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it's good you're making a lot of progress i remember the last time i

massaged you you helped me way too much you resisted to put the other arm down

just doing what i'm telling you i love it hello everybody welcome to this

beautiful space and beautiful people i'm here with today one thing i've been

struggling with over the past few years is touch particularly like initiating

touch so

I have reached out to the wonderful Zora, who is, I would put you as a

master of touch.

I take the master thing.

Yeah. If you haven't seen, Zora and I did a video.

Or you want to experiment like, oh, this is beautiful. Go on forever.

Just let me know. And then we're just going to enjoy it. And it made me feel

more comfortable with like being touched and also touching.

woman. Today I wanted to kind of have my own part too because I really would love

to learn more skills and just have more confidence in when I start touching

people that I can kind of read their body language I kind of know what I'm

doing a bit more and I think that will hopefully create some more opportunities

to get intimate let's put it like that but also just have the kind of affection

and the loving touch that I think everybody really wants in their life so

today we're going to be doing a massage with where you're massaging me first and

then we're going to do a massage kind of together with Hannah as the guinea pig

as my guinea pig today so please watch along and enjoy the journey and

hopefully you can learn some things as well

okay yes so feeling good yes a little bit better now remember to give

up completely as much as you feel good with and yeah if something feels nice

always feel free to be like oh yeah this is lovely or just like to breathe out or

also just close your eyes and enjoy whatever feels good for you

and your head was fine yeah yeah okay

i

really like to start the massage with like being really close like a

lot of like body to body which might feel weird in the beginning because it's

it's just like maybe the thing where you're like oh i don't know if it's okay

to touch here and there but then if it's so much like exposure and like so much

touch already i feel like it's a lot in the beginning but usually it takes like

the anxiety away

it's

a good moment to start when you're breathing together

Like you stiffen both parts of your neck.

Yes, this is perfect. Thank you so much.

and if you feel like something is really stiff you can just like massage it a

little bit longer until it feels just slightly softer what i'm trying

i feel like it

also helps when there's like a part like here or here even if you

already feel it and sense it just start really soft

because i feel like sometimes people they figure out where it hurts and then

they just like put a lot of pressure there already i feel like first your

body needs to feel good maybe

just a little bit your hands

it's good you're making a lot of progress i remember the last

time i massaged you you helped me way too much you resisted to put the other

arm down just doing what i'm telling you i love it

Maybe you can take me through the process of how to check in with somebody

before a massage because I think that would help me a lot in communicating in

my personal life as well. Yeah.

Is there like a part of your body where you would really

enjoy to be touched and also at the same time is there a part of your body where

you... prefer not to be touched as much or just maybe not today or in general

maybe I enjoy my

back in general it's always a nice place I like kind of also tickling moves but

I think I love my legs to be touched my thighs like I think that's like also

like big kind of squeezes like strong moves oh that's so nice

it always helps me when i can sense it in your body language right

and you're gonna go right feel like let it out like don't hold it back but you

also don't have to over right um do like people they open up their body or they

close it and so you will sense it yeah but it's still good to know

Sometimes you have a lot of clothes now, but sometimes I like to go a little bit

more messy.

Give me all your weight.

Don't help me.

Never help me.

I would say like now you're like Memo over there.

Maybe this is a good position to turn around and we do the other

side. Yeah, just for a little second. It would be good.

Touch your neck a little bit.

If it's gonna be too much, you just let me know, okay?

Can I

turn

it?

something so magical

thanks

for your trust again it was really amazing usually

this is the part where you're like relaxed for like five minutes but you're

also welcome to come back to life

like thinking about wow that technique feels really nice i want to i want to do

that let it go and remembering at the same time yes that part was a bit hard

but it was really nice

Yeah, I feel like we should just do that more often in general and you can let

the community know you want it more often and then all the massages get

longer and more essential.

Yes, and then you can actually let go and learn another time. That's true.

I think I have to stop doing it all at the same time. Yes, yes.

Alright, let's have a little tea and then go back to the next part.

Yeah, it's your turn.

Lovely.