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I'm gonna show her the house what little house there is.

It's kinda scary.

The two most important people in my life,

they're not just meeting,

they're also gonna be living together.

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Bye.

He's been getting disgusting videos

from other women.

She damn near done with me over this.

All I could hope for is that she would give me a chance

to make it up to her.

Men in this region...

It's like he's leading a double life.

Even if Manuel has nothing to hide,

he sure is acting like he does.

What is this?

I have no idea what that is.

No, I'm not!

- Yes, you are! Yes! - You liar!

That's not cheating!

She dropped the phone and found

some kind of lip balm or something, I don't know,

lipstick or lip balm.

I think it was lip balm underneath my seat

when she was looking for the phone.

But that is... I was never on a date with a girl.

I never cheated on Jasmine.

I... Never with any girl in the three years

I was with Jasmine ever.

I wanna go home.

This has been a crazy ass

last couple of hours.

Jasmine won't let me explain

how that stupid lip gloss got under the seat

and how it got there.

I was never with any girl.

Yes.

-Like, please. -This is crazy.

Okay.

-Okay. -Yeah.

-Okay. -Yeah.

-I don't wanna be with you... -Yeah. Okay.

anymore. It's the best.

-That's fine. Yeah. -It's the best.

I didn't cheat on you or anything--

-You did, Gino! -I did not.

-You did! -I was never with any girl--

You did!

There's... I'm not nervous.

Just telling you there's no girls in my life

the last three years I was with you,

never cheated on you,

never been with a girl in my car, never ever.

I would never do that.

I'm in love with you. Why would I do...

I'm telling you...

I don't feel love, Gino. I don't feel love.

I don't.

I'm telling you, I would never do that to you.

I don't feel love. I don't feel love.

I don't feel love.

You have to believe me.

I have abandonment issues.

And everything comes from my dad.

Um, he abandoned me when I was three years old.

And he made sure to let my mom know that he...

had not interested on being part of my life

and that he regretted having me.

That I was a huge mistake in his life.

He really messed up my mind, the way I see myself.

Because the way I see is like

if not even my dad can love me.

Like, why any other man will love me.

And it's hard for me to trust on a man

telling me, "I love you and you're pretty

and you deserve love,"

because I never had that.

Why would you love me?

Why I deserve that if I have never had it?

Do you wanna sit in the car for a second?

-Yeah. -Come on.

Go on. Get in.

I love you and I wanna be with you.

How can I know you're telling me the truth?

-How? -Baby--

Think about it.

Think of all the times you called me on the phone.

I was always home.

I was never out with anybody.

Do you understand?

I would never cheat on you.

I'd never risk that.

I love you.

I'm telling you the truth.

I haven't spoken to Rob

since I left his apartment yesterday.

And Rob texts me and says, you know, "I miss you."

Which right now it's like...

It's difficult because it's like...

It's still the same Rob, but it's like I'm just...

I'm so upset right now.

But I tell him that, like, he can come over

and I guess we can...

We need... We need to talk.

I can't stay at some random house, you know,

I've rented forever.

Like, I need to know what I'm doing.

So, like, we need to talk.

Um, it's like, I don't know. Like when I...

when I saw this message, obviously,

it's like I feel kind of not even bad.

Maybe a bit bad 'cause it's like,

you know, it's still Rob.

See, so the thing is, I don't wanna...

I wanna do this in person.

I don't wanna talk to...

You know, about this over the phone.

But I'm not gonna go there.

I'm not going to his house right now.

'cause it's gross.

I don't wanna be in that environment,

in his dark, tiny room.

Um, so, yeah, he can come here, he can come to me.

I need to see his face too.

I need to see if he's, like, being genuine in, like,

how he's really feeling about this right now.

And he also needs to listen to me,

which I feel like over the phone sometimes

it's just not the best way.

I'm trying to figure out how to...

help her understand me

and understand her and just fix this.

I don't really know what I'm gonna say when I get there.

I just know that I have to say something

and it better be the right thing.

- Hey. - Hey.

Thank you.

It's a nice place.

Yeah.

How was... Um, how was your night without me?

Definitely helped having space from you.

Yeah.

Yeah. I imagine it did.

I just need you to know that, like,

to me, what that is, is just,

it's just bull online

It's just, like, it's like junk mail.

What I don't understand is,

you did this to me before

and you knew if you did it again,

I would leave you

and you know how much you hurt me the first time.

So I don't understand why you did it again.

I can't erase these messages or videos

and in my mind.

And I just don't think it's fair.

Now, I'm here by myself.

It's like I can't leave because where am I gonna go?

I have no one to talk to. I have no place to go.

I don't even have my own house,

I don't have friends, don't have family, I just have you.

And it's, like, I feel like you me over

and you don't respect me.

And it's, like, what do I do now with my life?

I've given it up for you.

And the one thing that I just wanted from you,

not money, not take care of me, not this,

that was literally just loyalty.

But someone loyal doesn't do this.

They just don't.

The person I've been since you touched down in LA

is a million percent committed.

Yes, it's been hard.

Trying to be with somebody from another country is hard.

It's not easy.

If you were in my life all the time,

then it would've been easier.

I'm not trying to talk to nobody else.

I'm not trying to be with nobody else.

I know... I'm not...

Look, I never said I think you're cheating in real life.

I'm saying what you've done and I've seen it has hurt me.

I'm not now accusing you of being a real life cheater.

I don't think you're out here no, great for you.

Have I not--

-But like, come on. -Have I not said I'm sorry?

I'm hurt. It hurt me.

Have I not... Have I not said I'm sorry?

- Yeah, but not genuinely. - Have I not?

Why isn't it genuine?

What part... What about it isn't genuine?

I know it hurts you. There is no way I can...

I can walk you out of being hurt.

I know you're hurt. And I am sorry.

I don't know how to make you feel...

How to make you feel better right now.

All I know is what I can do and all I can do

is just not do anything like that again.

You give me a chance, I will make it up to you

because I'm sorry.

This looks nice, right, sweetie?

He's still guarded with me about certain things.

Your personal life is private, like we are due to be married.

Now, I'm this lady that his boys have no clue

who I am.

All they know is that I took their dad away.

This is like, um, the bazaar that we went to

in Istanbul, right?

Why are you always trying to have me dress simple?

Like...

Okay.

Let's go.

No. No.

Definitely no.

This is how you want me to dress for your mom,

like very conservative?

No. It's too much.

Wait.

Are you trying to say you want me more covered than this?

You know what I like to wear.

No. Not naked.

Sexy. It's called sexy.

Big boots, yeah.

Okay.

Okay.

Big boobs.

Show me what you like.

Look. It's pink.

You like pink?

- I like pink, yes. - Yeah?

But this mandala-style pink.

Do you know that my grandmother,

she has these things on her table.

It's like for coffee and teas.

-Really? -It's doily. Yes.

Absolutely not. No, no, no.

This looks like her--

That's the national...

Okay.

Going into the store, the clothes are very basic,

boring, conservative, not my style.

I could keep going on and on

but we don't have all that time.

- Look. - No, no, no.

I think Justin would be happy

with me wearing a straightjacket.

I don't know.

When he says conservative, I think that's what he means.

I don't like any of the clothes here, honey.

I have a very special-shaped body.

But the fact that Justin's getting uncomfortable,

it makes me think how he's feeling

and maybe I should compromise my style a little bit.

This is nice. Very nice.

That is actually more my style.

I would actually do the blazer, the pink blazer.

That looks really pretty.

I will try.

- Go change. - Okay.

How is the size?

Let me put on the top right now.

I don't rush you.

This looks nice, right, sweetie?

My fiancé thinks that this is too sexy.

Do you think this is too sexy for Moldova?

Does she like...

What's she--

Okay.

I think I'm okay.

I brought some stuff.

It's a lot nicer than what you've been seeing.

I know this is a little bit revealing.

I respect you.

Okay.

I totally understand and respect

my fiancé's wishes

but he's giving me so much anxiety of how to dress.

Okay.

It's very important for Justin

to feel the support from his family,

but if someone is gonna like you,

they're just gonna like you

for who you are on the inside.

I can definitely tone it down,

but I'm not going to change who I am.

I mean, if they're gonna judge me

for the way I dress or the way I express myself,

then maybe we're just not meant to be.

I feel on the outside of his family.

It's like he purposely is trying to keep me separated.

I don't understand.

He's still guarded with me about certain things.

About like family dynamics and all that.

I feel like the woman on the side

in his life sometimes.

Like, sometimes, I just don't think he thinks about

what the shoe looks like on the other foot.

Like, now, I'm this lady

that his boys have no clue who I am.

All they know is that I took their dad away.

Like it's putting me in like the

- position ever, you know? - Yeah.

And I don't think he gets that.

Because I'm never gonna understand like--

I feel very separated

from his dynamics with his family.

They are a huge, huge part of his life,

which I love, right?

That's great.

But I feel very separated from that

and oftentimes when I'm like, "What's going on," he just...

Everything's fine.

It's... In a way.

- You feel left out? - Yes.

For example, last night, we were talking.

I was like, "You don't share big things with me."

He goes,

"Well, when I share little things with you,

you react in a way that's like this,

so why would I share big things?

He goes, "For example,

I have to send $250 to my family

at the end of the month."

And I was like, "What?

Where is this even coming from?

You're having a conversation with somebody, clearly,

that I'm not privy to."

When were you gonna talk to me about this?

You can't work,

so I am being required to do it.

So when were you going to have a conversation with me

about what it is you were promising others in my name?

I don't think I do any sort of deep,

extra aggressive questioning.

I think I wanna know the same amount of information

that anybody else would wanna know in a relationship.

-Yeah. -And I can foresee this

being an issue that only gets bigger.

Yeah. Yeah. It's not gonna go away.

No.

Both Ashley and Manuel are playing a role

in their issues.

Ashley is reactionary at times.

And with Latin men, based on some childhood stuff

and just cultural stuff, where it feels

almost like it's the mom coming in and saying like,

"I need to know everything you're doing,"

and the man being like,

"No, I'm not gonna do that. I'm not gonna let you in."

Your personal life is private.

Like I am your personal life.

I am your privacy.

We are due to be married.

I need to be involved in what's going on.

I don't think he's getting that the bad reaction

is coming from not being let in.

But moving forward, can you give him that reassurance

-that you will work on that? -Yes.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay. Awesome. Thank you so much.

Okay.

I'm supposed to be committing my whole self to this human.

Thank you.

And I'll be dammed if I'm gonna take a backseat

when you are here for me,

in my country, looking to marry me.

I get front seat.

He's gotten front seat in my life for years.

I want front seat in his.

Anali's dad has no idea that I even exist.

Okay.

No.

Surprise.

Generally speaking, me and Anali

have a pretty healthy sex life.

Every time we've been together in Peru,

it's been pretty frequent.

So the lack of intimacy is a little concerning.

I don't generally have self-confidence issues

but it makes me wonder maybe...

Did I say something? Did I do something?

Like something's different.

What is it?

Okay.

Thank you.

Okay.

There's a few things more classic Kentucky than horses.

So for Anali's first day in America, in Kentucky,

I thought there is no better thing

than to take her horseback riding.

No. No.

Okay.

-Hi. -Hello.

-Hi. -Hi. Nice to meet you.

-What's your name? -So my name's Britney.

-Nice to meet you, Britney. -This is my sister.

Hi. I'm Brooke. Nice to meet you.

-Brooke, nice to meet you. -Hi.

-Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you.

This is my fiancee from Peru, Anali.

Hi. So welcome to our ranch.

We're Stepping Stone Ranch.

We're gonna really show you how to be with a horse today.

Okay.

Okay. So we're gonna get up to this...

-Okay. -top step.

Now?

Thank you.

Okay. Just keep it like that.

Aw, thank you.

The horses are a little bit different

than the Thoroughbreds

you might associate with Kentucky.

I'm just hoping he's not too asleep.

And I haven't ridden a horse in probably 15 years,

so, at least, now I'm not gonna look so stupid.

Okay.

Yeah. Forward.

There he goes.

He knows you mean business.

Just straight. Look straight.

Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.

- Okay. - Absolutely not.

- Okay. - -Absolutely not.

No, no, no.

He's trying to show off.

-He is. -Quit showing off.

- He likes tricks. - Show off somebody else.

No.

There you go.

Aw.

Aw.

Yeah.

-Yeah. Good job. -Good job for me.

Good job for me.

-Okay. Yeah. -Yeah? Okay.

Yeah.

Okay. Yeah.

Like...

It's like... Okay.

Being in this situation is really awkward

because I can't change it.

I'm not gonna go seek him out

and try to tell him about us.

I'm gonna let her do it.

But, you know, I'm kind of hurt that

after all this time, he still doesn't know.

And if left to her own devices,

she probably would just keep this up potentially forever.

Is she hiding some type of secret?

I hope not, but I don't know.

Okay?

Kama Sutra.

These lubricants.

Initial name and your ex-wife in a heart.

I had a life before I met you.

This is still important to you?

No!

Like you don't... You have no trust in me, whatsoever.

No. Now? No.

Let's work out, Coco.

Let's work out.

The last days have been very stressful.

I've been feeling betrayed after I found the lip gloss.

I haven't forgotten about it.

It is still super fresh in my mind.

It's gonna take a while before I forgive him.

I have always...

I have always felt, in this relationship,

like I'm not quite sure about how much Gino love me.

I was thinking to myself, "Okay, Jasmine,

it might be related to the long distance.

You know, once you're living with him every day,

you know, he's gonna make you feel

like you are his priority.

You are the most important person in his life."

But I'm not feeling it.

It's just getting worse and worse and worse.

I'm questioning myself.

Did I make the right decision?

But...

I don't know.

This is from his ex-wife.

Gino's 40th birthday.

Forte. It's like strong.

It's a Portuguese word, I guess.

It has the date,

and it has a heart with a D and G.

Denise, his ex-wife.

You know, why is he saving this?

So romantic, you know?

They save... He saved the napkin.

My gosh.

And this is so romantic.

Look at this.

Aw. "To the man of my dreams."

"I love you, baby.

You make so happy.

And I'm so lucky to have you.

You turn me on in every possible way."

Wow. She's lucky.

I cannot say this about Gino.

Like, look, "Sexual positions.

Kama Sutra." What the heck?

Look at all this

and we have only practiced one.

One position.

And these lubricants,

why does he have that?

At least, they are not used. They are brand new.

He has never tried to learn Spanish.

Actually, I found in a notebook,

like he was "apparently",

I don't know, interested in Spanish.

And the only word is... In here is perras.

Bitches.

Like what the heck?

Finding all these things from other women,

it makes me very concerned

to bring my family into this house.

It just reaffirm the fact that I cannot trust on him.

When I went through his ex-wife's social media,

I screenshotted like a picture of her dog.

And it's even difficult to tell which one is Coco

and which one is her dog.

So this is Coco and this is her dog.

They are like so alike.

He's trying to replace us.

Do you feel like we are a replacement?

"No, mommy. We're not.

We're so unique and special.

And you're more beautiful than her.

Yes." Thank you, Coco.

"I love you too, Mommy." Aw.

He's so lovely. Yes, I know.

I'm sorry for the trauma.

We will both get it.

After all this.

Babe...

Look what I got.

I got some wooden steps for Coco,

so he doesn't have to jump on the bed anymore.

I got Coco some clothes too.

Cute, right?

Things have been really tense between Jasmine and I

since she found that lip gloss.

But I'm trying to move forward in our relationship,

but, you know, at the same time,

I'm really worried.

I'm still worried about her jealousy issues, to be honest.

What do you think?

You're always a giver, aren't you?

So generous and kind.

Sit there.

We need to talk.

Okay.

What is this?

That's exactly my question.

Um... this is just old stuff.

And why... What is it doing in our house

and why are you keeping it?

-Is that something-- -I'm not keeping it.

I forgot to throw it out is what--

-Forgot? -Yeah.

I can't find everything in my house.

Gino, you just open the drawer,

the closet, and it's there.

-What drawer? -The ones in our bedroom.

No.

Yes.

There shouldn't be anything in my drawers, no.

Okay. You were trying to learn Portuguese.

Yeah, but that was for my job

when I went to Brazil for the first time.

There wasn't any girl involved.

I had to learn Portuguese

'cause I was gonna be there for six months.

And when were you trying to learn Spanish, for me

or to communicate with my kids or with my family?

No. This was because I was gonna live in Brazil

for my work.

Okay. What about this napkin?

That's my 40th birthday party.

With your initial name and your ex-wife in a heart.

-So what? -And she...

I had a life before I met you.

Yes, but why are you keeping it?

I'm not saving these or anything.

I just didn't go through my whole entire house

and find every... To every corner of my house

and look for everything that I had in my past.

I'm sorry. I didn't do that.

I did not throw out everything that I find--

So it is still...

This is still important to you?

No!

All right.

Did you have fun with that?

I really believe that Jasmine is being way too harsh on me

and she's, you know, stepping over the line.

This is common for people to keep things

from their past relationships.

I mean, I'm not dating these people now.

I'm not seeing them. I'm not cheating on you.

There's no reason for you to be pissed off right now about this.

Excuse me.

Yes. It's a heart.

Whoa, whoa, whoa. Where are you going?

I don't know. Sometimes I feel like

I'm not the girl for you.

No. I don't feel like

you're sexually attracted to me.

I always... That's what it is.

You can't handle me. You can't handle me.

- Do you like them? - I do.

You know?

I like cute things and this is all...

-Yeah, it's cute. -very pretty.

Look at this.

Actually, no. This is for prostitute.

I'm serious.

No, thanks.

Why not?

It is real exciting to be taking pictures

for our engagement.

It's something that I really didn't think

we're gonna have the opportunity to do at all.

So it's really exciting.

Look. Look, how she... How happy she is.

Are you ready?

Look at you.

Is it pretty?

Cute. I'm serious.

I love it.

Wow. It's perfect.

Very cute.

- Are you ready yet? - Yup.

Wow. Cute.

Look at you.

Good. You look good.

Yeah.

So...

Wow.

-So we do this sign. -Do this.

Yeah.

This is very Korean thing.

Can you see this shape?

-Yes. It's heart. -It's a heart. Yeah.

Okay. Let's go down.

Look at those house.

I like them.

You wanna take a seat here?

Okay.

Yeah. I'm nervous. Yes.

So...

Whoa, whoa, whoa. Wait.

My God.

You will?

Yes.

Come here.

All right.

Yeah!

I just don't know... I don't know what to say.

Yeah.

Baby, are you ready?

Almost.

I mean, I got dressed already.

I know, baby. I'm just finishing the hair,

and then I'm gonna throw on my dress.

Today, I'm meeting Justin's family

and I feel nervous.

What if they act weird, you know?

It's not an easy thing to accept their son

falling in love with a trans woman

from the US, you know?

I just hope everything goes smooth.

That.

Than.

View.

How long have you been using that app

to learn English?

Eight hundred and ninety-two.

Nice.

Have they taught you the word horny?

Horny?

-Horny? Yes. -No.

You know, when your pee-pee

gets like this, you know?

Does it teach you that?

Honey.

Do you like it?

- Yeah. - Does it look presentable

for your family?

Regardless of Justin telling me to dress modest,

I have an open mind

and I'm willing to compromise

his demands or requests.

And I can do conservative

as long as it's a sexy conservative.

-Really? -Yeah.

My God. I got a compliment out of you.

Yes. Yes.

I'm nervous.

I know. I'm just a little bit nervous.

Okay.

Even if I'm still all done up,

I still look like a regular woman.

Like that's just who I am.

I don't know. I don't know.

Like, honestly,

I don't think... Like I don't know.

Sometimes I feel like I'm not the girl for you.

No. It's not just makeup. It's everything.

I noticed that the more time that I spent with Justin,

sometimes he just doesn't reassure me

with the way that I look and making me feel confident.

So, yeah, I start feeling insecure.

Maybe I feel like I'm not his cup of tea

and maybe he's with me for the wrong reasons

and maybe he thinks that that girl's attractive

and pays attention to someone else.

I don't know. I'm not him.

Honestly, I don't feel like sometimes

you're sexually attracted to me.

I don't know if it's because of me.

I don't know if it's because you're like asexual.

You're not into anybody. I don't know.

I don't know what it is. I can't figure it out.

Only you know.

Okay. Okay.

From last night, we had an amazing time together.

And then brand new day, right?

-Yes. -You're laying on your back.

-Yeah. -Okay?

And I'm just touching your chest.

-Yeah. -Not sexually.

I'm not trying to get you turned on.

I'm...

I was? I was?

-Like... -I was...

I was... I was...

I was touching your chest.

I was... Okay.

I was touching your chest.

I was touching your chest.

You can't handle me.

It's... Like that's what it is.

You can't handle me. You can't handle me

and we're not meant for each other,

so let's just leave it like that.

Have you decided on beverages?

I think we decided on everything.

Wonderful. What are we talking?

So we're gonna do a Kolsch, the Gilroy.

-Right. -We're gonna do the ceviche.

And we're gonna do the spaghetti.

- Wonderful. - Thank you.

God.

We laughed at the counseling session.

He spoke a lot.

Was very vocal and very open to receiving.

Now, he's saying he doesn't wanna go back.

I'm not liking your attitude right now.

You are being a grumpy kitty.

You are being a very grumpy kitty.

I can literally not wait until we go home

and you get in bed and you relax

because you are at a 12:00 and I need you at a 2:00.

Yes.

God.

We are in the middle of this restaurant

and you were acting like you have no sense whatsoever.

You do not speak to me like that.

No.

Okay.

I've had a few moments where I'm wondering

if this was the right move.

Yeah, I definitely have.

We've had bumps over my career,

and me identifying as a witch,

we've had bumps over sending money back.

We've had bumps over me spending money.

We've had bumps over all sorts of things.

I think the reason why we stay in this

is because we worked so hard for two plus years

to give up after 30 days,

it just can't happen.

I'm nervous about introducing

my sister Brandi to Anali.

I was wondering why there's no posting

of you on her page.

-Because of her dad. -So her dad

doesn't know that you guys are together?

No.

I don't know what her intentions are

with my brother.

Just a weird situation.

How do I know that she's just not here for a green card?

I spend the rest of my life trying to show you.

You said that first time.

The first time Rob online cheated on me,

it took over a year for me to trust him again.

And obviously, we don't have a year

this time before we get married.

It was wrong and I understand that.

It could have been a lot worse, but it wasn't.

And it would never ever be that wrong again.

You give me a chance, I will make it up to you

because I am sorry.

Okay.

I spent the rest of my life trying to show you.

You said that the first time.

We only have 90 days to get married,

so I really only have 90 days to get over it.

But, I mean, I'm willing to at least

go home with him to our home where all my stuff is

and give him at least the time of day to, like,

try and make things better with me.

Right now, it's not looking like

I can trust you again without having

to have this toxic relationship

where I'm always checking your phone

and it's like privacy invasion,

which I don't... I think everyone

should have their privacy, but if people take advantage

of it, then they lose that.

I made a mistake,

and I told you that was a lapse in judgment.

I'm sorry. And I meant that.

I just don't want you to feel like

there's just a million other things I'm doing

when that is it.

The first time Rob online cheated on me.

It took just over a year for me to trust him again.

And obviously, we don't have a year this time

before we get married.

It just sucks that I have to, again, go through the hurt

that he's caused me and have to learn to trust him again.

It's like I wish I would've found out in England,

because I definitely would've been...

I would not have been coming to America right now,

but I'm already here and I only have 90 days

or else I have to go back.

I think, you know, I've been slow

in the process of transitioning

from being single for years to having a girlfriend

and the relationship I have being long distance,

you know, it's not made it any easier to do all the...

Make all the right decisions at all times.

And it's unfortunate that I slipped up a couple times.

It was wrong, but it-it...

It was wrong. And I understand that.

It could've been a lot worse, but it wasn't,

and it would never ever be that wrong again.

Well, I'm starting...

I started trying to make it up to you

by bringing a rose today.

It's first step.

I know you like them.

And I'll try every day.

Thank you for the rose.

Smell it.

I think that Sophie is considering

not crucifying me completely for this

and possibly giving me another chance.

So that gives me a little bit of hope.

Okay.

And I'm begging and I'm hoping and I'm praying

that we can back on track.

Okay. Yeah.

- Yeah. Wrap that. - Thank you.

Today, I'm introducing my sister Brandi to Anali.

I'm nervous about introducing Anali to Brandi

because Brandi's the only sister.

So she's naturally more protective

when her brothers have, you know, their girlfriends

or she's meeting them for the first time.

- Rough time. - She's just overprotective.

- Well... - That's all I can say.

I mean...

I wanted to take Anali bourbon tasting

because bourbon in Kentucky

is just as big as horses.

Those are the two things that come to mind

when I think about Kentucky.

So this is the other half.

And plus, my sister likes to drink.

- Whoa. - Hello. Welcome to

-Hi. -Hello.

- Ooh. - Yeah...

Yeah.

I'm hoping that everyone

can just have a couple drinks

and get loose, get along,

get to know each other.

So are any of these like nuts per chance?

No. So, someone here

-has an allergy? -Yeah. That's me.

- I'm... Yeah. - That's you?

There's...

- Hi. - Hello.

-Hi. -Hi.

-Hi, Brandi. -Hi.

-Hi. -Nice to meet you.

Hey, Mom.

Taste of Kentucky, is it good?

- Delicious. - Yeah.

-Cheers to ours. -You say delicious.

- Cheers. - Cheers.

Ooh, okay.

What kind of alcohol does she drink at home?

Is this weird for her?

Cool.

How does she like living...

I feel weird like speaking to you

but asking questions about her.

How does she like living with Mom?

Like a big change.

She left her family for me.

It's a big change.

Yeah.

Cute.

I know nothing about Anali.

It is weird that I don't know anything about her,

just because of the fact that me and Clayton

are fairly close.

Maybe he's not telling me things about her

because he thinks

I will probably be a bitch

if she is just coming here

to use my brother, um...

So why haven't you, like, said anything about her?

Because I literally know nothing about her.

Honestly, just, you know, being honest,

you have typically had, like, problems

with my ex-girlfriends or like girlfriends at the time.

So, I didn't wanna tell you too much

about her because I don't want you to have

something in your head when you guys meet.

Like, I was looking on social media

and I was wondering why there's no posting

of you on her page,

but she's all over yours.

It's a long story but her dad, there's like...

She doesn't want to post things...

-Yeah. -publicly because of her dad.

So her dad doesn't know that you guys are together?

No.

I don't know what her intentions

are with my brother.

Clayton's last girlfriend, I think she cheated on him.

So I'm always gonna be on guard for everything.

I mean, I have the same question

and I'll be on your side for that one.

I... It's kind of weird to me too, but--

Well, where does he think she is right now?

He thinks that she's in America,

but he thinks that she's here for work.

Did you know that?

That's up.

Is her mom and dad together?

She said that her dad

is like a worrying type person,

but if he had known--

So is she, and she knows.

- I mean... -Yeah. I know, but...

I know, it doesn't sound good to me either.

So just to be like blunt

and just don't wanna beat around the bush.

- Okay. - Like, how do I know

that she's just not here for a green card?

She is saying that if that were the case,

she wouldn't have left her family.

I can't imagine her faking something like that

for two and a half years.

I can.

I don't think that she would be able

to fake something that long.

People do it all the time.

I'm not sure if I'm more hurt

or more annoyed.

It seemed like she had kind of an attitude

to begin with.

I don't know where it came from,

but it's unfortunate that she's wanting

to show this side of her

on her first meeting with Anali.

Well, this was fun.

You have enough to drink?

No.

What's the thing that worries you the most?

What concerns you?

I'm just over it.

So, is that like a nothing?

Like, what answer is that?

I'm just...

I don't know what to say.

I think she's probably pissed at me

and a little bit of me doesn't give a.

I love my brother

and I do think that maybe he is blinded

by love a little bit.

And so he is missing some red flags,

but I am gonna be overprotective

always, even when he's mad.

I think since Gino had a bachelor party already,

we should do a girls' night.

- He had one? - They went out

to a strip club

the day before you came.

Hi.

I have an appointment.

Follow me, please.

Okay.

I have had so many arguments with Gino

and I've been going through hell

and very difficult situations ever since I moved with Gino.

So, I'm gonna do some pampering for myself

to take my mind off of things.

And I'm so pissed off, you know, that I don't care

how much it is gonna cost.

-Hey. -Hi, my dear.

Hi. How are you?

It's so good to see you.

So nice to see you again.

I'm trying to, you know...

Having a hard time trying to decide which should I get.

They're almost the same, but I like that one.

Right?

Today I'm gonna be meeting Michelle.

She is honestly

the only family member

I actually feel comfortable with.

She's not judgmental.

She's open to get to know me for who I am.

I used to do this with my sisters all the time.

- Aw. - But I have you.

- You save me. - You have me.

I am so tired.

-Yeah. Yeah. -I bet. Cleaning Gino's house?

How you know?

Yes.

He didn't help?

-No. -Ooh.

- No, not at all. - No, not at all?

- It was like... - No.

How is it going, you know, like being together 24/7?

This is the thing.

Since I've been cleaning the house

and I'm trying to organize everything...

It's there.

I think a lot of people do.

Dana has stuff.

- Really? - Yeah.

And you're okay with it?

I am.

My gosh...

I think you just need to maybe try to trust him

a little bit more and believe him...

In him a little bit more

because, like, he loves you.

And I think maybe for you,

maybe sometimes it's hard...

It's hard for you to accept love.

- Yeah. - And, you know...

So, maybe you need to work

on like accepting it and believing it.

- Right. - You know?

Now I feel bad.

I felt for Jasmine today

because she just wants to feel secure.

She truly left her home

to come here and, um, make a life with Gino.

And she found upsetting things in his house

and he's not communicating openly

and he needs to like make her feel safe.

I think we should do a girls' night.

My gosh. I will love that.

I actually used to do that, you know...

-Yeah. -once in a month

- with my friends. - Yeah.

I miss them so badly.

Like, you guys are together

24/7 at this point. You need a break, right?

Yes. He's my personal driver.

I'm his maid, his cleaner,

- his, like, chef -Yeah. You need to get away.

You need to get out and have some fun.

Yeah, because I need a break.

Well, since Gino had a bachelor party already,

maybe we should get some girls, have some fun,

have some laughs.

He had one?

-He didn't tell you? -No. He told me

that he was, like, not having

a bachelor's party until I came

and I was gonna organize it.

He had it the day before you came.

The day before?

And what did he do?

They went out.

Okay, but where?

To a strip club.

I need to understand, how is it?

Like, the women are touching them

or it's just looking at them dancing

or they are touching them?

Do you think a woman touched Gino?

It was a bachelor party.

I'm sure he got touched.

- He got touched? - I'm sure.

Here I am feeling guilty for getting mad at Gino,

being very hard on myself,

blaming everything on me,

like, yes, maybe, you know, I'm too jealous.

I have trusting issues

after finding all these things from his exes.

But I should have trusted my instinct

because I was right.

He's in big trouble, Michelle.

If he didn't tell you

or he didn't say that he had one

or you told him you couldn't, like, they had...

I mean, I can tell you they had one.

Gino is keeping secrets from me.

I'm trying to keep it cool in front of Michelle,

but all I wanna do is go home and face Gino.

Yeah.

You should.

How?

I'm passionate.

You're cold.

You do it all the time.

Not just an excuse,

but okay if that's what you wanna say.

I feel that Justin has a way of gaslighting me

and making it like, you know,

my feelings don't matter, they're not valid.

No, no, no.

My touch, I...

You feel like I'm gonna eat you.

It's been constant, constant,

like, mess things that you say to me to put me down.

He really goes there with like the...

What he says to me.

You know this.

This is who I am.

It's never changed.

- I'm passionate. - You're cold.

There's just so much I can hold until I snap.

You need a simple woman.

I am not her.

- Okay. - I will never be simple.

-But... -Do you understand this?

-Okay. -Do you understand this?

Every time?

I don't get it.

A robot.

- My goodness. - I had to...

Yeah. So much you have to learn...

- hold in my head. - at 36 years old.

-I'm thinking about this. -Thirty-six years old

and you're still learning.

Don't push me, please.

-Don't push me. -Don't push you.

I have many things about what I'm thinking.

Yes.

Good. You should.

Me too.

All of it.

How?

How?

I think the biggest problem

for me and Nikki right now is...

What have you given me?

-At this moment? -Accepting me?

Accepting you.

Now you come here

and stay like a big problem for me.

-Okay. Perfect. Perfect. -Try to be nice.

I'm leaving.

And you always take everything as a joke.

Only with jokes.

Are you sure about that?

I'll meet your family and be sweet and nice.

But honestly,

if I could go like this and be back at home,

I would do it.

Like, that's how I feel.

I literally... I just don't know

why he's with me if he has so many complaints

about everything.

And I'm like, "Am I settling?"

No, I'm not settling 'cause I'm in love with him.

But is he in love with me?

Like, I don't know.

Sometimes I just feel like so empty inside.

Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...

Yeah.

Me and Anali haven't had sex since she's arrived,

but I'm hoping that tonight that changes.

Cheeky, cheeky.

-This is my stepfather. -Hi.

Hi.

She didn't know that Nicole is trans.

Do we have your blessing to get married?

I'm just... I'm tired of being disappointed.

I'm tired...

This is so nice.

He thinks that like romanticness

equals something expensive.

I'm still gonna check your phone

so that I can trust you again.

Every time that you think about

my mistakes from the past,

remind yourself about our potential future.

Like, you can't just like act

like nothing happened, you know?

I am having revelations in real time

how much his family depends on him.

I would love to know

what you did the day before I arrived.

Whoa.

You act like I cheated on you or something.

That's the way it feels.

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