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Tonight on Triple Play. The first time we met, I took off naked, jumped the

neighbor's fence, and went swimming in the pool.

I've had as many relationships with women as I have with men.

That's a part of my sexuality that I don't want to not have for the rest of

my life.

Boom. All right, we'll try it out.

Hello. Hey, guys.

We have been friends for a long time. You know, I really wasn't sure how to

exactly really try to fuck a good friend of mine.

Do you need help with anything, babe?

Can you not pay attention? Is it hard to pay attention when I call? Is it hard?

Is it hard? Are you having trouble?

Are you having trouble? Wait, your scallops are sticking. Your scallops are

sticking. Get away from me.

Don't touch me with your squishy seafood.

The first time we met, I took off naked across the backyard and jumped the

neighbor's fence and went swimming in their pool at 3, 4 o'clock in the

morning. Apparently, I thought, that's marriage material.

I am a chef, restaurant owner, slash personal caterer. I teach yoga and

karate in my spare time, but I am a full-time environmental engineering

student in my senior year.

Salud, my love. Love you.

I would say my past sexual history prior to being with my husband was pretty

adventurous. I've had as many relationships with women as I have with

men. I kind of went to him to say,

That's a part of my sexuality that I don't want to not have for the rest of

my life. And is this something that we could bring in so that I could be with

another woman and also that I would like to see you with another woman?

Possibly could have gave you a high five.

I'm excited.

I'm less nervous about going through with it. I'm more nervous about the

process of the hookup. Trying to figure it out. Yeah, trying to figure it out.

You know where I'm at on it.

You're just ready to do this? I'm game to go. Let's just get the ball rolling.

Let's see what happens and have some fun with it.

Working 60, 70, 80, 90 hours a week in a restaurant, trying to have a catering

thing on the side at the same time. Finding time to sleep was an issue, let

alone trying to find time to meet people.

We just logistically have not had time. At least we have a friend we're able to

talk to about this. Right.

How long until she's supposed to be here, do you know?

now that we're actually at a time where we can finally pursue this we actually

have approached our friend aaron particularly about this hey i knew she'd

be here hold on woman come in and she is somebody that is in the lifestyle hi get

in here how are you good sweetheart she's somebody that we could talk to

about this without feeling like we could be judged smells amazing

She knows people that we may actually be able to go through this with, and she

may be actually able to hook us up.

You know,

we've talked about trying to kind of bring another woman into our bedroom,

but just it's very hard to try to meet people. So we were hoping that... okay

maybe you could kind of put us in the right direction with somebody that we'd

at least have some actual connection with and i don't want it to be i don't

want it to feel very random right you don't want to hook up you want something

real i want something real even if there's not longevity to it there's got

to be some personal connection which has been really hard because you need to

feel comfortable yes so i know that you've been

lifestyle per se for a while and not so seen if you had any ideas.

Well, I think that I do.

I mean, I want to hook you guys up with somebody that's going to work for you.

You know, I don't want somebody that's very, very conservative. I consider

myself pretty artistic. I like tattoos attracted to women and my general age

group and size soft spoken and feminine petite.

What would be great, actually, is if Erin could find us somebody just like

her without worrying about crossing that boundary of friendship.

I think I have a friend. I want to show you guys a picture first, if that's

okay. She's really cool. We've hung out a few times. We know each other.

Okay, so at least it's all the same thing.

So yeah, this is a picture from us just the other night. We were partying. It's

like a big fetish event.

Hopefully you guys think that she's cute. She's very cute. I mean, that's

something that would be our type.

I mean, I'm down.

Yeah, he's, uh, you know what, he's pretty easy in this section. As long as

he didn't look at that and be like, oh, I would never have sex with her. He'd be

over it. I want it to be about you, you know? You're the one who brought this

up. It was your idea.

I think she's a cool chick.

We've met, we've partied, we've had fun.

Well, hopefully it works out.

It seemed like it was something that we could move forward with. So we'll see

where it goes from here. Yeah, it seems to be worth a shot.

Absolutely. Grab a hold of it and see what happens.

To finding someone that is a fit.

And to an amazing first experience for you guys.

Absolutely. Thank you, guys. Cheers.

Sounds like Aaron's got

maybe somebody on board, huh?

I mean, at least I trust Erin on who she would hook us up with. Right.

And that it wouldn't be weird for me.

Right. What do you think?

Yeah, no.

I'm nervous.

Yeah, just give her a call.

Sex to me is creating moments in time.

And if you're going to do that with somebody, it should be with somebody

that you have some type of connection so that you have fun and there is some

intimacy.

Hello?

Hi.

Hey, it's Nick and Liz. How you doing? Erin had us call you.

Just wanted to see if you were able to get together in the next few days.

Yeah, we'll go have some drinks, go grab some food tomorrow if you're available.

Beautiful.

Awesome.

Looking forward to it.

Very excited to meet you. Bye.

Bye-bye.

boom all right we'll try it out see what happens

ideally for a third for me would be somebody that is artistic

uh somebody who's more of a turn of lifestyle you know i don't want somebody

all kind of like yuppie and you know somebody that kind of understands what

life's really about

Somebody who's fun and spontaneous, super punk rock and sexy.

Growing up in a small farm town in Indiana, very conservative, very

Christian, but I always felt I was extremely creative.

And what drew me to be a chef was the creativity and art and passion of

expressing yourself and kind of putting yourself on every plate.

uh typically i really enjoy taking like classic sauces and uh putting like a

nice modernist twist to give it more of a sex appeal you know because at the end

of the day like food is sex and sex is food you don't want to eat anything

unattractive

I would say that our sex life is probably as intense as what it was when

we got together. We were the couple having sex four times a day on the side

of the road and getting caught in hotel parking lots and like having sex on the

beach bent over a pole in the middle of the day.

I miss the intimacy between two women.

I am submissive with my husband where I'm very much atop with women. Kind of

looking to express that part of myself.

Think I like your dick.

Are you nervous about if it actually did happen tonight?

Anxious. Not really nervous.

Okay.

It's been a long time we've been talking about this. Like, to say there's buildup

is not even, like, doesn't even touch it. There's more than buildup at this

point. Just over three months ago, we were in a bad motor vehicle wreck where

we both almost died.

We flipped three times, took out trees.

I don't really remember the crash. I just remember waking up screaming.

We were both in ICU.

We both have head trauma, but I had a fracture and a bleed and different

levels of sustained trauma.

My fracture in my eye socket where I almost lost vision.

A couple fractures to my nose. Broken ankle.

I had a tear in my abdomen wall.

Oh yeah, I permanently lost my sense of smell.

I don't have a sense of smell anymore.

You don't have any weirdness about seeing me with another woman? Absolutely

not.

Going through all of that together brings a different level of gratitude

because it affects what you think matters when you think about actually

not being here.

and not being able to have the rest of your life accomplish things that you

wanted to accomplish it makes you think about what matters to you what do you

want to do before you leave here one day i'm ready to have some fun with you you

look good are you ready to see my old face with some other chick that's half

of what i want to see yeah right i'm ready to be with another girl but like i

want to see you with her too let's go have some drinks and go finally do this

already it's been long enough right i guess that's the thing too just the

amount of build up you know what i mean right all right i love you

You love me? Love you, baby.

You gonna love me after we have sex with another woman?

Maybe a little more.

I think so, too.

Let's get out of here.

So this looks good. Do you think reguete?

That's what it looks like. I mean, yes, but... Oh, no, it could be goat cheese.

Here, goat cheese.

So you're nervous about meeting?

A little bit. Just the whole concept of sitting down and, uh... Of a blind date.

of a blind date as a couple.

It's odd.

We're meeting Kelly today at just a local little beer garden that we know

and just kind of somewhere that's a little more informal rather than sit

down and have a nice dinner somewhere and have what's more of a formal date.

We just kind of want to get to know her a little bit and see if there is

anything there.

I'm mostly excited, but there's definitely a little anxiety about just

sitting down and having that interaction together.

Hello. Hey, guys.

So I just got your text. I was driving.

I don't know. Hugs? Yeah, hugs. I'm from Jersey. I hug.

Okay. Hugs are good. You want me to grab you something to drink?

I'll have what she's having.

My immediate thoughts of Kelly when she walked in is that she's beautiful.

I felt she was very attractive when she showed up. Cheers to finally being able

to meet you in person, huh? Cheers, guys.

Excellent choice. It's super yummy. So how long have you been in the scene?

Like, not super in the scene. Like, I'm kind of new. I'm not super experienced.

But I'm definitely open to new experiences.

So it might be a good match just because everybody's kind of new to this in some

way. We'll see.

OK,

so tell me something about yourself.

I love to travel. I just came back from a month in Thailand, so that was

awesome. And then I went straight from that. We went to Burning Man.

Oh, that's amazing. So I just like to, like, I work freelance, basically, so

that I can have my lifestyle. Like, I could not work a 9 to 5. I'd feel like

my soul was dying. OK.

So it's cool. It's, like, really, really cool.

It's a long time to be in a plane.

I do a lot of yoga. I'm very meditation-oriented.

It's okay. When you're done, I'll finish.

Oh, no, no, no. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. Oh, no, no, no. It's okay. It's

okay. You know, we're trying to get to know Kelly, but I kind of felt like most

of our conversation was pretty one-sided.

I didn't really feel she was really kind of trying to get to know us. There

wasn't a whole lot of back and forth.

Um,

so you ever been here before?

No, I've not ever been here.

Cheese plates are in.

Bigots. Uh, there's a lot of crickets and a lot of talking. It was more

awkward silences than actual dialogue.

Shoot, I totally have, like, sorry to, like, cut out on you guys, but I totally

have some appointments I need to get to. Oh, no, that's okay.

It's okay.

We have your phone number, so you know, and you have ours, so feel free to give

us a call. Okay.

Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.

Drive safe.

Okay. Bye. Thank you, guys.

We'll give you a call.

All right. I don't really foresee anybody calling anybody.

Yeah.

So that was really similar to, like, watching a baby get hit by a train.

Like, multiple babies be hit by multiple trains at the same time.

Great tips, though. Oh, I mean, she's gorgeous.

Train wreck.

Did not work out.

Or whatever, I don't know. So now we tell Erin that that just didn't work

out? Tell her thank you and, you know, appreciate it.

And we'll talk about round two later. We'll talk about something else.

Let me just text her and say thank you for now.

Halfway through lunch, when it was so just awkward and one-sided and quiet,

you know, I was thinking to myself, like, why not try to talk to Erin about

having her come in and...

be our first reason what do you think about aaron is more of the style that

we're going for you know what i mean yeah like if we're looking for that it's

what we're looking for we might as well talk to her yeah just go straight for it

all right it's a little nerve-wracking you know thinking about the fact of we

have been friends for a long time and you don't want to cross any boundaries

and make anybody feel uncomfortable and you know you're kind of opening that new

gate to uh our friendship without hopefully making anything awkward.

Hey.

Hello. Hey, lady, how are you?

Oh, no, it's okay. We appreciate you, you know, trying to help us out.

Just not really a connection there. But, no, we really do appreciate you trying.

We were kind of wanting to talk to you about something, Nick.

Okay.

Well, you know, we keep talking to you about trying to find somebody for us

that's pretty similar to you.

You know, the three of us have known each other for a while, so we were kind

of talking, instead of you trying to find another you, we think about maybe

taking our friendship a step farther.

oh my god like after six years of talking about this we're actually going

to do this i think that it would be even better with you and you're cute

yeah

absolutely you want to

just kind of set something up for a little later today okay

Very excited. Bye, sweetheart.

I mean, what a relief it was to hear her say that we're all friends and to be

comfortable. Let's go ahead and, you know, it's been a long day today. I want

to go take a shower and kind of get myself together.

All right.

Yeah, no, I want to get changed too.

Sweet. So are you feeling, do you feel nervous at all?

Excited. Yeah, I think I am too. Yeah. Just kind of build up and like the fact

that we've talked about it on the phone, like it's just kind of.

Anxious. Yeah, a little anxious, a little anxious. But I think once we get

in there.

It'll be fine.

Nervous. You know that I don't have any jealousy or anything weird. Like you've

asked me over and over again if I'm okay and if I have anything that I don't want

you to do, but I've never really asked you that.

So how about seeing me with another woman?

Beautiful situation.

Been a long time since I've been with another woman.

Right? Do you remember how to do everything?

There's really no jealousy because we know that we love each other and respect

each other.

It's more of like a fun thing to do, not... Because one of us needs something

we're not getting. You're trying to do this or you're trying to do that. It's

more of like we're trying this together.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

Hello!

How are you doing? I'm doing good, how are you? Did the drive good?

It was all right.

Sweet.

You guys want to do a round of shots and then have a glass of wine? Yeah, I

wouldn't mind doing a shot.

I'm nervous and excited, right? Nervous and excited, nervous and

excited. I'm in the same place trying to make it as least awkward as humanly

possible, you know?

The kiss made the nervousness go away because I was able to feel that sexual

connection and not just that friendship vibe that I'm used to with her. We did

nothing. No, nothing happened. Do I have anything?

What do I look like right now?

As soon as we kissed and I felt sexually connected and that she was just as

sexually connected to me, I'm getting to be more dominant with her where I

actually get to take on that more aggressive role.

cheers to elevating our friendship

starting

the

threesome you know i really wasn't for sure like how to exactly really try to

you know a good friend of mine i became less conscious

of

Oh, she's my friend in a worrisome way.

But there's still that comfort that if somebody you know, it's not really

something that's in the forefront of my mind anymore.

to be able to see her, be able to express that bisexual side of her life,

and being part of that and being able to express that and be part of that with

you is really hot. This is, like, definitely a step up for sexual

relationship.

I'm very used to playing a bottom role with my husband, and I am very much

interested in going back to the dynamic that I would have with a woman where I

am more of the dominant aggressor, where I am more of a top.

There's just something about that that is very hot for me, is to be able to

grab her and hold her down and just kind of be in that more aggressive role.

Did I hit you too hard?

Right. Every time you're pushing down on this muscle.

Right here?

It's too much for you because I'm not that flexible.

Okay, so it's not actually me hitting you up here. It's not me. I'm not

hitting you here too hard. I worry about a bite because I do, like I said, I

bruise really easily.

I think I may have accidentally bit down a little bit too hard on her inner

thigh. It's okay. You can see. No, I know. I wanted to call a timeout so we

could talk about it. Thank you.

But she was able to be honest and vocal and tell me, hey, that's not exactly

what I like. And we deviated and everything was perfect from there.

actually finally being able to complete this after six years. You know, it

wasn't, like, weird or awkward. It actually worked out very nice, and I

think it's something that I would love to try again.

Yeah, it was absolutely more enjoyable than even what I thought it would be,

and I feel even closer to him than I did before.

So still friends, right? Right?

Always.

I think this chapter has just now started, and, you know, I think there's

going to be more pages to come.

Come on, let's go to the shower and I'm gonna go somewhere together.

Okay.

I have never felt this amazing before.

Something new that keeps me wanting more.

Everything I hoped could be is now right before me like one, two, three.

knows what it likes for sure cause i've never felt this good before i've never

felt this good before