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So I'll send you off. Have a great time.

And I will see you both in the morning.

Have so much fun.

Bye, guys.

You know what they say.

Alcohol is a social lubricant.

The party bus pulls up to the bar. And we're all just excited to get in there,

learn how to mix drinks, and drink some alcohol.

Is everybody ready to go? We're going to make some drinks tonight.

We're going to start off with three simple drinks that will get every party

started. We're going to go ahead and start off with our hurricane. First,

we're going to put our ice in the glass and make sure it's all the way up. Kind

of tap it down. Tap, tap, tap.

There's two basic alcohols in this drink. There's a white rum and there's a

dark rum.

It turns a nasty color.

One little wedge of lime.

Yeah, squirt.

A little squirt makes it go a long way.

Everybody's having a great time pouring some alcohol and I'm really excited to

learn how to make these drinks. I'm taking a second date drink. You don't

want to slap that one on the first date. We slap anything on the first date.

Now that's a second date drink.

We're hoping this night is a real icebreaker because true swingers kind of

try to pull those newbies in, get them comfortable, and break the barrier for

them, and we're going to get them out.

Next is the super sexy lemon drop martini.

Make sure we bring the glasses, not other things around here.

This is a bit of a showstopper in the night.

Small to dry shakes.

We like licking glasses.

Take the time around the rim.

You can lick it if you want. Then you're going to have to... That's what she

said. That's what she said. Lick it, you're going to have to stick it.

Exactly. Thank you, Bo. I love you, Bo. The mood was awesome. Everyone was just

excited, ready to go.

Your lemon drop martini. Right there, guys.

That's the best one. That is the best one yet.

I actually have two shots for some newbies in the crowd.

Me and John have a special drink made for us. It's a buttery nipple. So I say

you guys pick somebody to take your buttery nipples off of.

That can get interesting.

Oh, you're picking me?

I choose Jenny, because I'm really feeling her. She's been kind of

aggressive, which I kind of like, but not too aggressive to turn me off.

Hold this.

I'm going to pour this in your mouth.

Let me tell you, this girl has an amazing rack to take a shot off of.

John!

That was awesome!

John, who do you want to take your buttery nipples off of? How about

Sparkles?

I picked Sparkle because I've been wanting to get my face as close to those

boobs as I can all night.

She just leans over and basically pours it into my mouth. I'm just enjoying this

immensely.

It's been a blast so far, and we just want to keep the party going.

I'm getting really excited to see what's going to happen the rest of the night.

We know how you got through college.

We're all starting to loosen up, have some music going on, and we're

definitely seeing them start to come out of their shell at this point.

Well,

I didn't know John had that in him. It was actually kind of sexy.

eyes on Jenny and Sparkle. I really want to play around with them.

Let's go!

Everyone wants to keep the party going. It's pretty

obvious that everybody kind of wants to go down to the Red Room.

I'm ready.

And Jess is too.

Walking into the Red Room is an altogether different experience. There

are mattresses everywhere.

There are toys.

It is set up for sex.

So Jenny and Sparkle pull me down on the mattress and Jenny pulls out the magic

wand.

They're kissing on me, they're touching me, and I'm just enjoying every minute

of it.

Watching

her

face, it is just incredibly hot seeing her transform from Still being a little

bit nervous to kicking back, letting loose, and just enjoying the moment.

This whole experience is really new, but I'm just feeling really good.

They're just making me feel absolutely beautiful.

I look over and I see Jess. So I took the initiative and I asked her if it was

okay if I could go down on her.

As far as the rules... with the red room, it seemed like it was just

anything goes.

Like, if you're feeling connection with that person, hey, have a little bit of

fun with them.

I'm going down on Mink, and I feel a hand on my ass.

So I look back, and it's John.

And I'm like, OK, feels kind of good, so I go with it.

It didn't really bother me that John didn't check in with me, but in the real

swinging world, just grabbing without asking, that's definitely a no-no. You

have to really communicate with the other couple and make sure everything's

okay first.

The residents are all aware of each other's rules, and we kind of know a

basic etiquette. I want the newbies to have the best experience, but I've got

to ask first.

Andrea is sucking me off, and I'm fingering Mari, and we're really

enjoying the moment.

Once you're in the red room, everyone's touching, kissing, sex is happening left

and right.

You got to know that there's a little bit of etiquette involved.

I don't think John and Jess really know the rules.

John's hands wandering.

I felt a little tickle here and there.

As newbies, we're going to make them feel as comfortable as possible, but in

regular swing communities, it may not be taken so nicely.

Always ask.

Try to build that connection first.

Me and John decided to take a break.

Check in.

So, did you have fun? I'm having fun. I've not done yet.

Me either.

Well, I have succeeded.

I've had a threesome with two other girls.

Nice. I think it was more than a threesome, though. Do you want to try

for a full swap?

Yeah. I mean, if you're okay with it. I'm totally fine with it. Okay. I'm okay

with it. Yeah. Go for it. Shall we head back in? Yes. Let's go.

It's cold.

Yeah. Of course. But I'm not complaining. It's fine.

It's dramatic stress just to get there.

Chuck.

Give me some pizza.

The good thing about coming to the Swing House is you've got a lot of

understanding. So we're going to be more forgiving if maybe they make a mistake

or they kind of misinterpret something.

That's kind of why they come here, so we can help them, you know, on their

journey and teach them before they get out into the real world.

This is fun.

Shall we head upstairs?

Morning. Morning.

So is everything about what you were expecting?

Yeah.

We couldn't do the full swap, but we had fun.

Nobody was really up for it, it seemed.

No.

Even though the full swap didn't happen, me and John felt fulfilled.

We really came out. We had fun.

We're going to have some great memories to take home.

I think coffee is an order.

Yes, coffee.

Coffee.

You should not have told me that. You should not have told me that. But

there's definitely etiquette.

You're doing a great job.

You know, one of the things I noticed that was funny is, you know, we get down

to the Red Room, and they didn't seem to check in with each other too much.

You know, which I know a lot of us, we don't need to be on top of each other

or, you know, following each other around like puppies.

You know, you still look in, you check in, make sure everybody's cool. Like,

hey, you still alive? You still breathing?

All right, cool. And you can go back to doing what you're doing because you're

there to enjoy your experience. And whatever you do is different. But I felt

like, I was talking to her and I had said, hey, look, that's really hot. And

she was like, yeah, yeah, just kiss me some more. I just find it interesting.

I'm wondering if they said, you know, we don't need to look at each other and

make sure you still got a pulse or, you know, you're still.

I think at this point, they're still so new that it's just everything is

learning. And they're talking about it this morning.

It got a little awkward last night.

You know, his little inching, inching closer.

Every 30 seconds, he was like... You

know, like, you know, I used that one a long time, like... If you

did that at least one of our parties, that's kind of frowned upon.

I mean, we know how to react to it, you know, and kind of move away from the

situation if we need. But we're kind of really big on if we're not all

automatically comfortable with you. And that's kind of why they're here, though,

right? Yeah. To feel it out. To feel it out. Figure it out. Yeah. Yeah, right.

And that's why we didn't, like, we're not going to make an issue of it. Yeah,

it's like, we get it. We understand. You're inexperienced. You're in the can

store. Yeah, exactly.

It's tough.

Eventually, they're going to have to understand that, you know, you've got to

have some kind of connection.

It's like on a playground, you know, you kind of learn how to play in a sandbox

and you find your way. You know, I think they'll...

learn how to play in the sandbox and find their way. I think they'll be all

right. Either way, it was a good time.

Either way, it was a good time.

Last night was fun.

Okay, if you would happen to have a rule that you may have overstepped, the best

thing you can do after the fact is talk about it.

Because, I mean, we've had rules at specific times throughout the process

that tend to get stepped on or blurred a little bit.

And the best thing to do is talk about it after the fact. Don't let it bottle

up. Don't let it build up.

Nobody wants to have hurt feelings, and that's totally not what swinging's

about. And I'm absolutely sorry.

It's so nice out today.

Cheers and coffee.

Yay.

Hey, it's 5 o'clock somewhere.

Good morning.

Morning.

How was your night last night?

It was a blast. Awesome.

A blast and awesome. Well, I want to hear all about it, so why don't we sit

down and have a little chat?

Sounds great. We'll begin with you, John, if that works.

Sure.

When I left, you were getting on a party bus.

So tell me, like, what was the highlight of last night?

Probably watching Jess's threesome. That was definitely the highlight of last

night. OK. And what were you doing during her threesome?

During her threesome, everyone was watching.

OK. Are you surprised at your reactions last night? Were you expecting something

different? I was expecting to be a lot more nervous than I was once we got to

the Red Room. OK. But once I got there, it was just fun and hot.

After that... Andrea was sucking me off, and I was playing with Mari while she

was eating Jess out, who was with another guy at the same time. And

everyone was really open and welcoming.

Tell me how they communicated that to you. It was mostly eye contact and nods.

It was, you know, hey, come here if you want to. Come.

So it sounds like a lot of nods going on last night.

There's something I want to talk to you about separate from your experience last

night, the way you described it to me. Because all the other couples thought

last night there could have been a little bit more permission asking

verbally. Is that a fair assessment that you're comfortable doing things, but

you're not always comfortable asking about them?

Right. I think that would be somewhat of a fair assessment. Yeah.

I probably misconstrued some of the...

Cues. Okay. Okay. Fair enough. And I think that's common for everybody.

Most of us are really comfortable having sex, but most of us are not comfortable

talking about sex.

Exactly. So maybe that's something you can work on too, is your ability to

communicate verbally and say, is this okay?

Absolutely.

All right. Well, I think it would be great for me to sit down with Jess as

well. So if you don't mind grabbing her for me, we'll sit down and have a chat

one-on-one. Absolutely. Okay.

How's it going, Jess?

Good. Yeah. How are you feeling this morning?

Glorious. Why so glorious?

I really kind of feel like I've opened up and it was just kind of freeing, just

being able to interact with girls and not, I guess, be so shy.

What brought you out of your shop?

After the mixology, more drinks, we were dancing, there was a lot more flirtation

going on. I know me and Sparkle.

and Jenny were kissing.

They really made me feel like the center of attention, and that was just

something I've never really experienced.

So when we went down to the Red Room, she just approached me and was just

like, have you ever, you know, tried a toy? And I was like, well, no. She's

like, do you want to? And I was like, okay.

I had a threesome with two other girls, and I'm not going to be shy about it. I

loved it. It was great.

Good. I like the examples she set in terms of actually asking because I hear

a lot in the lifestyle and from couples in and out of the lifestyle, oh, you

just know.

And the fact is you don't just know. You have to ask.

Exactly. So did anybody else ask your permission?

Yeah. I mean, just about anyone was just like, hey, can I, you know, can I touch

you? And I'm just like, okay, yeah. I mean, and I look over and kind of look

at John and he'd just be like, yeah. He'd give the nod of go for it. Now, the

more important side of this is are you comfortable asking because...

Again, flirtation, initiation was a concern for both of you coming in.

I think I'm getting more comfortable.

Like I said, I didn't initiate too much. And I kind of feel bad that I kind of

let my shyness get a little the best of me. But that's what we're here for.

We're here to learn.

And I could go back home and go to a lifestyle party and then try, you know.

It's all a learning experience.

Do you have any questions or concerns or thoughts?

No. I'm really happy we've had this experience.

I think it's just really helped me, helped my esteem. And I think I'll be

able to do a lot better exploring my own sexuality now.

There are a couple of things I'd like to sit down and talk with you and John

about. So if you wouldn't mind going and getting him. Yes. We can get together,

the three of us, and have a little chat.

All right. Let me go grab him. Thanks.

Anytime you go through such an intense and exciting experience, it's really

important to debrief. And I'm glad we each got a chance to speak one on one. I

think it's important that the two of you sit down together as well in a more

formal debrief. And of course, your debrief is going to last for days and

weeks and months, maybe even longer.

Overall, it was a great experience. I think we were both a little disappointed

we didn't get to try the full swab.

Some people got a little tired last night.

That's understandable. We're all human.

We get a little too riled up at first and kind of crash, but we'll take what

we learn from here and... Try it later.

Yeah, exactly.

Good. Now, Jess, you had mentioned that this was a bit of a learning experience

for you. Not only did you learn how to flirt, but you felt a bump in your self

-esteem. You feel a little bit more liberated.

So is there anything that comes to mind for you?

I think I learned that I need to be a bit more assertive and probably more

verbal communication on our part would be better because, again, the nonverbal

can be misconstrued, like you said. Yeah. So I think the lifestyle opens up

an opportunity for you to shift from just having sex to really talking about

it. I think so, too.

Is that something you're willing to work on a little bit, just the verbal part in

terms of moving forward if you decide to move forward in the lifestyle?

I think so.

Absolutely. Again, it's easier to do than it is to speak, and that's what

makes sex exciting and a little bit anxiety-provoking for every one of us.

I wouldn't say that we have so much regrets about what we could have done

differently last night.

I think we're coming out stronger and with better communication skills.

So I am certain that you want to see the other couples and spend a little bit

more time.

Yes, definitely.

Yeah, so why don't you head back out there, and I will come and get you when

it's time to go catch your flight.

Sounds great. Okay, thank you. Thank you.

We've never been to a resort before.

They usually have a theme every single night. That sounds so fun. Yeah,

whatever. Let's all go together.

I know.

Hold on. You're drunk enough. You might be surprised.

Hey, guys.

Hey.

Hey, hey, hey.

How you guys doing? Have a seat.

So how was your evening last night, guys? We enjoyed ourselves last night.

Did we teach you anything about approaching, like, because you said

yesterday that you were... I think you guys really helped me out, and I'm going

to take that knowledge and all of that and go back home. So, wait, are you

going to be more aggressive like me, or are you going to be more passive like

Sparkle? I'm probably going to be more passive like Sparkle. Come on, just take

the bull by the horn.

What do you guys think you're going to...

do from here as far as progressing, like maybe go start going to parties or? I

think so.

I definitely think we want to explore it a lot more now.

Well, that's good. I think so, too. Probably join a few websites.

Oh, a lot of them. So now are your steampunk outfits going to get a lot

steamier? Probably.

Probably. Hello.

Hi, Jess.

How's it going? You still having fun, I see?

Yes. The limo is here to take you to the airport. You've got a plane to catch, so

why don't you all take a minute to say your final goodbyes, and I'll meet you

both out front.

OK. All right. OK, thanks.

Bye, guys. Bye.

I definitely think I got some good pointers on how to approach girls.

I'm still a little shy, but we're going to try to work on that.

Bye, guys.

Bye. Safe travels.

Jess and John, it's been such a pleasure having you here, and I'm glad you had a

great time.

Now, before you go, we have one important piece of business to take care

of. Okay.

I have here the contract you signed upon arrival at the swing house. It was a two

-day pass to indulge your sexual fantasies, play with other people.

And now I need to know what you want me to do with this contract.

Do you want to take it with you into the real world? Do you want to throw it in

the shredder?

What I'm asking is, was this just a fling, or do you want to swing again?

We want to swing again.

All right. You look pretty certain. You sound pretty certain. So I'm going to

leave this with you.

Thank you so much for visiting us here and have safe travels home. Thank you.

Thanks, guys. Bye-bye. Bye.

Overall, I think this experience has been fantastic.

It's really been a lot of firsts for me and John. I feel like I'm leaving the

swing house with a lot more confidence in myself and who I am sexually.

I think the thing I took away from this the most is don't be afraid to talk to

people. Just communicate and be open.

I think for us, what's next is really going home and talking to friends who

are in the lifestyle and thinking about joining up and maybe playing around with

them. I don't know about you, but I feel like we're closer now.

I think so, too. I think we're going to communicate a little bit even more

openly than we were before.

And on top of that, I mean, you can now play wingman.

This is true. This is true.

We're definitely going to have to go get one of those wands, though.

Yes, yes, yes.

That's going to be, like, as soon as we get off the airplane.