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I had it all, and i'm
not talking
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About worldly possessions.
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I'm talking about
everything that truly
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Matters in this life, but
i threw it all away,
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And for what?
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I couldn't have asked for
more, but that's exactly
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What i searched for, and
exactly what i got;
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More than my soul can bear.
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媻 i'll do what you say...
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媻 you say...
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媻 i'll do what you say...
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媻 bring me back home...
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媻 stranded in a
lower place...
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媻 my trust in you is
the better case...
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媻 you know what is
right for me...
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媻 all my mistakes have
worn me down...
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媻 i can't make it alone...
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媻 your wonderful grace
is always found...
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媻 you're someone
who knows...
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媻 i'll do what you say...
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媻 you say...
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媻 i'll do what you say...
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媻 bring me back, oh...
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I remember it like
it was yesterday.
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Her beauty took my breath
away, and her love
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Consumed every part of me.
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I, amber, take you
doug to be my husband, my
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Partner, and my one true
love, and promise to
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Cherish our union and love
you every day more than i
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Did the day before.
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I promise to trust
and respect you...
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And laugh and
cry with you...
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And love you faithfully
through the bad and the
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Good, no matter what
obstacles we may face.
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I give you my hand,
my heart and my love.
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From this day forward,
as long as we
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Both shall live.
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I, doug, take you amber
to be my wife, my friend,
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And my love from
this day forward.
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In the presence of our
family and our friends, i
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Offer you this solemn
to be your faithful
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Partner in sickness and in
health, for richer or for
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Poorer, in good times and
in bad, and in joy,
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As well as sorrow.
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I promise to love
you unconditionally.
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I promise to
laugh with you.
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I promise to cry with you,
and cherish you for as
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Long as we both
shall live.
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- You may exchange rings.
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By the power vested in
me, i now pronounce you
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Husband and wife. You
may kiss the bride.
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My world felt
like a story book.
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We were unstoppable.
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Eternity was ours
just for the taking.
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That was the beginning of
something beautiful, and
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In retrospect, the
end of our innocence.
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That was a
magical day...
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Like a fairytale
come true.
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It's something i had
always dreamed about since
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I was a little girl,
to have my knight in
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Shining armor carry
me from the church
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To the waiting horse
and carriage.
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She never wavered from
the vow she made to
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Me on our wedding day.
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I wish i could
say the same.
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I took her for granted.
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I was blinded by
lust and greed.
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It's all a mirage.
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The grass is never greener
on the other side.
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It's only greener
where you water it.
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That's what she
used to say to me.
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I never listened, but
i hear it now
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Loud and clear.
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- Don't go.
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- No.
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I better get back to work.
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- Take the day off.
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- I can't.
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Somebody's got to
pay for this place.
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Love doesn't come cheap.
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- No, but i'm worth it.
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- Yeah, you are.
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Why don't i take an entire
month off, go to paris?
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- You're so good to me.
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Tired of waiting, though.
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When are you
going to tell her?
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- Tonight.
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- Tonight.
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It's about time.
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I kind of feel
sorry for her.
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She doesn't even
know it's coming.
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I don't feel
sorry for her.
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- Well, you should.
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You won.
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It wasn't a
competition.
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No, she didn't stand
a chance once i met you.
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I saved you from
your boring life.
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- True.
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Very true, and thank you.
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- Same time tomorrow?
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- Can't come soon enough.
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We'll celebrate.
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I gotta get back to work.
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- Hey, mom.
- Hey, sweetheart.
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Is dad coming
home for dinner?
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He just called. He's
on his way.
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You want to help me
set up the table?
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- Sure.
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Great, oh, and
use the good china.
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- Is it a special night?
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I just want it to
be nice for your dad.
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Seems he's been working
late every night.
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Do you think he
can come to my karate
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Tournament this weekend?
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- I sure hope so.
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I know how much
it means to you.
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It's the state
championships.
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- I know. We're so proud of you.
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- Thanks, mom.
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I absolutely
dreaded going home.
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I know it sounds
terrible, but it's true.
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I let myself get to a
place where the only
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Truthful things in my
life felt like lies.
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It's strange how that
works when what you're
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Doing is so wrong.
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Even seeing my
daughter was hard.
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I adored her, but it
riddled me with guilt
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Just seeing her face.
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- Dad!
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Hey, munchkin. How
was your day?
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- Better now.
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Mine, too. I'm sorry. I should
have called. I got tied up.
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You, it's a
school night. Off to bed.
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- Okay. Dad, can you
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Come to my karate
tournament this weekend?
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I wouldn't miss
it for the world.
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- Yes! Love you.
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- Love you, too, honey.
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- Night, dad.
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- I'm glad you're home.
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Let me go warm up dinner.
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- Okay.
- Okay.
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- Thanks for dinner.
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- It's my pleasure.
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You're not eating much.
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Did you want know get
you something else?
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- No, it's fine.
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I don't know about
these green beans.
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Last week, they
just seemed,
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I don't know, sweeter.
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Are you okay?
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- Look, amber i...
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I can't do this anymore.
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What on earth are
you talking about?
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- Us.
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Our marriage.
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Where on earth is
this coming from?
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- Amber...
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You're a good person.
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I'm just not happy.
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I feel like we've been
growing apart like...
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Like we want different
things out of life.
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I want out.
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- You want out?
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There's more to it
than that, but yeah.
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- I see.
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Isn't this just a
little bit cliche?
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- What?
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- Come on, doug. I'm not stupid.
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The new clothes,
the flashy car...
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And the late
nights working.
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I can't believe this.
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This is hard for me
to say, amber, but...
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I don't love you anymore.
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I'm sorry.
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- You're sorry? Really?
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Have you stopped to think
for a moment what this is
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Going to do to izzy?
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- Of course i have!
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Izzy's my daughter.
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I love izzy.
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Right. It's just me you don't
love anymore.
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I can't get her look of
disappointment out
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Of my head.
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That's what hell is, i
think, remembering the
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Face of someone you love
and the pain
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You caused them.
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It wasn't always
like this.
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I had character.
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You should have seen
her on our first date.
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She was beautiful.
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I loved her the moment
i laid eyes on her.
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- Can i help you?
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I'm here to pick
up amber for the...
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Dance.
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- And you are?
- Um...
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- Your name's um?
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Um, doug. Doug,
that's my name.
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- And?
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00:14:24,531 --> 00:14:31,454
And i'm here to pick
her up for the prom. I...
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Girls ask guys.
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I thought she would have
mentioned something.
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- She did.
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I was just expecting
someone different.
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- No, it's just me.
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- Daddy, be nice.
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- This is nice.
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Wow, you
look beautiful.
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- Thank you.
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You have her home by
11, or i'll come
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Looking for you.
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You don't want that.
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Yeah, 11 o'clock sharp. You
have my word.
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- We'll see.
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- Look at this.
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This is a gorgeous
couple, don't you think?
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- They're not a couple.
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It's a date,
that's all it is.
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It's a first date, and
it's probably her last
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One, with him anyway.
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And don't even think
about first base.
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I don't even know what
that is, but i promise i
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Won't even think
about it, sir.
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- You're good.
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You know all the right
things to say, don't you?
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You can't
outsmart a fox.
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I've been in the
hen house, pal.
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I don't really know
what that is, but i
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Promise you i won't
think about it, sir.
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It means keep your
hands to yourself.
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Time's ticking.
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- The big ones, 8 x 10's. Bye.
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- Nice guy.
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He's really a huge
teddy bear once you
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Get to know him.
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- I can tell.
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- I don't like him.
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Robert, you
don't even know him.
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Look, he looks like a really
nice boy.
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00:16:26,486 --> 00:16:28,947
Look, he's a gentleman.
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He's opening the
door for her.
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Okay, try and put this
on without stabbing you.
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- Okay.
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Ouch!
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- Okay.
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00:16:51,594 --> 00:16:55,640
- I, um...
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I actually made
this for you.
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It's not that
great, is it?
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00:17:02,397 --> 00:17:10,196
I think it's
beautiful. Thank you.
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00:17:16,453 --> 00:17:18,663
Perfect.
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- Thank you.
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I've never actually worn
one of these before.
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00:17:22,792 --> 00:17:28,131
Well, you look
very handsome.
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Your parents are
probably watching
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Us right now.
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00:17:36,139 --> 00:17:37,557
- Should we go should?
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00:17:37,724 --> 00:17:40,351
- Yeah, let's go.
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00:18:03,249 --> 00:18:06,085
What i wouldn't give to
go back in time and share
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00:18:06,252 --> 00:18:12,258
That moment
with you again.
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00:18:12,425 --> 00:18:16,262
We were so
innocent, and you...
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You were so cute,
so charming.
262
00:18:26,856 --> 00:18:30,527
I think it's safe to say i
was smitten with you from
263
00:18:30,693 --> 00:18:33,613
The very beginning.
264
00:18:33,780 --> 00:18:36,741
- Did you tell her?
265
00:18:36,908 --> 00:18:39,452
- Yeah.
266
00:18:39,619 --> 00:18:42,413
- What did she say?
267
00:18:58,888 --> 00:19:03,935
Are you okay?
268
00:19:04,102 --> 00:19:09,274
I've just never heard
her cry like that before.
269
00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,318
It was hard to be around.
270
00:19:12,485 --> 00:19:14,988
Why didn't you just
pack your bags and leave?
271
00:19:15,154 --> 00:19:16,447
Because i didn't want
to make a big scene with
272
00:19:16,614 --> 00:19:19,409
My daughter there.
273
00:19:19,576 --> 00:19:26,082
I'll wrap my things up
in the next few days.
274
00:19:26,249 --> 00:19:28,585
You can stay with me
until we get a
275
00:19:28,751 --> 00:19:36,301
Place of our own.
276
00:19:36,467 --> 00:19:41,139
Did you hear me?
277
00:19:41,306 --> 00:19:49,063
Yeah. I knew she wanted to
find out happened to our
278
00:19:49,230 --> 00:19:51,733
Marriage, but i could
hardly give her a
279
00:19:51,900 --> 00:19:55,862
Satisfactory answer.
280
00:19:56,029 --> 00:19:59,991
She had lost my heart
to another woman.
281
00:20:00,158 --> 00:20:06,706
I didn't love her anymore.
I just pitied her.
282
00:20:06,873 --> 00:20:09,459
Or so i thought
at the time.
283
00:20:39,405 --> 00:20:42,241
- How is izzy?
284
00:20:42,408 --> 00:20:45,411
She waited up
for you again.
285
00:20:49,624 --> 00:20:53,544
I'll go talk to
her in a minute.
286
00:20:57,173 --> 00:20:59,759
I'm sorry this has to be
done right now, but it's
287
00:20:59,926 --> 00:21:02,136
Just gotta get done.
288
00:21:02,303 --> 00:21:04,138
I need you to sign
the divorce papers.
289
00:21:04,305 --> 00:21:06,057
They're more than fair.
290
00:21:06,224 --> 00:21:09,686
You get the house, your
car, half the money we
291
00:21:09,852 --> 00:21:13,147
Have in the bank.
292
00:21:13,314 --> 00:21:18,319
You and izzy will be well
taken care of, i promise.
293
00:21:32,792 --> 00:21:34,252
- Sorry i'm late.
294
00:21:34,419 --> 00:21:38,715
- It's okay.
- Are you all right?
295
00:21:38,881 --> 00:21:41,259
- Yeah.
296
00:21:41,426 --> 00:21:43,219
- Okay. Did you order yet?
297
00:21:43,386 --> 00:21:44,762
No, i was
waiting for you.
298
00:21:44,929 --> 00:21:47,140
- Perfect.
299
00:21:47,306 --> 00:21:49,517
So did you
look into that?
300
00:21:49,684 --> 00:21:51,436
Yeah, yeah, it seems
like it's a pretty
301
00:21:51,602 --> 00:21:53,563
Good jr. College.
302
00:21:53,730 --> 00:21:55,815
I meant the
marriage license.
303
00:21:55,982 --> 00:21:59,777
Oh, i haven't gotten
around to that yet.
304
00:21:59,944 --> 00:22:02,447
- Good.
305
00:22:02,613 --> 00:22:08,661
- What do you mean good?
- Never mind.
306
00:22:08,828 --> 00:22:10,079
You're acting
really strange.
307
00:22:10,246 --> 00:22:14,375
What's going on?
308
00:22:15,585 --> 00:22:18,588
- I think...
309
00:22:18,755 --> 00:22:20,506
That we might be a little
bit too young to be
310
00:22:20,673 --> 00:22:24,552
Thinking about marriage.
311
00:22:24,719 --> 00:22:25,887
That's all we've been
talking about for the
312
00:22:26,054 --> 00:22:28,973
Last year, amber.
313
00:22:29,140 --> 00:22:32,769
I know. I just feel like we
need more time to
314
00:22:32,935 --> 00:22:37,023
Think about it, you know?
315
00:22:37,190 --> 00:22:40,651
And then we'll meet
back up after college.
316
00:22:48,910 --> 00:22:52,080
Are you breaking
up with me?
317
00:22:52,246 --> 00:22:53,998
- That's not what i said.
318
00:22:54,165 --> 00:22:56,542
- What are you saying?
319
00:22:56,709 --> 00:23:03,633
That maybe, um, we
should see other people.
320
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,469
Look, doug, forever is a
really, really long time.
321
00:23:06,636 --> 00:23:09,138
- I can't believe this.
322
00:23:09,305 --> 00:23:13,559
I just wanted a hamburger.
323
00:23:13,726 --> 00:23:18,689
Look, this isn't some
permanent thing, doug.
324
00:23:18,856 --> 00:23:23,861
I just need to be sure.
325
00:23:24,028 --> 00:23:27,573
I know what i want. I thought
you did, too.
326
00:23:27,740 --> 00:23:31,035
You're the last person
i'd ever want to hurt.
327
00:23:31,202 --> 00:23:33,454
I'm sorry.
328
00:23:33,621 --> 00:23:35,206
This is coming from
your dad, isn't it?
329
00:23:35,373 --> 00:23:38,209
- No.
330
00:23:38,376 --> 00:23:42,547
Yeah, it is. He's never liked
me since day one.
331
00:23:42,713 --> 00:23:44,632
He's just
overprotective.
332
00:23:44,799 --> 00:23:49,428
I'm his only daughter.
333
00:23:49,595 --> 00:23:51,430
He thinks i'm never
going to amount to
334
00:23:51,597 --> 00:23:53,224
Anything because he's
loaded, and i'm poor.
335
00:23:53,391 --> 00:23:56,102
- No, he just thinks...
336
00:23:56,269 --> 00:24:01,607
- What? Thinks that what?
337
00:24:01,774 --> 00:24:05,361
He thinks that i'm
way below his precious
338
00:24:05,528 --> 00:24:08,281
Daughter because i
grew up in foster care?
339
00:24:08,447 --> 00:24:09,657
Because i don't know my
real parents,
340
00:24:09,824 --> 00:24:15,663
And i've never had a
relevant family? So what?
341
00:24:15,830 --> 00:24:17,373
It's not my fault i wasn't
born with a silver spoon
342
00:24:17,540 --> 00:24:22,211
In my mouth.
343
00:24:22,378 --> 00:24:24,630
Yeah, life's hard,
but you know what?
344
00:24:24,797 --> 00:24:27,758
I'm going to
prove him wrong.
345
00:24:27,925 --> 00:24:29,552
I'm going to be really
successful, and i'm going
346
00:24:29,719 --> 00:24:31,137
To be a great husband to
you someday, so go do
347
00:24:31,304 --> 00:24:32,889
Whatever you want to do.
348
00:24:33,055 --> 00:24:35,516
Go on a hundred dates.
349
00:24:35,683 --> 00:24:36,851
Nobody's ever going to
love you as much
350
00:24:37,018 --> 00:24:39,270
As i love you.
351
00:24:39,437 --> 00:24:41,022
I'm going to be here for,
amber, however long it
352
00:24:41,189 --> 00:24:43,649
Takes, because i know that
you're supposed
353
00:24:43,816 --> 00:24:45,651
To be my wife.
354
00:24:54,702 --> 00:24:59,624
I think that must have
been so hard for you.
355
00:24:59,790 --> 00:25:02,084
What are you
talking about?
356
00:25:02,251 --> 00:25:08,925
When we were young, in
that diner, and i said i
357
00:25:09,091 --> 00:25:13,971
Wanted to see
other people.
358
00:25:14,138 --> 00:25:15,806
You were right.
359
00:25:15,973 --> 00:25:20,770
It wasn't
what i wanted.
360
00:25:20,937 --> 00:25:27,235
My father was
pressuring me.
361
00:25:27,401 --> 00:25:30,571
I'm really sorry i
put you through that.
362
00:25:30,738 --> 00:25:33,532
None of that
matters anymore.
363
00:25:33,699 --> 00:25:37,119
- It matters to me.
364
00:25:37,286 --> 00:25:44,126
Amber, don't make this harder
than it has to be.
365
00:25:44,293 --> 00:25:46,837
Just sign the papers.
366
00:26:22,707 --> 00:26:25,042
- Izzy?
- Yeah?
367
00:26:29,255 --> 00:26:30,923
I'm sorry
if i woke you.
368
00:26:31,090 --> 00:26:32,550
- I was already awake.
369
00:26:32,717 --> 00:26:35,386
I was waiting for
you to come home.
370
00:26:35,553 --> 00:26:39,223
- I had to work late.
371
00:26:39,390 --> 00:26:46,772
You always work late. You're
never home anymore.
372
00:26:46,939 --> 00:26:53,446
How was school?
Keeping those grades up?
373
00:26:53,612 --> 00:26:55,823
- All a's.
374
00:26:55,990 --> 00:27:03,914
That's my girl. Well,
early day tomorrow.
375
00:27:04,081 --> 00:27:06,167
Get some rest.
376
00:27:09,795 --> 00:27:19,555
Dad? Why has mom been
crying all day?
377
00:27:19,722 --> 00:27:23,142
I don't know, izzy, but
i don't want to discuss
378
00:27:23,309 --> 00:27:25,811
This right now.
379
00:27:25,978 --> 00:27:30,566
You hurt
her, didn't you?
380
00:27:30,733 --> 00:27:35,905
Has your mom
told you anything?
381
00:27:36,072 --> 00:27:38,616
No, but all of my
friends' parents seem like
382
00:27:38,783 --> 00:27:40,618
They're getting
divorced lately.
383
00:27:40,785 --> 00:27:43,537
I don't want that to ever
happen to you and mom.
384
00:27:49,752 --> 00:27:53,422
All that matters is
that you know that both
385
00:27:53,589 --> 00:27:57,093
Your mom and i love you
very much, and that will
386
00:27:57,259 --> 00:28:02,390
Never change, okay?
387
00:28:04,308 --> 00:28:07,395
All right, good night.
388
00:28:07,561 --> 00:28:09,814
- Kids can sense things.
389
00:28:09,980 --> 00:28:11,273
They're more intuitive
than we give
390
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,400
Them credit for.
391
00:28:13,234 --> 00:28:16,529
I have to live with
it, all the guilt,
392
00:28:16,695 --> 00:28:18,906
All the shame.
393
00:28:20,658 --> 00:28:23,452
I'm haunted.
394
00:28:23,619 --> 00:28:25,788
So she just
ripped it in half.
395
00:28:25,955 --> 00:28:26,622
- Yeah.
396
00:28:26,789 --> 00:28:28,874
She can't do
that, can she?
397
00:28:29,041 --> 00:28:30,751
- She can and she did.
398
00:28:30,918 --> 00:28:33,087
What are you
gonna do about it?
399
00:28:33,254 --> 00:28:36,090
Print another one tomorrow
and give it to her.
400
00:28:36,257 --> 00:28:38,551
She's gonna take you for
everything you're worth.
401
00:28:38,717 --> 00:28:40,428
Look, i don't get the
feeling she's in it
402
00:28:40,594 --> 00:28:42,096
For the money or the
possessions anymore.
403
00:28:42,263 --> 00:28:44,932
Don't be so naive,
of course she is!
404
00:28:45,099 --> 00:28:46,517
She's planning
something, i know it.
405
00:28:46,684 --> 00:28:48,310
She's just
trying to cope.
406
00:28:48,477 --> 00:28:49,562
I shattered her
whole world.
407
00:28:49,728 --> 00:28:51,313
That woman
is no saint!
408
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:52,523
She wants your money!
409
00:28:52,690 --> 00:28:53,691
- She wants her family.
410
00:28:53,858 --> 00:28:55,025
Why are you
defending her?
411
00:28:55,192 --> 00:28:56,110
That's not
what i'm doing.
412
00:28:56,277 --> 00:28:58,904
- Yes, it is!
413
00:28:59,947 --> 00:29:01,115
Are you having
second thoughts?
414
00:29:01,282 --> 00:29:02,992
- No.
415
00:29:03,159 --> 00:29:06,245
No, we've been
through this before.
416
00:29:06,996 --> 00:29:08,414
Do you still have
feelings for her?
417
00:29:10,332 --> 00:29:11,959
- No.
418
00:29:12,918 --> 00:29:15,129
But you think i'm some
kind of a monster?
419
00:29:15,796 --> 00:29:17,798
- No, i didn't say that.
420
00:29:17,965 --> 00:29:18,883
You're not the one
that had to look his
421
00:29:19,049 --> 00:29:20,259
Daughter in the eye last
night and try to explain
422
00:29:20,426 --> 00:29:22,261
All this to her.
423
00:29:24,263 --> 00:29:25,556
- Okay.
424
00:29:25,723 --> 00:29:26,599
I know this is
hard on you
425
00:29:26,765 --> 00:29:28,893
Because of your daughter.
426
00:29:30,311 --> 00:29:33,105
Listen to me, but even
she wouldn't want you
427
00:29:33,272 --> 00:29:36,484
To be in a
miserable marriage.
428
00:29:37,943 --> 00:29:40,070
And she's gonna
understand some day.
429
00:29:41,405 --> 00:29:42,698
I'm sorry if you
think that i've been
430
00:29:42,823 --> 00:29:48,496
Insensitive, but i
have feelings too.
431
00:29:51,290 --> 00:29:53,959
It's just a bad
situation all around.
432
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,213
- Sit down.
433
00:29:59,173 --> 00:30:02,801
This is gonna
be over soon,
434
00:30:02,968 --> 00:30:06,639
And it's just gonna
be me and you.
435
00:30:08,849 --> 00:30:13,145
Your daughter can come
over any time she wants.
436
00:30:13,312 --> 00:30:15,898
Everyone is gonna be
happier in the end.
437
00:30:28,244 --> 00:30:33,999
Sometimes people come
into our lives and they
438
00:30:34,166 --> 00:30:39,672
Appear to be something
that they're not,
439
00:30:39,838 --> 00:30:43,926
Like a wolf in
sheep's clothing.
440
00:30:47,179 --> 00:30:50,849
And these people
can harm you.
441
00:30:51,016 --> 00:30:52,434
And more importantly,
442
00:30:52,601 --> 00:30:55,437
They can harm the
people you love.
443
00:30:59,817 --> 00:31:07,449
It seems family is being
targeted for destruction
444
00:31:07,616 --> 00:31:13,539
More now than ever, and
without god in our lives,
445
00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:16,834
We have nothing.
446
00:31:17,668 --> 00:31:21,338
We need to turn
to him often.
447
00:31:23,215 --> 00:31:25,926
We need to protect
each other.
448
00:31:29,430 --> 00:31:34,184
If we hold on to what we
believe in and if we hold
449
00:31:34,351 --> 00:31:39,398
On to each other, nothing
can ever tear us apart.
450
00:31:40,357 --> 00:31:42,693
Doug, will you please
just wait a minute!
451
00:31:42,818 --> 00:31:44,069
I knew this
was a bad idea!
452
00:31:44,236 --> 00:31:45,696
I trusted you!
453
00:31:45,863 --> 00:31:48,365
Please just calm down.
Come back inside.
454
00:31:48,532 --> 00:31:49,575
Why? So i can
listen to your father
455
00:31:49,742 --> 00:31:51,035
Degrade me even more?
456
00:31:51,201 --> 00:31:53,078
No, it's
not like that.
457
00:31:53,245 --> 00:31:54,413
- It is exactly like that.
458
00:31:54,538 --> 00:31:56,040
You knew what i
was walking into.
459
00:31:56,206 --> 00:31:59,293
Listen, he didn't
mean any of that, okay?
460
00:31:59,460 --> 00:32:01,211
Rich people just,
461
00:32:01,378 --> 00:32:03,881
They say strange
things sometimes and...
462
00:32:04,048 --> 00:32:05,382
Just keep justifying
him trying to make me
463
00:32:05,549 --> 00:32:06,884
Feel like a loser.
464
00:32:07,051 --> 00:32:10,220
No. He was wrong to
have asked you
465
00:32:10,387 --> 00:32:12,431
All of those questions.
466
00:32:13,307 --> 00:32:14,767
What i'm saying is none
of those questions
467
00:32:14,933 --> 00:32:17,186
Should matter to you.
468
00:32:17,353 --> 00:32:20,648
There's a lot you don't
know about me, amber.
469
00:32:23,150 --> 00:32:24,109
You don't know what it's
like to be kicked out
470
00:32:24,276 --> 00:32:25,569
Of every foster care
by one abusive
471
00:32:25,736 --> 00:32:29,365
Drunk after another.
472
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,534
What it's like to eat out
of garbage cans and beg
473
00:32:32,660 --> 00:32:35,496
For food on the street.
474
00:32:36,288 --> 00:32:38,415
Back when we were
in high school,
475
00:32:38,582 --> 00:32:39,375
There were nights when
i slept on the street
476
00:32:39,541 --> 00:32:41,710
With the bums.
477
00:32:42,503 --> 00:32:46,757
Why didn't you
ever say something?
478
00:32:46,924 --> 00:32:49,051
It doesn't
matter anymore.
479
00:32:49,218 --> 00:32:51,387
I'm not gonna
be a victim.
480
00:32:51,553 --> 00:32:54,014
I'm a survivor.
481
00:32:57,559 --> 00:32:58,519
Under the circumstances,
482
00:32:58,686 --> 00:33:02,022
Junior college is the
best i could afford.
483
00:33:02,189 --> 00:33:04,233
But i get it.
484
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,527
I'm not good enough for
daddy's little girl.
485
00:33:06,694 --> 00:33:09,613
- That is not true.
486
00:33:09,780 --> 00:33:13,701
You've treated me better
than anybody ever has, doug.
487
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,288
You're the only person
who's ever fought for me.
488
00:33:21,792 --> 00:33:23,669
Please don't stop.
489
00:33:23,836 --> 00:33:25,379
I don't want to lose
you just because
490
00:33:25,546 --> 00:33:27,339
My dad is closed minded.
491
00:33:27,506 --> 00:33:31,635
I would live in a
cardboard box with you.
492
00:33:37,641 --> 00:33:39,226
Let me in.
493
00:33:41,061 --> 00:33:43,147
I'm not gonna hurt you.
494
00:33:50,195 --> 00:33:51,780
- I can't.
495
00:33:53,282 --> 00:33:57,202
Doug, you
can trust me.
496
00:33:59,037 --> 00:34:01,749
Listen to me, i'm never
ever going anywhere,
497
00:34:01,915 --> 00:34:04,460
Okay?
498
00:34:07,254 --> 00:34:09,715
We can start our
own life together.
499
00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:24,521
You had
such character,
500
00:34:24,688 --> 00:34:28,192
Even at a young age, and
you'd been through so
501
00:34:28,358 --> 00:34:32,821
Much, more than most.
502
00:34:32,988 --> 00:34:36,158
And i know my father
eventually came to have
503
00:34:36,325 --> 00:34:39,870
Great respect for you.
504
00:34:40,037 --> 00:34:46,752
And that night changed
everything because i was
505
00:34:46,919 --> 00:34:50,380
Able to stand up
for someone i loved.
506
00:34:51,632 --> 00:34:52,966
You.
507
00:34:54,468 --> 00:34:55,969
I don't know if
you knew this or not,
508
00:34:56,136 --> 00:34:59,181
But she put me
through college.
509
00:34:59,348 --> 00:35:02,434
She worked two jobs
and never complained.
510
00:35:02,601 --> 00:35:05,312
I couldn't have done
any of it without her.
511
00:35:05,479 --> 00:35:06,438
What i wouldn't do to
have those moments
512
00:35:06,605 --> 00:35:08,106
Back again with her.
513
00:35:26,583 --> 00:35:27,626
- Hey.
514
00:35:27,793 --> 00:35:28,710
- Hey.
515
00:35:28,877 --> 00:35:30,462
I missed you.
516
00:35:34,591 --> 00:35:37,344
What's the
special occasion?
517
00:35:37,511 --> 00:35:38,846
I just want to let you
know how thankful i am
518
00:35:39,012 --> 00:35:40,556
For you helping me.
519
00:35:40,722 --> 00:35:45,644
I mean, helping us
get through college.
520
00:35:45,811 --> 00:35:47,229
We're almost there.
521
00:35:47,396 --> 00:35:48,605
- We're a team.
522
00:35:48,772 --> 00:35:50,107
- Yeah.
523
00:35:50,274 --> 00:35:51,316
Are you hungry?
524
00:35:51,483 --> 00:35:52,901
- Starving.
525
00:35:58,490 --> 00:36:01,535
Would you like some
of this very rare generic
526
00:36:01,702 --> 00:36:03,912
Brand 1993 root beer?
527
00:36:04,079 --> 00:36:05,581
- I would love some.
528
00:36:05,747 --> 00:36:07,040
- Okay.
529
00:36:17,926 --> 00:36:19,720
For you...
530
00:36:19,887 --> 00:36:21,889
And for me.
531
00:36:32,524 --> 00:36:40,949
And a toast to...
532
00:36:41,116 --> 00:36:43,785
- Forever.
533
00:36:43,952 --> 00:36:46,872
- To forever.
534
00:36:55,339 --> 00:37:01,261
And dinner is served.
535
00:37:01,428 --> 00:37:04,598
Ramen noodles with
sliced hog dogs du jour.
536
00:37:04,765 --> 00:37:06,475
- My favorite.
537
00:37:06,642 --> 00:37:11,188
I thought that fillet
mignon with asparagus
538
00:37:11,355 --> 00:37:13,774
And hollandaise sauce
was your favorite.
539
00:37:13,941 --> 00:37:16,902
It doesn't matter
what we eat
540
00:37:17,069 --> 00:37:18,987
As long as i'm with you.
541
00:37:19,696 --> 00:37:21,031
- Let's dig in.
542
00:37:29,665 --> 00:37:31,500
- Thank you.
543
00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:33,418
- You're welcome.
544
00:37:33,585 --> 00:37:35,963
I don't know what
i'd do without you.
545
00:37:36,755 --> 00:37:38,382
You'll never
have to find out.
546
00:37:42,052 --> 00:37:43,387
One second.
547
00:37:52,020 --> 00:37:53,730
May i have this dance?
548
00:37:55,357 --> 00:37:56,566
- You may.
549
00:37:57,401 --> 00:38:00,487
媻 we can live
our whole lives...
550
00:38:00,654 --> 00:38:04,366
媻 missing every sun rise...
551
00:38:04,533 --> 00:38:07,744
媻 with bills to
pay and no time...
552
00:38:07,911 --> 00:38:12,207
媻 for me and you...
553
00:38:12,374 --> 00:38:16,169
媻 we can buy a big place...
554
00:38:16,336 --> 00:38:20,298
媻 that you could see
from outer space...
555
00:38:20,465 --> 00:38:24,261
媻 but if i never
see your face...
556
00:38:42,195 --> 00:38:48,243
Sometimes we take
our love for granted,
557
00:38:48,410 --> 00:38:52,330
And we stop doing the
little things that
558
00:38:52,497 --> 00:38:55,625
Kindled that spark
in the first place.
559
00:38:57,753 --> 00:39:02,382
Just like a plant needs
sunlight and water to
560
00:39:02,549 --> 00:39:07,137
Live, a relationship
needs constant love
561
00:39:07,304 --> 00:39:11,933
And nurturing so
it doesn't die.
562
00:41:41,708 --> 00:41:44,502
I don't want
anything from you, doug.
563
00:41:47,464 --> 00:41:52,636
But i do have
a few requests.
564
00:41:54,346 --> 00:41:55,513
- What do you mean?
565
00:41:59,142 --> 00:42:00,477
- It's all right here.
566
00:42:07,108 --> 00:42:09,527
Those are my
stipulations.
567
00:42:11,655 --> 00:42:14,157
And i'm not asking
for very much.
568
00:42:15,867 --> 00:42:27,587
So the money, this house,
the car, it's all yours.
569
00:42:28,838 --> 00:42:30,924
- This is absurd.
570
00:42:33,385 --> 00:42:34,928
You have to survive.
571
00:42:35,095 --> 00:42:37,305
Sign the papers.
572
00:42:40,058 --> 00:42:42,018
- In 30 days.
573
00:42:43,144 --> 00:42:44,938
- No.
574
00:42:45,105 --> 00:42:47,107
Now!
575
00:43:00,996 --> 00:43:03,623
- After izzy's birthday.
576
00:43:04,499 --> 00:43:06,501
30 days.
577
00:43:06,668 --> 00:43:12,882
In the meantime, you and
i need to carry on like
578
00:43:13,049 --> 00:43:16,386
Everything's as normal
as possible for her sake.
579
00:43:16,553 --> 00:43:18,638
That's not
asking very much.
580
00:43:18,805 --> 00:43:21,391
You are just prolonging
the inevitable.
581
00:43:21,558 --> 00:43:23,268
It's not gonna
change my mind.
582
00:43:23,435 --> 00:43:25,353
Just sign the papers.
583
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,814
We owe her
that much, doug.
584
00:43:34,070 --> 00:43:41,786
- Okay. 30 days.
585
00:43:41,953 --> 00:43:46,374
But after that, you are
signing those papers.
586
00:43:47,042 --> 00:43:49,085
- You have my word.
587
00:43:51,755 --> 00:43:53,673
I could understand
that part of it.
588
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,925
A month didn't
seem unreasonable,
589
00:43:56,092 --> 00:43:59,471
But the words that came
out of her mouth next,
590
00:43:59,637 --> 00:44:03,058
I...i thought she'd
lost her mind.
591
00:44:03,975 --> 00:44:07,228
There is one
other thing.
592
00:44:07,395 --> 00:44:09,189
- What?
593
00:44:10,482 --> 00:44:14,903
Do you remember
on our wedding day,
594
00:44:15,070 --> 00:44:17,989
You carried me from the
church to the limousine?
595
00:44:20,992 --> 00:44:23,203
- Yeah.
596
00:44:23,328 --> 00:44:26,790
Yeah, of course i do.
597
00:44:27,540 --> 00:44:29,584
- I want that again.
598
00:44:30,835 --> 00:44:33,505
You're not
making any sense.
599
00:44:34,631 --> 00:44:42,222
Every day for
the next 30 days,
600
00:44:42,389 --> 00:44:45,183
Be just like
our wedding day.
601
00:44:45,350 --> 00:44:47,727
You carry me from this
room to the front door
602
00:44:47,894 --> 00:44:50,271
When you go to work.
603
00:44:55,318 --> 00:45:00,073
Amber, that's
just stupid.
604
00:45:05,662 --> 00:45:07,997
- It's not stupid to me.
605
00:45:08,164 --> 00:45:14,671
Amber, i need
you to hear me.
606
00:45:16,423 --> 00:45:20,760
Our marriage is over.
607
00:45:20,927 --> 00:45:25,765
This stunt, there's
nothing you can do that's
608
00:45:25,932 --> 00:45:28,560
Gonna change my mind.
609
00:45:31,146 --> 00:45:34,983
I will stay here in this
marriage for 30 days,
610
00:45:35,150 --> 00:45:39,821
But that's it.
611
00:45:42,699 --> 00:45:45,118
I'm just not gonna
carry you to the door.
612
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:52,250
I've given you the
best years of my life.
613
00:45:52,417 --> 00:45:55,462
I kept my vows to
you and to god.
614
00:45:55,628 --> 00:45:57,714
I have served
your every need,
615
00:45:57,881 --> 00:46:02,552
And i have loved you
with all my heart.
616
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:06,055
You can't do
this one thing?
617
00:46:12,687 --> 00:46:14,939
Don't make me beg.
618
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,492
- Okay.
619
00:46:27,452 --> 00:46:30,538
I will carry you
to the door
620
00:46:30,705 --> 00:46:36,294
But then you're gonna
sign those papers,
621
00:46:36,461 --> 00:46:38,713
And that will be it, right?
622
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,217
Nothing more,
nothing else.
623
00:46:45,386 --> 00:46:47,764
- That's all i want.
624
00:46:49,432 --> 00:46:51,684
- Okay.
625
00:46:56,856 --> 00:46:59,400
I'm late for work.
626
00:47:01,194 --> 00:47:03,279
So come on,
let's do this.
627
00:47:03,446 --> 00:47:04,572
Come on, come on,
let's do this.
628
00:47:04,739 --> 00:47:07,867
Let's...it starts today.
629
00:47:08,034 --> 00:47:09,494
- Yeah.
630
00:47:31,724 --> 00:47:38,189
I felt like it was
a cruel waste of time.
631
00:47:39,482 --> 00:47:43,069
One of the most awkward
moments of my life.
632
00:47:46,114 --> 00:47:51,536
My wife had become a
stranger in my arms.
633
00:48:05,466 --> 00:48:11,681
Intimacy and touch,
i think those are the
634
00:48:11,848 --> 00:48:15,685
Things people long for.
635
00:48:15,852 --> 00:48:19,522
It's what people need.
636
00:48:19,689 --> 00:48:22,775
And it's what separates
the other relationships
637
00:48:22,942 --> 00:48:24,819
In our lives.
638
00:48:30,533 --> 00:48:34,037
- What's going on?
639
00:48:34,203 --> 00:48:36,205
Mom and i are just
having a little fun.
640
00:48:36,372 --> 00:48:37,624
Don't tell
her about the divorce.
641
00:48:37,790 --> 00:48:40,251
Please.
642
00:48:45,798 --> 00:48:47,258
- I've gotta go to work.
643
00:48:47,425 --> 00:48:48,301
Bye, munchkin.
644
00:48:48,468 --> 00:48:49,802
- Bye.
645
00:48:50,595 --> 00:48:51,471
Bye, daddy.
646
00:48:51,638 --> 00:48:53,097
- I'll see you tonight.
647
00:49:04,025 --> 00:49:06,152
I like it when
dad carries you.
648
00:49:06,319 --> 00:49:07,820
- So do i.
649
00:49:07,987 --> 00:49:09,906
I like it too.
650
00:49:12,408 --> 00:49:14,369
Do you know how
much i love you?
651
00:49:14,535 --> 00:49:16,412
- Yeah.
652
00:49:16,579 --> 00:49:18,247
- Do you?
653
00:49:18,414 --> 00:49:20,249
Yeah.
654
00:49:21,209 --> 00:49:23,419
Don't ever forget that.
655
00:49:23,586 --> 00:49:24,379
- I won't.
656
00:49:24,545 --> 00:49:25,922
- Okay.
657
00:49:28,424 --> 00:49:29,842
- Why are you crying?
658
00:49:30,009 --> 00:49:32,345
Oh, these
are happy tears.
659
00:49:32,512 --> 00:49:35,139
It's all good.
660
00:49:36,474 --> 00:49:37,934
- Love you.
- Love you baby.
661
00:49:38,101 --> 00:49:39,769
I'll see you later.
662
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,063
Bye bye.
663
00:49:46,359 --> 00:49:47,777
Bye.
664
00:50:08,589 --> 00:50:09,465
You should have
seen the look
665
00:50:09,632 --> 00:50:12,093
On my daughter's face.
666
00:50:12,260 --> 00:50:15,847
It's like we're living
in some fairy tale.
667
00:50:17,890 --> 00:50:19,934
- 30 days.
668
00:50:20,059 --> 00:50:21,936
- Yeah.
669
00:50:22,103 --> 00:50:24,897
- And you agreed?
670
00:50:25,064 --> 00:50:27,066
What was i
supposed to do?
671
00:50:27,233 --> 00:50:28,818
She laid a huge
guilt trip on me.
672
00:50:28,985 --> 00:50:31,028
You're supposed
to say no.
673
00:50:31,195 --> 00:50:32,822
That woman's crazy.
674
00:50:32,989 --> 00:50:35,199
She needs to be
institutionalized.
675
00:50:36,909 --> 00:50:38,703
- I hate her for this.
676
00:50:42,206 --> 00:50:43,583
This is gonna crush my
daughter even more when
677
00:50:43,750 --> 00:50:47,086
She finds out the truth
about the divorce.
678
00:50:48,463 --> 00:50:52,049
I couldn't
face the truth.
679
00:50:52,216 --> 00:50:54,594
When you're doing
something that you know
680
00:50:54,761 --> 00:50:57,889
Is wrong, deep down
inside you have to have
681
00:50:58,055 --> 00:51:01,100
Someone to blame
besides yourself.
682
00:51:45,812 --> 00:51:47,480
- All right.
683
00:51:47,647 --> 00:51:48,439
Let's do this.
684
00:51:48,606 --> 00:51:50,441
- Okay.
685
00:51:57,615 --> 00:52:00,618
I could smell the
fragrance of her blouse.
686
00:52:00,785 --> 00:52:02,912
I realized that i
hadn't looked at her
687
00:52:03,079 --> 00:52:07,083
In a really long time.
688
00:52:07,250 --> 00:52:11,170
Looked at her carefully.
689
00:52:11,963 --> 00:52:14,841
She wasn't young anymore.
690
00:52:15,007 --> 00:52:22,181
There were these fine
wrinkles on her face.
691
00:52:22,348 --> 00:52:27,144
Our marriage had
taken a toll on her.
692
00:52:27,311 --> 00:52:33,568
For a minute i wondered
what had i done to her.
693
00:52:41,450 --> 00:52:45,371
- Doug... doug...
694
00:52:45,538 --> 00:52:48,499
Is something wrong?
695
00:52:48,666 --> 00:52:51,085
- No, i...
696
00:52:51,252 --> 00:52:54,797
- You what?
697
00:52:54,964 --> 00:52:57,008
- I've gotta go to work.
698
00:53:08,603 --> 00:53:12,064
Wow, two
days in a row.
699
00:53:12,231 --> 00:53:14,150
This is the way i
carried your mother to
700
00:53:14,317 --> 00:53:15,818
The car after
we got married,
701
00:53:15,985 --> 00:53:19,822
So i thought that...
702
00:53:19,989 --> 00:53:21,782
- Thought what?
703
00:53:21,949 --> 00:53:24,285
We just thought it
would be fun to celebrate
704
00:53:24,452 --> 00:53:26,537
The whole month.
705
00:53:26,704 --> 00:53:29,707
Your birthday is coming
up and our 25th wedding
706
00:53:29,874 --> 00:53:34,754
Anniversary is right
around the corner.
707
00:53:34,921 --> 00:53:36,672
I want a marriage
just like yours
708
00:53:36,839 --> 00:53:40,384
When i'm older.
709
00:53:40,551 --> 00:53:43,012
We want that for
you too, sweetie.
710
00:53:46,724 --> 00:53:49,226
I hate to run off but
i've got to get to work.
711
00:53:49,393 --> 00:53:51,228
Love you.
712
00:54:14,001 --> 00:54:16,545
- What's wrong with you?
713
00:54:18,381 --> 00:54:20,257
You're acting different.
714
00:54:22,802 --> 00:54:24,303
Carrying my wife to
the front door every day
715
00:54:24,470 --> 00:54:27,264
Is really beginning
to bother me.
716
00:54:27,431 --> 00:54:28,432
You should have
seen our daughter,
717
00:54:28,599 --> 00:54:31,894
She was waiting there
like she was expecting it.
718
00:54:32,061 --> 00:54:34,438
- Well, put a stop to it.
719
00:54:34,605 --> 00:54:36,232
- I can't. I promised her.
720
00:54:36,399 --> 00:54:37,858
- Break your promise.
721
00:54:38,025 --> 00:54:38,859
It's hard on
your daughter,
722
00:54:39,026 --> 00:54:41,237
And i don't like it.
723
00:54:41,404 --> 00:54:44,991
- It's only for 30 days.
724
00:54:46,492 --> 00:54:47,702
So you're telling me
that you're gonna pick
725
00:54:47,868 --> 00:54:50,579
Her up, with her
body close to yours,
726
00:54:50,746 --> 00:54:53,165
And carry her from your
room to the front door,
727
00:54:53,332 --> 00:54:54,834
Like she's some
little princess,
728
00:54:55,001 --> 00:54:57,128
For 28 more days?
729
00:54:57,294 --> 00:54:58,212
You're making it sound
like it's romantic
730
00:54:58,379 --> 00:54:59,922
Or something. It's not.
731
00:55:00,089 --> 00:55:03,467
It's a chore.
732
00:55:03,634 --> 00:55:05,803
You've got nothing
to worry about.
733
00:55:08,389 --> 00:55:10,766
Somewhere along the line,
i quit trying to make
734
00:55:10,933 --> 00:55:14,729
Things between my
wife and i special.
735
00:55:14,895 --> 00:55:16,772
The effort was gone.
736
00:55:16,939 --> 00:55:19,859
I was the problem.
737
00:55:20,026 --> 00:55:22,278
Not her.
738
00:55:25,614 --> 00:55:27,283
In only a few days i
felt myself changing
739
00:55:27,450 --> 00:55:31,537
Back again and at
the same time i...
740
00:55:31,704 --> 00:55:34,373
I didn't even realize why.
741
00:55:42,256 --> 00:55:43,758
- Thanks for breakfast.
742
00:55:43,924 --> 00:55:46,385
- You're welcome, honey.
743
00:55:47,386 --> 00:55:48,763
I made your bacon
extra crispy
744
00:55:48,929 --> 00:55:49,889
The way you like it.
745
00:55:50,056 --> 00:55:50,806
- It's perfect.
746
00:55:50,973 --> 00:55:52,183
- Good.
747
00:55:52,349 --> 00:55:54,185
And i made this
for your mom.
748
00:55:54,351 --> 00:55:55,895
I'm gonna go see
where she is.
749
00:56:08,032 --> 00:56:09,158
Amber?
750
00:56:09,325 --> 00:56:11,243
- I'll be right out.
751
00:56:11,410 --> 00:56:15,206
I made you
some breakfast.
752
00:56:15,372 --> 00:56:16,457
I'm not
hungry right now,
753
00:56:16,624 --> 00:56:19,126
But i'll eat it later.
Thanks.
754
00:56:19,293 --> 00:56:24,298
All right, well, i'll
just be waiting out here.
755
00:56:24,465 --> 00:56:27,426
I've got to be getting
off to work soon.
756
00:57:07,591 --> 00:57:08,259
- Good morning.
757
00:57:08,425 --> 00:57:10,177
- Morning.
758
00:57:10,344 --> 00:57:12,012
- Oh...
759
00:57:12,179 --> 00:57:17,518
- Who were those kids?
760
00:57:19,270 --> 00:57:23,357
- Were we ever that young?
761
00:57:31,157 --> 00:57:33,534
- You okay?
762
00:57:33,701 --> 00:57:35,369
- Yeah.
763
00:57:35,536 --> 00:57:37,288
I'm good, i just...i
didn't sleep very well.
764
00:57:37,454 --> 00:57:40,207
Just kind of tired today.
765
00:57:40,374 --> 00:57:40,875
It'll be good.
766
00:57:41,041 --> 00:57:43,294
It's all good.
767
00:57:43,460 --> 00:57:47,548
All right.
Well, ready?
768
00:57:47,715 --> 00:57:49,508
- Okay.
769
00:57:55,222 --> 00:57:56,765
- You smell good.
770
00:57:56,932 --> 00:58:00,269
- Thanks.
771
00:58:00,436 --> 00:58:03,606
And thanks for doing this.
772
00:58:03,772 --> 00:58:07,443
You don't
have to thank me.
773
00:58:07,610 --> 00:58:09,195
- I want to.
774
00:58:09,361 --> 00:58:12,740
I know you're doing
this for izzy.
775
00:58:12,907 --> 00:58:16,660
- Right. For izzy.
776
00:58:19,830 --> 00:58:22,124
I realized in that moment
that i had let her down in
777
00:58:22,291 --> 00:58:30,466
The most cruel way i could.
778
00:58:30,633 --> 00:58:37,514
I had allowed a gulf to come
between us, but on the third
779
00:58:37,681 --> 00:58:50,152
And the forth days when i
lifted her up, i started to
780
00:58:50,319 --> 00:58:55,449
Feel things that i hadn't
...that i hadn't felt
781
00:58:55,616 --> 00:59:01,455
In a long time.
782
00:59:01,622 --> 00:59:06,752
And that gulf
began to narrow.
783
00:59:06,919 --> 00:59:10,089
Hi.
784
00:59:10,256 --> 00:59:11,382
- Made you lunch.
785
00:59:11,548 --> 00:59:12,716
- Aww.
786
00:59:12,883 --> 00:59:15,094
- Wow. Thank you.
787
00:59:15,261 --> 00:59:17,429
It's peanut butter and jelly
with crushed potato chips.
788
00:59:17,596 --> 00:59:20,683
- Mmm. That's my favorite.
789
00:59:20,849 --> 00:59:21,600
- I know.
790
00:59:21,767 --> 00:59:22,685
You taught me
how to make it.
791
00:59:22,851 --> 00:59:25,521
It's my favorite now, too.
792
00:59:25,688 --> 00:59:28,399
It's been a long time
since i made one for you.
793
00:59:28,565 --> 00:59:32,736
- It's okay. It's my turn now.
794
00:59:34,154 --> 00:59:36,365
- You okay, dad?
795
00:59:36,532 --> 00:59:40,995
Yeah. Yeah,
i'm fine.
796
00:59:41,161 --> 00:59:45,916
I'll see you girls tonight.
I...
797
00:59:46,083 --> 00:59:51,422
- Love you.
798
00:59:51,588 --> 00:59:54,633
- I'll be home for dinner.
799
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:58,762
- Okay. See you then.
800
01:00:02,391 --> 01:00:06,979
The greatest gift a father
can give his children is to
801
01:00:07,146 --> 01:00:12,109
Love their mother.
802
01:00:12,276 --> 01:00:14,778
And i believe that's true.
803
01:00:14,945 --> 01:00:16,947
As the days turned into
weeks, i could feel myself
804
01:00:17,114 --> 01:00:23,871
Changing inside, not just
emotionally but physically,
805
01:00:24,038 --> 01:00:34,006
Spiritually, and even
mentally as well.
806
01:00:34,173 --> 01:00:38,969
I even started praying,
going back to church.
807
01:00:39,136 --> 01:00:40,929
Everybody was
praising him the first week.
808
01:00:41,096 --> 01:00:45,517
An important part of my
life that i had somehow just
809
01:00:45,684 --> 01:00:52,900
Gotten away from i didn't
realize until now how all
810
01:00:53,067 --> 01:00:54,651
The little things add up to
make a huge difference
811
01:00:54,818 --> 01:00:57,154
In our lives.
812
01:00:57,321 --> 01:00:58,280
- ...Embarrass him.
813
01:00:58,447 --> 01:00:59,323
He's above embarrassment.
814
01:00:59,490 --> 01:01:00,407
He's above your fear.
815
01:01:00,574 --> 01:01:01,617
He's above your lust.
816
01:01:01,784 --> 01:01:04,870
He's above your cheating,
your lying, your stealing.
817
01:01:05,037 --> 01:01:07,498
Does anybody here
hear what i'm saying?
818
01:01:07,664 --> 01:01:10,250
I found myself coming
home from work early just to
819
01:01:10,417 --> 01:01:13,462
Be with my family.
820
01:01:13,629 --> 01:01:14,963
My head started to clear.
821
01:01:17,299 --> 01:01:22,262
My thoughts seem to be
in line with what was truly
822
01:01:22,429 --> 01:01:29,103
Important in my
life, god and family.
823
01:01:29,269 --> 01:01:31,980
I started to look forward to
each morning with my wife,
824
01:01:32,147 --> 01:01:35,776
Not my time with the other
woman though i didn't tell
825
01:01:35,901 --> 01:01:38,737
Her about this.
826
01:01:38,904 --> 01:01:40,781
I also noticed that it
became easier to carry her
827
01:01:40,948 --> 01:01:43,784
Out as the month went by.
828
01:01:43,951 --> 01:01:49,039
Perhaps my everyday workouts
were making me stronger.
829
01:01:52,626 --> 01:01:55,170
- Mmm.
830
01:01:55,337 --> 01:01:57,548
- What you are doing?
831
01:01:57,714 --> 01:02:00,801
I'm eating the
sandwich my daughter made.
832
01:02:00,968 --> 01:02:03,178
Is there a
problem with that?
833
01:02:03,345 --> 01:02:05,347
- Nope.
834
01:02:05,514 --> 01:02:07,141
- Here.
835
01:02:07,307 --> 01:02:09,476
You should try some.
It's really good.
836
01:02:09,643 --> 01:02:12,229
- No, thank you.
837
01:02:12,396 --> 01:02:14,022
- All right.
838
01:02:14,189 --> 01:02:16,525
Suit yourself, but you don't
know what you're missing.
839
01:02:16,692 --> 01:02:20,070
- What is wrong with you?
840
01:02:20,237 --> 01:02:22,072
- Nothing is wrong with me.
841
01:02:22,239 --> 01:02:24,032
I'm just enjoying
a sandwich is all.
842
01:02:24,199 --> 01:02:26,201
You can't keep
your hands off me usually,
843
01:02:26,368 --> 01:02:31,165
And you haven't
touched me in weeks.
844
01:02:38,005 --> 01:02:41,550
- I'm just tired.
845
01:02:41,717 --> 01:02:43,886
- Can't sleep at night?
846
01:02:44,052 --> 01:02:48,807
- No. Not really.
847
01:02:51,727 --> 01:02:53,854
- Is she keeping you up?
848
01:02:54,021 --> 01:02:56,648
- No.
849
01:02:56,815 --> 01:03:01,320
Then what are
you two doing?
850
01:03:01,487 --> 01:03:04,698
I want to know.
851
01:03:04,865 --> 01:03:05,782
Answer me!
852
01:03:05,949 --> 01:03:08,076
We are not
doing anything!
853
01:03:08,243 --> 01:03:09,620
I'm just not
sleeping is all.
854
01:03:09,786 --> 01:03:11,288
- I'm not stupid, doug.
855
01:03:11,455 --> 01:03:13,248
I am smell her
perfume all over you.
856
01:03:13,415 --> 01:03:15,250
- Okay.
857
01:03:15,417 --> 01:03:17,419
Maybe she's putting on her
perfume a little heavily in
858
01:03:17,586 --> 01:03:19,338
The morning and it's getting
all over my suit as i carry
859
01:03:19,505 --> 01:03:20,464
Her to the door.
860
01:03:20,631 --> 01:03:21,590
- Please.
861
01:03:21,757 --> 01:03:24,134
She's trying to seduce you.
862
01:03:24,301 --> 01:03:26,512
Is there more going on here
than you're telling me?
863
01:03:26,678 --> 01:03:28,680
No, there is
nothing more going on.
864
01:03:28,847 --> 01:03:31,099
- I don't believe you!
865
01:03:31,266 --> 01:03:36,563
- Nothing is happening!
866
01:03:36,730 --> 01:03:42,110
It's her that
i don't trust.
867
01:03:42,277 --> 01:03:46,281
Look, she is just trying
to keep her family together.
868
01:03:46,448 --> 01:03:48,367
That is the same thing that
any decent human being would
869
01:03:48,534 --> 01:03:49,868
Be trying to do.
870
01:03:50,035 --> 01:03:51,119
Then let's call the whole
damn thing off, and you can
871
01:03:51,286 --> 01:03:52,621
Go back to your boring
little wife with your
872
01:03:52,788 --> 01:03:54,206
Boring little wife!
873
01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:55,791
- That's not what i want!
874
01:03:55,958 --> 01:03:57,376
You better figure things out
really fast because i'm not
875
01:03:57,543 --> 01:04:00,295
Going to play second
fiddle to her.
876
01:04:02,339 --> 01:04:03,298
- Where are you going?
877
01:04:03,465 --> 01:04:04,967
- I am going to work.
878
01:04:05,133 --> 01:04:06,009
- Since when?
879
01:04:06,176 --> 01:04:07,344
You never go in until noon.
880
01:04:07,511 --> 01:04:10,180
Since my business
is falling apart.
881
01:04:12,224 --> 01:04:15,310
I'll call you later.
882
01:04:23,986 --> 01:04:26,196
- This is nice.
883
01:04:26,363 --> 01:04:28,991
- Yeah.
884
01:04:29,157 --> 01:04:30,242
You used to bring me
here a lot during
885
01:04:30,409 --> 01:04:32,244
Your winter breaks.
886
01:04:32,411 --> 01:04:35,956
We used to come
here all the time.
887
01:04:36,123 --> 01:04:39,459
Why did we stop?
888
01:04:39,626 --> 01:04:42,838
- I don't know.
889
01:04:43,005 --> 01:04:49,720
- Probably my fault.
890
01:04:49,886 --> 01:04:50,846
You okay?
891
01:04:51,013 --> 01:04:53,390
- Mm.
892
01:04:53,557 --> 01:05:00,272
Yeah, just taking
in the fresh air.
893
01:05:00,439 --> 01:05:03,191
- All right.
894
01:05:40,729 --> 01:05:48,111
- Is she pretty?
895
01:05:48,278 --> 01:05:51,990
Does she make you happy?
896
01:05:52,157 --> 01:05:54,201
- No.
897
01:05:54,368 --> 01:05:56,495
No, she doesn't
make me happy.
898
01:05:56,662 --> 01:06:00,874
- Then why?
899
01:06:01,041 --> 01:06:02,417
I've been asking myself
the same question these past
900
01:06:02,584 --> 01:06:07,464
Three weeks, and i don't
have a good answer.
901
01:06:07,631 --> 01:06:09,174
I'm sorry.
902
01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:13,595
- Don't say anything.
903
01:06:13,762 --> 01:06:20,185
Not until you're sure what
it is you want to do.
904
01:06:20,352 --> 01:06:26,817
Thanks
for bringing me here.
905
01:06:32,906 --> 01:06:35,283
I so wanted to pour my
heart out to her right there
906
01:06:35,450 --> 01:06:44,876
And then, and somehow
she knew i wasn't ready.
907
01:06:45,043 --> 01:06:50,340
It wasn't the right time.
908
01:06:50,507 --> 01:06:55,637
At that point, it was more
for me and to relieve my own
909
01:06:55,804 --> 01:07:04,730
Guilt than to tell her how
much i wanted her back,
910
01:07:04,896 --> 01:07:06,606
And how sorry i was.
911
01:07:14,531 --> 01:07:17,075
- Here.
912
01:07:17,242 --> 01:07:19,161
Let me help you with that.
913
01:07:19,327 --> 01:07:25,792
I realized that she had
grown so thin, that that was
914
01:07:25,959 --> 01:07:36,011
The reason i could carry
her out more easily.
915
01:07:36,178 --> 01:07:42,100
I love you, amber.
916
01:07:51,026 --> 01:07:53,987
- I love you.
917
01:08:15,842 --> 01:08:17,677
Do you know
what today is?
918
01:08:17,844 --> 01:08:23,391
- Yes, i do.
919
01:08:23,558 --> 01:08:27,813
I've got something i need
to take care of, and then
920
01:08:27,938 --> 01:08:31,191
I'll be back.
921
01:08:33,735 --> 01:08:35,529
- Okay.
922
01:08:35,695 --> 01:08:38,073
I knew isabel loved
seeing me hold her mother
923
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:40,617
In my arms.
924
01:08:40,784 --> 01:08:43,453
Carrying her out each
morning had become an
925
01:08:43,620 --> 01:08:45,747
Essential part of her life.
926
01:08:45,914 --> 01:08:50,710
Our children are more aware
of our lives through our
927
01:08:50,877 --> 01:08:56,299
Actions than we
think they are.
928
01:08:56,466 --> 01:08:57,884
Why couldn't i see that
more clearly when it
929
01:08:58,051 --> 01:09:00,345
Mattered the most?
930
01:09:01,847 --> 01:09:07,519
- Look who's here.
931
01:09:07,686 --> 01:09:08,311
You ready?
932
01:09:08,478 --> 01:09:09,271
- Yep.
933
01:09:09,437 --> 01:09:11,231
- Ready for what?
934
01:09:11,398 --> 01:09:12,440
- He's taking me to school.
935
01:09:12,607 --> 01:09:14,651
- Nice.
936
01:09:15,694 --> 01:09:16,194
- Come on. Let's go.
937
01:09:16,319 --> 01:09:17,696
See you later.
938
01:09:17,863 --> 01:09:18,446
- Bye, mom.
939
01:09:18,613 --> 01:09:19,865
- Bye, honey.
940
01:09:20,031 --> 01:09:21,157
Can we ride
with the top down?
941
01:09:21,324 --> 01:09:22,617
- But of course!
942
01:09:32,294 --> 01:09:36,673
I knew exactly what i had
to do, what i wanted to do.
943
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:37,924
- You must be sick.
944
01:09:38,091 --> 01:09:39,384
- No, i feel fine.
945
01:09:39,551 --> 01:09:41,177
Very clear headed actually.
946
01:09:41,344 --> 01:09:43,638
No. She's putting a
guilt trip on you.
947
01:09:43,805 --> 01:09:46,016
She's using your daughter
to fix a dead marriage.
948
01:09:46,182 --> 01:09:47,601
This isn't
about our daughter.
949
01:09:47,767 --> 01:09:48,894
- Well, then what is it?
950
01:09:49,060 --> 01:09:50,770
- This. All of this.
951
01:09:50,937 --> 01:09:52,105
It's wrong.
952
01:09:52,272 --> 01:09:53,106
It's been wrong
from the start.
953
01:09:53,273 --> 01:09:54,774
Don't get all high
and mighty with me!
954
01:09:54,941 --> 01:09:55,817
I take full
responsibility.
955
01:09:55,984 --> 01:09:56,610
- You blame me!
956
01:09:56,776 --> 01:09:58,111
- I blame myself.
957
01:09:58,278 --> 01:10:01,448
Your marriage is
dead, boring, uneventful.
958
01:10:01,615 --> 01:10:03,033
It got boring and
uneventful because i didn't
959
01:10:03,199 --> 01:10:05,410
Value the details of our
lives anymore, not because
960
01:10:05,577 --> 01:10:10,707
We don't love each other.
961
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:16,671
- What are you saying?
962
01:10:16,838 --> 01:10:21,009
I'm saying that
i never loved you.
963
01:10:21,176 --> 01:10:27,557
This was a mistake,
a sick addiction.
964
01:10:27,724 --> 01:10:29,601
I'm always going to have to
live with the guilt of what
965
01:10:29,768 --> 01:10:32,187
I've done with my family and
the shame of what i put them
966
01:10:32,354 --> 01:10:36,483
Through, and if you have any
remorse whatsoever, you will
967
01:10:36,650 --> 01:10:38,485
Get on your knees like i
have and you will beg god
968
01:10:38,652 --> 01:10:41,738
For forgiveness.
969
01:10:41,905 --> 01:10:47,369
I love my wife, and if
she'll take me back
970
01:10:47,535 --> 01:10:50,997
I'm not divorcing her.
971
01:10:51,164 --> 01:10:52,040
You and i are through.
972
01:10:53,124 --> 01:10:55,835
- Yeah, we are.
973
01:11:07,097 --> 01:11:08,515
- Have a good life.
974
01:11:08,682 --> 01:11:12,310
- Go to hell.
975
01:11:12,477 --> 01:11:14,938
- I probably will.
976
01:11:15,105 --> 01:11:17,524
I could finally see
her for who she was.
977
01:11:17,691 --> 01:11:22,487
It was like looking into
the eyes of the devil.
978
01:11:22,654 --> 01:11:28,493
On the other hand, i could
see the beauty and the
979
01:11:28,660 --> 01:11:33,498
Tender nature of the sacred
vows that i had taken
980
01:11:33,665 --> 01:11:38,795
With my wife.
981
01:11:40,046 --> 01:11:46,302
My marriage was everything
good that i'd ever had.
982
01:11:48,555 --> 01:11:51,224
How could i abuse the most
precious gift that i'd been
983
01:11:51,391 --> 01:11:58,606
Given in this life?
984
01:11:58,773 --> 01:12:03,278
Why couldn't i
see it sooner?
985
01:12:03,445 --> 01:12:06,823
I wish i could go back
and change everything,
986
01:12:06,990 --> 01:12:08,742
But i can't.
987
01:12:17,417 --> 01:12:18,043
- Hi!
988
01:12:18,209 --> 01:12:19,502
- Hi.
989
01:12:19,669 --> 01:12:23,882
Um, i need a dozen of the
most beautiful long stem
990
01:12:24,049 --> 01:12:26,092
Roses you have.
991
01:12:26,259 --> 01:12:27,052
Something over there.
992
01:12:27,218 --> 01:12:28,261
Those are beautiful.
993
01:12:28,428 --> 01:12:31,598
Well, you came
to the right place.
994
01:12:31,765 --> 01:12:32,682
Who's the lucky one?
995
01:12:32,849 --> 01:12:35,018
- My wife.
996
01:12:35,185 --> 01:12:36,352
Oh. Anniversary,
i presume.
997
01:12:36,519 --> 01:12:40,857
No. I just want to tell
her i love her.
998
01:12:41,024 --> 01:12:43,026
Um, do you want to
write something on a card?
999
01:12:43,193 --> 01:12:43,818
Would you
write it for me?
1000
01:12:43,985 --> 01:12:44,944
My hands are shaking.
1001
01:12:45,070 --> 01:12:48,615
Yeah.
Yeah, sure.
1002
01:12:48,782 --> 01:12:54,829
What do you want to say?
1003
01:12:54,996 --> 01:13:07,717
Um, my darling amber, i
know that i don't deserve it
1004
01:13:07,884 --> 01:13:10,970
But i hope... no...
1005
01:13:11,137 --> 01:13:20,688
I pray that you can find it
in your heart to forgive me.
1006
01:13:20,855 --> 01:13:25,735
I promise
that i will carry you to the
1007
01:13:25,902 --> 01:13:32,158
Front door every day for
the rest of our life for
1008
01:13:32,325 --> 01:13:41,292
Eternity as the
heavens will allow.
1009
01:13:41,417 --> 01:13:44,420
Amber?
1010
01:13:44,587 --> 01:13:47,757
Love you forever, doug.
1011
01:13:47,924 --> 01:13:56,558
Amber?
1012
01:13:56,724 --> 01:14:01,729
Sweetheart?
1013
01:14:01,896 --> 01:14:03,857
Amber?
1014
01:14:27,839 --> 01:14:30,550
Amber.
1015
01:14:35,305 --> 01:14:37,765
Oh. Oh.
1016
01:14:37,932 --> 01:14:42,520
Oh!
1017
01:15:07,879 --> 01:15:13,384
You see, i believe that
we're put her to choose for
1018
01:15:13,551 --> 01:15:17,430
Ourselves, but i guess in
the end you can only hope
1019
01:15:17,597 --> 01:15:26,940
That you've learned
forgiveness and hopefully
1020
01:15:27,106 --> 01:15:30,902
You leave the world
a better place.
1021
01:15:31,069 --> 01:15:42,872
My world has been blessed
because of the two of you.
1022
01:15:43,039 --> 01:15:50,296
I love you so much i ache
from it, and a love like
1023
01:15:50,463 --> 01:15:52,840
That it doesn't fade.
1024
01:15:53,007 --> 01:16:03,685
It doesn't ever go away, so
let that be your anchor
1025
01:16:03,851 --> 01:16:09,399
When things seem tough.
1026
01:16:09,565 --> 01:16:16,030
I love you both with
everything i am.
1027
01:16:16,197 --> 01:16:18,157
I love you.
1028
01:16:25,915 --> 01:16:34,716
There's nothing i can
say or do to bring her back.
1029
01:16:37,719 --> 01:16:39,178
I don't think there's
anything i can do
1030
01:16:39,345 --> 01:16:40,722
To be forgiven.
1031
01:16:40,888 --> 01:16:44,892
Amber forgave you
a long time ago, doug.
1032
01:16:45,059 --> 01:16:49,647
I know in my heart that the
lord is waiting with open
1033
01:16:49,814 --> 01:16:54,235
Arms to forgive you, as well.
1034
01:16:54,402 --> 01:16:58,406
You just need to learn
to forgive yourself.
1035
01:16:58,573 --> 01:17:01,242
Sometimes that's
the hardest part.
1036
01:17:01,409 --> 01:17:06,456
Your broken heart and
sorrow are evident.
1037
01:17:06,622 --> 01:17:12,086
That's all the savior
jesus christ asks for.
1038
01:17:12,253 --> 01:17:16,466
It's up to you to
reach out to him.
1039
01:17:16,632 --> 01:17:21,596
Amber came to me in
confidence
1040
01:17:21,763 --> 01:17:24,098
When she first found out
she was terminal
1041
01:17:24,265 --> 01:17:32,857
And asked me to give you and
your daughter these letters.
1042
01:17:33,024 --> 01:17:42,116
I hope it has the answers
you're looking for.
1043
01:17:43,618 --> 01:17:46,037
I'll go and talk with
isabel for a few minutes
1044
01:17:46,204 --> 01:17:49,499
And give you some time.
1045
01:18:15,191 --> 01:18:20,279
My dearest doug,
i wish you were reading this
1046
01:18:20,446 --> 01:18:25,326
Letter under different
circumstances, but there are
1047
01:18:25,493 --> 01:18:29,205
Some things i
need you to know.
1048
01:18:29,372 --> 01:18:31,999
Life is short.
1049
01:18:32,166 --> 01:18:34,710
It's so fragile.
1050
01:18:34,877 --> 01:18:39,549
We never know when it's
our time to be called home.
1051
01:18:39,715 --> 01:18:42,135
I can only imagine how
hard this is on you
1052
01:18:42,301 --> 01:18:45,054
And our isabel.
1053
01:18:45,221 --> 01:18:48,724
I wanted to tell you of
my illness, but it came
1054
01:18:48,891 --> 01:18:54,564
Suddenly, and i felt
this was the right way.
1055
01:18:54,730 --> 01:18:58,276
I want you to know
that i completely and
1056
01:18:58,443 --> 01:19:02,280
Unconditionally forgive you.
1057
01:19:02,447 --> 01:19:05,158
All that matters now is that
you made the right choice
1058
01:19:05,324 --> 01:19:09,120
And you came home.
1059
01:19:19,046 --> 01:19:21,549
Is my dad
going to be okay?
1060
01:19:21,716 --> 01:19:23,509
He's going
to be just fine.
1061
01:19:23,634 --> 01:19:26,929
And so are you.
1062
01:19:27,096 --> 01:19:30,308
He just needs a little
time to himself.
1063
01:19:30,475 --> 01:19:35,313
He's discovering some things
that are important to him.
1064
01:19:35,480 --> 01:19:46,532
Your mom was a wonderful person,
and you remind me of her.
1065
01:19:46,699 --> 01:19:51,120
She asked me to
give this to you.
1066
01:19:51,287 --> 01:19:59,754
I'm going to go for a little
walk while you read that.
1067
01:19:59,921 --> 01:20:04,050
You are the man of
my dreams and the father
1068
01:20:04,217 --> 01:20:06,469
Of our child.
1069
01:20:06,636 --> 01:20:09,847
Hold on to that.
1070
01:20:10,014 --> 01:20:12,934
Above all, baby girl,
don't be sad about me.
1071
01:20:13,100 --> 01:20:18,439
Rather look up at
the sky and smile.
1072
01:20:18,606 --> 01:20:25,279
Feel the sun on your face
and know it's me warming you.
1073
01:20:25,446 --> 01:20:27,698
Be happy, izzy.
1074
01:20:27,865 --> 01:20:30,326
May god be with you
until we meet again.
1075
01:20:30,493 --> 01:20:34,080
I love you with
all of my heart.
1076
01:20:34,247 --> 01:20:36,374
Mom.
1077
01:22:21,896 --> 01:22:33,658
媻 i've seen the wise with
this fear disappear...
1078
01:22:33,824 --> 01:22:45,586
媻 i've seen the goal caught in
their eyes disappear...
1079
01:22:45,753 --> 01:22:51,467
媻 i always come back,
come back...
1080
01:22:51,634 --> 01:22:54,011
媻 i'm coming, come
back, come back...
1081
01:22:54,178 --> 01:22:58,265
媻 i'm coming home...
1082
01:22:58,432 --> 01:23:02,812
媻 i always think back, think
back, looking forward...
1083
01:23:02,978 --> 01:23:10,945
媻 what am i waiting for...
1084
01:23:11,112 --> 01:23:16,158
媻 i'm coming home, i'm
coming home...
1085
01:23:16,325 --> 01:23:22,248
媻 are you here...
1086
01:23:22,415 --> 01:23:28,671
媻 i'm coming home,
i'm coming home...
1087
01:23:28,838 --> 01:23:39,265
媻 are you near...
1088
01:23:39,432 --> 01:23:47,189
媻 i heard the fields whisper
love in my ears...
1089
01:23:47,356 --> 01:23:50,192
媻 i've been in
troubled towns...
1090
01:23:50,359 --> 01:23:59,994
媻 that beauty found
my side...
1091
01:24:00,161 --> 01:24:05,499
媻 i always come back, come
back, i'm coming...
1092
01:24:05,666 --> 01:24:11,505
媻 i always come back, come
back, i'm coming home...
1093
01:24:11,672 --> 01:24:14,508
媻 yeah, i always
think back...
1094
01:24:14,675 --> 01:24:16,844
媻 think back, looking
forward...
1095
01:24:17,011 --> 01:24:24,059
媻 what am i waiting for...
1096
01:24:24,226 --> 01:24:29,607
媻 i'm coming home, i'm
coming home...
1097
01:24:29,774 --> 01:24:35,070
媻 are you here...
1098
01:24:35,237 --> 01:24:38,866
媻 oh, i'm coming home...
1099
01:24:39,033 --> 01:24:41,994
媻 i'm coming home...
1100
01:24:42,161 --> 01:24:49,835
媻 are you near...
1101
01:24:50,002 --> 01:24:54,715
媻 i'm coming home, i'm
coming home...
1102
01:24:54,882 --> 01:25:00,888
媻 are you here, yeah...
1103
01:25:01,055 --> 01:25:03,933
媻 i'm coming home...
1104
01:25:04,099 --> 01:25:06,936
媻 i'm coming home, i'm
coming home...
1105
01:25:07,102 --> 01:25:17,530
媻 are you here...
71751
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