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# Live a little#
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# Live it up#
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# Let's get the party startedNever stop #
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# You know that there can never beToo much good times#
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# So we got just little little lit up#
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- # Yeah, yeah#- # Yeah, so put on your sexy dress #
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# Get on the floor and dance#
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# Ooh, yeah!#
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# You know that there can never beToo much #
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# So we got just little little lit up#
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- # Better #- # All things just keep getting better#
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# Baby, you tell me you can take 'em on#
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# But you're back and knockingAt my door#
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Guys, we are here
in good old Philadelphia.
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-Gorgeous!
-Yay!
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For Miss Jennifer Sweeney.
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Tell us more.
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"She's 48.
She's from Glenolden, Pennsylvania,
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and she's been married to John
for 24 years."
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Aww.
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"She has three daughters.
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Dana, 23, Rachel, 21 and Ashley, 18."
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- Cute.
- I love a trio of sisters.
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Very much Haim vibes.
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-Very much Dixie Chicks--
-Very much Charmed.
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We're nominating our mom
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because she's one
of the most selfless people we know.
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She doesn't take enough time
to focus on herself.
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She only worries about us.
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Mom, do you need any help?
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-No, I'm good. Thank you.
-Mom!
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I'm ignoring you!
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The things that she will put aside
in order to do for others
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is what makes her a great mother.
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I've always wanted to be
a stay-at-home mom.
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Mom!
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Yes.
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I wanted the Donna Reed scenario,
June Cleaver.
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I did all the mom stuff.
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I did homeroom mom, lunch mom.
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I coached their cheerleading team.
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I was super mom, so I got what I wanted.
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-Love you.
-Love you.
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I had what I considered my perfect life.
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I had a perfect family, but...
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Nothing is perfect.
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Ready.
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Good job.
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In December of 2010,
I was diagnosed with ALS.
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My total world was shocked.
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It's a neurological disease
that affects your muscles.
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The normal life span of someone with ALS
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is two to six years.
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John, he's had it for eight years.
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Sorry.
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Everybody takes the vows.
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In sickness, in health.
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Um...
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She's had to live them, so...
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it's hard putting her through that.
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Wow.
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What a terrifying thing though, to be told
you've only got two years. It's amazing.
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Sounds like a very
strong family all around.
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- Yeah.
- True.
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"When John was diagnosed
and needed to stop working,
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Jennifer jumped into the workforce,
and at the same time,
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she continued to run the house,
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be the number one support system
for her daughters
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and act as John's primary caregiver.
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Her family sees she's running on empty."
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She's a formidable woman.
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It's just a constant running
from the time she gets up in the morning.
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She's exhausted.
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She doesn't put herself first.
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We just want her to take the time
to treat herself
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instead of focusing on everyone else.
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"So at the end of the week,
Jennifer believes
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she's throwing her daughter Ashley
a college sendoff party."
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Aww.
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"But in fact...
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-Twist!
-...the family wants
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the Fab Five to secretly help them
make the party all about Jennifer."
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So, guys, our mission this week is
to show this mama that she is the most.
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Yeah!
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I'm calling Ashley.
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Hi!
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Oh, my God, are you guys ready for us?
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-Yes!
-Definitely.
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-We're almost there, meet us outside.
-Okay.
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I think this is it.
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Aww, they have the only tree
on the block, y'all.
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Cute!
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Hello!
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Come on, Tanny.
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Mom! Come outside!
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Hi!
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- Did we surprise you?
- Yes.
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Nice to meet you.
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- You seem overwhelmed.
- It's like shocked as...
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- Can we take this inside?
- Lead the way, queen.
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Nice!
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Very chill, serene vibe here.
I'm very into it.
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Did you know we were coming
because it's way too clean in here.
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This is...
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This is not clean?
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- No.
- 'Cause this is clean.
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Jennifer's home is one
of the cleanest homes we've ever been in.
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But it doesn't really match
her personality.
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She's happy, and she's really outgoing,
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and then her design is very cold.
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This is the dining room.
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Gorgeous.
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I love that you have these directions
for your family in case you should forget.
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I'm laughing, I'm learning,
I'm loving, I'm lasting.
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What does "love and lasts" mean?
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-Love and lasts!
-Love and have a lasting love.
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-Going and going and-- no?
-No.
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Ha!
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I have no idea what the hell's going on.
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By the end of this week, I'm gonna be
really wanting to do your accent.
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Are you offended by it or no?
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Good luck 'cause
no one understands my accent.
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No one understands his either,
so you're not alone.
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Something in common already.
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You know what's crazy? When you think
about a Philadelphia accent, honey,
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she's a first cousin of a British accent.
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This Northeastern accent
and even a Southern American accent,
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they all used to be British accents,
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and I just think that's fascinating.
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-We're gonna search the house.
-Okay.
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- What do you have cooking?
- A Crockpot! Meatballs!
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Oh, nutty buddy bars!
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- Hello.
- Where are the utensils?
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We usually ask if we can eat their food.
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I am horrible with decor.
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Like, everything will just
revolve around a holiday.
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-So, what holiday decor is up right now?
-Graduation.
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Ha! Ha! I love it.
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Do you guys help partake
in the cooking at all? Or is that--
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We try to.
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If my dad's cooking,
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I'll come home from work
and help him get everything set up.
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My dad will take the help.
My mom will not.
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Why? Why is she like that?
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-She needs control of everything.
-She's the mom.
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- She only thinks of herself as a mom.
- Hmm.
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- So that's all she sees.
- That's interesting.
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Taking care of everyone else
is a distraction.
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She doesn't have to work
on herself because she's focusing on you.
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I kind of feel like we came
at the best time.
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Yes.
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Oh, my...
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Nothing screams sexy like poop.
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What's happening in here?
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I guess I'm stuck in the 80s.
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There's gotta be wood under here.
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Beautiful wood!
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If it was up to me, this would be carpet.
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-This would be wallpaper.
-Oh, God.
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And that would be popcorn ceiling...
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with glitter.
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Oh.
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I am speechless.
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Graduation photos.
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Whoops.
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Don't know how to put that back up.
Okay, we'll just take 'em all down.
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I see crosses.
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-Are you guys Catholic?
-Yes.
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I'm Polish. He's Irish.
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- You're Polish? Stop! Stop!
- Yes.
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I have my babci
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-and I want you to--
-Stop!
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If you were to teach me anything, can you
teach me to make potato pancakes?
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Oh, I just got goosebumps!
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My ancestors are gonna be
so happy this week.
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-Kielbasy and sauerkraut.
-Potato pancakes. Oh, love.
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- That's so good.
- I love that.
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- Can we investigate your bathroom?
- Yes.
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-I don't want to cut you off.
-I'm gonna creep around in your kitchen.
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We're gonna keep on talking
all things Polish in a little bit.
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We are not done yet.
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Four in the morning, you stumble out
of bed, and then what happens?
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Then I get my shower.
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Then it takes me about five minutes
to do my makeup.
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- Uh-huh.
- And I pull my hair back.
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Do you pull your hair back when it's wet?
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-You will find out when you take the--
-Yeah, it's a little wet here.
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When we put our hair back wet,
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it puts too much torque on the hair
so I would prefer
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you let it be down on the way to work
and throw it up when you got there.
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Can I tell you that
I love your hair color so much?
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-It really is so beautiful.
-Thank you.
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I love that you raised
three incredible daughters.
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You have an incredible husband.
You're his primary caretaker.
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-So I get you're a busy person,
-Yes.
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but you can use your self-care time
to give back to yourself.
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Right.
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Okay.
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Jennifer's closet is full of color,
it's full of print.
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Gosh, I mean, I love a print, but my gosh.
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And there's also bling.
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Nope, we are not a Jersey girl,
and we are not 17.
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I don't think you need to put every one
of your personalities into your look.
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Tanny! Tanny! Tanny! Tanny!
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Karamo. Oh, look how short they are.
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- Would you ever wear something this short?
- Yes, I'm a ho.
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- I know.
- Okay.
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Oh, my, Mr. Brown. Oh, my, Mr. Brown!
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I love that you've already put
your imaginary heels on.
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-Can you give us a full on walk please?
-Of course I can.
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You know I love a catwalk.
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Watch.
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Yes, work, work, work.
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-Yes, queen. Yes, Bey-- yes, Beyonc�!
-Pause.
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Yes!
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Oh, my God. Got fringe, honey.
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Yeah. I like big 80s hair.
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- Wow, Mommy.
- If we could just perm it.
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Absolutely not.
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Listen to this. Girls!
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Yeah.
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Perm.
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What about it? It's terrible.
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Yeah. It's a no.
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All right,
this is the room I hate the most.
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The room you hate the most.
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I don't like cooking.
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So it's no surprise
that this is your best friend.
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Yes.
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Name me things that you make,
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other than this lovely
ros� meatball sauce.
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Chicken with Italian dressing. Um...
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You know what?
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You're not as excited talking about this
as you are talking about your babcias,
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your Polish grandmother's food.
236
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'Cause it was so good!
237
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I don't know how to cook that.
238
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You know what?
It's progress, not perfection.
239
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I just do not have the time.
240
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I know you're busy, and your daughters
are saying how much you do.
241
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Relinquish a little bit
of all this control that you have.
242
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'Cause the center of every home,
especially a Polish home,
243
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is the kitchen.
244
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That's where the love happens,
that's where we come together.
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-Yes, and I like that.
-Am I right?
246
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We're gonna make them some really
beautiful Polish food this week.
247
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I love how you dance with food.
248
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Talk to me about the sexy in your life.
249
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Every woman wants to be sexy.
250
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Well, then, what's this?
251
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Do you mean to tell me
252
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if I don't walk around going,
"Check me out," that's not sexy?
253
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Burn 'em.
254
00:11:28,229 --> 00:11:30,269
Let me tell you my concern
about a lot of this.
255
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Almost all your clothes are massive.
256
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Yeah.
257
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A lot of my clothes are hand-me-downs.
258
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What's this?
259
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I got that from my sister-in-law.
260
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Do you wear it?
261
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Yes, with a pair of white shorts maybe.
262
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If you see a pair of sparkles,
I want you see them and run.
263
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-There's a lot of sparkle in my closet.
-Yeah, I know.
264
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Jennifer has so much charisma to her,
265
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and I know that she wants to express it.
266
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I don't think she needs
loud clothing to do that.
267
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Rachel just had a birthday,
and she got this really cute shirt,
268
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I think editing is key.
269
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Do you shop ever, for yourself?
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No.
271
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It's a big joke.
272
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Rachel just had a birthday
and she got this really cute shirt,
273
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and I'm like, "Ooh, can I have it?"
274
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They're like, "No!"
275
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-Yeah.
-So...
276
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You have neglected yourself massively.
277
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Are you open to changing?
278
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Oh, yeah.
279
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Are you excited to have some attention put
on you for once?
280
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Yeah. Yes.
281
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Is this the man cave?
282
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As much of a man cave I can make it...
283
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-I actually like this!
-with a wife and three daughters.
284
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-Want to sit with me, Bobby?
-Sure.
285
00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:43,800
Scoot over daddy.
286
00:12:45,181 --> 00:12:48,771
So design-wise, is there anything
that I can do to help you?
287
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I mean, part of the reason why we have
the basement set up the way it is
288
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is because everything can stay
on one floor.
289
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I don't want to give up
290
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any freedoms I don't have to.
291
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- Yeah.
- Like, going up the stairs and everything.
292
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Because I know once I stop doing it,
I'm never gonna get that back again.
293
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I don't want that to happen.
294
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We want it to be about her.
295
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I feel guilty
that they're having to go through this.
296
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I think it's harder on the family
297
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to know that there's
nothing they can do to help.
298
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And I think that's
the biggest thing for her.
299
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They see the deterioration,
as slow as it is.
300
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And that makes it hard.
301
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Her way of dealing with it is...
302
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trying to take as much control over it
as she can.
303
00:13:42,196 --> 00:13:44,946
And he's afraid
of what's gonna happen in the future.
304
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I mean, she's a caregiver,
which of course, I get it.
305
00:13:48,410 --> 00:13:51,290
You want to provide for the family,
but at the same rate,
306
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- you still want that zest for life.
- Right.
307
00:13:54,375 --> 00:13:56,625
She needs to let go a little
308
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and be less frightened
and all that kind of stuff.
309
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John wants his wife to be happy.
310
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To know that she's gonna be okay
no matter what their family looks like.
311
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No matter if he's there or not.
312
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From what I've been hearing,
it sounds like you go to work,
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and then you come home
314
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and then you wash clothes
and then sleep and repeat.
315
00:14:20,484 --> 00:14:23,454
-Mm-hmm.
-What do you do to let go?
316
00:14:23,529 --> 00:14:24,529
To let go?
317
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Usually like, um...
318
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How do I let go?
319
00:14:32,955 --> 00:14:34,495
I do things!
320
00:14:34,874 --> 00:14:38,004
-Like what?
-Like work, clean.
321
00:14:39,962 --> 00:14:42,972
I literally heard no time for you.
322
00:14:43,465 --> 00:14:46,215
What would you think would happen
if you stepped away?
323
00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:51,555
They would know
they can survive without me.
324
00:14:52,182 --> 00:14:53,522
And why is that scary?
325
00:14:53,601 --> 00:14:55,731
I don't know, I want to be needed.
326
00:14:55,811 --> 00:14:57,441
It is a nice feeling to be needed.
327
00:14:57,521 --> 00:14:59,771
-Do you ever ask for help?
-It's my job.
328
00:15:00,441 --> 00:15:02,821
-Why is that your job?
-'Cause it's a mom job.
329
00:15:02,943 --> 00:15:05,073
Like I don't want them
to worry about this stuff.
330
00:15:07,656 --> 00:15:09,826
-I'm loving this. I'm loving it.
-All right.
331
00:15:10,492 --> 00:15:13,372
- Hug, hug, hug.
- Oh.
332
00:15:14,580 --> 00:15:17,330
- Cute!
- Yeah, it's falling apart.
333
00:15:17,416 --> 00:15:19,536
We spend a lot of time out here.
334
00:15:19,627 --> 00:15:21,417
It's definitely my little oasis.
335
00:15:21,837 --> 00:15:24,257
-Why is it your favorite place?
-I don't, it just...
336
00:15:24,340 --> 00:15:27,430
It's outside. I can have a drink.
337
00:15:28,427 --> 00:15:30,507
And it's just easier for John
to get around.
338
00:15:31,764 --> 00:15:33,604
I thought at this stage in our lives
339
00:15:33,682 --> 00:15:36,142
we'd be going out to bars.
340
00:15:36,226 --> 00:15:38,266
But instead, we hang out here.
341
00:15:38,354 --> 00:15:42,274
It's like, we're not out, but we're out.
342
00:15:42,358 --> 00:15:44,568
-And everyone can come to you.
-Yes.
343
00:15:45,486 --> 00:15:48,196
Boys!
344
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-Hey!
-Hi!
345
00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,080
How are you feeling?
You excited for the week?
346
00:15:52,534 --> 00:15:54,164
- Yes, I am very excited for the week.
- Good.
347
00:15:54,244 --> 00:15:55,664
-You want a group huggy?
-Yeah.
348
00:15:55,746 --> 00:15:56,826
Group hug. You get in the middle!
349
00:15:57,247 --> 00:15:59,917
We're gonna surround you with love.
350
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There it is, go down.
351
00:16:07,007 --> 00:16:10,587
# I've been losing sleepI can't get me no rest#
352
00:16:10,719 --> 00:16:12,469
I really think Jennifer is so brave
353
00:16:12,554 --> 00:16:14,564
watching the love of her life
go through this.
354
00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,940
I wanna show her that she can embrace
being a strong rock for her family,
355
00:16:18,018 --> 00:16:19,898
but she can also give back to herself
356
00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:22,689
in ways that aren't too time consuming
and aren't unattainable.
357
00:16:23,482 --> 00:16:27,322
I really want Jen to be excited
about spending a little time with herself.
358
00:16:27,861 --> 00:16:30,321
She doesn't do that.
Sometimes it's about looking back,
359
00:16:30,406 --> 00:16:32,826
connecting her to her roots,
to who she is.
360
00:16:32,908 --> 00:16:35,738
# Baby...#
361
00:16:35,828 --> 00:16:38,158
Jennifer up until this point
hasn't known how to dress.
362
00:16:38,247 --> 00:16:40,077
She's taken people's hand-me-downs.
363
00:16:40,165 --> 00:16:42,205
I want her to see her wardrobe
364
00:16:42,292 --> 00:16:45,552
as a thing that's gonna make her feel
the way she truly wants to feel.
365
00:16:46,672 --> 00:16:49,512
I want to focus on her living room
and her patio.
366
00:16:49,591 --> 00:16:52,471
Because her husband, his mobility
isn't where it used to be.
367
00:16:53,178 --> 00:16:54,848
They're having to stay home more,
368
00:16:54,930 --> 00:16:57,680
so I want to make sure
they're as comfortable as possible.
369
00:16:58,809 --> 00:17:02,809
She really is feeling scared
of losing control.
370
00:17:02,896 --> 00:17:04,976
She is trying to hold on so tight.
371
00:17:05,065 --> 00:17:08,315
I want to get Jennifer to a place
where she can focus
372
00:17:08,402 --> 00:17:10,702
on her heart, her mind, her emotions.
373
00:17:10,779 --> 00:17:13,159
So that she doesn't have to
keep herself in chaos.
374
00:17:15,284 --> 00:17:18,004
# Oh, ain't it a shame? #
375
00:17:18,078 --> 00:17:20,038
# We've got to work all night and day#
376
00:17:20,122 --> 00:17:22,422
# Get ahead of the game #
377
00:17:22,499 --> 00:17:24,919
# Whoa, yeahAin't that the truth#
378
00:17:26,170 --> 00:17:28,170
- Are you nervous at all?
- Um, no.
379
00:17:28,255 --> 00:17:30,045
-That's a lie.
-Mm-hmm.
380
00:17:30,132 --> 00:17:31,472
You've got nothing to worry about.
381
00:17:35,054 --> 00:17:37,354
You're not excited about it because
you don't like to try things on, right?
382
00:17:37,431 --> 00:17:38,271
I'm not big on it.
383
00:17:38,891 --> 00:17:39,931
Tell me why.
384
00:17:40,017 --> 00:17:43,267
What if I pick out the wrong size?
And then that's depressing.
385
00:17:43,353 --> 00:17:44,653
Why is it depressing?
386
00:17:44,730 --> 00:17:48,480
Well, if you think you're a size ten
and you're a size 22...
387
00:17:48,567 --> 00:17:51,317
- Do you know your size?
- ...that is horrible.
388
00:17:51,403 --> 00:17:52,573
I'm wishy-washy on it.
389
00:17:52,654 --> 00:17:54,494
How often are you actually
going shopping for yourself?
390
00:17:54,948 --> 00:17:56,618
Last time was probably three years ago.
391
00:17:56,700 --> 00:17:58,830
-Three years ago?
-Mm-hmm.
392
00:17:58,911 --> 00:18:01,661
Okay, sorry that just caught me. Okay.
393
00:18:01,747 --> 00:18:03,077
What did you end up with?
394
00:18:03,207 --> 00:18:04,707
What did I end up with?
395
00:18:05,125 --> 00:18:07,285
-A pair of khaki pants,
-Okay.
396
00:18:07,377 --> 00:18:10,047
a pair of plain black pants.
397
00:18:10,506 --> 00:18:13,006
You say "pants" really peculiarly.
398
00:18:15,135 --> 00:18:17,845
I wanna play a little game.
You do me, I do you.
399
00:18:17,930 --> 00:18:18,760
Okay.
400
00:18:20,724 --> 00:18:23,064
I'm like, so parched I need water.
401
00:18:24,686 --> 00:18:26,686
I'm so parched, I need water.
402
00:18:27,397 --> 00:18:29,357
Is that not good?
403
00:18:29,858 --> 00:18:30,688
Very good.
404
00:18:30,776 --> 00:18:31,856
Okay, you go with me.
405
00:18:32,986 --> 00:18:35,446
I'm so parched, I need water.
406
00:18:37,908 --> 00:18:39,448
You wanna try it in my accent?
407
00:18:39,535 --> 00:18:40,825
That was your accent.
408
00:18:40,911 --> 00:18:43,081
I know, it was basically your accent.
409
00:18:43,163 --> 00:18:44,673
Well, you can't do that.
410
00:18:44,748 --> 00:18:45,668
No, I told you.
411
00:18:46,416 --> 00:18:47,996
Ever since John was diagnosed,
412
00:18:48,127 --> 00:18:52,457
Jen has felt overwhelmed,
and she's not made herself a priority.
413
00:18:52,548 --> 00:18:55,178
-No more sparkles?
-No more sparkles.
414
00:18:55,259 --> 00:18:56,719
Here's my worry right now.
415
00:18:56,802 --> 00:19:00,392
You would wear this,
but you would add other bling to it.
416
00:19:00,472 --> 00:19:03,142
You need to tone down the...
417
00:19:06,061 --> 00:19:08,611
I want to show Jen
that making an effort in her clothing
418
00:19:08,689 --> 00:19:11,229
can actually make her feel
so much better about herself.
419
00:19:11,316 --> 00:19:14,106
-Do you ever wear blazers or jackets?
-No.
420
00:19:14,194 --> 00:19:15,994
Could we find a way to at least try it?
421
00:19:16,071 --> 00:19:18,531
Yeah. I just want to look sharp.
422
00:19:18,991 --> 00:19:20,781
I say I wanna look pretty.
423
00:19:21,243 --> 00:19:22,293
Do you think you're pretty?
424
00:19:22,828 --> 00:19:25,368
- No.
- Why don't you feel pretty?
425
00:19:29,418 --> 00:19:31,748
'Cause I don't take care
of myself anymore.
426
00:19:33,213 --> 00:19:34,343
I want...
427
00:19:34,923 --> 00:19:38,593
the Jen from ten years ago,
that did take care of herself.
428
00:19:39,094 --> 00:19:41,724
-Mm-hmm.
-Like, now I just feel frumpy.
429
00:19:41,805 --> 00:19:42,965
I'm frumpy.
430
00:19:45,058 --> 00:19:45,888
Okay.
431
00:19:46,351 --> 00:19:49,311
Quite honestly, you're wardrobe
isn't where it needs to be
432
00:19:49,396 --> 00:19:51,766
because you get pieces from other people,
they're not yours.
433
00:19:51,857 --> 00:19:53,277
-They don't speak to you.
-Right.
434
00:19:53,358 --> 00:19:55,488
-So the frumpy that you see
-Mm-hmm.
435
00:19:55,569 --> 00:19:57,609
is because that's not who you are.
436
00:19:58,655 --> 00:20:00,315
I wanna make sure by the end of this,
437
00:20:00,407 --> 00:20:02,657
you don't ever use that word
to describe what you're wearing.
438
00:20:03,368 --> 00:20:04,198
Okay.
439
00:20:05,245 --> 00:20:06,655
So I've already pulled for you.
440
00:20:06,747 --> 00:20:08,247
-Are you ready to try?
-Oh, yeah.
441
00:20:09,249 --> 00:20:11,169
Jennifer has hit a point in her life
442
00:20:11,251 --> 00:20:12,671
where she's given up on sexy.
443
00:20:12,753 --> 00:20:15,883
I think she thinks that a woman
of her responsibility
444
00:20:15,964 --> 00:20:17,884
doesn't have room for sexy.
445
00:20:17,966 --> 00:20:21,256
She can look ten-years-ago Jennifer.
446
00:20:23,597 --> 00:20:25,847
I mean, Ms. Sweeney.
447
00:20:28,143 --> 00:20:31,273
You look frickin' fantastic. Oh, my God.
448
00:20:31,355 --> 00:20:32,895
Wow. Okay, come look at this.
449
00:20:32,981 --> 00:20:34,821
Zhuzh your hair real quick.
450
00:20:34,942 --> 00:20:36,442
Gorge.
451
00:20:36,526 --> 00:20:37,436
Lady,
452
00:20:37,527 --> 00:20:39,567
if you go back to the
you've been wearing,
453
00:20:39,655 --> 00:20:42,195
literally that poopy pants
you were wearing.
454
00:20:42,282 --> 00:20:45,542
'Cause you look so damn good.
455
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,080
I like this.
456
00:20:49,164 --> 00:20:50,874
Good. You love color.
457
00:20:50,958 --> 00:20:52,328
-You love print.
-Mm-hmm.
458
00:20:52,417 --> 00:20:55,667
You've got it in a much more refined
and sophisticated way.
459
00:20:55,754 --> 00:20:58,384
And then those shoes.
I call them a transition shoe.
460
00:20:58,465 --> 00:21:01,295
You can wear them daytime, nighttime.
No issue.
461
00:21:02,427 --> 00:21:03,297
I see me.
462
00:21:03,929 --> 00:21:04,889
Good.
463
00:21:13,438 --> 00:21:17,278
Oh, va-va-voom! Miss Sweeney.
464
00:21:17,693 --> 00:21:21,663
-You look so sexy.
-I like this. I like this a lot.
465
00:21:21,780 --> 00:21:24,240
It's highlighting everything
you wanna highlight.
466
00:21:24,324 --> 00:21:26,374
It's giving you shape. Did we do it?
467
00:21:26,451 --> 00:21:28,541
-Did we nail it?
-Yes. We nailed it.
468
00:21:28,870 --> 00:21:30,500
Give me a hug, forget the hands.
469
00:21:30,580 --> 00:21:34,040
I've never done so much hugging
and touching in my life.
470
00:21:34,126 --> 00:21:35,036
We're huggers. We're huggers.
471
00:21:35,127 --> 00:21:37,837
# Oh, it's a dream come true#
472
00:21:38,338 --> 00:21:40,758
# It's a dream come true, oh!#
473
00:21:40,841 --> 00:21:43,051
# It's a dream come true, whoa, whoa... #
474
00:21:43,135 --> 00:21:45,295
- We're in Port Richmond.
- Yes, we are.
475
00:21:45,387 --> 00:21:47,057
-What is Port Richmond?
-My home.
476
00:21:47,139 --> 00:21:49,979
-Is this where you were raised?
-Like four blocks down.
477
00:21:50,058 --> 00:21:51,138
Wow.
478
00:21:51,685 --> 00:21:52,975
Oh, my God. That smell.
479
00:21:54,021 --> 00:21:55,061
It's smoky.
480
00:21:55,147 --> 00:21:56,477
-Yes.
-It's pork.
481
00:21:56,565 --> 00:21:57,815
Mm-hmm.
482
00:21:59,860 --> 00:22:00,740
Oh, wow.
483
00:22:00,819 --> 00:22:02,489
-Babka.-Babka.
484
00:22:02,571 --> 00:22:06,331
Kabanos. Do you know what kabanos is?
It's like a drier kielbasa.
485
00:22:06,408 --> 00:22:07,948
Welcome to Czerw's, how we doing?
486
00:22:08,035 --> 00:22:09,365
-Hey, John.
-Hey, how you doing?
487
00:22:09,453 --> 00:22:11,833
So this is my dear friend Jennifer,
488
00:22:11,913 --> 00:22:14,503
and we came here
to just check out the shop
489
00:22:14,583 --> 00:22:16,133
and learn how to make a few things.
490
00:22:16,209 --> 00:22:19,209
-Yeah.
-Gotta keep the traditions going, right?
491
00:22:19,296 --> 00:22:20,836
That's why we're here!
492
00:22:20,922 --> 00:22:22,382
We'll teach ya. We'll break her in.
493
00:22:22,466 --> 00:22:24,426
I'm so excited!
494
00:22:24,968 --> 00:22:25,798
Let's go.
495
00:22:28,013 --> 00:22:30,433
Guys, you need some aprons,
you're gonna get a little messy maybe.
496
00:22:30,515 --> 00:22:32,635
You're gonna be making some kielbasy.
497
00:22:33,393 --> 00:22:35,813
- I'm making my own kielbasy!
- Yes!
498
00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:36,806
Sorry.
499
00:22:37,606 --> 00:22:39,976
Jen tells me that
she doesn't like cooking.
500
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,489
So I'm gonna take this
with very baby steps.
501
00:22:43,945 --> 00:22:45,655
We're gonna put the meat in the casing.
502
00:22:45,739 --> 00:22:46,989
Learn how kielbasa is made.
503
00:22:47,074 --> 00:22:48,664
Learn how it's smoked.
504
00:22:49,201 --> 00:22:51,661
Learn about where
the food that she loves comes from.
505
00:22:52,871 --> 00:22:54,211
What's this called?
506
00:22:54,289 --> 00:22:55,619
Smoked kielbasas in there.
507
00:22:55,707 --> 00:22:58,707
All pork,
with our family's 83-year-old recipe.
508
00:22:58,794 --> 00:23:01,884
With natural hog casing,
which gives it that nice snap.
509
00:23:01,963 --> 00:23:03,093
Oh, yeah, baby.
510
00:23:03,673 --> 00:23:05,263
Come on around, Jen. Your turn.
511
00:23:06,802 --> 00:23:07,722
Hold it tight.
512
00:23:09,221 --> 00:23:10,761
There you go. Let it out.
513
00:23:11,807 --> 00:23:12,887
- Sorry.
- Ah!
514
00:23:12,974 --> 00:23:14,314
A little too much pressure, yeah.
515
00:23:14,393 --> 00:23:16,483
Just hold your fingers in it like this.
516
00:23:16,561 --> 00:23:18,361
It's gonna come through to the casing.
517
00:23:18,438 --> 00:23:19,558
Just let it flow out.
518
00:23:19,648 --> 00:23:21,268
You have to be gentle with it.
519
00:23:21,691 --> 00:23:23,821
I'm trying!
520
00:23:23,902 --> 00:23:24,992
I'll twist it for you.
521
00:23:25,070 --> 00:23:26,490
You're doing great, Jen.
522
00:23:29,157 --> 00:23:30,487
- Sorry.
- Gentle with the meat.
523
00:23:30,575 --> 00:23:32,735
Innuendo!
524
00:23:32,828 --> 00:23:36,158
- Nice job!
- Switch.
525
00:23:36,623 --> 00:23:38,133
All right. Got this.
526
00:23:38,208 --> 00:23:40,748
Let's see how gentle you are
with the meat.
527
00:23:42,712 --> 00:23:44,922
Stuff it tight, there you go.
Nice technique.
528
00:23:45,006 --> 00:23:47,126
It's like I've done this before.
529
00:23:47,801 --> 00:23:49,181
Turn, turn, you gotta help him.
530
00:23:49,678 --> 00:23:52,718
We're making our ancestors
so proud right now.
531
00:23:52,806 --> 00:23:55,176
Great job. There.
532
00:23:58,645 --> 00:23:59,475
Holy...
533
00:23:59,563 --> 00:24:01,063
This is really good, isn't it?
534
00:24:01,982 --> 00:24:04,322
-It's perfection.
-Mmm.
535
00:24:04,609 --> 00:24:07,569
I do have a vision of you making pierogis
with your daughters.
536
00:24:07,654 --> 00:24:09,744
Like, you have a close-knit family.
537
00:24:09,823 --> 00:24:11,283
You're an incredible mother.
538
00:24:11,658 --> 00:24:14,698
My mom was very stand-offish.
It was always hard.
539
00:24:15,162 --> 00:24:16,662
I wanna be the opposite.
540
00:24:16,913 --> 00:24:18,713
You're doing your best to make sure that
541
00:24:18,790 --> 00:24:21,460
your daughters don't have to experience
what you went through.
542
00:24:21,543 --> 00:24:24,383
Yeah, like, that was my job.
543
00:24:24,921 --> 00:24:27,841
But I do want the girls to leave,
544
00:24:27,924 --> 00:24:30,014
even though part of me doesn't.
545
00:24:30,469 --> 00:24:31,849
You need to be needed.
546
00:24:31,928 --> 00:24:34,008
They have to come back
and need me for little things.
547
00:24:34,097 --> 00:24:35,597
-Yeah.
-Like laundry.
548
00:24:36,308 --> 00:24:39,688
I'm the exact same way.
I do it in my relationships as well.
549
00:24:39,769 --> 00:24:43,019
I make sure the person needs me,
so that they can never leave me.
550
00:24:44,399 --> 00:24:46,319
I don't want John to leave me.
551
00:24:48,236 --> 00:24:51,486
I just don't want this to be a fairy tale
and wake up,
552
00:24:51,573 --> 00:24:53,123
and they'll all be gone.
553
00:24:56,328 --> 00:24:58,828
Jen is trying to deal
with a terrible hand
554
00:24:59,206 --> 00:25:00,866
that her and her family have been dealt.
555
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,710
But she cannot forget who she is
in all of this, either.
556
00:25:04,794 --> 00:25:07,764
I have such a tremendous amount of respect
557
00:25:07,839 --> 00:25:10,969
for the way you show up
for your husband and your daughters.
558
00:25:11,051 --> 00:25:12,891
I just don't want you to think that
559
00:25:12,969 --> 00:25:15,969
you have to sacrifice who you are.
560
00:25:16,056 --> 00:25:18,556
-Mm-hmm.
-Know that you're deserving
561
00:25:18,642 --> 00:25:20,812
-of having that little Jen moment.
-Right.
562
00:25:20,894 --> 00:25:22,234
-That's important.
-If there was
563
00:25:22,312 --> 00:25:25,192
just a little bit more time in the day,
that'd be perfect.
564
00:25:25,273 --> 00:25:28,573
-Isn't that a bit of an excuse, though?
-Ha ha!
565
00:25:31,446 --> 00:25:33,866
The whole "I don't have enough time"
is a load of crap.
566
00:25:33,949 --> 00:25:35,199
Crap, yeah because--
567
00:25:35,283 --> 00:25:37,413
You would just find something else
to clean up
568
00:25:37,494 --> 00:25:40,334
-or something else to do for... yeah.
-Yes, exactly.
569
00:25:40,747 --> 00:25:43,077
You have daughters
who think the world of you,
570
00:25:43,208 --> 00:25:45,248
-who are able to help.
-Right.
571
00:25:46,002 --> 00:25:49,512
And if the laundry sits for a day,
the laundry has to sit for a day.
572
00:25:49,589 --> 00:25:51,629
It'll sit for a day. They can get over it.
573
00:25:51,716 --> 00:25:54,756
You're doing the most.
574
00:25:55,220 --> 00:25:57,180
-I love being Polish.
-I do too.
575
00:26:01,977 --> 00:26:03,977
# What have you got to lose?#
576
00:26:04,396 --> 00:26:06,396
# What have you got to lose?#
577
00:26:08,692 --> 00:26:09,942
So how's today been so far?
578
00:26:10,026 --> 00:26:12,316
- Today has been awesome.
- Good.
579
00:26:12,404 --> 00:26:14,914
This is absolutely gorgeous.
580
00:26:14,990 --> 00:26:17,370
Right? Come on, there are birds
chirping out here.
581
00:26:17,450 --> 00:26:19,540
Are we hiking? Because I'm gonna be--
582
00:26:20,453 --> 00:26:22,583
Does this body look like it exercises? No.
583
00:26:22,664 --> 00:26:25,134
Actually, it does.
Sister, you got a good body, okay?
584
00:26:25,208 --> 00:26:29,248
But listen, I'm more of a sit down,
get a beer, enjoy...
585
00:26:29,796 --> 00:26:31,916
-a house white.
-So whose great idea was this?
586
00:26:35,051 --> 00:26:38,471
I want to take you out to nature
to slow down,
587
00:26:38,763 --> 00:26:40,023
-walk...
-Okay.
588
00:26:40,098 --> 00:26:42,268
-...find moments for yourself.
-Right.
589
00:26:42,350 --> 00:26:44,060
Do you get to do this at all?
590
00:26:44,144 --> 00:26:45,854
I don't do this.
591
00:26:45,937 --> 00:26:48,607
'Cause I don't make time for it,
first of all.
592
00:26:49,232 --> 00:26:50,612
The other thing is, like,
593
00:26:50,692 --> 00:26:53,072
I don't like getting stuck in my head.
594
00:26:53,153 --> 00:26:56,363
I don't like silence.
I don't like being alone.
595
00:26:56,448 --> 00:26:59,988
Well, that makes sense.
That's why you keep yourself in chaos.
596
00:27:00,619 --> 00:27:03,499
It's your way of really avoiding
597
00:27:04,497 --> 00:27:06,327
the emotions,
598
00:27:06,416 --> 00:27:08,416
everything that's going on in your life.
599
00:27:08,501 --> 00:27:10,921
To, like, not focus on the inevitable.
600
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,590
- I don't want to lose him.
- Yeah.
601
00:27:15,675 --> 00:27:17,675
And I don't have a choice.
602
00:27:20,305 --> 00:27:25,475
And to me, it's like the longest,
drawn-out breakup.
603
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,360
Because like nothing I can do
to save him.
604
00:27:31,524 --> 00:27:34,154
That's why you're trying
to control everything else.
605
00:27:34,903 --> 00:27:36,913
Her husband has ALS.
606
00:27:36,988 --> 00:27:40,448
He is deteriorating
in front of their eyes.
607
00:27:40,742 --> 00:27:43,372
So she's keeping herself mixed
in this chaos
608
00:27:43,453 --> 00:27:45,663
so she doesn't have to deal
with her emotions
609
00:27:45,747 --> 00:27:47,747
and the fact that
she can't control this.
610
00:27:47,832 --> 00:27:50,172
You gotta be able to take the moment
to stop and say,
611
00:27:50,251 --> 00:27:52,461
"I'm releasing myself from all this chaos,
612
00:27:52,545 --> 00:27:55,005
so that way I can hear how you feel."
613
00:27:55,090 --> 00:27:58,470
Talk to John more about how he's feeling.
You talk about how you're feeling.
614
00:27:59,969 --> 00:28:03,139
I know it's hard for you to be sitting
in limbo, of like...
615
00:28:03,682 --> 00:28:05,642
"Tomorrow does he get worse?"
616
00:28:05,725 --> 00:28:07,225
-It's hard.
-Right.
617
00:28:07,310 --> 00:28:10,110
I know it's not the life that
you thought was gonna happen,
618
00:28:10,188 --> 00:28:12,228
-but he's still here today.
-Right.
619
00:28:13,274 --> 00:28:16,324
I just want ten years ago back.
620
00:28:16,403 --> 00:28:20,573
I want to do things me and John
used to do.
621
00:28:20,907 --> 00:28:23,237
But he can't do them anymore.
622
00:28:24,035 --> 00:28:25,195
I don't want it to--
623
00:28:26,329 --> 00:28:27,999
I don't want it in the past.
624
00:28:28,081 --> 00:28:29,921
-Yeah.
-I want my future.
625
00:28:31,042 --> 00:28:33,092
I know she feels utterly helpless.
626
00:28:33,169 --> 00:28:35,299
And it's stopping her
from enjoying the present.
627
00:28:35,380 --> 00:28:39,260
Though this is not the life she expected,
she needs to enjoy the moments
628
00:28:39,342 --> 00:28:42,012
with her daughters and her husband
while he's still here.
629
00:28:42,095 --> 00:28:44,505
I love a metaphor.
I don't know if you know that about me.
630
00:28:44,597 --> 00:28:45,427
Okay.
631
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,060
This is a path.
632
00:28:47,517 --> 00:28:51,557
You can look back on the path and say,
"I walked that and it was fun."
633
00:28:51,896 --> 00:28:52,726
It was.
634
00:28:52,814 --> 00:28:54,024
-Wasn't it?
-Yes.
635
00:28:55,233 --> 00:28:58,153
"I might not know
what's going to be happening up there.
636
00:28:59,654 --> 00:29:03,664
But I do know that, that was excellent."
637
00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:05,993
Can you say that?
638
00:29:07,495 --> 00:29:08,655
That's beautiful.
639
00:29:11,166 --> 00:29:12,786
That's scary as hell.
640
00:29:13,209 --> 00:29:14,959
-But I can do it.
-You can do it.
641
00:29:17,756 --> 00:29:18,666
I can do it.
642
00:29:20,508 --> 00:29:21,758
You can definitely do it.
643
00:29:22,302 --> 00:29:26,142
If you had to do
a metaphor, could've done it with beer.
644
00:29:27,849 --> 00:29:32,099
# Well, you say you're lookingTo the future...#
645
00:29:32,187 --> 00:29:33,807
I got some more plants.
646
00:29:34,481 --> 00:29:37,151
I clearly can't fix everything
for the Sweeneys.
647
00:29:37,233 --> 00:29:39,193
But from the comfortable living room,
648
00:29:39,277 --> 00:29:42,607
to decking out their patio
that they love to spend so much time on,
649
00:29:42,697 --> 00:29:45,867
it's all about Jennifer and John
being together.
650
00:29:49,287 --> 00:29:51,787
# Hey, hey, whoa-oh!#
651
00:29:52,248 --> 00:29:53,368
# Ahhh!#
652
00:29:55,084 --> 00:29:57,094
This is our oasis, Jennifer.
653
00:29:57,796 --> 00:29:59,796
This is out of my league.
654
00:29:59,881 --> 00:30:02,011
But you're meant to be
in a pretty gorgeous salon.
655
00:30:02,091 --> 00:30:02,931
Okay.
656
00:30:03,593 --> 00:30:06,553
I love your natural hair color,
first of all.
657
00:30:06,638 --> 00:30:09,768
I like the white in here.
658
00:30:09,849 --> 00:30:10,929
I love the white there.
659
00:30:11,017 --> 00:30:12,887
But then everyone's always like,
660
00:30:13,436 --> 00:30:15,436
"You should go lighter.
You should go lighter."
661
00:30:15,522 --> 00:30:19,532
What would you say
if someone said to your daughters,
662
00:30:19,609 --> 00:30:21,279
"You really should
change your appearance"?
663
00:30:21,361 --> 00:30:24,611
To them I'd say, "Mind your own business
before I punch you in the face."
664
00:30:24,697 --> 00:30:27,527
Yes. This guy who I learned
to do color from used to say,
665
00:30:27,617 --> 00:30:30,577
"Just 'cause you're Ameri-can
doesn't mean you Ameri-should."
666
00:30:31,579 --> 00:30:33,669
Growing your gray out is so brave,
667
00:30:33,748 --> 00:30:35,418
but it's also really beautiful.
668
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:38,130
No, I don't need to embrace your ideals
of beauty.
669
00:30:38,211 --> 00:30:40,591
I don't need to change who I am.
670
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,970
I want more silver-haired divas
in the world.
671
00:30:43,049 --> 00:30:44,299
This is stunning.
672
00:30:44,384 --> 00:30:46,184
But I do want
to do a really fierce little haircut.
673
00:30:46,261 --> 00:30:48,561
I want to do a little shine treatment
to give this hair some shine.
674
00:30:48,638 --> 00:30:49,758
-Right.
-And have you ever had
675
00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:51,518
-a lash extension or heard of them?
-No.
676
00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:54,139
-It's like 45 minutes of quiet time.
-Okay.
677
00:30:54,227 --> 00:30:56,477
It's not like getting your highlights
and a haircut
678
00:30:56,563 --> 00:30:58,523
-Right.
-and having a whole day at the salon.
679
00:30:58,606 --> 00:31:00,686
You get to close your eyes and just relax.
680
00:31:00,775 --> 00:31:02,185
-Okay!
-Yeah.
681
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,320
Let's go for it.
682
00:31:05,113 --> 00:31:08,283
This queen's always running,
always working, always doing.
683
00:31:08,366 --> 00:31:10,656
Yes, it's her time to relax.
684
00:31:13,496 --> 00:31:15,616
You're so pretty.
685
00:31:19,752 --> 00:31:23,512
Jennifer's been in this state
of giving and giving and giving.
686
00:31:23,590 --> 00:31:26,090
So this is such a good time
for Jennifer to slow down
687
00:31:26,175 --> 00:31:28,175
and learn how to get into some self-care
688
00:31:28,261 --> 00:31:30,971
and know that that will
actually better prepare her
689
00:31:31,055 --> 00:31:32,845
to be the caretaker that she is.
690
00:31:33,391 --> 00:31:35,481
I am taking all of this in.
691
00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:39,149
- It's so hard for you to relax.
- Yes.
692
00:31:39,230 --> 00:31:41,730
Well, you're learning to do something
that's uncomfortable for you.
693
00:31:41,816 --> 00:31:45,696
But this is a good time in your life
to have this lesson.
694
00:31:45,778 --> 00:31:47,528
You're still gonna have some kids
in the nest,
695
00:31:47,614 --> 00:31:51,034
but you still can start a transition
of making more time for yourself
696
00:31:51,117 --> 00:31:53,407
-even though they're still there.
-They're still there.
697
00:31:53,494 --> 00:31:54,754
They're adults now.
698
00:31:55,204 --> 00:31:57,964
-But we can--
-I gotta accept that. Yeah.
699
00:31:58,041 --> 00:32:00,041
They do look up to you,
and they are looking to you,
700
00:32:00,126 --> 00:32:02,836
and you still do have the ability
to maternally influence.
701
00:32:02,921 --> 00:32:03,761
Right.
702
00:32:04,130 --> 00:32:06,970
-I do need to slow down.
-Yeah.
703
00:32:10,678 --> 00:32:12,558
You're giving me Stacy London realness.
704
00:32:15,058 --> 00:32:16,268
Yes, queen!
705
00:32:18,353 --> 00:32:19,943
I need to do this more often.
706
00:32:20,021 --> 00:32:22,401
You do, queen.
707
00:32:23,816 --> 00:32:25,486
We're gonna let these rollers sit,
708
00:32:25,568 --> 00:32:27,698
-then I'm gonna finish styling your hair
-Okay.
709
00:32:27,779 --> 00:32:29,569
-after we get your lashes done.
-Okay.
710
00:32:31,908 --> 00:32:33,368
You're gonna get such an impact.
711
00:32:33,451 --> 00:32:36,081
Linerless existence
while we have our lashes.
712
00:32:37,830 --> 00:32:40,540
- I'm excited about the lashes.
- Your lashes are gonna be really pretty.
713
00:32:41,501 --> 00:32:42,541
Yes, living.
714
00:32:42,919 --> 00:32:45,549
Jennifer takes to self care
like a swan in water.
715
00:32:45,922 --> 00:32:46,762
Yes.
716
00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:48,259
She is living for this.
717
00:32:48,341 --> 00:32:49,881
She is thriving.
718
00:32:49,968 --> 00:32:53,928
She is serving me Jasmine and Aladdin
a whole new world.
719
00:32:54,806 --> 00:32:57,056
Are you ready to see
the new gorgeous Jennifer?
720
00:32:57,141 --> 00:32:58,561
Three, two..
721
00:32:58,977 --> 00:33:01,437
one and voil�.
722
00:33:02,146 --> 00:33:03,106
Wow.
723
00:33:03,982 --> 00:33:06,862
Ha.
724
00:33:06,943 --> 00:33:07,863
I love it.
725
00:33:07,944 --> 00:33:09,864
-You can get all up in it and look.
-Yeah.
726
00:33:12,740 --> 00:33:15,540
-It's big. I mean, it is big.
-I love big.
727
00:33:15,618 --> 00:33:18,198
I wanted you to see that
it can be glamorous, queen.
728
00:33:18,287 --> 00:33:19,617
My God. Yes.
729
00:33:20,081 --> 00:33:21,211
-Do you love it?
-Yes.
730
00:33:21,290 --> 00:33:22,670
I love you.
731
00:33:35,513 --> 00:33:38,353
# Maybe there's a way we can survive #
732
00:33:39,976 --> 00:33:43,146
# The future's on the lineSo let's go back in time#
733
00:33:43,229 --> 00:33:44,309
They're here, guys!
734
00:33:46,149 --> 00:33:47,689
Are you excited for your house?
735
00:33:47,775 --> 00:33:49,525
I am freaking geeking.
736
00:33:49,610 --> 00:33:51,450
-Hey, kids
-Hi.
737
00:33:52,113 --> 00:33:54,123
Careful... and then one more.
738
00:33:54,198 --> 00:33:56,158
Just listen to the sound of my voice.
739
00:33:56,659 --> 00:33:59,409
Oh, my gosh, I can already tell
your makeup and hair are flawless.
740
00:33:59,495 --> 00:34:02,075
- Keep your eyes closed.
- Are you ready to see this?
741
00:34:02,165 --> 00:34:06,745
Three... two... one.
742
00:34:08,254 --> 00:34:10,674
Oh, wow!
743
00:34:12,425 --> 00:34:14,255
It's your little deck.
744
00:34:14,343 --> 00:34:15,343
Isn't it beautiful?
745
00:34:16,137 --> 00:34:17,097
I can't...
746
00:34:17,180 --> 00:34:18,930
-Yeah, you can.
-Yes, you can!
747
00:34:20,558 --> 00:34:23,098
Oh, my God, this is incredible.
748
00:34:23,186 --> 00:34:25,096
- Like a new light fixture?
- A light fixture,
749
00:34:25,188 --> 00:34:27,398
planters under the window, grill.
750
00:34:27,482 --> 00:34:29,572
You guys can cook out here now, too.
751
00:34:29,650 --> 00:34:31,360
- Gorgeous.
- You kept talking about
752
00:34:31,444 --> 00:34:33,654
how this space
is your little piece of paradise
753
00:34:33,738 --> 00:34:36,198
- and how this was where--
-This is like an oasis now.
754
00:34:36,282 --> 00:34:37,122
Yes.
755
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,910
-I'm gonna sit right here having my beer.
-There you go!
756
00:34:40,995 --> 00:34:42,705
Oh, my God, this is awesome!
757
00:34:42,789 --> 00:34:45,879
- Wait till you see inside!
- Come on, let's see more.
758
00:34:47,919 --> 00:34:50,549
Oh, my God, this is gorgeous.
This is carpet.
759
00:34:50,630 --> 00:34:53,550
Because you seemed like
you really loved carpet.
760
00:34:53,633 --> 00:34:55,893
You wanted popcorn ceilings,
and I refused.
761
00:34:55,968 --> 00:34:57,508
Okay, that I can understand.
762
00:34:57,595 --> 00:34:59,385
I wanted to have a beachy vibe to it.
763
00:34:59,472 --> 00:35:02,732
- Like a breath of fresh air.
- Oh, I love that.
764
00:35:03,434 --> 00:35:04,734
Oh, my God.
765
00:35:04,811 --> 00:35:06,231
A bar!
766
00:35:06,813 --> 00:35:10,983
- It's a bar! It's a bar!
- Of course, girl!
767
00:35:11,067 --> 00:35:13,567
-I see you. I've met you. I know you.
-Bobby's a man after your own heart.
768
00:35:13,653 --> 00:35:17,493
- I wanted to bring the bar to you.
- Oh!
769
00:35:17,573 --> 00:35:21,163
Oh, my God. I am not an alcoholic,
I swear.
770
00:35:21,744 --> 00:35:25,714
So in here we've got new chairs,
new mirror, new lights.
771
00:35:25,790 --> 00:35:28,920
I love, love, love the play on,
like, the darkness of the table
772
00:35:29,001 --> 00:35:31,091
-with the lightness of the chairs.
-Wow.
773
00:35:31,629 --> 00:35:34,419
In here, some new bedding,
some new pillows.
774
00:35:34,507 --> 00:35:36,217
- Just zhuzhed it a little.
- Okay.
775
00:35:36,926 --> 00:35:38,796
Oh, my God!
776
00:35:39,554 --> 00:35:41,314
Side note, your hair looks incredible.
777
00:35:41,389 --> 00:35:44,889
You kept the streak. I didn't know--
I love that you didn't get rid of it.
778
00:35:45,434 --> 00:35:48,154
And as you can see, we did the tiniest
little zhuzh on her lashes.
779
00:35:48,229 --> 00:35:49,439
- Yes!
- They pop your eyes.
780
00:35:49,522 --> 00:35:51,482
-They really do.
-Oh, I'm so excited.
781
00:35:51,566 --> 00:35:53,526
The bar and the lashes,
that did it for her.
782
00:35:56,571 --> 00:35:57,411
Jen,
783
00:35:57,488 --> 00:35:59,568
- after we leave, there's a big situation.
- Yeah.
784
00:35:59,657 --> 00:36:02,287
-So for food, I have fresh pierogis.
-Okay.
785
00:36:02,368 --> 00:36:04,408
-Czerw's is gonna cater the situation.
-Ooh!
786
00:36:04,495 --> 00:36:05,495
And next thing.
787
00:36:05,580 --> 00:36:08,370
-I thought we'd make potato latkes.
-Yes.
788
00:36:09,792 --> 00:36:11,672
- So on a simple box grater...
- Okay.
789
00:36:11,752 --> 00:36:14,592
...you'll just grate potatoes
and grate an onion.
790
00:36:14,672 --> 00:36:16,632
This is apparently how
every Polish grandma makes them.
791
00:36:16,716 --> 00:36:19,176
So we're gonna line a bowl like this.
792
00:36:19,260 --> 00:36:20,760
-With a kitchen towel.
-Okay.
793
00:36:20,845 --> 00:36:23,135
And I'm gonna ask you to keep on squeezing
794
00:36:23,222 --> 00:36:25,602
and get rid of as much moisture
as you possibly can.
795
00:36:25,683 --> 00:36:29,733
Oh, you're such a Polish mom right now,
and I mean that in the best way possible.
796
00:36:30,354 --> 00:36:31,774
And now some flour.
797
00:36:32,565 --> 00:36:33,475
Along with the egg.
798
00:36:34,609 --> 00:36:36,439
It's gonna help to be like a binder.
799
00:36:38,571 --> 00:36:41,121
And I'm gonna sprinkle in
just a little bit of baking soda.
800
00:36:41,199 --> 00:36:44,329
- Beautiful. You are honoring your babcia.
- Right. My babci.
801
00:36:44,410 --> 00:36:47,210
The oil now is really heated up.
The pan's been going for a while.
802
00:36:47,288 --> 00:36:48,998
This puppy is ready.
803
00:36:49,081 --> 00:36:51,461
You wanna salt it
right after it comes out.
804
00:36:51,542 --> 00:36:52,462
-Cheers.
-Cheers.
805
00:36:54,503 --> 00:36:55,503
They're perfect.
806
00:36:55,588 --> 00:36:57,968
-Does it taste like grandma?
-Yes.
807
00:36:58,049 --> 00:37:00,049
My girls are going to be so excited.
808
00:37:01,344 --> 00:37:02,354
Oh, my gosh.
809
00:37:02,428 --> 00:37:05,888
As you can see, I got you a lot of color,
I got you a lot of print.
810
00:37:06,390 --> 00:37:09,390
There's no filler pieces,
it's just lovely clothes.
811
00:37:09,602 --> 00:37:12,402
-I wanna try this stuff on!
-Good!
812
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,570
All right, Fives, you know the deal.
You ready?
813
00:37:14,649 --> 00:37:15,519
Yeah!
814
00:37:15,608 --> 00:37:17,488
Jennifer Sweeney,
won't you join us please, my love?
815
00:37:20,071 --> 00:37:21,951
-Gorgeous!
-Love that jacket!
816
00:37:22,031 --> 00:37:25,661
-Into it!
-Lisa Vanderpump, eat your heart out.
817
00:37:25,743 --> 00:37:27,873
They're stretch jeans so she can bend.
818
00:37:27,954 --> 00:37:30,334
You were dropping it like it was hot
the other day. Yeah.
819
00:37:31,791 --> 00:37:33,211
Get it, mama!
820
00:37:34,502 --> 00:37:36,002
- Yes. Yes.
- Gorgeous.
821
00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:38,627
- I feel pretty.
- Aww.
822
00:37:40,841 --> 00:37:44,971
# Love the color Gorgeous on you #
823
00:37:45,054 --> 00:37:47,314
- Tan, she looks amazing.
- Gorgeous.
824
00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:49,600
I wanted to give you
a bold color, a bold earring.
825
00:37:49,684 --> 00:37:51,944
There's ways of doing it
which is still refined.
826
00:37:52,019 --> 00:37:56,269
- But I think even it's calming.
- Yes. I'll take that.
827
00:37:57,149 --> 00:37:59,569
Tell us,
what have you learned this week, my love?
828
00:37:59,652 --> 00:38:03,952
-I've learned to take time for myself.
-Mm-hmm.
829
00:38:04,156 --> 00:38:05,866
Not worry about tomorrow.
830
00:38:05,950 --> 00:38:06,830
Yeah.
831
00:38:07,034 --> 00:38:08,584
Ask the girls for help.
832
00:38:08,661 --> 00:38:11,711
And how to relax.
833
00:38:11,789 --> 00:38:13,999
But also that relaxing
is not all or nothing.
834
00:38:14,083 --> 00:38:15,753
Right. It's the little things.
835
00:38:15,835 --> 00:38:17,835
-Yes.
-Yes! Amen.
836
00:38:18,254 --> 00:38:20,384
Thank you for letting us
into your home and family.
837
00:38:20,464 --> 00:38:21,844
We love you.
838
00:38:21,924 --> 00:38:23,554
Thank you, I love you guys more.
839
00:38:23,634 --> 00:38:25,554
Give the girls and John big hugs
for us.
840
00:38:25,636 --> 00:38:26,596
Bye, sweetheart.
841
00:38:26,679 --> 00:38:28,639
- Thank you!
- Enjoy.
842
00:38:29,682 --> 00:38:30,892
Head up, head up!
843
00:38:30,975 --> 00:38:33,265
- Bye.
- Bye, guys.
844
00:38:33,352 --> 00:38:34,402
Bye, darling!
845
00:38:39,525 --> 00:38:42,025
# Hey, pretty baby#
846
00:38:43,612 --> 00:38:46,532
# I'm coming inWith my hands held high #
847
00:38:47,491 --> 00:38:50,791
We have platski, or latkes
in honor of Jennifer Sweeney.
848
00:38:50,870 --> 00:38:52,290
Aww, I love that.
849
00:38:52,371 --> 00:38:53,661
Is it traditional to have it
with sour cream?
850
00:38:53,748 --> 00:38:54,578
Yes.
851
00:38:55,207 --> 00:38:57,457
- Ooh, he's aggressive.
- Oh, yeah.
852
00:38:57,543 --> 00:38:59,423
I'm good with this little bit here.
Thank you.
853
00:38:59,503 --> 00:39:01,883
Just so rude.
854
00:39:01,964 --> 00:39:03,844
Shall we see what Jennifer got up to?
855
00:39:03,924 --> 00:39:05,264
Walter.
856
00:39:05,343 --> 00:39:08,473
-You're already here! Beautiful.
-Walter!
857
00:39:09,138 --> 00:39:10,888
- All right.
- Everyone ready, boys?
858
00:39:14,477 --> 00:39:16,727
-Wait, I'm sorry but she looks amazing.
-So good.
859
00:39:16,812 --> 00:39:17,982
She does.
860
00:39:19,982 --> 00:39:20,902
Oh, my God!
861
00:39:22,777 --> 00:39:24,987
- Look at you!
- You look amazing.
862
00:39:25,071 --> 00:39:27,281
- I feel amazing.
- Yeah?
863
00:39:27,365 --> 00:39:28,815
Her daughters are blown away.
864
00:39:30,368 --> 00:39:32,238
- You look so good.
- You look awesome.
865
00:39:32,620 --> 00:39:34,660
- Ooh, yes.
- A nice long kiss.
866
00:39:34,747 --> 00:39:36,247
John can't take his eyes off her.
867
00:39:36,332 --> 00:39:37,252
Come on!
868
00:39:37,333 --> 00:39:40,253
Whoa. This is not our house.
869
00:39:40,753 --> 00:39:43,383
- Oh, my God.
- Oh, my God.
870
00:39:44,382 --> 00:39:46,512
Oh! This is not real life!
871
00:39:47,218 --> 00:39:48,638
It's real life, girls.
872
00:39:49,178 --> 00:39:51,308
What is that? Oh, yes!
873
00:39:51,389 --> 00:39:52,969
I didn't even see that.
874
00:39:53,057 --> 00:39:55,307
Oh!
875
00:39:55,393 --> 00:39:56,893
That family loves a bar.
876
00:39:56,977 --> 00:39:59,477
I was always very proud of the closet.
877
00:40:01,190 --> 00:40:04,240
Saucy! Oh, my God, I love it.
878
00:40:04,318 --> 00:40:06,028
And all this is my size.
879
00:40:06,112 --> 00:40:07,742
Oh!
880
00:40:07,822 --> 00:40:08,992
- This is mine.
- All these years
881
00:40:09,073 --> 00:40:10,323
I have to share my clothes with you.
882
00:40:10,408 --> 00:40:14,698
Now that you've got a new wardrobe,
and suddenly, sharing is no longer caring.
883
00:40:14,787 --> 00:40:16,247
She actually looks pissed.
884
00:40:16,330 --> 00:40:19,250
If I had mute on this, I would think
I was watching Jerry Springer, honey.
885
00:40:19,333 --> 00:40:21,213
-She was like--
-Unh-unh-unh-unh.
886
00:40:22,044 --> 00:40:23,174
For dinner tonight,
887
00:40:23,254 --> 00:40:26,304
we are having a typical Polish meal.
888
00:40:29,218 --> 00:40:31,258
I'm gonna make some potato pancakes.
889
00:40:31,345 --> 00:40:34,305
I love the accent.
She just said "potato pancakes."
890
00:40:36,016 --> 00:40:38,056
We have pierogis,
891
00:40:38,144 --> 00:40:40,814
-and you guys grill the kielbasy for me.
-Okay.
892
00:40:41,230 --> 00:40:43,690
She's a delegation station,
and she's the captain, honey.
893
00:40:43,774 --> 00:40:44,734
It's amazing.
894
00:40:44,817 --> 00:40:46,187
We gotta flip it.
895
00:40:48,446 --> 00:40:49,446
They look good.
896
00:40:49,530 --> 00:40:52,740
- We're doing pretty good.
- Yes! Ignite that passion.
897
00:40:53,993 --> 00:40:55,043
Mmm.
898
00:40:55,870 --> 00:40:59,250
Are you gonna do that every time
you walk by there now?
899
00:40:59,331 --> 00:41:01,381
I cannot stop looking in the mirror.
900
00:41:02,001 --> 00:41:04,001
- You look great.
- Thank you.
901
00:41:04,086 --> 00:41:05,296
-I missed you.
-I missed you.
902
00:41:05,713 --> 00:41:07,263
It was a long, crazy week.
903
00:41:07,339 --> 00:41:08,919
- The way she looks at him.
- Yeah.
904
00:41:09,008 --> 00:41:10,968
-She loves him.
-Yes, you can see that.
905
00:41:12,428 --> 00:41:17,098
We don't often say it, but we're all
very thankful for everything you do.
906
00:41:17,850 --> 00:41:19,270
Awww.
907
00:41:19,351 --> 00:41:23,611
It must be so nice for him to see
the person giving him care be cared for.
908
00:41:24,565 --> 00:41:27,025
I'm grateful that you guys see what I do.
909
00:41:27,568 --> 00:41:28,438
But I need help.
910
00:41:30,112 --> 00:41:31,992
Like, they're not kids anymore.
911
00:41:32,072 --> 00:41:35,242
We gotta start treating them like adults.
912
00:41:35,784 --> 00:41:37,874
Things are gonna change
around here, mister.
913
00:41:37,953 --> 00:41:40,083
Oh, finally.
914
00:41:40,164 --> 00:41:43,834
She was running the household
like she still had infant children.
915
00:41:43,918 --> 00:41:46,088
These are grown women in the house,
they can help.
916
00:41:46,170 --> 00:41:49,010
I got a lot out of my time with Karamo.
917
00:41:49,465 --> 00:41:50,665
We went hiking.
918
00:41:51,091 --> 00:41:54,551
And what he was saying,
what I took out of it was...
919
00:41:56,430 --> 00:41:57,970
I gotta live for today.
920
00:41:59,350 --> 00:42:03,310
But enjoy the beauty of the past.
921
00:42:06,023 --> 00:42:08,443
Like, I tried to live in yesterday
922
00:42:08,901 --> 00:42:12,201
'cause I enjoyed it so much.
923
00:42:13,030 --> 00:42:15,780
And it's behind me. It was beautiful.
924
00:42:16,116 --> 00:42:17,946
But I gotta live,
925
00:42:18,577 --> 00:42:20,407
and not be afraid of tomorrow.
926
00:42:20,996 --> 00:42:21,866
Oh.
927
00:42:22,748 --> 00:42:26,458
How important is it to really say,
"Let's live for today
928
00:42:26,544 --> 00:42:28,214
and not worry about tomorrow"?
929
00:42:28,295 --> 00:42:30,705
Because that's all the moments you have,
is right now.
930
00:42:30,798 --> 00:42:32,628
Especially her saying it to John,
it's so powerful.
931
00:42:32,716 --> 00:42:33,546
Absolutely.
932
00:42:33,634 --> 00:42:34,934
-Love you.
-I love you more.
933
00:42:36,971 --> 00:42:38,181
We did it!
934
00:42:38,264 --> 00:42:40,274
-And you didn't burn the deck down.
-I know.
935
00:42:40,349 --> 00:42:41,599
Brand-new deck. it's not on fire.
936
00:42:44,770 --> 00:42:46,400
Oh, my gosh, they're all helping.
937
00:42:48,524 --> 00:42:51,364
- Look at her, good job.
- I love a good flip.
938
00:42:51,986 --> 00:42:54,696
Now we're getting the party started!
939
00:42:55,573 --> 00:42:57,703
- You look so pretty.
- Thank you.
940
00:42:57,783 --> 00:43:00,373
It doesn't look like we're
in the same house.
941
00:43:03,622 --> 00:43:05,252
I like the eyelashes.
942
00:43:05,332 --> 00:43:06,962
Those lashes look so good.
943
00:43:07,042 --> 00:43:09,042
They're extensions.
They don't come off.
944
00:43:09,587 --> 00:43:10,747
Oh, really?
945
00:43:11,338 --> 00:43:13,418
There is all this Polish food.
946
00:43:13,507 --> 00:43:15,927
And I made potato pancakes.
947
00:43:17,636 --> 00:43:19,636
-Aww!
-Polish people!
948
00:43:20,347 --> 00:43:21,717
This is really good.
949
00:43:22,516 --> 00:43:24,306
She's so happy to see her family.
950
00:43:24,393 --> 00:43:26,313
I know. Yeah.
The Poles, they love their families.
951
00:43:28,731 --> 00:43:31,781
So I just want to thank everyone
for coming.
952
00:43:32,359 --> 00:43:34,149
But this is not for me.
953
00:43:34,570 --> 00:43:37,410
We want to celebrate you,
and everything that you do for us.
954
00:43:37,489 --> 00:43:40,989
So basically, it's not my party.
It's Mom's party!
955
00:43:41,076 --> 00:43:42,576
Surprise!
956
00:43:42,661 --> 00:43:44,001
Awww!
957
00:43:44,622 --> 00:43:45,962
She deserves it.
958
00:43:46,749 --> 00:43:48,959
You are the heart and soul of this family.
959
00:43:49,043 --> 00:43:51,803
And you've dedicated your life
to taking care of us.
960
00:43:51,879 --> 00:43:55,169
You deserve to put all of that time
and effort into yourself, too.
961
00:43:55,257 --> 00:43:57,677
And we hope this week taught you
962
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:01,720
to see the strong amazing woman
that we see in you every day.
963
00:44:01,805 --> 00:44:03,055
so open and so clean,
964
00:44:07,353 --> 00:44:09,563
You walk in here now,
everything is just...
965
00:44:10,314 --> 00:44:12,404
so open, and so clean,
966
00:44:12,483 --> 00:44:16,653
and it's kind of the way I feel
about myself right now.
967
00:44:16,737 --> 00:44:17,567
Like...
968
00:44:18,113 --> 00:44:20,203
I spent two hours sitting still
969
00:44:20,282 --> 00:44:22,452
getting these freaking eyelashes done.
970
00:44:24,703 --> 00:44:26,623
Aww, look at them!
971
00:44:27,539 --> 00:44:29,879
And I thank you guys
for every bit of support
972
00:44:29,958 --> 00:44:32,878
'cause I couldn't do what I do
without your help.
973
00:44:32,961 --> 00:44:33,841
Everybody's.
974
00:44:36,548 --> 00:44:38,628
Awww!
975
00:44:38,759 --> 00:44:42,099
She's like, "You little...
making me cry at my party."
976
00:44:43,263 --> 00:44:46,483
My hope for people
who are in a position like Jennifer
977
00:44:46,558 --> 00:44:48,228
is that they don't neglect themself.
978
00:44:48,310 --> 00:44:51,650
Things are not gonna fall apart
if you take time for yourself.
979
00:44:53,190 --> 00:44:55,860
You're too special to ignore your needs...
980
00:44:56,443 --> 00:44:57,613
Queen.
981
00:45:03,158 --> 00:45:04,738
To the mom who's the most.
982
00:45:06,662 --> 00:45:07,502
- Cheers.
- Yeah!
983
00:45:08,497 --> 00:45:10,167
You're vile.
984
00:45:15,003 --> 00:45:16,713
Here's the 511 on dirty martinis:
985
00:45:17,464 --> 00:45:18,924
Five parts chilled vodka.
986
00:45:19,341 --> 00:45:20,181
Or gin.
987
00:45:21,927 --> 00:45:23,097
One part vermouth.
988
00:45:25,222 --> 00:45:26,602
One part olive juice.
989
00:45:27,766 --> 00:45:29,136
That's what makes it dirty.
990
00:45:30,644 --> 00:45:32,604
Shaken or stirred.
991
00:45:33,772 --> 00:45:36,442
And always pour
into a chilled martini glass.
992
00:45:38,110 --> 00:45:40,450
Finally, garnish with blue cheese olives.
993
00:45:44,032 --> 00:45:45,082
Keep it dirty.
994
00:45:48,162 --> 00:45:49,792
# Live a little#
995
00:45:50,247 --> 00:45:51,497
# Live it up#
996
00:45:52,416 --> 00:45:55,786
# Let's get the party startedNever stop #
997
00:45:56,545 --> 00:46:00,415
# You know that there can never beToo much good times#
998
00:46:00,507 --> 00:46:05,637
# So we got just little little lit upYeah #
999
00:46:05,721 --> 00:46:06,891
# Yeah, yeah, yeah#
1000
00:46:06,972 --> 00:46:08,772
# Oh, oh, yeah#
1001
00:46:08,849 --> 00:46:13,439
# Well, everybody needs to let goAnd just unwind #
1002
00:46:14,188 --> 00:46:16,898
# That's right, yeah #
1003
00:46:17,191 --> 00:46:21,951
# And everybody needs to getA little crazy sometimes #
1004
00:46:22,321 --> 00:46:24,321
- # Well, all right#- # All right! #
1005
00:46:24,406 --> 00:46:28,616
# So put on your sexy dressGet on the floor and dance#
1006
00:46:28,702 --> 00:46:32,332
# You know you're looking good#
1007
00:46:32,414 --> 00:46:36,084
# So go out and have the best timeOf your life #
1008
00:46:36,168 --> 00:46:38,838
# And don't just say you wouldn't know#
1009
00:46:38,921 --> 00:46:40,921
# You could, everybody should#
1010
00:46:41,006 --> 00:46:43,876
# Come on and live a little#
1011
00:46:43,967 --> 00:46:45,337
# Live it up#
1012
00:46:46,094 --> 00:46:49,314
# Let's get the party startedNever stop #
1013
00:46:49,389 --> 00:46:50,519
# Whoa, yeah! #
1014
00:46:50,599 --> 00:46:54,349
# You know that there can never beToo much good times#
1015
00:46:54,436 --> 00:46:58,726
# So we got just little little lit up#
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