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You think you know your neighbors?

Think again.

All over the world, normal, everyday couples are taking a bold step in their

relationships. They're swingers.

And there's no denying they're getting more than their share of incredible sex.

But is the lifestyle right for everyone?

I'm sexologist Jessica O'Reilly, and I'm here to welcome a brand new couple into

the lifestyle.

Hi, my name is Kristen.

And I'm Joe, and we've been together for six years.

We do a lot of adventurous things.

Whatever it takes. It's whenever the moment strikes.

I want to just see what the lifestyle's all about.

I'm all for jumping in and giving it a shot. No regrets.

Whatever it goes, just as long as it's a journey we're taking together.

Will they be glad they dove in headfirst?

Or will they wish they had never left home?

Hang on tight.

It's time to swing.

I'm a little nervous.

How about you? I'm really nervous.

My nerves were more just the unknown of how was it going to be being in a room

full of swingers that potentially might want to have sex with you.

We'll fit in well.

I hope we do.

I think it'll go away once we get there and meet everybody.

I'm really excited.

I'd like to dabble with being with some other women because they're soft and

pretty.

I like the men too. I put up with them because I like a little dick every now

and then.

I think going into it with, okay, this is what we're not going to do, this is

what we will do, might just put a little bit of a, you know, you're always

thinking about that. It's just go in with no inhibitions, just whatever

happens. And as long as we're doing it together.

And we both feel comfortable.

Yeah.

That's what means more to me.

Me too.

Joe and I want to experience together and do it as a couple, but I think I'd

like to see him with some more girls.

Oh, look at that. Ooh, look at the gate.

We're here.

This house is absolutely amazing.

And knowing that Jessica, she's standing here to be meeting us at the house, is

really exciting and sort of comforting, knowing that she's going to be helping

us through this process.

Hey, guys. We're here. Hi.

Welcome to the Swing House in Las Vegas. You must be Kristen. I'm Kristen.

Lovely to meet you, and you must be Joe. I'm Joe. Nice to meet you. So great to

meet you guys. My name is Jessica O'Reilly, and we are so happy to have

you here. How are you feeling right now?

Excited. Really excited.

Really excited. Ready to get inside and meet everybody.

Well, before you do, we just have one really important piece of business to

take care of, okay? Okay. So why don't you come with me? All right. Sounds

good.

Sharing is caring. Sharing is caring. There you go.

When you talk about sharing and trust and things like that, I mean, if you can

trust another person with your most prized possession, then you can trust

them with anything.

My best friend in college used to say, you can trust me with your money and

your life, but not your wife. I never really understood that, how much

different that is now.

Because now, you know, I have people I could trust my wife with that I probably

wouldn't lend 20 bucks to.

We'll never get that $20 back, but you'll get me back.

You're stuck?

I'm not stuck, baby. It's the best stuck a man could. I mean, I'm the luckiest

stuck guy on the planet.

All right, Kristen and Joe, now that you're in the swing house, what's going

through those minds?

Excited. All kinds of things. Yeah, excited, nervous, ready to meet

everybody. Good, but I'm wondering what else is going through your minds. Are

there any nerves or anxieties or concerns?

Definitely a little nervous, yeah.

What are you nervous about?

Just meet everybody.

Yeah, I just don't know what they're going to be like or if they're going to

like us.

Sure they'll like you.

So it's the good nervous.

Yeah, definitely.

You actually need a little bit of anxiety to perform optimally. Well,

that's good then. So you'll hold on to that. What are you hoping for?

I'm just hoping to have a really fun experience and maybe learn some new

tricks and meet some new people.

You want to learn some new tricks from the guys or the girls?

Maybe a little both. A little bit from column A, a little from column B. Yeah.

Okay. I don't know. I don't really have any expectations.

I just want to...

go with the flow and see what happens.

I think we're pretty much open to anything.

We've talked about even full swap.

As long as we're in the same room and we're both comfortable and happy, that's

our biggest concern.

You're open to a full swap. What type of couple or couples are you hoping to

connect with? What's your type? I don't think it...

It looks as important as just having that connection and that feel that

they're the right people. I think I need to feel that I'm safe with them and that

they're not going to try to harm my relationship with Kristen.

In terms of the lifestyle, is this your very first foray? We have some friends

that are in the lifestyle and they're kind of the ones that turned us on to

it. But this is your first experience?

We played around with them just a little. Just a little bit. Just a little

touch. Put our toes in the water, you would say.

Okay. Okay, so you're looking for someone to show you the ropes.

Kind of, yeah.

We actually have something here to help guide the process. This is a contract.

And this contract gives you a two-day pass to play with other people. So I'm

going to ask you guys to actually read through the contract, add any rules. You

mentioned that you're open to full swap, but you need to be in the same room. And

if you have any other specific rules, you can add them in. Okay. Okay. Sounds

good. We have agreed to embark on a sexual adventure over the next two days

during which all the normal rules of monogamous relationships will be

temporarily set aside. We promise not to hold what happens here against each

other once the adventure is over. What happens in the swing house stays in the

swing house.

Knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling

relationship.

Perfect.

And do you have any rules with regard to behaviors or activities you don't want

to engage in?

Really, I think we're going into it with a real open mind. Just let that

situation determine how we feel about it. Okay. I definitely had a little

hesitation, but I could tell that Kristen is excited and ready to get

started.

Wonderful. I will hold on to this, and I know you guys are really eager to get

this adventure started, so you can go upstairs to your room and get changed

before you get a chance to meet the resident couples, okay? Perfect. You're

welcome. Have fun, guys. Thank you. I'll see you later.

All right.

Mari and I were talking the other day when I said something like, for what we

do and stuff, I mean, you have to be a team.

You know, it's like you say, sharing is caring and stuff like that, and it's

real funny because, you know, people don't get it.

But we'll say, like, you know, I'll share my wife with you, but don't touch

my food. You know, something like that.

That's true. Yeah.

Don't touch my Pop-Tarts.

Michael does not share his food.

Hey, guys.

Hey, everybody.

Howdy. Welcome.

Thank you. I'm Michael.

Hi. Hi, I'm Jenny.

I'm Joe.

I'm Jesse.

Nice to meet you. I'm Joe. I know I'm nervous to meet everybody.

Hi, I'm Kristen.

Seems like Kristen's doing pretty good, but she holds herself together pretty

good. Hi, I'm Kristen.

I'm just so overstimulated with looking at all these gorgeous people and kind of

planning out what I want to do.

Oh, it is nice here.

I know. This is really nice. I'm liking this weather. Where are you guys from?

Central Washington.

OK. It's very cold.

What's the weather right now there? It was in the negatives.

Wow. So this is beautiful. It was in the nakedness?

Well, that too.

Awesome.

Is this your first time in Vegas?

It's my first time in Vegas.

Oh, nice.

It was just beautiful.

I'm looking at the little lights. I'm just like sensory overload. Like, wow,

look at that. Look at that. Look at that. Watch the headlights later, you

know.

Talk about sensory overload.

Wait till later.

You had any experiences in the lifestyle?

You know, we had some neighbors that were pretty good friends of ours that

were swingers, and we sort of talked with them.

Quite a bit. And, you know, it was just neat seeing sort of how they interacted.

We had such a good relationship, and they were so open and nonjudgmental, and

they just made us feel really good. And we thought, wow, that's really cool.

When you're in a lifestyle, it kind of forces you to have great communication

because if you don't, you won't last.

Yeah. And it just carries over into your marriage, into your relationship, and

all of a sudden you're talking about everything.

I think even though we were in the lifestyle before, and I say in the

lifestyle because we messed with other women.

but we didn't have full swaps.

Our communication after the full swap, as you guys say, it's just, it's stupid.

It changes something, yeah. It's ridiculous. Amazing.

It's having your own best friend that you're trying to sleep with and share

people with. It's fun.

I'm your best friend?

Yes.

Hector and Stephanie really have a special spark to them.

Are you into other women?

What do you guys? Are you looking for a full swap? Absolutely. Or what are you

looking for? We're pretty much up for everything.

I mean, you just, you know, play it as it goes and see what happens. I mean,

we're pretty open. That's the best attitude.

Yeah. Absolutely.

I'm watching the newbies.

Not really picking up any vibes from these two, but you never know. We could

cowboy up.

I don't want to go in saying I need to do this and I want to do this. I just

want to experience it and see what it's all about. It's good to make sure you

know what you want. wouldn't do or that would make you take a step back. But

like Johnny said, it's good to know what you really want to do. Yeah, the same

room. You know, we want to be in the same room. Yeah, we want to experience

it together.

We said the same thing. If it all goes horribly wrong, I'm still going to end

up in bed with her.

Exactly. You guys want to maybe play a game?

Yeah. I have a game.

Go to the tennis court. It's called Big Bala.

Big Bala.

All right. Let's do this.

I don't think we've ever been in a situation where we've had to really take

one for the team where we weren't getting some kind of enjoyment out of

it. In situations. Never, never, never take one for the team. No, I'm joking.

In situations, we always do. Not always, but it happens.

Okay, guys, this game's called Big Bala.

Now, what we're going to do is we're going to split into two teams of six.

You will not be with your partner.

I'm going to choose you like kickball in school.

Mike and Kristen, you will be on team poser.

Holly and Joe, you guys are going to be on Team Vanilla Flippers.

Chris, Stephanie, Maribel and Mike D, you guys are on Team Vanilla Flipper.

Hector and Jenny, Team Poser. Last but certainly least, Holly and Jessie.

I am pretty competitive, and I want to win this game, so I'm going to try

really hard. We are going to play volleyball.

When the ball hits the ground, that team loses an article of clothing.

And if I have to get naked, I guess I'm still a winner.

This is like a win-win. When the ball is in the air, this game is on.

Hit back by Kristen.

A long hit. It's out. It's out.

Being handcuffed to Mike was pretty hot.

He's pretty easy to get along with.

Vanilla flippers lose an article.

It was really hot seeing my husband with his wife, Holly. She was very hot, too.

Holly brings it back. Chris sends it back over.

Point for you guys. You guys have Texan article floating on.

Vanilla flippers.

How do you guys feel now? You guys are on a hot streak. All right.

Tanya, go ahead and play.

All right. They're playing it back.

Holly smashed it with her body.

Team Posey, you're no match for Holly's boob. At this point, I'm really at ease.

Tops are coming off. Bottoms are coming off.

Big ball out.

Holly with a smash.

Kristen right back at it.

That's a fight.

That was a fight.

Hello, boobies.

Seeing these women run around the court topless, and of course I'm handcuffed to

Holly, which is now topless. Knowing that I get to run around the court with

her, I'm pretty happy.

Kristen's back.

Wait.

Vanilla Flippers, they win that point.

Pose or take off clothes.

She's a beautiful creature, and I am hoping that maybe we can play around

with her in the red room.

Okay, don't reach over than that.

The rules I'm making up are going off.

Posers, you ready? Here you go.

Holly with the big one.

Comes back with the long one. Holly hits it off the net. Holly picks it up. Long

hit.

It looked like he didn't touch it. Strip it down.

Joe, it looked like you tried to touch it. It was better that you missed it.

All right, Team Naked. Vanilla Flippers, you might as well finish these guys off.

They got nothing left.

All right, Tammy, serve.

Big hit. Comes back to Kristen.

Oh, she touched it.

Posers, take it all off.

That's the game. Take it all off.

According to the rules, I guess our team lost.

But I think we're winners.

And if you have no clothes and you have to kiss your partner, do some sexual to

your partner. Thanks for playing Big Bala.

Everybody get naked now and go to the pool.

What an amazing way to start out this adventure.

Being in this environment is very exciting.

I wouldn't consider myself a jealous person, but I've never really seen her

with another man.

And never look at it like, oh, is he better than me, or is it different?

No, it's different.

It wasn't better. It is not better. It's different.

It's different.

It could be good. I always find myself, after we play with somebody, I'm like,

you know, what did she do that I don't do that you really liked? And, yeah,

it's all about learning something new and, you know, upping your own game and

being better. Might not be the exact approach you want to take.

Well, no.

But, yeah, no, I'm with you.

I feel like this is a very important part to learn the dynamics of how people

in the lifestyle live and communicate, just strengthening their relationships.

Are you guys ready to go get ready for the night?

Yes!

I'm really excited to start the evening.

What do you think of the newbies, baby?

Love our nipples.

Oh my God, they're like that long. I want to just bite on them.

They said they're interested in a full swap. When we were out there, she was

very comfortable, which was nice. She and I were paired up in that game.

She was so sweet. We're holding hands, hugging, you know, it was, there was no

uncomfortability. And she got into that game.

I barely, I'm like, okay, she goes smack it.

If everything keeps going the way it is, they will full swap. They're good to go.

So what do you think?

You know, I really enjoyed everybody there.

It was a good group of people, huh? Yeah, fun and easy to talk to. Yeah. Who

do you like?

I think both the Hollies are pretty hot. Yeah, I was definitely on board with

that. Yeah.

It's a good experience out there.

Tonight will bring.

I think we're with a really good group.

Yeah, I feel safe with them. It's definitely up in the air of who we would

like to play around with.

I think we're just going to sit back a little bit and get to know the

personalities a little more. I think we should get dressed and go out and play

around.

Love you.

Love you.

What do you think about the new people?

They seem like they got their stuff together and they know what they want.

They kind of remind me of us coming in here last year. I mean, no expectations

of what's going to happen.

Which is the best way to come in here. The exact right attitude, yeah.

I think she's cute. Yeah, I think she's cute.

I don't know that he would be my type, but I mean, if she's open to wanting

women to play with her, I would definitely be down with that.

Yeah, I'd watch you play with her. I don't have a problem with that.

So, Beth, what do you think of the newbie?

They live in a rural area.

I don't know how well they're going to do when they go back home if they decide

to continue.

They're going to be the ones that start a group out there.

They're going to turn out all their neighbors.

The whole community is going to be turned out. The community went and

bought the house next door. They're going to be like, hey, you want to rent

my house?

Requirements to meet.

You must be bisexual.

You must want my penis.

You excited for tonight?

I am.

Yeah? I'm ready to rock.

Hey, guys.

Hi, how's it going?

Good, how are you?

Doing okay. How was your day so far?

A lot of fun. A lot of fun.

Okay, good. Well, the fun has only just begun. There is a cocktail party waiting

for you downstairs, and I know the residents are excited for you to come

down. So if you're ready, I will meet you down there, okay? Sounds great.

Okay, see you soon.

Well, shall we do it?

Yeah. All right. I am ready.

Love you.

Love you.

We've seen everybody naked. We've played games.

We've got to know them. And, you know, we know at some point the Red Room's

involved in this process.

And it's definitely getting exciting.

Tammy and I have had so many weird things happen that we forget what people

think is weird anymore.

Our normal barometer is way off.

I've been in a room full of women squirting, and some of them trying to

squirt, and they weren't squirting. They were just peeing. So then I'm just

standing there, like, drinking a beer, talking to a guy. Like, anyway, man, so

what was the score?

There are so many. There are so many.

Welcome back, by the way.

Thank you. It's great to be back. Thanks for getting dressed up.

But it's kind of crazy, like, when swingers break up or people who are poly

break up, people are like, oh, well, they were swingers, so they broke up.

But I'm like, monogamous people break up all the time, right?

And it's like, if it's already good, it's probably going to make it perhaps

more good. But if it's, people will ask me, like, oh, do you prescribe swinging?

I've never prescribed swinging. No, for real. They think that it's an idea,

like, things aren't going well, so we thought we'd come here and try swinging.

And that's probably not the best time.

We walk into the room and everybody's eyes are on us and it was really kind of

special because everybody's excited for us too.

Kristen and Joe, welcome officially to your first night in the lifestyle. Thank

you. Good. You said you've been having a great day. I know these guys are looking

forward to getting to know you some more.

So let's all raise our glasses to Kristen and Joe to swing.

Well,

this is the time of the night where I excuse myself, but tonight we have

something kind of special in store. Outside, yes, is a very sexy party bus.

Ready to take all of you out for a night on the town in Vegas.

Yeah. So, yeah, you'll be going to, of course, a country bar. Yeah. Where

you'll get a chance to saddle on up to your partner, maybe to somebody else's

partner, should you so choose.

All right. So what are you guys waiting for? Giddy up. Let's go.

Have fun, guys. I'll see you in the morning.

Yeah, cowboy it out of here. Come on, like a lasso, something.

Not coming. I can't side two-step or whatever it's called.

I'm super excited.

Going to a country bar that is right up our alley. I am stoked.

We are rolling in style.

Whoa!

Oh,

there's a stripper pole!

It's awesome.

Has anyone kissed either one of the newbies yet?

The party bus.

That thing was great.

Holly has already bragged that she is the best cook.

Hold on, hold on.

Time out, time out. I can't see. The girls were getting up and kissing on

each other.

You guys have some competition, I'm telling you.

I'm definitely keeping my eyes on Kristen. She looks like she's just

having a fun time.

It's like she's been hanging out with these people her whole life.

This is tough, you guys.

Fun times, right? Yes.

It wasn't the longest kiss.

It was the best kiss.

Wow.

The party bus going to Stoney's, amazing time.

All right, so I first have to get on my knees, right, and spread them.

Still at that time, didn't know where Kristen and Joe were leaning to, if they

just wanted to be full swap, soft swap, maybe just her with another woman while

he watches.

Still wasn't sure where they were leaning or how it was going. That was a

hard decision to make. I know.

We arrived at Stoney.

It was pretty exciting knowing that we were going out and going to party it up

a little bit.

Have you guys been together? We've been together about six years.

We've been married for about four almost.

Uh-oh.

How old are both of you, if you don't mind me asking?

I'm 34.

I turned 40 on the 15th. Okay. I turned 40 this year also.

Cheers.

Yeah, I think I'm the youngest one here.

26.

Yeah, I think I'm the youngest out of everybody.

Everyone's just so good looking. It's the lifestyle.

Yeah,

you're going to look good. Yeah, keep you looking young.

Well, it's okay with a full swap if that's what happens. Yeah.

Yeah, if it happens that way, yeah.

And I'd like to see you, you know, have some fun.

Just watching you, and if I get the opportunity to join in and play around.

Yeah, like a couple girls' birthday blowjob for him.

I'd love to watch.

We're doing birthday blowjob later. Birthday blowjob later, everybody. He

needs a good birthday blowjob.

I feel like we flirted with Hector and Stephanie a little bit. You know, we're

not really experienced with this. It's hard to tell if a couple is really into

you. They just are being nice, and they just like you.

If you're interested in somebody or you're not interested in somebody,

especially here at the swing house, don't wait.

Like, talk, talk, talk, because like they say, closed mouths don't get fed,

right?

Well, that being said, we actually said that we'd like to probably play around

with you guys and, you know, just your personality.

When Kristen and Joe said they wanted to play with us, I was in shock. I didn't

see it coming. That was a 360 right hook.

Once again, flattered moment that we're taking in.

Thank you. Taking in. At the same time in the lifestyle being.