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- This portion beginswith these key words.
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You shall be holy for
ithe lord your god am holy.
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How are we to be holy?
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Well, let's read off
becausethe sages tell us this is
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one of the most
importantpassages of the torah.
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It not only tells us to keepshabbat,
honor our parents,
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not Mike idols,
all familiarfrom the ten commandments,
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but it tells us youshall not hate
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your brother in your heart.
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You should correct himwhen he's wrong,
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but you should love himas yourself.
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This is how ajew treats a Jew.
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- Here's the very
verseyeshua matches up with,
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the one about loving godfrom deuteronomy 6.
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These are the greatestcommandments,
and on them,
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all others hang.
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It always strikes me
howit's just before the part
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about not eating the fruitoff the trees
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for the first few years,
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like that old Lyric,
the way you hold your knife,
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the way you changed my life.
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Bang, right in the middleof everything,
there it is.
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You shall nothate your brother.
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Instead,
you shall loveyour neighbor as yourself.
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May I have thisshabbat dance?
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- I was like four, dad.
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I'm way too old todance on your shoes now.
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- Well,
then maybe I shoulddance on yours because
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you're gettingso much taller.
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- I sort ofremember her laugh.
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I hope I never forget.
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- When I dance with you,
itbrings her laughter back.
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- I only wish your mothercould be with us
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to see your bat mitzvah.
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Daddy, you'remaking me so sad.
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- I don't mean to.
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It's just that I know howmuch
she looked forward to it.
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To be able it see you in
frontof all of your friends saying,
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here I am,
a young Jewish womantaking my place,
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a daughter of Rebecca.
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- Don't remind me.
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You now how much I
hatestanding up in front of people,
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even as adat yeshua.
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And anyway,
she didn't evenknow we'd have it there.
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- I'd be so proud of you.
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- I wish uncle Sidney
andaunt Jackie could come.
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They live so close, and we haven't
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even seen them since mom died.
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- I don't thinkthey'd come, Rivka.
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You know how they
feelabout where we attend.
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I'm sorry you don'tget to see them.
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Maybe we can invitethem next time.
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It's just been so long.
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- Lord,
I pray uncle sidneyand aunt Jackie will
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come to the bat mitzvah.
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I pray that daddyand uncle Sidney
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will run into each othersomewhere,
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and they'll get togetherand catch up
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on old times like brothers do.
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And it would be so wonderful
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for them to see meget bat mitzvahed.
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Thank you forhearing my prayer.
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- Amen.
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- Settle down everyone.
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Let's get started.
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The church has been trying
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to convert the jewsfor centuries.
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It's just another way of
sayinggod rejected the Jews.
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First they madeour Bible Christian,
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and now they're usingthis deception
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to take our childrenand
make them Christian.
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- This is justspiritual genocide.
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They're not tryingto kill us this time,
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just stop the jewsfrom being Jewish.
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- You're so right, Harry.
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We've got to educatethe next generation.
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How all throughjewish history
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they've tried to convert
jewsinto christians.
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Sometimes with violence,
other times more subtly.
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If they had succeeded,
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there would be nojewish people today.
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- Come on, everyone,
what are you talking about?
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This is America.
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We're all about free
speechand freedom of religion
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and that sort of thing.
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No one's twisting any
armsin this messianic thing.
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Let people believewhat they want.
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- Please, let me getmy point across.
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You're right, Stephen,
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we need to educate
our kidsand protect them.
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So what do I mean bythe messianic menace.
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- We all know whatyou mean, shuster.
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We weren't born yesterday.
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Just tell us why we're here.
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- I'm getting to it.
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- Well, get to it then.
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- Harry, stop interrupting,
and he'll get to it.
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- Thank you, Patty.
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All right, I'm gettingto it now.
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We want to bring thisyosi Cohen fella in.
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- Yosi Cohen who?
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- Yosi Cohen, the anti-missionary.
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It's a way to educate
usand more importantly
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educate our children.
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They need to be awareof these people
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and their agenda.
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- Sidney, isn't thiswhat happened
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with your brother?
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- I don't want to talkabout Marty, okay?
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- What are youtalking about?
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He did this afterhe lost ruthie, didn't he?
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- Alan, what aboutsidney's brother?
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- Of course, that'sbeside the point.
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This is about our children.
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- What are youtalking about?
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Maybe he shouldtalk to Cohen.
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I mean,
we're paying tobring this yosi schmo in.
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- Okay, Sidney,
maybe youcan invite your brother.
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- I don't talkto my brother.
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I haven't talkedto him in years.
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- You should talk toyour brother, Sidney.
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He's your brother.
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- You do what you do,
alan, I'll do what I do.
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- This isn't grouptherapy, let's vote.
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- It's getting late.
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- Empty nester.
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Well, welcome to the club.
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It's not so bad.
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At least it's quiet.
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Let's face it,
we're pastthe age of picking up
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after the kinder.
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- Sidney,
isn't thatyour brother over there?
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It's across the street, isn't that him?
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- Here you go, Sidney.
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Will there be anything else?
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- Okay, that's it.
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- On the tab?
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- Thanks, schlomie.
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- You're welcome.
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- well, I guess it'ssome kind of sign.
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- Well, I guess it'ssome kind of sign.
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- All right, howare you today?
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- Fine, thank you.
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- You ready to order?
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- Well,
my brother'ssupposed to meet me here.
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He should havebeen here by now.
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To tell you the truth, i haven't seen him
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in a long time.
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Maybe he won't even show up.
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- How long has it been?
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- Let's just sayit's been a long time.
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- So I guess i'lljust come back then.
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- You're late.
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- I hope not too late.
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- You're too late.
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- Always the joker.
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- That's me.
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Man, it's been a long time.
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Want something to eat?
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- No, I ate at home.
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- You look good, man.
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- Thanks, thanks.
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- I've missed you Sidney.
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- Yeah.
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- However,
what kind ofbrother doesn't contact
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his little brotherafter two years...
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- Wait, just a...
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- Wait, let me finish.
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Even when he's receivedphone
calls and more than one.
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- Did I get a call?
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- Yes.
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- I don't remembergetting a call.
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- As a matter of fact,
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I think I was the last oneto call.
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- Look,
let's not argueabout who called who last,
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about how long it's been.
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But I do recall,
now thati think of it, our last
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conversation didn't go so well.
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You meanabout yeshua?
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- You mean Jesus Christ?
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You tried to convert me
ifyou remember correctly.
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- What are youtalking about?
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- Those verses theybrainwashed you with.
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- You asked me whathappened, so I told you.
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- I wasn't askingfor a lecture.
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- Okay, can we changethe subject here?
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- Yeah, great.
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- Aren't you goingto ask me about Rivka?
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You know I keep upwith your kids,
by the way,
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on Facebook.
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- Yeah.
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- How's Jackie doing?
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- She's good, thanks.
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And I hear goodthings about Rivka.
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I hear she's doing well.
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- She's doing very well.
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- At school?
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- All a's, verybright, sharp girl.
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You should see her now
allgrown up and beautiful looking,
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at age 12.
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You know she's having
herbat mitzvah this year.
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- At that place?
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That's nice.
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You know,
she looks likeher mother, I'm sure.
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May she rest in peace.
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But speaking of that,
i must tell you, Marty,
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I can no longer keepthe
promise I made to you.
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You know the one imade when ruthie died.
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I mean, I'm sureyou understand.
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Things have changed.
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We couldn't take her in
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in the event something wereto
happen to you, god forbid.
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- What are youtalking about, Sidney?
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- You know whati'm talking about.
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You walked awayfrom your faith,
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you walked awayfrom your family.
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Your daughter was brainwashed
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by the same peoplethat brainwashed you.
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- You should have half
thebrain that she has, Sidney.
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I can't believe you
wouldreject your own niece.
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She's your family, your mishpacha.
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- That has nothingto do with it.
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She wouldn't fitin a Jewish home.
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- How do you knowwhat she would do?
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You don't even know her.
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You don't even know her.
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Does Jackie feelthe same way?
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- Well, I haven't askedher, but I'm sure
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she would agree.
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Okay, look, enough of that.
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We have someone
coming into talk about those
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things you believe.
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You might want to hear him.
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He knows more than both of
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His name is yosi Cohen.
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- Yeah, i'veheard him twice.
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- Well, he's good.
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He's very entertaining.
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- A regular Seinfeld.
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- Okay, right, i won't ask again.
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Well, look, i gotta be somewhere.
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Let's not stayso scarce?
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- I agree, Sidney.
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Let's really keepin touch this time.
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- Yeah, yeah.
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Well, plan on it.
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You know, you're my littlebrother,
and neither of us
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is as young as we used to be,
and I miss you,
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even if we disagree.
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You're my flesh and blood.
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Well, I gotta go.
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You take care.
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Until the next time, okay?
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- All right.
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Flesh and blood.
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Until next time.
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- Yeah, bye.
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- Rivka?
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Rivka, Chinese.
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- What do you know?
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A vegetarian wonderland.
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- Well, tofu will make youstronger in time
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for your bat mitzvah.
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- Yeah, but I'm inthe mood for chicken.
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- Well, chickentomorrow, tofu today.
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Speaking of today, how was yours?
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- Not bad.
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- Okay.
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Any specifics?
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- Not really.
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- Okay, when you were liketen,
I couldn't stop you,
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and now I can'tget you started?
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- I had to forgive twogirls today at school
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for being mean to me.
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- A fool shows hisannoyance at once,
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but a prudent manoverlooks an insult.
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- Yeah,
you always quotethat verse from proverbs.
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- Because it's true.
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So what did they do?
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- I don't know, i overlooked it.
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Sort of.
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Let's talk about your day.
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Anything unusual in
thelife of Martin margolis?
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- Yes, as a matter of fact,
thank you for asking.
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It was an unusual day.
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How'd you know somethingunusual happened?
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You always know
whensomething unusual happens.
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- What's up?
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- Well, what's up is I
hadlunch with your uncle Sidney
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just like you prayed.
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- Wow.
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Really?
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- Wow, god heard me.
294
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- That's right.
295
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- Wow.
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I haven't seen himin like forever.
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And?
298
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- Well, and we argued fora little bit,
but we both
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decided that you're
fabulousand doing fabulous.
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- He remembers me?
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I hardly remember him.
302
00:15:13,113 --> 00:15:15,815
- Well,
of course you werea little shorter then.
303
00:15:15,848 --> 00:15:18,685
- Yeah, a lot shorter.
304
00:15:18,718 --> 00:15:23,123
So when do iget to see him?
305
00:15:23,156 --> 00:15:25,925
We have to invite themto
the bat mitzvah now.
306
00:15:25,959 --> 00:15:28,728
Did you invite them?
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- No, not yet,
but maybewhen we see him next time.
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- Before I growmuch more I hope.
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No!
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Dad!
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- I don't feel well.
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- Let's go, we'llboth be late, okay?
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I got your toast.
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- See you at 3.
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- Okay, have a good day.
316
00:16:21,348 --> 00:16:24,051
Don't forget tooverlook those insults.
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- I won't. Love you.
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- Love you.
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- See you at 3.
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- dad, where are you?
321
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It's 4 o'clock.
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- Rivka?
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Can you come insidefor a moment?
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- well, how are you doing?
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- Sidney, howshould she be doing?
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- Right.
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- We need to talk.
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Sidney, stay.
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Honey, you'll beliving with us.
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- What are youcrazy, Jackie?
331
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She can't live with us.
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She wouldn't be happy.
333
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I just told martythe other day...
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- Marty isn't here.
335
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You have a better idea?
336
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- I guess not.
337
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For the memory of mybrother, okay for now.
338
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But she won't be happy.
339
00:19:26,933 --> 00:19:29,202
- She won't be happyfor quite a while,
340
00:19:29,236 --> 00:19:31,137
and not for now, Sidney.
341
00:19:31,170 --> 00:19:35,708
For her, for her, for Rivka.
342
00:19:35,742 --> 00:19:38,245
- Okay, okay.
343
00:19:38,278 --> 00:19:40,380
Oy.
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00:19:40,413 --> 00:19:42,649
What my brother Marty,
may he rest in peace,
345
00:19:42,682 --> 00:19:46,919
put me throughwith this Christ thing.
346
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The cemetery,
they gave mesuch tsuris about it,
347
00:19:51,157 --> 00:19:54,193
but at least they're taking him.
348
00:19:54,227 --> 00:19:58,498
- Shhhh, she'll hear you.
349
00:19:58,531 --> 00:20:01,334
- Martin margolis
waspreceded in death by his
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beloved wife Ruth, mayshe be remembered
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for a blessing.
352
00:20:06,306 --> 00:20:09,509
They shared a full andloving life,
and together
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00:20:09,542 --> 00:20:13,246
they raised theirbeautiful daughter Rivka.
354
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:17,517
7 years ago,
Martin losthis beloved wife ruthie.
355
00:20:17,550 --> 00:20:19,919
Life has been difficultsince then for both
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00:20:19,952 --> 00:20:21,788
father and daughter.
357
00:20:21,821 --> 00:20:24,657
But Martin Rose to
theoccasion and was a loving
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00:20:24,691 --> 00:20:31,998
and caring father for
hisbeloved and beautiful Rivka.
359
00:20:37,804 --> 00:20:44,544
Today, our hearts go outwith
great compassion for Rivka.
360
00:20:55,655 --> 00:20:58,358
- I've got to livewith my aunt and uncle.
361
00:20:58,391 --> 00:21:01,027
I don't know whati'm going to do.
362
00:21:01,060 --> 00:21:04,831
I mean, I haven'tseen them in years.
363
00:21:04,864 --> 00:21:06,866
And they're nice, but...
364
00:21:06,899 --> 00:21:11,504
- I love you.
365
00:21:11,538 --> 00:21:13,506
If they'll let you cometo the synagogue,
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00:21:13,540 --> 00:21:16,876
they've got to let you cometo adat yeshua.
367
00:21:16,909 --> 00:21:20,947
- I'm coming,
I'll be thereevery week no matter what.
368
00:21:20,980 --> 00:21:23,215
I don't know how i'llget there, but...
369
00:21:23,249 --> 00:21:25,318
- My parents, they can take you.
370
00:21:25,352 --> 00:21:27,454
I know they will for sure.
371
00:21:27,487 --> 00:21:31,658
- Then we'll see youthere this weekend.
372
00:21:31,691 --> 00:21:37,830
- I don't wantto live with them.
373
00:21:37,864 --> 00:21:42,402
Pray for me.
374
00:21:42,435 --> 00:21:45,872
I know they meanwell, but...
375
00:21:45,905 --> 00:21:47,707
I don't like it.
376
00:21:47,740 --> 00:21:51,110
I want my old room,
that bigold stuffed bean chair
377
00:21:51,143 --> 00:21:53,380
your mom gave me.
378
00:21:53,413 --> 00:21:57,484
- We'll rescue you, and the bean chair.
379
00:21:57,517 --> 00:22:03,423
We're sisters for life.
380
00:22:03,456 --> 00:22:04,633
- You know with the kids gone,
381
00:22:04,657 --> 00:22:07,894
we have to have anothertalk with her.
382
00:22:07,927 --> 00:22:09,328
- Tomorrow.
383
00:22:09,362 --> 00:22:12,999
We just spent 7 days
withevery conceivable relative
384
00:22:13,032 --> 00:22:15,735
and stranger traipsingthrough here.
385
00:22:15,768 --> 00:22:16,969
- Maybe.
386
00:22:17,003 --> 00:22:19,372
Maybe now is best.
387
00:22:19,406 --> 00:22:26,345
- Oy vey.
388
00:22:26,379 --> 00:22:29,281
- Rivka, honey, I know thismust be very,
389
00:22:29,315 --> 00:22:32,385
very difficult for you.
390
00:22:32,419 --> 00:22:34,987
You've lost so much.
391
00:22:35,021 --> 00:22:36,623
You miss your...
392
00:22:36,656 --> 00:22:41,227
- I miss everything,
everything, aunt Jackie.
393
00:22:41,260 --> 00:22:43,696
I don't belong here.
394
00:22:43,730 --> 00:22:47,166
I like you,
but dad anduncle Sidney haven't even
395
00:22:47,199 --> 00:22:49,469
talked in years.
396
00:22:49,502 --> 00:22:53,205
I feel like, like...
397
00:22:53,239 --> 00:22:55,107
- That was wrong.
398
00:22:55,141 --> 00:22:57,243
I can't argue with that.
399
00:22:57,276 --> 00:23:00,480
- We talked justthe other day.
400
00:23:00,513 --> 00:23:02,214
- Sidney, I don'tthink she means...
401
00:23:02,248 --> 00:23:03,983
- He told me, uncle Sidney.
402
00:23:04,016 --> 00:23:06,218
I know we were goingto get together,
403
00:23:06,252 --> 00:23:09,489
but that doesn't changehow I feel.
404
00:23:09,522 --> 00:23:12,959
- Rivka, you're our niece,
and even though he haven't
405
00:23:12,992 --> 00:23:16,763
had the chance to see
yougrow up to be so pretty
406
00:23:16,796 --> 00:23:24,103
and so smart, we love you,
and we want you to live with us.
407
00:23:24,136 --> 00:23:26,172
It would be an honor.
408
00:23:26,205 --> 00:23:28,207
- Right.
409
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,109
That's right.
410
00:23:30,142 --> 00:23:35,081
Your dad and I agreed.
411
00:23:35,114 --> 00:23:39,385
We discussed it.
412
00:23:39,418 --> 00:23:42,021
- A few days ago?
413
00:23:42,054 --> 00:23:44,791
You talked aboutthis a few days ago?
414
00:23:44,824 --> 00:23:51,698
- Well, we discussedthe possibility.
415
00:23:51,731 --> 00:23:53,399
- Then it's destined.
416
00:23:53,432 --> 00:23:55,034
It's bashert.
417
00:23:55,067 --> 00:23:57,169
- I don't know about that.
418
00:23:57,203 --> 00:24:00,673
- What about my friends,
my synagogue, my life?
419
00:24:00,707 --> 00:24:03,643
- Your friendsare your friends.
420
00:24:03,676 --> 00:24:05,778
You choose your friends.
421
00:24:05,812 --> 00:24:08,180
We would never takethat away from you.
422
00:24:08,214 --> 00:24:11,450
But we also hope you'll
makenew friends besides the ones
423
00:24:11,484 --> 00:24:15,488
at school and yourother friends.
424
00:24:15,522 --> 00:24:19,391
- I guess ihave to say this.
425
00:24:19,425 --> 00:24:23,496
We're a family, a mishpacha,
426
00:24:23,530 --> 00:24:25,498
and we have a synagogue.
427
00:24:25,532 --> 00:24:28,200
Families go tosynagogue together.
428
00:24:28,234 --> 00:24:32,471
That's the way it'ssupposed to be.
429
00:24:32,505 --> 00:24:35,675
You can see your friendsat other times,
430
00:24:35,708 --> 00:24:38,945
but we want you to
cometo synagogue with us.
431
00:24:38,978 --> 00:24:40,713
- I don't wantto talk right now.
432
00:24:40,747 --> 00:24:44,951
- Okay, Rivka, listen,
anything you need or want...
433
00:24:44,984 --> 00:24:48,320
- I think I wantto sleep now.
434
00:24:48,354 --> 00:24:49,722
I'm tired.
435
00:24:49,756 --> 00:24:51,390
- I think that'sa good idea.
436
00:24:51,423 --> 00:24:55,227
It's been a verydifficult day.
437
00:25:34,901 --> 00:25:37,436
- Nicky blavitznice to meet you.
438
00:25:37,469 --> 00:25:40,106
- Hi, I'm Rivka.
439
00:25:40,139 --> 00:25:41,507
- Sorry about your dad.
440
00:25:41,540 --> 00:25:43,776
I hope you joinour y.J.A. Group,
441
00:25:43,810 --> 00:25:46,478
young Jewish alliance, it's a great group.
442
00:25:46,512 --> 00:25:48,280
- Yeah, sure.
443
00:25:48,314 --> 00:25:49,348
Are you all in it?
444
00:25:49,381 --> 00:25:55,187
- Yeah, we are.
445
00:25:55,221 --> 00:25:58,758
- Who was Jacob bluestein,
some founder or something?
446
00:25:58,791 --> 00:26:01,260
- You mean who isjacob bluestein?
447
00:26:01,293 --> 00:26:03,295
He's the richest manin the synagogue.
448
00:26:03,329 --> 00:26:05,564
Lots of money to giveif
you know what I mean?
449
00:26:05,598 --> 00:26:07,634
- Yeah.
450
00:26:07,667 --> 00:26:09,301
- He's got his name on likefive rooms
451
00:26:09,335 --> 00:26:10,670
all over the place.
452
00:26:10,703 --> 00:26:13,439
Bluestein chapel, bluestein men's room.
453
00:26:13,472 --> 00:26:14,907
That was a joke.
454
00:26:14,941 --> 00:26:19,478
He's right over there.
455
00:26:19,511 --> 00:26:21,614
I get it.
456
00:26:21,648 --> 00:26:22,949
Because I knowof this big church
457
00:26:22,982 --> 00:26:24,917
that has an old folks' home
458
00:26:24,951 --> 00:26:27,353
that's named after somerich guy like that.
459
00:26:27,386 --> 00:26:29,588
- What?
460
00:26:29,622 --> 00:26:36,996
- Never mind.
461
00:26:37,029 --> 00:26:40,599
- Well, did youenjoy the service?
462
00:26:40,633 --> 00:26:42,268
- It was okay.
463
00:26:42,301 --> 00:26:44,603
- Well, it seemedlike you did.
464
00:26:44,637 --> 00:26:45,972
You knew everything.
465
00:26:46,005 --> 00:26:47,874
You chanted like a cantor.
466
00:26:47,907 --> 00:26:49,676
- Your uncle's sayinghe's proud of you.
467
00:26:49,709 --> 00:26:51,077
Aren't you, Sidney?
468
00:26:51,110 --> 00:26:53,780
- Well, it's a mitzvahto have, you know...
469
00:26:53,813 --> 00:26:55,691
- I'm studying for mybat
mitzvah at adat yeshua.
470
00:26:55,715 --> 00:27:00,086
I see.
471
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,488
- Rivka, it wouldmean so much to us.
472
00:27:02,521 --> 00:27:05,925
We would be so honoredif
you would have your
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00:27:05,958 --> 00:27:08,360
bat mitzvah with usat banai Israel.
474
00:27:08,394 --> 00:27:12,331
Maybe you could thinkabout it, let us know?
475
00:27:12,364 --> 00:27:16,002
Your friends from your... from
your chapel could come,
476
00:27:16,035 --> 00:27:18,738
and well, I'm sure rabbi Stein
477
00:27:18,771 --> 00:27:21,207
and Dr. pozner wouldwork with you.
478
00:27:31,517 --> 00:27:34,120
- Hi.
479
00:27:34,153 --> 00:27:38,825
Yeah, listen, ican't talk right now.
480
00:27:38,858 --> 00:27:42,461
Yeah, yeah, i'llcall you later, okay?
481
00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:46,933
Um, about half an hour.
482
00:27:46,966 --> 00:27:52,104
Okay. okay, all right, bye.
483
00:27:52,138 --> 00:27:54,707
- You can talkto your friend.
484
00:27:54,741 --> 00:27:57,409
- It was my rabbi.
485
00:27:57,443 --> 00:27:59,178
- He's calling on shabbat?
486
00:27:59,211 --> 00:28:03,783
I never heard of a rabbi
callingon a congregant on shabbat.
487
00:28:03,816 --> 00:28:06,552
- Well, I don't know.
488
00:28:06,585 --> 00:28:08,721
He's like a friend.
489
00:28:08,755 --> 00:28:13,625
- I'm sure he's very nice.
490
00:28:13,659 --> 00:28:17,296
- Do you knowjacob bluestein?
491
00:28:17,329 --> 00:28:21,400
- You mean thee
jacobbluestein in our synagogue?
492
00:28:21,433 --> 00:28:23,069
- Is there another?
493
00:28:23,102 --> 00:28:25,571
I didn't think there wasroom for two.
494
00:28:25,604 --> 00:28:27,073
- Yes, that one.
495
00:28:27,106 --> 00:28:30,242
- Everyone knowsjacob bluestein.
496
00:28:34,180 --> 00:28:36,883
Well, don't you think
heshould give his money kind
497
00:28:36,916 --> 00:28:38,885
of without letting
hisright-hand know what his
498
00:28:38,918 --> 00:28:40,753
left is doing?
499
00:28:40,787 --> 00:28:44,556
Like more private.
500
00:28:44,590 --> 00:28:48,227
It's just, I mean,
that signover the door, it's just,
501
00:28:48,260 --> 00:28:52,131
well,
I know of this bigchurch with an old folks'
502
00:28:52,164 --> 00:28:56,668
home that's namedafter some rich...
503
00:28:56,702 --> 00:28:59,005
Never mind.
504
00:28:59,038 --> 00:29:03,042
- That's a verywise saying, Rivka.
505
00:29:03,075 --> 00:29:05,511
You know,
not letting hisright hand know what his
506
00:29:05,544 --> 00:29:10,049
left hand is doing, it's very rabbinic.
507
00:29:10,082 --> 00:29:13,085
You know,
there are a lotof women rabbis these days.
508
00:29:13,119 --> 00:29:14,753
- Sidney, stop joking.
509
00:29:14,787 --> 00:29:16,722
- I wasn't joking.
510
00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:18,757
- A rabbi?
511
00:29:18,791 --> 00:29:20,359
Not me, uncle Sidney.
512
00:29:20,392 --> 00:29:26,899
I hate public speaking.
513
00:29:26,933 --> 00:29:30,169
- Rabbi, my aunt and unclewant me
514
00:29:30,202 --> 00:29:35,241
to go to their synagogue,
and be bat mitzvahed there.
515
00:29:35,274 --> 00:29:37,443
- I see.
516
00:29:37,476 --> 00:29:39,311
What do you think?
517
00:29:39,345 --> 00:29:40,847
- I don't know.
518
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,182
I don't know what to do.
519
00:29:43,215 --> 00:29:45,551
- It must be alittle overwhelming.
520
00:29:45,584 --> 00:29:48,420
Are they putting
pressureof any kind on you?
521
00:29:48,454 --> 00:29:50,389
- No, no.
522
00:29:50,422 --> 00:29:52,291
They're trying to be nice.
523
00:29:52,324 --> 00:29:54,760
They want me to bekind of like family.
524
00:29:54,793 --> 00:29:57,463
You know, go where they go.
525
00:29:57,496 --> 00:30:00,867
- Right in the middle
ofyour bat mitzvah classes?
526
00:30:00,900 --> 00:30:03,769
- It's a little strange,
and I don't know what dad
527
00:30:03,802 --> 00:30:05,637
would want me to do.
528
00:30:05,671 --> 00:30:07,439
I'm confused.
529
00:30:07,473 --> 00:30:11,210
They want all the kidsfrom
adat yeshua to come.
530
00:30:11,243 --> 00:30:13,112
- I see.
531
00:30:13,145 --> 00:30:16,282
Okay,
how about yourfear of public speaking?
532
00:30:16,315 --> 00:30:18,017
- I'd rather do itsomewhere where
533
00:30:18,050 --> 00:30:20,887
I know the people, but...
534
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,222
Maybe the lordwants me to do it.
535
00:30:23,255 --> 00:30:24,991
- I see.
536
00:30:25,024 --> 00:30:26,792
Well, I know you coulddo it there
537
00:30:26,825 --> 00:30:28,494
with your aunt and uncle.
538
00:30:28,527 --> 00:30:31,463
You could show themwhat you've learned,
Rivka.
539
00:30:31,497 --> 00:30:34,333
Will this be the sameweekend,
the same portion?
540
00:30:34,366 --> 00:30:36,468
- They haven'ttalked about that yet.
541
00:30:36,502 --> 00:30:40,139
- Daddy, I'm ready todouble jump your king.
542
00:30:40,172 --> 00:30:42,741
- I hear hava, i'll call you next week.
543
00:30:42,774 --> 00:30:45,177
I'll try to comesee you soon.
544
00:30:45,211 --> 00:30:47,646
I can call the office andset
up an appointment, okay?
545
00:30:47,679 --> 00:30:50,316
- That wouldbe great, Rivka.
546
00:30:50,349 --> 00:30:57,123
- Bye.
547
00:30:57,156 --> 00:30:59,591
- Here, let mehelp with that. Come on.
548
00:30:59,625 --> 00:31:06,532
- Sure.- I got it.
549
00:31:06,565 --> 00:31:08,100
- Thanks, uncle Sidney.
550
00:31:08,134 --> 00:31:09,701
It's pretty heavy.
551
00:31:09,735 --> 00:31:15,908
- Yeah.
552
00:31:15,942 --> 00:31:18,810
- Okay, almost done.
553
00:31:18,844 --> 00:31:20,846
I'll go get the last of it.
554
00:31:20,879 --> 00:31:23,749
- Okay.
555
00:31:31,323 --> 00:31:33,035
- your father would rollover
in his grave if he knew
556
00:31:33,059 --> 00:31:35,627
that a family member
werereading the new testament
557
00:31:35,661 --> 00:31:37,229
in this house.
558
00:31:37,263 --> 00:31:41,600
- Shhhh.
559
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:14,166
- but when you do sedaka,
good deeds like giving,
560
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,303
do not let your left hand
knowwhat your right hand is
561
00:32:17,336 --> 00:32:21,207
doing so that your sedakamay be in secret,
562
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:27,413
and your father who seesin
secret shall reward you.
563
00:33:01,547 --> 00:33:08,454
- I think these y.J.A.
Meetingsare over at about 9.
564
00:33:08,487 --> 00:33:09,755
You know what?
565
00:33:09,788 --> 00:33:14,893
I haven't been getting
theannouncements for a long time,
566
00:33:14,926 --> 00:33:20,232
so I do think it would bea
good idea for you to maybe
567
00:33:20,266 --> 00:33:24,436
get acquainted with someof
the kids at the synagogue,
568
00:33:24,470 --> 00:33:26,805
don't you?
569
00:33:26,838 --> 00:33:28,640
- I guess so.
570
00:33:28,674 --> 00:33:31,077
Uncle Sidney,
they saidit's over at 9 o'clock.
571
00:33:31,110 --> 00:33:33,412
Please don't be late.
572
00:33:33,445 --> 00:33:34,746
- I won't.
573
00:33:34,780 --> 00:33:42,780
I like driving someoneto
these meetings again.
574
00:33:42,954 --> 00:33:45,023
Especially you.
575
00:33:45,057 --> 00:33:53,057
Have a good time. I'll see you at 9.
576
00:33:53,165 --> 00:33:55,867
- You want a coke, Rivka?
577
00:33:55,901 --> 00:33:57,203
- No thanks.
578
00:33:57,236 --> 00:34:00,272
I can get it.
579
00:34:00,306 --> 00:34:04,443
- Of course you can, you have two hands.
580
00:34:04,476 --> 00:34:07,746
How old did yousay you were?
581
00:34:07,779 --> 00:34:09,848
- I didn't say.
582
00:34:09,881 --> 00:34:11,883
- And?
583
00:34:11,917 --> 00:34:14,220
- And I'm 12.
584
00:34:14,253 --> 00:34:15,854
Almost 13.
585
00:34:15,887 --> 00:34:18,790
you're studyingfor your bat mitzvah then?
586
00:34:18,824 --> 00:34:20,426
- Yes.
587
00:34:20,459 --> 00:34:23,061
- Where'd you sayyou went to synagogue?
588
00:34:23,095 --> 00:34:25,531
- I didn't.
589
00:34:25,564 --> 00:34:27,099
- Well?
590
00:34:27,133 --> 00:34:28,434
- Well what?
591
00:34:28,467 --> 00:34:30,536
- Where do yougo to synagogue?
592
00:34:30,569 --> 00:34:31,703
- Hey, man.
593
00:34:31,737 --> 00:34:35,674
- My father and iwent to adat yeshua.
594
00:34:35,707 --> 00:34:37,809
Ever heard of it?
595
00:34:37,843 --> 00:34:40,446
- No, never heard of it.
596
00:34:40,479 --> 00:34:43,549
- That may be becauseit's messianic.
597
00:34:43,582 --> 00:34:47,753
The yeshua part is hebrewfor salvation,
as in Jesus.
598
00:34:47,786 --> 00:34:51,123
Any other questions?
599
00:34:51,157 --> 00:34:53,259
I didn't think so.
600
00:34:53,292 --> 00:34:55,060
- Hey, Nicky.- Hey, how's it going?
601
00:34:55,093 --> 00:34:57,696
- Is Sarah around?- Yeah, she's back there.
602
00:34:57,729 --> 00:35:01,767
- Cool, thanks.
603
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,469
- What's with you?
604
00:35:03,502 --> 00:35:05,771
- Just when doesthis thing start?
605
00:35:05,804 --> 00:35:07,173
- Soon.
606
00:35:07,206 --> 00:35:10,342
So tell me about thissynagogue you go to.
607
00:35:10,376 --> 00:35:12,077
- Are you serious?
608
00:35:12,110 --> 00:35:15,447
- Yeah. it sounds cool.
609
00:35:15,481 --> 00:35:19,318
- Well,
some people thinkit's the opposite of cool.
610
00:35:19,351 --> 00:35:22,688
Like not evena Jewish thing.
611
00:35:22,721 --> 00:35:25,324
- You seem totallyjewish to me.
612
00:35:25,357 --> 00:35:33,357
- Well, I am,
so I thinki'll take a seat now.
613
00:35:35,267 --> 00:35:37,636
- Everybody come over here.
614
00:35:37,669 --> 00:35:41,507
Rivka's going to tellus
about her synagogue.
615
00:35:41,540 --> 00:35:44,376
- Nicky, please don't.
616
00:35:44,410 --> 00:35:46,678
- What are you afraid of?
617
00:35:46,712 --> 00:35:48,514
She's a messianic.
618
00:35:48,547 --> 00:35:50,282
Does everyone knowwhat that means?
619
00:35:50,316 --> 00:35:52,284
- I think I do.
620
00:35:54,353 --> 00:35:56,455
- Rivka's going to tell
uswhat she believes,
621
00:35:56,488 --> 00:36:02,661
aren't you Rivka?
622
00:36:02,694 --> 00:36:08,033
- Well, I could try to explainit
if you guys wanted me to.
623
00:36:08,066 --> 00:36:11,337
yeah.
624
00:36:11,370 --> 00:36:17,108
- Well, how was it?- Okay.
625
00:36:17,142 --> 00:36:20,379
Yeah, it was okay.
626
00:36:20,412 --> 00:36:21,847
- That's good.
627
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,782
That was the blavitzboy, wasn't it?
628
00:36:23,815 --> 00:36:27,686
- I think so.- What's his name?
629
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:29,488
- Nicky.
630
00:36:29,521 --> 00:36:36,862
Well, well, i think it's Nicky.
631
00:36:43,835 --> 00:36:45,837
- okay, so I was at thisy.J.A. Meeting,
632
00:36:45,871 --> 00:36:48,206
and it started with this
cuteboy named Nicky blavitz.
633
00:36:48,240 --> 00:36:49,575
- What?
634
00:36:49,608 --> 00:36:51,977
- Yeah, and he callseveryone over,
and they all
635
00:36:52,010 --> 00:36:54,880
ask me a million questionsabout
messianic judaism,
636
00:36:54,913 --> 00:36:57,249
et cetera, et cetera.
637
00:36:57,283 --> 00:36:59,551
I'd never seenanything like it.
638
00:36:59,585 --> 00:37:01,720
Their questions were
reallyinteresting like what
639
00:37:01,753 --> 00:37:02,888
do you believe?
640
00:37:02,921 --> 00:37:04,990
And what's your servicelike over there?
641
00:37:05,023 --> 00:37:07,025
And I don't know.
642
00:37:07,058 --> 00:37:08,894
- I bet he's gorgeous.
643
00:37:08,927 --> 00:37:11,096
- Yeah, he is.
644
00:37:11,129 --> 00:37:17,336
And rhena, i just lost my dad.
645
00:37:17,369 --> 00:37:21,239
Read Hamlet,
he wasn't readyfor his mom to remarry,
646
00:37:21,273 --> 00:37:23,008
and I'm not ready to like Nicky.
647
00:37:23,041 --> 00:37:25,977
- I hear you.
648
00:37:26,011 --> 00:37:28,947
Even though I haven't
readhamlet like you advanced
649
00:37:28,980 --> 00:37:33,852
english lit folks,
I hear myrivka coming back to life.
650
00:37:33,885 --> 00:37:36,888
You sound almost...
651
00:37:36,922 --> 00:37:38,557
Happy.
652
00:37:38,590 --> 00:37:41,460
- Yeah.
653
00:37:41,493 --> 00:37:43,729
Yeah, maybe.
654
00:37:43,762 --> 00:37:44,996
I guess so.
655
00:37:45,030 --> 00:37:47,333
I do feel a littlebetter, a little.
656
00:37:47,366 --> 00:37:52,371
I still reallymiss dad so much.
657
00:37:52,404 --> 00:37:56,141
- I'm here for you.
658
00:37:56,174 --> 00:37:59,811
I'll talk to you later. Bye.
659
00:38:09,888 --> 00:38:12,123
- Rivka,
we miss you somuch at the synagogue.
660
00:38:12,157 --> 00:38:13,692
- I'll be back.
661
00:38:13,725 --> 00:38:15,894
I've just got to go totheir
synagogue for now.
662
00:38:15,927 --> 00:38:19,665
I think they'retrying to help me.
663
00:38:19,698 --> 00:38:22,067
Just kind of intheir own way.
664
00:38:22,100 --> 00:38:24,035
- Their own way
doesn'tseem very fair to me.
665
00:38:24,069 --> 00:38:28,974
I want you to be bat
mitzvahedat adat yeshua with us.
666
00:38:29,007 --> 00:38:30,642
It's where you belong.
667
00:38:30,676 --> 00:38:32,644
- It will be okay, Karyn.
668
00:38:32,678 --> 00:38:35,947
Did you tell her about
whathappened the other day?
669
00:38:35,981 --> 00:38:38,083
About Nicky and his friends?
670
00:38:38,116 --> 00:38:40,519
- Who's Nicky?
671
00:38:40,552 --> 00:38:42,688
- No, I didn't.
672
00:38:42,721 --> 00:38:45,023
I didn't get a chance, it's been so crazy.
673
00:38:45,056 --> 00:38:46,592
- What happened?
674
00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:49,160
Tell me what happened.
675
00:38:49,194 --> 00:38:54,600
- Well, there's this guy attheir
synagogue named Nicky,
676
00:38:54,633 --> 00:38:58,704
and I admit he'sreally cute.
677
00:39:12,984 --> 00:39:15,120
- hey, there he is.
678
00:39:15,153 --> 00:39:17,889
Nicky!
679
00:39:17,923 --> 00:39:20,125
Nicky!
680
00:39:31,002 --> 00:39:34,573
Hey? what brings you here?
681
00:39:34,606 --> 00:39:36,942
- Well,
these are myfriends from adat yeshua,
682
00:39:36,975 --> 00:39:39,277
rhena and Karyn.
683
00:39:39,310 --> 00:39:42,113
- Karyn with a y.
684
00:39:42,147 --> 00:39:45,817
I get it, instead of with an e.
685
00:39:45,851 --> 00:39:48,487
I'm learning alot about names.
686
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,156
Yeshua is Jesus.
687
00:39:53,058 --> 00:39:56,828
- Karyn is with a y.
688
00:39:56,862 --> 00:40:02,033
Well, this is jeffkushner with a k.
689
00:40:02,067 --> 00:40:04,002
And Sarah's backthere catching up.
690
00:40:04,035 --> 00:40:06,004
- Are you joking or what?
691
00:40:06,037 --> 00:40:08,774
Because if you'rejoking, it's not funny.
692
00:40:08,807 --> 00:40:12,578
- I'm observing,
Andi'm learning, seriously.
693
00:40:12,611 --> 00:40:14,780
- Well,
Rivka here istelling us she's having
694
00:40:14,813 --> 00:40:17,015
her bat mitzvah atyour synagogue.
695
00:40:17,048 --> 00:40:18,984
- Wow!
696
00:40:19,017 --> 00:40:22,854
I guess you'll start
bystudying with Dr. pozner?
697
00:40:22,888 --> 00:40:25,423
- Well,
I've actuallyalready started studying
698
00:40:25,457 --> 00:40:27,092
at adat yeshua.
699
00:40:27,125 --> 00:40:31,262
- Well,
you might havesome catching up to do?
700
00:40:31,296 --> 00:40:33,131
- What do you mean?
701
00:40:33,164 --> 00:40:35,233
- I don't know.
702
00:40:35,266 --> 00:40:38,470
I'm just saying that thereare
probably some things
703
00:40:38,504 --> 00:40:40,806
that you haven't covered.
704
00:40:40,839 --> 00:40:43,274
- What she hasn't coveredat adat yeshua
705
00:40:43,308 --> 00:40:45,443
can stay uncovered!
706
00:40:45,477 --> 00:40:48,346
- Okay, I'm sure that's true.
707
00:40:48,379 --> 00:40:50,015
Well... ummmm.
708
00:40:50,048 --> 00:40:52,250
We probably oughtto get going,
709
00:40:52,283 --> 00:40:55,086
so I'll see y'all soon.
710
00:41:00,425 --> 00:41:02,794
- that was rude!
711
00:41:02,828 --> 00:41:04,062
- Sorry.
712
00:41:04,095 --> 00:41:06,732
I guess he just got to
mewith his little "jokes"
713
00:41:06,765 --> 00:41:08,133
or whatever they are.
714
00:41:08,166 --> 00:41:09,668
I don't know if itrust him, Rivka.
715
00:41:09,701 --> 00:41:16,542
- I don't know... He seems okay to me.
716
00:41:16,575 --> 00:41:19,010
- He is just too cute.
717
00:41:19,044 --> 00:41:20,679
Nicky with a "y".
718
00:41:20,712 --> 00:41:24,182
- Is that allyou think about?
719
00:41:31,389 --> 00:41:32,624
- So?
720
00:41:32,658 --> 00:41:34,726
- I found thisunder her mattress.
721
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,328
- So,
it was in the box. We knew she had it.
722
00:41:37,362 --> 00:41:39,364
- That's notwhat bothers me.
723
00:41:39,397 --> 00:41:40,866
- So what bothers you?
724
00:41:40,899 --> 00:41:43,134
- She feels likeshe has to hide it.
725
00:41:43,168 --> 00:41:44,435
- Do you blame her?
726
00:41:44,469 --> 00:41:46,204
We don't believe inthe new testament here.
727
00:41:46,237 --> 00:41:48,540
- It's not good for her
tofeel like she has to hide
728
00:41:48,574 --> 00:41:51,009
things from us when
shejust lost her father.
729
00:41:51,042 --> 00:41:54,913
- Okay, psychologist. I'm listening.
730
00:41:54,946 --> 00:41:57,616
- I feel we should tell
hershe doesn't have to hide it.
731
00:41:57,649 --> 00:41:58,950
- Do we have to?
732
00:41:58,984 --> 00:42:01,587
Can't we just leavewell enough alone?
733
00:42:01,620 --> 00:42:03,421
- Do you want her feelinglike she has to
734
00:42:03,454 --> 00:42:05,323
hide things around us?
735
00:42:05,356 --> 00:42:07,358
Maybe some day
she'llfeel like she has to hide
736
00:42:07,392 --> 00:42:09,260
something else, like drugs
737
00:42:09,294 --> 00:42:11,730
or something elselike a boyfriend.
738
00:42:11,763 --> 00:42:15,533
She shouldn't feel like
shehas to keep any secrets.
739
00:42:15,567 --> 00:42:18,136
- Okay. okay. That'sa good point.
740
00:42:18,169 --> 00:42:20,271
But I think it would bea good idea
741
00:42:20,305 --> 00:42:21,807
for her to speak to rabbi Stein.
742
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,208
- We can't force her.
743
00:42:23,241 --> 00:42:25,744
- Of course we can't forceher,
but we can ask her.
744
00:42:25,777 --> 00:42:27,913
- We can do that. I can do that.
745
00:42:27,946 --> 00:42:29,681
You stay out of it, please.
746
00:42:29,715 --> 00:42:31,249
- It would be my pleasure,
747
00:42:31,282 --> 00:42:33,719
but I still think sheshould talk to him.
748
00:42:33,752 --> 00:42:35,854
- He obviously likes Rivka.
749
00:42:35,887 --> 00:42:37,723
- That is not true!
750
00:42:37,756 --> 00:42:40,992
And anyway, myfather just died.
751
00:42:41,026 --> 00:42:42,694
- What does thathave to do with it?
752
00:42:42,728 --> 00:42:44,562
- It's kind of...
753
00:42:44,596 --> 00:42:48,099
Well, it's kind ofa Hamlet thing.
754
00:42:48,133 --> 00:42:49,668
- What?
755
00:42:49,701 --> 00:42:51,803
- You guys want to come over?
756
00:42:51,837 --> 00:42:52,847
I want you guys tocome over and
757
00:42:52,871 --> 00:42:55,373
brighten things up for me.
758
00:42:55,406 --> 00:42:57,175
- I'm sorry. I can't.
759
00:42:57,208 --> 00:43:00,178
I got to go do some
choresmy mom asked me to do.
760
00:43:00,211 --> 00:43:01,780
- Me either. I'vegot homework.
761
00:43:01,813 --> 00:43:05,483
Ten page paperdue by tomorrow.
762
00:43:05,516 --> 00:43:07,886
- Okay. I understand.
763
00:43:07,919 --> 00:43:11,890
Abandon your friendfor trivial activity.
764
00:43:11,923 --> 00:43:14,559
You're beinga Jewish mother.
765
00:43:14,592 --> 00:43:16,594
- Somebody aroundhere has to be.
766
00:43:16,628 --> 00:43:19,464
- Love you.
767
00:43:19,497 --> 00:43:22,433
- Me too.
768
00:43:42,453 --> 00:43:43,655
- you surprised me.
769
00:43:43,689 --> 00:43:45,556
- You surprised me too.
770
00:43:45,590 --> 00:43:47,458
That.
771
00:43:47,492 --> 00:43:50,261
- Aunt Jackie, do youalways make a habit
772
00:43:50,295 --> 00:43:51,897
of going through my things?
773
00:43:51,930 --> 00:43:54,299
- I was changing thesheets on your bed,
honey.
774
00:43:54,332 --> 00:43:56,301
I happened to see it there.
775
00:43:56,334 --> 00:43:57,502
I wanted you to know...
776
00:43:57,535 --> 00:43:58,469
- I see.
777
00:43:58,503 --> 00:43:59,771
Well, if it's a problem,
778
00:43:59,805 --> 00:44:01,372
I can live with somefriends of mine.
779
00:44:01,406 --> 00:44:02,774
- You don't understand.
780
00:44:02,808 --> 00:44:05,510
- I understand.
781
00:44:05,543 --> 00:44:08,346
I'm sure you don't like
mehaving this in your house.
782
00:44:08,379 --> 00:44:11,950
- No. I put it on the
tableso you would know
783
00:44:11,983 --> 00:44:13,284
you don't have to hide it.
784
00:44:13,318 --> 00:44:14,452
I don't want you to feel
785
00:44:14,485 --> 00:44:16,688
you have to hide anythingaround us.
786
00:44:16,722 --> 00:44:19,825
I appreciate that,
787
00:44:19,858 --> 00:44:24,662
but I think it would be
betterif I made my own bed.
788
00:44:24,696 --> 00:44:27,032
- Okay. you canmake your own bed
789
00:44:27,065 --> 00:44:29,835
and put your oldsheets in the hall.
790
00:44:29,868 --> 00:44:33,839
- Thank you for understanding, aunt Jackie.
791
00:44:33,872 --> 00:44:35,540
I'll take my Bible now.
792
00:44:35,573 --> 00:44:36,875
Unless you wantto borrow it.
793
00:44:36,908 --> 00:44:38,209
- No, that's okay.
794
00:44:38,243 --> 00:44:40,411
I read parts of the
newtestament in college.
795
00:44:40,445 --> 00:44:42,447
Thanks anyway.
796
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,050
- You think you know
what'sin the new covenant just
797
00:44:45,083 --> 00:44:47,719
because you read a fewverses in college?
798
00:44:47,753 --> 00:44:50,188
You don't even know.
799
00:44:50,221 --> 00:44:52,457
You want me toget rid of it? Here.
800
00:44:52,490 --> 00:44:54,692
- Stop!
801
00:44:54,726 --> 00:44:55,994
- Sidney.
802
00:44:56,027 --> 00:44:58,897
- You're goingto see the rabbi.
803
00:44:58,930 --> 00:45:01,066
I promised my brotherseven years ago
804
00:45:01,099 --> 00:45:03,368
that we would take you
inin case anything happened.
805
00:45:03,401 --> 00:45:05,470
Then he got into...
806
00:45:05,503 --> 00:45:10,241
Into, into this jesusmishegoss,
to each his own.
807
00:45:10,275 --> 00:45:13,178
Now we're still gladto have you here,
808
00:45:13,211 --> 00:45:15,947
but it won't hurt youto see the rabbi.
809
00:45:15,981 --> 00:45:17,582
You are going toour synagogue.
810
00:45:17,615 --> 00:45:18,984
- Sidney, calm down.
811
00:45:19,017 --> 00:45:22,720
- I am calm. I'm justpolitely insisting.
812
00:45:22,754 --> 00:45:25,656
You know what? I'll even go with you.
813
00:45:25,690 --> 00:45:33,690
- No thanks. That's worse.
814
00:45:33,765 --> 00:45:36,968
- Rabbi cohn, couldyou please pray for me?
815
00:45:37,002 --> 00:45:39,237
I'm about to gosee rabbi Stein,
816
00:45:39,270 --> 00:45:43,108
and I have no ideahow it's going to go.
817
00:45:43,141 --> 00:45:45,076
I'm a little nervous.
818
00:45:45,110 --> 00:45:47,312
- I have suchconfidence in you.
819
00:45:47,345 --> 00:45:49,747
Let me just say iknow rabbi Stein.
820
00:45:49,781 --> 00:45:51,883
He's a nice man.
821
00:45:51,917 --> 00:45:55,653
You know who you areand what you believe.
822
00:45:55,686 --> 00:45:58,523
I'm sure rabbi Stein isreally sensitive
823
00:45:58,556 --> 00:45:59,991
to what you've been through.
824
00:46:00,025 --> 00:46:02,327
- I didn't want to see him.
825
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,362
I just want tobe left alone.
826
00:46:04,395 --> 00:46:07,398
I miss dad so much.
827
00:46:07,432 --> 00:46:13,504
But uncle Sidney insisted.
828
00:46:13,538 --> 00:46:16,975
Anyway, I'm almostto the building now.
829
00:46:17,008 --> 00:46:21,913
- Okay then. Let me pray.
830
00:46:21,947 --> 00:46:26,384
Lord god of Israel,
you knowwhat Rivka's been through.
831
00:46:26,417 --> 00:46:28,920
You know the spirityou placed in her.
832
00:46:28,954 --> 00:46:31,789
It's been bruised. It's been hurt.
833
00:46:31,823 --> 00:46:34,425
But you tell us in Isaiah
834
00:46:34,459 --> 00:46:36,327
a bruised reedit wouldn't break;
835
00:46:36,361 --> 00:46:39,497
a smoldering wick, it would not extinguish.
836
00:46:39,530 --> 00:46:42,934
Go with her now intorabbi Stein's office.
837
00:46:42,968 --> 00:46:46,304
- Well rabbi, I'm here.
838
00:46:46,337 --> 00:46:48,173
- Okay, but I'm notexactly the rabbi.
839
00:46:48,206 --> 00:46:51,476
I just look like him. I'm just kidding.
840
00:46:51,509 --> 00:46:52,920
Could a good executivesecretary be of
841
00:46:52,944 --> 00:46:54,312
any help to you?
842
00:46:54,345 --> 00:46:56,814
- I think I have
anappointment with the rabbi.
843
00:46:56,848 --> 00:46:58,549
Rivka margolis.
844
00:46:58,583 --> 00:47:01,086
- Yes,
you do. It's righthere on my computer.
845
00:47:01,119 --> 00:47:03,030
He is expecting you so
youcan go ahead and go on in.
846
00:47:03,054 --> 00:47:04,355
It's right there.
847
00:47:04,389 --> 00:47:08,326
- Thank you so much.- You're welcome.
848
00:47:08,359 --> 00:47:12,497
- Rivka. it's verynice to meet you.
849
00:47:12,530 --> 00:47:14,465
I'm so glad you calledfor an appointment.
850
00:47:14,499 --> 00:47:16,467
I've been lookingforward to this.
851
00:47:16,501 --> 00:47:19,170
Your aunt and unclespeak so well of you.
852
00:47:19,204 --> 00:47:25,543
I am so sorryabout your loss.
853
00:47:25,576 --> 00:47:26,444
- Thank you.
854
00:47:26,477 --> 00:47:28,479
- I know it's been hard.
855
00:47:28,513 --> 00:47:35,086
Please.
856
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:36,421
Rivka, I wantyou to know that
857
00:47:36,454 --> 00:47:40,458
anything we discusstoday
stays in this room.
858
00:47:40,491 --> 00:47:43,194
- Well, thank you.
859
00:47:43,228 --> 00:47:48,399
But no offense or anything,
but I don't know if I can
860
00:47:48,433 --> 00:47:52,070
keep the same promise. I mean...
861
00:47:52,103 --> 00:47:56,207
- that's not what I mean. It's on my end.
862
00:47:56,241 --> 00:47:58,944
I just want you to knowthat
I will keep confidence.
863
00:47:58,977 --> 00:48:02,513
I won't demandanything on your end.
864
00:48:02,547 --> 00:48:05,283
- Okay.
865
00:48:05,316 --> 00:48:10,888
Actually, I didn't wantto come here today.
866
00:48:10,922 --> 00:48:13,724
It was my unclesidney's idea.
867
00:48:13,758 --> 00:48:17,295
I understand.
868
00:48:17,328 --> 00:48:20,498
Thank you for being honest.
869
00:48:20,531 --> 00:48:23,068
How are you holding up?
870
00:48:23,101 --> 00:48:30,241
- Well, not very well.
871
00:48:30,275 --> 00:48:35,380
- Of course. I can'timagine the shock.
872
00:48:35,413 --> 00:48:39,684
You know,
sometimes somecounseling can help.
873
00:48:39,717 --> 00:48:43,488
- I think I'll be okay.
874
00:48:43,521 --> 00:48:45,299
Uncle Sidney and aunt
jackiehaven't mentioned
875
00:48:45,323 --> 00:48:50,195
anything of that sort, but I'll be okay.
876
00:48:50,228 --> 00:48:51,762
- I know you will,
877
00:48:51,796 --> 00:48:55,800
but still counselingcan help sometimes.
878
00:48:55,833 --> 00:48:58,903
How is it living there?
879
00:48:58,936 --> 00:49:03,341
- Well, they'renice and all,
880
00:49:03,374 --> 00:49:08,113
but I know you knowabout adat yeshua.
881
00:49:08,146 --> 00:49:09,580
- Yes, of course.
882
00:49:09,614 --> 00:49:13,084
- They found my new
testamentin my bedroom and...
883
00:49:13,118 --> 00:49:16,087
- I understand. It's awkward.
884
00:49:16,121 --> 00:49:18,556
I'm sure it's awkwardfor all of you.
885
00:49:18,589 --> 00:49:21,926
- But I appreciate
theirtaking me in and all.
886
00:49:21,959 --> 00:49:23,294
- Well, listen Rivka,
887
00:49:23,328 --> 00:49:25,363
you're a very grownup twelve year old.
888
00:49:25,396 --> 00:49:26,631
- Yes.
889
00:49:26,664 --> 00:49:32,637
Well, I thought you mightwant
to know that I did have
890
00:49:32,670 --> 00:49:35,673
some conversationswith Nicky blavitz
891
00:49:35,706 --> 00:49:39,110
and some othersabout my synagogue.
892
00:49:39,144 --> 00:49:42,447
Yes. Nicky blavitz.
893
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,150
I understand he introducedhimself to you.
894
00:49:45,183 --> 00:49:48,119
Of course I rememberwhen
he was just a baby.
895
00:49:48,153 --> 00:49:51,222
He's growing up so fast.
896
00:49:51,256 --> 00:49:54,992
And he's very bright, just as you are.
897
00:49:55,026 --> 00:49:58,563
A very bright andcurious young man.
898
00:49:58,596 --> 00:49:59,997
Matter of fact,
899
00:50:00,031 --> 00:50:02,700
he told his parents thetwo
of you had quite a talk.
900
00:50:02,733 --> 00:50:04,702
- Then you know.
901
00:50:04,735 --> 00:50:07,305
Yes, we did.
902
00:50:07,338 --> 00:50:13,811
I mean, well,
I knowyou're the rabbi here and,
903
00:50:13,844 --> 00:50:18,249
well, I didn't mean tobut,
but he asked all the
904
00:50:18,283 --> 00:50:21,686
questions and I wasn'tgoing to answer them,
but...
905
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,590
- it's okay,
I understandhe asked all the questions,
906
00:50:25,623 --> 00:50:31,262
I'm sure he's verysharp, very inquisitive.
907
00:50:31,296 --> 00:50:34,432
But with you having
yourbat mitzvah here so soon,
908
00:50:34,465 --> 00:50:37,034
maybe it would be best
tohold off on those kind of
909
00:50:37,068 --> 00:50:41,005
religious discussions.
910
00:50:41,038 --> 00:50:44,575
It's just a thought.
911
00:50:44,609 --> 00:50:48,513
- Sure. of course.
912
00:50:48,546 --> 00:50:51,382
Not that I'm ashamed
ofwhat I believe or anything.
913
00:50:51,416 --> 00:50:53,718
- No, I would notwant you to be ashamed.
914
00:50:53,751 --> 00:50:56,687
Your father wouldn'twant you to be.
915
00:50:56,721 --> 00:51:01,092
- No, he wouldn't.
916
00:51:01,126 --> 00:51:05,896
But as far as thebat mitzvah's concerned,
917
00:51:05,930 --> 00:51:09,400
I don't do too wellwith public speaking.
918
00:51:09,434 --> 00:51:12,837
I told rabbi cohn that, and we agreed that
919
00:51:12,870 --> 00:51:18,409
I'd go ahead with it, and he'd pray for me.
920
00:51:18,443 --> 00:51:26,443
But it may be a littleharder for me here.
921
00:51:26,751 --> 00:51:28,119
Yes, I understand.
922
00:51:28,153 --> 00:51:30,255
I'm sure Jerry helped you.
923
00:51:30,288 --> 00:51:33,724
That's what I call him.
I don't call him rabbi.
924
00:51:33,758 --> 00:51:36,527
But you know what Rivka,
i think it would really be
925
00:51:36,561 --> 00:51:39,530
good for you to haveyour bat mitzvah here.
926
00:51:39,564 --> 00:51:43,067
I think it would helpyou build confidence.
927
00:51:43,100 --> 00:51:46,637
So you'll meetwith Dr. pozner,
928
00:51:46,671 --> 00:51:49,340
that's the bar andbat mitzvah trainer
929
00:51:49,374 --> 00:51:51,742
and you'll see what you think.
930
00:51:51,776 --> 00:51:54,712
Fair enough?
931
00:51:54,745 --> 00:51:58,216
- Okay. fair enough.
932
00:51:58,249 --> 00:51:59,593
- Is there anythingelse you'd like to
933
00:51:59,617 --> 00:52:01,452
discuss with me?
934
00:52:01,486 --> 00:52:04,822
- I don't think so.
935
00:52:04,855 --> 00:52:07,525
- Well,
it's been apleasure meeting you, Rivka.
936
00:52:07,558 --> 00:52:09,360
You're a charmingyoung lady.
937
00:52:09,394 --> 00:52:12,530
And I want you to know
myoffice door is always open.
938
00:52:12,563 --> 00:52:15,700
Say hi to your aunt anduncle
and give them my best.
939
00:52:15,733 --> 00:52:17,835
You know they'revery caring people,
940
00:52:17,868 --> 00:52:21,439
and they care aboutyou a great deal.
941
00:52:21,472 --> 00:52:25,776
- Well, I supposethat's true.
942
00:52:25,810 --> 00:52:26,911
- I know it's true.
943
00:52:26,944 --> 00:52:29,280
So let's stay in touch.
944
00:52:29,314 --> 00:52:30,515
- Yes, rabbi.
945
00:52:30,548 --> 00:52:34,018
- Okay.
946
00:52:42,527 --> 00:52:44,161
- Hey.
947
00:52:44,195 --> 00:52:46,030
How'd it go?
948
00:52:46,063 --> 00:52:48,266
- It was okay.
949
00:52:48,299 --> 00:52:50,501
Uncle Sidney, i'm a little tired.
950
00:52:50,535 --> 00:52:53,271
- He's a reallynice guy, isn't he?
951
00:52:53,304 --> 00:52:55,740
I told you hewas a nice rabbi.
952
00:52:55,773 --> 00:52:57,275
- Yeah.
953
00:52:57,308 --> 00:52:58,843
Yeah, he's nice.
954
00:52:58,876 --> 00:53:03,381
I'm a little tired.
955
00:53:17,928 --> 00:53:19,330
- How goes it?
956
00:53:19,364 --> 00:53:21,131
- It goes okay.
957
00:53:21,165 --> 00:53:22,433
- Where you going Rivka?
958
00:53:22,467 --> 00:53:24,802
- Going home. I've gotta leave.
959
00:53:24,835 --> 00:53:28,105
- Please, stay.
960
00:53:28,138 --> 00:53:30,140
Hey.
961
00:53:30,174 --> 00:53:32,443
You look terrible.
962
00:53:32,477 --> 00:53:34,345
- Thanks forthe compliment.
963
00:53:34,379 --> 00:53:37,915
- No. I mean you look upset.
964
00:53:37,948 --> 00:53:38,916
- Yeah, you know what?
965
00:53:38,949 --> 00:53:40,318
I am upset!
966
00:53:40,351 --> 00:53:41,819
My father just died.
967
00:53:41,852 --> 00:53:44,655
So I'm going home.
968
00:53:44,689 --> 00:53:46,924
- I know why elseyou're upset.
969
00:53:46,957 --> 00:53:49,260
You're not supposed to
talkabout certain things with me.
970
00:53:49,294 --> 00:53:50,094
And I'm not supposed to ask.
971
00:53:50,127 --> 00:53:51,496
- That's right.
972
00:53:51,529 --> 00:53:53,631
I'm sure you made
thatpretty clear to rabbi Stein,
973
00:53:53,664 --> 00:53:57,568
so let's just stayaway from each other.
974
00:53:57,602 --> 00:53:59,904
- Will you come back here!
975
00:53:59,937 --> 00:54:07,937
Listen, I just wantto say something.
976
00:54:09,113 --> 00:54:10,180
- Well?
977
00:54:10,214 --> 00:54:12,417
- It's not fair.
978
00:54:12,450 --> 00:54:16,554
I can ask you anythingi want, and I will.
979
00:54:16,587 --> 00:54:19,490
I always thought we
weresupposed to ask questions.
980
00:54:19,524 --> 00:54:23,561
I'm always being toldjews ask questions.
981
00:54:23,594 --> 00:54:26,364
Well, I don'tintend to stop.
982
00:54:26,397 --> 00:54:28,466
- Yeah, but you don'tunderstand Nicky.
983
00:54:28,499 --> 00:54:30,100
I don't want to fightany big battles.
984
00:54:30,134 --> 00:54:34,772
I told the rabbi, I wouldn't
getinto these things with you all.
985
00:54:34,805 --> 00:54:38,208
I guess at least untilmy
bat mitzvah anyway.
986
00:54:38,242 --> 00:54:39,944
I'm gonna keep my word.
987
00:54:39,977 --> 00:54:43,614
- Hey, this isbetween us, you know?
988
00:54:43,648 --> 00:54:45,583
This is our business.
989
00:54:45,616 --> 00:54:49,119
Come on, let's sit down.
990
00:54:53,391 --> 00:54:59,830
I want to giveyou something.
991
00:54:59,864 --> 00:55:01,298
- What is it?
992
00:55:01,332 --> 00:55:07,004
- Open it.
993
00:55:07,037 --> 00:55:08,138
- It's a necklace.
994
00:55:08,172 --> 00:55:10,274
- It's a l'Chaim necklace.
995
00:55:10,307 --> 00:55:11,476
- I know that.
996
00:55:11,509 --> 00:55:13,478
You think I don'tknow Hebrew?
997
00:55:13,511 --> 00:55:15,212
- What does it mean?
998
00:55:15,245 --> 00:55:17,948
- It means life.
999
00:55:17,982 --> 00:55:21,619
- Put it on.
1000
00:55:21,652 --> 00:55:23,621
- I can't wear this.
1001
00:55:23,654 --> 00:55:27,191
- Rivka, I like you.
1002
00:55:27,224 --> 00:55:29,326
Please wear it.
1003
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:30,595
- Please don't.
1004
00:55:30,628 --> 00:55:33,330
- I want you to have it.
1005
00:55:33,364 --> 00:55:37,502
- I can't.My father, Hamlet...
1006
00:55:37,535 --> 00:55:40,237
- your father is Hamlet?
1007
00:55:40,270 --> 00:55:43,307
- No. no, I mean...
1008
00:55:43,340 --> 00:55:45,275
I don't know, i can't explain.
1009
00:55:45,309 --> 00:55:48,713
- Please.
1010
00:55:48,746 --> 00:55:53,150
Wear it.
1011
00:55:53,183 --> 00:55:55,653
- I don't know.
1012
00:55:55,686 --> 00:55:58,989
I just lost a friend.
1013
00:55:59,023 --> 00:56:02,960
He's no longer with me.
1014
00:56:02,993 --> 00:56:05,996
But you're here.
1015
00:56:06,030 --> 00:56:07,698
You're alive.
1016
00:56:07,732 --> 00:56:09,567
- I am.
1017
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:15,606
Just like the l'Chaim.
1018
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:20,244
- I could use a friend.
1019
00:56:20,277 --> 00:56:23,981
Okay, Nicky, okay I'll wear it.
1020
00:56:24,014 --> 00:56:26,150
- Once you putit on, Rivka,
1021
00:56:26,183 --> 00:56:28,252
you can't take it off.
1022
00:56:28,285 --> 00:56:31,922
This means we're together.
1023
00:56:31,956 --> 00:56:39,956
So can I haveyour phone number?
1024
00:56:42,199 --> 00:56:45,770
Wearing the l'Chaim meansi
can call you and text you
1025
00:56:45,803 --> 00:56:48,506
and we can go forwalks sometimes.
1026
00:56:48,539 --> 00:56:56,539
And I'll never hurt you.
1027
00:56:56,647 --> 00:56:59,550
- I don't know, rhena. It's his synagogue.
1028
00:56:59,584 --> 00:57:01,318
I gotta follow the rules.
1029
00:57:01,351 --> 00:57:03,287
- He doesn'town the people.
1030
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,122
I don't like it Rivka.
1031
00:57:05,155 --> 00:57:07,525
You should be able
toshare what you believe.
1032
00:57:07,558 --> 00:57:09,393
- Yeah, but it's onlyuntil my bat mitzvah.
1033
00:57:09,426 --> 00:57:12,563
That's all I promised.
1034
00:57:12,597 --> 00:57:13,831
You know what?
1035
00:57:13,864 --> 00:57:15,800
I want to changethe subject.
1036
00:57:15,833 --> 00:57:17,568
Guess what happenedto me today?
1037
00:57:17,602 --> 00:57:19,737
- I couldn't guess.
1038
00:57:19,770 --> 00:57:21,506
- Okay. I'll tell you.
1039
00:57:21,539 --> 00:57:23,974
Nicky gave me a necklace.
1040
00:57:24,008 --> 00:57:26,511
- What?
1041
00:57:26,544 --> 00:57:29,780
- You heard me.
1042
00:57:29,814 --> 00:57:31,982
- Whateverhappened to Hamlet?
1043
00:57:32,016 --> 00:57:36,020
- I don't know. I guess he died.
1044
00:57:36,053 --> 00:57:40,257
And Nicky's alive, and he's nice to me.
1045
00:57:40,290 --> 00:57:47,932
He's just a friend likeyou
are only he's a boy.
1046
00:57:47,965 --> 00:57:51,468
Not only that, he'scalling me right now.
1047
00:57:51,502 --> 00:57:59,502
I'll talk to you later.
1048
00:57:59,644 --> 00:58:01,111
You don't waste time.
1049
00:58:01,145 --> 00:58:04,281
- Rivka,
I had to call you. It's an emergency.
1050
00:58:04,314 --> 00:58:05,950
- So call 911.
1051
00:58:05,983 --> 00:58:07,785
- Not that kindof emergency.
1052
00:58:07,818 --> 00:58:10,521
Listen, you have abouta week to sign up
1053
00:58:10,555 --> 00:58:12,623
for the aanchaluteen Israel trip.
1054
00:58:12,657 --> 00:58:14,925
You've got to come with us.
1055
00:58:14,959 --> 00:58:17,394
- I don't know.
1056
00:58:17,427 --> 00:58:18,696
My dad just died.
1057
00:58:18,729 --> 00:58:20,030
It's a little soon.
1058
00:58:20,064 --> 00:58:23,100
- Come on. It willbe perfect for you.
1059
00:58:23,133 --> 00:58:24,669
Please come with us.
1060
00:58:24,702 --> 00:58:29,807
- Um, I don't think so.
1061
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:31,709
- They say you can walkwhere Jesus walked.
1062
00:58:31,742 --> 00:58:32,943
That's what they say.
1063
00:58:32,977 --> 00:58:35,880
- Hey, don'tmake fun of me.
1064
00:58:35,913 --> 00:58:38,115
- I'm sorry. I didn'tmean it like that.
1065
00:58:38,148 --> 00:58:40,885
Listen,
pick up a brochurefrom the synagogue
1066
00:58:40,918 --> 00:58:43,220
and talk to your auntand uncle.
1067
00:58:43,253 --> 00:58:45,455
It's the trip of a lifetime.
1068
00:58:45,489 --> 00:58:47,257
Perfect for thebat mitzvah girl.
1069
00:58:47,291 --> 00:58:48,693
- I'll consider it.
1070
00:58:48,726 --> 00:58:50,595
Now I'm going to bed.
1071
00:58:50,628 --> 00:58:51,696
- Who are you talking to?
1072
00:58:51,729 --> 00:58:53,598
- Um, I'll talkto you later.
1073
00:58:53,631 --> 00:58:56,233
I gotta go.
1074
00:59:05,910 --> 00:59:08,613
- I don't know. This is...
1075
00:59:08,646 --> 00:59:09,947
I don't know.
1076
00:59:09,980 --> 00:59:12,950
- It's too far away iswhat it is Rivka,
honey.
1077
00:59:12,983 --> 00:59:15,620
I don't think you'reready for this.
1078
00:59:15,653 --> 00:59:16,887
- I agree.
1079
00:59:16,921 --> 00:59:20,357
- Why can't I go? Everyone else is going.
1080
00:59:20,390 --> 00:59:21,692
- Everyone?
1081
00:59:21,726 --> 00:59:27,164
- I don't know. Nicky and... and Sarah.
1082
00:59:27,197 --> 00:59:28,332
- Nicky blavitz?
1083
00:59:28,365 --> 00:59:31,235
I mean you don't have
Togo to Israel to see him.
1084
00:59:31,268 --> 00:59:32,637
You can see him right here.
1085
00:59:32,670 --> 00:59:36,306
- Uncle Sidney, that's not the reason!
1086
00:59:36,340 --> 00:59:38,251
Look, it will help me
withmy bat mitzvah training.
1087
00:59:38,275 --> 00:59:41,378
- Sidney,
don't you thinkit's a little premature?
1088
00:59:41,411 --> 00:59:42,913
They usually goa little older.
1089
00:59:42,947 --> 00:59:44,915
- They're taking pre-barand
bat mitzvah students
1090
00:59:44,949 --> 00:59:46,751
to help them prepare.
1091
00:59:46,784 --> 00:59:48,786
Look,
there will be adultsthere all the time.
1092
00:59:48,819 --> 00:59:50,420
- I hope so.
1093
00:59:50,454 --> 00:59:56,160
Well, maybe she could
learnsome judaism about judaism
1094
00:59:56,193 --> 01:00:00,130
while she's there. Imean,
it could help her.
1095
01:00:00,164 --> 01:00:01,799
- What's thatsupposed to mean?
1096
01:00:01,832 --> 01:00:04,368
- You know, just what I said.
1097
01:00:04,401 --> 01:00:06,170
It means what I said.
1098
01:00:06,203 --> 01:00:09,774
- You mean,
maybe it willhave an affect on me?
1099
01:00:09,807 --> 01:00:12,542
Maybe I'll forgetthis foolishness?
1100
01:00:12,576 --> 01:00:14,679
Maybe I'll becomea real Jew!
1101
01:00:14,712 --> 01:00:15,813
- Did I say that?
1102
01:00:15,846 --> 01:00:17,114
I didn't say that.
1103
01:00:17,147 --> 01:00:18,248
- Yes, you did!
1104
01:00:18,282 --> 01:00:19,784
- Okay, stop it you two.
1105
01:00:19,817 --> 01:00:21,686
- I want to go to Israel.
1106
01:00:21,719 --> 01:00:25,389
- Okay. we'll think about it.
1107
01:00:25,422 --> 01:00:27,424
- They have to know soon.
1108
01:00:27,457 --> 01:00:33,430
I'm going to my room.
1109
01:00:33,463 --> 01:00:35,299
- Teenagers...
1110
01:00:35,332 --> 01:00:39,770
I forgot how difficultthey could be.
1111
01:00:39,804 --> 01:00:41,672
- I thought you mightwant to see this.
1112
01:00:41,706 --> 01:00:44,641
Thanks.
1113
01:00:44,675 --> 01:00:46,443
Interesting.
1114
01:00:46,476 --> 01:00:48,713
Have you seen the
newguidelines for applicants
1115
01:00:48,746 --> 01:00:50,881
to the young teenisrael tour?
1116
01:00:50,915 --> 01:00:54,952
- No I haven't.- I have.
1117
01:00:54,985 --> 01:00:56,754
- This one is perfect!
1118
01:00:56,787 --> 01:00:58,989
It's you and itwill keep you cool.
1119
01:00:59,023 --> 01:01:00,791
- You must be kidding.
1120
01:01:00,825 --> 01:01:04,862
- If that's me, theni don't know who I am.
1121
01:01:04,895 --> 01:01:06,263
- What do you mean?
1122
01:01:06,296 --> 01:01:09,666
It goes perfectly witha certain necklace,
1123
01:01:09,700 --> 01:01:10,968
if you know what I mean.
1124
01:01:11,001 --> 01:01:12,436
- Will you please!
1125
01:01:12,469 --> 01:01:14,972
And anyway,
one look at thatshirt and he'll climb all
1126
01:01:15,005 --> 01:01:20,244
the way up masadajust to get away from me.
1127
01:01:20,277 --> 01:01:21,345
- I guess you're right.
1128
01:01:21,378 --> 01:01:22,780
It's not you.
1129
01:01:22,813 --> 01:01:24,148
I'm just jealous.
1130
01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:26,784
I wish I were goingwith you to Israel.
1131
01:01:26,817 --> 01:01:29,353
- I wish you guyswere going too.
1132
01:01:29,386 --> 01:01:32,422
You guys are like mybest friends ever.
1133
01:01:32,456 --> 01:01:34,258
- Just try it on!
1134
01:01:40,998 --> 01:01:42,342
- Listen,
we're lookingforward to having you
1135
01:01:42,366 --> 01:01:44,401
at bene Israel next week.
1136
01:01:44,434 --> 01:01:45,970
I need to talk toyou about something.
1137
01:01:46,003 --> 01:01:48,238
We've got a girl herewho's a messianic.
1138
01:01:48,272 --> 01:01:49,573
- Really?
1139
01:01:49,606 --> 01:01:50,875
What's she doing there?
1140
01:01:50,908 --> 01:01:52,309
- It's a long story.
1141
01:01:52,342 --> 01:01:54,511
Well maybe you can
dosomething about this girl.
1142
01:01:54,544 --> 01:01:56,080
Get her out of this thing.
1143
01:01:56,113 --> 01:01:59,049
- Maybe. you justmake sure she's there.
1144
01:01:59,083 --> 01:02:00,384
I'll handle the rest.
1145
01:02:00,417 --> 01:02:01,819
- Okay. she's pretty young.
1146
01:02:01,852 --> 01:02:04,889
They want her to go onthis trip to Israel.
1147
01:02:04,922 --> 01:02:06,924
- They're grabbing
thempretty young these days.
1148
01:02:06,957 --> 01:02:08,658
What about her parents.
1149
01:02:08,692 --> 01:02:10,060
- That's a long story too.
1150
01:02:10,094 --> 01:02:13,463
I'll fill you in laterbut
she's the messianic.
1151
01:02:13,497 --> 01:02:14,999
- Well, I'll be ready for her.
1152
01:02:15,032 --> 01:02:16,934
Just point her out to me.
1153
01:02:16,967 --> 01:02:20,104
Have you readthe new guidelines?
1154
01:02:20,137 --> 01:02:21,571
- I can't say that I have.
1155
01:02:21,605 --> 01:02:23,573
- I'll email them to you.
1156
01:02:23,607 --> 01:02:25,109
- I'll look for them.
1157
01:02:25,142 --> 01:02:26,944
Well, I justwanted you to know.
1158
01:02:26,977 --> 01:02:29,246
- I love helpingrabbis like Stein out.
1159
01:02:29,279 --> 01:02:31,548
Half the time theyhaven't
a clue what to do.
1160
01:02:31,581 --> 01:02:33,283
I'll see you next week.
1161
01:02:33,317 --> 01:02:40,590
- Okay.
1162
01:02:44,228 --> 01:02:45,796
- Jackie!
1163
01:02:45,830 --> 01:02:51,268
Jackie!
1164
01:02:51,301 --> 01:02:53,737
Yeah? who is it?
1165
01:02:53,770 --> 01:02:56,941
Shuster, what is it?
1166
01:02:56,974 --> 01:02:59,009
I'm busy.
1167
01:02:59,043 --> 01:03:01,812
Tonight? what for?
1168
01:03:01,846 --> 01:03:06,616
Yeah,
yeah she's alreadyregistered for the trip.
1169
01:03:06,650 --> 01:03:13,991
All right,
all right. We'll be there. 7 P.M.
1170
01:03:14,024 --> 01:03:16,660
Jackie, guess what?
1171
01:03:16,693 --> 01:03:19,129
Okay shuster,
where's thesheet with the instructions
1172
01:03:19,163 --> 01:03:21,531
with the name tagson the under wear?
1173
01:03:21,565 --> 01:03:24,134
- Sit down, Sidney.
1174
01:03:24,168 --> 01:03:25,970
All right everyone, let's get started.
1175
01:03:26,003 --> 01:03:27,604
Is everyone here?
1176
01:03:27,637 --> 01:03:29,173
- We're here.
1177
01:03:29,206 --> 01:03:32,076
- Before we start
handingout the trip materials,
1178
01:03:32,109 --> 01:03:34,811
we need to deal withsome
preliminary issues.
1179
01:03:34,845 --> 01:03:38,715
First order of business, rivka margolis.
1180
01:03:38,748 --> 01:03:39,826
- What are youtalking about?
1181
01:03:39,850 --> 01:03:42,586
- Let me saysomething, Alan.
1182
01:03:42,619 --> 01:03:44,021
- Go right ahead rabbi.
1183
01:03:44,054 --> 01:03:45,622
- Alan, please.
1184
01:03:45,655 --> 01:03:48,492
Folks,
it's come to ourattention that a certain
1185
01:03:48,525 --> 01:03:54,298
stipulation has been
addedto the registration form.
1186
01:03:54,331 --> 01:03:56,633
However, under thepresent circumstances
1187
01:03:56,666 --> 01:03:57,634
in Rivka's life...
1188
01:03:57,667 --> 01:03:58,936
- wait a minute.
1189
01:03:58,969 --> 01:04:02,806
- Let him finish. Stop interrupting.
1190
01:04:02,839 --> 01:04:04,384
- Due to the circumstancesin Rivka's life,
1191
01:04:04,408 --> 01:04:07,277
I really believe we
shouldask for an exception.
1192
01:04:07,311 --> 01:04:08,578
- What?
1193
01:04:08,612 --> 01:04:12,682
No way is she going with
mynicky or any of these kids!
1194
01:04:12,716 --> 01:04:15,085
- What are youtalking about?
1195
01:04:15,119 --> 01:04:17,554
- Why don't youread the whole thing.
1196
01:04:17,587 --> 01:04:21,258
- Okay,
okay. I will. Just give me a minute.
1197
01:04:21,291 --> 01:04:27,297
It says no youth shall
bepermitted to participate in
1198
01:04:27,331 --> 01:04:30,968
the tour who is affiliatedwith
messianic judaism,
1199
01:04:31,001 --> 01:04:35,305
Jews for Jesus,
or jewishchristianity and so forth.
1200
01:04:35,339 --> 01:04:37,007
- Well I agreewith the rabbi.
1201
01:04:37,041 --> 01:04:41,045
And my daughter sarahwants
her to go and so do I.
1202
01:04:41,078 --> 01:04:44,148
The girl justlost her father.
1203
01:04:44,181 --> 01:04:46,984
This isn't right. She should go.
1204
01:04:47,017 --> 01:04:50,120
- We have tofollow the rules.
1205
01:04:50,154 --> 01:04:53,223
- Let the rabbi speak.
1206
01:04:53,257 --> 01:04:55,225
- Thank you, Jackie.
1207
01:04:55,259 --> 01:04:59,129
These are my reasons
forasking for an exception.
1208
01:04:59,163 --> 01:05:03,233
Number one,
Rivka just losther father and she needs us
1209
01:05:03,267 --> 01:05:05,302
to be there for her.
1210
01:05:05,335 --> 01:05:07,171
I really believe it wouldbe good for her
1211
01:05:07,204 --> 01:05:09,273
to go to israelright now.
1212
01:05:09,306 --> 01:05:13,110
Number two,
she has assuredme that she will not
1213
01:05:13,143 --> 01:05:15,512
proselytize any ofour young people.
1214
01:05:15,545 --> 01:05:17,114
- Excuse me, rabbi.
1215
01:05:17,147 --> 01:05:19,549
But it's just like thenational
board says right in
1216
01:05:19,583 --> 01:05:21,085
that piece of paper.
1217
01:05:21,118 --> 01:05:24,288
She's beyond the paleof
the Jewish community.
1218
01:05:24,321 --> 01:05:27,391
And by the way, she didproselytize my son.
1219
01:05:27,424 --> 01:05:31,161
- She simply
answeredquestions from your son.
1220
01:05:31,195 --> 01:05:34,264
- Get off my niece'scase, blavitz.
1221
01:05:34,298 --> 01:05:36,900
- She missionized just likeyour brother,
margolis.
1222
01:05:36,933 --> 01:05:38,702
- Leave my brother out of it.
1223
01:05:38,735 --> 01:05:40,570
- Please, let's be reasonable.
1224
01:05:40,604 --> 01:05:43,440
The last thing this childneeds
right now is this kind
1225
01:05:43,473 --> 01:05:46,110
of rejection anddisappointment.
1226
01:05:46,143 --> 01:05:48,045
I really believe thenational board will
1227
01:05:48,078 --> 01:05:50,814
agree with me on this.
1228
01:05:50,847 --> 01:05:53,617
- I'm the president of
thissynagogue and as such I must
1229
01:05:53,650 --> 01:05:57,221
make the final decision
forthe good of all concerns.
1230
01:05:57,254 --> 01:05:59,623
In addition to thenew application,
1231
01:05:59,656 --> 01:06:02,259
we have the anti
missionarycoming next week.
1232
01:06:02,292 --> 01:06:05,262
How can we have him
speakto us on this very issue
1233
01:06:05,295 --> 01:06:08,798
and then allow her to
takenational board funds
1234
01:06:08,832 --> 01:06:09,799
and go on this trip.
1235
01:06:09,833 --> 01:06:12,402
That doesn't make any sense.
1236
01:06:12,436 --> 01:06:15,905
- Wait a minute,
shouldn'tthere be some kind of vote?
1237
01:06:15,939 --> 01:06:17,874
- No. this is nota voting matter.
1238
01:06:17,907 --> 01:06:19,143
Not in this case.
1239
01:06:19,176 --> 01:06:21,278
It's a rules andguidelines matter.
1240
01:06:21,311 --> 01:06:22,712
The bat mitzvahis one thing.
1241
01:06:22,746 --> 01:06:24,014
That's a synagogue issue.
1242
01:06:24,048 --> 01:06:26,416
This is a national board issue
1243
01:06:26,450 --> 01:06:28,018
and it involvesnational board funds.
1244
01:06:28,052 --> 01:06:31,021
With all due respect, rabbi.
1245
01:06:31,055 --> 01:06:33,723
- Look I disagree,
butif that's the decision,
1246
01:06:33,757 --> 01:06:36,060
then it's...
1247
01:06:36,093 --> 01:06:37,394
- who's gonna tell her?
1248
01:06:37,427 --> 01:06:39,129
I'm sure not gonna tell her.
1249
01:06:39,163 --> 01:06:42,399
- You sure are gonna
tell her. She's your niece.
1250
01:06:42,432 --> 01:06:45,102
Or she can findout in a letter.
1251
01:06:45,135 --> 01:06:47,071
- Let's go, Jackie.
1252
01:06:47,104 --> 01:06:49,239
And this is wherei pay my dues.
1253
01:06:49,273 --> 01:06:51,075
- It's not about you, Sidney!
1254
01:06:51,108 --> 01:06:54,344
It's about the rules. And Rivka's beliefs.
1255
01:06:54,378 --> 01:06:56,280
- Then it's about me.
1256
01:06:56,313 --> 01:06:58,715
She's living in my house.
1257
01:06:58,748 --> 01:07:02,186
She's my niece, my family.
1258
01:07:02,219 --> 01:07:04,454
She's almost mydaughter now.
1259
01:07:04,488 --> 01:07:07,757
- Who are you to say
shecan't go on this trip?
1260
01:07:07,791 --> 01:07:15,791
Let's go, Jackie.
1261
01:07:17,967 --> 01:07:19,336
- Can you believe those...
1262
01:07:19,369 --> 01:07:21,905
- you better think
beforeyou walk in that house.
1263
01:07:21,938 --> 01:07:24,741
She doesn't needto know now.
1264
01:07:24,774 --> 01:07:25,809
- That's true.
1265
01:07:25,842 --> 01:07:26,943
- You're upset.
1266
01:07:26,976 --> 01:07:27,911
- I'm not upset.
1267
01:07:27,944 --> 01:07:29,646
I'm not.
1268
01:07:29,679 --> 01:07:32,816
All right. You'redang right, I'm upset.
1269
01:07:32,849 --> 01:07:34,050
- Please think.
1270
01:07:34,084 --> 01:07:42,084
- I'm thinking.
1271
01:07:46,763 --> 01:07:49,032
- Well? how'd the meeting go?
1272
01:07:49,065 --> 01:07:50,066
- Okay.
1273
01:07:50,100 --> 01:07:52,402
It went okay.
1274
01:07:52,436 --> 01:07:55,239
- Well, I actually... i mean.
1275
01:07:55,272 --> 01:07:57,741
- Sidney.
1276
01:07:57,774 --> 01:08:00,944
- Actually, it was horrible.
1277
01:08:00,977 --> 01:08:02,112
- What do you mean?
1278
01:08:02,146 --> 01:08:03,113
My goodness.
1279
01:08:03,147 --> 01:08:04,348
- You're not going.
1280
01:08:04,381 --> 01:08:07,083
I tried. The rabbi tried.
1281
01:08:07,117 --> 01:08:09,686
But it's a new ruleabout messianics.
1282
01:08:09,719 --> 01:08:11,020
And blavitz.
1283
01:08:11,054 --> 01:08:12,922
- Nicky's father?
1284
01:08:12,956 --> 01:08:14,391
- He insisted.
1285
01:08:14,424 --> 01:08:17,661
- Well, why did he do that?
1286
01:08:17,694 --> 01:08:19,463
And how could they allmake that decision.
1287
01:08:19,496 --> 01:08:21,131
- It's complicated, honey.
1288
01:08:21,165 --> 01:08:25,802
This man, the president,
made the final decision.
1289
01:08:25,835 --> 01:08:30,174
I'm sorry.
1290
01:08:30,207 --> 01:08:32,709
- I'm nevergoing back there.
1291
01:08:32,742 --> 01:08:35,279
I don't want to havemy bat mitzvah there.
1292
01:08:35,312 --> 01:08:37,814
I'm not gonnahave it anywhere.
1293
01:08:37,847 --> 01:08:39,749
I don't want to goback
and stand in front of
1294
01:08:39,783 --> 01:08:41,885
all those people anyway.
1295
01:08:41,918 --> 01:08:43,287
How could they be so mean?
1296
01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:44,954
- It's justthese new rules.
1297
01:08:44,988 --> 01:08:51,261
It's about national
boardmoney. It's complicated.
1298
01:08:51,295 --> 01:08:53,129
- I wish I neverwent there.
1299
01:08:53,163 --> 01:08:54,564
I wish it wasn't here.
1300
01:08:54,598 --> 01:08:58,134
I hate it here!
1301
01:08:58,168 --> 01:08:59,736
Brother.
1302
01:08:59,769 --> 01:09:01,371
I'll tell you one thing,
1303
01:09:01,405 --> 01:09:03,640
I'm not gonna hearthat anti missionary,
1304
01:09:03,673 --> 01:09:05,842
no matter whathe has to say.
1305
01:09:05,875 --> 01:09:07,511
Not after this.
1306
01:09:07,544 --> 01:09:09,579
Everybody willbe staring at me.
1307
01:09:09,613 --> 01:09:12,482
- So what?
1308
01:09:12,516 --> 01:09:15,051
- I don't carewhat blavitz thinks.
1309
01:09:15,084 --> 01:09:17,187
I care what I might do.
1310
01:09:17,221 --> 01:09:21,625
I've had enoughof it after this.
1311
01:09:26,930 --> 01:09:28,298
- hello?
1312
01:09:28,332 --> 01:09:29,766
- Did you hear?
1313
01:09:29,799 --> 01:09:32,736
- I heard.
1314
01:09:32,769 --> 01:09:38,542
Rivka, if you're not going, i'm not going.
1315
01:09:38,575 --> 01:09:40,310
That's all there is to it.
1316
01:09:40,344 --> 01:09:42,846
- I can't believe yourdad did what he did.
1317
01:09:42,879 --> 01:09:44,180
He hates me.
1318
01:09:44,214 --> 01:09:46,049
- I don't think so.
1319
01:09:46,082 --> 01:09:48,552
He doesn't know you.
1320
01:09:48,585 --> 01:09:52,222
If he knew you, he'd feel like I do.
1321
01:09:52,256 --> 01:09:57,026
Remember the necklace.
1322
01:09:57,060 --> 01:10:00,697
- You can't stay back.
1323
01:10:00,730 --> 01:10:05,302
- Rivka, if you're not going,
i'm not going.
1324
01:10:05,335 --> 01:10:09,906
I don't know how I'll tellmy parents,
but I will.
1325
01:10:09,939 --> 01:10:14,511
- I don't know, Nicky.
1326
01:10:30,494 --> 01:10:33,229
- listen to me, my name is Adam learner.
1327
01:10:33,263 --> 01:10:35,164
I only have a few minutesbefore he comes.
1328
01:10:35,198 --> 01:10:36,500
Please listen.
1329
01:10:36,533 --> 01:10:38,201
- What's going on here?
1330
01:10:38,234 --> 01:10:39,836
- Don't listento yosi Cohen.
1331
01:10:39,869 --> 01:10:42,939
I am a completed jewin Jesus.
1332
01:10:42,972 --> 01:10:43,940
He died for my sins.
1333
01:10:43,973 --> 01:10:45,342
He's my Messiah.
1334
01:10:45,375 --> 01:10:48,412
He can be your Messiah
tooif you just accept him.
1335
01:10:48,445 --> 01:10:50,780
Isaiah said he'd bewounded for our sins.
1336
01:10:50,814 --> 01:10:52,115
Micah said...
1337
01:10:52,148 --> 01:10:53,883
- stop!
1338
01:11:02,158 --> 01:11:04,328
He's good, isn't he?
1339
01:11:04,361 --> 01:11:06,330
Take a bow, Adam.
1340
01:11:06,363 --> 01:11:08,932
Tell them about yourself.
1341
01:11:08,965 --> 01:11:11,335
- Well, I was born toa good Jewish family
1342
01:11:11,368 --> 01:11:12,736
in Maryland.
1343
01:11:12,769 --> 01:11:15,372
I was having some troublein college,
you know,
1344
01:11:15,405 --> 01:11:17,240
failing thiscourse and that,
1345
01:11:17,273 --> 01:11:19,743
partying a little too much.
1346
01:11:19,776 --> 01:11:23,447
Well, I saw these seeminglyvery
nice people at a table
1347
01:11:23,480 --> 01:11:24,748
in the student center.
1348
01:11:24,781 --> 01:11:26,716
They said they weremessianic Jews,
1349
01:11:26,750 --> 01:11:28,885
and they hadall the answers.
1350
01:11:28,918 --> 01:11:32,255
I was with themfor about a year until...
1351
01:11:32,288 --> 01:11:34,624
Until Dr. Cohen rescued me. Baruch hashem.
1352
01:11:34,658 --> 01:11:39,663
Now I'm a real Jew. I've made teshuvah.
1353
01:11:39,696 --> 01:11:42,131
They're all really justchristians any ways.
1354
01:11:42,165 --> 01:11:42,999
That's what they are.
1355
01:11:43,032 --> 01:11:44,368
No longer Jewish.
1356
01:11:44,401 --> 01:11:47,036
And they do these
thingslike speaking in tongues
1357
01:11:47,070 --> 01:11:48,572
and they drink.
1358
01:11:48,605 --> 01:11:51,307
- Thank you, Adam. You can take a seat.
1359
01:11:51,341 --> 01:11:52,742
Let's give Adam a hand.
1360
01:11:52,776 --> 01:11:54,811
He works for ourorganization now.
1361
01:12:00,584 --> 01:12:03,653
- Ladies and gentlemen,
there are many young Jews
1362
01:12:03,687 --> 01:12:08,324
like Adam who arebeing deceived, duped,
1363
01:12:08,358 --> 01:12:10,494
sucked into thischristian cult.
1364
01:12:10,527 --> 01:12:12,762
- That's telling them! Where's Sidney?
1365
01:12:12,796 --> 01:12:14,864
- They spin their web
without of context verses
1366
01:12:14,898 --> 01:12:19,803
from our holy tanakh, the Jewish scripture.
1367
01:12:19,836 --> 01:12:22,606
For example, the passagethat Adam cited,
1368
01:12:22,639 --> 01:12:28,277
Isaiah 53,
is a passagethat they often site.
1369
01:12:28,311 --> 01:12:30,547
Frankly, ladies and gentlemen,
1370
01:12:30,580 --> 01:12:33,783
I find it offensive
thatthey use that chapter,
1371
01:12:33,817 --> 01:12:36,486
a chapter which describesthe
sufferings of the Jewish
1372
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:38,822
people at the hands ofthe very christians
1373
01:12:38,855 --> 01:12:44,360
who misinterpret itto be about Jesus.
1374
01:12:44,394 --> 01:12:46,630
I know what they teach.
1375
01:12:46,663 --> 01:12:49,499
You say that rabbisonce taught it was
1376
01:12:49,533 --> 01:12:51,435
about a suffering Messiah.
1377
01:12:51,468 --> 01:12:53,570
What's it really about?
1378
01:12:53,603 --> 01:12:56,906
It's about Jews being
gatheredtogether in synagogues
1379
01:12:56,940 --> 01:13:00,243
which were then torched
whilechristians march around them
1380
01:13:00,276 --> 01:13:03,112
singing Christ we adore thee.
1381
01:13:03,146 --> 01:13:08,051
Jews recite shema, Israel,
there is only one god
1382
01:13:08,084 --> 01:13:12,155
while dying in agony and pain.
1383
01:13:12,188 --> 01:13:18,795
And these christians,
these so-called messianic Jews
1384
01:13:18,828 --> 01:13:20,897
rip these verses out of context
1385
01:13:20,930 --> 01:13:23,800
like they're ripping outsomebody's heart.
1386
01:13:23,833 --> 01:13:27,904
And you will learn tonighthow
these people are being
1387
01:13:27,937 --> 01:13:31,475
brainwashed by the
deceptivemessianic missionaries.
1388
01:13:31,508 --> 01:13:35,612
You will learn how
toguard against their lies.
1389
01:13:35,645 --> 01:13:39,182
Young people, beware.
1390
01:13:39,215 --> 01:13:44,721
Their target is you.
1391
01:13:44,754 --> 01:13:47,423
Rabbi, the ushershave the packets?
1392
01:13:47,457 --> 01:13:49,225
- Yes.
1393
01:13:49,258 --> 01:13:56,232
Yes of course.
1394
01:14:08,177 --> 01:14:11,781
- Nicky,
I was wonderinghow the meeting went
1395
01:14:11,815 --> 01:14:16,586
and what's going on with Israel.
1396
01:14:16,620 --> 01:14:24,620
Please give me a call.
1397
01:14:29,533 --> 01:14:31,935
- No answer yet?
1398
01:14:31,968 --> 01:14:33,069
Not good.
1399
01:14:33,102 --> 01:14:36,105
- I've been leavingmessages
for two days now
1400
01:14:36,139 --> 01:14:37,607
and nothing.
1401
01:14:37,641 --> 01:14:39,509
Why won't he call me?
1402
01:14:39,543 --> 01:14:41,177
He's my only friend.
1403
01:14:41,210 --> 01:14:43,647
Besides you and Karen.
1404
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:46,449
- Well, maybehe's grounded.
1405
01:14:46,482 --> 01:14:49,519
Maybe he can'tuse his phone.
1406
01:14:49,553 --> 01:14:52,055
- Yeah. yeah, i'm sure that's it.
1407
01:14:52,088 --> 01:14:54,257
He told his parentshe's not going to Israel
1408
01:14:54,290 --> 01:14:56,793
and they probably tookhis phone away.
1409
01:14:56,826 --> 01:15:00,597
- It makes sense to me.
1410
01:15:00,630 --> 01:15:02,632
- It's him! He's texting me!
1411
01:15:02,666 --> 01:15:05,468
- What's it say?
1412
01:15:05,501 --> 01:15:09,138
- I can't see you anymore.
1413
01:15:09,172 --> 01:15:12,441
Can't explain more now.
1414
01:15:12,475 --> 01:15:15,178
Sorry.
1415
01:15:15,211 --> 01:15:16,512
He'll be sorry.
1416
01:15:16,546 --> 01:15:21,651
He doesn't evenknow what sorry is.
1417
01:15:21,685 --> 01:15:24,721
- Ouch. that must hurt.
1418
01:15:24,754 --> 01:15:32,754
- More than you know.
1419
01:15:32,829 --> 01:15:35,331
- Excuse me. I wantthe blavitz' address.
1420
01:15:35,364 --> 01:15:36,633
- Well we don't...
1421
01:15:36,666 --> 01:15:38,501
- where's the rabbi? I
want to speak to him.
1422
01:15:38,534 --> 01:15:40,469
- Well, you can't just... is he here?
1423
01:15:40,503 --> 01:15:42,806
- Rivka, I've beenmeaning to talk to you.
1424
01:15:42,839 --> 01:15:44,574
- I want the blavitz'address and
1425
01:15:44,608 --> 01:15:45,942
she won't give it to me.
1426
01:15:45,975 --> 01:15:49,012
I don't want anything
else. That's all I want.
1427
01:15:49,045 --> 01:15:51,214
- Please just come
intomy office so we can talk.
1428
01:15:51,247 --> 01:15:54,851
- No! I just want the address.
1429
01:15:54,884 --> 01:15:57,654
- All right, i can give it to you.
1430
01:15:57,687 --> 01:15:59,589
Although we don'tusually do that,
1431
01:15:59,623 --> 01:16:01,157
but I'm sure it's important.
1432
01:16:01,190 --> 01:16:04,628
So Doris,
please give herthe blavitz' street address.
1433
01:16:04,661 --> 01:16:07,163
But when you're calmer,
i would really like you
1434
01:16:07,196 --> 01:16:08,632
to come to my office,
1435
01:16:08,665 --> 01:16:11,668
I want to share my heartwith
you about some decisions.
1436
01:16:11,701 --> 01:16:14,237
- Show some respectyoung lady.
1437
01:16:14,270 --> 01:16:17,874
- When I'm respected,
i'll show some respect.
1438
01:16:17,907 --> 01:16:19,451
- How dare you speak
toyour elders and especially
1439
01:16:19,475 --> 01:16:20,810
the rabbi that way.
1440
01:16:20,844 --> 01:16:22,779
You apologize now.
1441
01:16:22,812 --> 01:16:25,081
- I'm very sorry.
1442
01:16:25,114 --> 01:16:26,549
It won't happenagain because
1443
01:16:26,582 --> 01:16:29,518
I'm never coming back, ever!
1444
01:16:29,552 --> 01:16:31,254
- I'm reallysorry to hear that.
1445
01:16:31,287 --> 01:16:32,856
That's a shame.
1446
01:16:32,889 --> 01:16:36,660
Dr. pozner over there is
thebar and bat mitzvah trainer.
1447
01:16:36,693 --> 01:16:38,928
He's a veryknowledgeable man.
1448
01:16:38,962 --> 01:16:42,799
Among other things,
he's also a very nice person.
1449
01:16:42,832 --> 01:16:45,368
And I was really hopingthe
two of you would meet.
1450
01:16:45,401 --> 01:16:48,104
- I'm sure there's a
lothe wants to teach me.
1451
01:16:48,137 --> 01:16:51,540
But unfortunately, i won't be around.
1452
01:16:51,574 --> 01:16:54,277
I better get going.
1453
01:16:54,310 --> 01:16:55,645
- Goodbye, Rivka.
1454
01:16:55,679 --> 01:17:01,517
- Goodbye, rabbi.
1455
01:17:01,550 --> 01:17:03,286
- She's an insolent child.
1456
01:17:03,319 --> 01:17:06,222
- She's deeply hurtand in great pain.
1457
01:17:06,255 --> 01:17:07,791
Can you blame her?
1458
01:17:07,824 --> 01:17:09,234
- Well I guess that's whyyou're the rabbi
1459
01:17:09,258 --> 01:17:10,559
and I'm not.
1460
01:17:10,593 --> 01:17:11,961
- A lot of pain, right Eric.
1461
01:17:11,995 --> 01:17:13,396
- I would say so, rabbi.
1462
01:17:13,429 --> 01:17:17,366
- After all,
you are atherapist among other things.
1463
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:20,403
- Rabbi Stein. I've gotyosi
Cohen on the phone.
1464
01:17:20,436 --> 01:17:23,206
Could you give us a minuteto
talk about this situation.
1465
01:17:23,239 --> 01:17:28,878
- Yes. excuse me. Sure.
1466
01:17:28,912 --> 01:17:31,848
- Rabbi Stein,
I thought wecould enlist yosi's help
1467
01:17:31,881 --> 01:17:33,683
with this Rivka girl.
1468
01:17:33,717 --> 01:17:35,294
Yosi, we just turneddown her application
1469
01:17:35,318 --> 01:17:38,621
for the tour becauseshe's a messianic.
1470
01:17:38,654 --> 01:17:40,824
- Really? and her parents?
1471
01:17:40,857 --> 01:17:42,158
- They're both dead.
1472
01:17:42,191 --> 01:17:43,468
She's staying withher aunt and uncle,
1473
01:17:43,492 --> 01:17:45,494
members in goodstanding here.
1474
01:17:45,528 --> 01:17:46,796
- I see.
1475
01:17:46,830 --> 01:17:49,065
- What's your point, Alan?
1476
01:17:49,098 --> 01:17:51,968
- Rabbi, I think thisgirl needs a visit.
1477
01:17:52,001 --> 01:17:53,636
- You give meone hour with her,
1478
01:17:53,669 --> 01:17:54,847
and I'll have her denyingeverything
1479
01:17:54,871 --> 01:17:57,440
the missionariesever taught her.
1480
01:17:57,473 --> 01:17:59,142
- Are you crazy, Alan?
1481
01:17:59,175 --> 01:18:01,878
In the first place,
she justgot through telling me
1482
01:18:01,911 --> 01:18:04,948
she's never stepping
footin this synagogue again.
1483
01:18:04,981 --> 01:18:06,282
- What's thatgot to do with it?
1484
01:18:06,315 --> 01:18:07,927
We're dealing with ayoung Jewish soul here.
1485
01:18:07,951 --> 01:18:09,252
- He's right, rabbi.
1486
01:18:09,285 --> 01:18:11,988
- No, he's not right. He's wrong.
1487
01:18:12,021 --> 01:18:14,323
We say young peopleshould not be pressured
1488
01:18:14,357 --> 01:18:16,159
into the messianic faith.
1489
01:18:16,192 --> 01:18:18,427
We would be guiltyof the same thing.
1490
01:18:18,461 --> 01:18:20,429
Leave this poor girl alone!
1491
01:18:20,463 --> 01:18:22,431
She's been through enough.
1492
01:18:22,465 --> 01:18:23,767
This meeting is over!
1493
01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:26,770
Over!
1494
01:18:32,809 --> 01:18:34,210
- Sorry.
1495
01:18:34,243 --> 01:18:35,487
Maybe we can vote him outnext year
1496
01:18:35,511 --> 01:18:37,146
when his contract is up.
1497
01:18:37,180 --> 01:18:39,482
In the meantime,
we can't visit a member's home
1498
01:18:39,515 --> 01:18:40,483
without his permission.
1499
01:18:40,516 --> 01:18:41,885
At least not this one.
1500
01:18:41,918 --> 01:18:43,552
- Well, at least her auntand uncle know
1501
01:18:43,586 --> 01:18:45,621
how to get in touch with me.
1502
01:18:45,654 --> 01:18:46,756
Shalom, friend.
1503
01:18:46,790 --> 01:18:49,058
- Shalom, yosi.
1504
01:19:02,471 --> 01:19:04,373
- Nicky's not home, Rivka.
1505
01:19:04,407 --> 01:19:05,608
- I don't believe you.
1506
01:19:05,641 --> 01:19:09,712
- Don't press me. He's not home.
1507
01:19:09,745 --> 01:19:12,215
- It's okay, dad.
1508
01:19:12,248 --> 01:19:14,383
- What are youdoing, Nicky?
1509
01:19:14,417 --> 01:19:16,585
- I have something for him.
1510
01:19:16,619 --> 01:19:22,491
Come out here.
1511
01:19:22,525 --> 01:19:26,462
- I'll be inside. Don't take too long.
1512
01:19:26,495 --> 01:19:32,869
- He won't.
1513
01:19:32,902 --> 01:19:34,437
What's going on?
1514
01:19:34,470 --> 01:19:36,906
- I'm sorry.
1515
01:19:36,940 --> 01:19:39,308
I'm sorry, Rivka.
1516
01:19:39,342 --> 01:19:40,643
My parents.
1517
01:19:40,676 --> 01:19:42,045
They don't wantme to see you.
1518
01:19:42,078 --> 01:19:44,713
- I thought you weregoing
to stand up to them?
1519
01:19:44,747 --> 01:19:45,849
What about the necklace?
1520
01:19:45,882 --> 01:19:46,715
The l'Chaim?
1521
01:19:46,749 --> 01:19:48,017
- Shhhh.
1522
01:19:48,051 --> 01:19:50,386
- Was it that stupidanti missionary?
1523
01:19:50,419 --> 01:19:51,888
- I don't know.
1524
01:19:51,921 --> 01:19:53,422
Not really.
1525
01:19:53,456 --> 01:19:57,593
It's just some of what he
saidseemed to really make sense.
1526
01:19:57,626 --> 01:19:58,928
- Yeah?
1527
01:19:58,962 --> 01:20:01,130
Well there isn't goingto
be a bat mitzvah now.
1528
01:20:01,164 --> 01:20:03,166
I can straighten outanything he said.
1529
01:20:03,199 --> 01:20:05,835
I can answer allyour questions now.
1530
01:20:05,869 --> 01:20:07,170
- I don't know.
1531
01:20:07,203 --> 01:20:10,139
I didn't understand
mostof what he was saying.
1532
01:20:10,173 --> 01:20:12,541
Look, I'm sure you're sincerein
believing all these things
1533
01:20:12,575 --> 01:20:17,480
about Isaiah, Micah, all the other 's
1534
01:20:17,513 --> 01:20:20,283
and maybe you're right.
1535
01:20:20,316 --> 01:20:25,188
But maybe he's right. I don't know.
1536
01:20:25,221 --> 01:20:28,824
But you were rightabout one thing.
1537
01:20:28,858 --> 01:20:31,527
I gotta do whatmy parents say.
1538
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,796
I gotta go to Israel.
1539
01:20:33,829 --> 01:20:35,098
And you can't go.
1540
01:20:35,131 --> 01:20:37,200
- So who's stoppingyou from going?
1541
01:20:37,233 --> 01:20:39,903
Did I tell you youcouldn't go to Israel?
1542
01:20:39,936 --> 01:20:42,505
Am I stopping you?
1543
01:20:42,538 --> 01:20:46,442
But I thought we were friends.
1544
01:20:46,475 --> 01:20:49,845
I thought you'd alwaysbe there for me.
1545
01:20:49,879 --> 01:20:52,581
Were they just words?
1546
01:20:52,615 --> 01:20:54,850
- I can't, Rivka.
1547
01:20:54,884 --> 01:20:59,122
I just can't.
1548
01:20:59,155 --> 01:21:02,658
Things are too complicated
nowwith all the other kids and...
1549
01:21:02,691 --> 01:21:05,728
- I can't believe youcare what they think?
1550
01:21:05,761 --> 01:21:12,969
Then here.
1551
01:21:13,002 --> 01:21:14,737
- You broke the chain.
1552
01:21:14,770 --> 01:21:18,908
- You broke your promise.
1553
01:21:37,626 --> 01:21:41,797
- Rivka. Rivka?
1554
01:21:41,830 --> 01:21:43,132
- It's you.
1555
01:21:43,166 --> 01:21:44,300
From the synagogue.
1556
01:21:44,333 --> 01:21:46,269
- I need to talkto you, Rivka.
1557
01:21:46,302 --> 01:21:48,504
- I don't know you and
i'mnot supposed to talk to men
1558
01:21:48,537 --> 01:21:50,006
who call me from cars.
1559
01:21:50,039 --> 01:21:51,640
- Please. you don't understand.
1560
01:21:51,674 --> 01:21:52,575
- I'll scream.
1561
01:21:52,608 --> 01:21:54,343
- No. wait.
1562
01:21:54,377 --> 01:21:58,447
Meet me in the coffeeshop over there.
1563
01:21:58,481 --> 01:21:59,949
- Why should I?
1564
01:21:59,983 --> 01:22:00,993
- I want to talkabout your bat mitzvah.
1565
01:22:01,017 --> 01:22:02,418
Please.
1566
01:22:02,451 --> 01:22:03,286
- There's nothingto talk about.
1567
01:22:03,319 --> 01:22:04,353
I'm not having it.
1568
01:22:04,387 --> 01:22:06,855
- I think there issomething to talk about.
1569
01:22:06,889 --> 01:22:08,958
I knew your father.
1570
01:22:08,992 --> 01:22:11,127
- You were friendswith my father?
1571
01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:12,661
- Martin margolis.
1572
01:22:12,695 --> 01:22:16,132
We were friends.
1573
01:22:16,165 --> 01:22:17,933
- All right.
1574
01:22:17,967 --> 01:22:18,901
I have 15 minutes.
1575
01:22:18,934 --> 01:22:20,669
That's all.
1576
01:22:20,703 --> 01:22:25,641
- It's a deal.
1577
01:22:25,674 --> 01:22:27,010
- You knew my dad?
1578
01:22:27,043 --> 01:22:28,777
- Yes.
1579
01:22:28,811 --> 01:22:29,778
Here.
1580
01:22:29,812 --> 01:22:33,849
He gave this to me.
1581
01:22:33,882 --> 01:22:35,918
- Wow.
1582
01:22:35,951 --> 01:22:38,287
This book meant a lot to dad.
1583
01:22:38,321 --> 01:22:41,324
- He liked the fact thatthe
author asked questions.
1584
01:22:41,357 --> 01:22:42,958
That's a very Jewish thing.
1585
01:22:42,992 --> 01:22:45,728
- So I've heard.
1586
01:22:45,761 --> 01:22:51,067
- Rivka,
I must tell youthat your father came to me
1587
01:22:51,100 --> 01:22:57,206
for counseling after ruthie,
your mother passed.
1588
01:22:57,240 --> 01:23:00,843
Naturally he was
depressedand he was trying to be
1589
01:23:00,876 --> 01:23:05,114
a good father to you.
1590
01:23:05,148 --> 01:23:07,750
And he felt heneeded some help.
1591
01:23:07,783 --> 01:23:11,020
- Counseling?
1592
01:23:11,054 --> 01:23:13,722
I thought you were a
barand bat mitzvah teacher
1593
01:23:13,756 --> 01:23:15,024
at the synagogue.
1594
01:23:15,058 --> 01:23:16,959
- Well, it doesn'tpay all the bills.
1595
01:23:16,992 --> 01:23:18,827
I'm a therapist as well.
1596
01:23:18,861 --> 01:23:20,929
- I see.
1597
01:23:20,963 --> 01:23:23,932
Did rabbi Stein ask youto counsel me?
1598
01:23:23,966 --> 01:23:25,468
- No.
1599
01:23:25,501 --> 01:23:28,137
I'm here because I wantto be your friend.
1600
01:23:28,171 --> 01:23:34,643
- I've had enoughfriends from banai Israel.
1601
01:23:34,677 --> 01:23:36,679
- Let me explain.
1602
01:23:36,712 --> 01:23:40,716
Since I was able to give
yourfather some help so that he
1603
01:23:40,749 --> 01:23:45,921
could be a wise father to you,
i feel I have a bit of a stake
1604
01:23:45,954 --> 01:23:47,090
in your life so to speak.
1605
01:23:47,123 --> 01:23:49,158
You do?
1606
01:23:49,192 --> 01:23:52,495
- I could never replace him.
1607
01:23:52,528 --> 01:23:57,566
But I'm here becausei care about you.
1608
01:23:57,600 --> 01:24:02,271
- Well, I appreciate thatbut, Mr....
1609
01:24:02,305 --> 01:24:07,543
- doctor. doctor poznerbut
please call me Eric.
1610
01:24:07,576 --> 01:24:08,944
- Okay.
1611
01:24:08,977 --> 01:24:15,484
Eric, my father and I had a
veryprecious relationship with god
1612
01:24:15,518 --> 01:24:19,922
and I know you want to
helpbut I just don't know
1613
01:24:19,955 --> 01:24:21,657
if you could relate to that.
1614
01:24:21,690 --> 01:24:23,025
No offense.
1615
01:24:23,058 --> 01:24:24,527
So if you don't mind...
1616
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:27,663
- try me.
1617
01:24:27,696 --> 01:24:29,432
- What do you mean?
1618
01:24:29,465 --> 01:24:34,603
I mean you eitherunderstand or you don't.
1619
01:24:34,637 --> 01:24:37,306
- Well, I thinki do understand.
1620
01:24:37,340 --> 01:24:39,775
I understand enoughto ask questions.
1621
01:24:39,808 --> 01:24:47,183
Questions like how a jewcould
be a Buddhist or a new age
1622
01:24:47,216 --> 01:24:50,386
or even an atheistand still be Jewish.
1623
01:24:50,419 --> 01:24:54,690
But a messianic Jew is
notsupposed to be Jewish anymore.
1624
01:24:54,723 --> 01:24:58,161
Your father to helped
meto ask that question.
1625
01:24:58,194 --> 01:25:01,330
And I think I know the answer.
1626
01:25:01,364 --> 01:25:07,836
If Jesus was Jewish,
thenyour father was Jewish too.
1627
01:25:07,870 --> 01:25:11,940
And I don't know too many
peoplemore Jewish inside and out
1628
01:25:11,974 --> 01:25:13,876
than your father.
1629
01:25:13,909 --> 01:25:17,980
And such Jewish answers,
answered he lived by.
1630
01:25:18,013 --> 01:25:24,720
For instance,
one thing heused to say was a prudent man.
1631
01:25:24,753 --> 01:25:25,988
- Overlooks an insult.
1632
01:25:26,021 --> 01:25:29,358
- Yes, that's right!
1633
01:25:29,392 --> 01:25:33,329
Rivka, let meget to the point.
1634
01:25:33,362 --> 01:25:39,302
I don't know you very wellbut
I believe what was special
1635
01:25:39,335 --> 01:25:43,606
in your father is in youin special ways.
1636
01:25:43,639 --> 01:25:46,909
I'm not just stalk
talkingabout what you believe
1637
01:25:46,942 --> 01:25:51,714
but how you believe it.
1638
01:25:51,747 --> 01:25:58,387
If your father were
sittingwith us here right now
1639
01:25:58,421 --> 01:26:02,591
I think he'd say I knowyou're hurting,
1640
01:26:02,625 --> 01:26:08,030
I know you're sad, i know you're angry
1641
01:26:08,063 --> 01:26:12,067
and you have every right to be.
1642
01:26:12,100 --> 01:26:14,403
And I know you're disappointed
1643
01:26:14,437 --> 01:26:19,442
by the people that havelet you down.
1644
01:26:19,475 --> 01:26:26,882
But a prudent young
womanwho overlooks an in result
1645
01:26:26,915 --> 01:26:30,386
would have her bat mitzvahat banai Israel
1646
01:26:30,419 --> 01:26:33,222
and study with her father'sfriend Eric
1647
01:26:33,256 --> 01:26:38,861
who loved her fatherand cares about her.
1648
01:26:38,894 --> 01:26:45,601
Rivka,
I believe part of youwill always regret
1649
01:26:45,634 --> 01:26:49,705
not having your bat mitzvah.
1650
01:26:49,738 --> 01:26:53,676
And I want tohelp you have it.
1651
01:26:53,709 --> 01:26:58,213
- Well, thank youfor wanting to help
1652
01:26:58,247 --> 01:27:00,983
but there's something else.
1653
01:27:01,016 --> 01:27:05,854
You see,
I don't like standingup in front of people.
1654
01:27:05,888 --> 01:27:08,223
I tend to avoid it.
1655
01:27:08,257 --> 01:27:15,364
And with all those parents
thatdidn't want me going on the trip
1656
01:27:15,398 --> 01:27:18,066
i just can't do it.
1657
01:27:18,100 --> 01:27:23,339
Rabbi Cohen had to convince
meto do it at adat yeshua.
1658
01:27:23,372 --> 01:27:25,874
But I don't think you can.
1659
01:27:25,908 --> 01:27:28,844
So I've made up my mind.
1660
01:27:28,877 --> 01:27:31,514
- I can understand that.
1661
01:27:31,547 --> 01:27:38,086
May I ask you onequestion before you go?
1662
01:27:38,120 --> 01:27:40,456
- Yes.
1663
01:27:40,489 --> 01:27:42,825
- Are you familiarwith Elijah's flight
1664
01:27:42,858 --> 01:27:44,727
from jezebel's threats?
1665
01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:46,028
- Yes.
1666
01:27:46,061 --> 01:27:52,535
1 kings 19,
I think I knowwhere you're going with this.
1667
01:27:52,568 --> 01:27:54,069
It's not about that.
1668
01:27:54,102 --> 01:27:55,771
I'm not running away.
1669
01:27:55,804 --> 01:27:57,306
- Isn't it?
1670
01:27:57,340 --> 01:28:00,609
- Look, I just can't.
1671
01:28:00,643 --> 01:28:08,016
- Do you remember what
madethe difference for Elijah?
1672
01:28:08,050 --> 01:28:09,318
- I don't know.
1673
01:28:09,352 --> 01:28:14,923
The thing thathappened in the cave?
1674
01:28:14,957 --> 01:28:16,325
I'm not in a cave.
1675
01:28:16,359 --> 01:28:17,369
Look, it's been 15 minutes.
1676
01:28:17,393 --> 01:28:18,594
I've got to go.
1677
01:28:18,627 --> 01:28:23,499
- It was the soundof the spirit.
1678
01:28:23,532 --> 01:28:26,635
It wasn't in the wind.
1679
01:28:26,669 --> 01:28:29,938
It wasn't in the earthquake.
1680
01:28:29,972 --> 01:28:32,808
There's a lot of windaround you, Rivka.
1681
01:28:32,841 --> 01:28:37,212
A lot of earth shakingthings have happened.
1682
01:28:37,245 --> 01:28:42,017
All I'm asking is that you
getquiet enough to hear the sound
1683
01:28:42,050 --> 01:28:47,022
of the spirit about it.
1684
01:28:47,055 --> 01:28:49,592
What would your father want?
1685
01:28:49,625 --> 01:28:52,728
- I know what he'd want.
1686
01:28:52,761 --> 01:28:54,763
He told me how muchhe was looking forward
1687
01:28:54,797 --> 01:28:58,867
to my bat mitzvahand how proud he'd be.
1688
01:28:58,901 --> 01:29:03,372
And now just like
mymother he won't be there.
1689
01:29:03,406 --> 01:29:06,875
- He'll know.
1690
01:29:06,909 --> 01:29:10,546
And god will know.
1691
01:29:10,579 --> 01:29:13,649
- Well, maybe god knowsi shouldn't have it.
1692
01:29:13,682 --> 01:29:16,084
Maybe that's the best thing.
1693
01:29:16,118 --> 01:29:21,156
- I have enough
confidencein your father's faith,
1694
01:29:21,189 --> 01:29:29,189
in your faith to know you'll
getan answer to that question.
1695
01:29:40,609 --> 01:29:42,878
we've been soworried about you.
1696
01:29:42,911 --> 01:29:44,179
- Both of us.
1697
01:29:44,212 --> 01:29:45,648
We're so glad you're home.
1698
01:29:45,681 --> 01:29:46,982
- The rabbi called.
1699
01:29:47,015 --> 01:29:49,284
He said you saw himand seemed upset.
1700
01:29:49,317 --> 01:29:51,153
Are you okay?
1701
01:29:51,186 --> 01:29:53,489
- I think so.
1702
01:29:53,522 --> 01:29:56,959
- It's okay aboutthe bat mitzvah.
1703
01:29:56,992 --> 01:30:02,197
- The most important
thingis that you're okay.
1704
01:30:02,230 --> 01:30:10,230
- Uncle Sydney, aunt Jackie,
i... sometimes I haven't been
1705
01:30:16,178 --> 01:30:21,349
very grateful forwhat you've given me.
1706
01:30:21,383 --> 01:30:25,754
I mean... i mean thank you.
1707
01:30:25,788 --> 01:30:28,824
Thanks for being there.
1708
01:30:28,857 --> 01:30:31,694
- Honey, you lostboth your parents.
1709
01:30:31,727 --> 01:30:34,997
Anyone would beupset about that.
1710
01:30:35,030 --> 01:30:43,030
I mean anyone.
1711
01:30:47,242 --> 01:30:52,047
- Uncle Sydney, you'rea big Teddy bear.
1712
01:30:52,080 --> 01:30:54,382
That's what you are.
1713
01:30:54,416 --> 01:31:02,416
- Well, I... let's sit down.
1714
01:31:03,826 --> 01:31:09,131
- Listen, I think I might
needa little time to be alone.
1715
01:31:09,164 --> 01:31:13,401
You know, some timeto be by myself.
1716
01:31:13,435 --> 01:31:16,104
Maybe in my room.
1717
01:31:16,138 --> 01:31:18,240
Maybe on long walks.
1718
01:31:18,273 --> 01:31:23,078
And I may not want
anythingto eat for a little while.
1719
01:31:23,111 --> 01:31:26,014
- What do you meana little while?
1720
01:31:26,048 --> 01:31:28,116
- I don't know.
1721
01:31:28,150 --> 01:31:29,117
A few days.
1722
01:31:29,151 --> 01:31:30,118
I don't know.
1723
01:31:30,152 --> 01:31:32,187
- You have to eat, Rivka.
1724
01:31:32,220 --> 01:31:34,657
You're a growing girl.
1725
01:31:34,690 --> 01:31:36,692
There's a time and a place.
1726
01:31:36,725 --> 01:31:38,694
Yom kippur maybe.
1727
01:31:38,727 --> 01:31:40,896
You'll get sick.
1728
01:31:40,929 --> 01:31:42,765
Is it that you're depressed?
1729
01:31:42,798 --> 01:31:45,801
- No. no, it's not that.
1730
01:31:45,834 --> 01:31:48,136
I'll be all right.
1731
01:31:48,170 --> 01:31:50,105
Please trust me.
1732
01:31:50,138 --> 01:31:51,840
It won't be long.
1733
01:31:51,874 --> 01:31:53,642
And I'll drink juices.
1734
01:31:53,676 --> 01:31:56,311
- That's not enough
fora growing girl like you.
1735
01:31:56,344 --> 01:32:01,684
It's just that we care and
youcould land in the hospital.
1736
01:32:01,717 --> 01:32:04,653
I mean, everybody eats.
1737
01:32:04,687 --> 01:32:07,489
- Especially you.
1738
01:32:07,522 --> 01:32:13,528
- Uncle Sydney, aunt Jackie, dad fasted.
1739
01:32:13,562 --> 01:32:15,631
He knew when to drink juices
1740
01:32:15,664 --> 01:32:18,734
and maybe even eata little sometimes.
1741
01:32:18,767 --> 01:32:20,903
I'll be okay.
1742
01:32:20,936 --> 01:32:22,504
- I see.
1743
01:32:22,537 --> 01:32:25,674
You want to be just like him.
1744
01:32:25,708 --> 01:32:27,542
That's natural.
1745
01:32:27,576 --> 01:32:29,945
But you're young.
1746
01:32:29,978 --> 01:32:31,880
And look what happened to him.
1747
01:32:31,914 --> 01:32:34,817
- I don't think it
hadanything to do with that.
1748
01:32:34,850 --> 01:32:38,186
Rivka, we just wantyou to be happy.
1749
01:32:38,220 --> 01:32:40,155
- I know you do.
1750
01:32:40,188 --> 01:32:42,290
I'll be okay, guys.
1751
01:32:42,324 --> 01:32:44,092
- Are you sure?
1752
01:32:44,126 --> 01:32:50,633
You're so thin to begin
withand just entering... i mean...
1753
01:32:50,666 --> 01:32:53,902
- I'll be okay.
1754
01:32:53,936 --> 01:32:55,604
I'll be in my room.
1755
01:32:55,638 --> 01:33:01,209
I love you both.
1756
01:33:01,243 --> 01:33:03,045
- Strange.
1757
01:33:03,078 --> 01:33:05,748
- I'll tell you this ishow they act
1758
01:33:05,781 --> 01:33:07,816
just before committing suicide.
1759
01:33:07,850 --> 01:33:11,620
- Sydney,
I don't thinkthere's any danger of that.
1760
01:33:11,654 --> 01:33:14,189
But still it's strange.
1761
01:33:14,222 --> 01:33:16,191
- You know, she'sours, Jackie.
1762
01:33:16,224 --> 01:33:18,226
She's ours.
1763
01:33:18,260 --> 01:33:26,260
I just don't wantanything to happen to her.
1764
01:33:30,873 --> 01:33:33,742
- Honey, I'm just leaving
alight meal outside your door.
1765
01:33:33,776 --> 01:33:38,046
- Okay. thank you.
1766
01:33:39,715 --> 01:33:41,316
Yes, what is it?
1767
01:33:41,349 --> 01:33:44,186
- Honey, I'm just leaving
alight meal outside your door.
1768
01:33:44,219 --> 01:33:47,990
- Thank you.
1769
01:33:55,664 --> 01:33:57,265
- Rivka!
1770
01:33:57,299 --> 01:34:00,235
- Will you gosomewhere with me?
1771
01:34:00,268 --> 01:34:01,469
- Where?
1772
01:34:01,503 --> 01:34:02,637
- You'll see.
1773
01:34:02,671 --> 01:34:04,673
You'll be home before dinner.
1774
01:34:04,707 --> 01:34:06,641
- I've got tocall my parents.
1775
01:34:06,675 --> 01:34:13,682
- Go ahead.
1776
01:34:13,716 --> 01:34:15,751
- Hey, mom.
1777
01:34:15,784 --> 01:34:18,553
I got to gosomewhere with Rivka.
1778
01:34:18,586 --> 01:34:20,555
I'll be home later.
1779
01:34:20,588 --> 01:34:22,590
Okay? bye.
1780
01:34:22,624 --> 01:34:24,893
Love you, too.
1781
01:34:24,927 --> 01:34:27,429
All right. Lead me on.
1782
01:34:27,462 --> 01:34:31,967
- Come on. Let's go.
1783
01:34:38,774 --> 01:34:41,076
- this is a little creepy.
1784
01:34:41,109 --> 01:34:44,312
Going to your old
housewithout telling anyone.
1785
01:34:44,346 --> 01:34:45,814
We aren't going in, are we?
1786
01:34:45,848 --> 01:34:48,116
Isn't that trespassing?
1787
01:34:48,150 --> 01:34:50,185
- Just pray my old key works.
1788
01:34:50,218 --> 01:34:55,423
- I think we can getarrested for this,
Rivka.
1789
01:35:05,834 --> 01:35:13,834
- it looks so... so empty.
1790
01:35:14,042 --> 01:35:16,912
- Yeah.
1791
01:35:43,638 --> 01:35:46,809
- Just as I thought.
1792
01:35:46,842 --> 01:35:48,911
- Not even in theold bean chair.
1793
01:35:48,944 --> 01:35:50,378
- I'm sorry.
1794
01:35:50,412 --> 01:35:52,815
I should have asked
mymom to ask your uncle.
1795
01:35:52,848 --> 01:35:54,549
I promised I'd get it for you.
1796
01:35:54,582 --> 01:35:56,785
- It's okay.
1797
01:35:56,819 --> 01:35:58,129
I didn't come herefor the bean chair.
1798
01:35:58,153 --> 01:36:00,455
- Then why did you come here?
1799
01:36:00,488 --> 01:36:03,491
- I came to pray for wisdom.
1800
01:36:03,525 --> 01:36:09,097
- Couldn't you do thatat
your uncle's house?
1801
01:36:09,131 --> 01:36:12,300
Hey, let's order a big pizza.
1802
01:36:12,334 --> 01:36:14,169
I'm hungry.
1803
01:36:14,202 --> 01:36:17,005
Let's ruin ourappetite big time.
1804
01:36:17,039 --> 01:36:20,475
- Actually, I'm not eating.
1805
01:36:20,508 --> 01:36:21,977
- Are you sick?
1806
01:36:22,010 --> 01:36:23,645
- I'm fine.
1807
01:36:23,678 --> 01:36:26,381
- Well, I'm hungry.
1808
01:36:26,414 --> 01:36:29,151
- I just want you to be
herefor a little while because
1809
01:36:29,184 --> 01:36:31,519
you're my best friend.
1810
01:36:31,553 --> 01:36:34,056
- I'm here but I'm sorry.
1811
01:36:34,089 --> 01:36:36,859
I think I need to go soon.
1812
01:36:36,892 --> 01:36:38,293
- That's okay.
1813
01:36:38,326 --> 01:36:41,396
I think I need to be
herealone for a little while.
1814
01:36:41,429 --> 01:36:42,898
- You sure you're okay?
1815
01:36:42,931 --> 01:36:44,699
- I'm fine.
1816
01:36:44,732 --> 01:36:49,537
- Well... okay.
1817
01:36:49,571 --> 01:36:52,674
I guess I'll go.
1818
01:36:52,707 --> 01:36:54,676
You're sure you'll be okay?
1819
01:36:54,709 --> 01:36:56,644
- I'm fine.
1820
01:36:56,678 --> 01:36:57,980
Just pray for me.
1821
01:36:58,013 --> 01:36:59,915
- I will.
1822
01:36:59,948 --> 01:37:01,583
Love you.
1823
01:37:01,616 --> 01:37:06,321
- You too.
1824
01:37:26,041 --> 01:37:32,480
- well, here I amin my old room
1825
01:37:32,514 --> 01:37:37,285
where mom and dad usedto tuck me into bed,
1826
01:37:37,319 --> 01:37:45,319
only no mom, no dad and no bed.
1827
01:37:48,964 --> 01:37:54,602
Only me.
1828
01:37:54,636 --> 01:37:58,206
And you.
1829
01:37:58,240 --> 01:38:04,112
So where do I start?
1830
01:38:04,146 --> 01:38:07,382
I guess I need to beginby saying
1831
01:38:07,415 --> 01:38:13,188
I need to hear the soundof your spirit.
1832
01:38:13,221 --> 01:38:20,395
So should I have the bat
mitzvahat banai Israel?
1833
01:38:20,428 --> 01:38:27,269
Because all those peoplemake me so nervous.
1834
01:38:27,302 --> 01:38:34,943
And with these people,
i'd be more nervous than... than
1835
01:38:37,745 --> 01:38:39,114
I'm tired, god.
1836
01:38:39,147 --> 01:38:40,582
It's been a long day.
1837
01:38:40,615 --> 01:38:42,617
And I'm hungry.
1838
01:38:42,650 --> 01:38:49,024
I think it's what theycall low blood sugar.
1839
01:38:49,057 --> 01:38:53,728
But you would know that.
1840
01:39:35,970 --> 01:39:38,473
- mazel tov onyour bat mitzvah.
1841
01:39:38,506 --> 01:39:41,443
Now, remember to eat allof your vegetables
1842
01:39:41,476 --> 01:39:48,550
and make sure you leave
roomfor some chocolate cake.
1843
01:39:48,583 --> 01:39:53,921
- I'm stuffed.
1844
01:40:02,130 --> 01:40:04,899
That wasn't thesound of the spirit.
1845
01:40:04,932 --> 01:40:09,704
That was the soundof my stomach.
1846
01:40:09,737 --> 01:40:11,106
My goodness.
1847
01:40:11,139 --> 01:40:13,108
It's getting dark.
1848
01:41:00,255 --> 01:41:02,957
- Rivka, where were you?
1849
01:41:02,990 --> 01:41:04,892
We were worried sick.
1850
01:41:04,926 --> 01:41:05,793
Are you okay?
1851
01:41:05,827 --> 01:41:09,964
- I'm fine, aunt Jackie.
1852
01:41:16,037 --> 01:41:20,208
Wow, rabbi Cohen,
I miss thisplace and I miss your sermons
1853
01:41:20,242 --> 01:41:23,077
and I miss you.
1854
01:41:23,111 --> 01:41:25,647
- Adat yeshua.Com.
1855
01:41:25,680 --> 01:41:27,182
Pod cast.
1856
01:41:27,215 --> 01:41:28,316
It's free of course.
1857
01:41:28,350 --> 01:41:31,153
- Yeah, but it'snot the same.
1858
01:41:31,186 --> 01:41:33,755
- It's not the samearound here without you.
1859
01:41:33,788 --> 01:41:36,758
We all miss you very much.
1860
01:41:36,791 --> 01:41:39,461
I think it's good you're withyour
aunt and uncle right now.
1861
01:41:39,494 --> 01:41:41,763
You'll have yourbat mitzvah there.
1862
01:41:41,796 --> 01:41:43,165
Don't you?
1863
01:41:43,198 --> 01:41:45,800
- Well, that's why I'm here.
1864
01:41:45,833 --> 01:41:48,203
I decided not to have it.
1865
01:41:48,236 --> 01:41:50,738
But then I met doctor pozner.
1866
01:41:50,772 --> 01:41:53,341
- Yes, Eric pozner.
1867
01:41:53,375 --> 01:41:55,243
- He knew my father, too.
1868
01:41:55,277 --> 01:41:56,311
- That's true.
1869
01:41:56,344 --> 01:41:58,913
- He's an interesting man.
1870
01:41:58,946 --> 01:42:01,716
He says he's a question asker.
1871
01:42:01,749 --> 01:42:04,519
- So what questiondid he ask you?
1872
01:42:04,552 --> 01:42:08,022
- Well, he askedif I would listen
1873
01:42:08,055 --> 01:42:09,424
for the sound of the spirit
1874
01:42:09,457 --> 01:42:13,861
about whether to havemy
bat mitzvah like Elijah.
1875
01:42:13,895 --> 01:42:16,231
- Sounds like Eric.
1876
01:42:16,264 --> 01:42:20,702
- So I've kind of beenfasting
which is freaking out
1877
01:42:20,735 --> 01:42:22,036
my aunt and uncle.
1878
01:42:22,069 --> 01:42:23,805
- I know how they feel.
1879
01:42:23,838 --> 01:42:26,073
How long has it been?
1880
01:42:26,107 --> 01:42:28,210
- A few days.
1881
01:42:28,243 --> 01:42:31,946
- At your age you shouldeat starting today,
Rivka.
1882
01:42:31,979 --> 01:42:33,715
Are you drinking?
1883
01:42:33,748 --> 01:42:36,851
- Yes. juices.
1884
01:42:36,884 --> 01:42:40,488
Rabbi Cohen, I have to know
1885
01:42:40,522 --> 01:42:42,757
whether to do my bat mitzvahor not.
1886
01:42:42,790 --> 01:42:46,394
Of course I don't want to,
1887
01:42:46,428 --> 01:42:51,132
but well, maybe my fatherwould want me to.
1888
01:42:51,165 --> 01:42:53,435
- Good point.
1889
01:42:53,468 --> 01:43:01,468
You are some amazingyoung woman, Rivka.
1890
01:43:03,311 --> 01:43:05,780
- Tea, juice, water, lemonade.
1891
01:43:05,813 --> 01:43:10,952
- Lemonade.
1892
01:43:10,985 --> 01:43:14,055
- Cookie?
1893
01:43:14,088 --> 01:43:18,693
- Um, no thanks.
1894
01:43:18,726 --> 01:43:24,299
Um,
I was thinking I mighthave my bat mitzvah.
1895
01:43:24,332 --> 01:43:25,433
Just thinking.
1896
01:43:25,467 --> 01:43:27,635
- The sound of the spirit.
1897
01:43:27,669 --> 01:43:28,436
- No.
1898
01:43:28,470 --> 01:43:30,305
Just the sound of my thinking.
1899
01:43:30,338 --> 01:43:32,974
And I didn't say iwas going to have it.
1900
01:43:33,007 --> 01:43:34,409
- I understand.
1901
01:43:34,442 --> 01:43:35,943
- Do you know whenthe date would be?
1902
01:43:35,977 --> 01:43:43,977
- Let me check for openings.
1903
01:43:44,852 --> 01:43:51,259
Okay, there's not much
openbut... here's a good one.
1904
01:43:51,293 --> 01:43:58,333
It's on passover.
1905
01:44:02,437 --> 01:44:05,039
From exodus.
1906
01:44:11,413 --> 01:44:13,315
- That's very beautiful.
1907
01:44:13,348 --> 01:44:15,350
Maybe you shoulddo the honors.
1908
01:44:15,383 --> 01:44:17,719
You know it waybetter than I do.
1909
01:44:17,752 --> 01:44:20,688
- As a therapist I usually
letthe patient do all the work.
1910
01:44:20,722 --> 01:44:23,157
That way they experiencethe growth.
1911
01:44:23,190 --> 01:44:29,263
Here. try reading verse 15.
1912
01:44:38,740 --> 01:44:40,141
- Very good.
1913
01:44:40,174 --> 01:44:44,479
They've taught you verywell
over there at adat yeshua.
1914
01:44:44,512 --> 01:44:49,417
Please give me
congratulationsto rabbi Cohen.
1915
01:44:49,451 --> 01:44:53,921
I can make an mp3 of
everythingfor you by next week.
1916
01:44:53,955 --> 01:44:58,159
What do you think?
1917
01:44:58,192 --> 01:45:02,530
- I didn't sayi would have it.
1918
01:45:02,564 --> 01:45:04,442
- I can only say I canhold
the date for so long.
1919
01:45:04,466 --> 01:45:08,436
This offer is only goodfor a little while.
1920
01:45:08,470 --> 01:45:10,237
- Give me two days.
1921
01:45:10,271 --> 01:45:11,673
I'll know by then.
1922
01:45:11,706 --> 01:45:12,440
- Okay.
1923
01:45:12,474 --> 01:45:14,376
I'll hold your reservation.
1924
01:45:14,409 --> 01:45:21,215
And I'll live if you say no.
1925
01:45:41,335 --> 01:45:42,770
- okay.
1926
01:45:42,804 --> 01:45:50,804
Exodus 33: 14,
and he saidmy presence will go with you
1927
01:45:51,446 --> 01:45:53,615
and I will give you rest.
1928
01:45:53,648 --> 01:45:58,953
Then he said to him, this ismoses,
if your presence does
1929
01:45:58,986 --> 01:46:02,490
not go with us do notbring us up from here.
1930
01:46:02,524 --> 01:46:07,629
Makes sense.
1931
01:46:07,662 --> 01:46:10,231
I could really use
yourpresence and rest right now
1932
01:46:10,264 --> 01:46:12,366
after all I've been through.
1933
01:46:12,400 --> 01:46:18,272
Not that I'm complainingor anything.
1934
01:46:18,305 --> 01:46:20,642
Wait a minute.
1935
01:46:20,675 --> 01:46:22,343
Yeah. yeah, you know what?
1936
01:46:22,376 --> 01:46:24,178
I am complaining.
1937
01:46:24,211 --> 01:46:30,952
I just lost my closest
friendand dad and I don't like it.
1938
01:46:40,695 --> 01:46:43,631
Listen to me, house of Jacob
1939
01:46:43,665 --> 01:46:45,767
and all the remnantof house of Israel
1940
01:46:45,800 --> 01:46:48,369
who have been upheldby me from birth,
1941
01:46:48,402 --> 01:46:50,605
who have been carriedfrom the womb.
1942
01:46:50,638 --> 01:46:53,975
Even to your old age I am he.
1943
01:46:54,008 --> 01:46:57,311
And even to gray hairsi will carry you.
1944
01:46:57,344 --> 01:47:00,582
I have made and I will bear.
1945
01:47:00,615 --> 01:47:07,321
Even I will carryand will deliver you.
1946
01:47:07,354 --> 01:47:09,924
But the lord wasnot in the wind.
1947
01:47:09,957 --> 01:47:13,628
And after the windan earthquake.
1948
01:47:13,661 --> 01:47:16,430
But the lord was notin the earthquake.
1949
01:47:16,464 --> 01:47:20,234
And after earthquake, a fire.
1950
01:47:20,267 --> 01:47:22,637
But the lord wasnot in the fire.
1951
01:47:22,670 --> 01:47:30,670
And after the firea still small voice.
1952
01:47:32,547 --> 01:47:37,284
The sound of the spirit.
1953
01:47:37,318 --> 01:47:41,756
So it was when Elijah heard
itthat he wrapped his face in
1954
01:47:41,789 --> 01:47:43,725
his mantle and went out
1955
01:47:43,758 --> 01:47:46,694
and stood in the entranceof the cave.
1956
01:47:46,728 --> 01:47:49,396
Suddenly a voice came to himand said,
1957
01:47:49,430 --> 01:47:54,602
what are you doing here, Elijah?
1958
01:47:54,636 --> 01:47:59,707
What am I doing here?
1959
01:47:59,741 --> 01:48:02,944
- I think you're ready.
1960
01:48:02,977 --> 01:48:03,911
- You do?
1961
01:48:03,945 --> 01:48:05,513
- Yes.
1962
01:48:05,547 --> 01:48:08,382
Your father would bevery proud of you.
1963
01:48:08,415 --> 01:48:09,984
- I'm sure he will be.
1964
01:48:10,017 --> 01:48:11,418
- Yes, he will.
1965
01:48:11,452 --> 01:48:14,922
Do you have your short speech?
1966
01:48:14,956 --> 01:48:18,526
- I don't think i'mgoing to say anything.
1967
01:48:18,560 --> 01:48:20,762
- Yes, you told me.
1968
01:48:20,795 --> 01:48:24,999
Well,
just what you'redoing speaks for itself.
1969
01:48:25,032 --> 01:48:28,035
It takes a lot of courageto
go through with it.
1970
01:48:28,069 --> 01:48:33,240
I guess that's whythey call it a mitzvah.
1971
01:48:33,274 --> 01:48:35,810
- I don't know ifi'd call it courage.
1972
01:48:35,843 --> 01:48:40,047
Maybe it's the soundof the spirit,
1973
01:48:40,081 --> 01:48:43,818
but it's definitely notmy first choice.
1974
01:48:43,851 --> 01:48:46,387
- Then that takeseven more courage.
1975
01:48:46,420 --> 01:48:48,890
You know what?
1976
01:48:48,923 --> 01:48:52,594
I don't know other young
personas ready to take this step
1977
01:48:52,627 --> 01:48:54,328
as you are, Rivka.
1978
01:48:54,361 --> 01:48:57,198
- Then why do I havesuch a stomach ache?
1979
01:48:57,231 --> 01:49:03,470
- Well, someone as they
saysweat great drops of blood
1980
01:49:03,504 --> 01:49:07,809
after he said, not my will.
1981
01:49:07,842 --> 01:49:09,911
Isn't that what it says?
1982
01:49:09,944 --> 01:49:13,447
At least you'renot doing that.
1983
01:49:13,480 --> 01:49:16,117
- Good point.
1984
01:49:16,150 --> 01:49:18,753
I guess you reallyread the book.
1985
01:49:18,786 --> 01:49:25,226
Well, thanks for everything.
1986
01:49:25,259 --> 01:49:30,264
I wouldn't be doingthis without you.
1987
01:49:44,078 --> 01:49:46,113
- yeah, just usethat same list.
1988
01:49:46,147 --> 01:49:50,985
Eric. Come here a second.
1989
01:49:51,018 --> 01:49:54,388
Jacob bluestein has Avery interesting idea.
1990
01:49:54,421 --> 01:49:55,589
- Really?
1991
01:49:55,623 --> 01:49:56,590
- Yeah.
1992
01:49:56,624 --> 01:50:04,624
- I'm all ears.
1993
01:50:05,733 --> 01:50:09,804
- You look sobeautiful, Rivka.
1994
01:50:09,837 --> 01:50:14,676
If only your fatherwere here to see you.
1995
01:50:14,709 --> 01:50:17,645
- Thanks, aunt Jackie.
1996
01:50:17,679 --> 01:50:21,949
My mom used to do myhair just like you are.
1997
01:50:21,983 --> 01:50:29,924
You're really good at it.
1998
01:50:29,957 --> 01:50:33,060
- Is everything okay?
1999
01:50:36,163 --> 01:50:41,202
- What so funny?
2000
01:50:47,875 --> 01:50:53,280
- Well, god, this is it.
2001
01:50:53,314 --> 01:51:00,688
I wish I wasn't doing this
buti'm not even going to ask.
2002
01:51:00,722 --> 01:51:08,262
I already know the answer.
2003
01:52:22,169 --> 01:52:29,110
- Well, first I feeli need to tell you
2004
01:52:29,143 --> 01:52:32,513
I almost didn't havemy bat mitzvah.
2005
01:52:32,546 --> 01:52:38,319
I prayed a lot about it and
ieven sort of forgot to eat.
2006
01:52:40,788 --> 01:52:42,990
Actually the versesi looked at were
2007
01:52:43,024 --> 01:52:46,193
really helpfulwith my decision.
2008
01:52:46,227 --> 01:52:51,565
My presence will go with
youand I will give you rest.
2009
01:52:51,598 --> 01:52:55,436
It's that presence and
the restthat comes with it
2010
01:52:55,469 --> 01:53:00,407
that sustains me up here
todayafter so recently losing
2011
01:53:00,441 --> 01:53:07,248
my closest friend in the wholeworld,
my dad.
2012
01:53:07,281 --> 01:53:11,953
When I was in the park
thinkingabout whether to do this,
2013
01:53:11,986 --> 01:53:16,357
I saw a fatherand his little girl.
2014
01:53:16,390 --> 01:53:20,294
He put her on his
shoulderslike my dad used to do,
2015
01:53:20,327 --> 01:53:27,634
and I felt... i don't
knowhow to explain it.
2016
01:53:27,668 --> 01:53:30,838
Kind of carried.
2017
01:53:30,872 --> 01:53:35,742
Carried all the wayto this place today.
2018
01:53:35,776 --> 01:53:39,480
So here I am.
2019
01:53:42,016 --> 01:53:43,650
And I'm really nervous.
2020
01:53:43,684 --> 01:53:47,354
But I think I finally
learnedsomething in the hardest year
2021
01:53:47,388 --> 01:53:50,324
of my short life.
2022
01:53:50,357 --> 01:53:52,093
I think I've finallylearned to do
2023
01:53:52,126 --> 01:53:54,996
what my father taught methrough proverbs,
2024
01:53:55,029 --> 01:54:00,167
to overlook insults and
focuson the good things.
2025
01:54:00,201 --> 01:54:05,639
Good things like my
auntand uncle who love me.
2026
01:54:05,672 --> 01:54:11,578
And friends old and new
whosupported me as friends should.
2027
01:54:11,612 --> 01:54:14,515
Some new friends were
kindwhen I was first here
2028
01:54:14,548 --> 01:54:17,618
and was a strangerwho needed a friend.
2029
01:54:17,651 --> 01:54:22,123
Thank you.
2030
01:54:22,156 --> 01:54:29,496
And to my friends that
adatyeshua including rabbi Cohen,
2031
01:54:29,530 --> 01:54:31,632
you're all a greatcomfort to me.
2032
01:54:31,665 --> 01:54:34,168
Thank you, rabbi Stein.
2033
01:54:34,201 --> 01:54:40,074
I know you stood up for
meduring a difficult time.
2034
01:54:40,107 --> 01:54:47,348
And doctor pozner, Eric,
2035
01:54:47,381 --> 01:54:48,916
you're the bestbat mitzvah teacher
2036
01:54:48,950 --> 01:54:51,185
a girl could ask for.
2037
01:54:51,218 --> 01:54:53,921
You gave me freedomand respect.
2038
01:54:53,955 --> 01:54:57,158
You encouraged me to
askall the right questions.
2039
01:54:57,191 --> 01:54:59,493
As all Jews should.
2040
01:54:59,526 --> 01:55:03,630
And then god answered me.
2041
01:55:03,664 --> 01:55:06,934
That's why I'm here.
2042
01:55:06,968 --> 01:55:10,571
I love you.
2043
01:55:10,604 --> 01:55:14,675
I want to say I was
kindof forced to grow up
2044
01:55:14,708 --> 01:55:15,977
the day my dad died
2045
01:55:16,010 --> 01:55:19,981
and some people said I wasbecoming a woman.
2046
01:55:20,014 --> 01:55:25,919
But I know on my bat
mitzvahthat in some ways
2047
01:55:25,953 --> 01:55:28,622
I'm still a little girl,
2048
01:55:28,655 --> 01:55:32,093
a little girl who hasa big family
2049
01:55:32,126 --> 01:55:35,662
who cares about her.
2050
01:55:35,696 --> 01:55:39,100
And I need all of you.
2051
01:55:39,133 --> 01:55:41,768
Thanks to those peoplein this room
2052
01:55:41,802 --> 01:55:44,305
and this synagogue
2053
01:55:44,338 --> 01:55:49,243
who have shown me kindnessin
so many different ways.
2054
01:55:49,276 --> 01:55:53,747
You know,
my dad and uncledidn't see each other
2055
01:55:53,780 --> 01:55:56,283
for a very long time.
2056
01:55:56,317 --> 01:56:00,487
And I missed out not gettingto
know him and aunt Jackie.
2057
01:56:00,521 --> 01:56:06,960
I'm so thankful they met
upjust before my dad died.
2058
01:56:06,994 --> 01:56:10,531
What if they hadn't?
2059
01:56:10,564 --> 01:56:16,370
That would make a sadthing so much sadder.
2060
01:56:16,403 --> 01:56:21,308
There's a verse in a bookthat
I realize isn't read here
2061
01:56:21,342 --> 01:56:25,379
but I think we'd agreeon
what it has to say.
2062
01:56:25,412 --> 01:56:30,651
My dad had me memorize
itbecause he loved it so much.
2063
01:56:30,684 --> 01:56:33,254
So here's to you, dad!
2064
01:56:33,287 --> 01:56:37,858
I'm finally here,
your youngjewish daughter of Rebecca
2065
01:56:37,891 --> 01:56:43,397
taking her place.
2066
01:56:43,430 --> 01:56:46,967
Love suffers long and is kind.
2067
01:56:47,000 --> 01:56:49,970
Love does not envy.
2068
01:56:50,003 --> 01:56:54,308
It does not parade itself,
is not puffed up,
2069
01:56:54,341 --> 01:56:57,144
does not behave rudely,
2070
01:56:57,178 --> 01:57:02,749
is not provoked, does not seek its own,
2071
01:57:02,783 --> 01:57:08,989
thinks no evil, does notrejoice in iniquity
2072
01:57:09,022 --> 01:57:12,359
but rejoices in the truth,
2073
01:57:12,393 --> 01:57:16,297
bears all things, believes all things,
2074
01:57:16,330 --> 01:57:21,268
hopes all things, endures all things.
2075
01:57:21,302 --> 01:57:25,972
Love never fails.
2076
01:57:26,006 --> 01:57:27,974
I love you all.
2077
01:57:28,008 --> 01:57:31,612
Thank you.
2078
01:58:07,214 --> 01:58:08,315
- You did it.
2079
01:58:08,349 --> 01:58:09,983
I'm so proud of you!
2080
01:58:10,016 --> 01:58:11,718
- Thanks, rhena.
2081
01:58:11,752 --> 01:58:12,986
- Courage.
2082
01:58:13,019 --> 01:58:15,088
Real courage.
2083
01:58:15,122 --> 01:58:17,824
I guess you heardthe sound of the spirit.
2084
01:58:17,858 --> 01:58:19,226
Congratulations.
2085
01:58:19,260 --> 01:58:20,394
- Thanks.
2086
01:58:20,427 --> 01:58:22,229
- A wonderful job.
2087
01:58:22,263 --> 01:58:24,465
I was kvelling.
2088
01:58:26,700 --> 01:58:29,035
- You know, I don't needto tell you
2089
01:58:29,069 --> 01:58:32,139
how proud your father would be.
2090
01:58:32,173 --> 01:58:35,108
And how proud I am.
2091
01:58:35,142 --> 01:58:38,345
- Thank you.
2092
01:58:38,379 --> 01:58:43,417
Uncle Sydney, aunt Jackie,
this is my rabbi, rabbi Cohen
2093
01:58:43,450 --> 01:58:46,387
from adat yeshua.
2094
01:58:46,420 --> 01:58:48,489
- She did great, didn't she?
2095
01:58:48,522 --> 01:58:49,423
- Yes.
2096
01:58:49,456 --> 01:58:51,225
She is her father's daughter.
2097
01:58:51,258 --> 01:58:57,531
And her uncle and
aunt'sniece and a wonderful girl.
2098
01:58:57,564 --> 01:59:02,035
- You know, rabbi,
I thinkrivka needs to spend some time
2099
01:59:02,068 --> 01:59:04,505
with her friendsat adat yeshua.
2100
01:59:04,538 --> 01:59:09,476
Why don't you go worshipwith
rabbi Cohen this weekend?
2101
01:59:09,510 --> 01:59:11,378
- I think that'sa great idea.
2102
01:59:11,412 --> 01:59:13,814
I'm sure everyonemisses you there.
2103
01:59:13,847 --> 01:59:21,154
I love you guys!
2104
01:59:21,188 --> 01:59:23,089
I know.
2105
01:59:23,123 --> 01:59:25,692
Yeah. yeah. It was really great.
2106
01:59:25,726 --> 01:59:27,294
- Congratulationson a great speech.
2107
01:59:27,328 --> 01:59:28,362
Thank you, sir.
2108
01:59:28,395 --> 01:59:29,596
- You're welcome.
2109
01:59:29,630 --> 01:59:30,773
- Listen,
I'm going tohave to call you back.
2110
01:59:30,797 --> 01:59:32,165
Okay.okay. bye.
2111
01:59:32,199 --> 01:59:35,769
- Congratulations on your batmitzvah,
and this is for you.
2112
01:59:35,802 --> 01:59:39,039
- Well, thank you so much.
2113
01:59:39,072 --> 01:59:46,780
- You're welcome.
2114
01:59:46,813 --> 01:59:49,350
- Well, I think it would bea good idea
2115
01:59:49,383 --> 01:59:51,852
to visit your parents'
graveon this special day.
2116
01:59:51,885 --> 01:59:53,620
They would be so proud of you.
2117
01:59:53,654 --> 01:59:56,089
- Okay, but can weget going already.
2118
01:59:56,122 --> 01:59:58,024
- Wait.
2119
01:59:58,058 --> 02:00:01,462
I just remembered
jacobbluestein gave me a card.
2120
02:00:01,495 --> 02:00:03,063
It's in my purse.
2121
02:00:03,096 --> 02:00:04,207
I better put itwith the others.
2122
02:00:04,231 --> 02:00:06,233
- Jacob bluestein?
2123
02:00:06,267 --> 02:00:07,834
That was nice of him.
2124
02:00:07,868 --> 02:00:13,874
- Well, throw it in the
pileand we'll look at it later.
2125
02:00:13,907 --> 02:00:15,409
It's getting dark soon.
2126
02:00:15,442 --> 02:00:16,877
- I wonder what he gave her.
2127
02:00:16,910 --> 02:00:17,611
- We'll find out later.
2128
02:00:17,644 --> 02:00:18,512
- Okay.
2129
02:00:18,545 --> 02:00:19,646
I was just curious.
2130
02:00:19,680 --> 02:00:22,516
- I mean it doesn'thave a lock on it.
2131
02:00:22,549 --> 02:00:30,549
It only takes asecond to open it.
2132
02:00:30,891 --> 02:00:34,328
- The members of banai
israelsynagogue have collected
2133
02:00:34,361 --> 02:00:38,465
this money so that you
can visitthe land of Israel
2134
02:00:38,499 --> 02:00:41,568
with your uncle sydneyand aunt Jackie.
2135
02:00:41,602 --> 02:00:45,672
I know you will appreciate
itmore than many girls your age.
2136
02:00:45,706 --> 02:00:50,444
Love, your familyat banai Israel.
2137
02:00:50,477 --> 02:00:55,649
Look at all those zeros!
2138
02:00:55,682 --> 02:00:58,619
- We've never been to Israel.
2139
02:00:58,652 --> 02:01:01,922
I can't believe we're going.
2140
02:01:01,955 --> 02:01:03,424
It's a blessing.
2141
02:01:03,457 --> 02:01:10,597
I can't believe it!
2142
02:01:10,631 --> 02:01:16,903
- Honey, we need to go.
2143
02:01:30,351 --> 02:01:33,520
- I love you, daddy.
2144
02:01:33,554 --> 02:01:36,590
I miss you so much.
2145
02:01:36,623 --> 02:01:41,027
- Honey, we can stayas long as you want.
2146
02:01:54,675 --> 02:01:59,245
- I guess we can go now.
2147
02:01:59,279 --> 02:02:01,848
I'm glad we came.
2148
02:02:01,882 --> 02:02:03,550
Can we come back?
2149
02:02:03,584 --> 02:02:08,389
- Sure. any time.
2150
02:02:14,327 --> 02:02:16,530
- I'll catch up in a minute.
2151
02:02:16,563 --> 02:02:18,399
- Okay. don't be long.
2152
02:02:18,432 --> 02:02:23,737
We're going to head back now.
2153
02:02:28,308 --> 02:02:32,345
- well, Marty, we took her in.
2154
02:02:32,379 --> 02:02:34,881
Just like you asked.
2155
02:02:34,915 --> 02:02:40,086
And I must say it'sbeen a pleasure.
2156
02:02:40,120 --> 02:02:42,456
She's great, Marty.
2157
02:02:42,489 --> 02:02:45,459
Thank you for everythingyou taught her.
2158
02:02:45,492 --> 02:02:50,831
And I mean everything.
2159
02:02:50,864 --> 02:02:54,167
I promise to takegood care of her.
2160
02:02:54,200 --> 02:02:58,071
You have my word.
2161
02:02:58,104 --> 02:03:05,746
It won't beso long this time.
2162
02:03:05,779 --> 02:03:13,779
I won't forget you or
whatyou did for our daughter.
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