Original subtitles

- [Jasmine speaking] - Uh-huh.

[Jasmine speaking]

[Gino speaking]

Jasmine is my soul mate,

and I haven't even met her yet.

But to be honest, she's out of my league.

[Jasmine speaking]

- Shots fired. - [Jasmine laughs]

I kinda have a wild side

and now I'm flying to Tunisia

to marry someone I've never met in person.

[upbeat music playing]

Alina and I have a deep connection,

but I'm worried what other people would say

is the massive difference between us.

[woman speaking]

[woman in foreign language]

I'm so excited for him to get here

but I am a little worried that Johnny

may not like me when he sees me in person.

[in foreign language]

[in foreign language]

I flew halfway across the road

to meet the man of my dreams.

I messaged him and he messaged me back

and I was like, oh my God. And that's how I fell in love

with international superstar Usman aka Sojaboy.

Oh my God, it's you.

- [in Spanish] - [in Spanish]

I've spent 34 years

looking for the love of my life.

And I've found that in Ximena.

There's nothing that's gonna stop me

from proposing on this trip.

[in Spanish]

[Gino] There's a lot you don't know about a person

if you've only been speaking online.

[Jasmine] What's the password?

What's the password?

[Jasmine] Give me your password.

I want to talk about prenuptial agreement.

[in Arabic]

If you do not sign, I do not want to marry you.

[Caleb speaking]

[Alina] I'm scared he's gonna see me

in the wheelchair.

He's gonna go ew.

Why would you bring me here, shoot a video

about another woman?

Oh, is it funny?

[Kim] [bleep] funny too? [bleep]

Were you texting with her?

Yes or no?

I think I made a big mistake.

I tell you...

[dramatic music playing]

[in Spanish]

[Mike speaking] [bleep]

I thought it was real.

It's like a switch changed.

[Mike speaking]

[dramatic music playing]

I'm Caleb. I'm 28 years old

and I'm from Chandler, Arizona.

I've always been an adventurous person

and I live a pretty hyperactive lifestyle.

I also love to travel.

I lived in New Zealand for a year.

I lived in Thailand for a while.

But being on the road

can leave me alone for bouts of time.

[Caleb speaking]

So I meditate as much as I can.

I'm a very spiritual person.

I like to see how it can guide me and open me up

to new awarenesses in life.

After meditating for a long time,

you have these moments

where you almost come out of body

and I could look down

and see all my narratives,

my mental constructs.

It almost felt like I was an alien

assuming the body of Caleb.

Sorry, that sounded extremely stupid.

[jazz music playing]

Meditation also opened me up to ideas like magic

and things like the Tarot.

Okay, so looking this over,

I see a couple cards that

throw me for a loop.

The Hermit represents sort of that individual life.

It could be seen as,

that I'm gonna give up my bachelor life,

and that would be a big change for me.

When it comes to dating,

I guess I get around a lot.

I mean, I feel like I can get sex anywhere.

I love women. And I love to have a little fun.

You know what I mean?

But I wouldn't say I've been

in a long term relationship before.

I'm totally open to it.

But I feel like I just hadn't found

the right person to settle down with

until Alina.

[upbeat music playing]

[Caleb] Alina is from Russia.

She's 27 and extremely beautiful.

Alina and I have been together

for about a year and a half now.

But we've known each other for almost half our lives.

I met Alina about 13 years ago on social media

when I was around 15 years old.

And we started chatting like we were best friends,

talking about just random things kids do.

But after a few years of online friendship,

we lost touch with each other.

Fast forward over the next several years,

I was gonna go to Russia

and I hopped on a Russian dating platform

to see who I could meet.

And there was Alina, it was the biggest

small world experience.

[Caleb speaking]

And I never actually made it out there.

But we kept talking more and more.

And I realized that we had something special.

She's saying, "Darling, I really miss you.

It's strange because we haven't even met,

but you're such a major part of my life right now.

It's quite hard not having you around."

I don't wanna wait any longer to find out

if Alina's and my connection is real in person,

but with COVID, the borders of Russia are closed.

So we're gonna meet in Turkey

and spend two weeks together.

So be prepared, okay?

Alina and I have a deep emotional connection,

which makes it easy to look past,

well, what other people would say

is a massive difference between us.

[upbeat music playing]

[in Russian]

[woman speaking]

[Asya in Russian]

[woman] Wow.

[woman in Russian]

[Elijah speaking]

[Alina speaking]

[upbeat music playing]

- [Elijah speaking] - Yes.

Yes, I am.

I'm Alina. I'm 27 years old

and I'm from St. Petersburg, Russia.

I'm a pretty active, energetic, and fun person.

Recently, I got very interested in burlesque

because it shows that in different body,

you can still feel beautiful.

[in Russian]

- [Elijah] She's a model now. - [Asya in Russian]

[in Russian]

My condition is called diastrophic dysplasia.

It's a form of dwarfism.

It's rare and it affects everybody differently.

For a child to be born with this type of dwarfism,

both parents have to be carriers of the gene.

It can affect your joints

and of course your stature.

[Asya speaking]

My hands and my feet look pretty different, too,

but I don't think disability is a problem.

In many areas of my life,

I tried to do everything really.

[Alina speaking]

[Alina] Which consists of my friends

Asya and Elijah, my friend who I live with.

[bleep]

[bleep]

[Alina] I love singing.

When the music goes on,

I feel like I can take on the world.

- [Elijah speaking] - [Alina] Hi.

[Alina in Russian]

I'm pretty comfortable in my body.

I've already accepted the fact that

I don't look like everyone else

and I'm just trying to rock what I have.

[Alina in Russian]

But there are things that are hard to do.

Awesome.

[in Russian]

With my hands, sometimes it's a bit hard

to do some things

because my fingers don't really bend.

And I can't walk a lot,

so I use a wheelchair for longer distances.

When it comes to dating, and me being a little person,

there also have been some challenges.

But I've never dated a little person.

I don't know why,

but I really like tall guys.

But in Russia, a lot of people,

they don't take me seriously.

They don't treat me as an equal person.

Caleb and I met on social media

when we were teenagers, and I was so excited

to just add random people

to practice my English

and Caleb was one of them.

He is handsome.

[Alina speaking]

He, like, tries to cheer me up

if I'm not having a good day.

Sometimes I send him my pictures,

and he's like "You're a queen."

I'm like, yes.

It doesn't bother him

that I'm a little person.

And I really love that about him.

I really cannot wait to see

how he really is in real life,

and to touch him

and get to know each other for real.

I just want someone to be serious about me

and be a good partner,

supporting each other no matter what.

And I think Caleb could really be the one.

[Alina speaking]

I think we have

a really strong connection online,

but I'm very worried about

how Caleb is gonna see me.

He's never been with a little person before

and he hasn't seen how I walk.

And I don't know what he will think about it.

It's not a confident

to walk on the runway kind of thing.

I don't... I don't like how it looks.

Maybe he will be overwhelmed.

So I'm really scared about that.

[whimsical music playing]

I can't stand for my pictures and everything to be dirty,

it drives me absolutely crazy.

This sculpture right here gets so dirty if I clean it,

but I messed up the leg, so I don't like to

mess with it too often.

I'm Kim. I'm 50 years old.

I'm from San Diego, California.

I've been a fan of Michael Jackson

since I was 13 years old.

Michael Jackson's talent was perfection.

And I respect that so much. And he was cute.

He was a little cute.

My best friends would describe me

as maybe a little bit crazy, just a little bit.

And on this wall and everything

is my Michael Jackson collection.

This is an original fedora.

I hardly ever take it out.

It has his autograph on it,

so all my love, Michael Jackson.

And it was actually one that he wore.

Right now it's worth like $8,000, $9,000.

You know, it's like I feel... I feel like

I own a piece of him.

And I was like looking to see if, like, one of his

little Jheri curls,

some makeup, something, you know,

it's exciting.

I am fiercely loyal.

I pride myself for that.

And this tattoo I have on my arm.

It's a fedora and a glove

from when he did Billie Jean

and then I call him my Mikey.

So it's my Mikey and my handwriting

and then just the music clef with a heart.

I love it.

How are you feeling today, good?

[Sally] No, I feel okay.

Here you go.

Do you have any laundry you need me to do?

Yeah, this...

No, I'm just kidding.

I live at home with my mother

because I'm her primary caregiver.

Well, I'm gonna wash this stuff, okay?

[Sally] Yeah, thank you.

She has rheumatoid arthritis in her hips,

and it has caused her to not be mobile.

So I pretty much do everything for her.

I love it when you're domesticated.

[laughs] Domesticated.

[Kim] My mother is my best friend.

I love her to death.

I would lay down in the street and die

for two people in my life.

And that is my mother and my son Jamal.

- [Jamal speaking] - [Kim] Hey, how are you?

You look very handsome today.

I know but it's because I...

- it's because I love you. - [Jamal speaking]

It's never gonna change.

You're always gonna be my baby.

You know that, right?

I have a son.

He's 25 years old.

And he is amazing.

He is my biggest accomplishment

and is the best thing that came out

of my marriage to my ex-husband.

After 20 years with Jamal's father,

I found out he was cheating.

I don't even know which one to pick from

because there was so many.

Having been so loyal to somebody

that didn't reciprocate, that to me

was a very hurtful thing.

And it's pretty much been years of nonstop bad luck

ever since,

but my love life is actually

making me pretty happy right now.

♪ Girl you got that Fire, fire ♪

♪ Me I no go mind ♪

♪ To ask would you be My lover lover ♪

I found the love with this wonderful, amazing man.

♪ You be my woman woman ♪

♪ My lover lover ♪

♪ If loving you is a crime Then jail me for life ♪

He's a singer/rapper from Nigeria.

And I swear I have never been so happy.

He has completely changed my life.

I am listening to Usman Umar aka "Sojaboy".

♪ Girl I want you In my life ♪

♪ Girl, I want you In my life ♪

♪ Girl, I want you by my side ♪

♪ Girl, I want you In my life ♪

I think Usman is very, very talented.

Would I put him in the same category as Michael Jackson?

Hmm, not yet.

Not yet.

It's the craziest thing to think that

I would fall in love with like a singer/rapper guy,

because I am so, like, normal.

And also he's 32 years old.

That's a pretty big age gap right there.

I may act like I'm 12 on the inside,

but my body is 50, honey.

Like can I keep up with him?

Milk does a body good but only for so long.

I actually met him on social media.

I messaged him and told him I was a fan.

He messaged me back and I was like, "Oh my God,

he messaged me, like what is this?"

And we ended up talking for like three hours.

We've developed a very, very,

very close friendship since then.

And now Usman and I have been talking

for almost a year every single day.

It went from like once a week, twice a week,

three times a week to every single day,

and it happened pretty quick.

[singing]

We started out as friends, but my feelings for him

quickly turned into something more.

I'm very attracted to Usman.

He's got the best smile

I think I've ever seen on anybody.

When he smiles, I get this glow.

I just... Look at me right now, right?

He makes me feel very special,

like he'll call me and be like, oh, you know,

you look really beautiful today or, you know,

oh, I called you because, you know,

I was thinking about you, just wanted to make you happy

and make you smile because he knows it does that, you know.

I feel so much emotion when I talk about it,

I mean, it just makes me so happy

and I haven't been happy with a man in so long.

He makes me feel so loved.

The last couple of months, we've gotten so much closer.

So we finally decided

enough with the phone calls, enough with the video text.

It is time for us to meet in person.

He's from Nigeria,

but he's shooting a music video in Tanzania

for his song Zara.

So Usman has invited me to Tanzania.

Yes.

We're gonna spend two weeks there together.

I'm leaving in a couple of days

and I am beyond excited.

You know, we're dating and we're gonna see

what happens and see how much further

we're gonna carry this, so...

I consider us dating.

I don't know what he considers it.

Right now, Usman calls me his potential girlfriend

only because of the experiences

with his ex-wife.

She was also an American

that he met online

and she hurt him terribly.

So Usman is hesitant about getting into

another relationship with an older American woman

unless we meet in person first.

That's why this trip to Tanzania is so important

because I need to prove that I am the woman for him.

I'm not her and I am a thousand times better

than her and I'm doing this

because I'm following my heart.

And he knows that I'm a hundred percent loyal,

I'm a hundred percent loyal, and I'm not crazy.

At the end of the day, it's a relationship for me

and it's my happiness as well as his.

And I know that I can make him happy, I know that.

But I'm fearful of my heart being broken.

And it might but I have to take this chance.

I have to.

[upbeat music playing]

I bought a flight to see Jasmine,

the love of my life, but it's been a few years

since I've been with a woman sexually.

These are the little blue pills.

I've already trialed these.

You ready for shower?

The physical chemistry that Hamza and I have

is just unbelievable.

But we have a language barrier.

But the only word we can understand of each other

is "sexy time".

[upbeat music playing]

Hello, hi.

See what we got over here.

Toothpaste.

Oh, travel size, I probably need some of that.

Okay.

Sir, do you mind if I ask you some questions?

[man] Sure. No problem.

When you come to this pharmacy,

questions are free.

- I'm traveling to Panama. - Okay.

Do you by chance know if there's any kind of things

- I should take? - Sure.

Let me show you some stuff.

Sure. Yeah.

I'm Gino. I'm 51 years young.

And I live in Canton, Michigan.

[man] You're gonna need alcohol wipes.

- [Gino] Okay. - Definitely some Imodium,

you know, that helps for the...

for the diarrhea.

Oh, okay.

I don't travel too often these days.

So I'm looking to stock up on essential items,

because I'm about to embark on a very special trip.

[Gino speaking]

Let me take you to some romantic stuff.

[Gino] Okay.

This is pretty good.

[Gino] What is this for?

This is a lubricant

if you're having sex.

- Oh, is that what... Okay. - Yeah.

[Gino speaking]

Oh, have you ever had like cinnamon on your tongue

- you feel like warm? - [Gino] Oh, yeah.

You're gonna feel warm when you put it on.

Okay. Well, maybe I'll do the other one then.

[man] Yeah.

[Gino speaking]

Normally, I'm a creature of habit.

I like thinking things through before something happens,

you know what I'm saying?

Okay.

I really don't live a flashy lifestyle.

I'm pretty conservative and stuff.

I'm someone who enjoys the simple pleasures of life.

Yeah, baby.

I'm used to living on my own.

But it hasn't always been this way.

I've had a couple serious relationships in the past.

My ex-wife is from Sao Paulo, Brazil.

I worked in Brazil for six months as an engineer.

We met around at that time

and we knew we were in love

and we wanted to be together.

And so I brought her to United States on a K-1 visa.

But we lost that spark after seven years of marriage.

And then we mutually agreed to file for divorce.

Going through a divorce was very difficult

and I did lose some hope that, you know,

"Hey, am I ever gonna find

that right person to start a family?"

It's good stuff.

But then earlier this year,

I decided to look internationally

on a dating site for love

because I wasn't having much luck locally

and that's how I met my girlfriend Jasmine,

the love of my life.

[mellow music playing]

Jasmine is 34 and she lives in Panama City.

She's an American Lit teacher

and she's one of the smartest girls

I've ever been with.

I got feelings for her right away,

you know, like on the first day that we spoke.

I wish you were here, baby. Good morning.

[Gino] She's got the best personality,

funny, caring,

intelligent.

She's just the ultimate girl.

[producer speaking]

[laughs]

Yeah.

She's a beautiful face, beautiful eyes,

beautiful butt,

you know, hips, you name it.

And to be honest, she's out of my league,

but, you know, we've been talking for nine months

and she's like I think my soulmate

and I haven't even met her yet.

I can't wait any longer,

so I bought a flight to see Jasmine next week

over Christmas and New Year's

and I hope to return back to Michigan engaged.

[Gino speaking]

Oh, wait.

My secret stash.

Ta-da.

[Gino speaking]

[producer speaking]

Online.

This stuff is good.

I'm telling you, man,

gives you that extra pop and good times, good times.

Jasmine is a very sexual person it seems.

[producer speaking]

[laughs]

We have shown each other naked on video

and talked about the first night together.

I've already trialed these, so I know they work.

[laughs]

Like, wow, man.

I mean, this stuff works, it's good.

[laughs]

It's been a few years

since I've been with a woman sexually

and she is 17 years younger than me.

So when I'm in Panama,

I just wanna make sure I can keep up, you know.

I'm so excited to meet Jasmine finally

that I'm kind of disappointed

that I'm gonna miss my family this Christmas.

[doorbell rings]

Hello.

Hey, Merry Christmas.

[in foreign language]

So my sister in-law and brother are coming over

and we're gonna exchange gifts.

A little something for you.

Oh, my God, what a beautiful table.

I'm about one year and three months older than Gino.

Yeah, we're pretty close, you know,

he's been going down to see Jasmine.

Yeah, we're a... we're a little concerned.

So you're nervous about going to Panama and meeting or...

Not really because, you know, like,

I've been talking to this girl for nine months now.

Did she see you without your hat?

Did she check out your hair follicles?

[laughs]

[producer speaking]

No, I'm not gonna show you.

[laughs]

I started wearing a hat.

I don't know how many years ago

because I have lost my hair over time.

And when I don't have a hat on,

I feel like I'm naked or something.

Does she know about the bald head?

Uh, she does.

I think we have such a good bonding connection,

you know, that the looks is like not such a big deal.

Jasmine knows about my hair and stuff

or the hair I don't have.

But in video chat, you know,

I always have my hat

because I prefer how I look with the hat on.

So I'm packing three of my favorite hats

and I've already told her,

I'll be wearing my hat

always except when I'm sleeping.

So we're gonna be together 24/7

and then very likely I'm gonna propose to her

and I know she wants to be with me,

you know, because she wants to have a couple kids

and I agreed to it

because I would like to have a couple kids too.

Okay.

So...

[Lauri] I mean, you don't want to get her pregnant right away, right?

[Gino] I'm hoping that it happens

on this trip with Jasmine.

I'm ready for it.

[producer speaking]

No.

[laughs]

You know, he's pretty smart

and I think he's got the one,

but I mean, when you start

talking about making little babies.

[Lauri] At the age he's at

and they haven't even met each other,

I just don't know what her plan is.

I'm a little concerned about that.

Well, I don't know. It's just crazy.

She's never even seen the back of your head.

She's never even held your hand.

You never held her hand.

You're not sure what you're...

- What you're walking into. - Yeah.

I can understand my family's concerns

about me meeting Jasmine

and that we want to have kids

because there's a lot you don't know about a person

if you've only been speaking to them online.

But at 51 years old,

I don't wanna pass up what could be my last shot

at true love and a family.

[in Russian]

My relationship with my parents is pretty good,

but they worry about me a lot.

[in Russian]

[in Russian]

[upbeat music playing]

- [in Russian] - [in Russian]

In a few days, I will be traveling to Turkey

to finally meet Caleb in person.

And I wanted to visit my parents

to see them before my trip.

[in Russian]

[in Russian]

[in Russian]

It just seems very surreal to me.

I can't believe it's been 13 years

since we've known each other

and now it's the time that we are finally going to meet.

- [in Russian] - Hi.

[in Russian]

My relationship with my parents is pretty good.

But they still think I'm their little girl which needs help

and they try to take care of me.

[in Russian]

[in Russian]

I have a sister who is average height

and they treat her like a kid too.

[in Russian]

But they worry about me a lot more,

so I haven't told them everything

about me going to Turkey to meet Caleb.

But now as I'm leaving soon, I think I should tell them.

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[Alina speaking]

I kind of fell for him really hard and then he left.

Eventually I had an opportunity

to go to South Africa, I went.

But then we never happened to meet again.

He always gave me a lot of excuses why he can't,

how he's so busy and a lot of [bleep]

and it took me a long time to completely recover from that.

[in Russian]

[in Russian]

[in Russian]

[Alina speaking]

I hope that this trip with Caleb is gonna go great

because I've invested a lot of emotions

and a lot... a lot of time in this.

We have this 13-year-old friendship

and I'm scared that we can lose this

very, very special connection that we have now.

And if that happens, I'll be heartbroken.

I'm gonna go down there for a week

and then we get married the second week.

See, I still think that's too fast.

People do think that it's crazy that

we're just going to go straight to getting married,

but I don't care.

What are you gonna do if your personalities don't mix?

Oh, they are.

- We're just looking out for you, sweetheart. - Yeah.

[upbeat music playing]

I want some stuff that he ain't never seen before.

Oh, isn't that nice.

And your booty will pop in it too.

My booty will...

Oh, yes.

[Memphis speaking]

[Kesha speaking]

Knock him dead.

My name is Memphis.

I'm 34 and I live in Muskegon, Michigan.

Are you guys ready?

- We are. - We are ready.

[Kesha] Oh, my God.

Smack.

That's sexy.

[Kesha] I love it.

It is so cute, it is so you.

I would describe myself as spontaneous, fun.

I mean, it makes my booty look good, right?

- [Kristie] Do you like it? - [Memphis] I do, yeah.

[laughing]

I've been single for about four years now.

And during this time, I dated around quite a bit.

I kind of had a wild side to me.

But I decided to put that lifestyle behind me

because I met a special someone.

Bring some more ass out here please.

[laughing]

I'm trying to hold this one because...

[Kesha] You need a damn whip.

- Uh-uh. - You need a whip.

Yeah, you better get that whip.

But I can't zip it up because my boobs are too big.

And it looks like you got dental floss

up your but crack.

[laughs]

[Memphis speaking]

[Kesha] I like that look.

Okay.

Yes.

[Kennedi speaking]

Please?

Please.

I don't know. Did you do your chores?

I think I did your chores today.

I didn't mean to. I was...

What about the toilet?

I did the toilet, remember?

What about the floor, all your hair on there?

If you want something, you got to give

something in return baby.

[laughing]

I'm a single mom raising two beautiful kids.

I have a 13-year-old daughter from a relationship

I was in fourteen years ago.

And I share custody with my ex-husband

of my six-year-old son.

After my divorce,

I learned how to be a more self-sufficient woman

so that I could support my children.

I put myself through school for over eight years.

I graduated with my masters.

And I just got a new job as a nurse practitioner.

Being an independent woman,

I'm proud of the life that I've already built,

but, you know, it would be very nice

to share it with a partner.

- You want me to throw it away? - Yeah.

I tried online dating with American men

and it just wasn't working out for me.

So eight months ago,

I tried an international dating app.

And that is how I met the love of my life, Hamza.

Hamza is 28 and he is from Tunisia.

When Hamza first messaged me, I was instantly attracted.

He has these beautiful voluptuous lips

and it doesn't hurt that he has a nice body too.

I love the way he talks to me,

the way that he messages.

He gives me these butterflies I had never felt before.

[Memphis] He's very considerate.

He tells me where he is going.

Every morning, I've gotten

good morning text messages, I love you.

I'm just so overjoyed that someone actually cares for me

as much as I care for them.

I hadn't experienced that in all my life.

That's how I knew I wanted to be with him.

Hi, baby.

You ready for shower?

[Hamza speaking]

I'm getting in the shower.

Do you want sexy time?

Oh, la, la.

Yeah.

The physical chemistry that Hamza and I have

when we're video chatting is just, like, unbelievable.

The only problem is we have a language barrier

and sometimes it's difficult to know

what each other is saying.

He speaks just a little bit of English

and I don't speak any Arabic.

[Memphis speaking]

[Hamza speaking]

About the only word we could understand

of each other is "sexy time".

And next week when I fly to Tunisia,

we will be taking sexy time to a whole new level.

[upbeat music playing]

Toast to new beginnings.

To new beginnings.

I am truly in love with Hamza.

So when I get to Tunisia,

we are not going to get engaged.

We're just gonna go straight to getting married.

I got me a cute one.

He's get great teeth.

Oh, my gosh.

It's gonna be so great.

Teeth and lips are like my thing.

What are you gonna do if your personalities don't mix?

- Oh, they are. - [Kristie] No, when you're in person.

- It could be different. - It is.

Well, that's why I'm not gonna marry him right off.

I'm gonna go down there for a weekend,

then we get married the second week

and then we have, like, a honeymoon season

for the third week.

See, I still think that's too fast.

[Memphis] People do think that it's crazy.

I want to marry someone

I have never met,

but I don't care.

Hamza, he always puts me first,

unlike my past relationships

and that's what I've always loved about him.

So why would I wait any longer to marry him?

Plus, by going straight to the spousal visa

and skipping the K-1 Visa,

I think that the process of getting him to the US

will go a little bit smoother.

I love you,

but I also want you

to take a better look at the whole picture.

Like, how do you know if he's not wanting

to come over here for a green card.

That's what scares me the most.

I just don't believe that that's so.

You know, he makes me happy, you know,

he makes me excited to, like,

start a new life with him, you know, a better life.

If it's different, I don't want you to be heartbroken.

This is my thing.

I'm 34 years old, you know what I mean?

I've tried all different flavors of men.

White to Black to Mexican and American men.

They can't even keep up

a good morning text for a month.

With Hamza, I love the consistency

that he has with me that I'd...

I have not experienced with anyone else.

[mellow music playing]

[producer speaking]

Never.

But I think for Memphis,

there's an empty piece in her heart

that's missing and when her mind

and her heart is set up on something,

she reaches out and goes for it without even thinking.

It makes me very nervous.

This could really hurt her bad if it doesn't work out.

We're just looking out for you, sweetheart.

Yeah, but you have to see the whole picture.

- You have to. - [Memphis] I do,

I do, but it's like I'm gonna do

- what I wanna do regardless. - [Kesha] Yeah.

Because I feel like this is right in my gut

and in my heart.

Yeah, I just got a carry-out

for fish and chips.

Jasmine likes to know every time I go out.

Let me see.

How you doing?

And what's your name?

- I'm Brittany. - Okay.

But sometimes Jasmine can get really jealous.

[Jasmine speaking]

- Yeah. - [Jasmine speaking]

I just don't want you to be hurt.

- [Sally speaking] - Wow.

I believe like love is love, you know,

I mean, when is it my turn?

[Sally speaking]

It's gonna kill her.

It's gonna kill her.

[dramatic music playing]

[Gino] Oh, yeah.

Hmm, fish and chips.

That sounds like a good one.

In just five days, I'm going to Panama

to see the love of my life Jasmine,

for the very first time.

I'm so excited.

Can I get an order your fish and chips?

- [man speaking] - [Gino] And, uh...

cheesecake, gotta get dessert.

I think Jasmine's the one, no doubt about it.

But we do have different lifestyle, habits.

[man speaking]

[Gino] Hmm.

Um, maybe the raspberry.

That sounds really good to me.

Jasmine does not like how I eat.

She is a vegetarian and she's very fit

and I eat, you know, anything.

Now Jasmine just text me while I was on the phone.

Uh, I'll call her now.

Hola.

[Jasmine speaking]

I just ordered some food and I'm gonna go pick it up.

[Jasmine speaking]

Yeah.

I know the routine.

Okay.

Jasmine likes to know every time I go out,

uh, from my home.

I let her know, you know, "Hey, I'm going at this time

and this is where I'm going."

I don't know if she's joking or not,

but she says "Evidence, report."

So usually when I go out,

I'll send her a screenshot to check in with her

because she wants to know where I'm at, at all times.

Hey, I just made it to the restaurant.

All right. Perfect.

Sometimes I wonder if she's concerned about me

meeting other women or is it, you know,

that she's worried about me,

um, being out and getting home safe,

maybe it's both.

But if I don't send her text or photos,

she can really get upset.

- [Brittany] Hello. - [Gino] Hi. Yeah.

I just got a carry-out for fish and chips.

[Brittany speaking]

- [Gino] Yeah. - [Brittany speaking]

[Gino] Uh, the person serving my food.

[Jasmine] Let me see.

[Brittany] How you doing?

[Gino] And what's your first name?

- I'm Brittany. - [Gino] Brittany, okay.

Yeah. It's nice to meet you.

- Thank you. - [Brittany] Thank you.

- [Gino] Bye. - [Brittany] Bye.

[Gino] All right, baby, I'm gonna go back home.

[Jasmine speaking]

[Gino] What do you mean? I...

[Jasmine speaking]

[Gino] I'll call you later.

[Gino] Okay.

I don't know. I think Jasmine seemed

to be a little upset at me.

Apparently, she thinks I was like

a little too friendly. I don't know.

I'm just talking to her, you know.

Sometimes Jasmine can get really jealous

and that concerns me a little bit.

We had stupid arguments and, you know,

sometimes we won't talk for almost a day.

But I wanna keep her happy.

So, yeah, I'm going to call her back.

Hola.

Well?

Yeah.

[Gino] Why not say hi, it's not even...

Because, you know,

that was my first time in the restaurant.

I've never been there...

Why would I need to do that?

I have you, you're the love of my life.

Okay.

It's not... It's not...

Jasmine can be a bit jealous,

but I think the reason is because

she is truly in love with me.

So hopefully it's less of an issue

when we're together in person.

You got it.

Good job, mom. Very good job, especially,

because you haven't walked in a couple days.

- So that's really good. - God.

Kim, it's not like I'm tied up in my bed.

I do get up and walk around the house.

Okay.

In one week, I am going to meet Usman

in Tanzania for the first time.

Usman is from Nigeria,

but I'm going to meet him in Tanzania

because he's shooting his music video there.

Ever since Usman and I connected online

about 11 months ago,

I have been thinking and dreaming about that moment

that I see him in person. I get goosebumps.

Let's sit outside for a while. Okay?

All right.

I'm excited.

But I struggle with, you know, guilt.

Because even though a family friend

is going to be looking after my mom while I'm gone,

it's very, very nerve-racking for me.

This trip will be the longest I've been away from her

since I became her caregiver.

So you gotta promise me you're gonna exercise

- while I'm gone to... - I will, I will.

Promise me.

No, no, God, no, don't say that.

Jesus, don't say that.

- But you're gonna be fine. - I'll be fine.

I'm gonna miss you, you know, a lot,

but, um, I just don't want you to be hurt.

Because if it isn't, I'll go... I'll find him

and I'll beat the crap out of him.

Kimberly hasn't been just successful

in her relationships with men.

One reason I think is because...

she tries so hard to be like the perfect woman.

She wants to be everything a man needs,

that I want her to be herself when she goes over there

and stay true to herself.

[Kim] I mean...

Yeah. He's 32, I'm 50.

[Sally speaking]

No, I don't know.

[Sally speaking]

- Wow. - Sorry.

You wanted truth?

He is so much younger than her.

And she's been hurt a lot.

She puts her feelings out there on the line.

And they haven't always been reciprocated.

So what if they get over there

and there's no chemistry.

It's gonna kill her.

It's gonna kill her.

I've heard that so many times, like,

his age is such a big thing, is... If...

I believe like love is love

and you can't help who you love

and you shouldn't feel bad about who you love.

Like, I know everybody's concerned

and everybody loves me and that's all wonderful.

But I wish people would just, like, get it.

You know what I mean? Like...

- I get it. - This is my life, you know.

[Sally] I know it is, honey. I know it is.

At 50, you know, this is my... this is my final chance.

I mean, when is it my turn? You know...

- How can you choose from that? - Is it my turn now?

Yeah. I think so.

[Kim] I feel like with Usman, it's just different.

Oh, yeah, he's different all right.

Any relationship or anything...

and he makes me so happy like whenever he calls me,

it's just you know, like, ah, you know.

- [Sally] Do you trust him? - I do.

I have to trust this journey

- and I have to see it through. - [Sally] Yes.

And you can always come home early if it don't work out.

I know, I know I can.

I know I can.

I understand my mom's concerns.

And I know I'm taking a big risk

putting my heart out there like that.

But one thing I am sure of is I'm in love with this man.

And it feels pretty damn good

to do something to make Kimberly happy.

Why shouldn't I live my best life?

Why shouldn't I?

Who's to say this is not gonna be my best life?

Who's to say that?

So give me an idea though, like what type of stuff

will you need help with?

My wheelchair, like, to push me

or to, like, carry the wheelchair

[Alina speaking]

I don't know.

[upbeat music playing]

[Caleb] In less than a week,

I'm flying across the world to Turkey

to meet Alina for the very first time

in person.

I'm excited. But I'm also nervous,

because this is a unique situation for me.

I found out Alina was a little person

about 13 years ago when we met on social media.

Then at the time, it wasn't something

I really gave much thought to.

We were just friends online talking.

Over the years, we just bonded on a level

that I've never experienced before.

Just a sense of being heard and understood.

I felt like she actually knew me.

And our friendship became more romantic.

She really draws out the best in me

and inspires me to do more with my life.

And that's what I want in a partner.

And this trip is a huge next step

for our relationship

and I'm not taking it lightly.

So I need to set some positive intentions

for a successful trip.

The subconscious mind works in images

and symbols.

This image is a symbolic representation

of the word intention.

So it's really easy to have an intention

and keep it merely in language.

But by drawing an image,

which represents the intention,

we're making the mind much more permeable.

I want to connect with Alina,

and this picture holds that meaning to me.

So the focus that I'm creating here

will carry on into Turkey

and into my relationship with Alina

in a healthy, natural, cosmic way.

[dramatic music playing]

Alina sent me a message this morning saying

that there's something she needs to talk to me about.

I'm a little nervous.

I don't know what this is about.

There we go.

You look great.

How's it going, Alina?

It's cool. I mean,

I'm very excited about our trip.

It's gonna be amazing.

Well, I can't wait to get to Turkey and see you.

I just wanna pick you up,

give you a giant hug.

Well, usually no,

I don't really let people pick me up.

But you're an exception.

Excellent.

So you can, you can.

So, um, I have something to tell you.

You know, Elijah, my friend.

[Caleb] Yeah?

Yeah, so he's gonna be coming with me.

- Uh... - What do you mean?

Well, the thing is that my mom,

she's really worried about me.

She's worried that I'm going to a foreign country

meeting you, like, you're a guy from internet.

And the only way to make her, like,

feel better about this

was to bring Elijah along.

Because she really likes him and trusts him.

I live with my friend Elijah.

And I asked him if he can go with me

to make my parents feel better.

Also it could be a good thing

because I'm going to meet Caleb for the first time in my life.

So Elijah can show him how to help me

with the wheelchair and stuff.

I want your family to feel comfortable about you,

seeing me of course, but don't you think

it's gonna be weird to have Elijah there?

I'm going to meet you.

Like who's this third person?

We've talked a lot online,

but I don't feel like it's the proper time or place

for him to come, when I'm meeting Alina

for the first time of all places.

I feel like it might give a weird vibe to the trip.

Also, I think looking out for Alina should be my job.

So I feel like Elijah's kind of stepping in

where he's not needed.

You can walk, right? It's like...

I get tired very easily. I don't know.

Maybe like if I walk for five minutes,

I'll get tired and...

I'll just carry you over my shoulder

and I'll walk you through the forest.

But, I mean, like,

uh, I know you never had an experience

of dating a little person

and that's, like, probably my main concern.

So give me... Give me an idea though.

Like what type of stuff will you need help with?

Well, of course, I would need you

to help me with my wheelchair.

Like to push me or to, like,

get it out from somewhere

or maybe there are like some steps

and you have to, like, carry the wheelchair.

And another thing is I don't know how

it's gonna be in the hotel room.

Like will I... will I reach the lights?

Will I reach the hair dryer? I don't know.

I'm just a bit scared

that what if you get annoyed with it.

It's one thing to just see my face

and talk to me on the video, but it's another thing

to push my wheelchair and help me down the stairs.

I know that for people

who never encountered it in their lives,

it could be really overwhelming.

I think I know what I'm in for to some degree.

So I don't want you to worry about that.

We'll figure it out.

[Alina] Yeah, I don't wanna get my hopes up too much.

But at the same time, uh,

I think it's already too high up, my hopes,

because our relationship, it's very valuable to me.

I think it'll be a good time regardless

and we'll make the most of it no matter what.

This is a big step meeting in person

for the first time, but I'm realizing

I might have to help Alina a lot

and I just wonder what that's gonna be like,

if that's gonna be a problem that...

I can't really predict.

But I'm really hoping for the best

and, uh, our connection will only grow stronger

once we meet in person.

With Jasmine, I had to help her out

- with some money, but... - Gino.

I've helped financially for things

such as, you know, doing her lips, hair, teeth.

Has she got 10 guys that she's doing this to?

[upbeat music playing]

[Gino] Good old Canton.

Look at this beautiful place.

I'm excited to go to Panama though

[Gino speaking]

In just a few days, I'll be flying to Panama

to meet my girlfriend, Jasmine

for the first time in person finally.

And despite some concerns about her jealousy,

I still believe that Jasmine's the love of my life.

She's even told me a few times on the phone,

"Are you excited to smell what I smell like?"

Yes, of course.

I mean, I expect her to smell,

you know, wonderful, amazing.

It's gonna be great.

There you go.

Hey, Gino, what's up?

- [Gino] What's going on? - How you doing?

[Gino] Today, I'm with my Uncle Marco

and his girlfriend Sandy

and we are shooting pool

at the vintage car garage where he works.

You like this pool table?

- Yeah, isn't it beautiful? - [Marco] Isn't it cool?

[Gino] Never seen one that look like a car.

[Marco] Yeah.

[Gino] Uncle Marco and I have always been close.

But when my father passed away last Christmas,

it was very difficult.

I even grew closer to my uncle at that point.

He's like a father figure to me.

I wanna make him proud.

But I know he's worried about my trip to Panama.

When are you leaving?

- Uh, next week. - [Marco] Oh, okay.

- Are you nervous? - [Marco] Yeah, uh, yeah.

Gotta be a little nervous.

We are concerned about the whole deal

- because people wanna... - God forbid.

They just want a ticket to come over here.

It's just strange.

What if they kidnap him or something?

Yeah. What if, you know,

and they take his card and all his money?

He wakes up in a hotel room with a roofie.

His money's gone, everything's gone.

Goodbye, nice girl.

Don't yell.

Like, I know you're upset about it a little bit.

But you don't have to yell.

It's just the way I feel.

My concern, is this a scam?

If she got 10 guys that she's doing this to

- and you're all on the string? - No.

Yeah, no, I'm not worried about her.

Because, uh, you know, I...

She's emotionally in it.

I can tell talking on the phone.

You just can't lie about stuff like that.

Well, I'm concerned already.

She's just getting money from you.

You know...

Because of the pandemic,

I got laid off from my job

in automotive engineering

about seven months ago.

But since I've been smart with my savings,

I thankfully have been able to send money

to help Jasmine out.

You know, she had a rough time,

um, during the nine months we were talking

because she wasn't working.

So I had to help her out with some money.

But she's not a materialistic kind of person, you know.

I've helped for things such as, you know,

doing her lips, or maybe her eyebrows,

or maybe facial treatment?

Um, possibly her hair or her teeth.

Yeah, I've helped her out with those things.

Yeah, so what's your plan with this girl?

I mean, say it all works out.

Well, what I'm thinking is if everything goes well

when I go to Panama,

that I'm gonna propose to her in Panama. But...

Gino...

you going there and only being with her three weeks

and you wanna put a ring on it?

I feel like I really know her.

It just doesn't seem right.

What you decide what to do with your life is your life.

- [Marco] Right. - But I'm just letting

you know that we are concerned.

Yeah.

[Sandy speaking]

I probably should consider...

Not consider, you need to do it.

You'll find out what she's all about

when you mention a prenup. If she...

- Yeah. - flips out then, hey...

- No go. - no go.

I really feel in my heart that Jasmine

is not after me for my money.

And also knowing how emotional Jasmine can be,

I'm a little afraid to, uh, talk to her about a prenup.

I wouldn't want it to affect our future together.

Do you plan on getting intimate with him?

A hundred percent.

But we've decided on two separate rooms.

- Did he decide on it or did you? - It was his thing.

He's waiting to see just like how the relationship goes,

- we're gonna go with the flow. - [Vanessa speaking]

Why is it always gotta be so defensive though?

- Like, can you guys be happy for me? - Excuse me?

What's going on with you and Hamza?

You paid quite a bit out of the pocket.

I told him when you come to America,

you're getting a job.

What if that doesn't happen?

It's time for Memphis to really understand

what risk she's putting herself in.

[upbeat music playing]

I'm less than a week away from flying to Tunisia

to meet and marry my fiance Hamza.

I'm finally gonna get the chance to touch him

and kiss him and just caress him.

[knocks on door]

- Oh, hey, baby. - Hey. Hey, mom.

- [Deborah] How are you? - Oh, I'm good. How are you?

Good. Bring out the stuff for the cupcakes.

- Oh, okay. Awesome. - Yeah.

Awesome. I just got done cleaning up a little bit.

The relationship between my mother and I

has been complicated because she wasn't always there

for me when I was younger.

But we are now mending our relationship

and we are beginning to create

the mother-daughter bond that we never had.

Well, this is a delight. Mmm-hmm.

I like being able to, like, get it together.

Oh, great.

[Memphis] I want us to be closer,

so having my mother's support

in this relationship with Hamza and I

would be very important to me.

Yeah, stir that for me.

So, what's going on with you and Hamza?

[Memphis] I'm just excited to be able to just see him.

He just gives me butterflies even after all this time

that we've been messaging.

But we'll see how it works out.

You know, I have a couple of weeks.

And see if it'll be worth your money.

You know, I've been talking to lawyers

just getting some type of prices,

so I can kind of have a better idea

- of what I'm looking... - [Deborah] Well, yeah.

Towards paying for him to come here.

So you're paying quite a bit out-of-pocket.

[Memphis] Well, he's not working right now

because of the COVID.

So, like, he's been looking every day

and he can't find anything or...

I believe that Hamza may have an ulterior motive.

He could be just trying to get over to the states

with this woman who can take care of him.

It's time for her to really understand

what risk she's putting herself in.

- What does he do? - [Memphis] A lot of heating and cooling.

-So... -[Deborah] Heating and cooling.

I told him, when you come to America,

you're getting a job.

What if that doesn't happen?

- This is really gonna be... - [Memphis] It's not...

a lot on you in the long run.

On my nurse practitioner salary, like,

I can afford to take care of him for a little bit.

Okay, Memphis.

- Okay. - Yeah.

[upbeat music playing]

So let's put pajamas in one area

and count how many pajamas we have.

Two, four, six, eight, ten, eleven.

- 11? - [Deborah] Mmm-hmm.

Now, it's really getting down

to everything coming to reality.

What are your concerns? I see your face.

[laughs] Well, is he ready to be a stepdad,

you believe, with two kids he's never met?

That's a leap of faith that I'm taking.

But he's a very genuine person.

And I feel that he's everything

that I've been asking for and wanting for.

And he just really wants to, like,

make me feel very secure.

Hmm.

You know, I wonder sometimes if I'm looking for something

and someone else that I didn't have when I was younger,

feeling somewhat neglected

or not feeling secure at times.

My childhood was not stable.

When I was nine,

my mom was battling crack addiction

and my biological father was in prison,

so we did not always have a roof over our heads.

At 11, I was taken away

and I was in 12 different foster homes

until I was 19.

But the past is very difficult for my mother to talk about.

I think she feels the sense of guilt,

and so she'd rather repress those memories

because that's her coping mechanism.

[Deborah] I don't understand.

Even in my addiction, you know,

I still made sure that you had everything.

I don't think that I had everything that I needed.

I needed you and you were unavailable.

Yeah. I had... I had things going on.

I was a single mom.

Your father wasn't in the picture,

you know, and I was young.

I understand that.

Um... I just think sometimes my childhood

does play a part in how I need

to be with a man to feel secure.

I realized my decision to marry Hamza

is filling a hole in my heart that I've had my whole life.

I'm ready to have a complete family.

I just hope that for me and my kids,

the decision that I am making is the right one.

[upbeat music playing]

[singer] ♪ One last, boom ♪

In a few days, I'm going to fly

to Tanzania, Africa to meet my dream man,

Usman aka Sojaboy

for the very first time in person.

Tanzania is like a dream destination.

I think of just like lush greenery.

I think of, like, safaris,

you know, it's, like, exotic in a way.

And then, I'm meeting Sojaboy on top of that?

Like, what is my life right now?

This is crazy.

- How are you? - Good.

- Long time no see. - Good. Good to see you.

Good to see you.

Hi.

[Kim] Alyssa and Vanessa, they're my best friends,

they know me better than anybody.

They know my past, they know my family,

they know Usman. [laughs]

A little bit. [laughs] So...

[whimsical music playing]

It catches in my earring all the time though.

[Vanessa] Because you wear hoops, so...

Because I'm... You know me and my hoops.

- [laughs] - [Vanessa speaking]

- Oh, okay. - [laughter]

- Anyway, I'm glad to see you. - [Vanessa] So it's, like, you know.

- Yeah? - I'm still leaving in a couple of days.

- It's so crazy. - [Kim] Is it?

- Uh... You don't think it is? - [Kim] I think it's...

- [Alyssa] Are you not nervous? - I'm concerned that you don't think it is.

No. I'm just... I'm ready for it, you know.

I'm ready for it. I'm ready to see.

Like, what is going to happen with me and him, you know.

Mmm-hmm.

It's insane.

It's kind of like out there

because Usman started off as, like, um,

saying, "what's up" to a fan and turned into...

- [Alyssa] Kim. - Head over heels for this guy.

So what are your plans for the trip?

To meet him. I am so excited.

- Y'all have no... - You're gonna meet him, girl.

You're gonna meet him but do you plan

on getting intimate with him?

A hundred percent but he is waiting

to see just, like, how the relationship goes.

- We're gonna go with the flow. - [Vanessa] Awkward.

Hence... It is awkward. It is awkward.

- Have you not talked about it? - Yeah, we've talked about it.

- You've talked about it? So... - Yeah.

I mean, that's why we decided on two separate rooms.

I got my room. He got his room.

- You know... - Did he decide on it

or did you?

[Kim] Um, it was him.

Usman has told me that he would feel more comfortable

if he was in a separate room,

you know, until we determined,

like, what our relationship is.

Do I like it? Not really.

Not really, because I don't wanna feel,

like, I'm there by myself.

So are you just gonna throw open the door

in your night gown and just be like...

[Kim] I don't know yet. But, um, I get you.

I will bet you two money that by the end of the trip,

he will be in my room.

[Alyssa speaking]

She's a giver, she gives so much of herself.

Yeah. My biggest concern about Usman

would be that he'd just break her heart.

That he's not all-in the way she is.

He's shooting a video over there for one of his songs.

That's why I'm going, besides the relationship,

is to go and be there for his video... for his video shoot.

Like, I'm excited to see that lifestyle of his.

[Alyssa] What's it about? What's the name of the song?

- It's called Zara. - [Vanessa] Have you heard it?

I've heard it. I like the song.

You know I like all of his music, so...

[Vanessa] Zara.

I think so. Yeah.

I mean, I know it's a woman's name.

I just don't know, like, who she is or anything.

He hasn't anything about it?

[Kim] I haven't really asked.

[Alyssa] So plans for the future.

- Does he want kids? - [Kim] Of course he does.

He said it's his tradition

- and it's his culture. - [Vanessa speaking]

Hell no.

[laughter]

I did all that. Um...

Isn't that gonna be an issue then?

Um, I can't have them.

So just say we got married, just say.

I would allow him to marry a second wife and have kids.

[mellow music playing]

I don't want any more kids.

Does Usman want kids? Absolutely.

If Usman has multiple wives,

I feel like that it's okay because I love him.

It's his culture and I respect

his culture and his religion so much.

I truly mean that. I truly mean that.

I know it sounds crazy. It's a culture...

it's a cultural thing. It's not like a threesome.

- So, they'll have... - [Kim] It doesn't bother me.

- Their own relationship. - [Vanessa] I feel like

you say that now until you're actually in it.

[Kim] But I guess I wouldn't know until I'm in it.

You know, I really can't, like...

I mean, we've discussed it

and when I actually told him this, he was like,

"Wow, you're amazing." And he was like 'cause I am...

Of course, you're letting him have two women.

- A second wife. - But I'm... Well, why has it

always gotta be so defensive though?

- Can you guys be happy for me? - [Vanessa] Excuse me?

That's how I feel.

Like, I want some happiness in this for me.

And I feel like everything's so [bleep] defensive

and I have to be so defensive

and this is, like, my thing and I'm going.

And I wanna feel [bleep] good about it.

I need to walk away for a minute. [cries]

What the [bleep]?

- I understand, like... - [Alyssa] Here. Here.

- Here. - This has just been a lot.

[Alyssa] I know. I know.

No, this is a lot.

I'm sorry.

[Kim] This has been a lot, you know.

I don't know if I'm comfortable

with any of this, you know.

I really don't know.

And I'm scared... hell yes, I'm scared to death, you know?

We ask this out of concern

- but we're not... - [Alyssa] And we want it to work for you.

It doesn't mean that we're not on your team though.

[dramatic music playing]

It hurts to hear, like,

how they feel about this whole thing.

But I do understand how my friends are,

you know, telling me to be guarded

and why they're so protective

of me and my heart.

They've seen me go through certain situations

that are just not good situations.

And they're as worried as I am

that I'm gonna get hurt again.

But I'm going to meet him.

And we're gonna see what happens.

That's how I feel.

Here. I'll get this.

- No problem. - You get the big one...

It's not like me to take big risks like this.

I can't even imagine what's you're thinking right now.

How do we get along being together 24/7 in person?

I don't know.

It's starting to feel real.

Today is the big day.

[laughs]

[upbeat music playing]

[Gino speaking]

Today is the day I'm going to Panama

to meet Jasmine, the love of my life,

for the very first time.

It's the most awesome feeling ever.

[laughs]

Okay. That's when it gets exciting

when you're packing your hats.

[laughs]

[knocks on door]

- [Gino] Hey. - [Marco] Hey, what's up, Gino.

- What's going on? - What's up?

- How you doing? - Great. Great.

- How are you feeling? - Pretty excited. Yeah.

I bet.

My uncle, he offered to wake up

in the middle of the night,

basically, and drive me to the airport.

- Here. - I'll get this.

- No problem. - You get the big one.

This trip is a big deal because it's not like me

to take big risks like this.

All right, buddy.

Next stop, Panama.

Yeah.

But here I am.

I'm traveling to meet a woman

I've only known online and I'm planning

to propose to her on this trip.

Thank you for driving me.

[Marco] You bet, man.

This is crazy.

[Gino] Yeah.

[Marco] I can't even imagine

what you're thinking right now.

I mean, we've gotten along so good, you know,

on the phone, the video chat.

I'm just gonna be myself and I think, uh,

things are gonna go really good.

Well, I'm hoping the best.

I feel pretty worried because, you know,

I'm just, uh, thinking about a lot of things

that could happen to him.

Thank you so much.

[Marco] Yeah. That's no problem.

I'm a little emotional about leaving him.

His dad just passed away recently last Christmas.

So I'm uncle-dad, you know, that's my baby, man.

He is my... He's been my buddy

since he's been running around in diapers, you know.

And I worry about him.

I really do.

Thank you for driving me again.

- Yeah. You go get her, buddy. - And, uh...

You go get her. Find yourself a nice girl.

I'll call you when I get there.

- Definitely call me. - [Gino] Uh-huh.

- Bye. - [Marco] You better.

- Thanks. - [Marco] All right. God bless.

But I'm rooting for the whole thing

working out where I end up

with little Ginos running around. [laughs]

So I'm here at the airport bright and early.

Walking over, getting... Going to the gate now.

[phone rings]

[Gino speaking] What are you up to?

[Jasmine speaking]

[Gino] Yeah. I'll let you know.

Don't worry, I'll get there.

[Jasmine speaking]

Uh-huh.

[Jasmine speaking]

[laughs]

[Jasmine] Who is it?

- Me. - [Jasmine] Yes. You.

[Jasmine speaking]

- Quiet. - [laughing]

- So... - [Jasmine speaking]

I'll let you go. Okay. Baby, I love you. Bye.

All right. Love you. Bye.

[laughs]

Wow.

It's starting to feel real.

I'll be able to smell her and see her

and kiss her for the first time today.

It's a big day. Today is the big day.

[laughs]

I have no doubt that the connection Jasmine and I

have had over the last nine months

is definitely real.

But I do have some nerves seeing her, you know,

not on a video chat but in person.

[singer] ♪ You and me, We were always the dreamers ♪

You know, how do we get along being together 24/7?

Is she gonna be more jealous when I'm in person?

I don't know.

But I believe in true love.

And I think Jasmine and I have this, uh...

It's true love for her and I.

[singer] ♪ We've got to keep This dream... ♪

Jasmine, I'm coming. See you soon. [laughs]

[singer] ♪ Oh, you and me ♪

♪ Only you can lift me up ♪

[Alina] This season on Before the 90 Days.

- Are you excited? - We are excited.

[laughs]

I love you, too.

Ah, yah, yah.

I am super into everything Asian culture.

So when I saw Johnny, I was like,

"Oh, my God, jackpot."

Oh, my God. [laughs]

She is super hot.

[Jasmine speaking]

[Gino] Really? Oh my God.

First night together,

I'm gonna knock it out of the park.

[in Spanish]

[Alina] Hi.

[Caleb] I'm still gonna hug you.

You're smaller than I thought.

Is it weird for you?

It's different.

[man speaking]

If y'all planned better, because this just seems like

really [bleep] unorganized.

I'm embarrassed for him.

Usman, get your energy up.

[Usman speaking]

[in Spanish]

[man speaking]

Despite the 28-year age difference,

what I found with Mahogany is like no one else.

We have Jesus in common, so I know it'll work.

I just thought that she was gonna come.

I feel foolish.

And it just really hurts.

[Elijah speaking]

I think he means you.

I want a relationship where I can trust my partner

when she's halfway across the world.

[in Arabic]

Why? No.

I'm tired of being betrayed and I'm tired of being hurt.

Why don't you want to have sex with me though?

I don't understand.

Like this is so... this is so [bleep] crazy, honestly.

- [Usman speaking] - [Kim] Good night.

Are you coming in two weeks or not?

I wanna have my special person.

I just want him to be here.

Why is that so much to ask for?

[Jasmine speaking]

I really don't know where we go from here.

[cries]

[Jasmine speaking]