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♪ You gotta man up ♪
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♪ You gotta man up ♪
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♪ Honey child ♪
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♪ You gotta man up ♪
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♪ You gotta man up ♪
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♪ Oh ♪
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All right, guys.
This week we are meeting Kenny Yarnevich.
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-Yay!
-Yarnevich.
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I'm Kenny Yarnevich.
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I'm 64 years old
and from Kansas City, Kansas.
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Nominated by his sister Kathy
and her two daughters,
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slash, his nieces, Rachel and Meg.
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We're nominating my brother Kenny
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because he always helps everyone,
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but he never ever asks for help himself.
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We'd love to help him,
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but he doesn't accept help from us.
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Oh, God.
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Kenny loves all things Croatia.
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He comes from a big,
close Croatian family.
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Back in the early 1900s, Croatians
come over here and built a church,
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and then it's just been a big Croatian
community ever since.
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He's been the president and manager
of the St. John's Catholic Club
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-since 2001.
- That's cute.
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♪ You gotta man up ♪
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The St. John's Catholic Club
is an old-fashioned bar
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with an old-fashioned bowling alley.
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It's a good money-maker
for the church.
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I do a lot of work for the community,
so that's my number one thing,
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just having a good time
and helping other people out.
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I love people.
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He's been single all of his life.
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He's never been in love
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-and has never been married.
-Wow.
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I figure when the right one comes along,
I'll know it someday.
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Testing, one, two, three, four.
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I think he's dated a few times
here and there,
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but I don't think that's his thing.
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My brothers, sisters, and I,
we all got married, had our own kids
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and Kenny's always lived with my parents.
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My mother passed away in '85,
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and my dad passed away in 2003,
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so now he has this house that's his own,
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and it's probably still the same way
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my mom decorated it
back in the late '70s.
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-I can't wait for this.
- I love a good time capsule.
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I love a shrine.
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To be up front and honest with you,
my house is a disaster.
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Got things just kind of scattered
all over,
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and there's no really main reason for it,
it's just the way it's been.
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Kenny feels more comfortable
socializing outside of his home
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and has not yet had anyone over.
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-I would hate that story.
-Wow.
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For the first time ever in his house,
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-he's hosting a Yarnevich family reunion.
-Yarnevich!
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I haven't been inside the house
in 15 years,
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none of us have, and it'll bring back
the most wonderful memories
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of our family being together.
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You know, that is a big moment for him,
'cause it's been 15 years,
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and we all know that family can be
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-the most ridiculously critical.
- Yes.
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-You're--
-We just haven't-- What?
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-You're, like, whispering.
-I'm sorry.
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-It's driving me crazy.
-Okay.
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So, our mission: let's help Kenny see that
after years of kindness,
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he's more than ready to be
the king of his own castle.
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-Yes!
-Yeah!
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♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪
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- Oh, my gosh! Are we at a church?
- Yeah.
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-All right, kids. Let's go say hi.
-Hi!
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-Hello!
-Oh, my God. Hi! Oh, my God!
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-How are you?
-Nice to meet you.
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Come on in. Welcome to the club.
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♪ Kenny! Kenny! ♪
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Hello, Kenny!
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♪ Kenny! Kenny! ♪
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Thanks for having us at your club.
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-Hey, welcome.
-What's going on? I'm Bobby.
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-Nice to meet you.
- Hi, Kenny.
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-Hey, how you doing? Nice to see you.
-I'm giving you a hug.
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-How are you, my friend?
-Good to see you.
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-God bless you all.
-How are you?
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You look like you're back there
ready to serve us something.
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-Whatever you want.
-I want a pickle.
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-A pickle. We can do that.
-Yeah.
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I love pickles.
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- Thank you.
-All right.
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So, he stole my heart from the get-go.
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-Are you always back here serving others?
-Yes, sir.
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- Do you ever come on this side?
-No.
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My gosh. Should we role-reverse?
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- Can we serve you really quickly?
- Oh, no, I--
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-Okay.
-Bye, guys. We love you.
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Come on over. Come on over.
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-I really like it here.
- Yeah!
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What can I get for you?
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I'll take a bottled water
that's in there.
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-Nice.
-I would really appreciate that.
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Hydration is important.
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Thank you.
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-This is a social club, right? Basically.
-Yes, sir. Yeah.
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-You run the whole show here?
- He's the president.
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President and manager. Yes, sir.
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You know, this is my second home.
Actually, my main home.
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- My home is my second home.
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- Okay.
-How about-- I tell you what.
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I'd like to see you guys bowl.
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Yes!
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- Good job, Bobby.
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No! I hate it.
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- Is the ball too heavy for you?
- Yeah, it was really heavy!
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- You got it, Antoni.
- There you go, he picked it up.
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-Well done!
- Good job!
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Good job.
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Come on, Tanny! You got it, Tanny!
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-Come on, come on, come on!
- Let's go, Tanny!
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You guys are a lot of fun.
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-Thanks, Kenny.
-I'm ready for another pickle.
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- No!
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All right, we're all bowled out.
Is it time to see the house?
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- Can we see your house?
- Can we see the house?
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I'll just give you a warning.
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It's a messy house.
And I feel ashamed, but...
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-No!
-No, don't feel ashamed.
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There's nothing at that house,
except for maybe, like, a dead body
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that'd prevent us from loving you,
you know what I mean?
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- Is there a dead body?
-Then we're good.
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-We're only here to help you.
-Hold on. Kenny, is this you?
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Uh, about 18 years ago, yep.
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-Aw!
-Oh, look how handsome you look!
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You've been sporting this mustache
for some time.
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That is correct. Yeah.
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It's a-- They-- We call that
a signature look.
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-Uh-huh.
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I feel like every family has, like,
a fun aunt and, like, a fun uncle.
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Kenny is definitely, like,
the fun uncle of the family.
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Mine was Uncle Dave, he would, like,
sneak us out to get us, like, ice cream.
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And, like, my Aunt Julie was like,
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"Let's steal stop signs."
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- This is it.
- Oh, honey, the shrubbery.
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Do you keep the trees like this
to prevent people from coming over?
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No?
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This shrubbery is next-level.
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This is awesome.
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Oh, she's just
a scared little girl.
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I don't wanna
mess up my shoes.
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Very Secret Garden.
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Okay.
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All right, let's see.
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-Ah!
- All right, Kenny,
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this is not nearly
as bad as you made it sound.
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- You prepared us for the worst.
- It's dirty.
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-There's-- There's some dust issues.
- There's a lot of dust.
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- I see-- Do you have a dog?
-I did have a dog.
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-Yeah, that's part of him.
- Okay.
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Most of your carpet is, um, fur.
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- That's called shag.
- Oh, is it shag?
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You have all these old Christmas
cards. You're actually my father.
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-That's who you are.
-There you go.
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I'm not even willing to touch it,
but look at that.
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I think it's ironic how much
dust your vacuum cleaner has on it.
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I think we're gonna get you
filing cabinets.
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Now I see why you were
a little concerned
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about us seeing it, 'cause it is...
very messy.
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Hey, how long has it been since
you guys actually saw a Beta recorder?
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- Since before any of us were born.
- Kenny, you're a sentimental man.
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Yeah, I guess so.
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I'm noticing the dog fur,
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the dog treats, and the dog bowls,
but I don't see the dog.
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He died unexpectedly in January.
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- So that was your companion.
-Oh, yes! Took him everywhere.
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-Yeah. Aw...
-I took him everywhere.
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Why have you still kept the bowl
and things?
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Good question.
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I don't know, I should just probably
get rid of that.
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You're still kinda grieving
the loss of him?
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I guess, kinda sorta.
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-Yeah, I guess you could say that.
- That makes sense.
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Look at that sticky tape.
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Ew!
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-They're dead.
- It's so, so gross!
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No, I'm out.
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Poor family photo.
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Ugh.
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Everything in here, I would say,
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is exactly the way
your parents had it, yeah?
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Yes, that is correct.
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-Minus some of the clutter, I'd say.
-Yep.
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-Minus a lot, yeah.
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A big minus.
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Just by looking at the house,
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it is so very clear
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that Kenny has never been able
to let go of the memory of his parents.
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Um, I just let it get too bad
over the course of time.
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When they passed,
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he stopped caring for himself.
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And...
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you know, I-- I'm by myself,
so I felt, you know, overwhelmed.
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He didn't dust anything,
he didn't move anything,
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he didn't touch anything.
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It has been the exact same for 15 years.
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You know, I wanna respect
the history of your mom and dad,
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but also make it to where it functions
for you and where you feel at home here.
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-That's it.
-This wallpaper has definitely gotta go.
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So, most of it is--
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Most of it is...
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um, sports.
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You know what he is?
He's serving me, like, "quarter-hoarder."
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-Quarter-hoarder?
-He's like a quarter of a hoarder.
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Quarter of a hoarder. I think
a lot more than a quarter of a hoarder.
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-Oh.
-Kenny.
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Every thing is a sports thing.
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Yes, I love sports.
A sports nut, I guess you could say.
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I love that you've got something
that you love so much,
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but does it have to be on everything
you wear?
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No, but I don't go nowhere.
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-So...
-Okay. You go to work.
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I know, but we-- we're kind of
sports-related down there, too.
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Okay. So, maybe we could find a way
to streamline your wardrobe.
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-Okay.
-I did actually find a suit.
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Can we try it on?
I wanna see what the fit's like.
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-Sure.
-How long have you had it?
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-Long time. Probably seven years.
-Okay. Oof.
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-Yeah, see? It's not good, is it?
-Oof, Kenny, no.
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I could fit in your suit jacket with you.
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-Like, I literally could.
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Just try and close the jacket
around me. Let's see if it works.
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-By God, I think you're right.
-D'you know?
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This is so good.
I really have to wash my hands.
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If you were to just tighten things up
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-and make them look a little sharper...
-Uh-huh.
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...you're gonna feel a million bucks,
I promise you.
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- Really?
- Yep.
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- Do you like to cook?
- Oh, yes, I love cooking.
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-Oh, my God. Yes.
-Okay.
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Oh, yeah.
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I cook for big groups.
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We do a tailgate.
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I try to do the meat.
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-Any Croatian dishes?
-Yeah. And Croatian dishes, too, so,
241
00:10:13,279 --> 00:10:15,656
you know, I made, like, my Croatian food.
242
00:10:15,740 --> 00:10:17,700
Where do you prepare it
if you can't prepare it here?
243
00:10:17,783 --> 00:10:19,619
I prepare it down at the church.
244
00:10:19,702 --> 00:10:22,913
I really want you to have a space where
you can make yourself a little omelet,
245
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-or even if it's eating leftovers or--
-Oh, yeah. I--
246
00:10:25,249 --> 00:10:27,752
My-- My routine now is, um,
247
00:10:27,835 --> 00:10:29,795
you know, I'll buy these sandwiches
at the store.
248
00:10:29,879 --> 00:10:32,340
-Okay.
-And then, uh, put it in a microwave bowl
249
00:10:32,423 --> 00:10:33,799
and the microwave's my best friend.
250
00:10:33,883 --> 00:10:35,551
You microwave a sandwich
with lettuce in it?
251
00:10:35,635 --> 00:10:36,719
Well, sure.
252
00:10:36,802 --> 00:10:39,847
You should at least use a panini press
to get it nice and crispy.
253
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This was discontinued in 2005.
254
00:10:46,687 --> 00:10:48,814
You know, you really remind me
of my dad a lot.
255
00:10:48,898 --> 00:10:51,984
He has calendars from several years ago
that are still hanging.
256
00:10:52,068 --> 00:10:53,319
He's very nostalgic.
257
00:10:53,986 --> 00:10:55,279
And I see that in you a lot.
258
00:10:55,363 --> 00:10:57,615
I see the attachment that you have to,
like, your dog,
259
00:10:58,157 --> 00:10:59,992
to your parents' home. Like, I get it.
260
00:11:00,076 --> 00:11:02,411
I really-- I understand that.
261
00:11:02,495 --> 00:11:04,622
How do you feel about, like,
not saying goodbye,
262
00:11:04,705 --> 00:11:07,041
but just sort of putting a bit of,
like, distance and space
263
00:11:07,124 --> 00:11:09,877
-between you and all of this nostalgia?
-It's probably time.
264
00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:12,421
I feel like, with you, you just--
265
00:11:12,755 --> 00:11:14,048
you haven't had anybody show you
266
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-that that's something you can do.
-Queens?
267
00:11:15,925 --> 00:11:17,927
What has he not had anyone showing him?
268
00:11:18,010 --> 00:11:19,387
My dad is a borderline--
269
00:11:19,470 --> 00:11:22,181
I'm not calling you this,
but my dad is a borderline hoarder,
270
00:11:22,264 --> 00:11:24,517
and one way we've been working
with him is by telling him,
271
00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,143
"Look, you don't have
to keep these things.
272
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Somebody else can benefit
from having them,
273
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somebody who has less."
274
00:11:29,146 --> 00:11:30,314
Do you feel like you have...
275
00:11:30,940 --> 00:11:32,775
-"hoarding tendencies."
-Yes.
276
00:11:32,900 --> 00:11:34,443
-You do?
- Oh, you admit it.
277
00:11:34,527 --> 00:11:35,861
-Yes.
-Being able to be self-aware
278
00:11:35,945 --> 00:11:38,280
-is, like, the first step, queen. Yay.
-Yeah.
279
00:11:38,364 --> 00:11:41,867
I mean, I did see newspapers
from 2000 and 2008.
280
00:11:41,951 --> 00:11:43,494
-The--
-He is my dad!
281
00:11:43,577 --> 00:11:44,495
He is exactly my dad.
282
00:11:45,538 --> 00:11:47,957
My eye first goes to...
283
00:11:48,624 --> 00:11:50,292
this flaxseed hairspray.
284
00:11:51,168 --> 00:11:53,170
Ooh. Honey.
285
00:11:53,421 --> 00:11:54,296
She's aggressive.
286
00:11:55,923 --> 00:11:57,591
-Do you have this in your hair now?
-Yes.
287
00:11:57,675 --> 00:11:58,676
Let's feel it.
288
00:11:59,719 --> 00:12:03,848
He's kinda crunchy a little bit,
but not too bad.
289
00:12:03,931 --> 00:12:05,641
Do you have a barber
that you go see a lot?
290
00:12:05,725 --> 00:12:07,184
No, I see a-- a beautician.
291
00:12:07,268 --> 00:12:08,602
Ooh, I love it!
292
00:12:08,686 --> 00:12:11,439
-You wanna feel properly taken care of.
-Yes.
293
00:12:11,522 --> 00:12:12,857
-I love that.
-Yep.
294
00:12:15,443 --> 00:12:17,486
I think your mustache is asymmetrical.
295
00:12:17,570 --> 00:12:18,738
I think this side goes down
296
00:12:18,821 --> 00:12:20,698
-farther than this side.
-It probably does.
297
00:12:21,115 --> 00:12:24,452
But I also wonder what you look like
without a mustache.
298
00:12:27,121 --> 00:12:29,874
Oh, my God.
Oh, my God. That's little mice poops.
299
00:12:30,249 --> 00:12:31,292
Wow.
300
00:12:31,375 --> 00:12:35,421
Um, who gave you permission
to put a picture of me on your wall?
301
00:12:35,504 --> 00:12:38,132
That is weird,
I've never been here before,
302
00:12:38,215 --> 00:12:41,135
I don't know how you got
that painting of me, but we'll talk.
303
00:12:41,218 --> 00:12:43,179
It's good.
I'm not gonna let it freak me out.
304
00:12:43,262 --> 00:12:44,138
There you go.
305
00:12:44,805 --> 00:12:47,224
-You are a really fun and sweet guy.
-Well, you guys are, too.
306
00:12:47,683 --> 00:12:49,685
I really love being around you guys.
307
00:12:49,769 --> 00:12:52,646
Are we also the most guests
you've had in here?
308
00:12:53,063 --> 00:12:54,023
Oh, by all means.
309
00:12:54,106 --> 00:12:55,608
-In a long time.
-Wow.
310
00:12:56,358 --> 00:12:58,944
-Being honest with you, it's depressing.
-Yeah?
311
00:12:59,361 --> 00:13:01,989
You know. And then when I lost my dog,
it was more depressing.
312
00:13:02,531 --> 00:13:04,450
I, uh, always have a radio on,
313
00:13:04,867 --> 00:13:08,204
all the time, just to kinda
take out the loneliness. You know?
314
00:13:08,287 --> 00:13:09,914
-To have something coming in.
-Yeah.
315
00:13:09,997 --> 00:13:13,250
I'm pumped up when I'm out with people
316
00:13:13,334 --> 00:13:15,252
and helping people out and everything.
317
00:13:15,628 --> 00:13:18,464
And I come here, and walk in,
318
00:13:18,547 --> 00:13:21,675
-and then I'm in a house by myself.
-Yeah.
319
00:13:21,759 --> 00:13:22,843
And it just feels--
320
00:13:22,927 --> 00:13:25,596
Again, I think that the loneliness
is really more than anything else.
321
00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:26,514
Yeah.
322
00:13:28,015 --> 00:13:29,600
Yeah, I'm embarrassed with the inside.
323
00:13:29,683 --> 00:13:32,478
-Yeah.
-But, again, nobody comes over.
324
00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:35,856
So, I think that's another thing, too,
is why should I...
325
00:13:36,273 --> 00:13:40,027
do anything to fix up the house...
if nobody comes over?
326
00:13:40,110 --> 00:13:41,946
But, on the other side,
327
00:13:42,029 --> 00:13:44,156
-I just let it go too far.
-Yeah.
328
00:13:44,782 --> 00:13:45,616
So...
329
00:13:45,699 --> 00:13:47,493
-Okay.
-I'm ready for about anything.
330
00:13:47,576 --> 00:13:49,912
You know, you might have some things
that you wanna change,
331
00:13:49,995 --> 00:13:51,956
but you're a really good guy. Yeah.
332
00:13:52,039 --> 00:13:53,332
Oh, I-- I try to be.
333
00:13:53,415 --> 00:13:55,125
-Hello, gents.
-We're just talking about
334
00:13:55,209 --> 00:13:57,211
-what an amazing guy Kenny is.
-We was, rapping and--
335
00:13:57,336 --> 00:13:59,338
-What's Croatia in Croatian?
-Hrvatska.
336
00:13:59,421 --> 00:14:01,799
-Hrvatska!-Three, two, one...
337
00:14:01,882 --> 00:14:02,842
Hrvatska!
338
00:14:04,885 --> 00:14:06,512
My goal this week
is to help Kenny
339
00:14:06,595 --> 00:14:09,431
see that he can open himself up
to other people,
340
00:14:09,515 --> 00:14:11,684
that he doesn't have to be
just the one serving them.
341
00:14:11,767 --> 00:14:14,353
He can sit down
and be a part of the family as well.
342
00:14:14,812 --> 00:14:18,023
I think a lot of times when people
inherit a house from their parents,
343
00:14:18,107 --> 00:14:21,277
they feel like changing it is
losing the memory of their parents.
344
00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,362
But it's been 15 years.
345
00:14:23,445 --> 00:14:24,613
It's time to move on.
346
00:14:24,697 --> 00:14:28,117
He's the most lovable guy,
but I want him to look presentable.
347
00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,369
I want people to feel like they should
come to the house.
348
00:14:30,452 --> 00:14:32,496
He clearly needs a change in his life,
349
00:14:32,580 --> 00:14:34,582
and if not now, when?
350
00:14:34,665 --> 00:14:36,333
You know, Kenny has been unable
351
00:14:36,417 --> 00:14:38,836
to, like, stop the momentum going one way
352
00:14:38,919 --> 00:14:40,462
and get it going another way.
353
00:14:40,546 --> 00:14:42,882
We are going to have to, like--
354
00:14:43,465 --> 00:14:44,884
That's chiseling, if you don't know.
355
00:14:44,967 --> 00:14:46,510
He's such a sweetheart.
356
00:14:46,594 --> 00:14:49,930
Like, there's nothing bad
that you can say about Kenny.
357
00:14:51,765 --> 00:14:53,142
I wanna get him a dog!
358
00:15:02,776 --> 00:15:05,070
I wanted to bring you
on a little shopping trip.
359
00:15:05,154 --> 00:15:06,405
Oh, okay.
360
00:15:06,488 --> 00:15:07,615
-Thank you.
-After you, sir.
361
00:15:08,949 --> 00:15:11,076
I wanted to see
if we can find your style.
362
00:15:11,702 --> 00:15:13,579
Normally, when designing
for somebody,
363
00:15:13,662 --> 00:15:16,290
there's something in their house
that I can see is a reflection of them,
364
00:15:16,373 --> 00:15:18,876
but the way Kenny's house is now,
there's nothing.
365
00:15:18,959 --> 00:15:21,545
It's exactly the way his mother left it.
366
00:15:21,629 --> 00:15:23,047
It's a nice little bar cart.
367
00:15:23,130 --> 00:15:24,256
-Oh, that's nice.
-Right?
368
00:15:24,757 --> 00:15:26,800
Red wine glass, white wine glass.
369
00:15:26,884 --> 00:15:28,552
-Okay.
-I like these chairs here.
370
00:15:28,636 --> 00:15:29,678
What do you think of 'em?
371
00:15:29,762 --> 00:15:30,638
-I love 'em.
-Okay.
372
00:15:30,721 --> 00:15:32,181
How do you like this table?
373
00:15:33,015 --> 00:15:34,600
-I like that table. It's nice.
-Yeah?
374
00:15:34,683 --> 00:15:37,853
- What is it you like about it?
- It's the width and the length.
375
00:15:37,937 --> 00:15:38,854
Okay.
376
00:15:38,938 --> 00:15:40,564
-That's cool.
-Is it just the size?
377
00:15:40,648 --> 00:15:41,982
-Size, yeah.
-Okay, all right.
378
00:15:42,066 --> 00:15:43,192
-Do you like this blue?
-Yes.
379
00:15:43,275 --> 00:15:45,444
-Okay. Do you like this green?
-Yes.
380
00:15:46,028 --> 00:15:46,862
Yeah?
381
00:15:46,946 --> 00:15:50,532
Shopping with somebody who doesn't really
have an opinion is kinda hard.
382
00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:52,826
What do you think of circles?
383
00:15:53,953 --> 00:15:55,496
-Circles is nice.
- Okay.
384
00:15:55,579 --> 00:15:58,582
Kenny just kinda said he liked
anything I pointed out to him.
385
00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:01,085
Right now, when it comes to your house,
386
00:16:01,543 --> 00:16:03,963
what is it you feel
when you walk in the door?
387
00:16:04,046 --> 00:16:07,216
To see the same stuff in there
I had for years...
388
00:16:07,841 --> 00:16:09,051
is just kind of, uh...
389
00:16:09,635 --> 00:16:10,552
you know,
390
00:16:10,636 --> 00:16:13,222
I can't really say depressing,
but just, you know.
391
00:16:13,305 --> 00:16:14,431
-It can be.
-Yeah.
392
00:16:14,515 --> 00:16:19,353
When there's things that you see every day
that remind you of sad moments,
393
00:16:19,436 --> 00:16:22,356
like, maybe some things might
remind you of your mother or your father
394
00:16:22,439 --> 00:16:24,858
and when you see that every day,
it can make you sad.
395
00:16:24,942 --> 00:16:27,236
You know, there are some times where
396
00:16:27,319 --> 00:16:29,029
you do need to change your stuff.
397
00:16:29,446 --> 00:16:30,864
Because it just...
398
00:16:30,948 --> 00:16:32,866
-It's a restart.
-Mm-hmm.
399
00:16:33,409 --> 00:16:35,703
I have a lot to think about
when it comes to Kenny's design.
400
00:16:35,786 --> 00:16:37,162
It needs to be a bachelor pad,
401
00:16:37,246 --> 00:16:39,540
but I also want it to function for him
and his family.
402
00:16:39,623 --> 00:16:42,501
How will it make you feel if your nieces
and nephews would be like,
403
00:16:42,584 --> 00:16:44,420
"Hey, Uncle Kenny, we're coming by,
404
00:16:44,503 --> 00:16:46,630
just to come over and, like,
watch a game with you"?
405
00:16:46,714 --> 00:16:48,465
-What's that gonna mean?
-I love 'em so much,
406
00:16:48,549 --> 00:16:51,176
I'd give 'em the keys to the house
so they'd come anytime they want.
407
00:16:57,433 --> 00:17:00,144
No, Kenny, I'm one of those people
that parks terribly.
408
00:17:00,477 --> 00:17:02,521
-Look how bad my parking is.
409
00:17:02,604 --> 00:17:04,398
Do you usually go to malls to shop?
410
00:17:04,982 --> 00:17:07,735
No. I actually don't go anywhere,
if you wanna know the truth.
411
00:17:07,818 --> 00:17:09,862
I need to get out
and do more things, I guess.
412
00:17:09,945 --> 00:17:10,946
Yeah, you do,
413
00:17:11,030 --> 00:17:12,823
-and we're starting right here.
-Yeah, okay.
414
00:17:12,906 --> 00:17:14,575
-After you.
-That sounds good. Thank you.
415
00:17:16,702 --> 00:17:19,038
- Isn't this store beautiful?
-It really is nice.
416
00:17:19,163 --> 00:17:20,372
It's so nice, huh?
417
00:17:21,540 --> 00:17:24,585
This is just overwhelming
to see all the selections and--
418
00:17:25,169 --> 00:17:28,172
If you're here on your own,
they have employees that can
419
00:17:28,255 --> 00:17:30,507
help take you around
and give you suggestions,
420
00:17:30,591 --> 00:17:32,593
but also, like, all of your nieces
421
00:17:32,843 --> 00:17:35,137
who desperately want to hang out?
422
00:17:35,220 --> 00:17:37,014
Say, "Take me shopping one day.
423
00:17:37,097 --> 00:17:38,974
Let-- Be that-- Be my eyes."
424
00:17:39,058 --> 00:17:40,768
Never thought of that. That's a good idea.
425
00:17:41,685 --> 00:17:44,730
The majority of your clothes
are sports clothes.
426
00:17:44,813 --> 00:17:47,232
And, if I can speak frankly...
427
00:17:47,316 --> 00:17:49,151
-Sure, you bet.
- It's--
428
00:17:49,234 --> 00:17:50,986
It's a much younger look.
429
00:17:51,070 --> 00:17:52,696
It's a college student look.
430
00:17:52,780 --> 00:17:53,614
Okay.
431
00:17:53,697 --> 00:17:56,700
But you are still wearing clothes
that are quite large for you.
432
00:17:56,784 --> 00:17:58,702
So, right now, your shoulder's down here,
433
00:17:58,786 --> 00:18:00,329
your actual shoulder is up there.
434
00:18:00,412 --> 00:18:01,663
I'm gonna get you a suit
435
00:18:01,747 --> 00:18:03,499
-that actually fits correctly.
-Okay.
436
00:18:03,582 --> 00:18:04,666
Just tightening that suit up
437
00:18:04,750 --> 00:18:08,003
and making sure it fits on your shoulder
is gonna make all the difference.
438
00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:10,756
It's gonna make you feel
a lot more... refined.
439
00:18:10,839 --> 00:18:13,050
- You ready to try some clothes on?
-Oh, I'm ready.
440
00:18:13,133 --> 00:18:15,636
Right now, his clothes
are doing his body no favors.
441
00:18:15,719 --> 00:18:17,971
The suit that Kenny has is massive.
442
00:18:18,055 --> 00:18:19,765
-Kenny, how are we doing?
- Very good.
443
00:18:19,848 --> 00:18:21,141
Are you decent?
444
00:18:21,225 --> 00:18:22,935
I want to get him the most
beautiful suit.
445
00:18:23,018 --> 00:18:26,105
Something dark, something classic,
something he can wear to any occasion.
446
00:18:26,688 --> 00:18:28,857
Ooh, very sharp.
447
00:18:28,941 --> 00:18:31,026
-Okay, come out for me.
-All right. Okay.
448
00:18:31,110 --> 00:18:34,071
-And I'm gonna just stop you here.
-All right.
449
00:18:34,488 --> 00:18:36,615
And you're gonna take a look
in the mirror.
450
00:18:36,698 --> 00:18:37,866
That's me?
451
00:18:37,950 --> 00:18:39,159
-Who's that sharp man?
-Wow.
452
00:18:41,036 --> 00:18:42,287
I love the color.
453
00:18:43,163 --> 00:18:44,414
Oh, my God.
454
00:18:46,166 --> 00:18:47,292
Oh, this is great.
455
00:18:48,127 --> 00:18:48,961
Wow.
456
00:18:49,044 --> 00:18:51,088
Yep. The shoulders are right,
feel a lot better.
457
00:18:51,171 --> 00:18:53,715
-Do you see what a difference that makes?
-I see exactly what you mean.
458
00:18:53,799 --> 00:18:56,343
-I see exactly what you're talking about.
-Yeah.
459
00:18:56,969 --> 00:18:58,011
A hundred percent better.
460
00:18:58,095 --> 00:19:00,264
Kind of feel like
I need a woman's opinion.
461
00:19:00,347 --> 00:19:02,432
Is there anybody that might be able
to help with this?
462
00:19:03,058 --> 00:19:04,143
Oh, hi!
463
00:19:04,351 --> 00:19:06,019
Oh, my God!
464
00:19:08,939 --> 00:19:10,941
-You look amazing!
-Look at you!
465
00:19:11,024 --> 00:19:13,402
-You look so good!
466
00:19:13,485 --> 00:19:16,196
-Aw!
- I love seeing you like this!
467
00:19:16,613 --> 00:19:20,284
Kenny's been kind of closed-off
with his emotions up until this point,
468
00:19:20,367 --> 00:19:24,163
so to see Kenny get choked up
when he sees his nieces,
469
00:19:24,246 --> 00:19:27,124
and see their reaction when they see him,
470
00:19:27,207 --> 00:19:28,083
is beautiful.
471
00:19:28,167 --> 00:19:29,293
Oh, my gosh.
472
00:19:29,376 --> 00:19:32,796
It's such a blessing to see all you.
Such a pleasure, I can't believe.
473
00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:36,383
Once every six months,
just bring him shopping with you, please.
474
00:19:36,466 --> 00:19:38,343
-Yes.
-Oh, we would love that.
475
00:19:38,427 --> 00:19:41,555
You're gonna keep him in check, right?
He's not gonna go back to College Kenny.
476
00:19:41,638 --> 00:19:43,432
-'Cause it was College Kenny.
477
00:19:44,016 --> 00:19:46,018
It was definitely College Kenny.
478
00:19:46,268 --> 00:19:48,604
I've never seen you
look so sharp.
479
00:19:48,687 --> 00:19:51,690
You are gonna see him look this sharp,
but whenever you see him in the future!
480
00:19:51,773 --> 00:19:53,233
-Yeah!
-Yes!
481
00:20:07,831 --> 00:20:09,333
Sit on down, my friend.
482
00:20:10,542 --> 00:20:12,169
So, have you ever been to this area?
483
00:20:12,252 --> 00:20:13,587
-Never.
-Never?
484
00:20:13,670 --> 00:20:14,796
So I guess I just...
485
00:20:15,422 --> 00:20:18,050
never... really went out of my area
486
00:20:18,133 --> 00:20:19,885
because I never had no reason to be there.
487
00:20:20,469 --> 00:20:23,347
I'm taking Kenny to a bar
where he could be catered to,
488
00:20:23,430 --> 00:20:26,475
and we can have a real conversation
about why he's been isolating himself.
489
00:20:27,142 --> 00:20:29,853
So, every time you go behind the bar,
490
00:20:30,187 --> 00:20:33,190
that's your way of saying,
"Oh, I belong here,
491
00:20:33,273 --> 00:20:34,691
you all belong there,
492
00:20:34,775 --> 00:20:36,944
so I'm isolating myself from you all."
493
00:20:37,569 --> 00:20:40,447
And then you would leave the bar
and you would go home,
494
00:20:41,323 --> 00:20:42,866
and you would isolate yourself there.
495
00:20:43,867 --> 00:20:44,743
Yeah.
496
00:20:45,327 --> 00:20:46,245
Yeah.
497
00:20:47,329 --> 00:20:48,830
I think somewhere along the line,
498
00:20:49,248 --> 00:20:51,458
you forgot that people want you around.
499
00:20:51,875 --> 00:20:54,336
If you started to just serve people
500
00:20:54,419 --> 00:20:57,297
so that you could be around,
but you're actually not around them.
501
00:20:57,923 --> 00:21:00,008
-Would you agree to that?
-Yeah, I agree a 100 percent.
502
00:21:00,092 --> 00:21:02,177
I think you hit it--
hit it right on the head.
503
00:21:02,678 --> 00:21:05,264
It's always been in my heart
to see other people have a good time.
504
00:21:05,347 --> 00:21:07,724
When's the last time you remember
yourself having a good time?
505
00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:08,850
Oh...
506
00:21:09,226 --> 00:21:11,144
Walls aren't built overnight.
507
00:21:11,228 --> 00:21:14,356
People don't start isolating themselves
just one day.
508
00:21:16,024 --> 00:21:17,150
Probably couldn't tell you.
509
00:21:17,651 --> 00:21:18,944
That's not a healthy way to live.
510
00:21:20,237 --> 00:21:24,741
It's a gradual process where you feel
less and less accepted by the world.
511
00:21:25,742 --> 00:21:29,371
Do you, in your mind, feel like
your sisters and brothers have
512
00:21:29,955 --> 00:21:31,415
what you're supposed to have?
513
00:21:31,498 --> 00:21:33,375
Do you feel like they've achieved more?
514
00:21:33,458 --> 00:21:35,210
Oh, yes, by all means.
515
00:21:35,294 --> 00:21:36,545
-Yes.
-Okay.
516
00:21:36,628 --> 00:21:37,713
They...
517
00:21:38,046 --> 00:21:38,922
kind of...
518
00:21:39,423 --> 00:21:42,009
went off with their lives
and then just took off.
519
00:21:42,551 --> 00:21:45,387
You know?
And I just stayed at one pattern.
520
00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:47,806
-All my life.
-Yeah.
521
00:21:47,889 --> 00:21:49,683
And I guess I've just been stuck.
522
00:21:50,142 --> 00:21:52,686
It's never really bothered me,
we've always loved each other,
523
00:21:52,769 --> 00:21:54,521
-we still do to this day.
-Of course.
524
00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:57,190
I just always compared myself and...
525
00:21:57,441 --> 00:21:59,943
and think back, "Well, I-- I'm a failure."
526
00:22:03,155 --> 00:22:04,239
You know, I look at...
527
00:22:04,823 --> 00:22:07,576
what other people's accomplished
and what I have, you know, and--
528
00:22:07,659 --> 00:22:09,036
So...
529
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,412
But you're not a failure.
530
00:22:12,914 --> 00:22:13,999
It's not the truth at all.
531
00:22:15,250 --> 00:22:17,085
Because if we go down the list,
532
00:22:17,919 --> 00:22:20,172
everyone we've talked to
have said how great you are,
533
00:22:20,714 --> 00:22:23,800
you're stable, you're loving,
you took care of your parents.
534
00:22:24,551 --> 00:22:26,345
Don't compare yourself to them anymore.
535
00:22:26,845 --> 00:22:28,138
You are not a failure.
536
00:22:29,389 --> 00:22:30,557
You're not a failure.
537
00:22:31,808 --> 00:22:33,185
I could just cry right now.
538
00:22:34,144 --> 00:22:35,395
-Yeah.
539
00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:46,865
You hit it right on the head.
540
00:22:46,948 --> 00:22:48,200
That's been the problem.
541
00:22:49,159 --> 00:22:50,369
It really has.
542
00:22:51,536 --> 00:22:53,080
So, I'm sorry about that.
543
00:22:53,163 --> 00:22:55,123
No, do not feel sorry.
You know what I mean?
544
00:22:55,207 --> 00:22:57,000
Like, come on, give me a hug, man.
545
00:22:57,084 --> 00:22:58,251
All right.
546
00:23:01,046 --> 00:23:02,422
All right.
547
00:23:02,506 --> 00:23:03,673
-Thank you.
-Yeah.
548
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,470
Oh, what do we got here?
549
00:23:08,553 --> 00:23:10,889
- That's the squid ink radiatore.
-Oh.
550
00:23:11,431 --> 00:23:13,183
Have you tried,
um, this black squid?
551
00:23:13,266 --> 00:23:14,267
Never had it.
552
00:23:15,894 --> 00:23:17,854
-Tried a lot of new things today.
-Yeah.
553
00:23:18,397 --> 00:23:19,898
Don't worry, I'm serving you.
554
00:23:19,981 --> 00:23:22,526
-Okay? This is-- This the new leaf.
555
00:23:22,776 --> 00:23:23,610
This is it.
556
00:23:23,693 --> 00:23:24,820
This is it.
557
00:23:28,740 --> 00:23:30,367
You deserve to get served.
558
00:23:32,244 --> 00:23:34,121
- Hello, gentlemen.
-Hey!
559
00:23:34,204 --> 00:23:35,038
How's it going?
560
00:23:35,122 --> 00:23:36,790
-How are you?
-What are you guys up to here?
561
00:23:36,873 --> 00:23:39,292
-Eatin' and chattin'.
-Tell me about what you guys had.
562
00:23:39,376 --> 00:23:41,753
-We had the tomatoes and the squid.
- Did you like it?
563
00:23:41,837 --> 00:23:44,423
- I loved every minute.
-Have you ever had a radiatore
564
00:23:44,506 --> 00:23:46,299
with a squid ink type pasta before?
565
00:23:46,383 --> 00:23:48,760
- It's Mediterranean, right?
-It's very Mediterranean.
566
00:23:48,844 --> 00:23:51,972
Actually, it's one
of the official dishes of Croatia.
567
00:23:52,055 --> 00:23:54,141
-It is?
-Yeah, squid ink risotto.
568
00:23:54,474 --> 00:23:56,518
Leave it to a Polish guy
to tell me this stuff.
569
00:23:56,935 --> 00:23:59,020
We're going to the kitchen,
we've got work to do.
570
00:23:59,104 --> 00:24:01,398
-I'm gonna leave you all alone.
-Okay, brother.
571
00:24:02,482 --> 00:24:04,943
First things first.
Towel, over the shoulder.
572
00:24:05,026 --> 00:24:07,028
So when your hands gets messy
you can wipe it down.
573
00:24:07,904 --> 00:24:09,531
- Ever made risotto before?
-Never.
574
00:24:09,614 --> 00:24:12,325
You've made cabbage rolls,
you've made other type of, like,
575
00:24:12,409 --> 00:24:14,411
-more traditional Croatian dishes.
-Never this.
576
00:24:14,494 --> 00:24:16,413
-Do you know what a risotto is?
-No.
577
00:24:16,496 --> 00:24:18,290
-You've never even heard of it before?
-Never.
578
00:24:18,373 --> 00:24:19,624
-That's amazing.
-That's bad.
579
00:24:19,708 --> 00:24:21,209
-Well, no, it's not bad.
580
00:24:21,293 --> 00:24:23,128
-We're making a rice stew.
-Oh.
581
00:24:23,211 --> 00:24:26,214
What I love about it is that
it's something that you can cook
582
00:24:26,298 --> 00:24:28,592
very simply for one to two people,
583
00:24:28,675 --> 00:24:30,302
or you can cook it for a group.
584
00:24:30,385 --> 00:24:33,763
It just requires a bit of patience and
a couple of, like, tricks along the way.
585
00:24:33,847 --> 00:24:34,890
-Thank you.
-All right.
586
00:24:34,973 --> 00:24:37,434
We're gonna finely chop
half an onion, please.
587
00:24:37,517 --> 00:24:38,852
Perfect little cubes.
588
00:24:39,811 --> 00:24:42,772
And we're starting it with our onion,
we're coating it in some fat.
589
00:24:42,856 --> 00:24:44,816
Here comes my favorite, the garlic.
I love garlic.
590
00:24:44,900 --> 00:24:46,568
-You love garlic?
-I love garlic.
591
00:24:46,651 --> 00:24:48,570
Garlic's one of
my favorite things ever.
592
00:24:50,447 --> 00:24:51,490
Now I'm going to ask you
593
00:24:51,990 --> 00:24:54,659
-to grab the squid, or calamari.
-Uh-huh.
594
00:24:54,743 --> 00:24:56,369
And you're gonna plop those in.
595
00:24:56,453 --> 00:24:58,747
We wanna take our time with this
over a low heat.
596
00:24:58,830 --> 00:25:00,207
-A bit of white wine.
-Yes.
597
00:25:01,208 --> 00:25:03,668
That should be enough.
Season it with a little bit of salt.
598
00:25:04,169 --> 00:25:06,880
And now, squid ink.
You can buy it in a jar.
599
00:25:06,963 --> 00:25:08,965
A little bit goes a very long way.
600
00:25:09,549 --> 00:25:10,425
Lovely.
601
00:25:11,510 --> 00:25:12,719
Oh, wow. Smell that.
602
00:25:12,802 --> 00:25:15,222
You can smell the alcohol's burning
out of the white wine already,
603
00:25:15,305 --> 00:25:17,724
-you get some of those fruity notes.
-Oh, God!
604
00:25:17,807 --> 00:25:20,685
-Can you feel your Croatian ancestors?
-I can feel it right away.
605
00:25:20,769 --> 00:25:21,728
-Right away.
-Yeah.
606
00:25:21,811 --> 00:25:24,940
And now we're gonna do a very traditional
simple risotto.
607
00:25:25,023 --> 00:25:26,733
And we're gonna put some butter.
608
00:25:27,317 --> 00:25:29,110
This is about two tablespoons.
609
00:25:29,194 --> 00:25:30,737
Once the butter's fully melted,
610
00:25:30,820 --> 00:25:32,572
we're gonna put our onions in.
611
00:25:32,656 --> 00:25:34,074
We're ready to add our rice.
612
00:25:34,157 --> 00:25:36,618
It's a very short grain of rice.
613
00:25:36,701 --> 00:25:39,412
I put the rice grains in here,
and we're toasting it.
614
00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:41,998
The trick with risotto
is that you have to monitor it,
615
00:25:42,123 --> 00:25:45,126
but start to finish, it takes
about 20 minutes and it's done.
616
00:25:45,210 --> 00:25:46,503
-Oh, really?
-So.
617
00:25:46,586 --> 00:25:49,047
It takes a little longer than microwaving
a sandwich,
618
00:25:49,130 --> 00:25:51,967
which I'm still not over you putting
lettuce in the microwave,
619
00:25:52,050 --> 00:25:53,510
but it's okay, I'm not here to judge.
620
00:25:54,427 --> 00:25:55,929
We're using some fish stock.
621
00:25:56,012 --> 00:25:58,682
And when you're slowly adding the stock,
it's gotta be hot.
622
00:25:58,765 --> 00:26:01,142
See how the rice grains
are already plumping up?
623
00:26:01,226 --> 00:26:02,894
-Oh, yeah.
-They're getting all nice and juicy.
624
00:26:02,978 --> 00:26:05,105
Now we're gonna switch
and I wanna see you do this part.
625
00:26:05,188 --> 00:26:06,022
All right.
626
00:26:06,106 --> 00:26:06,940
-Cool?
-Cool.
627
00:26:07,023 --> 00:26:08,650
I've never met anybody
628
00:26:08,733 --> 00:26:12,362
who displays such an air of innocence
as Kenny does,
629
00:26:12,445 --> 00:26:13,947
and this guy's 64.
630
00:26:14,322 --> 00:26:15,490
-Whoa.
-Still crunchy.
631
00:26:15,574 --> 00:26:17,033
-Yes.
-We're not quite there yet,
632
00:26:17,117 --> 00:26:18,577
but we know what we don't want.
633
00:26:18,660 --> 00:26:20,954
He's so just kind of open
to learning anything.
634
00:26:21,496 --> 00:26:23,081
Beautiful.
635
00:26:23,164 --> 00:26:25,792
And now the final little piece, bottarga.
636
00:26:26,209 --> 00:26:27,335
It's the fish eggs,
637
00:26:27,419 --> 00:26:30,130
and they add a nice little
salty kick to it.
638
00:26:31,298 --> 00:26:32,966
-All right.
-All right.
639
00:26:33,049 --> 00:26:34,050
So grab a little bite,
640
00:26:34,134 --> 00:26:36,636
and I encourage you to grab
a little piece of calamari if you can.
641
00:26:38,597 --> 00:26:39,431
Awesome.
642
00:26:40,056 --> 00:26:41,266
-Do you like it?
-I love it.
643
00:26:41,808 --> 00:26:44,769
-It's not the simplest thing in the world.
-Yeah, but it's not that hard to learn.
644
00:26:44,853 --> 00:26:47,606
I feel like all of it made a lot of sense
to you when I was explaining it.
645
00:26:47,689 --> 00:26:48,773
-Right?
-Exactly. Yes.
646
00:26:55,780 --> 00:26:57,782
- Come on in.
- Alright. Thank you.
647
00:26:57,866 --> 00:26:59,784
Ever had a man in heels
get the door for you?
648
00:26:59,868 --> 00:27:01,828
- First time ever.
-Welcome to The Gent's Place.
649
00:27:01,911 --> 00:27:02,912
Well, thank you.
650
00:27:02,996 --> 00:27:05,457
-You know, it's a-- a place for gents.
-Okay.
651
00:27:05,540 --> 00:27:07,375
Kenny's just kind of, like,
asleep at the wheel.
652
00:27:08,001 --> 00:27:09,586
Haircut time for us.
653
00:27:09,711 --> 00:27:13,340
He has literally been doing
the same thing to his face and hair
654
00:27:13,423 --> 00:27:17,052
since the '70s, but he doesn't look
exactly the same as he has since the '70s.
655
00:27:17,135 --> 00:27:20,680
I kind of like what you have going on
for your shape through here,
656
00:27:20,764 --> 00:27:22,390
but I feel like it's a little back-heavy
657
00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:23,850
-and a bit long on the sides.
-Okay.
658
00:27:24,559 --> 00:27:26,227
And then also, um...
659
00:27:26,770 --> 00:27:28,521
we're definitely gonna shave
your mustache.
660
00:27:28,605 --> 00:27:30,440
It's G2G, which is...
661
00:27:30,523 --> 00:27:32,567
-"Got to go." Got to go.
-Got to go.
662
00:27:32,651 --> 00:27:35,528
It's distracting me from what a handsome,
classic-looking man you are.
663
00:27:35,612 --> 00:27:37,822
- Okay.
-It's a classic Croatian beauty.
664
00:27:37,906 --> 00:27:39,032
Gotta go.
665
00:27:40,784 --> 00:27:43,161
Ah! Best decision we ever made.
666
00:27:43,244 --> 00:27:44,245
-Really?
-Oh, my God.
667
00:27:44,329 --> 00:27:45,205
-Cool.
-Yes.
668
00:28:06,309 --> 00:28:07,602
Does this remote work?
669
00:28:09,396 --> 00:28:11,189
- That one won't work for the TV.
-Oh.
670
00:28:19,114 --> 00:28:21,658
Kenny, you've been asleep
for, like, 11 hours.
671
00:28:21,741 --> 00:28:22,617
Wake up.
672
00:28:27,789 --> 00:28:29,541
What are you smiling about?
673
00:28:30,667 --> 00:28:33,420
-Tell me, what you thinking about?
-I think it looks great.
674
00:28:33,503 --> 00:28:35,338
-And you're not even done.
-I'm not.
675
00:28:36,047 --> 00:28:38,341
You know, as we grow
and we mature and we age,
676
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,177
you know,our faces change
and our hair texture changes,
677
00:28:41,261 --> 00:28:43,722
and in order for us to stay looking
as gorgeous as we can,
678
00:28:43,805 --> 00:28:47,350
we gotta be like a gorgeous river,
honey, and, like, flow with those changes.
679
00:28:50,478 --> 00:28:51,980
Yes, sir!
680
00:28:53,022 --> 00:28:54,232
-You look gorgeous.
-Wow.
681
00:28:54,315 --> 00:28:55,233
You look so...
682
00:28:55,650 --> 00:28:56,901
much better!
683
00:28:56,985 --> 00:28:59,195
You're right, that mustache was hiding
half the face.
684
00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:00,155
Horrifically!
685
00:29:00,655 --> 00:29:03,199
-You were right.
-I mean, it was a full-on assault
686
00:29:03,283 --> 00:29:04,117
on your face.
687
00:29:05,952 --> 00:29:09,456
♪ Got a one-way ticketOn a southbound bus ♪
688
00:29:09,539 --> 00:29:11,791
♪ Ain't no need for us to discuss ♪
689
00:29:11,875 --> 00:29:15,086
♪ They say the best laid plansOf mice and men ♪
690
00:29:15,170 --> 00:29:17,714
♪ You know they all been goin' awryAgain and again... ♪
691
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:22,969
Okay, so, I don't know if you've noticed
where we... are.
692
00:29:23,052 --> 00:29:24,637
Oh, my God.
693
00:29:25,430 --> 00:29:27,390
-Oh, this is cool.
-Right?
694
00:29:27,474 --> 00:29:29,225
Oh, look at this.
695
00:29:29,809 --> 00:29:32,061
- Hello!
-Hi, how are you?
696
00:29:32,145 --> 00:29:33,062
Hi!
697
00:29:33,229 --> 00:29:35,815
I, too, understand what it is
to lose a baby puppers,
698
00:29:35,899 --> 00:29:36,941
so do you.
699
00:29:37,108 --> 00:29:40,320
We really wanted to help
Kenny Ken adopt a puppers.
700
00:29:42,030 --> 00:29:43,990
This is where I got
my kittens from.
701
00:29:44,073 --> 00:29:46,785
-We were here a week ago.
-She literally helped me adopt my babies.
702
00:29:46,868 --> 00:29:48,953
-There you go.
-And so we wanted to bring you here
703
00:29:49,037 --> 00:29:50,538
and see if you, pray, fell in love.
704
00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:52,916
-Let's just take a walk.
-Okay. Let's do it.
705
00:29:52,999 --> 00:29:54,626
-We're gonna be open-minded.
-All right.
706
00:29:55,043 --> 00:29:56,377
Couple little bulldogs.
707
00:29:56,461 --> 00:29:57,962
Oh, boy, we love you.
708
00:29:58,046 --> 00:30:00,548
I know. And then we're gonna keep
going back over here.
709
00:30:00,632 --> 00:30:03,343
-So, Duchess is preciousness.
-Oh, my gosh.
710
00:30:03,426 --> 00:30:06,679
- Oh, my gosh.
- This little angel of love.
711
00:30:06,805 --> 00:30:09,307
This guy is all things preciousness
and he's like a houndish,
712
00:30:09,390 --> 00:30:10,683
but he's real cute.
713
00:30:10,767 --> 00:30:12,602
These guys are actually siblings.
714
00:30:12,685 --> 00:30:14,604
They're kinda mixed-breeds,
so we don't know
715
00:30:14,687 --> 00:30:17,023
exactly what they'll look like
when they grow up.
716
00:30:17,106 --> 00:30:20,193
It's kinda like a surprise, you don't
really know what they're gonna look like.
717
00:30:20,276 --> 00:30:21,569
It's like an adventure.
718
00:30:21,694 --> 00:30:23,571
- Here, bud. Hey.
719
00:30:23,655 --> 00:30:26,074
Margaret's a little shepherd mix
and she's about nine.
720
00:30:26,199 --> 00:30:28,076
And then Kramer is about three.
721
00:30:28,159 --> 00:30:29,452
They good with other people and--
722
00:30:29,536 --> 00:30:31,204
He's been really friendly
with people here.
723
00:30:31,287 --> 00:30:32,747
Sometimes he's a little bit shy.
724
00:30:32,831 --> 00:30:35,416
And this is what you have,
this is pretty much the selection?
725
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:37,377
- This is it here, yep.
726
00:30:37,836 --> 00:30:40,088
I think Akio over there, he's handsome.
727
00:30:40,171 --> 00:30:42,173
Oh, my God!
728
00:30:42,632 --> 00:30:43,550
And then...
729
00:30:44,384 --> 00:30:45,343
we land...
730
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:46,761
on Akio.
731
00:30:46,845 --> 00:30:48,888
-Akio.
- He's very cute.
732
00:30:48,972 --> 00:30:52,308
- Aw!
- I know. Akio is my favorite, sir.
733
00:30:52,392 --> 00:30:55,144
He's a little chow mix
and he has a gorgeous purple tongue.
734
00:30:55,228 --> 00:30:58,106
He came in as a stray,
and he was, like, skin and bones,
735
00:30:58,189 --> 00:31:00,316
and he had practically no hair.
736
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,444
And so now, he's getting a lot better
and he's on some antibiotics for it.
737
00:31:03,528 --> 00:31:05,822
And he's been really social
with the other dogs, too.
738
00:31:06,531 --> 00:31:09,409
He reminds me a lot of my last dog.
I had a yellow lab.
739
00:31:09,492 --> 00:31:10,785
-Oh, my God!
-Looks just like--
740
00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:12,495
I grew up
with yellow labs, too.
741
00:31:12,579 --> 00:31:13,997
- Really?
-Her name was Jenny.
742
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:15,248
Wanna go for a walk?
743
00:31:15,331 --> 00:31:17,250
Do you guys wanna head out front
and I'll meet you out there?
744
00:31:17,333 --> 00:31:18,251
-Yeah.
-Okay.
745
00:31:20,169 --> 00:31:21,713
I'm overwhelmed. I wanna cry.
746
00:31:22,088 --> 00:31:22,922
It's okay.
747
00:31:23,298 --> 00:31:25,425
He reminds me of my last dog.
748
00:31:25,508 --> 00:31:27,343
God. I liked that dog.
749
00:31:27,635 --> 00:31:29,888
- I can tell.
-Yeah. Yeah.
750
00:31:31,973 --> 00:31:33,099
Yeah.
751
00:31:33,182 --> 00:31:36,352
Kenny's a man who really
wants to feel needed and feel loved.
752
00:31:36,436 --> 00:31:38,146
I noticed you really watching every dog
753
00:31:38,229 --> 00:31:41,316
and trying to have that eye contact
and, like, that interaction.
754
00:31:41,399 --> 00:31:43,401
Yeah, he's the first one who just hit me.
755
00:31:43,484 --> 00:31:46,529
I think he makes up for that
by running the social club.
756
00:31:46,613 --> 00:31:48,823
-Hi!
-Because he gets to take care of people.
757
00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:51,576
But I think it's taken a toll
on other facets of his life.
758
00:31:51,659 --> 00:31:53,286
How you doing? Wanna go for a walk?
759
00:31:53,369 --> 00:31:55,455
Kenny needs a dog.
760
00:31:55,538 --> 00:31:57,999
And a dog needs a man like Kenny.
761
00:31:58,082 --> 00:32:00,293
He's just got a really good energy to him,
762
00:32:00,376 --> 00:32:02,462
-he's very calm, he likes other dogs.
-What do you think?
763
00:32:02,545 --> 00:32:05,214
- He's so cute.
- He's really nice and social.
764
00:32:06,341 --> 00:32:08,259
He reminds me of my last dog so much.
765
00:32:08,343 --> 00:32:09,886
Yeah. Don't you?
766
00:32:10,303 --> 00:32:12,180
- Should we walk with him a bit?
- Yeah!
767
00:32:12,263 --> 00:32:13,890
-Let's walk with him a little.
-Yeah.
768
00:32:13,973 --> 00:32:16,392
And apparently, we find out, that this dog
769
00:32:16,476 --> 00:32:20,396
is so good about not pooping or peeing
in her cage.
770
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,898
Everybody's gotta go!
771
00:32:21,981 --> 00:32:24,275
Oh, he's good,
he knows exactly where to go.
772
00:32:24,359 --> 00:32:25,610
It's gonna be a minute.
773
00:32:27,028 --> 00:32:29,322
- He really had to go.
- Really had to go.
774
00:32:29,405 --> 00:32:31,991
- Poor guy.
-No pee shyness for you, queen.
775
00:32:32,075 --> 00:32:34,243
It was the longest urination session
776
00:32:34,327 --> 00:32:36,454
-I have ever seen in my life.
-I have never!
777
00:32:36,537 --> 00:32:38,373
It was like an entire music video.
778
00:32:38,456 --> 00:32:41,417
He's still peeing!
It's been, like, two minutes!
779
00:32:44,420 --> 00:32:45,922
He's got quite the bladder.
780
00:32:46,631 --> 00:32:48,174
Stop going so fast.
781
00:32:48,257 --> 00:32:50,551
-Come here.
-He's nice and gentle, though.
782
00:32:50,635 --> 00:32:52,720
-I wanna pet you!
-He's attentive, he's responsive.
783
00:32:52,804 --> 00:32:54,597
You're so beautiful.
784
00:32:54,681 --> 00:32:55,974
-Look at the treats.
-Oh, boy.
785
00:32:56,057 --> 00:32:57,100
Ah!
786
00:32:58,893 --> 00:32:59,811
Hi, buddy. Hi.
787
00:32:59,894 --> 00:33:02,772
How you doing? You good?
You a good doggy? Yeah, you a good doggy.
788
00:33:02,855 --> 00:33:04,273
You gonna be my doggy?
789
00:33:04,857 --> 00:33:06,567
-You gonna be my doggy?
- Yeah!
790
00:33:07,235 --> 00:33:08,820
-Yeah! Yes!
- We gonna go home?
791
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,947
- Have you decided?
- Yeah!
792
00:33:11,030 --> 00:33:13,032
-That was easy.
-That was really easy.
793
00:33:13,116 --> 00:33:14,242
Can we be buddies?
794
00:33:14,659 --> 00:33:15,660
You gonna come home?
795
00:33:15,743 --> 00:33:16,661
Yeah.
796
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,288
I'll take care of you
and I'll feed you good. How's that?
797
00:33:19,372 --> 00:33:21,541
-Ah! Okay!
-I'll take care of you.
798
00:33:21,916 --> 00:33:23,960
- I'm coming, too!
-Take you for walks every night.
799
00:33:25,128 --> 00:33:26,254
I'll take you.
800
00:33:26,337 --> 00:33:29,257
Come on, let's go home.
Let's tell the good news to the ladies.
801
00:33:29,340 --> 00:33:30,550
Come on!
802
00:33:36,180 --> 00:33:37,640
You're home, girl.
803
00:33:37,724 --> 00:33:40,018
These shrubs have had a Queer Eye makeover
of their own.
804
00:33:40,643 --> 00:33:41,811
We've got puppers.
805
00:33:41,894 --> 00:33:44,230
Who, officially?
What have you decided to name?
806
00:33:44,731 --> 00:33:45,732
"Fab 5."
807
00:33:47,442 --> 00:33:50,028
-I think it's the best name ever!
- Fab!
808
00:33:50,111 --> 00:33:51,362
Fab 5, ready to go?
809
00:33:51,446 --> 00:33:54,032
- You excited to see your house?
- Yes.
810
00:33:54,824 --> 00:33:56,159
We got a doggie!
811
00:33:57,910 --> 00:33:59,996
-Kenny, what's his name? Listen up, guys.
-Fab 5.
812
00:34:00,496 --> 00:34:02,457
-Fab 5?
-Yeah, that's Fab 5.
813
00:34:02,540 --> 00:34:04,000
-Oh, my God!
-Hi, sweetheart!
814
00:34:04,083 --> 00:34:06,461
Kenny, look how good you look!
Look at that haircut!
815
00:34:06,878 --> 00:34:08,421
- You ready?
- I go first?
816
00:34:08,504 --> 00:34:10,173
-You go first, my friend.
-My God.
817
00:34:10,548 --> 00:34:11,632
Oh, my God.
818
00:34:13,301 --> 00:34:14,719
Oh, my God.
819
00:34:15,845 --> 00:34:17,305
Oh, God!
820
00:34:22,727 --> 00:34:24,771
-This is my house?
-This is your house, man.
821
00:34:25,438 --> 00:34:26,689
This is beautiful.
822
00:34:28,566 --> 00:34:30,359
Oh, my God.
823
00:34:30,443 --> 00:34:31,569
I don't believe it.
824
00:34:32,820 --> 00:34:36,157
- Custom painting of Croatia.
- Oh, beautiful.
825
00:34:36,240 --> 00:34:38,910
Karamo and I took the liberty
of sending all those newspapers
826
00:34:38,993 --> 00:34:41,329
from the early 2000s to the Smithsonian.
827
00:34:41,412 --> 00:34:43,581
-Yes, we figured they worked best there.
828
00:34:43,956 --> 00:34:47,126
God, they'd be so proud
to see that.
829
00:34:48,211 --> 00:34:49,378
So many great photos of them.
830
00:34:50,046 --> 00:34:52,715
I just wish
Mom or Dad was here to see this.
831
00:34:53,341 --> 00:34:54,550
- They are.
-God.
832
00:34:54,634 --> 00:34:55,885
They're lookin' down.
833
00:35:01,015 --> 00:35:02,266
Oh, look at that.
834
00:35:03,267 --> 00:35:05,520
-Oh, my God.
835
00:35:05,603 --> 00:35:06,646
Oh!
836
00:35:07,355 --> 00:35:08,981
Now we get to do some cookin'!
837
00:35:09,065 --> 00:35:10,691
- Yeah!
838
00:35:16,823 --> 00:35:18,116
Yeah, Boobers!
839
00:35:20,701 --> 00:35:21,702
Oh, my God.
840
00:35:22,453 --> 00:35:23,538
Look at this.
841
00:35:24,163 --> 00:35:26,040
My God, this is really my bedroom.
842
00:35:26,165 --> 00:35:27,291
It's really your bedroom.
843
00:35:27,750 --> 00:35:29,168
This is really my house.
844
00:35:29,252 --> 00:35:31,003
-Yeah. Keep saying it.
-I can't believe it.
845
00:35:31,087 --> 00:35:33,089
We are not playing a trick on you, boo.
846
00:35:33,673 --> 00:35:34,966
God, this is beautiful.
847
00:35:36,300 --> 00:35:37,927
No wonder they call you the Fab 5.
848
00:35:38,010 --> 00:35:39,595
-And we're not even done yet.
849
00:35:39,679 --> 00:35:42,348
-We've still got more to show you today.
- Yeah.
850
00:35:43,724 --> 00:35:45,852
- Take off your glasses for me.
-All right.
851
00:35:46,727 --> 00:35:48,437
Now, this is an eye cream
which I love.
852
00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:49,856
So, you're gonna take it,
853
00:35:49,939 --> 00:35:51,357
and it's gentle touchy.
854
00:35:52,441 --> 00:35:54,402
You're gonna put this right over top.
855
00:35:54,485 --> 00:35:55,528
-Like that.
-All right.
856
00:35:56,529 --> 00:35:58,990
Just like this. And then you just
let that sit for, like, ten.
857
00:35:59,073 --> 00:35:59,907
Okay.
858
00:35:59,991 --> 00:36:03,161
And then, while you let that sit,
you can kind of re-zhuzh your hair.
859
00:36:04,996 --> 00:36:05,830
Mousse.
860
00:36:06,539 --> 00:36:08,666
Kenny's new look is clean, it's polished,
861
00:36:08,749 --> 00:36:11,377
it's still him, he's still got a cute
little bit of a quirk,
862
00:36:11,460 --> 00:36:13,254
he's still got a little bit
of a personality.
863
00:36:13,337 --> 00:36:15,089
-This is called Toppiks powder.
-Okay.
864
00:36:17,592 --> 00:36:18,759
Look at how incredible.
865
00:36:18,843 --> 00:36:19,719
Oh, my God.
866
00:36:19,802 --> 00:36:22,013
It's just a slightly more refined
and polished Kenny.
867
00:36:22,555 --> 00:36:25,224
Holy Night Nurse, that makes
your hair look so much thicker.
868
00:36:26,225 --> 00:36:28,436
-Look at how hot you look.
- Oh, my God.
869
00:36:28,519 --> 00:36:30,855
Now that I made you into Tan's twin.
870
00:36:30,938 --> 00:36:33,774
You're having, like, a full-on
housewarming party tonight,
871
00:36:33,858 --> 00:36:35,276
and you're gonna be entertaining them.
872
00:36:35,359 --> 00:36:36,944
-How do you feel about that?
-I feel great.
873
00:36:37,028 --> 00:36:38,237
-Good.
-I can barely wait.
874
00:36:38,321 --> 00:36:40,990
I really would love you to recreate
what we did at the restaurant.
875
00:36:41,073 --> 00:36:42,742
Everyone can just have a little taste.
876
00:36:42,825 --> 00:36:44,452
-Okay.
-But I think it's super-important
877
00:36:44,535 --> 00:36:46,579
for everyone to have something
to munch on
878
00:36:46,662 --> 00:36:47,872
-right as they come in.
-Okay.
879
00:36:47,955 --> 00:36:50,249
So, I wanted to make you
a really nice, little authentic
880
00:36:50,333 --> 00:36:51,918
Eastern European spread to start, okay?
881
00:36:52,001 --> 00:36:53,753
- Wow. Povitica.
- Povitica!
882
00:36:53,836 --> 00:36:56,297
It's like a nice, little sweet
dessert bread that you can have,
883
00:36:56,380 --> 00:36:57,465
but it actually pairs well
884
00:36:57,548 --> 00:36:59,383
with a lot of the salty things
that we have going on.
885
00:36:59,467 --> 00:37:01,219
- Oh, okay.
-Smoked kielbasa,
886
00:37:01,636 --> 00:37:03,471
-headcheese...
-Oh, that is headcheese.
887
00:37:03,554 --> 00:37:04,597
Yeah.
888
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,349
But anybody of Eastern European descent,
889
00:37:06,432 --> 00:37:09,518
like, if you've been to Grandma's house,
you know exactly what headcheese is.
890
00:37:09,602 --> 00:37:11,938
-Oh, sure.
-You have plenty more of all of this that
891
00:37:12,021 --> 00:37:13,814
you can prepare for your guests
ahead of time
892
00:37:13,898 --> 00:37:15,524
-so they have something to munch on.
-Okay.
893
00:37:15,608 --> 00:37:18,236
-In your new Croatian-American home.
-Wow.
894
00:37:18,778 --> 00:37:20,696
- Can I take your glasses off?
-Sure.
895
00:37:20,863 --> 00:37:22,490
Now, your glasses are fine.
896
00:37:22,573 --> 00:37:23,574
However,
897
00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:27,078
-I want a--a hipper version of those.
- Sure. Oh, I like it.
898
00:37:27,745 --> 00:37:29,330
-They're nice, right?
-Oh, I like it.
899
00:37:29,413 --> 00:37:30,498
I can see better...
900
00:37:30,581 --> 00:37:32,375
-Oh, my God.
901
00:37:32,458 --> 00:37:33,584
I love it.
902
00:37:33,668 --> 00:37:34,961
-Yeah?
-Oh, it's great.
903
00:37:36,045 --> 00:37:36,879
Oh...
904
00:37:37,255 --> 00:37:38,506
that's really me, right?
905
00:37:38,589 --> 00:37:40,341
They look great on you.
906
00:37:40,424 --> 00:37:41,384
Footwear.
907
00:37:41,467 --> 00:37:42,885
I got you some sneakers
908
00:37:42,969 --> 00:37:45,763
that you can wear with a pair of jeans,
you can wear with your pants.
909
00:37:45,846 --> 00:37:47,265
They're just a little more sleek.
910
00:37:47,348 --> 00:37:50,184
I got you shirts that I know
are gonna look great on you.
911
00:37:50,768 --> 00:37:53,354
I wanted to get you some layering items.
912
00:37:53,437 --> 00:37:54,647
I love them.
913
00:37:54,730 --> 00:37:56,649
- Yeah? Do you like those?
- Oh, yes.
914
00:37:56,732 --> 00:37:58,734
And then, the suit.
915
00:37:58,818 --> 00:38:00,653
The suit, I had altered.
916
00:38:00,736 --> 00:38:03,698
They tailored it
so now it fits you beautifully.
917
00:38:03,781 --> 00:38:06,117
It's the easiest closet for you
to get dressed every morning,
918
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,160
you pull a pair of pants,
you pull any top,
919
00:38:08,244 --> 00:38:11,122
and you're gonna look like you've
really thought about what you're wearing.
920
00:38:11,205 --> 00:38:12,123
You're right.
921
00:38:12,206 --> 00:38:15,418
Kenny, won't you come
and show yourself to these boys?
922
00:38:15,501 --> 00:38:17,461
Kenny! Kenny!
923
00:38:21,340 --> 00:38:23,551
- Look at that!
-I know!
924
00:38:23,634 --> 00:38:24,510
You look great!
925
00:38:24,593 --> 00:38:26,804
This is, like,
our biggest transformation of all time.
926
00:38:26,887 --> 00:38:28,472
I know!
927
00:38:29,015 --> 00:38:31,309
How much better do we feel?
928
00:38:31,392 --> 00:38:33,269
-Like, look at you!
-Oh, hundred percent better.
929
00:38:33,352 --> 00:38:36,731
Kenny has been so receptive
to everything that I've shown him.
930
00:38:37,481 --> 00:38:39,567
-Yeah, lookit!
931
00:38:39,650 --> 00:38:42,695
You're serving, like,
a sexy Mr. Rogers realness right now.
932
00:38:42,778 --> 00:38:43,612
Yes!
933
00:38:43,696 --> 00:38:46,324
And throughout this whole process,
he's seen a different version,
934
00:38:46,407 --> 00:38:48,451
a new version,
a happier version of himself.
935
00:38:49,452 --> 00:38:51,203
You guys are fabulous and...
936
00:38:51,287 --> 00:38:52,538
I'm gonna miss everybody.
937
00:38:52,621 --> 00:38:54,498
-I really mean that.
- We'll miss you too.
938
00:38:56,834 --> 00:38:58,002
You guys...
939
00:38:58,336 --> 00:39:00,713
this has been overwhelming,
and I appreciate it.
940
00:39:01,422 --> 00:39:02,882
Thank you so much for everything.
941
00:39:03,382 --> 00:39:04,967
It takes a lot of courage to say,
942
00:39:05,051 --> 00:39:07,887
"You know what? I'm gonna let
five strangers into my home
943
00:39:07,970 --> 00:39:10,097
and let them see me for who I am,
944
00:39:10,514 --> 00:39:11,682
and not feel judged,
945
00:39:11,766 --> 00:39:13,851
but feel like I can learn something."
946
00:39:13,934 --> 00:39:16,604
And I think you're set.
Not to mention you're gorgeous.
947
00:39:18,689 --> 00:39:20,608
My hope for Kenny
is that he remembers
948
00:39:20,691 --> 00:39:23,361
that he deserves to have family
and friends around him
949
00:39:23,444 --> 00:39:24,570
and in his home.
950
00:39:24,987 --> 00:39:27,114
I want him to not only be someone
who serves,
951
00:39:27,198 --> 00:39:29,992
but also be someone that accepts service.
952
00:39:30,076 --> 00:39:31,118
Aw, thank you so much.
953
00:39:31,202 --> 00:39:32,787
If you ever have any questions,
just let me know.
954
00:39:32,870 --> 00:39:33,704
Oh, I will.
955
00:39:33,788 --> 00:39:35,498
Be good, Fab 5,
you little baby!
956
00:39:35,581 --> 00:39:38,501
-Bye-bye, guys. Thank you so much. Bye.
- Thank you.
957
00:39:39,794 --> 00:39:41,712
What do you think, Fab? Hm?
958
00:39:53,140 --> 00:39:54,767
Here's your prosciutto cornbread.
959
00:39:54,850 --> 00:39:56,185
I love prosciutto.
It's my favorite.
960
00:39:56,268 --> 00:39:57,895
Put a pickle on there for Kenny.
961
00:39:57,978 --> 00:39:59,605
Come on, Karamo, even if you don't eat it.
962
00:40:00,606 --> 00:40:03,067
Kenny was a bloody sweetheart.
I loved Kenny.
963
00:40:04,068 --> 00:40:05,736
-Are you boys ready?
-Yeah.
964
00:40:05,820 --> 00:40:06,987
Here you go, Bruley.
965
00:40:10,825 --> 00:40:11,659
Fabby.
966
00:40:11,742 --> 00:40:14,412
You know he's gonna have
full conversations with that pupper.
967
00:40:14,495 --> 00:40:16,497
- He's got a new companion.
968
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,878
-Hello.
- Oh, my God, Kenny!
969
00:40:22,962 --> 00:40:24,547
-Oh, my God!
-Welcome!
970
00:40:24,630 --> 00:40:27,633
-My God!
971
00:40:27,716 --> 00:40:29,176
-Ah!
-Oh, my God.
972
00:40:29,260 --> 00:40:31,262
-Kenny, look at you.
- How you guys doing?
973
00:40:31,345 --> 00:40:32,263
Oh!
974
00:40:32,346 --> 00:40:34,348
-Look at you!
-How are we doing?
975
00:40:34,974 --> 00:40:37,101
Oh, look how happy they are for him.
976
00:40:37,184 --> 00:40:39,728
-Look at your home!
-Isn't it-- Isn't it nice?
977
00:40:39,812 --> 00:40:42,690
This is your home now.
Mom and Dad would be so proud.
978
00:40:42,773 --> 00:40:45,693
I know, guess they're lookin' down
on me right now. Isn't this nice?
979
00:40:45,776 --> 00:40:48,779
- It's so beautiful!
-You remember how dusty that house was?
980
00:40:48,863 --> 00:40:50,906
-That was next-level dust.
-Next-level.
981
00:40:50,990 --> 00:40:53,159
-I love what you're wearing.
-Isn't it cool?
982
00:40:53,242 --> 00:40:55,202
This is so beautiful. Yeah, you look--
983
00:40:55,286 --> 00:40:56,579
Yeah!
984
00:40:56,662 --> 00:40:58,205
Must be such a lovely feeling
985
00:40:58,289 --> 00:41:00,749
for her to think she can go to
her brother's house again.
986
00:41:00,833 --> 00:41:01,709
What a weird thing...
987
00:41:01,792 --> 00:41:03,294
-The house she grew up in.
-Yeah!
988
00:41:03,377 --> 00:41:05,171
-The kitchen.
-Oh, my--
989
00:41:05,254 --> 00:41:06,505
I know.
990
00:41:06,839 --> 00:41:08,215
Oh, my God.
991
00:41:08,299 --> 00:41:09,341
-Oh, my--
-This kitchen!
992
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,803
I just-- I'm speechless.
I'm absolutely speechless.
993
00:41:13,846 --> 00:41:15,639
The Fab 5 are your guardian angels, Kenny.
994
00:41:15,723 --> 00:41:18,267
-They did a wonderful job for you.
-I swear they are.
995
00:41:18,350 --> 00:41:19,518
-Yeah.
-Oh!
996
00:41:19,602 --> 00:41:20,644
Aw...
997
00:41:20,728 --> 00:41:22,855
Hi, guys. Come on in.
998
00:41:22,938 --> 00:41:24,940
- Ooh, I love her shoe.
-Love her skirt.
999
00:41:25,024 --> 00:41:26,650
Gorgeous red velvet shoe, honey.
1000
00:41:27,443 --> 00:41:29,612
Fab is meeting everyone!
1001
00:41:29,695 --> 00:41:31,113
-Alex.
- Kenny.
1002
00:41:31,197 --> 00:41:33,949
-First time in the house.
- Good to see you. Wow.
1003
00:41:34,033 --> 00:41:35,284
-You've never been here.
-Never.
1004
00:41:35,367 --> 00:41:36,911
No, I know you've been
when you were a kid.
1005
00:41:36,994 --> 00:41:40,247
- Yeah, like 20 years ago.
-Yeah, wasn't there 20 years' change?
1006
00:41:40,331 --> 00:41:41,332
Yeah. Uh-huh.
1007
00:41:41,415 --> 00:41:43,876
Look at him! He is mingling!
He's socializing!
1008
00:41:43,959 --> 00:41:46,462
Do you want the garlic in the--
with the onions, too?
1009
00:41:46,545 --> 00:41:48,130
- Yes.
- Okay.
1010
00:41:49,256 --> 00:41:50,424
This smells great.
1011
00:41:50,508 --> 00:41:52,718
-I'm looking at the-- Are they good?
-They're really good.
1012
00:41:55,304 --> 00:41:57,890
I love that he put out the charcuterie
and cheese in the living room,
1013
00:41:57,973 --> 00:41:59,058
get everybody comfortable.
1014
00:41:59,141 --> 00:42:01,769
I wonder if it's intimidating at all
going from no guests
1015
00:42:01,852 --> 00:42:03,312
-to, like, ten.
-A lot!
1016
00:42:04,522 --> 00:42:06,524
So, I just need to keep stirring this?
1017
00:42:06,607 --> 00:42:08,526
Yeah, keep stirring it, hon.
That's fine.
1018
00:42:08,609 --> 00:42:10,194
-Yeah, stir that up. Okay?
-Yep.
1019
00:42:10,277 --> 00:42:13,280
That looks a little thick, so what we're
gonna do is get some broth back there.
1020
00:42:13,656 --> 00:42:15,074
-Okay, stir that up.
- Mmm.
1021
00:42:15,157 --> 00:42:17,284
- There you go.
- Oh, good!
1022
00:42:17,368 --> 00:42:19,078
This looks amazing.
1023
00:42:19,161 --> 00:42:20,371
This is so important for them.
1024
00:42:20,454 --> 00:42:22,456
It's literally bringing them
into the kitchen together.
1025
00:42:22,540 --> 00:42:24,416
Every holiday now, this is what we expect.
1026
00:42:24,500 --> 00:42:25,960
-That's right, no problem.
1027
00:42:27,086 --> 00:42:29,755
Them seeing how nice his house is,
how well he's doing,
1028
00:42:29,838 --> 00:42:32,758
that's gonna alleviate so much worry
knowing he's sittin' pretty over there.
1029
00:42:33,217 --> 00:42:35,427
-Have you seen Kenny around?
-Good to see you.
1030
00:42:35,511 --> 00:42:37,513
Oh, this is his brother
that's coming in right now.
1031
00:42:37,596 --> 00:42:38,597
Aw.
1032
00:42:38,681 --> 00:42:40,683
-You're looking wonderful.
-Yeah.
1033
00:42:40,766 --> 00:42:42,142
How you doing? Good to see you.
1034
00:42:42,226 --> 00:42:44,853
-What a place.
-How you doing? Good to see you.
1035
00:42:45,729 --> 00:42:47,982
-Look at you!
- This is a healing moment
1036
00:42:48,065 --> 00:42:49,066
for this entire family.
1037
00:42:49,149 --> 00:42:51,193
- This looks awesome!
- Yeah.
1038
00:42:51,277 --> 00:42:52,861
-Thank you.
-Megan?
1039
00:42:53,487 --> 00:42:55,656
- Okay, here we go.
-Yes, that looks awesome.
1040
00:42:55,739 --> 00:42:57,825
This is absolutely delicious.
1041
00:42:57,908 --> 00:43:00,244
Thank you, Uncle Kenny, this is awesome.
1042
00:43:00,327 --> 00:43:02,288
-Squid? Where's the squid.
-You guys go for that.
1043
00:43:02,371 --> 00:43:03,497
He made a lot!
1044
00:43:03,581 --> 00:43:06,917
My week was the best week
I probably had in my life. Uh...
1045
00:43:07,001 --> 00:43:08,711
- Aw...
1046
00:43:08,794 --> 00:43:11,547
I just can't-- You know, the guys
are so overwhelming and...
1047
00:43:12,423 --> 00:43:14,174
did a lot for me and helped me out
1048
00:43:14,258 --> 00:43:15,968
and I really love them.
1049
00:43:17,970 --> 00:43:19,096
Aw...
1050
00:43:19,179 --> 00:43:21,140
I wanna thank you all for coming, and...
1051
00:43:21,223 --> 00:43:23,601
I know it's been a long time
since you've been here,
1052
00:43:23,684 --> 00:43:25,060
some of you have never been here.
1053
00:43:25,144 --> 00:43:27,605
Some of you did see the condition
this house has been in,
1054
00:43:27,688 --> 00:43:29,690
others, you probably
heard stories about it.
1055
00:43:30,316 --> 00:43:33,193
So, to make damn sure it stays this way,
1056
00:43:34,111 --> 00:43:35,738
uh, I had keys made up.
1057
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,573
So, I'm gonna give one to Rachel.
1058
00:43:37,656 --> 00:43:39,742
-Aw...
1059
00:43:39,825 --> 00:43:41,201
And one to Megan.
1060
00:43:42,494 --> 00:43:43,996
And one to my sister Karen.
1061
00:43:45,164 --> 00:43:46,874
And one to my sister Kathy.
1062
00:43:46,957 --> 00:43:48,375
- Thank you!
- Okay?
1063
00:43:48,459 --> 00:43:51,211
If you wanna bring your boyfriends
in here, I'm not here, I don't care.
1064
00:43:52,463 --> 00:43:54,465
Whoa! That's progressive.
1065
00:43:54,548 --> 00:43:56,759
-Uncle Kenny?
1066
00:43:56,842 --> 00:43:59,136
Check up on me,
make sure I'm doing my job.
1067
00:43:59,219 --> 00:44:01,013
-Mm-hmm.
-If I'm not, let me know.
1068
00:44:01,096 --> 00:44:03,015
-All right.
-I know my sisters will, right?
1069
00:44:03,098 --> 00:44:05,476
We will,
because our first order of business
1070
00:44:05,559 --> 00:44:07,978
will be to come and decorate
for the holiday!
1071
00:44:08,103 --> 00:44:08,937
Oh!
1072
00:44:09,021 --> 00:44:11,190
- Yeah, okay!
1073
00:44:12,232 --> 00:44:16,028
People should always remember,
it's never too late to start over.
1074
00:44:16,612 --> 00:44:18,864
And just because
you're 60 or 65
1075
00:44:18,947 --> 00:44:20,449
does not excuse you from learning.
1076
00:44:20,532 --> 00:44:22,159
'Cause once you know it all,
what's the point?
1077
00:44:22,242 --> 00:44:24,244
I think it's time we have a toast and...
1078
00:44:24,870 --> 00:44:27,748
celebrate that we're all here
and thank you all for comin'.
1079
00:44:27,831 --> 00:44:29,750
Živjeli!
1080
00:44:30,709 --> 00:44:33,921
As we get older, we forget
that there's still a lot of life to live,
1081
00:44:34,004 --> 00:44:36,382
and you can't be afraid
to go out there and live it.
1082
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,094
I feel so blessed that
my family was lookin' after me,
1083
00:44:40,469 --> 00:44:42,304
and that I got to meet the Fab 5.
1084
00:44:42,388 --> 00:44:43,889
This has just been great.
1085
00:44:43,972 --> 00:44:45,724
This has been the best week of my life.
1086
00:44:46,141 --> 00:44:48,268
Cheers to Kenny in Croatian.
1087
00:44:48,352 --> 00:44:51,021
-Živjeli!
- Živjeli!
1088
00:44:59,363 --> 00:45:01,365
Wanna know how to set up your bar
for your next party?
1089
00:45:01,448 --> 00:45:02,449
Keep it simple.
1090
00:45:02,908 --> 00:45:05,703
Gin, vodka, a nice whiskey,
1091
00:45:05,786 --> 00:45:07,037
and a lovely tequila.
1092
00:45:07,121 --> 00:45:08,372
And if you're not drinking,
1093
00:45:08,455 --> 00:45:09,623
have a mocktail.
1094
00:45:09,790 --> 00:45:11,291
No one will know the difference.
1095
00:45:11,375 --> 00:45:14,461
-Right, Jonny?
- Absolutely.
1096
00:45:15,337 --> 00:45:17,131
This is plenty for me.
1097
00:45:27,558 --> 00:45:29,309
♪ You gotta man up ♪
1098
00:45:29,727 --> 00:45:30,769
♪ Man up ♪
1099
00:45:30,853 --> 00:45:32,563
♪ You gotta man up ♪
1100
00:45:33,188 --> 00:45:34,064
♪ Honey child ♪
1101
00:45:34,148 --> 00:45:35,858
♪ You gotta man up ♪
1102
00:45:36,316 --> 00:45:39,111
-♪ Man up ♪-♪ Yeah, you gotta man up ♪
1103
00:45:41,113 --> 00:45:42,823
♪ Oh ♪
1104
00:45:47,244 --> 00:45:48,871
♪ Yeah, yeah ♪
1105
00:45:53,500 --> 00:45:55,627
♪ Oh, you gotta man up ♪
1106
00:45:56,170 --> 00:45:57,254
♪ Man up ♪
1107
00:45:57,337 --> 00:45:58,922
♪ You gotta man up ♪
1108
00:45:59,631 --> 00:46:02,217
♪ Honey child, you gotta man up ♪
1109
00:46:02,801 --> 00:46:05,804
-♪ Man up ♪-♪ Oh, you gotta man up ♪
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