THEY'RE NOT ON YOUR SIDE,
THEY'LL NEVER BE ON YOUR SIDE,
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THIS IS NOT EVER
GONNA BE SOMETHING.
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THIS IS ALWAYS MAKE TISHA
LOOK STUPID THING, ALWAYS.
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DON'T DO THAT
[BLEEP], OKAY?
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ASK YOURSELF
THE HONEST QUESTION,
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IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS,
"WHAT IS ADDED TO YOUR LIFE?"
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WHAT DO THEY DO?
-NOTHING. BUT IT'S LIKE--
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SO WHY DO YOU WANT
A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM?
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I DON'T.
THAT'S THE THING, MARSAU,
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IT'S NOT THAT I WANT
A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM,
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IT'S LIKE, I TRY TO BE THE
BIGGER PERSON
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TO JUST BE LIKE, "LISTEN."
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[BLEEP] BIGGER PERSON.
JUST BE THE REGULAR PERSON.
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BE YOU. THAT'S NOT YOU.
-YEAH.
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WELL, DEFINITELY DEAD TO ME NOW.
-THEY'RE THE ONES THREATENING US
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AND THEN GET SECURITY.
-RIGHT. RIGHT.
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AND COME ON, MAN.
[BLEEP] THEM.
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COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...
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I'M KIND OF TIRED OF KIMMI
PLAYING MEDIATOR ON SOME [BLEEP]
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SHE'S JUST BEING
A LITTLE MESSY.
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MAURICE AND HER WERE DATING FOR
LIKE ABOUT SEVEN OR EIGHT YEARS.
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-HE WASN'T DIVORCED YET.
-KIMMI, SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK.
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TISHA COMES UP TO ME,
"THIS OFFICER'S PUTTING ME OUT".
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-A OFFICER?
-HE WAS KINDA OPIE-ISH.
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-[ LAUGHS ] OH, NO!
-LAST NIGHT WAS CRAZY.
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IT WAS. MJ DIDN'T WANT
TO EAT, THEY WANTED THREE
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DIFFERENT FOODS FROM THREE
DIFFERENT RESTAURANTS
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SO YEAH,
IT WAS DEFINITELY CRAZY.
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Kimmi: HEY,
WHY YOU TURN THE LIGHT ON?
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Maurice:
IT'S TIME TO GET UP BECAUSE
IF I GET TOO COMFORTABLE,
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I'M GOING TO GO BACK TO SLEEP.
-I KNOW.
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-WHAT DO YOU HAVE PLANNED?
-SO TIRED.
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I THINK I HAVE TO SHOW
A HOUSE MAYBE AT 2:00.
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I THINK I'M GONNA
TAKE MY LUNCH LATE
209
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SO I CAN SHOW
THE HOUSE AT 2:00.
210
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YOU'RE SELLING A HOUSE
ON YOUR LUNCH BREAK?
211
00:10:18,601 --> 00:10:20,665
BUT WHAT IF YOU JUST LIKE
DIDN'T TAKE LUNCH BREAKS
212
00:10:20,667 --> 00:10:22,699
TO SHOW YOUR HOUSE.
-WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
213
00:10:22,701 --> 00:10:25,599
LIKE QUITTING YOUR JOB?
214
00:10:25,601 --> 00:10:28,632
MAURICE HAS WANTED ME TO GIVE
INTO REAL ESTATE
215
00:10:28,634 --> 00:10:32,299
FOR A WHILE NOW, BUT I'VE
BEEN A NURSE FOR 22 YEARS.
216
00:10:32,301 --> 00:10:33,965
I'M GOOD AT WHAT I DO
217
00:10:33,967 --> 00:10:37,165
AND I DON'T TAKE THIS
PARTICULAR DECISION LIGHTLY.
218
00:10:37,167 --> 00:10:39,865
MAURICE IS AN ENTREPRENEUR,
219
00:10:39,867 --> 00:10:42,932
AND MAURICE WANTS EVERYBODY
TO BE AN ENTREPRENEUR.
220
00:10:42,934 --> 00:10:48,232
THAT MAY BE WHAT'S BEST FOR HIM,
BUT THIS DECISION,
221
00:10:48,234 --> 00:10:50,432
I'VE GOTTA DO
WHAT'S BEST FOR ME.
222
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HOPEFULLY THAT'LL BE BEST FOR US
AT THE END OF THE DAY.
223
00:10:53,901 --> 00:10:56,432
I'M SO TIRED.
-I KNOW, RIGHT.
224
00:10:56,434 --> 00:11:00,032
I NEED TO MAKE SURE
MONSTER'S GETTING READY.
225
00:11:00,034 --> 00:11:02,832
I KNOW.
226
00:11:02,834 --> 00:11:05,832
GET IN THERE AND TAKE
THAT SUPER LONG SHOWER.
227
00:11:05,834 --> 00:11:06,932
NO!
228
00:11:06,934 --> 00:11:09,065
HE KEEPS TAKING
30 MINUTE SHOWERS.
229
00:11:09,067 --> 00:11:12,165
HE NEEDS TO TAKE
A 10 MINUTE SHOWER.
230
00:11:12,167 --> 00:11:15,165
WHAT'S UP BOY?
GET UP.
231
00:11:18,867 --> 00:11:22,065
FINALLY FOR THE FIRST TIME
SINCE MY DIVORCE,
232
00:11:22,067 --> 00:11:23,565
MONSTER'S LIVING
WITH ME FULL-TIME.
233
00:11:23,567 --> 00:11:28,265
WHEN I WAS 13 GROWING UP, IT WAS
ALMOST IDENTICAL TO MY SON.
234
00:11:28,267 --> 00:11:30,765
I LIVED WITH MY DAD,
I CHANGED SCHOOLS,
235
00:11:30,767 --> 00:11:32,232
BUT IT'S SCARY TO SEE HIM
GOING THROUGH
236
00:11:32,234 --> 00:11:34,232
THE EXACT SAME TRANSITIONS.
237
00:11:34,234 --> 00:11:37,132
A LOT HAPPENS
IN THE TEENAGE YEARS.
238
00:11:37,134 --> 00:11:39,032
-GOOD MORNING, SUNSHINE.
-GOOD MORNING.
239
00:11:39,034 --> 00:11:40,632
-CAN I GET SOME?
-YEAH.
240
00:11:40,634 --> 00:11:42,532
WE GOING TO GET
A GOOD START TODAY?
241
00:11:42,534 --> 00:11:43,865
MM-HMM.
242
00:11:43,867 --> 00:11:46,499
YOU SMELL GOOD, LIKE YOU DID
SOME STUFF IN THERE.
243
00:11:46,501 --> 00:11:48,432
DID YOU PUT THAT STUFF
IN YOUR HAIR?
244
00:11:48,434 --> 00:11:50,999
-NOT YET.
-WHAT'S THE WHOLE BLANKET THING?
245
00:11:51,001 --> 00:11:52,599
YOU DON'T HAVE A BATHROBE?
-NO.
246
00:11:52,601 --> 00:11:55,965
-OKAY.
-YOU DON'T HAVE A BATHROBE?
247
00:11:55,967 --> 00:11:57,932
WHY YOU LOOKING
AT ME LIKE THAT, BABY?
248
00:11:57,934 --> 00:12:00,165
BY THE WAY, BABY.
-WHAT'S UP?
249
00:12:00,167 --> 00:12:03,265
I'M NOT TRYING TO
MAKE YOU A HOUSE WIFE.
250
00:12:03,267 --> 00:12:08,432
I JUST WANT YOU TO HAVE
ALL THE TIME THAT YOU NEED.
251
00:12:08,434 --> 00:12:10,132
ALL THE TIME
I NEED FOR WHAT?
252
00:12:10,134 --> 00:12:12,065
WHATEVER IT IS
THAT YOU WANNA DO.
253
00:12:12,067 --> 00:12:15,699
LIKE I THINK THAT
YOU SHOULD USE YOUR TIME
254
00:12:15,701 --> 00:12:17,665
THE WAY YOU WANT
TO USE YOUR TIME.
255
00:12:17,667 --> 00:12:19,765
MAURICE KNOWS THAT
I COUNT MY CORNS,
256
00:12:19,767 --> 00:12:24,065
I WATCH WHERE MY MONEY GOES
AND SO HE KNOWS VERY WELL
257
00:12:24,067 --> 00:12:27,465
THAT LEAVING THIS JOB WITH THAT
CHECK COMING EVERY TWO WEEKS
258
00:12:27,467 --> 00:12:30,265
MAKES ME NERVOUS.
LAST NIGHT WAS LONG.
259
00:12:30,267 --> 00:12:32,265
-REALLY?
-MM-HMM.
260
00:12:32,267 --> 00:12:36,065
WE WERE IN THERE
FOR MEL'S MBRACE,
261
00:12:36,067 --> 00:12:38,132
YOU KNOW,
HER RELEASE WAS YESTERDAY.
262
00:12:38,134 --> 00:12:40,732
TISHA POPPED UP.
-POPPED UP?
263
00:12:40,734 --> 00:12:43,999
-YEAH.
-SHE WASN'T INVITED?
264
00:12:44,001 --> 00:12:48,032
I WASN'T UNDER THE IMPRESSION
THAT SHE WAS INVITED.
265
00:12:48,034 --> 00:12:49,965
I DIDN'T TALK TO HER
AHEAD OF TIME,
266
00:12:49,967 --> 00:12:51,765
SO I DON'T KNOW
WHAT THE PLAN WAS,
267
00:12:51,767 --> 00:12:55,632
BUT WHATEVER IT WAS WENT
REALLY BAD REALLY FAST.
268
00:12:55,634 --> 00:12:59,732
SO LIKE LITERALLY OUT OF
NOWHERE, TISHA COMES UP TO ME
269
00:12:59,734 --> 00:13:04,432
AND GRABS MY ARM
AND SHE WAS LIKE,
270
00:13:04,434 --> 00:13:05,732
"THIS OFFICER'S
PUTTING ME OUT".
271
00:13:05,734 --> 00:13:08,199
-A OFFICER?
-YES.
272
00:13:08,201 --> 00:13:10,232
THEY CALLED THE POLICE?
273
00:13:10,234 --> 00:13:13,665
I THINK IT WAS MORE LIKE
THE SECURITY FROM THE PLACE.
274
00:13:13,667 --> 00:13:15,999
HE WAS KIND OF OPIE-ISH.
275
00:13:16,001 --> 00:13:20,365
[ BOTH LAUGH ]
276
00:13:20,367 --> 00:13:25,932
HE WAS KINDA...
-WAS TISHA WILDIN' OUT?
277
00:13:25,934 --> 00:13:30,032
WELL, EVERYBODY WAS
WILDIN' OUT, FIRST OF ALL.
278
00:13:30,034 --> 00:13:33,532
THEY DIDN'T EVEN
SPEAK TO EACH OTHER.
279
00:13:33,534 --> 00:13:37,299
-THIS IS OFF THE MAP, BABY.
-THEY DIDN'T TALK TO EACH OTHER.
280
00:13:37,301 --> 00:13:40,765
MEL THROWING TISHA OUT OF
THE EVENT IS JUST...
281
00:13:40,767 --> 00:13:43,299
THAT'S OUT OF HAND, MAN
I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND THAT.
282
00:13:43,301 --> 00:13:44,699
YEAH, IT WAS A BIT MUCH.
283
00:13:44,701 --> 00:13:48,565
I'VE BEEN SAYING IT JUST LIKE,
IT RUINED THE WHOLE EVENT.
284
00:13:48,567 --> 00:13:52,632
CALLING SECURITY
IS A LITTLE EXTRA.
285
00:13:52,634 --> 00:13:56,765
BUT THAT'S MEL.
ALWAYS A LITTLE BIT EXTRA.
286
00:13:56,767 --> 00:13:58,365
I DIDN'T EVEN GET
TO TRY THE PRODUCTS.
287
00:13:58,367 --> 00:13:59,999
AS A MATTER OF FACT,
HEY MONSTER!
288
00:14:00,001 --> 00:14:01,965
-YEAH?
-YOU ARE HOLLERING.
289
00:14:01,967 --> 00:14:03,332
JUST CHECKING TO
SEE IF HE'S READY.
290
00:14:03,334 --> 00:14:04,599
BECAUSE MAN,
HE GETS IN THERE
291
00:14:04,601 --> 00:14:07,765
AND GETS ON HIS EARPHONES
OR SOMETHING.
292
00:14:07,767 --> 00:14:09,899
ALRIGHT, BABE, I GOTTA GO
GET DRESSED SO WE CAN TAKE
293
00:14:09,901 --> 00:14:13,699
MONSTER TO SCHOOL.
ALRIGHT.
294
00:14:13,701 --> 00:14:15,665
-BYE, LOVE.
-BYE, SWEETHEART.
295
00:14:15,667 --> 00:14:18,432
I'LL BE READY
IN 2.5, MONSTER.
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00:14:18,434 --> 00:14:27,665
¶¶
297
00:14:27,667 --> 00:14:29,799
UPTOWN IS THE PERFECT LOCATION
298
00:14:29,801 --> 00:14:32,965
FOR ME TO HAVE
MY REAL ESTATE OFFICE HERE
299
00:14:32,967 --> 00:14:35,732
BECAUSE IT'S MY DEVELOPMENT
AND MY PLAZA.
300
00:14:35,734 --> 00:14:39,499
THAT'S RIGHT.
OUR MAJOR BUSINESS,
301
00:14:39,501 --> 00:14:43,665
THE ANCHOR OF UPTOWN,
WILL BE BLAQUE CIGAR LOUNGE.
302
00:14:43,667 --> 00:14:46,765
WELL, MY CONCERN
RIGHT NOW IS TIME.
303
00:14:46,767 --> 00:14:50,465
AND ONCE THE ELECTRICAL BE
DONE HERE THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS,
304
00:14:50,467 --> 00:14:51,599
THEY'LL BE CALLING FOR AN
INSPECTION
305
00:14:51,601 --> 00:14:53,065
FIRST PART OF NEXT WEEK.
306
00:14:53,067 --> 00:14:55,299
AND AFTER THAT
AND AFTER YOU'RE DONE,
307
00:14:55,301 --> 00:14:57,832
I'M READY TO INSULATE
AND CLOSE THESE WALLS UP.
308
00:14:57,834 --> 00:15:00,299
WE'VE HAD SOME CHALLENGES
WITH THE RENOVATION
309
00:15:00,301 --> 00:15:03,865
BECAUSE IT'S AN OLDER BUILDING,
BUT WE'RE MAKING GOOD HEADWAY.
310
00:15:03,867 --> 00:15:06,899
AND BECAUSE UPTOWN
IS OUR PLAZA
311
00:15:06,901 --> 00:15:09,599
AND WE'RE INVESTED IN IT
OUT OF OUR OWN POCKET,
312
00:15:09,601 --> 00:15:10,899
WE CAN TAKE
OUR TIME WITH IT.
313
00:15:10,901 --> 00:15:12,232
WE WANT TO MAKE SURE
WE DO IT RIGHT,
314
00:15:12,234 --> 00:15:13,865
WE'RE NOT JUST TRYING TO
THROW SOMETHING TOGETHER.
315
00:15:13,867 --> 00:15:15,965
IT IS GOING TO BE
WORTH THE WAIT.
316
00:15:18,001 --> 00:15:20,899
-WHAT UP?
-NOTHING, HOW'S YOUR DAY GOING?
317
00:15:20,901 --> 00:15:23,665
GOOD, I JUST MET WITH
KEITH PETTY ABOUT BLAQUE.
318
00:15:23,667 --> 00:15:26,532
I'M HAPPY THAT WE GOT PEOPLE
IN THERE DOING SOME THINGS
319
00:15:26,534 --> 00:15:28,499
BECAUSE I'M READY
TO GET IT UP AND OPEN
320
00:15:28,501 --> 00:15:32,599
AND MAKING SOME MONEY OFF OF IT.
SO I'M GOING TO LET YOU KNOW
321
00:15:32,601 --> 00:15:34,699
I HAVE THIS WOMEN
EMPOWERMENT EVENT
322
00:15:34,701 --> 00:15:37,132
THAT'S COMING UP SOON
THAT I HAVE TO PREPARE FOR.
323
00:15:37,134 --> 00:15:39,699
WAIT, WHAT? WHAT IS THAT?
IS THAT IN TOWN?
324
00:15:39,701 --> 00:15:41,299
YES.
YES, IT'S GOING TO BE IN TOWN
325
00:15:41,301 --> 00:15:44,765
SO I'VE BEEN ASKED TO BE
THE GUEST SPEAKER THERE FOR IT,
326
00:15:44,767 --> 00:15:47,399
WHICH I'M SUPER NERVOUS
ABOUT THAT ALREADY.
327
00:15:47,401 --> 00:15:49,865
BUT I'M LIKE, YOU KNOW WHAT?
IT'S FOR A GOOD CAUSE.
328
00:15:49,867 --> 00:15:51,965
-ARE YOU GOING TO DO IT?
-YEAH, I'M GONNA DO IT.
329
00:15:51,967 --> 00:15:53,399
-OKAY.
-I WAS LIKE, "I'M GONNA DO IT".
330
00:15:53,401 --> 00:15:56,265
PART OF THE DONATION IS GOING
TO GO TOWARDS THIS ORGANIZATION
331
00:15:56,267 --> 00:16:00,765
"EVERY CHILD HAS A STORY"
AND IT SPEAKS ABOUT KIDS,
332
00:16:00,767 --> 00:16:02,499
TEACHING THEM HOW
TO WRITE A BOOK,
333
00:16:02,501 --> 00:16:05,465
THEIR COMMUNICATION SKILLS,
THEIR WRITING SKILLS.
334
00:16:05,467 --> 00:16:06,532
AND YOU'RE GIVING
A SPEECH ON THAT?
335
00:16:06,534 --> 00:16:07,565
YEAH.
336
00:16:07,567 --> 00:16:10,399
A LOT GOING ON.
IS THAT AT NIGHT?
337
00:16:10,401 --> 00:16:13,365
-YEAH, IT'S LIKE AT 6:00, SO.
-OKAY.
338
00:16:13,367 --> 00:16:16,532
SO WE'RE THINKING ABOUT WATCHING
THE KIDS KINDA LIKE...
339
00:16:16,534 --> 00:16:18,499
FOR DINNER.
340
00:16:18,501 --> 00:16:21,699
YEAH. I'VE GROWN
ACCUSTOMED TO THAT.
341
00:16:21,701 --> 00:16:27,199
I'VE HAD TO DO DINNER
LAST NIGHT.
342
00:16:27,201 --> 00:16:29,965
WELL, YEAH, DINNER LAST NIGHT
YOU HAD TO DO IT
343
00:16:29,967 --> 00:16:32,599
BECAUSE LAST NIGHT
WAS CRAZY.
344
00:16:32,601 --> 00:16:35,832
YEAH IT WAS.
MJ DIDN'T WANT TO EAT MEAT.
345
00:16:35,834 --> 00:16:36,999
THEY WANTED
THREE DIFFERENT FOODS
346
00:16:37,001 --> 00:16:38,032
FROM THREE
DIFFERENT RESTAURANTS,
347
00:16:38,034 --> 00:16:40,399
SO YEAH, IT WAS
DEFINITELY CRAZY.
348
00:16:42,434 --> 00:16:47,632
YOU KNOW, CAUGHT MYSELF
GOING TO MEL'S LAUNCH PARTY
349
00:16:47,634 --> 00:16:49,932
TO JUST TALK TO HER
TO TRY TO LIKE,
350
00:16:49,934 --> 00:16:51,665
"YOU KNOW WHAT? I'M READY
TO PUT THE PAST BEHIND US
351
00:16:51,667 --> 00:16:52,732
AND MOVE FORWARD."
352
00:16:52,734 --> 00:16:53,732
DID YOU GET
AN INVITATION FOR THAT?
353
00:16:53,734 --> 00:16:56,399
I DIDN'T
GET AN INVITATION.
354
00:16:56,401 --> 00:16:59,365
DO YOU HAVE ANY EX-BOYFRIENDS
THAT YOU CONTINUE TO TALK TO?
355
00:16:59,367 --> 00:17:01,165
-NO, MARSAU.
-OH, BUT YOU'RE DONE WITH THAT.
356
00:17:01,167 --> 00:17:02,332
-YES.
-OKAY.
357
00:17:02,334 --> 00:17:03,565
BUT YOU KNOW HOW I AM.
358
00:17:03,567 --> 00:17:06,532
IT'S LIKE WHAT I FEEL LIKE
IF YOU SAY I DID SOMETHING,
359
00:17:06,534 --> 00:17:07,965
IF YOU SAY I DID SOMETHING
TO YOU, I'M LIKE,
360
00:17:07,967 --> 00:17:10,899
"LISTEN, I REALLY WANT TO
FIGURE OUT WHAT I DID TO YOU."
361
00:17:10,901 --> 00:17:13,199
I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE ISSUE IS.
362
00:17:13,201 --> 00:17:14,532
SO YOU'RE NOT GOING
TO LISTEN. GOT YOU.
363
00:17:14,534 --> 00:17:16,032
-NO, I AM LISTENING.
-HAVE A GOOD DAY, BABE.
364
00:17:16,034 --> 00:17:18,265
I HEAR WHAT YOU'RE SAYING
BUT YOU'RE SAYING IT OVER.
365
00:17:18,267 --> 00:17:20,232
WHY YOU GETTING UPSET?
-BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT LISTENING.
366
00:17:20,234 --> 00:17:21,499
I AM LISTENING TO YOU,
367
00:17:21,501 --> 00:17:23,765
YOU JUST SAID IT LIKE
THREE OR FOUR TIMES.
368
00:17:23,767 --> 00:17:25,165
-OKAY.
-I HEARD YOU THE FIRST TIME.
369
00:17:25,167 --> 00:17:26,465
YOU DON'T HAVE TO
KEEP REPEATING IT.
370
00:17:26,467 --> 00:17:27,565
OKAY, BABE,
HAVE A GOOD DAY.
371
00:17:27,567 --> 00:17:28,899
SO IF I'M SAYING
SOMETHING BACK TO YOU,
372
00:17:28,901 --> 00:17:30,232
THAT DOESN'T MEAN
I'M NOT LISTENING TO YOU,
373
00:17:30,234 --> 00:17:32,332
YOU INSTANTLY YOU GET
AN ATTITUDE WITH ME.
374
00:17:32,334 --> 00:17:33,499
I DON'T HAVE ATTITUDE.
375
00:17:33,501 --> 00:17:36,065
THAT'S JUST NOT MAKING
THE SITUATION BETTER EITHER.
376
00:17:36,067 --> 00:17:38,799
I DISAGREE WITH PUSHING
FOR A RELATIONSHIP
377
00:17:38,801 --> 00:17:42,632
THAT SEEMED LIKE
IT'S NOT GROWING.
378
00:17:42,634 --> 00:17:44,165
YOU'RE FORCING A RELATIONSHIP
I FEEL LIKE.
379
00:17:44,167 --> 00:17:46,499
I KEEP SAYING IT'S NOT
ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP.
380
00:17:46,501 --> 00:17:49,532
I'M FINE WITH US
NOT HAVING A RELATIONSHIP.
381
00:17:49,534 --> 00:17:53,532
I JUST WANT
THE MEANNESS TO STOP.
382
00:17:53,534 --> 00:17:55,965
THAT'S IT.
-I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE SAYING,
383
00:17:55,967 --> 00:17:57,465
"WELL YOU DON'T
SUPPORT ME IN THIS,"
384
00:17:57,467 --> 00:18:00,699
AND THE TRUTH IS, I DON'T.
-WELL, THERE YOU HAVE IT.
385
00:18:00,701 --> 00:18:02,165
I CAN'T.
386
00:18:05,601 --> 00:18:07,032
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD
BE CONCERNED WITH?
387
00:18:07,034 --> 00:18:09,299
-WHAT?
-HONESTLY.
388
00:18:09,301 --> 00:18:12,999
KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY
IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
389
00:18:14,234 --> 00:18:15,565
I DO.
390
00:18:15,567 --> 00:18:17,265
THAT'S WHY I ALWAYS COME TO YOU
WHEN WE HAVE ISSUES.
391
00:18:17,267 --> 00:18:18,932
-KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY.
-I'M THE FIRST ONE.
392
00:18:18,934 --> 00:18:21,665
NO, LET'S BE REAL,
I'M USUALLY THE FIRST ONE
393
00:18:21,667 --> 00:18:23,532
TO COME TO YOU
AND APOLOGIZE TO YOU
394
00:18:23,534 --> 00:18:24,832
AND FIGURE OUT
LIKE WHAT'S GOING ON.
395
00:18:24,834 --> 00:18:26,699
TISHA, IF YOU'RE
THE FIRST ONE TO APOLOGIZE
396
00:18:26,701 --> 00:18:28,432
THAT MEANS THAT YOU WERE
THE ONE THAT WAS WRONG.
397
00:18:28,434 --> 00:18:31,465
-OH, OKAY. BYE.
-ALRIGHT. PEACE.
398
00:18:33,734 --> 00:18:36,832
-JERK.
-WHATEVER.
399
00:18:36,834 --> 00:18:46,865
¶¶
400
00:18:46,867 --> 00:18:49,232
COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...
401
00:18:49,234 --> 00:18:51,199
MARTELL WANTS TO HAVE
FIVE CHILDREN,
402
00:18:51,201 --> 00:18:53,899
AND I DON'T REALLY WANT
TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN.
403
00:18:53,901 --> 00:18:55,532
AND RIGHT NOW YOU'RE
IN YOUR FEELINGS
404
00:18:55,534 --> 00:18:56,832
SO, YOU KNOW, SOME YEARS
ON DOWN THE LINE,
405
00:18:56,834 --> 00:18:58,265
WE'RE GOING TO HAVE
ANOTHER ONE.
406
00:19:00,167 --> 00:19:02,365
YOU GET TO JUST GET UP AND GO,
AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY
407
00:19:02,367 --> 00:19:03,732
ABOUT TRYING
TO FIND A BABYSITTER.
408
00:19:03,734 --> 00:19:05,432
SHUCKS, YOU GOT
TO FIND A BABYSITTER.
409
00:19:05,434 --> 00:19:06,565
THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE.
410
00:19:06,567 --> 00:19:09,365
I DIDN'T REALIZE
HOW HARD YOUR LIFE WAS.
411
00:19:13,467 --> 00:19:14,932
-HEY.
-HEY THERE.
412
00:19:14,934 --> 00:19:16,765
-COME ON IN.
-IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU.
413
00:19:16,767 --> 00:19:19,399
-HOW ARE YOU DOING?
-YES, YOU LOOK SO GOOD.
414
00:19:19,401 --> 00:19:21,765
DOESN'T LOOK LIKE
YOU'VE HAD A BABY.
415
00:19:21,767 --> 00:19:23,099
OH, THANK YOU, GIRL.
416
00:19:23,101 --> 00:19:25,532
Melody: SO RIGHT NOW WE'RE AT
DR. PETERSON'S OFFICE,
417
00:19:25,534 --> 00:19:29,065
AND SO TODAY'S VISIT IS FOR HER
TO REALLY SEE HOW I'M FEELING.
418
00:19:29,067 --> 00:19:31,899
AT THE END OF THE DAY,
I'M READY TO GO BACK TO WORK.
419
00:19:31,901 --> 00:19:33,732
ME, TOO.
I'M READY TO GO TO WORK, TOO.
420
00:19:33,734 --> 00:19:35,399
YOU DOWN FOR THAT?
-ALWAYS.
421
00:19:35,401 --> 00:19:37,199
ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT, ALRIGHT.
422
00:19:37,201 --> 00:19:40,832
SO NOT A WHOLE LOT TO DO ON
POST-PARTUM VISITS WITH PEOPLE
423
00:19:40,834 --> 00:19:43,099
ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY'VE HAD,
YOU KNOW, FOUR BABIES,
424
00:19:43,101 --> 00:19:46,799
SO USUALLY WHAT PEOPLE
WANT TO KNOW ABOUT,
425
00:19:46,801 --> 00:19:48,999
YOU KNOW,
ON THIS VISIT IS --
426
00:19:49,001 --> 00:19:50,699
MAKING SURE I CAN DIVE
BACK IN TO IT.
427
00:19:50,701 --> 00:19:56,499
RIGHT, RIGHT, AND IN THAT VEIN,
WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT,
428
00:19:56,501 --> 00:19:59,465
DO YOU WANT TO DIVE
BACK INTO IT?
429
00:19:59,467 --> 00:20:01,165
RIGHT.
430
00:20:01,167 --> 00:20:04,232
AND I'M TALKING ABOUT LIKE
HAVING MORE BABIES, YOU KNOW,
431
00:20:04,234 --> 00:20:07,632
DO WE WANT SOME TYPE
OF PERMANENT SOLUTION
432
00:20:07,634 --> 00:20:09,132
OR DO SOMETHING SHORT-TERM
433
00:20:09,134 --> 00:20:11,199
WHILE WE THINK ABOUT
PERMANENT SOLUTIONS.
434
00:20:11,201 --> 00:20:12,832
CAN I ASK A PERSONAL QUESTION?
435
00:20:14,901 --> 00:20:17,699
DID YOU DO THE PILL,
DID YOU DO THE NUVARING?
436
00:20:17,701 --> 00:20:20,399
I ONLY DATE MEN
THAT HAVE HAD A VASECTOMY.
437
00:20:20,401 --> 00:20:24,165
THEY HAVE TO HAVE THEIR OWN KIDS
AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED
438
00:20:24,167 --> 00:20:26,265
FOR AT LEAST
ONE PRACTICE MARRIAGE.
439
00:20:26,267 --> 00:20:28,399
-A WOMAN WITH STANDARDS, HONEY.
-YEAH.
440
00:20:28,401 --> 00:20:30,499
SO I'LL SEE YOU
IN A FEW YEARS, MARTELL.
441
00:20:30,501 --> 00:20:33,665
[ LAUGHTER ]
442
00:20:33,667 --> 00:20:38,999
HE DONE HAD A PRACTICE MARRIAGE,
HE GOT HIS KIDS, VASECTOMY.
443
00:20:39,001 --> 00:20:42,165
OH, LORD, DR. PETERSON'S
TRYING TO DATE MY HUSBAND.
444
00:20:42,167 --> 00:20:44,765
MARTELL, SHE BE COMING FOR YOU.
SHE ALWAYS COME FOR YOU.
445
00:20:44,767 --> 00:20:47,932
-OFF THE CHAIN.
-I LOVE DR. PETERSON.
446
00:20:47,934 --> 00:20:51,632
LIKE, SHE FIRST OF ALL,
CHECKS MARTELL HOLT,
447
00:20:51,634 --> 00:20:53,799
BUT SHE ALSO
HAS MY BACK AS WELL.
448
00:20:53,801 --> 00:20:56,899
SO MARTELL WANTS
TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN
449
00:20:56,901 --> 00:20:58,665
AND I DON'T REALLY WANT
TO HAVE FIVE CHILDREN.
450
00:20:58,667 --> 00:20:59,965
OH, YOU DON'T
WANT TO HAVE FIVE?
451
00:20:59,967 --> 00:21:01,999
BABY, WE DISCUSSED
WE'D HAVE FIVE
452
00:21:02,001 --> 00:21:03,665
BUT WE DON'T HAVE
THE FIFTH ONE RIGHT NOW.
453
00:21:03,667 --> 00:21:05,599
WE DISCUSSED THAT
WE WERE GOING TO HAVE FIVE
454
00:21:05,601 --> 00:21:08,232
AND THEN THE BULL [BLEEP] CAME.
SO WITH THAT BEING SAID...
455
00:21:08,234 --> 00:21:11,099
BUT THAT WAS ONLY
TEMPORARY THOUGH, YOU KNOW.
456
00:21:11,101 --> 00:21:12,932
THE BULL MESS
WAS ONLY TEMPORARY.
457
00:21:12,934 --> 00:21:14,765
WELL, I THINK THAT MAYBE
WE SHOULD DISCUSS
458
00:21:14,767 --> 00:21:16,032
MAYBE A FIFTH CHILD
459
00:21:16,034 --> 00:21:18,632
WHENEVER SOME MORE GOOD THINGS
BECOME PERMANENT.
460
00:21:18,634 --> 00:21:20,065
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING,
FIVE YEARS FROM NOW
461
00:21:20,067 --> 00:21:22,432
WE CAN HAVE OUR OTHER ONE
SO WE'LL BE WELL-ESTABLISHED
462
00:21:22,434 --> 00:21:23,999
WITHIN ALL OUR BUSINESSES.
463
00:21:24,001 --> 00:21:25,599
I AIN'T TALKING
ABOUT BUSINESS [BLEEP]
464
00:21:25,601 --> 00:21:29,599
I'M TALKING ABOUT AS A HUSBAND.
-BAE, SHE'S THE DOCTOR, OKAY?
465
00:21:29,601 --> 00:21:32,299
NOT THE DAMN COUNSELOR AND RIGHT
NOW YOU'RE YOUR FEELINGS
466
00:21:32,301 --> 00:21:33,565
SO, YOU KNOW,
SOME YEARS ON DOWN THE LINE,
467
00:21:33,567 --> 00:21:35,665
WE'RE GOING
TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE.
468
00:21:35,667 --> 00:21:37,732
RIGHT NOW I THINK THAT
EVERYBODY'S UP
469
00:21:37,734 --> 00:21:39,099
IN THEIR FEELINGS,
470
00:21:39,101 --> 00:21:40,999
AND IT WOULD PROBABLY
NOT BE A GOOD TIME
471
00:21:41,001 --> 00:21:44,599
FOR ANYBODY TO GET
A PERMANENT PROCEDURE.
472
00:21:44,601 --> 00:21:47,832
ALRIGHT, WELL LET ME GO
OUT HERE AND MAKE SURE
473
00:21:47,834 --> 00:21:50,132
JENNY GETS A CALL DOWN BEFORE
I LET YOU ALL GO, OKAY?
474
00:21:50,134 --> 00:21:51,965
-OKAY. SOUNDS GOOD.
-ALRIGHT.
475
00:21:54,534 --> 00:21:56,499
Melody: DON'T JUST COME TO ME
WITH SOME WORDS,
476
00:21:56,501 --> 00:21:57,965
PUT SOME ACTION BEHIND IT.
477
00:21:57,967 --> 00:21:59,365
ALRIGHT, I AGREE
WITH THAT ONE, SWEETHEART.
478
00:21:59,367 --> 00:22:01,999
I AGREE.
OKAY. YEAH.
479
00:22:02,001 --> 00:22:04,165
-DO YOU DISAGREE?
-I TOTALLY AGREE.
480
00:22:04,167 --> 00:22:05,832
-SOUNDED LIKE YOU BEING FUNNY.
-MNH-MNH. YOU WERE RIGHT.
481
00:22:05,834 --> 00:22:07,765
SO WHAT DO YOU THINK
ABOUT THE EVENT LAST NIGHT?
482
00:22:07,767 --> 00:22:10,465
-MAN, I THINK IT WAS AMAZING.
-IT WAS. LIKE, OH, MY GOSH.
483
00:22:10,467 --> 00:22:13,565
YEAH, LIKE ALWAYS THOUGH.
BUT THE CRAZY THING
484
00:22:13,567 --> 00:22:16,999
WAS WHEN TISHA CAME UP
IN THAT MOTHER SUCKER.
485
00:22:17,001 --> 00:22:18,899
SO, I MEAN.
486
00:22:18,901 --> 00:22:20,565
WHOO. I CAN'T BELIEVE
SHE DID IT.
487
00:22:20,567 --> 00:22:21,832
AND, YOU KNOW WHAT,
TO BE REAL WITH YOU,
488
00:22:21,834 --> 00:22:23,465
I CAN'T WAIT TO TALK TO KIMMI
489
00:22:23,467 --> 00:22:26,065
BECAUSE I'M KIND OF TIRED OF HER
PLAYING MEDIATOR [BLEEP].
490
00:22:26,067 --> 00:22:28,099
THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED
BEFORE WITH KIMMI AND I,
491
00:22:28,101 --> 00:22:30,432
SHE WAS JUMPING
INTO STUFF TOO MUCH.
492
00:22:30,434 --> 00:22:32,832
SO WHEN I WAS OVER AT THE HOUSE,
SHE WAS JUST BEING A BIT MESSY,
493
00:22:32,834 --> 00:22:35,599
LIKE IN CONVERSATION, YOU KNOW,
BRINGING UP OLD STUFF.
494
00:22:35,601 --> 00:22:37,799
LIKE YOU MEAN BRINGING UP,
LIKE, STUFF WE'VE BEEN THROUGH?
495
00:22:37,801 --> 00:22:39,432
-YEAH.
-OH, WOW, REALLY?
496
00:22:39,434 --> 00:22:41,199
YEAH. I MEAN THEN
WHEN SHE MENTIONED THAT
497
00:22:41,201 --> 00:22:42,532
AND ALL OF A SUDDEN
I'M LIKE,
498
00:22:42,534 --> 00:22:45,099
"OKAY, YOU WANT TO BRING UP
WHAT I'VE DONE IN THE PAST,"
499
00:22:45,101 --> 00:22:49,365
I MEAN, DON'T FORGET LIKE
SHE'S THE SAME SITUATION.
500
00:22:49,367 --> 00:22:50,599
WHAT DO YOU MEAN
"THE SAME SITUATION"?
501
00:22:50,601 --> 00:22:53,899
-KIMMI, SHE WAS THE SIDE CHICK.
-HOW YOU KNOW?
502
00:22:53,901 --> 00:22:55,965
YOU KNOW,
MAURICE AND HER
503
00:22:55,967 --> 00:22:57,299
WAS DATING FOR LIKE SEVEN,
EIGHT YEARS,
504
00:22:57,301 --> 00:23:00,732
SO THAT'S WHAT WAS GOING
ON SOCIAL MEDIA ABOUT THEM.
505
00:23:00,734 --> 00:23:03,299
OH, SAYING HE WASN'T
DIVORCED YET.
506
00:23:03,301 --> 00:23:04,832
YEAH, AND WHILE
THEY WERE DATING.
507
00:23:04,834 --> 00:23:07,232
BUT I THINK HE SAID
HE WAS DIVORCED.
508
00:23:07,234 --> 00:23:08,532
YEAH.
509
00:23:08,534 --> 00:23:10,865
I THINK THEY HAD
BEEN INTRODUCED
510
00:23:10,867 --> 00:23:12,832
BUT WEREN'T DATING YET
IS HOW HE PUT IT, BUT
511
00:23:12,834 --> 00:23:14,199
YOU KNOW,
SOMETIMES IF YOU INTRODUCED
512
00:23:14,201 --> 00:23:16,599
TO SOMEBODY, YOU ALL VIBING,
AND IT CLICKS, I MEAN,
513
00:23:16,601 --> 00:23:17,999
WHO KNOWS.
-OH, GIRL, RIGHT.
514
00:23:18,001 --> 00:23:21,165
BUT ANYWAY, MY POINT
IS I DO FEEL LIKE KIMMI
515
00:23:21,167 --> 00:23:23,065
SHE'S GOING TO PICK
THE SCOTT SIDE
516
00:23:23,067 --> 00:23:24,565
NO MATTER WHAT BECAUSE
SHE IS A SCOTT.
517
00:23:24,567 --> 00:23:25,965
AND THEN, YOU KNOW
WHAT ELSE I DIDN'T LIKE?
518
00:23:25,967 --> 00:23:29,332
HOLD UP!
I ALSO DIDN'T LIKE THE FACT
519
00:23:29,334 --> 00:23:31,765
WHEN TISHA TRIED
TO THROW OUT THERE
520
00:23:31,767 --> 00:23:33,865
LIKE HAD BEEN
TEXTING HER PRIVATELY
521
00:23:33,867 --> 00:23:36,665
LIKE SHE TRY TO TEST THE GROUP.
-THEY PHONY AND FAKE.
522
00:23:36,667 --> 00:23:38,799
YOU TEST THE GROUP, QUIT
TWISTING UP THE WHOLE STORY.
523
00:23:38,801 --> 00:23:40,665
LET ME BE QUIET BEFORE I GET
KICKED OUT THE DOCTOR'S OFFICE.
524
00:23:40,667 --> 00:23:42,432
BECAUSE THAT AIN'T
WHAT HAPPENED.
525
00:23:42,434 --> 00:23:44,399
BUT THEN THEY TRIED
TO LIKE LOW-KEY
526
00:23:44,401 --> 00:23:46,432
COME FOR MY MOTHER
ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
527
00:23:46,434 --> 00:23:48,665
-RIGHT.
-WHO THE HELL YOU THINK YOU ARE
528
00:23:48,667 --> 00:23:50,799
AND YOU THINK YOU'RE GOING
TO BE UP IN MY EVENT?
529
00:23:50,801 --> 00:23:53,065
AND YOU ALL ARE TRYING
TO COME FOR MY MOM?
530
00:23:53,067 --> 00:23:54,432
YOU BETTER BE GLAD
I DIDN'T WHOOP YOUR TAIL
531
00:23:54,434 --> 00:23:55,699
UP OUT THE EVENT.
532
00:23:55,701 --> 00:23:58,299
-AND TEAR THAT ASS UP.
-SO NOW DON'T COME FOR ME.
533
00:23:58,301 --> 00:24:00,065
THE OLD MEL IS BACK.
534
00:24:00,067 --> 00:24:03,265
COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...
535
00:24:03,267 --> 00:24:05,432
SECURITY COMES UP TO ME,
AND WAS LIKE,
536
00:24:05,434 --> 00:24:07,999
"MA'AM, I'VE BEEN ASKED
TO ESCORT YOU OUT."
537
00:24:08,001 --> 00:24:10,199
SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED THAT BITCH,
THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DID.
538
00:24:10,201 --> 00:24:13,399
YES, I SAID IT.
I SAID IT.
539
00:24:15,367 --> 00:24:20,499
¶¶
540
00:24:20,501 --> 00:24:25,665
¶¶
541
00:24:25,667 --> 00:24:26,732
HOWDY, HOWDY.
542
00:24:26,734 --> 00:24:28,332
-READY FOR THE DAY?
-I AM.
543
00:24:28,334 --> 00:24:30,599
ALRIGHT. AWESOME, AWESOME.
LET'S GET TO IT.
544
00:24:30,601 --> 00:24:34,165
-OKAY, LET'S GET SET UP.
-WE WILL HAVE YOU SET UP HERE.
545
00:24:34,167 --> 00:24:36,832
-RIGHT THERE? OKAY.
-YEAH, AND JUST WATCH YOUR STEP.
546
00:24:36,834 --> 00:24:38,465
-HI.
-HEY.
547
00:24:38,467 --> 00:24:44,099
¶¶
548
00:24:44,101 --> 00:24:48,332
-HEY THERE, MAMA DEAREST.
-HI. HOW YOU DOING?
549
00:24:48,334 --> 00:24:50,732
OOH WEE, GIRL, YOU BETTER
ROCK THEM BOOTS.
550
00:24:50,734 --> 00:24:54,332
I'M SO HAPPY YOU CAME.
YOU MADE IT SAFE AND SOUND.
551
00:24:54,334 --> 00:24:56,865
-THANK YOU, THANK YOU.
-HOW YOU BEEN?
552
00:24:56,867 --> 00:25:01,132
-ALRIGHT. HOW'S MARSAU?
-THIS GONNA BE FUN.
553
00:25:01,134 --> 00:25:02,599
SO YOU KNOW WHAT
WE'RE GONNA DO TODAY?
554
00:25:02,601 --> 00:25:04,832
GIRL, NO. WHAT?
555
00:25:04,834 --> 00:25:06,965
WE JUST GOING TO TALK LIKE
WHAT YOU LIKE TO DO.
556
00:25:06,967 --> 00:25:08,899
BECAUSE THE NAME OF THE PODCAST
IS "MOMMY BUSINESS,"
557
00:25:08,901 --> 00:25:11,632
I FELT LIKE, YOU KNOW,
I NEED TO HAVE MY MOM ON IT
558
00:25:11,634 --> 00:25:16,199
SO WE GET JUST A LITTLE BIT MORE
BACKGROUND INFORMATION ABOUT YOU
559
00:25:16,201 --> 00:25:18,832
AND ABOUT
YOUR UPBRINGING AND ME.
560
00:25:18,834 --> 00:25:21,832
I'M OPEN, BABY,
BRING IT ON.
561
00:25:21,834 --> 00:25:24,165
HEY, GUYS.
THIS IS LaTISHA SCOTT,
562
00:25:24,167 --> 00:25:28,132
WELCOME TO ANOTHER EPISODE
OF THE "MOMMY BUSINESS" PODCAST.
563
00:25:28,134 --> 00:25:30,532
TODAY I HAVE
A VERY SPECIAL GUEST,
564
00:25:30,534 --> 00:25:33,932
IT'S MY MOM,
MISS WANDA TYCE.
565
00:25:33,934 --> 00:25:35,299
SAY HI, MOM.
566
00:25:35,301 --> 00:25:38,132
HI, HOW IS EVERYBODY
DOING OUT THERE?
567
00:25:38,134 --> 00:25:41,665
SO WE'VE BEEN IN HERE
TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE.
568
00:25:41,667 --> 00:25:43,599
YES.
BRING IT ON, GIRL.
569
00:25:43,601 --> 00:25:46,599
SO, I KNOW A LOT OF YOU
ALREADY KNOW ABOUT MY HUSBAND.
570
00:25:46,601 --> 00:25:48,499
SO IS MARSAU HAPPY
WITH EVERYTHING?
571
00:25:48,501 --> 00:25:50,332
YEAH, IT'S GOOD.
572
00:25:50,334 --> 00:25:54,399
I MEAN, NO,
LET ME NOT SAY IT'S GOOD.
573
00:25:54,401 --> 00:25:58,565
HE'S WITH A LOT WITH THE WHOLE
TRANSITIONING FROM THE TOWN HOME
574
00:25:58,567 --> 00:26:00,799
TO DOWN SIZING TO
THE INVESTMENT PROPERTY
575
00:26:00,801 --> 00:26:03,865
THAT WE DECIDED TO MOVE INTO.
THEN ON TOP OF THAT, SCHOOL
576
00:26:03,867 --> 00:26:06,232
AND THEN ON TOP OF THAT
WITH THE KIDS.
577
00:26:06,234 --> 00:26:08,232
I KNOW, HOW MJ
AND THEM DOING?
578
00:26:08,234 --> 00:26:09,799
WE HAD A LITTLE
ROUGH PATCH WITH MJ
579
00:26:09,801 --> 00:26:12,032
TRYING TO ADJUST
TO THE NEW SCHOOL,
580
00:26:12,034 --> 00:26:13,599
AND SO WE HAD TO MAKE SURE
WE TALKED TO HIM
581
00:26:13,601 --> 00:26:15,599
ABOUT THE WHOLE
BULLYING THING.
582
00:26:15,601 --> 00:26:20,565
OH, WE ALL JUST LIKE YOU HAD
YOUR THREE, I HAD MY THREE.
583
00:26:20,567 --> 00:26:23,965
RAISING YOU ALL ALONE,
AND NOW YOU GOT HELP,
584
00:26:23,967 --> 00:26:27,632
IT SEEM LIKE YOU GOT TO RAISE
ALL OVER AGAIN ALONE.
585
00:26:27,634 --> 00:26:31,032
SO YOU HAD TO BE HARD.
I GOT -- JUST STAY ON MARSAU,
586
00:26:31,034 --> 00:26:33,365
I DON'T WANT YOU TO BE IN THE
SAME PREDICAMENT I WAS IN.
587
00:26:33,367 --> 00:26:34,765
I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO
THROUGH ANOTHER MARRIAGE
588
00:26:34,767 --> 00:26:37,399
AND THEN END UP IN
THE SAME PREDICAMENT I WAS IN.
589
00:26:37,401 --> 00:26:39,032
WELL, YOU KNOW, NO MATTER
HOW MUCH YOU'RE ON A PERSON
590
00:26:39,034 --> 00:26:41,099
YOU CAN'T STOP A PERSON
FROM DOING WHAT THEY WANNA DO.
591
00:26:41,101 --> 00:26:43,465
I UNDERSTAND THAT,
BUT AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW.
592
00:26:43,467 --> 00:26:45,465
YEAH. I MEAN, YEAH.
AND ONCE I KNOW, IT'S UP TO ME
593
00:26:45,467 --> 00:26:48,732
TO MAKE THE DECISION,
BUT IF MARSAU MADE THE DECISION,
594
00:26:48,734 --> 00:26:51,465
BECAUSE I KNOW IT'S A DECISION
TO STEP OUT ON ME
595
00:26:51,467 --> 00:26:53,365
AND OUR FAMILY,
THAT MEANS YOU DON'T WANT
596
00:26:53,367 --> 00:26:55,232
TO BE A PART OF
THE FAMILY ANYMORE.
597
00:26:55,234 --> 00:26:57,499
YOU NEVER HAD THE IDEA
THAT MARSAU WAS CHEATING,
598
00:26:57,501 --> 00:27:00,365
SO YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY
ABOUT THAT BUT I DID.
599
00:27:00,367 --> 00:27:04,032
I ALWAYS THOUGHT MEN WAS DOGS,
AND I'M GOING TO TELL YOU
600
00:27:04,034 --> 00:27:08,365
ALL THEM DOGS IS RUNNING
AROUND HUNTSVILLE...
601
00:27:08,367 --> 00:27:10,465
-OH, GOD.
-YOUR FRIEND MELODY?
602
00:27:10,467 --> 00:27:12,365
YOU KNOW, LIKE D'BLASSA
WAS SAYING
603
00:27:12,367 --> 00:27:14,732
THAT HE WAS OUT
THERE CHEATING
604
00:27:14,734 --> 00:27:17,465
BUT THEY COME TO FIND OUT,
SHE ALREADY KNEW TWO YEARS
605
00:27:17,467 --> 00:27:19,432
IN THAT HE WAS A CHEATER.
-RIGHT.
606
00:27:19,434 --> 00:27:23,532
WHY IS IT NOW THAT YOU MAKING IT
SEEM LIKE IT'S SUCH A BIG THING.
607
00:27:23,534 --> 00:27:24,799
GET OVER IT, YOU KNOW.
608
00:27:24,801 --> 00:27:28,299
IF MARTELL HAD CAME,
IF I FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING,
609
00:27:28,301 --> 00:27:30,165
YOU KNOW WHAT THE FIRST THING
I WOULD HAVE DONE?
610
00:27:30,167 --> 00:27:31,332
WHAT YOU WOULDA DO, MA?
611
00:27:31,334 --> 00:27:33,365
LISTEN HERE, SIR,
WE GOING TO THE CLINIC.
612
00:27:33,367 --> 00:27:36,365
WHATEVER CLINIC THAT OPEN,
WE'RE GOING TO GO TO THE CLINIC.
613
00:27:36,367 --> 00:27:41,065
MOST MEN ARE DOGS BECAUSE THEY
HAVE SEVEN OR EIGHT GIRLFRIENDS
614
00:27:41,067 --> 00:27:43,199
YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW
ANYTHING ABOUT.
615
00:27:43,201 --> 00:27:45,465
I DIDN'T TELL YOU THIS,
BUT MEL
616
00:27:45,467 --> 00:27:48,265
WAS HAVING THIS EVENT
FOR HER SKINCARE LINE.
617
00:27:48,267 --> 00:27:50,699
SO I WAS LIKE, YOU KNOW,
I'M GOING TO GO TO THE EVENT
618
00:27:50,701 --> 00:27:54,299
JUST TO SAY, "I'M DONE,"
YOU KNOW, "LET'S MOVE FORWARD".
619
00:27:54,301 --> 00:27:58,732
I WALKED IN AND THEN SECURITY
COMES UP TO ME AND WAS LIKE,
620
00:27:58,734 --> 00:28:01,332
"MA'AM, I'VE BEEN ASKED
TO ESCORT YOU OUT."
621
00:28:01,334 --> 00:28:03,899
GO AND GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE,
I KNOW YOU LYING!
622
00:28:03,901 --> 00:28:06,532
I KNOW YOU LYING!
-I WAS LIKE, "EXCUSE ME?"
623
00:28:06,534 --> 00:28:09,265
-GIRL, DON'T TELL ME THAT!
-I WAS SO EMBARRASSED.
624
00:28:09,267 --> 00:28:10,532
I WAS LIKE, "I CAN'T BELIEVE
YOU WOULD DO THAT".
625
00:28:10,534 --> 00:28:12,032
-YOU SHOULDA SLAPPED THAT BITCH.
-OH, JESUS CHRIST.
626
00:28:12,034 --> 00:28:13,432
THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DID,
YOU SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED HER.
627
00:28:13,434 --> 00:28:15,765
AND GO TO JAIL TO RISK
ALL THE HARD WORK
628
00:28:15,767 --> 00:28:17,332
I PUT IN FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS?
NO, I DON'T BUY IT.
629
00:28:17,334 --> 00:28:19,732
WELL, YOU KNOW WHAT? BUT YOU
SHOULD HAVE INVITED ME THERE.
630
00:28:19,734 --> 00:28:22,599
I'M THE TYPE OF PERSON
EITHER YOU DOWN WITH ME
631
00:28:22,601 --> 00:28:27,032
OR YOU AGAINST ME, AND I THINK
MEL IS REALLY AGAINST TISHA.
632
00:28:27,034 --> 00:28:29,232
FOR WHAT REASON, I DO NOT KNOW,
633
00:28:29,234 --> 00:28:31,332
BUT WHEN YOU STEP
ON MY DAUGHTER'S TOES,
634
00:28:31,334 --> 00:28:32,699
YOU STEPPED ON MY TOWS.
635
00:28:32,701 --> 00:28:34,932
I WAS GOING TO LEAVE
AND THEN KIMMI WAS LIKE,
636
00:28:34,934 --> 00:28:36,932
"NO, TISHA, NO, LET'S GO BACK
HERE AND TALK TO HER."
637
00:28:36,934 --> 00:28:38,199
I WAS LIKE,
"NO, KIMMI I WANT TO GO."
638
00:28:38,201 --> 00:28:41,132
SEE I TOLD YOU,
KIMMI JUST SEEM LIKE -- I GUESS
639
00:28:41,134 --> 00:28:42,799
SHE DON'T WANT TO BE
IN NO MESS OR WHATEVER,
640
00:28:42,801 --> 00:28:46,999
BUT IT JUST SEEM LIKE IT'S JUST
SOMETHING AIN'T RIGHT THERE.
641
00:28:47,001 --> 00:28:49,899
SHE'LL THROW A ROCK AND HIDE HER
HANDS, NOT TALKIN' --
642
00:28:49,901 --> 00:28:52,299
I'M NOT SAYING -- I KNOW
WHAT YOU MAY FEEL,
643
00:28:52,301 --> 00:28:53,999
BUT I'M JUST SAYING
THAT'S WHAT IT SEEMS
644
00:28:54,001 --> 00:28:55,832
LIKE TO ME IN SOME TIME.
-NO.
645
00:28:55,834 --> 00:28:57,999
AND IT'S JUST LIKE
WHEN YOU WERE ALL ON THE SHOW,
646
00:28:58,001 --> 00:29:00,365
SHE WAS LIKE,
"YES, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT".
647
00:29:00,367 --> 00:29:04,499
I'VE BEEN CALLED THE POST QUEEN
AND BOUGIE.
648
00:29:04,501 --> 00:29:05,965
SHE AIN'T TELLING NO LIE.
649
00:29:05,967 --> 00:29:10,132
MELODY IS ACCURATE, WE TALKED
HER ABOUT HER POSTING, PERIOD.
650
00:29:10,134 --> 00:29:13,199
ONLY SPEAK FOR YOURSELF.
YOU CANNOT SPEAK FOR NOBODY ELSE
651
00:29:13,201 --> 00:29:16,465
AND WHEN SHE SAY,
"YOU SURE AIN'T LYING",
652
00:29:16,467 --> 00:29:19,432
KIMMI IS KIND OF SHADY
A LITTLE BIT.
653
00:29:19,434 --> 00:29:21,332
-I DON'T KNOW. I MEAN...
-SHE'S KIND OF SHADY
654
00:29:21,334 --> 00:29:25,165
A LITTLE BIT AND YES,
I SAID IT. I SAID IT.
655
00:29:25,167 --> 00:29:29,065
I DO NOT WANT TO GET IN
THE MIDDLE OF KIMMI AND MY MOM.
656
00:29:29,067 --> 00:29:30,999
LISTEN, I LOVE MY MOM TO DEATH,
657
00:29:31,001 --> 00:29:33,265
AND I'M GOING TO HAVE
MY MOM'S BACK REGARDLESS.
658
00:29:33,267 --> 00:29:36,899
KIMMI IS MY SISTER,
I LOVE KIMMI.
659
00:29:36,901 --> 00:29:39,665
TWO ADULTS, I'M GOING TO
LET THEM TAKE CARE OF THAT.
660
00:29:39,667 --> 00:29:42,399
ALL THAT STUFF, YOU KNOW,
THAT WAS JUST BAD ENERGY,
661
00:29:42,401 --> 00:29:44,532
YOU KNOW,
I'M HAPPY IT'S BEHIND ME NOW.
662
00:29:44,534 --> 00:29:47,399
I HAVE A GREAT EVENT
THAT'S COMING UP,
663
00:29:47,401 --> 00:29:48,965
YOU KNOW,
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT,
664
00:29:48,967 --> 00:29:50,965
SO I'M GOING TO BE AROUND
POSITIVE PEOPLE,
665
00:29:50,967 --> 00:29:54,699
SPEAKING LIFE INTO PEOPLE AND
THAT'S THE TYPE OF ENVIRONMENT
666
00:29:54,701 --> 00:29:57,599
I WANT TO BE AROUND
FROM THIS POINT OUT.
667
00:29:57,601 --> 00:29:59,232
I HOPE YOU CAN COME.
-I'M PUSHING FOR YOU.
668
00:29:59,234 --> 00:30:00,632
-OH, I WILL BE THERE.
-OKAY.
669
00:30:00,634 --> 00:30:02,865
I'M 100% WITH YOU, GIRL.
670
00:30:02,867 --> 00:30:06,232
COMING UP ON "LOVE & MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...
671
00:30:06,234 --> 00:30:08,199
HAVE YOU EXPRESSED
TO LeBARRICK HOW YOU FEEL?
672
00:30:08,201 --> 00:30:09,299
MM-HMM.
673
00:30:09,301 --> 00:30:10,632
AND HE'S MAKING
THE CHANGES, RIGHT?
674
00:30:10,634 --> 00:30:13,665
I MEAN, WE'RE GOING
TO COUNSELING WEEKLY.
675
00:30:13,667 --> 00:30:16,032
ARE YOU GOING TO COME
TO THE EVENT?
676
00:30:16,034 --> 00:30:17,799
I'VE GOT A LOT
OF STUFF TO DO.
677
00:30:19,634 --> 00:30:23,132
¶¶
678
00:30:23,134 --> 00:30:25,132
Melody:
YEAH, PRINT THOSE OUT FOR ME,
679
00:30:25,134 --> 00:30:27,132
PUT THE INITIALS WHERE THEY NEED
TO BE AND SCAN IT
680
00:30:27,134 --> 00:30:30,465
AND SHOOT IT BACK INTO HER.
-OKAY, I WILL.
681
00:30:30,467 --> 00:30:31,865
OKAY, THANK YOU SO MUCH,
SWEETIE.
682
00:30:31,867 --> 00:30:35,832
-YOU'RE WELCOME.
-OKAY, BYE BYE.
683
00:30:35,834 --> 00:30:41,232
YEAH GIRL. HEY GIRL.
YOU CAN'T BE GOING TO SLEEP.
684
00:30:41,234 --> 00:30:44,399
SAY, "I'M GOING TO KEEP YOU UP
ALL NIGHT MAMA".
685
00:30:44,401 --> 00:30:47,532
Melody: EVEN WITH THE NEW BABY
I'M ALWAYS ON THE HUSTLE.
686
00:30:47,534 --> 00:30:49,332
I'VE GOT MY SKINCARE LINE,
687
00:30:49,334 --> 00:30:52,532
HOLT AND HOLT,
HOLT CUSTOM HOMES.
688
00:30:52,534 --> 00:30:54,665
WE'RE ACTUALLY
PROMOTING OUR BOOK.
689
00:30:54,667 --> 00:30:57,465
IT'S A LOT GOING ON
BUT AIN'T NO STOPPING ME NOW.
690
00:30:57,467 --> 00:31:02,332
I'LL REST WHEN I RETIRE,
MAYBE.
691
00:31:02,334 --> 00:31:06,465
-HEY, GIRL!
-HI. HEY.
692
00:31:06,467 --> 00:31:11,165
MY BABY MAMA.
OH, MY GOD, GIRL.
693
00:31:11,167 --> 00:31:13,365
LOOK AT YOU MY BABY MAMA.
SNATCH.
694
00:31:13,367 --> 00:31:16,199
LOOK, YOU ALREADY KNOW,
I GOT TOO MUCH TO DO, GIRL.
695
00:31:16,201 --> 00:31:17,599
EVEN WITH EVERYTHING
THAT'S GOING ON
696
00:31:17,601 --> 00:31:20,665
I STILL NEED MY GIRL TIME.
I AIN'T CHECKIN' LaTISHA.
697
00:31:20,667 --> 00:31:22,932
KIMMI AND I STILL HAVEN'T
SPOKEN.
698
00:31:22,934 --> 00:31:26,365
SO IT'S GREAT TO HAVE A REAL
FRIEND AROUND LIKE DESTINY.
699
00:31:26,367 --> 00:31:28,632
SO HOW YOU BEEN FEELING?
WHAT'S YOUR BUTT BEEN DOING?
700
00:31:28,634 --> 00:31:30,432
I'VE BEEN FEELING
REALLY NAUSEOUS
701
00:31:30,434 --> 00:31:35,165
AND ADJUSTING TO BEING HERE
EVERY DAY AND LIVING DAY TO DAY
702
00:31:35,167 --> 00:31:37,632
WITH SOMEBODY ELSE
AND SHARING SPACE.
703
00:31:37,634 --> 00:31:39,865
-YEAH, IT'S A LOT, ISN'T IT?
-AHA.
704
00:31:39,867 --> 00:31:41,032
YEAH, YOU ALL GOT A LOT,
705
00:31:41,034 --> 00:31:42,799
YOU'RE COMING TOGETHER,
JUST GOT MARRIED,
706
00:31:42,801 --> 00:31:46,232
LIVING TOGETHER NOW,
AND YOU'RE PREGNANT.
707
00:31:46,234 --> 00:31:48,299
Destiny: I MADE A LOT OF CHANGES
IN MY LIFE
708
00:31:48,301 --> 00:31:50,065
TO ADJUST TO MARRIED LIFE.
709
00:31:50,067 --> 00:31:52,932
MY HUSBAND HASN'T HAD TO
MAKE THOSE SAME CHANGES.
710
00:31:52,934 --> 00:31:54,932
IT'S JUST ME REALLY
BRINGING MYSELF
711
00:31:54,934 --> 00:31:56,565
AND UPROOTING MYSELF TO HIM,
712
00:31:56,567 --> 00:31:59,099
ADJUSTING TO BEING
IN HIS BACHELOR PAD,
713
00:31:59,101 --> 00:32:00,899
TALKING ABOUT FINANCES.
714
00:32:00,901 --> 00:32:02,365
WE DIDN'T PLAN ON
GETTING PREGNANT THIS SOON
715
00:32:02,367 --> 00:32:04,865
SO IT IS
AN EXTREME ADJUSTMENT.
716
00:32:04,867 --> 00:32:09,332
HOW WAS IT WHEN YOU ALL MOVED
IN TOGETHER LIKE THE FIRST TIME?
717
00:32:09,334 --> 00:32:11,865
IT WAS GREAT.
WE WERE SUPER EXCITED
718
00:32:11,867 --> 00:32:14,165
BUT WE WERE YOUNGER, I MEAN,
YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?
719
00:32:14,167 --> 00:32:16,499
I WAS 22, YOU KNOW,
720
00:32:16,501 --> 00:32:20,299
Y'ALL ARE KINDA SET IN YOUR WAYS
MORE PROBABLY, DESTINY, NOW.
721
00:32:20,301 --> 00:32:22,799
I THINK I COMPROMISE
A LITTLE BIT MORE.
722
00:32:22,801 --> 00:32:26,132
YOU KNOW, IT'S LIKE ADJUSTING
TO BEING IN HIS BACHELOR HOME
723
00:32:26,134 --> 00:32:28,132
WITH EVERYTHING IN IT
IS HIS.
724
00:32:28,134 --> 00:32:31,765
IT'S LIKE MY ENERGY'S NOT THERE,
MY THINGS AREN'T THERE.
725
00:32:31,767 --> 00:32:33,832
ALL MY STUFF IS IN STORAGE
BECAUSE IT COULDN'T FIT EVEN
726
00:32:33,834 --> 00:32:35,165
IF I WANTED TO PUT IT IN THERE.
-OH, WOW.
727
00:32:35,167 --> 00:32:36,432
SO YOU REALLY
DON'T HAVE ANYTHING
728
00:32:36,434 --> 00:32:38,265
FOR REAL, FOR REAL
IN THERE BUT CLOTHES?
729
00:32:38,267 --> 00:32:40,699
-MM-HMM. AND BOXES.
-OH, YEAH.
730
00:32:40,701 --> 00:32:44,365
NOT YOUR DISHES EITHER?
HIS DISHES? OH.
731
00:32:48,334 --> 00:32:50,432
HAVE YOU EXPRESSED IT
TO LeBARRICK HOW YOU FEEL?
732
00:32:50,434 --> 00:32:51,932
MM-HMM.
733
00:32:51,934 --> 00:32:53,932
OKAY, AND HE MAKING
THE CHANGES, RIGHT?
734
00:32:53,934 --> 00:32:55,932
SURE.
735
00:32:55,934 --> 00:32:57,299
YOU DIDN'T SAY
THAT CONVINCINGLY.
736
00:32:57,301 --> 00:32:58,632
I MEAN, WE'RE
GOING TO COUNSELING.
737
00:32:58,634 --> 00:33:01,332
-OH, THAT'S GOOD.
-WEEKLY.
738
00:33:01,334 --> 00:33:03,999
LeBARRICK AND I HAVE BEEN
GOING TO THERAPY TO LEARN
739
00:33:04,001 --> 00:33:08,799
TO LIVE TOGETHER TO KIND
OF LEARN HOW TO BECOME ONE.
740
00:33:08,801 --> 00:33:11,765
IT'S BEEN A REALLY ROUGH TIME,
IT REALLY HAS.
741
00:33:11,767 --> 00:33:14,032
IT'S A TRUE ADJUSTMENT
FOR THE BOTH OF US.
742
00:33:14,034 --> 00:33:17,132
THIS IS OUR SIXTH PREGNANCY.
-WHEE.
743
00:33:17,134 --> 00:33:18,965
YOU ALL HAD
MULTIPLE MISCARRIAGES.
744
00:33:18,967 --> 00:33:21,232
YOU ALL BEEN TRYING.
-YEAH, THIS IS A WHOLE PROCESS
745
00:33:21,234 --> 00:33:25,332
OF LIKE REALLY HAVING A BABY
IN YOUR STOMACH
746
00:33:25,334 --> 00:33:27,899
AND THEN LOSING IT
AND THE MENTAL STUFF
747
00:33:27,901 --> 00:33:30,132
THAT YOU GO THROUGH THAT
IS NOT SEEN ON THE OUTSIDE,
748
00:33:30,134 --> 00:33:32,799
AND HE'S JUST LIKE,
I MEAN, HE DIDN'T GET IT
749
00:33:32,801 --> 00:33:36,065
AND IT WAS DIFFICULT.
750
00:33:36,067 --> 00:33:40,199
SO, YOU KNOW, LIKE FOR US,
BEFORE I HAD MILANI
751
00:33:40,201 --> 00:33:42,665
I ACTUALLY
HAD A MISCARRIAGE.
752
00:33:42,667 --> 00:33:45,665
IT'S LIKE, DANG,
I KIND OF FELT LIKE, MAN
753
00:33:45,667 --> 00:33:47,499
IS THERE A REASON
THAT THIS HAPPENED
754
00:33:47,501 --> 00:33:50,232
AND THEN AFTER DRAMA CAME AFTER
THAT, I WAS LIKE, OKAY
755
00:33:50,234 --> 00:33:52,965
MAYBE THAT TIMING
WAS JUST ABSOLUTELY NOT RIGHT.
756
00:33:52,967 --> 00:33:56,432
SO EVEN WHEN I GOT PREGNANT
WITH HER, I DID CONSIDER,
757
00:33:56,434 --> 00:34:00,132
I WAS THINKING LIKE, "SHOULD
I HAVE AN ABORTION," YOU KNOW,
758
00:34:00,134 --> 00:34:03,732
AND I FELT LIKE, "SHOULD I KEEP
THIS CHILD OR NOT?"
759
00:34:03,734 --> 00:34:05,032
THAT'S TOUGH.
760
00:34:05,034 --> 00:34:07,365
BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE
I WENT THROUGH SO MUCH STRESS
761
00:34:07,367 --> 00:34:09,099
WHILE I WAS PREGNANT
WITH HER.
762
00:34:09,101 --> 00:34:12,332
LIKE I HAD TO PUT ON A SMILEY
FACE WHEN I DIDN'T WANT TO.
763
00:34:12,334 --> 00:34:15,532
I HAD TO GET UP AND KEEP GOING
EVEN WHEN I DIDN'T WANT TO.
764
00:34:15,534 --> 00:34:20,399
I HAD TO, YOU KNOW,
JUST CONTINUE TO GO.
765
00:34:20,401 --> 00:34:23,832
ANYTHING WORTH HAVING
IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR,
766
00:34:23,834 --> 00:34:25,965
AND I REALLY WANT DESTINY
767
00:34:25,967 --> 00:34:28,432
TO KNOW THAT MARRIAGE
ISN'T ALWAYS EASY.
768
00:34:28,434 --> 00:34:31,732
LIKE, YEAH, MARTELL AND I WERE
ABLE TO COME THROUGH OUR MESS,
769
00:34:31,734 --> 00:34:36,165
BUT IT WASN'T EASY.
YOU HAVE TO PUT IN THE WORK.
770
00:34:36,167 --> 00:34:38,365
WHEN YOU CAN LOOK BACK
AND LOOK AT, YOU KNOW,
771
00:34:38,367 --> 00:34:40,665
THOSE FIRST FEW YEARS
OR FIVE YEARS
772
00:34:40,667 --> 00:34:42,965
OR 10 YEARS,
WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE
773
00:34:42,967 --> 00:34:45,532
AND HOW YOU GUYS ARE ABLE
TO BUILD A FOUNDATION
774
00:34:45,534 --> 00:34:47,665
AND REALLY GROW
AS BEST FRIENDS
775
00:34:47,667 --> 00:34:50,599
AND ALL OF THAT.
WHEN LIFE DOES HIT YOU,
776
00:34:50,601 --> 00:34:52,899
YOU'RE KIND OF ABLE TO WITHSTAND
IT A LITTLE BIT BETTER
777
00:34:52,901 --> 00:34:56,132
BECAUSE YOU DO HAVE,
YOU KNOW, THAT FOUNDATION.
778
00:34:56,134 --> 00:35:00,565
BUT ONE THING I KNOW, YOU'RE
STRONG ENOUGH TO HANDLE IT,
779
00:35:00,567 --> 00:35:03,032
YOU ALL LOVE EACH OTHER
ENOUGH TO HANDLE IT.
780
00:35:03,034 --> 00:35:04,799
YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY,
THE FIRST FEW YEARS
781
00:35:04,801 --> 00:35:07,432
ARE ALWAYS THE TOUGHEST.
-THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY, GIRL.
782
00:35:07,434 --> 00:35:11,499
I DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE
OR NOT BUT THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY.
783
00:35:18,367 --> 00:35:22,899
AS MOMS AND WIVES, OUR DAY
TO DAY SCHEDULE FILL UP FAST
784
00:35:22,901 --> 00:35:25,432
FROM ALL OF THE DIFFERENT
ACTIVITIES WITH THE KIDS,
785
00:35:25,434 --> 00:35:27,199
HELPING THEM
WITH THEIR SCHOOL WORK,
786
00:35:27,201 --> 00:35:29,832
MAKING THE PTA MEETING.
-BAD TIME?
787
00:35:29,834 --> 00:35:31,565
WELL, I'M JUST TRYING TO
PRACTICE THIS SPEECH
788
00:35:31,567 --> 00:35:33,632
IN THE MIRROR
JUST TO PREPARE MYSELF
789
00:35:33,634 --> 00:35:34,899
BUT, YOU KNOW,
I'M SHAKING
790
00:35:34,901 --> 00:35:37,132
AND IT'S JUST ME IN THE MIRROR.
-I LIKE IT.
791
00:35:37,134 --> 00:35:38,532
SOMETIMES YOU CAN BE
YOUR HARDEST CRITIC.
792
00:35:38,534 --> 00:35:40,632
-THANK YOU, BAE.
-CHEERS.
793
00:35:40,634 --> 00:35:42,432
OOOH. SOMETHING TO TAKE
THE EDGE OFF.
794
00:35:42,434 --> 00:35:46,865
YEAH, IT'S PRETTY STRONG.
FINISH IT, T.
795
00:35:46,867 --> 00:35:49,132
MNH-MNH. YOU GOT
SOME ALCOHOL IN HERE.
796
00:35:49,134 --> 00:35:50,932
MAYBE JUST A LITTLE.
797
00:35:50,934 --> 00:35:52,699
MAYBE JUST A LITTLE.
-THANK YOU.
798
00:35:52,701 --> 00:35:54,132
IT'S A DOWNER
AND AN UPPER.
799
00:35:54,134 --> 00:35:55,865
NOW YOU'RE RELAXED,
LET'S HEAR THIS SPEECH.
800
00:35:55,867 --> 00:35:59,665
OKAY, MOMS AND WIVES,
OUR DAY TO DAY SCHEDULE FILL UP.
801
00:35:59,667 --> 00:36:03,965
I MEAN, FROM ALL THE DIFFERENT
ACTIVITIES WITH THE KIDS,
802
00:36:03,967 --> 00:36:05,665
HELPING THEM
WITH THEIR SCHOOL WORK,
803
00:36:05,667 --> 00:36:08,232
AND LETS NOT FORGET TO MAKE SURE
THE HOUSE IS CLEAN,
804
00:36:08,234 --> 00:36:10,565
DINNER IS SERVED
AT A CERTAIN TIME,
805
00:36:10,567 --> 00:36:13,832
AND TAKING CARE
OF THE MEN OF THE HOUSE.
806
00:36:13,834 --> 00:36:16,132
OKAY, AFTER TAKING CARE
OF EVERYBODY AROUND US,
807
00:36:16,134 --> 00:36:19,465
WE TEND TO FORGET ABOUT
THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON.
808
00:36:19,467 --> 00:36:21,965
YES, THAT'S RIGHT, YOU.
809
00:36:21,967 --> 00:36:27,365
I REMEMBER IN 2015, LOOKING IN
THE MIRROR AND ASKING MYSELF,
810
00:36:27,367 --> 00:36:31,032
"WHO IS THIS GIRL
LOOKING BACK AT ME?".
811
00:36:31,034 --> 00:36:34,799
OKAY, I HAVE TO GET READY TO GO,
I DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME.
812
00:36:34,801 --> 00:36:38,432
TONIGHT IS A VERY
BIG NIGHT FOR ME.
813
00:36:38,434 --> 00:36:43,699
IT'S BEEN A LONG JOURNEY COMING,
I AM EXTREMELY PROUD OF ME.
814
00:36:43,701 --> 00:36:47,165
I MEAN, IT FEELS REALLY GOOD
TO SAY, I WANT TO DO SOMETHING
815
00:36:47,167 --> 00:36:51,732
AND YOU SEE YOURSELF
MOVING IN THAT DIRECTION.
816
00:36:51,734 --> 00:36:53,465
YOU GOT THE KIDS
AND EVERYTHING, RIGHT?
817
00:36:53,467 --> 00:36:54,665
YOU SAID WHAT?
818
00:36:54,667 --> 00:36:57,365
YOU KNOW I DIDN'T
COOK DINNER, SO THAT'S ON YOU.
819
00:36:57,367 --> 00:36:59,332
CAN YOU TAKE CARE
OF THAT FOR ME?
820
00:36:59,334 --> 00:37:01,832
TISHA, AT WHAT POINT
IS THIS OKAY?
821
00:37:01,834 --> 00:37:03,799
I WAS TRYING TO
BUT THEN I STARTED
822
00:37:03,801 --> 00:37:06,465
PRACTICING FOR THE SPEECH.
-T, YOU KNOW WHAT'S FUNNY?
823
00:37:06,467 --> 00:37:08,032
YOU KNOW WHAT'S REALLY
FUNNY ABOUT THIS?
824
00:37:08,034 --> 00:37:09,865
YOU CAN TAKE THIS HOWEVER
YOU WANT TO TAKE IT
825
00:37:09,867 --> 00:37:11,699
BUT IN 2015,
YOU SAY,
826
00:37:11,701 --> 00:37:14,899
"I'M LOSING ME,
I GOT TO FOCUS ON ME," RIGHT?
827
00:37:14,901 --> 00:37:17,265
LISTEN, THERE'S NEVER A TIME
WHERE I'M LIKE,
828
00:37:17,267 --> 00:37:22,599
"I GOT TO FOCUS ON ME".
DO I HAVE A STAY-AT-HOME WIFE?
829
00:37:22,601 --> 00:37:25,999
DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?
THAT MEANS EVERY SINGLE DIME
830
00:37:26,001 --> 00:37:30,599
THAT COMES IN MY CHECK
GOES TO MY FAMILY.
831
00:37:30,601 --> 00:37:32,965
EVERYTHING. RIGHT?
-RIGHT.
832
00:37:32,967 --> 00:37:35,765
THAT'S NOT ME DOING ME.
833
00:37:35,767 --> 00:37:38,399
THAT'S ME DOING WHAT NEEDS
TO BE DONE FOR THE FAMILY.
834
00:37:38,401 --> 00:37:40,265
AND SO WHEN YOU MAKE
THESE THINGS LIKE,
835
00:37:40,267 --> 00:37:43,265
"I LOST MYSELF", BAE, WE LOSE
OURSELVES, YOU KNOW WHY?
836
00:37:43,267 --> 00:37:46,899
BECAUSE WE LOST HALF OF
OURSELVES TO BE TOGETHER.
837
00:37:46,901 --> 00:37:49,099
THAT'S WHAT MARRIAGE
IS ABOUT.
838
00:37:49,101 --> 00:37:51,065
IT'S ABOUT TWO PEOPLE
BECOMING ONE,
839
00:37:51,067 --> 00:37:53,532
BUT YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP
PART OF WHO YOU ARE,
840
00:37:53,534 --> 00:37:58,365
AND IF YOUR GOAL
IS TO GET THAT BACK,
841
00:37:58,367 --> 00:38:01,099
YOU'RE GOING TO GET IT BACK
OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE.
842
00:38:03,601 --> 00:38:05,732
YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO MAKE
A LOT OF ADJUSTMENTS.
843
00:38:05,734 --> 00:38:08,065
-WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
-WHEN WE FIRST GOT TOGETHER
844
00:38:08,067 --> 00:38:09,432
IT WAS JUST YOU AND I, SINGLE.
-TISHA,
845
00:38:09,434 --> 00:38:11,665
WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT
MAKING A LOT OF ADJUSTMENTS?
846
00:38:11,667 --> 00:38:13,265
WHEN YOU AND I GOT MARRIED
847
00:38:13,267 --> 00:38:16,265
AND WE STARTED HAVING KIDS
I WAS LIKE, "OH SNAP,"
848
00:38:16,267 --> 00:38:18,165
ALL OF MY DREAMS
WAS JUST ABOUT ME,
849
00:38:18,167 --> 00:38:20,199
BUT NOW IT'S LIKE
I HAVE A FAMILY,
850
00:38:20,201 --> 00:38:22,665
AND IT'S LIKE,
"OKAY, TISHA, PUT TISHA HERE,
851
00:38:22,667 --> 00:38:25,165
FOCUS ON YOUR FAMILY,
FOCUS ON THE KIDS".
852
00:38:25,167 --> 00:38:29,899
THEN WE DECIDED FOR ME TO BE
A STAY-AT-HOME MOM SO AFTER
853
00:38:29,901 --> 00:38:31,965
THAT, THAT'S WHEN I STARTED
LOOKING IN THE MIRROR,
854
00:38:31,967 --> 00:38:33,699
I WAS LIKE,
"I GOT TO FIGURE ME OUT AGAIN,
855
00:38:33,701 --> 00:38:36,399
I'VE GOT TO GET TO KNOW
WHO I AM AGAIN, THE NEW ME".
856
00:38:36,401 --> 00:38:39,265
WHEN I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME,
DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?
857
00:38:39,267 --> 00:38:40,965
I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME
858
00:38:40,967 --> 00:38:44,599
BECAUSE I WANT TO BE A BETTER ME
FOR YOU, FOR THE FAMILY.
859
00:38:44,601 --> 00:38:46,165
THAT'S WHAT I SAID
IN MY SPEECH.
860
00:38:46,167 --> 00:38:51,965
I'M JUST SAYING IS THAT I DON'T
WANT IN YOUR SPEECH FOR YOU
861
00:38:51,967 --> 00:38:54,632
TO BE SAYING,
YOU KNOW,
862
00:38:54,634 --> 00:38:59,265
"HEY, I'M JUST DOING ME NOW,
MY HUSBAND AIN'T DONE NOTHING."
863
00:38:59,267 --> 00:39:01,899
WHY WOULD I SAY THAT?
THAT'S NOT BEING REAL.
864
00:39:01,901 --> 00:39:04,265
-I DON'T WANT TO WALK IN.
-BUT WHY WOULD I SAY THAT?
865
00:39:04,267 --> 00:39:06,765
DO I EVER DISCREDIT
YOU LIKE THAT?
866
00:39:06,767 --> 00:39:07,832
-YES.
-I DO?
867
00:39:07,834 --> 00:39:09,265
YEAH. I WAS JUST TELLING YOU
ABOUT THAT.
868
00:39:09,267 --> 00:39:10,432
I DISCREDIT YOU?
869
00:39:10,434 --> 00:39:11,799
I WAS LIKE,
"MY HUSBAND DON'T DO ANYTHING,
870
00:39:11,801 --> 00:39:14,432
I'M DOING EVERYTHING."
-YEAH, YOU SAID THOSE WORDS.
871
00:39:14,434 --> 00:39:16,032
REALLY, MARSAU?
872
00:39:16,034 --> 00:39:18,532
I MEAN, THESE ARE MY
RESPONSIBILITIES
873
00:39:18,534 --> 00:39:21,399
BUT IT KIND OF GETS TO ME
A LITTLE BIT
874
00:39:21,401 --> 00:39:26,165
WHEN YOU MAKE IT SEEM LIKE,
"OH, MY GOD,
875
00:39:26,167 --> 00:39:29,865
I WAS A STAY-AT-HOME MOM,
I HAD TO DO EVERYTHING."
876
00:39:29,867 --> 00:39:32,332
I GUESS I WAS LOOKING AT IT
FROM THIS PERSPECTIVE
877
00:39:32,334 --> 00:39:34,199
LIKE, YES,
YOU WAS WORKING,
878
00:39:34,201 --> 00:39:36,399
BUT ONCE YOU GOT OFF OF WORK,
YOU GOT A CHANCE TO GO
879
00:39:36,401 --> 00:39:38,299
AND DO WHATEVER
IT IS YOU WANT TO DO.
880
00:39:38,301 --> 00:39:39,699
-[BLEEP] STOP IT.
-BUT YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO WORRY
881
00:39:39,701 --> 00:39:42,532
ABOUT FINDING A BABYSITTER.
-WHEN HAVE I BEEN OFF WORK?
882
00:39:42,534 --> 00:39:44,765
AT NIGHT TIME
WHEN YOU'RE OFF WORK,
883
00:39:44,767 --> 00:39:46,632
AND YOU'RE HANGING OUT
WITH YOUR FRIENDS.
884
00:39:46,634 --> 00:39:48,665
TELL ME WHAT
DAY OF THE YEAR?
885
00:39:48,667 --> 00:39:53,165
WHAT DAY OF THE YEAR
AM I EVER OFF WORK?
886
00:39:53,167 --> 00:39:54,565
MARSAU, YOU KNOW
WHAT I'M SAYING.
887
00:39:54,567 --> 00:39:56,399
YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT
FINDING A BABYSITTER,
888
00:39:56,401 --> 00:39:58,999
CALL AROUND, ASK PEOPLE
TO WATCH THE KIDS FOR YOU,
889
00:39:59,001 --> 00:40:00,932
YOU GET TO JUST
GET UP AND GO.
890
00:40:00,934 --> 00:40:02,565
FOR ME, I'M WITH THE KIDS
ALL THE TIME.
891
00:40:02,567 --> 00:40:03,965
TISHA, YOU CAN, TOO.
892
00:40:03,967 --> 00:40:06,699
NO, I HAVE TO FIND A BABYSITTER.
I JUST CAN'T LEAVE MY KIDS.
893
00:40:06,701 --> 00:40:09,532
OH, SHUCKS, YOU GOT TO FIND
A BABYSITTER, DAMN.
894
00:40:09,534 --> 00:40:11,199
THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE
IS WHAT I'M SAYING.
895
00:40:11,201 --> 00:40:13,832
I'VE GOT TO MAKE A CALL
AND FIND A BABYSITTER.
896
00:40:13,834 --> 00:40:16,632
IT WASN'T THAT EASY
JUST MAKING A CALL.
897
00:40:16,634 --> 00:40:21,265
GET OUT OF HERE. WOW.
YOU KNOW WHAT? I'M SORRY, BABE.
898
00:40:21,267 --> 00:40:24,865
I DIDN'T REALIZE
HOW HARD YOUR LIFE WAS.
899
00:40:24,867 --> 00:40:26,965
I DO NOT NEED THIS DISTRACTION
RIGHT NOW
900
00:40:26,967 --> 00:40:29,132
BEFORE I GET READY
TO DO MY SPEECH.
901
00:40:29,134 --> 00:40:30,765
MARSAU ALWAYS TELLS ME,
902
00:40:30,767 --> 00:40:33,432
"DON'T LET ANYTHING
DISTRACT YOU FROM YOUR GOALS,"
903
00:40:33,434 --> 00:40:35,832
AND RIGHT NOW,
HE IS A DISTRACTION.
904
00:40:35,834 --> 00:40:38,699
SO YOU GOING TO COME
TO THE EVENT?
905
00:40:41,667 --> 00:40:43,465
I'VE GOT A LOT OF STUFF
TO DO, BABE.
906
00:40:45,601 --> 00:40:48,832
NEXT ON "LOVE AND MARRIAGE: HUNTSVILLE"...
907
00:40:48,834 --> 00:40:52,765
YOU KNOW, WHEN PEOPLE SAY STUFF
THAT I KNOW IS A BUNCH OF B.S.,
908
00:40:52,767 --> 00:40:55,932
I'M GOING TO SAY SOMETHING.
I MEAN, LIKE THAT JUNK
909
00:40:55,934 --> 00:40:59,899
THAT MARSAU DID TALKING ABOUT
HE HAD A SEX TAPE OF ME.
910
00:40:59,901 --> 00:41:02,065
LaTisha: I'M HAPPY YOU WAS
HERE TO SUPPORT.
911
00:41:02,067 --> 00:41:03,532
YEAH, YOU KNOW KIMMI
WASN'T GOING TO BE HERE
912
00:41:03,534 --> 00:41:04,965
IF NO ONE ELSE DIDN'T
COME.
913
00:41:04,967 --> 00:41:07,199
-WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER?
-I DON'T KNOW, WHAT'S THAT?
914
00:41:09,601 --> 00:41:12,299
SO YOU JUST GO
SEARCHING FOR TROUBLE?
915
00:41:12,301 --> 00:41:13,799
I'M OUT HERE
JUST TRYING TO MAKE MONEY.
916
00:41:13,801 --> 00:41:15,132
OKAY.
917
00:41:16,867 --> 00:41:19,665
-OH.
-OH, MY GOD!
918
00:41:19,667 --> 00:41:21,599
WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT
YOU GOT YOUR TOBACCO LICENSE
919
00:41:21,601 --> 00:41:23,865
AND ALL THAT
FOR THE CIGAR LOUNGE?
920
00:41:27,901 --> 00:41:31,599
I'M LaTISHA SCOTT AS KENYA
JUST MENTIONED.
921
00:41:31,601 --> 00:41:33,265
WELL...
922
00:41:35,267 --> 00:41:39,065
...I'M SO NERVOUS,
PLEASE FORGIVE ME. I'M SHAKING.
79317
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